Either she wasn’t interested or she doesn’t care to play the game. If you do this to the wrong woman you might lose someone unnecessarily. It’s a gamble
@@yourfoodforthoughtyep. This happened to me . But I think by doing this it’s revealed she didn’t care as much as she said . She chased me hard but I still had my suspicions which have been proven right .
Varies on the women. Most women I’ve dated never pulled back on me once. The ones that did, did so for apparent reasons, others not so apparent. Nothing is one size fits all.
I did this . She’s lasted 5 weeks… and she was chasing me hard before and seemed very much invested . I’ve been on my purpose but I’m miffed as to why she hasn’t reached out . Maybe ive pulled back too many times and she’s given up . But I had to do it this long as there was certain things she was doing that put me off .
@@MarceloHenriqueAlmeida still nothing . In my head I was pulling back for a bit no set time but maybe a week . Then after a week I realised she hasn’t messaged or called . So I carried on and it’s been 5 weeks. We were seeing each other for 4 months but just under a year ago she broke up with her ex of 7 years . So maybe it’s still too soon ? She had a few people she dated for a bit after and dumped because they come on too strong so I wasn’t the immediate rebound.
@@MarceloHenriqueAlmeida no he’s in a relationship with another woman. He broke up with her so she’s scared of getting hurt again I think and the reason she can be cold emotionally .
@@winnawinn9winna oh absolutely . They were set to get engaged and he leaves her out the blue for another woman. That will have a lasting effect no doubt on trust issues . But I can’t wait around for her to get over it as harsh as that sounds . I was patient enough but I didn’t see it progressing . I do miss her but it’s time to move on to other girls which I’m doing .
Nope. If you pull back from a woman that has a healthy state of mind and dislikes uncertainty and games she will dump you. This method only works on ppl that suffer from toxic instability and low self esteem.
@@js77zfemale women coaches suck and are the reason dating is harder, what type of idiot would advise a women to play hard to get with a high value man. Most women realize and ignore it, they would mostly play these games with a guy who is not as high value.
@@js77z A woman will get emotional and miss you when you pull back. A man should be on his purpose and busy enough to not worry about her at all. Modern men get needy and push her away. I’ve seen everything Casey teaches play out with woman like clock work. When you notice a woman starts going cold you pull back completely 5-10 days and they always come back because you showed you don’t NEED them so they WANT you more. Best case you increase her desire for you, worst case you eliminate a woman that’s not that into you. A woman with high interest will eventually make contact first if she’s genuinely interested in you.
That's so true. I was guilty of writing so much, one long sentence. I forget I'm writing from a computer. What she sees on her cell phone as a thesis. I finally made things much shorter. I hit the tab for every sentence. Short and to the point. Match and mirror them in every way.
Women want more of your time if they like you... however that often leads to comfort which KILLS desire. Most woman are not aware that comfort kills desire. Casey is correct to pull back as it will make her a little uncomfortable but her desire level will increase subconsciously.
I'll say that I'm the same way like those woman though. The 2nd and 3rd sessions arent as good as that first nut. Sometimes Im already planning getting her the fuck out.
It is very scary to pull away your first few times and it will feel like you're doing something wrong. Happens to all of us. But stick it out and focus on filling your time with stuff you like to do and know you are fundamentally doing the right thing.
Precisely. To successfully pull back, you really have to genuinely not care much about the relationship. This in turn means that you constantly have to be aware of "better options" and even that you have to be very aware of the girl's negative parts. You in a way have to convince yourself that the relationship is really not that important.
All of this works 100% if u just play your cards right, don't go extreme by ignoring her, just give it to her sparingly, what Casey is teaching here everything is sums up by this concept, "mind control".
Exactly. You can be fully present and make her feel great at times, but only sparingly and infrequently. The key is that she can't take your attention for granted.
Thank you for your common sense on saying that men need to band together to regain the leverage we lost in the dating game. Unfortunately, too many men want to tear each other down in hopes of attracting a woman instead and it’s sickening to see
just my experience: the market promotes this is the West. Women have way too much leverage. I think guys who tear each other down are just acting in survival. They are blinded to what they are doing because the environment they are in is so fucked up they know no better. this is one reason i believe the West is done..men have disbanded. they are eating each other.
I want to be part of this movement - Casey. This is all pure gold. I think about all the other relationships I had, The more I tried to get away, the more they chased.
when to pull back: * 1. The woman takes a vested interest in the man's day (e.g. sends good morning texts or asks about his day) * 2. The woman shares fluff or filler information about her day (e.g. sends texts about her activities or thoughts) * 3. The woman makes an effort to please the man outside of the bedroom (e.g. does favors for him or brings him gifts)
Female here. If a man pulls back and doesn't reciprocate when I do the things above, I will also lose interest thinking this man is too emotionally unavailable/withdrawn and just detach. Will eventually just find someone who can give back the energy and effort I give.
She pulled and I cut ties with her. I didn’t want to do it but I did it. I love her and I told her I’m not going to wait for her. Now I’m just doing me 10000%
My girl to a tee, we have a great thing going and with this advice I won't make my usual mistakes ( too open, too honest about feelings, too giving of my time) be the fisherman.
I didn’t pull back first… She has started the mini breakup already after 1 year. Guess what..? I couldn’t care less. I’m just going to the gym everyday, just got a promotion, spending time with my family and hanging with my bros. She asked if we could hangout one night this week, I said I’m busy with work and will take a rain check. She didn’t like that
@@joeb5578 bro youre spot on. i had a girl wanna come over this weekend. fuck i had to haul ass to squeeze her in but it worked. she kept sayying "I missed you." And I would say "Why?" She had no response
Yeh because you beat her at her own game. They don’t like losing leverage Everything is a game with them because they think they’ll always have options. Idk you but I’m proud of you for not letting her drag you down to the point where your balls are on the floor. Most of them pride themselves on psychologically and emotionally pulling the strings of men and you denying her that power makes her feel worst. It’s crazy how making us feel like shii makes most of them feel proud of themselves. It’s like that’s the only time that they’re happy, when they could emotionally move you.
