Extreme Version of Depp / Heard Dynamic? | Danielle Stewart Case Analysis
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"Happy couples report that their relationship involves less stabbing than miserable couples." This statement is too vague: I need to know how much stabbing is ideal for a couple to be considered happy.
zero-stab needs to be clearly delineated.
I have stabbed myself accidentally. So it would be above zero....
"Stabbing"
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10% is the limit
Thanks for the laugh Dr Grande followers . Well done .
My husband and I have no-tolerance stabbing standard. We just decided when we got married that we'd be much better off if no one got stabbed during our relationship. I guess you could say we're different or weird but we just don't like to get stabbed and die...
I guess you don't have her husband, but the reason for that is that he knows him getting hurt may still be on the table. It's no one's right to emotionally neglect people, and this won't stop until they start seeing more consequences.
Good policy lol
To each, his own! As long as you’re both in love. 😅
@@somexp12 people need to stop feeling entitled if someone is neglecting you that why you stay? There is a lot o people in the world so if you stay then dont complain, the other person is not responsible for your happiness you are.
Your husband doesn't stab you? Not ever? What is he, a Buddhist or something? Practicing Catharism? Your husband doesn't ask if he can stab you sometimes? Just a little?
“Although technically she wasn’t driving, she was stabbing…” THE BEST STATEMENT! Thank you for your well-researched, thorough, insightful, and wonderfully witty content and analyses… they are all great and so are you!
"Most people know that stabbing someone with a one foot dagger can cause death..."
So much to learn so little time LOL! I love this Channel Dr Grande is a great character just by being who he is
Definitely a classic Grande-ism 👏👏👏👏
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Jesus. This isn't well researched, and he's not witty. He's a self serving grifter who's trying to profit from other people's misery by sexying up and flagrantly lying and making up 'facts' about a case he clearly knows nothing about.
I fall asleep to Dr Grande’s soothing voice every night…of course that means I wake up every morning listening to dry humor about serial killers.
Same. I usually choose to fall asleep to the Depp / Amber Heard series vs dark murdery ones so I dont have weird dreams 😂
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Great analysis! There really are a lot of similarities between the two cases! I often wonder if Depp had stayed in that relationship would he still be alive? However, instead of killing Depp, she ruined his A-list status as an actor and his career.
Great comment
Whether the career is ruined is still in question. Johnny Depp is a very beloved star.
You often wonder that?
A woman killing their partner is ridiculously rare.
Assuming he does win this case, I feel like this is kinda helping this career, atleast in terms of the public opinion on him. I don't know if he will go back to Disney, or if they will even ask him to come back but I don't know if that matters. Did we really need a 4th Pirates? I would argue no, we don't but I also haven't even seen the 3rd one because the second one was so corny (but I did like the first). I have watched a lot of the Depp v. Heard case and I don't think I have seen one comment even giving Amber Heard the benefit of the doubt. I understand the jury isn't seeing all this online content so we don't know what they will decide, I'm just saying it seems like this case has kind of rekindled people's love for him. Especially because during this case, he has really come across as authentic and pretty quick witted at times. He also seems respectful of the "normies" in the courtroom. I don't think anyone sees him as perfect (and that's reasonable) but I think people do see him as flawed, but overall, a good man and father.
@@QuasiELVIS it's not as rare as you might think. You should look up the stats in your area for women serving time. In my area, it is more than 80% women killing an intimate partner, that they allege was abusive.
The "no memory" defense was tried by Jodi Arias too
Jodi Arias alleged memory loss was allegedly caused by PTSD, not alcohol/ drugs
@@PoM-MoM Well the reasons are imaginary so we don't really need to nitpick
According to the ACLU people, we MUST apparently believe ALL women now, unconditionally, no matter how many lies they are caught telling. Jodi Arias must feel so cheated. Nobody believed her bullshit. These days she would have had a fanclub rooting and fighting for her.
Less stabbing= happier couple. Once again, Dr. Grande delivers profundities!
What parent kicks a sexually abused, motherless 13 year old whose dad married again after only 6 months, out of the house???
