Did Amber Heard Deliver the "Poo de Grâce?" | Johnny Depp / Amber Heard Case Analysis
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Johnny Depp lost 2 of his most famous acting roles because of this woman’s lies and now it’s coming out in court that SHE is the abuser. He deserves justice.
@@MajorTomGroundControl you are all over the comments are you being paid by her public relations or are you one of her freeloader friends?
Lots of trolls for Amber. Hello Eve!
@@MajorTomGroundControl It was revealed after the trial the judge in England had a conflict of interest and should have excused themself.
Absolutely
@@MajorTomGroundControl In England he wasn't able to prove his case. There's a difference.
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Good summary 😂
The video of him attacking the cabinets might not have looked great, but one thing it did show is that during his episode of extreme anger, not only did he not take his anger out in her, but she was clearly comfortable enough to try to provoke him while he was angry. No matter what this has showed about JD, it has yet to show what she has accused him of as being true. And that is what this trial is about.
It just further let's me know that he wouldn't physically attack her buy was still enraged. She pushed his buttons all the time. When hed leave she still will seek him to confront him. Surely she wanted to push him to that point to strike her. Glad he didn't. He had so much restraint.
He was abusive to the poor innocent cabinets. It's good they can't write an op-ed. Seriously though, it is terrible that he has had to go through all this. I hope he can win this and get back some peace of mind and his reputation.
I felt exactly the same way watching that video.
Yup
yeah, if you deliberaty provoke a woman or man to the point that they run away & destroy furniture, and you feel comfortable doing it, you are the aggressor, not that person. Elon Musk was lucky he didn't get burned by this witch.
Men & women really should warn people of who their future partner is.
The part where Amber said “I hit you, I did not punch you. You are a baby.” sounded almost identical to things my abuser said.
I too have been abused. I have been tortured and while Johnny is not perfect, Amber is insane. Insane. She needs to be in a padded room. Like The Joker.
She twisted it and said it was her saying that wven though it's on recording.
@@christinepedersen5511 I'm starting to feel sorry for her.
Happy that domestic violence against men is getting noticed
Hear, hear!
Yep. I hope this shows young boys out there that they can be victims of abuse and that they will be heard if they come forward.
No one will care
I love being bullied or controlled by women, it's a real turn on.
My mother was the scary one.
I was married to a violent narcissist for 22 yrs. With Johnnys past, I see why he wants to be numb when she attacks him both verbally and physically. I stood and took it too because I had my children around me that I felt I needed to protect. Only a few times I lashed out verbally when I couldn’t take it anymore. She recorded his lashing out when he reached that point. People who don’t understand abuse won’t understand Johnnys behavior.
Everywhere underneath YT vids on this subject, abuse victims are speaking out. Once you’ve experienced it yourself, you recognize the signs
Agree, it is like the bully in school that causes the victim to react and ending up looking like he/she is the bully instead. It happens all the time, every where, in romantic relationships, work place and so forth.
So understand this. Happened to me.
The texts etc are an emotional reaction. Who is illiciting the emotional reaction? That is the abusive player. They literally feed off of it. She is *conjuring* conflict. What she actually says makes no sense it's all designed to bully, belittle, confuse and unsettle
You nailed it. One of the narcissist's fave games is 'Gotcha' - goad and gaslight the victim until they explode or do something completely out of character and then expose them as the bad guy. If you can film it too, even better.
“Johnny seemed to be jealous at times”
If a woman is constantly bringing you down, criticizing your physic “fat old man”, etc. And then being all smiles and speaking nicely of another guy for sure that would ring a warning bell that something is off.
Her first alllegation of abuse came while he was still considering her to be "dutiful" and she was compliant with his expectations.
There are millions of us who would be perfectly happy with his body...
There is also evidence Elon Musk had a key to his penthouse and was there with her while he was away, as well as Franco turning up at 11pm to stay overnight while Johnny was away. He had reason to be jealous and suspicious.
Yeah and if wife is living with her friends in your other homes and having evening make callers and appointments with directors at their home and not telling you…after telling you they had to push off sexual advances from one of those guys in the past…
And also if she is constantly cheating on you as well and knowing her she was also inciting him to jealousy intentionally just so she could say Aha! You’re the problem with all your “jealousy.” She is utterly wicked imo. And she’s actually the one with the extreme envy of how famous and successful he was and she knew she was just riding on his coattail Bcuz nobody even knew who she was before she latched on to JD.
I volunteered at Batter Shelter and I can tell you that men DO get abused. Many men can’t or won’t fight back due to disability or upbringing. As a woman, I am proud of Johnny Depp for bringing this forward and I truly hope he gets justice.
They also don't fight back even in self defense because they'll go to jail and be labeled an abuser.
In several recent years there have actually been more reported cases of husband abuse than wife abuse in the U.S.. The difference is that there are FAR fewer cases of husbands being KILLED by their wives.
I was attacked by my ex-gf. I put my hands up to protect my face from the barrage of blows, and her arms connecting with mine pushed my arms inwards. My open palm connected momentarily with her head by the force of her blow. "You hit me ! Now you just hit me !" she shouted in the street like a crazy woman. Then she spat at me. I said I did not hit her, that she had hit my arm that caused my hand to hit her. She walked off. Later I saw that she wrote on Facebook that I had hit her. I didn't know what to do. I demanded that she delete the post and post that I didn't hit her. She removed the post, and said that she had posted confirmation that I didn't hit her. But I never saw that post. I really should have gone to the police about her, but we were abroad at the time. And all the while she was screwing around behind my back. Fast forward a couple of years and she has one failed marriage behind her (it lasted less than a year), and from what others tell me she posts on Instagram, she's living a sponsored lifestyle that she couldn't afford. God help the poor guy who is paying for it. She'll eventually turn violent with him also. And no, I've never told any of my friends this, so yes men do feel shame and confusion when attacked by a woman. But we know no matter what, you don't hit a woman.
@@Czechbound People like that aren't worth the time spent on them, ghost 'em
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Can you imagine if it was Johnny caught on tape admitting to hitting her? Case closed! Society is so damn backwards….
I know. Can you imagine if Johnny literally cut her freaking finger off in a violent rage? Would there be a question over who was the abuser?
@@mbb-- Spot on. We rarely hear about DV where the man is the victim...gee, I wonder why 🙄 Johnny laying it all out like this took a lot of courage and inner strength.
Facts.
You’re so right. There needs to be more understanding of Ambers brand of psychological abuse. She’s clearly a very disordered personality
@@Galaxie08 And to maintain his emotions on the witness stand as well says a lot. Bad behavior, we have all been guilty of that but that doesn't make you guilty of DV. My husband was a victim of DV 38 years ago but as a man you did not tell anyone. All the relationships with women he has had and only one reports DV? That's rather telling. And her taunting him to not leave when she wants to fight. Disgusting.
I am not someone who cares about celebrities but this is a situation where clearly Amber heard was the aggressor, even their therapist said that, and she should be held accountable for destroying his reputation. We cannot allow for a system where women who are abusers to claim being victims as a way to further victimize men.
I agree. Also agree we can not allow for a system where men who are abusers to claim being victims as a way to further victimize women..js..in general. I'm not trying to imply anything..
agree 100%
I see you are new on our planet. Please report in Area 51 to a rutin medical examination!
@@kathywedzik4905 You do trying to imply! It is clear you have an agenda here. :)
@@anjou6497 You need to go back to school…
Possibly study quantum mechanics or something useful please…
take you’re a ball and go home now.. The grownups are trying to have a conversation.
“Sassy”
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Her act of shitting the bed as retaliation is beyond insane.
I’ve NEVER heard of anyone doing that.
He did it
I was even more shocked when I discovered that she put out her cigarette on his cheek.
Guess when she did that? When he was injured and bleeding and lost his fingertip.
At his very low point when he was weak she tortured him with a cigarette.
This woman is pure evil.
@@katieandnick4113 He wasn't even there. How could he do it? Your statement is ridiculous!
