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- When we’re attractive, we also become more influential, more likable, and more persuasive, and more people will want to befriend us or pursue a romantic relationship with us. But what is it exactly that makes someone so attractive? Well, you don't have to be perfect. Sometimes, it's the "flaws" that make you attractive. So, what are they? Watch to find out.
If you're still not convinced after watching this video, watch our video on the signs you're actually attractive, even if you don't think so: • 6 Signs You're Actuall...
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Hannah Roldan
TH-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
References
Feather, N. T. (1995). Values, valences, and choice: The influences of values on the perceived attractiveness and choice of alternatives. Journal of personality and social psychology, 68(6), 1135.
Keltner, D., Young, R. C., Heerey, E. A., Oemig, C., & Monarch, N. D. (1998). Teasing in hierarchical and intimate relations. Journal of personality and social psychology, 75(5), 1231.
Kennedy, J. (2018). Oversharing is the norm. In Digital Intimate Publics and Social Media (pp. 265-280). Palgrave Macmillan, Cham.
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Hi everyone! How are you doing? We posted a lot of videos lately. Do you like them?
hello
@Luigikart12 british
Yeah I've been loving them. Keep it going! I love it!
I love them ❤️ it really helps :)
Your videos are big poggers who agrees
"A diamond with a flaw is worth more than a pebble without imperfections" - Shrek
@@raccoon1551 👻you good bro?
@@lowell101gaming4 thats like saying some shit like "a $50 bill with a rip down the middle is worth more than a $20 bill that’s perfect”, its a dumb comparison.
😄
What does Shrek know he's no match for SpongeBob 🤔
Wow. Right in the childhood 🥺💜
0:54 You’re shy.
1:30 You’re clumsy.
1:55 You’re easily embarrassed.
2:22 You’re nerdy.
2:55 You’re too honest.
3:24 You’re an oversharer.
3:59 You take things slow.
4:34 You crave support.
Finally, one of these where I already have all of the traits.
Thanks 😇
Wow, I should be much more attractive.
@BBQ Bunger same lol I guess all of us are more attractive then we give ourselves credit for
For once I’m all of them YAY 😭😩
Meeting a girl like the one in this animation would be the one-in-a-million personality I would 100% ask out.
Then umm… wanna ask me out..
@Echoempress I mean there's a lot to discuss but I'd give it a shot.
same
I have all of these traits and it only "works" because of slightly above average physical attractiveness. Whenever I'm in a group with super attractive people I'm "a weirdo".
Dating is all about looks and the more I think about it the more it hurts. Because I might miss so many opportunities with super loving gorgeous guys because they only date stunning women or I might turn down amazing guys because they're not attractive enough. Humans suck, myself included.
I feel ur pain
I agree with you. I wish we were better.
Totally relatable
I'm just slightly above average and nobody likes me.
Then get your backside to the gym and exercise and then some skin care and bathing would not go a miss. Oh but body positivity is where you are at and it is all about your personality which men should become deep drill fat miners to discover.
note:
Only works if you're also PHYSICALLY attractive
Fr💀💀😩
People can be physically attracted to things that aren't considered conventional beauty.
Beauty is a social construct, it's in the eyes of the beholder
@@adrianamr9952 I like your dnd pun
😭😭
"Your imperfections make you attractive."
Stop
Giving
Me
Hope
Darn
It
be careful about what you call "imperfections"
S.G.M.H.D.I. Yay now me and the homies have an acronym for our club.
@@xcaedes SGMHDI stands for sug mah dic
Lmao
Same.
As a person whos always been pressured, overworked, and stressed, all of these factors, 1-8, make anybody I meet instantly more attractive. I love being talked to, seeing someone else weak (but in a good way), and touched. It makes me feel better about myself, it makes me feel needed, and its simply enjoyable.
Did it really helped you?☺
“you’re nerdy”
i’m obsessed with theater and broadway musicals and i found a guy with the same obsession ❤
There was this girl in my class that was really shy and clumsy, everyone thought it was adorable and charming. But whenever I was being shy or was clumsy everyone thought I was weird or creepy. Only difference between the two of us was that she was physically attractive and I wasn't.