A highly narcissist, ruthless and broken parent. Who doesn't even acknowledge his first born son or grandson because that would mean having to take responsibility. My dad can't and won't ever do that because everything is all about him and his superficial selfish needs. He didn't deserve to have children the damage he has done to all of us kids.
it's obvious to me Dr. Grande is using these video postings under the guise of “speculative” psychological analysis but is in fact polishing up his comedic aspirations and will eventually hit the road for a world wide standup comedy tour…. Well probably not in New Jersey though ….
He's brilliant with both psychology AND comedy. He's smart & hilarious @ da same damn time😂👏 jus outta curiosity, why'd u say except for NJ?
@@annalisegiovanni7032 he’s disparaged New Jersey on several occasions… he has to have lived there at sometime because when ever any of his stories has anything to do with Jersey he without fail will use the opportunity to drop a deuce on them.
@@annalisegiovanni7032 Are you okay?
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@@LavaLahaie he lives in Delaware, so is very close to NJ.
The best complement for this video would be "You're slaying it.".
There are definitely a lot of similarities with the two cases. Thank goodness Johnny got out when he did!
“Happy couples report that their relationships involve less stabbing than miserable couples.” 😂
I'll say it again. Happy couples report that their relationship involves ess raping and strangulation, and financial abuse and theft and general drug and alcohol addiction from a man way old enough to know better. Chaim was the drug addict doing cocaine with his daughter. What sort of father would you say does this?
Yeah, Amber Heard absolutely could have killed someone. Fantastic video as always!
If I didn’t watch your videos every day after work, I would never know what’s going on in the world.
I must say, you're probably my favourite person on TH-cam. Your videos are always so well informed, you're always so consistent and your voice is soothing enough to listen to while falling asleep! Thank you for everything you bring to the table, you're refreshing 😊
@Film Score nah I only found out recently that TH-cam's algorithms are based on comments as well as likes, so I've been commenting on as many videos as I can. Plus I love Dr.Grande!
"Happy couples...less stabbing..." I love that! Completely irrefutable.
As a young person who experienced 3 episodes of black out drunkenness, I can state the condition of awareness can consist of tiny little bits of intermittent awareness during that episode. Without the cognitive ability to physically control one’s actions. You are at the mercy of those in your presence/company. Thankfully I was in the company of friends who cared for and protected me and got me to a safe place until I recovered. Lesson learned. ❤
"Happy couples report that their relationships involve less stabbing than miserable couples" 🤣
Lmao. Ikr. The sardonic shade.
Marital "Less stabbing theory" :
Wedding vows : Do you promise to love cherish and obey your husband with a minimum of 75% less stabbing?
Love it Dr G finally the recipe to a long happy marriage!
Yes, a long happy marriage is a stab- free marriage! 😂🤣
Johnny Depp's next prenup...no stabbing please.
Maybe my husband should have committed to a rape free and strangulation free marriage? Or are those behaviours considered ok in a Dr Grande's version of a 'Happy Marriage'?
Are you feeling okay? Your throat sounds a little like it’s sore. Hope you are keeping well Dr Grande :) Thank you for uploading. Take care
Very fortunate that the Depp/Heard relationship did not end up this way! Amber’s popularity would have taken an even bigger hit.
This is the advantage of blunt weapons like vodka bottles over ornamental knives.
There were deaths - both of their careers!
@@beeimaginative Depps career is not dead.
lol. What popularity? 🤣
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@@JustDr.S Thanks for the laugh!
All I've got to say is shout out to All My exes that didn't take a crap in my bed.
Wonderful episode! I love that you did one from Australia, and - with your impeccable accuracy - got it right about Curtin being in Canberra and Eden on the NSW South Coast. I love your attention to detail. All accurate.
What's impeccable about that? That's simple geography taken from a map. This doesn't make Dr Grande some true crime genius.
@@bettyblueparis a person who has good attention to detail when it comes to minor points of obscure Australian geography is also likely to exhibit this fine trait in other reporting. So yes, it does indicate that he is a true crime genius, the most important criteria for which, I would argue, is attention to accuracy and correct details.
@@55bigcheese that's a very very low bar for 'genius'. However if that's your benchmark I'm not going to argue.
