EMOTIONAL WEAKNESSES WOMEN Despise in MEN that BREAKS her ATTACHMENT towards you (hypergamy truths)
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Women love to hustle and they are head of the game,
Women don't know what they want
Lot of times she wants your attention then she when she gets it she doesn't want it or want you also lot of time's when she doesn't get enough attention she doesn't wants you or date you and moves on
Then later tries to get back with you after she gets fucked by someone else
how can you correct your mistakes when you fucked up with a woman after getting bitched by a woman
Casey upload some masculine traits
I teach the same stuff however I’m in and out of a long term relationship. I have a traditional women who loves public affection, morning text and wants commitment. I’ve always up the hand on her and kept her chasing me, but now it’s gotten to the point where my lack of showing up is affecting the relationship and she’s pulling back because she’s not feeling my investment emotionally. She does have wife qualities and want to keep her around my life to build a future as I do want a family. What’s your take ?
@@luisMontoyafit😊ýģb❤
Stoicism is the way. Was married for 21 years and I made the mistake of that old school thinking, putting her on a pedestal, happy wife happy life blah fucking blah. I red pilled after the divorce and took back every aspect of my masculinity that I had subjugated while married. I’ve been with my lady for two years and I do what I want when I want. Stay in great shape, stay in my frame, be a gentleman and don’t take shit from anyone ever, including her when she rarely tests me. We have a good life together and it’s my hope it endures but if it doesn’t I’ll keep moving forward in the never ending process of being my best self.
glad u got your power back brother. most guys will be stuck on bluepill forever
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@mat7083 fck heavily smoking and drinking, I've managed to quit a month ago, feels great, hopefully I stay occasional no more everyday drinking and only cigars and weed on spec occasions hehe
@@karlopeternel7685 Most commenters ignore the cigarette, but those that do reply react differently to it. Some copy me, some get anxious and confused, others are angry and judgmental, a few think I am being angry and judgemental. Only two people are reminded of their old smoking habits when they see the cigarette. You being the second. Yet, I’ve neither said nor implied anything. Why do you think that is?
I recently got a girl, she actually approached me first I was in my “focus on yourself” era. This is so hard like I have to go against every single instinct to stick to what we know actually works I wanna spend all my time with her but I know that’s not how it works
Certain doom is imminent if you do.
That’s that Disney programming
Yeah man be like "aelpha male" Casey zander and only spend 30 minutes a month with her 💀💀
@eggbertjohnson2591 I know you're exaggerating, but honestly it isn't too far off. A few hours a week, up to a day if you've been seeing her long term is good enough. Maybe twice every blue moon. You have to have hobbies and a life outside of her.
@davidwhite206 it is correct that you shouldn't be spending all your time with her and have your own life and not be constantly available, yes. But in the video Casey quite literally says "a high value man can spend 1-2 hours a week OR EVEN a month with a woman" which is patently r3t@rd3d
Think of it as the shrek movie. Fiona expected her Prince Charming to come and save her but ended up with the ogre who was only invested in himself
Real shit mad respect bro
Haha amazing analogy
She was the ogre herself all the time. This is the biggest surprise every Prince Charming eventually gets from his princess.
She wasn’t the price she thought she was lmao
The ultimate emasculation is when a dude is always following behind the wife pushing the baby stroller. And when they go out she is driving and dude is riding shotgun looking up movie times on his phone for her.
Thats not emasculation at all, what? You just gonna go years never being a dad and pushing the damn stroller? Does your woman always have to be the one in the passenger looking up movies?
😂 You don't have children isn't?
People will bash you for anything honestly. So is the guy considered a bum ass dude if he drove around all day in his girls car without even adding any gas to it?
nah man... Being a fucking dad? The woman will start acting like a bitch 24/7, setting up fights, traumatize your kids, divorce and take the kids away.
I have to say that I learned this the hard way and it is so true, if you need intimacy with a woman you already lost, I know it sounds harsh but whatever you're feeling you better bury it deep inside or you are going to be destroyed by a woman and that's a fact.
