Makes sense. A pension represents security. They won't tell you that's what makes you the one they want, but for the most part it is. I'm fine with that but what I do expect is to be treated well and while we're together I best be the only one she's sleeping with.
Completely agreed with you, 60s and over is the retirement age and SS benefits. They know exactly it's not about love, if you are young educated with good income you don't go all they way to the Philippines to pickup young girls.
@@prepperjonpnw6482 True, but not without a STEM education they won't. Those superficial days are long gone thinking their son or daughter will become an actor/actress, model, Miss Philippines, etc. The University you attend like De La Salle University have a strong network of alumni with good paying corporate and government jobs that only hire graduates from the same university. Favoritism, nepotism, discrimination? Yes, but that is how the Philippines has always been. Age, gender, height, lighter skin and how attractive a Filipino looks have always been factors associated in the Philippine hiring process, but the past 10 years have put education, qualifications, experience and formal proper speaking skills ahead of the superficial requirements.
I was saying that long time ago. All these retired vloggers talking about the love. Yea right. Love starts when the wallet is thick. Not a rocket science. Good video man.
And he'll croack soon. Plus I suppose they stray a lot less than younger dudes. Yeah I get the "transaction" aspect of relationships. But there are degrees and nuances in life, and it seems to me this becomes a little too much purely "transactional". But... I might be OK with it when over 60!
My 35 yo beautiful filipina was looking for a foreigner over 60 when she found me. She said she preferred that age because we are more settled down and less likely to cheat. That's the most important thing for her.
Lol, you mean more likely to die fast and they take over your assets.. heard that from plenty of filipina. Learn the language but dont tell anyone. You'll hear the truth when they think u dont understand
Yup so true, most Filipinas love to date older men because they like to settle down. My Filipina lady employer was 22 when she met her husband, 56 year old and they are still together strong with their 2 grown up children..
Watching from Zamboanga City. US citizen and I am 60. I am taken and my girl is in her 40's but it is true if you are older and youthful, you have opportunities with younger ladies. I would not suggest any woman that is too young. You want to have things in common. There are many available ladies in their 30's and 40's who are still very attractive.
Thanks for shedding some light on this topic. I'm 43 and was in a Filipina dating group on Facebook and noticed that all the guys over 60 got the most attention.
Older men with a pension equates to a steady income which equates to stability. Doesn't quite work here in the U.S. since most women have a career of their own so they can be very picky about the men they date or marry. They basically don't need us here in the U.S. I hate to say.
Maybe the older guys just take their time more to find the hidden gems...younger men are more impatient...Plus the pensions baby!!!! I never lead with my pensions in conversation...Filipinas usually ask up front what you do for a living so they don't waste their time. Bottom line is they want long term security for their immediate and extended family. A guy who lives paycheck to paycheck cant provide that. Semper Fi
Well as i observe mostly filipina woman prepare older men cuz older men less cheater and they more caring.. Lots filipino young men are cheater and can't be trusted thats why also lots filipina woman prepare older men especially in foreigner.
Your absolutely correct! I’m 64 and that seems right for the picking so to speak. Living here in Manila that age seems very desirable especially if the woman has a child regardless of age..
Could it actually be love? Dude you really are just on one way of thinking. I came here to live in the Philippines. I can outwork any younger man. I traveled to two different islands and found a beautiful woman that loves me more than I could ever believe. And when I say travel I mean I hitchhiked and bought a motorcycle and drove it a long way. Listen to me you can't lump everything as old and young. It's called love!!!
Agreed..some of these beauties know what gratitude is and know how to express it. That is my actual experience. Just wish it were that simple..But with age gap there can be some added components..You think you been tested..hold onto your twilight zone hat...cause she's just getting started..I had to back the relationship off a couple notches due to crazy level testing. And gaslighting..with a near Narcissist approach to improvement.. But with the added factor I'm seeing others, things moving forward again..fiance visa..gets her a marriage w divorce. Much less frightening.. Her parents a horrific example of what marriage actually is..in a loveless marriage. Which is no marriage at all. Just two stubborn prideful people harboring resentment and contempt..
Much appreciated Calvin I"m currently in LDR USA/Hong Kong Filipina I'm 67 she is 40 a truly blessed relationship thanks for talking about this subject!
Hello Calvin, beautiful photo of Marilyn and Boobie. I always kind of wondered about that subject as I am definitely a realist and would never attempt to delude myself. I appreciate your “Boots On the Ground” perspective on this subject. It only makes sense that the women would talk among themselves about their desires in a mate, the same way that we do. Thanks Brother.
Makes complete sense. SECURITY & STABILITY are the motivating factors. You listed all the relevent reasons why. My personal preference is for a filipina 40+ and from what I've seen there are some good looking ladies in that age bracket. Maybe I'd go a little younger gor a lady from the province. I don't feel the need to have a drop dead gorgeous trophy wife/partner to impress myself or anybody else. I have a strategy in the same way the filipinas do.I know there's a game and I know how I'd like to play it. It's said women over 40 get far less attention. The reality is that as we get older there may well be an element of care giving required. No matter how fit active and healthy you are age and gravity hits us eventually! I married a woman with a daughter and we had nore kids. I worked my nuts off to give us a great life. While I did that for 15 years she ended up screwing her first husband who appeared on the scene after being absent for 13 years. He left her his, 4 year old daughter and a shit load of debt she had to deal with. We separated he screwed her over a second time and did a disappearing act. She suggested we try again I said 'let's not' and we divorced. So fidelity is important to me something I won't compromise on. I don't want to be ignoring the obvious not asking too many questions. Let's be honest in one form or another all relationships are transactional it's not always about money but it is about getting what we want. It often involves compromise. The one thing I won't compromise on is cheating! I won't do it and I won't tolerate it. Quite how that works out in any relationship I form in the future remains to be seen.
