Women WILL NEVER LOVE This TYPE of Man - Accept Female Nature 101 (hypergamy value secrets)
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Your channel 💯. I'm a pretty high value guy and I still feel like I still have work to do bro. I make over 500k a year, I'm in shape and can defend myself and I'm a demon in a bed. But I feel like I still need to put more work in. To your listeners, listen to him. This guy knows what he is talking about.
This is one of your best videos. Keep up the good work.
Caesy why you put women on paedstole and show men how to worship them?
90% of western women are whores, gold diggers, bitches and have nothing to offer but used and abused vigina . Are you that clever SIMP in the neighbourhood?
@@marcanthony9923l
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Strongest Powers as a man:
1. Staying single.
2. Walking away from a relationship or situation where you are being disrespected.
Staying single is the weakest and easiest move there is.
A terminally ill homeless drug addict can do that. Or a child.
If you are being disrespected you should consider why. Don't be too quick to walk away, it could be an opportunity to learn something about yourself.
@@OliHandy2008my guy right here🫡
@@OliHandy2008 A bum obviously isn’t worried about dating or anything in general for that matter. I’m speaking for the majority of men who have put their time into their purpose and passions in life and have built a legacy for themselves.
@johnn.marshall4566 Even then, staying single is not a power. It just makes purpose an excuse to stay away from others. That’s not strength, it’s avoidance.
Right on.
After all these years of knowing red pill truths, the fact that the idealistic love isn't real is the hardest thing to not forget.
I really hate to agree with you, but it's true.
I know. I think we men have such a strong desire for it….
It’s freeing, though. I don’t have to give a fu*k about any woman ever again just simply because of that truth.
What about when you’re in your teenage years/early 20s?
I agree. And I've dated enough women in the past to know that it's true. To me, that fact makes me not even want to bother anymore.
the fact that you all want the highest quality woman without anything to offer her is ridiculous!!!
"The despise men who cannot walk away." This is one of the reasons that marriage is so toxic for men.
If you want a legacy, just have a baby mama or cohabitate but never marry. Either of cases leave you outs while having a child you want.
This guy literally has a PhD in women's studies.
The way his presentation is is exactly like a professor at a top ranking college would teach.
In-depth knowledge that this man possesses and preaches is superior compared to anyone else on the internet
Protect this man at all costs
But if he truly believes in his stuff, he would realize he doesn’t need to care about these topics so much
@@joebudd6716I would say he does. As an individual he has no need to verbally announce it but it’s a job as a real man to use your wisdom and experience to fuel those before you. In real life we don’t go preaching it but this is a community of increasing individuals who prioritize value. If I kept my worst mistakes to myself and never gave heed to others who would I be. To be shared is knowledge’s highest value
@@slQa. But if he believes all these things about women and you don't need em, then he should just tell you to not go for women.
@joebudd6716 Took the words right out of my head. Just another Andrew Tate. These guys don't care about other men. They only care that other men listen to their bullshit. I'm 37, married and a dad. Yeah most women are selfish narcissistic cunts but not all of then were raised by feminazis or libtards.
He is a Gun The Michael Jordan of Women's Bullshit!! Once you realize women are just Big Children you are winning the game...Just treat them like a Child when she goes all Ratty just agree don't react, and if the bullshit behavior continues Walk if you're a good looking fella on your grind and purpose she can't replace you.
Tell her get on my page or we are done so many gorgeous women that appreciate a guy with a good body, you grind for yrs in the gym, then they think we will accept BS and the Overgrown child talking to us with Disrespect...CaseyZander thank you for waking me up to these Vile creatures...
Just because they Have Good T.... and P..... don't accept poor treatment, mine got the standard re written last week continue and I am gone and you will never see me again.. Made me breakfast than showered together and had good sex.. Stand up for yourselF once you show weakness they move to there Fantasy... Trust Casey is correct on all this don't believe me keep bowing to her and she will Monkey branch....
The part where you said “she isn’t wired to love you. She’s wired to love her children.” I mean WOW!!! I have wondered why my son can do no wrong….
what ive seen personally during my life is women could care less about their children. my babies come first; my ass.
@@lilfairycupcake Exactly. Women dont care about their children. The children are merely a bi product of her securing a mans resources. A woman only loves herself unconditionally, for everyone else her love is conditional including her off spring. Thats why men need to accept that our mothers never loved us and are incapable of loving us so we dont go into the field seeking that love and acceptance our mother never gave us. Otherwise these women will eat you alive.
Imo, the only unconditional love exists between parent and child. I love my children, just because they exist. they don’t have to do a single thing for me. It’s super simple. However, men and women love each because of the value we add to each others life. One example: one thing I love about my husband is his mental toughness, like he said. Thought that was super funny. Anyway, my point remains parents love their children without conditions. But love between men and women, not so much. And I would argue that men also love because of the value she brings to his life.