I cant explain how true this is, other than how I got to this stage with a girl I really liked and after 3 months she pulled back. I thought I was doing everything right (in person), but deep down I went weak for this one woman and she could sense it (Interestingly where I really messed up was over text message). Truth is I needed this heartbreak to learn a brutal lesson. Thanks Casey
If you don't mind me asking, how is it that you messed up? I would like to understand how men think in these situations. You see I am in a similar situation, but I am pulling back because I realized I wanted commitment and he isn't ready. And that's okay. I did all these greenflags from the get-go but obviously it didn't matter in my situation. 😂
My wife will tell me she think I hate her, then profess her love the next. I don't respond to the tests, or try to "prove" my love. I let her stew on it. Her emotions can't budge me off balance.
@@AshwiniMoon9irl I don't know why this showed up on my feed but a healthy woman doesn't want these games. I never did any of this with my man and he didn't do it to me... It was so easy and natural.
Even when you get a woman in your life you can’t fully enjoy her. Either you hang out with her too much and get soft or you hang out too much and she sees you as needy.
God damn Casey your videos are a gut punch but they are a gut punch I need to straighten myself out. Noticed myself doing a lot of these things in the past, finally starting to put myself first and putting women on the back burner, pulling back and applying no contact. Keep up the great videos
0:30 this why i comment on your videos and others in support, sharing my own experiences. Women have pulled together LONG AGO, what we see now is YEARS of them working together to gain leverage.
Met a girl at the club we hooked up 3 times. I pulled back told her I’m not looking for anything serious, she went to yapping. No contact for 2 weeks. Last night she FaceTimes me saying “ her friend dared her to call me and to hang up when I answer” chick was so hooked we stayed on the phone for 20 minutes. This the same chick 2 weeks ago was asking for a relationship now she wants me to “come over next Thursday & drink” 😂
Guys, the solution to dealing with the truth about women is so simple. Just seek out casual short-term flings and forget about marriage and long-term relationships - they lead to nothing but a lifetime of stress and misery.
Sad but true. It’s the only way these days we don’t live in the world where people stay married and faithful forever together . Times have changed dramatically
The pullback game is real. Women are like cats. I had the body and career, but was missing this key ingredient in a 20 year relationship. The games never end my friends
At this point Case You helped Me realize that I have to love Myself before loving a woman... the reason I say this is because I was always told that about children but it never really clicked until listening to You and Fit Thanks ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
Yup.. I contest to EVERYTHING Casey's saying! Going through one of the biggest pull back in life at the moment. 22 years married and shit is just getting real over here. I've been adjusting and establishing my masculine frame these last few weeks.
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pull back from the beginning. don't call don't initiate don't beg don't chase. that will solve everything . you ask how to get girls then. you put yourself in places and situations to be seen. statistically atleast one girl in the room likes you. some environments towns states are better than others depending on the market that likes you. there's nothing like genuine interest from a lady.
I know all that. But I made the mistake of living with my a GF at her place. I couldn't pull back efficiently, and I sure wanted to. As soon as you feel a dip in their attraction, do it. I don't think there's much reason to do it first for no reason, and why bother thinking of these games. But as soon as her attraction dips. do it! Don't wait. And don't live with her...
Wow, that is all so true. it perfectly depicts my situation i'm having right now: the texts, the engagement, those little things she's doing. Spot on! This is where i'm standing right now in this very moment - the pull back.
It's called the dating "game" for a reason. She's not your mother, she's not your sister, she's not Madonna. Put on your full "game mode" always, or you get played out. Albeit, women are also always on their "game" Mode. It's fair play.
@@stephanea5364 I want something that's practical, logical and beneficial for all parties involved. That "Deepness" you are talking about, is an illusion, from a masculine perspective. You don't start out with a feminine, looking out for Deepness.. else, you will sink in that "Deepness". My opinion though.
Guys this doesn’t always work. If you do this it will piss certain girls off. And if she’s stubborn she will definitely hold out. I think pulling back not just to be a jerk is a better approach. Like things got super busy with a work project etc.
I have the same concern. Soon they will be lying saying they are PB. We gonna need more blood tests: one on the first date and another after she gets pregnant
I think I got it. I know what you have to do. First you need to find a girl you like and then once you know you like her you need to unlike her. You need to not care about a relationship. You need to seek to only sleep with her and realize that relationships will take a toll on you and will take you too much time. Be happy with where you're at and enjoy the sleep buddy situationships. Always see her as a friend first because you don't want to get a relationship. Wait until she asks to be in an exclusive relationship and agree with her then (but because dating multiple women is time consuming). Then one day after months of dating, once you have seen her parents, start considering loving her but keep being indifferent in your day to day.
Man you are giving true knowledge why do you have small amount of views you know there are lots of yt videos and TH-camrs you don't even give a shit and get views buddy thanks a lot for all that
4 weeks ago, I got tired of her bipolar warm cold. I went UNDERGROUND.. Totally IGNORING her tweet baits..EVERYTHING! I needed to GAIN CONTROL of the situation. I CAN'T be arsed!! Fr fr During this time, I got to clear my head, add rational thinking, ...it WASn't easy.. but I no Pșšÿ..I an the SUPERSTAR of my life, all other mortals around me are my subjects! Right now, I'm so indeferent to her presence and existence.. I just don't care.. Today she texted me, I miss ya, we need to talk.. I tols her yes we talking..and just left it at that..her expecting me to call her back. And yes I am planning on calling her back, In the year 7086😂
If you really want to know if she's about you just be assertive let her know ehat you want pursue then fall back if she's not reciprocating the same energy keep it moving because you'll know when a gurl likes you and always remember dont want something that doesn't want you.🥂💯
100 percent. This is the most biggest gem in the comment section. Just tell her straight up what you want, if she’s into it you’ll know. If not walk away and keep your life moving
11:16 doesn't have to be in days... just follow my formula. 2:1, 3:1. 1:1. With ANYTHING with women, use that formula. One eg, texting. She text you twice first, then you text her once first. After that she 3 then you 1, then she 1, then you 1 THEN REPEAT THE CYCLE. NEVER do more than 1. Why this works, at least for me? the 3:1 she is initiating, she may start to feel she doing too much, so you do 1:1 and it pulls her back. Then the 2:1 starts it over again. But mix it up though, dont want her catching on to a pattern, they NOT stupid.
