EMOTIONAL WEAKNESSES WOMEN Despise in MEN that BREAKS her ATTACHMENT towards you (hypergamy truths)

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Attract and Keep ANY women you want using 'MBT' Below!🔥
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    • @gaznann6503
      @gaznann6503 ปีที่แล้ว

      Women love to hustle and they are head of the game,
      Women don't know what they want
      Lot of times she wants your attention then she when she gets it she doesn't want it or want you also lot of time's when she doesn't get enough attention she doesn't wants you or date you and moves on
      Then later tries to get back with you after she gets fucked by someone else

    • @gaznann6503
      @gaznann6503 ปีที่แล้ว

      how can you correct your mistakes when you fucked up with a woman after getting bitched by a woman

    • @magicalviews6755
      @magicalviews6755 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Casey upload some masculine traits

    • @luisMontoyafit
      @luisMontoyafit ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I teach the same stuff however I’m in and out of a long term relationship. I have a traditional women who loves public affection, morning text and wants commitment. I’ve always up the hand on her and kept her chasing me, but now it’s gotten to the point where my lack of showing up is affecting the relationship and she’s pulling back because she’s not feeling my investment emotionally. She does have wife qualities and want to keep her around my life to build a future as I do want a family. What’s your take ?

    • @siphamandladhlamini667
      @siphamandladhlamini667 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@luisMontoyafit😊ýģb❤

  • @BLASToffVidio
    @BLASToffVidio ปีที่แล้ว +400

    Stoicism is the way. Was married for 21 years and I made the mistake of that old school thinking, putting her on a pedestal, happy wife happy life blah fucking blah. I red pilled after the divorce and took back every aspect of my masculinity that I had subjugated while married. I’ve been with my lady for two years and I do what I want when I want. Stay in great shape, stay in my frame, be a gentleman and don’t take shit from anyone ever, including her when she rarely tests me. We have a good life together and it’s my hope it endures but if it doesn’t I’ll keep moving forward in the never ending process of being my best self.

    • @parkeriq7588
      @parkeriq7588 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      glad u got your power back brother. most guys will be stuck on bluepill forever

    • @karlopeternel7685
      @karlopeternel7685 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      👍👍🍻

    • @mat7083
      @mat7083 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🚬

    • @karlopeternel7685
      @karlopeternel7685 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @mat7083 fck heavily smoking and drinking, I've managed to quit a month ago, feels great, hopefully I stay occasional no more everyday drinking and only cigars and weed on spec occasions hehe

    • @mat7083
      @mat7083 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@karlopeternel7685 Most commenters ignore the cigarette, but those that do reply react differently to it. Some copy me, some get anxious and confused, others are angry and judgmental, a few think I am being angry and judgemental. Only two people are reminded of their old smoking habits when they see the cigarette. You being the second. Yet, I’ve neither said nor implied anything. Why do you think that is?

  • @Daniel-Deshaun
    @Daniel-Deshaun ปีที่แล้ว +490

    I recently got a girl, she actually approached me first I was in my “focus on yourself” era. This is so hard like I have to go against every single instinct to stick to what we know actually works I wanna spend all my time with her but I know that’s not how it works

    • @davidwhite206
      @davidwhite206 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Certain doom is imminent if you do.

    • @crazypkm
      @crazypkm ปีที่แล้ว +127

      That’s that Disney programming

    • @eggbertjohnson2591
      @eggbertjohnson2591 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Yeah man be like "aelpha male" Casey zander and only spend 30 minutes a month with her 💀💀

    • @davidwhite206
      @davidwhite206 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @eggbertjohnson2591 I know you're exaggerating, but honestly it isn't too far off. A few hours a week, up to a day if you've been seeing her long term is good enough. Maybe twice every blue moon. You have to have hobbies and a life outside of her.

    • @eggbertjohnson2591
      @eggbertjohnson2591 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      ​@davidwhite206 it is correct that you shouldn't be spending all your time with her and have your own life and not be constantly available, yes. But in the video Casey quite literally says "a high value man can spend 1-2 hours a week OR EVEN a month with a woman" which is patently r3t@rd3d

  • @InJesusNameAmen111
    @InJesusNameAmen111 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Think of it as the shrek movie. Fiona expected her Prince Charming to come and save her but ended up with the ogre who was only invested in himself

    • @kid-arachnid5526
      @kid-arachnid5526 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Real shit mad respect bro

    • @JRReyes-fi8kc
      @JRReyes-fi8kc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Haha amazing analogy

    • @AndreyGreenYtube
      @AndreyGreenYtube 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      She was the ogre herself all the time. This is the biggest surprise every Prince Charming eventually gets from his princess.

    • @RandomGuy-ej9gr
      @RandomGuy-ej9gr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She wasn’t the price she thought she was lmao

  • @cdjpower1
    @cdjpower1 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    I have to say that I learned this the hard way and it is so true, if you need intimacy with a woman you already lost, I know it sounds harsh but whatever you're feeling you better bury it deep inside or you are going to be destroyed by a woman and that's a fact.

