How To Attract My Avoidant Ex Back
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Forget reaching out ! It’s up to them they are the ones like this . They need to sort their own ego out . They walk away they return better or not at all !
Yes! Exactly… we try to love them and they pull back all the time…. Now I need to chase too after no contact? Forget that
@@joev7014hahahah.. this is actually funny. I can relate to this situation. You put in all the work during the relationship and even after the breakup. I too felt that maybe I was a bit anxious during my relationship but turns out I’m more anxious after the breakup
@joev7014 Agree. That's where I'm at. Done with me extending myself with lack of reciprocity.
Attracting an avoidant back should never be anyone's goal. If they've become Secure, then yes, that may be a good idea.
I’m done chasing. At least point I just want that person to feel the presence of my loss. I feel bad for the next person who dates him. Dismissive avoidance people need to grow up. Understand there lack of communication will always doom any relationship. I go to school, work, and went into a relationship full force through the entire thing. Not a single amount of smothering or needy like behavior in the relationship.
I'm trying to recover my relationship with my DA, she was receptive and I thought wow we have a chance, but suddenly she's cold again. I've learnt I can not bring up a relationship at all. She backs off right away. It has to be her way, her timing. This is so difficult being an anxious.
Try not look at her stuff. Treat it like a drug addiction. Don’t talk to her or look at her stuff for 30 days. You’ll feel better
I was less anxious in the relationship and now more anxious after the breakup 🤷🏻♀️
I was very, very secure, but after so much crap, I'm feeling a bit AP, too.
@@Killernochanceit’s not you’re fault. I was secure too. Never had a problem but when I fell in love with an avoidant it changed me. Horrible communication, left always wondering if they are interested. Hot and cold all the time…. I had to leave eventually. It was draining my energy. Now I’m finally at peace but I still miss her sometimes
I was secure to start but DA triggered anxiety.
Same here
Thank you so much Alexis. This knowledge has really helped me.
I think my ex is an avoidant. Our relationship started wrong. I had anxious attachment in some of my previous relationships, but now I am more secure, when I met him I put strong boundaries but... even if he came back 3 times... he didn't commit. It's a total waste of time with DA.
I think you are brilliant 🤩
Trust me it is not you. Step one: flaw finding, hearing negative things about you that you have never heard anyone mention about you before not even in previous relationships. Step two: distancing, ghosting, ignoring, using the famous phrase I need my space. Step three: calling you needy for trying to communicate in a healthy way and trying to fix what you did not break. Step four: getting passive aggressive with you for insisting, causing you to respond in a negative way, perhpaps you got angry and said something you normally wouldn't. Step five: using the latter as a confirmation they were right about you all along. Step six: blocking you. Hey all sounds familiar? I bet it does. It is not you. Stop now before you get hurt.
Yesssss
Hi Alexis, thank you for the helpful videos!! I failed No contact 2 times and started it again 7 days ago.
How long should i wait before a new contact?
Yay!
Mine refuses to see a psychologist. He knows he needs one but absolutely said no. Said he'd rather be on his own. Relationships are too hard. That's what he said.
My DA ex opened up for a brief minute and I thought we have something to go on. As soon as I mentioned slowly getting back, she shut right back up. You will never get them to accept help, they say they are broken, destined to be alone and no one can help them. It's so difficult
@@droflivelife same here, your ex sounds just like my ex bf. they just want to be alone and not seek the help they need. I thought I made a break through one night with him and then he quickly changed his mood to quiet and distant.
@@MeeraKhaira totally agree. Any time you show any emotion, they will shut down
@@droflivelife exactly, and feel like we are blaming them for how we feel. have you been able to see your ex at all?
@Meera Khaira yeah we are actually back together but it's been really difficult because I don't feel I can be myself and express how i feel
Your quiz leaves out a lot of other choices
I've been in NC with my avoidant gf for almost 4 months. Last time I actually seen her was Christmas eve. I've heard that she's goin through a rough time with family problems right now n have been for the past year. I have a gut feeling that she was calling me restricted at all times of the day. Even late at night. It has slowed down ever since her family problems became more serious. My question is....will she ever reach out like an adult n want to talk.
Mine always does. But the cycle never ends. Is that what you want?
What about when you’re living together?! He would always come back after one week strict no contact. But since we live together now he just wants me gone, my presence triggers him. I can’t leave though yet, but while I’m preparing on leaving I’m trying to win him back
Hello, thank you for making this video 😊
My avoidant and I had plans to get married and he suddenly backed away, fear of commitment. I went no contact for 5 weeks and hr started to show me on social media that he messed up and still wants to proceed, however he isnt texting me, What do I do? I have no contact with him and want to reach out
Stay no contact. Don’t take indirect messages. Avoidants hate communicating directly because it’s hard for them but they need to learn the importance of it. In a way you teach them how to communicate with you otherwise they’ll always try to do things indirectly. If they message you directly accept it gracefully because it’s really hard for them
Any updates? Just noticed you posted 7 months ago
I work with my avoidance ex, we broke up one month ago and recently talked about what went wrong and she reached out by texting sometimes and kept far away other days... How can I really know if I have a chance to get her back?
I really wish coaches and relationship experts would tackle the fearful avoidant attachment style too. Only 5% is still 400, 000, 000 people which is equal to the entire populations of UK and USA. And many psychologists estimate the figure could be twice as many.
So for us, pretty fair chance of running into one at some point. Which I have. Now I'd like to know how to get him back, please.
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It's a combo of AP and DA, so watch both and see what works.
Manifestation works, u can try
Personal development school channel;) she's amazing
Can someone explain why the quiz asks for the name of the partner? What does a name have to do with the chances of recovering the relationship?
just trick of trade
They propose you to purchase any program they have and the program may say the name of both of you to raise your emotions
That poor plant.
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How long does no contact last for an avoidant ex boyfriend?
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It lasts as long you don't serve a purpose to them because you have to realise regardless to attachment upbringing and whatever a narsasist doesn't change there spots and there is a correlation between the behaviour of an avoident and a narsasist to many people justify the hurt an avoident causes they dont care because they don't know because they can't see you in the first place
Forever. Move on.
@@lsmith4597 attachment avoidance is not the same as narcissism, but they share the im good, you are bad world view. At the end of the day, the avoidant wont break the self serving pattern for others just like the narcissist wouldnt. Waiting for an avoidant is waiting for someone to realize your presence can be monetized. TH-camrs, influencers and health practicioners need to stop making emotionally unavailable people look datable, because love is availability. It should be obvious the more avoidant someone is, the more literally unable to love they are