6 Subtle Behaviors To Make Others Like You Instantly

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  • Do you want others to like you? We all have something that makes us great to someone out there. Are you looking for advice on how to develop some likable behaviors and habits that get others to notice you? To help you become an even greater person, here are some subtle behaviors that can make others like you.
    If you want to look for advice on how to make your crush like you... or even chase you, we have a video on that too: • 6 Behaviors That Make ...
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  • @yesicalicht4882
    @yesicalicht4882 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8786

    "They wanna see you're human."
    Aliens:
    -Noted.

    • @blackroberts6290
      @blackroberts6290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      blue kinda sus

    • @dubdu3674
      @dubdu3674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Ngl well said

    • @dubdu3674
      @dubdu3674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@blackroberts6290 no

    • @veramelendres1123
      @veramelendres1123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      O.O B-But I am not an alien (mind: Oh no, Almost busted my cover. O.O)

    • @wesley-zl6gf
      @wesley-zl6gf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      lol

  • @booppow7497
    @booppow7497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3353

    Me when I was 5: Making friends with people.
    13 yo me: not able to socialize unless someone starts a conversation.

    • @raccoon6997
      @raccoon6997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Same

    • @mohammadabdullahi9308
      @mohammadabdullahi9308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Same😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @lovelykitty42
      @lovelykitty42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      starting a conversation is low key kinda hard

    • @azukichiu
      @azukichiu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      People are more likely to care about what others think of them during teenage years:) it's completely normal!

    • @MGrace-bu3le
      @MGrace-bu3le 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I have no idea what happened!! Same

  • @amie3365
    @amie3365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    1. Call them by their name/say their name.
    2. Give genuine spontaneous compliments.
    3. Spend time with them/have a quick chat/develop familiarity.
    4. You don't have to be or look perfect, nobody is perfect and people don't really care that much. Keeping it real may be more attractive.
    5. Positives first, only show negativity when needed.
    6. Actively listen, let others talk.
    7. Be you!

  • @memor22
    @memor22 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    "people who are happier make people happy just by being next to them"
    that just warmed up my heart, i have never felt more confident being myself! thank you very much

  • @unicorncrafter3034
    @unicorncrafter3034 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6839

    Introverts like me: *Write that down, write that down!*

    • @professorcube5104
      @professorcube5104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Yes

    • @heemeen5202
      @heemeen5202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      There is a chance u might like me instantly because i read your comment

    • @potatoe1319
      @potatoe1319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      OK that was funny I'm a little introverted I'm social but I get burnt out easily and like my alone time I'm glad my school friends know that and let me be alone when I need it

    • @skone3791
      @skone3791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      yesyesyes

    • @kusuragikun3717
      @kusuragikun3717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Why must you call me out

  • @nicoleonfeels
    @nicoleonfeels 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23977

    Imagine shifting the narrative of “will they like me?” to “will I like them?” 🤔

    • @_the_priwinl_1374
      @_the_priwinl_1374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +756

      Yes maybe I'll dont like them 👉🏻👈🏻🤣

    • @tommygunn6901
      @tommygunn6901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +674

      Yeah! That's a good way to approach that.

    • @loaf3876
      @loaf3876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +176

      @@thewriteinpresident wtf

    • @FriedFreya
      @FriedFreya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Ugh ikr ;-; 💔

    • @tohi1767
      @tohi1767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      *Mind blown*

  • @DJ_not_DJ
    @DJ_not_DJ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    If anyone else is like me and trying to change from an introverted person into an extroverted person in order to become more interesting to others and make friends definitely follow the tips about being positive and actively listening to others. These two have definitely been helping me quite a bit lately when meeting new people or even in current relationships

    • @curlyfriesss2380
      @curlyfriesss2380 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      You don’t have to be extroverted to become more interesting :) I’m personally an introvert but I have made many friends as time went by you could say I’m a loud introvert, don’t change urself to make others like u, yes u can improve on yourself if you feel the need to but the best people come for the real u it’s great that the tips have helped u, but please please don’t change urself just to make friends sorry for this I just felt like saying it 😅

    • @KevinDuckworth-ov2pe
      @KevinDuckworth-ov2pe 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly, being an introvert doesn’t mean you have to be bad with social skills or the like, it just means your personality and stuff is different, plus no one is really completely an introvert or extrovert of course

    • @vxnuex9365
      @vxnuex9365 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      YESS FR THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT IM DOING

    • @Joshscuntservice
      @Joshscuntservice 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trying to change who you are is just the stupid of stupid. You can improve on your flaws and try to change for better but why change the someone you took literally your entire life until now to build? You don't need to force changes, time will do it for you.
      What you're trying to do is to have a mental breakdown, I think you're not far from it.

  • @airtiger4577
    @airtiger4577 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    As an introvert, I see method 6 as a win

    • @GummyDaCow
      @GummyDaCow หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same lol

  • @SodaliteSushi
    @SodaliteSushi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3717

    This video:
    Sociopaths: *write that down write that down*

    • @laszlo9285
      @laszlo9285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +195

      this, but unironicaly

    • @mindworms5181
      @mindworms5181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      Hi welcome to my school where everyone is a sociopath

    • @augwa5645
      @augwa5645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      sToP PErSonALly AtTacKinG mEeeeEeeeeEeEEEEEEEEE

    • @melaniescribbles
      @melaniescribbles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Don't forget the rest of the dark triad, you can practically hear them scribbling down notes in the distance.

    • @lemonwater7169
      @lemonwater7169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😂

  • @ICEcoldJT
    @ICEcoldJT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3925

    “There will always be someone who can’t see your worth. Don’t let it be you.” 🙏🏽

    • @Dayserking
      @Dayserking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      We are our worst enemy 😔

    • @Kat-pb5lc
      @Kat-pb5lc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      @@Dayserking and our best allies

    • @arianacaro5579
      @arianacaro5579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ouch

    • @juliakay7446
      @juliakay7446 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Too late....

