I agree with him actually. If I’m single and I walk into a man’s house and it looks dirty and disorganized, like he didn’t even bother tidying up for company? I’m walking out! Indeed sir, I am not the woman for you. I like men with basic adulting skills but have a nice life! 😂
A word! My ex was a slob and it made me feel disrespected. Told myself any one in the future I come across that do this, I'm leaving the first time, I go to their house.
If a man walks into my apartment, and see a pile of bills laying on my table and not offer to pay all the bills asap, he’s not masculine enough for me 🤣
@@Vnm2207 if mothers don't know how to teach their boys to be self-sufficient but they teach it to their girls, the problem starts with the mother. Also if they choose irresponsible men to father their boys they are contributing to the problem.
@@jennpul1015 you keep blaming only the women for all men’s problems. We sure mothers to reflect on how their raise boys and girls - but a mother is only one if the parents isn’t she? Where is the other? Why is he not teaching by example? We all know boys only look up and listen to fathers - so where is the fucking daddy? A mother cannot do it all alone. Also choose better is bs women blaming - definitely some women need to choose better and stop not only procreating but being in any relationship with those trash men. But even when women choose better and marry those nice family guys many times they still get screwed, the nice guys turn into abusive trash so many times. This whole math isn’t really mathing btw: there aren’t enough truly good men out there that women can choose. There simply aren’t, so the ones choosing really right are the ones deciding to quit dating entirely and br childfree and single forever. But then those women get blamed and shamed too don’t they? It’s all always about women blaming and hating.
A woman cannot teach a man to be a man... stop blaming the victim AKA mothers that stayed and suffered alone raising children alone and not putting the blame on the man that created the fatherless home in the first place. A woman can teach a woman to be a woman but she cannot teach a man to be a man. Boys need fathers but the fathers 9/10 are absentee fully or partially.@@jennpul1015
If you invite a male and he immediately does not start providing, start paying all your bills, build a house for you, fix your toilet seat and clean it like a plumber, buy gifts, cook and clean for you, take you to fancy vacations, doesn't buy you grocery for an entire year, then he isn't the one for you 🤭💀
If a man’s house is unkempt, knowing he might have company, means he has no self respect for you, let alone himself. He’s not only missing masculinity - he’s nasty.🤢
As an ex-girlfriend who use to clean his house, buy plates, change sheets for him every time I go to his place, I’m telling you right now, DO NOT DO IT. Run for your life !
Crib? Is he talking about a house or a cradle? That's pretty brave to admit that you're a manchild who can't take care of himself and needs a second mommy. I'm looking for a partner, not a project.
As a black African man, " my in-laws didn't train my wife through undergrad, Med school, and Residency to be my housekeeper, or maid ". In fact, when I asked my father-in-law for his daughter's hands in marriage, he reminded me. And he told me if I ever forgot, her brothers and uncles will remain me😂😂... Some of these men don't want a partner, they want slaves...
Please tell the other men because you know you are one of few. Men back home in Africa want the degree and the maid services! Even if a man knows how to clean... work, cleaning, and child rearing falls in our lap. The same is going on for many sistas in the USA and the islands as well.
If a man invited me over and his house was a mess, two things: 1. He is a slob and doesn't respect his guests enough to make his house presentable; and/or 2. it's a schit test to see if I will clean. I won't clean for any man I am not in a relationship with. And that still comes with conditions. This guy did women a favor by outing himself out as a low tier douche.
My ex lived with his father (we were teens). And their house was always filthy, I remember my mother telling me that I should clean. Why? You (my mother) can be a full time maid if you want. I'm not doing that 💩
@NashvilleSurvivorSo the man who lives in his mother's basement is throwing shade at women who actually have their own apartments? 😂😂 I own a 4/3 house and a couple of rental properties. I can't wait until you start making fun of me.
That is why women need to assess the men that claim to be interested in them to work out what his motives/intentions are. A mouthful of flattery and innuendos does not make a man. Being invited to a dirty house and then expecting your guest to clean it up is so disrespectful. Tell him you are going to the store to get some cleaning supplies. Then safely make your way back home. Block him and hope to never see him again.
At least they are letting everybody know what they are before we get sucked down the drain and become an indentured servant. Men wonder why women ask for divorce more. It's cause we're tired.
If a man walks into my home and sees I need new flooring and my stairwell painted and not offer to bust a move to start working on that, he's not man enough for me.🤣🤣
I'm a fairly messy person but I'm honest with guys I date that if my place is a mess, there's no way I am inviting you over. Yet I have been over to a guy's house and he clearly did not put much effort into cleaning the place. Now I realize he was probably one of these red pill weirdos.
How is that guy not embarrassed for saying that?? How embarrassing you need a non-biological mommy to come clean after you? Reminds me of my dad ,, my dad is so ultra dependent on my woman that if and when my mom dies he won't be able to clean up after himself no laundry clean clothes food nothing ,, because his moron parents told him that a woman was going to do that for him instead of telling him he needs to learn how to do that himself,, but on the flip side my mom is also very ultra dependent on him They are a perfect representation of the type of marriages that need to end
Teaching boys all of these harmful, women hating messages, makes it so much easier to roll back our rights though. Just when I thought the youngest generation was getting better, along comes those women hating, evil, incell makers, on the internet. Why on earth would a woman clean a stranger's home for free? Right off the bat, these men are showing us they have absolutely no respect for women. A real man cleans up after himself. A little boy? Not so much.
