1. Eat veggies - nice smells 2. Propinquity effect - more time with someone, increases familiarity = ?attraction 3. Adrenaline - misattribution of feelings… an exciting activity induces feelings of attraction due to ⬆️excitability. 4. Right ear - left side of brain responsible for auditory processing and receives input from right ear = more influence in words? 5. Nervousness - evidence of romantic interest and trigger reciprocity?
I have noticed that eating a lot of fruit and vegetables( especially vegetables) makes people not smell bad, I think it is because your body becomes alkaline,when your body is alkaline bacteria can not grow and spread, when you eat unhealthy your body becomes acidic, when your body is acidic bacteria can grow and spread,bacteria causes bad smell.
The bridge adrenaline thing it's something I discovered myself when texting or talking to girls after a workout or running session. I was usually way more confident and assertive than when I would just be chilling. So if you feel unsure to what text someone or not confident enough to talk to someone might be useful to go for something that pump you up.
Same experience. I always noticed how I am way more confident and extroverted after jogging or something. The difference is actually insane. So noticeable in fact that I often times do it every time I want to become an extrovert. I do it purposely before going to class or to friends for example because I become about 5 times more talkative without any effort at all. I don't know why not more people do this. It's so useful.
The Propinquity effect was something I've always thought about, but I didn't know it had its own name. Always eat your green vegetables, folks. Not only would it increase your attractiveness, but you'll like a longer, healthier life
I would amend, eat a COLORFUL diet of fruits and vegetables. Green-only for a vegetable diet won't give you that big variety of nutrients that we omnivores crave, nor are the greens effective at satiating your appetite.
I think simply people who eat vegetables are caring more about their physical appearance and it's only about first impression. Maybe such people are also more demanding and hard to handle🤷♀️
Regarding #1 - I met two women, both from Southeast Asia, many years ago, in the mid 1990s. They both told me that they could smell the odor of people here (in the west) who ate meat (and possibly refined, processed foods but they only said meat). They both said that the smell is strong and very off putting. It seems to be released from the pores. Yuck! I heard that when I first went plant based and it made me feel much better about my choice! 😂
That's so interesting that they can pick up smells of other people just by their diet. As for your plant-based diet, could you share with us what effect your plant-based diet had on your mental health? Do you feel like switching to a plant-based diet has improved your overall lifestyle?
@@Psych2go I also have a plant based diet rn :) and idk quite much of it like- meat is so nutritious too and healthy but somehow veggies make me feel more energetic and workaholic i dunno if it's just coincidence tho
@@Psych2go 22+ years not eating animals. Around 13 or so years of that as vegan. The most diffacult part of being vegan mentally is actually seeing how much people I would otherwise respect try and justify animal abuse. Our mental instability and depression stems from being in such a cruelty saturated world. Luckily another world is possible.
Could be diet, but could also be because many East Asians have a mutated ABCC11 gene which greatly reduces the number of odorous sweat glands. It's why those of us who have the mutation don't need deodorant, and we certainly notice the smell of people who don't have the mutation (mostly white, black, Hispanic).
In high school I used to hangout with the same group of people, mostly girls and a few guys, and we'd always be at my place due to me having the basement to myself and being a safe space for whatever ya wanna do. I was too shy to ever act on any feelings back then, but I know for sure at least a few of the girls were interested in me at various points throughout the years. Not only was there some kind of propinquity effect in play, but also the fact that I had a steady diet of mainly fruit, veggies and nuts as I had home-made smoothies almost every day. The third whammy to the combo is my innate nervousness that persists to this day.
Timestamps 1). Eat your green vegetables 0:40 2). Propinquity effect 1:24 3). Misattribution of emotions 2:31 4). The right or left ear 4:54 5). Nervousness 5:47 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
“Do not worry that your life is turning upside down. How do you know the side you are used to is better than the one to come?“ - Rumi. The next time worry finds you, ask yourself Rumi’s question. Trade anxiety for curiosity. Breathe in. And keep going.
5 Weird Things Increase Attraction According To Science 1. Eat your green vegetables! 0:40 2. Propinquity effect 1:24 3. Misattribution of emotions 2:31 4. The right/left ear 4:54 5. Nervousness 5:47 Have a great day! 💜💜💜
Here after i confessed to her, she didnt get mad or weirded out, she was just surprised that i randomly texted her, she kept the letter i gave her as anonymous, tomorrow i hope everything goes well when we see eachother
i love how i watch every single video you guys release, and whenever i identify (most of them) i go "huh that's funny" and forget everything in the video 5 minutes later
@@Psych2go first of all thank you for awnsering, speaking for myself, give some more tips on how to deal with the information that is spoken in the video, as someone who's recently been screened for depression, i can say it's hard to find some good tips, your videos are the best but maybe you could add some extra things, thank you for the support you've given me for the short time i've watched your videos
Great video! I would love to see a future video that focuses on coping with FOMO. I believe it would be helpful for many viewers. Thank you for your hard work and dedication to creating valuable content!
Thank you for the idea. We wanted to ask, what kind of FOMO are you speaking of? Do you mean specifically in the context of romance or FOMO in general? If we made a video about this, what would you like to see us cover?
