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- Are you looking for dating advice? Are you aware that romantic attraction is often a subsconcious process? People decide whether they like you or not within 3 seconds or less. Fortunately, there are factors like being kind, wearing glasses that could you make you more attractive to others!
#attraction #psychology #subsconcious
We also made a video on how to attract your crush: • 8 Body Languages To At...
Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Lesly Drue (2nd animation version)
TH-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
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What's more attractive to you? Looks, background, or personality? Comment below.
Personality of
Background, I feel it could give a little into their actions and see how to read them better
Looks and personality
Background!
Personality.
Quick disclaimer: never get a pet (or a child) to get in a relationship. They aren't accessories, you have to be responsible
Well, I'm also allergic to cats or dogs, so I have a good reason to not like them as they could make me sick
correct. 👍
@@ADMICKEY I’m also allergic
But not to the dogs or cats
Facts, surprisingly tho girls love guys with kids
Yes
My boyfriend is really sweet because he pays attention to my body language and little things I say and knows when I’m sad. This helps because he knows when my anxiety and depression is making me miserable and knows how to help.
Thats sweet, hope you 2 end up great in the future.
Don't rely on your boyfriend too much to pick up on these habits of yours. You shouldn't expect your boyfriend to be able to read your mind and body actions all the time--because when the time comes where you most expect him to be there for you, he won't know unless you communicate with words. This is a bad habit you should fix.
You got a keeper. Most people don't understand anxiety and everything that comes along with it.
@@nicholestroup1770 Meaning you're unhappy that most men don't understand female anxieties. Women just don't tolerate men who exhibit depression and anxiety - they run a million miles because it's a sign of what women hate most in men - emotional weakness. Which is worst - not understanding a person's problems, or not tolerating them?
@@tonecrome3685
Most?
Dude you might want to talk to different women.
A lot of women in my life care about the mental health of men as well. The women that can't stand emotional weakness in men more than likely can't stand it women either, because it stems from an ignorance on mental health.
"The secret of attraction is to love yourself. Attractive people judge neither themselves nor others. They are open to gestures of love. They think about love, and express their love in every action." -Deepak Chopra
The problem with this quote is that most people have a screwed up idea of what love is. When you try to apply those screwed up concepts of love to self-love, it gets worse.
@@Gomba13 the quote isn't the problem. The problem is that no one really knows what love is and if they claim to, it's usually their own interpretation. Love is a feeling which affects people in various ways.
@@joncook5535 Actually, love isn't a feeling to begin with. It is an attitude. If you feel it but don't do it, it is as good as non existent. That is precisely the problem. Loving someone and being in love with someone are two completely different things, but people keep mistaking one for the other. It's why most marriages don't last.
@@Gomba13 ahh. I see your point. My mistake. You are correct my friend. Good insight. :)
@@joncook5535 Haha, it's not really insight, it's experience. I wondered about why most relationships don't work for the first half of my life, and by the time I reached middle age, I researched the question. Unfortunately, I also realized in passing that popular literature, including articles on psychology, keep getting it wrong, so people will also keep getting it wrong.
If you are interested in digging a bit, consider that being in love and loving someone are polar opposites. The person who is in love is preoccupied with their own interests (selfish) while the person who loves is preoccupied with the interests of the other person (selfless). The person who is in love is interested in what they can get from the other, while the person who loves is interested in what they can give (and not with the expectation that they will get something in return). Loving someone without being in love is healthy. Being in love with someone without actually loving them is not healthy, and it often leads to abuse.
Also, there is no point having a relationship simply because you have feelings for someone, even if the feelings are mutual. 😉
Be yourself and don’t change yourself to please others. The right person will like you just the way you are ❤️
I won’t change myself to please others, I’m only living for myself, that doesn’t change the fact I’m toxic
@@pointlessvideos940 😂
@@pointlessvideos940 plsss 😭
@@Getout634
okay but it’s true tho
I think there needs to be more context in the above statement. People still need to learn appropriate manners and behaviors and to be civilized with others. If you are suffering from depression or any number of other various issues, you may have to change and may have to seek help. Just saying “be yourself” can be confusing to kids or adults trying to understand themselves and how they fit with others.
“Just like Gojo Satoru”
WAIT- BUT HE’S ALREADY PERFECT 😩
He's more perfect when he shows his eyes.
