Our MARRIAGE In The PHILIPPINES Was A SHAM I Married A Married Woman His Story
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ก.ย. 2022
- Meet Monroe an ex policeman and Army veteran from Texas. He came to the Philippines in 2018, fell in love and got married. During their 2 year anniversary party to celebrate the marriage he found out that his"wife" was already married. It was all a sham. This is his story. Thanks for watching!
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"The whistle blower" was rewarded better than the FBI's; 😂 more power to you man!!
Monroe is a really cool gentleman, I'm glad he didn't get thrown in jail for adultery.
Real talk Monroe you are the REAL ONE!!! Your unselfishness in sharing your story for future expats (like myself) and telling the truth about the unfortunate games SOME filipinas play goes a very long way in helping men have a better understanding in what they are getting themselves into when coming to the Philippines is without bounds. Calvin as always I can't thank you enough. 40K subs is not enough for the value you bring to men's lives when they are trying to start a new life. We need more men like you to help "Passport Bros" to be educated when pursuing a relationship and understanding the culture. God Bless you both.💯
I appreciate Monroe sharing his story with us🙏🏽 This was was valuable info!
Before you get married in the Philippines, you have to complete “a Legal Capacity” with the US Embassy and then you can marry someone in the Philippines! If you were divorced in the states, the US Embassy will want a copy of the divorce decree as well!
But that’s crazy, it takes a lot of courage to tell your story! I spent a lot of time in Angeles City, and I can tell you that a lot of the women there do lie a lot. They either married or living with their boyfriend behind your back. And they still reaping the benefits from the foreigner. I’ve seen it happen a lot there! Hopefully, you will find true love one day and put the past behind you!
Not him
She was married
She should get a cenomar from nso
@@yourperineuminspector Philippine law requires all foreigners to provide a “Certificate of Legal Capacity to Contract Marriage” before filing for a marriage license. This certification affirms that there are no legal impediments to the foreigner marrying a Filipino (i.e., that the foreigner is not currently married to someone else). This document does not require notarization at the U.S. Embassy or Consular Agency in the Philippines. The Philippine Statistics Authority (PSA), pursuant to Memorandum Circular No. 2021-004
I read
No longer required from embassies as of
2021 may due to covid and difficulty obtaining at embassy
So ya save 50 bucks now
Still need it notarized at abugado
Might be 500 pesos
@@yourperineuminspector wouldnt it have been so much simpler
If you simply stated "the requirement was changed last year" ?
It's a red light district, so what do you expect?
@@SunShine_sublime more pinay working as s3x workers than total manufacturing jobs in country
Brother Monroe, we’ve all “been had” or “gamed” in some shape or fashion. Most would not have the testicles to talk about it. Thnx for sharing!!!✊🏽
Kudos to Monroe for having the courage to share his story. Probably saved many men. Given the husband was not in her life, this is an easy deception to fall for. All she had to do was be truthful.
Most guys will convince themselves their woman is different and make the same mistake. Watch! Good luck guys.
A lot of the times the husband is hiding in plain sight, acting as a cousin or brother. Because he’s in on the Con also.
@@kyshac81 correct.
@LARAC1 What? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Okay I'm dying The whistleblower blew more than a whistle hahahahah
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That’s exactly why her cousin told you brother. She wanted you for herself . Trust me 💯God bless
I say the cousin probably pull a smart o e on him. I hope he flies back to America right away, because the cousin or some one else will get him.
As soon as black en get a little money the always want to give it away to the person who just wa t their money
Wow! Kudos to Monroe for telling his story. A very unfortunate situation but lessons learned. This video will help a lot of people Calvin. Much love to Monroe for his willingness to tell his story. Hard to see the "red flags" when you are head over heels. Have to trust but verify to save yourself a tragic situation. Good stuff to grow on....
Thanks for sharing that marriage sham... That is crazy. Guys stop running to get married know the person first and stop sending money.
Great subject material.
Great interviewee.
One reason he fell for this was because divorce is legal in the US so he had no familiarity with suspecting bigamy, etc.
I know it hurt at the time but it is good to see that he can smile and laugh at it. And now is willing to share his story so others can learn
Marriage wasn't the problem, but his approach was. You need time to get to know people. Also, there's steps to find out if the female is married or not. I always tell guys, never rush into anything, with women in the Philippines. You have to learn how the game is played! Take your time!
i call bullshit! with more 57% of church, and 53% of general american marriages ending in divorce within the first five years marriage. personally I see the problem as Hypergamy, ego maniacal, self entitled, lazy, unrealistic expectations, and delusional fantasies,
He did get to know her. pay attention
@@amvet5387 if he got to know her, he would've known she was married from the start. He just didn't do his homework correctly when it came to vetting a foreign woman. You pay attention. You might learn something!
