The FILIPINA Trap 3 Secrets They Don't Want You To Know
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- As men we unwittingly walk into a trap in the Philippines when we get involved with Filipinas. Here are 3 secrets they don't want you to know. Thanks for watching.
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When living in the Western world, many need to watch football as a distraction from life there. But while visiting Southeast Asia, they don't need a distraction from life...they are enjoying life!
Right
Sounds like it
Brother, blink twice if you need help escaping those women.
😂😂😂
Brother, I think you just described Every Woman everywhere in this whole world
Yes and man
You got right ...this goes on every where. NOT just in PH. . 🤣😁
The same, But it's more affordable in the Philippines (whether woman or things/services). Women in the Philippines treat Filipino men just like the way American woman do. All the same. Totally lame era. The generation of our parents were better and real.
Women are in business. Men are in love! 😆
Not really. To get woman like this in Philipines is not same everywhere in the world. Not at all.
I’m a Vietnamese vet. In the ‘60s & 70s it was spontaneous as you had no social media. The same rules apply today: get off the beaten paths & find her on your own. If you approach a girl’s father & reveal your desire/intention, if there’s for his family, not only will you get a pure wife, but her family will keep her in line even in your absence.
Keep fooling yourself boomer. You will only ever be an ATM.
"Keep her in line"? Disgusting
@@andjelabozic2317Yes, She should be Free to Slut Around with Every Man , and still have a Husband to Pay for her Wonderful Life ! Just Like Our American Ladies ! Freedom from her Evil Family !
I did not take it as disgusting. I took the statement to mean the family will help keep her grounded in reality. Perhaps remind her of the advantages & positive aspects of being married to a man that takes care of her. Perhaps you are too controlling? @@andjelabozic2317
I bet you've got a body count higher than Schwarzengger & Stallone combined?@@andjelabozic2317
They talk to each other about getting a man from another country and how to keep him! Ha, ha, ha. you are so right Calvin!
You already know Frank 🤣💪🏾
They have FB groups, online courses and consultants training them how to "catch a foreigner".
Don’t fall for the trap.
I have noticed that I am unsubscribed for your channel Calvin. YT playing games?
Over in the states, they talk to each other about how to leave or deceive him.
I had to ghost a girl I really liked because of constant needs for money and nobody working in the house including the girl who is 24 and never worked
Being expected to take care of the foreign woman's family and possibly extended family members was also a deal breaker for me. Always having them hanging around and visiting our martial home would drive me crazy.
lol, you are the work. 😂
damn, that was my exact story with my kenyan, and now i have indonesian girlfriend, but the kenyan girl was a really good person who was too lazy to work, so while its her fault, it still broke my heart that i had to ghost her, shes not bad, but being a good person is not good enough sometimes, #1 is respect yourself, and respect your own financial freedom
Having been married to a Filipina and knowing a LOT of Filipinos. Having bum ass relatives who don't work ever for no real reason other than lazy bumness, occurs whether a foreigner is present or not. I have some Pinoy friends who have brothers in their 20's whose "job" is "watching over the house".
The #1 secret is the she-boys! 😂
For me it was different i proposed marriage to a Philippino woman before i even met her,a Philippino man working for me in London showed me a picture of his niece back home. 3 yrs later i travelled to the Philippines 🇵🇭 the wedding was arranged for the 2nd week after my arrival,30 yrs later with 3 beautiful children were still together happily married 🤔 enjoy 😎🇬🇧
Wow, you took a huge risk and it paid off!
Wow that's an amazing story. Thanks for sharing!
@@Rodderz1 yes it would’ve not worked for most folks,also most people wouldn’t do what i did,kinda crazy gamble that fortunately worked for me, 😎 enjoy stay safe 👍
You got lucky because you married to a Filipina of a different generation. I read right you met your special one 30 years ago. I went there 16 years ago and that was the last phase of traditional Filipinas. The younger generation are not as virtuous as the older generation. This has been my own observation in The Philippines during the last 16 years.i spent a lot of time going back and forth from the UK prior 10 years ago.
