The Truth About Dating Broke Women
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 มี.ค. 2024
- The virtues of women in Southeast Asia are well known. There are millions of videos on TH-cam describing their great qualities. But they conveniently leave out one thing - they're BROKE! Thanks for watching.
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Dating a broke partner is one thing but dating a Broke partner with a broke family is on another level.
why do you even care if the family is broke? If they tell you that you are supposed to support the family, run, that is a huge scam they only do to foreigners, and claim its their culture. Ask them how much is their filipino brother in law paying to the "family" the answer is always zero. Dont get scammed.
Amen, preach! Because no matter how hard she tries, her family always pressures her to get money from the gringo/farang.
@@SimpleMansJourney nah, not completely true. Love isn't our strong suit in the Philippines, compassion is and because of that, "Noblesse Oblige." Any person who's slightly financially better than them, they'd ask for help, especially money, while others are grateful and try to pay it, psychopaths will spring in some way or another. Our OFW's treatment is always that, not only people will complain if they didn't get much, your reputation will also be damaged--maybe it's better to cut off any helping to other people except your spouse's fam or set boundaries because people here use/abuse other people's kindness.
Lol 😂😂absolutely 💯 but if your lady is Smart and respects you, she will lay down the rules for her family my man ain't the local ATM but he will help just not taken advantage of
Preach Calvin Preach mi Bredda, no Sugar Coating, love your channel mi Bredda
Great topic, Calvin! I met my Filipina wife over 10 years ago and we dated for about a year before getting married. Not once did she ask me for money, nor did I offer any. She was a college graduate and had a stable job over there. Now she was not making loads of money, but enough to take care of herself and even her parents. I knew once she came to the US that she was not going to have much. I explained to her that as a military person (now retired), that I didn't make a lot so don't expect a lot. We did okay and here we're 11 years later. She now runs her own business from home and we have two kids. Best of luck to everyone out there!
My humble opinion women in Southeast Asia are broken by poverty and financial struggles women in the West are are broken by the Rat Race and the stressful lifestyle and anxiety to survive financially so in the end it’s the same results in a different manner
great point
I saw a beautiful woman on Cebu women, I payed to send a message to this lady. She responded to my letter, and she said that she had 4 children. Naturally, my member below became very soft.
Lol😅
@@BigJack273that’s exactly what they think lol. I know what site he’s talking about too. Got over the hill chics on there with kids talking about a man being loyal and only with her. Insane. Not only is she broke and bringing another man’s responsibility in tow, but also wants you to kick out funding for her other family members. When they say they’re family oriented and want to give their family a good life…she’s talking family members that didn’t come from your DNA. Go figure
😂
@@BigJack273The problem you got old guys that will simp for the Filipina and brag about Pay For Play which make us regular guys looks like an Idiot's 🤨
@@dezcuts5319 👍🏿
My Filipina works 5 to 6 days a week for 570PHP a day. She has 2 kids and a deadbeat dad that does not give a dime to support their children. If you turn on the faucet they will drink and they will become accustomed to it. I’m that guy and trust me its a mistake to get it started.
Wow that's $10 a day
thats the minimum salary per day 10 dollars here in the Philippines@@c.a.sreacts
Calvin, I'm going through these issues right now with a young Latina in Colombia. You're 100% correct! I'm retired, but her and her family always need something and they think the money pot is never empty. I'm in the process of breaking up right now. It's cheaper not to keep her. I'll just buy a piece when I feel the need.
watch out for your ex's titos and padrinos though
The good thing is now now you know .
I’m an old guy and for the life of me why do we old guys always involve ourselves with young women? I had a Colombiana tell me it’s my duty to call for a Uber for her. Never went out with her. Next?
@@Bronx_BombersPersonally I find their immaturity easier to deal with than an older women's baggage. Plus, most everything is still tight. Also, I intend to enjoy my remaining years, I earned them.
If these broke women were modest, and were financially considerate, rather than abusive to their (mostly older) foreigner husbands, it would go a long way toward making a happy and peaceful home. Instead, many push their foreigner mates, nay hound them, into spending more, and often refuse to respect the family budget (i.e., by not saving and/or overspending), much less volunteer to contribute to it. Also, it would go a long way if she would show him some gratitude for all he has done/is doing, instead of compare him to others who are supposedly doing more. Great sex or no sex, a woman like this will become an albatross around her man's neck.