Nervousness is actually not that surprising, as it shows that they scared they might mess it up in front of someone they care about and don't want to have an awkward relationship with, while being confident on a first date may be somewhat attractive to a certain group of people, but it can be taken to others as if the other person doesn't care much about them and doesn't want a close or caring relationship. Why do I know all this? idk lol
Wouldn't the misattribution of feeling go away or change once you find yourself in a similar situation without the same feeling? Or does misattribution first create a connection and individuals look for all signs to confirm or connect to that attribution and therefore develop genuine feelings of attraction? Fun fact: 1973 is when the Exorcist came out, one of the most classic of Horror movies!!
@p-smitty9791 To answer first part its not a constant just initial situation as said. Comparison is randomly hitting it off with a stranger the first time. You might be looking forward to second meeting but it might not be as fun second time around. The second part is less about the specific situation and more about the feeling. The fear effect with adrenaline is similar to romance and courting an some times more if catch drift. In those specific situation if you are with some one that makes your heart beat faster and assume it not a negative experience it can be exciting. Its not that different than if you were having a fun exciting date. Our brains can associate this experience as positive and have more interest than normal. The adrenaline can just make people more bold and the dump of the emotion will also make you more calm as the next thing is not as scary compared to what you went through. This of course does not mean every time get scared will experience misattribution. It is just something that can occur and explaining the why. Its also not something can easily manipulate. Doing exciting things can be great but as said if your constantly doing them either get use to sensation and numbs or its too stimulating and its no longer fun. Misattribution isn't a permanent thing its more explains how weird situations can some how lead to connections that wouldn't expect through shared experience.
A idea for a video, which I’m sure you’ve already made but, I think it would be helpful for people to understand what depression is and what just being stressed or tired is because some people always assume that I’m depressed because I wasn’t talking to them in my cheerful manner I just want people to understand that there is a difference between depression and anxiety, stress, sadness, and tiredness
Tip: don't vape/smoke/that sort of thing. I had a huge crush on a friend of mine right up until she started vaping. Soon as I saw her do it I was as far from turned on as you could possibly be. Still my friend, but vaping and smoking is just really unnatractive
I always wondered why i find everyone's voice so pleasant and now i just learnt it might be because my left ear is nearly deaf. You're always speaking into my right ear no matter what.
I went Skydiving with my then, "soon to be ex husband" but we got back together after Skydiving and we've had a wonderful 9 years back together. 18 years total. 😊 The friends that joined us got married after that too and they're a great couple and beautiful family now. 😅
Lol besides the very practical and clear tips, LOVED the jokes cracked at the end of each section, And how in the end of each section; and in the conclusion at the end you string all of those jokes mentioned to creat a story omg that’s so genius and funny 😂😂😂 srsly love this one ❤
I sat next to a random guy on a plane once, and when we were getting close to landing the plane suddenly dropped a few feet, as if the engines shut off or something. Normally there are little bits of that dropping sensation, but this was different, and TERRIFYING. Multiple people on the plane gasped, some screamed, and the guy and I just instinctually grabbed each other’s hands. And i suddenly realized that this random Joe Schmo I hadn’t spoken to at all on the flight was suddenly super attractive to me?? We started talking and had a lot in common- he was really cool! Unfortunately for me though he already had a girlfriend. But it was still an interesting moment!
I knew about the adrenaline/misattribution of feelings, but not the other ones. It was quite interesting, especially the eating veggies... I'll certainly have to adjust my diet. ;) One issue, the visuals when you are talking about the right/left ear at 5:28, the left error is show right after that and the brain hemisphere displayed are all reversed. Just thought you'd like to know.
Strange things in girls that can increase my subconscious attraction... Perceived lustfulness, perceived strenght, perceived brutality and perceived evil streak. Not from a romantic perspective, it's obvious that I'm well aware those are not que kind of characteristics I should look for. But there are the one that make me subconsciously react the most. Now the important word was perceived, and it also work for girls who are attracted to a "bad type" of guys, as in, due to various traumas and issues, humans thend to go for what seem the most familiar and the most "real" in the sense of our warped vision of the world. If a girl enter a bar, and her issue make her believe that all men are supposed to be strong evil brutal pervert, chances are she's going to be instinctively drawn to the only guy in the bar that really fit that description, so that she can fulfill her self prophecy. If she fumble and end up with someone that do not fit her expectations, she will feel uneasy, and may try to push his buttons to see if she can reveal the "true him" hiding under his good person guise, never knowing when to stop until she make him snap like any normal person would. But those are fantasies about an archetype, they are childishly dichotomous in their perspective, which is why, as I was saying, it doesn't really matter if the person is really strong, really lustful, really brutal or really evil. They just need to look the part enough in their superficial appearance and attitude so that the suffering person can hang their fantasy upon their frame. Please note that if you believe this apply to you as well, seeking some kind of therapy may lower the symptoms. The first step is acknowledging that the misfortunes that twisted your childhoods were mostly not your faults. That the person(s) who hurt your view did not do it for this purpose, but rather they were too focused on their own problems. Adults are just old child who struggle knowing what to do. They don't have all the answers just because they are older. And everyone is mostly self focused. So stop blaming yourself for everything that went wrong. Admittedly, maybe you could have done a few things to make things better, but how were you supposed to know them? You were just a kid. Look inside of you. See this deep hole of suffering and emptiness you constantly try to fill with outside love or outside attention? It will never work. It won't work because it's like trying to fill a bath without plugging the drain. You have to give yourself love, attention, care, compassion, without judgment, for who you are now, but also for who you used to be. You have to look at those scary or weak parts of you that you cut yourself from, and removed the veil of shadows that made you reject them, to see them for who they are. Important but sad and damaged parts of you, scared or angry child parts of your personality that need to be helped, so they can grow, in a balanced, (not extreme) way, and become assets rather than flaw. Once you can manage to do that, then you can start rejecting the lies and misinterpretation you cemented your mental core with as you were growing up, replacing them with cold hard truth, but also softer comforting ones, making you that much more resistant because you are more complete and adaptive. Only then can you try building a genuine, healthy relationship with someone else. It's not magical, it take time and effort, but it's better than heading toward a dark fate due to subconscious self destructive pulsion you don't understand. Luck and courage to you all.