@@dbozexpat894 screw you. She hired fixers. something don't sound right though. The PI govt should of caught that.
Till this day divorce does not exist in the Philippines they are still trying to pass a new law
Yeah, such a big problem here in the Philippines. I had a similar situation with a girl a knew for 18 months. One of her family members came to me and told me things about her past that she never told me about. Spent a ton of money up to that point!. Thank God, it never got to the marriage point. That’s why you have to be so careful here! The Filipina definitely have a script they follow!
I like this guy's attitude! He's going to find what he wants and eventually be happy. Thanks for sharing!
Hell naw....ive got sooo much respect for him sharing his story. He really has helped somebody...god knows
Woo ! That's a life story that would shake me to the core ! Saying her husband is dead & having the documentation to prove it OMG. Good thing for family giving the truth out. Once she went to all that trouble to lie how could you ever trust her again ? Thanks for sharing this Monroe ! Calvin thanks for providing educational service like you do sir. Making the blind see !
Calvin thanks for that information and heads up what could happen to him if a family member wouldn't have told him where would he have be today I would say mess up and all that money down the drain for someone he loved.Sorry for him
@@natechandler3500 Yes it sounded like he spent some money helping her get her SHEET together only to find out she's lying about it all ! To tell this tale of TRUTH is sharing a potential Huge mistake. I know many guys that would let their pride hold their tongue ! I hope Monroe has found somebody he can trust now.
I learned many years ago to assume a woman is still married until I see a legit legal document to the contrary. It took real courage for this brother to put himself out here and share this story. I’m just glad he didn’t get any serious reprisal from the husband.
In my case I took the woman’s word that she was divorced; then one day her husband called me and threatened to end her and do me serious harm. I gave him enough reasonable doubt to convince him he was barking up the wrong tree.
Fortunately, I was just seeing her casually and something just didn’t seem right. I learned that a lot of husbands won’t care who’s fault it is and will be looking to make the other man one of the departed. Fellas, get...that...CENOMAR.
It sounds like she was not the most honest person. However, she was separated and it's so hard to get divorced or get an annulment in the Philippines. The government needs to do something about that.
Much love and and respect for this brotha for sharing his story. His heart was in the right place...The moral of the story, "Trust, but verify." --Ronald Tragan
I spent thousands on my x fiance who had endless health storys and never time to go to the embassy. I met her and her family and introduced to her brother boyfriend who was 20 yrs younger. It turned out i met a sugar momma and the endless storys of problems went on for years. If someone starts asking for money before marriage foreiners are putting the cart in front of the horse and those gals will steal as much as possible.
Ex-policeman, well we know he never made detective with those nonexistent investigations skills . 😂. Just kidding, it’s all in good fun.
C’mon brothers get it together!
I want to know how many times people going to get hit over the head and we keep making the same mistakes over and over again.
These men are living in a fantasyland.
I believe to mary a individual and bring to United States not the smartest move and it's best to live over there in their country.
Yup, you're the prize in the Phils. In the US, she is young, fit and beautifully exotic and being out and about in American society will afford her multiple opportunities to "upgrade" her situation
I'm very glad that didn't scour him. I'm happy that he made it through that situation. That he still has a good attitude
Hey brother! Thank you for sharing your story! I am in Houston also, 9 months till I move to the Philippines for good! I retired from the Army a few years ago. Good luck to you.
I salute Monroe for coming out with his story. Hopefully he will find a lady that loves him and truly wants to be with him. He's
testimony is an eye opener for all men going oversees about these scamming women. There are users and scammers everywhere including the States too.
Please stay in touch with the guy that makes the tape art. I suspect he'll have the same story
“She blew more than a whistle” 🤣Calvin lol 😅 sick wit it. 😈
Yep, this is man talk. I like seeing this real men sharing real circumstances and real feelings. You all put it all out that and I give you props for that.
Monroe, you are a good person. You are lucky that a cousin helped you out like that. She could have carried that story out a long, long time. Maybe she had a boyfriend behind your back there in the Philippines. Lesson learned, knowledge is power. Look ahead and live your best life! 👍👊
Calvin, this was a great interview. Monroe was so candid with his words. He takes life's hurdles in stride. Great video!
If she lives in Angeles, that's alreay enough of a red flag for me!
If an obviously intelligent guy with life experience and, maturity can be "had" by a so called "simple Filipina", what do you think she could do to a thirsty, desperate, half-wit? It just goes to show you that under the right circumstances anybody can be "taken to the cleaners". She must have really put something on him. Must have hit him with the full engine overhaul, not just a tune up. I bet she's a great mechanic"!
I thought no divorce or allotment, if husband still around u can b in big trouble even long time in jail, she can blackmail u for tons of money, best thing to do is be real to her and get the hell out of there
Calvin is out here saving lives
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I dated a married woman for 4 years. It was ok, i sent her money for 5 years went there 2x a year to see her. But never again, haha . I still go out with single moms though.