    • @Dale_Blackburn
      @Dale_Blackburn ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What you mean by intimacy? If i snuggle and sleep with her sometimes, that means women despises you for that deep down? Wtf? Please explain the intimacy part.

    • @Abr022575
      @Abr022575 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      He means being needy or overly transparent about it. There's nothing wrong with timely intimacy.

    • @santieldasavage
      @santieldasavage ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Abr022575thanks for explaining

    • @Dale_Blackburn
      @Dale_Blackburn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Abr022575 Hm i see. I've never been needy or looked like it. You have to control that, yeah. But we did snuggle and spent romantic time together with my ex girls. What kind of intimacy is too much? Or you guys mean the amount and length of those sessions must be rare- ish? Rather than the act and situatuon itself the amount is important?

    • @geoffy8245
      @geoffy8245 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Dale_Blackburnhe said it in the video. Drip feed it over a long period, 10 years as a benchmark. She should be all over you and initiating intimacy. You don’t start it. Once you feel like it’s too regular you distance yourself to make her miss you. See yourself as the author/grand architect of the relationship - you need a plan to control her emotions and influence her love for you. It is not to disempower her, but to take complete responsibility of your relationship. You are the master so you need to dictate that.

  • @Junoj101
    @Junoj101 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Did this for many years and got opposite results from the movies. Took a year off from dating and relationships, read top 5 books about everything I was doing wrong, focused on improving my body mind and $.
    Women are now coming to me . . . I can see though all of that now, all the things that I read in the books are now starting to match my experience. The moment you realize that you don't kneed a woman is when they start coming after you. I just keep focusing on myself and making a lot of men friends . . . .

    • @I_membahh
      @I_membahh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Movies are everything we wish for, that means it’s not real, that’s why it’s just entertainment, never take anything from a movie as a standard

    • @thenuka1524
      @thenuka1524 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What are the books you have read?

    • @robinkimmer8134
      @robinkimmer8134 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@thenuka1524 wanna know to. I cant afford his mbt course. What books can I read ?

    • @Junoj101
      @Junoj101 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@robinkimmer8134
      Read below in the order from top down
      The Rational Male -Rollo Tomassi
      The Unplugged Alpha -Richard Cooper
      How to Be a 3% Man - Corey Wayne (free download)

    • @maxcavalera9797
      @maxcavalera9797 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely. I have never ended up with any girls that I compliment them as pretty/cute/beautiful/I like your xxxx….I even try the classic method buying them a bouquet of flowers, cute gifts….heck they ghosted/friendzone me even faster after receiving those…the one staying with me until now is exactly how I behave as per Zander teaching. It wasn’t i insticntively know how to deal with women. I reflect on how I behave towards all my failed relationship and adapt. My mental have always been ALWAYS BE WILLING TO WALK AWAY after that when dealing with women…

  • @renegadezen7841
    @renegadezen7841 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    This stuff is gold. As you watch these videos you can just replay instance after instance where you broke these rules with the hottest girls and lost them, and where you naturally acted and behaved in a higher value way when you were hanging out with chick's you deemed lower value than you. It's an interesting cycle

    • @brent4073
      @brent4073 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yup, exactly. The girls I dont care about, they always come back and I can't get rid of them.

    • @Stonehead-
      @Stonehead- ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah mate so true 👍

    • @palkisakumi8595
      @palkisakumi8595 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brent4073 no they don't, why do you make stuff up ? 🤣

    • @whiteviper1979
      @whiteviper1979 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely take HEED in what Casey Zander is teaching you young fellows as It's 💯% ACCURATE! He who tries the least and cares the least WINS 👍👊💪

    • @brahmabull4004
      @brahmabull4004 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@palkisakumi8595go live a little and experience such simple "lies" for yourself

  • @michaelhill2933
    @michaelhill2933 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Youre so right, my future ex wife, totally bitched me, the more certainty I gave her the less attraction and respect she had for me so she started doing less as a wife, eventually she just wasnt even attracted to me. I ignored how bad it got til she started to verbally disrespect me and became demanding. Turned into a totally different person. I'm just like where did I go wrong? And why did she change? She didn't change, I turned her into an entitled bitch by giving her everything she said she wanted. If you do that, you're the reason the marriage got fucked, not her
    I became committed , she sensed I wouldnt leave her and it gave her certainty and power, turned her off and totally fucked up our marriage. She's gotta know that you're ready to be single or she won't respect/be attracted to you, even if you're married oddly enough....
    The fucked up thing is: u cant even be mad at the woman, she doesnt even know why she lost respect/attraction. To her, it just happened.

    • @dipanggilmas3189
      @dipanggilmas3189 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Future ex? You mean you already know she will be your ex?