@@judyabd8651 Thank you milady. Usually, I get told that I write too much. ^^; Then again, young people on social media nowadays panic after seeing two constructed sentences in a row. XD I hope that wathever is haunting you, you can find the way to let it go so your focus can be turned toward a brighter future. Recently, I read someone's idea about how they got better after stopping to consider their parents as such, and instead tryed to view them as they were as kids, trying to understand what they went trough during this delicate period, what damaged them before they damaged the person expressing this idea, which in turn helped remove the childhood guilt they felt about various events that weren't their fault. It allowed them to feel empathy for these person, and this empathy helped in their process of reparenting their own inner child. I don't know if viewing things this way can help others, but it was somewhat comforting to me. Have a beautiful day, and take care.
Confidence is for executing a plan or to just have courage, nervousness is for moments that you can express feelings or when it is expected feelings from you, a blank face can be unattractive
You know a weird thing that increases attraction? When the bell rings, you may bump in to someone, drop all of you books and homework, and both of you will feel weirdly attracted to each other! (Especially if the other person helps you clean up and asks you your name.) This is seen as helpful because the next day, you might as well just meet in class, and if you already know each other a bit from yesterday's book fall, it will be less weird and awkward to meet each other again and the other person is less likely to get away from you.
My mom told me that personality can change a person's appearance. If the person is not really found attractive, but they are a good person and very nice, It could change your view on their appearance. Yes its not about what's on the outside, but on the inside sorta thing. Like if a person is attractive, but a horrible person, they are not as attractive as before.
I vouch for the fruits and veg point. When my partner and I first started dating, I found that he often smelled really good. He smelled like homemade soup - herbal and comforting. As it turned out, he ate a fairly low-carb, plant-heavy diet. When he'd change up his diet and eat more sweets, his smell would become more like that gross BO smell boys get in high school.
It depends. I was meeting up with someone and he seemed a bit awkward and nervous from the start. But I would love to meet someone maybe also a little sassy, with a burning fire inside and confidence. It's like they aren't on the same level and its getting tired to me.. I would like to meet someone that can match my energy and sweep me off my feet by their behavior. Maybe I just am not attracted or able to love right now, but it did feel strange to me. When I like someone back, I don't mind the nervouseness too much. But here it felt a bit annoying to me. Maybe because I wasn't having the same thoughts or feelings.
I absolutely HATE when someone talks into my right ear! I’ve had a head injury on that side and hate people really even being near it, but also I have a bit of hearing loss on that side. So, I always tell people to walk on my left side, and so many guys must have heard this or something bc I swear they keep walking on my right side, and truthfully, I’ll actively try to not get close to people who refuse to listen to this simple request of mine, because I see it as they are trying to be controlling to me. I don’t usually tell them that the head injury impacts the reason I don’t want them on that side either, but I will tell them about the hearing loss, and I find that guys that typically don’t mind this simple request, usually do tend to turn out to be dicks. So, simply put, it they refuse to talk into my left ear, I’ll refuse to talk to them at all. A girl has to have her boundaries..lol!
Okay, so you’re telling me, that if I watch a horror movie with a potential love interest, she’s going to be super into me, after watching me quiver in fear and hold my eyes over my eyes and ears? Cool
If you go vegan, not only will you be eating veggies but also display an overwhelming kindness to animals 😏 Pepple eat that up (and not the animals lol)
I didn't even realize it until the ear comment in the intro, but I just figured out that I have a bias towards talking to someone who's on my right side rather than my left, and that when I picture sitting next to someone in any kind of affectionate situation they're always on my right.
5:47 when are nervous it will help you find someone that you actually like and probably make them like you back (or like you more) because in a state like this you will do more of a emotional action more than one with logical thought on it, even if you are thinking about all the bad things that could happen it also makes you unable to think clearly and the logical thought you can put on your actions becomes smaller and at the end this makes a more emotional response which for a romantic relationship is just what you need.
didn't know about the eat eggies and right ear, tbh I like things whispered in my left ear :3. Also I'm vegan (with an emphasis on fresh whole foods) so I'm already succeeding at the veggies XD
there was a similar video you made like this, one had the ‘be around them more’ but called it the ‘mirror exposure effect.’ What’s the difference between the Propinquity & MEE?
I haven't started the video yet but my take away from the thumbnail is be cool like Brock Lee from Naruto and the women will swoon at the springtime of my youth!
5:28 they show a left ear on the right side of the screen but over the figures left ear while saying it is a right ear. My brain got confused by talking about a right ear and showing a left one...