What you mean by intimacy? If i snuggle and sleep with her sometimes, that means women despises you for that deep down? Wtf? Please explain the intimacy part.
He means being needy or overly transparent about it. There's nothing wrong with timely intimacy.
@@Abr022575thanks for explaining
@@Abr022575 Hm i see. I've never been needy or looked like it. You have to control that, yeah. But we did snuggle and spent romantic time together with my ex girls. What kind of intimacy is too much? Or you guys mean the amount and length of those sessions must be rare- ish? Rather than the act and situatuon itself the amount is important?
@@Dale_Blackburnhe said it in the video. Drip feed it over a long period, 10 years as a benchmark. She should be all over you and initiating intimacy. You don’t start it. Once you feel like it’s too regular you distance yourself to make her miss you. See yourself as the author/grand architect of the relationship - you need a plan to control her emotions and influence her love for you. It is not to disempower her, but to take complete responsibility of your relationship. You are the master so you need to dictate that.
Youre so right, my future ex wife, totally bitched me, the more certainty I gave her the less attraction and respect she had for me so she started doing less as a wife, eventually she just wasnt even attracted to me. I ignored how bad it got til she started to verbally disrespect me and became demanding. Turned into a totally different person. I'm just like where did I go wrong? And why did she change? She didn't change, I turned her into an entitled bitch by giving her everything she said she wanted. If you do that, you're the reason the marriage got fucked, not her
I became committed , she sensed I wouldnt leave her and it gave her certainty and power, turned her off and totally fucked up our marriage. She's gotta know that you're ready to be single or she won't respect/be attracted to you, even if you're married oddly enough....
The fucked up thing is: u cant even be mad at the woman, she doesnt even know why she lost respect/attraction. To her, it just happened.
Future ex? You mean you already know she will be your ex?
@@dipanggilmas3189 pretty much, once you lose the respect of a woman, im pretty sure it's just gone and time to move on, we have kids and im trying to get myself financially capable to support us living in seperate homes, once that happens, im gonna file file for divorce. Unless she somehow starts to respect me and becomes attracted to me again, but it feels like it's just gone for good, I'm detaching and moving on mentally already
Your situation sums up a lot of things. This is why "traditional" societies consider women as eternal adolescents (at least in terms of relationship), moreover the finished men of these eras only married adolescents of childbearing age. Our ancestors knew very well the functioning of women at least since the Neolithic, but modern society has decided to simply ignore this... Hence the divorces and disarray of modern men.
You spoke the truth. After multiple early similar errors with my ex gfs, I began to have that ALWAYS BE WILLING TO WALK AWAY attitude. I been with my wife for 12 years now. Im already 41. Was been shit tested/argument fight so frequently the first 5-6 years of marriage. Im always with that mindset every time clash occur.
Always came out as the Man… they will be angry at you but they will respect tou more as a MEN/dominant/leader of the house.
@@jamelcarpenter327 not really, i pretty sure it's deep rooted in their biology to lose respect for a man once you commit, men can't see it cause most men don't react to committment that way, but thats the way it is unfortunately. Then they lose more after you get married and even more after you have a kid. Like "I got him now"
Get married and have a kid. They change big time
Did this for many years and got opposite results from the movies. Took a year off from dating and relationships, read top 5 books about everything I was doing wrong, focused on improving my body mind and $.
Women are now coming to me . . . I can see though all of that now, all the things that I read in the books are now starting to match my experience. The moment you realize that you don't kneed a woman is when they start coming after you. I just keep focusing on myself and making a lot of men friends . . . .
Movies are everything we wish for, that means it’s not real, that’s why it’s just entertainment, never take anything from a movie as a standard
What are the books you have read?
@thenuka1524 wanna know to. I cant afford his mbt course. What books can I read ?