@@kristinrichmond8185 from my standpoint a solid 70% of mothers could care less about their kids, even tho ive heard that superficial battle cry of "nothing comes above my babies" for the cyber masses more times than i can count.
Lol
The real red pill is that love is just a game. It always has been, and if you take it seriously at all with ANYONE, you will lose the game.
When women get richer, they want to divorce and be polygamous and get your money
EVERYWHERE in the world. So alimony is an outdated, regressive law
My gf for 6 years cheated on me and begged for a second chance... but when I found out she's been seeing him all summer behind my back, I cried in front of her face and she got so disgusted by me being emotional that she almost threw up. She told me to my face she wants to link him again bc I'm too soft. Went from begging for a second chance to begging me to block her. Go figure.
Why did you cry? You must be beta
Not only is love not worth it. It's impossible. Got it.
If you love someone... Be someone they can love
So there you go.
Option 1: You play hard to get, she gives you drama, fights, she hates you, but you get seggs.
Option 2: You are a normal honest person and try to be nice, she might "like" you but will have zero respect for you and you'll get zero seggs.
I dont know which one is worse
Option 3: live my life in solitude and drama free with without Seggs
Option 4: Love yourself first and value yourself, all else will come to you.
Option 5: Leave her. There are other girls who do not behave like option 1 and 2.
True!
Dafuk is a seggs?!
I am a 68-year-old man that’s been married twice and has had many girlfriends. Everything this man has said is absolutely true. I’m just sorry that it took me this long to realize what he has said in these few minutes of this video. Guys please for your own sake, take the heart everything this man has said.
Will do. I’m glad I discovered it at 25. This is gold for sure
it’s not your fault, this information was not available back in your prime
You live and learn sir
or just deal with selfless women if you know how to find them
We should e learning from you old guys because old men knew how to treat these crazy creatures
Put simply: the less you want them, the more they want you. Ain’t it the truth! Great video!😃
Even if that were true, then it would be a moot point. It’s like wanting to eat something you don’t like anymore.
You can’t be cold all the time, you’ll end up with no one bro.
First couple of date sure, but if she’s hold your arm and cuddling up with you all night and texting you good morning first and saying she’s thinking about you all day…..
It’s time to warm up bro, give her meaningful love and knowledge to learn from you. Positive vibes to build a relationship.
I don’t need more advice, just warning men to be careful.
@@LightCheck70 Yea. Seems like this type of advice sometimes can work as manipulation, short term. But long term it won’t ever result in something.
Possible , as im hearing most women are ending up with down low men. The get women but dont really want them because they are gay.
@@joebudd6716no.. it's like wanting to eat something so badly that is so harmful for your health just because you like it.
If you treat her like a star she’ll treat you like a fan. Keep up the good work Casey because you are talking about the way things are and not the idealized, bs view we get from watching Disney movies growing up
Yep she hurt me
Really good one
That phrase is "star/fan", is a very truthful metaphor.
Perfect metaphor. Boys these days are conditioned by entertainment (movies, TV, etc) to treat women they view attractive like a movie star and act like fans. Movie stars never hook up with their fans 😂
But women love Hallmark movies 🤔
They filter alphas from betas by whether the guy gets emotionally attached to them or not. By unchecking all the attachment boxes signals, you categorize yourself as an alpha. A quality video, Casey
But you still care about them
Wrong!!! You just don’t qualify by unchecking. It has to be who you are. confident and a well cared man with values, work on yourself instead
An alpha is a real man... not what women see as _sexy._ And just like a _simp_ can be married or single... _alphas_ can, too.
@@Vickzq that’s true. Everyone has different preferences.
Can't negotiate attraction.
A woman falls in love when you show strength, and falls out of love when you show love and affection
sad but true
True for most women that are shallow, high quality women are not like this after you reach a level of bond with them
@@rehakmateAre you a woman? Because only a woman would believe and argue that.
@@Vic_RE_InvestorNo, my father (84) and my uncle (87) argue that all the time. Both men were pretty alpha in their day, but deeply blue pill programmed and uninterested in any TRP concepts.
@@rehakmate you’re in the denial stage, don’t worry buddy I was there too once upon a time
My pickup line today, "You're far away from your island." She had already smiled at me so it really didn't matter what I said. NB: This video is spot on. EVERY female friend I've ever had fell in love with me. Because I treated them indifferently and they knew they could never be with me. It was just pure 2 way respect and fun, which they betrayed by developing feelings. Every woman I've ever had cheated on me because I cared about them. Now I just don't give a damn about love. They better have utility.
How pretty were all the girls you've been with? 8 and up? On a scale of one to ten?