I'm not that much of an attractive person and for some personal reasons, I shouldn't be. So, actually, I watched the video for learning how to avoid attractiveness. Thanks for the advices. 😅
Hello! I know your probably not gonna read this but I’m gonna say this anyways…so I’ve been struggling with something very important for the last week that I need to know how to cope with, and you are the best channel that can do that. So…I stopped liking my crush (for other reasons that I may say another time) and I started noticing his brother…now his brother is 2 yrs older than me, and we’ve had eye contact and I’ve talked to him very briefly. Idk if I should tell my ex crush or whatever…I’m super confused cuz idk what to do at this point! Please help me…
Hello! What exactly do you mean by crush ? Because, I thought that it was only an attraction you developed on a person. Or multiple persons... So why in the world would you tell somebody you're only attracted to that you find somebody else attractive ? Unless you told him that you liked him, I don't know what he's gonna do about it... Having crushes is normal, having "older" crushes is normal (two years is not that much). Talking to the person youre attracted ( I guess it's more physically admiting that you've talk to him very briefly) is great and you should try to be friend with him, to know him.
@@althae_the_dino makes a good point. Definitely depends on the situation. From what I read I’m going to assume that it’s best to keep it to yourself for now unless things progress with the older brother. Not necessary to be open to the original crush when nothing is really happening atm.
Misattributed emotions... Is that why I feel way more attracted to someone who hurts me? Because I feel something and it makes me happy and I bond with them?
The thing that I wonder most is why I don't want to attract attention because I'm shy, instead I'm always the center of attention? I swear I don't want to stand out
Ive finally caught up. And after many days of healthing I've come here. Edit:Horror movies are more romantic definitely has given me ideas. My mind was blown away knowing that horror is a way to take a girl's heart.
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I love this, great video
1. Eat veggies - nice smells
2. Propinquity effect - more time with someone, increases familiarity = ?attraction
3. Adrenaline - misattribution of feelings… an exciting activity induces feelings of attraction due to ⬆️excitability.
4. Right ear - left side of brain responsible for auditory processing and receives input from right ear = more influence in words?
5. Nervousness - evidence of romantic interest and trigger reciprocity?
I’ve also heard familiarity breeds contempt😭
eat veggies no it tastes bad sorry but i skip that one
I have noticed that eating a lot of fruit and vegetables( especially vegetables) makes people not smell bad, I think it is because your body becomes alkaline,when your body is alkaline bacteria can not grow and spread, when you eat unhealthy your body becomes acidic, when your body is acidic bacteria can grow and spread,bacteria causes bad smell.
The fact that this comment has more likes than the comment of psych2go itself is Commendable 👏🏻
@@LoadTheFiles In my experience, familiarity just enhances whatever feelings are already there.
Being natural, yourself and not giving a hell is the most attractive thing fr
You go queen!
To an extent, sure
@@mpmedia6735 ofc, behaving like an animal and thinking youre "natural" wouldnt be so attractive...
only if you're good looking, if not people treat you like an npc
@@_archie nah I've seen a bunch of un-physically attractive people have vibrant dating lives cause they're just confident and natural
The bridge adrenaline thing it's something I discovered myself when texting or talking to girls after a workout or running session. I was usually way more confident and assertive than when I would just be chilling. So if you feel unsure to what text someone or not confident enough to talk to someone might be useful to go for something that pump you up.
thats prob just testosterone increase nothing to do with adrenaline
Same experience. I always noticed how I am way more confident and extroverted after jogging or something.
The difference is actually insane. So noticeable in fact that I often times do it every time I want to become an extrovert. I do it purposely before going to class or to friends for example because I become about 5 times more talkative without any effort at all.
I don't know why not more people do this. It's so useful.
@user-uz6si1ze6l As always correlation does not always equal causation so more research is needed but I see what you’re saying
@@user-uz6si1ze6lneurology die because testosterone, big bad chemical
The evidence is there though. It’s proven that endorphins increase mood and make you happier. That’s what translates here
The Propinquity effect was something I've always thought about, but I didn't know it had its own name. Always eat your green vegetables, folks. Not only would it increase your attractiveness, but you'll like a longer, healthier life
Thank you for your insight! And yes, it's time to start eating more veggies!
Eat your vegetables!
I would amend, eat a COLORFUL diet of fruits and vegetables. Green-only for a vegetable diet won't give you that big variety of nutrients that we omnivores crave, nor are the greens effective at satiating your appetite.
I think simply people who eat vegetables are caring more about their physical appearance and it's only about first impression. Maybe such people are also more demanding and hard to handle🤷♀️
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Regarding #1 - I met two women, both from Southeast Asia, many years ago, in the mid 1990s. They both told me that they could smell the odor of people here (in the west) who ate meat (and possibly refined, processed foods but they only said meat).
They both said that the smell is strong and very off putting. It seems to be released from the pores. Yuck! I heard that when I first went plant based and it made me feel much better about my choice! 😂
That's so interesting that they can pick up smells of other people just by their diet.
As for your plant-based diet, could you share with us what effect your plant-based diet had on your mental health? Do you feel like switching to a plant-based diet has improved your overall lifestyle?
@@Psych2go I also have a plant based diet rn :) and idk quite much of it like- meat is so nutritious too and healthy but somehow veggies make me feel more energetic and workaholic i dunno if it's just coincidence tho
@@Psych2go 22+ years not eating animals. Around 13 or so years of that as vegan. The most diffacult part of being vegan mentally is actually seeing how much people I would otherwise respect try and justify animal abuse. Our mental instability and depression stems from being in such a cruelty saturated world. Luckily another world is possible.