    • @clarkmagdadaro51
      @clarkmagdadaro51 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My mum and my crush

  • @savibanana
    @savibanana ปีที่แล้ว +24

    A tip for #6:
    Repeat what they say back to them.
    This not only confirms that you haven't misheard anything, but also lets them know that you have been paying attention

  • @delafontainedoes7664
    @delafontainedoes7664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    This eased my nerves so much. I'm going for my training shift at a new job tomorrow and I'll be buddying up with someone the whole time - hearing that people actually prefer flaws to perfection made me feel so much better. Thank you!

  • @DomiAnimations
    @DomiAnimations 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12404

    Here’s all the tips if ya want (:
    1. Call them by their name
    2: Give genuine compliments when they across your mind
    3. Spend more time with them
    4. You don’t need to be perfect, so stop acting as if you are.
    5. look to the positive first
    6. You actively listen and let others talk about themselves too

    • @aubrey0324
      @aubrey0324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Thank you so much!

    • @mellowblueu
      @mellowblueu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      i actually hate my real life name. so, whenever someone calls me I think it's something bad. my name is cursed.

    • @lenovovo
      @lenovovo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Thanks SuperRguy3000! :-)

    • @BrenAriTv
      @BrenAriTv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      :]

    • @venomg5799
      @venomg5799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@mellowblueu awww. If you hate it that much, is there a nickname you can go by?

  • @LogicPsycho1
    @LogicPsycho1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4758

    “At age 20, we worry about what others think of us. At age 40, we don’t care what they think of us. At age 60, we discover they haven’t been thinking of us at all.”

    • @Thegentechgamer
      @Thegentechgamer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +255

      i must be 60...

    • @mehmetgurdal
      @mehmetgurdal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Well I dont care and know that they dont care what the others think about me at all :D
      I guess I hit the jeckpot on the xp :D

    • @Exhilarate245
      @Exhilarate245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      True lol

    • @MF175mp
      @MF175mp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      I have skipped a good 40 years ahead

    • @Wingbar
      @Wingbar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I’m 17 but apparently I’m 60 😂

  • @koamoonlightkoa4969
    @koamoonlightkoa4969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Do people like me?
    Psych2go: don’t worry odds ar-
    Me: that people hate you and think your ego gets the best of you and want to see you suffer a slow painful death

    • @rtb42
      @rtb42 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100%

  • @onesoulbliss
    @onesoulbliss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The mere exposure effect is definitely real because 1) when my teacher forced me to change my seat and sit with a complete stranger I hated her back then for no reason. 2) Now after 2 years we are bffs, the teacher is still shocked cause we had reached the brink of ww3 and suddenly we became allies😂😂

    • @rubenayla
      @rubenayla ปีที่แล้ว

      That's very interesting!
      It's like what they say, you have to seem high-value and not needy to be attractive. You hating each other already provided those thoughts (you can't hate someone you don't care about at all and ignore), so just seeing each other as nice people was enough

  • @diane7371
    @diane7371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2898

    Psych2Go: don't talk too much
    Me: doesn't talk too much!
    People: Why are you so boring??

    • @mellylivestreams2008
      @mellylivestreams2008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      why are you so quiet im the only one talking

    • @KP-tm9ro
      @KP-tm9ro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      That's one of my problems too 😞

    • @MyMarsham
      @MyMarsham 3 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      Beware the quiet man. For while others speak, he watched. And while others act, he plans. And when they finally rest… he strikes.

    • @ShivangiVerma11
      @ShivangiVerma11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Same with me....I'm a introvert.....usually a quiet person....I give people first chance to speak...but I think people don't want to be around me cause they think I don't talk cause I don't have any thing to talk...more like I'm boring

    • @minniemouse7948
      @minniemouse7948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@ShivangiVerma11 omg same here.

  • @arandomyoutubeviewer3694
    @arandomyoutubeviewer3694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2078

    I like the fact that this is one of the few communities of TH-cam that are non-toxic 😌

    • @NobodyQuio
      @NobodyQuio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      True

    • @womq
      @womq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      yeah

    • @mercy3106
      @mercy3106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Ya I can name a couple others that are chill for different reasons.
      Moist critical, jshlaght. And every other comedian TH-camr. every thing is a joke. Dont recommend if you have e strong opinions about something.
      Cocomelon. Pink pong. And nursery rhyme makers.
      Most videos dont have commentary but the ones that do are mainly parents thanking them for helping crying children.
      And math related videos.
      Some teachers suck. So if you stumble across these guys they probably saved your grade.

    • @eddierayvanlynch6133
      @eddierayvanlynch6133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      👍

    • @Scouse.raver1
      @Scouse.raver1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes I've found too tho that the tropical fish keeping community on yt are very nice and friendly too check it out maybe best wishes to you and family 🙂

  • @TheGameSlayerOf2009
    @TheGameSlayerOf2009 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Having ADHD makes it feel difficult to fit in
    But recently I’ve been watching a few of these videos and now I’m feeling much better about myself and made myself some new friends

  • @kattnip4460
    @kattnip4460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    For the people who do more listening than talking in person its ok to voice up and talk about yourselves too. You should remember that you matter. Your opinion, voice, thought, action, feelings and health matter.

  • @emmalabrador7790
    @emmalabrador7790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5287

    "Call them by their name"
    Me, who can't remember names unless you tell it to me 10 times or made an impression: **chuckles** I'm in danger

    • @ayumimaxinerallos2824
      @ayumimaxinerallos2824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      (2)
      Amen.