    • @michaelhill2933
      @michaelhill2933 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dipanggilmas3189 pretty much, once you lose the respect of a woman, im pretty sure it's just gone and time to move on, we have kids and im trying to get myself financially capable to support us living in seperate homes, once that happens, im gonna file file for divorce. Unless she somehow starts to respect me and becomes attracted to me again, but it feels like it's just gone for good, I'm detaching and moving on mentally already

    • @ISkandarash
      @ISkandarash ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Your situation sums up a lot of things. This is why "traditional" societies consider women as eternal adolescents (at least in terms of relationship), moreover the finished men of these eras only married adolescents of childbearing age. Our ancestors knew very well the functioning of women at least since the Neolithic, but modern society has decided to simply ignore this... Hence the divorces and disarray of modern men.

    • @maxcavalera9797
      @maxcavalera9797 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You spoke the truth. After multiple early similar errors with my ex gfs, I began to have that ALWAYS BE WILLING TO WALK AWAY attitude. I been with my wife for 12 years now. Im already 41. Was been shit tested/argument fight so frequently the first 5-6 years of marriage. Im always with that mindset every time clash occur.
      Always came out as the Man… they will be angry at you but they will respect tou more as a MEN/dominant/leader of the house.

    • @michaelhill2933
      @michaelhill2933 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jamelcarpenter327 not really, i pretty sure it's deep rooted in their biology to lose respect for a man once you commit, men can't see it cause most men don't react to committment that way, but thats the way it is unfortunately. Then they lose more after you get married and even more after you have a kid. Like "I got him now"
      Get married and have a kid. They change big time

  • @uchihaGrim1
    @uchihaGrim1 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Ngl this made me think hard about every single female I fell out with and realizing the patterns they all shared.. only to understand they were from my own actions

    • @IamNOTthedad
      @IamNOTthedad ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah he’s talking complete facts

    • @chuckfullerton813
      @chuckfullerton813 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed. Some of the concepts can be wrong and cold, however it certainly does also allow us to reflect on our own mistakes and not playing a victim from essentially our own fuck ups

    • @baileybuckley4796
      @baileybuckley4796 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chuckfullerton813right, women don’t want a full blown fucking sociopath… they want a man.

    • @Mojosbb
      @Mojosbb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

  • @chrisk8376
    @chrisk8376 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    The ultimate emasculation is when a dude is always following behind the wife pushing the baby stroller. And when they go out she is driving and dude is riding shotgun looking up movie times on his phone for her.

    • @brandonjade2146
      @brandonjade2146 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thats not emasculation at all, what? You just gonna go years never being a dad and pushing the damn stroller? Does your woman always have to be the one in the passenger looking up movies?

    • @instructoruldemeditatie2367
      @instructoruldemeditatie2367 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂 You don't have children isn't?

    • @InJesusNameAmen111
      @InJesusNameAmen111 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      People will bash you for anything honestly. So is the guy considered a bum ass dude if he drove around all day in his girls car without even adding any gas to it?

    • @ameza1757
      @ameza1757 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      nah man... Being a fucking dad? The woman will start acting like a bitch 24/7, setting up fights, traumatize your kids, divorce and take the kids away.

    • @b.c.34
      @b.c.34 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@brandonjade2146 you are wrong , the emasculation is when a man pushes the baby scroller while the mum does nothing, but sits or on her phone, when the baby cries the man will be the first to trial comforting the child while the mum feels less concerned.

  • @daveyoung3857
    @daveyoung3857 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I personally have experienced what Casey is talking about with a failed marriage. I was too complacent and too much of the "happy life, happy wife" kind of guy. It was so bad, she had me fetching her coffee every morning for work. She had complete control by denying me sex (the power of the pussy). She left me for another guy which as Casey states: she was always looking for a bigger and better deal.

    • @javier.alvarez764
      @javier.alvarez764 ปีที่แล้ว

      She was shit testing you. Women like that want subconsciously for you to put her in her place. Women want the daddy energy not the simp energy. They want someone who are assertive, dominant, and will lead her. Think of it like the fetish in porn, or like 50 Shades of Grey. Deep down women want men that will dominate her sexually and physically.

    • @curtishorton6163
      @curtishorton6163 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep, I was married 17 years. A week ago, she became belligerent, looked at me with disgust and now I’m out of the house, she’s told everyone what a super POS I am and did something about it… yet I catered to her every need. Really. BLINDSIDED….. what a damn idiot I am. A pussy. Castrated!!!

    • @nycionx8328
      @nycionx8328 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What a poo.c

    • @Mojosbb
      @Mojosbb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

  • @bluemoon2934
    @bluemoon2934 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Amazing how Casey has this figured out at 27 yrs old…..I’m 67 and didn’t know about all this stuff regarding women….However….I don’t think women 40-50 years ago were quite like this psychologically…..

    • @diaris8177
      @diaris8177 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      i think us guys are stuck in the thought that women nowadays are the same as 40-50 years ago as you said.
      we do all the romantic cute shit cause that's what we think will make her fall in love, yet it makes us become the ones who fall over in the end.
      they are nowhere near the same

  • @funnyshorts6830
    @funnyshorts6830 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Man, i learn a lot with Casey, but the more i learn the more i just want to stay quiet and away from all the work that a woman brings.