@@robinkimmer8134
Read below in the order from top down
The Rational Male -Rollo Tomassi
The Unplugged Alpha -Richard Cooper
How to Be a 3% Man - Corey Wayne (free download)
Definitely. I have never ended up with any girls that I compliment them as pretty/cute/beautiful/I like your xxxx….I even try the classic method buying them a bouquet of flowers, cute gifts….heck they ghosted/friendzone me even faster after receiving those…the one staying with me until now is exactly how I behave as per Zander teaching. It wasn’t i insticntively know how to deal with women. I reflect on how I behave towards all my failed relationship and adapt. My mental have always been ALWAYS BE WILLING TO WALK AWAY after that when dealing with women…
I personally have experienced what Casey is talking about with a failed marriage. I was too complacent and too much of the "happy life, happy wife" kind of guy. It was so bad, she had me fetching her coffee every morning for work. She had complete control by denying me sex (the power of the pussy). She left me for another guy which as Casey states: she was always looking for a bigger and better deal.
She was shit testing you. Women like that want subconsciously for you to put her in her place. Women want the daddy energy not the simp energy. They want someone who are assertive, dominant, and will lead her. Think of it like the fetish in porn, or like 50 Shades of Grey. Deep down women want men that will dominate her sexually and physically.
Yep, I was married 17 years. A week ago, she became belligerent, looked at me with disgust and now I’m out of the house, she’s told everyone what a super POS I am and did something about it… yet I catered to her every need. Really. BLINDSIDED….. what a damn idiot I am. A pussy. Castrated!!!
What a poo.c
This stuff is gold. As you watch these videos you can just replay instance after instance where you broke these rules with the hottest girls and lost them, and where you naturally acted and behaved in a higher value way when you were hanging out with chick's you deemed lower value than you. It's an interesting cycle
Yup, exactly. The girls I dont care about, they always come back and I can't get rid of them.
Yeah mate so true 👍
@@brent4073 no they don't, why do you make stuff up ? 🤣
Absolutely take HEED in what Casey Zander is teaching you young fellows as It's 💯% ACCURATE! He who tries the least and cares the least WINS 👍👊💪
@@palkisakumi8595go live a little and experience such simple "lies" for yourself
Ngl this made me think hard about every single female I fell out with and realizing the patterns they all shared.. only to understand they were from my own actions
Yeah he’s talking complete facts
Agreed. Some of the concepts can be wrong and cold, however it certainly does also allow us to reflect on our own mistakes and not playing a victim from essentially our own fuck ups
@@chuckfullerton813right, women don’t want a full blown fucking sociopath… they want a man.
Amazing how Casey has this figured out at 27 yrs old…..I’m 67 and didn’t know about all this stuff regarding women….However….I don’t think women 40-50 years ago were quite like this psychologically…..
Bro brought out the whiteboard, but he’s spitting complete facts. I’ve been dating for a while and he’s talking nothing but truth
Man, i learn a lot with Casey, but the more i learn the more i just want to stay quiet and away from all the work that a woman brings.
Precisely! And that is the kind of preferance you need in order to ONLY choose to be with a woman if she can add value to your life, not just in the past, but day after day. As soon as she becomes a pain in the ass, drop her! That in turn means no marriage, no living together and most of all no kids.
@@thomashilmersen711 yeah, that's true. But I'm a Christian and i kinda want to be married, but with all this work... IDK
accurate
@@funnyshorts6830 find a good one. Date multiple, not just one
@@funnyshorts6830If your desire and conviction are so weak that you only “kinda want to be married,” that’s a fundamental problem right there. Do you fucking want to be married or not?
Simple solution, stop pedestalizing your girlfriend or your wife, and put yourself, your path and purpose your goals your dreams your fitness all above her and she will priorize you. Cuz you are the prize that she wants to compete for
There is much material saying chase excellence, not women, and that in itself will draw the women to you, especially the ones you actually want. So it does stand to reason that the second you totally shift and focus on the woman and not on the excellence, that will send her right back to where she came from and that is away from you...
I never talk to any woman to not risk validating them. They must all be crazy about me by now.