This caught me off guard bad 💀💀💀 🤞🥺
Yeah we would have to wear them to cover our ugly eyes but he already has perfect eyes anyways
Yeah he's even good looking even when revealing his eyes
Which part is it????
1- wearing sunglasses 0:26
2- being androgynous 0:58
3- being a kind person 1:30
4- own a pet 2:22
5- clearly expressing your emotions and observing others 3:42
6- tilting your head 4:34
7- learn how to play a musical instrument 5:14
Thank you!!!
8- Stay true to yourself
i do all except sunglasses, probably being the easiest one.
@@yunaversal1099 idk why but the sunglasses one doesn’t seem right to me
@@mincat1412 yeah! and also , since i’m still in school, i wouldn’t be allowed to wear them. also i’m sure everyone would just make fun of me anyways. maybe the idea is for an older age group.
I'm sorry- someone had to to say it:
THE ANIMATION IS SO CUTE AND GOOD!!!
Aww. Glad you like Lesly's animation! She came back and made a comeback with her new skills!
The animation is making me subconsciously attracted to the carton Psi - he’s sooooo expressive with his body language!
@@Psych2go your welcome! And thanks for hearing my comment!
@@CairenGant Thanksss
I know right???? It's so fluid and expressive!
No, but the instrument part is so real. I started really liking this guy because he played piano really well.
I have to say that being an androgynous person has given me many opportunities. When I was a kid I wasn't so sociable and I had few friends but when I started high school and I began to look more androgynous, people were interested in me. It helped me make many friends, be more confident in myself and improve my social skills
That ”androgyny is attractive” thing really gave me such a confidence boost☺️
I’m just a plain ol dude, but I have feminine attributes as well and I’m proud of that.
I think everyone should have attributes of both sexes.
Same!
Same :), I'm told I look androgynous, so that made me so happy :)
Same I'm gender fluid
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I think being a musician has always worked in my favour. Being more “talented” than the general population automatically opens a lot of doors for me. Good stuff!
Yes!! Absolutely! 100% true. If you can actually play an instrument and furthermore do it well, it's all about you from then on.
Yeah I started learning the piano last year and now all my friends want to learn how to play after listening to me play.
That's good. What instruments do you play mostly?
Being depressed makes you attractive ngl I mean it worked for me
@@Glxriousss really? Then why r people getting away from me? ;)
My deepest sadness is that there is someone who pays attention to me, knows when I'm upset or anxious, notices small details about me that I think no one sees. But he is taken and it hurts to know someone who knows me so well will only ever be a friend. I hope someday I can find someone who is like him but actually available to me.
We hope you find that someone soon too
Same
Girl i know that feeling. For some reason i know a lot about this one guy i met before we ended up going silent on each other. There was no arguments or any drama before it all went silent. I can tell those kind of men are a blessing in our life, but it saddens us that their with someone else. I somehow got reminded of him after the other guy i’ve been talking to went aboard. Now i can’t forget him. What a sad thing some of us experienced.
Same but with a switch of gender.
The hard part is to give up and don't try to attract this person who live in a good relationship. However that's very painful and bad for the work ( never be that unproductive)
I'd be so lucky to just have a person like that in my life in general
"Communication is key in relationships." YES!!!! That includes respecting each other's boundaries, ALWAYS. ❤️❤️
I just love the slow, hyponatic kind voiceover, it really makes people feel like in the video, its hard to explain but I love this channel and videos!
her voice is so soothing o_O i could listen to her talk for hours- sorry if that sounds weird but like- srsly-
Yeah I know it's calming it seems like I am in therapy even though I never experienced it
@@lapetus7695 yeah you're right!!
Aww. Glad you love her voice!
I completely agree. Kinda makes me wish she made podcasts for sleeping or sth. It would be so calming!
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The facts that they mentioned Gojo and no one is talking about it...
wdym ‘no one’ so many ppl r talking abt it lol
@@durr2740 I didn't see any comment about Gojo
I SCREAMED JSJDNSNDJD
@Mathcoolb is that question a jojo reference?
