I dont know if anyone has told you but Men are leaving. I'm not talking about those going to other Countries to trick, but Men with purpose and those of us with resources. I'm on my second passport and have been married for 10 years. My wife don't work I pay all the bills, two cars with kids and guess what? She doesnt even know who sprinkle sprinkle is. Why because sprinkle sprinkle dont work in the real world.
"Leading with love" has led to many women experiencing heartbreak, financial ruin, and emotional instability. Sadly, we can't show these men kindness because they take it for weakness. All relationships are transactional. Period. And its high time women started getting what they want from interactions with men.
@hanatirk4375 they don't like it. They're sadly, just used to the dysfunction of toxic partners and can't/don't recognise the unhealthy patterns they find themselves stuck in until something serious happens that causes them to wake up. Trauma bonding is very real.
💯 Single mothers deserve to have high standards, childfree women deserve to have high standards, big women deserve to have high standards, dark skin, light, slim, broke, rich, tall, short.
This 💯! People can give right and wrong things as advice at the same time, or even things that may or may not be right for your situation. Take what you need, leave what you may not need. Discernment is everything with stuff like this.
Exactly!!!! I wish I had her when I was a teenager. I didn't see her videos until my late 20's. I'm in my mid 30's now, so only started getting good advise once I was "grown."😂
Dating men is dangerous, period. I haven’t seen much of Shera’s content but from what I have seen I agree with what most of what she says IF you are going to date men. You have to be transactional when dating men or you will get exploited. If you go into a relationship with a man thinking you will get loved, you will get played. I choose not to date men because it is way too risky for my liking. I like my life too much. But if you are willing to accept risking your life then you might as well get the bag too, I guess.
Fr. Males/society shame sex workers for being transactional & transparent but still pay to play regardless bc the undeniable truth is that the P is valuable & males resent women 4 NOT playing themselves cheap in the name of love!
Majority of what she says is true though. You gotta take what applies to you and dispose of the rest. People don’t like her because women are given the tools to see right through the trash. I still like her!
I think the biggest issue is that some women are taking her advice & becoming super entitled not all of course but some especially single moms who expect the man to be the step daddy. Her advice is Definitely game that women need but some mfs listen to her advice & take it to a whole nother level. Plus she adds humor which makes it even more entertaining.
@@lanaeni2194 women will take good solid advice and twist it like a knife. That part is where a lot of women create dangerous situations. It’s sad really…
@@lanaeni2194If a man doesn't want to become a stepfather he really should not be dealing with a woman with children. There's nothing wrong with a woman with children looking for a step father if she wants to be married. That is an extremely reasonable expectation.
SheraSeven is not a signifcant threat to men BECAUSE if you know women you know women arent motivated by money anyway - they will go for the broke guy who knows how to give her an emotional rollercoaster over the rich guy whos boring. Shera is only popular bc a lot of black women grew up broke as a joke and think they can learn how to get a sugar daddy just like Shera, the only problem with that plan is there arent many rich men to go around, by definition rich men are very scarce lol
I dont agree with everything she says but I do feel like she has some valid points. Men use and abuse and treat us like objects everyday and get rid of us at a moments notice when we no longer serve their selfish needs so why shouldnt it be done back to them? Men always talk about "the game", she's evening the playing field with her advice 🤷🏾♀️. And obviously its working for some women. You wouldnt need her advice for a good man, her advice is for dealing with the men that switch up and waste our time
This. They don't want the free sex to stop and they really don't want to spoil Women they only wish to take from. Once you make it difficult for Men they start this mess. Keep it up ladies!
And you should be careful because broke Men use their peens as weapons and abuse Women all the time. What's your point? If you actually listened to her she makes it clear that you should get your OWN money so IF someone tries to control you you can leave. If you're up under dusties, what money will you have to leave? Use your brain. @@beepbopboop7727
I used to listen to her content heavily. She definitely helped me to have better standards, BUT it also prevented me from being able to genuinely love my partner
Shera has helped me so much. I was in a DV situation and didn’t realize how dusty he was, I was splitting bills in HIS apartment and getting abused verbally and physically. One day we were at the grocery store together and my current boyfriend saw me with my ex. He slipped me his phone number while my ex was out of site and now we’re going on 2 years. He has allowed me to rest, start my own business and not pay a single bill which has given me more time to pay attention to my femininity and heal.