Don't listen to me I'm just being bitter over the fact that no matter what I do my ugliness is always put first.
Tell them that you are not weird, it's just your shyness.
Don't worry you're not the only one... 🥲
your not the only one and being weird is good it makes you unique
Same for me... It's literally hard for me to have a real life conversation with girls of my class because I feel like a weirdo... When someone else in my class gets overstressed and breaks on tears there is always like 2 or 3 people around them supporting but when I do people just ignores it and keeps on like if nothing was happening. And it's not like I'm not noticable for others. I feel like they see me as an agressive bad guy because of my appearence, in truth I just want to be like others and feel comfortable but I barely interact with other people than my closer friends and when I do I feel nervous and I have to make a serious effort to keep on with the conversation. Literally the only time I asked someone from my class (that is not one of my closer friends) to hangout NOT even in real life but playing together online they told me they couldn't and never talked again about it. And I dont even want to talk about this with my classmates because I feel that I would look like someone who just wants attention. I couldn't blame them though, there are sometimes that I actually look like I actually socialize pretty good. Sorry for making you read this giant text that turned out to be me talking about my personal stuff who doesn't matter to random people on the internet.
@@gat0anonimo you say it doesn't matter to random people on the Internet but I think sometimes, it's better to tell to somenone that you don't know rather than some people around you who don't even listen to you, cuz those strangers can be more compassionate. I've read your whole text and it wasn't boring, I even kinda understand you so do not feel bad about expressing yourself. I hope it relieved your stress or madness / took the weight on your shoulders away a little bit. I'm a person who'd like to help others but don't know how😂 so i hope, to know that you're not the only one who has those struggles, can give you the feeling of comfort, even if it's little. Don't listen to others, if they don't pay attention to you it's their loss. The first and most important thing is to know that YOU ARE an adorable, valid person and to know your worth. You said you have close friends and if they know your value, then that's amazing!! Love yourself 💜💜 And take care of yourself, cuz the most important person in your life is ✨YOU✨ hope you have a good day/night!!💜 * hugs from me*
"You're clumsy"
Me: I see this as an absolute win
LOL IKR
Feel you😂
LMFAOO ME
My parents always say I am clumsy lol
Omg me kinda clumsy lol
*This video honestly made me feel better about myself, especially because I'm a really shy person with a soft spoken voice. I am quite introverted and don't really hang out with anyone in school, but I'm not sure what people think about me.*
I'm gonna cry thank you so much for this :'3 ive been feeling really insecure and self conscious lately to the point I was looking for ways to change myself or my personality. But when I watched this video I couldn't believe it how literally everything I do is on this list, it made me feel so happy. Maybe not everyone views me like I do.. Thank you so much again I literally love you 😭😭
You seem like a cute person ^^
With someone who is shy all the time and would rather keep to themselves this was really nice to hear❤️
Yes
Omg sooo true
Yeah
Infp described perfectly here hahaha
Same here.
1. You're shy
2. You're clymsy.
3. You're easily embarrassed
4. You're nerdy.
5. You're too honest
6. You're an oversharing
7. You take things slow
8. You crave support.
That's the 8 traits that makes you more imperfectly attractive.
I love this channel! Keep up with your good work!🖤❤🤍
Wow im only 3 of those 8 things
i only relate to 6 and 8
I guess I am really attractive then.
Wtf I have all these traits
I have ✨None✨
The first one makes me feel good about myself. I am always smiling, blushing, putting my head down, fidgeting, giggling, and a soft quiet voice. It’s so hard to keep eye contact lol. I thought it wasn’t attractive because I thought people were annoyed by it.
But tbh every single one of these “flaws” are what I am lol
2:54 THIS IS SO RELATABLE. I am always brutally honest even if I know that it'll hurt the feelings of the listener. If I'm served a meal as a guest at a house and the host asks how the food tasted, I'm willing to say that it's horrible if it was. Wasting time and "beating around the bush" as you described is coward's play. I didn't know that this trait is potentially attractive. Thank you Psych2Go!