@@55bigcheese Eden is actually the Far South Coast of NSW. And Canberra is the National Capital City of Australia. But again. If that's your idea of genius who am I to argue with your inner logic.
@@bettyblueparis why are you making up weird red herrings?
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“Happy couples in their relationships report less stabbing’ 😂 Dr. grand is absolutely brilliant and hilarious
Dr Grande I hope you do the story of Lee Radder and Rob Fischer that just played on dateline a few weeks ago. I can’t believe how many twists and turns that case has taken. Would love to hear your take on it!
I x your sardonic analysis of All the miserable/difficult cases you cover Dr. Grande. It makes the bitter/ distasteful truths so much sweeter. Thank you for your work on this channel.
The parallels in the case study analysis indeed mirrors the current Depp/Heard case! Brilliant thoughtful balanced analysis💫 Unpacking the childhood trauma yields useful insight and caution for how unstable homes impact children. Survivor Jordan's father telling him not to retaliate may have helped him not to become like Danielle, a murderer.
I like everything about this video. The comprehensive summary, the profound analysis and the dead pan humor.
It's insulting to Chaim's children making a mockery of their dad's death, and it's defamatory towards me.
Objective, hairspray!
I find learning about all the different personality types, both fascinating and terrifying. 😱
If you go back to older videos he breaks down disorders really well. You'll enjoy them.
Please remember, just because some people are extreme, it's not everyone.
It's usually because they've had no therapy at all. They don't think they have a problem. Amber had people who did what she wanted all the time. Many factors.
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The real issue is what personality disorder did Chaim have? Was he a psychopath? A sociopath? A narcissist?
I have C-PTSD not BPD, from severe trauma being sexually abused as a child, neglected by my father after my mum died, and severe battered wife syndrome and PTSD from the abuse from my husband.
I was unequivocally the victim in that relationship and still I never once wanted my husband dead. I just wanted him to be good to me and good to other people.
It also highlights the dangers of psychiatric medications.
Excellent video and summary,Dr.Grande,as usual.
Alchohol and cocaine are the cool drugs.
Get caught with both and society says,"That's ok,we all use it."
Well,no we don't.
Both used drugs to excess to provide them a distorted reality to live in.
The doctor who prescriibed her the seroquel probably told her "don't drink or do any other drugs while you are on this" and she probably replied ," sure, doc, sure",fully intending to self medical on all three as soon as possible.
At some point,a man who is twenty four years older has to say,"You can't come back."
But ,apparently,he rather enjoyed her repeated return sessions.
Until she returned the favor twice with a knife.
I feel like he asked for this .
And I do think as he was dying,he knew if his son attacked her,his son would die right in front of him.
His request likely saved his sons life.
But there is no honor in that.
He repeatedly risked his sons life with many years of alchohol and cocaine fuelled behavior and by encouraging and indeed paying for his mentally challenged 24 year younger partners drug fueled instability.
He created her and he paid the price.
I hope she is under court ordered drug testing for sevral decades so she is forced to make good on the statement,"I don't use alchohol or drugs anymore."
Maybe men should find a life partner closer their age and not use alchohol and drugs in the first place so they can see this coming in the first date,not the last stab.
Seroquel-induced psychosis is a super real concern. However, it generally only occurs when the medication is first introduced to a person. It is unlikely that someone who has been taking Seroquel over a period of time will suddenly develop a psychosis from it where none existed during prior doses of the medication.
Also, the Seroquel munchies are next level. They put the ouid munchies to shame. Maybe she just got really hungry and her husband looked like a snack.
Facts. Seroquel have you waking up next to a half eaten zebra cake smh munching until you cant keep your eyes open
Seems like I recall hearing that Amber Heard was on Seroquel, from the nurse that testified.
@@selecttravelvacations7472 They were trying to knock her off. I think I've heard 100mg?
I've been prescribed it once by my GP i was struggling with major depression and weight loss also insomnia so he told me to take it at night because it would work as a sleeping aid and estimate the appetite.
