Wife's Insatiable Desire For Men Precedes "Cute Little Face" Intruder | Rebecca Bryan Case Analysis
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We had a friend who was shy and not outgoing and was married for a long time. She did a 180 personality wise and started sleeping around and became the optic shy. She left her husband and found another in a dating website site. She was later diagnosed with glioblastoma of brain and died about a year later. anyone who doesn’t abrupt personality change needs to literally have their head examined, not psychiatrically, but physically
Certain medications can cause this too. Most people don't realize that self control is an illusion. If something goes haywire in your brain you may become someone different and not even realize it.
This was my thought, too. Sure, it's possible she just suddenly became a completely different, terrible person. But it's also possible she has a brain tumor.
Doctor Robert Sapolsky…. He has a ton of great videos on TH-cam… tells a similar story of a viral infection.
Could also be menopause. Extremely rare but it sometimes comes with a mania like this. Essentially the woman ends up getting a dose of teenage boy hormones instead of her natural estrogen. Same thing happens to girls getting sex changes into boys. It’s essentially roid rage and teenage boy angst and horniness.
@@john-paulsilke893 I saw a story about a 48 year old housewife who was throwing pool parties with all the neighborhood high school guys and …. Anyway, I was wondering/speculating about the source of her actions and even Wendy O Williams (plasmatics) suicide and the increased drug addiction of some older rockstars. Probably a hormonal link to some of the later life criminal changes.
"Mostly because of the murder part". Dr. Grande, the master of dry wit.
@rayross997 Right up there with 'clothing deficit.'
@@r.f.pennington746You beat me to it.
@r.f.pennington746 read your comment at the same time Dr Grande mentioned it😂
Reminds me of that comedian on SNL, I think he was a big fan.
Norm Macdonald would be proud.
A "clothing deficit" 🤣? Never heard it that way 🤣!
I'm deceased!!😆🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 hahahaha
Clothing deficit got me rolling lolol
What in hell? 👀
Aside from being a sociopath, she sounds possessed. 👹
I just had to click on this intriguing title
Me too 😂
Cant miss a Dr. Grande video. 😊
Same
It's all about me, me,me!
@@frainer I wonder if she was injecting certain types of hormones or something to amp up that sex drive. Like steroids something.
What have we learned: If someone wants a divorce. You need to give it to them.
This isn't 1924. There is no way to stop someone from divorcing if he or she wants a divorce. There is no "giving" someone a divorce.
About the only thing to "give" a spouse who wants a divorce is not to contest their desired division of assets, alimony, child custody or some other issue. But people who want a divorce will get one.
This is why I will never get married. You have no idea of the evil you will have to eventually deal with.
@@SarasotaJim-jz1le if someone cheats on you multiple times the marriage is already over. You just don’t realize it.
If a wmoan salary exceeds your at any point in the marrige just get the divorce papers ready becasue that marriage is over and she won't be attracted to you anymore. There's nothing wrong with that it's just how women's brains work. Spare yourself the hurt and her as well, just move on amicably as soon as you see she earned more than cent versus you. Again, just understand this is the natrual order of things. Don't trash women for this, it's just how they are wired. Accept it and be ready to move on as soon as she earns that extra penny.
The sad part is any woman can do this, all that's needed is for her to earn more than you at any point during the relationship.After that you are just filth to her. Accept this fact and be ready to move on if she earns more than you. She will not be attracted to after that point EVER. Just accept that this is how women are wired, I"m not saying it's good or bad, just stating the truth. Accept it and move on from the marriage. You should be the one to bring up divorce. Don't let her become resentful like the lady in this video. @@BlackProfessor1990
What I got out of this video is I need to start going to real estate conventions.
real estate agents sure like to F around.
LOL
I fucking choked when I read this.
Have you never met female real estate agents??? Haha I mean it’s kinda a known thing.
I had a neighbor family successful two kids, happy. Then few years later the wife changed, started going out and having six with multiple men. Her family and neighbors all knew and she could careless. Years later after they separated and the family feel apart it was discovered she had a brain tumor which started it all.... I was waiting to hear something simular in this case
doctor here. a change like this later in life is almost always due to medical pathology, possibly frontotemporal dementia or tumor. would have been interesting if her lawyers had asked she undergo a brain mri.
This case is from more than a decade ago. Wouldn't dementia or a brain tumor have progressed and become evident by now?
Dementia crossed my mind too. Flipping from normal to wildly inappropriate behavior sounds a lot like some of my dementia patients.
@@caulkins69probably, but i doubt we’ll be getting updates on her health status any time soon
Demonic possession. Deviancy. You’d be shocked how quickly sexual deviancy can take over someone. Guarantee you this woman got into some nasty videos online and just went wild with it. Oh but of course we’re too smart for stuff like that so instead we’ll continue to act bewildered.