@@UltraVibeLounge My 1st wife was just an average blonde Cali high school girl. Nerdy marching band type. Cute. Feminine and shapely. Very kind and nice, which doesn't stop cheating. After that, I would only go out with 9 and 10s. That didn't pan out.
Men love your wives, women honor your husbands. A woman is the object of man's affection, a man is the object of a woman's desire for security. These factors show the difference between men and women. A man will love first and respect (provide and protect for) his woman as a result. A woman will honor a man's strength first as a provisional source, and will love him later on. The good old book said this thousands of years ago. I think it should stick by now.
Solomon's own mother literally counselled him not to "spend his strength on women, on those who ruin kings," in Proverbs 31:3.
Solomon himself realized in Ecclesiastes 7:28 that he could only find "one good man among a thousand, but not one good woman among them all."
Even the good Book tells you to prioritize you mission and purpose and not a woman. And he had a thousand of them.
WTH are you even talking about. Women don't even use the word "honor"😂
@@wpbdog1625 I get your point. For further information consult the Bible at your own convenience, but I understand you))
@@somemilkdude. King Salomon was unfortunately a lecher who had thousand wives. One thousand. Of course he got a abstracted by all those woman and of course he wasn’t blessed with one good woman by God because of his insatiableness.
It says „He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.“
Stop twisting scripture at your will
Exactly.
I was told as a young man..... treat them like dirt they will love you for it. it's kind of sad but it is 100% the truth. you have to give a little don't get me wrong. but never ever give too much.
I no longer am capable of loving women, especially after my ex girlfriend displayed the same behaviour as Casey described. The only person I truly love is my 5 year old son.
Our mothers are the only women who will sacrifice themselves for us. You know why? It's because your well being and survival subconsciously mean the survival of her genes. This is the bitter truth
@@youwilllaugh3136 🤡
@@youwilllaugh3136IDK my mother was a cold hearted bih
Same happened to me.
The only dating coach on youtube worth listening to..
Yeah because he reads Rollo Tomassi
kinder garden play boy
I also PsycHacks. But both are not perfect.
@@nictibbetts😂 Rollo (aka George, that’s his real name) is a fake and a fraud, George is nothing but a hypocrite and a tool that, despite all that he’s constantly espousing doesn’t actually give a shit about men, he’s the definition of a grifter, and he’s old and he’s been married for the last 20 years so he has literally zero real world experience in todays day and age with women or dating. He’s only in it/ this/ the manosphere for one reason and that’s $money$ period.
Don’t be fooled by his grift, he even admits to the fact that literally all of his talking points/ advice in his books aren’t even his own ideas, he admits that each and every one of his “iron rules” came from several different sources online over the years such as message boards and threads etc. that he’s found/ read somewhere and that he then just collected and eventually condensed/ summarized into what is now his book.
That being said, I don’t actually disagree with a lot of what’s said in his book, but they aren’t his ideas, Rollo’s just a talking grifter head for the ideas that’ve been put forth and posted somewhere online over the years by lots of other men within the manospere.
Coach Corey Wayne is also really good.
Nah he gettin off 😂 everytime I heard ‘This couldn’t be further from the truth’ . . . I felt that in my SOUL
I don't want a woman that only sees me as a utility. If that is all a woman wants then she can get it somewhere else. I was married for 31 years and we raised 6 kids to adulthood. 6 months after the last one left, she went out of town to a company business party and rekindled a relationship with some guy (now a millionaire) that she knew in college. 6 months later we are divorced. I caught her in a hotel room with him. She has absolutely broken my heart and I am at a total loss. 59 years old and now living alone, there is no way I will find someone else. I've looked. There is nothing I would even consider dating.
Sorry to hear that!
Might be time for a move to or near a city with a lot of options for you. There's a very good chance you'll see this as a blessing in disguise in the near future. Forget about her and focus on your health and fitness. And I'll give you one last tip: never ever ever complain to any woman you meet or date about your ex wife. Good luck!
You need to go to Thailand, Eastern EU, Philippines, etc...
There you will find beautiful young girls who just want someone to be with them, and take care of them.
$500-$1,000 a month to a hot young Thai girl, and they will cling to you forever.
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I've always said that men in general fall in love quicker/harder than women.When we break up with a woman we truly loved,it really is like our world crashed around us.We're more romantic,if you listen to any type of music,the song is always about the woman he loves.Idealistic love isn't real,or at least it no longer is.Hearing the truth isn't easy sometimes but it will set you free.And that's the beginning of living your best life.
I'm mentally exhausted and have no desire to implement the above program just for a woman. I'll just stay single and enjoy the love bombing stage until she exposes her true agenda, they always sooner or later show their hand.
Excellent strategy 💯 !!!!
Agree, I'm not looking for love anyways, idgaf!