Kek (I gotcha)
What's Gojo
Summary
1. Wear glasses
2. Androgynous
3. Positive person
4. Owning a pet
5. Clearly expressing your emotions and observing others
6. Tilting your head
7. Learn how to play musical instrument
Well my pet died last week so 🚶♀️
well I sold my dog not so long ago-
Thank you. I hate the ASMR, over-ennunciated whisper speak of these videos.
Tell me how I’m supposed to wear sunglasses when I wear normal, seeing glasses :”)
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I love that they distinguished between orchestra and band, because so many confuse them.
Listening to the videos really helps myself to not think about all the little stuff, and its really nice to listen cause the VO has such a calming voice
"Learn to play a musical instrument."
Me, in choir: I am the instrument.
"Congrats, you played yourself."
*New achievement unlocked: How did we get here?*
Period
You’re good with your mouth and can probably open wide.
@@mikewhocheeseharry5292 *Stares at cucumber intensely*
@@mikewhocheeseharry5292 Me, who often speaks way too fast and with my teeth basically stuck together: 🙃
THE WAY SHE SAID GOJO SATORU WAS ✨✨FLAWLESS✨✨
I mean are they wrong
lmao yesh
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One thing that has always been a good one for me is speaking foreign languages. People are fascinated by the fact I know large amounts of German and french as well as some Russian
I have huge facility to learn anything. Given my life story that forced me to move around a lot, I have applied that facility to learn to languages more than to anything else. I now speak seven languages. I have noticed that people draw the conclusion that I am incredibly intelligent, and while I do believe I am somewhat more intelligent than the average person, I don't think I am impressive either (I do meet people whose intelligence I envy). The more languages you speak, the more refined your thinking, vocabulary and use of language become, adding to your perceived intelligence. As far as I'm concerned, it's just an ease of learning and luck in having been forced to learn. I do feel a bit like an impostor when people are impressed by my mastery of languages. But hey, if people draw conclusions and that makes me attractive, who am I to contradict them? 😂
Recently started dating a man who grew up in Russia. His accent is a MAJOR attraction, plus he's a figure skater. 😍 I got home from our first date and signed up for a Duolingo course on Russian that night!
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so what i learned from this is i'm already attractive and my past crushes are just blind. good to know 😔 i hope it's different w/ my current crush
all these advices are really really good and helpful to people but in my opinion, if someone is attracted to you, he/she should be attracted to you for who you are not who you seem to be. For instance a person shouldnt have to like or own pets to seem attractive, or a person shouldnt always have to be kind to everyone. We should love everyone for their good habbits as well as their faults. Have a good dayy lyy.
How is no one talking about this animation??? It's so wonderful!!! Glad they list the animators in the descriptions because Lesly Drue did such a nice job!
Thank you :) Would you like to see more of this animation?
@@Psych2go Sure! The animation is so cute and smooth! I don't think people appreciate the animators of this channel enough, they're all so talented
I've always subconsciously tilted my head when someone's taking a picture, or I just find something interesting. I had no idea it was considered an attractive trait.
For those who want a timestamp. Have a great day/night!😊
1. 0:27- Wearing sunglasses
2. 0:58- Being androgynous
3. 1:30- Being a kind person
4. 2:22- Own a pet
5. 3:46- Clearly expressing your emotions and observing others
6. 4:35- Tilt your head
7. 5:15- Learn how to play a musical instrument
Hope this helped 🙂
Yes
Thank you!
No. 3 not real unless you mix something there. Or maybe real works for other people only. Being a kind person always make you a fool. Already done that. I was kind that time but people just keep using me like a tool, and then trashing me away when I'm not useful. and seeing me as a coward who always forgive and understand, I loved to help and see people grateful and see them smile. Now I'm not kind. I've learned this daily expression where I'm always glaring and remembering how foolish I am being too kind. I always glare so no one will bother talking to me or making fun of me out of my kindness. Instead I'm doing something kind and helping, and glaring at the same time and leaving no words behind. That's the perfect kindness for myself. I think. And I don't want to get attached to people. So I leave early/ leave their presence before I f things up. Talking too much reveals who you are and gives them the opportunity to judge you back. That's my way. I glare. Don't talk. Help and be kind at the same time. And leave as possible when you earn their trust and respect.
