The advice in the video is all true but only within certain contexts. You're missing one big piece of the puzzle, as soon as they're are children involved, the balance switches and now she'll have the leverage over you. You won't be able to give her the same ultimatums. Most of your content is spot on but you should also discuss strategies for true relationships ie. wife/husband + kids. Most of your angle seems to be 'if you're with this/that woman for 3 or 6 months or 1 year' etc
1. She shows non reciprocal behavior. Reinforce behavior you like. 2. She pulls away to check your strength (wimp test) Stay busy with other things. 3. She tries to knock you off your purpose (career, etc.). Fit her in when you can. 4. She withdraws sex. You put up with too much drama, and she doubts you have options. 5. Cutting remarks, bad attitude. Don't put up with it. Walk away or send her away. She must be highly apologetic to get you back. 6. She tries to change you. 7. Making you care about the relationship. It's HER job more than yours, and she must earn the relationship. 8. Long phone calls or long text chats. Lowers your perceived value. 9. Complaining just to gain your compliance. 10. Creating drama out of thin air.
sounds like the relationship with my mother besides the sex stuff. sonHusband stuff. Should be a movement to get teen boys guidance if karen single mother. do as much partime work and weekend work until can stop school and start an apprenticeship. if can't get parttime work do as much extracurricular as possible. every day, all week end. stay the hell away from her sabotaging nature otherwise will be an obese man child for life wiping her ass when neither of you can afford a home.
This isn’t bullet proof, because some leave because they know they can’t have you ever so,,,,,,,,,,, I wouldn’t stay around either if my work wasn’t paying off. You people who watch this shit are fucking sad man, women and girls are different. You will get different reasons for the same problem between women and girls figure out what your with to begin with. I’ve been the asshoke and the nicest guy same outcome!! It’s the type of female I choose that’s the issue and also me,,,,,, females are easy to deal with but figure out which one is worth your time. I’m 45 and still figuring out what type of female is worth my time
This is probably why I've spent a lot of time being single. I'm at the point where I enjoy my own company and the things I'm doing in life. So now, if they want to play this stuff with me, it doesn't break me because being alone doesn't bother me. They can either straighten up or kick rocks. I will be ok either way.
It sounds like games but in all reality, women don't really think like this ,but what I can say is that they do feel like this . Cacey is very logical and makes female nature easier for men to digest. I can say not all women seekout to be this way its just how they are either from biological or enviormental. But I will say the ones who play master mind games are dictating masculine behavior and there the ones seeking power and control.but at the end of the day the way to keep a relationship as a man is to love yourself and set boundaries for yourself women will automatically will try to fit in your space .
They had, but I cannot say in a positive way. Only when i was naive and i believed that love was real I thought or made myself believe that women improved my life in some way. Now i been alone for almost a decade and started to not care at all. Maybe i should change my pattern of loneliness, but for what? For pain? No, I am okay as i am, not great, but is bettee than nothing.
I helped my guy get sober, paid for everything and gave him a great place to live rent free. I lost attraction since he was so comfortable letting me be the man. I started thinking “what does he bring to my life?” And it wasn’t worth the added stress.
This vid was a gut punch that I needed. I'm attractive, smart, humorous, a physical unit, make 6 figures, combat vet, work on/fix everything myself, no kids, etc...and yet everytime I really like a girl, I fail the tests. When I don't care they won't leave me alone...but this femcentric society has convinced us we need to be that romantic prince charming. Time to get back on my purpose. Thanks.
todays women need to be taught lessons. pussbag men pander to this shit, which feeds it. Which is why so many women are doing it. STOP doing it. Imagine that you are a positive minded man, a good man should be, and the moment a woman wants to disturb that, send her away. The only way she gets to spend time with you is if or when she brings a fun, healthy person in your front door. The other woman gets kicked the fuck out....
I feel you, I kinda feel stupid because the last relationship I was in I failed at everything once I fell for her romantically but the kicker is at the beginning she was the one perusing me and that was probably because I didn’t show much interest and I was completely certain with myself, and had the confidence to back it up, I knew I didn’t need a relationship so I acted like that and she was infatuated by it. The longer the relationship went on the more I allowed her to emasculate me by allowing her behaviour and being soft with her, to the point where now she has zero respect for me, everything was flicked on it’s head. I have to be honest with myself and realise I allowed it to happen when I should’ve continued to act in the same manner that had her obsessing over me in the first place.
@@stealthiscool lessons learned. It's OK to compromise some things. Others you have to stand your ground. Confidence & respect go a long way. I'm in a new relationship now & I've stood my ground on certain things, understanding how women will constantly shit test you, I've made sure she knows I'M the prize & I keep the abundance mindset of there's always other hot chicks if she doesn't act right. This girl wants to marry me. I highly suggest reading The Rational Male & watching more vids. There's a balance between being on your purpose & still being loving. When you find it, you'll be golden.
I don’t let woman control me. I control myself and that’s the first step in being a man. I stay true to my beliefs, my character, my values and I take care of myself and those around me. Most of all, I trust God will meet my needs and I don’t try too hard to control my life. Woman will come and go and the secret is trusting in the truth and the timing, everything else will fall into place.
This shit is good, I’ve been out of a toxic three year relationship for almost a year now. I did everything you said, you shouldn’t do. And guess what? I was emasculated, humiliated, and left looking desperate. I’ve started to put myself first and demand respect in the ways you’ve been talking about. And it actually does work. Stand up for yourselves guys, don’t let women walk all over you!!! So glad I found this channel. Keep ‘em coming Casey!!!
women is the greatest lab for our behaviours as a men, it's where we get to see what works and what doesn't, you implement a certain behaviour in her playground you get the immediate response back whether a positive or a negative return.
Yes. I had a similar relationship that ended badly, oh maybe seven years ago. A year ago we reconnected and I’ve been playing her like a fiddle, giving out my love very sparingly, and it’s made her crazy for me! I pass shit tests without even noticing, and only upon reflection a month later do I notice what it was.
Sound advice Casey, Bravo! I'm 75 yrs old and I can say unequivocally that they never change. Married once, divorced 31yrs. I have boiled it down to 2 rules,1: Don't create a problem where one doesn't exist. 2: Don't make it harder than it has to be... Thanks for reminding me, the emasculating thing they do are like a boxer punching the ribs, the first few don't really hurt, but after awhile the hands come down .... Every man I know who has been married for 40 yrs, and I knew these guys when young, say :"I don't argue with her.." That is the final capitulation of the male. Then complete control is turned over to the woman, all decisions, your time, money, and body, not for sex, are hers to use as she only chooses.... Stay strong my brother, I preached/ lived a very similar message in the 70s....
Those are really great rules to follow about life. After I finally decided to wave the white flag on women and relationships, now I allow them access to my life but only on my terms and especially as long as it is fun. My peace and quiet is more attractive to me than the hottest woman.
Great video! More emasculation methods: 1) Demand that he apologizes when she treats him poorly and he pushes back. I had a girl tell me to shut up on the phone because she was reading. I told her to read than and I will call her back. She later demanded an apology and broke up when I wouldn't. 2) Play psychologist. Diagnosing their man with narcissism. Gaslighting. Whatever is trendy. 3) Isolation. Try and get her man to drop his friends and family for her.
