what do you think of push pull where you are interested and disinterested at the same time like "you look cute but there is something dangerous about you"
Truth is.... Because of their emotionally driven nature... Women tend to critique and judge men harshly and savagely particularly in potentially romantic encounters and situations.... When you have a clearer grasp of how women think and respond to life, and cultivate the ability to cognitively regulate your own emotions with logic it becomes easier to read and evaluate women.... Combine that with not being a slave to lust, and you'll all of a sudden start asking yourself questions like " Is it really even worth it to give this chick my energy?".
Obviously, you are the only one that can answer that question. From my experience, no woman is worth my energy. If I want sex, I rather see a sex worker. For me that is much cheaper than dealing with all the nonsense. Women just annoy me. I am at a point where I wish I could turn off my sex drive.
Absolutely. I was dating 3 different chicks recently and I decided I'm done with 2 of them because there are things about them that just simply dont meet my standards and I dont think they deserve to receive my energy...
@@CDRFINANCE Yea. It is. My own simpler system. Remove the vagina - What is our connecting points and what does she offer to enrich my life?Does she qualify for my standards? If not, your own company is better.
It's honestly that simple. I think it is reasonable to give women some validation and intent and still appear like you're doing this because you want to, not because you're outcome-dependent or manipulating them. Insecure, low value, or unintelligent women may be repelled by it anyway because they don't understand the difference. But I think mature women are able to clock it and emotionally register if what you're doing is genuine and not needy.
Exactly. You can send sweet texts and do romantic things, but couple it with mascuiline indifference and outcome-independentness. Example would be sending a girl a text saying "hope your day is going well, just thought about you", but then not setting up a date for 1-2 weeks. Girls DO like to feel desired by the man they desire, but in the right doses they can appreciate. In addition, guy having indifference and not pursuing to see her right after actually makes her feel safer since she thinks he did it because he wanted to, not because he needed to.@@mikecornell5604
thinks works reverse too, if girl wants and showers you with attention too much, it's alarming usually too almost as if theres ulterior motive behind it all
Yes it's half ass backwards. If two people like each other it should build naturally a person shouldn't have to walk a line of barely giving any attention, respect, appreciation care and or love. When a woman shows all these qualities to us over time we're naturally ecstatic but it's idiotic to be more attracted to a guy that cares less overall.
@chrislong8559, They’re not attracted to men that care less. They are attracted to men that are of higher status than them, and “not giving a shit” is a just a lazy mental shortcut to identity higher status.
This is the answer right here bro. If she doesn’t like you you’re ultimately just wasting your time. The stuff he said in the video only works on SOME women to a CERTAIN degree. But what you said applies to ALL Women.
@@natehermano7166 You can do everything here and still get same ghost rate even after sexing a girl. Happens to me. They just decide well there's 200 other guys trying so I think I can do better. and then same next guy gets my experience, onto next, etc. until 33 and no other guy wants them.
The fucked up part is that I've known a few guys who married and worked their asses off for these ungrateful women who end up leaving them and taking....so much more than they brought into the relationship. They want safety and security.....until they can run off with the bag often times.
Happened to my nephew. He is mid 20s. Good looking. Been making 6 digits since he was 23. Bought his wife new home. They had a baby. A year later she left.
The problem with not showing intent is that it gets too many guys friend zoned. You have to be willing to show her that you're on demon time/value your time, and that you're not willing to be a friend/validation orbiter. If they ain't down for the program/meet your standards then it's good bye (sub-communicated, not necessarily verbally said). There are ways to show intent that come from a position of power, self respect & pre selection. There is a difference between chasing, and pursuing. As someone who's been in the game long & is ultimately successful now, Casey has a valid point as he understands his audience is mostly men who are failing at dating. Overall a great video and helpful for the men who need this. I just think it's important that we do not generalize showing "intent" as bad, rather, any needy intent is bad. Keep up the fantastic work👌
@@xenonautili without getting too much into semantics: being seductive is showing intent. You're showing her you're not here to be a friend. Flirting is also showing intent. But I agree with the fact that there are based ways of doing it, and needy ways of doing it.
yeah while Casey's content is overall really good (I am even considering buying his MBT), I feel like he sometimes expresses stuff poorly. A man has to show intent. He has the initiative. Asking for her number = showing intent, setting up a date = showing intent, going for the first kiss = showing intent, escalating to sex = showing intent. If you don't do this, you will be friendzoned 100%. But of course, you can't just randomly go for the kiss (=needy/insecure). You need to MAKE the situation so that the kiss will feel natural, and that happens via flirting, teasing, banter, deep conversations, lighter physical touch etc. This shit is nuanced. One cannot simply say showing intent = bad.
I think what he said is very nuanced. He mentioned there is levels to this and that showing direct intent is very high level, because it needs to be coupled with a truly detached internal state. Most guys watching this, including myself aren't able to do that all the time. Indirect communication is a tool to help reinforce an internal state of detachment and indifference, all while learning to sub communicate. I will say though, the thumbnail and title isn't nuanced. That's just the game.
The fact is, the men she wants and truly desires DO NOT have to show intent and she will still pursue. Feeling the need to show intent means this woman isn't naturally attracted to you. I promise you even if you just behave "friendly" as you say with a woman, if she wants you she will make it known
the fact that we need to have full blown theory on a whiteboard like we are in a calculus class is mind blowing. jesus no wonder guys get red pill rage
Hold your seed. Be patient. Treat them ALL the same. Hold your eye contact in every initial interaction. Remember you are the prize. Watch them flock, brothers!
They won’t crush a guy that respects them; they will crush a man, if they display the other things you mentioned; neediness, too much interest; too nice, fake, aggression. They don’t mind respect.
So too much love showing and giving attention is wrong? If a man likes a woman, shows he loves her alot give her attention that's bad?? Then what should be done just Care less about her ? That shows u are just playing mind games and the relationship won't last long.
You just described my partner… I lost all the respect because he didn’t treat me with respect first. He was overly nice at the beginning, charming but when he had me he started to be controlling, aggressive and I always had to serve him like a mom… he showed me he couldn’t control his emotions or protect our family because it’s always his needs first… Balance… everything in life needs balance… for both men and women.
@@RUPESH_GOSAVI_1 Imagine yourself in that position, where the partner gives you non-stop attention, calling you 8-15 times a day asking where you are or if you're ok, or if you want to eat, or if you want your ass wiped, or whatever. That is patronizing behavior, it feels fake and forced to the other person, like you trying to get something from them, and it gets sickening fast. You are partners, two humans with their own unique qualities that make a team, not a parent and a child that need to be looked after. Your feelings towards each other will fluctuate, and its natural. And going from overly affectionate instantly to cold just because you don't feel like it right now will, if they love you, inevitably make the other person question your interest in them. So it is always better to have a balance, for your own and your partner's sakes.
Remember her only power against you is seggs & her beauty… if your charisma is on point you can play the direct game intent otherwise don’t do it.. always be looking for other women and you must have a purpose otherwise you will fall.
I find that hilarious. Womn dont give af about men enough to learn “rizz”… its all up to the man and here we all are trying to learn… so lowkey their still winning… gotta play the game
@@TraeZoe they only lose to bad boys, becuas the 'BAD BOY' never settle down . NEVER thats why your girlfriend start nagging and betazation your ass THE SECOND she's moved in to your place or she knows you want her for long term!! They always do that all of them. becuas they can thats it. they get bored of you and soon or later LEAVE.