I married a 44 y/o Filipina widow thirteen years ago. She was beautiful then and now. Her two boys both finished college and have nice wives and jobs. There is an amazing group of women to choose from and it is up to the man to choose one who is faithful, moral and stable. One recommendation I give is to look at the woman's mother!
I really enjoy your outro message to help somebody at the end of the video. Your an amazing man, not a lot of people in America think like that anymore.
Calvin, knowledge and truth is power. You really in my opinion summed it up correctly. Many Americans and other foreigners making over $1,000 American dollars or 55,000 pesos or more per month pension retirement. They are usually age 60 and older. Many Filipina women in today's society have changed and understand, they need their comfort needs met. Dealing with young American men who are not retired will not accomplish this. Of course many think dealing with young and older Filipino dudes are not happening neither due to economics. If a foreigner man cannot afford to stay in the Philippines like most young dudes then, they (Filipina females) think they are wasting their time. Now the young Americans that we know that can stay in the Philippines are usually retired military. Thanks for this straight forward information Calvin. Wishing you and family well in the paradise of the Philippines.
@@calroach1 Thanks Calvin brother, enjoying what left of summer here. Eye opener of a great truthful video. I hope people understand your knowledge and observations which is on point. I know I did.
If you ask a normal Filipina (not goldigger) would you rather be with an old guy (40 years older than you) and live in the Philippines with $1,000 or $1,500 a month pension. Or fall in love with a young foreigner who will bring you to his country and you can have a family together (have kids) and work together to buy a house. They will easily choose the younger foreigner.
Yeah they all love a pension, who wouldn't? But what can she bring to my table...besides a cute face. Anyways good vlog Calvin. You brought up some good points along with some triggers.
I worry about that once I get there. I'll try to figure out what country that l wants to live in. Calvin you have a great selling point. the dollar is stronger than the peso. the DR and Brazil is in the running. l'm more interesting in housing. that's why I will visit the Philippines 🇵🇭 first.
Having visited both extensively and choosing Philippines. Cost of living and English spoken included with the PESO exchange was a portion in my decision. The people of the Philippines win hands down. God bless your journey and enjoy
Young guys have no money?! This isn't the 20th century any longer. With the emergence of the Internet, a ton of young people have made huge sums of money. Wake up.
I personally love older men because they know how to treat good Filipina women. Most of them are spiritually,mentally and emotionally matured.They are more likely to be loyal and stable in most aspects. And they less likely to cheat too. Thus, I married to my only husband who is 13 years older than I am. Moreover, he is loyal,great provider and obtain all the maturities mentioned above. Age truly matters in this aspect. 😇😁
Many Filipinas are delusional. Most of foreigners who go to a foreign country to look for younger women is because they are failures in relationships wherever they came from and also for the naive young women who thinks foreigners are better men in terms of being a husband and father. It is like saying their fathers, brothers, uncles and grandfathers are inferior to other men from other countries. For all those naive women go online and find some of the naive filipinas and other asian women who have come here to america to end up dead instead.
13 to 15 years gap is fine, even 20 years gap is fine if he looks younger. But 40 or 50 is too much, like a 65 with a 20, he can easily pass as her grandfather. You know right there she is a goldigger.
I'm renting a house in Lapu2x with my gf/wife. I love it here. From California so you know I mean. I don't care if she wants my pensions. She takes better care of me than any other woman in my life. She is a keeper for me.
Men in their 50s and 60s often have different goals. Some seek women who are adults 40-50 of age and company in their older days. They don`t have to bring themself shame since they will be accepted by family and children they have from previous relationships. Others like me are looking for younger girls and in my case. I took the time to find the most beautiful young woman out there before I did a reality check to see if she had the qualities I was looking for. 10 years later, I know I made a perfect choice. We love each other but have never been in love and those who think that young ladies fall in love with someone 30-40 years older can forget it, they don`t. 🙂.
@@calo2006 This means we love each other and respect each other. We have not been in love, I hope you understand now. I don't believe much in falling in love when you get older, but I do believe in love.
@@skaidimusic That’s not been in love means, that’s been friends, either been in the friend zone (if there is not sex) or been friends with benefits (if there is sex involve)….. but hell NO, that’s not been in LOVE. You even said it that you don’t believe in been in love at your age. Btw you can love your friends. And also there is nothing wrong with having a friend with benefits or an open relationship, I had it for decades, and even thought I don’t have that anymore, all my exes and I we are in good terms and we never hurt eachother while we had that type of relationship, since we both knew from the beginning where we stand, and that we were both open to see anybody and leave at anytime. When there is an understanding you can last years on this type of relationship. Of course there are rules, that no one can fall in love with the other one, if you see someone falling in love that’s when that relationship needs to end. I had many of them that only lasted 1 to afew months because they will start having feelings for me. It was all good at the end, none of them hate me because they understood from the beginning that I wasn’t looking for a serious relationship at that time.