Reminds me of the time we were gigging in Kingston, Ontario, and the last night we were at the hotel a fat biker chick, drunk and drugged out of her mind, came up to one of the rooms with us. She passed out on the floor, so a couple of the guys pissed on her, and then we put the mattress on top of her and piled furniture on top of the mattress, and then we left. The bikers were looking for us for months afterwards. Wish it had been Amber with us; I would have been happy to piss on her, and that's no shit.
It happened in at least two episodes of Star Trek. It was Kirk, on both occasions.
What seems to me something irrefutable is that he walked away from this with a serious injury, she did not. That, to me, speaks volumes.
A girl isn't going to throw a bottle of vodka hard enough to do that to a finger. A drug induced psychosis caused him to use a broken piece of glass to take his middle finger and use his bloody finger to write all over the house with it. I mean, I know about shock, but to use paint once the blood runs out? That is psychotic
This is something that I’ve not been able to get my head around. He would’ve been capable of seriously harming her if he had wanted to, he’s not in terrible shape, he outweighs her, etc etc…. But the only evidence of grievous injury is on him, not on her, despite all these photos (sans metadata) of her supposed bruising. No pictures of her “broken” nose, her “split” lip bleeding? For someone so intent on making records of bruises she doesn’t seem to have any record of these other claimed injuries. Just doesn’t fit the narrative her defence is spinning.
@@Smorans It's really weird. I had a broken nose in 3rd grade. I bled like a stuck pig and you can still tell by looking at my nose. If he had head butted her there would have been blood all over the place and she would have been seriously injured. Part of her thing, I'm afraid, is thinking other people are stupid. I'm starting to feel sorry for her.
I heard from a bird that Heard took a turd. Thinking this absurd, I went to Grande for the word, where he did indeed confirm that it was Heard who took the turd. -Dr. Seuss
Why doesn’t this have a thousand likes? Your comment is genius
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Great humor. Perfect
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She's a complete sociopath. The more details that come out the more horrified and disgusted I've become. I hope she gets everything she deserves
I was leaning towards psychopath, as it sounds like her parents were quite aware of her behavior, which would infer her quirks have been there from day 0? :)
All I have to say is if you’re ever in a relationship with Amber & are having the break-up discussion, & she puts off your decision by telling you that you should sleep on it, check your bed very carefully before taking her advice. She’s a sick human being.
She’s a narcissist for sure
Yep. She has a long and documented history of antisocial behaviour.
@@lolah3838 that's not what tone deaf means, and it's willfully ignorant, not informant. Jesus Christ.
Johnny was really great under cross examination. And he DID maintain a calm tone. In fact his slow comebacks, humour and balanced responses to that ridiculous lawyer were actually funny and had the court room giggling. Not sure to be honest what you saw on your TV screen, but it was very different to what I, and I believe the majority, saw.
Same I’m not deep into this but didn’t see JD losing any ground at all really
He doesn't take enough ownership. Making audience laugh, is not a sign or credibility. I can only imagine amber's testimony being heavily trauma filled. The only way to justify her violence as in self defense. She accuses him of using drugs but she used drugs herself.
What my friends and I saw were two rich low-lifes basking in the glow of their narcissism, and that's no shit.
Agree
@@halbrauncertifiedtherapist2426 yeah and she'll be exposed for her awful acting aswell
This is a great win for male victims of abuse!!!! He has already won in the eye of public opinion.
Yes also in the eyes of many real victims
If that stuff is true about her shouting "stop hitting me Johnny" when he's sat 20 feet away, then saying "that's the last time you'll ever hit me" when the employees investigate, then she is a stone cold psychopath. Pathologically manipulative.
Yep. He was sleeping with the enemy.
@@anjou6497 Amber has had domestic violence issues in the past. Why is it so hard for people to believe maybe she was the aggressor?
She also was recorded saying no one would believe him because she is a woman…. Let’s be real that she clearly was at the very least just as responsible for the toxic relationship. I personally think depp was the victim.
I think it was about money the whole time given her recordings, and her lovers
There's a bunch of YT videos made by a guy named "incredibly average" that seem to expose quite a lot of lies on her part. Of course, take it with a grain of salt, but I thought it was pretty convincing. Either way, they're very well documented and more interesting to watch than a lot of Netflix shows lol.
I think Johnny Depp is telling the truth about what Amber Heard did to him during their relationship. Not everyone is able to keep their emotions intact when being cross examined. It’s quite sad to watch.
You think he is telling the truth
He is
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Yeah, she strikes me as a narcissist who would goad him, put him down, gaslight him until he lost his temper so she could record that, hoping for a bigger divorce settlement as the injured spouse. She appears to have ruined his reputation so he wouldn’t get any more acting jobs, the ultimate revenge against an actor.
Yeah he is innocent to he point, she de masculine d him everyone knew she was beating him up so he just tried to be all macho with his texts to some people. Her own sister said that she thought and was afraid Amber was really going to kill him. They trap us into their game then when they get us to blow up about it they use that as if we were the cause of the overall problem . Girls set the tone of the relationship. They are more the managers. If She was that well and he was that bad she never would have put herself in that position or even stayed a day. I think She really is a husband beater and that Johnny wants the world to know that this happens to Men too. She’s bigger and I think he was really afraid of her.
I believe Johnny 100%. This is what struck me the most that he is telling the truth. The woman who took the pic of the poo was his long time housekeeper (?) Hilda. He said she has been with him for 30 years. His other guy, Kevin, (not sure what his role is) has also been with him for a long time. Having a loyal staff/employees is a sign of a good person. There are so many stories of horrible Hollywood types where their staff is a revolving door with the former staff saying how awful it was to work for so and so. In contrast, Johnny's "people" seem to be extremely loyal to him. I don't care how much someone is paying you, if they are a horrible person, you will want to quit eventually, but the fact that these people have stayed with Johnny for so long tells me he is a kind, and empathetic person. And honestly, they are probably like a family to him and see how vulnerable he is and want to protect him.
yes, you are right, they would quit or maybe testify against former employers such as AHs former assistant
Dr. Grande, FYI from many yrs of hospital experience: everybody lies in ER about their injuries. It's rather a rule than exception.
Agreed :) It's always "someone else shot me in the butt" or "I slipped in the shower and landed on that adult toy, I swear."
I had no choice but to tell the truth cuz the moron was so drunk he called 911 on HIMSELF and told em what he did 😂 was actually a relief to not have to think of a plausible lie
Absolutely! Victims often protect their abuser.
Everybody lies?
I take it you are lying about your many "yrs of hospital experience"
@@smackyay I wish I did...
He should have sued for defecation !
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Weird. This case is about Johnny NOT physically abusing Amber...yet so far, all we've seen and heard is Amber physically abusing Johnny.
That's how it is. Justice is not blind.
yes, and often when she gives evidence its often about him being on drugs and nasty texts, but not actual evidence of violence
I thought it was an unfair protrayal of JD in the press by ah which ruined his acting career. Was she a victim or a fair combatant in a rocky relationship
His attorneys are not likely to present evidence about Johnny Depp striking Amber Heard, and her attorneys have not yet presented in court. You might be interested to learn that this same set of facts was addressed in a liable case that Johnny Depp brought in the UK, and he triumphantly, gloriously, magnificently lost. The same set of facts. Of 14 instances of physical violence, the British Court found that Johnny Depp had physically attacked Amber Heard on 12 of the 14 occasions.
RIGHT!!! It just doesn't make sense.
I don't know, Dr. Grande, I actually thought Depp did pretty well, coming off relaxed and authentic. It's sad. It shows rich people can really have serious problems.
I thought Depp performed poorly, too. People who've already picked his side enjoy his putdowns that "destroy" the "clown" lawyer, but I don't know if that's necessarily gonna help the verdict. I personally think Amber is a narcissistic sociopath, but Depp seems like he has a lot of destructive behaviors, too.