This video is explaining everything single thing my crush does and every thing I like about people
The head tilt really makes my heart race, everytime a classmate of mine tilt their head i find them cute, like how a dog tilts their head when they're curious, i love dogs
I'm non-binary and androgynous presenting and i can confirm this. I'm quite sure it's just the confidence i gained being less reduced to a feminine box. Now i don't have any limits in expressing my gender and j love it, and honestly? You attract more people than before. I don't know what's the science behind this but can straight people confirm in the comments? Lol
One person even told me before: "you're such a healthy mix of masculinity and femininity" and honestly, that's the best compliment I've received ever since I've stopped shying away from expressing my true self.
How do you achieve this ? help a sista out lol
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personally im bisexual and usually go for guys tho. i always go for "pretty boys" or guys that have a "pretty" face and are more fashionable or wear jewelry like earrings, necklaces, etc. they're stll masculine but having a bit of feminie to them in their features makes them reallt attractive to me.
@@noo9144 get well soon, youre disgusting ♡
@@angelbunny__ same, my partner is masculine but he’s always so fluid about expressing himself. he likes cute earrings, wears feminine scents and overall his attitude towards everything and perspective are rlly flexible :))
“Just like gojo satoru” THAT PART WAS SO CUTE I LOVED IT
I noticed that I tilt my head a lot, it's to show that I'm listening and people always point it out and it made me feel a bit insecure but now I'm happy about it
Checklist cuz why not
1. Wearing sunglasses | Do normal glasses count?-
2. Being androgynous | Yup
3. Being a kind person | Somewhat-
4. Own a pet | No :')
5. Clearly expressing your emotions and observing others | Yea mostly
6. Tilting your head | Yes- why-
7. Learn how to play a musical instrument | Yesn't
What a perfect timing for the video, as my relationship status is waiting for a miracle to happen
Same..never had a relationship hopefully that will change soon
Good luck to you both!
@@Psych2go Thank you!
How did it gooo
@@jonathanwilliams365 ?
“just like gojo satoru”
yes one of the most attractive men ever
This is the best channel for people who have crush on someone and try to express that feeling. Not only that but also it's really impressive to see other emotions like about anxiety, depression, attraction, colors etc.....for better understanding ourselves or others.
Hope your channel grows more popular .
Best Wishes from Lily from :
~🇮🇳🇯🇵~❤️
i completely get the androgynous one!! I’m into guys and when they’re even just a little feminine or do/wear something feminine it shows that they’re secure, open, and laid back compared to guys who hate anything feminine on them because they’re all NO IM A MAN IM ONLY MASCULINE!! if a guy doesn’t like femininity that’s obviously fine and great too, it’s just the guys that are ok with trying it or really have a feminine side or just sprinkle it here and there seem more laid back, fun, open minded, self expressive, and unique in comparison to guys who want to appear Uber-masculine and put down other guys that aren’t completely masculine. Also, nowadays makeup is considered feminine but even just a little makeup can enhance a guy’s facial features really well! Even just a thin line of eyeliner makes their eyes pop, and I think it’s pretty cool. Also, nowadays some clothes that are seen as feminine (for example crop tops, which were originally for men) look great on guys but they’re perceived as feminine, when just because something tends to be feminine may not mean that that person is trying to appear that way by wearing it (thought it’ll def look good either way). Opening yourself up to more looks and styles can really help you find new stuff you like and new stuff that you look really good in. This goes vice versa, girls who are open to some masculinity can give off the same thing, plus there’s the whole tomboy style that many girls look super good with.
based
i got the most manly friend and dude wears pink and white fits with silly pink glasses and the ladies love him. he's also starting to seem like the main character of my city's story but i mean thats just his shenanigans its unrelated
apart from the incredibly cute animation, i couldn't help but notice how calm and soothing your voice is. makes me feel safe 🥺❤️
If someone is just a kind person as themselves without needing to look at this video or research what makes them more attractive, etc. Then they are 10,000 percent more attractive to me. Self awareness and the need to help others just because is very attractive for me.
I don't know if this was on purpose or not, bit I really liked that the animated character had a little tummy rather than being super flat like all of us want to. Lol I know it's cringy to even point it out, but it just feels nice to see it being normally depicted. Haha ok bye
Well im a young buc whose been a pianist for quite a long time, and I have to say women found an aesthetic in that side of me. It's quite remarkable how accurate your well made videos are!