@@fluxuleducatieihe said "demand an apology" If you have to ask for someone to say sorry then it's not a true apology. Foolish thinking by this boy 😂 maybe he should shut up as his girl told him to 😂
One experience I had a while back with a gal I just started to date: She wanted to get together on a Saturday. I said "I can't this Saturday. I'm going fishing." "You mean you would rather go fishing than spend time with me?" "This Saturday, yes." "I don't think we should see each other anymore." "OK" And that was the end of her.
@@Prometheushighaf lol. Sometimes I shrug and shut up. Other times I call her on her disrespect. It is hard to tell if she is being playful or is testing me to see if I am willing to stand up to her shit test. If a man never pushes back, she will lose attraction because he is weak. If he pushes back too much, she will lose attraction because he is no fun.
Women who have used or bullied men regardless of why will not magically change into a princess. If you are lucky enough to have found this video and stop feeling guilty for being treated like your not good enough by a woman, you will release the unapologetic pathetic female who is rude. Knowledge is a virtue, thank you, Casey
So true. Two things that make you more attractive to women: Get married and make a ton of money. I’ve noticed since I’ve been married (34 years and counting), I’ve had many more instances of flirting and other games. Unreal. It could also be that I just don’t care what any women think of me. I’m relatively free from that now. Stay strong men.
lol, you do not have to get married to display 'preselection'. that is probably the worst preselection ever, considering all the liability a man has to take on the moment he signs that legal paper.
@@Junoj101 I did not get married to become more attractive. All I’m saying is in my experience, that is the way it panned out. Nothing more than that. It is not prescriptive rather experiential. Take care.
@@steveb4400 same thing happened to me when I got married. Divorced now. Women just started to talk to me and stuff. Even ones who I seen all the time. Now they wanna show interest.
I was raised by a gen x misogynist. 😂. My dad is a legend. I have had very few issues with women in the ways I'm listening to. I can see the behaviours I have are noted in videos like this...and i probably just thought that's normal. But its clearly something younger men need to be taught. Great channel. Keep up the good work.
Misogyny isn't cool bro. You still lost nerd 😂. He's not teaching you to look down on women. He's teaching you their nature. There is a difference. If your dad's a misogynist He's a douche
Truest rant ever. HOWEVER, 10 things or not, it don’t matter in divorce court when she cashes in on your success and gets daddy government to bend you over. As long as you don’t give her the power of the legal system to get revenge for not bending the knee to her. Those points could work. If you married her, you’re in her world. Frame or not, all you got is “hope”.
This is absolutely not true. I see women at my work who disrespect their male bosses because they allow it. A bunch of weak men with no backbone. Like Casey said, men get disrespected only because they allow it.
This is the stuff dads need to teach their sons. Being a man that is impervious to these tests is the foundation that everything else is built on and even if you don't want to work out, work hard or weren't born tall, this foundation will go a very long way. When you see a regular looking guy with a great looking woman, this is what he has that you probably don't. Lucky for us, it's something we have the power to change for ourselves.
Agreed. My mum did a great job raising me as a single parent but me not having a stable and strong masculine presence in my life to balance out a majority of feminine energy has definitely led to some doormat moments with my partner that I look back on and go "what the fuck was I thinking?" I had zero standards for what I would put up with. A hard lesson worth learning.
@@aarongarcia5667 Just until they either respect you or choose to bounce. I've has a couple of narcissistic friends before. I kept one of them around for personal reasons lol
Used to be selfies were made discretely, nowadays they are shamelessly and endlessly made in public for Tiktok videos etc. = normalized narcissistic behavior.
Casey this is the best video u ever done. Extremely true. I really like the 8th one. It shows a bit of mystery to her. Most men don’t understand that. They are too busy trying to please them. A lot of guys don’t understand that mystery attracts the women much more than chasing her
There's a caviat... You know how women need to connect, address things/issues every now and then.. They're more of a communicative energy than masculine ways.. To talk! Connect. How would a man dodge this when she needs to frequently connect, yet the man is not much available, that she'll find another from her dms even if it's just as a friend.. I've seen many women falling for this cuz their man is now not a so called provider in terms of such communication. We're talking about relationships here, not in terms of wooing someone.
This is the best and most concise video on dark female nature ever. Im using the wisdom I learn from your channel and leveling up in my life. Thank you for the work you put in.
Its not dark, they do this for a reason, its instinct, not because they just want to be bitches, well most anyway. I posted the answer to this, maybe it will shed some light.
One woman has actually changed my life, she was blunt, she pointed out my weaknesses "You seem not to get things done", and that hit me. She knew my potential, and was disappointed in my short comings in my personal life. She was also first person to make me realize that sex can be fun, not just a nervous struggle, that I too can enjoy it with right person. It was an affair that lasted for a year, she was my collegue, she was cheating her husband. I am not proud of it and I am in debt no doubt, but it was life changing. After her I have been more active than ever before, trying out new things, able to break through some of my mental barriers. She was like a catalyst that speed up my self improvement worth 10 years. I have to point out though, unlike most women, she can be much more logical and also articulate her thoughts clearly.
Good video bro. Its taken heartbreak for me to take a hard look at myself and notice these things. As hard as it can be to implement. The best way I can describe by doing these things is you feel more like a man and empowered. The more empowered you feel the more confidence you exude. Simple and to the point
When a man does not have abundance or abundance mentality he naturally will invite crazy into his life and keep that crazy until she is done using and abusing him. If a man has 5 women that are after him, he naturally will throw out the one that is making things harder for him. He is not going to try to fix things or negotiate with her. he will just compare his options and move the one that is more fun to be to the top of the chart. The magic pill to a lot of issues that men are dealing with is "abundance". The moment you have and keep abundance is the day women will know that you are different, they actually will be more attracted to you and behave a lot better.
It's crazy cuz as men who come from decent backgrounds, we know this shit naturally. But then we get weak for them. We need these reminders. This is why fatherhood is so import because it takes our strong selves to teach us about our weak selves.
I completely understand why my ex left me now. It sucks to hear this but it is super useful and i appreciate it. Use this information as fuel and a tool guys. It is somewhat harder for me to regulate my emotions due to my asd which is just more reason to overcome that and just a bigger challenge
Really good timing for me, currently enduring a shite test after a crappy msg at 1am about a week ago. Have stood staunch, not contacted her and grinding like mad. Useful insights about maintaining frame when pushed, much appreciated Unckle!
A few times in my life girls close to me have shit tested me...I've said in a matter of fact way "If you keep this up I'm leaving ( from their home )...they kept it up so I've got up and left...each time as I was walking out the door or down the driveway they started to apologize begging me too stay,,,but Ive kept walking never looking back except too wave backwards over my shoulder,,, Then they blow up your phone,,, because now their worried where you've gone,,, worried they may not see you again,,,all this causes them emotional stress and to top it off it's their own fault, And here's the good news,,,if she's "hot",,,she has probably NEVER had a guy do that to her,,,which makes her work harder too see you, Everything in this video is sound advice,,cudos,,,respect
Casey, new subscriber here, I just found your channel today. Thank you for what you do. My eyes have been opened now that I am in my 40s and after 20 plus years of marriage.