    • @thomashilmersen711
      @thomashilmersen711 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Precisely! And that is the kind of preferance you need in order to ONLY choose to be with a woman if she can add value to your life, not just in the past, but day after day. As soon as she becomes a pain in the ass, drop her! That in turn means no marriage, no living together and most of all no kids.

    • @funnyshorts6830
      @funnyshorts6830 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@thomashilmersen711 yeah, that's true. But I'm a Christian and i kinda want to be married, but with all this work... IDK

    • @ryanpzy9336
      @ryanpzy9336 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      accurate

    • @natureloverdude
      @natureloverdude 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@funnyshorts6830 find a good one. Date multiple, not just one

    • @RodrigoTechador
      @RodrigoTechador 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@funnyshorts6830If your desire and conviction are so weak that you only “kinda want to be married,” that’s a fundamental problem right there. Do you fucking want to be married or not?

  • @samueljohns6100
    @samueljohns6100 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    if I found your work sooner in life, I would've saved myself a lifetime of pain. What you're saying is accurate to a T. My last relationship ended badly, and I can replay every bad move I made in my head, and everything you say, is exactly what happened...

    • @Yourdaddy_2024
      @Yourdaddy_2024 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hear you man. I had one bad marriage and one is leading to a divorce- I look back and think I selected a 5

    • @GreatNon-pd5ig
      @GreatNon-pd5ig 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But we all learn hard ways. Younger you would be laughing at this video calling names

  • @oscargonza2748
    @oscargonza2748 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Simple solution, stop pedestalizing your girlfriend or your wife, and put yourself, your path and purpose your goals your dreams your fitness all above her and she will priorize you. Cuz you are the prize that she wants to compete for

    • @azrielsmith3167
      @azrielsmith3167 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There is much material saying chase excellence, not women, and that in itself will draw the women to you, especially the ones you actually want. So it does stand to reason that the second you totally shift and focus on the woman and not on the excellence, that will send her right back to where she came from and that is away from you...

    • @Mojosbb
      @Mojosbb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

  • @IamNOTthedad
    @IamNOTthedad ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Bro brought out the whiteboard, but he’s spitting complete facts. I’ve been dating for a while and he’s talking nothing but truth

    • @Mojosbb
      @Mojosbb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

  • @om4real
    @om4real 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Depression was the switch I needed… bro nothing matters just you and god..

  • @Senorzilchnzero
    @Senorzilchnzero ปีที่แล้ว +14

    There are many red pill guys and there are few matrix men. This man understands the matrix.

  • @SP_Amit_Kumar
    @SP_Amit_Kumar ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Man you are worth a million bucks....... Thanks for giving us, this precious knowledge.........

  • @pook7274
    @pook7274 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    “Holdiday pictures shes got you acting like a goofball” 😂😂😂😂

    • @Mojosbb
      @Mojosbb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

  • @aaronbutchart2960
    @aaronbutchart2960 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Casey is a prime example of just how much we can learn from heartbreak! Use that energy for good lads. Its all on you 👑

  • @akina1053
    @akina1053 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    1. Don't pay for her lifestyle, even after you're married.
    2. Don't buy into her tears she uses during an argument.

    • @navboi12
      @navboi12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How can you not pay for her lifestyle without imposing on her femininity?

    • @akina1053
      @akina1053 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@navboi12 I'm a woman and believe me when I say women are smart and capable of being manipulative in the right time and person, especially when it comes to resources.

    • @apurvanair2056
      @apurvanair2056 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@akina1053How can you not pay for your wife's lifestyle

    • @freedomdude5420
      @freedomdude5420 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@akina1053I'm beautiful, give me free stuff.

    • @serdemyildiz2861
      @serdemyildiz2861 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@akina1053so she should work?😊

  • @phreshian
    @phreshian ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I hope young men are watching this. I really do

  • @Mrbobster87
    @Mrbobster87 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Damn, I listened to this video before. But it's like I never have. Now that I am wiser. Thanks Unc

    • @Mojosbb
      @Mojosbb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

  • @3LITTLE3RAVEN3
    @3LITTLE3RAVEN3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When you said "slower the burn" I got chills man.... We just watched a movie a few days ago about the "slow burn" and how it's so much better for a relationship. She said I'm her slow burn after we got done watching it. The movie was I Want You Back. Great movie idk if you've seen it but highly recommend. And bro, again, I commented on another one of your vids just a min ago but God definitely put your channel before me at the perfect time. I truly appreciate your work. Hope I can get in contact with you at some point and tell you our story

    • @CelestialTrieye
      @CelestialTrieye 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      nice comment bro i just might give it a watch.

  • @grimy_dawg
    @grimy_dawg ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This is great wisdom! Thanks for posting these videos. I'm learning every day from watching them. Gotta focus on #1 and always work on leveling up.