You don't think it was the fucking drugs lmao
my mom, who passed last month, went through a sudden promiscuous phase in 2014. she randomly had an affair, she solicited people sexually online... we wouldn't know for many years that this was the first sign of her frontotemporal dementia. her behavior was erratic, she was unempathetic and incomprehensible... she died with ftd-17 with parkinsonism. this reminds me of that
I'm sorry about the loss of your mother.❤
I’ve never heard of that before. Thank you for sharing and I’m sorry about your mom.
Oh wow that sounds rough. Thank you for sharing your story, im sorry you had to struggle through that. I lost my dad as a child, parent death sucks
Had she used drugs or been a heavy drinker ?
STD’s can also cause brain problems
@@patrickdoyle3525 no. all my life, my mother was modest. the disease changed her.
I've never known a real estate agent that didn't fit the description of a sociopath. That being said, I've only known about a dozen of them, but everyone of them was so lacking in positive effics and morals and so dishonest, these things all but didn't exist in their character, they make a used car salesperson look like a saint and a pillar of virtue.
Whoa! I thought I was the only one. I worked for Century 21 for 3 years, I honestly felt like I was walking into a pit of snakes every time I clocked in. Negative vibes and drama everywhere.
My cousin is a real estate agent. She is none of the above.
I rented a room from a well-read woman who'd raised three daughters (lawyer, MBA, & physiotherapist). She was gracious, well-read and a pleasure to know. She worked as a real estate agent and was not a shark. But I am sure many are. The Simpson's has a great episode where Marg briefly becomes an agent. "Glengarry Glen Ross" is also about real estate agents.
Real estate agents for the most part dont get paid without a sale or closing. When they show people the houses. Its their own gas not reinbursed by the company. It can be weeks or months inbetween a real payday.
If you want a more steady paycheck
Being a rental property manager for a real estate company is where you want to go into.
@@granthurlburt4062 Glengarry Glen Ross sounds like a brand of scotch
“Clothing deficit” DTG’s graphic description of Becky’s “affairs” is pure gold.
Well he wasn’t going to say she sent n00ds lol.
I like :clothing deficit" women.
Hilarious 😂
I’m a therapist in South Orange County CA. Right now these behavior patterns are very common with certain demographics with the exception of murder. Upper middle class, financially independent women who married young trying to have their single 20’s they were denied. After the pandemic this type of behavior became common place. No judgement, just wanted to point out this is very prevalent now.
Yes, they are called cougars
You already started judging them by stereotyping them, let the ladies have fun.
@@navalcomand1981 as a man in South OC, I wholeheartedly agree!
@@navalcomand1981first that is no excuse to murder anyone let alone your husband.
Second if not happily married, get a divorce.
Honestly, this one seems more like brain tumor. I was skeptical at first about all the comments, but tripping off her shirt and throwing it at the investigators at the scene of the murder? That seems like behavior only a brain tumor could explain.
Sounds like frontal lobe damage almost.
Keith never should have ‘won’ her back, if they want to leave….LET THEM🤔
It's never a "win."
My ex wife I were together 12 years. Everything was great then her whole personality flipped similar to this. She moved out filed for divorce and went crazy sleeping around. The whole time after she would get extremely angry when I dated. She remarried and moved far away thankfully. Now we can be civil to each because mostly of the grand children. I would never go back to a cheater. They never stop cheating. Dude should have ran and not had her come back.
This is why a women’s past matters. Guarantee you she was putting on a front for you. They can only do that for so long.
Some people suggesting it could be frontal temporal lobe dementia, which maks people become completely different people, and act in ways way different than their usual self
@@uniquechannelnames some people are making excuses for her. fixed it for you
Not a few women past 45 years age develop the view the husband is only an obstacle and they deserve a lot better. Not all of them behave that extreme, of course, but you may now have partner with whom living together is not easy anymore. She will complain a lot about you, on things that 20 year did not play a role, etc. etc.
@@uniquechannelnamesNah ! , just female nature .
*pre-emptive strike -- I'm not excusing Becky, only offering a possible explanation*
Becky exhibits a kind of unfiltered disinhibition like you sometimes see with stroke victims. This particular narration gives the impression she wasn't always that way, but became dis-inhibited around the time she started using expletives. The story about the gun seems particularly careless. We think about chess players thinking several moves ahead, but it seems like Becky didn't even think past the next move. I'm wondering if some brain damage occurred somehow that nobody picked up on.