@@globalismoblackman yes i. Guess you could say i was lucky i married a good one ,she was one off 9 kids I’m one of nine kids,strange how life unfolds, you could also say I’ve been lucky to make the right decisions in my life,and been prepared for the risks involved , i did have plan B in place had things not gone to plan 😇 she has since proved to be the best investment Ive ever made,and she is still my best friend and my soul mate.i will always be thankful for our blessings together 😎enjoy stay safe 😎👍
Lived in Asia for 15 yrs. This man speaks the truth.
Fool
Maybe in some cases, but the gal I married from Almeria was not "coached" by anybody. Just a traditional province lady that did not want to marry a coconut farmer or something like that. She had ambition to do more and help her family. She was great, has been great for the last 15 years. Helped her with nursing school, she helps her family, we have two beautiful daughters. Besides being a wonderful gal, she was half my age, something hard to come by here unless you've got bank. It is different being married to a filipina, but it is good. I'd suggest you find a province gal, they are traditional and do appreciate their man. That is something you do not find in the states.
@@johnl9977I want to hear more from you. These guys on youtube tend to speak a lot of nonsense that. Could happen anywhere. I'm looking for a wife and kids..not a hooker
@@johnl9977👍👍
There’s drawbacks to everything in life you just have to pick the best position for yourself
is there a trust worthy detective agency there people here in the states can hire to check out the girl they are talking to? I have heard horror stories of the filipino woman being married but going to spend time with western men. it would be good to check someone out before hand and know the truth instead of walking into a big scam.
All women need something. The difference in the PH is that a man actually gets more. I wouldn’t think of bringing any woman back to the states. You’re at a disadvantage here and she’s under great temptation to monkey branch to a better prospect. Instead, stay there and have her scared of losing you. Set up your own scenario boys. Go out and meet these women. Avoid the dating sites as said here. Great content. Thanks for sharing.
Monkey branch. That's an American woman. First of all, there's no divorce in the Philippines. You can get a divorce from her but she will always be married to you. She cannot remarry.
Secondly, that would be marriage of convince, illegal here. She would be deported. Unable to return to the US.
You're thinking about American women. A good province girl has the morals of your grandmother or great grandmother, assuming she was a high moral woman.
@@paulshamblin6260 hahahahaha either you don't know the law, human nature or choose to ignore all.
@@paulshamblin6260 I knew a probinsiana who scammed American men claiming she needed credits for her phone to text them, etc. Any woman from any background can be terrible, you have to know them for YEARS before you can actually know a woman, they can mask their true selves for YEARS.
Maybe this applies to you because you’re not really a good catch 🤷🏼♂️ otherwise if you were, you would have nothing to fear.
Instead of divorce the Phillipines have ANNULMENTS.
Annulments legal jargon for saying that your previous legal marriage is now legally declared as never having been a marriage.@@paulshamblin6260
I 100% agree, most ppl in the west have NO clue how hard their lives are. I've seen it in India, we have zero understanding of what real poverty means
Somebody finally spittin some truth. Know the game gentlemen and you won't get played.
9:43
Synopsis
1. She’s being coached behind the scenes.
2. She’s going to do and be everything you want as a way to draw you in. (Valentines Day Everyday)
3. She needs you to do something usually get married, have child, to get commitment.
Main Objective: Don’t Get Trapped
I am one of old school Travel OG that came to the Philippines on vacation in 2008. I have unmask the true agenda dating Filipinas in The Philippines in 2008 to 2014. Sunshine Shoulders is dropping facts 100%.
f m and then get out, and dont look back
@@MrSamadolfo I don't even bother about all that stuff no more, I just look forward to completing my travel adventures to several stunning paradise islands🏝️🌄🌅🏖️ around The Philippines. Getting involved in the dating and relationships scene only ends up being a trap and distractions and also potential problems. Enjoy travelling around The Philippines is more fulfilling meeting the indigenous tribes and attending many colourful festivals around the country and enjoying the tasty seafood 🦞 🦀 🐟 meals is what I care about. Even business export opportunities I'll take that over chasing a Filipina.
I wouldn't consider 2008 old school
I have experienced this. 100% true. But I'm still here and I love the country. BTW I lost nearly 6M here (house & lot.. Fishing vessel) but I'm getting it back through the court system.
I leant a good lesson here. Don't even trust a Philippine fly on the wall guys if your a foreigner. Trust noone and hold on to your money.
Too many beautiful honey traps here and believe me.. Most of them are beautiful
Wow
I would add onto the 3rd tip is that you will def be helping that entire family financially! Great video bro!