I’m 55, never married, no kids, plenty of money, on the verge of retiring, and have no idea what I’m going to do with the rest of life. Live out my days solo, or date but not long term, or do a Hail Mary- get married and have kids (assuming I’m even capable of maintaining a relationship).
Time is running out
If you come to the Philippines, take your time, travel around a bit and stay 3 to 5 days depending on the area. Then try out a place like Cebu or the like for 3 to 6 months. Feel free to date but once you settle in an area for awhile, that's when the real dating happens. Have fun, and follow Calvin's advice about humility, keep a low profile and never criticize.
You must be lonely as f…. You need a mate buddy, it’ll add years to your life.
Go inj joy the beautiful lie. Get a girl half your age, have fun. Never forget the liyn eyes. Don't fall in love with the beautiful lie. Just have fun.
I did a Hail Mary in the Philippines at 40 and ended up with 7 kids. :)
Thank you for the food for thought, Cal. Nobody wants to date a charity case. Used to think it was low-key selfish to think that way, but it makes so much sense.
It’s a big deal unless you are very well off. Also if you are an older man and have to take care of a young woman and her kids It may cause resentment after the honeymoon period.
I have tried many times to ignore this, but it has always proved to be a crucial issue. Thank you for your openness🙏
It depends! It depends a lot on the character of female. If she's a virgin and she's very humble, it could work. However, if she's broke with a lot children out of wedlock, she could be a major problem. My wife, who's originally from the Philippines, didn't have a job when we first meet. She was college educated, in her mid twenties, and never been involved with a man. Thus, I paid for everything at the time. Fast forward twenty years later, we're still married and l wouldn't exchange her for a mountain of gold. Why? Because, it goes back to the woman's character, which is normally based around her needs, wants and values.
When my ex broke up with me a key thing that came out was the fact that she has more than I do and apparently felt that her assets would be threatened. My Pinay has nothing but is self supporting and regards spending my $ as if she had to earn it herself. I am quite happy with the reversal.
Thank you for another great prerequisite. Video before making that move towards the Philippines. It's like a cheat code for understanding your new endeavor.
I think it's important to find out why she's broke. If she is living beyond her means, run! 😂
Silly comment this is a third world country if they have a job their wages are low so working or not they are poor
@@user-tn5fz4kp8jNot every woman in the Philippines is poor. Many women may be struggling, but they know how to save money and build a better life when given an opportunity. Calvin's girlfriend Marilyn is a great example. The point is that when we are dating them, make sure they understand the value of money and hard work. Often, women like that won't waste your money or your time. When we stereotype people in third-world countries, we often miss out on experiencing the best in them.
I was looking at your older videos and you gained some muscle. Congrats!!!!!!!
But if she had money would she be with most older men in the first place?
Exactly 💯
We all know the answer to that!
What does that have to do with my vlog 🤔. You obviously didn't watch the video. Thanks for the algorithm.
You mean like in the West where they only marry for love and don't care about money?
Talk about missing the topic of the video 😂
Broke ain't NO MF Joke!
Calvin, this is one of the most important issues that a person can learn. I am in total agreement with you. Never get involved with a man or woman who is broke. Because no matter how good you think they are, they will try to sell you false hope, for there survival. Not yours. They are only looking for a bridge to help those that they care about, and you are just the meal ticket for the moment. And if you leave, they will look for another one after you. Make sure you have a balanced relationship and don't fall for the tricks, manipulations, lies and so-called beauty, body and sex tricks. They will take advantage of your kindness and compassion to get your money. Get out of it as quickly as possible. Thanks Calvin, because without you there would be a lot of disappointed people in this world. You keep it 💯 and real.
I do agree but what woman are you referring 🤔 to because if a woman from the west has money and she's with a man who doesn't have much 75% of the time your hand pecked she will leave you I seen to many of my friends laughing at me dating so called broke Filipino women their all divorced and broke and lonely while this is going on my 4th year in the best relationship I ever had in the Philippines 🇵🇭. Every man results are different.
@BillyTimes-dw7vs Great choice, Billy!
Reading your title, “yes” it does matter but it is about perspective and understanding your increased responsibility if you choose to be in one of these relationships….
Exactly.
Thank you for the videos. I also date a Filipina, and at some point going to the Phillipines. The knowledge you have is valuable and I appreciate it.
I have been with a Cambodian woman for 6 years and her making money doesn't really matter.