Listening to this makes me think how I've treated women who aren't attractive to me who have bent over backwards for my approval so I'm guessing i have to treat very attractive women the same way that's insane 😂
I’m so dumb… I’ve literally been approached by those women I encounter day to day and don’t even notice them… then the ones that I do find attractive I fawn over and try to endlessly make eye contact and then fumble. Maybe I should just ignore everyone. 😂
@bigsweatyvols2817 when I was a teenager I got approached by 5 girls who just propositioned me straight out… one of them just says ‘we just want to f***!’ … even at that sex obsessed age it totally freaked me out… it would have either been amazing or I was about to get robbed. 😂😂😂
I couldn't agree with this more. I remember this one time I asked a girl from gym out on date. Before we met up on the agreed date, I remember saying "I like you" via chat and her interest in me was out of the window(she seemed very keen before that). Whenever we would meet after that she would act like she had never seen me in her whole entire life. 😂😂I still laugh at myself till this day when I think about it. Keep up the good teachings uncle C.
i don't think the problem was you saying "i like you", 100% for sure that was not the problem :) saying something that you think about it means you have the guts to say it, being a man is not about guarding yourself.
One of the best lines I’ve learned from CZ’s vids is “I find you attractive, would you like to get to know each other better.” it’s simple, very comfortable and devil may care. Call me picky, cuz I don’t use it often, but when I do I get the desired result.
This is what dating advice should be . And more than that, it's like an overall personality development steps and I love that about your videos. Keep up the good work man.
Zander you are literally educating men on how not to vanish or go on extinction in 2020’s …. Bro BLESS you , You must reach the masses and save men from the feminism monster ! Thank you 🙏🏼
The last 30 videos are like pieces to a puzzle. Everything now fits together and I can now see the whole puzzle. Casey is like the boy wonder prodigy who at 27 cracked the code on ACTUALLY *EXPLAINING* how & why women do what they do and how that fits into a man's life. He is like the Albert Einstein of modern game
@@WeGetWildTV oh man it's such a rabbit hole. But I'd say when I was failing in dating I was just showing way too much interest. Texting back too fast. Being too consistent with trying to hang out with them. Validating them too much. I was in the seller frame trying to qualify to them too much. The list just goes on and on. The importance of being in the "buyer" frame where you are the one screening the girl, and then being more mysterious, the importance cant be overstated
@@T.K.Wellington1996 you absolutely are. No purpose or hobbies...anxiety and depression and laziness and sin soon follow. Gotta find a purpose and develop skills.
Patience, indifference, having a purpose outside the relationship is all very important. What I would add that Casey didn't is that there is a threshold. Meaning you do need to be indifferent however only up to a point. You want to be indifferent just long enough that activates that tension however you don't want to be so indifferent to the point she gets really angry or loses interest or a huge blow up occurs or she thinks you are not sexually interested at all. You just want to leave little bread crumbs of validation and don't over do it for fucks sake. Like I said before ....there is a bit of an art to it. A delicate balancing act. When you get it dialed in just right..... She becomes wetter than Niagara Falls........
You haven’t been paying attention to these videos…if she gets angry that’s perfect. ANY emotions with a woman is better than NONE! Women always sleep with the dude who they tell their friends they “hate” and call an “asshole”. That dude has her hooked because she gets mad/emotional and it doesn’t phase him.
@@mitchellnelson6249 Yes I agree its ideal that she actually gets pissed off sometimes. My point was that there is a point that if you do it too much....then SOME women will get pissed and leave completely. If you have a particularly attractive girl that actually has a pleasant demeanor then it wouldn't be ideal to have her immediately leave. Again not a big deal as you can just date someone else. I think every guy does it his own way based on his personality and preferences.
@@Kennymacdougall If you aren't grasping what I'm saying which isn't complicated then yes...just follow Casey's lead and you will be just fine. I have developed my own style that works well for me is all and Im not afraid to speak up and share as I know it may help some other guy which ultimately the goal.
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
@@bradd188 These comments are left by bots that are shilling for an African scammer. You can see these exact comments on thousands of videos across TH-cam.
it's sad that a lot of people will dismiss these videos thinking it's all about manipulation and dishonesty when in reality what he's proposing men turn to in dating is *common sense*: have a *purpose*, have a *life*, have things you genuinely enjoy doing with or without a romantic partner, have an anchor for your soul that isn't a pretty woman, and have higher standards than "if she's pretty enough I'm gonna stumble over myself to get her to like me". if you seriously think this is bad information your problems are deeper than any kind of TH-cam video can solve, except maybe videos on God and Jesus. thank you for the content, these are useful reminders to stay on top of your own business and not get stuck on any woman. God bless
I mean its def a game, so there is a degree of manipulation, but what i like is hes teaching men not to be simps; we need this as women generally have a huge advantage when it comes to this shit. Glad hes literally teaching men how to rise up again using science and principles and not telling guys to act like complete douchebags
women hate it when it comes from a man they dont respect too soon, women love it when it comes from a man that is confident attractive has self control and who is a challenge.
@@bobsanders5488 top tier comment its the media the music, the movies and social media it will make guys into hopeless romantics (simps) 500 days of summer is one is a movie that depicts this perfectly
It's really awesome to have this kind of information available for people to reference back to when it comes to female nature, but it is also a constant reminder of just how ridiculous it is when it comes to attraction with modern-day women. It is such an extraordinary amount of work and disappointments especially when unless you are already quite the Chad you have all the cards stacked against you being up against women's hypergamy.
Casey you are a God send.. the value you provide is beyond words. My world has changed in 1 short month because you changed the way I view it. Thank you & God Bless brother! 👊
Great shit Casey. He says this, but I will say it again. The more you accept patience and internalize these concepts throughout his videos. They will approach YOU, aggressively oftentimes. Don't give up, say this is too hard or make fun of the wipeboard, like some of these idiots. Accept the challenge and you will be rewarded. Don't believe him or me, learn this for yourself. Learn the game. This is what he is teaching. Or keep losing the chicks you want...
This information is all so TRUE. I start with (eye contact) the eyes say everything. Obviously you don't sit and stare like a weirdo, but your eyes meet and say hello before anything. THEN my theory is "The girl chooses the guy." So basically I go places with zero expectations of attracting any female in the potential circumstances I'm about to be in, which ultimately give me the "I don't give AF" attitude when the opportunity arises to converse with an attractive woman. In my opinion that has brought me most success in dating. And not only that but I'm not even paying attention to my lost opportunities or rejections because I never had expectations in the first place. I only focus on the success of getting dates. 💯
Everytime I watch & listen to Casey, I either learn more, or reinforce what I have already learned. PATIENCE, POSTURE, VOICE TONE, SHOW INDIFFERENT MASCULINITY.
I have interacted with many women in my life and i understood everything to what's he is saying. I deep down thought what he will say and he is 100% correct
My 10 year relationship recently ended. I can tell you some mistakes I made was letting her have any sort of power in the relationship. When I stopped taking the lead and making the decisions she slowly started to lose respect for me. We had a family together and he’s right when he says they don’t care if there’s kids involved. Second big mistake I made was when I did make a mistake and we broke up over it I was to apologetic about everything. I put to much effort into getting her back instead of being indifferent to her and how she felt and she recognized how dependent I was on her. She also has 4 other sisters that were against me aswell and I can tell you when women get together against you it definitely doesn’t help. But that’s the biggest thing was I let the power dynamic shift and she knew it. Imagine your relationship is like driving a car together, well I started to let her drive the car and that was a mistake.