If that's being feminine I don't want it😂 One guy asked me this question once when we were barely dating, mind you he had a housekeeper, I told him not to fire his housekeeper. 😎✌🏾
That's not being feminine that's having no self respect. Feminine women with self respect cook for their PROVIDING men and clean THEIR house where BOTH live in
If a man doesn't automatically get my oil change, tires rotated and washed, he's not masculine enough for me. If he can't take my blueprints and build my house from the ground up, then he's too sassy for me, not manly at all. If a man can't cover my living expenses without me asking, then he's too feminine for me. Not masculine enough...it's a no for me 😂
@NashvilleSurvivorNope, just a manly man who post videos about women who should clean his den if they want to date him. You want the cleaner, you pay for her.
@NashvilleSurvivor expecting an adult man to be capable of basic adult skills is just being sane. Being able to function take care of oneself is not giving everything its just basic self-respect an adult should have if not why would a grown adult woman Assoicate with them unless they are professional care giver for special needs.
@NashvilleSurvivor LOL your backwards. Needing help from the system isn't gender base. If you pay attention females as a whole getting degrees in higher numbers and tend to out earn most men. If a woman is on the system, it is not them that cause that sitiuation it is the men that leave them with children. Having children being single makes it close to imposable to have a quality job. yet some women still manage but as for those that are to busy taking care of some man kids there is no time for that women, so they have no choose it is men that created that sitiuation. But hey more broke men out there then women.
And the most IMPORTANT part men like him leave out is he's not going to reciprocate. He's not going to make you his girlfriend nor marry you. He's going to take you for granted, cheat, lie, manipulate, gaslight and ghost you, only to return when it's convenient for him. As a FORMER pickme I can tell you it's in your best interest to leave his sick behind laying in his dirty unkempt house. You will NOT be rewarded for your empathy, love, and efforts.
the young lady laying on the peach pillow and dark grey shirt is 100%. She's not lying. It's hard to hear but it's TRUTH in its purest form. If you walk into a house like that, turn around and GO....
It’s so true. And it’s helpful to SEE his actual behavior as telling, just ignore the sweet talk coming out of his mouth and use your eyes and look around.
I've never walked into a strangers house and just randomly started cleaning 😂. If I show up at a adult males residence and it's a disgusting mess.. I leave because your living environment is a reflection of the type of person you are. You don't have to be a millionaire.. But it costs next to nothing to be clean... Its proof of the fact that you a functioning adult... Also why isn't this guy embarrassed of the fact that he can't take care of himself. 🥴🥴🤡
When another TH-camr said that, majority of men are not supposed to be procreating with women, he is the type of guy you don't have children or marry. Women need to listen and act. . Majority of these men are not your friend, they're not your brother, they're not for you. Bad guy in the video, you need to just be with men.
Men like these literally do not deserve to be married. He just wants a free maid. He legit thinks he deserves to have a clean house just because he marries someone.
Because we must adapt. Adaptability is what keeps a species from extinction. Society and the world with it is changing. We have to evolve right? Right now all we see is a bunch of humans trying to stay stuck in the past!!
I dated a filthy a** man. He was talk dark kinda handsome a a pure genius running a computer tech business. But he was a pig. Cigarette butts out on countertops never swept or vacuumed/dusted threw away garbage mopped, never had his animals spayed and neutered that were urinating and pooping on the floor he never cleaned. He had two daughters my daughter loved so I “played the role” and cleaned up and maintained a 100x higher standard of living. Did he like it? Sure. Did it make him treat me right? Oh hell no. Apparently his outer dirtiness was a direct reflection of his insides. After he cheated, and ridiculed and devalued and triangulated me into the most fd up stuff I’ve ever been through in my life he screamed “I never ever ever want to see you again”. He yelled at his daughter that “what he needed was a woman that was going to cook and clean and take care of his kids”. His daughter said “Dad you know that’s all she ever did”🙄in a rage he through a glass at her that shattered on the wall beside her and she lived to tell me the tale. Years later he’s like “I thought you probably didn’t want to talk to me again”and I agreed I “never ever ever wanted to talk to him again😆”
Is that really what some of these married women had to do to secure the ring? You really have to audition with a mop and broom and hot tea at his place? And first prize is the honor of continuing to do it some more throughout the marriage? Ok then.
If he's dirty like that I wouldn't remain in his place anyway. I don't want somebody's pet roaches to crawl up into my purse and come back to my house. No sir! I'm not the woman for you. I don't like dirty, nasty dudes.
I asked a guy what he was looking for, he said a mom but not. So he wants benefits of a woman but still be a child with no responsibility or accountability. No I'm not for you.
That toddler in need of a bottle, pacifier, and bib. It look like a grown adult male but it is still crawling to it’s crib. No one picking it up off the floor cause it’s crib contaminated. It is still on baby milk and baby formula.
Also be careful of the man who only wants to come to your home because it’s clean, comfortable and has food. Because women will treat a guest in their home well and some men don’t want you to come to their home because they don’t want to do the same.
As a daughter of a housewife and a housewife I find that video disgusting. Expecting a guest to cook and clean for you is ridiculous even if it's a love interest. As a housewife myself I cook for my PROVIDING husband and I clean OUR home
So he admitted that he wants a mom, not a marriage. These men would save us all so much time and energy if they'd just hire a maid or escort. I seriously don't understand how that's less cost effective than trying to gaslight someone into falling for you. Especially when you consider all the wealth they'll loose in divorce and child support. I know they do it because they're lazy and entitled. But economically speaking, the math never maths for me.
Cleaning and tidying before having another person visit your house is basic common courtesy. Even if he doesn’t expect you to clean he is doing it on purpose to let you know that he thinks very very little of you and to see how much bad treatment you will put up with. My ex did this to me. He would clean and tidy when other people visited him but for never for me. I never cleaned his mess but it was always a clear message from him.