    • @quipped-op5xh
      @quipped-op5xh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Why did i read it as the chorus for montero

    • @jumanahidris7432
      @jumanahidris7432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      It can help that as soon as they tell you their name, you immediately start using in around them :)

    • @emmalabrador7790
      @emmalabrador7790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@jumanahidris7432 Thanks, I'll do that next time I need to :)

    • @cansets1692
      @cansets1692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed-

  • @cherriesontop1226
    @cherriesontop1226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3633

    "The person you end up sitting next to might be your best friend!"
    Me sitting at the wall: Ok, good to know.

    • @makotonaegi7649
      @makotonaegi7649 2 ปีที่แล้ว +297

      Walls are very loyal, they never leave! You'll have a best friend for life!

    • @cherriesontop1226
      @cherriesontop1226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +168

      @@makotonaegi7649 me next year in a new class: so long my loyal wall, i will always remember you...

    • @blabbleblabble
      @blabbleblabble 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@makotonaegi7649 omg it's you... Makoto... you're here

    • @IAmConsecrated
      @IAmConsecrated 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@makotonaegi7649 unless they get "killed" or the school was changing the wall or maybe they are constructing it to become a building or something

    • @slushyzack
      @slushyzack 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      lmao this is so sad

  • @anbufox9889
    @anbufox9889 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As others have mentioned, your voice is very calming, and it makes people (in my opinion) much more open! Thank you for making this video!

  • @Bumble_bee.tl3
    @Bumble_bee.tl3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    8:00 THIS! This is also great dating advice. Especially if you're still in the getting-to-know-each-other-phase or on dating apps. Never has someone been more dislikable if they only answer your questions and never ask any of their own

  • @sal4113
    @sal4113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1680

    When someone asks me. “So tell me about yourself”....
    Me: *panics because I forgot who I am* uhhhhhh....

    • @neelmarisiddaiah612
      @neelmarisiddaiah612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      The amount of times this had happened to me I swear

    • @dragonsaway9710
      @dragonsaway9710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I'm glad I'm not the only one

    • @mikasaackermann5080
      @mikasaackermann5080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Ikr. But I guess it's because the question itself is sooo weird. How am I supposed to know where to start and what to say when my knowledge of myself is so broad. It's a little like I have to spontaneously make a speech in class >.

    • @ameena718
      @ameena718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Fr, i Don't know who am I

    • @abi5431
      @abi5431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ikr how am supposed to answer that anyway? 😑

  • @LadyLynette_
    @LadyLynette_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1333

    Me: see's Dream and Technoblade on the poster
    Also me: "Wait a minute-"

    • @ash-ib7zc
      @ash-ib7zc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      OMG IM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED THAT

    • @tabjay7244
      @tabjay7244 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Glad I'm not the only one who noticed

    • @laurapotatoleech1443
      @laurapotatoleech1443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Noticed it right off the bat

    • @Kazam100
      @Kazam100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      i thought it was fnaf 4 AND dream for some reason

    • @knightbrickfilms38
      @knightbrickfilms38 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      IM NOT A L O N E, Y E S!!!!!

  • @user-pq8vg5yz1h
    @user-pq8vg5yz1h หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m an extrovert but I’m super nervous about going to junior high bc I’m going to be moving away and I’m scared that I can’t make friends. This video really helped

  • @purpleperruche5433
    @purpleperruche5433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's pretty hard to improve my social anxiety but I'm slowly working on it and I see improvement.
    I changed my class at school bcs I was very unhappy where I was. People here are nice and friendly and my best friend noticed that I'm more relaxed now. I'm happy that I'm changing for the better and it's all thanks to my amazing classmates! I never had such nice classmates🥰I'm even afraid of the day we are gonna go to our own paths.. But at least I can anjoy the time we have left togheter🥰

  • @ComedicalBystander
    @ComedicalBystander 3 ปีที่แล้ว +930

    "call them by their name"
    me, who can't remember names at all:

    • @rosytellez21
      @rosytellez21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I have this weird thing where I ask someone's name and I DONT LISTEN. so I can't remember. It's the weirdest thing. No matter if I'm aware and I try to listen I still don't.

    • @rowena7655
      @rowena7655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      A little trick I learnt is after they say their name you repeat it in your next sentence like "I'm Connie" "Nice to meet you Connie. I'm Harriet" for instance. That way your brain registers the name properly.

    • @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206
      @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can remember names but when it’s certain people

    • @balmisia
      @balmisia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Me who can't remember what I did and hour ago

    • @DhrithionVocals
      @DhrithionVocals 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@rosytellez21 I can somewhat relate but when I ask people their name I pay attention but I don't hear what they said and I don't want to ask them to repeat it cuz it's awkward 😂😂

  • @mousegirl8286
    @mousegirl8286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2568

    How is no one is talking about how beautiful her voice is!?

    • @danishdubey
      @danishdubey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      who cares
      {POV: did I , a nobody ,just start
      a war in the comment section because of a hate comment. People truly have so much time to waste nowadays!! None can just ignore)

    • @akhmeth9070
      @akhmeth9070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      Literally in every video there's some guy says : why is no one talking about the great voice '
      Dude. YOU are THE one.

    • @catbarhitsugaya422
      @catbarhitsugaya422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Because-
      Society: *SIMP!!*

    • @shaigamer0139
      @shaigamer0139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @@danishdubey bruh her voice is calming

    • @TheStrongestBaka
      @TheStrongestBaka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Voice of an angel, honestly.

  • @dinashisha5193
    @dinashisha5193 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It is not the behavior. It is the feeling that comes behind the behavior. This is so accurate!

  • @yourlocalsaddict
    @yourlocalsaddict 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These videos help a lot to me and honestly, i was taking notes while watching 😅 i have a bit of a too loud extrovert behaviour at school and I’m feeling like people are being distant to that so I watch these videos. Thanks for posting these vids and love your channel

  • @hollowsongs3504
    @hollowsongs3504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1115

    "We like our names"
    Everyone who dislikes their name: Am I a joke to you?