This is the whole point of naturally red pilling and living a life free and on your own terms as a complete self being . The women can then share and compliment your life in mutual companionship . With or without a female one becomes complete in the self with inner purpose . Nothing is lossed at this point . Your nature makes you take what one wants and self love projects the true aura of confidence that's mesmerizing . No falseness . Life is in your control as long as the focus is on the core .
Casey you are a straight G brother! I'm super impressed with the level of knowledge and understanding you have when it comes to dealing with women and relationships in general is mind blowing! You're still pretty young yourself. You are on point with literally everything you say. I don't know anyone else online on your level. You have helped me out so much! Much love brother!
Beta here. Married for 10 years to a good woman. We had a baby girl during the pandemic. She has loaded parents who employ her, I do blue collar. She told me I should be a stay at home Dad and I complied. I became emotionally weak, ridiculously reactive, hopelessly needy (when I felt her pulling away) and lost all masculinity and purpose in life. She had an affair with a douche bag, but very alpha neighbor, and then filed for divorce. I say she was a good woman because I don't blame her, I would have divorced me as well. My existence is absolute shame, regret, and pain. I'm dedicated to learning how to be a man. Thank you, you're my jumping off point.
The thing people especially women don’t acknowledge is that they can always be straight forward and tell you what they want! This one chick told me I’m so tired of having boring sex or the same sex and I was like why don’t you tell your husband that??? She loook dumbfounded like telling your husband that was taboo These are weird creatures
Dope AF thumbnail bro! Treat women like you DGAF about them. You don't care if they lay, stay, or pray. The moment you act like you are all into them, you're done. Very hard to do when you really like or love someone, because as men, we want to treat the woman we want/love like gold. Never let them know you are a sure thing. Always keep them guessing. I just screwed this whole thing up recently with a girl I really care for. We had some history from more than 10 years ago. I was all up her a-- and now she is not interested. Only move I had left was to totally pull back and stop all initiated communication. I stopped texting and or calling her. If she does not reach out to me again, its over. 007
@@Xight46 hi. We started talking again, got together, and then the same crap started happening. I decided not to reach out anymore, and neither did she. It's been 6 weeks since our last contact. I'm so over her now. She is nothing but a liar and a user. I am never going to reach out to her ever again. 007
I was talking to this girl and all i did was play a song on my phone the song says i love you at the beginning, not even a romantic song, i saw her mood change instantly for a mirco second. I could only laugh and think about casey.
loool. so true. I can see their moods change in micro seconds based on the stimuli and always understand their nature and why it is happening. too funny because I know why and they don't.
Yet, I am noticing a rise in TH-camr content that encourages such behaviour on cold approach. Like Casey said, you can pull it off if you don't give a $hit, but most of these guys doing it are forcing it.
@@vd.s6158 You are correct, but don't say "Gosh you're pretty" like Timmy Turner in Fairly Odd Parents. CSB: I knew a girl that was REALLY into shoes and she legit said the line "nice shoes, wanna f***?" would work on her. The difference between the two compliments is one puts her on a pedestal. Don't do that.
I’m so glad I found a woman that doesn’t fall into these videos that you make. She’s one in a million and if I didn’t have her I wouldn’t even try to date cause if I tried to get a woman that I had to jump through hoops for like this I would drive myself crazy
Im just gona live a life of honesty instead. I dont realy care that it will scare the fake ones away...id rather soround myself with real and sincere peole. So im gonna be honest with women. Im not gonna play games. Im to old for that bullshit. Im not gonna play games anymore. Im gonna be real and honest. If they hate that they can f off..
This is so convoluted let me break it down to you in such a simple way that you all understand. Do you have hobbies have things that are more important than chasing girls. Enjoy life. Accept being single. It will naturally make you feel more confident about yourself and women will notice you.. that’s it
The straight up full blown natty flex, and jumbling ur words like a nervous middle schooler are the two best tips j can give U Casey. Appreciate ur work
I was very sad when i noticed this myself. The more love you give them the less they give you. Very sad because i want to show my love, but it is what it is. Gotta play these h03s.
One problem is this, that the mere act of walking up and speaking to a woman shows that you're not indifferent. If you were indifferent, why would you walk over and risk rejection? I guess cultivating a mindset that rejection is not that big of a deal helps.
Showing intent is one of the core principles of good game. If you don’t show intent and don’t do it early on, you will probably get friend zoned. Not showing intent is what 99% of guys currently do. It’s called being a nice guy, or gay best friend. Showing intent is what separates you from those guys. It’s how you make conversations man to women. The key is to not be attached to the outcome. If she likes you or not, neither is a big deal. You have to think of it from the perspective that you have an abundance of women in you’re life. How would you act? How would you act if you are used to women responding well to you? It doesn’t have to be complicated. Be detached from the outcome, show clear intent, have an abundance mentality, self amuse, don’t be overly reactive, etc… it’s all just a vibe.
@@T.K.Wellington1996 exactly. Game isn’t something you do, it’s something you are. Become an attractive guy. When you do, the right words will flow out of you naturally. And if something is hard, you really struggle with approaching anxiety or something else, throw yourself at it. It’s where the most personal growth is. It’s where you level up the most. No matter how hard, or how much a guy thinks he has a flawed personality, it’s all learnable. Everyone can develop social skills.
I agree with some things but honestly I have gotten girls when I was very direct especially when it's in person so I don't completely agree. They definitely hate when you respond too soon to texts though.
Those who are new to this don’t go by not showing intent. You have to show you intent but in a subtle or indirect way. She needs to know you’re interested to talk. Just don’t over do it boys.
Definitely missed out recently on a smoking hot 9.1 outta 10 girl. (Looks wise) came on too strong wanting to get her out too dinner and told her she was good looking. Thought I was being “bold” definitely did NOT work.
The only reason I slightly disagree here is women love words of affirmation but just do it sparingly. Whereas Casey says don’t do it at all I say don’t overdo it. I agree if you put women on a pedestal they’ll treat u like a needy desperate fan. But it’s also something you should do once in a while to make them feel good because if you don’t make them feel appreciated at all they will find the attention and admiration they want from another man.
In my experiance if a women likes you she will make it very, very easy easy to aproch her and date. If a women doesnt like you it doesnt matter what you do, she still wont like you. Keep it simple, no mind games. Show genuin interest if you are interested. If she likes you it wil work out in a very natural way.
Great video dude! You seem to have a very clear understanding of this topic. As a lost young man, I m very interested in you teaching how to pursue a vision and an overall guide to life as a man. In any case really appreciate your videos
The relationships that have worked in my life long term were the girls I simply wouldn’t have been able to shake off if I had tried… like I had to MOVE FAR AWAY to end each of them… with one in college I went ahead and _weirdly by accident insulted her favorite band when we met them backstage_ and that led to her buzzing off… the band was in fact _one of the greatest bands in history_ and I look back and marvel that I did that… but we would’ve been together to this day if I hadn’t done that… they bind with you like that… I put zero effort in… later on in life I “went for it” and had little success… this is a remarkable insight Casey thanks 🙏🏽
Depends. I’ve approached women in the past in a nervous way, only for them to like it and bang me within a few days. One was Swedish, one Icelandic. Both stunners.
You probably came off cute n playful. Im gonna assume youre a fairly attractive guy. Otherwise its hard to sell it, but yes it has worked for me too, but you gotta strike quickly too
He describes it well. You do not want to fall into the friend zone generally. But it’s fine to go into that zone if you know how to get out. It all depends where you’re at in the journey and what you want. If you want one night stands and casual sex and you’re not a total newbie, I would say it’s fine to show some verbal intent. If you’re looking for a relationship, don’t show as much verbal intent to start and just wear her down over time with seduction. But this also depends on YOU. Bottom line, you have to know yourself. And there’s only one way to do that - hit the field and get tons of experience. Fail over and over and learn from it. Also get successes and learn from them.
