Dr. G, I can’t thank you enough for your work. Your clinical skills are unparalleled, your delivery is unmatched. And after working non-stop since Christmas Eve in an extremely high stress psychiatric environment, you made me laugh so hard when I watched this video! By the time I heard you refer to the channel as “for couples who want to lose their appetite and sex drive simultaneously “ I was literally laughing so hard my cat was alarmed 😂😂😂😂
Oh that,s true At my school district we do background checks through Department of Public Safety in other words the cops.Also HR has gotten some mail from Department of Defense as well.So yeah they can definitely fire him.
Trump did worse. He cheated on his wife with at least 2 pornstars and people are voting for him for president. So funny the way people have these high morals for average folks but a silver spoon draft dodger people excise literally everything he does.
What's wrong with the way they look? Maybe not everyone is interested in underage looking girls playing the creepy "stepsister" roles or barbies with ridiculous butt surgery. Porn needs more representation of real bodies and the participants actually caring about each other.
They're not wrong. They were exercising their first ammendment right. It is still protected speech. They didn't break the law, they broke the university code of conduct. Those are two completely different things.
Exactly. The first amendment simply means he can't be criminally prosecuted for something like this (or speaking his mind on a particular topic). But freedom of speech doesn't mean freedom from other consequences.
I’m a much lower level employee at a smaller university and I have a code of conduct, it’s in the 1500 pages of policies and procedures they give you upon employment. Happy New Year Doc and all!
Sad thing is if he were a gun enthusiast into trophy hunting no one would think twice if he shot a mother mountain lion leaving her babies to starve. I don't think the university should be expected to support porn necessarily but it was uncalled for to say that he's disgusting and abhorrent 11:04 for creating adult content on a members only site. The way they treated Nina Hartley was abhorrent, she's a PhD, author, and educator who has spoken at many organizations.
I'm a federal employee and I'm held to much higher standards than my bosses (elected "leaders"). This comment is not related to anything, but just something I felt like mentioning.
Please do not insult people with higher education. It looks like you don't it. 😅 Do not mistake luck of the common sense with the luck of intelligence. You can have both and you can have none . Or you can have one without the other.
I would say this isn't so much an indictment of his intellect so much as it's an example of he and his wife's incredibly bad judgement. And he's quite naive about the First Amendment. It can protect you from government prosecution but not dismissal from your job.
Most universities are run like a business. His behavior is going to cause a lot a snickering and bad jokes at the expense of the university. Lots of parents do not want to pay for their kid to go to a university that has a reputation as a party school or have an unsavory reputation. So even though he did nothing wrong, his activities probably would have a negative impact on the university therefore they have to oust him. What puzzles me is his weird desire to be a geriatric porn star. He's like those people who had some success in sports in high school and then spend their lives trying to pretend they could still be professional athletes.
People of all ages have sex. It's honestly creepy for middle age and older people to be masturbating to images of 19 year olds. Younger kids are easily coerced with promises of big money and then they get underpaid and their boundaries disrespected. At least he's showing real people with a happy and loving sex life.
@@gossamer9966exactly. Something tells me their OnlyFans is about people their age just enjoying life a bit and there's nothing wrong with it. Probably all the people watching them are their age.
Dr Grande said he supported their right to do these videos. Is that moral. I think not.Disappointed in Dr Grande. Wish you not listen to the last part of video.
It's not "the world" that is weird. The reason Dr Grande's videos are interesting is because he talks about rare strange events and people. Most of the world is full of pretty good, and normal people. I'm over these tired out faulty generalizations from the the virtue signaling do-gooders in the world.
@@DebNKY Freedom of speech, as was pointed out in the video, prohibits the GOVT, (not your employer) from interfering in your views. Employers are only prohibited from discriminating based on : race, color, religion age, disability, national origin, or sexual orientation. Other than that, outside activities the see as objectionable is is fair game it seems. Dr. Grande actually points that out too.
Mr. Grande, my daughter got me hooked to your videos. I'm 68 and don't often watch things on the Internet but I sure do look forward to your videos each day. Your videos have substance and teachable lessons. I appreciate the hard work you do to post a video each day. Based on the comments you have such positive feedback I'm far from the only one who looks forward to your videos each day.
american hypocrites, sex is normal thing, ugly old people also do sex and if you dont want to watch and live out in your dogma cage, then please leave normal people alone and stop the abuse with name calling and isults, they speak more of you then of them. these are academic educated people, wrote books, he is a communicator, he did what he knew and tried to help other normal people loose stigma about sex and talking about it.
You and people that agree with your comment are people that feel threatened of the thought that others have different opinions than what you have. Trying to twist the logic of freedom of speech and get things censored is the only option that control freaks like you wants since you are incapable of having a debate and admitting you're wrong. Remember I'm not diagnosing anyone here, just speculating of what could be going on.
I am 74 and have only seen porn once, I left after a few minutes because what I saw was truly nauseating to me. However when I heard the University representative say porn was “abhorrent” and “disgusting” it amazed me that almost certainly there is no such reaction to extremely violent movies, video games nor school shootings.
To be fair, there are such reactions towards school shootings. I get your point though. People won't miss a chance to show themselves from their best moral side.
@ I saw some thing with bad acting , costumes and set design. All ok. What nauseated me was when the woman “serviced” two men the both had white goop squirt onto her face. 🤮🤢😱 that is when I left. Before that while studying to be a RN in the 1970s I had seen something that Glide Memorial Church in San Francisco had produced while taking a seminar offered by San Francisco State on “Human Sexuality and the Disabled.” It showed all kinds of sex, but the different was all of that was done beautifully and sensitively and each scene showed not just explicit actions but genuine affection and LOVE. And I was aroused after serval years of celibacy.
😂😂 For viewers who want to lose their appetite and sex drive simultaneously... that made me laugh so hard. I love your humor, Dr. Grande.😂Your knowledge, the lessons learned in your analysis and your unique humor make your channel my favorite on ALL of TH-cam.❤
As a Chancellor of University, he had a moral code to follow as a lead representative at a college. He is so narcissistic that he doesn’t see their side.