I did pull back/walk away first and she unfollowed/removed me off Instagram, our only form of contact. Been two weeks, I haven't said anything and neither has she. Damn
@@TheEast-hn7jb Thanks, appreciate it. I havent reached out, will stay strong. Ultimately, its my fault, i told her i wasnt interested when I really was and she obviously got hurt and deleted me. Hopefully, with time and patience, ill hear from her
I think you came with the right intention, but didn’t play your cards right. You went completely cold/dead. I think the key is to keep her on an edge, or gray area. Notice how he said minimize, or cut communication in half. And, she has to have an immense interest level. The key is to lead her on, and then show the ambiguity. I don’t know how far you two were in the talking stage. But notice how Casey said after a few months; and when she’s deeply invested. This doesn’t usually work in the starting stage. It’s more later.
@@Hugh_G_Rection69-f8f Yes you're right, i realise my mistake now. We were 2 dates in but had not slept together. I basically told her i wasnt interested and when she said it was a shame i wanted to drop the whole thing, i responded sarcastically and jokey over text (i know, rookie mistake). Its clear i was impatient and expected more too soon, instead of being chill and letting it grow at her pace. The only issue is now, with no communication or social media connection, how can I re-attract her?
I’m serious this is hilarious bc it’s so true man. You almost have to literally NOT GAF! My wife makes a lot of money and I’ve always had little man complex bc I’m 5’6” a lot of shit tests! But this stuff you are talking about takes me to high school and that 1 who got alway damn it
My so sweet and so "not like the others" GF just start pulling back, looking at her now I can't believe she would do this because she is so shy and so sweet and so needy, Oh boy I was for a surprise. Right now I am the one trying to pullback, screw this whole soulmate no sense.
100% totally agree with that dream of yours Casey ! I’ve visualised the same in these terrible modern times of dating Us men need to come together like this because it’s Women that have made this like it is. I feel more and more men are very uninterested in women now and personally feel that’s a good start to gaining more and more traction in terms of “ Pulling back “
10:05 man once she does that she is ALL IN. Like cooking, cleaning, getting you some sort of gift, especially if she took note of something you wanted and she got it. YES, WOMEN SPEND MONEY ON MEN. Just note, it MUST be a man she ACTUALLY LIKES. 9 out of 10 men they date or even with they dont actually like, they just taking whatever benefits they get from it. YES, women can disconnect physically and sleep with a man, issue is when that man even if she disconnected, after he treats her like she was just another hit, THEN she gets in her FEELINGS.
You can pull back by having a purpose in life or by only using communication to set dates. If she texts you, you can keep working your job and text or call her later at a particular time. Sometimes, give yourself space to reflect for a certain amount of time. Why? Hit the reset button and do this periodically for both of you. Regardless, even when you pull back, she may pull back one day. And you keep on doing what you are doing. Because most of the time, women pull back to control the relationship dynamics. She wants power over you. This is a lot of women's last strategy to lock you down. No, keep your autonomy
Been seeing this chick whos pretty cool (shes 23 im 35). she’s used to these pathetic boys that i actually pulled back for about 2 weeks and shes chasing me even more now. glad i did it first
Its.more simple: attention/investment ratio baseline should always be 2/3. Immediatly as you notice you go over it , pull far back to 1/3, for a while until you are stable enough again to get back to baseline 2/3. Harsh part for men is we want to draw a baseline in absolute numbers, when for attraction only proportion/ratio matters
11:15 Playing deceitful games is a sure way to turn off a person of interest because they don't want to be ignored and treated like crap whether you're a man or a woman I guess these games only work with people who play stupid mind games but I keep it real one hundred
Truth is..... It's a toxic thing to do..... However,, if a woman ever does pull back on you first..... If you have other options and you happen to cheat on her with these options..... If she finds out odds are she will pursue you again and regret pulling away from you in the first place...... Which her motives for doing this are also kind of toxic to begin with.
That's my wife. I hate she played me this the first time and I have to live like this detached emotionally. I can only love her 50% else I will be destroyed
I’m a woman, and when I sense that a guy is trying to make me chase him or trigger any kind of fear/negative emotion in me, I just leave because my ex never did that to me in 10 years. He was kind and would never allow any negative feelings to grow in me. Therefore, guys who intentionally pulls back are inferior to my ex. So, I’d leave that man. My instinct says, this man is capable of hurting me. ＝ uncomfortable and not worth staying together. im super independent, but Id rather be with a kind guy who will protect me. because i will do the same to him.
Unfortunately, it sounds like a man can never be ALL-IN with a woman, that he always has to have one foot out the door. This is probably true even in marriage, because when a man shows a woman that he is ALL-IN, she begins to take him for granted, gradually loses attraction for him, as he is no longer a challenge for her, and she no longer has to compete with other women to keep him. So, if a man is smart, he will always have one foot out the door -- even in marriage. This might sound toxic, and it's probably better not to even get married in the first place, but a man must always have viable options and women that he's talking to, and flirting with, if not actually sleeping with on the side. This promiscuous behavior on the part of the man, along with him primarily focusing on his grind and his purpose, and his masculine and independent demeanor -- he doesn't make her his focus, but focuses on himself instead, and she is just along for the ride attitude -- will definitely work to his advantage by showing her that he has one foot out the door and can leave her ass behind at any time.