Overall, I agree with the message I think it accurately describes typical modern day dating dynamics. However, I do think there is more room to show direct intent but it has to be done with the proper frame. I believe you can be a bit more direct and show intent with women if it's delivered with the frame of indifference - kind of capturing both elements Casey mentions. I think this is actually the best state to operate from for us men and also for most women to receive. Playing 'the game' and dabbling in the feminine energy is necessary but how far do you want to go, how far do you want to deviate from your true masculine? Love the point Casey makes about qualifying women for more than just looks and beauty. I think actively remembering to resist against the strong surface level physical attraction that we men have towards women, is a good practice. No matter how attractive you find her, remind yourself that you won't actually stay interested or like her long term if she doesn't have other characteristics and attributes that you like and mesh well with your personality.
Well I’m a woman… and my boyfriend showed interest and intent right away. I still desire him after all these years ❤ He makes me feel loved and appreciated
I guess what I don’t understand is why I would you actively reject the guy that’s making an effort lol I understand effort isn’t the only way to the heart but it does show a great deal of thoughtfulness, something wonderful to have in a long-term relationship. My boyfriend courted me as a gentleman and he still does!
Then perhaps, using this strategy, you will attract the wrong kind of woman? I understand how game is a part of the dating process but wouldn’t it be nice to not play all these games and just wait for someone who truly likes you for who you are as a person? I’m 28 years old so maybe my thinking is a bit deluded when it comes to modern dating.
@@SD-kp6fjOf course it would, hell I'm 28 but women design these complex games of dating. Men are the simple ones. No man approaches women to play games regardless of his intention.
Its good to have deeper standards than just beauty, but I never asked anyone first (to be a boyfriend). I always wait for guy to do everything.. Maybe with skater ex I had similar conversation but it was because of trouble/unsatisfaction (how he sees our relationship that we see so low).
Bro this is crazy advice. U gotta be you and know that every girl is different. For me, if they don’t like to be respected and loved then they aren’t the women for me
you can really fumble lots of girls by being uncharismatic and/or insecure, especially if they expect you to be different to that. Speaking from experience
I have the opposite view. Show your intent is best because it means your honest. If you're skirting around your honesty it means your desperate because you gotta play games...and you're desperate to win that game. If you show intent, it means you aren't bothered by rejection because you have other options. A brilliant book that supports this is called "Models, attracting women with honesty". It works for me. Do what works for you, not others. You have an independent mind...use it!
@@nictibbetts Exactly this, I also showed her admiration and got instantly punished why a long text on instagram saying that I'm a nice guy, but she's not looking for something serious rn LOL
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what do you think of push pull where you are interested and disinterested at the same time like "you look cute but there is something dangerous about you"
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So how would you recommend asking a girl out? For example a girl you’ve only seen 3-4 times in a gym or just seen in a shopping mall?
Truth is.... Because of their emotionally driven nature... Women tend to critique and judge men harshly and savagely particularly in potentially romantic encounters and situations.... When you have a clearer grasp of how women think and respond to life, and cultivate the ability to cognitively regulate your own emotions with logic it becomes easier to read and evaluate women.... Combine that with not being a slave to lust, and you'll all of a sudden start asking yourself questions like " Is it really even worth it to give this chick my energy?".
99/100 the answer is no
Obviously, you are the only one that can answer that question. From my experience, no woman is worth my energy. If I want sex, I rather see a sex worker. For me that is much cheaper than dealing with all the nonsense. Women just annoy me. I am at a point where I wish I could turn off my sex drive.
Most women are damaged..they have so many soul ties from having intercourse w/ so many different men
Absolutely. I was dating 3 different chicks recently and I decided I'm done with 2 of them because there are things about them that just simply dont meet my standards and I dont think they deserve to receive my energy...
@@CDRFINANCE Yea. It is. My own simpler system. Remove the vagina - What is our connecting points and what does she offer to enrich my life?Does she qualify for my standards?
If not, your own company is better.
The more she thinks you need her the less she wants you
It's honestly that simple. I think it is reasonable to give women some validation and intent and still appear like you're doing this because you want to, not because you're outcome-dependent or manipulating them. Insecure, low value, or unintelligent women may be repelled by it anyway because they don't understand the difference. But I think mature women are able to clock it and emotionally register if what you're doing is genuine and not needy.
Exactly. You can send sweet texts and do romantic things, but couple it with mascuiline indifference and outcome-independentness. Example would be sending a girl a text saying "hope your day is going well, just thought about you", but then not setting up a date for 1-2 weeks. Girls DO like to feel desired by the man they desire, but in the right doses they can appreciate. In addition, guy having indifference and not pursuing to see her right after actually makes her feel safer since she thinks he did it because he wanted to, not because he needed to.@@mikecornell5604
Bang on!
thinks works reverse too, if girl wants and showers you with attention too much, it's alarming usually too almost as if theres ulterior motive behind it all
thats generalisation by idiots. everyone is different
To sum it up ''THE LESS YOU CARE THE MORE THEY WILL BE ATTRACTED TO YOU'' Stay single fellows, they are all crazy!
yes
Yes it's half ass backwards. If two people like each other it should build naturally a person shouldn't have to walk a line of barely giving any attention, respect, appreciation care and or love. When a woman shows all these qualities to us over time we're naturally ecstatic but it's idiotic to be more attracted to a guy that cares less overall.
Well keep getting laid do not commit! That’s the only way man can keep masculinity
@chrislong8559, They’re not attracted to men that care less. They are attracted to men that are of higher status than them, and “not giving a shit” is a just a lazy mental shortcut to identity higher status.
Women forget to evolve from monkey into a human. They can speak - that what deceives us.
You’re saving my life with this education
Mine too
X2 He is the brother I need!
MAN DIS DUDE IS HEAVEN SCENT WHERE WAS HE WHEN I WAS IN HIGHSCHOOL
@@bernardbenjamin5607 He was banging all the hot chicks we wanted to date haha
💯they r here just to service us THATS IT NOTHING ELSE
You’re right about the pre selection, I’ve had more women look my way when they see me walking with a girl VS walking by myself
Women are evil like this. Sad but true
What I’ve noticed is , it doesn’t really matter what you do , if the girl likes you she will show it , if she doesn’t she won’t
Also I tell myself “this girl doesn’t look that good” no matter how hot she is cause it fucks your mind up!
This is the answer right here bro. If she doesn’t like you you’re ultimately just wasting your time. The stuff he said in the video only works on SOME women to a CERTAIN degree. But what you said applies to ALL Women.
How many women do you think, liked you until you talked them out of it by making the mistakes he’s pointing out?
@@natehermano7166 You can do everything here and still get same ghost rate even after sexing a girl. Happens to me. They just decide well there's 200 other guys trying so I think I can do better. and then same next guy gets my experience, onto next, etc. until 33 and no other guy wants them.
Truth right here
The fucked up part is that I've known a few guys who married and worked their asses off for these ungrateful women who end up leaving them and taking....so much more than they brought into the relationship. They want safety and security.....until they can run off with the bag often times.
yea these broads are so freaking greedy it’s actually ridiculous 💀
And they end up with a loser, who they treat 100 better than they treated you 🤦♂️
Never fails. It is the rule of the Cosmos.@@rockboyznative
Happened to my nephew. He is mid 20s. Good looking. Been making 6 digits since he was 23. Bought his wife new home. They had a baby. A year later she left.