Could be diet, but could also be because many East Asians have a mutated ABCC11 gene which greatly reduces the number of odorous sweat glands. It's why those of us who have the mutation don't need deodorant, and we certainly notice the smell of people who don't have the mutation (mostly white, black, Hispanic).
@@iPlayOnSpica You can theorize about it, or better yet you can find out for yourself.
In high school I used to hangout with the same group of people, mostly girls and a few guys, and we'd always be at my place due to me having the basement to myself and being a safe space for whatever ya wanna do. I was too shy to ever act on any feelings back then, but I know for sure at least a few of the girls were interested in me at various points throughout the years. Not only was there some kind of propinquity effect in play, but also the fact that I had a steady diet of mainly fruit, veggies and nuts as I had home-made smoothies almost every day. The third whammy to the combo is my innate nervousness that persists to this day.
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Timestamps
1). Eat your green vegetables 0:40
2). Propinquity effect 1:24
3). Misattribution of emotions 2:31
4). The right or left ear 4:54
5). Nervousness 5:47
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
0:44 Interesting choice there…
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@@sbplankton_1999 same thing happens to me sometimes
Yeah, But i just being attaction to New video's
@@A55a551n hey should I go to my girlfriend graduation 👨🎓 and surprise my girlfriend
“Do not worry that your life is turning upside down. How do you know the side you are used to is better than the one to come?“ - Rumi.
The next time worry finds you, ask yourself Rumi’s question. Trade anxiety for curiosity. Breathe in. And keep going.
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Who is Rumi?
@@universalalgorithm3263 mevlana he is a turkish mystic poet
I didn't expect to see Rumi quoted here but I love it! Very beautiful and deep poetry! 😊
5 Weird Things Increase Attraction According To Science
1. Eat your green vegetables! 0:40
2. Propinquity effect 1:24
3. Misattribution of emotions 2:31
4. The right/left ear 4:54
5. Nervousness 5:47
Have a great day! 💜💜💜
Here after i confessed to her, she didnt get mad or weirded out, she was just surprised that i randomly texted her, she kept the letter i gave her as anonymous, tomorrow i hope everything goes well when we see eachother
nothing really happened, kinda sad, but on tuesday i hope things go well
nothing happened, again, F-
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i love how i watch every single video you guys release, and whenever i identify (most of them) i go "huh that's funny" and forget everything in the video 5 minutes later
Thank you so much for watching! We wanted to ask, what do you think we can do to make our videos much more memorable?
@@Psych2go first of all thank you for awnsering, speaking for myself, give some more tips on how to deal with the information that is spoken in the video, as someone who's recently been screened for depression, i can say it's hard to find some good tips, your videos are the best but maybe you could add some extra things, thank you for the support you've given me for the short time i've watched your videos
Great video! I would love to see a future video that focuses on coping with FOMO. I believe it would be helpful for many viewers. Thank you for your hard work and dedication to creating valuable content!
Thank you for the idea. We wanted to ask, what kind of FOMO are you speaking of? Do you mean specifically in the context of romance or FOMO in general? If we made a video about this, what would you like to see us cover?
@@Psych2go I mean FOMO in general, covering strategies to accept it and cope with it when the feelings arise.
@@Psych2go nowadays the channel is slightly getting into family friendly to 13+ 👀
0:16 the art tho
Nervousness is actually not that surprising, as it shows that they scared they might mess it up in front of someone they care about and don't want to have an awkward relationship with, while being confident on a first date may be somewhat attractive to a certain group of people, but it can be taken to others as if the other person doesn't care much about them and doesn't want a close or caring relationship.
Why do I know all this?
idk lol
Wouldn't the misattribution of feeling go away or change once you find yourself in a similar situation without the same feeling? Or does misattribution first create a connection and individuals look for all signs to confirm or connect to that attribution and therefore develop genuine feelings of attraction? Fun fact: 1973 is when the Exorcist came out, one of the most classic of Horror movies!!
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Somebody please!!!!
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I am curious for the answer also.
personally I think it depends on if you already know the person?
@p-smitty9791 To answer first part its not a constant just initial situation as said. Comparison is randomly hitting it off with a stranger the first time. You might be looking forward to second meeting but it might not be as fun second time around. The second part is less about the specific situation and more about the feeling. The fear effect with adrenaline is similar to romance and courting an some times more if catch drift. In those specific situation if you are with some one that makes your heart beat faster and assume it not a negative experience it can be exciting. Its not that different than if you were having a fun exciting date. Our brains can associate this experience as positive and have more interest than normal. The adrenaline can just make people more bold and the dump of the emotion will also make you more calm as the next thing is not as scary compared to what you went through. This of course does not mean every time get scared will experience misattribution. It is just something that can occur and explaining the why. Its also not something can easily manipulate. Doing exciting things can be great but as said if your constantly doing them either get use to sensation and numbs or its too stimulating and its no longer fun. Misattribution isn't a permanent thing its more explains how weird situations can some how lead to connections that wouldn't expect through shared experience.
2:09 not the pizza man 💀
Pizza men need love too! 🍕🏃🏡
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A idea for a video, which I’m sure you’ve already made but, I think it would be helpful for people to understand what depression is and what just being stressed or tired is because some people always assume that I’m depressed because I wasn’t talking to them in my cheerful manner I just want people to understand that there is a difference between depression and anxiety, stress, sadness, and tiredness
I’ve never been in a relationship for longer than 2 months 🔥🗿
I've never been in a relationship for longer than 0 seconds🔥🗿
@@jigar2238 so how many milliseconds?
