Talking dirty: De-stigmatising conversations on sex | Kate Dawson | TEDxGalway

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  • Kate Dawson is a sex researcher and educator, and advocates to us the benefits of sexual health promotion and why we should talk more openly about it. Using examples from her research she shows us how we can approach the topic honestly with our children, communicate things better with our partners, and feel a bit more at ease with ourselves. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx Kate is a sex researcher and educator. Her research focuses on young people's use of Internet pornography. She is developing an evidence base for the development of a youth-centred pornography literacy intervention for teenagers, which aims to promote critical engagement with pornographic content. Kate is a passionate advocate for sexual health promotion and works on the “WISER” sex education programme developing and delivering sexual health education workshops in Irish schools and universities This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @wren3164
    @wren3164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    amazing knowledge! thanks for sharing!

  • @HJEM13
    @HJEM13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Really interesting and informative

  • @anuroop345
    @anuroop345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great talk

  • @shikhavats7898
    @shikhavats7898 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thnk u so much talking about so much direct about issues.

  • @srbaruchi
    @srbaruchi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The audience sounds like it's on life support -- which is making Kate's job tougher, and perhaps making her (at least appear) a little nervous. But I give her an A+. Also, it is really great to see the Irish pushing back against centuries of Catholic dogma and repression.

    • @rickybrown8825
      @rickybrown8825 ปีที่แล้ว

      I suspect it was just the recording being too clean and/or the acoustics of the room: any noise from the audience is very muted. You can hear them laugh at times, especially when Kate talks about the questions asked by teenagers (around 6:30), so they are responding, you just really have to strain your ears to hear.

  • @yaboi5654
    @yaboi5654 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Helps put my over analyzing mind at peace

  • @geetagundecha9177
    @geetagundecha9177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankyou🙂

  • @rananaeemsarwaradvocatesup243
    @rananaeemsarwaradvocatesup243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Good speech in nice words

    • @bestrong1854
      @bestrong1854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes . She s so classy and delicate.

  • @JulietTheGirl
    @JulietTheGirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Her profile is so perfect! :)

  • @LuisSalazar-zv4rd
    @LuisSalazar-zv4rd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I totally agree. We have to call everything by its own name. Sometimes could be more than one for the same matter. Use what ever you prefer but the real one.

  • @johndeely61
    @johndeely61 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This is so informative! Well done!

  • @beeblunt4846
    @beeblunt4846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She is so sweet.

    • @traveler7311
      @traveler7311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And I love her accent.

  • @judeasoluka976
    @judeasoluka976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good lessons

  • @billmi5487
    @billmi5487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is like a flower w6nderful
    .

  • @Farkwad
    @Farkwad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Great video 🙂

  • @foxoutdoorsupplies7701
    @foxoutdoorsupplies7701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    serious wake-up call

  • @AnisaKhan-ky6kc
    @AnisaKhan-ky6kc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    can you show us a video on how you had it and watched your parents

  • @samuelurban5536
    @samuelurban5536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Clever woman, clever talks...

  • @ali.faris.
    @ali.faris. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    المرجو ترجمة الفيديو إلى العربية.

  • @clavo3352
    @clavo3352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Such an incredibly important subject! Thank You for posting this. I had a terrible accident after spouse used withholding to express something and I got mutilated in the hospital for life. They ripped out the urethral catheter without first collapsing it. Did this church run hospital impose a punishment on me? It's a life sentence.

    • @markh4926
      @markh4926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bet that hurts more than the physical pain at the moment.

    • @clavo3352
      @clavo3352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@markh4926 It's like being nailed to a cross only worse.

    • @markh4926
      @markh4926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@clavo3352 Sorry for you dude, really.

    • @clavo3352
      @clavo3352 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@markh4926 Thank you for your expression of compassion.

    • @letarosetree7826
      @letarosetree7826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your experience was/is a tragedy; It makes me sad to hear about it.

  • @salmacaribbean7362
    @salmacaribbean7362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Accurate

  • @shounesalu3042
    @shounesalu3042 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ahe speaks nicely

  • @reallydoe2052
    @reallydoe2052 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dope

  • @rkputage1724
    @rkputage1724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🥰😇

  • @appletile2887
    @appletile2887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I thought babies were made in an "easy bake oven", that is what the nuns told us who taught at our school. I am not joking....the nuns told us their was a receipe for all races, just like an apple pie. I was 6, so we believed them. Often my friends and I would go over to each other's homes to see if any of the mothers we're making new babies in the kitchen. It was all in the ingredients. One time in school we asked a nun how a mother could produce a child looking from another culture....answer was simple...she used the wrong receipe

    • @srbaruchi
      @srbaruchi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Used the wrong recipe." Wow! There's a lot to unpack there.