Mine does everything she did when we first met. I love Filipinas. They are a little crazy tho.
Ya.. many baliw/buang
A little crazy ??? I’m married to a sweet, kind and loving Filipina but her butt is crazy as hell. I find it funny how jealous these girls are. I’m 62 and she is 37 and fortunately I look a lot younger then my age so no one knows I’m actually 62, most think I’m around mid forties to early 50’s.
Crazy in what way? Do you have an example?
Every woman has a version of crazy. It's a spectrum.
One problem is that even when you meet a friendly Filipina, she often asks you for cash right away, even after 5 min, and sometimes a lot of cash. It's totally shameless and a big turn off.
Brother this isn’t a Filipino trap. This is a poor country/people trap. It’s the same in South America and the Caribbean. These individuals want out of the rat race(can’t blame the why but how they go about it). If you haven’t noticed it yet it’s happening here in the USA as well. Sad to see these things. Thanks for sharing this. Keep sharing. Thank you
Winner comment. Same script, different scene. Its all about her survival and they have no standards when it comes to it. Thats why they are naturally hypergamous.
War brides are never loyal and neither are their off spring
What if someone doesn't want a serious relationship so number 3 is not on the table for some expats? What if we don't bite on the hook? Maybe she has this plan but we also have a plan! Not everyone who goes to the Philippines wants to be red cross.
let me add, some of has had our share of heartbreak and experiencing beautiful women everywhere. We just look at things different.
1. We are nobody's father and they are not our child to take care. 2 I believe in good sex but I don't believe in staying in a relationship because of good sex (She better have much more to bring to the table). KK is like the fiat currency, its abundent everywhere and is debased (Loosing its value because there so much of it) and 3 Peace above everything else, no KK is worth my peace.
Sneaky 304's are in every country... Be cautious
every man needs to assert his intentions for why he is even walking down this road.. this isn't a Christian-based TH-camr, it's not a Christ-centered channel therefore be careful of what and who you are listening to, but Calvin is right if you're deaf, dumb and blind older man yeah wake up.. it can be all that for sure..for me I go against every advice given her because I have done just the opposite and have given to the single moms, single collage girls, and single women to help them out.. because they need help that's the bottom line.. but if your looking for something in return follow Calvin if you have no expectation..God will lead to the right person regardless..I have given over the last 4 yrs over a million pesos and have seen so many wonderful things happen. and I don't ask anything in return.. but yes the offer is real.. but you need to follow your true heart and ambition, not your penis..if all you are interested in is wild sex and stupid fantasy you're on the right channel..Amen
These issues wouldnt matter or exist if American guys would stop fleeing their messed up lives here at age 50 and go chase 16, 17 and 18 year olds there. Philippines is a country tha has 14 year old girls on the street outside the strip bars selling cigarettes at 2AM. Nothing there is what youd see as normal open mindedness. Its why after Vietnam, many vets left their family to go to Philippines to live out their perversion. My dad did. Retired Marine from Nam. Died of cancer at 76yo in 2016, and had a gf that was 25 that was his babysitter years earlier when was with his first filipino wife. First met her when she was 14. Its why yall go there. Tell me im wrong
Thank you for your good, insightful video. I was blessed with a good Filipina when a mutual friend told me about her and told her about me, and she is now my wife. She is a born-again Christian and that makes all the difference in the world. The dating sites and chat rooms are full of deceivers who are lying in wait for their next victim, knowing how to trick men, as you say. In this case the saying is true, if it seems too good to be true it probably is. Men, be on guard, and do not go in blindly, hoping for something great which just “happens” to fall into your laps. And do not go in looking for free sex, for that is one sure way of your downfall. Dump the party mentality. If you want to have the best time, look for a solid, monogamous relationship and fit in with the woman’s family.
I Bless your life to have a full meaning with Christ's leading. Have a Blessed Lent
Also if you marry a women from parts of Asia you marry the whole family, literally. They move in lock, stock, and barrel.
Enjoy your brand new Asian lifestyle that she didn't advertise during the dating process.
What you guys fail to see this is what is happening worldwide. Do you think just because you’re in another country the game is different you’re a fool. The U.S. Germany, Japan, Philippines, Canada is all the same. So before you go hunting for a woman, you better get your mind right and learn to love yourself first. So no matter where you go it’s a give and take relationship. If you are weak then you may fall. Plus my question is why are you still in the Philippines?