I felt horrible with it, felt like my heart was stopping in my sleep.
seroquel saved my life
i took about 500mg/day when i was really sick, and although i’ve been able to titrate down to a much lower daily dose, i can definitely feel myself slipping when i skip a couple of days
also:
the munchies ARE 👏 REAL 👏 lol
in my case, i was severely underweight, so i’ve never looked more healthy than i do now
however, it has affected me negatively in other ways
like aggravating my existing tachycardia, as well as increasing my cholesterol and blood glucose levels
still-and maybe those who also take this medication can sympathize-the drowsiness is UNBEARABLE 😪
anyway, i had no idea seroquel could actually _induce_ psychosis, so reading this post was, as dr grande would say, “very informative”
My dose was dramatically increased that week. Plus I'd never drunk alcohol and had Seroquel together before as it was still a very new medication for me (maybe 4 weeks). The forensic psychiatrist concluded I was most definitely in a Seroquel induced psychosis at the time of the event.
Brilliant use of an opportunity to draw parallels with the Depp/Heard case. I had a feeling you’d do that with this one. Great idea, Dr. G! 🙌
There is zero similarity between Depp/Heard and my case. Except the age difference. Chaim was bankrupt and not wealthy it was my family's money and my hard work keeping food on the table and all of us alive. So can we please put this comparison to the side as the only similarity was the age difference.
Unfortunate that once you hate each other, go to great measures to hurt, humiliate, abuse, more people don't just cut losses & separate. Always a great analysis. Thanks Dr G😊💙💙
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"Most married couples frown upon fatal stabbings" 😂
"Happy couples report that their relationships involve less stabbing than miserable couples" .... But Dr Grande didn't say "no stabbing" 🤔
Is it weird that my first thought was, "yeah, it's way too messy. Ain't nobody got time to clean up blood"
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Not at all, I think it says more about your cleanliness than about your supposed wickedness LOL
@@Guillermo_Carratero From now on, this is my justification. Lol. Thanks!
@@ggggia I've thought that many times, like why the heck to killers waste their time making so much hard work for themselves, it seems crazy (because they are nuts).
“But even the most passionate and intense relationship in the world is only one ornamental dagger away from turning into murder” 🤣
Memory is a crucial part of someone expressing their personality. This is interesting to me.
1 million subs! Wow, you deserve it Dr Grande!
I literally watch your videos every day ! I'm seriously considering joining patreon ! Thanks for all your coverage
You should. You’ll get extra videos there too ;)
Today is “who by antique knife” - as in the Leonard Cohen song “Who by fire”. We all have to go somehow. Dr Grande, you remind me of Leonard Cohen in the sense that your analyses are high quality, with a wry twist of humour.
So far, Your opinion is the only one that matters on the internet. I always look forward to your observations and humours remarks:)
I find sociological interactions very complex, especially when considering criminal and abusive behaviours. I truly appreciate your acknowledgement of these nuances, amonst very black and white attitudes on the internet.
I agree with you about the complexity/nuance.
@@mrd3016 very true! Territory too close to a bias. I dont always agree with Dr Grandes theories however I often find his perspective refreshing. He often privides an alternative solution and I like to consider all possibilities 😉
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Justice isn't blind. More times than not, beautiful women seem to get the benefit of a doubt when it comes to discretion in charging.
You drew some interesting parallels. I think it's safe to say that people diagnosed w/ Borderline have difficult & unhealthy relationships
I would rather say, people who suffer from borderline traits, have challenges in relationships. If they reach for alcohol or other substances, it gets even bigger of a challenge. If you add a clashing personality on the other side, the difficulties deepen exponentially.
It needs a lot of defication and work to overcome such difficultues. As long as there is a will and willingness and commitment.
Alas, I am not a professional.
@@imolalajos8724 did you mean to write defication?lmao
@@avoiceinthedark2028 Dedication actually.
I don't have BPD. I have C-PTSD. The BPD theory was debunked a long time ago. I have C-PTSD from child sexual abuse, severe neglect and emotional abuse from my father, and then severe trauma from Chaim abusing me including multiple rapes and strangulations. Because that's what he likes to do. Entrap, rape and strangle young girls.
I would be resentful if my father remarried within six months after his wife/my mother died.
That happened to my father, with the only difference being it was between six months and a year.
Keep up the great work, Doc!
Thank you, doctor!