@@bobbyray7558I was thinking the same thing men aren’t hero’s or saviors. I wondered if he saw someone he could easily destroy and knew he could get you easily with bread crumbs. I hope he’s not like that. I’ve never once had any man try to rescue me from anything ever and I was banging in my youth. lol. I probably still am but the internet tells me I’m obsolete so I’m going with that 🤣😂
Shera is the reason why I married the man I married. She is 100% right when it comes to providers and having standards. People that think Shera gives bad advice likely aren’t taking what works for them and discarding the rest. Shera is NOT a relationship expert. She teaches women how to get a bag. That’s it and that’s all. I don’t agree with everything she says so I took the parts I agreed with and applied it to my life. I have no regrets. ❤
Women's lives are in danger with or without Shera. These males are killing their gf/wives at least on a monthly basis whenever she wants to end the relationship or found a new bf/husband. Some of the males are killing the new bf/husband too.
If what Shera teaches wasn't true, there wouldn't be a million comments agreeing that her words are verified by women's experiences all over the world, all cultures, all races. I love Shera. She is very clear about who she is, what she wants and how she got there. Take what applies to your life and be honest about it - she's closer to real life more than all the tragic fairytales we've been fed for such a long time.
Exactly!! She def seems to be really in tuned with real life and the tru nature of males.Like it or not, most women even the one's criticizing her, strive to be in her position. Women don't like to come to terms with how most males really are, she knows and therefore she handles them accordingly, before she got married and that's how she landed her husband.
If what red pill creators were teaching wasn't true, then there wouldn't be millions of comments agreeing that their words are verified by men's experiences all over the world. See what's wrong with your comment? I've seen both sides to this "gender war" or whatever people are arguing about nowadays. My conclusion? Both sides are full of shitty people capitalising on people's undecisiveness, lack of experience in the real word and bias. Let's just all stop unabling those people in enrich themselves through our vulnerabilities and maybe our generation would be a better one.
If what red pill content creators were teaching wasn't true, there wouldn't be a million comment agreeing that her words are verified by men's experiences all over the world, all cultures, all races. See what's wrong with your comment? I've seen both sides of this "gender war" or whatever bored people like to argue about nowadays. My conclusion? Both sides are full of crappy opportunists capitalising on people's biases, pliancy, and lack of experience with the other gender to advance themselves socially and financially. Let's just all stop enabling those people who leverage our vulnerabilities into enriching themselves by removing our support and viewership and maybe our next generation of men and women could be a better one.
I think she's telling women common sense tips. Like why date a broke struggling man? She's sharing her personal experiences and people just need to take the meat and leave the bones. If it doesn't work out, then it's just trial and error.
Women giving broke energy is a thing these days... I'll trow a couple 100 to 👏your cheeks as the brokie you are... See if i care. Women start to sound like escorts these days.
It's so obvious that she's talking about being kept, and social climbing through men so I'm confused as to why people think this is general dating advice.
Thank You! She ALWAYS tells the young ones to be free of Men if possible single and level up but if not then ONLY be with a Man if He benefits them. She says over and over that Her advice is for Women WHO WANT TO BE kept by Men of means! If that ain't You, scroll on.
I don't agree with some of Shera's advice, yet it's sorely needed by many women in that how did women get to a point of creating the word "hobosexuals" where women are ok w/letting a male who doesn't or never had a place of his own move in with them, many times rent free. People scared bc Shera's establishing basic relationship standards.
Sprinkle Sprinkle is a trigger because she is BW speaking to BW. It is the same issue with 'BW in luxury'. No one has a problem with women from other races having their high standards. A lot who are bothered are concerned with the loss of free labour they get from BW. At the end of the day you don't have to follow her and you tweak what works for you.
Like, I don't even need a man to provide - just contribute SOMETHING! Too many dusties don't contribute anything and expect the woman to do everything. At that point, why even put up with a man invading your space? If it's for sexy adult times, well there's plenty of that out there in the world - no need to house and feed a man to get your groove on.
tbh is the men is not emotionally available mediocre sex and he doesn't take care of himself even if he provides I wouldn't love him it takes more than money for a relationship to work but I do agree with a lot of what she says
Anyone else notice those against Shera's teachings in this video bring Man-lead and Man created religion into it? If it's not Male centered, Male worship, and Male feelings; it's Pr0stITuTioN". Is it that, or is it just Women flipping the script on Men, taking their energy back that has been mined and taken advantage of for centuries and now it's a problem.