I recently made contact with a Filipina off of the dating site. After two weeks she asked me for my personal information. I told her this sounds like a scam to me. Then I blocked her. She has a TH-cam channel. You would think she would be careful. I can post some crazy things on her channel. I am not that type of person that brings on negative energy.
The more I learn the more I realize how much I don’t . You are helping out the smart men. there are some will just keep moving forward getting knocked upside the head. 😂
What personal information did she ask for?
This guy is hilarious. Great sense of humor. Great ability to share a story and keep it in perspective.
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I went the extra mile. I did buy land and built a house, 2.5 million pesos later, her and her family were living high on the hog on my dime. I found out, i had a filipino friend go spy on her and he came back and told me what was up. I had her visit me in Angeles, we talked and now her family left, she has no money and text me she needs help. I said no thank you. blocked her from all my social media.
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This is a outstanding interview! I wish you could do more real situations of issues not just all the beauty stuff but both are good nice interview
A+ content Calvin. Thanks for sharing Monroe, you helped someone and good luck for the future. Life is for living!
I know your guest said there were no red flags BUT, the way he explained the pre-marriage Gov paperwork and the fact they didn't have to go to pre-marriage classes RAISED a BIG flag with me. Something smelled fishy like she was cooking dry fish to get to the alter! LOL
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Congrats to you brotha Monroe for keeping it together, you’re a good man for not letting that experience brand you for life. Just keep being yourself but pay more attention to the red flags
A certificate of Marriage from NSO will tell you if your lady is married or not. A compulsory requirement One must obtain before marriage gets approved.
I don't understand why and how she got away with this certificate? And how Monroe did not check the certificate himself to double check her status.
Getting a Fixer is a huge red flag.
Great Video Calvin. This Guy is very courageous and kind to share his story . Thank you Brother
I take my hat off to you Man... Having the courage to admit the mistakes for the sake of everyone viewing so they can learn from your experience. 👏
Thanks for giving all of us potential suckers headed for the Philippines a heads up.. I think that would be a great title to a song, "I married a woman that was already married"..😎🤗👍👌
I admire your courage brother and thanks for helping and educating the brothers.
Bravo as well Man for making videos that actually help people instead of just being like a tourist hotspot film... Love these videos! 👍
Your guest had a great story. Your interviewing skills are spot on brotherman.
Wow! I'm sorry to hear about that for you brother. It's too bad people can be so devious but I'm happy for you that you seem to be over it for the most part. Thank you for sharing with us this most delicate situation that you've gone thru. Very good one here Cali Cal and thank you for all that you do for us bro...
Brother Calvin thanks for always bringing the truth. To the gentleman thank you for sharing your story. Most men don’t have the guts to open up.
Human beings will go to any lengths when they are in survival mode.
Always be safe and stay healthy.
Hilarity ensues! 🤣. “Man that’s cold blooded!” That 💩 is hilarious!
Bro Calvin,
Thanks to the both of you for sharing. Very helpful and informative 👍 .
Very educational Calvin, if people don't learn to take your time and properly vett these women, the same way you should with American women and any other women from this one, you can't blame no one but yourself
Hey Calvin, thanks for these type of vidoes, they are very informative, funny and interesting at the same time. Better than watching alot of fake nonsense on tv these days. Keep up the good work, you're doing a good service for us guys.
Glad you like them!
Meeting women online is just too dangerous. Get in the country and meet people face to face.
Wow! Some of these Houston women will mess over you too. It's tough dating these days.....Be careful.......
Wow thanks Guys this is great information!
Monroe you seem to be a good person that learned a valuable lesson. Just be careful going forward and watch your money and You will find someone.
I've gotten so much valuable info from your channel Calvin as I prepare for my first visit in Dec. God bless Monroe and glad he bounced back and is in a better place now. 1. I'm staying off the dating apps and would like to meet a Filipina boots on the ground raw and in person. 2. AS per OG Fred's suggestion on your panel I bought a mobile Sapphire WiFi device. 3. I have zero intention on getting married but would like a live-in. 4. I am not bringing her back to the states, I will live in her country. 4. Go slow and pace myself and let thinks happen organically to avoid costly mistakes. Great interview Calvin, I've never seen you crack up so much before.
Great interview Calvin , 👍
I totally understand where you're coming from. Something happens when you fall in love with a Filipina it's not like any other. That's why I had to take a step back and clear my mind because yeah.. well I appreciate this video
My homeboy from Houston TX... Took alot to admit this.... My hats off to you, thanks for sharing this with us...
Calvin: "Did you bring a suit?"...............lol
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Great video Calvin. Monroe, thanks for your testimony!!