1. I helped start a small business so she could earn her own money. I taught her how to fish.
2. She doesn't know how much I make. It's better that way.
3. Don't lead with your wallet or she will expect money all the time
4. Set boundaries with her family from the beginning. I help when and if I can. They are not my responsibility. How were they making it before I came along?.
Great topic Calvin @Sunshine Shoulders
Greetings from the night shift, thanx for sharing the video Calvin. Good wisdom my brotha.
It doesn't matter if she is broke but I'm not in care of her family. Her family lived their life already. It's time for her to set free and move on and live her life with her man.
Well To help the Parents or her Children is expected but cousin's and Nephews is a HELL NO..
@@Kory8611 I can agree with you on that. You made a great point, absolutely.
@skapunkoialternativeliving6522 I Mean you have to except some kinda Financial Support for the Filipina but just don't go crazy or be taking advantage of..
Do not give her money, do not meet her parents, do not tell her you love her. Date many girls at the same time. Be the leader and be in charge.
I think you are not a good man. You're one broke out there. lol Emotionally, Mentally, Financially etc.. Stay out of dating, you will you will just broke many women's heart.
the problem with dating women with money is alot of them wont submit to their men when they have their own money.
Some act like they're the man.
I'ts worse in Asia because once they have a liitle bit of money they feel better then the other "poor" people and that is something i hate. In western standards they are still poor...
These relationships last as long as any other relationship 1 to two years but that is longer than the none-relationship I have in the US!!!
Easy situation. She wants to buy things. But she needs to eat. Needs always more important than wants. Fulfill her needs = happiness. Chase her wants = always fail
Thanks for giving us things to ponder Calvin.
Thanks Calvin for the perspective.
Great topic.
Secure the Bag first 💰
man, I thank you so much for those wise facts about a situation I never hear anyone talk about, I'm headed that way in a few months, but I will not forget this.
Great content Calvin
I havev been through a countless amout of broke women here in the US. I even had a broke wife. From my experience it boils down to what they are really about. To me from my experience. As long as they are not allergic to working hard. As long as they have a willingness to do what it takes to better themselves. As long as your happy being with them. I don't see much wrong with it .
Bro Calvin,
You are 💯% on point. Keep bringing us the outstanding content. Stay Strong 💪.
Man that thumbnail straight FIRE ! 🤩👍🏾
Excellant video and good advice.
Great advice
You are an honest man Calvin. Thanks for your thoughts.
Great topic..
Thank you for making it plain.
Straight facts Calvin about the backpack analogy. I still don't have any regrets but taking on a couple extra mouths to feed is something people need to be ready to understand. If I didn't believe that she is sincere in her love dor me I would look elsewhere. I love her and I know she loves me. She's never been with a guy like me and she understands that in my opinion. You can tell a lot about people by looking in their eyes and I see the love she has for me. Still looking for a place in SE Ohio for the kids so I can get back. I might have to buy them a house because a rental property is hard to get at a good price. Well take it easy brother. ✌🏼
You're right about the house. You'll come out ahead in the end. You can build a decent place for less than 20K dollars and be done with rent. 3 years and it's paid for itself.
Great video
I maintain the unspoken agreement eclipses their financial status. Any contribution from them monetarily is gravy.
Very informative video, i find this to be useful to me understanding the Philippines dynamics in breaking down or defining the relationship as it really exist. Something simple, but could cause a great deal of damage to a relationship with a Filipina. My man.... thank you,
Thank you, Cal. That tree is looking good. It's grown stong! I look forward to sitting under a tree of my own again, "One of These Days! One of These Days!"
Good point!
I understand what you are saying 100 %.
It’s not about the money, it’s about the vibe, the connection. I met a beautiful young woman of 40 from Iloilo. Beautiful personality, she has a loving family. She’s never been married nor does she have or ever had children. They are extremely poor, but extremely happy. I’m visiting her in November of 2024. Just a beautiful church girl. I haven’t felt this way about a woman since 1983. Money is nothing more than security and it can’t buy you love.
Good shit Calvin as always 💪🏿
I've always been careful with my money.
I took a career path with an early retirement, went to college and got a couple degree's, got a job in technology and invested heavily in my 401K and Roth, paid allo my debts, to include house and car.
I retired early.
Now no one I dated here had any money, nothing, nada. So if I date a woman here, she will be broke and need my income to survive and come with American Woman Baggage.