I told my coworker my true feelings about her, but she said she doesn’t like men like that. It was the fact she was open and honest about her sexuality that made me feel great! 😊
Aww it's so cute you didn't took it personally!! We need more people like you in the world :)
@@ilovecats21 Ikr. Had it been it was any other guy, they would’ve either been depressed, or really mad and would make it seem like it’s the lady’s fault but in reality we all have different preferences! 😌
Oh thats neat!
They could be worth pursuing
@@mello.1483 i literally just said something no one asked for im so sorry-- (For a quiet person irl i feel so embarrased for the long story) And you're right.
Nobody can be perfect, but that's what makes them relatable
I'm perfect, bitch.
@@nood1le if you're perfect then it'd make you not perfect
@@nood1le unlike my bf
What about curt henning
@Tr0picalBurning you probably have, and I’m sorry for that. It’s shitty.
Bro this girl is making a whole story with this💀💀
Confidence really is the key to being attractive, atleast it has been for me. I was born pretty deformed but my attitude towards my looks has always won the hearts of people I meet. I know I look funny and I embrace it. Even my username "Concave Man" is a joke about how I look. I've had people tell me before that my ability to laugh about my own imperfections helps them accept theirs. Laughing at myself even protected me from bullies and in most cases causes the bullies to make fools of themself. How can you bully a kid when his jokes about himself are better than yours? Often times I'd have everyone laughing not the bully and it would deprive them of the attention they were trying to get in the first place resulting in me being even happier while the bullies mad. You gotta learn to cut loose people not everything has to be as serious as you take it.
I remember a girl that worked in a very competitive office with a lot of loud extroverts say to me with a genuine smile "There should be more guys like you here; quiet and reserved".
I loved how she saw a "negative" quality as something worthy of a compliment, even endearing
I didn't last at the job though; not the place for an introvert at all.
Are you still able to keep in touch with her?
@@JoshuaOlithao No, it was a long time ago. I have had other partners. I learned from them who to look out for; someone like her. I messed up but I was messed up, and so attracted and was attracted to troubled women. I have worked through many issues to become a better man.
Words cannot describe how much I want to meet her again. I have prayed many times, since it could not possibly happen through normal channels; we did not meet in a small town or even small city (Toronto metro area). She is most likely long gone from there; the girls there got bullied and the pay was probably bad.
I started seeing her name everywhere though since pandemic started.
I'm sure that comment would of stuck with you though.
I mean if we were all the same I think the world would be a boring place.
@@kanatapaw Yes. When someone counteracts many years of "You're too shy", or "He doesn't talk much", or the even more obviously punitive "D" grade for class participation, you don't forget.
I think being quiet and reserved is wise.
There is this girl I'm really in love with. She has a lazy eye, a chin that jaunts out, and a broken nose. But to me, that's all the more attractive. It all adds to her abstract look, and she is so beautiful to me.
Ukw (girl) im not pretty myself.. And even when someone says me that I am pretty... I refuse to believe it and consider it as mocking me.. Ik there will be people who like me for what I am.. But it's so rare ..
Some of my classmates were playing truth or fare.. And my crush got a dare to tell me "your the most beautiful person in this class... " I was really happy to hear that but at the end he said " sorry all this was just for dare "
@@revathin7292 ohhh this might be so traumatic! Anyway, you know you gotta love yourself, or no one else will. When you shatter this vision through beauty standards, you start seeing that everyone is beautiful, including you
@@oleander1404 thanks 🥺
@@revathin7292 well it happens.. cause when u think u r not pretty and someone says that ur are pretty it's just feel like they are trying to make u happy .. and yes my friend said that but ik she said it to make me happy but once a friend of my friend said to her that i am pretty she didn't knew my name and my friend said that to me infront of her i got soo happy like u can't just explain it .. and know smthg, you are always beautiful in someone's eyes and ugly in some others and you don't need to feel bad abut who u are just be confident abut it and love yourself ..try to be a better version of yourself by changing your bad habits.. and starting good habits etc..hope this helps.. tc :-)
Being an "overshared" person hurts sometimes... people use your weak points or hit you there where you thought you could trust them
The thing about me is that i am shy around new people but im not shy around people i know. I always thought that shy was cute but i didnt realize that i actually was until i picked you guys up! Thank you all much for getting me to where i am now, even when i have nobody to support me in my life. (Most of my "friends" are toxic ngl)
This world confuses me these days. I don't know what is attractive any more, these qualities turn into things people end up hating. I have a lot of these qualities in this video but I'm alone and always have been even when in relationships.