I love how your art style is different in every video, keep up the great work!
OMG THE ANIMATION IS AMAZING AAA ITS MOVING FLUIDLY OH MY GOD
I used to be in orchestra class in school. That could perhaps be why I have such a huge interest in classical music. I also love classic pop music because there are classical sounds and high discipline to it.
I used to play the clarinet in 5th though the end of 7th grade because it got way too hard.
I play the flute! Who else is in band?
I played clarinet and piano for awhile but gave up the clarinet to pursue piano more
1. Wearing sunglasses
2. Being androgynous (feminine & masculine)
3. Being a kind person
4. Own a pet
5. Clearly expressing your emotions and observing others
6. Tilt your head
7. Learn how to play a musical instrument
God bless you
Thanks for putting this together!
@@Psych2go No worries!! It's a pleasure to help people :))
wait I already have FIVE OF THESE
no one’s come to me yet tho lol
@@sophierenatajubilee8521 I go with 3-7. Same though, I do get lots of compliments (and insults) by people though.
*Can we take a moment to appreciate that GORGEOUS GOOD LOOKING animation?*
Thank you so much! Is this your favorite animation so far? :)
I can confirm about the "androgynous appearance" is right. When I tried to be a girly girl when I was younger, I felt and I think that also I wasn't really attractive but when I "came out" as tomboy, I felt and I still feeling that other people see me more attractive.
As a fact I want to say I had more boyfriends now than when I tried to be a girly girl...😁👍
Your voice is so comforting,calm and cool. I love it.
I missed 3 videos WHAT THE HELL BOOSTED THE QUALITY?
Side note, Sunglasses make everything better.
Put sunglasses on Godzilla, you get the best profile picture for anything ever.
As someone who went to art school for a while, I can say that you can basically be the life of the party if you play an instrument, especially when most of the crowd doesn't.
Her: *speaking about sunglasses*
Gojo Appears
Me: THAT'S MY MANNNNNNNNNNNN
YESSS!
I can't do all of them...except for the kindness...i have been taught to be kind to people..so thanks!
I love how each point is supported by an experiment
I don't know, I think people are attracted to me not only because I consider myself to be a kind and reasonable person, but also because there isn't anyone that I've seen quite like me. I guess the moral of the story is to try being yourself, in the most true form you can, because there's nobody quite like you out there, and there never will be anybody quite like you again.
physical attractiveness, proximity, similarity, reciprocity and familiarity👍
0:46 I did not come here for a jujutsu kaisen reference but i'm loving it anyway
the one who you care so much, give importance to, for whom you put your ego aside, the one you don't want to leave you, hurts you the most, but you still can't hate them or unlove them.
Idk why but your voice just makes me happy
By far the cutest animation ever
Thank you! Lesly is one of our amazing animators for this video!
It’s interesting that sunglasses can make someone more attractive by hiding their eyes. Usually people are attracted to others that have larger pupils or dilated pupils in their company.
It's the mystery.
A lot of people love a good mystery to solve, especially if it's a person.
No, they are not attracted to people with wider pupils. It is YOUR pupils that dilate when you are attracted to THEM. Your pupils dilating don't make you attractive. If your pupils dilate when you are with a person who isn't into you, it will literally repulse them.
@@Gomba13 LMAOOOO. Do you mean like subconsciously if they notice the sudden dilation in the pupils, they will become actually repulsed without knowing why? Or do you mean if they consciously realize your pupils are dilating because of them, they will be repulsed and know why?
@@katie5998 I mean both. Pupils dilating mean the person whose pupils dilate is attracted to you. How do you feel about a person you are not attracted to signalling their attraction to you, whether consciously or not?
Girl/guy, bye! I’m outta here! 😉
@@Gomba13 I understand what you meant about pupils dilating, I’ve heard this fact before. I thought what you said at the end was funny. I’m sorry if my comment sounded stupid, or like I was purposefully trying to be obtuse. I guess maybe I should’ve asked, “is this something that happens no matter what”.
the musical instrument one is so true.
there's this guy that i was trying to imagine myself with. and i kinda was unsure of him.
but then at the party he showed how good he is at playing guitar and i couldn't stop looking at him and the way he did those things, totally would reccomend learning to play an instrument i know it's weird but it totally works
Thank you for telling me what not to do when I'm just trying to enjoy myself! I've noticed that I do some of these things already and I get uncomfortable when I do get the unwanted attention from creeps. I will no longer be kind ♥️
This says a lot about society and it's so sad :(
yeah a lot of ppl wear sunglasses, own pets, play instruments, tilt their heads, and are considerate... trust me nobody is singling you out because you do.. geeze..