When you grow up in a abusive household the last thing you want is confrontation. I’m sure as a little kid he did the same thing, stay out of the way and hide
They’re both not 100% innocent, BUT Amber must be held accountable for her lies that destroyed Johnny Depp’s career and reputation.
They don't have to both be 100% innocent. But Amber is the one whose deeply serious accusations put this whole trainwreck into motion. The accusation alone destroyed Johnny's career, and she probably knew it would... especially in today's culture.
It was more his drug problem and erratic behavior that slowed his career. He made 5 Pirate movies. No one is going to keep watching that same shit over and over again anyway.
Johnny seems pretty innocent of everything she accused him of.
@@freeffree4133 Few people are 100% innocent but the fact remains that there is zero evidence of anything malicious or violent enough for Johnny's career to be destroyed and his livelihood stolen from him. Edit: the "believe women" cultural standard, if it didn't outright create the Amber Heards of the world, it certainly enabled them to weaponize any (artificial) perception of victimhood out of sheer malice.
@@DirtyLifeLove So not true.
I don't think it's fair to say a victim of abuse (regardless of crossfire) should be better in control of their emotions when they're being cross-examined by their abuser's lawyer. The double-standards between female and male victims is astounding. It's hard enough to for a man to admit being abused, I think we should be a little more sensitive, as we would be to a female victim who gets worked up or starts crying in court. As someone who has worked with many actors, nobody can hold back pain like that when being questioned.
I feel so bad for Johnny Depp and all the male victims who go unheard and unbelieved.
this!!!
@Janey true
Thank You!
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I was told repeatedly by my solicitor to try to remain calm and answer as much as possible without being too emotional, I'm a female... I don't think it's male of female its just general advice to anybody giving evidence in court. It doesn't mean you can't and shouldn't get upset at a certain line of questioning but when you're animated and argumentative it just comes across as ingenuine and antagonistic towards the courts. It was hard for me to understand until I was actually sat being questioned myself.
He may not win in this civil court case but he has already won in the court of public opinion.
I hope he wins because its a travesty if he has to make payments to AH for a total of 100 million. The devil and his minions. Prayers that the Lord deliver Johnny Depp from these trials and tribulations.
Yeah but he's still basically uncastable in hollyweird and his reputation has taken a hit he will never recover from
@@cew630 Completely disagree. I believe he’s still have many roles at Oscar’s nominee level after this. After healing, he ll become invincible.
@@DouradaBambina we'll see
--In my last content upload it’s a recording of Johnny terrorizing Amber with a knife after he cuts himself.
I hope the jury doesn't see things this way. My gut tells me Amber is the aggressive one. The abusive one.
guts have no place in a court of law. stick to the evidence...all of it.
@@janetnash8588 in that case...Depp wins 🏆
our gut,, your eyes,, your ears,,,, its pretty obvious
My gut said she was a gold digger when I saw her picture first time with him.
Then I watched a movie with her because of him. Forgot the movie, forgot her.
A movie with Depp you don't forget. Even if you see him in a cameo for one minute.
Now all this proof is out. Her statement where she eats all the time, the video when he kicks and slams the kitchen and his story when he was in the shower and she hammered at the door. She then hit his head between door and frame.
Enough information.
Get a divorce.
This is an ongoing war and nothing of this is a healthy life. But he stayed and turned his other cheek.
He had peace and freedom and harmony with Vanessa and his kids. Vanessa is ten years younger than him.
He gave all that up for the witch?
He knew what a relationship could be like. All this horror for what?
Recently I discovered the video about the evening when she threw two bottles at him. He was injured very hard and she pressed her burning cigarette on his cheek.
Imagine that.
This says everything about her.
She used his face as an ashtray when he was injured and bleeding.
Everybody only talks about her shaiting the bed.
Hope she goes to jail. She is guilty of so many crimes.
Maybe they will not win this case. Remember, this is about if he ever hit her.
So far no evidence he ever hit her. Is it enough for the trial? We will see.
There must follow some trials about her throwing bottles and injuring him. And don't forget to mention the cigarette in his face. He just mentioned it on the side.
Thank goodness his guard took pictures of him and his injuries.
What is this spot in your face on this picture, Johnny?
Oh, Amber put out her cigarette on my cheek.
... She did whaaat?
Sounded like she did it as a normal thing to him.
Next time just use your own face when you need an ashtray, Ember.
She is a boring starlet, nothing special about her. No acting talent.
Sienna Miller got my attention at first minute, Margot Robie as well in the series where Cristina Ricci has the main part as a flight attendent.
Amber just leaves nothing. Her face is forgotten in a second.
Please produce some ashtrays with Ember's photo. The streets would be empty of any cigarette waste.
trials do not run on on "gut" feelings, in fact they are ran in the opposite way- through cool, rational thought, reflecting on all the evidence of both sides.
As it stands, it appears that both Depp and Heard have engaged in mutual abuse. And Depp has clearly lied several times, that is not a good thing...
Truly feel sorry for Depp having to deal with. My dad is a narcissist and he has done things like yell "YOU THINK IM A BASTARD AM I!?" when I've tried to calmly discuss stuff on the phone because he wants it to look like I'm the abuser (to his partner when she is in the same room and can't hear what I've actually said). It's mind games that destroy your soul.
If it's that bad, you cna decide to withdraw from the relationship. It's a very adult thing to do and you ought t feel ashamed to do so. Never be ashamed of withdrawing from an abusive relationship.
Yes. I know what you mean. My step father would use gossip behind my back more tho. He was always trying to get me to either look like I needed anger management classes or like I was falling apart and unstable. Everyone also would think he was so justified to be so hostile to me like he was. He did get a lot of folks to believe it tho but thankfully I eventually learned to stop knee jerk reacting to all his constant provoking me. It just got to where nobody ever believed me or took me seriously anymore and he would just say I was crazy or messed up so don’t listen to her or bother with anything she says. So yah. Eventually I just stopped talking Bcuz nobody believed me anyways and that was pretty dang soul crushing. It’s why I’m so glad he’s talking and being so bold and “impertinent” ya know Bcuz it’s like all the things he’s saying that I didn’t get to say. He is helping all of us finally find our voice about such things.
'the jury will have to decide where Amber's behavior (i.e. poo) ranks in terms of offensiveness: if they do not believe if it's the worst thing she ever did, I feel confident they will agree that it's a solid number 2.' hilarious Dr Grande!
was brilliant
I agree and he says it so matter of fact lol! With a straight face and all, bonus points for that one!!
Dr Grande is a true man of the wordsmith.
This is my favorite Dr Grande line ever.
@@michaelreavey4527 That and the one where Justin Beiber pretends to sing, can't recall which case it was...!
He already looked bad and lost career opportunities from Amber’s allegations. What does looking “bad” at this point matter-at least he can explain and add context? He wasn’t given a voice before and now he can at least tell his version.
That's all of it in a nutshell.
That’s what I said. Even if he doesn’t win this …. He still wins just because he got to tell his story
He was actually doing fine before the lawsuits that he filed. He was in fantastic beasts, for which he was paid millions and was due to star in a sequel. He was doing talk shows and interviews and quickly restoring his image.
This lawsuits exposed a lot of very dirty details about his drug problems and mental health problems and eventually lost him his role in fantastic beasts and probably many future films as well. He couldn't let it go because he wanted to destroy Amber, and he did, but he also destroyed himself in the process. That's on him, he did it to himself
@@rickytikitavi4101 he's obviously in pain but he's in no way destroyed. He has regained the love of his fans.
Apparently, some of y'all have never been through a bad breakup. I don't flinch when it comes to name-calling and the make nice reconciliation texts. But the poo and wrongly smearing of his name to prevent future work (therefore I win!) speaks volumes about her character. Who screams "stop hitting me" when the "aggressor" is 20' away and knowing there are other ppl in the house who will come to your rescue? Only a sociopath hellbent on winning does. I hope Johnny heals from this.
True, bad breakups bring out the worst language, and I had used that more than this while writing in a diary, occassionally venting to a friend.