@@skaidimusic Yeah, my case is different. Because the age gap was less than 15 years (I’m still early 40s right now). And also my case is different because all my open relationships not only happened in Philippines, many of them also happened in Canada.
I really like your videos. I will be there in Naga city Cebu in February I'm worried about getting my camera stolen what type of camera rig do you have everybody tells me I have to be careful not to get my camera stolen
Someone will always have a bigger pension than you, therefore if any girls over there get with you because of your pension that means she is open to anything as long as the next guy's pension is bigger than yours
The closer a foreigner is to death, the more attractive he becomes to the Pinay. If you want proof of this, just look at the women's profiles on FilipinoCupid. Many young & middle-aged Pinays state in their profiles that they are looking for men up to 80 & 90 years of age! WTF ? Now seriously folks: what the heck would ANY honest able-bodied woman want with an 80 year old foreign man ? Except for a cash payout upon his death ? Come on fellas: let's stay focused here !
I'm amazed at the number of sarcastic and negative sentiments directed at Filipinas in the comments section of this video. These comments appear to shade Filipinas for doing the exact same thing women do all around the world! In the west, the game is just dressed up in fancier clothing. Women here in the U.S. (with the exception of the extremely low-hanging fruit) will measure a man by a number of factors before committing to him. ALL those factors translate into "How financially secure will I be if I choose this man?" But rather than asking directly, "How much money you got or make?" western women look at your education, occupation, car, house/apartment, clothes, etc. for the indicators they will use to size you up financially. For many, if they see an opportunity to land a more affluent man, they will drop you like a hot rock during the dating process. So what's the big deal if Filipinas use some sort of financial measuring tools to help her determine if the foreigner will be a good fit for her? After the Civil War there was the phenomenom of the "Civil War Child Bride." This term was used to describe young women who married old Civil War veterans who had pensions. Given the severe economics of the time, the trade-off (mutual exchange) between the vet and the young bride was "For being with me and taking care of me in my older years, I will make you the beneficiary of my pension." The last Civil War pension brides/children from these arrangements did not die out until the early 2000s. So what's the difference? Why the anger? Is it because the women who stand to benefit today are Filipinas?....And why again exactly are you over there in the Philippeans? TO GET THE BEST DEAL IN LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS YOU CAN CRAFT! So shut up with the negative noise toward poor women who just want a better life, just like you! The playing field may have changed, but the rules are the same and they're universal!
Makes sense I got pension from military I’m only 42 but most of my friends are retired now. And a few went to the Philly Willy. I’ll be there in may. Selling all my stuff now and making preparations. Thanks for the good content. I enjoy the content from ex military bloggers. No bullshit.
Yeeeess, these Filipinos girls are clever 😁🤪 .... taking married a man old 60+++ she can be widowed soon with house, money 💰 car and passport 🤪😁 They know what they are doing .... haha
As a 38 year old I’m not sure I agree lol. Granted I’m white, looks young for my age, have decent money, have my own interesting business (photography and video and drones) I’m amazed at how beautiful some of these girls are and constantly messaging me. I think it depends on what she wants or if she is genuine or not. If she wants to come to america she won’t care what you’re she. Or if you want to travel vlog there and she would like that too maybe she wants someone younger. There’s still an age gap but less of one
"This isn't written in stone and it's not the Bible on relationships." I clearly said that but you probably just read the title and didn't watch the video.
@dopey ... then u only a pum pum once per week. Other days u look at it and cry. Call Biden and ask for an increase to match GAS prices that's over 100% since he won the 2020 elections. LOL just kidding
Because we older guys, are settled, we are who we are, and we respect good people who are honorable. We're not likely to beat a woman, mistreat her, or take her for granted. We'll appreciate and care for them, and they are in truth, simply returning the favor.
Wow 😳 thanks. I'm 59 and looking to start a new chapter in life but if its a pension that gives me a chance to have a good relationship. Then it sounds like I'm buying my way in, yes I understand it is probably the same every where. My age range is 32 - 48 but even in this range doesn't mean 100% compatibility. Some women how are much younger may have acquired life skills at a early age because of close family relationships. A woman's ability to turn a house into a home is a good place to start.
I lived there for 4 years back in the early to late 90s. I worked with some cool people that are friends even today. Played basketball all of the time. Loved the food there and coconut water. I will tell anyone going to the Philippines, be careful not everyone is for you. It's okay for the most part. Best of luck to all considering moving over and settling down. I was often mistaken for a PBA basketball player because of my skin colour and height.
Alex sent me. New Sub! The information in this vlog is GOLD 🥇. Can I ask for your perspective? Not over 60, I am a 51 year old American. No pension, but I have an excessively high income/savings (and assets), and I can chose to live anywhere in the world. I am very nice/good to my partner. Would this be on the list of the twenty something Filipina stunners?
So, how do you feel about the Filipina who wants to leave her life partner for someone who has a pension? Seems like That's no different from a typical gold digger.
The reason why there are a lot of Filipinas available to foreigners is that local guys do not compete with foreigners in this particular group of women. Local guys have different preferences and tastes than foreigners regarding women - becoming good news for foreign older men.
