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- Did you know that there are a lot of little things that can reveal a lot about your personality? Like what type of shoes you wear, or where your eyes go when you sip your coffee. If you’re curious to learn more about these little things that give way to who you truly are, here are a few little things that reveal a lot about you.
If you want to learn more about what your habits say about you, we have a video on that too: • 7 Habits That Reveal A...
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Who has secrets about themselves that nobody knows about? Also, for anyone looking to learn about what your habits says about you, watch this video:
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HI
To whoever read this:
You're amazing the way you are. Don't try to change yourself for others. Love yourself❤️
(I'm a small youtuber looking like help)
Early
Hi Phych2Go im 6 th viewer.
8th
I feel like an alien who is trying to study humans
I can very much relate to that
Same, Thai is sad
Hahaha I like your brain!!
Humans are confusing and weird. I don't like them very much. Some of them are okay, though.
😂 samee
If you check your phone a lot, you may have a mental illness
me: *sweats nervously*
Relatable. We may need to set the bar during the pandemic waaaay higher. And since we are up there once, dont even bother getting it back down
Nah, you just want to be informed. Checking when you're waiting or just bored is normal.
Me: *p a n i k*
Tbh I would be surprised if I have a mental illness at this point 😔
Realized I checked my phone more often, and I'm stressed more often, and I'm ruder and less considerate and don't pay attention as much as I used to...
Uh oh
Yes it's so correct
I love she uses "might, may, can" to say that it is not settled that this is who you might be, or what you're actually experiencing.
yeah, they're all generally pretty accurate tho, with usually only one or two of the tips not being accurate.
in reality that is just a cheap way of claiming anything you want and when it turns out to be wrong you just be like "i only said may"
But at the same time it can be super relatable
❤❤
She's qualifying all of these because further investigation may reveal there are other reasons for these tells. A man might be taught by his parents to always have a firm handshake, which neutralizes that as a clue. Or say you meet someone at a cafe & they are brusque with the waitstaff: it may not be due to personality, but because that person is preoccupied with some important matter. (This would be the case with someone who is brusque with the waitstaff yet leaves a generous tip.)
These are all bits of a puzzle, which needs to be assembled & studied before any firm judgment is made. None should be used in isolation.
I'm working on my bachelors degree in psychology, and I appreciate the insights this channel has given me overall.
Very random, but is psychology hard? Im planning on taking it but im not decided yet.
in that case you will definitely fail your exams
hey me too! best of luck!
Me too and I find @medcircle to be very helpful to
Don’t rely on this channel, they can be good but they also have a lot of misinformation in their videos sometimes; In general don’t rely on un reputable sources from the internet
“Sorry can’t talk rn I’m doing hot girl stuff”
Lmao that part was so funny!!!
Inspired by Megan thee stallion
✨AAaHH✨😜
ik!!!
I struggle w that
Love the censoring
I can't remember the last time I shook someone's hand.
When are they going to make that legal again?
*last time I shaked someone's hand was my dad*
Same but I guess it’s more prominent in the business world
Aah the good old days 🙃🙃
corona tingz
I love Amanda’s voice :///) she is so good at sounding like she’s talking to you like a friend. Her voice is up there with corpse and lily with soothing voices.
she sounds how the lofi girl looks
@@vir.b_10 lmao
Idk abt u but my friends do NOT like EVER have a nice calming voice 😂
Ahmen 🥰🥰🥰
Makes me melt honestly I’m so enthralled
Psychology is something I never thoguht I would learn but the way you present it just makes it interesting to learn.
Little Thing 1: Digging straight down in Minecraft
So youre in homegrown and psych2go?
Meee😂😂
@@souad3686 ARMYYY XDD
That’s me. :)
If you are one of those people, you are *brain dead*
if anyone disrespects food service workers i will throw hands
looks like you’re throwing hands quite often by the looks of literally everything on the internet
it's extremely telling.
for the same reasons as how people treat people who can't talk yet &/or of other species is:
these are all opportunities to show empathy without the motivation being an expectation of the usual levels of accountability.
unfortunately, the best tell is how someone treats someone whom they have good and used to them plus locked into a sense of personal loyalty & a marriage contract with no good prenup.
so true btw this reminds me of the time me and my broke friends went to a restaurant and when the bill came to $66 we paid and my friend tipped the waitress his bus fare by accident we tried to give her a lot of tip because how she approached us was really good and she was so sweet and nice. We gave her $12 and it was long after my mum came and stuff in the gc later he said he didn't have his bus fare lol. But we lived in the opposite direction and it was like 8:00 in the night. Eventually my other friend used his card and paid for him.