Just because something is popular does not keep it from being morally reprehensible. Our society is functional or dysfunctional based on people following basic morals of conduct. Colleges are entrusted with vulnerable young people and professors should be held to a high standard of moral conduct.
He wasn’t having viewing parties in the quad. He wasn’t linking his videos via his LinkedIn profile. He wasn’t endangering vulnerable young people unless they were already on Only Fans & found his videos.
"professors should be held to a high standard of moral conduct", perceived moral conduct! As long as the public does not know how their professors, law enforcement, pastors, politicians, and judges behave in their private lives, you live in a false sense of security. You should visit Fetlife and see eight million people and Americans express their sexuality. Who knows, you might see a family member?
Solid alliteration throughout! Dr. Grande makes several helpful distinctions between what is legal, what is publicly acceptable, corporate moral standards and individual expression.
I knew Joe; he became chancellor not long before I went to college. At the time, he was trying to be approachable and cool, but didn't give off any bad vibes (this was before he married Carmen, so perhaps he was keeping things more under wraps). I thought he was interesting as a choice for chancellor, and I liked that he fired his spokesperson, as he didn't feel he needed someone to help him speak to the college. In any case, I was alone with him a few times in 2010/11, when I was 20/21. (It was relating to work I did for the university, I got to talk in-depth with him). I never felt weird or objectified, and I never heard of any bad or creepy behavior or any online postings before he married Carmen. It seems he has decided to be more, ahem, open, about sex and his life. What happened? When I knew him in the years I mentioned, he seemed a pretty normal guy. I'm not defending what he did, but rather pointing out an escalation in his patterns of thinking and behavior. And whatever stuff he put online, I have never heard of any students being harassed or preyed on by him.
I got into law for EXACTLY this reason. I was fired from being a waitress at a pizza restaurant in 1995 because I HAD been a stripper. It didn't sound right to me (it was fine) so I became a lawyer.
Being a stripper is different to sex work. As you know. But both are a reason for termination depending on the company. Working at pizza hut and not having clients visit you then that would be ok, as soon as that it crossed that line then termination is an option.
If someone wants to exercise their exhibitionism, they can do so within the law. But they cannot expect respect from the academic world for it. And a professor NEEDS to be respected.
Yeah I'm usually against people getting fired for what they do in their free time but there are exceptions, for example professors, CEOs, and some professions that are customer facing are representatives of the company and bad or even weird behavior reflects poorly on that institution. Things like being publicly racist, sexist, or generally bigoted are fireable if you're a teacher, nurse, etc. Where your biases can negatively affect outcomes in your line of work. Other than a few exceptions I think people should be allowed to be as weird, awful, or creepy as they want and keep their job
And who says the students disrespected him? Maybe they thought live and let live. You know, being reasonable. This is about your countries' attitude to sex, and that's driven by your religion.
If he was working with a trans on onlyfans, he would've been praised for his "bravery". Professors are a joke nowadays, they hold no moral values and spread Marxist ideology while making six figures a year.
I attended UWL when he was first hired. I remember thinking he was a bit immature for his role, trying to fit in with the students by holding guitar jam sessions. He was a feet on the grounds kind of guy and lived the University lifestyle (perhaps a little too much). 😜 He tried to be fun, cool, and engaged, and he was in a sense. Despite my own opinions on the matter, I wish him the best.
It seems the guy's been living a great life for decades tbh lol. Most people have miserable lives and this guy is freaking living it up. I'm sure quite a few female students loved to play his guitar too. 😏 So yeah, this guy should be a role model to many.
Were talking about emotional maturity. 8 signs of emotional maturity- You are empathetic. You're able to recognize and Share Your Feelings. You're flexible and open-minded. You're Able to Form Secure, Healthy Relationships. You Take Responsibility for Your Actions. You Set Healthy Boundaries. You've Able to Resolve Conflicts. You Can Manage Stress In Healthy Ways. How many of these qualities apply to people who are watching and especially making pornography? Just because you think it's fine doesn't mean you're emotionally mature. Name one person who is involved with this that can maintain a long-term healthy happy relationship with their mate, and be confident that they are setting a good example for others, especially for young people.
My understanding of this situation according to local Wisconsin news coverage is that the professor is on paid leave until an independent investigation is completed. It has been suggested that the videos were released now in an attempt to promote his “cooking” show. This is his post-retirement cooking show next year. If that was his plan, he probably achieved his goal….lots of publicity!
I looked her up, 938 adult films, a net worth of four million dollars. Is that a lot for a career at her age and , ah er, dedication? $4,000,000 ------- = $4,238 938 Of course, she has had living expenses.
After seeing what teachers have been upto lately, I am scared for all our children. And no, teachers aren't surrogate parents, but they have the responsibility to keep all children safe and lately it's loke dropping a child off at a lions den daily.
Oh get out of here with that "up to lately" BS. Try getting dropped off at a school in the 50s or 60s. They'd diddle you, then if you told your parents they'd smack ya for besmirching your teacher. Both my parents went through that garbage. This is a college leader doing something in his off time. Not a first grade teacher banging in front of the class. And there are teachers that actually do have inappropriate relationships with students, and that should absolutely be dealt with. But let's not pretend that's a recent phenomenon. The only recent part of it is the teachers actually (usually) get punished for that behavior.
This is strange on many levels. For one thing, most universities today are liberal enough to insist that there is nothing wrong with "sex work", and that people (usually woman, as in "it's my body") should not be shamed by being called "prostitutes", and certainly not "whores". I fail to see how this case shows the logical support for a "sex worker" who turns out to also work for the university. Is this stuff OK, or is it not OK? Pick one and stay logically consistent.
I believe in the “old fashioned” value that teachers of any kind should exemplify good, clean moral character. As Dr. G said, society determines its own moral values. Socrates said: “Pay attention to the young, and make them just as good as possible.”
so do you do a background check for each and every university professor who goes around your adult children? That's probably very time consuming... and how do you do that? Just google "name of the professor + adult content"? Or do you search also other flaws like "name of the professor + domestic violence" or "theft of a toy car at the age of 8"?
I'm actually surprised at the consequences. It was decades ago that I had a friend whose husband was in the military, she was excited that the military had changed their policy and now military personnel are allowed to do adult films or strip in their free time. I was shocked, even more so because she was in favor of her husband stripping for other women. I guess I've been desensitized. I'm mostly happy that they put this stuff on sites I never have to visit or know about.