Calvin, thank you for your perspective on what you see with your "boots on the ground " about older men with a few thousand dollars a month pension or SSI and the women who are attracted to them. At 69 and in reasonable good shape I'm looking forward to my next trip to the Philippines. TY
My Philippine wife is 34- i’m 69. We married 9 years ago in the Philippines. We were engaged for 1 year. We have a 6 year old daughter born in the USA. My wife is beautiful and we’re still as happy today as when we met !!! She is beautiful inside and out . A big heart and a wonderful mother ! We are both blessed ! I help her family all through these years and I feel good about helping others . Especially the children ! And yes, I’m in great shape and a good lover ❤️
Beauty aside, what's the best way to meet them? You know best. Do you go online first and then go there, or do you go there and then go online or to the malls, etc.? While there are no guarantees, there are better ways to go about it. If anyone knows, it's you. A video with your best and practical advice would be most helpful. Thanks much.
will a young godess be with a healthy man over 60 if the man has very small pension and no savings in the bank and hes just barely living month to month on a small pension ..or does the philipina godess choose only a healthy man over 60 that has a big bank roll .........in other words is she there for love or the spoils money can buy
Come'on, you know the answer to your own question. You look for goddess first. Goddess looks for security first. Love, for the both of you, develops over time.
Calvin, Young childless Filipinas 18-20’s date for love not money. Most dream of finding that young handsome “forever love” pinoy to start their own Filipino family with. Most young pinay don’t even know what a pension is. They stay busy chatting young handsome pinoys on fb. They are also willing to use their youth energy to work to support their family and pinoy bf/husband Single moms, ofw’s, divorce women, older women are usually in need. They have been around the block already. They most likely already experienced their first love, child birth and marriage so they will have a different mindset than a young childless pinay. They will certainly entertain the idea of a man that offer “ stability and security “ from a pension. This category of women are looking for and eager to marry an old foreign rich by Filipino standards man that can afford big ticket items…..hectares of land, house and business opportunities.
So you've never seen the dating service companies that are FULL of 18-20's models looking to meet in person, then date and marry foreigners of any age?
Makes sense. A pension represents security. They won't tell you that's what makes you the one they want, but for the most part it is. I'm fine with that but what I do expect is to be treated well and while we're together I best be the only one she's sleeping with.
Completely agreed with you, 60s and over is the retirement age and SS benefits. They know exactly it's not about love, if you are young educated with good income you don't go all they way to the Philippines to pickup young girls.
@@prepperjonpnw6482 True, but not without a STEM education they won't. Those superficial days are long gone thinking their son or daughter will become an actor/actress, model, Miss Philippines, etc. The University you attend like De La Salle University have a strong network of alumni with good paying corporate and government jobs that only hire graduates from the same university. Favoritism, nepotism, discrimination? Yes, but that is how the Philippines has always been. Age, gender, height, lighter skin and how attractive a Filipino looks have always been factors associated in the Philippine hiring process, but the past 10 years have put education, qualifications, experience and formal proper speaking skills ahead of the superficial requirements.
There's always a quid pro quo.
Relationships have always been transactional. If both parties fulfil their part it can work out well.
60 year old men still mate guarding. Lol….
Probably because most men over 60 are impotent so therefore their dick can't hurt them during sex.
I was saying that long time ago. All these retired vloggers talking about the love. Yea right. Love starts when the wallet is thick. Not a rocket science. Good video man.
Not at all
Haha it's funny if these old guys really think a young filipina loves them 😄 they love the wallet, they are just walking ATMS for them
Even you don't have wallet thick, you can starts love to Filipina
Most Filipina they want only love and respect each other and honest
@@doloresbaroa4787 LOL, don't forget about the family wanting support
@@cash1365 yeah I know that
But it's your choice if you support the family
Filipinas want older foreigners because they can extract more money from him, its not about love, its about money money money.
And he'll croack soon. Plus I suppose they stray a lot less than younger dudes. Yeah I get the "transaction" aspect of relationships. But there are degrees and nuances in life, and it seems to me this becomes a little too much purely "transactional". But... I might be OK with it when over 60!
How does that differ from most women all over the world? Women look for security,I thought most men were aware of that.
Please do not annoy us with the truth lol
Walking ATMs
No Money, No Honey😂😂😂
My 35 yo beautiful filipina was looking for a foreigner over 60 when she found me. She said she preferred that age because we are more settled down and less likely to cheat. That's the most important thing for her.
Lol, you mean more likely to die fast and they take over your assets.. heard that from plenty of filipina. Learn the language but dont tell anyone. You'll hear the truth when they think u dont understand
Yup so true, most Filipinas love to date older men because they like to settle down. My Filipina lady employer was 22 when she met her husband, 56 year old and they are still together strong with their 2 grown up children..
Most of them cheat on those older men.
Watching from Zamboanga City. US citizen and I am 60. I am taken and my girl is in her 40's but it is true if you are older and youthful, you have opportunities with younger ladies. I would not suggest any woman that is too young. You want to have things in common. There are many available ladies in their 30's and 40's who are still very attractive.
Amen to that..the younger they are the more you have to worry bout them stepping out.
If your over 60 and broken down and they still want you something is up!
Most older men are more financially stable.
Well said
And don't require "Boom Boom" daily!
Its called financial security.
The correct title is: The Prettiest Women In The Philippines Prefer Foreign Men Over 60 with LOTS of Money!
Thanks for shedding some light on this topic. I'm 43 and was in a Filipina dating group on Facebook and noticed that all the guys over 60 got the most attention.
@@ericpowell4350 quicker return you mean ;)
@@MrJoe1199 she's counting the days to collect.
That's because most 60 up they are very responsible and they do very well😁
@@ericpowell4350 So damn true, and so well stated.