@@seph6012 the struggle is real.
And chairs
The last sign was a very unique way to analyze someone's personality...I really love these peculiar kind of analysis. It is very entertaining and engaging.
i appreciate it when you decide to use "less diligent" rather than "lazy" ♥️
It may sound simple but thank you
okay pause THE ART IS SO CUTE ON THIS ONE props to the artist!!!
Hella cute 🥺
Ya!
their names Zuzia btw 🤗
Amazing 🤩
Agreeee
“Base *solely* on the shoes he or she wears most often”
That was a pun and nobody can tell me other wise.
Yes, yes it is.
I love you
You just made my day
Exactly!!!!
why didn’t psych2go see thisssss HAHSHS
I really like how soft spoken these videos are. It makes me feel calm. 😊
Bro, I always treat service staff well. I know what it’s like to work hard, so I appreciate and respect everybody. Cashiers, receptionists, wait staff, everybody.
On the very rare occasion that I go out to eat with mates, I always ask for things politely, wait patiently, clean up after myself, and if the staff are super cool, I’d leave a good tip (we don’t really tip here in Australia).
People appreciate the little things, especially when it seems like some people often forget to treat you with common decency on a regular basis.
“Or your handshake”
COVID: We don’t do that here
*Me, who is an introvert and had People tell me to please not crush their hand*
I've been fist pounding people ever since COVID to avoid exposure. I feel like it's both uncomfortable for them and me. LOL
What's COVID?
@@aanler have you been stuck in the Backrooms the last 2 years?
@@awakeneddio6012 No 🤔
Those illustrations are so cute, my heart melts.
Thank you so much! Zuzia has outdone herself in this video! - Cindy
Do you need to go to the hospital
Totally 🥺🥺
Ikr! And I love the big cheeks too! >w
Love them! 💜
That last one actually gave me chills, as I am the one who usually drinks with my eyes closed... Though, in strange environments or around new people, I look over my cup because I don't trust anyone around me...
I had to laugh on the shoe one. From my own experience wearing hiking boots can mean you are aggressive, or that you destroyed your ankle back in school and need the support to avoid limping.
'If you check your phone a lot, you may have a mental illness'
Literally the whole of gen z: shook
I AM *SHOOKETH*
Most genz already know they arent mentally stable
@@ratsflow13 that’s true 🤣
**Cries in checking phone to see if my friends feel like talking to me**
@@goodday3185 same 😭
How a person treats service staff is probably the most revealing for what you need to know about a partner. The type of shoes a person wears as their favorite shoes I think is pretty useful as well.
I agree...!!
okay, so what does sandals say about someone?
What if i have (undiagnosed) social anxiety and cant make eye contact and struggle to talk to service staff so all i can do is nod my head for yes shake my head for no.
@@catrice1296 then use sign language and pretend you’re deaf
i think it's important to not judge people by things that they might not have gotten to choose. lots of people have only one or two pairs of shoes- or of actually fitting shoes- that they were lucky enough to come by at all.
Me, a short-tempered aggressive college freshman who wears ankle boots on a daily basis: HEY, WHAT THE--
These videos are incredibly calming. The soft way you talk makes me feel so fuzzy inside. You’re perfect for this. ❤❤
Thank you :)
Psych2Go: Shoes can determine your personality
Me who has two pairs of shoes: *My personality is broke :">*
oof
I just wear whatever shoes my family gives me LMAO
Bruh my parents are like YoUr ShOeS YoU HaVE NoW StIlL Fit yOu I just need different ones for different times and I want to be clean too.
hahahahhah lmaooo
same
i wear sleepers
bruh
This woman would be great doing sleep meditations. Such a soothing voice
Yes. But I think it's best to keep it as a yt Channel.
Ik right
I feel the same
Plot twist: thats not a woman
Lol I actually fell asleep to these videos the other night
All very good points. The way people treat others who they "don't have to be nice to" says a lot about how they will eventually treat you. Pay attention to how they talk to their parents and siblings as well as their close friends too.
I LOVED the thing about the cup, I find I look all the 3 places mentioned. AND that these are indicate of my mood. But most commonly I tend to look inside, but usually outside and then inside. First to see if anyone is watching me drink and second to see how much remains in the cup.