Exactly, the program above just makes relationships seem pointless as fuck and a waste of energy just to say you’re with someone and have consistent sex. Like what’s the endgame here if you’re supposed to not act like you give a shit or are even in a relationship? Just hook up or be fuck buddies. Why spend money and energy on someone who you’re treating and are being treated like a fuck buddy?
@@anthonycowan3481 Yep, do this don't do that or you'll not win that valuable treasure between her legs. B.S.! Most of them give it away like candy at Halloween!! Just don't be the sucker living with them or marrying them and paying the bills while Tom, Dick and Harry are getting the benefits. They all have the same package below the neck. lol
truth
i been red pilled before i knew it was a thing, with that being said i started to really like this girl and noticed her behavior becoming really bad the more she realized i like her so i called her and told her i want to go my separate ways and never spoke to her again i don’t even watch her social media stories or even like her pictures anymore, she was so shocked that i wasn’t gonna put up with her nonsense ….you can tell that no other guy has ever checked her and walked away smh, but one advice i give u guys is that u need to always be willing to just walk away for good, don’t wait for her to come back …. MOVE ON !!!!!! Even the thought of her coming back now makes me sick to my stomach.
Just use them for sex until a better one comes along! I just stopped reaching out to them until they ask to hang out aka Get the D
I'd tell her I'd see her in the next life .....just for giggles
What did she say when you checked her?
@@azarel7 she tried to gas light me into thinking i was wrong for not wanting to put up with her and her nasty behavior, it’s almost as if she couldn’t believe i gonna walk away.
@@100logic8 Wow...good on you walking away man.
The key in keeping a woman is to make these things rewards for her when she demonstrates respect for you. She has to earn the compliments, your time, and your commitment.
You're fucking magical. This is the deepest, most profound analysis of the mating process I have ever heard.
Agreed 💯, it's all about her respecting you. I have a buddy who is practically broke all the time, but pulls all of the ass in the world because of the way he carries himself, he's confident no matter his situation, he's ugly and treats women like crap too, but women respect him.
I have a similar buddy. He has absolutely nothing to his name, yet gets ass 15 years younger all the time. He spends everything he has on them, smashes, then they ghost him and talk shit about him later.
It honestly says a lot more about the girls. I hardly talk to him now. Always needs something
@@Justtwodangmany how do you know they talk shit about him if you dont see the guy anymore
@@georgelaufrode2031 If hes friends with them on fb, its because theyve once been under him. A couple of them talked badly about him on posts where he was wanted by the police.
Plus, there were stories hed share about them and how things would go back and forth.
@@georgelaufrode2031 What. You think he has dementia and doesn't remember his buddy's past? Focus on what matters, dude. Your question is weird.
I’ve heard thins saying once that “A bank will gladly give you credit if you prove them you don’t need one”.
Sounds too familiar with the women, doesn’t it. Take it and use it guys. Great analogy 😅
Once women get your time, they’ll sit there on their phone talking to other people.
I’m 48 single man, I gave up on relationships because the women I met broke up my heart multiple times, I wish I knew those things on that white board during my 20s, it could’ve been a massive help and how to conduct yourself when it comes to having a relationship with a women, but it’s all good, at least we still can pass this knowledge to our loved ones and the people we worry about so they don’t make the same mistakes.
It’s amazing how right he is after I noticed I did one or 2 of these things while dealing with a girl this summer. And amazing how completely against the upbringing about love, treating a girl right like a princess, etc. that female nature actually really is.
When dealing with "a girl" therefore girls that, I, Tory meets, falls into this category and so does every other man. No, you met a bitchy female, probably a man hating Liberal activist. Try again rather than basing your entire experience off that one girl you met that one summer. There's billions out there. Way to restrict yourself to a couple then and stereotype the rest you have never spoken to.
Can you rewrite the second sentence? I’d like to understand it better.
@@jonm57 He says that what they are programming you to belive about love, treating a girl right like a princess, etc is actually not true at all.
No, in the right context it can be, but you have to have established your frame with her beforehand. If she already looks up to you, a little romance here and there can be attractive. Just don't let it break your frame. You can put your frame down sometimes but keep it close by and at the ready.
@@benq994 kind of off topic but this is what is so bloody dangerous about Disney sneaking its woke agenda into its output. There are entire generations of boys being raised on a false narrative. What chance will they have negotiating any of this stuff?
Women don't love their man they just love what their man does for them because they love themselves
Wow this hit a nerve. I dated a girl years ago that was going really well, but I lusted her too much and she ended it out of nowhere. And it broke me. Even to this day I wish I could do it again.
You live and you learn. Now, you know not to become a fan of a woman.