Ironically there’s a girl at the gym who is so beautiful that I was scared to talk to her at first (last year some time) and I see her regularly and still never talked to her because I only built my confidence up this year, yet she still gives me signals every time I see her and hasn’t gotten deterred
Bruhhh 😂😂😂😂
“Holdiday pictures shes got you acting like a goofball” 😂😂😂😂
There are many red pill guys and there are few matrix men. This man understands the matrix.
Man you are worth a million bucks....... Thanks for giving us, this precious knowledge.........
In other words: DON'T SIMP
100% - much respect to you brother. You break it down how it is. Solely explaining human nature in its purest form from both genders. No toxicity or vilifying of one gender or another.
if I found your work sooner in life, I would've saved myself a lifetime of pain. What you're saying is accurate to a T. My last relationship ended badly, and I can replay every bad move I made in my head, and everything you say, is exactly what happened...
I hear you man. I had one bad marriage and one is leading to a divorce- I look back and think I selected a 5
But we all learn hard ways. Younger you would be laughing at this video calling names
1. Don't pay for her lifestyle, even after you're married.
2. Don't buy into her tears she uses during an argument.
How can you not pay for her lifestyle without imposing on her femininity?
@@navboi12 I'm a woman and believe me when I say women are smart and capable of being manipulative in the right time and person, especially when it comes to resources.
@@akina1053How can you not pay for your wife's lifestyle
@@akina1053I'm beautiful, give me free stuff.
@@akina1053so she should work?😊
Treat women, like they are replaceable, because they are. As soon as you cant do that, you are screwed. She will get her way with you and your value will drop till she leaves you. Replaceable means, if she doesn’t want to follow your lead. Have her leave and invite one that will. The mistake is made, when guys become emotionally attached. Thats what kills your ability to get and keep women.
This information applies to marriages as well. How many sexless marriages are there from the woman pulling back, no matter how hard the husband tries?
thats when you just get another if a women pulls that BS I am gone simple I dont care if i am married 30 years
My condo was going to be fumigated. I foolishly moved in with a 6.
I stayed like a pathetic B for 18 years, with her getting more manly and dominant every day.
I secretly worked on my credit score for years, then bought a home and moved the F out.
Now she’s all over me. She bought me a Tesla Model 3 Performance. She paid for a huge trip to the pacific.
I use her body like she’s a 304.
She told me “you buying that house and moving out like that made me want you so bad I couldn’t stand it”.
Move out. It’ll turn her on. Facts.
True, having your own nice home will get girls throwing themselves at you. Offer her the chance to be help with interior design. They love that project.
@@richardlabejaDont even ask a woman how she would decorate tour crib...that is beta as hell.
@@user-se8hh4uh6x I said ""help with interior design" that doesn't necessarily mean agreeing on everything she suggests. Her work is look after the kids and the home. Those duties can be delegated to a woman.
Casey is a prime example of just how much we can learn from heartbreak! Use that energy for good lads. Its all on you 👑
nothing demonstrates the contradiction in women more than them wanting you to be vulnerable but being turned off by it at the same time.
Thank you! I finally have the information to get girls to break up with me. I just have to fake being super attached. I was going about that the whole wrong way- I usually try to get them to hate me/annoy them but it would never work and I’d have to break their hearts. Explains soo much and I genuinely feel bad. Whoops 😬
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bruh lol
I hope young men are watching this. I really do
It's why the sigma grindset makes her a waterfall for you. Especially when you could care less if she exists.
Spot on. They are totally and utterly incapable of resisting a "I dont give a flying f*uck" mentality. Initially they will bitch and moan and call you a sick mysogynist, but 2 hours later they will be all over you like tertiary syphilis.
I’ve always put myself first ever since I was 17 and had my first heartbreak but they never stop the crying and hoping for me to be better/nicer to them even tho I am it’s a never ending battle to hold your frame bc they are trying to take it at any given moment.
Yep.
My girl will legit not even let me break up with her…. She cries begs to keep me stay…. But than when I treat her well together, she has no Intimacy in the way I enjoy and is Bossy, rude.