"Based solely on the shoes he or she wears most often."
Ha I get it.. soles
GENIUS
Lmao yassss
My soles are severly damaged... they're cracked and broken...
Almost accurate, except that, if the eyes are the window to ones soul, I don't have a soul that could be crakced and broken, because my eyes are black.
? that sucked
haha. I don't have soles
"someone who only gets takeout for themselves is rude and selfish"
me: "or just lives alone" ;_;
Exactly. There is no one else! Am I supposed to buy food for imaginary people?
Right or maybe nobody else eats my vegetarian diet and I'm too poor to buy everyone food anyway 😩
I believe they meant it in a case where the presence of others are involved.
So asking out of courtesy basically.
Otherwise, it's obviously not obligatory to ask them to join you. And even if you don't, you are no bad person. Those are just people's expectations playing.
And we know how expectations can get 😑
Yeah that one's weak, tbh. Like yeah it's nice to offer but there's plenty of perfectly good reasons why somebody wouldn't do that?
Like, maybe you just have enough money for you and want to treat yourself? Why is that necessarily a bad thing when it's a want, but not a need?
I often buy it for myself, but the fun part is that I'm not rude at all. I may be selfish, but not rude.
Thank you for sharing everything with us. Its a lot easier to study mental healt with you! ❤️
I love giving myself a mini self analysis while watching these videos, thank you Psych2Go!!
The little things:
1.- How often you check your phone
2.- How you treat service staff
3.- What type of shoes you wear
4.- How often you make eye contact
5.- Your handshake
6.- Whether you show up on time or not
7.- You get something for yourself and no one else
8.- You subtly put others down
9.- Where you look when you're drinking out of a cup
Thanks!! I like this so I don’t have to watch 😃
Thanks a million
Some persons are watching this video to avoid doing these little things to keep themselves confidential.
@@randomrobloxplayerbasicall2936 [Makes eye contact with you while drinking some water out of a cup after showing up late to the comments section, wearing comfortable shoes] You're not avoiding doing the little things, are you? That wouldn't be very honest of you. [Gives you a firm handshake and waits patiently for the waiter] Do you want something to eat?
I don't get the boots thing because boots are the most comfortable footwear, lol
9 little things that reveal alot about you:
Shoes:
Looks at shoes: Ay ya boy is poor
and I'm basic
You juged me
i cant wear my tie shoes because i cant tie and its hard to find shoes that are slip ons and look good :(
Aja Tipp: dont wear shoes
@@ashnotfound7890 don’t you have anyone to teach you? You could maybe watch a tutorial as well,, sorry if you’ve tried either
I treat every staff with kindness and passion just because I'm touch-starved and also seek compliments because it's what i lacked as a child.
Yoo shut moew up 💀
@@RANDOMvideosForYOU777 realest‼️
Specifically for the cup one: I have trained myself (subconsciously) to look around my surroundings when drinking, or to look down but not inside the cup to be aware of what's happening around me. So.. I don't think it really shows my personality very well, but for others, it is probably more accurate.
(I am a Looking-inside-the-cup personality)
I believe how people treat an animal like dog or cat, tells a ton about them.
ESPECIALLY cats
Nazis loved animals and Hitler did as well and was vegetarian. My own father saved orphan animals but almost killed my mother multiple times. I don't know if that is true
@@creatureoftheeast3331 Okay maybe not in all instances, and I'm so sorry your father was awful, I hope you and your mother are doing good- and didn't Hitler almost wipe out a whole breed of dogs because one bit him/didn't like him???
@@xxxluckycharmsxxx my family escaped him and I don't remember him. And there's some sources that say Hitler was for animal rights but it's hard to believe. I wouldn't be surprised if he did hate a whole breed
Cats are epic
I trained myself to maintain the "confident" eye contact and handshake so random people don't realize how miserable I am 😅
Sameeeee
🤣 me to
Im doing great but i do not hold eye contact like at all
I naturally hold eye contact but made my handshake firm on purpose because people are like sharks and will smell weakness. I’ve been this way even at my lowest.
Aw man, do you need to talk?
As someone who is service staff, I really appreciate the second point!
Literally my biggest pet peeve is people who mistreat service staff like unless they literally are NOT doing their job there is no need to be disrespectful towards them.