At what point do the "consequences" repress a person's freedom of speech or expression? I know it's a popular expression these days, but your comment sounds like the kind of thing an authoritarian government would say.
Our "Freedom of speech", as stated in the Constitution, refers to a citizen's right to criricize the government or government officials without fear of being arrested, prosecuted, and/or jailed. The first amendment doesn't apply to this situation. People often stretch the somewhat narrow meaning of the first amendment into areas of civic life where it doesn't apply (like this case). @emmaponymous
@@emmaponymous this case doesn’t involve government. It involves an employer, who’s not obligated to employ him. So, while this may be a popular expression these days, it’s also the perfect expression in this example. He exercised his right to free speech, and his employer exercised their right to fire him because they determined he wasn’t a good cultural fit.
Once again I watch a Todd Grande video hoping against hope that he will diagnose someone in the video, rather than merely speculate about what might be happening in a similar situation. Once again my hopes are dashed. Some day, Dr Grande. Some day I will see you diagnosing someone in this video!
Can't diagnose someone without thoroughly assessing them. You can read the criteria for various disorders in the DSM. A clinician has to interview someone in order to determine if they meet the criteria. He would lose his professional credibility if he diagnosed on TH-cam. There why he gives that disclaimer.
The only reason to make a diagnosis is to be able to file the paperwork with an insurer in order for the 'patient' to be refunded for the drugs or treatment a doctor may want to prescribe. Or, in court, to argue whether someone was responsible or not for their acts etc.
We have decided, already, that only fans etc, is not "immoral". Most U.S. universities can't or won't even clearly define what is immoral. This guy will get his back pay and settlement from the university. If course he is white and married, those are strikes against him. If he was gay or minority or non binary, or just a plagerist, we would not be hearing this story.....
@@JohnM-sw4sc immoral??? According to who?, he is more decent than pastors or any other robbers. He sells his body, and he gets audience that consume those things. He commercialize his body without damage or steal people. How thr people knew his porn activities? Because they consume porn, who is the hipocrit???
My former English teacher taught at UW Lacrosse and I don't live far from there. This is quite scandalous for the area. Freedom of Speech isn't freedom from consequences.
I have another simpler theory as to why these two decided to display themselves publicly. And it doesn’t even require phd education or a provocative social experiment. They’re exhibitionists who find it exciting. And the more fuss, the more people will look. Whether they enjoy it is another matter. I’m not really interested in their activities one way or another but if they lose their jobs, oh well!
This may be why he was fired. Whether they said it or not, the university may have recognized the couple's escalating kink and decided it was bad news. Speech may be protected, but inviting your students or co-workers into your kink (in this case the couple got off on the idea of their colleagues watching them) is not. When he invited Nina Hartley to campus, he was inviting people to seek out his videos because he wanted students and colleagues to see them, imo. That is where the problem is.
OMG!!!!!!! LOVE THIS AND YOU! I've been waiting for this one! lol...2:36-2:46 and 3:27-3:37. When the news broke i was shocked. Lacrosse is 2 hours from where my folks and us live. His cooking videos in youtube are nuts! they used their real names!! My mom nicknamed him Joe Go!!
@robertgiles9124 Nonsense, make death threats, use racially intolerant language, admit a crime, put the integrity of your position in question etc... all these have consequences.
nazi german citizens technically had to freedom to speak out against the nazi party, but they weren't free from the consequences of speaking out I.E getting their heads caved in. freedom of speech doesn't mean that you TECHNICALLY have the ABILITY speak, it means that you are protected from being punished for speaking freely. when the founding fathers made the constitution they made it explicit that you would be protected from certain consequences of your speech I.E getting jailed, killed or having your rights taken away.
I believe this was nothing more than a publicity stunt. Morality clauses extend to private life as professional roles such as chancellor include service as a role model. Joe Gow’s behavior was anything but private and he would have been keenly aware of such clause. He displayed gosh behavior and very publicly lost a job he announced intent to quit.
Similar thing in Manchester University in the UK around 2016. A senior Chemical Engineering lecturer named Nicholas Goddard starred in many adult films as 'Old Nick'. A student recognized him in one of his movies and informed on him and he was fired from his position as lecturer at the university.
2:40 "They do seem to be happy, although some people are not confident there's enough evidence to support the first adjective." HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am tired of people saying "fReeDoM oF SPeEcH" thinking that allows them to say or do pretty much anything and be shielding from being banned on social media or fired from their job. Free speech means you do not have to worry about the government punishing you for your speech or expression (granted you are following the law). For example, he hasn't been arrested or charged with anything.
Not if the government suppresses free speech through proxy corporations (like your hero Brandon did) when I see comments like yours what your really saying is people's lives should be destroyed because they don't follow your agenda or disagree with you in any way. You people are devious and use any means to shut down the other side, I see right through your BS and I will continue to call you people out.
Anyone in a position of authority needs to behave in an ethical manner. What consenting adults do on their own time is their business, but Joe was in a position to influence young people.
Narcissists. Is it possible for a society to be narcisistic? I have been living in Argentine, and looking back, I think the US culture is narcissistic. It's all about me, gratification, and lack of respect.
Universities typically have a lot on young people and are meant to be educational institutions. Many parents may been concerned about having a dirty old man in charge. Does this help the university's academic integrity.
This country is so hypocritical. We honor people that kill people in war but having an different sex life is a point of scorn. Porn-hub is one of the largest website but people still have to view it in the dark. I applaud Joe Gow for fighting to have his freedom of expression.
Seems like a logical parting of ways. He is prioritizing his mission to normalize participation in adult films. He doesn’t care if enrollment and fundraising decreases because of his actions. Who knows, with the publicity he’s getting, he may be able to make a living through social media. He can legally do that and the University can decide that pornography goes against their value system
I wasn’t using it as a phrase. I meant it. They should part ways. It makes sense. He doesn’t want to modify his behavior. He wants to be very open when it comes to his lifestyle. The university doesn’t want to be associated with the lifestyle he wants to promote. The university gets to avoid backlash and he gets to do what he wants to do
Enjoy your videos. Just a suggestion but either considering getting your glasses adjusted, you appear to be looking through your upper right frame edge or consider lowering your camera angle.