You don’t have to stop being kind. You just need to stop letting people walk all over you (with their dirty feet) and if you can’t, then move on from them.
Clicked on this because I’m worried about my date this Friday. I’ll keep in mind to take my sunglasses with me. Thanks for the tips!
I had a crush on someone who was really kind. Like reaally kind and thought it was kinda cute. But then found out they low-key flirt with everyone whom she knows that has a crush on her although she has no interest on the person crushing on her. She was also being flirty with another person that is already in a relationship which is a big nope for me. IDK I guess I was a fool to be attracted with their so called "'kindness"
Yaa... It happens a lot when we discover their personality
Yessss I do most of these!!!
Didn’t realize why I seem to be super attractive to ppl. Nice to know these things
Who else literally feels like TH-cam is their best friend during Covid ? 🍅😘😜😜
I immediately clicked on this video to try figuring out why I keep having my friends falling for me, but it didn't help as much as I'd hoped. It was a great video though!
in my opinion, something that makes me more attracted to you in being observant and remembering things. if i tell you about my dream date and you bring it up in a conversation i feel better with you than before. or pointing out a characteristic of mine that i've never told you. for example, yesterday my boyfriend told me that my eyes were a really pretty shade of blue. i know for a fact i never told him my eye color. but just knowing he was paying attention to details made me feel like a lot better about myself.
Hey remember to stay safe everyone and keep yourself first you deserve the world don’t let someone take that from you
Thanks dude
I am a kind person, and I play the piano. I observe others as well.
You're a catch!
Honestly people wearing sunglasses just makes me not really like them, because I need to see someone’s eyes to really connect with them even if I already know them
the androgynous thing made me so happy and helped my confidence sm
Androgynous pet owner who clearly expresses their emotions... Anyone else think they're describing Buffalo Bill form Silence of the Lambs? 🎃😄🎃
I'm thinking about Angel Dust from Hazbin Hotel.
Haha!! I can absolutely hand on heart agree with the last one. I play guitar, sometimes outside my house by the river. I can't tell you how many times on some days in the summer when the weather is just right. I'm in a great mood and I'm slaying every note I hit. I get a lot of looks and even people surround me at a distance to listen. Mostly all girls.
It is also a massive shame I am a huge introvert and am still single. Go figure!
Things that subconsciously attract others to you: Tilting head
Me: "Imma tilt my head eternally from now on."
I love how I checked if this was posted in April 1st the second I saw eyeglasses
I was insecure about the fact that I don't dress very feminine. Now I feel better. Thank you ❤
This animation is so beautiful
Ikr!!
I haven't read the study on playing musical instruments and attractiveness but... It seems strange that the MAIN reason people whom play an instrument are seen as more attractive is due to a perceived higher cognitive process. Music speaks highly to our emotions, in my experience people are attracted to musicians because they were somehow touched by the emotions that music can produce, plus it also make you look more intense emotionally, and of course, performing well gives you a certain "alpha" aura...
i do all except wearing sunglasses, even though that’s probably the easiest one
As soon as you stop wanting it so bad. Like just keep rolling. The world is big. Someone else is waiting for you. While others are pushing you away. Why not move forth and find those who are seeking you
this gives me some "to be happy just be happy" vibes honestly this entire channel gives me those vibes :/
Being kind and wearing glasses really help,in my case is my easy way to describe to explain things and how serious and thoughtful I say the things, example my girlfriend love the way I support her using words and she loves my poems
Pd:I can't really think of a poem right now because my first lenguage is not English
We stan Gojo 🛐
Lol yaa 😄😌👍
Yesss
I was literally just watching your other videos right now. I love you guys and thank you you much for all the help 💗 😊
Aww. Glad you enjoyed them. Makes us happy!
I naturally tilt my head to the right when im confused or when im asking someone something, it’s like second nature- so good to know it’s useful for something😭😭😭
i like how i watch these videos, expecting myself to be more attractive just by knowing the points.