I am not even the legal age for dating or things like that and now iam even scared cuz when I turn 18 but never mind
Same ;/
It's called self judgment. There will always be people who don't like us, I mean, appearance is the first thing we see! I tell you to accept and let go of negative comments. Negative comments do not define who you are
these characteristics are not exactly qualities, as the title says: imperfections! but for many it can be bad, even ourselves, but there is always someone who is delighted with this way to be! 🥰
@@MrLan-us7xt how can I accept something when you know it's not going to work out? For example being shy or quiet as a guy is pretty much game over. No girl wants such guy.
Speaking from experience as a shy man, there are women that find these traits attractive, but I don't think it's very many. Another downside is even IF that's her type, a woman is very unlikely to initiate the conversation--it does happen, but it's absurdly rare. So unless you're willing to fight your shy nature and awkwardly approach a woman that catches your interest, you're pretty much screwed.
True
I might hazard the suggestion that the problem is NOT being screwed... BUT maybe that's just me over-analyzing again. ;o)
Awww
theres been multiple girls where i later found out they used to have a crush on me and never have any of them made a move on me at some point.
Yes.
Who finds being a nerd bad? It doesnt even make sense being made fun of for being smart. Most people who bully nerds are jealous of their intellegence❤
As someone who studied psychology for years, I find your videos quite entertaining and I'm glad that someone is trying to help. That being said to any girls watching your videos, nerdy, shy, clumsy, easily embarrassed girls are one of the most appealing to men. If not the most.
I've been told that my "forgetfulness" was cute. This was the one and only time that someone thought that one of my flaws was cute or charming.
People I know find it funny in a good way
@@8footspidercrab same with the ppl I know- even tho it drives me insane haha😭
Lol ppl who forget a lot , upsets me . Idk why😭. It looks good on sum ppl dough
a trait i have is you give me sum free i NEED to give sum in return
Not me. I forgot my own friends 18th birthday when I told them I was going to their party 😞 Not cute at all.
I've been told by my English teacher that being shy is a negative trait 😢 he was telling the whole class & was looking at me 😭 I felt so sad on that day & even from time to time, since I am naturally a shy person but this video gives me hope ❤️
Hello dear, maybe your teacher didn't mean that. Maybe she wanted you to come out from your shell.
As a teacher sometimes we dont want to say something that makes our student feel embarassed. Teachers wanted his students to grow hollistically .Cheer up!
@@arleneanoche4912 I actually have never viewed it in that perspective. Maybe you're right. I guess everyone have their own way of doing things😌 & thank you 💗
Don't listen to the man we r here for u! 🤗🤗🤗
Tell him being moron is a pretty negative trait for an English teacher.
I’ve noticed literally all my past crushes have all been shy
I make people feel needed , kind words , sweet gestures
I really relate to the taking your time thing. When me and my boyfriend were talking, I asked him if we could take our time! He gave me all the time I need so after 7 months of being “just friends” we started dating and I think our relationship is stronger because of it!❤
Lucky him.
Can I just say how CUTE the animation is?!! I really love psych2go's animations on these kinds of topics - it makes feel warm inside
Srsly tho..all her animations look pretty cute
Gotta Agree
yesss!
Tbh I want really listening I was just watching the animations XD
Omg seriously!! They are SO adorable 🥰🤗
Nothing is perfect. This should be night and day to people. The more you realize, the better, you can actually be as a person.
Absolutely! We just need acceptance, things will occur anyways, so what about living with a better attitude towards everything
True like a painting it would not be beautiful if its torally plain, theres should be different colors that makes it amazing
Does anyone appreciate it,nobody's perfect,don't need to be compared to others, isn't it embarrasing,don't you need to know the truth,you don't need to desire it or crave it💲✔️💥🚦❌♑✝️
Am I the only one that’s super jealous of the adorable couple from the background animations? They’re so cute together
THANK YOU, I’M SHY, CLUMSY, AND EMBARRASSED EASILY. I NEEDED THIS SO MUCH. THANK YOUUUUUU
After watching many videos like this, I figure out we should just be ourselves and some people will find us attractive.