  • @hilucy4747
    @hilucy4747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +832

    I'm shipping Susi and Derrick they are cute as hell together 🥺🥺

    • @_.ana._.
      @_.ana._. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yes!

    • @umii._.z00mii
      @umii._.z00mii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yes 😭💖

    • @sameerakhan7455
      @sameerakhan7455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Thank GOODNESS I'm not the only one. I felt I was being weird lol😂😅

    • @Pansotii
      @Pansotii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Would'nt it be really cute finding Susi and Derrick in another Psych2go Video?😍

    • @peterellsworth987
      @peterellsworth987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yesssssss

  • @ultranovva
    @ultranovva 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love your guys' videos, they really help, keep it up, and to all of everyone, remember we're all human, and our flaws help us see ourselves in a more balanced view, and allow us to grow to our fullest potential, keep it up. :)

  • @fgund6052
    @fgund6052 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    3:34 rip techno

  • @jocelynhyde2197
    @jocelynhyde2197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3094

    *I can see a growing romance between Susie and Derrick.*

  • @juf9055
    @juf9055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1479

    “Others love to be around people who are happy”
    Welp guess I’m not making any friends

    • @gabrieldecastro8621
      @gabrieldecastro8621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      lol, I completely understand you, but, something that actually works for me is look the positive things, you can be in a certain way ironic too it'll works

    • @Marky1608
      @Marky1608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yep. Same :')

    • @jamieraynor7941
      @jamieraynor7941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I feel the same way as you

    • @nothere1926
      @nothere1926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @Profile Name f*ck money, make friends

    • @frenchrevenge6406
      @frenchrevenge6406 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me neither

  • @lizapiza1111
    @lizapiza1111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Holy ***! I watch these all the time but this is the first time they really helped me understand people's view on me. I love this channel ❤

  • @lakoosdragon
    @lakoosdragon ปีที่แล้ว +1

    good job darrick! your doing something i’m struggling to do

  • @Jared-qu6eb
    @Jared-qu6eb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +744

    As an introvert who struggles making friends, this is very helpful

    • @evlysian7670
      @evlysian7670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      while im here a introvert with too many people trying to be my friends or get close to me want to switch?

    • @noorsabah1766
      @noorsabah1766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same

    • @marylu2216
      @marylu2216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@evlysian7670 I was just about to say the same thing. I am also an introvert who attracts people and I hate it😄 Im not looking for new friends nor for attention from others yet the more I runaway from it the more it chaces me😕😂

    • @amirothmiredith579
      @amirothmiredith579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too

    • @Jared-qu6eb
      @Jared-qu6eb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Khunsha Mir aww thanks:)) I hope you have good luck with friends too!

  • @rustinstardust2094
    @rustinstardust2094 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2797

    I personally react to hearing my name in a conversation across the room as a survival instinct. I'm not flattered - I'm fearful about what they might be saying. I can't be the only one who feels this way...

    • @batgh0ul
      @batgh0ul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +263

      Nope, I'm with you there. It always makes me anxious to hear my name anywhere far from me, especially since my name isn't really a common one so it's most likely me they're talking about. Is it good stuff? Is it bad?
      Well I'll never know, I'm too shy to ask

    • @avamiller241
      @avamiller241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Yeah this happened to me a couple days ago

    • @Treeckogeek
      @Treeckogeek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      TRUE

    • @MrPizzaeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
      @MrPizzaeeeeeeeeeeeeeee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Same

    • @melonagirl9444
      @melonagirl9444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      exactly it gaves me anxiety instead haha buit what about if it is your crush does that means he is tying to get your attention or just put you in the friendzone?

  • @Arty_Apple_Bee
    @Arty_Apple_Bee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    And there is me, no friends, doing this during my entire life since middle school.
    **insert sad music and rain background**

  • @LurFrLif
    @LurFrLif 3 ปีที่แล้ว +712

    3:49 “men in masks”
    That’s Technoblade and Dream
    ....in Psych2Go form

    • @river_girl12
      @river_girl12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      i have successfully found an mcyt enjoyer, perhaps? Was going to comment something similar!

    • @icydude835
      @icydude835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      I was searching the comments for anyone to mention it ya know?

    • @susii3398
      @susii3398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I don't blame you for misspelling sych2go, it took me a while to spell phihc2go.

    • @ember11
      @ember11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I was scrolling to see if anyone caught that XD
      Edit: always great to see a fellow myct fan.

    • @icydude835
      @icydude835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@ember11 same

  • @mehmeh9376
    @mehmeh9376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2761

    People: "Why are you so quiet?"
    Me: "I have nothing to talk about".
    Always works.
    (God dayum so many likes)

    • @zsomborkovac5251
      @zsomborkovac5251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      Its always good to be honest

    • @divyamahadik6084
      @divyamahadik6084 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Lol

    • @yourfavecancer
      @yourfavecancer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      I said that to a dude that I never talk to and he just said: Oof

    • @coffeeboi158
      @coffeeboi158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jjphillips2648 Having a stroke buddy?

    • @BearHawks
      @BearHawks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ha!! My hubby never talks to people he don't know. He's quiet around strangers.🤷‍♀️

  • @Stormanet1
    @Stormanet1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The amount of power you gave me in this very video

  • @inmyemophasrn
    @inmyemophasrn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Call them by their name"
    My last two braincells: MONTERO

  • @waveii8615
    @waveii8615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +725

    The “call them by their name” thing- i legit thought about this yesterday, when people call me by my name it makes me feel as though they care about and like me more so that makes me like _them_ more, its so true

    • @cyndigooch1162
      @cyndigooch1162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Waveii I totally agree with you and this reminded me of my ex who didn't call me by my name, so I asked him if he knew it one day! He did call me bub, which I thought was a special nickname, until I found out that he said it to many women, even ones he didn't know. I'm so glad he's an ex now and I won't go into the many other reasons why that's the case. 🙂

    • @saswatmishra5644
      @saswatmishra5644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@cyndigooch1162 how in the world was he ur bf if he didn't even know ur name?!!