......."Keeping a stiff upper lip"....Geez Dr Grande 😂. You are a funny, funny man! Thank you for ALL the entertainment, thoughts, information, knowledge you have delivered in 2023. You're a stand out IMO. Best wishes to you, Mrs G and your 2 very adorable little dogs for 2024. ❤
Hahahaha! Get turned off and lose appetite! His freedom of speech was protected as he wasn’t thrown in jail. How can you be a professor and not know this?
Usually tenured university faculty cannot be fired for expressing unpopular or controversial opinions or lifestyles, and are entitled to a much greater degree of due process to defend their position than Dr. How was afforded.
Everyone out here living the spiciest life, meanwhile im just sitting home thinking about what shape of cloud i would be
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First hearty laugh all day, thanks.😊
"If you were a twee, can kind of twee would you be?"
Lol 😂 me too,
Cumulonimbus?
"...who want to lose their appetite and sex drive simultaneously." Dr. Grande never fails to get to the point.
I started laughing so hard! I don’t want to see any kind of porn, I think it’s disgusting.
But the worst kind of porn is old people porn. Gah.
😂 that was so shady and hilarious
Yeah that one tickled the funny bone 😂
He does drive it home hard
I died laughing.
Dr. G, I can’t thank you enough for your work. Your clinical skills are unparalleled, your delivery is unmatched. And after working non-stop since Christmas Eve in an extremely high stress psychiatric environment, you made me laugh so hard when I watched this video! By the time I heard you refer to the channel as “for couples who want to lose their appetite and sex drive simultaneously “ I was literally laughing so hard my cat was alarmed 😂😂😂😂
“Lose their appetite for food and sex simultaneously “ 😂😂😂
Who doesn't want to watch a middle-aged couple rutting around in their bedroom?
A happy new year 2024 from Germany to our doctor, his wife, his team and his followers and fans. Thank you for your great work in 2023, doc.
Same! Happy new year from Greece 💙!
Happy New Year from Brazil! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Isn't he a gem!
Happy New Year from Canada.
And from Sweden!
you have a great sense of humor, dr grande.
From the looks of this couple, if they're selling videos, they better be ready to make change for a dime.
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Well said 😂
i love how you deliver your jokes with a straight face and serious tone
He knew the what he was doing, his own hedonism was his downfall.
Oh that,s true At my school district we do background checks through Department of Public Safety in other words the cops.Also HR has gotten some mail from Department of Defense as well.So yeah they can definitely fire him.
They made a mistake in NOT inviting Stormy Daniels. Obviously, bringing in her in your life/doings is a completely different matter.. Rgr
meanwhile university chancellors can ignore and enable the outright genocide of jews before congress and get a pass.
Trump did worse. He cheated on his wife with at least 2 pornstars and people are voting for him for president. So funny the way people have these high morals for average folks but a silver spoon draft dodger people excise literally everything he does.
“Down”fall, not so much.
He should be fired for thinking people would want to see them in adult videos.
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They have had millions of viewers! And if you don't want to watch him you don't have to.
What's wrong with the way they look? Maybe not everyone is interested in underage looking girls playing the creepy "stepsister" roles or barbies with ridiculous butt surgery. Porn needs more representation of real bodies and the participants actually caring about each other.
@@SailingWindGypsyHI Joe! 😂😂
Happy New Years Dr Grande and Co ❤ and to all here have a fabbo 2024 🎉
It’s my pet peeve when people throw around the 1st amendment without actually understanding what it entails.
They're not wrong. They were exercising their first ammendment right. It is still protected speech. They didn't break the law, they broke the university code of conduct. Those are two completely different things.
@@ElSantoLuchador I’m aware. People think the 1st amendment means free of consequences.
Same. It’s people who have never actually read the constitution in their life
@@ElSantoLuchadorHe can be fired for it still, can’t be prevented for it
Exactly. The first amendment simply means he can't be criminally prosecuted for something like this (or speaking his mind on a particular topic). But freedom of speech doesn't mean freedom from other consequences.
I’m a much lower level employee at a smaller university and I have a code of conduct, it’s in the 1500 pages of policies and procedures they give you upon employment.
Happy New Year Doc and all!
Sad thing is if he were a gun enthusiast into trophy hunting no one would think twice if he shot a mother mountain lion leaving her babies to starve. I don't think the university should be expected to support porn necessarily but it was uncalled for to say that he's disgusting and abhorrent 11:04 for creating adult content on a members only site. The way they treated Nina Hartley was abhorrent, she's a PhD, author, and educator who has spoken at many organizations.
@KaraLey98 Glad Joe Gow got fired. What a sicko...just think of all the college students he Lusted over..
I'm a federal employee and I'm held to much higher standards than my bosses (elected "leaders").
This comment is not related to anything, but just something I felt like mentioning.
This goes to show how a PhD means nothing in terms of a common sense understanding of 1A
@@ScienceWatch2000-xs5nh happy new year to you as well!
This Dr is the best at dry humor one liners. They're great!
This just goes to show that having a PhD does not necessarily equate to having intelligence.
...or decency, dignity, and self-respect.
Please do not insult people with higher education. It looks like you don't it. 😅 Do not mistake luck of the common sense with the luck of intelligence. You can have both and you can have none . Or you can have one without the other.
There is a very thin veneer between brains and sanity.
He is a bit of a one trick pony.
I would say this isn't so much an indictment of his intellect so much as it's an example of he and his wife's incredibly bad judgement.
And he's quite naive about the First Amendment. It can protect you from government prosecution but not dismissal from your job.
Most universities are run like a business. His behavior is going to cause a lot a snickering and bad jokes at the expense of the university.
Lots of parents do not want to pay for their kid to go to a university that has a reputation as a party school or have an unsavory reputation.
So even though he did nothing wrong, his activities probably would have a negative impact on the university therefore they have to oust him.
What puzzles me is his weird desire to be a geriatric porn star. He's like those people who had some success in sports in high school and then spend their lives trying to pretend they could still be professional athletes.