@@dragonmage372 0 fermiseconds 😂😭
@@jigar2238what is a "relationship" ?
I haven’t even had my first kiss 💀
Tip: don't vape/smoke/that sort of thing. I had a huge crush on a friend of mine right up until she started vaping. Soon as I saw her do it I was as far from turned on as you could possibly be. Still my friend, but vaping and smoking is just really unnatractive
As a never-smoker, I refuse to date anyone who has smoked, vaped, dipped, done weed or any recreational drugs.
As a smoker i have the opposite reaction
@@riderofthepalehorsedeathhi4061makes sense
And yet, closemindedness is a gigantic turn off for me. To each their own.
@iPlayOnSpica even someone that used to but hasn't in 5-10 years?
I always wondered why i find everyone's voice so pleasant and now i just learnt it might be because my left ear is nearly deaf. You're always speaking into my right ear no matter what.
I went Skydiving with my then, "soon to be ex husband" but we got back together after Skydiving and we've had a wonderful 9 years back together. 18 years total. 😊 The friends that joined us got married after that too and they're a great couple and beautiful family now. 😅
I love that!!
Lol besides the very practical and clear tips, LOVED the jokes cracked at the end of each section,
And how in the end of each section; and in the conclusion at the end you string all of those jokes mentioned to creat a story omg that’s so genius and funny 😂😂😂 srsly love this one
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what if she’s mostly deaf in her right ear 😭
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there might be some truth to the one about scary situations, I recall watching final destination 5 with a female friend once.
And then what happened? Why was it only once?
We were holding hands the whole time.
Referencing Spider-Man 2 definitely increased my attraction to this channel.
According to studies by famous psychologists, referencing Spider-Man 2 in your video can increase subscribers' attraction to your channel
Well, since I've been a vegetarian for many years, by now I must scent like the gardens of Arabia 😅😅😅
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The adrenaline was surprising to me!
And I knew about the fruit and veggie one but it's more important than I thought! 😂❤ Thank you Psych 2 go!
Glad you liked it!!
Came in to get more info (which I did) and came out craving pizza.
Timestamp!
1. 0:41 Eat green vegetables
2. 1:25 Propinquity effect
3. 2:31 Misattribution of emotion
4. 4:55 Right or leaft ear
5. 5:47 Nervousness
I'm starting to believe people are afraid to have a connection with me if they spend time with me.
I sat next to a random guy on a plane once, and when we were getting close to landing the plane suddenly dropped a few feet, as if the engines shut off or something. Normally there are little bits of that dropping sensation, but this was different, and TERRIFYING. Multiple people on the plane gasped, some screamed, and the guy and I just instinctually grabbed each other’s hands. And i suddenly realized that this random Joe Schmo I hadn’t spoken to at all on the flight was suddenly super attractive to me?? We started talking and had a lot in common- he was really cool! Unfortunately for me though he already had a girlfriend. But it was still an interesting moment!
I knew about the adrenaline/misattribution of feelings, but not the other ones. It was quite interesting, especially the eating veggies... I'll certainly have to adjust my diet. ;)
One issue, the visuals when you are talking about the right/left ear at 5:28, the left error is show right after that and the brain hemisphere displayed are all reversed. Just thought you'd like to know.
That misattribution one was really eye opening huh 😮 learned something new today!
We're glad you found it interesting! What did you find to be surprising about misattribution?
that is why some people are not interested in "boring" persons or when doing something "boring" together. but most don't realize this effect
All I want is Just a person who likes me and I like her/him😢
@ 5:42 - doesn't the image need to be flipped?
I wondered the same thing
Rigghhhht bro had me wondering if it was their right or my right😭
Strange things in girls that can increase my subconscious attraction...
Perceived lustfulness, perceived strenght, perceived brutality and perceived evil streak.
Not from a romantic perspective, it's obvious that I'm well aware those are not que kind of characteristics I should look for. But there are the one that make me subconsciously react the most.
Now the important word was perceived, and it also work for girls who are attracted to a "bad type" of guys, as in, due to various traumas and issues, humans thend to go for what seem the most familiar and the most "real" in the sense of our warped vision of the world.
If a girl enter a bar, and her issue make her believe that all men are supposed to be strong evil brutal pervert, chances are she's going to be instinctively drawn to the only guy in the bar that really fit that description, so that she can fulfill her self prophecy. If she fumble and end up with someone that do not fit her expectations, she will feel uneasy, and may try to push his buttons to see if she can reveal the "true him" hiding under his good person guise, never knowing when to stop until she make him snap like any normal person would.
But those are fantasies about an archetype, they are childishly dichotomous in their perspective, which is why, as I was saying, it doesn't really matter if the person is really strong, really lustful, really brutal or really evil. They just need to look the part enough in their superficial appearance and attitude so that the suffering person can hang their fantasy upon their frame.
Please note that if you believe this apply to you as well, seeking some kind of therapy may lower the symptoms.
The first step is acknowledging that the misfortunes that twisted your childhoods were mostly not your faults. That the person(s) who hurt your view did not do it for this purpose, but rather they were too focused on their own problems. Adults are just old child who struggle knowing what to do. They don't have all the answers just because they are older. And everyone is mostly self focused. So stop blaming yourself for everything that went wrong. Admittedly, maybe you could have done a few things to make things better, but how were you supposed to know them? You were just a kid.