    • @benma2241
      @benma2241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@saswatmishra5644 she forgot duh

    • @birdboy1092
      @birdboy1092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      9 times out of 10 I just get startled when someone says my name. I am really really jumpy.

    • @shaigamer0139
      @shaigamer0139 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I need to practice I just call my crush bestie bcs we r besties

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +479

    A compliment goes a loooong way! When someone compliments me, I’m happy the rest of the day and honestly I remember it for a long time!!! Compliments don’t come very often so when it does, I definitely cherish it

    • @tommygunn6901
      @tommygunn6901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm gonna guess that you like words of affirmation?

    • @sugarandpie9123
      @sugarandpie9123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Gosh, that's the same case with me.

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tommygunn6901 mhmmm!

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sugarandpie9123 ya but I would say I’m pretty good at giving people compliments!!!

    • @tommygunn6901
      @tommygunn6901 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SamElle good to know 😊

  • @azedielbruh9610
    @azedielbruh9610 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I ship it. Also I love you art, it's just so cute and those videos really help. You're a wonderful person, keep going :D

  • @Bexp3
    @Bexp3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this video is actually helpful thank you!

  • @mf_lucielangelo
    @mf_lucielangelo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +506

    my introverted, shy, socially akward ass after watching this: oh yeah, i perfectly know that i'm *not gonna do any one of these.*

    • @_mimmisue_mixed_up_1877
      @_mimmisue_mixed_up_1877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Felt that xD

    • @prajwalvsangam9234
      @prajwalvsangam9234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yoo.. same here

    • @ti-fi1qx
      @ti-fi1qx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ok, you PERFECT HUMAN BEING 😕😕😕😕😕😕 bruh, why don't u just SPILL THE COFFEE BRO!?

    • @mf_lucielangelo
      @mf_lucielangelo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ti-fi1qx 😀?

    • @nickrogen5138
      @nickrogen5138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ti-fi1qx excuse me?

  • @ramona8667
    @ramona8667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +688

    I HATE hearing my name. It makes my stomach turn and I start sweating and laughing nervously. I wonder if it has to do with people saying my name only when I was in trouble, as a kid.
    I'm changing my name.

    • @stormyinspace6422
      @stormyinspace6422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I changed mine for this reason, I recommend it for real. good luck!

    • @kittyisme5297
      @kittyisme5297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Same, I go by a nickname since freshman year and rarely go by my real name. When people call me by my real name it feels odd..and i'm in trouble.

    • @Relle.
      @Relle. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Heal your trauma 💚

    • @angelicachand7452
      @angelicachand7452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      don't change your name

    • @kerrinbennett28
      @kerrinbennett28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Sorry bout that. I get so annoyed when a new person I meet calls me Karen and then puts the stereotype of a Karen on me. First of all, that’s not even my name! And second, I don’t act anything like a Karen, I’m a fricken teenager...

  • @deepakr4239
    @deepakr4239 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really amazing, thanks for the help ❤️😊😍

  • @duchessofpotatoland
    @duchessofpotatoland 3 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    I was literally acting out conversations with people in my head and how to make people like me more than I already am this video suddenly popped up lol

    • @Mikadiaries
      @Mikadiaries 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      omfggg

    • @dooodette8950
      @dooodette8950 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Law of attraction! 😻🎊🙏

    • @islabuck8441
      @islabuck8441 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

    • @RajeevKumar-og5ep
      @RajeevKumar-og5ep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I also do the same, acting out conversations in my head especially with my crush 😆😳

  • @autumnfox4906
    @autumnfox4906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +387

    I honestly feel weird when someone calls me by my name when I haven’t personally met them. If you haven’t talked to them or they haven’t told you their name. Please ask before you call them by their name or say “Your name is (blank) right?”. Just my advice for making the first tip work without creeping them out.

    • @KanaYukino
      @KanaYukino 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Well that makes you unapproachable. Especially if you make a face when they are trying to be friendly.

    • @autumnfox4906
      @autumnfox4906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@KanaYukino it’s not like I’m mean about it. Someone I had never met before called me by my name. Would you not be uncomfortable if that happened? I don’t get mad at them, I just feel weird.

    • @elainadunn8209
      @elainadunn8209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@KanaYukino sometimes when someone you've never seen before calls you by your name out of nowhere, it can be somewhat unsettling

    • @lemone7637
      @lemone7637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think the video focuses on getting the people you already know / who know you like your classmates or co workers, I think that is actually a good tactic to get people to like you . But ofcourse, random people calling you by name can be a bit unsettling especially if you haven't introduced urself to them or aren't familiar with them .