I’m sorry did we watch the same trial? He did well in cross examination. Even if he loses the suit he wins. She looks crazy and highly manipulative . She’s trying to get a mistrial in my opinion with the tactics during trial. Her lawyers look unprepared and got confused with dates and all the evidence . JD used humor and told the truth. She clearly lied
@@becky-hx1ge sh*tting on the bed and blaming it on the dog makes her look crazy 🤷🏼♀️
@@becky-hx1ge I agree, Amber looks composed and beautiful in the courtroom....but its just an illusion.
Listen to all the nasty things she has said and done to Johnny.
Amber beat her ex wife and she was arrested. Amber has a history of DV. So if her girlfriend hit her back in self defense would anyone care?? I don't think so. Johnny never even hit Amber in self defense and he never hit her while she was assaulting him. Johnny Depp was an abused man. An abused husband by his own wife!!! It's horrible what she did to Johnny.
Yep.
Yep!!
Arrested and CONVICTED of such.
She would wait until he got bad news, tell him off the wall shit and once she got him riled up she would begin to videotape him to try and trap him in a quasi violent act, some sociopathic behavior.
That's exactly 💯 true 👍
I agree with you.
She baited him. Watch her movement in the video when he was angry. She kept looking at the camera, hid in front of it.
Beauty is only skin deep!!!! AH a pretty little demon.
And in the instances he got good news she would shoot insults at him to bring him down too. IE when he got the dior deal he ran to tell her because it was a big deal. She immediately said “Dior? You? They’re about style and class and you have no style. You’re an old fat man.” Immediately taking the moment from him. Just a terrible person
I've always read or heard things that the aggressor sometimes goes to the police first to make themselves look like the victim, and seems Amber read that handbook.
Yes it has happened to me twice. In 20 years. And I'm not going for a third time.
For the first time I disagree with your analysis. It is true that Depp could have responded better to Amber’s taunts and criticism, but Amber did some despicable things according to news stories I have read. Depp may also have alcohol issues, but it seems clear to me from the reports that I have read that Heard taunted and emotionally bullied Depp, who may have taken revenge on kitchen cabinets, but not Ms. Heard.
I am clean and sober for 9 1/2 years now mostly from opiates. I understood exactly what Johnny was describing. His point was that once you're addicted, you need to take more opiates once you go into withdrawals. At that point, you are no longer trying to get high but trying to avoid the symptoms. Also by that point, you have a substantial tolerance built up so you don't get high like you used to in the beginning. If you've never been bitten by the snake as he describes, don't say he is lying about it !!!
This.
Even though you think you're fine...you're still intoxicated. You're not the same as you would be off the drugs...even with a huge tolerance. I had a pretty big IV heroin and then fentanyl habit...and no you don't get as high as you did in the beginning...you're mostly just trying to not be sick...but you're still high.
I smoke a lot of weed and I feel this on a smaller scale …
Wish Amber's lawyers would lay off the opiate addiction = abusive person. Opiate addiction (through medication) is a huge problem; the lawyers inferences are demeaning and cruel.
Me too!
Wow, are we watching the same trial? Johnny comes across as a calm abused victim and Amber, a sadistic psycho.
Right? This video is not it
Exactly my thoughts.
I think you're biased.
The difference is, Grande is not partial, you are.
@@awkwardautistic the level of people’s bias toward Johnny is truly shocking to me. Celebrity worship I guess. He definitely came off looking unhinged. Scarily so. All of the sudden people think it’s normal to write messages with your bloody stump finger? That’s insane. Call your girlfriend/wife a whore and a cunt to her mom and sister? Threaten to cut yourself up with a knife? Rage and break household items? And people can’t even give Dr. Grande - yes he’s not looking too good here either.
Dr, why didn’t you go into some of the courtroom behaviour that Amber Terd has been displaying? Like copying what he wears, putting on a sulky face but forgetting and smiling and realising and immediately putting back on her victim face. Before she has even testified she has done some rather strange things.
Her lies and behavior are abuse. He didn’t deserve this
I know this- as a survivor of dv and narcissistic abuse, the person who triggers me in those recordings is Amber Heard, not Johnny Depp.
Amen. Just the intensity in how she talked to him was really telling…. I’m sorry but usually it’s not the victim trying to continue arguements and chasing after the person.
Same here, she is frightening.
Agreed
Same. Some of her alleged behavior is literally stuff my malignant narc ex did. Johnny's shown signs of reactive abuse in my opinion.
yup
Very possibly, Johnny lying to protect his abuser, was learned in his childhood, when questioned at school about marks he bore from his psycho mother. Just a guess.
agreed...no doubt it...a child isn't going to tattletale on THEIR PARENT.... THAT'S WHAT THEY WOULD SAY IN THEIR HEAD THAT THEY WERE TATTLE TELLING SO THEY WOULD NEVER THEY WOULD NOT DO THAT
Of course. Thats why Johhny lied to the E.R doctor when AH injured his finger He didnt want her to get Amber in trouble.
Yes I thought so too
Yes he is. He admitted in court trial day 6 or 7 that he covered up for Amber to the ER doctor so she wouldnt get in trouble.
The judge in the UK didn't see it your way.
there’s audio from a phone call between the 2 of them that she admits to planning the entire AB for years. He NEVER HIT HER!! I’m surprised you don’t recognize the symptoms of a victim of DV.
I'm surprised too. She is a textbook narcissist. I would love to hear what a bully she was in grade school and high school. Mean girl, anyone?
You know that you don't have to listen to the he said, she said. Listen to the witnesses. Most of Johnny's employees have been with him for decades. Denigrating people don't get that kind of loyalty. Then consider Amber's former assistant's testimony. To me, that clears the murky mire of who's bad and who is worse. Johnny's no angel but doesn't deserve to have his career destroyed by Amber's exaggerated accusations. Talk about a pot calling a kettle black...
I don’t think Johnny Depp is making himself look bad everyone knows and has known that he has abused drugs!
He comes across to me as a very kind and generous person and even though he has all these addiction problems hi absolutely absolutely believe him when he says he never abused Amber!
I agree with you, but I don't think that the average Joe is insightful enough to equate some of Johnny's oddness to possible brain trauma/damage from his excessive long term use of substances. We are human psychology and mental health nerds so it makes sense to us lol
@@LMCEK he hasn’t acted out in wild and crazy ways for decades lol. The characters he’s played are imaginative and often very dismal, but he’s never been in the press for stripping down or stalking a couple in their home 😂🥴 people who would go so far as to hit women, don’t just one one specific woman, then not hit anyone else ever 😩🤣
Alice Cooper seems to believe that Depp is a nice guy.
Lost any sympathy I could have felt for Heard in about two seconds just by watching her expressions. She'd been wearing a hangdog victim expression on her face without so much as a twitch throughout Depp's testimony. There were numerous microexpressions of rage. It was telling which comments she reacted to and which evoked no reaction at all. At one point she hands a note to someone behind her. Her council leaned in, whispering something that causes Heard to smile, appearing to be amused. Council whispers something and Heard appears to realize her toothy, mirthful grin while Depp is speaking of abuse at her hands isn't a good look. With the emotional dexterity only a professional actress could manage, the hangdog victim is back. The woman is an abusive control freak with no apparent conscience. Men get abused too.
Amber‘s girlfriend was handing her notes during the trial which is illegal they kicked the girlfriend out.
Unfortunately for her Amber has resting B face
Amen .
This case will hopefully help other men . Johnny should be proud to speak up about his horrible situation.
I soooooooo agree and have paid very close attention to those micro expressions too. Agreed she is definitely using her acting skills big time.
How about her twitching during a cabinet video showing, but with delay and bad acting, while completely still in a video itself? That was also fun.
Counsel on both sides is awful. I think Johnny handled his emotions very well considering the horrible circumstances. Whether JD wins this case or not, Amber is the real loser. She's a loser as a decent human being and the world hates her.
I have watched all of the Depp vs Heard trial and concur absolutely with your analysis! Johnny came across as a flawed but creative person, articulate and relatable. Amber Heard came across as an insecure, manipulative and violent controlling liar…..