No thanks, if I'm going to be footing the bill, I will enjoy my young, happy, Filippina
Wow, sound advice, wise words. True words..Interesting how you say "that 1st relationship is not going to last". That must be something you have seen. I have watched a few of your videos now. Unemotional rational, and common sense thinking seems to be your thing. Nice, and so very rare in Westerners long since. I believe I will have to watch all your videos and subscribe. Thanks good man....
Work or not a girl working for $200 per month is still broke doesn’t matter if she works or not for that type of money
Zero effect of life living
First time hearing this hit on. You thinking like you got that little head under control. Thamks for going in on it. !!
Thanks!
Thanks for your support!
Calvin you have made me think, about coming there
Struggling to sleep so Still up at 1:am. Looks like it Hot so early in The Morning Over there!
See ya at the end of the Year or First part of 2025 Calvin.
It's summer here brother. I love it!
"Hot" is relative. I'm from SE Texas, and I've generally found it much nicer weather than our Texan summers on the coast with humidity.😂
This was a really good video. 😂😂😂
The old blues singer Johnnie Taylor said it best. “ Your loving gives me the thrills but it don’t pay the bills.” 💵 I don’t date women with children. I ask two questions. Do you have children and do you have a job? I’m retired and I’m not taking on more financial responsibility for a ready made family. 😮
single moms are everywhere a big no go.
Valuable information for men that act like knights in shining armor ready to “save” damsels in distress. Please be smart and don’t be a knight or a mean abusive SOB either.
Interesting video
Everybody wants money. That's what told bulls down to everybody's about money and success. And yes, you're right. Money is a deal breaker too. Most relationships break up and have problems with cash or money. It's always money. The argument is always about money. It's just what it is. I guess.
You and Scott have some really good business ideas for the Philippines. I am in business development, and should I ever be fortunate to have a couple beers with you guys - I think we could make something great happen.
The only way you should take a broke woman seriously is if she is looking for work (ACTIVELY) or is studying.
If you know that the women is broke, then you must decide whether you can afford to support her financially and yourself add it up
and wait for the family to try and get involved. even if the other siblings are employed many times it will get thrown into your bag of rocks .. just be prepared what you start out with is not what you will end up with either in your relationship or your pocketbook..30yrs experience
@@robertmorison3137You can say that about any life on planet earth.
just run solo cali, beats all the hardship
Wisdom
Agreed.
I'm going on 59 this year. Been married to my Filipina wife for 14 years. First 4 years LDR. Then it took 4 more years for her to get licensed in the U.S.. All those years I supported her and partially her family. Today she makes twice as much as I ever did and now her mother is here working. They forced me to retire early and now I just fix the house/ cars and protect them. Do you think it was worth the 8-year struggle?. I do. This wasn't a calculated plan, just got lucky marrying a registered nurse.
I'm not saying whether it's worth it or not. I'm just talking about some of the truths about dating broke women. You agreed to it upfront and it came out good for you.
@@BigJack273 I met one guy. It was his master plan to meet a nurse and bring her here to help him retire. She got licensed and left him. another guy who met a nurse and she became his caretaker. Worked out for me. But I believe a guy should make his money and live there.
@@BigJack273 I believe many filipinas would support their men in all ways if possible. That's what makes them so special. But keep in mind most are traditional and believe deep down that the financials is the man's responsibility
@@LADETROITDo they believe it’s a man’s responsibility when they are with a Filipino man, or does that only applies when they are with a foreigner?
Beware of nurses, they are always surrounded by wealthy Dr's. It's easy for them to replace you.
Facts Facts Facts!!!!!!!!
NICE Video Calvin. I must say as a retiree here in NYC its @ll @bout the Women! I want tbem,but I have no takers! Yes @m that lonely so Foreign Females are in Order for me! Yes we travel abroad, and meet these chics knowing this is a put up for feeling good! I work PT in a @ll female clothing store. I haven't received I bonified interest fro. A female In a year in a half! Can't wait to get to Thailand!!!
My partner has no income and it has never been a problem, we have been together for 4 years…I have a small pension and we live well in Cebu city.
People without enough money, seek security and money is very important. Knowing that there can be problems and understanding what may happen and making an informed decision is important. Money does not " grow on trees" and if a man spends it all in a developing land that is not his own, how does he return back home if his partner is unable to be productive and is a drain? Just have to be okay with spending your money and satisfied with return. It can be a good thing and it can be bad.