I grew up before all this content was online, I noticed that simply through experience some men learn all of this over time but others repeat the same mistakes over and over. It’s really very simple, there has to be an underlying message that you’re capable of making her feel all the ways she’s fantasizing about but you’re equally capable of walking away the second the cost outweighs the benefit for you. But when I say cost I don’t mean walking away because she got sick or had some misfortune happen, that’s just cold, I mean the cost of bullshit behavior.
Oh my gosh Casey you are SO spot on! I can admit I've done all of these. Yes I want to make sure a man has a strong frame or I don't want him in my life
If you test a masculine man too much, we just get rid of you for being a headache, never forget to masculine men you are replaceable My first wife knows this the hard way, and when she begged me to come back I didn't Almost kicked the current one out for attitude, she wants to be a stay at home wife? Cool, then kindness, cooked food, and a clean house is fair during my 13+ hour shifts, if I come home and it's not done, I'll send her back to Europe. Likewise, any man who can afford to have a stay at home wife should tolerate near zero shit tests.
Casey, couple videos back you talked about how wonderful women are and how a good woman can add so much value to a mans life, and now at 8:15 you talk about how they don't bring anything to the table besides food and sex. the thing is I totally agree with you on both points. From a purely physical standpoint they are babymakers and homemakers as long as the man is a good provider/hunter/farmer, and when there is polarity between the feminine and masculine then there is unity. I understand your teaching style though as you paint a picture of situations in order to make men think and understand what they need to do.
2 principles: 1. If you only want sex, then pay a girl/woman. 2. If you want a relationship with a girl/woman then never give your heart (life, full time, mind, full attention) to her.
I was with a girl for six years, she did all these things to me. I let her do all of these things to me. Finally on Halloween she said she loved me but didnt love me, I was ok whatever and i walked. Haven't talked to her since. I'm done being like this I'm in it for me from now on.
You just earned a new sub.. this is all facts. I apply all these things but it's a breath of fresh air to know someone knows this topic well enough to teach it correctly to men. We aint all taught this growing up
Somethings you're right about... other things.. not so much. If she's a good woman and she has enough courage to bring up an issue, she's bringing it up because it needs to be addressed, not to create an issue out of thin air. A high value man will address it and work through it with her, not shut her down. And yes, it works both ways. Also, caring about the relationship is not solely upon the woman. It's a mutual reciprocal thing. If you manage to find a good woman and you treat her like a queen, she will 100% reciprocate and treat you like her king!
This goes against the women he’s aiming to make chase you, I think the women he’s going for aren’t good women. However the ones that reciprocate are the good ones. Where you don’t need all that emotional work to entice them to stay by not caring as much for them essentially.
Amazing stuff as always we as men need to keep on our grind/purpose and be able to see what is going on with the women we let into our lives they need to understand there are rules, and communication ways in which you as the men set for the relationship its going to take time and discipline though to achieve this lets get the work done boys.
I love this, you're the man Casey! I did have my heart broken but honestly, I needed this advice a long time ago. I been in and out multiple relationships throughout the years with different women from all over. I am more focused on my purpose and I date casually. I have a son to raise and a life to live. Men like this need to take over the world.
dude these videos are some of the best i've seen in a long time. Just got out of a relationship after dumping my ex cause she was acting up. So many questions answered, god bless you Casey!
Casey you are 100%. On point. Wish I known this 20 years ago. I feel bad for the women who behave in this way. It's very sad, and a waste of life and time.
Well done Casey!!! Damn that is such a valuable video. Great energy and well delivered. Definitely going to watch it again from time to time. You should write a book on the topic.
Thanku Casey. You knock me out with your 10 written truths about how women emasculate a man! I love your work that you help us with. A big thanks from me.
The part about being able to walk away at any time is the most important on my opinion If you can’t let the girl go at any time, know that you are fucked. You may not be fucked for a very long time, or it could (and likely will be) a short time. But you are fucked If your happiness is reliant on a woman, your life is going to come to a head at some point and you will be broken for a very long time ALWAYS have your happiness independent of women. If you can’t do it entirely now then build towards it. Never, ever ever ever have a woman be your happiness. I don’t care who the woman is, it won’t work.
I know man, I watch these videos and I always come around to thinking it’s much better off to stay single and date very casually if you want to. Minding these rules and adhering to them is like a second full time job
I tried something that I learned on another video I watched, and to be honest I thought it was going to backfire, well she jumped on my lap after work yelled at me and said why did you ignore me etc.. I told her I had expectations she wasn't meeting and she listened, she apologized a couple of times, keep in mind I've been with her 10 years and she's a woman with many options (900k followers on live me). It worked brother, I'm learning everyday by listening to your videos I appreciate your time and obedience. Have a blissful one ✅💪🏻
@@bigtreecombatacademy2927 Trust me I helped her get them, I was supporting it, I told her no more live and she's off, I feel that real men we can help woman on there spiritual journey, idk just my opinion
That video did not disappoint i took notes. I have been researching MBT ever since you have introduced it. This has allowed me to get any relationship i want and almost got me introuble a few times with old friends significant others. This is very true i commend your consistency and constants when teaching MBT with your actions, being the change you wish to experience.
I have never watched any social media short, reel, video, long or short that has taught me so much and empowered me to the point that this video has… Casey Zander is a god among insects. If you are reading this, you are likely on your rise to the top of bug all women
This guy makes so much sense. He's coming back to same couple of principles, but branches it into different problems or scenarios. The ability to walk out, to stand up for yourself, 50/50 recipient relationship, it's all cool. Also it makes sense to work on yourself and get that six-pack and some money in the bank. Why not, if it increases your chances to gain and keep respect of one particular woman of your choosing, and basically also all other women, because the principles are principles. If you act respectfully and appropriately, all women will respond positively as default. They're not out there to create drama, especially in public. Privately, there was those certain points where she test you, and as he explains, you need to stand up for yourself. But all the time around that, girls just wanna have fun, right? They definitely don't any extra stress, any more work and probably worst of all - unstable men. So don't be that men. Get stability, get manners, and then you'll have much bigger chance to get a beautiful and respectful girl as your life-time companion. So, the plan is simple. Good luck.
@@dobsok84 I guess that depends on individual position. My life was always chaotic and crazy, so I go for stability as much as I can. In my view, boredom is the lack of stability, and I felt a lots of boredom most of my life so I know the feeling. I think any kind of happiness or good life is based on securities and stability. The more the better. The way I see it, the boredom means lack of stability, because stability gives you options and way of life that suits you the best. But it's possible that some people take stability as boring, so as I said - depends on position in life.