That girl talking about how he is not gonna wife you if he invites you to a dirty house clearly don't know this menz. I mean, they marry women for labour! The harder you clean and serve him the more likely he is gonna wife you, and it will have absolutely nothing to do with love, but your servitude.
Imagine going to a guy house and cleaning and cooking and then leave to go home and he doesn't even like you or he is taking a woman to his house after you leave to enjoy
That is their dream right there. They get everything they want and don't have to really do anything for it. It is quite weird to go out with these guys. They really do expect this type of behavior from women they are just casually dating. It's so very gross.
I was seeing this guy and I could tell a pickme came over and cleaned his house spotless but guess who was sitting up in that spotless house, ME. She did all that work jus for another woman could enjoy the fruits of her labor. We stopped dating shortly after.
its insane that they have these expectations that our grandparents had but aren't making enough money to back it up. Women used to cook clean and do all the things because news flash men used to pay for everything because women weren't allowed to work and when they were their jobs made less money. Now both women and men have to work to support a household and they still want a cook, cleaner, and laundry maid. they want traditional women but aren't filling the role of traditional men. My relationship rn is give and take, we both cook clean and do laundry because we both are tired after work but it needs to be done.
My Uncle did that with my Aunt. She cleaned, cooked, homeschooled and worked 2 jobs until they retired. I would just look at her and think she must have no self-esteem.
what is so funny about that, that they are too stupid to realize. The 30's, 40's and 50's is what gave way to the women's rights movement of the 60's, 70's and beyond. The women back in the day weren't exactly happy slaves. They just kept it quite and moved in silence, especially when it came to educating their daughters.
What does he expect to happen? Like realistically. Does he think that he'll bring a girl to his house after a date and the moment she notices how filthy his house is, she gets on her knees after she spent hours getting dolled up, in her new dress, and she's going to ask him to pass her a rag and some bleach? She noticed your filthy house, but she just thought you were a pig and she walked out. 9:16 She's amazing! XD
In many countries, children know how to cook and clean or at least is taught to pickup after themselves. It is sad that men think it's okay for others to pick up after them. Even in the army or marines they are taught how to cook and clean and sew.
Thank you. I spent 5 years in the Navy and you best believe every one of those men cleaned. All of us cleaned, every day. If you didn’t know how to clean when you joined you learned by the time you left boot camp. I don’t understand how some men think it’s ok to not know how to perform these basic skills.
I only ever cleaned for a man when I was around 22, and he used to give me money afterwards but looking back at the amount he used to give, I still feel cheating. At 26, I can only help clean the dishes we have used, and that's is if I have spent some days in your house. And not to prove my femininity. It's because I will also do that in every house I visit if the visit exceeds a couple of days. Just basic courtesy, offer to help with something around the house. But I don't do sleepovers at nems houses, I am a daytime visitor so there is absolutely no way I am lifting a finger in that house. I am avoiding them totally now.
My husband cleans the kitchen almost every day before going to work. He likes to mop the house. He’s not immaculate by any means and leaves some messes. But we clean up after EACH OTHER to keep the house clean together and that’s no issue. I don’t understand how these man-children can’t provide a clean space for themselves 😂 so sad
This is worse than a trad household. They don’t want to provide for and spoil the housewife - not even marriage or a relationship … they just want to use her single naive heart for all they can get. I can’t believe they think they are all that. WTF
Facts ladies - men on average earn 400 > $500 dollars a week more than women. When you work that out fortnightly they can easily be bringing home $1000 dollars more than you are. Hire a bloody cleaner boys! 😊
Crib is an American term for home...remember MTV's Cribs??? Lol.....Nevertheless I don't need to prove anything to anybody. If your home is nasty, your personal hygiene is probably also 🤢.
Hey Priscilla! Can you make a video about LAT relationships? (Living apart together) I am saying this because this 100% benefits women and it should be a trend and become more popular, I have 3 girl friends being in a LAT relationship and so far they are living it happy better than living together with a man, I am thinking to do the same IF I end up in a relationship
LOL!!!! Is he crazy. first of all, a lady wouldn't be in your crib. Secondly, if she does come to the crib and see that it is a mess it will reflect badly on you.
Bruh, get you a maid, a herbalist, and dietician on payroll and stop trolling women. Y'all dont even give women an opportunity to see if you are worthy of her time. She supposed to automatically start cleaning for FREE....cooking and healing for FREE. Translation: "If a woman ain't gone let me use and take advantage of her ...I don't want her"
Look, if dads found out their daughters were cooking and cleaning going over to a man's house that they met on the first date, the dads would be like "wtf you doing" too lmao
my first though as a man was if you invite a woman to your "crib" then you looking for a mama because babies stay in cribs. Im a pretty clean person because i saw taught as a kid to clean up and the military made me ocd with it.
The first night i stayed over with my guy, i got up, went to his dirty kitchen and started to clean. He heard me, came to the kitchen and said, Dont start what you dont want to keep going. Im a single man with my own home, i know how to clean my home and i have a maid. She'll be here today. Where do you want to go for breakfast? On the way to breakfast he told me he was not going to be handing over his heart and committing to someone just because she came over and washed my dishes, something i can do myself or pay someone. Clean my house if you want to but im not looking for that. Im looking to find someone that im willing to clean the house with. Thats when i knew he was the one. He also told me that if we didn't make it, dont ever do that again for any man. Ive been watching you, thats not where your value lies. I love that man.