  • @xxgamerz96ftw84
    @xxgamerz96ftw84 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Casey you been pumping out amazing content please keep it up you're doing amazing work

  • @smithysays
    @smithysays ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you! I finally have the information to get girls to break up with me. I just have to fake being super attached. I was going about that the whole wrong way- I usually try to get them to hate me/annoy them but it would never work and I’d have to break their hearts. Explains soo much and I genuinely feel bad. Whoops 😬

    • @RAVI100th
      @RAVI100th 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂

    • @braydenbledsoe3252
      @braydenbledsoe3252 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      bruh lol

    • @Mojosbb
      @Mojosbb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

  • @Therealgordongekko
    @Therealgordongekko 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Pure brilliance! Guys this stuff has turned around my life. I was the guy who would call and text constantly "what's wrong baby, why won't you talk to me baby, aren't I good enough". And I'm a really really good looking guy seriously. And it was a revolving door of women, I would get them in with my looks and lose them within months because I was thirsty. Now I'm the fukin king of the county

  • @johncanaparius3233
    @johncanaparius3233 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I never talk to any woman to not risk validating them. They must all be crazy about me by now.

    • @user-uc7qb1su4e
      @user-uc7qb1su4e ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ironically there’s a girl at the gym who is so beautiful that I was scared to talk to her at first (last year some time) and I see her regularly and still never talked to her because I only built my confidence up this year, yet she still gives me signals every time I see her and hasn’t gotten deterred

    • @kashboul
      @kashboul 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bruhhh 😂😂😂😂

  • @JoeBudd-D
    @JoeBudd-D ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Freedom is better than need em.

    • @UstashaMe84
      @UstashaMe84 ปีที่แล้ว

      What a saying! Keeping that my dude! Thanks!

    • @Ratclan
      @Ratclan 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hell yea.
      I would rather have $100 dollars and be free… than have $100,000 dollars and be with a disrespectful partner… yes I understand disagreeing is happening… but For a female to Rise up to a male in aggressive manner is just non-negotiable.
      It is up to us to stay masculine so they can stay Feminine

  • @jjames6554
    @jjames6554 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Treat women, like they are replaceable, because they are. As soon as you cant do that, you are screwed. She will get her way with you and your value will drop till she leaves you. Replaceable means, if she doesn’t want to follow your lead. Have her leave and invite one that will. The mistake is made, when guys become emotionally attached. Thats what kills your ability to get and keep women.

  • @IGBOisraelite
    @IGBOisraelite 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I believe this works when you have a gf that's lining herself up for marriage. They always get comfortable once they feel like they have you tied up.

  • @josh2878
    @josh2878 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Casey bro, I pray for your success. Been following you for a long time and you helped me level up in life and attract the right women into my life, I will forever be grateful. I hope you find a nice peaceful woman who makes you forgot about the intensity of the western dating market. I love you man, take care.

    • @himathyjenkins
      @himathyjenkins ปีที่แล้ว

      Any tips how you put caseys tips into practical play

  • @RTFLDGR
    @RTFLDGR 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It happened to me also. I gave her commitment. She fuqued around. She lost respect. I looked and acted like a simp. never again.

    • @Mojosbb
      @Mojosbb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

  • @richardsemuta1089
    @richardsemuta1089 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    In other words: DON'T SIMP

  • @george-trad
    @george-trad 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is the best advice. I have been guilty of getting attached in a relationship and everything that you said exactly happened. They pulled away, lost feelings and hypergamy took over. It’s the cold hearted facts and every man needs to accept this truth of female nature.

  • @bojovic78
    @bojovic78 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I was very worried about the health of my gf's sister's baby. I let a few tears for the baby... really dire situation, really unfair to this little angel....tried to hide the tears. She looked at me with such disgust, I knew it was over at that moment.

    • @LoQueYoDigoVaAMisa
      @LoQueYoDigoVaAMisa ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh dear

    • @navboi12
      @navboi12 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Brutal. We are human, yet still expected to play by their 'coding' akin to emotionless robots.

  • @Ihearttaylorswif
    @Ihearttaylorswif ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Everything you said is on POINT. Wow.

  • @nicolem889
    @nicolem889 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I like this channel as a woman. It’s teaching me exactly what to avoid.

    • @parkeriq7588
      @parkeriq7588 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      avoid what exactly

    • @derekluna7700
      @derekluna7700 ปีที่แล้ว

      except you wont avoid him because he is good looking. And he is super lucky because he is so fucking autistic and weird

    • @nicolem889
      @nicolem889 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@parkeriq7588 lol. Any dude who pulls back, any dude who isn’t affectionate, any dude who doesn’t want to be a husband, any dude who is seeking to date multiple women, any dude who is play acting alpha, any dude wants leadership attention without leadership responsibilities, any performative dude.

    • @nicolem889
      @nicolem889 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tz8565 I’ll ignore you either way. 😂 Now we’re demonizing affection.

    • @TimeWarpReels
      @TimeWarpReels ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@nicolem889so you want a guy to be all over you and text you 24/7?