So I break up w her and she just says anything and does anything sexually to keep me to stay.
It’s lose lose situation
I was very worried about the health of my gf's sister's baby. I let a few tears for the baby... really dire situation, really unfair to this little angel....tried to hide the tears. She looked at me with such disgust, I knew it was over at that moment.
Oh dear
Brutal. We are human, yet still expected to play by their 'coding' akin to emotionless robots.
Well ofc, it's not your baby, and it's not even your sister's baby. It's basically just another man's sperm. Real men treat another man's sperm with disgust: they don't like it and they don't want it in their lives. Even if it's 'cute' and 'lovely'. If you want to cry for another man's sperm that has nothing to do with you, that characterizes you as a potential cuck. Maybe it sounds harsh, but it is what it is.
This is great wisdom! Thanks for posting these videos. I'm learning every day from watching them. Gotta focus on #1 and always work on leveling up.
When you said "slower the burn" I got chills man.... We just watched a movie a few days ago about the "slow burn" and how it's so much better for a relationship. She said I'm her slow burn after we got done watching it. The movie was I Want You Back. Great movie idk if you've seen it but highly recommend. And bro, again, I commented on another one of your vids just a min ago but God definitely put your channel before me at the perfect time. I truly appreciate your work. Hope I can get in contact with you at some point and tell you our story
nice comment bro i just might give it a watch.
For me this is the best video you have ever done. This makes total sense. Brilliant thanks mate
This is the best advice. I have been guilty of getting attached in a relationship and everything that you said exactly happened. They pulled away, lost feelings and hypergamy took over. It’s the cold hearted facts and every man needs to accept this truth of female nature.
It happened to me also. I gave her commitment. She fuqued around. She lost respect. I looked and acted like a simp. never again.
Don't get attached fellas. We need to stay disciplined once we get the leverage. If we lose that leverage, she will start looking to find a higher value mate. We need to be selfish with our time and focus on us. If we keep that mindset, she will stay submissive and chasing.
8:10 i have never in my life done any pursuit, it has ALWAYS been the women and NONE are below 8. All you simply gotta do is FOCUS ON YOUR OWN DARN SELF & NEVER VALIDATE. Never like nor comment on anything they say or post, i do mean NEVER when it relates to them personally especially about their looks. You MUST have your own purpose and focus on that and 8 out of 10 of your posts MUST BE about your purpose and accomplishments. MYSTERY CREATES CURIOUSITY.
I watch all your vids from Australia.
This one was great felt like new way of looking at this kind of content.
So many guys still need to learn from you.
Casey you couldn’t be more spot on- reason I know is because I was the dude in all of your examples and did not understand this until I had been dumped and was able too reflect on all the ways I got bitched and how easily I was emasculated
You're a Legend Man. Much thanks. Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the law.
Freedom is better than need em.
What a saying! Keeping that my dude! Thanks!
Hell yea.
I would rather have $100 dollars and be free… than have $100,000 dollars and be with a disrespectful partner… yes I understand disagreeing is happening… but For a female to Rise up to a male in aggressive manner is just non-negotiable.
It is up to us to stay masculine so they can stay Feminine
Everything you said is on POINT. Wow.
Casey you been pumping out amazing content please keep it up you're doing amazing work
Casey is eons ahead of his time. Simply revolutionary. Keep it up.
I’m learning so much from this channel, masculinity is so important to us man , if you don’t present this way to women, you are a beta . Thank you Casey
Casey bro, I pray for your success. Been following you for a long time and you helped me level up in life and attract the right women into my life, I will forever be grateful. I hope you find a nice peaceful woman who makes you forgot about the intensity of the western dating market. I love you man, take care.
Any tips how you put caseys tips into practical play
“Majority of mens dating life is completely fucked”😂😂😂
This content is so valuable. Appreciate it.
Superb content you've been pumping out lately💪👍
Thank you again for another great piece of work bro
I think u are the best coach on youtube soo far
Awesome true stuff bro.. God bless you… keep the good work coming for mankind.