"Is your date complaining nonstop about your waitress? Are they losing their patience or temper over every little thing that the waitress does wrong?" *: you're dating Karen*
"Is your date turning a common name into an insult?" : you're dating an ignorant jerk
Karen spotted☝🏼
@@weedle4736 I’m glad you exist
Or he took her to hooters and isn't paying attention to her..LOl
@@weedle4736 omg you are amazing 😂
Some of these are red flags. If someone I'm with is rude to a service worker I'll call them on it right there. How you treat someone you have power over in life says a LOT about your character.
My dad is always very polite her formal to people in grocery stores etc., and I have just picked it up at this point. Always saying thank you and have a good day to everyone I come across. Have no idea what that means about me though because really it’s a copied trait.
im a laid back autistic person. idk im sensitive to liek every single fucking sense there is (except time lul bc yes)
I have anxiety so when I get my order taken I always end up sounding scared and looking at the table, I hope they don't think I'm being rude D:
@@regrettispaghetti2517 if it makes you feel any better, i have anxiety and i’m a cashier at taco bell, so whenever i can see someone else with anxious tendencies i try to be understanding and be as clear and (hopefully) calming as possible cuz i know the feeling
@@lucky.marshal wow u wonderful human bean
this is so interesting I thought about how I am drinking out of a cup and what it reveals about my personality and here are you answering my question, thank you psych2go
#4 was so true
When were introduced ourselves to our class and shared what career you'll take, only 3 of us don't know what we were taking. Suddenly, our adviser said “why?”, I avoided eye contact with the teacher after she said that.
"It's because of my emotionally unavailable father" was way funnier than it should have been to me
u alr?
me too lol.
In the video? Do you have the time? 😅
@@deisygonzalez9480 2:27
@@rofl_copter thank you loll that was funny
“If you wear ankle boots, you’re aggressive”
Me, who owns mostly ankle boots but can’t even say anything when a waiter gets my order wrong: *”Something’s not right, I can feel it”*
it means you are probably 12 years old
@@georgia3623
I’m 15 💀💀
I think it can be a sign of protection to wear shoes to the ankle...
Maybe there's an aggressive side in you that just hasn't come out yet. You probably like to feel powerful, but it hasn't been expressed outwardly YET.
oop- same haha
Absolutely 💯 I support you and your channel and sponsors won't make me hate ur vids, u made me deal with my mental health, even though I'm still a little depressed lol, anyways ur channel has helped my a lot tysm Psych2Go!
Thanks for realizing that like most people think, it isn't just "that damn phone". My phone is my escape.
Online I have a broader pool of people to choose from, and it's way easier to find people my age that I really like than it is to find people in my small community irl where I have scars down my arms and am awkward as all hell. I've found amazing people that I connect with and that are easier to share with/get to know than people irl. They make me feel validated and loved as much as anybody. Yes, I have educated myself on online safety and keep myself safe.
Yeah, drama happens online and friends are lost. But guess what? It happens irl too.
Or sometimes I just need my phone to help take my mind off all the crap going on around me...
Psych2go: shoes can tell a lot about who you are
The people with crocs: *nervous sweating*
*edit: my TH-cam notifications will never financially recover from this
lol
Nah people who wear Crocs just don't give a shit 😂
Crocs show that u r casual. It shows about the financial status and the recent past place u came from.
With the real scenario and example...I can tell more.
Why should I be sweating
You mean the unvain, well- cushioned people?... Why sweat?!.. Crocks show that you care more about being comfortable than looking comfortable!
i don't recall whether they seemed easy to dance in without them falling off, though. :/
Am I the only one that stares into someone’s soul when they’re trying to understand someone deeply but then just ends up making them uncomfortable or creeping them out?
I do that at times too. I also have to be careful when hugging someone so I don't read into their thoughts or things personal to them. It's NOT something I mean to pry into...it just happens if I don't control it.
@@covahsmusicvault8953 same!!
Oh my god I'd die if anyone did that to me ;--; I never make eye contact with people and it scares me a LOT when they try to do it ToT
I would be the one that is being stared into my soul and I would really do not like it at all
I stare into souls too! even though I've tried to camouflage it with nodding and hand movements, but sometimes I get caught up and forget to hold back :( then I can see them shifting and looking away XD thank god I'm not the only one
My whole family is always late to stuff, not because their busy, but because their either on their phone or watching something on tv-
Punctuality is a good way to show consideration for others, rather than letting them sit and wonder what happened to you, if you're going to show up, etc. and wasting their time, especially in a professional type of situation or regarding appointments, as a lackadaisical attitude toward being on time can be indicative of unreliability, regardless of how much stuff you've got going on; at least call and let them know if you're going to be late, which is indicative, again, of consideration for the other person. That tells a lot about you.
me : a calm introvert
also me: wears ankle boots
*_there is an imposter among us_*
You are the imposter...☠️
@@MemeMeme-qv8bq throw him out the airlock then.