@@Old-Dog00not to sound like a dick, but maybe they just married too young. Money doesn't buy love even if you making 6 figs
Everything he is saying is 100% fact. It’s why these women are my name.
On point
Cheers to that! Keep your plate full and your options open and youll never be hungry
The problem with not showing intent is that it gets too many guys friend zoned. You have to be willing to show her that you're on demon time/value your time, and that you're not willing to be a friend/validation orbiter. If they ain't down for the program/meet your standards then it's good bye (sub-communicated, not necessarily verbally said). There are ways to show intent that come from a position of power, self respect & pre selection. There is a difference between chasing, and pursuing.
As someone who's been in the game long & is ultimately successful now, Casey has a valid point as he understands his audience is mostly men who are failing at dating. Overall a great video and helpful for the men who need this. I just think it's important that we do not generalize showing "intent" as bad, rather, any needy intent is bad. Keep up the fantastic work👌
@@xenonautili without getting too much into semantics: being seductive is showing intent. You're showing her you're not here to be a friend. Flirting is also showing intent. But I agree with the fact that there are based ways of doing it, and needy ways of doing it.
So what's a needy way to show intent and how can I do it the right way?
yeah while Casey's content is overall really good (I am even considering buying his MBT), I feel like he sometimes expresses stuff poorly. A man has to show intent. He has the initiative. Asking for her number = showing intent, setting up a date = showing intent, going for the first kiss = showing intent, escalating to sex = showing intent. If you don't do this, you will be friendzoned 100%. But of course, you can't just randomly go for the kiss (=needy/insecure). You need to MAKE the situation so that the kiss will feel natural, and that happens via flirting, teasing, banter, deep conversations, lighter physical touch etc. This shit is nuanced. One cannot simply say showing intent = bad.
I think what he said is very nuanced. He mentioned there is levels to this and that showing direct intent is very high level, because it needs to be coupled with a truly detached internal state. Most guys watching this, including myself aren't able to do that all the time. Indirect communication is a tool to help reinforce an internal state of detachment and indifference, all while learning to sub communicate.
I will say though, the thumbnail and title isn't nuanced. That's just the game.
The fact is, the men she wants and truly desires DO NOT have to show intent and she will still pursue. Feeling the need to show intent means this woman isn't naturally attracted to you. I promise you even if you just behave "friendly" as you say with a woman, if she wants you she will make it known
the fact that we need to have full blown theory on a whiteboard like we are in a calculus class is mind blowing. jesus no wonder guys get red pill rage
This isn't even red pill. This is just trying to understand woman. Red pill is trying to control woman. Lol
@berry889 Red pill is also trying to understand women. Control is just what women want from you
Tbh watching these type of video is the first sign u are a loser.
No wundur day get rad Pell rague 🤓🤓🤓. Your comment shows you didn't listen.
Yeah this shit is pathetic. If you have to make this level of calculation your fucked anyway. Lol
Hold your seed. Be patient. Treat them ALL the same. Hold your eye contact in every initial interaction. Remember you are the prize. Watch them flock, brothers!
They won’t crush a guy that respects them; they will crush a man, if they display the other things you mentioned; neediness, too much interest; too nice, fake, aggression. They don’t mind respect.
So too much love showing and giving attention is wrong? If a man likes a woman, shows he loves her alot give her attention that's bad?? Then what should be done just Care less about her ? That shows u are just playing mind games and the relationship won't last long.
But if you do the reverse and just be basic or boring are they gonna dig for that?
You just described my partner… I lost all the respect because he didn’t treat me with respect first. He was overly nice at the beginning, charming but when he had me he started to be controlling, aggressive and I always had to serve him like a mom… he showed me he couldn’t control his emotions or protect our family because it’s always his needs first…
Balance… everything in life needs balance… for both men and women.
@@Kikkiキッキ I agree it's always balance and Adjustment.
@@RUPESH_GOSAVI_1 Imagine yourself in that position, where the partner gives you non-stop attention, calling you 8-15 times a day asking where you are or if you're ok, or if you want to eat, or if you want your ass wiped, or whatever. That is patronizing behavior, it feels fake and forced to the other person, like you trying to get something from them, and it gets sickening fast. You are partners, two humans with their own unique qualities that make a team, not a parent and a child that need to be looked after. Your feelings towards each other will fluctuate, and its natural. And going from overly affectionate instantly to cold just because you don't feel like it right now will, if they love you, inevitably make the other person question your interest in them. So it is always better to have a balance, for your own and your partner's sakes.
Remember her only power against you is seggs & her beauty… if your charisma is on point you can play the direct game intent otherwise don’t do it.. always be looking for other women and you must have a purpose otherwise you will fall.
You know you can write “sex” on TH-cam, right?
@@RodrigoTechador last time I did, my comment was removed 😎 thanks, now I know.
Idk why but I love the word SEGGS 🤣🤣
Dude, this is gold bruh. I am amazed how you just summed up the entire was to get em', keep em', and have them begging for more. Bravo my man!
Girls: I will trust my feelings
Guys: watch 100 hours of video of a guy drawing diagrams on a blackboard😎
I find that hilarious. Womn dont give af about men enough to learn “rizz”… its all up to the man and here we all are trying to learn… so lowkey their still winning… gotta play the game
@@TraeZoe they only lose to bad boys, becuas the 'BAD BOY' never settle down . NEVER thats why your girlfriend start nagging and betazation your ass THE SECOND she's moved in to your place or she knows you want her for long term!! They always do that all of them. becuas they can thats it. they get bored of you and soon or later LEAVE.
Yeah, so what was the first move I have to take to get her?
@@TraeZoe unless you're 100% okay with being single. Then that power is completely stripped.
What’s rizz?
Listening to this makes me think how I've treated women who aren't attractive to me who have bent over backwards for my approval so I'm guessing i have to treat very attractive women the same way that's insane 😂
It's a two way street
Yup, basic persuasion skills for both men and women
More so the attractive ones are the ones you should treat like that
I’m so dumb… I’ve literally been approached by those women I encounter day to day and don’t even notice them… then the ones that I do find attractive I fawn over and try to endlessly make eye contact and then fumble. Maybe I should just ignore everyone. 😂
@bigsweatyvols2817 when I was a teenager I got approached by 5 girls who just propositioned me straight out… one of them just says ‘we just want to f***!’ … even at that sex obsessed age it totally freaked me out… it would have either been amazing or I was about to get robbed. 😂😂😂
I couldn't agree with this more. I remember this one time I asked a girl from gym out on date. Before we met up on the agreed date, I remember saying "I like you" via chat and her interest in me was out of the window(she seemed very keen before that). Whenever we would meet after that she would act like she had never seen me in her whole entire life. 😂😂I still laugh at myself till this day when I think about it. Keep up the good teachings uncle C.
Yikes sorry to hear that..that must have hurt the ego a bit
i don't think the problem was you saying "i like you", 100% for sure that was not the problem :) saying something that you think about it means you have the guts to say it, being a man is not about guarding yourself.
Happened to me too lol
😂 Do you go showing all your f'ing hands BEFORE THE GAME STARTS? Jesus christ.
@@TheBytao7maoWRONG!!! 🛑 👀 and 👂
Stop, look and listen! He showed all his cards to soon. You can NOT do that esp with modern women!
The crazy thing is that 2 mature persons need to play a "game" to end up in relationship...crazy
frfr no cap
One of the best lines I’ve learned from CZ’s vids is “I find you attractive, would you like to get to know each other better.” it’s simple, very comfortable and devil may care. Call me picky, cuz I don’t use it often, but when I do I get the desired result.