I’ve seen a woman go from being very ‘proper’ to swearing and being sexually inappropriate (undressing and trying to touch men) because of dementia. But there’s no mention that this woman had memory issues or other symptoms
Definitely seems like something organic happened, I say this as someone who had brain issues and changed briefly before my brain surgery
I was looking for this type of comment. Definitely sounds like a brain injury of some sort.
BINGO. That is exactly my thought. That is a huge shifting personality.
This is such a good, insightful comment and I couldn't agree more. It's more than hormonal, such a drastic change would signify something biological going on. People don't change their personalities in middle life unless their brain changes.
The man she was having an affair with and stalking dodged a bullet. Literally.
Seriously
Stalking and dodging at the same time, she’s pretty nimble. 🙂
@@pipermccool.. not nimble enough lol but SHE was doing the stalking part,, HE dodged the bullet... Her husband wasn't as lucky,, but I don't get it -
- real estate agents are FILTHY rich compared to most other careers,, SHE had more money than he did, WHY the murder?
I THINK,, and this is just a theory, my opinion,, that Becky wanted to go from having multiple partners separately, to having multiple partners AT the same time... I find it unusual that she couldn't find enough sleazy real estate guys to do her gang-of-mooks action, be that as it may she probably suggested it to her husband, and when he refused, maybe even saying it was kind of sleazy, that Becky,, like a junkie in the throes of withdrawal, started getting more brazen:
Probably she said, well then at least just go to your man cave when I have my little parties, because taking men with careers and reputations of their own to sleazy motels for group activities that EVERY motel staff recognizes,, is getting troublesome and risky and I don't want people to start to talk.......
I'm speculating that at this stage her husband (after he picks his jaw up off the floor and decided he was dealing with a REAL psycho) actually started calling her names,, and not only was he going to finally divorce her, and take her for everything he could,, he was going to start spreading the information about her, well, extreme activities and when he was done she'd have all the action she EVER wanted (AND probably a lot of action she DIDN'T,, mobs of weird-ass guys like meth freaks and ex cons and barroom mooks LOOKING for a gang-b@π9 girl to have their rats-ass "fun" with) but not ONE real estate agency would associate with her...
Although to try and find a silver lining,, Becky WOULD find lotsa work in "50+" ¶orn video,, that's what I heard anyway...
Only one thing left to do...... WELLL two things: ONE, after telling him she was role playing or whatever and baring that beav,, but ONE,, ride that cowboy till it spits, and TWO, go Black widow on him...
@@micnorton9487 She was soooo greedy!!
@@madamlt5758 YEAH and NOT for money lol... I gotta listen to this again,, the doc is always very thorough on including items like insurance policies and I'm pretty sure she didn't have a financial motive...
Dr Todd does not show any emotion, does not even blink while telling us this crazy story... a real proffessional!
I think the critical piece is the fact that her behaviour changed dramatically once she began making more money than her husband. I think that was the game changer. I saw similar behaviour with a coworker in Real Estate. She came into the office one day and announced that she was now in charge of the family unit as she was now making more money than her husband. Her behaviour dropped off dramatically after that, you could no longer trust her, no idea what she would do one day to the next.
Whenever the "victim" starts solving the crime... you have a person of interest.
This reminds me of Colombo. The killer always has an explanation for the inconsistencies.
@martaaldama6419 I hadn't thought about it, but you're right. I'm a retired investigator for the state. Often, a person would become suspect when asked about a crime, and their answer starts with their alibi. When they would solve the case for me... they're trying to put the scent of new game.
Another quirky thing, a juvenile who starts a fire, perhaps at school, will often approach a teacher or principal and offer to help clean up the mess.
She wasn't the victim
@@barbieblue3336hey genius, it's not what the comment meant.
@@barbieblue3336durrr duh durrr
I knew a guy who had a stroke and afterwords was completely obsessed with sports. He hated sports before...
Are you married?
I was the other way around, the price of tv sports subscription went up and BAM, now I hate sports.
@@godsinbox I BELIEVE ALL SPORTS ARE RIGGED .ie JUST LOOK AT THE
LATEST SUPER BOWL .....I PREDICTED KC COME OUT TOP TWO WEEKS AGO .......
@@godsinboxLol
For real? Can you tell me if this is a lie and then delete the comment
On a Dr. Todd Grande marathon! Forget 20/20 & Dateline
I had a stroke in 2021. Though I didn’t really see it, I was acting very differently. My wife could clearly see it. I was aggressive and using language out of my character. My labido was and still is super high. Taking risks and showing poor judgment, easily seen when driving. Over time I’m reigning most of that in. I still avoid driving. I’ve experienced anxiety and depression, unlike nothing before the stroke. This lady sounds like an extreme case of what I experience.
Sorry to hear that happened to you. It’s scary how fragile we are
Thanks for sharing
Thank you for opening up about your condition, I feel the brain damage angle wasn't explored in the video.