“Old crusty ass” lol love the one liners Calvin. Thanks for the advice!
And Barney Fife comparison. 😂
I find it really hard to believe that this is true about all Philipinas, I have no problem believing it's true about some Philipinas, but all of them, that doesn't sound very realistic. Anyway it was an interesting video.
This is the story of life since the beginning of time
Until Western Countries messed it up.
Real talk
True story. I told my Filipina that our relationship is transactional and we still had it good. Told her that if any drama starts, I will send her packing. I helped her and her family out, didn't cost that much
Let's hope the dollar devaluation doesn't change that much in the future.
Otherwise, she'll drop you for a different currency.
@@J.D.Visionpoint is? Women are hypergamous…😂😂😂😂😂 your comment is so “pre internet” knowledge.
You think it's only $$.
If that's all you wanted.... You have basically had all the riches in the world at your feet and only taken a penny...
It's amazing how the west teaches us that riches are measured in dollars and possessions.... When there actually the lest valuable things in this world...
My wife's family barely has a pot to piss in and no glass in the. Windows they toss it out of but I have never met a richer family in my entire life...
Wealth, is in the eye of the beholder... Values are life's virtues...
@@williamfowler9196 So True
You sound like a terrible man and a user. God sees.
I understand what he is saying, but if she is attractive and loyal, it isn’t a bad trap. It is relatively easy to financially look after partners over there, you get a lot more for your money than in ‘developed’ countries. Relationships cost more in the West.. get stuck with a cheating or obnoxious woman but still pay child support
Traps are all over the world these days, you just got to learn how to avoid getting trapped in them.
You Play Then You Pay!!! LOL
He is one of the originals it's like highlander there can be only one and he is it. I completely trust what he says. From the heart. Thank you
I support Passport Bros BUT I would warn then that female nature is universal!
Correct 👍
Bro, this is all women globally
I can't speak for all women.
Hell women in the US set a trap to the same way. They just don’t continue to jump through hoops after they got you.
Hi. I don't know you, but you ain't never lied about what you are saying here! I guess when it comes down to it, if you know a woman is going to milk you like a cow, you may as well go with the woman that milks you the least. In the Philippines you may have some milk left over after the month, but in the U.S. these women will drain you dry, and throw the cow out in the trash! Seriously though, there may be a lot of men going to the Philippines looking for love, probably because they can't find it in the U.S. . Since Covid-19, everything is going up and is about more money now, for everything you need. So, i guess we all getting milked in one form or another in the U.S., whether its higher gas, higher heating cost, higher taxes, higher cost of food, etc. If you are already caught in the trap , whether in the Philippines or the U.S., get the most bang for your buck!
Remember, if the cow runs out of milk, game over, the cow gets thrown out in the trash!
Got a feeling you get more for your money in Philippines, than the states. In the states, you just get cleaned out, with little to none to show for it, afterwards. 😊
When I have nothing left to do.....then I get a Filipina. Ive worked my ass off and retired successfully. Why would I allow myself to be scammed or lured into a trap only to have a garbage bag in tow. Dont be a Captain Save A Ho....your a walking ATM.
Thank Calvin for reminding me. I’m 59 years old black American. Talking to 5 Filipino women there from age 26 to 44 and they all want to be the one woman I’m talking too. But right one said when
Y'all gotta go out to the province, get away from the Americanized Filipinas.
Best thing to do is hit it a few times and keep going most women today arent worth the headache im glad i meet mine back in the 80s
This is why I never got swept up in the passport brothers movement. I knew deep down those women were just like our Westernized woman in that they're all about securing the bag.
The main difference between the two types of women is that the foreign woman has more patience and is willing to humble herself in playing the long game.
I have long since resigned myself to the idea of dying alone. I'm not about to rent/lease anyone to be by my side.
All women are gold diggers, some are better at hiding the shovel, and the non western women are more likely to actually pay for the mineral rights.
@bruce-tf7de
The wheat is identical to the chaff until she gets a legal contract to take your money, house, and kids away from you. You're naive if you can't see that.
Dying alone used to bother me. Then one day someone told me the truth...