You get this. But I would add that we need to give up on marriage. You can't keep a woman long anymore. Prenuptials will be getting invalidated soon. No woman is worth half your wealth. We need to be thinking in terms of long-term relationships, living in separate places (to avoid common law marriage) & with 1 or 2 feet out the door.
I believe this can can apply to life though.. You can't go all in with anybody. That's just asking for trouble. "Never Commit to Anyone" (48 Laws of Power)
@@Gescobar009 Except your children, you are ALL-IN for them, right ? Also, there was a time when marriage meant being ALL-IN for each other. But women today are never ALL-IN even when they get married, they have become 'liberated' and so always keep their options open. We men must do the same and never completely commit to just one woman forever. Commitment is no longer valued, it's now a liability.
@@alwaysgreatusa223 It's simpler. Western women are not made for marriage. Takes a foreign woman of low status. The end of the marriage must always constitute a major loss for her, in economic, social and reputational terms. End of the story.
Yeah man. I pulled back a couple of times...She hung onto me. In told her I love her... She pulled back!😂 Retired my interest and she's being contacting me after every weekend for a month now. I won't repeat my mistake guys!
Just sent this video to my girlfriend and told her that she checks all the boxes for me to pull back but i wlll do her a favor and not pull if she promise to behave well Ill keep you updated how it goes
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If she doesn't come back, she did you a favor.
Yo I be at this club pretty much every week why these 2 girls that have been cold literally stalked me all night or had their friends spy on me
Either she wasn’t interested or she doesn’t care to play the game. If you do this to the wrong woman you might lose someone unnecessarily. It’s a gamble
@@yourfoodforthoughtyep. This happened to me . But I think by doing this it’s revealed she didn’t care as much as she said . She chased me hard but I still had my suspicions which have been proven right .
@@ddt4v3 always trust ur instincts
You stay alome
Anyone who disagrees has not experienced a pullback yet
amen
Varies on the women. Most women I’ve dated never pulled back on me once. The ones that did, did so for apparent reasons, others not so apparent. Nothing is one size fits all.
Bro I’m uncircumcised I pullback everyday when I psss excellence
I always thought it was just BPD, but now I realize it's just a woman acting naturally
@@yourfoodforthought did u dump them bcuz of how big of a pimp u are?
I did this. She lasted a day and a half... If she's chasing you, she isn't replacing you.
I did this . She’s lasted 5 weeks… and she was chasing me hard before and seemed very much invested . I’ve been on my purpose but I’m miffed as to why she hasn’t reached out . Maybe ive pulled back too many times and she’s given up . But I had to do it this long as there was certain things she was doing that put me off .
@@MarceloHenriqueAlmeida still nothing . In my head I was pulling back for a bit no set time but maybe a week . Then after a week I realised she hasn’t messaged or called . So I carried on and it’s been 5 weeks. We were seeing each other for 4 months but just under a year ago she broke up with her ex of 7 years . So maybe it’s still too soon ? She had a few people she dated for a bit after and dumped because they come on too strong so I wasn’t the immediate rebound.
@@MarceloHenriqueAlmeida no he’s in a relationship with another woman. He broke up with her so she’s scared of getting hurt again I think and the reason she can be cold emotionally .
@@MarceloHenriqueAlmeida high chance, 7 years is no joke lol she 100% still thinks about that ex daily
@@winnawinn9winna oh absolutely . They were set to get engaged and he leaves her out the blue for another woman. That will have a lasting effect no doubt on trust issues . But I can’t wait around for her to get over it as harsh as that sounds . I was patient enough but I didn’t see it progressing . I do miss her but it’s time to move on to other girls which I’m doing .
Her pulling back first may lead to an actual breakup.
You pulling back first keeps the relationship intact.
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She’s gonna pull back “oh noooo one less headache in my life” lmao
@@Doidao-xx5vffacts , it don’t matter if you pull back or she does just know your worth and you’ll be solid regardless.
I pulled back and ended the relationship. The next day she called left a message I never returned the call
Nope. If you pull back from a woman that has a healthy state of mind and dislikes uncertainty and games she will dump you. This method only works on ppl that suffer from toxic instability and low self esteem.
It’s always the ones we don’t like that falls in love with us and it’s always because we do this without knowing.
FACTS
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Broooooooo it all makes sense now
"This is where the games begin"...never heard a more true statement about women.
When she pulls back: “Congratulations, you played yourself”
Give her a quarter to put in her ass because she played herself 😊
I always pullback after a great moment to leave her on a high…
hell yeah
Same. And the last message they received from me was at 11:11 lmao stay toxic. City boys we up.
Bro same hahaha ,
do you completely cut contact when you pullback or keep it minimal?
@@yktv_antt let her miss you or contact first
Bro is dropping absolute gems recently
She won’t appreciate your presence if you don’t deprive her of it periodically.
Female dating coaches tell women this too though...so, yeah. Looks like everyone is just supposed to play games
@@js77zfemale women coaches suck and are the reason dating is harder, what type of idiot would advise a women to play hard to get with a high value man. Most women realize and ignore it, they would mostly play these games with a guy who is not as high value.
@@js77z A woman will get emotional and miss you when you pull back.
A man should be on his purpose and busy enough to not worry about her at all. Modern men get needy and push her away.
I’ve seen everything Casey teaches play out with woman like clock work. When you notice a woman starts going cold you pull back completely 5-10 days and they always come back because you showed you don’t NEED them so they WANT you more.
Best case you increase her desire for you, worst case you eliminate a woman that’s not that into you. A woman with high interest will eventually make contact first if she’s genuinely interested in you.
@@jmorefit1 lol, I guess that's why none of my relationships work out. When a guy pulls back, it's "see ya never!" For me! 🤣🤣🤣
@@js77zYeah, love and feelings in a relationship are not anymore natural spontaneous moves, they have become highly technical games to play and win.