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My husband is Australian and I lived there for decades. I've always told people: Ïf you want to kill someone, do it in Äustralia." Very low penalities/prison time.
Hardly. The Aussies are brutal and once your jailed they don’t care . Life is life in a room with no tv.
@@megja1812 What comes to my mind right away are two cases: Gabe Watson and the entirely unbelievable Gable Tostee. On the other hand, I am friends with the mother of a lovely young lady who was assaulted and set on fire in her own home. Thank heavens she lived, but recovery was years long and she will never be the same.They pushed hard and got media behind them and he got 40 years. The various states and territories in Australia hold differing gaol and prison terms for "Life" sentences, but each is, in my mind, woefully lenient for murder.
Yeah, that is an interesting thing you've always been telling people repeatedly throughout your life and many conversations.
I always say a stab free marriage /relationship is the best! 🤭 You did make me chuckle 😉.
Replace with rape free and strangulation free marriage/relationship, and see my comments above before you keep chuckling over a tremendous tragedy for everyone involved.
I'm so glad she had the whole continent of Australia to enable her to get off with barely more than a slap on the wrist. Only three lives (at least) were lost while Danielle was finding herself. Jordan would have served far more time for retaliation than she did for the initial crime, so I'm glad that his father stopped him. Thank you for another great analysis, Dr. Grande.
What a sharp and pointed presentation of a straight out bad marriage.
Sharp and pointed.😆😆😆😆
Im happy to say my wife and I just celebrated 8 puncture-free years together! Here’s to many more!
Could you do a video on the psychological motivation of Vicky White, a former prison administrator who just died of a self-inflicted gun shot wound after taking a prisoner out of prison and going on the run?
He did one on it a few days ago!
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Depp should never be alone with Heard again.
a 'stab free marriage' 😂😂 Thank you SO much for your straight-faced wit whilst dealing analysing such disturbing behaviour! 😊
Again. Replace 'rape free marriage' with 'stab free marriage' and see if this narrative shifts at all.
"...the most passionate and intense relationship in the world is only one ornamental dagger away from turning into murder." - Great writing!
That is interesting how similar the cases are.
Danielle seemed to have really had an unfortunate upbringing though, that is too bad.
Great case, thank you for the video.
AH is trying to get away with murder in court!
@@marthablackwell6862 Do you think she will be successful?
@@btetschner she will never win, even if she "wins" in court. She will FOREVER be known as a public figure representing domestic abuse against an innocent survivor. JD survived.
@@marthablackwell6862 I suppose I haven't seen as much of the case as most people here, 100% of what I know about it is through this channel.
JD has always been one of my favorite actors and hearing about how bad their relationship was has been very surprising.
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“As intriguing as a stab free marriage”. Indeed it was more so. 😂👍
Crazy. My parents split when i was 13 and i ended up 'homeless'. I was couch surfing till i was 16-17, at his point i bunked with a school friend.
Ended up sleeping with her sister within 3months or so because she kept getting in bed with me when she was crying. she never completely told me what happened, but it wasnt of 'sexual' nature. She just said she felt safe with me, some nights we just layed there talking and bonding. Others were more...physical 😌
We (me, her, and her sister) moved out about a year later and got a house together.
Life 'was' great.
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no dr. grande you dont understand; he PUSHED her into doing this; he even fell asleep one time while holding an ice cream
"Dynamics of Abuse": We know that for every action in the world there is an equal and opposite reaction. This is one of the so-called "Laws of Motion" in Newton's physical theory. So let's look at the abuse committed against Danielle and see if her reactions to it count as "equal but opposite reaction." (1) sexual abuse when Danielle was between 7-11. (2) death of her mother at age 11. (3) Danielle runs away for fear of grandparents. (4) she was drinking and was kicked out of the house at 14. Skip ahead ten years when her sister dies falling off a cliff. (5) Danielle's step-brother dies from an aneurysm. (6) Chaim was a stabilizer until he started using cocaine and alcohol in order to enjoy himself. (7) Danielle begins to "react" to these abuses. The reactions are not of the appropriate magnitude. Soon there would be a proportionate response. (8) two abortions, from different sperm donors. Dear reader, when do we hold someone like Danielle responsible after witnessing the hellish experiences she suffered? (9) Chaim had had dinner with Danielle but he went on to visit a friend. Danielle intoxicated. "Back and forth, back and forth." The Third Law of Motion. When one body impacts another body the force of the impact must have a proportionate reaction. As you can see, murder is a minor offense compared to the types of things she suffered. The defense rests. Thanks for reading.