EVERYONE dies alone.
Dying alone is far better than being with someone who leaves you and takes everything you've worked for the minute your health starts to decline.
I am African American 63yrs old and don't even look my age I stay fit and healthy throughout my years living on fasting fruits and vegetables diet a little fish without medication. My daughter came to visit me and the first thing out of her mouth she said daddy you don't have wrinkles I just smile. When I get a copy of my DD214 Discharge papers from when I served in the military I will be leaving the states within two years with my pension. I am going to apply for my S R R V visa permanent Resident. I don't know if I would live on a farm by myself or just live in a condo because I am not looking for any relationship when I get there. It's going be hard for me when i decide to date someone because of my diet and I like to exercise and walk a lot. She's going to try to get me to eat things that I haven't eaten in years it's going to be a problem I like being out in nature I don't like anyone to force anything down my throat and I really don't like to be force to go to anyone's party's and I like to cook a home. I guess I have to live in the big cities without the larger family and kids I have Two daughters and five grandchildren and can't afford someone else family members maybe the mother and father but the whole family members Aunts uncles nieces dogs I love giving to the homeless and the poor all the time when I am walking I have no problems buying someone something to eat because anyone can become poor at anytime i just want to travel to deferent Island before I start seeing someone. Thanks again for sharing your knowledge enjoy your day 😊
@@mikey92362Agreed I been by myself for years and I love it peaceful. I dated my girlfriend for 5 yrs she had her place and I had my place one day I told her I didn't want to date anymore. I was a laid back guy who liked to sing, I liked to joke and make people laugh and smile and she used to get mad never smiled too much always had to criticize me for something and always trying to boss me around I use to tell her your not my mother. We still remain friends she did calm down a little she's not as bossy. She was very jealous I am go getter with confidence I like people and they love my singing its makes their day. Some people don't like happiness they prefer misery. When I was in the military at the age of 19yrs old 1980's in Germany that was the best time of my life.🙂
Every woman on earth man.
Any chick, anywhere in the world, who's talking about them meeting you as being "fate or destiny" is love bombing. Dudes just need to slow down. Fraudulent women don't have the strength to hold their facade up for too long. Guys need to learn to wait these women out.
Cats are so desperate, they aren't even willing to take the time to let the woman earn the life she plans to have by being with them.
Thanks black man…..that’s exactly what happened to me. Now I’m trapped with her mother and father living with me in California. I wake up every day wishing I had OJ’s phone number….
To avoid falling into the trap, conduct interviews while they are shopping, allowing for probing to reveal unscripted details that can enhance your understanding. Recognize that thinking they easily fall in love and becoming your girlfriend may stem from security motives, but they may not be the right partner for you
You have to test them and not give them the answers, let them talk.
STOP GIVING WOMEN MONEY. PERIOD!
It’s simple
Nice one Calvin- coming from Cebu City but going back to work.
Can you imagine what your intellect level is if this is really a life sequence? Most guys are going to go to the PI or Thailand like back in the Navy days and you should be familiar w typical sex workers..if a woman spends a couple of weeks with you and wants a house and a plot of land,, there is nothing wrong w her there is something wrong with you. If you are not giving signals and using plain language you are a fool. And if you are on a sex vacation and you are willing to play a role for some woman and her coaches,her groomers you deserve what you get..I can't imagine after the military left how much higher the stakes are.. listening to this kind of advice sounds very very dangerous..if you are giving a main actress and a big support staff 2 ,3 weeks or years to lure you in and trick or trap you, into marriage or pregnancy or something else. I am putting my money on the poor island girl and her circle and maybe some ex mamasan from an old Navy or Air Force bar. They are going to get your money..
There's 3 things you need to know about filipinas:
1) You will pay
2) You will pay
3) You will go broke
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Not just the Filipino trap, all women use it.
Guys in PH should either have 1 Filipina Girlfriend
Or none.
No reason to lead on 4 or 10 girls
Karma is a bitch and you are ruining it for guys in the future that want to maybe find a wife.
All foreigners are treated this way. Most upper-class Asian women won't deal with foreigners at all. I saw that in Korea. The ones that "mess with" foreigners are NOT innocent and it's not spontaneous. Even from the provinces.