    • @malevores
      @malevores 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Unknown550 you must be great at parties

  • @KallMeKes
    @KallMeKes ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My name is quite rare so the "call them by their name" one is one I WILL notice, especially in parties or events, and for the 4th one, dyslexia sorta helps me bc 2 of my classmates actually find my slight misspeaking attractive (they told me)

  • @Fragile.Ghoul07
    @Fragile.Ghoul07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The dream smp Refrecenses make me so happy and your voice is so calming

  • @ItzKawaiiKitty
    @ItzKawaiiKitty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +632

    All of that sounds nice but it’s really hard to make friends, in class especially. Everyone already has friends and when i want to join a conversation i always feel like I’m just bothering them

    • @dkdjososls8972
      @dkdjososls8972 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      same

    • @bsangel93
      @bsangel93 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      I was in a similar situation when i was younger, I found out later that people-for whatever reason-found me intimidating.
      Perhaps it’s the same for you. Try to show you aren’t

    • @dradenlol8667
      @dradenlol8667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      The trick is making what you have to say worth the bother :) if you have something funny or intriguing to add to the conversation, people won’t mind the bother and might actually like you more for being brave and interjecting :)

    • @dradenlol8667
      @dradenlol8667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Also, a good trick for becoming a part of a conversation is to laugh at something funny they’re saying. If you laugh, it tells them you were listening but that it wasn’t in a negative manner. They won’t think of your eavesdropping as a bad thing. They might even direct their next joke at you, since they know you find them funny.

    • @corzon6275
      @corzon6275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Something that I used to do is when the person is alone I try to go make an excuse on why I'm with them like you need a partner or you need help on something. Also once you get the hang of it just approach a new person and introduce yourself.

  • @artsdesire7120
    @artsdesire7120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +606

    I’m not here watching this not just to make new friends. But to be a better friend. Everyone gets stressed once in a while and that’s how I’ve been and I realized I wasn’t acting as nice as I usually do. I’m going to try to implement talking about positive things and giving compliments more often

    • @untilted5216
      @untilted5216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Aye that’s some good character development

    • @kealiechristophe3509
      @kealiechristophe3509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Good job my baby! I’m so very proud of you! God bless uu cutie mwah!

    • @JS-td7dg
      @JS-td7dg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i had the same thing. Bur for me its too late bc i already lost my 2 best friends bc of that :(

    • @kealiechristophe3509
      @kealiechristophe3509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@JS-td7dg don’t worry! You got this at least you changed for the better! You’re still amazing regardless:$

    • @darthmaul2005
      @darthmaul2005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That’s good, I hope you can be the person you want to be

  • @eosuki505
    @eosuki505 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the tips ! Nice video

  • @showtime2602
    @showtime2602 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your voice is like so calming and angelic

  • @Delia-ou1ju
    @Delia-ou1ju 3 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    As an introverted person having to “spend time with others” or having someone, spontaneously ask me out for coffee is something I only see in my worse nightmares....

    • @archovens
      @archovens 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Im an introverted too and this is so true like while they're asking me i act normally but in my brain im like: PANIC

    • @jennifergraceh
      @jennifergraceh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too!!

    • @BalgaBear
      @BalgaBear 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Literally so much anxiety and just bad feels.
      Then you feel bad for not going, but you know you'd feel worse if you did.

  • @r4venblu3
    @r4venblu3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +744

    This video: * Exists *
    My single, lonely self: _Well if that isn't what I need then-_

  • @user-xc9sb7st1c
    @user-xc9sb7st1c 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This helped me so much thank you❤❤🌹🌹

  • @susymay7831
    @susymay7831 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very nice timestamps!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @keinsatzohnetippfehler9656
    @keinsatzohnetippfehler9656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    Fair warning: be a little careful about that name thing. One of my colleagues overoes that. Sometimes he calls people by their names every other sentence, which gets really annoying. One of our customers even got really mad and asked him to stop saying her name so often. People know about the positive effect of using names and start to feel manipulated or patronized if you use their names too often in one conversation.

    • @brychaelbruh
      @brychaelbruh ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Ye, tbh reading this made me remember the times that I basically do that here and there, although I have no ill intention usually when doing this. I understand why it can be annoying. 8)

    • @thenameless24
      @thenameless24 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I have found it best to use it once or twice to get there attention and leave it at that

    • @andrewsteavpack9079
      @andrewsteavpack9079 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I almost never use peoples names in conversations other than to initiate or get their attention because of this. I typically don’t trust people if they use my name more than once or twice in a conversation

    • @indridcold8433
      @indridcold8433 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It is actually better to not try to make friemds actively. Let it happen without intervention. Most people are the type you really do not want to know. Why chance meeting that type of person. Not making an active effort to make friends gets a lot less people to talk to you, thus less undersireables. The very few that will talk to you first will be a lot less likely to be undesireables, though they will still be many of them. Should it happen that nobody starts a conversation with you, that is good also. If you have no friends, you will gain incredible benefits in the form of extreme self-reliance, resourcefulness, independence, freedom, and resilience that no social person could ever match. Either way, you win. Since I am ugly, taking the passive approach to making friends did not yield any potential friendships. Nobody wants to be seen with an ugly person, whether for a friend or boyfriend / girlfriend. Thus, I was not approached. But, I gained the enormous benefits I mentioned. So, it is okay.

    • @kokomi6172
      @kokomi6172 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      trying to get someone’s attention is a good chance to use their name such as saying “i like your shoes, [name]” or “hey, [name]!”

  • @abookoholic6252
    @abookoholic6252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    What I learned from this: spill coffee at the end of my next job interview

    • @apoleyash6852
      @apoleyash6852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hahaha. I'm just not sure if spilling the coffee is the best idea, mostly when your boss is a berserker type.

    • @onebadapple5053
      @onebadapple5053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Anyone with REAL cojones will spill the coffee before, during, and after the interview

    • @Hamppariranskis
      @Hamppariranskis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@onebadapple5053 this chaotic energy 😂😂😂

    • @mirrailieva1111
      @mirrailieva1111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Not if you are applying for barista..

    • @RoyalLegend1000
      @RoyalLegend1000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mirrailieva1111 lol

  • @nataliaakhobadze3964
    @nataliaakhobadze3964 ปีที่แล้ว

    even if videos are not related to my problems i enjoy watching every single one of them because of your calming voice

  • @simitete1527
    @simitete1527 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am really like this . Till now i had no idea why people were drawn to me even when i was awfully quiet . Moral of the story : even when your quiet these options will definitely work for you . Dont forget to give compliment to them , never hide your mistakes and just be yourself you will eventually become a happy person 😊❤

  • @ataldr4802
    @ataldr4802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    3:47 is that techno and dream

    • @bonithechubbypotato5100
      @bonithechubbypotato5100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes.

