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- Are you looking for dating advice? Are you aware that romantic attraction is often a subsconcious process? People decide whether they like you or not within 3 seconds or less. Fortunately, there are factors like being kind, wearing glasses that could you make you more attractive to others!
#attraction #psychology #subsconcious
We also made a video on how to attract your crush: • 8 Body Languages To At...
Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Lesly Drue (2nd animation version)
TH-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
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What's more attractive to you? Looks, background, or personality? Comment below.
Personality of
Background, I feel it could give a little into their actions and see how to read them better
Looks and personality
Background!
Personality.
Quick disclaimer: never get a pet (or a child) to get in a relationship. They aren't accessories, you have to be responsible
Well, I'm also allergic to cats or dogs, so I have a good reason to not like them as they could make me sick
correct. 👍
@@ADMICKEY I’m also allergic
But not to the dogs or cats
Facts, surprisingly tho girls love guys with kids
Yes
"The secret of attraction is to love yourself. Attractive people judge neither themselves nor others. They are open to gestures of love. They think about love, and express their love in every action." -Deepak Chopra
The problem with this quote is that most people have a screwed up idea of what love is. When you try to apply those screwed up concepts of love to self-love, it gets worse.
@@Gomba13 the quote isn't the problem. The problem is that no one really knows what love is and if they claim to, it's usually their own interpretation. Love is a feeling which affects people in various ways.
@@joncook5535 Actually, love isn't a feeling to begin with. It is an attitude. If you feel it but don't do it, it is as good as non existent. That is precisely the problem. Loving someone and being in love with someone are two completely different things, but people keep mistaking one for the other. It's why most marriages don't last.
@@Gomba13 ahh. I see your point. My mistake. You are correct my friend. Good insight. :)
@@joncook5535 Haha, it's not really insight, it's experience. I wondered about why most relationships don't work for the first half of my life, and by the time I reached middle age, I researched the question. Unfortunately, I also realized in passing that popular literature, including articles on psychology, keep getting it wrong, so people will also keep getting it wrong.
If you are interested in digging a bit, consider that being in love and loving someone are polar opposites. The person who is in love is preoccupied with their own interests (selfish) while the person who loves is preoccupied with the interests of the other person (selfless). The person who is in love is interested in what they can get from the other, while the person who loves is interested in what they can give (and not with the expectation that they will get something in return). Loving someone without being in love is healthy. Being in love with someone without actually loving them is not healthy, and it often leads to abuse.
Also, there is no point having a relationship simply because you have feelings for someone, even if the feelings are mutual. 😉
Be yourself and don’t change yourself to please others. The right person will like you just the way you are ❤️
I won’t change myself to please others, I’m only living for myself, that doesn’t change the fact I’m toxic
@@pointlessvideos940 😂
@@pointlessvideos940 plsss 😭
@@Getout634
okay but it’s true tho
I think there needs to be more context in the above statement. People still need to learn appropriate manners and behaviors and to be civilized with others. If you are suffering from depression or any number of other various issues, you may have to change and may have to seek help. Just saying “be yourself” can be confusing to kids or adults trying to understand themselves and how they fit with others.
1- wearing sunglasses 0:26
2- being androgynous 0:58
3- being a kind person 1:30
4- own a pet 2:22
5- clearly expressing your emotions and observing others 3:42
6- tilting your head 4:34
7- learn how to play a musical instrument 5:14
My boyfriend is really sweet because he pays attention to my body language and little things I say and knows when I’m sad. This helps because he knows when my anxiety and depression is making me miserable and knows how to help.
Thats sweet, hope you 2 end up great in the future.
Don't rely on your boyfriend too much to pick up on these habits of yours. You shouldn't expect your boyfriend to be able to read your mind and body actions all the time--because when the time comes where you most expect him to be there for you, he won't know unless you communicate with words. This is a bad habit you should fix.
You got a keeper. Most people don't understand anxiety and everything that comes along with it.
@@nicholestroup1770 Meaning you're unhappy that most men don't understand female anxieties. Women just don't tolerate men who exhibit depression and anxiety - they run a million miles because it's a sign of what women hate most in men - emotional weakness. Which is worst - not understanding a person's problems, or not tolerating them?
@@tonecrome3685
Most?
Dude you might want to talk to different women.
A lot of women in my life care about the mental health of men as well. The women that can't stand emotional weakness in men more than likely can't stand it women either, because it stems from an ignorance on mental health.