We all been there. My first love was an extraordinary woman. But instead of lamenting my self I've learned tremendously
this is the first time I have seen someone who gets it. Its not about being her perfect provider or companion, its about her knowing that you are in control; not of her but of yourself and your situation. That makes her want to become part of your situation and your life. As soon as a woman sees that she has the power to control you she wants nothing to do with you. how do you do this if you are born with the desire to find love and have a passionate relationship? You stop living for what you can get out of life and stop living for love from someone else, and start living for yourself. It sounds selfish, but it is what leads to being powerful and having control, and that is what gives a woman confidence in her ability that you will never bring her somewhere that you can't get both of you out of. Its not about confidence in your ability to talk to women, its that women sense your confidence that comes from success in achieving difficult things and being a man that succeeds in his endeavors and his endeavors are powerful. Some men are lucky and find a relationship with a woman that is more reflective and logical, but that is not their nature, like it is not mens nature to get perspective from emotions while ignoring reality.
Bigger truth. No one in their 30's and even early 40's knows a single thing about men or women.
Solid and real advice. Being finally single at 50 after the divorce, I can attest that each and every point you made is true. Kevin Samuels also said that the man's ultimate power over any woman is his ability to walk away. And by the way, I have been watching RP content since 2018 and seen it all, but this is the best summary that I ever found. Good job mate. Since I went through these experiences, I can tell you talk from experience too. In fact, I will take notes to remember these points, since they are very valid. I have seen men who were short and even not exceptionally good earners, but who understood female nature and they were able to attract and keep a beautiful woman and marry her.
It’s all in the logic mind my boy! ✌️
Some of these things will absolutely work when you’re beginning to hit on a woman, but If you have a good woman as your wife and you’re showing signs that you’re not committed in order to still at this height attempt to make her feel like you’re better, your marriage is gonna be an absolute shitshow. A lot of these things are true but you should have a lot of nuance when applying them. My ex girlfriend thought I had so many more options than her that she would torture herself thinking why I even was with her and it destroyed the relationship.
Edit: it is true that she MUST know that you can replace her, but you shouldn’t act as if you will constantly. It’s a subconscious thing. And certainly you shouldn’t take shit from her, they don’t like being in charge.
This is absolutely brilliant. It should be mandatory viewing for all men of all ages. I wish I had known this when I was 18.
Nature's calling is not a game . We humans need each other to fulfill our needs. And therefore we shall have to show our needs to one another.
bro just get a fat or ugly chick ... then you're right ... casey is talking about attracting and kEEPING girls which are above a 7.
Casey, you have been a great help in my life after leaving a long relationship. I made most the mistakes you talk about here…
By implementing what you teach my life has improved in a matter of weeks.
I can no longer go back to my old beliefs and I am genuinely grateful that my breakup led me to this channel somehow.
I'm not killing it financially yet but buying you a coffee is literally the least I can do for now.
Keep it up, defender of men 😁
I would like to add that it is a balance, there are times you do need to be supportive only when she truly needs/ deserves it; otherwise you will be taken for granted if you apologue her bad behavior for too long.... and you can bet your ass that they will use your time of weakness against you down the line, keep that in mind.
This is advice on how to keep a hypergamous value digger satisfied with you
I don’t think this is how a loving relationship should function. If you have to do all of this to just keep your woman around then I feel sorry for you. It’s a lot of energy, a lot of performance. Life is hard enough already. Your woman is suppose to be your peace and your support. This ain’t that bro
I disagree. This is how women operate. It's different for men. Stay in your purpose, continue to chase that, and not women, and the woman who wants to join you and enter your world will join. Then they can be your peace and support. Not before. Women have to show intention and earn a place in a man's life.
@@zacfoo Chasing anything, even a purpose, will only make a Man weaker and preoccupied. There really is no purpose to life, these are mind psyops and traps which turn Men into Slaves. Men who are comfortable with themselves and know who they are, don't need to get stuck in the ratrace of finding a purpose and becoming a part of hustle culture.
I agree with what you said this is. It a loving relationship this is a gold digger/hypergamus woman. Which is not what most men are looking for. MOST men want a loving healthy successful fulfilling relationship to ADD to their life. Not someone they have to play these dog and pony ass games with or use manipulation tactics to try and keep them interested it’s just too much. Especially if your truly on some type of journey or purpose why would any hard working person want someone who they have to do all this for ?
@@educatedblkman5117 Exactly, the thing is those type of girls are just in it for entertainment and extracting resources. They have no empathy for the Man. And a Man who cannot be himself or express himself the way he feels or wishes to be, will lose himself and his masculinity in the process, so there really is no point whatsoever in trying to pursue girls to be "detached" from.
Well spoken!
But Casey looks to all of that from his player / f-boy perspective.
Dude, you nailed it.
This is what I've known my whole life, and it HAS WORKED for me.