This is what dating advice should be . And more than that, it's like an overall personality development steps and I love that about your videos. Keep up the good work man.
Zander you are literally educating men on how not to vanish or go on extinction in 2020’s …. Bro BLESS you , You must reach the masses and save men from the feminism monster ! Thank you 🙏🏼
The last 30 videos are like pieces to a puzzle. Everything now fits together and I can now see the whole puzzle. Casey is like the boy wonder prodigy who at 27 cracked the code on ACTUALLY *EXPLAINING* how & why women do what they do and how that fits into a man's life. He is like the Albert Einstein of modern game
*Stay on your purpose and have hobbies. Put yourself 1st. It's not that hard or that deep.*
can you summarize the best stuff you learned
@@WeGetWildTV oh man it's such a rabbit hole. But I'd say when I was failing in dating I was just showing way too much interest. Texting back too fast. Being too consistent with trying to hang out with them. Validating them too much. I was in the seller frame trying to qualify to them too much. The list just goes on and on. The importance of being in the "buyer" frame where you are the one screening the girl, and then being more mysterious, the importance cant be overstated
But when you dont have a purpose are any hobbies, then you are f...
@@T.K.Wellington1996 you absolutely are. No purpose or hobbies...anxiety and depression and laziness and sin soon follow. Gotta find a purpose and develop skills.
Patience, indifference, having a purpose outside the relationship is all very important.
What I would add that Casey didn't is that there is a threshold.
Meaning you do need to be indifferent however only up to a point. You want to be indifferent just long enough that activates that tension however you don't want to be so indifferent to the point she gets really angry or loses interest or a huge blow up occurs or she thinks you are not sexually interested at all. You just want to leave little bread crumbs of validation and don't over do it for fucks sake.
Like I said before ....there is a bit of an art to it. A delicate balancing act. When you get it dialed in just right..... She becomes wetter than Niagara Falls........
Yes, i agree. All this knowledge should be used timely and up to a point. Never hesitate, however.
You just made it more complicated. I'll just stick to what Casey says. It's easier
You haven’t been paying attention to these videos…if she gets angry that’s perfect. ANY emotions with a woman is better than NONE!
Women always sleep with the dude who they tell their friends they “hate” and call an “asshole”.
That dude has her hooked because she gets mad/emotional and it doesn’t phase him.
@@mitchellnelson6249 Yes I agree its ideal that she actually gets pissed off sometimes. My point was that there is a point that if you do it too much....then SOME women will get pissed and leave completely. If you have a particularly attractive girl that actually has a pleasant demeanor then it wouldn't be ideal to have her immediately leave. Again not a big deal as you can just date someone else. I think every guy does it his own way based on his personality and preferences.
@@Kennymacdougall If you aren't grasping what I'm saying which isn't complicated then yes...just follow Casey's lead and you will be just fine. I have developed my own style that works well for me is all and Im not afraid to speak up and share as I know it may help some other guy which ultimately the goal.
True. She has to initiate the 'relationship talk'. If she doesn't carry on playing the game and never bring it up
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
@@GregMunro You got your bots mixed up.
How many years you were guys separated before you got back together?
@@bradd188 These comments are left by bots that are shilling for an African scammer. You can see these exact comments on thousands of videos across TH-cam.
it's sad that a lot of people will dismiss these videos thinking it's all about manipulation and dishonesty when in reality what he's proposing men turn to in dating is *common sense*: have a *purpose*, have a *life*, have things you genuinely enjoy doing with or without a romantic partner, have an anchor for your soul that isn't a pretty woman, and have higher standards than "if she's pretty enough I'm gonna stumble over myself to get her to like me". if you seriously think this is bad information your problems are deeper than any kind of TH-cam video can solve, except maybe videos on God and Jesus.
thank you for the content, these are useful reminders to stay on top of your own business and not get stuck on any woman. God bless
I mean its def a game, so there is a degree of manipulation, but what i like is hes teaching men not to be simps; we need this as women generally have a huge advantage when it comes to this shit. Glad hes literally teaching men how to rise up again using science and principles and not telling guys to act like complete douchebags
I have no purpose, no life and enjoy nothing anymore.
women hate it when it comes from a man they dont respect too soon, women love it when it comes from a man that is confident attractive has self control and who is a challenge.
I hope you telling the truth and not just saying what you assune we want to hear.
@@Hunkzilla listen dude women dont like it when you get mushy on them., that is true so dont over do it. and make sure she is your gf first!
@@amandaburleson2035don’t “listen dude” him foh
@@amandaburleson2035so true
@@amandaburleson2035 Their all whores it dosent matter
That tricep is looking CRAZY in the thumbnail bro, keep the grind up🔥
I feel like this was pretty natural to me when I was young but it’s weird how society will blue pill you over time.
same
It's the media don't consume the media!
White woman effect
@@bobsanders5488 top tier comment its the media the music, the movies and social media it will make guys into hopeless romantics (simps) 500 days of summer is one is a movie that depicts this perfectly
Woman will do that to men over time…
It's really awesome to have this kind of information available for people to reference back to when it comes to female nature, but it is also a constant reminder of just how ridiculous it is when it comes to attraction with modern-day women. It is such an extraordinary amount of work and disappointments especially when unless you are already quite the Chad you have all the cards stacked against you being up against women's hypergamy.
It's always has been work for less fortunate men.
Extraordinary work for Incredibly LESS rewards other than bed.
My father used to say this, that when dating a woman of your dreams, don't make her the woman of your dreams.
And he was right all along.
Act cool
Smart man your father
Casey you are a God send.. the value you provide is beyond words. My world has changed in 1 short month because you changed the way I view it. Thank you & God Bless brother! 👊
the more i get into this lore, the more i think females are a totally different creature than us
they are evil beings
They aren’t lol
Go talk to a female
It’s just the internet
We'd be similar if we were overloaded with options and they weren't and were always making the first move while we sit and wait.
Great shit Casey. He says this, but I will say it again. The more you accept patience and internalize these concepts throughout his videos. They will approach YOU, aggressively oftentimes. Don't give up, say this is too hard or make fun of the wipeboard, like some of these idiots. Accept the challenge and you will be rewarded. Don't believe him or me, learn this for yourself. Learn the game. This is what he is teaching. Or keep losing the chicks you want...
The juce is not worth the squezze at some point.
Casey's bloody brilliant. I know I might sound like an echo chamber, but this stuff puts so much into context.
This information is all so TRUE. I start with (eye contact) the eyes say everything. Obviously you don't sit and stare like a weirdo, but your eyes meet and say hello before anything. THEN my theory is "The girl chooses the guy." So basically I go places with zero expectations of attracting any female in the potential circumstances I'm about to be in, which ultimately give me the "I don't give AF" attitude when the opportunity arises to converse with an attractive woman. In my opinion that has brought me most success in dating. And not only that but I'm not even paying attention to my lost opportunities or rejections because I never had expectations in the first place. I only focus on the success of getting dates. 💯
THIS GUY IS A MASTERMIND!!!
Everytime I watch & listen to Casey, I either learn more, or reinforce what I have already learned. PATIENCE, POSTURE, VOICE TONE, SHOW INDIFFERENT MASCULINITY.
I have interacted with many women in my life and i understood everything to what's he is saying. I deep down thought what he will say and he is 100% correct
bro, the level of knowledge of this channel is absolutely high, most advanced content i have ever seen in my life, thanks Casey
Be assertive but be passive. Now i get it.
Absolutely ridiculous is what it is.