There been targeted for the pension
Older men with a pension equates to a steady income which equates to stability. Doesn't quite work here in the U.S. since most women have a career of their own so they can be very picky about the men they date or marry. They basically don't need us here in the U.S. I hate to say.
This is closer to the truth than most will acknowledge.
The American Family is being ruined. The Government, Feminism, and crazee are stacked against Manhood.
I have NO problem with a Filipina wanting me for what I bring to the TABLE but since they are a dime a dozen ... what does she BRING to the table?
E X A C T L Y‼️
what they prefer is MONEY!
As they should.
They like elderly because you will be gone soon - and they will get the house.
Maybe the older guys just take their time more to find the hidden gems...younger men are more impatient...Plus the pensions baby!!!! I never lead with my pensions in conversation...Filipinas usually ask up front what you do for a living so they don't waste their time. Bottom line is they want long term security for their immediate and extended family. A guy who lives paycheck to paycheck cant provide that. Semper Fi
Lol. Come on Calvin. You are talking about a specific group of women. You can’t throw a blanket statement like that.
Well as i observe mostly filipina woman prepare older men cuz older men less cheater and they more caring.. Lots filipino young men are cheater and can't be trusted thats why also lots filipina woman prepare older men especially in foreigner.
I do not know if this is true, but in my case i am 62 and my Lady Chai is 45 and very beautiful and sexy. LMAO
We also have a Two (2) year old
Your absolutely correct! I’m 64 and that seems right for the picking so to speak. Living here in Manila that age seems very desirable especially if the woman has a child regardless of age..
I too am 64 years young. I cannot wait until the summer of 2023! 👍🏿
What’s Crackin’ Calvin… shout out from California USA 🇺🇸
Mr. Cal you must be reading my mind with the right information you give. Thank you Sir.
Could it actually be love? Dude you really are just on one way of thinking. I came here to live in the Philippines. I can outwork any younger man. I traveled to two different islands and found a beautiful woman that loves me more than I could ever believe. And when I say travel I mean I hitchhiked and bought a motorcycle and drove it a long way. Listen to me you can't lump everything as old and young. It's called love!!!
Sometimes it is love. It sure feels like it. Of course it's not blind love. Or blind trust that keeps you with her.
NOT SO.
Agreed..some of these beauties know what gratitude is and know how to express it. That is my actual experience. Just wish it were that simple..But with age gap there can be some added components..You think you been tested..hold onto your twilight zone hat...cause she's just getting started..I had to back the relationship off a couple notches due to crazy level testing. And gaslighting..with a near Narcissist approach to improvement.. But with the added factor I'm seeing others, things moving forward again..fiance visa..gets her a marriage w divorce. Much less frightening..
Her parents a horrific example of what marriage actually is..in a loveless marriage. Which is no marriage at all. Just two stubborn prideful people harboring resentment and contempt..
Much appreciated Calvin I"m currently in LDR USA/Hong Kong Filipina I'm 67 she is 40 a truly blessed relationship thanks for talking about this subject!
congrats
Hello Calvin, beautiful photo of Marilyn and Boobie. I always kind of wondered about that subject as I am definitely a realist and would never attempt to delude myself. I appreciate your “Boots On the Ground” perspective on this subject. It only makes sense that the women would talk among themselves about their desires in a mate, the same way that we do. Thanks Brother.
Thanks for this great information for strong men👍🏽
Makes complete sense.
SECURITY & STABILITY are the motivating factors.
You listed all the relevent reasons why.
My personal preference is for a filipina 40+ and from what I've seen there are some good looking ladies in that age bracket. Maybe I'd go a little younger gor a lady from the province.
I don't feel the need to have a drop dead gorgeous trophy wife/partner to impress myself or anybody else.
I have a strategy in the same way the filipinas do.I know there's a game and I know how I'd like to play it.
It's said women over 40 get far less attention. The reality is that as we get older there may well be an element of care giving required. No matter how fit active and healthy you are age and gravity hits us eventually!
I married a woman with a daughter and we had nore kids. I worked my nuts off to give us a great life. While I did that for 15 years she ended up screwing her first husband who appeared on the scene after being absent for 13 years. He left her his, 4 year old daughter and a shit load of debt she had to deal with.
We separated he screwed her over a second time and did a disappearing act. She suggested we try again I said 'let's not' and we divorced.
So fidelity is important to me something I won't compromise on. I don't want to be ignoring the obvious not asking too many questions.
Let's be honest in one form or another all relationships are transactional it's not always about money but it is about getting what we want.
It often involves compromise.
The one thing I won't compromise on is cheating! I won't do it and I won't tolerate it. Quite how that works out in any relationship I form in the future remains to be seen.
Wow
Agree with not wanting the trophy wife type. Good looking 40+ with good character is the top for me at 60.
Big check. Cheating and Domestic violence and any sort of abuse is truly a no..no..
I'm glad my asawa of 22 years is from the province. @ 58 I'm happy with my 41 year old wife. I don't need to find a younger one.
I married a 44 y/o Filipina widow thirteen years ago. She was beautiful then and now. Her two boys both finished college and have nice wives and jobs. There is an amazing group of women to choose from and it is up to the man to choose one who is faithful, moral and stable. One recommendation I give is to look at the woman's mother!
I really enjoy your outro message to help somebody at the end of the video. Your an amazing man, not a lot of people in America think like that anymore.
I agree. I was lucky enough to find me one! She's beautiful, sweet and caring.