Look inside of you. See this deep hole of suffering and emptiness you constantly try to fill with outside love or outside attention? It will never work. It won't work because it's like trying to fill a bath without plugging the drain. You have to give yourself love, attention, care, compassion, without judgment, for who you are now, but also for who you used to be.
You have to look at those scary or weak parts of you that you cut yourself from, and removed the veil of shadows that made you reject them, to see them for who they are. Important but sad and damaged parts of you, scared or angry child parts of your personality that need to be helped, so they can grow, in a balanced, (not extreme) way, and become assets rather than flaw.
Once you can manage to do that, then you can start rejecting the lies and misinterpretation you cemented your mental core with as you were growing up, replacing them with cold hard truth, but also softer comforting ones, making you that much more resistant because you are more complete and adaptive.
Only then can you try building a genuine, healthy relationship with someone else. It's not magical, it take time and effort, but it's better than heading toward a dark fate due to subconscious self destructive pulsion you don't understand.
Luck and courage to you all.
You really should write more, your words touched me .. :)
@@judyabd8651 Thank you milady. Usually, I get told that I write too much. ^^; Then again, young people on social media nowadays panic after seeing two constructed sentences in a row. XD
I hope that wathever is haunting you, you can find the way to let it go so your focus can be turned toward a brighter future.
Recently, I read someone's idea about how they got better after stopping to consider their parents as such, and instead tryed to view them as they were as kids, trying to understand what they went trough during this delicate period, what damaged them before they damaged the person expressing this idea, which in turn helped remove the childhood guilt they felt about various events that weren't their fault.
It allowed them to feel empathy for these person, and this empathy helped in their process of reparenting their own inner child. I don't know if viewing things this way can help others, but it was somewhat comforting to me.
Have a beautiful day, and take care.
People say confidence is attractive but now nervousness is too? Which is it???
I expect both need a balance, like with anything in life
Confidence is for executing a plan or to just have courage, nervousness is for moments that you can express feelings or when it is expected feelings from you, a blank face can be unattractive
Gotta love Sims 4 Grim's cameo there at number three 😂
First ! And I love your content 💕✨❤
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You know a weird thing that increases attraction? When the bell rings, you may bump in to someone, drop all of you books and homework, and both of you will feel weirdly attracted to each other! (Especially if the other person helps you clean up and asks you your name.) This is seen as helpful because the next day, you might as well just meet in class, and if you already know each other a bit from yesterday's book fall, it will be less weird and awkward to meet each other again and the other person is less likely to get away from you.
I was utterly shocked with that first fact😂. I’ll keep these facts in mind though despite the bizarre nature of them
The human body is weird and complex! 😂
Could you tell us, what did you find bizarre about the first point?
@@Psych2go Definitely veggies equals smelling good, I have never heard of such lunacy😂
that has got to be the cutest and most wholesome informational video iv'e seen i n a while, thank you!
Man who is this with such a soothing voice, do they have any open socials?
The illustrations are sooooo beautiful I caaaan't
Nice
You're channel is great, keep doing what you do!
Subscribed since 2020!
Thank you for the kind words and for being with us for this long!
@@Psych2go Your very welcome ;)
My mom told me that personality can change a person's appearance. If the person is not really found attractive, but they are a good person and very nice, It could change your view on their appearance. Yes its not about what's on the outside, but on the inside sorta thing. Like if a person is attractive, but a horrible person, they are not as attractive as before.
It's all about human mind. People unconsciousnely judge other people by their looks without knowing them
I need to eat more fruits and vegetables :c
The scary movie fact surprised me!
the animation is so adorable and the voice of the narrator so soothing.
Alright boys, I have watched probably 37 of these videos and am ready to ask out my crush! Wish me luck 🍀
U speak so well we need to see u
I found your relationship videos informative. 👍 Keep on uploading more interesting videos. 👍
I vouch for the fruits and veg point. When my partner and I first started dating, I found that he often smelled really good. He smelled like homemade soup - herbal and comforting. As it turned out, he ate a fairly low-carb, plant-heavy diet. When he'd change up his diet and eat more sweets, his smell would become more like that gross BO smell boys get in high school.
Fear and love are perceived the same by the human brain, thats why we can fall in love with someone that we experience scary stuff with
It depends. I was meeting up with someone and he seemed a bit awkward and nervous from the start. But I would love to meet someone maybe also a little sassy, with a burning fire inside and confidence. It's like they aren't on the same level and its getting tired to me.. I would like to meet someone that can match my energy and sweep me off my feet by their behavior. Maybe I just am not attracted or able to love right now, but it did feel strange to me. When I like someone back, I don't mind the nervouseness too much. But here it felt a bit annoying to me. Maybe because I wasn't having the same thoughts or feelings.
I absolutely HATE when someone talks into my right ear! I’ve had a head injury on that side and hate people really even being near it, but also I have a bit of hearing loss on that side. So, I always tell people to walk on my left side, and so many guys must have heard this or something bc I swear they keep walking on my right side, and truthfully, I’ll actively try to not get close to people who refuse to listen to this simple request of mine, because I see it as they are trying to be controlling to me. I don’t usually tell them that the head injury impacts the reason I don’t want them on that side either, but I will tell them about the hearing loss, and I find that guys that typically don’t mind this simple request, usually do tend to turn out to be dicks. So, simply put, it they refuse to talk into my left ear, I’ll refuse to talk to them at all. A girl has to have her boundaries..lol!
this was really good, it really gave me a lot of info i didn't know about
Omg, I needed this videos for SOOOO long, thanks!!!