Had you had the Pfizzer shots shortly before the stroke, or did they find another cause?
@@vanderberg8558 wondering the same thing
Hell hath no fury like a post menopausal woman in heat
I shouldn’t have laughed at this like I did
@@Lmlm8168 had a forty-something that was developing Mulitple Sclerosis over many years. She was like a comet on fire. I had been living with her a few years earlier, and sex was hot, but this was steaming hot. It sounds and looks to me she was over the edge. fortunately for me, guns and ammo weren't included.
Exactly!!
Smartest comment award to @palmer8278
Scumbag remark! Stereotype much? Most of us are far from that ya know! You must be an incel sorry …. 🤣try this! She had a “personality disorder”!!! Duh 🙄 ever heard of those? Get googling! It’s the expertise of Dr Grande in all of the stories he covers.
Brain injury? Stroke? Dementia? Why the sudden shift in personality and behavior??
HORNY for ANOTHER guy. And NOT wanting to SPLIT the marital property!
I was the community educator for the Alzheimer's association for the town I live in as I'm an rn and worked with older adults for awhile. This is classic dementia or post CVA behavior. Something else is wrong I think and youre picking up on it too. Good eye.
@@nononoisaidnope shame she doesn't appear to have been properly evaluated... it's a pretty unusual and marked shift in behaviour. The other thing it reminds me of is someone going through a major manic episode.
can bi polar start at any age? Maybe bi polar doesn't fit at all here. :)
But she wasn't seeing reality and was on a high like none other. I wonder if there were any crashes.
@@markmike7933 bipolar is much much more than being on a high. They're notorious for grandiose delusions and dressing like clowns. But the terrifying kind. Including makeup. Jesus the makeup.
True bipolar isn't mood swings and spending rent money on cocaine and homeless guys, then taking a nap for 2 weeks the way it seems to be gneerally understood. Not that you're implying said. But even as a nurse. I had no idea that it was alot more serious than we think it is until I cared for them at work. I actually had patient with vascular dementia who was misdiagnosed as having bipolar with progressively worsening symptoms until ....an RN found imaging showing ischemic brain lesions nobody noticed in her records. More common than you could ever imagine.
The greatest preponderance of people out there running around in society are shallow.
I am a retired forensic psychiatrist. I find your comments to be well reasoned and your analysis to be on target. Videos of the woman would have been helpful. Cluster B traits abound. What I find to be interesting is the apparent change in personality in the direction of increased psychopathology as the murder seemed to be almost a casual event for her. This brought to mind brain pathology such as FT Dementia, a tumor or substance abuse. Interesting. Overall I enjoyed your video. Thank you.
Poor Keith, his wife was nasty. Too bad he didn’t go along with the divorce. Thank you for your interesting video Dr. Grande!
Poor kids. Imagine what those boys think of women?
@@alukuhito The "kids" would have been in their 30's by the time Becky went ballistic. I'm pretty sure they're thoughts about women had been well established by then.
Too many men are desperate for puss or have something to prove to the world or themselves, to the point where they become involved with sordid hoes & life-draining, toxic drama. Don't think this will ever change, though... It's been a part of life since ancient times apparently.
@@pricklypear7516 I'm pretty sure when you find out that your mom has been cheating on your dad with multiple men and ended up killing your dad, it doesn't matter what age you are. That's going to affect how you think of women. I'm almost positive your thoughts on women will not have been completely filed away. Also, it seems that her behaviour quickly deteriorated. That's good reason to believe that something similar could happen with your own partner or anyone else around you, including yourself.
@@alukuhitoI wish I was single or dead sometimes.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Sad ending for that man damn
I will never understand why SOOOOO many people cheat. Just be single and honest! I have been like that for years where I tell whoever I am talking to exactly what I want. If I want to play around I tell them. If I want to be in a relationship, I tell them. If I am in a relationship and it fizzles out, or I start to get attracted to other women, I leave. Not once have I ever cheated. It's so stupid and selfish. JUST BE HONEST HUMANS.
I totally agree with your opinion Sir, sadly her poor husband was an innocent victim of her terrible and sadistic behavior.😔
facts like casually hiding gun, stripping for cops .. show she was in a delusional state; world revolved around her.
Yes seriously, it's beyond careless or stupid, as if she spontaneously decided to shoot him as they were sitting on the sofa w no planning whatsoever.
TC in Annapolis Maryland
I know, it’s just bizarre.
Maybe brain damage? How could she think taking her top off in front of the cops at a crime scene would help her case. Weird.