Lol self explanatory!
Calvin, knowledge and truth is power. You really in my opinion summed it up correctly. Many Americans and other foreigners making over $1,000 American dollars or 55,000 pesos or more per month pension retirement. They are usually age 60 and older. Many Filipina women in today's society have changed and understand, they need their comfort needs met. Dealing with young American men who are not retired will not accomplish this. Of course many think dealing with young and older Filipino dudes are not happening neither due to economics. If a foreigner man cannot afford to stay in the Philippines like most young dudes then, they (Filipina females) think they are wasting their time. Now the young Americans that we know that can stay in the Philippines are usually retired military. Thanks for this straight forward information Calvin. Wishing you and family well in the paradise of the Philippines.
What's up brother thanks for watching today. I hope you and your family are doing well.
@@calroach1 Thanks Calvin brother, enjoying what left of summer here. Eye opener of a great truthful video. I hope people understand your knowledge and observations which is on point. I know I did.
If you ask a normal Filipina (not goldigger) would you rather be with an old guy (40 years older than you) and live in the Philippines with $1,000 or $1,500 a month pension. Or fall in love with a young foreigner who will bring you to his country and you can have a family together (have kids) and work together to buy a house. They will easily choose the younger foreigner.
Calvin your knocking on 60’s front door! 😂
Yeah they all love a pension, who wouldn't? But what can she bring to my table...besides a cute face. Anyways good vlog Calvin. You brought up some good points along with some triggers.
71 here (!✋). ANY TAKERS ? ?
Great video … I totally agree .. I’m still planning on coming to San Carlos again
They basically looking for security
I worry about that once I get there. I'll try to figure out what country that l wants to live in. Calvin you have a great selling point. the dollar is stronger than the peso. the DR and Brazil is in the running. l'm more interesting in housing. that's why I will visit the Philippines 🇵🇭 first.
Having visited both extensively and choosing Philippines. Cost of living and English spoken included with the PESO exchange was a portion in my decision. The people of the Philippines win hands down. God bless your journey and enjoy
young guys have no money, lol alot of pensions stop when you die. social security will pay widow
Young guys have no money?!
This isn't the 20th century any longer. With the emergence of the Internet, a ton of young people have made huge sums of money. Wake up.
1:42 🤣 now that’s what you call REAL TALK 😂
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I personally love older men because they know how to treat good Filipina women. Most of them are spiritually,mentally and emotionally matured.They are more likely to be loyal and stable in most aspects. And they less likely to cheat too.
Thus, I married to my only husband who is 13 years older than I am. Moreover, he is loyal,great provider and obtain all the maturities mentioned above.
Age truly matters in this aspect. 😇😁
Many Filipinas are delusional. Most of foreigners who go to a foreign country to look for younger women is because they are failures in relationships wherever they came from and also for the naive young women who thinks foreigners are better men in terms of being a husband and father. It is like saying their fathers, brothers, uncles and grandfathers are inferior to other men from other countries. For all those naive women go online and find some of the naive filipinas and other asian women who have come here to america to end up dead instead.
13 to 15 years gap is fine, even 20 years gap is fine if he looks younger.
But 40 or 50 is too much, like a 65 with a 20, he can easily pass as her grandfather.
You know right there she is a goldigger.
U r wise
@@calo2006 vic sotto
Is 35 years older than wife
Shes not like that
@@joebidet2050 that’s because he is famous, if he wasn’t famous she wouldn’t be with him. It happens in Hollywood too.
I'm renting a house in Lapu2x with my gf/wife. I love it here. From California so you know I mean. I don't care if she wants my pensions. She takes better care of me than any other woman in my life. She is a keeper for me.
Financial security is the KEY! Stability is what they are looking for. 2 week millionaire are here and gone.
Men in their 50s and 60s often have different goals. Some seek women who are adults 40-50 of age and company in their older days. They don`t have to bring themself shame since they will be accepted by family and children they have from previous relationships. Others like me are looking for younger girls and in my case. I took the time to find the most beautiful young woman out there before I did a reality check to see if she had the qualities I was looking for. 10 years later, I know I made a perfect choice. We love each other but have never been in love and those who think that young ladies fall in love with someone 30-40 years older can forget it, they don`t. 🙂.
Doesn’t make any sense, you love eachother but you never been in love, which one is it?
@@calo2006 This means we love each other and respect each other. We have not been in love, I hope you understand now. I don't believe much in falling in love when you get older, but I do believe in love.
@@skaidimusic That’s not been in love means, that’s been friends, either been in the friend zone (if there is not sex) or been friends with benefits (if there is sex involve)….. but hell NO, that’s not been in LOVE. You even said it that you don’t believe in been in love at your age.
Btw you can love your friends.
And also there is nothing wrong with having a friend with benefits or an open relationship, I had it for decades, and even thought I don’t have that anymore, all my exes and I we are in good terms and we never hurt eachother while we had that type of relationship, since we both knew from the beginning where we stand, and that we were both open to see anybody and leave at anytime. When there is an understanding you can last years on this type of relationship. Of course there are rules, that no one can fall in love with the other one, if you see someone falling in love that’s when that relationship needs to end. I had many of them that only lasted 1 to afew months because they will start having feelings for me. It was all good at the end, none of them hate me because they understood from the beginning that I wasn’t looking for a serious relationship at that time.
@@calo2006 Well..., I guess we all have different ways of seeing things.