Look I don't date a Filipino because of the financial aspect I date for the best Pum Pum I've had ever lol 😂 but let me tell you this, if your Filipino lady is Genuine she will work as hard as she can to make up the difference or at least contribute her part, Filipinos are very Proud and respectful, and have a lot Self respect in themselves I love my girl and She enhances my life 💯%
Come on Calvin, most Filipinas don’t have much money. But the equalizer is her beauty. You can find that in the States too!
Watch the video man. You're way off track man.
@@calroach1 I watched your video, and and as usual, you are on point. I was just venting because I got burned by a lady who was receiving welfare. I had hoped that you would not respond. Thanks Calvin.
@@Gizziiusa Facts. Most women in the states cant even hook up a bowl of Apple Jacks. The only thing you can find in the states is people dating as if they are bobbing for apples in a barrel of shitwater
Money issues are a deal breaker in any relationship! Truer words have never been spoken Calvin. If you enter a relationship with someone who doesn't respect money and how hard you worked for it, then you're headed for failure. Take the time to know your partner and her habits before making a full commitment.🤑🏝🇵🇭
✔️ But if you're not young or handsome it's very difficult to find a woman with equal financial status. Conundrum!!!
A man that is staying in his frame will truly evaluate wether his relationship is transactional or not. The men fall for the beauty but a woman that is compromised financially is a bad idea. The financial obligations can a will be very burdensome.
Sex, Money, In-laws, disagreements involving child rearing, addiction. If your relationship ends. It is going to be for one of those reasons. Couples do not break up because they can not agree on what brand of pancake syrup to buy.
This is an issue and a topic that plays heavily on my heart, mind and soul as i think about retiring in the Philippines. In America here I have never in my life dated or married in my later years a broke women with no money. That was a principal I've always lived by, its part of my nature. All of my earlier girl freinds and wife all had money and careers, so i was never pressed to take care of everything myself. I made sure everyone shared and shared alike. Say what you want about America, one of the privilege of America is that a woman can find work, (sometimes quicker than a man) as a matter of fact many Filipinas desire to come to America for that reason alone. As much as i would love to retire in the Philippines i dont think i could ever deal with the idea of being an ATM machine for a Filipinas family ( possibly husband also) and extended family as well. If it was just her it would not be that much of an issue, i would not even mind helping her establish a small business for herself and id be more than happy if she worked somewhere, but at this stage in my retired life, i don't want to provide for and definitely not raise another family. Thats not my idea of retirement.
If the American woman you married with money were so wonderful how come your divorced
@@user-tn5fz4kp8j Who said anything about a divorce?
@@user-tn5fz4kp8j And who said anything about being wonderful, that's something you made up, because I unintentionally triggered something in your mind. I said they all had their own money and were employed, so I didn't have to worry about taking care of everything on my own
@@JohnThomas-li2vi so your still together ?
@@user-tn5fz4kp8j My first wife died of a kidney condition, she was born with one kidney as it is, my present woman, not married, will not leave America under no circumstances. I don't hold it against her, or blame her, we all have our destinies to fulfill. I have traveled a lot more than her and have always planned to retire in either Tanzania or South Africa, being that they have a large African American presence there. But the Philippines has always attracted me, so before I make any kind of decision I must travel to the Philippines to see what is actually what. Whether my lady wants to come or not, I will never enjoy the rest of life if I stay in America because of her. I've always known that when I retire, it had to be in either in an African country or an Asian country.
Excellent video I'm talking to a beauty on a foreign affair and she doesn't have a job but lord she is gorgeous 😍 b
I know it's red flags she could get one loll
Hey Calvin, try taking sugar-free Metamucil Fibre for your diarrhea- it works for me. And I am taking Synjardy medicine for my type 2 diabetes.
Speak bro
Cal, twice in the recent weeks you had the bubbling stomach. Can you make a video letting us know what preparation we should have with us. Or maybe how we can avoid having the runs totally. Thanks 🙏🏾
El guapo From beautiful lies got sick in Manila also. Burnt toast fixed his stomach
This was the first time actually 😅. In 15 years. I wouldn't eat street food on my first trip.
@BigJack273 lots of trade-offs. Too many to name. If you're happy just stay there.
This was Real Talk! Hard Cold Truth!🤔💯
AceBachelorCool has a few videos that can answer exactly that.
It's a given in you are supporting her
Seems to me even the folks with jobs are broke. My wife was in Saudi as an OFW working for 400 bucks a month for 6 12 hour shifts a week as a private nurse, Housekeep staff made 200 a week. If im remembering correctly, your GF was working a white collar job at 8000 peso a month.