Men everything this guy says is truth. As an older guy (45 year old man) I’ve been doing this my whole life. My old man schooled me to this. As a man you need to be In control. Sometimes you need to reject her sexual advances when in a relationship. Women feel love when they are in uncertainty. If you live together and are married you need to do this. If you are out at a company party and your wife is with you and a younger female colleague tries to talk to you engage her and have a witty exchange of banter. Your wife will be mad but it creates dread and she will treat you better. When she calls you out on it later ignore her.
she may treat you better short term, because she may be afraid of loosing you. perceived competition. in the long term, though, if you continue to creation situations in which she feels undesirable, she may resent you. men do their own version of tests, wonder why wife stops having sex years later lol. some uncertainty and distance creates excitement, but ultimately we need to feel desired by our partners in order to want to please them. shunning women only creates nervousness, nervousness and excitement operate in similar ways in the body. that’s why breakup sex can be just as good as sex in the honeymoon phase. if you have an anxious attached woman, creating nervousness may get you laid more and listened to but she’s doing that out of fear, not genuine desire. you have to create excitement in a woman as well. all we really want is to feel like it’s the honeymoon phase again.
This is so manipulative and messed up. Sounds like a disaster. Be a human Ang Treat her like a human. Trust me, no women will put up with this douche behavior.
You are unintentionally one of the funniest dudes I’ve seen in so long. It’s because you mean what you say and I really appreciate seeing that from a man as a 21 year old… I’ll be coming back here more often
"When a women argues and complains what she's really saying is "hey your time is worthless to me, I'm going to fill your life with all of these problems I;ve created out of thin air, and guess what I expect you to comply, and to change, and to suit my emotional needs."" F!@#K That's so true. The nerve to disrespect this way, cut her off asap, got better shit to do.
STRAIGHT FACTS. I’m 35 and my first child was born when I was your age 28. The only thing you haven’t learned yet Casey is how to navigate the situation when you have 2 little kids with the lady that has crossed every boundary possible and has become the opposite of what any man would want. And making your children grow up in a split house hold is the last thing you would ever want. When you love your children so much you always put them first. Unfortunately it becomes damned if you do and damned if you don’t.
One time, my gf got outright bitchy with me. She apologized and told me it was because she had pms. I just told her, thats fine that your bitchy when your pms-ing. Just let me know or I will write it down on my calendar and on those days we wont see each other. Never was bitchy again with me ever.
This guy gives some solid advice. I think ,imo he is one of the best. None of that "she belongs to the streets" stuff but instead he breaks it down very well.
Make no mistake, they do belong to the streets. His message doesn't change that fact. He just tells you how to separate yourself from the other 99% of guys.
Wow brother you are a genius. This helps understand women subconsciously I still get toxic but I believe your focus on don’t get to is this is subconscious hits it across the park. Please continue focusing on the subconscious part and the purpose part. I had moved away from my purpose after my divorce and your videos helped me with the woman I like. I often expriment with your concepts and have tried and tested and all of them work like magic. It’s like I am recalibrating my mind and belief systems and put in a better understanding of the women psyche.
Another form of disrespect which can apply to both genders: If a woman talks about other men all the time. It doesn't have to have a sexual connotation but the implication is "I have a lot of attention from other men". Don't ever tolerate that sh*t.
I just dropped a girl I've been dating for 2 months. Every so & so she would send me screenshots of guys trying to text her.. I just dropped her cold no explantion no nothing and now shes been stalking me calling and texting from other numbers.
was in a similar situation to one you mentioned, she made drama out of nothing, walked away. I handled it a bit wrong tho...I tried to stop her from leaving. Once she did though, I sent her one text then stopped trying. She came back 2 hours later to apologize. I think I played it decently well, I didn't chase her to her car or spam call her or anything, by the end of it I just said okay fine...and walked away from the door with my back turned to her. Problem is, when she came to apologize, she overheard me talking shit to my dad...and she got so hurt she wouldn't talk to me for like a week. Sometimes girls have low self esteem and these techniques are too harsh and will break them
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You and me bro… I’ll never unhear every single thing you said in this post.
It is done.
What if you can’t level up success but you still manage to get them interested in you?
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The advice in the video is all true but only within certain contexts. You're missing one big piece of the puzzle, as soon as they're are children involved, the balance switches and now she'll have the leverage over you. You won't be able to give her the same ultimatums.
Most of your content is spot on but you should also discuss strategies for true relationships ie. wife/husband + kids. Most of your angle seems to be 'if you're with this/that woman for 3 or 6 months or 1 year' etc
@@voiceofreason1829 that would be a BETA move.
1. She shows non reciprocal behavior. Reinforce behavior you like.
2. She pulls away to check your strength (wimp test) Stay busy with other things.
3. She tries to knock you off your purpose (career, etc.). Fit her in when you can.
4. She withdraws sex. You put up with too much drama, and she doubts you have options.
5. Cutting remarks, bad attitude. Don't put up with it. Walk away or send her away. She must be highly apologetic to get you back.
6. She tries to change you.
7. Making you care about the relationship. It's HER job more than yours, and she must earn the relationship.
8. Long phone calls or long text chats. Lowers your perceived value.
9. Complaining just to gain your compliance.
10. Creating drama out of thin air.
Thank you sir.
sounds like the relationship with my mother besides the sex stuff. sonHusband stuff. Should be a movement to get teen boys guidance if karen single mother. do as much partime work and weekend work until can stop school and start an apprenticeship. if can't get parttime work do as much extracurricular as possible. every day, all week end. stay the hell away from her sabotaging nature otherwise will be an obese man child for life wiping her ass when neither of you can afford a home.
Your fracking awesome guy 💪
You are a good man may God bless you
99.99% modern woman have these issues
“Once a girl knows you will righteously leave, she will righteously stay”. RIP Patrice Oneal
Or constantly power struggle with u till u walk lol
It is all about leverage. As soon as she tried to take it, the relationship is over.
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Having power means always having the capacity to walk away when you are being disrespected and exploited.
This isn’t bullet proof, because some leave because they know they can’t have you ever so,,,,,,,,,,, I wouldn’t stay around either if my work wasn’t paying off. You people who watch this shit are fucking sad man, women and girls are different. You will get different reasons for the same problem between women and girls figure out what your with to begin with. I’ve been the asshoke and the nicest guy same outcome!! It’s the type of female I choose that’s the issue and also me,,,,,, females are easy to deal with but figure out which one is worth your time. I’m 45 and still figuring out what type of female is worth my time
Even being alone in your own solitude with inner peace is better than playing these ridiculous games with clingy needy women.
This is probably why I've spent a lot of time being single. I'm at the point where I enjoy my own company and the things I'm doing in life. So now, if they want to play this stuff with me, it doesn't break me because being alone doesn't bother me. They can either straighten up or kick rocks. I will be ok either way.
But they aren't games. You draw the boundary, and walk away if she breaks it. Only a sincere apology re-opens the door. It's quite simple.
It sounds like games but in all reality, women don't really think like this ,but what I can say is that they do feel like this . Cacey is very logical and makes female nature easier for men to digest. I can say not all women seekout to be this way its just how they are either from biological or enviormental. But I will say the ones who play master mind games are dictating masculine behavior and there the ones seeking power and control.but at the end of the day the way to keep a relationship as a man is to love yourself and set boundaries for yourself women will automatically will try to fit in your space .
Its no games to them. They're like this. Being a man is being strong too in different types of ways. Letting of reproduction is't a manly way
You know what's better than that? Being alone in your own solitude after you blow her back out
"When has a woman ever changed your life?" That's a reality check.
