5 VALUE TESTS MEN Fail with WOMEN that DRYS HER UP
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ส.ค. 2023
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I was just watching a few of your old vids. Do you realize how much you've directly contradicted yourself over the years? You're a salesman who is trying different shit and always acting superior. Kind of makes me doubt MBT....A lot of your concepts are great, you're just all over the place.
You’re literally taking topics out of a Rollo Tomassi book and adapting that to make a video
Your manhood is all about how to please women, you're no different than most , your mind set isn't free from society norms whereas women nowadays are 99% corrupt are you that smart simp in the neighbourhood?
Good for you addict. You are not that stupid
I have heard a lot of coaches before and I have just finished watching about 4 of your videos in the last few days. I don’t have a issue with women but from time to time I like to keep my knowledge up to par. You have told No lies. Your information is the deepest and realist I have heard on TH-cam. I resonate with your conclusions.
1. Not standing up to her. Oppose her will. You are the prize, not her. “Put her in her place”.
2. Availability test. Don’t be easily accessible. Be someone of value for real. Urgency kills her attraction for you.
3. Emotional attachment test. Love her, but don’t “fall” in love with her. Be stoic or better cling unto God only. She’s an addition to your life not the entirety of your life.
4. Over communication kills seduction. Be. Quiet. Women talk. Men do. Don’t seek her approval.
Some people probably think this hurts the video, but honestly, comments like these make it so much easier to want to watch knowing in advance that the information might be decent.
@@AlHyckGaemsTAD💯👌🏻
This is absolutely disgusting advice.
The Bible is a handbook for anyone who desires to be a godly man or woman. God created man and woman after His own image (Genesis 1:27), and part of being in His image is that we are to reflect His character. However, sin marred that image in us and distorted that character (Romans 5:12). God’s choice of Abraham to be the father of a new nation (Genesis 17:5-8) was made, in part, to establish a people group through which He could once again see His character reflected (Leviticus 26:11-12). Reflecting the heart, wisdom, and nature of God is the goal of everyone who seeks to be a godly man or woman.
The first step in becoming a godly man is to surrender to the lordship of Jesus Christ (John 14:6). Anyone can learn rules, follow laws, and judge themselves harshly. Many false religions require that of their subjects. But we cannot become godly without the Holy Spirit empowering us to do so (Acts 1:8). Godliness is more than external behaviors; it is the continual seeking after God’s heart (Isaiah 55:6-7). The term godly refers to having an inward devotion for God that is outwardly displayed. So a godly man is one who has received Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross as payment for His own sin and has accepted the righteousness purchased for him there (2 Corinthians 5:21). By faith in Christ’s death and resurrection, the godly man has declared Jesus the Lord of his life, and his heart is set toward obedience (Romans 10:9-10).
With God’s Spirit inside him (1 Corinthians 6:19-20), the godly man is able to understand the deep things of the Spirit (1 Corinthians 2:9-10). He begins to see life differently. Life is no longer about pleasing himself but about pleasing his Lord (Romans 13:12-14; Hebrews 12:28). The godly man knows he will still stumble as he strives toward holiness (James 3:2), but his goal is to be holy as His Lord is holy (1 Peter 1:16). He learns early that his fleshly attempts at holiness only result in pride and failure. The godly man learns that, as he surrenders his will to the Holy Spirit and relies upon Him for strength to overcome temptation, he can withstand more temptation and accomplish greater eternal goals than he ever thought possible (Philippians 4:13).
A godly man is one who has died to his flesh (Galatians 5:24). This does not mean he no longer faces temptation. It means that, when he is tempted, the decision about whether to give in has already been made. He relies on the power of the Holy Spirit to help him say “no” to his flesh and “yes” to the Spirit (1 Corinthians 10:13; Galatians 5:16). As he regularly opposes sin, he finds that his spirit grows stronger and temptation becomes easier to resist (Hebrews 10:23).