It was manslaughter. This is getting really tiresome. But adds credence to my defamation case.
2nd degree murder isn't a thing in Australia, in most Commonwealth countries it's just murder or manslaughter. The "degree" comes out in sentencing.
No, the level of intent and the dropping of a murder charge to manslaughter hinges on the partial defenses. There are several full defenses which lead to a not guilty and an aquittal, then there are several partial defenses which bring a murder charge down to manslaughter. In my case it was an 'unlawful and dangerous act' which the jury accepted and found me not guilty of murder but guilty of manslaughter. No intent was implied in this partial defense.
Had I pled guilty to self defense, that's actually a complete defense in Australia and had I been successful I would have been aquitted. Because I have no recollection of Chaim allegedly throwing me against Jordan's door, the apparently hitting me so hard I fell to the floor in the lounge room right before the offense, I could have had a perfectly valid self defense case. But because of the Seroquel induced fugue and psychosis I don't have any memory of Chaim hitting me. I only have Jordan's statement he did. So I refused to plead to any self defense because that would be lying and saying I remember something happening that I unfortunately have zero recollection of.
So this 'no memory' defense actually didn't help me, it hurt my case. If I had known Chaim was assaulting me I'd probably would have gotten an aquittal.
However I don't remember and wasn't prepared to lie saying I did, so it played out how it played out with jail time for me, but still a resounding manslaughter verdict and unequivocal not guilty of murder.
Person clinically diagnosed with BPD here, just wanna say we don't all stab ppl to death. Thx
Hi Dr. Grande, can you please talk about the case of Julie Schenecker? She murdered her 2 teen children Calyx 15, and Beau 13, because she said they were "mouthy" while her husband, an Army Colonel named Parker, was in Afghanistan. This happened in Tampa, January 2011. She had several mental illnesses. Im curious what you think of that case.
This poor lady. What a terrible childhood and life. But it doesn't justify killing him.
Doc
I totally agree about Danielle and Haim as much as I agree with Amber and Johnny. To me, AH was definitely one dagger away from killing Johnny Depp...I feel that he has escaped, literally, with his life and she is "crazed!" You know I don't know the psychology of this case, however, even though I am "just an onlooker," I am 71 years old and we older folks DO learn the signs of such caustic people. We can begin to recognize those behaviors. ANYWAY I wouldn't want to be somebody Amber was mad at... for that matter, nor Danielle!!
Aiaiai you gotta love dr. Grande and his dry humor!
I just love your dry sense of humor! I find myself chuckling thru these kinda rough cases every single time! Thank you for your thought provoking analysis of yet another interesting case!
Good afternoon Dr G.....
Excellent analysis, Dr. Grande! ❤️ Wonderful how you explained the parallels with the Depp/Heard case!
My take..it was the drugs and alcohol. If she was combining cocaine with alcohol explains how she was able to survive 5 times the legal limit. But in that state of alteredstate blackouts no doubt could be a side effect. Not to minimize the older rich partners death but he could have prevented both drug and alcohol use early on but sounds like he didn't. He bought it and used it. Would be curious to learn his toxicology and if it played any part into the lesser crime reduction. Bottom line don't play with fire. Have a drink with a meal and stop there...mix drugs with high levels of spirits and one's bound to release the evil spirit instead of the happy chill experience. JMHO.
Look into the case of Martha Ann Johnson. She murdered all four of her children. She believed that lie detector tests could tell if she was telling truth. She confessed then. She is out on parole. Love your channel. The best in you tube! Keep up the good work.
I respect the clever humor.
A stab-free marriage--OMG you are constantly hilarious, and you got a LOT of great jokes into this one. And what Pale Magnolia and J9 wrote below---well you can see I'm not the only one that is dying laughing at your brilliant analyses. Keep it up!