My Blundstones are the most comfortable shoes I've ever worn.
Interestingly, the person who turned me on to Blundstones is actually pretty aggressive.
SUS
HEY,,stop talking about me...hahahahahhahah!!!
"if you're someone that's more so aggressive, you probably like to wear ankle boots"
**aggressively hides my combat boots that look exactly like the illustration**
*looks over at my boxing shoes in guilt*
*glances over to my combat boots that look the same (they're brand new, so haven't worn them much)*
fr tho i have so many
Or you come from a violent childhood. Boots provide safety that shoes and sneakers simply do not.
@@janegale3534 Oh...makes sense...
drinking from a cup with closed eyes just means you focus on the joy of the drink and are highly aware while this video corelates it instantly to negative traits, oh well it's not that obvious what all these things mean, but I was impressed about you saying how you treat the waitress, thats really an excellence thing to keep an eye on
Hi it's the first time I watched your videos and I LOVE THEM SO MUCH!!! I am an extrovert, kind, agreeable person by the way! :) I am also focused and know myself so yea thanks for doing this video! :)
Weirdly, making eye contact physically hurts me. The relief I feel when I don't have to make eye contact in conversation, is like flopping down in your comfortable bed at the end of a long day.
its the same for me when I look into a camera. For me it feels like I am staring into the sun and my eyes literally start tearing up, even though it isnt very bright.
Yeah I have a real problem with eye contact lol
I was mentally and physically taught to make eye contact. Now I make eye contact with my shy crush. I just can't not do it.
I'm not really looking for one
I know it can be very comfortable but it makes it really hard for the other person to trust.
“If you make a lot of eye contact your usually socially dominant and confident”
Me: *looks at everything but the person and their eye*
I just focus on their noses.
I just feel weird looking into other people’s eyes so I never make eye contact
I'm both anxious and I hate people, but I have no problem keeping the eye contact.
I have social anxiety, so this is me 😂
SAMME my friend is like I aways make I contact and I’m over here like 😢 I’ll look everywhere but the wyes
i swear i like ur videos soo much that it release my anxiety..
After watching the video now I just realized that I myself have always been subconsciously taking these points except the last one while studying someone's behaviour. That's why these things are called psychology. It tells a lot about our subconscious mind.
me: wears running shoes everywhere not because of taste, but because in case there's a disaster or villain attack I could run fast. 😤👍
Somebody get this man a Nobel Prize in ingenuity
I feel like giving u an oscar 😂😂
Omg get out of my head that’s exactly me
Bruh you live in the future
I only have 1 pair of shoes lmao so I wear that every time
Psych2Go is the calmest channel I know, from video animation to colour pallete to the narration, voice, style and even words! Cannot get over it!
It could very well be an unintentional asmr
@@Ryosuke1208 I treat it as so :)
Her voice helps me calm down. I hope I can find a partner who has a soft voice like her.
1. I don't often check my phone
2. I treat service staffs kindly
3. I wear comfortable shoes
4. I don't make much eye contact cause I am shy and rather look away
5. My handshake is on the weaker side and I am shy
6. I am sometimes late
7. I get something for everyone and sometimes if I forget to get it for them I share my stuff with them
8. I don't put others down
9. I mostly look inside the cup while drinking specially when there's someone in front of me
thank you for making these videos because you have made my life so much easier!
before:🤕😵☹😭😢😥💔💣. after:💞💖❤🩹😌🤗😍😍😘🤩😃😇🥲
thank you 🥲
Did anyone notice- "Sorry, I can't talk right now I m doing Hot girl Stuff" 😂😂
yess, that animation was soo cutee!
Yes
Eheheh i love ir
That is my new favorite line abd I will make sure to use it as often as I can lol
Sum:
1. How often you check your phone 0:50
2. How you treat service staff 1:53
3. What type of shoes you wear 2:34
4. How often you make eye contact 3:40
5. Your handshake 4:12
6. Whether you show up at time or not 4:59
7. You get something for yourself and no one else 5:39
8. You subtly put others down 6:07
9. Where you look when you drinking out of a cup 6:36
Yo sorry for slow typing!