Biggest bar
They had, but I cannot say in a positive way. Only when i was naive and i believed that love was real I thought or made myself believe that women improved my life in some way. Now i been alone for almost a decade and started to not care at all. Maybe i should change my pattern of loneliness, but for what? For pain? No, I am okay as i am, not great, but is bettee than nothing.
Damn you right
Yep.
there is many who have changed my life for the good and for bad
Not only do they not contribute very much to your life, they actually make your life much harder.
I find women useful in two ways. Sex and having my children. Other than that they offer nothing to my life.
Truth
They make you stay out late drinking when you're young fuckin up at work the next day
I helped my guy get sober, paid for everything and gave him a great place to live rent free. I lost attraction since he was so comfortable letting me be the man. I started thinking “what does he bring to my life?” And it wasn’t worth the added stress.
If they didn't have pus3ies they would be piled ten.high at the tip
I'm a 61yo male and I would have loved to have had this advice. I think that this is pure truth that can be used in any phase of life.
As 40 yrs old I saluut you, keep grinding big homie 🌋🏆
Lol 😂 I'm 60
This is not truth, it's bitterness.
@@App-tlyPut Women are the ones who are bitter about the truth.
I’m 65 and I refuse to date women my age.
A woman wants you to have the control and power, the moment you don't, she's going to replace you with someone who does. Well said.
This vid was a gut punch that I needed. I'm attractive, smart, humorous, a physical unit, make 6 figures, combat vet, work on/fix everything myself, no kids, etc...and yet everytime I really like a girl, I fail the tests. When I don't care they won't leave me alone...but this femcentric society has convinced us we need to be that romantic prince charming. Time to get back on my purpose. Thanks.
These Hallmark movies show men how to do everything wrong😂😂😂😂😂
Absolutely true
todays women need to be taught lessons. pussbag men pander to this shit, which feeds it. Which is why so many women are doing it. STOP doing it. Imagine that you are a positive minded man, a good man should be, and the moment a woman wants to disturb that, send her away. The only way she gets to spend time with you is if or when she brings a fun, healthy person in your front door. The other woman gets kicked the fuck out....
I feel you, I kinda feel stupid because the last relationship I was in I failed at everything once I fell for her romantically but the kicker is at the beginning she was the one perusing me and that was probably because I didn’t show much interest and I was completely certain with myself, and had the confidence to back it up, I knew I didn’t need a relationship so I acted like that and she was infatuated by it. The longer the relationship went on the more I allowed her to emasculate me by allowing her behaviour and being soft with her, to the point where now she has zero respect for me, everything was flicked on it’s head. I have to be honest with myself and realise I allowed it to happen when I should’ve continued to act in the same manner that had her obsessing over me in the first place.
@@stealthiscool lessons learned. It's OK to compromise some things. Others you have to stand your ground. Confidence & respect go a long way. I'm in a new relationship now & I've stood my ground on certain things, understanding how women will constantly shit test you, I've made sure she knows I'M the prize & I keep the abundance mindset of there's always other hot chicks if she doesn't act right. This girl wants to marry me. I highly suggest reading The Rational Male & watching more vids. There's a balance between being on your purpose & still being loving. When you find it, you'll be golden.
I don’t let woman control me. I control myself and that’s the first step in being a man. I stay true to my beliefs, my character, my values and I take care of myself and those around me. Most of all, I trust God will meet my needs and I don’t try too hard to control my life. Woman will come and go and the secret is trusting in the truth and the timing, everything else will fall into place.
I missed the bus once but another one came along and it was just as comfortable for the same price,
@@johnjennings9693Woman to be the same
This shit is good, I’ve been out of a toxic three year relationship for almost a year now. I did everything you said, you shouldn’t do. And guess what? I was emasculated, humiliated, and left looking desperate. I’ve started to put myself first and demand respect in the ways you’ve been talking about. And it actually does work. Stand up for yourselves guys, don’t let women walk all over you!!! So glad I found this channel. Keep ‘em coming Casey!!!
How did you recover?
you emasculated yourrself bro. women test their man, and if the man breaks, that reflects on his character. u know?
you should thank them
women is the greatest lab for our behaviours as a men, it's where we get to see what works and what doesn't, you implement a certain behaviour in her playground you get the immediate response back whether a positive or a negative return.
Yes. I had a similar relationship that ended badly, oh maybe seven years ago. A year ago we reconnected and I’ve been playing her like a fiddle, giving out my love very sparingly, and it’s made her crazy for me! I pass shit tests without even noticing, and only upon reflection a month later do I notice what it was.
"Women are dream killers" - Tom Leykis
And Menkillers in some cases
I didn't exactly see eye to eye with leykis but he sure had gems. He was a RP gateway before there was a term for it.
NooooooOur moms are liars
“There’s the door” - Tom Leykis.
what a miserable mindset, lol. Is that dude gay?
Sound advice Casey, Bravo! I'm 75 yrs old and I can say unequivocally that they never change. Married once, divorced 31yrs. I have boiled it down to 2 rules,1: Don't create a problem where one doesn't exist. 2: Don't make it harder than it has to be...
Thanks for reminding me, the emasculating thing they do are like a boxer punching the ribs, the first few don't really hurt, but after awhile the hands come down ....
Every man I know who has been married for 40 yrs, and I knew these guys when young, say :"I don't argue with her.." That is the final capitulation of the male. Then complete control is turned over to the woman, all decisions, your time, money, and body, not for sex, are hers to use as she only chooses....
Stay strong my brother, I preached/ lived a very similar message in the 70s....
Those are really great rules to follow about life.
After I finally decided to wave the white flag on women and relationships, now I allow them access to my life but only on my terms and especially as long as it is fun. My peace and quiet is more attractive to me than the hottest woman.
"She's Not Truly Yours, its just your TURN"
That's only true if you're bald and boring - like that fellow TH-camr.... let's not name names.
Great video! More emasculation methods: 1) Demand that he apologizes when she treats him poorly and he pushes back. I had a girl tell me to shut up on the phone because she was reading. I told her to read than and I will call her back. She later demanded an apology and broke up when I wouldn't. 2) Play psychologist. Diagnosing their man with narcissism. Gaslighting. Whatever is trendy. 3) Isolation. Try and get her man to drop his friends and family for her.
That's a narcissist.
@@fluxuleducatieihe said "demand an apology"
If you have to ask for someone to say sorry then it's not a true apology.
Foolish thinking by this boy 😂 maybe he should shut up as his girl told him to 😂
One experience I had a while back with a gal I just started to date: She wanted to get together on a Saturday. I said "I can't this Saturday. I'm going fishing."
"You mean you would rather go fishing than spend time with me?"
"This Saturday, yes."
"I don't think we should see each other anymore."
"OK"
And that was the end of her.
@@Prometheushighaf lol. Sometimes I shrug and shut up. Other times I call her on her disrespect. It is hard to tell if she is being playful or is testing me to see if I am willing to stand up to her shit test. If a man never pushes back, she will lose attraction because he is weak. If he pushes back too much, she will lose attraction because he is no fun.
@@gregh2880 You dodged a bullet. Congrats.
Women who have used or bullied men regardless of why will not magically change into a princess.