“Just like Gojo Satoru”
WAIT- BUT HE’S ALREADY PERFECT 😩
He's more perfect when he shows his eyes.
This caught me off guard bad 💀💀💀 🤞🥺
Yeah we would have to wear them to cover our ugly eyes but he already has perfect eyes anyways
Yeah he's even good looking even when revealing his eyes
Which part is it????
I have to say that being an androgynous person has given me many opportunities. When I was a kid I wasn't so sociable and I had few friends but when I started high school and I began to look more androgynous, people were interested in me. It helped me make many friends, be more confident in myself and improve my social skills
No, but the instrument part is so real. I started really liking this guy because he played piano really well.
"Learn to play a musical instrument."
Me, in choir: I am the instrument.
"Congrats, you played yourself."
*New achievement unlocked: How did we get here?*
Period
You’re good with your mouth and can probably open wide.
@@mikewhocheeseharry5292 *Stares at cucumber intensely*
@@mikewhocheeseharry5292 Me, who often speaks way too fast and with my teeth basically stuck together: 🙃
I'm sorry- someone had to to say it:
THE ANIMATION IS SO CUTE AND GOOD!!!
Aww. Glad you like Lesly's animation! She came back and made a comeback with her new skills!
The animation is making me subconsciously attracted to the carton Psi - he’s sooooo expressive with his body language!
@@Psych2go your welcome! And thanks for hearing my comment!
@@CairenGant Thanksss
I know right???? It's so fluid and expressive!
I just love the slow, hyponatic kind voiceover, it really makes people feel like in the video, its hard to explain but I love this channel and videos!
"Communication is key in relationships." YES!!!! That includes respecting each other's boundaries, ALWAYS. ❤️❤️
That ”androgyny is attractive” thing really gave me such a confidence boost☺️
I’m just a plain ol dude, but I have feminine attributes as well and I’m proud of that.
I think everyone should have attributes of both sexes.
Same!
Same :), I'm told I look androgynous, so that made me so happy :)
Same I'm gender fluid
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Listening to the videos really helps myself to not think about all the little stuff, and its really nice to listen cause the VO has such a calming voice
I love how your art style is different in every video, keep up the great work!
I think being a musician has always worked in my favour. Being more “talented” than the general population automatically opens a lot of doors for me. Good stuff!
Yes!! Absolutely! 100% true. If you can actually play an instrument and furthermore do it well, it's all about you from then on.
Yeah I started learning the piano last year and now all my friends want to learn how to play after listening to me play.
That's good. What instruments do you play mostly?
Being depressed makes you attractive ngl I mean it worked for me
@@Thatbitch222 really? Then why r people getting away from me? ;)
My deepest sadness is that there is someone who pays attention to me, knows when I'm upset or anxious, notices small details about me that I think no one sees. But he is taken and it hurts to know someone who knows me so well will only ever be a friend. I hope someday I can find someone who is like him but actually available to me.
We hope you find that someone soon too
Same
Girl i know that feeling. For some reason i know a lot about this one guy i met before we ended up going silent on each other. There was no arguments or any drama before it all went silent. I can tell those kind of men are a blessing in our life, but it saddens us that their with someone else. I somehow got reminded of him after the other guy i’ve been talking to went aboard. Now i can’t forget him. What a sad thing some of us experienced.
Same but with a switch of gender.
The hard part is to give up and don't try to attract this person who live in a good relationship. However that's very painful and bad for the work ( never be that unproductive)
I'd be so lucky to just have a person like that in my life in general
apart from the incredibly cute animation, i couldn't help but notice how calm and soothing your voice is. makes me feel safe 🥺❤️
OMG THE ANIMATION IS AMAZING AAA ITS MOVING FLUIDLY OH MY GOD
her voice is so soothing o_O i could listen to her talk for hours- sorry if that sounds weird but like- srsly-
Yeah I know it's calming it seems like I am in therapy even though I never experienced it
@@lapetus7695 yeah you're right!!
Aww. Glad you love her voice!
I completely agree. Kinda makes me wish she made podcasts for sleeping or sth. It would be so calming!
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THE WAY SHE SAID GOJO SATORU WAS ✨✨FLAWLESS✨✨
I mean are they wrong
lmao yesh
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Your voice is so comforting,calm and cool. I love it.
so what i learned from this is i'm already attractive and my past crushes are just blind. good to know 😔 i hope it's different w/ my current crush
The facts that they mentioned Gojo and no one is talking about it...
wdym ‘no one’ so many ppl r talking abt it lol
@@durr2740 I didn't see any comment about Gojo
I SCREAMED JSJDNSNDJD
@Mathcoolb is that question a jojo reference?