Someone once said that your actions have a way of coming back to you, also my pet would be a guinea pig because they are easy. Also I already have an instrument but I’m just too afraid to show it, it’s my voice. I do sing along in my room when by myself, when watching a tv show, I tend to make jokes or commentate. I also get the jitters rather than chills (jitters meaning my whole body shaking with excitement)
Guinea Pigs are not easy, please do your research. Most easy pet is quite literally a fish and even they still need specific care. Have a pet that uplifts you and brings you joy, so the work put into keeping it healthy and happy is worth it.
@@starr2shine738 listen, I have guinea pigs myself, they are the easiest Rodent to take care of, easier than rats at least, I never said that they weren’t hard, I just said that they were easy, they are hard as well but not as hard as a dog or a cat. Trust me, I had a fish before, and yes they are easy, but they don’t do much of anything but swim around.
@@PokidotGamerX
Sorry, I just see too many people say an animal is easy and then not know what they're doing. lol
@@starr2shine738 no worries I get it, some people forget to research before getting a pet. I do have to say some responsibilities with owning guinea pigs are hard, for example finding out a way to hold them, having to figure out what the noises they make mean and how to deal with their illness, having to clip their nails, etc. I did a lot of research and watched a lot of videos on what food to get them, and what medicine they need. But I get why you thought I didn't do my research.
The animations are amazing
Thanks!
"Women may acquire genetic benefits for offspring by selecting musicians able to create more complex music as sexual partners" well that explains why Bach had like 20 kids
*cries in Beethoven*
@@ryanstarlight8018 F to pay respects
This channel covers so much, and I don't mind it, they're relationship advice, psychological advice, and many other type of advice. Thank you Phych2Go, thank you.
Listening to her voice is really calming my senses 💗
I always hear that women are attracted to money. So I always tape myself in dollar bills before I leave the house, so far it hasn't worked.
ok
😭😭😭😭
Keep manifesting 🙌
@@Psych2go what is he manifesting? Just curious.
Please stop repeating that old misogyny. No. Women are NOT "attracted to money." It is hateful and irrational to spread that old rhetoric. The past 2 months I have met two different men who wouldn't shut up about their money and blah, blah, blah. BOTH of them now live in rooms because their partners of over 25 years have left them. Why? Because neither of those men had anything to offer another human being. They bought into the old biblical lie about "men are providers, blah, blah, blah."
If money stopped existing right this very moment, men who whine, "women are attracted to money" would learn quickly that they've bought into a worldwide lie that turns them into useless machines, and women into commodities to be bought and sold.
Stop it. A woman will go with a man who respects himself, is kind, has interest in *her* and has something greater than himself to live for. Men who obsess about money have none of those things. Money cannot buy what matters so if you keep peddling that lie about women, you DESERVE to attract the sort of person who will treat you like a wallet and will walk away with said money once the novelty wears off and it becomes evident that you have no personality, no interests, no kindness, and no humour.
It is what you expected for your life. Be warned.
Being a kind person is my type ❤️❤️❤️
Also, the music calms my heart, thank you ♥️♥️♥️
Me and my crush both own dogs and we both play the sax, so this gives me hope.
Good luck 🤞
@@sayurisdigitaldiary thanks 😊
Ah. Wonderful! I'm sure when the time comes, you and your crush can perform for your dogs' date.
The Gojo reference had me SOLD-
I will now wear sunglasses for the rest of my life in hopes of attracting a fellow Gojo simp ✋🏽😭🙏🏼
For most of life, even during my puberty years I was never interested in making any relationships. However Im starting to realize a hand full of girls have shown interest in me which gave me a huge boost in confidence. Within a year I have noticed 5 girls doing exactly that but because Im still relatively young I think I should put my life first and then relationships
Is there a bigger reason why im completely fine and confident talking to anyone and telling em how i feel online and not at all almost in real life?
You’re a product of your environment. Lately I’ve met more narcissistic people than I recall ever in life and they’re at their most expressive when they’re online. Good and bad … there’s no repercussions to cursing at a stranger over the net and it’s easier to verbalize love for another. But face to face, a heated conversation might get cut short with violence or affection might be dismissed. It’s a cesspool of delusional communication and altered reality.