Lmfao when he said it's the little things you used 15 words in a text message and you should of used 8. That's true AF
That's so true. I was guilty of writing so much, one long sentence. I forget I'm writing from a computer. What she sees on her cell phone as a thesis.
I finally made things much shorter. I hit the tab for every sentence. Short and to the point. Match and mirror them in every way.
Women want more of your time if they like you... however that often leads to comfort which KILLS desire. Most woman are not aware that comfort kills desire. Casey is correct to pull back as it will make her a little uncomfortable but her desire level will increase subconsciously.
Paradoxical
Women are overgrown, evil children.
@@thebradmarkschannel957 If I could sum up women in one word it would be indeed paradoxical
I'll say that I'm the same way like those woman though. The 2nd and 3rd sessions arent as good as that first nut. Sometimes Im already planning getting her the fuck out.
not only that... the best way to attract a woman you like, is showing her you have access to other women.
never fails.
It is very scary to pull away your first few times and it will feel like you're doing something wrong. Happens to all of us. But stick it out and focus on filling your time with stuff you like to do and know you are fundamentally doing the right thing.
Exactly put! God bless you🙏🏾
Precisely. To successfully pull back, you really have to genuinely not care much about the relationship. This in turn means that you constantly have to be aware of "better options" and even that you have to be very aware of the girl's negative parts. You in a way have to convince yourself that the relationship is really not that important.
Yep
I found this to be so true as well. It feels wrong but it always works if you do it in the right amounts.
All of this works 100% if u just play your cards right, don't go extreme by ignoring her, just give it to her sparingly, what Casey is teaching here everything is sums up by this concept, "mind control".
Exactly. You can be fully present and make her feel great at times, but only sparingly and infrequently. The key is that she can't take your attention for granted.
Thank you for your common sense on saying that men need to band together to regain the leverage we lost in the dating game. Unfortunately, too many men want to tear each other down in hopes of attracting a woman instead and it’s sickening to see
just my experience: the market promotes this is the West. Women have way too much leverage. I think guys who tear each other down are just acting in survival. They are blinded to what they are doing because the environment they are in is so fucked up they know no better. this is one reason i believe the West is done..men have disbanded. they are eating each other.
I think only men can be true friends
@@Stanley_Baby I agree
Men have NEVER EVER had leverage in the dating game 😂😂😭😭
You sound like you want to date men 😂
I want to be part of this movement - Casey. This is all pure gold. I think about all the other relationships I had, The more I tried to get away, the more they chased.
when to pull back:
* 1. The woman takes a vested interest in the man's day (e.g. sends good morning texts or asks about his day)
* 2. The woman shares fluff or filler information about her day (e.g. sends texts about her activities or thoughts)
* 3. The woman makes an effort to please the man outside of the bedroom (e.g. does favors for him or brings him gifts)
Wow Master! Thanks!
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This is like punishing good behavior. This does eventually run them off
@@CorbinB-Rax I'm confused.. I think you're right.
@@CorbinB-RaxI guess balance is key?
Female here. If a man pulls back and doesn't reciprocate when I do the things above, I will also lose interest thinking this man is too emotionally unavailable/withdrawn and just detach. Will eventually just find someone who can give back the energy and effort I give.
She pulled and I cut ties with her. I didn’t want to do it but I did it. I love her and I told her I’m not going to wait for her. Now I’m just doing me 10000%
My girl to a tee, we have a great thing going and with this advice I won't make my usual mistakes ( too open, too honest about feelings, too giving of my time) be the fisherman.
I didn’t pull back first… She has started the mini breakup already after 1 year. Guess what..? I couldn’t care less. I’m just going to the gym everyday, just got a promotion, spending time with my family and hanging with my bros. She asked if we could hangout one night this week, I said I’m busy with work and will take a rain check. She didn’t like that
hell yeah bro. good shit
She had her chance king
See what happens when you get busy. They see this and it bothers them. So they reach out to you.
@@joeb5578 bro youre spot on. i had a girl wanna come over this weekend. fuck i had to haul ass to squeeze her in but it worked. she kept sayying "I missed you." And I would say "Why?" She had no response
Yeh because you beat her at her own game. They don’t like losing leverage Everything is a game with them because they think they’ll always have options. Idk you but I’m proud of you for not letting her drag you down to the point where your balls are on the floor. Most of them pride themselves on psychologically and emotionally pulling the strings of men and you denying her that power makes her feel worst. It’s crazy how making us feel like shii makes most of them feel proud of themselves. It’s like that’s the only time that they’re happy, when they could emotionally move you.
I cant explain how true this is, other than how I got to this stage with a girl I really liked and after 3 months she pulled back. I thought I was doing everything right (in person), but deep down I went weak for this one woman and she could sense it (Interestingly where I really messed up was over text message). Truth is I needed this heartbreak to learn a brutal lesson. Thanks Casey
If you don't mind me asking, how is it that you messed up?
I would like to understand how men think in these situations.
You see I am in a similar situation, but I am pulling back because I realized I wanted commitment and he isn't ready. And that's okay. I did all these greenflags from the get-go but obviously it didn't matter in my situation. 😂
@@vivien5tarmessed up by caring too much and responding
My wife will tell me she think I hate her, then profess her love the next. I don't respond to the tests, or try to "prove" my love. I let her stew on it. Her emotions can't budge me off balance.
You’re sick.
Guys like Casey should be college lecturers for male students. This knowledge is invaluable and so freaking important.
FYI...women are told to do this too by female dating coaches, soooo...looks like everyone will pull away and things will just go to shit
Well yea.. if men are playing these stupid games with good women they will start to walk away too 🤷🏻♀️
I thought the men are supposed to chase anyways 🤔
@@AshwiniMoon9irl who the hell knows anymore. Makes me just want to give up and start loving cats. Seems easier, lol
@@js77z Right! 🤷🏻♀️😆🐈⬛🐈
@@AshwiniMoon9irl I don't know why this showed up on my feed but a healthy woman doesn't want these games. I never did any of this with my man and he didn't do it to me... It was so easy and natural.