Kek (I gotcha)
What's Gojo
Summary
1. Wear glasses
2. Androgynous
3. Positive person
4. Owning a pet
5. Clearly expressing your emotions and observing others
6. Tilting your head
7. Learn how to play musical instrument
Well my pet died last week so 🚶♀️
well I sold my dog not so long ago-
Thank you. I hate the ASMR, over-ennunciated whisper speak of these videos.
Tell me how I’m supposed to wear sunglasses when I wear normal, seeing glasses :”)
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this new animation style is so smooth and nice 😍
I love listening to your videos while I'm doing something else. Your voice is so soothing and I can relate to some of the advice you give. Thank you for making videos about mental health!
One thing that has always been a good one for me is speaking foreign languages. People are fascinated by the fact I know large amounts of German and french as well as some Russian
I have huge facility to learn anything. Given my life story that forced me to move around a lot, I have applied that facility to learn to languages more than to anything else. I now speak seven languages. I have noticed that people draw the conclusion that I am incredibly intelligent, and while I do believe I am somewhat more intelligent than the average person, I don't think I am impressive either (I do meet people whose intelligence I envy). The more languages you speak, the more refined your thinking, vocabulary and use of language become, adding to your perceived intelligence. As far as I'm concerned, it's just an ease of learning and luck in having been forced to learn. I do feel a bit like an impostor when people are impressed by my mastery of languages. But hey, if people draw conclusions and that makes me attractive, who am I to contradict them? 😂
Recently started dating a man who grew up in Russia. His accent is a MAJOR attraction, plus he's a figure skater. 😍 I got home from our first date and signed up for a Duolingo course on Russian that night!
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I've always subconsciously tilted my head when someone's taking a picture, or I just find something interesting. I had no idea it was considered an attractive trait.
The animations in your videos are so adorable ,, tysm for this !!
This video is explaining everything single thing my crush does and every thing I like about people
“Just like gojo satoru” THAT PART WAS SO CUTE I LOVED IT
How is no one talking about this animation??? It's so wonderful!!! Glad they list the animators in the descriptions because Lesly Drue did such a nice job!
Thank you :) Would you like to see more of this animation?
@@Psych2go Sure! The animation is so cute and smooth! I don't think people appreciate the animators of this channel enough, they're all so talented
This channel covers so much, and I don't mind it, they're relationship advice, psychological advice, and many other type of advice. Thank you Phych2Go, thank you.
Idk why but your voice just makes me happy
“just like gojo satoru”
yes one of the most attractive men ever
What a perfect timing for the video, as my relationship status is waiting for a miracle to happen
Same..never had a relationship hopefully that will change soon
Good luck to you both!
@@Psych2go Thank you!
How did it gooo
@@jonathanwilliams365 ?
the androgynous thing made me so happy and helped my confidence sm
Thank you for telling me what not to do when I'm just trying to enjoy myself! I've noticed that I do some of these things already and I get uncomfortable when I do get the unwanted attention from creeps. I will no longer be kind ♥️
This says a lot about society and it's so sad :(
yeah a lot of ppl wear sunglasses, own pets, play instruments, tilt their heads, and are considerate... trust me nobody is singling you out because you do.. geeze..
You don’t have to stop being kind. You just need to stop letting people walk all over you (with their dirty feet) and if you can’t, then move on from them.
For those who want a timestamp. Have a great day/night!😊
1. 0:27- Wearing sunglasses
2. 0:58- Being androgynous
3. 1:30- Being a kind person
4. 2:22- Own a pet
5. 3:46- Clearly expressing your emotions and observing others
6. 4:35- Tilt your head
7. 5:15- Learn how to play a musical instrument
Hope this helped 🙂
Yes
Thank you!
i cannot listen to this, your voice is too pretty for my heart to handle rn
your voice is so calming !
The head tilt really makes my heart race, everytime a classmate of mine tilt their head i find them cute, like how a dog tilts their head when they're curious, i love dogs
damn
psych 2 go makes me feel confident asf..
Same psych2go really know’s how to make me feel less insecure and I’m definitely an insecure person oof
Frfr
Thank you! We're rooting for you too!
I think thats the goal
your voice is so calm im in lovee.
Just wanna say this person's voice is very soothing and I really like the voice pared with the animation style ^-^
Her: *speaking about sunglasses*
Gojo Appears
Me: THAT'S MY MANNNNNNNNNNNN
YESSS!