    • @richardpauly1635
      @richardpauly1635 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Many easy bake ovens broke and were very old .but Adam and eve should have been taught

  • @jamesthornton9399
    @jamesthornton9399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Have a Midwife as Mom,.

  • @colinogorman8279
    @colinogorman8279 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤔

  • @richardpauly1635
    @richardpauly1635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Adam and eve.we all are just enjoying life

  • @rilindburniki5615
    @rilindburniki5615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As if we have moved to some kind of progression. Ceee

  • @goldenheartsmom5870
    @goldenheartsmom5870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Whttt parents are confident??? No they are not.. They don't even mention that word. The society i live in the environment i live in never mentioned in front of us. When I entered 11th i got to bout these stuffs.. I knew some stuffs during 7-8 grade but got detailed infos through zoology, In 12th ..even when the condoms ad pop up on TV, my parents behaves weirdly or change the channel 😂😂😂they think we don't know anything but hme to sb pta h 😂😂so in India, parents don't mention these stuffs. And due to lack of knowledge on this lots of things are happening.

  • @viralhungama9016
    @viralhungama9016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She looks like Will's mother in Stranger things 😂

    • @skyerice9922
      @skyerice9922 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ba ha ha she does!!!

  • @gvaanang
    @gvaanang 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She is cute

    • @shuo4509
      @shuo4509 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my bro...

  • @joewilliams9436
    @joewilliams9436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Blame it on the ADD baby!

    • @joewilliams9436
      @joewilliams9436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💪💪 Men struggle to feel comfortable. I am amongst the number. I'm down for.......just about anything. Just so long as she's right there with me. I'll try anything twice (because everyone can't always hit a home run on the first try). But I NEED to know if she's going the distance with me!!!!!!

  • @ionatandraghici9362
    @ionatandraghici9362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

  • @mainman2256
    @mainman2256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Unless you want your kid to learn something from the internet you might want to talk to them lol

    • @ATLMike94
      @ATLMike94 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I mean... I feel like most of us were fine learning it from the internet when we were ready

  • @phoenixpersonified3484
    @phoenixpersonified3484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She is beautiful 😍.

  • @MB-jg4tr
    @MB-jg4tr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    On a superficial note, the folds in her clothes distracted me.

    • @gayaprasadsoni3899
      @gayaprasadsoni3899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Magic MonkeyLOVE
      It make me feel uncomfortable....

    • @Love-Thyself.
      @Love-Thyself. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol

    • @MB-jg4tr
      @MB-jg4tr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Love-Thyself. didn't it!

    • @riddindirty168
      @riddindirty168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same here,,this chick is above and beyond

  • @MakenzieM-xl7nu
    @MakenzieM-xl7nu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well, watching them melt away within 48 hours felt so good, and yes, I used what I mentioned the other day. It actually took a bit more to make them totally disappear, I just go’ogled Melissa Thanderski and the pain unexpectedly disappeared so quickly.

  • @daylightliving8929
    @daylightliving8929 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    total krapp

  • @jamesthornton9399
    @jamesthornton9399 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Only Genetal Men wanted

  • @jovangorgi
    @jovangorgi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Top of the morning, you can research me at any time.

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    @camflint2208 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    @ronruddick2972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

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  • @seancoleman5021
    @seancoleman5021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She reminds me of Diane in Cheers, only an Irish version, which is much worse.

    • @seancoleman5021
      @seancoleman5021 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She may well be charming and educated but, judging from some of the things she is reported to have said, she is deluded. As for Irish women in general, when they are deluded they can be more deluded than any.

    • @lgallagher3593
      @lgallagher3593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@seancoleman5021 can you clarify?? I'm curious why you think she is deluded...particularly as she has a PhD in this subject meaning she has researched it extensively and has hard data to back up her assertions, which I'm going to presume you do not??

    • @tracyavent-costanza346
      @tracyavent-costanza346 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @sean coleman
      You DO of course grasp that "Diane in Cheers" is an imaginary person. Shelly Long is a real person. I presume they differ.

    • @seancoleman5021
      @seancoleman5021 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tracyavent-costanza346 You are right there, Trace. And a brilliant character she was too.