Geriatric porn star he is over 60 and I guess she is as well !!
He's obviously delusional and thinks he's a young good-looking stud. Yuk
Check pornhub categories. There are sections for all ages and types.
People of all ages have sex. It's honestly creepy for middle age and older people to be masturbating to images of 19 year olds. Younger kids are easily coerced with promises of big money and then they get underpaid and their boundaries disrespected. At least he's showing real people with a happy and loving sex life.
@@gossamer9966exactly. Something tells me their OnlyFans is about people their age just enjoying life a bit and there's nothing wrong with it. Probably all the people watching them are their age.
Thank you Dr. Grande for your spot on, moral, lucid, rational and thoughtful comments on our weird, weird world and it’s human inhabitants.
Dr Grande said he supported their right to do these videos. Is that moral. I think not.Disappointed in Dr Grande. Wish you not listen to the last part of video.
@@kathybates1751that's just a freedom of speech thing. You can't judge him fairly for supporting the Constitution.
@@kathybates1751 Wow, I bet your sex life sucks.
It's not "the world" that is weird. The reason Dr Grande's videos are interesting is because he talks about rare strange events and people. Most of the world is full of pretty good, and normal people.
I'm over these tired out faulty generalizations from the the virtue signaling do-gooders in the world.
@@DebNKY Freedom of speech, as was pointed out in the video, prohibits the GOVT, (not your employer) from interfering in your views. Employers are only prohibited from discriminating based on : race, color, religion age, disability, national origin, or sexual orientation. Other than that, outside activities the see as objectionable is is fair game it seems. Dr. Grande actually points that out too.
Thanks!
Mr. Grande, my daughter got me hooked to your videos. I'm 68 and don't often watch things on the Internet but I sure do look forward to your videos each day. Your videos have substance and teachable lessons. I appreciate the hard work you do to post a video each day. Based on the comments you have such positive feedback I'm far from the only one who looks forward to your videos each day.
It is dr. Grande.
american hypocrites, sex is normal thing, ugly old people also do sex and if you dont want to watch and live out in your dogma cage, then please leave normal people alone and stop the abuse with name calling and isults, they speak more of you then of them. these are academic educated people, wrote books, he is a communicator, he did what he knew and tried to help other normal people loose stigma about sex and talking about it.
Stiff upper lip, .....etc😂😂😂😂😂
OMG so fitting and funny
Happy new year, Dr. Grande and to your beautiful wife. 🎉
Bravo! Your final thoughts on this topic was worth a round of applause 👏
"Lose their appetite and their sex drive simultaneously." I love the Doc! Happy New year to you and the family Dr. Grande!!
People always go for the freedom of speech argument, conflating it with freedom from consequence.
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More like abuse of the first admendment.
So if the government decided to jail you over your speech then it would still be freedom of speech. Got it. 🤡🤡🤡🤡
@@isailevilopez5134 strawman argument, Joe Gow was not jailed. Try harder next time. Maybe add more emotes, 4 might not be enough.
You and people that agree with your comment are people that feel threatened of the thought that others have different opinions than what you have. Trying to twist the logic of freedom of speech and get things censored is the only option that control freaks like you wants since you are incapable of having a debate and admitting you're wrong.
Remember I'm not diagnosing anyone here, just speculating of what could be going on.
I am 74 and have only seen porn once, I left after a few minutes because what I saw was truly nauseating to me. However when I heard the University representative say porn was “abhorrent” and “disgusting” it amazed me that almost certainly there is no such reaction to extremely violent movies, video games nor school shootings.
To be fair, there are such reactions towards school shootings.
I get your point though. People won't miss a chance to show themselves from their best moral side.
Which porn did you watch? That was disgusting? Because you know you can choose to not watch disgusting porns.
@ I saw some thing with bad acting , costumes and set design. All ok. What nauseated me was when the woman “serviced” two men the both had white goop squirt onto her face. 🤮🤢😱 that is when I left. Before that while studying to be a RN in the 1970s I had seen something that Glide Memorial Church in San Francisco had produced while taking a seminar offered by San Francisco State on “Human Sexuality and the Disabled.” It showed all kinds of sex, but the different was all of that was done beautifully and sensitively and each scene showed not just explicit actions but genuine affection and LOVE. And I was aroused after serval years of celibacy.
😂😂 For viewers who want to lose their appetite and sex drive simultaneously...
that made me laugh so hard. I love your humor, Dr. Grande.😂Your knowledge, the lessons learned in your analysis and your unique humor make your channel my favorite on ALL of TH-cam.❤
The dry, deadpan humour is gold. 😀
@@susanneashton1340 It sure is 🤣 He comes out with the funniest lines ever.
He's definitely one of my favourites.
As a Chancellor of University, he had a moral code to follow as a lead representative at a college.
He is so narcissistic that he doesn’t see their side.
Just because something is popular does not keep it from being morally reprehensible. Our society is functional or dysfunctional based on people following basic morals of conduct. Colleges are entrusted with vulnerable young people and professors should be held to a high standard of moral conduct.
💯 correct!!!
He wasn’t having viewing parties in the quad. He wasn’t linking his videos via his LinkedIn profile. He wasn’t endangering vulnerable young people unless they were already on Only Fans & found his videos.
"professors should be held to a high standard of moral conduct", perceived moral conduct! As long as the public does not know how their professors, law enforcement, pastors, politicians, and judges behave in their private lives, you live in a false sense of security. You should visit Fetlife and see eight million people and Americans express their sexuality. Who knows, you might see a family member?
Solid alliteration throughout! Dr. Grande makes several helpful distinctions between what is legal, what is publicly acceptable, corporate moral standards and individual expression.
i really enjoy watching Dr Grande’s face as he describes this case. how he maintains his composure is a mystery
Thank you, Dr. and Mrs. Grande. I enjoyed many videos and lovely holiday decorations in 2023.
Happy New Year Dr. Grande and all!!
I knew Joe; he became chancellor not long before I went to college. At the time, he was trying to be approachable and cool, but didn't give off any bad vibes (this was before he married Carmen, so perhaps he was keeping things more under wraps).
I thought he was interesting as a choice for chancellor, and I liked that he fired his spokesperson, as he didn't feel he needed someone to help him speak to the college.