@@skaidimusic Yeah, my case is different. Because the age gap was less than 15 years (I’m still early 40s right now). And also my case is different because all my open relationships not only happened in Philippines, many of them also happened in Canada.
I’m retiring at the end of this year. Do you have anyone that it looking for a best friend?
I'm not a matchmaker 😃
I really like your videos. I will be there in Naga city Cebu in February I'm worried about getting my camera stolen what type of camera rig do you have everybody tells me I have to be careful not to get my camera stolen
Someone will always have a bigger pension than you, therefore if any girls over there get with you because of your pension that means she is open to anything as long as the next guy's pension is bigger than yours
@@globalismoblackman not all filipina doing like that
@jr g ok
The closer a foreigner is to death, the more attractive he becomes to the Pinay. If you want proof of this, just look at the women's profiles on FilipinoCupid. Many young & middle-aged Pinays state in their profiles that they are looking for men up to 80 & 90 years of age! WTF ? Now seriously folks: what the heck would ANY honest able-bodied woman want with an 80 year old foreign man ? Except for a cash payout upon his death ? Come on fellas: let's stay focused here !
"The Prettiest Single Moms In The Philippines Prefer Foreign Men Over 60" - fixed it for you lol
And that works for me because i prefer single moms ,as long as she's a good mother.
built like a brick shit house
you do have a way with words MR SUNSHINE 😁👍🇵🇭🇺🇸🇯🇲
I notice this too bro. Spot on topic
Yes, MEAL TICKETS come in many forms!
I'm amazed at the number of sarcastic and negative sentiments directed at Filipinas in the comments section of this video. These comments appear to shade Filipinas for doing the exact same thing women do all around the world! In the west, the game is just dressed up in fancier clothing. Women here in the U.S. (with the exception of the extremely low-hanging fruit) will measure a man by a number of factors before committing to him. ALL those factors translate into "How financially secure will I be if I choose this man?" But rather than asking directly, "How much money you got or make?" western women look at your education, occupation, car, house/apartment, clothes, etc. for the indicators they will use to size you up financially. For many, if they see an opportunity to land a more affluent man, they will drop you like a hot rock during the dating process. So what's the big deal if Filipinas use some sort of financial measuring tools to help her determine if the foreigner will be a good fit for her?
After the Civil War there was the phenomenom of the "Civil War Child Bride." This term was used to describe young women who married old Civil War veterans who had pensions. Given the severe economics of the time, the trade-off (mutual exchange) between the vet and the young bride was "For being with me and taking care of me in my older years, I will make you the beneficiary of my pension." The last Civil War pension brides/children from these arrangements did not die out until the early 2000s. So what's the difference? Why the anger? Is it because the women who stand to benefit today are Filipinas?....And why again exactly are you over there in the Philippeans? TO GET THE BEST DEAL IN LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS YOU CAN CRAFT! So shut up with the negative noise toward poor women who just want a better life, just like you! The playing field may have changed, but the rules are the same and they're universal!
Makes sense I got pension from military I’m only 42 but most of my friends are retired now. And a few went to the Philly Willy. I’ll be there in may. Selling all my stuff now and making preparations. Thanks for the good content. I enjoy the content from ex military bloggers. No bullshit.
Yeeeess, these Filipinos girls are clever 😁🤪 .... taking married a man old 60+++ she can be widowed soon with house, money 💰 car and passport 🤪😁
They know what they are doing .... haha
It's because they're closer to the grave for them to get their hands on that lovely money much sooner than later , quite obvious to me . 😁
A pension is steading income they know a retired person with a pension they will have money.
As a 38 year old I’m not sure I agree lol. Granted I’m white, looks young for my age, have decent money, have my own interesting business (photography and video and drones) I’m amazed at how beautiful some of these girls are and constantly messaging me.
I think it depends on what she wants or if she is genuine or not. If she wants to come to america she won’t care what you’re she. Or if you want to travel vlog there and she would like that too maybe she wants someone younger. There’s still an age gap but less of one
I saw an old white dude that looks like he was going on 90 and he had the finest woman that I had seen in the area.
"This isn't written in stone and it's not the Bible on relationships." I clearly said that but you probably just read the title and didn't watch the video.
I'm 36 and was also able to attract a few stunners. I've also seen what Calvin is talking about, there are only so many of us younger guys over there.
What if you have no pension only SSI?
@dopey ... then u only a pum pum once per week. Other days u look at it and cry. Call Biden and ask for an increase to match GAS prices that's over 100% since he won the 2020 elections. LOL just kidding
Because we older guys, are settled, we are who we are, and we respect good people who are honorable. We're not likely to beat a woman, mistreat her, or take her for granted. We'll appreciate and care for them, and they are in truth, simply returning the favor.
The young filipinas are honest loyal faithful and respectable in the Philippines.
Not all
RICK KELLY 💞🇵🇭
RICK KELLY You're right
RICK KELLY I know many beautiful girl's in the Philippines
Checking in from Tampa, Fl Great video
Wow 😳 thanks. I'm 59 and looking to start a new chapter in life but if its a pension that gives me a chance to have a good relationship. Then it sounds like I'm buying my way in, yes I understand it is probably the same every where. My age range is 32 - 48 but even in this range doesn't mean 100% compatibility. Some women how are much younger may have acquired life skills at a early age because of close family relationships. A woman's ability to turn a house into a home is a good place to start.