    • @Biskqi
      @Biskqi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yesssss!

    • @conefiend2570
      @conefiend2570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Y e s s s

    • @heyhihello7735
      @heyhihello7735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes, yes it is.

    • @psiga
      @psiga 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yup. Psych2Go's animator Evelvaii is easter-egging SAD-ist, the animator who made the now-famous super bishi short for that $100,000 Techno v Dream battle earlier this year. Nearly ten million views since September! Totally deserved!

  • @cmoi8282
    @cmoi8282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    3:46 *YO THAT REFERENCE*

    • @eskaywai
      @eskaywai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      IKR

    • @x0kenzi
      @x0kenzi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      IKKKK

    • @NoName-pf3zi
      @NoName-pf3zi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yyeeaaaahhh they made in hehehe

    • @leafy_potat5224
      @leafy_potat5224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeahhhh it’s crazyyyyy!!

    • @sakuraelo9159
      @sakuraelo9159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YASSSSS I KNOWWW

  • @eparedes7165
    @eparedes7165 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    To the makers of this video I just want to give you a Big hug right Now Love you Much Period

  • @official_nathanyt1490
    @official_nathanyt1490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The soft voice warms my heart😎

  • @adityashaw9631
    @adityashaw9631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    Hey stranger , hope u have a nice day.

  • @monthy6328
    @monthy6328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Just wanna point out, that this video has one of the best romance plots than actual films

  • @jenniferguevarra2012
    @jenniferguevarra2012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your voice is so calming 😮

  • @SS-yb2vs
    @SS-yb2vs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The fourth one. I really needed to hear that, thanks.

  • @bumsnucklezz492
    @bumsnucklezz492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +392

    _BATTLE OF THE MEN IN MASKS_
    _Starring Technoblade and Dream_
    That's a cool easter egg in this video
    They look cute instead of intimidating in this art style lol

    • @iforgorowl7590
      @iforgorowl7590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ok

    • @lindadesevrenjacquet1633
      @lindadesevrenjacquet1633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      *B L O O D F O R T H E B L O O D G O D S*

    • @odd-ysseusdoesstuff6347
      @odd-ysseusdoesstuff6347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lindadesevrenjacquet1633 BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD!!! THERE IS NO GOVERNMENT!!!

    • @britishventi7907
      @britishventi7907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Blood for the blood god!

    • @cloudynight8684
      @cloudynight8684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      AND ANOTHER PERSON NOTICED! IM SO FRICKING HAPPY RIGHT NOW. Sorry, and btw there is little mcyt references in their other videos too, it’s really cool. 😄

  • @sunniesclementine9789
    @sunniesclementine9789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1886

    I've been told I'm a boring person-
    Sister: bts got nominated for a grammy!
    Me: that's nice.
    Sister: I'm having a bad day today
    Me: that sucks.
    She's not wrong. I'm a boring person.

    • @dangerawaits_bbx
      @dangerawaits_bbx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      No you're not boring. We just have different social tastes.

    • @zsomborkovac5251
      @zsomborkovac5251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      Your not boring, I felt like I was boring and it was because I wasnt interested in what ppl were talking about and I responded with very simple answers. Nobody is boring, when they are talking about something they are interested in

    • @booppow7497
      @booppow7497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      My so called “ Best Friend “ said that I’m boring because I don’t wear eyeliner. It’s not my fault I can only draw on a flat surface!!!!!!

    • @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206
      @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Nobody who has attained 69 likes could never be boring

    • @righteousone5119
      @righteousone5119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I do that too and I always think I'm boring.

  • @pizzacarter9777
    @pizzacarter9777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I try to binge every episode of this channel because I think there is hope for me, but I am just wasting my time because people will hate me no matter what. However I don’t regret watching these, as her voice is very soothing.

  • @merlinjohn7381
    @merlinjohn7381 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why no one commented about her voice… it’s so soothing to listen ❤

  • @NatureLover-pj2qe
    @NatureLover-pj2qe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    I’m autistic and struggle with making friends

    • @ijustexist6787
      @ijustexist6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Me to! As an autistic I became better at making friends from the past few years.

    • @rachelhoughton9867
      @rachelhoughton9867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Me too, I get really enthusiastic if someone initiates a conversation about something I can relate to or that I'm interested in, and often forget to let them talk... This has meant people unfairly brand me as "arrogant" :(

    • @daancero
      @daancero 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same :(

    • @Jogadora_109
      @Jogadora_109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I have autistic family members and I love them deeply. They have gifts I wish I had. I hope you find a community but I also hope you know you're amazing and have a lot to offer the world.

    • @princessnovainacottage3326
      @princessnovainacottage3326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm also autistic and you're not alone

  • @alastor1596
    @alastor1596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    3:47 me immediately: DREAM AND TECHNOBLADE

  • @katartkatart4587
    @katartkatart4587 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love that movie title! Congrats you have potentially summoned a fandom

  • @Malak-nw6gh
    @Malak-nw6gh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You made me love Psychology, thank you

  • @angelaproductions6248
    @angelaproductions6248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    can I just say Susie is absolutely adorable I can't- 🥺💗

    • @itsarali
      @itsarali 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      IKR I think I have a girlcrush. ...orrr an actual crush lol I think I’ve been in quarantine for too long 😅

    • @buddyboiwrath488
      @buddyboiwrath488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As guy yes she is adorable

  • @areallysmallburger5497
    @areallysmallburger5497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +338