Even when you get a woman in your life you can’t fully enjoy her.
Either you hang out with her too much and get soft or you hang out too much and she sees you as needy.
God damn Casey your videos are a gut punch but they are a gut punch I need to straighten myself out. Noticed myself doing a lot of these things in the past, finally starting to put myself first and putting women on the back burner, pulling back and applying no contact. Keep up the great videos
0:30 this why i comment on your videos and others in support, sharing my own experiences. Women have pulled together LONG AGO, what we see now is YEARS of them working together to gain leverage.
Why did they do that...?
Met a girl at the club we hooked up 3 times. I pulled back told her I’m not looking for anything serious, she went to yapping. No contact for 2 weeks. Last night she FaceTimes me saying “ her friend dared her to call me and to hang up when I answer” chick was so hooked we stayed on the phone for 20 minutes. This the same chick 2 weeks ago was asking for a relationship now she wants me to “come over next Thursday & drink” 😂
Guys, the solution to dealing with the truth about women is so simple. Just seek out casual short-term flings and forget about marriage and long-term relationships - they lead to nothing but a lifetime of stress and misery.
Good
Sounds sad tbh
@@0fivejulisad? You mean like all of the men in marriages who live every day fighting with their wives and getting no action?
@@0fivejuliThat's life.
Sad but true. It’s the only way these days we don’t live in the world where people stay married and faithful forever together . Times have changed dramatically
You: I cant stop thinking about you.
Her: 👻
lmaoooooooooooo 😆😆😆
Damn... This one sunk in. Perfectly explained. Thank you
I’m learning so much from these videos.So glad we don’t have to pay to see them,even though it be worth every penny.Thank the Lord for Casey!
You must pullback when we do it it’s for the best , when she does it , it’s to create chaos
Nope when she does it it’s because she’s found someone that is mature enough not to play these games.
@@SugarBaby-kj7vv Yeah because modern women are so mature right
@@RawCultureReport 🤣
The pullback game is real. Women are like cats. I had the body and career, but was missing this key ingredient in a 20 year relationship. The games never end my friends
💯 truth. Never does
She was attached to me for 10 years. The moment I started chasing her, she left
@@mmr0221 crazy how that works, been there never again, ever.
Don't like cats....i like dogs🎉🎉
@@mmr0221 like clockwork....called hypergamy..btw check it out
Your videos are worth watching! So much wisdom.
7:43 she is ACTIVELY thinking about him and most importantly, IN HER FEELINGS about him.
the casey "i actually have a dream" speech. the epic sequal to mjkjr "i have a dream" speech
Literally experiencing this exact situation now. Appreciate you taking the time to make this content available, Casey.
UNCLE C! I fell off your content but your back in the algorithm, so glad your channel has exploded!
Let's celebrate the community of brotherhood of men.. we are stronger together..
You should date eachother then 😂
Bro the accuracy in these videos be having me for real, made everything make sense
this is a very well done put together video appreciate it a lot thank you from London uk 🇬🇧 🇬🇧 👊🏾
At this point Case You helped Me realize that I have to love Myself before loving a woman... the reason I say this is because I was always told that about children but it never really clicked until listening to You and Fit Thanks ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
Yup.. I contest to EVERYTHING Casey's saying!
Going through one of the biggest pull back in life at the moment. 22 years married and shit is just getting real over here. I've been adjusting and establishing my masculine frame these last few weeks.
pull back from the beginning. don't call don't initiate don't beg don't chase. that will solve everything . you ask how to get girls then. you put yourself in places and situations to be seen. statistically atleast one girl in the room likes you. some environments towns states are better than others depending on the market that likes you. there's nothing like genuine interest from a lady.
I know all that. But I made the mistake of living with my a GF at her place. I couldn't pull back efficiently, and I sure wanted to. As soon as you feel a dip in their attraction, do it. I don't think there's much reason to do it first for no reason, and why bother thinking of these games. But as soon as her attraction dips. do it! Don't wait. And don't live with her...
I ❤️ the uncomfortable truths...they're always 🎯
This is propably top 3 most important videos on this channel. Works wonders and is a must.
Wow, that is all so true. it perfectly depicts my situation i'm having right now: the texts, the engagement, those little things she's doing. Spot on!
This is where i'm standing right now in this very moment - the pull back.
It's called the dating "game" for a reason.
She's not your mother, she's not your sister, she's not Madonna.
Put on your full "game mode" always, or you get played out. Albeit, women are also always on their "game" Mode. It's fair play.
Good luck finding any deep relationship
@@stephanea5364 I want something that's practical, logical and beneficial for all parties involved. That "Deepness" you are talking about, is an illusion, from a masculine perspective. You don't start out with a feminine, looking out for Deepness.. else, you will sink in that "Deepness". My opinion though.
@@stephanea5364 deep relationship should be with Christ not a female bruh
@@drewbeholy9760 Oh no a religious nut
@@drewbeholy9760 Are you gonna get down on your knees and start praising Jesus? Do you want to feel his salvation all over your face?
Some girls will get mad and intentionally ignore you after you pull something like this.
Oh well they’ll come back they always do in my experience
@@RevealedFilmsnot always, Mr. Sir
Guys this doesn’t always work. If you do this it will piss certain girls off. And if she’s stubborn she will definitely hold out. I think pulling back not just to be a jerk is a better approach. Like things got super busy with a work project etc.
how do I find a girl who hasn't had the bioweapon injection? Needs to be a critical thinker.
this has to be dumber than girls refusing to date a guy below 6 foot
Good question! Nothing more of a turn off than a human lab rat who can’t think for themselves who doesn’t question anything
I have the same concern. Soon they will be lying saying they are PB. We gonna need more blood tests: one on the first date and another after she gets pregnant
@@somethinderpsteriousPB?