They don't have a lot to offer or a lot of work avalible it's a poor country you should expect to look after the FAM they selling your their beautiful young daughter
just have fun dont get married. Any problems dump them. They all want money everywhere.
Most if not all Philippine girls i have had relationships with are puppets controlled by their mothers who use them as a financial source for the families, Some even have Philippine boyfriends and keep them hidden in the background until you leave for work etc , my last one ( ex ) took a shower one morning and i screenshot her mobile messages that came up even though the mobile was locked her messages were on the screen as senders ( names and where message came from ), checked the two out and yep it turned out she had a boyfriend on facebook etc , So be aware and do not rush into anything also test her for her loyalty
Calvin, so true!!!!! I just left Dumaguete yesterday and I thought you were talking about me. Keep up the good work!
Calvin Brother, the Filipina needs a Pure Heart to Love her and give commitment, 100% of the times it's 2 or 3, 2&3, or all together. I'm enjoying my GF, keep my seeds and give an option for a future commitment. That's how you should do it all guys. As well, I'd like to add a #4, which is Her Family at the Province, which they will have expectations from you, and That happen All the time. Hallelujah for your video, God Bless You
I have a friend that gets played yearly by different philipino women.
Isn't that all women 😂
Thank you Calvin! I only wish I would have listened to you back in the early 1970's! Because that's exactly what happened to me in Barbados. I was on a two week vacation to Barbados because at that time I lived in Montreal Canada. When I met her it was at a Night Club. She was the most delicious beautiful "Afro-Caribbean" girl (we were both in our mid 20's) one could ever meet or look at. Anyway we hit it off really well. I operated Vic Tanny's Fitness Clubs in Montreal and Ottawa back the so I was really fit and "hungry for love" or I should say "lust". Anyway when we parted those tears of hers melted my heart and we promised to keep in touch. Within a short while she scored a position with Lakers Airline (British) and so she showed up a few times a monthwhen her flights took her to Montreal. We used to joke about, " wouldn't it be funny if you just jumped ship and stayed with me". Well that's just what happened! Canadian Imigration doesn't appreciate that and they showed that. Sure, she could have stayed illegally in Canada but sooner or later it would have caught up to her. We got a "Student Visa" and she started to go to "Concordia University"! The second year they wouldn't renew her Student Visa! (It was payback time for doing things improperly, coming in illegally). So the option was either get married or she goes back. Sadly, she went through this same scenario 6 years previous with an American...but he sent her packing. I didn't want to break her heart so we got married in Barbados and she finished her 4 years. We moved to Vancouver later on because of the politics with the French Province of Quebec we were in (new language laws etc. So in Vancouver we started over. I agreed to two more years for her at Simon Fraser University for a Masters Degree. By then she was also a Canadian Citizen. We divorced shortly after her graduation as we just weren't that compatible any more. The true colors started to show. I could even see it early after moving to Vancouver. One thing you have to recognize is that when a woman looks like she did, she could get any man she wanted. We were seperated for a year before she started her Masters Degree and stayed with her sister in New York. Of course she's going to fool around. But her selling the $2,000. Wedding ring pissed me off. Anyway so after our divorce and 4 years later I spotted her in a car with 4 other girls at an intersection. I could see she was up to her old tricks again, like she probably was before she met me. When we broke up she was driving a nice 1980 Triumph Spitfire Convertable which I had bought for her so that she could get to Simon Fraser University which is somewhat out of the main downtown Vancouver. Well about 7 years had passed and I once again spotted her walking along Grandville and 76th. so I stopped, and got out to talk to her. She was embarrassed. She looked in rough shape and didn't want to talk to me. She had indicated previously that she could have done better (than me, and that I just wasn't sophisticated enough).
Never heard from her again. I think she probably got onto drugs and whoring around again. I doubt she made it. Meanwhile, I could have bought a house for the money she cost me!
Funny thing is, there were so many "signs" in Barbados that indicated that she was "bad news"! One fellow even approached me when he saw us together, a local, and said straight out that I was making a big mistake! Why didn't I listen?!
Your just a regular guy..i screwed off 14 yrs with a complete looser...so...did you ever meet a good woman?
😏 good story broh and yeah it sounds like there was plenty of red flags from the start, this was going nowhere even before u said 'Hello' , i feel u broh
All women these days are the same between US and Philippines in terms of mindset. The only difference is that in the The Philippines, it is more affordable (woman or resources? you decide)..