    I will try this
    Edit: I got called simp

  • @carpetmel
    @carpetmel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2:12
    when i first meet someone, i call them by a nickname. this actually helps me learn their name over time

  • @demolisher.of_rice
    @demolisher.of_rice 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    these videos are just so wholesome

  • @cristi37
    @cristi37 3 ปีที่แล้ว +321

    “People want to see that your intelligent”
    Me: *Inhales*
    THE FOSSIL OF THE DEADLIEST PREDATORS ON EARTH COULD BE UNDER THE FEET WE WALK AND THE GROUND YOU WALK ON COULD BE WHERE PEOPLE ONCE FOUGHT

    • @loveangel6562
      @loveangel6562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Now i just feel inferior

    • @cristi37
      @cristi37 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@loveangel6562 if you want to learn this magic, you must watch documentaries, which I did do at the age of 5 seriously and read and watch a lot of history, which I didn’t do when I was 5 but I still did see some, since I literally did walk in a town where there was war. Next, be YOU.

    • @cristi37
      @cristi37 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@loveangel6562 I am very sorry if I make you feel inferior.

    • @montanabirdmommy
      @montanabirdmommy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Derailing valid conversations to show off that you watched documentaries as a child is far from clever, Cris Dob. You also failed to make your point and left your readers confused. Just stop. Do you really feel that entitled? Lots of us grew up on documentaries, yet we do not feel entitled to interrupt and attempt to derail valid discussions. Why do you think that is, Cris?

    • @cristi37
      @cristi37 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@montanabirdmommy I’m sorry if I make myself look entitled. Entitlement is the very thing I want to take away so I can make myself equal with other people. Thank you for pointing that out, I wont do it again. And I will remember to talk more clearly and to stop interrupting, I had this problem many times.

  • @itscourtnryy
    @itscourtnryy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Extras-
    - Constantly ask how they’re doing
    - Show then you appreciate them
    - try to remember things like their birthday, zodiac, last name, and etc.
    (It’ll show that you payed attention)

  • @levidarling5107
    @levidarling5107 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you ma’am, my one biggest flaw is me being so heck-bent on being perfect, I literally go insane after a single and slightest of goofs. This helps me feel better about making a goof in front of friends. Thank you!

  • @Pure_Racing_editz
    @Pure_Racing_editz ปีที่แล้ว

    There’s this girl I like, and I watched one of these videos and heard that you should ask them questions about themselves, because like you said, people like talking about themselves. It’s been about a week now and I can already notice she’s wanting to spend more time around me.

  • @Helen3691
    @Helen3691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    Call people by their names. Depends on who’s talking. Absolutely cringe when a salesperson calls me by my first name. Instant hate.

    • @birdlover6842
      @birdlover6842 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true.

    • @jamssy3409
      @jamssy3409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      How would they know your first name

    • @carlossandoval6858
      @carlossandoval6858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I guess thats why this is focusing on friends...

    • @ladyalicent705
      @ladyalicent705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah but I just hate salespeople in general. So fucking annoying.

    • @svp5thechad408
      @svp5thechad408 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      *Instant karate chop

  • @susanazurita1427
    @susanazurita1427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    Me: sees video
    Also me: realises that i have no friends at my new school for 5 months
    Me: *clicks instantly*

    • @brokeneggshell5041
      @brokeneggshell5041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      comment how it went if it worked

    • @jennifergraceh
      @jennifergraceh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Awww, I’m sorry! I hope you can make some friends soon! Just be yourself! 😊

    • @citeouse3847
      @citeouse3847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope you make some friends broski😸😸😸😸

    • @ditimohite113
      @ditimohite113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't worry dear I can be friends with you . You are no more alone dear 😇😇😉😉😉

    • @maryschuett1555
      @maryschuett1555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh my gosh same

  • @Zipper_cookie
    @Zipper_cookie ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had made a friend at the beginning of the year- the problem was I came off WAY too strong, making me seem as the “annoying” person of the class, until the 2nd semestester, I had 2 friend groups (maybe 3), and later found myself in a pickle, the one group I desiccated the most time too, they were starting to hate me, whenever I would talk to them, they would simply cut me off as if they were annoyed. Like one second they would be all friendly to another person, next second when I start talking they are rolling their eyes, responding in a negative attitude, etc.

  • @lordfarquaadsbuttercup
    @lordfarquaadsbuttercup 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I did it guys! I finally subscribed!!

  • @KingExor
    @KingExor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    wish i knew this before i made others dislike me instantly

    • @kurosade3623
      @kurosade3623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You caused that on yourself I lot of people like me

    • @bonithechubbypotato5100
      @bonithechubbypotato5100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I see.

    • @thewriteinpresident
      @thewriteinpresident 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How does TV 3D C.G.I. Trump become the LAST President and Stay in Office??? YOU FAKE an "Alien Invasion" called: PROJECT BLUE BEAM so the U.N. Troops take all... johnnyexodices.wordpress.com/2020/12/27/how-does-tv-3d-c-g-i-trump-become-the-last-president-and-stay-in-office-you-fake-an-alien-invasion-called-project-blue-beam-so-the-u-n-troops-take-all/ via @wordpressdotcom GAME OVER nonmason Populations the {NEWS} World Order TV Empire wins. /_\

    • @nickie2736
      @nickie2736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      It's not to late to turn it around. The school bully in my primary school was hated by almost everyone at first. Over time he became more kind. By the end of the school year pretty much everyone was good friends with him.

    • @kurosade3623
      @kurosade3623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What you even do to make people hate you

  • @oro8656
    @oro8656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    compliment people as the thought crosses your mind:
    me when you are around your crush: *aha, no.*

    • @smileyface5028
      @smileyface5028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I compliment people as it crosses my mind because I'm a nervous wreck and my brain starts running out of words