If a man invites you on a date and he doesn't offer to provide and pay all you bills day one, he isn't masculine enough! This is the logic this man had. 😂
As someone who used to do this for men when I young and foolish, I can say without a doubt, it doesn't beget you a ring. Shiiii, I didn't even get a girlfriend title! Lesson learned, never to be repeated again 😂
Same.. i was HEAVY into my pickme once upon a time and (surprise, surprise..) never got picked. I am so thankful for the online sisterhood for waking me tf up. Never going back!
These men want to be with their moms. I really don't understand why these men can't clean up after themselves and feel no shame in inviting someone over with their home being dirty.
Admittedly, I did this in one relationship and for a family member. Since I was going to be there, I didn’t want to be surrounded by the filth. The next time I visited, I didn’t touch anything. My ex, after I went home, had the audacity to bring up that I “did nothing” and the family member, psst.
Before I got into therapy I was dating a single father I’d met at the gym. He was really fit and interesting and we got along well. But when he took me to his apartment I was aghast! It was totally crammed with crap, had a huge fish tank that took up his whole counter, and the room he kept his kids in also had a cage with two chinchillas. That cage was overflowing with chinchilla droppings and they spilled onto the floor. In fact his whole apartment smelled of rodent feces. I couldn’t believe he was keeping his young sons in that room. He did love bomb me for a while but then suddenly discarded me. It hurt at the time but now I see I dodged a bullet! I grew up around people who expected women to clean a guys place just because. I was usually a slob partly because I hated that expectation. If he can’t do basic adulting then MOVE ON.
Hell, I had a hook up where the guy's place was so clean I thought it might have been one of those model viewing apartments. The audacity of inviting a woman over your house and it's filthy nasty...
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I agree with him actually. If I’m single and I walk into a man’s house and it looks dirty and disorganized, like he didn’t even bother tidying up for company? I’m walking out! Indeed sir, I am not the woman for you. I like men with basic adulting skills but have a nice life! 😂
A word! My ex was a slob and it made me feel disrespected. Told myself any one in the future I come across that do this, I'm leaving the first time, I go to their house.
sis i was getting ready to call you a pick me then i read your whole comment. IKR walking right tf back out 😂 .
This was also my first thought.
Just about to make that same comment!
EXACTLY! I’m walking the F OUT!
If a man walks into my apartment, and see a pile of bills laying on my table and not offer to pay all the bills asap, he’s not masculine enough for me 🤣
Amen 🙏🏾
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😂 Love it
Ok! Thats exactly what he not ready for smh
@meganakinsanya4702 GOOD ONE!! 😂😂😂
The fact that he thinks that it's ok to invite her over to his house while it is dirty means that he has little self regard. He needs his mommy 😂
And if he did it in purpose as a sh*t test, he's an even bigger idiotic manipulative f**ktard
He needs a daddy - let the mothers alone, they already birthed and raised these bums which didn’t even deserve to be birthed.
@@Vnm2207 if mothers don't know how to teach their boys to be self-sufficient but they teach it to their girls, the problem starts with the mother. Also if they choose irresponsible men to father their boys they are contributing to the problem.
@@jennpul1015 you keep blaming only the women for all men’s problems. We sure mothers to reflect on how their raise boys and girls - but a mother is only one if the parents isn’t she? Where is the other? Why is he not teaching by example? We all know boys only look up and listen to fathers - so where is the fucking daddy? A mother cannot do it all alone. Also choose better is bs women blaming - definitely some women need to choose better and stop not only procreating but being in any relationship with those trash men. But even when women choose better and marry those nice family guys many times they still get screwed, the nice guys turn into abusive trash so many times. This whole math isn’t really mathing btw: there aren’t enough truly good men out there that women can choose. There simply aren’t, so the ones choosing really right are the ones deciding to quit dating entirely and br childfree and single forever. But then those women get blamed and shamed too don’t they? It’s all always about women blaming and hating.
A woman cannot teach a man to be a man... stop blaming the victim AKA mothers that stayed and suffered alone raising children alone and not putting the blame on the man that created the fatherless home in the first place. A woman can teach a woman to be a woman but she cannot teach a man to be a man. Boys need fathers but the fathers 9/10 are absentee fully or partially.@@jennpul1015
If you invite a male and he immediately does not start providing, start paying all your bills, build a house for you, fix your toilet seat and clean it like a plumber, buy gifts, cook and clean for you, take you to fancy vacations, doesn't buy you grocery for an entire year, then he isn't the one for you 🤭💀
@shaikh FACTS
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@NashvilleS. Actually unlike y'all, high sch dropouts, we actually graduate univ 🤣 u live in Sect 8 w/ baby mama.
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I’m not going over anyone’s house and cleaning. If you nasty, you need Tilex, sponges, and put your back into it. 😂
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Shit, dude need Clorox.😂
If a man’s house is unkempt, knowing he might have company, means he has no self respect for you, let alone himself. He’s not only missing masculinity - he’s nasty.🤢
absolutely. dusty asses 😭
THIS 💯
As an ex-girlfriend who use to clean his house, buy plates, change sheets for him every time I go to his place, I’m telling you right now, DO NOT DO IT. Run for your life !
Crib? Is he talking about a house or a cradle? That's pretty brave to admit that you're a manchild who can't take care of himself and needs a second mommy. I'm looking for a partner, not a project.
😂😂😂😂definitely a manchild
@NashvilleSurvivoryou got brain damage
Men🍼.
@NashvilleSurvivor Bro, you're everywhere, what's got you so upset.
Lmaooo crib 🍼 that’s amazing
As a black African man, " my in-laws didn't train my wife through undergrad, Med school, and Residency to be my housekeeper, or maid ". In fact, when I asked my father-in-law for his daughter's hands in marriage, he reminded me. And he told me if I ever forgot, her brothers and uncles will remain me😂😂...
Some of these men don't want a partner, they want slaves...