I've got the sexiest, smartest woman alive, she's 6 years younger, and all guys want her, but she chased ME. We've been married for 36 years, happily.
Men of this age have to be taught this knowledge from pre-school and kindergarten level.The truth about our dear women and thier pspsychology is 100% true.Attraction for a woman grows in space!!!.
You should also never give her more than enough attention and complimentsor else things will easily go down south.
The "SUBCONSCIOUS DEVALUATION"is really true.
She will always go and seek the attention of the one who gives her 0(zero)attention.
To our dear women,scarcity is HIGH VALUE.
But even if she likes the one who gives her no attention, it won’t work out in the long run
@@joebudd6716 yea I didnt get that too
“Scarcity is high value” ,vis-a-vis “Use absence to increase respect and honor” - Law 16 , “The 48 Laws Of Power”
There are a few people doing this kind of thing on YT, of course. I have also had to learn these hard lessons through experience and this is one of the best dissertations on this subject that I've seen. Everything you say is exactly what we all wish we'd known when we were 20 years old.
Im 21 and feel so late man
@@georgelaufrode2031 When I was your age we didn't have the internet and access to advice like this. I wish I had have done. Take note, my good man. Because everything he's saying you can take to the bank!
@@Uvray thank you sir 🙏
For a healthy woman attraction grows in person with you in real time and is maintained with healthy space for the autonomy aspect of a healthy partnership or potential partnership.
Hands down best girl code craking video ever made.
100% right . The world system molded men to be so loving towards a female , simply by brainwashing for years . They use tv , movies and songs . All these love songs destroyed the man and enhance a wonan ..Now i hear a love song old school or present and i turn station its crap.. yo man your awesome , i hope alot of men wakeup and realize women will never love a man and if she says it its not meant , she loves what she gets from you , fact.
I'm a total Simp by instinct.
The only success I've ever had was when by 'accident' , (call it an administrative error!), I ended up with *two girlfriends ...!* This imbued me, thru no fault of my own - with the attitudes and behaviours that the "fairer" sex seeks out. That was the past. Now, I'm back to being a simp again and am being walked all over by my current gf!
For many of us it is conditioned in very hardcore. It is hard to help but at least educate yourself so you know how it all works in reality. The instinct might still take over but it's better than being completely oblivious and naive.
The side that cares the least has control. Sad, but true.
Wow, I think that, I actually already knew this stuff, but I listened to the locker room b.s. and suffered the consequences... (I'm from the 80's, so.. ) I was 18 and just getting started with a new relationship. A gorgeous git, that had just recently moved there... I had walked home with her from school several times and we were actually getting along great. I had reserved my attraction to her and was playing it cool. Another guy from school, saw us and came running (Yes, physically running) up to us, and stepped between us, separating us, and forcibly shoving me away... my first reaction was to slug him, but I didn't... I don't know why, but I just stood there for a bit and looked at her.. She glanced at me, then smirked, before gradually allowing him to pull her away.
I felt ashamed of it, that day and was really beating myself up about it. However, I just thought about how she had reacted to this, and I decided to just do the same thing! A couple days later, I saw her again and I just walked to another girl and started talking to them, right in front of her.
She stood there dumbfounded for a while, then slow walked away. The next day, as soon as she saw me, she came running up to me! Yes, physically running!! 😅
smart move maxwell..smart
"A man is utility to a woman that she values. She values his utility what she can use him for." min 3:40 - It hits the point
every woman wants a man who doesnt need "to take" anything from her (but for some mysterious reason chose her among others and provides for her and loves her)
So what he's trying to say gents, is that while your love may be unconditional, a woman's love is always conditional.
It’s the little concessions you make over time that devalue you. You know it isn’t right, it doesn’t feel right, but you do it to avoid problems. You just created a problem. DON’T DO IT! The beauty of knowing the truth is more attractive than any woman I’ve ever met. You have to understand that they are not aware of the truth. They are not conscious to what they are doing. It is biological. I’ve been in good relationship for 17 years. I’m 53. I know that the biggest reason it’s lasted is because we have equal incomes in retirement, equal looks at our age and we are not married on paper. The truth will set you free.
"It will go in one ear and out the other until you've made these mistakes". Yes now I get it.
I'm going through it, my second marriage in upheaval - this right here is pearls of knowledge that I can finally see- it's paramount guys. I was a "made man" think Quinten Tarantino pulp fiction- but I got complacent - this is the lesson I needed to hear - me being a stay at home made me lose my mojo- my umpf - gained some love handles and next thing ya know shes smashing her co worker- lessons learned my dudes- third times a charm- I'm double timing my workouts and double missing her messages. Don't be a simp!!!!