I heard the recording where she was verbally attacking him.
As a victim of a past abusive significant other, when I heard her talking…well it could of been my abusive ex talking, they sounded the same. The mocking, the goading, the manipulative, gaslighting, and mentally abusive language meant to degrade and destroy one’s sense of self and self worth.
Yup! I felt the same. For me that was it. She’s definitely the abuser
From what I can tell from what I’ve seen (the depositions, the recordings of Amber screaming) the evidence that has been described here doesn’t seem nearly as incriminating. I also agree that it is a bit wrong to judge how Johnny behaved under cross. I hope he’s just as judgmental on Amber’s testimony (if she does testify)
Absolutely! Us survivors can clearly spot an abuser, manipulator, and narcissist
anyone can say they're a victim of anything on the internet, and a lot of people would just for the attention.
I thought the same. She sounded like my ex who wanted me dead. The abuse triggered me terribly.
My only hope with this whole circus is that Amber Heard’s career is O V E R.
Done. Fin. Nada. Zilch. Ya D O N E.
Anyone who continues to work with or support this woman should be held with the utmost contempt. There is no excuse for her nonsense. She is insane.
And I sayYay!!
100% agree
Yeah, but she got $7M out of Depp so unless she is utterly reckless with her money, she'll likely live a comfy life. She might even con some other celebrity into dating & marrying her.
Yep. But I am pretty sure Johnny Depp is not a pic-nic either.
Career over and in prison or sent to the front line in the Ukraine.
Johnny's testimony is not as bad as it looks. He comes across as an unhappy guy who has been doing drugs and hurting himself over the last 40 years. Amber may in fact be the abuser, and if she is, Johnny won't be the only one. She lied about the 7 million. She also admitted to throwing things. How can johnny be the aggressor and also the guy who is always running away.
Darrell..., exactly! He can't be both things at once; that's pure Aristotelian logic--case closed.
Jonny didn't give her all the money at once
@@kitten_582 yep, and she went on tv saying she gave it all to charity.
@@kitten_582 4.5 million in 2017, rest in February, being testified to now. He covered all taxes, and lawyers fees, 14m.
"flushed" "a solid number two" you had me cackling
Depps testimony was really sad. Hearing him talk about his mother and upbringing was heartbreaking especially considering what’s happening to him now
I was drawn in a few days ago under examination by his lawyer and the questions asked about trauma. The ray he is rather soft-spoken, hesitating, choosing his words so carefully, this is telling. I don't assume I know either side but listening to Dr Grande's interpretation to me this is a study in how we view our own issues when things escalate between a couple.
@@IntriguedLioness hes an actor
@@Sandwich13455
both are
@@a.noriega-gonzalez6801 very true, but Depp you'd have to say is the better thespian!
It was a very toxic relationship. And sometimes an abusive relationships it's like both people. And then sometimes it's the one person that's the aggressor and then the one person who always wants to leave and get away from it.
And I truly believe Johnny Depp is a very introverted dude who feels lucky that he can get beautiful women these days but he was not ready for the insanity that was Amber Heard. I bet you a million dollars though the sex probably blew his mind and that's the only reason why he stayed around. Did you hear the part about how when he would come home and it was like a routine she would take off his boots? That'll make you fall in love with someone. But then he took off his boots by himself one day and she got super angry? That'll make you realize you fell in love with someone who maybe insane.
“Heard of the Turd”
It doesn’t get any better than that
😂😂😂😂😂😂👍
😂😂😂
This case is so much bigger than Johnny Depp and Amber Head, it’s about addressing very dangerous and toxic precedent “believe all women” made, because male victims get ridiculed and aren’t even believed. He is opening the door for more me to come forward. I do hope she will face criminal consequences eventually also.
Yes, the believe all women standard was bound to backfire.... and unfortunately the biggest losers are the real victims of abuse.
Richtig
So glad men are finally getting a voice since for years it's been silenced by the sexism and scorn of other men. But what fairy island do you live on where people just belive all women?? I have known so many women over the years who stayed in abusive relationships because no one including the law believed them so they couldn't get help to leave. After years for volunteering and living in different communities I'm aware that most women have an abuse story where noobe believed them.
It's strange you thought he didn't perform well under cross examination, most people have the opposite opinion. Lawyers who watch the the case complimented him on how he did, however conceded it would be difficult for him to win due to nature of defamation cases.
I have to respectfully disagree with your conclusion that Johnny "isn't there yet". I believe he has the overwhelming support of the public since this trial began. That woman has already proven herself to be completely psychotic. Johnny certainly has his problems, but his reactions to her madness are understandable,. A person can only take so much before they explode! Whatever the legal outcome, he has cleared his name IMHO.
I feel like Johnny uses comedy to cope and also his past use of drink and drugs.
I agree 💯 with you
Hear!Hear!👏👍❤
Yes, I agree!!!
Public support doesnt count in the court of law
Here's what i know about Johnny Depp, he shot "21 Jump Street" in Vancouver Canada where I grew up and I have friends in the film industry there who said he was a really good guy, but very shy. If there's a dispute on set, he always just disappears to his trailer, wanting no part in it. After stressful things going on, on set, he usually got drunk or stoned and fell asleep in his trailer. A few years ago he showed up at the Vancouver Children's Hospital, dressed as Jack Sparrow and spent the day greeting and talking to the sick kids and their parents, particularly the young cancer patients. He's done that a couple of times. Doesn't seem much like an abusive person. On the other hand, my first wife was a narcissist and diagnosed with NPD, and her behavior was very much like what is being described about Amber's behavior. My kids and I had to have several years of counseling because of our experience living with her. My ex wife has four failed marriages and dozens of failed relationships, but I've been happily married now for over twenty years and my kids from my first marriage and this marriage all get along very well, but none of them want anything to do with my ex. Unfortunately, people like that want to push all the buttons they can to create conflict because they relish it. They also love to control people and any sort of person that has the weakness of addiction, would turn to that to escape. Even I started drinking heavily to avoid the emotional pain of what was happening in our marriage. I barely drink at all now. My two daughters from my first marriage also abused substances as teenagers, especially when I lost the custody case in court. She was very good at claiming that I was the abuser, even though she had no evidence and admitted to having affairs and not really looking after the kids, leaving me with them on weekends when she would prefer to go out with her friends, however I had quite a lot of evidence that included hospital records of attending for stitches after being hit with bottles and glasses by her during her rages. The courts are very uncomfortable in giving custody to fathers unless the mother is shown to be physically violent towards the children, which she wasn't. After counseling my kids are doing great, they got out on their own when they were 17 and 18 respectively and moved in with me and with my parents for a while when I took a job in Dubai. My eldest daughter is happily married and a mother of three great daughters and my second oldest daughter is a Police Detective and an Army Reserve Officer and is getting married this year. The best thing to do with women like Amber is to get as far away from them as possible. They can be very charming when they want to be, but look out when they they get closer because they exploit all your weaknesses and insecurities so that they can control and manipulate you, and when it looks like you are going to leave them, they go on the attack and play the victim while they try to destroy you in any way they can.
Thank you for sharing and totally agree with your description of an NPD person.
Thank you for your comments. I am so glad that you and your daughters have managed to have good lives after the abuse. 💐
@@nadasimich1267 thank you. 😊
I have had friends who were in relationships with abusive spouses and many of them eventually fight back and get arrested even though they didn’t have the abuser arrested. Then, it becomes harder to prove the abuse.
The fact that all of Johny's ex's have said that he is a loving, kind, non-violent person who never raised a hand on them and whom they are still in sweet friendship with tells me that Amber had to really work hard to get him to even vocalize violence. He was hiding in the bathroom and she was demanding a confrontation.
Oh my gosh, Johnny is a victim of dv. The lies, the cover-up, the self blaming, the self soothing through drugs and alcohol... My heart breaks for him.
Brilliant analysis. Thank you Dr Grande, for the great laughs you gave. Excellent analysis and topic.