@@moheganson pure blood
I think I got it. I know what you have to do. First you need to find a girl you like and then once you know you like her you need to unlike her. You need to not care about a relationship. You need to seek to only sleep with her and realize that relationships will take a toll on you and will take you too much time. Be happy with where you're at and enjoy the sleep buddy situationships. Always see her as a friend first because you don't want to get a relationship. Wait until she asks to be in an exclusive relationship and agree with her then (but because dating multiple women is time consuming). Then one day after months of dating, once you have seen her parents, start considering loving her but keep being indifferent in your day to day.
Facts. Everyday you have to make her emotions change. Good or bad. Happy or sad.
Casey has real wisdom fellas
Man you are giving true knowledge why do you have small amount of views you know there are lots of yt videos and TH-camrs you don't even give a shit and get views buddy thanks a lot for all that
4 weeks ago, I got tired of her bipolar warm cold.
I went UNDERGROUND.. Totally IGNORING her tweet baits..EVERYTHING!
I needed to GAIN CONTROL of the situation. I CAN'T be arsed!! Fr fr
During this time, I got to clear my head, add rational thinking, ...it WASn't easy.. but I no Pșšÿ..I an the SUPERSTAR of my life, all other mortals around me are my subjects!
Right now, I'm so indeferent to her presence and existence.. I just don't care..
Today she texted me, I miss ya, we need to talk..
I tols her yes we talking..and just left it at that..her expecting me to call her back. And yes I am planning on calling her back,
In the year 7086😂
If you really want to know if she's about you just be assertive let her know ehat you want pursue then fall back if she's not reciprocating the same energy keep it moving because you'll know when a gurl likes you and always remember dont want something that doesn't want you.🥂💯
100 percent. This is the most biggest gem in the comment section.
Just tell her straight up what you want, if she’s into it you’ll know. If not walk away and keep your life moving
@@nathancarter6311no man should be telling a woman he wants a relationship. What kind of nonsense are you spreading…
@@RevealedFilms wake up, grow a pair and get off the Andrew Tate brainwash bandwagon, I can see you licking windows from here.
@@nathancarter6311FORREAL!!!
9:24 she is INTEGRATING you in to her daily routing. She WANTS you to know her schedule and what she does when and where.
11:16 doesn't have to be in days... just follow my formula. 2:1, 3:1. 1:1. With ANYTHING with women, use that formula. One eg, texting. She text you twice first, then you text her once first. After that she 3 then you 1, then she 1, then you 1 THEN REPEAT THE CYCLE. NEVER do more than 1. Why this works, at least for me? the 3:1 she is initiating, she may start to feel she doing too much, so you do 1:1 and it pulls her back. Then the 2:1 starts it over again. But mix it up though, dont want her catching on to a pattern, they NOT stupid.
I did pull back/walk away first and she unfollowed/removed me off Instagram, our only form of contact. Been two weeks, I haven't said anything and neither has she. Damn
She was going to leave you anyway. If not, she would have chased after you by now. Her loss.
Stay strong she will return
@@TheEast-hn7jb Thanks, appreciate it. I havent reached out, will stay strong. Ultimately, its my fault, i told her i wasnt interested when I really was and she obviously got hurt and deleted me. Hopefully, with time and patience, ill hear from her
I think you came with the right intention, but didn’t play your cards right. You went completely cold/dead. I think the key is to keep her on an edge, or gray area. Notice how he said minimize, or cut communication in half. And, she has to have an immense interest level. The key is to lead her on, and then show the ambiguity. I don’t know how far you two were in the talking stage. But notice how Casey said after a few months; and when she’s deeply invested. This doesn’t usually work in the starting stage. It’s more later.
@@Hugh_G_Rection69-f8f Yes you're right, i realise my mistake now. We were 2 dates in but had not slept together. I basically told her i wasnt interested and when she said it was a shame i wanted to drop the whole thing, i responded sarcastically and jokey over text (i know, rookie mistake). Its clear i was impatient and expected more too soon, instead of being chill and letting it grow at her pace.
The only issue is now, with no communication or social media connection, how can I re-attract her?
This was a really important video. Really helping heal and instruct a wounded collective. Good stuff!!
I’m serious this is hilarious bc it’s so true man. You almost have to literally NOT GAF! My wife makes a lot of money and I’ve always had little man complex bc I’m 5’6” a lot of shit tests! But this stuff you are talking about takes me to high school and that 1 who got alway damn it
My so sweet and so "not like the others" GF just start pulling back, looking at her now I can't believe she would do this because she is so shy and so sweet and so needy, Oh boy I was for a surprise. Right now I am the one trying to pullback, screw this whole soulmate no sense.
how did it work out?
@@CedricCallens-tp6xy She's gone
@@knowledge_harvester thanks for the reply, and sorry to hear sir!
100% totally agree with that dream of yours Casey !
I’ve visualised the same in these terrible modern times of dating
Us men need to come together like this because it’s Women that have made this like it is.
I feel more and more men are very uninterested in women now and personally feel that’s a good start to gaining more and more traction in terms of “ Pulling back “
10:05 man once she does that she is ALL IN. Like cooking, cleaning, getting you some sort of gift, especially if she took note of something you wanted and she got it. YES, WOMEN SPEND MONEY ON MEN. Just note, it MUST be a man she ACTUALLY LIKES. 9 out of 10 men they date or even with they dont actually like, they just taking whatever benefits they get from it. YES, women can disconnect physically and sleep with a man, issue is when that man even if she disconnected, after he treats her like she was just another hit, THEN she gets in her FEELINGS.
EXCELLENT VIDEOS BROTHER !
I swear Casey always drops in time!