  • @lescj200
    @lescj200 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Casey you couldn’t be more spot on- reason I know is because I was the dude in all of your examples and did not understand this until I had been dumped and was able too reflect on all the ways I got bitched and how easily I was emasculated

  • @thomaslecoz8251
    @thomaslecoz8251 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the concept of "10 year play info" is brillant. I never seen things like that before but totally understand it. Thanks

    • @Mojosbb
      @Mojosbb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

  • @toddyfranky4867
    @toddyfranky4867 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This information applies to marriages as well. How many sexless marriages are there from the woman pulling back, no matter how hard the husband tries?

    • @Againstdhawa
      @Againstdhawa ปีที่แล้ว +9

      thats when you just get another if a women pulls that BS I am gone simple I dont care if i am married 30 years

  • @joakimfrysa1060
    @joakimfrysa1060 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Superb content you've been pumping out lately💪👍

    • @Mojosbb
      @Mojosbb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

  • @OfetaConsulting
    @OfetaConsulting 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Casey is eons ahead of his time. Simply revolutionary. Keep it up.

    • @Mojosbb
      @Mojosbb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

  • @TheBryano58
    @TheBryano58 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    100% - much respect to you brother. You break it down how it is. Solely explaining human nature in its purest form from both genders. No toxicity or vilifying of one gender or another.

  • @kidcryptic8193
    @kidcryptic8193 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    she turned him into a GOOFBALL I lost it!!!LOL. This video is the truest content I have seen all year, gonna keep watching

  • @kirkarnold353
    @kirkarnold353 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’ve always put myself first ever since I was 17 and had my first heartbreak but they never stop the crying and hoping for me to be better/nicer to them even tho I am it’s a never ending battle to hold your frame bc they are trying to take it at any given moment.

    • @Ratclan
      @Ratclan 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep.
      My girl will legit not even let me break up with her…. She cries begs to keep me stay…. But than when I treat her well together, she has no Intimacy in the way I enjoy and is Bossy, rude.
      So I break up w her and she just says anything and does anything sexually to keep me to stay.
      It’s lose lose situation

    • @Mojosbb
      @Mojosbb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

  • @magicalesquilax7232
    @magicalesquilax7232 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You seem inspired lately! Awesome content.

    • @Vilify3d
      @Vilify3d ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s desperately needed rn

  • @alexanderhamilton8585
    @alexanderhamilton8585 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My condo was going to be fumigated. I foolishly moved in with a 6.
    I stayed like a pathetic B for 18 years, with her getting more manly and dominant every day.
    I secretly worked on my credit score for years, then bought a home and moved the F out.
    Now she’s all over me. She bought me a Tesla Model 3 Performance. She paid for a huge trip to the pacific.
    I use her body like she’s a 304.
    She told me “you buying that house and moving out like that made me want you so bad I couldn’t stand it”.
    Move out. It’ll turn her on. Facts.

    • @richardlabeja
      @richardlabeja ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True, having your own nice home will get girls throwing themselves at you. Offer her the chance to be help with interior design. They love that project.

    • @LoQueYoDigoVaAMisa
      @LoQueYoDigoVaAMisa ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@richardlabejaDont even ask a woman how she would decorate tour crib...that is beta as hell.

    • @richardlabeja
      @richardlabeja ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LoQueYoDigoVaAMisa I said ""help with interior design" that doesn't necessarily mean agreeing on everything she suggests. Her work is look after the kids and the home. Those duties can be delegated to a woman.

  • @A.nasierkhan
    @A.nasierkhan 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love how women have all these weird character tests that they themselves would absolutely fail if someone did it to them😮

  • @edwardbayley1842
    @edwardbayley1842 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I watch all your vids from Australia.
    This one was great felt like new way of looking at this kind of content.
    So many guys still need to learn from you.

  • @mxdi2727
    @mxdi2727 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m learning so much from this channel, masculinity is so important to us man , if you don’t present this way to women, you are a beta . Thank you Casey

  • @kianarosablau
    @kianarosablau ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Most important is trust (if I trust somebody or not).

  • @jeffreyhamilton1801
    @jeffreyhamilton1801 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A woman starts disrespecting you the minute you give e up the paycheck and become domesticated. I gave up the paycheck to my second wife for 5 years until she said " You never buy me anything anymore. I took back the check and started paying half. It was then I realized how much I had been disrespected and she said that because another man bought her something. Every word out of a woman is a test and comparison to other men. No woman will ever be satisfied with what she has.

  • @rangingaway92
    @rangingaway92 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It's why the sigma grindset makes her a waterfall for you. Especially when you could care less if she exists.

    • @houtbay9
      @houtbay9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spot on. They are totally and utterly incapable of resisting a "I dont give a flying f*uck" mentality. Initially they will bitch and moan and call you a sick mysogynist, but 2 hours later they will be all over you like tertiary syphilis.