Thank you for watching! Which part of the video did you find helpful?
@@Psych2go Mostly part about right ear and vegetables, that information was really useful!
I'm EXTREMELY nervous around my current Crush, thank God it's not a negative thing because I feel awkward around them.
Okay, so you’re telling me, that if I watch a horror movie with a potential love interest, she’s going to be super into me, after watching me quiver in fear and hold my eyes over my eyes and ears? Cool
If you go vegan, not only will you be eating veggies but also display an overwhelming kindness to animals 😏 Pepple eat that up (and not the animals lol)
That might be a little hard considering that most horror movies are lacking in scare these days 😅
Great point! Do you have any personal favorite horror movies?
@@Psych2go
The 2007 halloween remake 🎃
And writing in general just stinks these days.
I didn't even realize it until the ear comment in the intro, but I just figured out that I have a bias towards talking to someone who's on my right side rather than my left, and that when I picture sitting next to someone in any kind of affectionate situation they're always on my right.
Did you say should i say to right ear or left ear?
Spider-Man and IT have always been my favorite movies lol, I got kinda excited when she mentioned them
"pizza time"-spider-man
5:47 when are nervous it will help you find someone that you actually like and probably make them like you back (or like you more) because in a state like this you will do more of a emotional action more than one with logical thought on it, even if you are thinking about all the bad things that could happen it also makes you unable to think clearly and the logical thought you can put on your actions becomes smaller and at the end this makes a more emotional response which for a romantic relationship is just what you need.
WE EATING GRASS WITH THIS ONE
Love ur animations and advice❤
I never knew those! Thank you!
I love the humor😂
Thank you so much for the kind words! We hope that you found the video helpful :)
Your voice is just too perfect for these videos☺️
didn't know about the eat eggies and right ear, tbh I like things whispered in my left ear :3. Also I'm vegan (with an emphasis on fresh whole foods) so I'm already succeeding at the veggies XD
there was a similar video you made like this, one had the ‘be around them more’ but called it the ‘mirror exposure effect.’ What’s the difference between the Propinquity & MEE?
When you're attracted to the actual clown lol (Bill Skarsgard)
Going to a haunted Manitoba is the best date anyone can imagine
sometimes i just want to see the face behind such a calm and soothing voice...
I like the nervousness part it makes me feel better about myself.
I LOVE THE PROPINQUITY EFFECT
I haven't started the video yet but my take away from the thumbnail is be cool like Brock Lee from Naruto and the women will swoon at the springtime of my youth!
My interpretation of the thumbnail is that he has beautiful hair, like broccoli is a plant 😂
5:28 they show a left ear on the right side of the screen but over the figures left ear while saying it is a right ear. My brain got confused by talking about a right ear and showing a left one...
I'm not that much of an attractive person and for some personal reasons, I shouldn't be. So, actually, I watched the video for learning how to avoid attractiveness. Thanks for the advices. 😅
can you make a video about the signs of a sadist?
Did anyone else notice the subtitles in the beginning?
Hello! I know your probably not gonna read this but I’m gonna say this anyways…so I’ve been struggling with something very important for the last week that I need to know how to cope with, and you are the best channel that can do that. So…I stopped liking my crush (for other reasons that I may say another time) and I started noticing his brother…now his brother is 2 yrs older than me, and we’ve had eye contact and I’ve talked to him very briefly. Idk if I should tell my ex crush or whatever…I’m super confused cuz idk what to do at this point! Please help me…
Hello! What exactly do you mean by crush ? Because, I thought that it was only an attraction you developed on a person. Or multiple persons...
So why in the world would you tell somebody you're only attracted to that you find somebody else attractive ? Unless you told him that you liked him, I don't know what he's gonna do about it... Having crushes is normal, having "older" crushes is normal (two years is not that much). Talking to the person youre attracted ( I guess it's more physically admiting that you've talk to him very briefly) is great and you should try to be friend with him, to know him.
@@althae_the_dino makes a good point.
Definitely depends on the situation.
From what I read I’m going to assume that it’s best to keep it to yourself for now unless things progress with the older brother.
Not necessary to be open to the original crush when nothing is really happening atm.
oop im second
anyways thanks for this, im just a step away from asking my crush!
Just seeing the broccoli triggered me in more ways then one ☠
Misattributed emotions... Is that why I feel way more attracted to someone who hurts me? Because I feel something and it makes me happy and I bond with them?
The thing that I wonder most is why I don't want to attract attention because I'm shy, instead I'm always the center of attention? I swear I don't want to stand out
Attraction is a complex phenomenon that has fascinated scientists for years.
you must guard your figurative heart , for it is the source of all your emotions .
I've always said that Horror films are more romantic than romantic films! But no one believed me!!
You’re so right tho! Also like watching a romance movie with a guy would be so cringe 😭
The fruit and veggie one surprised me.
How would you know if you really like someone?
"love is in small things" always researching about love i cant find what love is, only where it is
Me, watching these videos so that I can learn how to avoid/reduce chances of having my friends catching feelings again
Ive finally caught up. And after many days of healthing I've come here.
Edit:Horror movies are more romantic definitely has given me ideas. My mind was blown away knowing that horror is a way to take a girl's heart.