I had a hard time listening to the cross examination. Attorneys are PAID to twist the facts in an attempt to win the case. What's interesting (and sickening) to me is that it's exactly the same thing abusers do, only it's considered acceptable because they're attorneys and it's in a courtroom. I'm thankful for the couple of times Johnny attempted to explain, even tho the attorney demands a yes or no answer and cuts him off. I think Johnny's only a danger to himself, no one else. I think Amber's a danger to all of society. What's freaky to me is that she has a baby daughter via a surrogate. Think about that.
She does?? I didn’t know that!
Brilliant comment nomopms! Yeah, he's forensic and getting the job done, guess that's why AH hired him but JD handled it well for the most part and didn't derail and remained composed and articulate. ....Surrogate, wow!!!
@@habsom1406 I'm concerned for the child.
@@heybea891 Wondering what kind of a mom she'll be.
@@nomopms1 Sadly, I'm not. I saw "Throw Mama From A Train". If I were child protective services I would be camped at her door.
I really feel that Johnny was living with constant mental abuse. She kept it going til he gets to a breaking point and then points her finger on him "see you're crazy". She's a total narcissist.
At least 'her' finger wasn't severed!
She was poking and poking him to get a reaction she wanted, then she could accuse him of violence. If she was abused she would have been terrified of him and not goading him on.
Is like the “are you angry?” game.
“Are you angry?”
“No, why would I be?”
“Really. Are you angry?”
“Really I’m not angry?”
“You look angry. Why?”
Stop it. I’m not angry”
“You can deny it. But you really look angry”
IM NOT FUCKEN ANGRY!!!
“See. You’re so angry”
Yep, there’s people like that. Pokers, I call them.
Classic gaslighting.
I think all that pot smoking makes him too soft, he was insane to marry her, insane not to get rid of her.
I’ve had a rough week, just watched this Dr. Grande and he/you made me crack up for the first time in a few days. Thank you! Here’s to a better Sunday
Dr. Grande 😂 you’re killing me with these captions. As always, excellent content.
He is not on trial for substance or alcohol abuse. I watched most of his testimony and didn't see what you are describing. In fact I was impressed with his honesty and cool calm demeanor. He added context to the photos which I believe clearly showed AH setting him up. He said he had worked many hours in Boston and she asked him to hold the ice cream then snapped the pic. Also the way she set up the table with whiskey, cocaine box and tampon applicator to snort with !! Seriously. She's vicious and a liar imo.
In some of Amber's Instagram pics she and her friend Rocky are posing with tampon applicators. Rocky has one in her mouth and amber is holding one like a cigarette.
If you look closely at the beginning of the video where JD is slamming cabinets, Amber is holding a tumbler/glass like that one in the cocaine picture. At the very least, that's interesting.
It looked as though he knew the game that lawyers try to play and was serving it back at them, honestly.
Many people use substances as a way to cope. I don’t think it’s fair to assume people who use substances are violent.
@@eastcoastlockdownbullies wow that's impressive?
If i was in the jury I would be asking myself why a woman that was supposedly scared and being abused would constantly set up recording devices then needle their clearly struggling, hurting spouse to create a reaction. I would note that despite JD’s obvious bad mood he never once made any attempt to hurt her- plus the little grin of triumph on AH face when he tried to stop the recording .
Everyone has known for years that Depp abused drugs shd alcohol so none of this is a surprise. What Heard did however is extremely unflattering and revealing.
Most of the time people do that to show their friends or whoever is helping them through dealing with this partner
Most likely he has a best friend that has helped him a lot when he’s fallen off the wagon or when he’s out of control.
Unless I set up a camera to prove DV because in my state I need to prove my life is in danger to get a restraining order and they don't just take my word for it. . . .there is no other reason than to antagonize him. Her lawyers are also so set on HIS drug use when she planned the wedding and put in drug use as a planned party event for their marriage ceremony. It kind of cancels each other out or worse. You can't say you are helping someone get sober if you are still using. That's not helping. OK, you both did drugs, let's move on and figure out who actually was the aggressor and violent. The case isn't about drug use, it's about DV or did we forget that? Plus, women who fear for their lives/safety cower and hide and they walk on eggshells if you know what I mean. She was baiting him and pushing boundaries and had zero empathy for him.
I agree
A lot of the time when you tell others about abuse, people tell you to try to get recordings or video of it for proof. Please stop saying why would someone do that.
4 things...I Love the jokes delivered with a straight face :)
There are hours and hours of videos and tapes that can't be played for evidentiary reasons but they exist. They have one from Australia where she's admitting to cutting his finger off and she's begging forgiveness and wants to stay. You can clearly hear the main security, who's passed now, saying someone strong needs to fly home with her so they can't be manipulated.
No one is surprised by Johnny's drug use and party lifestyle, he's cultivated it for 35+ years. Amber's team is wasting time by hammering that home.
The relationship was definitely a midlife crisis thing. He definitely had tons of money at the beginning, he didn't know his money managers were blowing his Pirates money. She was after the fame and cash. When he started fighting back and it was ending, she started the hoax rolling. She's cunning and a nasty human
I hope you keep posting these trial videos, thanks handsome.
Being a survivor of DV I have on many occasions taken responsibility for my abuse and protecting my abuser. I have also lied to friends, family, and co workers about my injuries. I think that as this trial progresses we will be able to understand his behaviors during his marriage. I would like to see a expert psychologist testify who has a specialty in dealing with dv victims.
As a survivor myself, I completely relate to everything you wrote. Hope you’re in good place now. These individuals are evil. Much 🤍
@@NopeNotTodaySatan yes I am and back at you hon. ❤️
@@yayakelley7771 - Thank you ❤️
Yes…cause while I respect Dr. Grande he has exhibited so blind spots his this analysis….Johnny is clearly a victim of DV…he’s been honey about his shortcomings I don’t think that he’s made himself look bad…and as he stated she has already lost everything so he may feel that he has nothing to lose so why continue to cover his feelings.
@@yayakelley7771 I am a survivor myself, my wife used to bait me into DV & a few times while under the influence I reacted in a minor way. She started attacking me at 64 and was diagnosed with bipolar & schizoaffective disorders. Has Amber ever had a Mental Health evaluation? Take care.
I hear what everyone's saying but one thing's for sure. He's battling with a lot and I hope he finds healing so that he can attract healthy people into his space. He's not the most innocent in the way he handled things, but clearly, he was abused. The entire relationship was just so toxic that he definitely has more to recover from before all this. 😢
Yup lose the drugs . Get some counseling . Try and overcome childhood circumstances . Find another focus . All the substance abuse ruins life . Stop dwelling on childhoods peeps . That was yesterday . Grab your bootstraps and March on
There was a house party for Heard's birthday the night of the bed desecration. So the possible culprits were many. Perhaps one was intoxicated or high. A DNA analysis of the fecal matter would have been poop positive of the identity of the transgressor. Sorry proof positive.
I agree and he did say he's already "lost". he's lost so much that can't be undone. I think he profoundly realizes the implications of picking this nutcase for a relationship and I'm sure he'll be super careful going forward. unfortunate when things like this happen it causes people to never trust again, possibly losing out on real and honest future love. it's truly messed up. 😔
Listening to the women he was in relationship with for 4 years and married to for 14 years, and others he had dated and people who went to school with him, he never raised a hand to any of them or his kids. They all said that he was sweet and kind-hearted and protective and utterly non-violent up until this situation with Amber and that they are still in sweet friendships with him. Her friends called her a liar and his ex-lovers called him sweet and protective and utterly non-violent.
It awful to discover that kind of personality and let it go so far!! I’m going to send him an email or post on Instagram several wonderful folks to follow on TH-cam
You're giving us excellent coverage of this. Thank you.
You are really great at these videos. You make the information totally clear and concise. Being an admittedly scatterbrained person, I really appreciate how direct and to the point you are. You really make these videos enjoyable with your dry wit as well. :)
I agree by the way about the trial and the money. Johnny wants to be heard. I submit that all abused men and boys deserve the same grace we extend to women and girls when they come forward.