No.
You can be yourself if you generally have an attractive personality but if you are lazy, rude, passive-aggressive etc. then you can't be "yourself" and should change to be a better person
@@Maziomix well i think we gotta take what we're seeing in a constructive way, like yeah if we are an extrovert or an introvert we shouldn't change ourselves but if we are hurting other people's feeling than we shall change our point of view and try to improve it😄
yea i'm gonna say no to that one, as a lazy dickhead i don't think being myself will do me any good.
@@Staro69 Very self-reflective. The first step in the right direction. Keep walking, dude. Beat your laziness 🙏
@@sirbughunter now hear me out, after i say this you'd prolly think i'm joking. but uh i'm too lazy to beat my laziness.
Timestamps
0:54 - you're shy
1:30 - you're clumsy
1:55 - you're easily embarrassed
2:22 - you're nerdy
2:55 - you're to honest
3:24 - you're and oversharer
3:59 - you take things slow
4:34 - you crave support
Thank youuu ✨🌙
Shy and too honest 😁
I'm at least 6 of these why am I not attractive 😮💨
I’m half of those, should I be concerned??
I'm all of the above and I'm happily married, it all makes sense now.
Seeing these two characters Together made me so happy for them 😄☺️. It feels so warm, I hope to feel this way with someone Special One day. 😊
Didn't expect to get called out like this lmao; great video! I've been binging this content recently and it's nice to see something here that completely 100% applies to me X3
7 years of being popular in School, Neighborhood and other places, I can tell one may find your clumsiness and other flaws attractive, but it doesn't takes you much far.
The main keys points to be the Main character in everyone's story is:-
- Be friendly to everyone, be it juniors, or senior. When I say everyone I mean Everyone including Fourth grade staff of your organisation too.
- Be confident, Don't get driven by your peer circles decisions. State your opinions confidently.
- Have a gentle and approachable personality with confidence that gives off the feeling that you are a very good person but not a pushover.
- Start answering in class to make a better impression on teachers and professors.
- Help out others with small things.
( I am NOT asking you to write their homeworks)
- Start participating in Extra co - curricular activities.
These are small changes that once put it practice will have a drastic impact on your personality and how others see you. In this era being confident in better than being shy. Being responsible is better than being clumsy and forgetful. In this era of rumours and badmouthing avoid saying things too personal or about someone. You won't know when your words will be twisted. Watch out and believe in yourself.
Hope you find it useful.
It sounds like you were popular in an Indian school if you were in a western school it would be a different story no offence
Ty!
and me 9 years of being bullied in school
exactly i agree with you i am this type of person and i thought my acts are boring i felt sad but ur comment made me confident and tbh i dont find shy people attractive they are sometimes ........ annoying
I can't change my personality.
Honestly watching these videos of yours makes me have faith in myself to actually find someone. I also feel like I am the only person that actually feels happiness for people when they are in a relationship instead of feeling envy. wierd.
Speaking of flaws and imperfections and stuff, something cool I've found out on my own is that in most of your daydreams or any scenarios you think of, the people included (real or not) have more of the personality traits you have than what they'd actually have. Even if you don't see those traits in yourself, other people usually see them in you. In conclusion, people see you the way you see them in your dreams and thoughts.
Aww my crush asked me out a few days ago and he said “hey -dead name- I like you and I’ve been wondering if you would like to go out with me?” I WAS SO HAPPY WHEN HE DID CAUSE HES BEEN ASKING ME HOW TO ASK THEIR CRUSH OUT😭💕
Plot twist 101:
OMG SO LUCKYY 😭💖
Your lucky. Sometimes it's hard to get your crush to like you back. And... Did you say yes?
How did it go ??
That's great, I'm so happy for you guys
Actually, not all people look attractive with flaws.
I'm always clumsy and I talk a lot and over-share but people see me as weird and see my behavior as cringey rather than quirky and cute, my ex-friend, however, is very attractive and has some similar flaws as me and everyone sees her as funny and cute. The only difference is she's very pretty and I'm just mid.