There was planning. She bought the gun and called her previous boyfriend to tell him she was going to get an inheritance. There was planning. I live just a few miles from them, and I feel so sorry for their sons. However, I often thought she should have been evaluated for some kind of brain disorder as her behavior was just so bizarre and the onset so sudden.
YES THAT WAS BIZARRE LOL@@aisoconcranberriesu2as
I always made a rule not to get with married women and turned down a considerable amount of them in my life (54yrs). I dont regret it at all, its nothing but big trouble no matter how easy it seems at the time.
There's never any way it ends well.
Very wise!
Not to mention you would be an unethical scumbag if you did! 🤦♀️
Good to know you didn’t turn them down because of your high moral compass lol.
It also uh... just makes you a bad person if you took them up? Thank you I guess?
It doesn't have to be a stroke or head injury. I presume she was menopausal or had just gone through that phase. That might account for her change in risk taking behaviour and taking on promiscuity.
The only time I have seen someone undergo a profound personality change like this it turned out later to be due to a brain tumor. As a previous comment said, it could also have been a severe head injury or some other trauma to cause a psychotic break. We may never know.
Love the delightful dry humor "She sent him pictures of herself that were deficit of clothing!"🤣
At her age, prhaps the pictures were so ugly and offensive that the description used was the only respectful option.
Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video only speculating about why a guy has a hole in his head like this.
🤣🤣😂
Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video, only speculating about why an evil ho killed her husband, in a situation like this.
@@hannahbonner719 Yes!
good one 😂
😂😂😂😂
Realtors! Enough said.
OHHHHHHHHHHH!!! THIS IS THEE ANSWER! LOL (Why all CAPS? IDKnow)
What about realtors? Is there a personality type?
Bro you are hilarious 😂!
The straight face u keep while straight up clowning is epic.
Keep up the good work
Pacing is everything !!!
Research shows that an imbalance in brain chemicals and or Injury to the amygdala and hypothalamus can result in disruption of normal hormonal functioning and the ability to inhibit behaviors. Something must have changed in order for her drastic change in personality and behavior.
Any man who notices that their woman starts to develop contempt, disdain, or disgust toward them should make plans to leave the relationship. Their partner can do some not-so-nice things to their food, drinks, or in this case, their life. Rest in peace to the husband.
Soo... what I'm hearing is *ALL* men should leave their relationship?
@@Remember-Death Lmao, it appears that things are trending this way brother.
100%
They should run from women like her.
And vise versa
It's a tragic story but I still enjoyed the cowboy and horse references.
I was married to one of those. I've recently separated but still fear for my life. My wife and her family had put a contract out on me. Listening to these podcasts is certainly making me more aware.
It had to be a traumatic change to be thrust into a women's prison to spend the remainder of her life away from the tall cowboys.
She'll likely just turn to women instead.
🤣🤣🤣
That type of person won't take long in prison to find herself a "tall cowgirl" to keep busy with.
@@ynp1978I agree, she won’t care…🤮
Women "adapt" very quickly to life in jail.
I don't think she "changed". I think she just decided to not hide her true personality any longer.
Yeah. When she starting making more than him, she no longer needed him.
I mean that is a possibility, but to be able to suppress that level of insanity for so long is unlikely. It could be that she was predisposed to mania or something like that and something changed in her life to trigger it now. 🤷 Fortunately making more money doesn't trigger mania.
The dry delivery of the various flirtatious comments was hilarious!
Trying to make sense out of crazy people is a waste of time. I was married to one. I wasted over 20 years.
Crazy how quickly and extremely her behaviour changed all of a sudden. Extreme promiscuity and impulsivity, having risky and mindless sex with strangers and showing friends pictures of men’s genitals without the consent of either party. Seems like hallmarks of a pretty severe head injury or psychotic break somewhere along the line. Having been a church-going career-woman she clearly wasn’t always like this.
Mental illness of unfulfilled needs is a thirst that will never be quenched. It always ends in tragedy that drags others down with these types of people. Pay attention to what is clearly apparent in these situations.
churches are basically havens for psychos... Statistics have proven this time and time again... The most religious people tend to be the most dangerous. And that is a universal law at this point, regardless of specific religion.
I always think that when I hear this case. I half expected her to have a brain tumor or something.
Brain tumor, TBI, mini-stroke, or, epilepsy was the first thing I thought as well. There's a psychiatrist who orders an MRI and extensive workups to rule out organic illness in all but the most trivial cases. He contends that it is irresponsible to do otherwise.
😅😅 "churchgoing career women" are generally like this just beneath the surface!
She changed her whole way of being. Are they sure it wasn’t a stroke or brain injury?
It's cuz she started earning more that her husband
This is standard behavior i see in most Western women these days.
They all want to go wild at the last moment before it's all over for them.