Woman love to chase and pursue. Be the kind of man that would make a woman want to chase and pursue you.
Thank you Casey for change in my life,I have beginning to see relationships and date from different perspective.
Most authentic, creative content I've watched. I learned more in 10 mins then I did from my last relationship, ha
My young brother I don't know where you learnt this but word for word you speak the truth patience is the game
What do you mean by that.
My 10 year relationship recently ended. I can tell you some mistakes I made was letting her have any sort of power in the relationship. When I stopped taking the lead and making the decisions she slowly started to lose respect for me.
We had a family together and he’s right when he says they don’t care if there’s kids involved.
Second big mistake I made was when I did make a mistake and we broke up over it I was to apologetic about everything.
I put to much effort into getting her back instead of being indifferent to her and how she felt and she recognized how dependent I was on her.
She also has 4 other sisters that were against me aswell and I can tell you when women get together against you it definitely doesn’t help.
But that’s the biggest thing was I let the power dynamic shift and she knew it. Imagine your relationship is like driving a car together, well I started to let her drive the car and that was a mistake.
Most relationships end cause of this very reason.
yeah cuz women can't drive
Get a dog brother
@@jerry-ze8wrpeople get comfortable dont they
I hear that
One of your best videos yet I found that to be very impactful and helpful to my own situation as a former try hard
This is the whole point of naturally red pilling and living a life free and on your own terms as a complete self being . The women can then share and compliment your life in mutual companionship . With or without a female one becomes complete in the self with inner purpose .
Nothing is lossed at this point . Your nature makes you take what one wants and self love projects the true aura of confidence that's mesmerizing . No falseness . Life is in your control as long as the focus is on the core .
Casey you are a straight G brother! I'm super impressed with the level of knowledge and understanding you have when it comes to dealing with women and relationships in general is mind blowing! You're still pretty young yourself. You are on point with literally everything you say. I don't know anyone else online on your level. You have helped me out so much! Much love brother!
Tapping into one’s own Inner confidence and holding to and sustaining strongly defined standards = mature masculinity .
Beta here. Married for 10 years to a good woman. We had a baby girl during the pandemic. She has loaded parents who employ her, I do blue collar. She told me I should be a stay at home Dad and I complied. I became emotionally weak, ridiculously reactive, hopelessly needy (when I felt her pulling away) and lost all masculinity and purpose in life. She had an affair with a douche bag, but very alpha neighbor, and then filed for divorce. I say she was a good woman because I don't blame her, I would have divorced me as well.
My existence is absolute shame, regret, and pain. I'm dedicated to learning how to be a man. Thank you, you're my jumping off point.
it was her job to guide you into who she needed. she is just as much as fault, no reason to say its ok she cheated--it is NOT acceptable.
No wrong
Welcome to the gym 💪
DNA test dude 🤣
The thing people especially women don’t acknowledge is that they can always be straight forward and tell you what they want!
This one chick told me I’m so tired of having boring sex or the same sex and I was like why don’t you tell your husband that??? She loook dumbfounded like telling your husband that was taboo
These are weird creatures
Patience patience patience...! Take me time.... good tips.. So many good truth bombs. Thank you
Dope AF thumbnail bro!
Treat women like you DGAF about them. You don't care if they lay, stay, or pray. The moment you act like you are all into them, you're done.
Very hard to do when you really like or love someone, because as men, we want to treat the woman we want/love like gold. Never let them know you are a sure thing. Always keep them guessing.
I just screwed this whole thing up recently with a girl I really care for. We had some history from more than 10 years ago. I was all up her a-- and now she is not interested. Only move I had left was to totally pull back and stop all initiated communication. I stopped texting and or calling her.
If she does not reach out to me again, its over.
007
Did she reach out to you brother?
@@Xight46 hi. We started talking again, got together, and then the same crap started happening.
I decided not to reach out anymore, and neither did she. It's been 6 weeks since our last contact.
I'm so over her now. She is nothing but a liar and a user.
I am never going to reach out to her ever again.
007
I was talking to this girl and all i did was play a song on my phone the song says i love you at the beginning, not even a romantic song, i saw her mood change instantly for a mirco second. I could only laugh and think about casey.
loool. so true. I can see their moods change in micro seconds based on the stimuli and always understand their nature and why it is happening. too funny because I know why and they don't.
Lol I kissed one chick on the forehead, and she FROWNED. They are heartless demons.
The fact we need a guide is insane to me! Thanks for this video💯💯
31 year old Chad here and holy shit I can confirm how accurate this is fellas. UNBELIEVABLE knowledge thats absolutely free, what a time to be alive..
This guy is a master psychologist
My boy was right on point! I know all this and still struggle with patience at times. 😂
Facts. I hang with pretty women and they HATE when a guy compliments them. Its an immediate turn off.
Yet, I am noticing a rise in TH-camr content that encourages such behaviour on cold approach. Like Casey said, you can pull it off if you don't give a $hit, but most of these guys doing it are forcing it.
Not true. You gotta learn when to do compliment it.
@@vd.s6158 You are correct, but don't say "Gosh you're pretty" like Timmy Turner in Fairly Odd Parents. CSB: I knew a girl that was REALLY into shoes and she legit said the line "nice shoes, wanna f***?" would work on her. The difference between the two compliments is one puts her on a pedestal. Don't do that.
But who cares bonerkill
I am not sure about it. Every woman I said prwtty words I got i bed with em.
I’m so glad I found a woman that doesn’t fall into these videos that you make. She’s one in a million and if I didn’t have her I wouldn’t even try to date cause if I tried to get a woman that I had to jump through hoops for like this I would drive myself crazy
How long have you been with her? It sounds awesome
4 weeks in, how's it going?
As a wiseman once told me "the moment she knows you like her you have ruined it, you got to keep her guessing "does he like me?"
They literally like it when they sense that you cheat on them. That’s really unbelievable. But that’s how they are.
Flawless.. I’m not only understand it.. in fact I’ve been doing it naturally and it helps me a lot I feel myself in a higher level
Im just gona live a life of honesty instead. I dont realy care that it will scare the fake ones away...id rather soround myself with real and sincere peole. So im gonna be honest with women. Im not gonna play games. Im to old for that bullshit. Im not gonna play games anymore. Im gonna be real and honest. If they hate that they can f off..
This is so convoluted let me break it down to you in such a simple way that you all understand. Do you have hobbies have things that are more important than chasing girls. Enjoy life. Accept being single. It will naturally make you feel more confident about yourself and women will notice you.. that’s it
The straight up full blown natty flex, and jumbling ur words like a nervous middle schooler are the two best tips j can give U Casey. Appreciate ur work
Casey, this was one of your best. Feels like a coach at halftime
Nah fr
I was very sad when i noticed this myself. The more love you give them the less they give you. Very sad because i want to show my love, but it is what it is. Gotta play these h03s.
One problem is this, that the mere act of walking up and speaking to a woman shows that you're not indifferent. If you were indifferent, why would you walk over and risk rejection?
I guess cultivating a mindset that rejection is not that big of a deal helps.
That is the hardest thing
Cases does mention this.
This is true only on the picking up phase, after her interes is present your shown admiration must be balanced but not absent.
Showing intent is one of the core principles of good game. If you don’t show intent and don’t do it early on, you will probably get friend zoned.
Not showing intent is what 99% of guys currently do. It’s called being a nice guy, or gay best friend. Showing intent is what separates you from those guys. It’s how you make conversations man to women.
The key is to not be attached to the outcome. If she likes you or not, neither is a big deal. You have to think of it from the perspective that you have an abundance of women in you’re life. How would you act? How would you act if you are used to women responding well to you?