No matter your flaws people will always treat you differently because of how you look and it can really tear you down; remember that when making friends. Some people will use it against you.
Same here!! I wish people could know that we didn't pretend to what we are ...
yea just proof of how pretty privilege is a real thing, but I hope you are not discouraged , someone will def find you attractive and that's what matters
This is the reality... You really need to up the game in Physical attraction to make your quirks acceptable...
Like, I have a friend, who is conventionally pretty and she definitely way too honest & bit of a fragrance nerd, politically progressive person and guys swoon over her...
while me here with my quirks... "disgusting creature" as they say
@@yachishairclips2250 damn, im sorry they call u that. That’s awful :(
Pretty privilege is a real thing. 😕
People can be extremely superficial, I agree
Insecure?
I HAVE THE SELF ESTEEM OF A 5 YEAR OLD.
IM UNSTOPPABLE
This was a very good video to me. Being shy is one of my biggest insecurities and to be honest, I didn’t know it could be found attractive..
Being honest (even sometimes bluntly honest) and an oversharer, this so reassuring. I used to feel I should change to be more socially acceptable. I'm now just going to be me and not worry so much about it
this is true being what people want you to be only makes them hate you being yourself is good i feel like as an introvert i need both sides to be myself completely.
When I get excited I just ramble on and on and on, and I overshare or make jokes that I hate later…this video also helped me
Yes, I feel the exact same way! I have a tendency to be way too honest and can overshare at times, so it's really reassuring and comforting for me to see that there are enough people out there who would find these qualities more endearing about us.
“No flaws is already a flaw.” - me
Yes. Yes it is.
These videos are both informative and also calming to me, and with a very cute art style that just pops well with the sound. Just look at what new things they have occasionally and let all the chaos drift away. Only to get the chaos back not too long after, but its a nice break sometimes.
"People call these things "imperfections," but they're not. That's the good stuff. And then we get to choose who we let into our weird little worlds. You're not perfect, sport."
- Robin Williams in Good Will Hunting
Things my future significant other will hopefully like about me-
*I'm Autistic, so I'm awkward, shy, and can get overwhelmed and frustrated.
*I'm polite and courteous to a fault at times; I don't like to be the bad guy.
*I like to keep things simple in every part of my life; from food, to clothing, to my lifestyle.
*I am religious(but not to an unsettling degree) and do my best to stay humble.
*I'm always the reliable one.
*Although I'm nice and polite, I'm not a pushover.
*I will gladly beat the ever-loving crap out of anyone who dares harm her, but I will do my best to resolve conflicts peacefully.
*I'm always willing to compromise if possible.
These are things I can think off the top of my head. There's more to me than this, but I think these qualities can give a good idea about me.
I’m autistic as well relate with this a lot! Especially the “polite to a fault” part!
you described me, hoping that one day I will have someone that would understand my autistic character without judgment
did you just-
describe my whole personality?
I'm the friend who everyone "bullies", and I don't think they know how unsure I am about myself. I have a letter from a friend saying how much she loves my confidence in being who I am, and that I inspired her to be herself. Sometimes, you just overthink and feel like everyone dislikes you, but there are definitley someone who actually look up to you. Just imagine a six year old, they would be flabbergasted over something as simple as spinning around in sircles.
Sorry ypu spelt the last word wrong its actually circles😅 not trying to be rude
@@nikinthewater9534 you*
The love story between the two animations is probably the cutest thing I will ever see
I have 80% of these imperfections. I've always thought that I have to be a specific way, so it's really nice to know that people find these attractive. It makes me feel a lot better about myself
To number 6. Although psychologically yes that’s true, I find it very attractive when a girl says “Sorry I shouldn’t talk to you about that.” It tells me she is a mature, responsible, and self controlled person with an understanding of what’s private and what isn’t. Not everything needs to be shared and knowing that difference isn’t a very common trait imo. Don’t get me wrong though being an open book is very inviting, just knowing the limits is also very healthy and very attractive.