If you are lucky enough to have found this video and stop feeling guilty for being treated like your not good enough by a woman, you will release the unapologetic pathetic female who is rude. Knowledge is a virtue, thank you, Casey
Agreed 👍
So true. Two things that make you more attractive to women: Get married and make a ton of money. I’ve noticed since I’ve been married (34 years and counting), I’ve had many more instances of flirting and other games. Unreal. It could also be that I just don’t care what any women think of me. I’m relatively free from that now. Stay strong men.
lol, you do not have to get married to display 'preselection'. that is probably the worst preselection ever, considering all the liability a man has to take on the moment he signs that legal paper.
@@Junoj101 I did not get married to become more attractive. All I’m saying is in my experience, that is the way it panned out. Nothing more than that. It is not prescriptive rather experiential. Take care.
They want a piece of the cake, dont let them, they will tear you apart.
@@steveb4400 same thing happened to me when I got married. Divorced now. Women just started to talk to me and stuff. Even ones who I seen all the time. Now they wanna show interest.
Don't get married homies
I was raised by a gen x misogynist. 😂. My dad is a legend. I have had very few issues with women in the ways I'm listening to. I can see the behaviours I have are noted in videos like this...and i probably just thought that's normal. But its clearly something younger men need to be taught. Great channel. Keep up the good work.
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Misogyny isn't cool bro. You still lost nerd 😂. He's not teaching you to look down on women. He's teaching you their nature. There is a difference. If your dad's a misogynist He's a douche
Truest rant ever. HOWEVER, 10 things or not, it don’t matter in divorce court when she cashes in on your success and gets daddy government to bend you over. As long as you don’t give her the power of the legal system to get revenge for not bending the knee to her. Those points could work. If you married her, you’re in her world. Frame or not, all you got is “hope”.
Get a prenup and that problem is solved
Marriage is the second most stupid and harmful thing a man can do in his life.
@@AndreyGreenYtube prenups should be normalized.
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Young man, I'm 60 years old, married 30 years. You are exactly who you are suppose to be. If you were me son, I'd be damn proud of you!!!
They don't test their bosses at work. and they do overtime for free. cause he will replace em if a liability.
It's so great seeing you say that. I told my wife that same thing.
This is absolutely not true. I see women at my work who disrespect their male bosses because they allow it. A bunch of weak men with no backbone. Like Casey said, men get disrespected only because they allow it.
@pepepez6335 I've never seen it every woman I see at work are on their best behavior trying to impress the boss all the time
This is the stuff dads need to teach their sons. Being a man that is impervious to these tests is the foundation that everything else is built on and even if you don't want to work out, work hard or weren't born tall, this foundation will go a very long way. When you see a regular looking guy with a great looking woman, this is what he has that you probably don't. Lucky for us, it's something we have the power to change for ourselves.
Agreed. My mum did a great job raising me as a single parent but me not having a stable and strong masculine presence in my life to balance out a majority of feminine energy has definitely led to some doormat moments with my partner that I look back on and go "what the fuck was I thinking?" I had zero standards for what I would put up with. A hard lesson worth learning.
Basically, deal with a woman the way you should deal with a narcissist because that's pretty much what many of them are these days.
So avoid them ? lol
@@aarongarcia5667 Just until they either respect you or choose to bounce. I've has a couple of narcissistic friends before. I kept one of them around for personal reasons lol
Boom
Narc women do this stuff whether ur on frame or not
If u have strong frame they will do it very sneakily
Used to be selfies were made discretely, nowadays they are shamelessly and endlessly made in public for Tiktok videos etc. = normalized narcissistic behavior.
narcissist or a child
Casey this is the best video u ever done. Extremely true. I really like the 8th one. It shows a bit of mystery to her. Most men don’t understand that. They are too busy trying to please them. A lot of guys don’t understand that mystery attracts the women much more than chasing her
There's a caviat... You know how women need to connect, address things/issues every now and then.. They're more of a communicative energy than masculine ways.. To talk! Connect.
How would a man dodge this when she needs to frequently connect, yet the man is not much available, that she'll find another from her dms even if it's just as a friend.. I've seen many women falling for this cuz their man is now not a so called provider in terms of such communication. We're talking about relationships here, not in terms of wooing someone.
GOES both ways
Your communication skills are getting better and better ! Thks
This is the best and most concise video on dark female nature ever.
Im using the wisdom I learn from your channel and leveling up in my life.
Thank you for the work you put in.
Its not dark, they do this for a reason, its instinct, not because they just want to be bitches, well most anyway. I posted the answer to this, maybe it will shed some light.
@@floorcoatin4ui think is just instinct, everyone wants to test a man's might.
One woman has actually changed my life, she was blunt, she pointed out my weaknesses "You seem not to get things done", and that hit me. She knew my potential, and was disappointed in my short comings in my personal life. She was also first person to make me realize that sex can be fun, not just a nervous struggle, that I too can enjoy it with right person. It was an affair that lasted for a year, she was my collegue, she was cheating her husband. I am not proud of it and I am in debt no doubt, but it was life changing. After her I have been more active than ever before, trying out new things, able to break through some of my mental barriers. She was like a catalyst that speed up my self improvement worth 10 years. I have to point out though, unlike most women, she can be much more logical and also articulate her thoughts clearly.
Good video bro. Its taken heartbreak for me to take a hard look at myself and notice these things. As hard as it can be to implement. The best way I can describe by doing these things is you feel more like a man and empowered. The more empowered you feel the more confidence you exude. Simple and to the point
When a man does not have abundance or abundance mentality he naturally will invite crazy into his life and keep that crazy until she is done using and abusing him.
If a man has 5 women that are after him, he naturally will throw out the one that is making things harder for him. He is not going to try to fix things or negotiate with her. he will just compare his options and move the one that is more fun to be to the top of the chart.
The magic pill to a lot of issues that men are dealing with is "abundance". The moment you have and keep abundance is the day women will know that you are different, they actually will be more attracted to you and behave a lot better.
This guy is 100% correct! Women are a never ending maintenance project regardless of the level of their personal lust for handbags and shoes.
yikes
It's crazy cuz as men who come from decent backgrounds, we know this shit naturally. But then we get weak for them. We need these reminders. This is why fatherhood is so import because it takes our strong selves to teach us about our weak selves.
@@ibubezi7685 I've learned how to navigate through those emotions. Reason I never had my windows busted out. LOL
Exactly 🎉
Brutal, harsh, uncomfortable and uncompromising but necessary.
Thanks, Casey!!!
I completely understand why my ex left me now. It sucks to hear this but it is super useful and i appreciate it. Use this information as fuel and a tool guys. It is somewhat harder for me to regulate my emotions due to my asd which is just more reason to overcome that and just a bigger challenge
Ain’t gone lie. I found all of these to be true.
Really good timing for me, currently enduring a shite test after a crappy msg at 1am about a week ago. Have stood staunch, not contacted her and grinding like mad. Useful insights about maintaining frame when pushed, much appreciated Unckle!
Very good. And if she contacts you, trust me, if she's not seriously apologetic right out of the gate, let her go. Don't date her.