Amen!
Thank you!
I love that !
Exactly.
Please tell the other men because you know you are one of few. Men back home in Africa want the degree and the maid services! Even if a man knows how to clean... work, cleaning, and child rearing falls in our lap. The same is going on for many sistas in the USA and the islands as well.
If a man invited me over and his house was a mess, two things: 1. He is a slob and doesn't respect his guests enough to make his house presentable; and/or 2. it's a schit test to see if I will clean. I won't clean for any man I am not in a relationship with. And that still comes with conditions. This guy did women a favor by outing himself out as a low tier douche.
Expecting a guest to clean up after you is ridiculous 😂
My ex lived with his father (we were teens). And their house was always filthy, I remember my mother telling me that I should clean. Why? You (my mother) can be a full time maid if you want. I'm not doing that 💩
@NashvilleSurvivor What does apartment living have to do with anything?
@NashvilleSurvivor correct your grammar first then we can talk about whatever it is you want to pass along
@NashvilleSurvivorSo the man who lives in his mother's basement is throwing shade at women who actually have their own apartments? 😂😂 I own a 4/3 house and a couple of rental properties. I can't wait until you start making fun of me.
So, basically, simping is only acceptable when a woman does it.
Pretty much smdh
No, being descent is for both sexiest.
Where is your profile picture from? Is it the Hotel Transylvania girl?
@@winxclubstellamusa that’s from Miraculous: Tales of Ladybug and Cat Noir
@@sylmarie thank you! I’ll look it up 🩷
Men want us do all these things for nothing. Want us to love them unconditionally, and won’t do it for us. Want everything their not willing to give 😅
Like a mama 😅
It's a wounded man speaking. 🤷🏾♀️
@@VeeKayGreenerGrassor just a poor widdle selfish kingbaby whose mom is toxic
That is why women need to assess the men that claim to be interested in them to work out what his motives/intentions are.
A mouthful of flattery and innuendos does not make a man.
Being invited to a dirty house and then expecting your guest to clean it up is so disrespectful. Tell him you are going to the store to get some cleaning supplies. Then safely make your way back home. Block him and hope to never see him again.
At least they are letting everybody know what they are before we get sucked down the drain and become an indentured servant.
Men wonder why women ask for divorce more. It's cause we're tired.
If a man walks into my home and sees I need new flooring and my stairwell painted and not offer to bust a move to start working on that, he's not man enough for me.🤣🤣
if i walk into someone's house and it's dirty mess, im walking tf out 👋
I'm a fairly messy person but I'm honest with guys I date that if my place is a mess, there's no way I am inviting you over. Yet I have been over to a guy's house and he clearly did not put much effort into cleaning the place. Now I realize he was probably one of these red pill weirdos.
How is that guy not embarrassed for saying that?? How embarrassing you need a non-biological mommy to come clean after you? Reminds me of my dad ,, my dad is so ultra dependent on my woman that if and when my mom dies he won't be able to clean up after himself no laundry clean clothes food nothing ,, because his moron parents told him that a woman was going to do that for him instead of telling him he needs to learn how to do that himself,, but on the flip side my mom is also very ultra dependent on him
They are a perfect representation of the type of marriages that need to end
It’s unfortunate how these young boys are influenced by such negative and harmful perceptions of women.
It’s sad and disgusting.
They are dumb and choose to go along with it that’s their fault for being ugly humans
Leave them. When they grow up and realise we women dont need them the way they have been lied to...they will learn then 😂😂😂😂
It’s hurting those boys because they won’t ever be happy
Teaching boys all of these harmful, women hating messages, makes it so much easier to roll back our rights though.
Just when I thought the youngest generation was getting better, along comes those women hating, evil, incell makers, on the internet.
Why on earth would a woman clean a stranger's home for free?
Right off the bat, these men are showing us they have absolutely no respect for women.
A real man cleans up after himself. A little boy? Not so much.
@@fairybliss7772 they are hurting themselves. They think trash talking women , can get them a woman? Then they are stupid too.
He says that she’s not feminine enough, but he means that she’s not subservient enough. 🤷♀️
If that's being feminine I don't want it😂 One guy asked me this question once when we were barely dating, mind you he had a housekeeper, I told him not to fire his housekeeper. 😎✌🏾
That's not being feminine that's having no self respect.
Feminine women with self respect cook for their PROVIDING men and clean THEIR house where BOTH live in
If a man doesn't automatically get my oil change, tires rotated and washed, he's not masculine enough for me.
If he can't take my blueprints and build my house from the ground up, then he's too sassy for me, not manly at all.
If a man can't cover my living expenses without me asking, then he's too feminine for me. Not masculine enough...it's a no for me 😂
@NashvilleSurvivorNope, just a manly man who post videos about women who should clean his den if they want to date him. You want the cleaner, you pay for her.
@NashvilleSurvivor expecting an adult man to be capable of basic adult skills is just being sane. Being able to function take care of oneself is not giving everything its just basic self-respect an adult should have if not why would a grown adult woman Assoicate with them unless they are professional care giver for special needs.
@NashvilleSurvivor LOL your backwards. Needing help from the system isn't gender base. If you pay attention females as a whole getting degrees in higher numbers and tend to out earn most men.
If a woman is on the system, it is not them that cause that sitiuation it is the men that leave them with children. Having children being single makes it close to imposable to have a quality job. yet some women still manage but as for those that are to busy taking care of some man kids there is no time for that women, so they have no choose it is men that created that sitiuation. But hey more broke men out there then women.
@NashvilleSurvivorHoney, what are you doing? Ain't you a little young to be on the internet unsupervised?