I was the man in the beginning...o took no crap...after a year of pressuring me into a marriage I cracked...its been hell ever since. I made her chase me throughout the marriage but I was an asshole and she adored me but due to the pressure of our circumstances, having a child early after marriage and no familial help, it made matter worse for us to keep up the dynamic. Now I find myself having to be there more than I should. The minute that happens they expect you to be a bitch husband and bitch dad. Covid happened and that fucked everything being that we were around eachother 24/7. Smh I learned my lessons tho. Neve agian give all of yourself to a woman. Constantly make her work for it and she will praise and honor you.
i think this is the best video you have ever done
The '10 year novel' analogy was brilliant!
This guy's got ot down to a science. Love it!
Love it man. So true.
Great points🔥🔥🔥
Most important is trust (if I trust somebody or not).
Hey, Casey. You're genius, bro ❤
The only guy talkin truth!
Well done brother, we’ll done ✍️
Just get a passport and you don't have to do any of this.
Thats short cut
1000% He spitting facts. I need to get back to ME. I gave away too much in the beginning fack.Time to reel it back. Almost all the way back....2 1/2 year mark. yup. I have everything else. Incredible video. Exactly what I needed to remind myself of. THANK YOU.
You seem inspired lately! Awesome content.
It’s desperately needed rn
Thank you for teaching.
dude Casey you go off on this
she turned him into a GOOFBALL I lost it!!!LOL. This video is the truest content I have seen all year, gonna keep watching
Thanks man for this.
Realest shit I’ve ever heard! Living proof right here!
I recent discover you channel i love it 💪
Absolute golden
I fell into that trap with my ex fiancé. Now I’m in a new relationship and I taking all this advice I have been gathering for about 7 months. And applying them. ✊🏿💪🏿
The Great Man! *salutes
God forbid women and men from losing respect for me in anyway whatsoever in my entire lifetime
Great work bro, I think you touched briefly on what men should do to reverse roles after the connection has been made but didn’t put much emphasis on it. Can you do that? I think that’s what more men need to know.
I believe this works when you have a gf that's lining herself up for marriage. They always get comfortable once they feel like they have you tied up.
Heavenly information and useful video.
Yes. Pure gold...
Always love your content bro! 🔥🔥
Sadly, TH-cam has a history of striking channels like yours. Hope you got some backup for when this could happen.
I wonder why.😏You guys think some fem is involved.
Thanks for this content
Damn how strong and hard this words hits.
First Casey says if you have a job you’re a slave and he put men down for not having time to go date their women or travel with them. Now he’s saying work even more so you’re booked up. He says one thing then another.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I like this channel as a woman. It’s teaching me exactly what to avoid.
avoid what exactly
except you wont avoid him because he is good looking. And he is super lucky because he is so fucking autistic and weird
@@parkeriq7588 lol. Any dude who pulls back, any dude who isn’t affectionate, any dude who doesn’t want to be a husband, any dude who is seeking to date multiple women, any dude who is play acting alpha, any dude wants leadership attention without leadership responsibilities, any performative dude.
@@tz8565 I’ll ignore you either way. 😂 Now we’re demonizing affection.
@@nicolem5626so you want a guy to be all over you and text you 24/7?
Yes I make a long term plan just to set her up use her and reject her. I’m patient and tenacious like that lol.
Basically see her as a number and let her prove to you that she’s a name
This is true, don’t show any weak emotions to a woman.
Bro you are a fuc*ing genius
Gems.
God tier advice
Top G as always
This man teaches Men how to be a man How to be a Man 101!!! 💯💯💯💪🔥🔥🔥🎯
Told my wife, considering everything we know now and how I run my family, if she wants to get the covid shot then I'm gone.
Yeah fr, don’t want your dick in that after she does
I have never been more pleased with your content Casey than recently. Excellent message.
Useful Video Bro. From Bangladesh.
Biggest Bang For Her Buck...HA I get what you did there!
GOLD.