Man, i really have a bad time (no reference intended) this end, just one mistake and my parent punish me forever??? What? Huh, sorry for bothering, just thought making this at comment make me feel better, cuz i want to share ot to someone
@@treznopresto4878 dont lose hope yet 🙃 you’ll be good soon and this is happening for a reason. There are people who still love you so you’ll be okay. Take care and just a lil hardwork you can get what you want
@@treznopresto4878 don't worry everything gonna be ok maybe not now, not today but someday sonner or later....if you are feeling sad or depressed or want to talk to someone i am ALWAYS here for you....if I can do a little help to you ☺️
For each point.
1. Most of my friends and family are quite a distance away, and I don't like to seem like I'm avoiding them by not texting back as soon as I can.
2. I try to be friendly and polite to others in general.
3. I wear gumboots around home, especially in the paddocks, because it's safer (especially when the brown snakes are out). I wear comfortable runners if I'm going into town or something.
4. I tend to watch a person's mouth when talking with them, rather than their eyes, unless I know them well.
5. I don't like shaking hands. I find it uncomfortable.
6. I'm very punctual, if I have a say in it.
7. I definitely check with others if I'm grabbing food or beverages if they want something. I also check if there's anything I need to do then or soonish before I start anything that's going to take a while. I also consider surprising others if there's something cheap and I have enough change.
8. I don't think I put others down, but it is possible that I do so accidentally. If it gets pointed out, I will apologise... and then potentially mess it it by trying to spin what I said into something more positive.
9. I close my eyes when drinking out of a cup.
What does that tell you about me? I'm curious.
👍
Hi! You're doing a really nice work! Keep it up! ❤
'if you make eye contact a lot youre likely to be more socially dominant'
me who just wants to have a staring contest:
That's dominant
Staring contest is the OG dominance establisher tho.. Like literally for every species lmfao..
Lets goo i love staring contests too! Bet on your pet pufferfish?
Just talking about what ya had for breakfast and silently having a battle the the blink
Bucky Barnes is proud of you lmao
1. How often you check your phone?
2. How you treat service staff?
3. What type of shoes you wear?
4. How often you regularly make eye contact?
5 Your Handshake
6. Whether you show up on time or not (Multitasker / Laid back)
7. If you get something for yourself but not for someone else
8. If you subtly put others down
9. Where you look when you're drinking out of a cup
*Cackles in neurodivergentness, iffy eyecontact an fixation on wearing the same attire*
checking your phone is annoying
help I relate to this way too much for my comfort level-
1. Not much.
2. With politeness. I don't like drama.
3. TMI.
4. TMI
5. No idea.
6. TMI
7. I do.
8. Nope!
9. I don't pay attention to small details like this.
Yeah this was a stupid video.
@@Silencio125 g
Out of millions of views and hundreds of thousands of likes, and only less than 5k views in this page, I decided to write to acknowledge the person or persons that took the time to do the video, script and design.. then post it, and created a bibliographic reference for the content shared. That's a lot of commitment, responsibility and love for what they do just because they can. How amazing is that? Impossible not to recognize excellence where we see one. It's a common trait in our society. And even less common in a group of people with common goals. Great teamwork @Psych2go!
Well said!
6:07 my friend does this to me I told her I was making a mushroom hat for myself and she said mushroom hats are weird but I saved myself I said I was making it for my dog
People always say “Don’t bottle up your emotions!” And to them I say, I bottle up my emotions so much that I forget I even HAVE negative emotions and they just come in jokes at my own expense! I am 100% fine because I refuse to acknowledge my mental health because I have so much mental baggage and can’t afford a therapist so therefore I am alright!
Then one day I got one missing chicken nugget and all feelings came out no but something like that happened
@@-Yosei- It’s like one of those infomercials, “Do you want help but can’t afford a therapist? Well sucks to suck! Now go cry over chicky nuggy.”
@@FancyShrimpp your name is my favourite drink. That makes me happy😊
@@FancyShrimpp therapy should be in the universal healthcare system. As in, funded by the people and used by those who needed it.
I would say free, but it's not technically free.
@@Arlesmon It really should
"Looking over the rim means you can trust others easily"
Me: *looking over the cup and watching people because my brain says that if I look away they're gonna steal something or try and murder me*
This made me laugh hard!
Me: *it looks dark and cozy in there*
LMAO SAME FR😭🤣🤣
Same. I look over the rim when I drink, but I blindly trust others. I only lose trust when they break my heart in some way (talking about my parents).