I can't count the number of divorces I've seen because the woman was reliving her college days in her late 40's.
When people have sudden and drastic personality changes, accompanied by the onset of insatiable desires, it’s usually one of two things: Drugs (legal or otherwise), or a brain tumor.
The thumbnail pulled me in lol. I never heard of this case before now. Very interesting 🤨
She tried to reel her affair partner back in by claiming to be pregnant yet she was like 50 years old at the time! She's clearly didn't think that through! 🤦🏼♀️
Gwen Stefani got pregnant with her fourth child at 53... Janet Jackson at 49
@@auemmjee This woman lost her mind. Your pulling out the VERY VERY EXCEPTIONAL cases i not scientifically strong as a rebuke.
Thats like saying since this woman killed her husband, MANY women can or will kill their husband during a mid life crisis.
It's the extreme, not the norm
She acted in every way like a teenaged girl who was promiscuous.
I'm not seeing teenage boys who are promiscuous aren't wrong.
Or right. I don't know.
That's just what she acted like.
Except the VAST majority of promiscuous teens dont go on to kill
@@auemmjee They most likely had medical help to do so.
@@auemmjeeBoth of those women are extremely wealthy and could afford very expensive fertility treatments. Those are old women that are the very rare exception. Most women that age are not capable of getting pregnant.
It does sound like something happened in her brain. That's just nuts.
Your title drew me in to watch. Your analyses are always spot on.
Love how you break down a case with amazing explanations.
I wonder if they did MRI testing. I’ve seen clients in their 50’s have extreme behavior changes such as this. It turned out to be early stages of frontal temporal dementia. It can be tragic for everyone
I came across this in a married woman I was having sex with one night at a bachelorette party where I was working as a "Male Entertainer". While we were having sex that a friend of hers paid for she kept telling me how she had been married 35 years and was faithful the entire time and she didn't know why she was cheating on her husband with me but that she felt free and would have to do this again and again.
When she went to the bathroom I went thru her purse and snapped a pic of her ID. The next day I called the Maid of Honor who had hired me thru the service I worked with and I explained about this bizarre situation with this woman who happened to be one of the bridesmaid's mother.
I told her I had heard about things like this from a female client who was a Doctor. I told her it was probably a form of Dementia starting or she might have a brain tumor. It turned out she was in the very early stages of Dementia. Sadly, there is nothing they could really do for her but they did start keeping an eye on her 24/7.
The bridesmaid thanked me for caring enough to act upon my suspicions and notified her. She offered to pay me but I declined and told her to just keep me in mind for any future bachelorette, divorce, or girl's only parties she might be involved in.
Hey, networking is a valuable tool in nearly every type of business and industry LOL.
Does that show in an MRI? Thx
Infuriating what destruction these sick narcissists bring. Great analysis again. Thanks Dr G😊❤💜
And how are you certain this is Narcissism?
There are actually people (mostly women) defending her actions in these comments! What a time to be alve
@@dreamingtree6093 It's the word of the year. Or so it seems.
@@LimoneneDaddy I haven't seen anyone defending her actions, although to be fair I haven't read every comment.
I have seem comments though suggesting that she may have suffered a brain injury as a way to explain her swift change in personality and bizarre and often inappropriate behaviour. That is not defending her but looking at a reason for the sudden and self-destructing change which eventually led to her committing a laughably easy to solve murder.
@@zenawarrior7442 It's not an offensive word and I never claimed it to be. It's an incredibly overused word which is thrown out there from soooo many people to describe every Tom, Dick, and Harriet.
Excellent documentary, remarkable analysis 👏
She wanted to ride off into the sunset, eh? I see you and I appreciate you, Dr. Grande. 😂
I wonder if she hit her head or something. It's so odd that her behavior changed so dramatically. What a weird case.
It’s a female so insanity is always a possibility. Lol.
She got Dickmatized.
I don’t think it’s as odd or unprecedented short of murder when you consider the dynamics of the case. She had one boyfriend and was married right out of high school with two kids before she was 25. Imo she was likely a covert narcissist before she opened up since there’s evidence of loads of manipulative behavior in this case which I doubt was contained to her intimate relationships. Seems to me she tried a new man for the first time and the novelty set her off.
Hormones. Menopause and all that.
That's what I was thinking. Why change so much in her 50s. That's some midlife crisis.
The matter-of-fact way Dr Grande reads her messages is PERFECT 😂
Good one. I love the subtle, but obvious humor. Great channel
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The behavior analysis is very well done. However, a personality pattern presenting itself in this way only at the age of 50, compatible with a case of severe cluster B personality disorder, seems very unlikely to me, especially when there was a good psychosocial development without any signs of mental illness until the age of 50. Cases like this make me think about late neuropsychiatric disorders, such as a post-menopausal psychotic manic episode, or even some dementia like Pick's dementia, which could even have started with signs of alcoholism and swearing, being aggravated by alcohol consumption. These disorders should be investigated including the possibility of imputability of the crime.