You ironize, however the second paragraph was a must in biblical times. Since dusties love to bring up religion to control women
And the most IMPORTANT part men like him leave out is he's not going to reciprocate. He's not going to make you his girlfriend nor marry you. He's going to take you for granted, cheat, lie, manipulate, gaslight and ghost you, only to return when it's convenient for him. As a FORMER pickme I can tell you it's in your best interest to leave his sick behind laying in his dirty unkempt house. You will NOT be rewarded for your empathy, love, and efforts.
And who wants to be wifed up by this man? To continue to clean his dirty?
Yes!!!!
If you notice a man's space isn't clean, run for your life babe.
Crib...don't babies have cribs...King Baby needs his Mammie.
They have been spoiled for centuries, this is the result
Bingo!
Yes and been funding and financing the sex industry also for centuries
Correct. These are the monsters we (women) have created. Time do undo the mess!
the young lady laying on the peach pillow and dark grey shirt is 100%. She's not lying. It's hard to hear but it's TRUTH in its purest form. If you walk into a house like that, turn around and GO....
Chileee!! She did not speak any lies!
It’s so true. And it’s helpful to SEE his actual behavior as telling, just ignore the sweet talk coming out of his mouth and use your eyes and look around.
I've never walked into a strangers house and just randomly started cleaning 😂. If I show up at a adult males residence and it's a disgusting mess.. I leave because your living environment is a reflection of the type of person you are. You don't have to be a millionaire.. But it costs next to nothing to be clean... Its proof of the fact that you a functioning adult... Also why isn't this guy embarrassed of the fact that he can't take care of himself. 🥴🥴🤡
"Calculate the funds for that". I LOVE IT !!!
And get the payment upfront
Damn straight!
Men asking what women bring to the table, When they don't even own furniture!!💥💥💥
When another TH-camr said that, majority of men are not supposed to be procreating with women, he is the type of guy you don't have children or marry. Women need to listen and act. . Majority of these men are not your friend, they're not your brother, they're not for you. Bad guy in the video, you need to just be with men.
Men like these literally do not deserve to be married. He just wants a free maid. He legit thinks he deserves to have a clean house just because he marries someone.
Good luck and Godspeed to anyone out here trying to date anyone. The human race is failing spectacularly lol
Because we must adapt. Adaptability is what keeps a species from extinction. Society and the world with it is changing. We have to evolve right? Right now all we see is a bunch of humans trying to stay stuck in the past!!
So true😀
I agree. I'm so glad I'm already married
Another man looking for a woman to “heal” and take care of him. If you aren’t “healed”, no one else can do it for you.
I dated a filthy a** man. He was talk dark kinda handsome a a pure genius running a computer tech business. But he was a pig. Cigarette butts out on countertops never swept or vacuumed/dusted threw away garbage mopped, never had his animals spayed and neutered that were urinating and pooping on the floor he never cleaned. He had two daughters my daughter loved so I “played the role” and cleaned up and maintained a 100x higher standard of living. Did he like it? Sure. Did it make him treat me right? Oh hell no. Apparently his outer dirtiness was a direct reflection of his insides. After he cheated, and ridiculed and devalued and triangulated me into the most fd up stuff I’ve ever been through in my life he screamed “I never ever ever want to see you again”. He yelled at his daughter that “what he needed was a woman that was going to cook and clean and take care of his kids”. His daughter said “Dad you know that’s all she ever did”🙄in a rage he through a glass at her that shattered on the wall beside her and she lived to tell me the tale. Years later he’s like “I thought you probably didn’t want to talk to me again”and I agreed I “never ever ever wanted to talk to him again😆”
"Calculate the funds for that" 😂😂😂
Is that really what some of these married women had to do to secure the ring? You really have to audition with a mop and broom and hot tea at his place? And first prize is the honor of continuing to do it some more throughout the marriage? Ok then.
@lilig8323 THIS!!
If he's dirty like that I wouldn't remain in his place anyway. I don't want somebody's pet roaches to crawl up into my purse and come back to my house. No sir! I'm not the woman for you. I don't like dirty, nasty dudes.
I asked a guy what he was looking for, he said a mom but not. So he wants benefits of a woman but still be a child with no responsibility or accountability. No I'm not for you.
That toddler in need of a bottle, pacifier, and bib.
It look like a grown adult male but it is still crawling to it’s crib.
No one picking it up off the floor cause it’s crib contaminated.
It is still on baby milk and baby formula.
King baby
You, ma'am, are a poet.
If he had a daughter he'd be doing the same thing to her.
I’m so tired of this nonsense.
I’m thinking about moving to a remote location and becoming a hermit 🥴
Carry me along. I could do the rest of my life without so much as seeing m en, leave alone talking to or dating them.
They don't leave you alone. With the next opportunity I leave the planet. 😄
There is a reason the place Wonder Woman comes from is called Paradise Island: NO MEN ALLOWED!!! 😂
I'm currently working on that now.
Being a hermit in a city is great too 🧙♀️
“Heal me back to life”…if this isn’t the best description of a man cold I’ve ever heard 😂
Every time men talk I cry, or laugh, or look in disgust.. sometimes a combination of all 3. SIR GET A MAID GOODBYE.
Lmao “I’m not gonna say patriarchy, I’m gonna say male domination.” Sir, that is literally what patriarchy means
Right 😂
Also be careful of the man who only wants to come to your home because it’s clean, comfortable and has food. Because women will treat a guest in their home well and some men don’t want you to come to their home because they don’t want to do the same.
As a daughter of a housewife and a housewife I find that video disgusting. Expecting a guest to cook and clean for you is ridiculous even if it's a love interest.