The godly man:
• repents when he sins (1 John 1:9)
• considers himself dead to sin but alive to God (Romans 6:1-4, 11)
• seeks to remain humble rather than exalt himself (Proverbs 27:2)
• is a servant rather than demanding that he be served (Mark 10:45)
• leads by example (1 Timothy 4:12)
• (if married) loves his wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25)
• lives in sexual purity, honoring God with his body (1 Corinthians 6:18; Romans 12:1-2)
• seeks to be continually filled with the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 5:18; Act 13:52; Galatians 5:25)
• desires to please the Lord more than himself (2 Corinthians 5:9)
• bears fruit for the kingdom of God (John 15:5-8)
A godly man is not a perfect man. We will never reach perfection until we are in the physical presence of Jesus (1 Corinthians 13:12; 1 John 3:2). But the godly man embraces his manhood and knows that Jesus, not the world, has set the standard for what it means to be a real man. So he strives daily to model his life after Jesus. He does not excuse the sins and weaknesses he finds in himself but continually surrenders those areas to God and asks for His help in overcoming them (Romans 6:11-14). Regardless of physical appearance, social status, or economic standing, any man can be a godly man if he loves God with all his heart and seeks to obey Him in every area of his life (Luke 10:27; Galatians 2:20).
Thanks for saving my time!!
2 and 4 are specifically powerful when applied correctly. I once stopped applying those 2 concepts and the damage was obvious and bad.
Main mistakes: not enough patience, overtexting, not giving her space.
Thanks Buddy
loving a woman v.s being in love with a woman is the best advice I needed to hear 🙌
Absolutely
- Except, for when she asks you. My ex asked me if I was in love with her and i replied strongly that i loved her more than anything. Which was not the answer she wanted. She wanted to hear "im so madly in love with you, or something". Its only obvious afterward that she was feeling insecure and was seeking validation and i not only failed, i sent her in the opposite direction and didnt even realize it. She left me the next day. What i should have done is recognized that the question was validation seeking and I should have taken actions to make her feel love instead of using my words because unfortunately women use Words As Weapons and men use words as tools.
@@Xphearous jesus😆 she cant possibly have loved you very much then...
"Low value men appease." Solid gold.
💯 it's all about getting the women to respect you. A woman can hate your guts, but she will stay with you no matter what, if she respects you.
Respect makes her wet
@@Tgogatorsreal narcissists are some of the most insecure control freaks known to man. She probably doesn’t even know what a true narcissist is and is labeling her confident ex as one cause he respects himself and his goals. Shits funny
@@TheFlukeDude if the girl is being diva enough (asking for it) I’ll say: how exactly do you know he’s a narcissist? Was he diagnosed as one after being evaluated by a mental health professional? Are you a licensed psychologist?” This almost always check mates them. And they realize the narcissist label is a cop out
@@Tgogators hahaha exactly.
@TheFlukeDude Yeah a lot of what Casey talks about would be considered Narcissistic. It is to a degree. Narcassism is part of all human personalities. A lot of psychology has a heavy feminine bias. I mean it literally is the study of emotions 😂
Fantastic advice! Every man needs to watch this video.
The no. 1 thing I fall down on is emotional attachment. I start to really like a woman, end up obsessing and falling "in love." This can happen to the point where I become jealous and insecure and unable to stop obsessing over her. It totally fucks up the attraction and ends up with her treating me with contempt despite the initial spark that was there to begin with. Deadly!
How exactly do you behave with a woman that you have emotional attachment with?? Can u give me some examples?
Any chick can leave at any moment in my life. I really do not care to be honest I love being alone. But sometimes I will allow someone in. But if they leave they cannot come back. No matter how hard they beg.
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Champ
This is it, it is better to live and love than to never love at all. Fully involve yourself(notice I didn't say invest) but at the same time have enough love for yourself to be ready to cut it off just like a woman would.
This break up I went through might have been a real positive in my life since it drove me to learn more about self-improvement and Casey’s channel. Win-win-win!
It's an mportant but very painful lesson. I went through a break up from a woman who I considered to be the love of my life. After few weeks of watching channels like Casey's, it's clear why it didn't work. I was IN love with her. I sacrificed hobbies and friends to be with her. I also didn't understand that "testing" is woman's nature. I failed all of them. She slowly started to lose respect and eventually left.