I lived there for 4 years back in the early to late 90s. I worked with some cool people that are friends even today. Played basketball all of the time. Loved the food there and coconut water. I will tell anyone going to the Philippines, be careful not everyone is for you. It's okay for the most part. Best of luck to all considering moving over and settling down. I was often mistaken for a PBA basketball player because of my skin colour and height.
Thanks for the content brother I appreciate it
Alex sent me. New Sub!
The information in this vlog is GOLD 🥇.
Can I ask for your perspective? Not over 60, I am a 51 year old American. No pension, but I have an excessively high income/savings (and assets), and I can chose to live anywhere in the world. I am very nice/good to my partner. Would this be on the list of the twenty something Filipina stunners?
Welcome to my channel and thanks for your support. Absolutely puts you in the mix for a stunner over here.
So, how do you feel about the Filipina who wants to leave her life partner for someone who has a pension? Seems like That's no different from a typical gold digger.
The reason why there are a lot of Filipinas available to foreigners is that local guys do not compete with foreigners in this particular group of women. Local guys have different preferences and tastes than foreigners regarding women - becoming good news for foreign older men.
So local men prefer uglier, obese women?.
Calvin, thank you for your perspective on what you see with your "boots on the ground " about older men with a few thousand dollars a month pension or SSI and the women who are attracted to them.
At 69 and in reasonable good shape I'm looking forward to my next trip to the Philippines. TY
Hey Calvin! How are you?
I'm doing great Philip how about you?
Calvin, you scored big , you have a beautifull woman too .
Good observation, Cal. Thanks.
My Philippine wife is 34- i’m 69. We married 9 years ago in the Philippines. We were engaged for 1 year. We have a 6 year old daughter born in the USA. My wife is beautiful and we’re still as happy today as when we met !!! She is beautiful inside and out . A big heart and a wonderful mother !
We are both blessed ! I help her family all through these years and I feel good about helping others . Especially the children !
And yes, I’m in great shape and a good lover ❤️
As Filipinas like to say, “old is gold”
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Philly in the Philippines.. Brian a retired military Veteran on a pension
You welcome Calvin, I'm old too Calvin hehehe we're going Old...age doesn't matter no matter what as long as male and female married..👍👍
At 60 years plus, alot of foreigners are on social security and Filipinas know it. They want their share of that money. 😁😁😁
great video. Cal. Thank the Most High for that pension.
They understand that we are going to croak soon and leave them with at least a little something. Wise planning on their part.
Good information 😜👍
I'm hoping sir,para sa aking mga anak school supplies
They have the most money and they’re not trying to smash every night
Beauty aside, what's the best way to meet them? You know best. Do you go online first and then go there, or do you go there and then go online or to the malls, etc.? While there are no guarantees, there are better ways to go about it. If anyone knows, it's you. A video with your best and practical advice would be most helpful. Thanks much.
you should not go online, and insread go there, first and meet in person, is what i am told to do
Hello Calvin thanks for the vlog and the thought behind it. And Calvin, man, your woman is fine man. You are blessed.
Good video calvin.
Everything is a trade off, its life, as long as everyone is happy.
I see your point brotherman. She wants someone stable (emotionally; financially). Dude (hopefully) gets the gal that will love him for him.
Glad to see you calvin.
That's real interesting Calvin, I never actually thought about that.
will a young godess be with a healthy man over 60 if the man has very small pension and no savings in the bank and hes just barely living month to month on a small pension ..or does the philipina godess choose only a healthy man over 60 that has a big bank roll .........in other words is she there for love or the spoils money can buy
Come'on, you know the answer to your own question.
You look for goddess first. Goddess looks for security first.
Love, for the both of you, develops over time.
Gotta have that pension to get attention!
Always dropping nuggets, thx bro 🙏🏿
that's the irony in life just when you have save enough, you're in your twilight years already
Mo money Mo money !!!
No money 💰 no honey
Calvin,
Young childless Filipinas 18-20’s date for love not money. Most dream of finding that young handsome “forever love” pinoy to start their own Filipino family with. Most young pinay don’t even know what a pension is. They stay busy chatting young handsome pinoys on fb. They are also willing to use their youth energy to work to support their family and pinoy bf/husband
Single moms, ofw’s, divorce women, older women are usually in need. They have been around the block already. They most likely already experienced their first love, child birth and marriage so they will have a different mindset than a young childless pinay. They will certainly entertain the idea of a man that offer “ stability and security “ from a pension. This category of women are looking for and eager to marry an old foreign rich by Filipino standards man that can afford big ticket items…..hectares of land, house and business opportunities.
So you've never seen the dating service companies that are FULL of 18-20's models looking to meet in person, then date and marry foreigners of any age?
Love your channel
If that’s all they are looking for, you don’t have a real Relationship.
Men look for tight A$$ first.
Women look for security first.
They both grow day by day to love each other.
Thanks brother Calvin for another interesting video 👍👍👍
In America an older 50s man that is wealthy often lands a very gorgeous 20s or 30s something too.
Total BS
Yea, maybe if you can find a conservative one with morals..Tho many are lacking solid morals here too
-----> Yep, this guy!
If i have learned anything it is saying good morning in their language. BAYAN BUNTAHG!
Maayong buntag 😃
Thank god I don’t want a pretty woman. I just want any woman. 😂😂
That't good idea
Sure, for security purposes only but not for true love.
Who's looking for live at our age 😄