Best statement ever! Happy couples report that their relationships involve less stabbing than miserable couples. 🤣😂
There were some real good ones in this one. 😁
As someone who used to get drunk pretty frequently, blackout is a common thing and many people dont understand that it actually happens
I usually drink something like 20+ beers or 1+ liter of vodka, or any equivalent in a different drink, to get drunk. Next day, I remember almost nothing after about the 10th beer, or maybe about 2 hours before I eventually pass out. I could have seemed not too drunk, but I wont remember anything after a certain point. A lot of things I do when really drunk make absolutely no sense to me later the next day ( thankfully I am not aggressive).
I believe blackouts only happen to people who drink a lot in a short time period. You see, most people, after drinking a bit, feel tired and go to sleep, but for some people alcohol acts as a stimulant and they just keep drinking until they just pass out.
just pointing out that its common not to remember a thing... and a blackout is common for heavy drinkers. Matter of fact, every time a heavy drinker drinks, he/she will have a blackout, because he/she will drink heavily
This woman murdered three people including two unborn children and got the tiniest slap on the wrist. SMH
Excellent vid, Dr. Grande! Thanks.
Hello Mr. Grande,
I'm following your videos almost since you have started... And it's really fascinating how you explain personality concepts and how your analysis about some celebrities.
There is so much controversy surrounding the Hip Hop legend Tupac Shakur who died 27 years ago and still no body could replace him, His lyrics and poetry are studied in and biggest universities in the US, Some say was BPD, and some say he was NPD others says he was one of greatest souls earth have ever seen, And almost there is not analysis about his personality on the web ...
I'm 100% your analysis will worth alot... And me and alot of music fans will be so interested to listen to your analysis.
Thank you so much
Thanks for always pronouncing Australian place names correctly 👍
Another sad case and a lost life over mental health care this is so preventable. I folloe the current event cases here. Please keep up the great work and the applications in life too. Similarities appears in cases, thanks for highlighting it.
(Dear Dr Grande not to be off topic but can you create guidelines or tips for living 40-50? I'm struggling with the current books that say reinvent self it's not practical realistic advice. I'm a set back life as a patient not a professional right now until I'm better or the right meds are finally found. I think prepare for fifty everyday in my 40s: good self care, my meds, art& activities are sufficient in my life. My world revolves around meds and therapy. I'm reparenting at Jessica Heslop & vortex success at TH-cam. So thankful for these resources that move pple forward.)
What a brilliant analysis from begging to end! Also loved your final thoughts!! ♡♡
Don't drink while stabbing kids, you probably won't black out. Life lessons, Grande-style 🤓👏❤️🇨🇦
Well done. Waiting for Bella Grande ❤️❤️
Dr Grande! Are you going on Legal Bytes? Alyte and a bunch of lawtubers have been doing extensive coverage of Depp v Heard via live stream. She said she wanted to bring on some mental health professionals during the off week and your name came up! She hasn’t announced the line-up yet, but crossing my fingers you and your dry humor are on the panel!
...'or possibly the golf club..."
Brilliant and extremely informative video!
Hello Dr. Grande, would you consider talking about the case of Keith Randulich? He killed his little sister when he was 18 and immediately called the police, in fact he called them 3 times to make sure they came. He calmly explained what he did and gave his reasons (he said his sister was being abused, and there are more details but he determined that killing her was the only solution since he couldn't kill the abuser). People were labeling him a psychopath in the comments, despite the fact that (imo) he showed remorse and emotions, he said he knew there would be consequences and that he did it to help. The interrogation is on youtube.
Looking forward to this analysis.
Always the best analysis from Dr Grande 👍.
Always a great job Dr.G! Thank you for you professional opinion!
I only heard about this case here, so my sources are limited. It sounded to me worth mentioning, that the father, while dying, focused on preventing his son from doing something that'd ruin his life. It is terrible the child had to witness his father's death and he has to wonder if he could have prevented it, but I am glad he has a life to live without him becoming a murderer. I hope he can heal.
One of your best ones, thanks for making me laugh- good marriages are characterized by less stabbing, so true!
I am not judging the cacti arrangement in this upload. Merely admiringly giving unsolicited feedback about their arrangement.
Great video Todd.
Interesting comparison. Love your analyses.