Men are in Love, Women are in business these day.
They’ve always been this way… men just now have platforms to discuss it.
What is the right way to navigate this process? Most us men want to be good to our partners, but don’t want to be taken advantage of or disrespected.
Move to a large West cost city and find one who already lives here, or ask an older Philippino at a workplace or meetup if they have any family members they can set you up with. That’s how my now Philippino wife came here to Seattle 15 years ago. There are philippino’s all over but tons in Seattle, Bay Area, and LA.
You couldn’t pay me enough to be with a Filipina woman!
I wish you were doung these videos in2010 when i first came here wow great infor.mation
The way is gay.
Liked the video but I thought it would be about "traps". lol
Yes I. Fell for it. Been 8 years of marriage. And I think she still cheating on me. On her phone always. She gets mad when I ask who it is. Now she wants me to go back to America. I want to live here in the Philippines. But I don’t know where to go. I’m in Manila now. But very expensive here. Any idea. Where are you at. What island. She don’t know how much give her every day. I understand what you’re saying. I feel it to. I’m living it. After the marriage she changed Very bossy now.
If you don't have any kids together, just leave. Unlikely she has a lot of better options, but sounds like she has trapped you in her web. A woman will always challenge and disrespect you, if you don't call her out on her BS. The more you let it go, the more they will push the envelope. Now, if you have a children together (not just her brood), you owe it them to try to make it work; otherwise, may be time to jet, or show her the door. Any smaller island will be cheaper than Manila.
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I'm married already I got my wife I'm just trying to live a peaceful life until my life is over
This video is golden....and this author has become my favorite to go to advice regarding Phillipines. By the way, some of this also applies to Western women.
Great video.
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Sad that some are like that. My fiance isn't like this and have talked about it... She admits that most filipino want a luxurious life but what american doesn't.
Dude, brought up Tom Cruise haha 😂 i subscribe on the spot right there!
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Edge of Tomorrow! My man keeping it a 💯!
I just subbed by a text message from a buddy in Carson City Nevada.. because I'm banging on a 51 y/o pina
There is no hope for true love anymore!!! This world is shit!!!
Let's see if I can rattle a few on my own.
Pregnancy scam-no DNA tests until baby is born.
Love triangle-when flippina asawa who you never knew existed walks into the picture.
Utang (debt)-usually rent,a fine or a threatening loan shark eg 5/6.
There's a heap more but the most biggest one I've encountered is emotional blackmail which, should be a national sport here.
Bruh, you're describing every woman.
I haven't met every woman 🤔
@calroach1 I've been with my Cambodian wife for 14yrs, we both in our mid 30s, living our best lives with our 15yr old mixed daughter. Women are women.
Great game. Thanks for the heads up. Women around the world can play these types of games as well. Maybe it's more organized and concentrated in The Philippines.
You want her for marriage then her entire family comes along with her.
I met my Thai wife while she was a college intern working for an entertainment company I was working with in Bangkok. She was assigned to be my concierge while I was playing on a project there. We never actually dated for another 3 months. That was 15 years ago. We took it slow. Try to find an educated woman who isn’t off the farm. Makes a huge difference! To get a girl like that though you need to really have something going for yourself because they have options with a better class of guys from her own country.
Sounds like you need to spend some time on the farm. Most big shot educated CEO's are so stupid they could not manage a coffee shop without some hard working person loaning them 5 million dollars first
@@Ttow49 Acting stupid is a method of absolving responsibility. It can be quite effective when you're unaware of the play (strategy) at hand.
if i were to choose between a Filipina trap and western woman trap I would gamble with a Filipina every time.
Them women are in poverty over there. The slums is real in the Philippines 🇵🇭....They want a different lifestyle...
My fiance mother is straight Bill Belichick, scored on me on every play sheeeesh, good game though lol 😆
Tip, Stay Single Tip# Dont Make A Baby
I had a vasectomy. They dont know this though😂
I'd like my philippina to have a really big hairy Bush. They're happy to grow it out for me
Me too, but I never kept that a secret. The surgery has been 100% effective for 13 years and counting. lol
Scripted is key. Everything happening in the world is scripted or fake.