It's long overdue. I hope more males speak out.
Amen to that.
Believe men.
I thought the Becky's arent violent women? Thought they were so submissive, graceful and feminine caring women🤔
Totally and 100% agree with you. However, we don’t often give women the benefit of the doubt as stated. Too many times women are treated as the problem, blamed, & smeared then asked “why didn’t you just leave if it was so bad?”… I’m glad that more people are now able to understand the ugly truth DV victims go through so that maybe we can help stop it and save lives.
As a long term LA resident, I’ve met quite a few people who know Amber and I’ve never once heard anything even remotely positive about her. Ever- even before this case was public. In fact quite the opposite- many people saying she’s “insane” and “terrifying.” I’ve never heard a single negative thing about Johnny, people I know who are his friends say the opposite of him. Since this case started- I’ve always believed him based on that. It’s really a good feeling to see him finally able to speak his truth. Feels like at least something is happening that’s right and my faith in humanity is somewhat restoring from seeing this unfold.
I'm still intrigued at how she managed to get her hooks into Depp. Can only assume that after a 14 year marriage he was a little naive and blinded by her youth.
@@howareyou857 I know from experience- you’d be surprised the types of people even A list celebrities will date. Especially when they are in a low place, and believe me their lows are seemingly lower than non famous people. I say that with all due respect to everyone’s lows- but at least the non famous have their privacy. Many of the rich and famous are quite lonely, have trouble finding anyone they can trust and surprisingly easy to manipulate. Many of them are- I’ve seen it many times. To answer what you’re wondering- I think that’s how something like this develops. And often- the way these predator types get in is being in the right place at the right time- which is the case with amber. She happened to be in a movie with him. Mind you- I’m friends with another actor who did a movie with her many many years ago before Johnny and said he got the worst vibes from her. The same way female victims are targeted and used- males can be too. And it always happens to them when they’re at their lowest.
@@anjou6497 I think you’re right that the narrative of “women hate beautiful women” is one that is commonly pushed in our society. In my personal experience it’s a far cry from reality. In real life I commonly see all kinds of women loving and supporting each other. That narrative also doesn’t really seem applicable or related or relevant to any of my points. I think Johnny’s supporters/ people who can see the truth about what’s happening here are not “a posse of hissing pussycats” they are actually just regular people of sound mind.
@@anjou6497 she has had surgery to help her along..she was not naturally looking that way ..her insides
Are not beautiful we are seeing that and now she appears ugly..
@@nikismith3820 You said it!
I believe Johnny's testimony of her being violent. She was arrested for domestic violence prior to them getting together. That story needs to be told.
Your dry humor is extraordinary Dr. Grande :)
It came out during testimony, that Johnny's lost his mother on that day Amber, recorded Johnny, kicking the kitchen cabinet's. Anyone would be angry enough to kick something. Add to the grief, someone who's antagonizing, you along with a video recorder. That made Amber look insensitive, and vicious, during his time of grief. 🕊
And secretly recording him was her trying to collect evidence against him. She's a planner.
@@anjou6497 he didn’t threaten her at all. He was venting anger on cabinets and the fridge because she was pushing him with God knows what to make him break.
His mother did not die that day, that is a rumour made up by the fans. If you listen to his testimony you will hear him say he could not remember what cause his behaviour as he didn't know the date. I think he would know if it was over his mother. Also how many incidents like this was there that he needed a date to verify why he behaved like that? This shows that his behaviour in the kitchen was not an isolated incident. As for recording him, I would too because you want behaviour like that on record if your marriage is failing and facing potential divorce...or you need a restraining order.
@@Zelda_Kitty Many women in abusive relationships stay for years before they finally leave.
@@anjou6497 she was laughing and smiling at the end of the video - she was never threatened - the cupboards got the rough treatment.
I've dealt with a couple woman like her and they have no fear of hurting you because they can play the victim so well
If anyone hits me, male, female, child, grandma...I don`t care...I`ll bash their face in. At some point you stop taking it. I reached that point about 20 years ago.
There are a lot of men abused by the women in their lives. Problem is that it is embarrassing to admit to it, and the fact a lot of people will doubt them.
Maybe Johnny Depp's experience will help them realize they aren't alone. No one should have to live with that kind of stress.
@@corinnefogarty7880 I had a friend's gf try to stab him in my apt and when I stopped her and kicked her out she threatened to call the cops on me and tell them I raped her .
To a certain degree, both Heard and Depp are awful. Lets be honest, if you’ve dealt with women like that a ‘couple times’ then you’re probably no angel yourself.
@@oliverquach9614 one was a friends gf and the other was a girl I met and stopped talking to because she was crazy a week later and dealt with her stalking and threatening to kill me for months after
Brilliant ✨ It’s like whatever I’m thinking you put into meticulous wording. Bravo Dr. G! 👏🏼 Excellent as always.
I don't believe that Johnny banging cabinet doors makes him look bad. He was upset about something that day that had nothing to do with his and Amber's relationship. During that moment, when he was banging cabinets, he was in a sense "crying for help". He needed someone to stand beside him, support him, encourage him, and let him know that he had someone on his side. Instead, Amber recorded his frustration and acted like she was being victimized somehow because her husband was upset. Amber was not Johnny's target that day. She was his support that he was seeking and she failed him terribly.
As far as I can tell Amber's Counsel only proved one thing.
The Defense Lack of Evidence.
Totally agree.
Well then, what about the amica cream? THAT wasn't a cover-up. It was evidence!
There’s no such thing as “Amica” cream. That was the mistake of the defense not to research about the cream’s name. It is ARNICA! It is use to heal the bruises faster but it can never conceal a bruise.
I don’t feel like the cabinet thing really proves anything. Just because you hit a cabinet doesn’t mean you hit a person.
But it can at least elucidate the fact that the individual has violent tendencies.
It is menacing behaviour. But she could have left the room instead of filming him.
It shows a lack of control and outbursts of range. If you have ever witnessed anything like that, at best it’s intimidating, at worst it’s scary.
She was obviously not scared of him or she would not have stayed in the room, she would have been running. It is common for someone who has been abused by a narcissist to take their anger out in other ways instead of hitting their abuser.
@@ZeeGeeSims that’s not true though, I’ve been in loads of scary situations and stayed for multiple reasons (in my personal life and professional life). That’s really not a good gauge of whether someone is a victim or not.
Aside from this situation, many many women stay in abusive relationships coz whilst they’re scared in the relationship, they’re even more scared to leave. I’m not claiming that applies here, coz it likely doesn’t, just disproving the ‘if you were scared, you’d leave’ narrative.
Thank you Dr. Grande. This was very interesting. Do you have relatives in central Minnesota? I remember the grande name spoken often by my family members.
the monotone delivery of your jokes never fails to crack me up
“I am struck by what a nightmare this relationship was”. That basically sums it up.
What surprises me is that his previous relationships were healthy. His wife of 14-years has said that he is a kind-hearted, loving man who was non-violent as a husband and father and that she is still in a sweet friendship with him and Winona Rider who was with him for 4-years said the exact same thing. So he has had healthy relationships. This one wasn't.
@@wishingb5859 Well, maybe he wasn't drinking as much then. It's difficult for an addict to have a "healthy relationship". He cheated his long time partner when he met Amber Heard
There’s a book about borderline pd called “I Hate You…Don’t Leave Me,” which reminds me of Amber.
I wondered while listening to the testimony if she might have Borderline PD. It is very possible, and would certainly fit.
She was constantly saying she couldn't live without him.
@@louiseplatiel5431 same here. And narcissism...
AH is way worse than borderline. They say Princess Diana was borderline. Amber Heard is a NPD, BPD, or psychopath.
My therapist sent me home with a copy of that book about 4 years ago. It was surprising how accurate it was and how well it described my situation at the time. Great book.