Batten down the hatches brother sounds like a storm is coming your way.
@@calroach1 luckily the last 3 typhoons in the past 3 weeks have missed us.
I appreciate the brotha sharing his story ... and now I I know about the cinemar ... great video
Cenomar
Definitely not the worst story I’ve heard about the women over there, almost sounds like it had the possibility of being saved but he just didn’t want it.
He's a good dude. Thank you very much for sharing this Calvin and thank Monroe in our stead.
My girl is from Northern Mindinao near Dumaguete. 👀👀
Awesome Video!
Most Filapino girls over 23 are married and its very difficult getting divorced. Of course the ladies will lie thru their teeth when an ATM rolls in to town. Keeping it real
Great interview Calvin . Thanks to Monroe for sharing his story candidly! 😂 😂 too funny , he got with the whistleblower .
A fixer is always a red flag. At least his chances of an annulment is pretty good otherwise he’s stuck with her for life. Best of luck moving forward, Monroe; at least lesson learned.
US Citizen CENOMAR equivalent = Legal Capacity to Contract Marriage, obtained from Manila US Embassy
Thanks for mentioning this I couldn't think of it for nothing.
Man there’s nothing worse then a sneaky b1tsk.
Keep Your Life Simple 👉Find Them, Fuck Them, Forget About Them‼‼
Good advice
Great topic semper Fi from New Orleans
Cowboys just beat my Bengals. I’m dead inside Great interview Bud
The Bengals will finish strong. My Cowboys needed a win!
Sir Calvin,this is lesson to learn of all foreigners, don't decide it quickly when it comes marrying...think it wisely...the first thing to do is to having a CENOMAR (certificate of no marriage) proving that woman is not married...For his bad experienced I am so sad to hear the tesmony..thank you for the great interview to him...I hope and I pray that man, can find a best woman in God's time...More power in your channel sir Calvin and God bless you and your families..
It's not funny but it's funny!😅
Appreciate sharing the story and just know this is happening for a reason and there is someone special waiting for you. Go fishing and get you a good one…. Find your sunshine…
Great video.
Respect and best wishes Monroe.
You have a ripper laugh Calvin!!
Informative video
We all should check for the certificate of none marriage, I met a lot of women from black men/Asian women groups
You are right I have been talking to a Filipina woman and I told her to get a CENOMAR before I come there to get to know her and she did get it and she send me a picture of it with her name on it and it being stamped.
Tell your man I wish him the best of luck Tell Lucky Dog he will Rise Again I can tell he is a good man God bless you both
GREAT INTERVIEW CAL...
Monroe your the true winner you a good guy good things coming your way God bless you always from California
GREAT VIDEO
This was a good interview.
That’s why she didn’t have her parents at the wedding….she really played him…oh well I hope he finds true love in the Philippines….
A lesson to be learned, get the CENOMAR first before anything.
Yeah that’s what I told the woman that I’m talking to I told her to get a CENOMAR before we get to know each other better and she did and took a picture of it and got it stamped
Thanks. Now I know what I need to ask my Filipina.
hey Calvin thanks for this content.
11:00 The Whistle blower? "Oh She blew more than a Whistle." 😆🤣🤣
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Thank both of youll, the Real Nitty Gritty , a Hard Lesson, But its Worth more than money.
God Bless You And Your Wonderful Family, ill Sea Youll in October after this spat with the sickness in our Family
God Bless All Of The Viewers & Subscribers, Brother Calvin is lighting the touch for us to find our way in our Journey with LOVE that will be SO worth it once we have it.
Robert Thomas Houston Texas
Annulments are very expensive and time consuming
The cousin was jealous. That's why she ratted her cousin (wife) out. It was over a year later before she spilled the beans. The cousin wanted him. They are fighting over lifestyle changes. And homeboy dated the cousin too. Dang! That was a mistake too.
Well good for Monroe, he had this big obstacle come his way through no fault of his own and he got over it and got a new honey!
The best part of the story is Monroe having the courage and strength to break up with her the second he found out. I bet the majority of dudes would have stayed in the relationship and pursued an annulment. Vjay is the most powerful drug.
I'm glad you're starting to inform these non travelers that everything in the Philippines 🇵🇭 isn't prefect. Don't get me wrong I love the Philippines but everything needs to be planned out before u decide to live there. A lot of old sickly foreigners follow their Philippina partner to move in the jungle far away from hospitals, just to be close to their families. Calvin I watches all of you guys TH-cam blogs. Maybe you should let guys know that they can't own land or a business in the Philippines. Keep up the good work 👏.
With no guarantee of a positive outcome, after 3 years of courtroom drama, and the risk of breaching laws and being sued if you continue the relationship in, the interim wait period, before an annulment.
Calvin cracking up but saying it's not funny!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