True. The sad thing is most people want find that out until they die. If they get it while they're e still alive, they will no longer fear death and began to really live and fearlessly let it all hang out. They will see that this is all a game we were programmed to play in a certain way. I chose to become a virus in the matrix and turned everything I was programmed to think about life on it's head.
It is true that we live in a matrix of sorts. It is all about controlling the masses thru fear. We should only fear God, not man.
@Federico-ht7ks Some people choose the red pill or the blue pill in the matrix. Some know the matrix isn't real, but still want to stay there. Its about a choice, are you in or are you out?
@@Slim1423 both. Now that I see things for what they really are I'm free to enjoy it all
@Federico-ht7ks Ok. I don't you whole situation, but there is happiness there for you. These things happen in the states too.
whaaaat the fuuuuuuuuk did i fall into..?
Interesting topic.
“It’s a trap” implies the mouse is here for the cheese and in naïveté believes there is no catch. The cheese simply wants to be eaten like the commercial says.
Having struggled his whole life, finally some cheese gets it!
Consumerism.
Don’t need no special techniques to avoid that hammer falling on the neck as you swallow a yummy bite. The naive gets those commercials pumped into his head and he mindlessly eats.
Compared to our modernity in the west it is a kind of magical scenario. Ah, but along the yellow brick road, all these wonderful foliage, blue waters, and interesting people, don’t forget the wizard behind the curtain is really just a man. An “old crusty ass man”.
You worked diligently and with good faith. Provider, protector, lover, partner in crime…
You had good intentions to be real, to be honest.
But something is wrong. “Don’t need no man” is a virus of modernity. Good intentions and good heart are not the medicine that can cure it.
You’ve been groomed. Feminized. Do you even know that? Be first a man. At peace and generous with your work and heart. The whole package 🇵🇭 may be sweet cheese indeed, but the hammer is not her. It’s you.
Naive, feminized, cold, stubborn, and especially selfish; these are what the west has groomed you for.
Sure there may be scams of desperation to be aware of, but if she is a good woman then she will be trying to remind you that you can be a good man.
You are like Neo awaking in the pod of goo. The west with all its tubes of nutrition still attached and pumping into you. Consumerism, comfort, me me me.
Anyway, that’s my rumination as I consider pulling off those tubes. Sitting here in Texas, in my goo pod, surrounded by comfort and “don’t need no man.”
Don’t know if I have the strength to for another battle. Divorce is miserable but can’t I just stay here, drive my nice car, chase comfort and at the end of the day, nothing at all?
The family pull the strings especially the mother.
It seems quite natural woman needs a man for survival reasonable exchange
Well I never went there, but I can imagine how The Trap would be set ! Well explained.
You're not wrong. You have a f****d up way of looking at it, but you're not wrong. Anyway, 5 years married living in the US, 2 kids. Neither of us could be happier. I guess we both got the whole package, huh?
Some girls are in it for the long haul, others are not, this is WORLD WIDE! The percentage that are in it for the long haul is MUCH HIGHER THERE. So you need to look at it that way as well.
What a bad attitude, you fly across the globe like YOU don’t have a script, do not be a hypocrite bro. You want something too. Recognize.
Hi Cal I know of an African women vloger who got scammed by a Philippine boyfriend in the Philippines her name is Dee Mwango . You can look at her videos she did in the Philippines especially her last visit there. She made a video back in Africa where she explained the whole story. Don't remember the title but you can research it
I'll like to research what I mentioned she got scammed by a Filipino boyfriend so women also get scammed in the Philippines an interesting topic I think
Africa is such a huge continent, it is almost like saying her hemisphere! You do realize there are individual nations on ol Africa, right?
Calvin, man! You made me chuckle so much. The way you described it. Becoming sexually ensnared after the first time, the first night. Then they will want your “bread”. Of course. So they can get food, food for their families etc etc. The sex has led us right to them. That is where sex is leading us. It’s true. It’s true. They want to ensnare us with the sex.
Very good video and advice, Calvin. Happy Valentines Day to you too !
Lol. You should've been speeches at all the bases in S. Korea. I lost my damn mind at the juice bars. 11 yrs later I'm still paying only 7 mo years, but I love my child more than life.
There's plenty of old butts losing there savings.not thinking with real head
All women on earth want something in return if she giving the man what he wants in return I see no issue a fair exchange is no robbery.