You CAN NOT trust strangers around your drinks!?🤦♀️
I am someone who is often late. People have been quick to reduce my performance at work down to that as justification for not giving me deserved promotions, raises, etc. For positions amd rewards that i am more than qualified to recieve. I always felt like that was one of the biggest problems with society.
That first point is so relatable. Mine is watching TH-cam every day, all day to deal with depression.
The more you are able to let your true self show, the more you are safe to foster a meaningful connection 🙃
"Did you know checking your phone too much is a sign of mental illness?"
*leaves*
lol
We're all doomed 🤪
@@ronniebutman 😆😆😆
same lol😂
I never even thought about where we look when we drink things, but it makes so much sense now!
I love this CHANNEL SO MUCH
Number 7 might also be a person who was never exposed to the culture of getting smth for someone else. Especially if that person is from a consistently abusive family. It's not nice to only paint people negatively because of this one thing they never learned to do
So true, @Rika Okumura: I concur on that one. I was adopted into a very macabre family. I'm nothing like them, but as I said in my own lengthy comment....this video seems bias and likely only guinea-pigged almost perfect specimens for this study.
I was never really given gifts or had a birthday celebrated so because of that I make sure I’m always giving when possible on regular days and birthdays to family, friends or strangers it’s a learned trait. i want a person to feel like they matter because growing up I felt like I didn’t. And I never want a person to have that feeling.
I wasn’t abused but I still feel like that’s a cultural thing. It can be nice to get people things if you have the money and there’s no reason not to, but some people weren’t raised to believe you should always get gifts for others even if you can hardly afford what you get for yourself.
@@Eli7owls Nobody should ever feel they must gift to someone. My adoptive mum was very cruel to me yet she "bought" so-called friendship with others her whole life. She even did this with my own children. It got so bad that when she was w/o a job, she refused to visit my kids because she felt she had to bring them a gift each time.
When she finally showed up 2 months later, my daughter answered the door and refused to let her in because her mei/nana had NO gift. I wanted to be angry with my daughter, but I realized it was NOT my child's fault...it was her mei's. This is why I deeply wish others to know that your existence in someone's life is priceless on its own. Never let anyone make you feel as if you must pay to be around them or be their friend....such expectations are NOT friendship!
I hope this helps anyone that is in doubt of their own self-worth.
I was learn to be generous al the time because it is what a “good person has to do”. 2 years ago I went to a Psycologist and told me is good to treat myself and stop doing that as an obligation.
A wise man once said “if you want to know what a person is really like, take a good look at how he treats his inferiors, not his equals”
Sirius Black!
@@nurpeachmusic this was in harry potter, and here the inferiors refers to a house elf with the name of Winky.
@@nurpeachmusicThey mean in social hierarchies dude
I actually watched this video on my mom's phone. Now I subscribed to this channel, thinking that TH-cam might show me a couple of these videos. It's no good if there's just *one* recommended section for everything. Why doesn't TH-cam create a separate up-to-date video section for every channel subscribed, the another section that lists every single video uploaded by every single TH-cam channel ever existed *in REAL TIME,* and then the recommended section so we can figure for ourselves which video we wanna watch next. ‼️
Man, I feel bad that I don’t often think to get others things when I get things for myself. It just doesn’t cross my mind. Nothing non-abstract crosses my mind unless it’s right in front of me. I’m too busy thinking about science and Mathy stuff when I’m out and about on my own. I’ll often not hear people say my name or not notice something that needs to be noticed because I’m so lost in my own head. I feel bad but it’s also like I can’t really help it, I really hope no one thinks I’m selfish for that. I’m not selfish, I’m just unaware!
''the amount of eye contact you make''
me with autism: well about that-
@Galatic Luna: I was thinking about that too. My son's autistic and I've raised foster kids over the decades w/special needs too. I suggest that you continue to do what works best for you. People with autism are amazing individuals that quite honestly reside in a much more accepting realm than the one we're all expected to deal with here.
Same I dont even actually really look at people when I talk to them. Maybe that's why i never notice haircuts or remember faces
I grew up with 5 autistic siblings so I COMPLETELY understand
@@Staarify_ I bet you do. Bless you & that informative comment.
Same with ADHD!! I can't focus on the conversation if I keep eye contact ahahah
When you're comfortable with direct eye contact, but avoid it because you know it may make others uncomfortable, what category do you fall into?