In any case, I was alone with him a few times in 2010/11, when I was 20/21. (It was relating to work I did for the university, I got to talk in-depth with him). I never felt weird or objectified, and I never heard of any bad or creepy behavior or any online postings before he married Carmen.
It seems he has decided to be more, ahem, open, about sex and his life. What happened? When I knew him in the years I mentioned, he seemed a pretty normal guy. I'm not defending what he did, but rather pointing out an escalation in his patterns of thinking and behavior. And whatever stuff he put online, I have never heard of any students being harassed or preyed on by him.
The alliteration at the end... clever and humorous. 😅
I got into law for EXACTLY this reason. I was fired from being a waitress at a pizza restaurant in 1995 because I HAD been a stripper. It didn't sound right to me (it was fine) so I became a lawyer.
You go!!
But, can you be fired from law for having been a stripper in 1995
Being a stripper is different to sex work. As you know. But both are a reason for termination depending on the company. Working at pizza hut and not having clients visit you then that would be ok, as soon as that it crossed that line then termination is an option.
Me too! I took a dump on the Wendy’s salad bar and got fired! I thought: “No way!”. But it turned out to be okay. And now I’m a lawyer.
@@frakismaximus3052 “Fired from law,” 😅
If someone wants to exercise their exhibitionism, they can do so within the law. But they cannot expect respect from the academic world for it. And a professor NEEDS to be respected.
Yeah I'm usually against people getting fired for what they do in their free time but there are exceptions, for example professors, CEOs, and some professions that are customer facing are representatives of the company and bad or even weird behavior reflects poorly on that institution.
Things like being publicly racist, sexist, or generally bigoted are fireable if you're a teacher, nurse, etc. Where your biases can negatively affect outcomes in your line of work.
Other than a few exceptions I think people should be allowed to be as weird, awful, or creepy as they want and keep their job
They don’t need to be respected at all. They just need to be right or trying to pursue the truth
@@Aaron-kj8dvonly if they do it in privacy. If you're making videos for the world to see that changes everything
@@Pwn3540yeah. In making one's private life public, they should probably expect to be judged by someone.
And who says the students disrespected him?
Maybe they thought live and let live. You know, being reasonable.
This is about your countries' attitude to sex, and that's driven by your religion.
Why do so many college professionals think tenure is a cloak of invincibility?
It isn't???
If he was working with a trans on onlyfans, he would've been praised for his "bravery". Professors are a joke nowadays, they hold no moral values and spread Marxist ideology while making six figures a year.
Because it is ...
I hate this whole tenure thing. Nobody should be guaranteed a job when at times it protects the worst of theachers.
Happy and Blessed New Year Dr. Grande!! I was hoping you'd cover this one...😊
I attended UWL when he was first hired. I remember thinking he was a bit immature for his role, trying to fit in with the students by holding guitar jam sessions. He was a feet on the grounds kind of guy and lived the University lifestyle (perhaps a little too much). 😜 He tried to be fun, cool, and engaged, and he was in a sense. Despite my own opinions on the matter, I wish him the best.
It seems the guy's been living a great life for decades tbh lol. Most people have miserable lives and this guy is freaking living it up. I'm sure quite a few female students loved to play his guitar too. 😏 So yeah, this guy should be a role model to many.
Were talking about emotional maturity.
8 signs of emotional maturity-
You are empathetic.
You're able to recognize and Share Your Feelings.
You're flexible and open-minded.
You're Able to Form Secure, Healthy Relationships.
You Take Responsibility for Your Actions.
You Set Healthy Boundaries.
You've Able to Resolve Conflicts.
You Can Manage Stress In Healthy Ways.
How many of these qualities apply to people who are watching and especially making pornography?
Just because you think it's fine doesn't mean you're emotionally mature. Name one person who is involved with this that can maintain a long-term healthy happy relationship with their mate, and be confident that they are setting a good example for others, especially for young people.
@@brainwithani5693what about NOT getting upset about people having sex? That would be pretty mature.
Yep, all the qualities of a crappy LEADER. Weak university minds.
You wish him the best? He belongs in jail.
My understanding of this situation according to local Wisconsin news coverage is that the professor is on paid leave until an independent investigation is completed. It has been suggested that the videos were released now in an attempt to promote his “cooking” show. This is his post-retirement cooking show next year. If that was his plan, he probably achieved his goal….lots of publicity!
you may be right. Lot's of traffic on his YT channel and quite a few new supporters because of this publicity
Paying Nina Hartley with university money is definitely next level
He should have got Ron Jeremy for commencement !
I looked her up, 938 adult films, a net worth of four million dollars. Is that a lot for a career at her age and , ah er, dedication?
$4,000,000
------- = $4,238
938
Of course, she has had living expenses.
He wants free speech. Not for porn stars.
She got scale.@@JudyTullos
@@terraflow__bryanburdo4547his bail was way too high.
After seeing what teachers have been upto lately, I am scared for all our children. And no, teachers aren't surrogate parents, but they have the responsibility to keep all children safe and lately it's loke dropping a child off at a lions den daily.
It’s college…..
It always has been where have you been?
And that's what they get for not including and starring me SMH 🙄😒
That’s a comically hyperbolic statement.
Oh get out of here with that "up to lately" BS. Try getting dropped off at a school in the 50s or 60s. They'd diddle you, then if you told your parents they'd smack ya for besmirching your teacher. Both my parents went through that garbage. This is a college leader doing something in his off time. Not a first grade teacher banging in front of the class. And there are teachers that actually do have inappropriate relationships with students, and that should absolutely be dealt with. But let's not pretend that's a recent phenomenon. The only recent part of it is the teachers actually (usually) get punished for that behavior.
Happy New Year to Dr Grande and all his followers.
Happy New Year Dr. Grande!!!
This is strange on many levels. For one thing, most universities today are liberal enough to insist that there is nothing wrong with "sex work", and that people (usually woman, as in "it's my body") should not be shamed by being called "prostitutes", and certainly not "whores". I fail to see how this case shows the logical support for a "sex worker" who turns out to also work for the university. Is this stuff OK, or is it not OK? Pick one and stay logically consistent.