  • @trawwff2401
    @trawwff2401 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The funny thing about women is they they will never confess those hard truth that casey is giving us

  • @IsaiahLocsin
    @IsaiahLocsin ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Well done brother, we’ll done ✍️

  • @eddiegarcia6461
    @eddiegarcia6461 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Don't get attached fellas. We need to stay disciplined once we get the leverage. If we lose that leverage, she will start looking to find a higher value mate. We need to be selfish with our time and focus on us. If we keep that mindset, she will stay submissive and chasing.

  • @producermind9030
    @producermind9030 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have done this uncle Casey. This works. She is definitely attached now. I will not commit.

  • @anthonyestrada8262
    @anthonyestrada8262 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This content is so valuable. Appreciate it.

    • @Mojosbb
      @Mojosbb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

  • @chocolatybrown
    @chocolatybrown ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Always love your content bro! 🔥🔥
    Sadly, TH-cam has a history of striking channels like yours. Hope you got some backup for when this could happen.

    • @freedomdude5420
      @freedomdude5420 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wonder why.😏You guys think some fem is involved.

    • @Mojosbb
      @Mojosbb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

  • @IMLEGEND1876
    @IMLEGEND1876 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1000% He spitting facts. I need to get back to ME. I gave away too much in the beginning fack.Time to reel it back. Almost all the way back....2 1/2 year mark. yup. I have everything else. Incredible video. Exactly what I needed to remind myself of. THANK YOU.

  • @rashaddavis3143
    @rashaddavis3143 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This man teaches Men how to be a man How to be a Man 101!!! 💯💯💯💪🔥🔥🔥🎯

  • @justinmesser6026
    @justinmesser6026 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    More guys need to hear this. Fuck being nice. Just because it’s polite doesn’t mean it’s right. You can NEVER let them know that they “have” you. EVER.

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    8:10 i have never in my life done any pursuit, it has ALWAYS been the women and NONE are below 8. All you simply gotta do is FOCUS ON YOUR OWN DARN SELF & NEVER VALIDATE. Never like nor comment on anything they say or post, i do mean NEVER when it relates to them personally especially about their looks. You MUST have your own purpose and focus on that and 8 out of 10 of your posts MUST BE about your purpose and accomplishments. MYSTERY CREATES CURIOUSITY.

  • @houtbay9
    @houtbay9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your camera backfocuses on the wall, and not on your face. Excellent vid bro.

  • @sgsuper1150
    @sgsuper1150 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Together forever said my ex.

  • @bye-72
    @bye-72 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is true, don’t show any weak emotions to a woman.

  • @aluxethegod2553
    @aluxethegod2553 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “Majority of mens dating life is completely fucked”😂😂😂

    • @Fullcollapse1
      @Fullcollapse1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah man if you have to do stupid shit like this to keep one it's pretty much useless. I guess it's all designed to just hook up now. Most of them are ran through now too 😂

  • @paxrom1
    @paxrom1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Casey, I think you're articulating the problem that most men have when it comes to finding women really well but I would just add that it's not just any women men should be after, it's the strongest women too. We should raise strong children. Strength to me is competency and courage, all men know it and respects it, so do women. Men should expect no less.

  • @m14ninja
    @m14ninja ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Gold as usual. You’re more of a Top G than Andrew Tate in my eyes. Doing God’s work 🙏

    • @CiluhStyle1
      @CiluhStyle1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No cuz tate still says cant be an asshole all the time. I like this guy but taking a family photo does not make you weak lmao

    • @mekarestnation
      @mekarestnation ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with m14ninja. Casey zander is a blessing for us all. The father that we never had🥲

    • @maxwellyegoOfficial
      @maxwellyegoOfficial ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There is no competition in the manosphere. Everyone has their perspective.

  • @QuantumTrader-be8wd
    @QuantumTrader-be8wd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God forbid women and men from losing respect for me in anyway whatsoever in my entire lifetime

  • @mokshnigamsatsangi1780
    @mokshnigamsatsangi1780 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The '10 year novel' analogy was brilliant!

  • @paulcosta8297
    @paulcosta8297 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I have never been more pleased with your content Casey than recently. Excellent message.

  • @FewAndSecret11
    @FewAndSecret11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're a Legend Man. Much thanks. Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the law.

    • @Mojosbb
      @Mojosbb 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16

  • @bluethomas493
    @bluethomas493 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great work bro, I think you touched briefly on what men should do to reverse roles after the connection has been made but didn’t put much emphasis on it. Can you do that? I think that’s what more men need to know.

  • @Iseevacant
    @Iseevacant ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Just get a passport and you don't have to do any of this.

    • @holbrook-ul9cf
      @holbrook-ul9cf ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats short cut

    • @cadillacjack3240
      @cadillacjack3240 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most of those foreign women are looking for a sugar daddy

  • @Stonehead-
    @Stonehead- ปีที่แล้ว

    For me this is the best video you have ever done. This makes total sense. Brilliant thanks mate

  • @grumblydoore8551
    @grumblydoore8551 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes I make a long term plan just to set her up use her and reject her. I’m patient and tenacious like that lol.

  • @babyhuey5197
    @babyhuey5197 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The only guy talkin truth!