People pleaser lol
supa dupa coolerman guy who get the ladie
How can it make others uncomfortable?
@@user-fl5wl9zf2d In various ways. People may find direct eye contact too personal or intimidating, for example.
@@T_Cup maybe... Did you feel this way yourself at some point?
I have been trying to become a better persom lately, and your videos help me alot, tysm ❤
I cannot stand people who mistreat service staff.
I was at a restaurant with a buddy a few weeks ago, and witnessed a waitress dealing with an absolutely arrogant customer.
After we finished our meal, i slipped her an extra $20, told her I'm sorry she had to deal with that, and that she was doing a great job.
I hope she's having a better day today.
Waiter: *gives water*
Me: Thanks
Waiter: *gets plates*
Me: Thank you
Waiter: *gets food*
Me: Thank you very much
Waiter: *cleans up food*
Me: Thanks so much
Waiter: *waves when I'm leaving*
Me: Thank you for the great food
are you trying to prove how great you are
Lmaoooo
ok
Lmao....
“If your hand shake is firm, then you’re most likely an extrovert”
Me…an introvert who shakes hands firmly: *Who am I…*
A human, who does not fit into societies standards of binary personality traits. One is not simply one or the other, but a complex balance between the two.
@@The_SaneHatter I was makin a joke but alright Shakespeare
introvert here and was taught to always give a firm handshake. It shows you are confident and focused on the person you are meeting
A weak handshake can also be considered rude. Like you dont care enough to give a decent handshake or are un-interested in the people you are meeting.
@@demoulius1529 thank youuuu that’s exactly right. It’s what I was taught to do so like- ye that’s right
I am always nice to the help because I feel that they are working hard to earn even the little we get is honorable. When my father left my mother and I, she was a prestigious school teacher in a foreign country, but when she came here she had to take a gas station cashier work.
Im diagnosed with asd level 1 (formerly Asperger’s syndrome). Im considered highly intelligent (my iq at 13 was 130) im now 17 and am pursuing a degree in physics. I wonder if maybe im just highly intelligent and that mimics the symptoms of autism. Either way i have profound difficulties in getting a job and becoming overwhelmed easily so the support i am receiving for my asd, is needed.
Good to know that focusing only on my studies may cause issues in future. Im going to make an effort to get out more and try to meet people. I have severe social anxiety but i get very lonely so this is a good step for me.
Psych2go: “if you look on the rim/inside of your cup or close your eyes…”
Me who looks at the wall: “uhhhhh so no personality?”
I look at the ceiling, wall, or just to the side…
I also look at the wall 😂😂😂
Looking at the wall is looking over the rim of the cup, three options were listed.
🤣🤣🤣
I always look up at the ceiling, apparently.
can we talk about the fact her voice is so relaxing?
It's Jan Brady in the movie "The Brady Bunch". I can't stop hearing her say,"Marsha, Marsha, Marsha" !!!
I love your art work💕
I use my tablet A LOT and everytime I go to the store, restaurant or something I like to greet staff and make small comments to start up a conversation. I wear crocs to school and I sometimes lack eye contact. My handshake is not too firm, not too weak and I'm less likely to show up to school on time because I sleep a lot. I will also ask my mom or dad if any of my relatives wants something. Sometimes I can talk negative to others depending if I'm upset and I ALWAYS look at the RIM of the cup while drinking.
"How often you make eye contact."
Me, who looks people in the eyes when they're talking, and also doesn't make eye contact: "Yes, but also no."
Omg same! I look people in the eyes when they're talking to me, to show I'm listening, but I avoid eye contact when I'm talking bc I'm also incredibly awkward and hate attention lmao
@@kidcaptainwembri I am the exact same way.
@@kidcaptainwembri I’m the same way!!! I also just can’t process my thoughts and words while making eye contact when talking to someone 😅
Duh...du. dissociation..? 😁
Psych2go: how often you check your phone.
Me: but I don’t have a phone
Same i use my mom phone to watch TH-cam videos
I have a phone, but most of the time I can't find it.
@@bethyeary8995 ohhh whenever you can't find a phone take somebody else phone call yourself, and then you will find your phone by your ringtone ;)
@@akanshakapoor3248 I can never remember my number.
@@bethyeary8995 oh 😂
"Whether you show up on time" - I was the most punctual person in my group of friends. But now I live in a middle of nowhere with very inconsistent transport and there's just no such option to show up on time.
I'm not that aggressive, I just ride a motorcycle.