I don't know if this was on purpose or not, bit I really liked that the animated character had a little tummy rather than being super flat like all of us want to. Lol I know it's cringy to even point it out, but it just feels nice to see it being normally depicted. Haha ok bye
Can i just point out how much calming is your voice
I never knew this video could be so helpful🔥🔥🌊🌊💯💯
By far the cutest animation ever
Thank you! Lesly is one of our amazing animators for this video!
I used to be in orchestra class in school. That could perhaps be why I have such a huge interest in classical music. I also love classic pop music because there are classical sounds and high discipline to it.
I used to play the clarinet in 5th though the end of 7th grade because it got way too hard.
I play the flute! Who else is in band?
I played clarinet and piano for awhile but gave up the clarinet to pursue piano more
this video feels like one big compliment
ur voice is so calming:D
I'm non-binary and androgynous presenting and i can confirm this. I'm quite sure it's just the confidence i gained being less reduced to a feminine box. Now i don't have any limits in expressing my gender and j love it, and honestly? You attract more people than before. I don't know what's the science behind this but can straight people confirm in the comments? Lol
One person even told me before: "you're such a healthy mix of masculinity and femininity" and honestly, that's the best compliment I've received ever since I've stopped shying away from expressing my true self.
How do you achieve this ? help a sista out lol
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personally im bisexual and usually go for guys tho. i always go for "pretty boys" or guys that have a "pretty" face and are more fashionable or wear jewelry like earrings, necklaces, etc. they're stll masculine but having a bit of feminie to them in their features makes them reallt attractive to me.
@@noo9144 get well soon, youre disgusting ♡
@@angelbunny__ same, my partner is masculine but he’s always so fluid about expressing himself. he likes cute earrings, wears feminine scents and overall his attitude towards everything and perspective are rlly flexible :))
1. Wearing sunglasses
2. Being androgynous (feminine & masculine)
3. Being a kind person
4. Own a pet
5. Clearly expressing your emotions and observing others
6. Tilt your head
7. Learn how to play a musical instrument
God bless you
Thanks for putting this together!
@@Psych2go No worries!! It's a pleasure to help people :))
wait I already have FIVE OF THESE
no one’s come to me yet tho lol
@@sophierenatajubilee8521 I go with 3-7. Same though, I do get lots of compliments (and insults) by people though.
head tilt is my fav it’s so cute i’m going to start doing it
I love how each point is supported by an experiment
Well im a young buc whose been a pianist for quite a long time, and I have to say women found an aesthetic in that side of me. It's quite remarkable how accurate your well made videos are!
This is the best channel for people who have crush on someone and try to express that feeling. Not only that but also it's really impressive to see other emotions like about anxiety, depression, attraction, colors etc.....for better understanding ourselves or others.
Hope your channel grows more popular .
Best Wishes from Lily from :
~🇮🇳🇯🇵~❤️
Listening to her voice is really calming my senses 💗
no.5 is definitely what I've been through with my first ever girl bestfriend 😁 I talked to her while she was in red flags time and while I'm just trying to find a friend. Couple months later were both bestfriend but not into each other 😌
I missed 3 videos WHAT THE HELL BOOSTED THE QUALITY?
Side note, Sunglasses make everything better.
Put sunglasses on Godzilla, you get the best profile picture for anything ever.
THE ANIMATION CHANGE FOR THE BETTER WHAT!?, Way different from last videos, very proud of you!!
I can confirm about the "androgynous appearance" is right. When I tried to be a girly girl when I was younger, I felt and I think that also I wasn't really attractive but when I "came out" as tomboy, I felt and I still feeling that other people see me more attractive.
As a fact I want to say I had more boyfriends now than when I tried to be a girly girl...😁👍
Her voice is so soothing
Who else literally feels like TH-cam is their best friend during Covid ? 🍅😘😜😜
0:46 I did not come here for a jujutsu kaisen reference but i'm loving it anyway
Your videos overall just make my day better thank you smm
Your voice are sooo calming
*Can we take a moment to appreciate that GORGEOUS GOOD LOOKING animation?*
Thank you so much! Is this your favorite animation so far? :)
As someone who went to art school for a while, I can say that you can basically be the life of the party if you play an instrument, especially when most of the crowd doesn't.