POV: after watching this video you act like you have some of these flaws so that more people will like you
"Comic books, anime, videogames, Broadway musicals." That literally called out everything I like ToT
I have all these imperfections and I consider myself an ambivert. It sure feels good when I find more relatable content like this.
Can we talk about, how downright, ADORABLE the animation is :)))
0:16 -73,771,903,933
I know! That's why I enjoy this channel.
The multifaceted stone is the one that deserves all the attention because it sparkles most. I have all of these traits, yet at 37 I have had 2 boyfriends, no relationship longer than 2 years, and no marriage. No children, no abortions, was on birth control most of my life for painful periods. I mean...I was also raised to be kind to people, even if they don't deserve it. So there's no reason I shouldn't have a mate yet! All I keep getting is bedroom propositions. 😩 life.
I have all of these flaws and now I feel better about myself, tysm!😊
Special props to the animator(s) for the frame-by-frame work! It looks great!
i am very shy, super clumsy, easily embarrassed, way too honest (i’ve learned to filter myself over the years lol), & i 100% take things slow.
i can be an oversharer, but it depends on the crowd or how i’m feeling. i don’t crave support, but having it is nice.
ironically though, i have never looked at these things as being attractive for myself. quite embarrassing actually, but whenever someone else has those same qualities i think it’s adorable lol
You’re too honest, Clumsiness, and Overshare literally applies to me 😭😭😭😭😭
I'm a psychopath and I don't find anyone attractive rather than just some murder thoughts or criminal like people and my therapist said that there is no cure for me to become a normal person 🥺
Well, I am glad to see absolutely 0 of my flaws are here! What a confidence boost.
well what flaws do you have? I'll try reassuring you about them >:3
conversely, seeing pretty much all of your flaws on here is not great
Yeah me too Zywia ●~●
I am not someone who’s easily insecure, I’m a very lucky person to be in this position, but I am quite insecure about my “oversharing” and “overthinking” and about the way I interact with other people. ‘Do my friends even like me?’ Is a question I ask myself wayyy too often. This video helped me A LOT, so thank you! I was having such a bad day, but this made me feel better!
1:58 The convo was so adorable
I just watched the 7 signs you're attractive video, I didn't think I could feel any better than I did after that video, I was wrong
Growing up I’ve always been a super nerdy person. However when I was younger, I was extremely shy about openly expressing my love for anything anime, Disney, and musical theatre related because most guys I had crushes on thought that those things were weird. Fast forward 10 years later and I’m more confident to share my interests with others. It’s even gotten to the point where crushes in my adult life have told me that they grew a crush on me cause of my openness to share my love for those things😊
I have a painfully swollen face right now and can hardly open my eyes, allergic shock.
It goes away but looks horrible, the swelling is starting to heal and everything is blue around the eyes.. so really not perfect 😂 so as before! But it's nice to see that I'm not the only one who thinks that perfection is just one☝️option! Imperfection, on the other hand, has so many facets, so many variants, so many unique, lovable options! Don't focus too much on the outside, it's the first thing we notice of each other, but it's also the less important! Stay blessed!💋
But hey I have no wrinkles right now😂😂
Oh no! I had the same thing happen to me with poison Shumack. It was awful. Glad to hear you are taking it so well and staying positive... it will get better!
This might be one of the best animating styles on this channel! It's adorable (the characters, MY OPINION)
This gave me assurance i didn't know I needed, thank you
I was pretty openly all of these traits with someone. I overthought a lot and felt dumb and weak when I nervously tried my best. Small moments of bravery and unexpected openness. Now that I think about it maybe these traits weren't the final blow but they were traits that made me likable in the first place.
I swear this girl is just defining me-
I would not adopt a flaw to be more attractive. We're already imperfect and attractive at the same time
As someone that can relate to literally all of these you can bet that I'm pretty happy right now
Same! We are AWESOME 😎
Me too, until I opened the comments
My self esteem was pretty insecure, but of course P2G always seems to make a video that helps me
i love this chanel!! it helps me so much thank you so much
I could relate strongly to a lot of these. Remember, what's weird or awkward or cringey to the wrong people, will be great to the right people
I possess all these traits but there's still no person who would appreciate me and my flaws in a romantic sense. I hope one day I'll meet a person who would genuinely love me and find my personality charming.