Now I don't date to get women, but to improve on myself and test out the truth of these principles. I really don't care whether a date wants to see me again or not.
@@j00f good attitude! Thanks for sharing!
@@j00fhow are you now? is everything ok?
@@silentassassin47 Yeah, things aren't terrible but not great either. I don't think about my ex that often anymore, but just today I happened to see her and it made me feel really sad and hurt (she didn't see me). So there's still a lot of processing to do.
The fact that everyone is unique, makes it really hard to let go of that one who you loved so much. But I also believe that I can appreciate and love just as much someone else, who's unique in her own way.
I think that is the key; understanding that woman ARE replaceable. It won't be the same, but it can be just as good.
@j00f yes, so true. Same thing with me. She didn't respect me enough that she spoke to another dude about me. He lives in North Carolina, and me and her stays in FL. It's her alcoholic rehab friend. Now that she started drinking again she reached out to him. Smfh
I am amazed at how insightful, but also how simple these concepts are. I will remember these lessons. This video will probably save me many dates, but it doesn't feel right to not tip the cost of at least one. Thank you Casey!
compliment her toes even if they are ogrish and she’ll let you suck them
This guy can't miss on these videos. The beattitudes of masculinity where everything you do towards women springs out of who you are.
I just block any women that left me permanently
cope 🤣
Good news... They blocked you first 😂
@@alcanz1316sometimes they come back to you and want to work things out, but I'm here to tell you do not fall into that trap, once they're gone you have to shut them out permanently
Instead of Block Game on Social Media or Ignoring or Avoiding in Real Life, Try to Understand what they want out of you and what you are willing to provide them, This is more respectful and professional behaviour
@@Sports590 not if they're narcissistic and trying to use you and manipulate you.
When I was much younger and naive I rejected everything he said, now I understand it's the truth. Great video as always. 👏 HE really knows his stuff.
Ways to get women to take interest in you:
1. Do your job.
2. Have interest outside of women.
3. Don't try to get her attention. Blend into the background. Be thankful for your space, peace and not having to entertain her. If she does talk to you, hope she has something interesting to say lol
4. Maybe she is noticing you and if she's interested she will begin conversation with you. If a hot girl talks to you all the other ones are going to start as well. I know this all too well.
5. Don't be overly nice. But don't be overly rude either. Be yourself. When in doubt, be a douche bag. (Like don't hold the door too long if she's too far away, but if she's close don't be a db and slam the door in her face LMFAO 😅)
6. I like to be honest because of my moral guide but i can't say i think honesty gets high quantities of women if any.
7. Be patient and stop trying to hard. 😂
8. Don't give a crap who she's taking to. Guys who approach her will not be attractive to her.
9. Don't get emotionally attached. Be hard af to get and don't ever be gotten. Keep a distance. Keep fear of what she's going to do to you in court after she cheats you. You need to realize, she's most likely going to financially r word you, so be careful not to commit.
10. See all women as fat, ugly, resource drains, don't value them too highly and don't pedestalize them. You don't need a woman- if you need her, she's running away lol
11. Can be abundance mindset or she's gonna rob me blind and she's gonna hypergamate as soon as anything more interesting comes along.
12. You don't owe a woman commitment!!!! I see men practically begging to commit to a woman. Not only is this unattractive and pathetic but no one wants a guy who is easy to get. Most guys don't even want a woman who is easy to get. At best she won't be interested, at worst, she's gonna take your stuff, hate you and be sleeping with other guys. So make them earn your commitment; that's what honestly will make her happier than you trying to spoil her.
You're highly unattractive
Woman are too slow, at everything. There’s no point in catering about their shit anyways
Lolmao 5
@@anony5021 I don't know how you were able to stand reading that far but thanks for toughing through it.
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These are great. I’m not a fan of dating multiple women at one bc I hate condoms always play it safe. But you must always wait for them to be the ones that ask for commitment/ exclusivity
Every time I watch one of these videos I say.. this is the best video by far.. then he comes in with this backdoor slider.. At my age.. 59.. I've gotten to a point where woman that come to me to occupy my time get my attention.. Build your values and you'll be amazed at the results.. Keep it Simple..