Small town Wisconsin isn't known for being liberal, though.
I believe in the “old fashioned” value that teachers of any kind should exemplify good, clean moral character. As Dr. G said, society determines its own moral values. Socrates said: “Pay attention to the young, and make them just as good as possible.”
so do you do a background check for each and every university professor who goes around your adult children? That's probably very time consuming... and how do you do that? Just google "name of the professor + adult content"? Or do you search also other flaws like "name of the professor + domestic violence" or "theft of a toy car at the age of 8"?
I'm actually surprised at the consequences.
It was decades ago that I had a friend whose husband was in the military, she was excited that the military had changed their policy and now military personnel are allowed to do adult films or strip in their free time. I was shocked, even more so because she was in favor of her husband stripping for other women. I guess I've been desensitized.
I'm mostly happy that they put this stuff on sites I never have to visit or know about.
This shows that having a lot of knowledge, is not the same as having a little wisdom!
Who is watching this?!? I love your line, it’s for viewers who want to lose their appetite and sex drive simultaneously!!! 🤣🤣🤣
"Out With A Bang"😅😂😅
Happy New Year from Tennessee!!🎉❤
You can say and/or do whatever you want, but that doesn’t absolve you from consequences.
At what point do the "consequences" repress a person's freedom of speech or expression?
I know it's a popular expression these days, but your comment sounds like the kind of thing an authoritarian government would say.
Our "Freedom of speech", as stated in the Constitution, refers to a citizen's right to criricize the government or government officials without fear of being arrested, prosecuted, and/or jailed. The first amendment doesn't apply to this situation. People often stretch the somewhat narrow meaning of the first amendment into areas of civic life where it doesn't apply (like this case). @emmaponymous
@@seneca4625 Thank you for explaining this so eloquently.
@@emmaponymous this case doesn’t involve government. It involves an employer, who’s not obligated to employ him. So, while this may be a popular expression these days, it’s also the perfect expression in this example. He exercised his right to free speech, and his employer exercised their right to fire him because they determined he wasn’t a good cultural fit.
You are absolutely hilarious my man. My wife and I cried laughing. Those were killer bars.
Nobody has common sense or any sense of decorum any longer.
Your dry sense of humor is the best!
Happy new year to all
Once again I watch a Todd Grande video hoping against hope that he will diagnose someone in the video, rather than merely speculate about what might be happening in a similar situation. Once again my hopes are dashed. Some day, Dr Grande. Some day I will see you diagnosing someone in this video!
Can't diagnose someone without thoroughly assessing them. You can read the criteria for various disorders in the DSM. A clinician has to interview someone in order to determine if they meet the criteria. He would lose his professional credibility if he diagnosed on TH-cam. There why he gives that disclaimer.
The only reason to make a diagnosis is to be able to file the paperwork with an insurer in order for the 'patient' to be refunded for the drugs or treatment a doctor may want to prescribe. Or, in court, to argue whether someone was responsible or not for their acts etc.
@@RepentImmediatelypretty sure that's a joke there, sir 🫰
@@FungeHucker and a great joke at that! Love it, thank you.
Can’t without knowing the person
Greetings fron Dublin in Ireland. Wishing you and your lovely wife and family a very Happy New Year, and many more to come.
Trying to “relive” their younger selves I guess.
Hey, speaking of Dublin in Ireland. Conor McGregor is back at UFC on June 29th in International Fight Week! I'm so hyped!
@@AlternateMichael are you going to see him? I don't really follow him, except when he gets up to his shenanigans, lok
@@gaiaiulia Not in person but I'll definitely be watching! I can't wait for it, we have a real treat on our hands
@@AlternateMichael who's he up against?
We have decided, already, that only fans etc, is not "immoral". Most U.S. universities can't or won't even clearly define what is immoral. This guy will get his back pay and settlement from the university. If course he is white and married, those are strikes against him. If he was gay or minority or non binary, or just a plagerist, we would not be hearing this story.....
This guy has been a grifter his whole career. And he had to self destruct because his employer never before called him on it.
What a sickos around young people. Glad he got sacked. Keep a distance between this couple and any educational facility
Happy New Year, Dr. G. Have a healthy, happy new year, You and your family 🎉🎉
Its an injustice. If he sells his body for money, he is not a threaten to people, he is just earning money wothout stealing others
It is immoral to sells one body and he is rightly being outcast
@@JohnM-sw4sc immoral??? According to who?, he is more decent than pastors or any other robbers. He sells his body, and he gets audience that consume those things. He commercialize his body without damage or steal people. How thr people knew his porn activities? Because they consume porn, who is the hipocrit???
@@JohnM-sw4scwe are selling our body ever time we go to work.
I had the feeling that this video would have an exquisite selection of puns and world play, and it did not disappoint. Happy new year Dr.!!
My former English teacher taught at UW Lacrosse and I don't live far from there. This is quite scandalous for the area. Freedom of Speech isn't freedom from consequences.
I have another simpler theory as to why these two decided to display themselves publicly. And it doesn’t even require phd education or a provocative social experiment. They’re exhibitionists who find it exciting. And the more fuss, the more people will look. Whether they enjoy it is another matter. I’m not really interested in their activities one way or another but if they lose their jobs, oh well!
I agree!
Well said.
I think you're absolutely right.
💯
This may be why he was fired. Whether they said it or not, the university may have recognized the couple's escalating kink and decided it was bad news. Speech may be protected, but inviting your students or co-workers into your kink (in this case the couple got off on the idea of their colleagues watching them) is not. When he invited Nina Hartley to campus, he was inviting people to seek out his videos because he wanted students and colleagues to see them, imo. That is where the problem is.
OMG!!!!!!! LOVE THIS AND YOU! I've been waiting for this one! lol...2:36-2:46 and 3:27-3:37. When the news broke i was shocked. Lacrosse is 2 hours from where my folks and us live. His cooking videos in youtube are nuts! they used their real names!!
My mom nicknamed him Joe Go!!
Freedom of speech does not include freedom from consequences.
Sounds like a quote from the Taliban. Why be tolerant when you can be a scolding Puritan.
@robertgiles9124 Nonsense, make death threats, use racially intolerant language, admit a crime, put the integrity of your position in question etc... all these have consequences.