This TH-cam Channel is just so beneficial
Bruuuuh ur voice is so relaxing ✨✨✨
It’s interesting that sunglasses can make someone more attractive by hiding their eyes. Usually people are attracted to others that have larger pupils or dilated pupils in their company.
It's the mystery.
A lot of people love a good mystery to solve, especially if it's a person.
No, they are not attracted to people with wider pupils. It is YOUR pupils that dilate when you are attracted to THEM. Your pupils dilating don't make you attractive. If your pupils dilate when you are with a person who isn't into you, it will literally repulse them.
@@Gomba13 LMAOOOO. Do you mean like subconsciously if they notice the sudden dilation in the pupils, they will become actually repulsed without knowing why? Or do you mean if they consciously realize your pupils are dilating because of them, they will be repulsed and know why?
@@katie5998 I mean both. Pupils dilating mean the person whose pupils dilate is attracted to you. How do you feel about a person you are not attracted to signalling their attraction to you, whether consciously or not?
Girl/guy, bye! I’m outta here! 😉
@@Gomba13 I understand what you meant about pupils dilating, I’ve heard this fact before. I thought what you said at the end was funny. I’m sorry if my comment sounded stupid, or like I was purposefully trying to be obtuse. I guess maybe I should’ve asked, “is this something that happens no matter what”.
This animation is so beautiful
Ikr!!
The last one is so trueee for me :] I've recently listened to my crush play a piano in front of me and it made him more attractive for me :"]
Yessssss! This is my favorite video 📹! ❤
Things that subconsciously attract others to you: Tilting head
Me: "Imma tilt my head eternally from now on."
I am a kind person, and I play the piano. I observe others as well.
You're a catch!
Did you just reference Gojo-sensei!?!?!!!! Imma SMASH that like!
in my opinion, something that makes me more attracted to you in being observant and remembering things. if i tell you about my dream date and you bring it up in a conversation i feel better with you than before. or pointing out a characteristic of mine that i've never told you. for example, yesterday my boyfriend told me that my eyes were a really pretty shade of blue. i know for a fact i never told him my eye color. but just knowing he was paying attention to details made me feel like a lot better about myself.
I had a crush on someone who was really kind. Like reaally kind and thought it was kinda cute. But then found out they low-key flirt with everyone whom she knows that has a crush on her although she has no interest on the person crushing on her. She was also being flirty with another person that is already in a relationship which is a big nope for me. IDK I guess I was a fool to be attracted with their so called "'kindness"
Yaa... It happens a lot when we discover their personality
Yessss I do most of these!!!
Didn’t realize why I seem to be super attractive to ppl. Nice to know these things
I love how I checked if this was posted in April 1st the second I saw eyeglasses
I can't do all of them...except for the kindness...i have been taught to be kind to people..so thanks!
physical attractiveness, proximity, similarity, reciprocity and familiarity👍
i do all except wearing sunglasses, even though that’s probably the easiest one
all these advices are really really good and helpful to people but in my opinion, if someone is attracted to you, he/she should be attracted to you for who you are not who you seem to be. For instance a person shouldnt have to like or own pets to seem attractive, or a person shouldnt always have to be kind to everyone. We should love everyone for their good habbits as well as their faults. Have a good dayy lyy.
Woahh great animation and tips
I was literally just watching your other videos right now. I love you guys and thank you you much for all the help 💗 😊
Aww. Glad you enjoyed them. Makes us happy!
Me and my crush both own dogs and we both play the sax, so this gives me hope.
Good luck 🤞
@@sayurisdigitaldiary thanks 😊
Ah. Wonderful! I'm sure when the time comes, you and your crush can perform for your dogs' date.
This animation satisfies my but also makes me have a fight or flight response
She really said gojo..I'm subscribed
the musical instrument one is so true.
there's this guy that i was trying to imagine myself with. and i kinda was unsure of him.
but then at the party he showed how good he is at playing guitar and i couldn't stop looking at him and the way he did those things, totally would reccomend learning to play an instrument i know it's weird but it totally works
We stan Gojo 🛐
Lol yaa 😄😌👍
Yesss
For most of life, even during my puberty years I was never interested in making any relationships. However Im starting to realize a hand full of girls have shown interest in me which gave me a huge boost in confidence. Within a year I have noticed 5 girls doing exactly that but because Im still relatively young I think I should put my life first and then relationships
I immediately clicked on this video to try figuring out why I keep having my friends falling for me, but it didn't help as much as I'd hoped. It was a great video though!
I love you’re Channel it helped me a lot thank you keep the good work up❤️✨