In other words... menopause makes women crazy
Good call. I just looked up Pick's dementia. Had not heard of it.
@@emailchrismollboomer humor at it again...
Maybe she was just suppressing herself for years prior to 50
Menopause can be a huge issue. Change in hormones etc. Thyroid
Why don't people just get a divorce?
Don’t want to split up their stuff
Her behavior was very manic, extreme, and nonsensical. She probably didn't have the patience or the focus to divorce... 😳
Love your videos. I don't like watching videos that take forever. I'm so glad I found it.
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Maybe she had a frontal lobe injury- Phineas Gage had the same transformation emotionally
Ugh…what a horrid woman. That’s so sad and infuriating
@vicvega3614 Huh?
@@mangore623 wrong comment
SHE LOOKS GROSS IN HER MUG SHOT.
Really? In this day and age, I think women can do what men have always been able to do.
What are you talking about?
@@SirenaSpades
Your thoughts were solid and spot one. Masterfully said
This was a good one with a good analysis and narration.
It's aa if she had an undiagnosed stroke or something. Like frontal lobe damage. 30 years, then such an extreme change?
It is almost cartoonishly comical that she was SO HORNY 24/7 that she couldn’t even keep up the charade DIRECTLY after the murder.😂
That’s crazy, man. I wonder if she received some kind of head injury or had some kind of tumor that no one knew about? Because it seemed so obsessive all of a sudden and it even seemed to come at the expense of her own self-preservation.
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Very interesting. I thank you, Doctor.
Sounds like a sudden acquired frontal cortex trauma. In any civilized country this would have been investigated and if confirmed, taken into account in sentencing.
The fact that a supposedly smart, intellectual woman bungled her 'crime' so badly only adds to the suspicion.
You said "civilized" country, that was the key word.
Not sure about that. The bar for 'intelligence' in America is somewhat low compared to other countries, including Hong Kong and Singapore.
@@messrsandersonco5985 The bar for high intelligence is pretty much the same in the US as it is in Singapore and Hong Kong, but their school system doesn’t reward intelligent people. Their universities are great though. Or they were before wokeness.
Ohh this is gonna get good. 🤞🏾
Or maybe it's just a woman who makes more money than her man.
Strange she had a dramatic change in personality at a relatively late stage in life. Yes finding a ‘cowboy’ to ride on would explain the interest in bedroom gymnastics, but not the drinking and smoking. Also the killing bit too after having no history of violence. At the minimum it’s an extreme midlife crisis
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I'm curious if this personality/behavior change happened after the kids left home.
It’s almost like she had some brain injury
@@deboracopeland4795I think you’re probably right
There’s a strong correlation between menopause and the late manifestation of BPD. Her behaviour aligns perfectly with the diagnostic criteria.
Nice job you nailed it
The abrupt change after so many years of stability should have been a clue, to anyone who cared and wanted to get to the truth, that she experienced some kind of physiological change in her brain.
wishing everyone a safe a peaceful Thanksgiving, thank you Dr Grande for the channel, it's always fascinating
Thanks, to you and all, as well! 🙏
Well thank you may God bless you and your family. I'm thankful for you reaching out ❤
What a NICE POST :)
You must be a good person.
Yes, one can consider that based on one post. Wishing a peaceful Thanksgiving to strangers (though it's kind of a community) is a heartwarming thing.
I don't see a person with generally bad traits writing it.
I sound like i'm trying to be dr. Grande and failing miserably lol
Have great holidays!
I can recall a law and order episode in which a woman became sexually involved with a student and could not put an end to the involvement. They discovered a brain tumor had altered her personality and caused her to b promiscuous. Can something physically wrong with her brain have caused the change in her behavior? Wondering if this is ever found in a case such as this.
It was a TV show
Based on a very famous SVU episode based on SEVERAL well researched cases. Pity that you don't have access to professional literature and case studies as many of us do through medical school. Makes me wonder if this gal had a tumor or some irregularity in her frontal cortex that regulates impulse control. If the staff in charge of her case failed to do neurological exams to rule it out, they are incompetent.
@@victrola2007 righto it is still a tv w
Ultimately it doesn't matter. We can come up with excuses for everything everyone does, but people should still be held accountable.
@@Mbappe_fan300doctor here. it happens irl
Great job !!
And yet... WHY? Some medications, such as SSRI meds, can cause a change in personality, and specifically an increase in extroversion. Bipolar disorder is sometimes associated with sudden promiscuity. Was there any psychiatric evaluation covered at her trial?