As a housewife myself I cook for my PROVIDING husband and I clean OUR home
Thank you. The key word is PROVIDING husband. It means this is a give and take relationship
So he admitted that he wants a mom, not a marriage. These men would save us all so much time and energy if they'd just hire a maid or escort. I seriously don't understand how that's less cost effective than trying to gaslight someone into falling for you. Especially when you consider all the wealth they'll loose in divorce and child support. I know they do it because they're lazy and entitled. But economically speaking, the math never maths for me.
They'rwbto lazy and dumb to do this math. They expect the wmen to do the math for them and are then surprized her endmath turns in her favour😅
Lol, most of the blk men who have children aren't married and most of them don't pay their child support either.
Cleaning and tidying before having another person visit your house is basic common courtesy. Even if he doesn’t expect you to clean he is doing it on purpose to let you know that he thinks very very little of you and to see how much bad treatment you will put up with.
My ex did this to me. He would clean and tidy when other people visited him but for never for me.
I never cleaned his mess but it was always a clear message from him.
All these ladies are on the money!! The one with the blue turban is HILARIOUS and RIGHT!!
That girl talking about how he is not gonna wife you if he invites you to a dirty house clearly don't know this menz.
I mean, they marry women for labour! The harder you clean and serve him the more likely he is gonna wife you, and it will have absolutely nothing to do with love, but your servitude.
Yeah but he'll go through countless women before he marries. Usually when they start having issues like ED they'll go ahead and marry.
Accurate for him to be calling his home a "crib" he doesn't need a woman, he needs to grow up.
Why the fuck would I do HIS chores 😂😂😂
Exactly. Am I your housewife? You don't pay any rent for US so this is YOUR Crip!
Imagine going to a guy house and cleaning and cooking and then leave to go home and he doesn't even like you or he is taking a woman to his house after you leave to enjoy
omg..yes...ladies you need to think about and absorb this...👆
That is their dream right there. They get everything they want and don't have to really do anything for it. It is quite weird to go out with these guys. They really do expect this type of behavior from women they are just casually dating. It's so very gross.
I was seeing this guy and I could tell a pickme came over and cleaned his house spotless but guess who was sitting up in that spotless house, ME. She did all that work jus for another woman could enjoy the fruits of her labor. We stopped dating shortly after.
Girls don't want your pickle juice😂😂😂😂😂😂
@NashvilleSurvivor So you got your ass beat when you actually tried to argue your nonsense and now you're just throwing insults LMFAO
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The one asking if you have the funds for that?, had me rolling 😂.
Men who don't clean up after themselves are disqualified from the dating pool.
its insane that they have these expectations that our grandparents had but aren't making enough money to back it up. Women used to cook clean and do all the things because news flash men used to pay for everything because women weren't allowed to work and when they were their jobs made less money. Now both women and men have to work to support a household and they still want a cook, cleaner, and laundry maid. they want traditional women but aren't filling the role of traditional men. My relationship rn
is give and take, we both cook clean and do laundry because we both are tired after work but it needs to be done.
My Uncle did that with my Aunt. She cleaned, cooked, homeschooled and worked 2 jobs until they retired. I would just look at her and think she must have no self-esteem.
I see these guys are going wayyy back to that 1950s mentality. No thanks.
what is so funny about that, that they are too stupid to realize. The 30's, 40's and 50's is what gave way to the women's rights movement of the 60's, 70's and beyond. The women back in the day weren't exactly happy slaves. They just kept it quite and moved in silence, especially when it came to educating their daughters.
It's worse. These dudes dont even want to provide and buy luxury items for their wives like a 50's husband would
What does he expect to happen? Like realistically. Does he think that he'll bring a girl to his house after a date and the moment she notices how filthy his house is, she gets on her knees after she spent hours getting dolled up, in her new dress, and she's going to ask him to pass her a rag and some bleach? She noticed your filthy house, but she just thought you were a pig and she walked out. 9:16 She's amazing! XD
I always thought the guy was gross and wouldn’t go out with again
In many countries, children know how to cook and clean or at least is taught to pickup after themselves. It is sad that men think it's okay for others to pick up after them. Even in the army or marines they are taught how to cook and clean and sew.
Thank you. I spent 5 years in the Navy and you best believe every one of those men cleaned. All of us cleaned, every day. If you didn’t know how to clean when you joined you learned by the time you left boot camp. I don’t understand how some men think it’s ok to not know how to perform these basic skills.
I only ever cleaned for a man when I was around 22, and he used to give me money afterwards but looking back at the amount he used to give, I still feel cheating.
At 26, I can only help clean the dishes we have used, and that's is if I have spent some days in your house. And not to prove my femininity. It's because I will also do that in every house I visit if the visit exceeds a couple of days. Just basic courtesy, offer to help with something around the house.
But I don't do sleepovers at nems houses, I am a daytime visitor so there is absolutely no way I am lifting a finger in that house.
I am avoiding them totally now.
Omg these people need to marry their mommy
My husband cleans the kitchen almost every day before going to work. He likes to mop the house. He’s not immaculate by any means and leaves some messes. But we clean up after EACH OTHER to keep the house clean together and that’s no issue. I don’t understand how these man-children can’t provide a clean space for themselves 😂 so sad
Priscilla, thanks for this video. That guy at the beginning who wants women to clean his dirty house made me MAD! Yuck 🤮
These men have absolutely no use.
This is worse than a trad household. They don’t want to provide for and spoil the housewife - not even marriage or a relationship … they just want to use her single naive heart for all they can get. I can’t believe they think they are all that. WTF
My answer to this, is a man walking into my house and doesn’t ask for the light bill to be paid, he isn’t a real man. Done.