You can pull back by having a purpose in life or by only using communication to set dates. If she texts you, you can keep working your job and text or call her later at a particular time. Sometimes, give yourself space to reflect for a certain amount of time. Why? Hit the reset button and do this periodically for both of you.
Regardless, even when you pull back, she may pull back one day. And you keep on doing what you are doing. Because most of the time, women pull back to control the relationship dynamics. She wants power over you. This is a lot of women's last strategy to lock you down. No, keep your autonomy
It means I'm toxic. Actually at that point i don't pull back. I simply cut off.
this is so fucking accurate, currently pulling back after those flags, and she is pursuing
9:44 i agree with you, but i am ALWAYS pulling back. Meaning, I am available then I am not like every other week!
Been seeing this chick whos pretty cool (shes 23 im 35). she’s used to these pathetic boys that i actually pulled back for about 2 weeks and shes chasing me even more now. glad i did it first
Its.more simple:
attention/investment ratio baseline should always be 2/3.
Immediatly as you notice you go over it , pull far back to 1/3, for a while until you are stable enough again to get back to baseline 2/3.
Harsh part for men is we want to draw a baseline in absolute numbers, when for attraction only proportion/ratio matters
Most useful video yet
Right, because if we all have the same confidence and status, it'll be harder for them to choose
Nowadays, women do part-time relationships, they will be there for a few months later they will leave you, dont worry there are million more in line.
pullback satisfies her hyper game 💪
11:15 Playing deceitful games is a sure way to turn off a person of interest because they don't want to be ignored and treated like crap whether you're a man or a woman I guess these games only work with people who play stupid mind games but I keep it real one hundred
Thank you sir, I completely agree! These dudes are goofy as hell
Background 10/10 good vibe
Truth is..... It's a toxic thing to do..... However,, if a woman ever does pull back on you first..... If you have other options and you happen to cheat on her with these options..... If she finds out odds are she will pursue you again and regret pulling away from you in the first place...... Which her motives for doing this are also kind of toxic to begin with.
The professor casey.
That's my wife. I hate she played me this the first time and I have to live like this detached emotionally. I can only love her 50% else I will be destroyed
I’m a woman, and when I sense that a guy is trying to make me chase him or trigger any kind of fear/negative emotion in me, I just leave because my ex never did that to me in 10 years. He was kind and would never allow any negative feelings to grow in me. Therefore, guys who intentionally pulls back are inferior to my ex. So, I’d leave that man.
My instinct says, this man is capable of hurting me. ＝ uncomfortable and not worth staying together. im super independent, but Id rather be with a kind guy who will protect me. because i will do the same to him.
Heartbreakings are everything to see the truth
wisdom is nothing more than healed pain
i don't see how someone can take a man serious who hasn't had his heart broken
@@Gescobar009 women are more like kids or kitty cats they don’t see it the same way
I strongly agree 💯 i experienced this
All these fucking games
gotta love it. the spice of life.
You have no choice but to play the game
Unfortunately, it sounds like a man can never be ALL-IN with a woman, that he always has to have one foot out the door. This is probably true even in marriage, because when a man shows a woman that he is ALL-IN, she begins to take him for granted, gradually loses attraction for him, as he is no longer a challenge for her, and she no longer has to compete with other women to keep him. So, if a man is smart, he will always have one foot out the door -- even in marriage. This might sound toxic, and it's probably better not to even get married in the first place, but a man must always have viable options and women that he's talking to, and flirting with, if not actually sleeping with on the side. This promiscuous behavior on the part of the man, along with him primarily focusing on his grind and his purpose, and his masculine and independent demeanor -- he doesn't make her his focus, but focuses on himself instead, and she is just along for the ride attitude -- will definitely work to his advantage by showing her that he has one foot out the door and can leave her ass behind at any time.
You get this. But I would add that we need to give up on marriage. You can't keep a woman long anymore. Prenuptials will be getting invalidated soon. No woman is worth half your wealth. We need to be thinking in terms of long-term relationships, living in separate places (to avoid common law marriage) & with 1 or 2 feet out the door.
I believe this can can apply to life though.. You can't go all in with anybody. That's just asking for trouble. "Never Commit to Anyone" (48 Laws of Power)
@@Gescobar009 Except your children, you are ALL-IN for them, right ? Also, there was a time when marriage meant being ALL-IN for each other. But women today are never ALL-IN even when they get married, they have become 'liberated' and so always keep their options open. We men must do the same and never completely commit to just one woman forever. Commitment is no longer valued, it's now a liability.
@@alwaysgreatusa223 It's simpler. Western women are not made for marriage. Takes a foreign woman of low status. The end of the marriage must always constitute a major loss for her, in economic, social and reputational terms. End of the story.
Women love men who don't simp
And that is a follow.
It worked for me thanks bro❤
Yeah man. I pulled back a couple of times...She hung onto me. In told her I love her... She pulled back!😂 Retired my interest and she's being contacting me after every weekend for a month now. I won't repeat my mistake guys!
Best video yet
What an awesome dream, at least creating the momentum back for men
Just sent this video to my girlfriend and told her that she checks all the boxes for me to pull back but i wlll do her a favor and not pull if she promise to behave well
Ill keep you updated how it goes
That’s got to be the dumbest thing you could of done, never tell women your tactics 🤦♂️
Bro now when you pull back she'll think it's not genuine and that you have low smv you played yourself
Simple solution to women - DONT CARE, NEVER COMMIT, TAKE WHAT YOU GET, VALUE YOURSELF, AND REMEMBER THERES ALWAYS A HOTTER GIRL WAITING FOR YOU!
I’ll go as far as texting them at 11:11 before disappearing for a week. Works every time. Stay toxic Kings 😈
😂😂😂 "Diabolically clever!"
that dream will never happen because of lust. if anything it’s only going to get worse
These games are not just not interesting but becomes tiring as time goes on
Just realized I’m doing the filler and fluff texts. Time to pull back