I’d love to know if she was on SSRIs that’s a common thing that will make peoples inhibitions go away. Once moved into that life they stay
DAYUM Becky was an incels dream girl,, walk into the room, Becky just jumps on it lol... And did she think the cops would just say "okay,, let's not search your house,, what say let's just go in and me and my partner can take turns playing hide the salami with you and then just write up our reports,, minus the hide the salami part,, and we'll all just go on our ways eh what?"
DEFINITELY a suicide. CASE CLOSED!!!
It almost sounds like she had some kind of neurological issues. Was there any record of head trauma or viral infection before her behavior change?
Your conclusion is spot on.
Fascinating. And tragic for all involved.
Mark's wife never has to worry about him cheating again, he's probably been scared straight 😮
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My sister was on this case as she worked for the Mustang police dept. Quite a bizarre case.
"Becky had a clothing deficit."
It is one of the greatest things I've heard. 😂
She was earning more than the husband,was tired of him and wanted him out so she can live the life she always fantacized about.
I think I'm siding with all the comments asking if she had a stroke or something that went undetected. That is just so WEIRD. That is a really dramatic and weird personality shift.
When a person crosses the boundary into infidelity their brain chemistry takes over and they invent a justification for it.
There’s a personality type that’s “never wrong” - the red flags are there even before they cheat.
Brain chemistry takes over?
@@danparish1344 Narcissism?
We do have the capability to make agreements with ourselves about what we are and aren't willing to do. That's why they call it "crossing a line".
@@dark_sunset”hormones “
here “mostly because of the murder part! “ your dry wit is top notch doctor!!
Classic "a robber came in and killed my husband but left me without a Scratch " technique.
Even the president of Hiati was killed this way. Luckily they quickly arrested his wife
Sounds like it could have been bipolar disorder as well. This happened to my ex wife…very reserved woman until she developed an anxiety disorder and went on medication that triggered a manic episode. Complete personality change…unfortunately we didn’t make it. She’s much better now thou and no one got killed😂
I think you're right. Sounds like late onset bipolar disorder to me as well. The severity of the symptoms in later life I think were triggered by something. Many possibilities on why the onset could have happened later in life, usually some kind of trauma or trigger...
No dude she was just a b word. Women blame them being b words on stuff like that
glad you survived bud lol
My wife went through that too. She's bipolar with ADHD and borderline personality disorder, managed with a cocktail of meds but about two years ago, her mom found an expired bottle of xanex that had my wife's name on it and gave it back to her. Being severely expired, I encouraged my wife to throw it out but my wife wanted to take some and see if they still worked.
Bad idea. Her mental condition deteriorated to the point that I was recording every one of our conversations in secret and had to call 911 when she threatened to kill herself. She was shoplifting, kept leaving her purse in stores, and barely remembers any of it. As soon as she detoxed, she was fine and back to her old self but those two weeks were nightmarish.
My first wife and I were 19 when we married. I had no idea the occasionally erratic behaviour she'd been displaying for the year prior was teen onset bipolar. By the time she was 21, she was having violent outbursts and promiscuous episodes followed by deep depression. She never recovered. It must have been hell for her. It certainly was for me.
What an experience hearing Dr. Grande say, "...ride that tall cowboy."
Beautifully analysis.
I’m so glad you covered this case. I recommended it a few months ago. It has always baffled me. What I’ve never heard anyone mention is that normally, a woman her age has a decrease in sex drive. Libido doesn’t go into overdrive around the age of menopause. It disappears. This makes her behavior even more bizarre. And the way she was explaining how Keith looked when he got shot - like what happened to his face - in graphic detail is so disturbing. Like she thought it was interesting and was sure everyone wanted to hear about it. Such a complete disconnect from reality. She either experienced some kind of brain damage or something else happened that caused a 180 degree turn from where her personality would’ve been under normal circumstances
Maybe not all woman but good 20% would hit high libido in per-menopouse, which they claimed was hard to handle out of a sudden. I personally know 3 of them. Many of these women would go looking for much younger lover.
Another option is that she was always like that, and was just pretending not to be and controlling herself. If that is the case a single night of "let it go, relax" could have changed her like a recovering drug addict. She also could justify herself based on the control society imposes on women's sexual behavior. I also considered dementia but we will know by now, most likely. Killing him makes no sense unless she just wanted to experiment with murder.
My wife has always had a high libido, and now in her 60s, more so. Libido can decrease, stay the same, or increase after menopause. Depends on the person. I'd explain more but I'm off to the gym..
It definitely can increase.
@@jaimeduncan6167I’ve literally never met a woman with increased libido in and after menopause either.