A few times in my life girls close to me have shit tested me...I've said in a matter of fact way "If you keep this up I'm leaving ( from their home )...they kept it up so I've got up and left...each time as I was walking out the door or down the driveway they started to apologize begging me too stay,,,but Ive kept walking never looking back except too wave backwards over my shoulder,,,
Then they blow up your phone,,, because now their worried where you've gone,,, worried they may not see you again,,,all this causes them emotional stress and to top it off it's their own fault,
And here's the good news,,,if she's "hot",,,she has probably NEVER had a guy do that to her,,,which makes her work harder too see you,
Everything in this video is sound advice,,cudos,,,respect
Casey, new subscriber here, I just found your channel today. Thank you for what you do. My eyes have been opened now that I am in my 40s and after 20 plus years of marriage.
One of your best and most insightful videos. Needed this wake up call today.
I grew up before all this content was online, I noticed that simply through experience some men learn all of this over time but others repeat the same mistakes over and over. It’s really very simple, there has to be an underlying message that you’re capable of making her feel all the ways she’s fantasizing about but you’re equally capable of walking away the second the cost outweighs the benefit for you. But when I say cost I don’t mean walking away because she got sick or had some misfortune happen, that’s just cold, I mean the cost of bullshit behavior.
This man is really articulate. Amazing.
Oh my gosh Casey you are SO spot on! I can admit I've done all of these.
Yes I want to make sure a man has a strong frame or I don't want him in my life
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If you test a masculine man too much, we just get rid of you for being a headache, never forget to masculine men you are replaceable
My first wife knows this the hard way, and when she begged me to come back I didn't
Almost kicked the current one out for attitude, she wants to be a stay at home wife? Cool, then kindness, cooked food, and a clean house is fair during my 13+ hour shifts, if I come home and it's not done, I'll send her back to Europe. Likewise, any man who can afford to have a stay at home wife should tolerate near zero shit tests.
Enjoy cats.
she probably came for his look first 😂
@@folkishappalachian6827🎉
This isn't just dating advice. I'm having a goddam spiritual awakening right here! Deep wisdom my brother! Peace
Casey, couple videos back you talked about how wonderful women are and how a good woman can add so much value to a mans life, and now at 8:15 you talk about how they don't bring anything to the table besides food and sex. the thing is I totally agree with you on both points. From a purely physical standpoint they are babymakers and homemakers as long as the man is a good provider/hunter/farmer, and when there is polarity between the feminine and masculine then there is unity. I understand your teaching style though as you paint a picture of situations in order to make men think and understand what they need to do.
I naturally do wtf I want to do what I don’t get how most men be simps fr
2 principles:
1. If you only want sex, then pay a girl/woman.
2. If you want a relationship with a girl/woman then never give your heart (life, full time, mind, full attention) to her.
I was with a girl for six years, she did all these things to me. I let her do all of these things to me. Finally on Halloween she said she loved me but didnt love me, I was ok whatever and i walked. Haven't talked to her since. I'm done being like this I'm in it for me from now on.
You just earned a new sub.. this is all facts. I apply all these things but it's a breath of fresh air to know someone knows this topic well enough to teach it correctly to men. We aint all taught this growing up
Excellent post Casey. Definitely a voice of experience and real world solutions. Listen up men, this is the school of hard knocks.
Somethings you're right about... other things.. not so much. If she's a good woman and she has enough courage to bring up an issue, she's bringing it up because it needs to be addressed, not to create an issue out of thin air. A high value man will address it and work through it with her, not shut her down. And yes, it works both ways.
Also, caring about the relationship is not solely upon the woman. It's a mutual reciprocal thing.
If you manage to find a good woman and you treat her like a queen, she will 100% reciprocate and treat you like her king!
You said it. I read your comment at 06.54 of the video. And then, I am now seeing the rest of it just to see how many other places things are wrong.
This goes against the women he’s aiming to make chase you, I think the women he’s going for aren’t good women.
However the ones that reciprocate are the good ones. Where you don’t need all that emotional work to entice them to stay by not caring as much for them essentially.
true I learned the hard way made me stronger person
This was a very different Casey, loved it!
Epitome is the vocabulary word for the day
Amazing stuff as always we as men need to keep on our grind/purpose and be able to see what is going on with the women we let into our lives they need to understand there are rules, and communication ways in which you as the men set for the relationship its going to take time and discipline though to achieve this lets get the work done boys.
I love this, you're the man Casey! I did have my heart broken but honestly, I needed this advice a long time ago. I been in and out multiple relationships throughout the years with different women from all over. I am more focused on my purpose and I date casually. I have a son to raise and a life to live. Men like this need to take over the world.
Pure pure FACTS!! Stay strong my brothers!
dude these videos are some of the best i've seen in a long time. Just got out of a relationship after dumping my ex cause she was acting up. So many questions answered, god bless you Casey!
Absolutely 100% true, but as guys, we must be strong self-sufficient and not need that attention.
Biggest take away
Stand up for yourself and stand up to your boundaries and expectations
This is the best channel with great examples and explanations..cheers from Russia
Casey you are 100%. On point. Wish I known this 20 years ago. I feel bad for the women who behave in this way. It's very sad, and a waste of life and time.
Well done Casey!!! Damn that is such a valuable video. Great energy and well delivered. Definitely going to watch it again from time to time. You should write a book on the topic.
Game changer for sure I'll be hitting this like button 50 times if I could thanks Casey!!
Thanku Casey. You knock me out with your 10 written truths about how women emasculate a man! I love your work that you help us with. A big thanks from me.
The Game is undefeated. Great video and content sir! 👍🏿
The part about being able to walk away at any time is the most important on my opinion
If you can’t let the girl go at any time, know that you are fucked. You may not be fucked for a very long time, or it could (and likely will be) a short time. But you are fucked
If your happiness is reliant on a woman, your life is going to come to a head at some point and you will be broken for a very long time
ALWAYS have your happiness independent of women. If you can’t do it entirely now then build towards it. Never, ever ever ever have a woman be your happiness. I don’t care who the woman is, it won’t work.
I’m watching this every damn day of the rest of my life!
This video is gold everything you say works like a charm
Thank you for putting so much efforts making these videos, I feel your passion for not letting us men down.
Absolutely correct, treat a woman just like you would a male friend
Gay
Spot on. i have witnessed all of it personally. He is saving men from what's waiting.
Women don’t help build a home, they just move in, good one mo! 💯
My man. You're 100% on what you're saying from 10 years of experience with women
This all just reminds me of why I like just being single. Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez.. Thanks bro.
I know man, I watch these videos and I always come around to thinking it’s much better off to stay single and date very casually if you want to. Minding these rules and adhering to them is like a second full time job
I tried something that I learned on another video I watched, and to be honest I thought it was going to backfire, well she jumped on my lap after work yelled at me and said why did you ignore me etc.. I told her I had expectations she wasn't meeting and she listened, she apologized a couple of times, keep in mind I've been with her 10 years and she's a woman with many options (900k followers on live me). It worked brother, I'm learning everyday by listening to your videos I appreciate your time and obedience. Have a blissful one ✅💪🏻
This guys advice is too tier. Nothing flashy just works
900k followers is a massive red flag
@@bigtreecombatacademy2927 Trust me I helped her get them, I was supporting it, I told her no more live and she's off, I feel that real men we can help woman on there spiritual journey, idk just my opinion
Risk of monkey branching/hypergamy increases if they see themselves as higher value than you even if you helped put them there.