It doesn’t have to be complicated. Be detached from the outcome, show clear intent, have an abundance mentality, self amuse, don’t be overly reactive, etc… it’s all just a vibe.
But when this is not your true personality, the whole cardhouse collapses when she finds it out.
@@T.K.Wellington1996 exactly. Game isn’t something you do, it’s something you are. Become an attractive guy. When you do, the right words will flow out of you naturally.
And if something is hard, you really struggle with approaching anxiety or something else, throw yourself at it. It’s where the most personal growth is. It’s where you level up the most. No matter how hard, or how much a guy thinks he has a flawed personality, it’s all learnable. Everyone can develop social skills.
I agree with some things but honestly I have gotten girls when I was very direct especially when it's in person so I don't completely agree. They definitely hate when you respond too soon to texts though.
Those who are new to this don’t go by not showing intent. You have to show you intent but in a subtle or indirect way. She needs to know you’re interested to talk. Just don’t over do it boys.
Definitely missed out recently on a smoking hot 9.1 outta 10 girl. (Looks wise) came on too strong wanting to get her out too dinner and told her she was good looking. Thought I was being “bold” definitely did NOT work.
The only reason I slightly disagree here is women love words of affirmation but just do it sparingly. Whereas Casey says don’t do it at all I say don’t overdo it. I agree if you put women on a pedestal they’ll treat u like a needy desperate fan. But it’s also something you should do once in a while to make them feel good because if you don’t make them feel appreciated at all they will find the attention and admiration they want from another man.
In my experiance if a women likes you she will make it very, very easy easy to aproch her and date. If a women doesnt like you it doesnt matter what you do, she still wont like you. Keep it simple, no mind games. Show genuin interest if you are interested. If she likes you it wil work out in a very natural way.
Great video dude! You seem to have a very clear understanding of this topic. As a lost young man, I m very interested in you teaching how to pursue a vision and an overall guide to life as a man. In any case really appreciate your videos
The relationships that have worked in my life long term were the girls I simply wouldn’t have been able to shake off if I had tried… like I had to MOVE FAR AWAY to end each of them… with one in college I went ahead and _weirdly by accident insulted her favorite band when we met them backstage_ and that led to her buzzing off… the band was in fact _one of the greatest bands in history_ and I look back and marvel that I did that… but we would’ve been together to this day if I hadn’t done that… they bind with you like that… I put zero effort in… later on in life I “went for it” and had little success… this is a remarkable insight Casey thanks 🙏🏽
Dude you're a gem for this generation
I truly understand .. Casey a genius
Depends. I’ve approached women in the past in a nervous way, only for them to like it and bang me within a few days. One was Swedish, one Icelandic. Both stunners.
You probably came off cute n playful. Im gonna assume youre a fairly attractive guy. Otherwise its hard to sell it, but yes it has worked for me too, but you gotta strike quickly too
Doubt this is true.
@@edwardbrock3807 Yep
He describes it well. You do not want to fall into the friend zone generally. But it’s fine to go into that zone if you know how to get out. It all depends where you’re at in the journey and what you want. If you want one night stands and casual sex and you’re not a total newbie, I would say it’s fine to show some verbal intent. If you’re looking for a relationship, don’t show as much verbal intent to start and just wear her down over time with seduction. But this also depends on YOU.
Bottom line, you have to know yourself. And there’s only one way to do that - hit the field and get tons of experience. Fail over and over and learn from it. Also get successes and learn from them.
Overall, I agree with the message I think it accurately describes typical modern day dating dynamics. However, I do think there is more room to show direct intent but it has to be done with the proper frame. I believe you can be a bit more direct and show intent with women if it's delivered with the frame of indifference - kind of capturing both elements Casey mentions. I think this is actually the best state to operate from for us men and also for most women to receive. Playing 'the game' and dabbling in the feminine energy is necessary but how far do you want to go, how far do you want to deviate from your true masculine? Love the point Casey makes about qualifying women for more than just looks and beauty. I think actively remembering to resist against the strong surface level physical attraction that we men have towards women, is a good practice. No matter how attractive you find her, remind yourself that you won't actually stay interested or like her long term if she doesn't have other characteristics and attributes that you like and mesh well with your personality.
What can a young hot girl offer besides sex and love? Genuinely curious. (Doesn't count the mother/wife phase)
@@NKO10HDthe emotional support, intent, care and so on. As mentioned in the video
Thank you for all this serving man, you helping out many man wish death upon me. We're Together.
I agree with all this! Thanks for all this great content!
One of Corey’s best videos I knew most of this subliminally it just resonates if you have a clue you will too
Well I’m a woman… and my boyfriend showed interest and intent right away. I still desire him after all these years ❤ He makes me feel loved and appreciated
you rare
I guess what I don’t understand is why I would you actively reject the guy that’s making an effort lol I understand effort isn’t the only way to the heart but it does show a great deal of thoughtfulness, something wonderful to have in a long-term relationship. My boyfriend courted me as a gentleman and he still does!
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It doesn't work for the vast majority of women.
Then perhaps, using this strategy, you will attract the wrong kind of woman? I understand how game is a part of the dating process but wouldn’t it be nice to not play all these games and just wait for someone who truly likes you for who you are as a person? I’m 28 years old so maybe my thinking is a bit deluded when it comes to modern dating.
@@SD-kp6fjOf course it would, hell I'm 28 but women design these complex games of dating. Men are the simple ones. No man approaches women to play games regardless of his intention.
Iam learning dis now to teach my children
Hey Casey I noticed all of your old fitness videos are gone. Any chance you are going to make a separate channel with fitness / diet advice ?
one of the best breakdowns i’ve ever heard
The Singer Tyla said "I don't like Men who approach me"
Tyla is for the alphabet revolution
She’s a young, silly b*tch for saying that. Nobody has time for those games.
I like consuming the content of other men who also have a tremendous amount of game. Great video 👍🏾💯
Its good to have deeper standards than just beauty, but I never asked anyone first (to be a boyfriend). I always wait for guy to do everything.. Maybe with skater ex I had similar conversation but it was because of trouble/unsatisfaction (how he sees our relationship that we see so low).
No, you don't tell the truth
What you say and what you do aren't the same.
You lie
I never believe a woman
Casey is very correct. This how most men and high value men get played by women. Your analysis is on point.
Woman Bascially love it when you don’t want them
Bro this is crazy advice. U gotta be you and know that every girl is different. For me, if they don’t like to be respected and loved then they aren’t the women for me
you can really fumble lots of girls by being uncharismatic and/or insecure, especially if they expect you to be different to that. Speaking from experience
I have the opposite view. Show your intent is best because it means your honest. If you're skirting around your honesty it means your desperate because you gotta play games...and you're desperate to win that game.
If you show intent, it means you aren't bothered by rejection because you have other options.
A brilliant book that supports this is called "Models, attracting women with honesty".
It works for me.
Do what works for you, not others. You have an independent mind...use it!
If only you posted this a week ago... Damn, another leason learned the hard way. I got punished instantly for doing exactly this
What did you do and what happened?
@@user-uc7qb1su4edid you not watch the video? He showed intent and she rejected him/pulled back.
@@nictibbetts moron, I wanted to hear his story but you’re too autistic to understand that. As Casey says, you should learn social nuance🤣
@@nictibbetts Exactly this, I also showed her admiration and got instantly punished why a long text on instagram saying that I'm a nice guy, but she's not looking for something serious rn LOL
Punished??? lol
Don’t care / be indifferent! Got it! Secrets to the universe