  • @DesiArms
    @DesiArms 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome true stuff bro.. God bless you… keep the good work coming for mankind.

  • @dailyinspiration7509
    @dailyinspiration7509 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Casey the only way to get best advice is through Gods word his ways are higher.. everything will make sense save lot of heartache.. its unconditional love immense joy. So this channel should reflect joy in most high in Jesus Name Name Bless You 🤓‼️💥🔥

    • @rrb7048
      @rrb7048 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He quotes from scripture and applies it. Dude knows what he’s talking about fr. This goes to a spiritual level.

  • @shottaslim8378
    @shottaslim8378 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This guy's got ot down to a science. Love it!

  • @JoeBudd-D
    @JoeBudd-D ปีที่แล้ว +9

    First Casey says if you have a job you’re a slave and he put men down for not having time to go date their women or travel with them. Now he’s saying work even more so you’re booked up. He says one thing then another.

    • @LoQueYoDigoVaAMisa
      @LoQueYoDigoVaAMisa ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Mizugumo_
    @Mizugumo_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i think this is the best video you have ever done

  • @ParsclickTV
    @ParsclickTV ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love it man. So true.

  • @michaeld1574
    @michaeld1574 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    dude Casey you go off on this

  • @yujimin1100
    @yujimin1100 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I see so many men get cheated on and ghosted by the woman that they are dating. Bcuz they are clingy as fuck and not stoic. Always wanting the attention of a woman. Always calling her 24/7 and not having a life of abundance or any social life

  • @cemakca3588
    @cemakca3588 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think u are the best coach on youtube soo far

  • @DREWTHEEMPATH
    @DREWTHEEMPATH 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Gems.

  • @kyledropinski2368
    @kyledropinski2368 ปีที่แล้ว

    Realest shit I’ve ever heard! Living proof right here!

  • @Betterbetr
    @Betterbetr ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro you are a fuc*ing genius

  • @octaviansebi3036
    @octaviansebi3036 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    By this logic, its only a matter of time women decode this, understand this and start deprogramming themselves of their own programming and using this in the dating game. Its a never ending game. Casey, have you ever been truly in love? I was, I am not denying all of this applied, but it simply didnt apply as much as you think it does. When its true love everything flows naturally from both sides, by these rules, but without the parties trying to outsmart each other in the attraction levels...Its, magical. I did everything you taught before I even knew you.
    So, have you ever truly been in love, Casey? No matter how many chicks me or you pulled, you obviously more, but deep down you know there was at least one where you acted naturally and only thought about how well you played afterwards...

    • @franzs427
      @franzs427 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But there no true love it never exists

    • @cash_king-px5qy
      @cash_king-px5qy ปีที่แล้ว

      u might actually be right, hes looking at short term numbers over long term quality but it does help too i guess

    • @octaviansebi3036
      @octaviansebi3036 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True love does exist. Casey and others need u to believe it doesnt for their teachings... it finds us all at some point and its beyond words, its magical. It appears more often if u believe in it than if u dont. U can game and date n sex all u want. 6 7 8 9 10s fat chicks skinny chicks dont matter. Its fun but true love trumps em all...

    • @octaviansebi3036
      @octaviansebi3036 ปีที่แล้ว

      For example. He says all women are on the hypergamy hype train. False. I mer nymphoniacs who fuck anyone and anything. I met chicks who like dorks and "losers", guys they can dominate and own, not "masculine" men. Casey is not God. He knows his shit but he doesnt 100% know everything. Both the world and women are more complex than what he teaches.

    • @franzs427
      @franzs427 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@octaviansebi3036 for me its never real when i become fall in love with someone they taking advantage of me when im not taking serious the relationship they were hook to me chasing me always want my dick insside there pussy

  • @js5189
    @js5189 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolute golden

  • @icedwhaticed
    @icedwhaticed ปีที่แล้ว

    I fell into that trap with my ex fiancé. Now I’m in a new relationship and I taking all this advice I have been gathering for about 7 months. And applying them. ✊🏿💪🏿

  • @king-nick2023
    @king-nick2023 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    After 2-3 months I told this women she was one of my favorite councilors and she said "at least someone loves me" I just smirked and said "maybe people just need to get to know you first" she was like yeah we all have off days" after class she went talking to other dudes so I went to talk to other women.
    I went outside alone and she followed she thanked me for what I taught her then said "I'm not manipulative but I can be a bitch, then stormed off " I didn't chase her but it's been almost two weeks sense I seen her

  • @danteamodeo1061
    @danteamodeo1061 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My prediction is the fatherless, masculine deprived men of this era will suffer and sludge through the decades of social and technological transition still to come. But in the end, they will be there to teach their boys to fish and be fearless, their girls to nurture and offer qualities worth building bridges and ships to reach. Men, like yourself reading, will rise to evolve a new balance.

  • @prosperitydwellings1208
    @prosperitydwellings1208 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ever man should hear this

  • @cccollarncuffs
    @cccollarncuffs ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These mistakes keep me single!