At 59 you’re still watching videos about female nature? 😂
I am getting there. ocupying my time at the gym and my hobbies
@carpediem4512 at 12 you got it all figured out, yeah?
dude-we're here to HELP each other, not be dicks.
@@carpediem4512 yeah.. never to old to learn especially if society is constantly changing.. there's more here than just female nature if you care to understand the underlying message.
@Simplicity165 totally agree, brother. 60 year-old here, and I'm still learning.
Yeah this content in general watching all these videos from this guy casey absolutely changed me not just in women's eyes but in everybody's eyes...
This is like the 6th video I’ve watched by you. It’s working. I appreciate the free game bro. I’m going to start from your first videos now after I finish watching this vid🤝💯📈
Dude, your top notch with your videos more and more 😊
Awesome! great stuff! Thank you
Spot on, your purpose and job comes first, chick only gets your time when you decide.
Never drop other stuff or put stuff off to go see her.
Love your videos man , love the truth, and love the authenticity of trying to actually help young men instead of coddling their feelings or appeasing their ego
There is no truth here lol, he's basically saying act like a women to get a women 😂😂😂😂 I'll stick to my Bible THATS THE REAL TRUTH 💯💯💯
That’s why they say God has to break you before he can bless you
I loved this video. Thank you Casey.
Good Video Casey. Have Learned so Much since started watching your Content Bro. Blessing and Well Wishes
Such a master compared to other YTs focused on these topics
Brilliant presentation of ideas.
Very accurate.
Completely right. Learning these lessons the hard way
I love your video straight to the point
Attraction can't be negotiated. -- Darius, the Great.
I admire your breakdown, it's truly deep👌🏼
Your videos been helping me out, bro
Thanks Casey. Please elaborate overcommunication and masculine stoicism in further videos.
On point as always.
Been with a new woman a yr (after a messy break up/divorce) so I continue to watch and learn. Setting boundaries helped me a lot, especially when it comes to ex's and things like that. And never accept being treated in a way that they wouldn't like, if it was other way around. I find it difficult to trust, I mean can you trust anyone 100%? But she knows I'm gone if certain boundaries are not respected. And I'm remaining on my grind and levelling up despite being with someone, that never stops.
Balance is key people that’s all you need .
Great video, very helpful.
This guy is the best channel for men thank you sir god bless
At 44 I know these things, problem is I don't care anymore 😂
Good to see these videos being made for the young men.
Right? The strategic game playing involved is exhausting. But it’s good to have for the younger dudes.
Yea
@@Michael_RareZebra f the gp n f the ho that's game lmao
Top content. Absolute truth here brothers.
The cinematic video you made recently... was awesome
Great advice bro
You and your channel are amazing; from such a young man... OR any man. Some things that I have seen all my life make sense now. I'm retired but in good shape. Now I have a clue that lines up with the facts.
What I want to know is why follow all this stuff if deep down you know you ain’t gonna win this game and you’re not gonna be happy? Casey isn’t happy. He’s a victim of his own ego. Could have still been with Britney. Ego got in the way and at some point all relationships will end when you have this kind of thinking. A very stressful and exhausting way to live life, always measuring yourself against other people to see where you rank.. fuck all that. Just do your own thing. Why would you wanna go through 1000 hoops to try to get a damaged women anyway?
Choosing the easy way is something which might look great now, but hit you much harder later in life.
@@adventskalender04 but remember relationships are 2-way
@@JoeBudd-D Of course they are, that's why it is important to be able to go away if the woman doesn't do her part for the realationshop.
I wish I knew this a few weeks back. Although I only cocked up on one of these.
2:45 i can give examples here. this has happened with 2 females. they came over, started to display bratty behavior, i didnt say anything, but i withdrew myself. next day i made it clear i taking them home and that's it. they BOTH took about a month of no contact then slowly start to come back in MORE SUBMISSIVE. And while they push to come over, I DELAYED THEM FOR MONTHS. One was on the phone taking for 60mins ABOUT GENUINE BUSINESS. Nope, that is disrespect in my book, when I finally made her come back, no phone, HER SISTER CALLED and she asked me permission first before answering,
All facts here. 💯
The less you do for these women the more they invest in you, never be too relationship focused focus more on your purpose, never prioritize her, aiways put yourself first and her last
Women still need attention!!! Those men still get left!!