This is very much a black male mindset 🤷♀️
Facts ladies - men on average earn 400 > $500 dollars a week more than women. When you work that out fortnightly they can easily be bringing home $1000 dollars more than you are. Hire a bloody cleaner boys! 😊
Crib is an American term for home...remember MTV's Cribs??? Lol.....Nevertheless I don't need to prove anything to anybody. If your home is nasty, your personal hygiene is probably also 🤢.
Why dont he hire a cleaning service
Hey!!! I WATCHED THIS VIDEO ON REPEAT because of the ''Calculate the funds for that'' woman!!! HILARIOUS!!!
If you're male is a male, he's not it 🚫. 😂💀
If men got ANYTHING it’s the audacity!!!!!!! 😂
Abundantly
Hey Priscilla! Can you make a video about LAT relationships? (Living apart together) I am saying this because this 100% benefits women and it should be a trend and become more popular, I have 3 girl friends being in a LAT relationship and so far they are living it happy better than living together with a man, I am thinking to do the same IF I end up in a relationship
I have a video about that already on the channel please check it out and thanks for commenting 😊
@@Priscilla_Boye omg really?! Nice I will check it out, we ladies gotta make it a trend and spread it mouth to mouth with our besties!
The lady said do you have the funds sir ? 😂😂😂 took me out
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My husband always made sure his house was clean before I came over😌 the last women at the end had me hollering with the background music 😂
These ninjas are in for a rude awakening 😂 the incel numbers about to skyrocket 🤭
LOL!!!! Is he crazy. first of all, a lady wouldn't be in your crib. Secondly, if she does come to the crib and see that it is a mess it will reflect badly on you.
I just had this happen to me. A guy I've been getting to know invited me over. I walked into a disaster. It was a total turn off!
Bruh, get you a maid, a herbalist, and dietician on payroll and stop trolling women. Y'all dont even give women an opportunity to see if you are worthy of her time. She supposed to automatically start cleaning for FREE....cooking and healing for FREE. Translation: "If a woman ain't gone let me use and take advantage of her ...I don't want her"
"calculate the funds for that" ❤❤❤❤
When he said loud I felt that in my soul…. lol I also don’t like a loud man 😂😂
"DO YOU HAVE THE FUNDS FOR THAT SIR??" 9:15 😅
Look, if dads found out their daughters were cooking and cleaning going over to a man's house that they met on the first date, the dads would be like "wtf you doing" too lmao
my first though as a man was if you invite a woman to your "crib" then you looking for a mama because babies stay in cribs. Im a pretty clean person because i saw taught as a kid to clean up and the military made me ocd with it.
The first night i stayed over with my guy, i got up, went to his dirty kitchen and started to clean. He heard me, came to the kitchen and said, Dont start what you dont want to keep going. Im a single man with my own home, i know how to clean my home and i have a maid. She'll be here today. Where do you want to go for breakfast? On the way to breakfast he told me he was not going to be handing over his heart and committing to someone just because she came over and washed my dishes, something i can do myself or pay someone. Clean my house if you want to but im not looking for that. Im looking to find someone that im willing to clean the house with. Thats when i knew he was the one. He also told me that if we didn't make it, dont ever do that again for any man. Ive been watching you, thats not where your value lies. I love that man.
If a man invites you on a date and he doesn't offer to provide and pay all you bills day one, he isn't masculine enough! This is the logic this man had. 😂
Your*** bills
As someone who used to do this for men when I young and foolish, I can say without a doubt, it doesn't beget you a ring. Shiiii, I didn't even get a girlfriend title! Lesson learned, never to be repeated again 😂
Wow
Same.. i was HEAVY into my pickme once upon a time and (surprise, surprise..) never got picked. I am so thankful for the online sisterhood for waking me tf up. Never going back!
Calculate da funz fo dat! Preach, My Sistah!
If you walk up in that bin and its filled with trash baby girl walk right back out 😂😂😂😂
These men want to be with their moms. I really don't understand why these men can't clean up after themselves and feel no shame in inviting someone over with their home being dirty.
It seems to be the new old manly. 😄
I raised my son to cook, clean and do his own laundry!!
For a very long time, I felt that people should have to earn the right to their own vocal cords.
Admittedly, I did this in one relationship and for a family member. Since I was going to be there, I didn’t want to be surrounded by the filth. The next time I visited, I didn’t touch anything. My ex, after I went home, had the audacity to bring up that I “did nothing” and the family member, psst.
Oh my goodness….run fast!!! That girl in the middle of the video was so cool - quid pro quo hahahahah
Only bm say ridiculous things like this. Im glad they are exposing how horrible they are
Sadly, it's not just BM.
There is a reason they call it a CRIB, cause what they want is a MOMMY
The first guy calling his place a crib is too hilarious. Cry more, baby.
Before I got into therapy I was dating a single father I’d met at the gym. He was really fit and interesting and we got along well.
But when he took me to his apartment I was aghast! It was totally crammed with crap, had a huge fish tank that took up his whole counter, and the room he kept his kids in also had a cage with two chinchillas.
That cage was overflowing with chinchilla droppings and they spilled onto the floor. In fact his whole apartment smelled of rodent feces. I couldn’t believe he was keeping his young sons in that room.
He did love bomb me for a while but then suddenly discarded me. It hurt at the time but now I see I dodged a bullet!
I grew up around people who expected women to clean a guys place just because. I was usually a slob partly because I hated that expectation.
If he can’t do basic adulting then MOVE ON.
Hell, I had a hook up where the guy's place was so clean I thought it might have been one of those model viewing apartments. The audacity of inviting a woman over your house and it's filthy nasty...
Dusty was a person. Bro has streak marks in his drawers