@@rhuiden4086you are so right.
That video did not disappoint i took notes.
I have been researching MBT ever since you have introduced it. This has allowed me to get any relationship i want and almost got me introuble a few times with old friends significant others. This is very true i commend your consistency and constants when teaching MBT with your actions, being the change you wish to experience.
U took notes on how to get pussy hahahahahahhahaha
I have never watched any social media short, reel, video, long or short that has taught me so much and empowered me to the point that this video has… Casey Zander is a god among insects.
If you are reading this, you are likely on your rise to the top of bug all women
This guy makes so much sense. He's coming back to same couple of principles, but branches it into different problems or scenarios. The ability to walk out, to stand up for yourself, 50/50 recipient relationship, it's all cool. Also it makes sense to work on yourself and get that six-pack and some money in the bank. Why not, if it increases your chances to gain and keep respect of one particular woman of your choosing, and basically also all other women, because the principles are principles. If you act respectfully and appropriately, all women will respond positively as default. They're not out there to create drama, especially in public. Privately, there was those certain points where she test you, and as he explains, you need to stand up for yourself. But all the time around that, girls just wanna have fun, right? They definitely don't any extra stress, any more work and probably worst of all - unstable men. So don't be that men. Get stability, get manners, and then you'll have much bigger chance to get a beautiful and respectful girl as your life-time companion. So, the plan is simple. Good luck.
But isn't stability = boring?
@@dobsok84 I guess that depends on individual position. My life was always chaotic and crazy, so I go for stability as much as I can. In my view, boredom is the lack of stability, and I felt a lots of boredom most of my life so I know the feeling. I think any kind of happiness or good life is based on securities and stability. The more the better. The way I see it, the boredom means lack of stability, because stability gives you options and way of life that suits you the best. But it's possible that some people take stability as boring, so as I said - depends on position in life.
I can tell you that after being in a 30 year marriage my woman behaved all of these ways. Thanks Casey. I love this video.
Men everything this guy says is truth. As an older guy (45 year old man) I’ve been doing this my whole life. My old man schooled me to this. As a man you need to be In control. Sometimes you need to reject her sexual advances when in a relationship. Women feel love when they are in uncertainty. If you live together and are married you need to do this. If you are out at a company party and your wife is with you and a younger female colleague tries to talk to you engage her and have a witty exchange of banter. Your wife will be mad but it creates dread and she will treat you better. When she calls you out on it later ignore her.
she may treat you better short term, because she may be afraid of loosing you. perceived competition. in the long term, though, if you continue to creation situations in which she feels undesirable, she may resent you. men do their own version of tests, wonder why wife stops having sex years later lol. some uncertainty and distance creates excitement, but ultimately we need to feel desired by our partners in order to want to please them. shunning women only creates nervousness, nervousness and excitement operate in similar ways in the body. that’s why breakup sex can be just as good as sex in the honeymoon phase. if you have an anxious attached woman, creating nervousness may get you laid more and listened to but she’s doing that out of fear, not genuine desire. you have to create excitement in a woman as well. all we really want is to feel like it’s the honeymoon phase again.
This is so manipulative and messed up. Sounds like a disaster. Be a human Ang Treat her like a human. Trust me, no women will put up with this douche behavior.
You are unintentionally one of the funniest dudes I’ve seen in so long. It’s because you mean what you say and I really appreciate seeing that from a man as a 21 year old… I’ll be coming back here more often
"When a women argues and complains what she's really saying is "hey your time is worthless to me, I'm going to fill your life with all of these problems I;ve created out of thin air, and guess what I expect you to comply, and to change, and to suit my emotional needs."" F!@#K That's so true.
The nerve to disrespect this way, cut her off asap, got better shit to do.
STRAIGHT FACTS. I’m 35 and my first child was born when I was your age 28. The only thing you haven’t learned yet Casey is how to navigate the situation when you have 2 little kids with the lady that has crossed every boundary possible and has become the opposite of what any man would want. And making your children grow up in a split house hold is the last thing you would ever want. When you love your children so much you always put them first. Unfortunately it becomes damned if you do and damned if you don’t.
This is exactly what every man needs to hear!
Love the lighting set up in this video. 🔥🙏😎
One time, my gf got outright bitchy with me. She apologized and told me it was because she had pms. I just told her, thats fine that your bitchy when your pms-ing. Just let me know or I will write it down on my calendar and on those days we wont see each other. Never was bitchy again with me ever.
Epic 🤣🤣🤣
I am a 56 yr old man....... CZ you are schooling me ,... and I love it... my eyes are opening ... and its working!
This guy gives some solid advice. I think ,imo he is one of the best. None of that "she belongs to the streets" stuff but instead he breaks it down very well.
Make no mistake, they do belong to the streets. His message doesn't change that fact. He just tells you how to separate yourself from the other 99% of guys.
Casey zander your advice is literally gospel to my ears.
Stand Your Ground Men 👍🏻
caseys a genuis of a man and rarely misses. bravo for another great one.
Rewarding the positive behavior is surprisingly easy once you control yourself.
Wow brother you are a genius. This helps understand women subconsciously I still get toxic but I believe your focus on don’t get to is this is subconscious hits it across the park. Please continue focusing on the subconscious part and the purpose part. I had moved away from my purpose after my divorce and your videos helped me with the woman I like. I often expriment with your concepts and have tried and tested and all of them work like magic. It’s like I am recalibrating my mind and belief systems and put in a better understanding of the women psyche.
your a great speaker, i hope to seen as a great speaker too to the audience i give dating advice to
That epitome drop was pretty funny. used to read it like that too
Another form of disrespect which can apply to both genders: If a woman talks about other men all the time. It doesn't have to have a sexual connotation but the implication is "I have a lot of attention from other men". Don't ever tolerate that sh*t.
I just dropped a girl I've been dating for 2 months.
Every so & so she would send me screenshots of guys trying to text her..
I just dropped her cold no explantion no nothing and now shes been stalking me calling and texting from other numbers.
This video is gold! The best one so far Casey.
Bro this was so helpful and i can see it 100% in my life thanks
Thanks Casey. This is one of your most useful videos. Thank you so much! Pure Gold.
Good video
was in a similar situation to one you mentioned, she made drama out of nothing, walked away. I handled it a bit wrong tho...I tried to stop her from leaving. Once she did though, I sent her one text then stopped trying. She came back 2 hours later to apologize. I think I played it decently well, I didn't chase her to her car or spam call her or anything, by the end of it I just said okay fine...and walked away from the door with my back turned to her. Problem is, when she came to apologize, she overheard me talking shit to my dad...and she got so hurt she wouldn't talk to me for like a week. Sometimes girls have low self esteem and these techniques are too harsh and will break them
It’s not the techniques, it’s your poor handling of the circumstances.
OMG I love this. Keep talking. The internet is wonderful. Thanks guys.
In my experience, most of the time women bring strife. Very rare to find one that adds instead of subtracting.