It might help at first but in the end it’s just gonna be the Casey and Brittany situation. Relationships are 2 way. She’s not your secretary
Men who think like you will NEVER have a good woman! Don't put your woman last unless you want to lose her QUICK! -- (Wisdom From an actual woman)
So are you saying that i should put my girlfriend on a pedestal, worship the ground she walks on and treat her like a goddess and leave my goals and dreams last so that she walks all over me and despise me and dump me for someone who would not do all those things for her? I will never take advice from a fish on how to catch a fish i would rather go to the fisherman for advice on how to catch
who hurt you dude, lol. @@oscargonza2748
Life changing material
Thank you Casey. Guess she will never want to see me again, because I acted weak and failed these tests. She has me blocked on everything, acts cold as if she couldn't care less about me. Yet I did everything right, except failing these tests.
- dude. Same. An 8 year relationship down the drain. The truth is the first week there was a SOLID chance of winner her back. But i did all the "right" things.......which as we all know now, were the worst possible things to do. And it ruined what would have been a beautiful life together.
What this guy says is 100% true.
Don't cry over spilt milk. There's 3.5billion vaginas on the planet
Aye man... real shit, hit the gym, use the extra time not allocated to a relationship to get your money right. Learn to live for yourself(as that's attractive af because if you are out to thrive then a woman knows she'll thrive too under your schedule) and just do better. Catch a woman you like once in a while on the journey but be just as quick to drop them off they aren't bringing enough value. "We're all gonna make it" - zyzz
Really good lecture.
Have a good day my man
Spitting gold nuggets!
7:15 patience communicates abundance, self assurance and no neediness to a woman.
casey you should do an in-depth video of how us en need to value test / and general test them
Hi Casey, my name is Issa. I am loving your videos and I always do the MBTA webinar and I never ever miss one. I love you videos today I’m so happy I always jump when I see new videos for you and I always give you likes and today the thing you talk about I always do in my life, but my question is, is it me or the women they think I’m strange because I talk and then I listen all the time I don’t talk to much I love to listen to woman and man but I never get a good cup and then I always give them a complement is that right or wrong, I always work every day even I’m talking to you right now I’m doing my job I never sit down
He's right about ALL of this.
Excellent video
Right on brutha.
Omg, thanks!
This is Epic !
great info
You are right loving them but not being in love found out the hard way thank you,
This things needs practice on daily bases. Sometimes you might SIMP but keep grinding and in no time you will develope all this as a character.
100% true, seen this too.
You said it
“Shut the help up”. Yep
Thank you 🙏🙂
Wpmder what your thoughts are about family structure and how to actually have a wholesome relationship. All this is great advice for dating.
this can be tied onto marraige as well, just dont be available and stay busy maybe even dont come home only to see the kids or something take business trips. stay away. casey talks about the 10 year plan which means making yourself a book to read page by page every week for 10 years. jwaller also talks about this being away from her and staying busy to stretch that time out. my 3 year relationship was a huge mistake i moved in first month and she cheated. she knew to much about me. i lost the mystery.
purpose❤
This advice is for dating. What about when you are in a relationship?
Uugh!! where do you get the formula for this? Casey is a choosen one.
You always teach me to keep going keep going, but what’s happened is the woman I see she don’t like me can you please give me again five or 10 women I had to be careful about thank you Casey that’s the best one I wanna hear what’s 10 and woman to be careful about
Great content Casey. How can I schedule group or private sessions with you and your team ?
Promo comment
@@Brascobadboy whats that mean ?
Hey Casey! The 5 songs I created last year failed and that's ok. Now I'm leveraging that experience to do another type of music. If I reach success on that first thing I'm gonna do I SWEAR is going to see in person to thank you for the incredible life lessons you've given all these years, and I'll donate $1,000,000 to Headman❤
Very good. Loving. Not being in love!.