You have some serious emotional intelligence and good on you for learning from past relationships.
happened to me.
talked to a girl for some time, we went to a date and beforehand, she told me she likes thoughtful and careful guys.
ive been thoughtful of her, cared about her, not so much.
the visual contact was great, we laughed, i used the ,,we frame'' and displayed high value.
got ghosted a day after the date. :D
i knew nice guys finished last, but i thought i d win, thinking she s a virgin.
When in doubt, pull it out bro.
Works most of the time.
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I can only stand a woman’s company for so long before I’m ready to jet! Chase a check, never chase a chick
Wow! This is university level instruction! Well done
straight up this video is it. this M*F*ing video is the one that changes me. I made this make sense by doing whatever I needed to do - replayed those important parts over and over until I literally felt like I could care less about trying to do any of the things ive always done (which did the opposite). I found out that my frustration would get worse the more she showed shitty behavior etc. I wanted to know why it was happening and I made things go much worse than they wouldve if i had only maintained strong mindset & all-out focus on my everyday gains in life. Thank you Casey for your sharing of this bc it 100% makes sense & is FACTS 🙌🙌
Wow, this is pretty depressing but it's true. I wish I could just love a woman and be with her all the time without her losing feelings for me... it's one of the reasons I'm scared of getting into a relationship again, it's complicated and hard worrying about her leaving you for someone else.
Stay single, you'll find more happiness
I was with a girl who broke up with me because I didn’t show her enough love. And believe me I was trying. It’s not that black and white, theories like this can only go so far. People are not all the same.
@@aidanmohrman9493 agreed, girls mostly want a dude that is real and not desperate. One that will show her love but also put her in her place.
Woman here.. I feel the same way about men, but the thing is is you have to find your authenticity WITHIN flowing with human nature rather than seeing it as a game. All information comes down to polarity. You won't find an excessively clingy person with another excessively clingy person or an extremely cut of avoidant with and extremely cut off avoidant. They are the same charge so there won't be interest or attraction. The closer to balance you are the center then you'll be attracted to a healthy woman because you are also balanced. In my opinion, let's take talking stage for example, there is an urge to connect a lot, if you do too much or not enough you'll lose her interest. See this in terms of polarity not that it's something personal to you or that she is a b# or whatever see it as like a rope, if there is too much tension she will feel uncomfortable, turned off, icky, etc if there is a lot of slack in the rope that she doesn't even know if someone is even holding the rope anymore she'll feel concerned, worried, not secure (notice I didn't say insecure. Insecure sort of degrades what's occuring, a sense of security is important for anyone.), BUT when the rope is taught and there is a little give an take them you're in sync, there is security, and excitement. Don't indulge in wantingness. Take bites. How do you know how much is too much or too little? It's a patterning thing, a sensing thing, and observation thing. Every woman is different, every day is different. Just like some days you as a guy want alone time and sometimes you're charged and ready to spend time together. It's normal. The key is take everything in bite sizes instead of scarfing down her interest and attention. Do your hobbies, meditate, etc. [Just no video games or porn.] This is the most attractive thing when you are consistent and moderate (not too much or too little). Balance in all things. Consistent and spontaneous, serious and humorous, tolerant yet stern, understanding while uphold your values, able to listen and also keep her center to listen to you too. Any woman who is healthy will want balance. Any woman who is unhealthy will want excessive amounts on either side of the spectrum (bully or doormat). Hope this helps.
@@aidanmohrman9493agreed. My last relationship ended when I stopped communicating as much over phone and I wasn’t complimenting/validating. That was her main complaint. People are different, there are certainly women who operate the way this video suggests but there are those who don’t. I know several couples where the man doesn’t do what’s suggested in this video and they’re going strong, and couples like my parents where they divorced because the dude was acting like this. This red pill “secret to women” stuff needs to be taken with a grain of salt and is mostly how to be a deuchebag and get laid by trashy women. I mean for fucks sake the dudes saying you shouldn’t ever commit or be loyal, just cheat around. Like, what the hell is the point of a relationship outside of sex if you’re supposed to not talk to her much, cheat, not commit, never express affection or receive affection, etc. it’s pointless, just stay single and hook up at that point.
Casey, I think you should do a video on how to keep a girl that you're into around without full on committing. As in every relationship there always comes a point where a girl will ask "what are we? where is this going?" and I think it'd help a lot of guys out if you can talk about how to engage that successfully.
This is one of the few channels that really does get better over time. I feel like you've been censoring yourself too much in the past. Thank you for being real, brother.
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I'm thinking based on experience and your knowledge that playing the field is a better and safer idea for me rather than a long term relationship.
Wow, dropping the truth like nuke bombs. You opened my eyes. I'm grateful and loyally subscribed.
Utility value is number 1. Limiting communication is number 2
He’s right.