    • @tracyavent-costanza346
      @tracyavent-costanza346 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@seancoleman5021
      no, she was not brilliant. she was rather egotistical and although educated, she had enormous blind spots about her own tendencies.
      hence really not that wise.
      and still not a real person either. I would much rather study real humans, and am inclined to regard this topic as kind of a waste of effort, similar to Dan Quayle's statements about "Murphy Brown".

  • @dirkcampbell5847
    @dirkcampbell5847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She should have pulled down her jumper before she went on camera. Distracting.

    • @bestrong1854
      @bestrong1854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I didn t notice, I was focusing on what she s saying and how nice and delicate she talked about such a super sensitive topic

  • @Panrider4
    @Panrider4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She is gorgeous with a great body and very informed. I just wish she could find a top that fitted her😅😀😆

    • @srbaruchi
      @srbaruchi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I doubt that a dude made this comment. (I mean, a straight dude.)

  • @fipintugyi1432
    @fipintugyi1432 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The brawny snowplow technically peck because step-son worrisomely overflow following a cautious poultry. frightened frightening full fumbling functional, loving gear

  • @IrishRose
    @IrishRose 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Someone must have been abused as a child! Sad

    • @purplepatch7
      @purplepatch7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ever think about things before you say them? That's not a very kind thing to say, what if she was? Do you feel better about yourself?

    • @recyclespinning9839
      @recyclespinning9839 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes , I believe you were , usually when you point finger, 3 pointing back at you👈👉👉👈☝️

    • @tracyavent-costanza346
      @tracyavent-costanza346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @irish rose
      The estimates I have seen are in the millions actually. My own indirect data would tend to confirm that.
      But why are you especially bringing that up though. is there something you wanna talk about?

    • @bestrong1854
      @bestrong1854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What made you think that ? She seems very delicate and balanced to me

    • @bestrong1854
      @bestrong1854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tracyavent-costanza346 is she referring to the doctor speaking ?

  • @seancoleman5021
    @seancoleman5021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Progressive nonsense.

    • @marcelo-oc6rs
      @marcelo-oc6rs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Ah yes, education, progressive nonsense.

    • @missyoothoudt8243
      @missyoothoudt8243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well you’re a boomer so of course you think it’s nonsense. Lol

    • @margaretsatterfield9519
      @margaretsatterfield9519 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sean Coleman you’ve created a perfect oxymoron, smh

    • @argo3657
      @argo3657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This actually made me laugh, not gonna lie.

    • @seancoleman5021
      @seancoleman5021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      To get a joke you have to understand it first.

  • @edmondopowell
    @edmondopowell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A narcissist no narcissist should be allowed work with people!! Sounds like someone who hasnt dealth with any of her own issues

    • @purplepatch7
      @purplepatch7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You sound like the narcissist. You calling somebody a name who is trying to educate kids and young adults how to be comfortable and have a better understanding of their body's is on you. You have some growing to do. I feel pitty for you.

    • @lgallagher3593
      @lgallagher3593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Eddie I'm curious why you think she's a narcissist. A narcissist is someone with an overly inflated sense of self importance, who lives in a fantasy world of their own grandeur, who has a huge sense of entitlement, and who exploits, belittles or intimidates others for their own means or to shamelessly promote themselves. Where exactly in this talk did you see any of those traits? Because what I saw was a very polished, calm professional delivering a well researched presentation explaining her findings. Did we watch the same Ted talk?

    • @tracyavent-costanza346
      @tracyavent-costanza346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @eddie Powell
      where exactly did you get that?

  • @michaelkealy7960
    @michaelkealy7960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You wo t be teaching that filth to any of my children. For God sake let kids be kids

    • @bruce_c_in_nz
      @bruce_c_in_nz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Filth? Did I miss something? At 5, when she was a kid, she was being innocently curious. Healthy, intelligent kids are. So, do you tell them to shut up, or spin some story (aka lie) about the stork or a gooseberry bush?

    • @fionafiona1146
      @fionafiona1146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's the mindset! Happy to see teen pregnancy high? Florida retirees swapping STIs? Perpetual poverty? Those all are surprisingly predictable by how much the locals agree with you.

    • @tracyavent-costanza346
      @tracyavent-costanza346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @michael kealy
      never mind, obviously you have never met a kid who was above average intelligence, and it's not likely
      that any such kids would give you the time of day either.

  • @fanwai6933
    @fanwai6933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    0:22xx