I never thought my flaws would be attractive to other people, I always think it can be annoying or uncomfortable to be shy and slow with my decisions. it's good to know that!
Me too
You r the best thing on youtube that really helps I used to subscribe to you every year on my school computers and just watch you on my free time 😂
I'm an oversharer and always been ashamed about it, because I talk too much, and I'm scared to not let enough space to other people... The thing is that I like to make people laugh with some weird situations that happens to me, and I tend to answer to every question without thinking.. I didn't imagine that this could be attractive!
Still try to control it and ask more questions to other people, so that they get more space.
I'm also very nerdy, (it's almost an obsession) with horror, true crime, cults related stuff, liminal spaces, aesthetics, and with some specific skills like crochet, writing or painting..
I kind of try to control it too, because some people tend (or I imagine they do) to think I'm a psychopath because of my interest for true crime, and tend to be bored when I talk about skills they don't know..
I think too much, which leads to critism and analysis of everything. Always being told to just relax and enjoy the moment. So now that is what I try to do.😩🔥
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@@stock.wheel.shawty A prime example in what my comment said. I just accept this and hope that at least one life has been affected in a positive way by my comments. Hopefully you will be.😎🔥
me too, you're not alone
Copy pasta
@@DaestrumManitz yeah no, i really like your comment! i was just saying it was stolen by a bot.
This came for most of my insecurities, and this makes me feel so much better about them, thank you so much!
i think some people rock the confidence attitude and some people are just more like the shy, nervous attitude and i think both are great
You are an amazing chanel and we will give yall a very big support!❤❤❤ Also u always make my day❤❤❤
I feel like we don't appreciate the animators a lot.
As a shy person myself, I find it hard to open up to people. A lot. I feel like that's a good thing. There are the type of people who will exploit people who open up a lot. But I'm sure the right person will come along, someone who wants to know who you really are, whoever you may be, and someone who will want to spend every second with the greatest human being to ever exist. aka you.
Recently, I realized that I was an “oversharer” and I honestly felt bad about it because I tend to overshare things because I know that someone is listening to me. But yeah, despite being an introvert and not that much social to people, this characteristic of being an “oversharer” made it easy for other people to approach and be friendly towards me (which is actually nice). This video actually gave me a positive perspective about being an “oversharer” and I now feel better about it
yeah! the same happened with me
i started to keep things to myself when i started thinking i was being annoying even when i was upset and i basically ended up bottling up my feelings i am lucky enough to have family and friends who were willing to listen to me they told me to say whatever i want to and not to keep it in
I’m on my sisters acc rn but I just wanna say that the animation for this video is so adorable 🥺 and as a person who has all of these flaws it made me feel SO much better about myself
Well, people always say that I'm attractive. But I always thought "why?"
Now, I got it that I have all of this
Well I just cried!😭 I relate to this so much and constantly put myself down because of it, this really gave me the confidence boost! I’m in a new relationship and I realize I’m putting myself down and not allowing myself to be myself because I’ve always saw it as a negative thing. Thanx!💜
I'm glad to see this channel growing before my eyes.
I love the animations and little speech bubbles. This channel keeps getting better and better, and I hope the same is happening for the mental and emotional health of your viewers.
Keep up the great work and God bless you guys.
You are my literally my therapist for every thing I neeed
i like how this entire video feels like an out of order storyline of the boy and the girl getting together
I've learn the hard way that as humans we all have flaws and scars so that means accepting a person's downside is just as important as thier upsides. Problem with dating today is that people forget to expect that thier partners has flaws and sometimes that mind leads to looking for mr./ms perfect. There nothing wrong with standard but at the same time don't expect that "perfect" exist.
Especially when reflected with current trends such as K-pop, TV shows portraying perfect and absurdly good looking people, echo chambers and tik-toks displaying ridiculously unrealistic "couple goals" or "standards". This makes them forget that "good enough" exists and is ultimately enough.
I feel like being a nerd has kind of become a compliment at this point, now it mainly depends on the type of nerd you are, like are you correcting everybody even though it can be rude at times.
Or being mean because you think others aren't smart.
These are what people's current definition of a nerd are.