It sounds like he was well aware of the consequences beforehand and the whole point is to demonstrate that they are not fair.
nazi german citizens technically had to freedom to speak out against the nazi party,
but they weren't free from the consequences of speaking out I.E getting their heads caved in.
freedom of speech doesn't mean that you TECHNICALLY have the ABILITY speak, it means that you are protected from being punished for speaking freely.
when the founding fathers made the constitution they made it explicit that you would be protected from certain consequences of your speech I.E getting jailed, killed or having your rights taken away.
And he did NONE of those things DRAMA MAMA TALIBAN.@@znk0r
Happy New Year from Germany! 🎉Thanks for your always interesting content.
He kind of looks like that politician Weiner guy.
I believe this was nothing more than a publicity stunt. Morality clauses extend to private life as professional roles such as chancellor include service as a role model. Joe Gow’s behavior was anything but private and he would have been keenly aware of such clause. He displayed gosh behavior and very publicly lost a job he announced intent to quit.
gauche
Similar thing in Manchester University in the UK around 2016. A senior Chemical Engineering lecturer named Nicholas Goddard starred in many adult films as 'Old Nick'. A student recognized him in one of his movies and informed on him and he was fired from his position as lecturer at the university.
Dumb student. He should have used his knowledge to blackmail the lecturer for A's.
2:40 "They do seem to be happy, although some people are not confident there's enough evidence to support the first adjective." HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jesus, I will pay them to keep their clothes on.
Same here.
I am an UW LaX alumni ('90), I didn't think he did anything wrong/worth terminated. Live and let live.
I am tired of people saying "fReeDoM oF SPeEcH" thinking that allows them to say or do pretty much anything and be shielding from being banned on social media or fired from their job. Free speech means you do not have to worry about the government punishing you for your speech or expression (granted you are following the law). For example, he hasn't been arrested or charged with anything.
Not if the government suppresses free speech through proxy corporations (like your hero Brandon did) when I see comments like yours what your really saying is people's lives should be destroyed because they don't follow your agenda or disagree with you in any way. You people are devious and use any means to shut down the other side, I see right through your BS and I will continue to call you people out.
Yeah, it is a fundamental misunderstanding of the concept of free speech.
Not freedom from consequences by private actors
Yes, this!
Me too. They are just plain dumb.
Thank you, Dr. Grande, for the giggles this New Year's day! :)
Dear Dr. Grande….Wishing you and yours a Happy New Year!! And, thank you for your hard work always.😇❤🥂cheers from Jean.
Here for Dr. Grande's sassy remarks. They did not disappoint 😂
You are very fair and even handed. You always get me thinking outside of my fixed opinions. I think you might have made an exceptional judge
Anyone in a position of authority needs to behave in an ethical manner. What consenting adults do on their own time is their business, but Joe was in a position to influence young people.
Or just people
And here I am worrying that clients will find out about my punk band.
Wow...are you from the 1990s?
Happy new yr doc , to you and yours ❤
Happy New Year, my friend! I'm looking forward to another amazing year of videos. Thanks!
He agreed to abide by the university code of conduct when he accepted the position, period.
Another excellent video. Thank you Dr. Grande. :)
You are so funny Dr Grande, I have had a good laugh. Happy New Year 2024
Narcissists. Is it possible for a society to be narcisistic? I have been living in Argentine, and looking back, I think the US culture is narcissistic. It's all about me, gratification, and lack of respect.
Universities typically have a lot on young people and are meant to be educational institutions.
Many parents may been concerned about having a dirty old man in charge.
Does this help the university's academic integrity.
This country is so hypocritical. We honor people that kill people in war but having an different sex life is a point of scorn. Porn-hub is one of the largest website but people still have to view it in the dark. I applaud Joe Gow for fighting to have his freedom of expression.
Seems like a logical parting of ways. He is prioritizing his mission to normalize participation in adult films. He doesn’t care if enrollment and fundraising decreases because of his actions. Who knows, with the publicity he’s getting, he may be able to make a living through social media. He can legally do that and the University can decide that pornography goes against their value system
meanwhile chancellor's at ivy league university's normalize the genocide of jews before congress and everyone ignores it.
A logical parting of ways? I don't think that phrase means what you think it means.
I wasn’t using it as a phrase. I meant it. They should part ways. It makes sense. He doesn’t want to modify his behavior. He wants to be very open when it comes to his lifestyle. The university doesn’t want to be associated with the lifestyle he wants to promote. The university gets to avoid backlash and he gets to do what he wants to do
He got demoted but he's still at the university. He's tenured.
Enjoy your videos. Just a suggestion but either considering getting your glasses adjusted, you appear to be looking through your upper right frame edge or consider lowering your camera angle.
Ironically, it sounds like this one *will* stand up on court, but one throbbing question remains: How long and hard did the staff review Gow's videos?
. . . until the members came to a satisfying conclusion?
Exactly
It's always awesome to have Dr. Grande BAR YOU DOWN at the end of a video😄😄😄😄😄
......."Keeping a stiff upper lip"....Geez Dr Grande 😂. You are a funny, funny man! Thank you for ALL the entertainment, thoughts, information, knowledge you have delivered in 2023. You're a stand out IMO. Best wishes to you, Mrs G and your 2 very adorable little dogs for 2024. ❤
9:25 That "stiff upper lip" comment almost made me spit out my sweet tea.😆😅🤣😂
Happy new year Dr Grande🎉thank you for all of your recaps the last year in our world gone mad.
The word "sleazy" comes to mind. Screw loose somewhere.
“Out with a bang” hahahahha that made me laugh. Thanks for another great video Dr.Grande. To continued success in 2024!
Hahahaha! Get turned off and lose appetite! His freedom of speech was protected as he wasn’t thrown in jail. How can you be a professor and not know this?
yeah having a job is a privilege determined by they employer and not a constitutional right
Usually tenured university faculty cannot be fired for expressing unpopular or controversial opinions or lifestyles, and are entitled to a much greater degree of due process to defend their position than Dr. How was afforded.
@@ThimbleFox350interesting
Today’s episode is brought to you by the letter “V” 🤣🤣🤣
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