Also, when women suddenly one day reverse these behaviors, it’s usually a good indicator they are cheating. An example would be my ex wife: We used to have normal communications via text/phone, very much in love and our relationship was great, and about 18 months after my 2nd child was born, she suddenly switched her behavior and wanted to text all the time and would FaceTime me constantly even at work, and would complain that I was available for her. I found out several years later that about 2 months prior to that behavior changing, she started having an affair with another man in secret.
The context clues are always there
How do you even find out that she cheated you after several years?
@@dextermorgan4414because she got caught 2 years later!
I just left my 20 year relationship, and looking back, I was such a pu$$y, I don’t blame her for disrespecting me.
I love this brother to the max!!!He is always teaching facts that will not be taught in any school,college or university.I have learnt a lot from him and have started teaching other men these nuggets too.
What is not accounted for is the irrational woman who only wants a man that needs/depends on her in some way. The control freak woman who only desires a dependent mate doesn’t abide by all of these rules.
This is the Best thing i could never imagine to ear!
Ihave slept with more than 100 women but i almost never got the women of my dream yea many were really pretty but i couldnt keep them because i didnt undrstand about what women want... So when i played the physical escaltion it was easy for me but i could never keep the one i wanted and i didnt know why. Now because of what you share i see my illusion that was blocking me from having the résultats. Its huge manwtf thats huge
This advice is pure gold! Thanks bro! 👊
Bro you are the true professor of female nature, your information goes so deep, and raw, you will make a simp cry ✊🏾love your work.
Great stuff yet again Casey! The timing of this message couldn’t be any better! There’s a couple that I’m currently attracting, now I know what not to do to mess anything up. Appreciate all your hard work! God bless you brother!!
F’n A, Casey. You’ve been going above and beyond these past few weeks.🏆
Casey. Seen dozens & upon dozens of your videos but This has too be 1 of your most informative videos I have ever watched. Straight onto the point & gave nothing but pure facts. Thank you for what you do bro. Keep going 💯💪🙏
I feel like every female and male is a unique version of herself , himself. One shall try to understand the unique needs of eachother and try to address them. But agree 100% to the mental and emotional strength. A man without self control is disaster 4 the people around him and the atmosphere. That’s why gave a like to the video👍
Just found this video. HUGE eye opener for me. I’ve heard other “dating and relationship coaches” but none of them hit it the way you do. Subscribed
Best vid I've seen on female nature and mental notes have been taken to heart..
Perfect example of staying on your game is Rocky I movie. Rocky training hard for the big fight against Apollo Creed and his manager says "you lay off of that Pet Shop Dame...Women weaken legs!".
You really analyzed this perfectly.. men need to know this
You are spot on. I used to learn from your vidios years ago. Just tuned back in for an update as i have been holding my composition as a high value man. I think i have now a high value girlfriend but regardless i am much stronger and understand those strengths because of you casey. I love you man you are better than a brother to me and always think about all the old vids i watched of yours when im feeling in a tight situation.
I've watched two of your videos, and man you deliver. Excellent content.
Casey, this is your best video yet! You are wise beyond your years, keep the vid's coming brotha!
Here’s the truth….Workout, work hard, don’t be a dick or a pushover. That’s all you need in life. Now pay me $1000 for educating you.
Pleased to find such a highly valuable channel ❤
Nailed it. You're a good guy Casey, thank you.
These videos just get better and better. So much truth here.
Please Protect Casey Zander🔥🔥🔥 This Is Pure Gem
This man has an Excellent understanding of the topic. The brainstorming and articulation is spot on. Stay strong kings 👑
I believe you man. There are so many conflicting messages but I truly find this to work consistently.
Casey Zander is worth to listening to.
Many thanks Casey 🙏🏻
Casey i have my number written on pieces of paper and when women check me out I say excuse me you dropped this hahahah works everytime
My grandpa was very strict with my grandma. Left her alone while he worked in the states. Came back was always yelling and ridiculing mistakes. He would go to brothels. She never left him, never unfaithful. She even told him that he was the worst thing that ever happened in her life later in life. She started getting on his ass in his last couple of years and he calmed down because of that comment. She still never left. Granted it was a different time, very religious she was submissive and he was the best looking guy in town. Also he threatened her to kill her boyfriend if she didn’t marry him. That will tell you something about them wanting the top dog. Yet despite that. She is the most wonderful and strongest woman I have ever seen. All of the family admires her for her strength. She is amazing and the only woman here on earth I look up to. True strength in a woman.
You are speaking major facts my man. I like how you put everything. I will be sharing this video with some friends.
Man Casey you're on the money! Everything your saying very real indeed.
💯% right on everything, if you can't live without a woman you will soon be alone. At my age mid 60s I pretty much don't give 2 shi** what women think anymore. Which explains MGTOW. 🤔 Thanks 😊 for the great post. 👍
Casey, brilliant video once again, thanks!!!