True BEAST 💪💪😎🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Forget this video brothers, this is how a real man thinks:
If one must engage in manipulation to gain a relationship. If one must change oneself and become something else. If one is not free to express oneself and shine ones own light. If one must do any of these things to have a relationship, then a relationship is not something worth one's time.
Pathetic advice.
@@kevinraum7749When you wear a mask, the mask will be loved, and you will be left cold and alone.
@@BadJ63kudos, you're the only other man here. The rest are boys, masquerading as men.
It's not as complicated as this video makes it out to be. Like you said, if you have to manipulate someone, you're only really manipulating yourself. Be you. Be holy (whole). Reunite with your inner child and maintain your responsibility as a man. Put your faith into God, not into worldly relationships. Semen retention, embrace your testosterone - allow it to power your masculinity. If you follow this video, you are a women. Why do as women do and destroy yourself?
But no, to these boys we will remain fools; while they are the ones suffering 😂
I showed this to my 'wife' and my female best friend and they just laughed and asked if this was a guide to be a woman or to get one 😂😭🤣
Does this apply to teens as well?
Zander broooooo😍😇🤩
The only one that matters is they care what others think, period
What's the 5th?
Gracias
A women either likes you or she don't. 😖 I'm not ready for that true!
I think I already messed up. I met this woman and spent multiple days with her. I'm talking all day and all night. I've been completely available to her. Right now things seem amazing but I know it's only a matter of time before things fall apart because I've been too available and "too nice."
Is there any way to pull back and get things back on track or did I do it so wrong I might as well just expect it to end and start something new?
I am a women and he is 100% correct✨
Women?
2 for 1 what a deal!
*Woman
It almost sounds as if the bisexual men are the luckiest. They can avoid showing weakness by loving women while being IN love with men. Hmmm. It is a shame we can't be IN love with...SOMEONE without showing weakness. Maybe we can be in love with ourselves.
True thats why most woman end up.with bisexual men and being married to them
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What bisuxual means? A guy with both penus and vejina?
How would you balance initial over investment to get your hooks in and not talking too much?
This is to hard. Life is hard enough. 80% crew.
does this stuff really work?
Where "below?"
Why does this guys videos seem like he talks about the same thing in every video?
Every video looks the same.
Yup
Made all these mistakes... Lol lol lol 😂
Lesson learnt
Time to go get some flags
Find girls that revolve around your hobbies - gym, yoga, volleyball, tennis, concerts, museums, EXCEPT going out to clubs and bars. I took a girl to waterpark over the weekend because I WANTED to go- Not sweating her or trying. It's a win/win always if you're having fun. Young girls, we know, like to party. Do not engage in that with them or meet up w their friends. Be the man they call up after they've had a few drinks and you won't waste your time.
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Woman are better at these techniques than men we are just wired to love harder
Yup.
We love women.
Women love children.
Children love pets.
Children love their parents
A a previously married person, I can unequivocally say bollocks. Being cold and distant drives people away.
Being too emotional also drives women away. Balance is everything, but its better to remain predominantly cold if you want her love. Cold hard truth.
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I got dumped after a year because I followed advice on TH-cam about letting her do most of the initiating contact. She told me she wanted someone who made more effort and my actions told her everything.
Go figure.
@@VoiceOfThe 😂😂
@@VoiceOfTheit’s funny because most of these videos are just ways for them to make money off insecure and hurt men. I followed this for 2 years and guess what I got, a bunch of insecure women obsessing over me that I would never want to date. While also not even being truly myself. The only thing you need is respect for yourself. If you respect yourself and she doesn’t reciprocate back you walk away. Simple as that.
@@TheFlukeDude
It’s aimed at broken, damaged women who don’t know otherwise what a healthy, normal relationship actually is.
13:55 how to avoid this mistake?
Uncle C !!!!!!
Amen.
Uncle C 💪💪
He's gotta bring the slap back.
Uncle Cock 🥵
What are you do with women who have all these toxic foul traits who you have no interest in who you are stuck seeing because you have to be at a particular place ? what do you do if these women have all these toxic traits and they are family not sex partners?
Ignore em