Thank you, Dr. Grande ! I'm laughing out loud ~ all by myself - listening to your wording and superior phrasing ability !!! It's been delightfully surprising !
To continue his artistic journey.... I love Dr. Grandes wording!
Moments like these are a stark reminder of how close the world came to losing such a creative, generous soul. He has spoken openly about how seriously he considered ending his own life. She did that. And she's not even a little bit sorry.
She'd have happily played the "grieving" widow though, I'm sure
@@jasminee1357 indeed.
Are you freaking kidding me?
@@katieandnick4113 no. Amber is trying to frame Johnny Depp. She even lied about the makeup compact she supposedly used to cover up bruises . Milani makes that compact and they called her out on TikTok and Twitter and said that they hadn’t even produced that make up palette until AFTER the years that she was married and with Johnny Depp. She’s a liar.
@@Catglittercrafts yes, borderlines lie. I’m not claiming that Amber is a completely rational person; quite the contrary. My issue is that I haven’t seen anyone who’s not a doctor talk about Johnny as anything but a victim. I mean, they’re both victims, as ASPD and BPD are manifestations of severe childhood abuse and trauma. But I don’t know if I can think of a more insidious abuse tactic than turning the whole world against someone that you’ve victimized, in order to gain compassion and sympathy from a whole bunch of people who’ve experienced so much trauma themselves that their intuition is completely broken. The only people who can look at this situation from an objective standpoint are the very few who were not victims during their childhoods. If I hear that someone has been in a relationship with an abuser, so they can speak on this from a personal experience perspective, I know their judgment and intuition are off, because, by and large, the only people who enter into relationships, and stay long enough for them to escalate to physical abuse, were victims of their parents’ during childhood. This is what inter generational trauma is all about. Thank goodness they don’t have children together. And when it comes down to me having to side with someone who has ASPD, or someone who has BPD, my sympathy is going to the latter. It’s actually quite likely that being with Johnny drove Amber even more mentally unstable than she already was. She was 25 when they met, and for someone who experienced childhood trauma, 25 can look an awful lot like 13. What kind of mentally balanced man chooses to get into a relationship with an emotionally stunted woman who’s 20 years younger than he is? Possibly a codependent, but in that case, he wouldn’t have a history of violence(Johnny does), and he also wouldn’t send texts to people, fantasizing about unaliving her. Oh, and a codependent man never would have brought a law suit to begin with, nor any negative attention to their abuser.
The only issue I have is the ridiculous idea that explicit language used in a text message to a friend being “intimidating” somehow to the person he was talking about.
You can’t intimidate someone by speaking about them privately to someone else.
This is basic logic. But trials are not about logic. Remember OJ Simpson and Casey Anthony!
Agreed. Private over-the-top texts between friends are a great way to vent. Besides, who among us hasn't wanted to stuff an ex into the trunk of a car?
@@BuzzyStreet Ex? I've told a friend that I want to stuff my current man into a trunk.
I thought some of the text were funny in the context of testing her in the old English witch tests. "Drown and burn her to see if she is a witch" is just the kind of humor my friends would have.
Looking forward to/hoping for Dr. Todd's review that includes Dr. Curry's testimony.
What’s truly remarkable is that I haven’t seen one comment in defense of Amber. Literally 100% of the comments I’ve read (and I’ve read hundreds across several videos) are supportive of Johnny. I think it’s so brave of him to fight for himself, despite all the drugs stuff coming out. She obviously didn’t think he was going to do that. This will not end well for her, she’s clearly the abuser in all of her relationships.
I don't think anyone is surprised about the drug usage. I just feel bad for Johnny.
@@anjou6497 Who's excusing what behavior? Johnny is probably a drug addict. Amber is definitely an abusive, narcissistic, psycho.
@@anjou6497 what are you talking about? Have you watched the trial? The drugs did NOT in any way make him violent or abusive. Like many drug users and addicts (including myself - in a prior life), the only person we ever become violent and abusive towards are ourselves. During the time I was on the drugs it was OTHER people who used me, gaslighted me and told me I was too “high” to remember things correctly if they had verbally or physically assaults me and I was left to question my own sanity while they continued to abuse me.
I wish the world could come to understand drug users, and the reason why they have been driven to a point of desperation so severe that the only way out is to numb everything away, rather than continuously judge, belittle, insult and demean them all as “abuse and “liars”
Justice for Johnny ❤️
@@anjou6497 Yeah, ok. And Amber? How would you describe her behavior? Let's not forget that we've all heard the recordings.
Amber was probably abusing drugs as well. JD testified that she drank every night. They had a very toxic and dysfunctional relationship due to their substance abuse issues. They're lucky their marriage ended before they killed each other.
@@anjou6497 Noooo, watch more of the trial before you comment
I was so upset when Hollywood dumped Johnny. He was treated as guilty before anything could be proven.
You have to look at the history. Johnny had along term relationship with two women who never experienced any violence from him. Amber Turd on the other hand had a history of violence. She was even arrested for it. She made these allegations because he refused to give in to her greedy demands after a short and turbulent marriage.
I mean my abusive ex was abusive to other women, but none ever turned him in-- so there is no record either 🤷🏽♀️ history on paper does not always show the true story.
So true, she did get arrested for domestic violence towards her girlfriend.
@@SoniaAlese
On the contrary other women in his life are testifying that HE WAS NOT AN ABUSER
@@SoniaAlese But did the exes also speak out publicly in favour of him like JDs exes did? His Ex wife said she was shocked at the allegations and could never imagine that from him. Mind you she had every right to be angry at him because he left her for AH.
You nailed it in your analysis.
Amber took many hours of video of Johnny at his worst, seemingly obviously to use against him once she divorced him, which appears to have been the plan from day one imho. My question is why didn’t she get pics of him attacking her? Surely whenever she felt she could make herself seem threatened, she whipped out the phone, as the cabinet incident proved. Where are the pics of him with his arm raised pre-strike? Where is there ANY evidence of him abusing her, because there is ample evidence of her abusing him. I’m looking forward to the upcoming testimony regarding being in a relationship with an abusive, gaslighting narcissist.
One last thing, he can’t make himself look any worse than Amber already has. Substance abuse is easily forgiven, but domestic assault? Never.
This! I said the same thing.
His recordings were in his defense obviously when he realized he wasn’t going to get out of it unscathed.
I thought the same. She had this planned from before the divorce. She isn't a well-known actor like Jonny Depp and wanted a chunk of his money. Your also right about not getting pictures of him attacking her. Why? Because it never happened.
omg yes!!
You nailed it. Agree 💯
@John Parker i agree 💯!!
I do not think Johnny is making himself look bad at all. I think he has a right to defend himself and it has been proven time and time again that Amber is unstable and has issues with distorting the truth this telling many lies. She is very immature. My heart is sad for her child whom will most likely be mentally or even perhaps physically damaged if she does not get help. Just my opinion on the subject. I believe Johnny will survive he has always had to. Not sure about Amber I don't think anyone will want to work with her ever again.
it will take a very long time for Johnny Depp to recover from this . . . .
He fell off the radar for years dealing w this & his absence was felt. Finding out why he was so distant & weird has been shocking & humanizing which will only benefit his career long term
She has a child!!!!
I hope who ever the father is! Takes the baby away from her so the child has a chance to be okay or better in life smh just thinking about that baby being with her 😭 just hurts. Babies are innocent in all this and more
@@tanianixzsmenchsharefort father is unknown I believe. It was a surrogate with her girlfriend.
I enjoy watching your decidedly serious and informative videos. I would add that just as all good dishes need seasoning, you pepper yours with a dash of intermittent and guaranteed spit-take-inducing zingers. In spite of the fact that my peripheral hardware may sometimes suffer from such clever interjections---say, if I'm drinking coffee or tea at the time---your brand of humor is a good start to the day. More importantly, such humor does take the edge off of otherwise depressingly serious subjects.
I think also what hurt Amber was Johnny's testimony about her resenting him wanting to spend time with his kids.
As a Narcissist they want all the attention