Is she with me for me or for my money? Are guys ok with that? Dudes can only answer that question for themselves. Another relevant topic brotherman. Appreciate the vlog.
actually what you said made me really think my friend , The truth is you can always date someone at any time in your life. I have good money about 10k USD a month coming in But I do not want to disclose that as I have saved for 30 yrs
Poor means you have just enough money to eat and take care of yourself,,that’s Asia, Europe, Merica, and other countries..It’s the individual and his or her mind set that matters and makes a difference in any relationship…I know myself and my wife we both grew up poor..now we have one or two dollars walking around money..Travel the world and don’t care about Sunshine talking about poor people and such..Thankfully there was no TH-cam back then when I was running after my took me 2 years of begging, finally got married and living happily ever after.. I do believe in fairytale endings…😊
Calvin Respect. But the women are all broker over here too. Hoping over there the maintenance is low; over in the States the maintenance is to the moon.
Dateing a poor woman is a bad idea. Try it and find out why the hard way if you would like.
Good Morning
Good afternoon Calvin.I met ,a not broke,but surviving on her Philippines wages.(130,per mo).she was very responsible, respectful,and loving.I wouldnt have enough money to pay for yhat from an women from the west.After covid reopened the travel restrictions I married her.still in the honeymoon stage,one year,but she found work,and she is still that same person.she dont ask for much.mostly my time,and affection.will she chsnge over here,probably!but I shall appreciate her until then..
Money is not an issue, I want what I want and I usually get what I want sooner or later, but women can stay and play or come and go because I know how to say hell no! It worked for me while living in Thailand, worked while living in Malaysia, now living in Makati it's been working for a lot years, I see no problems smooth sailing ahead because I will get what I want the rest doesn't matter, because I GIVE MORE THAN I TAKE.
Doesn't bother me is shes broke. Has long has she understands that I am too.
The women know they dont have money, so yes, they expect you to know and except this fact. There thinking we as men are willing to except this for that exchange youve talked a out. And true, theres an exchange. Men provide the financial means taking care of the women and what else she can get you to take on, and she provides herself and what it is she will do for you. This is where Vetting your girl comes in. Its upon each of us men to figure out what it is your girl brings to the table. If you dont do that, thats where it runs out of gas, gets old and on to the next ride.
My thoughts on it are slightly different. Men instinctually know and understand their roles in a relationship because we're reminded of it every day of our lives. Men know they have to create value to attract women. Being traditional in other words. We know that. The problems comes in where, especially here in the US and in Western Society women expect for the men to be and stay 'traditional'(e.g. go out get a job, work hard to provide for his woman/wife and family) etc. but then not for them to do their part(serve/take care of or nurture her man/husband and family and think they can do and say whatever it is they want. Todays men in the west have awaken and they're saying UH UH, THAT AINT HAPPENIN NO DAMN MO! FUCK THAT! You expect us to be traditional then YOU MUST BE TRADITIONAL ALSO! And that's why men in general very much appreciate the women from places like South East Asia, Central/South America, etc because those places still value traditionalism and men in general understand the plight of those women and we men as a collective know and understand that so WE DON'T DAMN MIND taking the place of the traditional man and accept fully taking care of the woman we take up with. And those women act according and we love that as men so we don't mind takinh on the role of being the financial provider. Nice one Cali Cal...
I'll take a "broke" lady over what people
call a "successful" woman every day of
the week.
Can boundaries and a budget be a good approach?
The burden isn't that great. Doesn't cost much more to feed 2 mouths instead of 1. If I wasn't with my Wife I would be paying skin tax everywhere I go and probably blowing money on trying to have FUN and doing stupid things I shouldn't. She saves me a fortune. I think you are looking at this the wrong way.
This actually depends on the woman and her culture. Thai culture is all about vanity and finding someone with money. Other countries are like this as well. I can't speak for the Philippines because I've never been there. I grew up in SEA and it's all bad now
@uneek1un There is a big difference between Thai and Filipino women with regard to goals. I would stay clear of Thai women
@@jeffrt3893I know, my first marriage was to a Thai. Went to the Philippines and never looked back. Married 15 years with beautiful kids.
@@jeffrt3893 I have a Thai lady and i would say stay far away from Filipina's 🤣
Yes My lady saves me money in the end. She is even more frugal then me 😁
Not enough money definitely can be a deal breaker but hell in the Philippines your rich so is like being a millionaire here in the 🇺🇸