I had to give up on "God the Father" and go back to Kali Maa. I feel loved and accepted by Her. Yahweh not so much: I felt rejected, judged.. and had some very unhealthy spiritual issues including a cross getting knocked off my wall all under his watch. I was even possessed and it says in the Bible you need to only have faith the size of a mustard seed to "move mountains" & use the name of Jesus Christ to cast out demons- but they wouldn't leave. There was a burning sensation under my skin (like in my fat) when a prayer came up unknowing to me on a Vlad Viluchik video, but it refused to leave - I started binge eating again and became suicidal.... then I remembered that Kali destroys demons. I listened to her chants w/intention. The burning sensation came back, but I got a message b4 all this to be brave - so I was brave and I trusted in Her and She destroyed them. I'm not longer suicidal thanks to the Holy Mother. edit: I'm not Hindu, but I discovered Kali in my late teens when the Bible just wasn't ringing true to me and my Mom (altho a Seventh Day Adventist) was OK w/my exploring my own spirituality :)
It’s always these religions which deny or conceal the divine feminine or the femininity of God. They hope you don’t think critically about Creation and just assume, yes Father instead of Mother & Father. Eastern traditions such as the Dao de Ching do a better job of explaining the mysterious nature of Creation, the soft and feminine form.
Exactly. Also, where do you think the stigma around prostitution comes from? It’s just society being mad that certain women are moving in awareness that accessing a man’s wallet requires only one type of labour when they want us to mule ourselves out to one man exclusively with the domestic labor and emotional labor in addition to the sexual. Patriarchy is big mad at these women who have the audacity to work the system for herself
I have know about Shera for years. Not my vibe personally, but I do find she is able to give some sound advice about the realities of dating. In that sense I appreciate her online presence. With everything people need to exercise common sense. A woman who does not desire to put money above the relationship or who actively wants to earn her own money instead of being on the passenger princess energy won’t benefit as much from listening to her. She provides good advice in some areas, but I wouldn’t partake on the entirety of her mindset. She is a person with flaws, not the reincarnation of a salvation figure. She doesn’t have the answers to everyone’s life, but she knows who she is and I respect her for that.
That’s the thing many people miss just watching her clips…. Shera has never advocated to just be a “passenger Princess” or fully dependent on a man. She’s a big advocate for having your own financial resources. NOW… how you want to go about it, is where some of her advice comes from. Many people just watch the clips popular on social media. I can tell bcos if they had been watching her full videos on YT consistently they would have a better understanding of her overall message. She also has a good understanding of male nature and how to deal with the way they act.
@@ogolden8315 exactly, I think she even said at this point she makes more money than her husband. People are who committed to misunderstanding the message (not you OP) keep saying she's teaching people to be financially dependent on a man and thats the furthest thing from the truth.
Nah Shera actually tells women to get their own money but to save it and only spend their man’s money. I am a career woman and I used Shera’s advice on raising my standards and it worked for me. I get to have my cake and eat it too. 😂❤
Shera is a Saint sent from the Gods🙏🏾👑 I don’t think women realize how much men, manipulate, and gaslight women, to feel small, unvalued, and like complete objects to be used. Like Shera said, we are creation, and we create, that is our power own it ladies and get your money up front, YOU ARE WORTH IT❤
Fr being a former people pleaser and good girl who was constantly treated indifferently by men I realized quickly that the women who treated men like options were getting what they wanted. Shera never told a lie. Its funny how different men treat you once you switch up. Thats why I get heated whenever I see men now saying they don't want "modern women" they want a good girl who's submissive. All they do is chew those women, waste their time, and spit them out.
A lot of men definitely do manipulate women and they share these tips with their guy friends. It's gross. But it's probably better to just weed out and avoid those guys. Teach women to have more self respect and just stay away from the losers and suddenly the losers will have to do better if they don't want to be alone.
Same thing says ELLE, from the Manifestelle channel. Spoiled girlie out here. Shera and Elle made a revolution in my life. Elle is more "academic" per se. I like them both.
Tbh, i didn't know what she was all about. But i do wish i had learned this when i was 22. But telling women their standards are too high is bs. If they are too high, remain on the pedestal alone. Feelings are fleeting. Women are born givers. They will give and give. Only to be left behind. Fulfill yourselves. Dont hate men. I just love myself more
I'm not on tiktok but I've been sprinkle sprinkle for a while. I would advice 2 things. 1, don't mind being called a gold digger... clap back with "1 thing you'll never be able to say is you got me for free". 2 ladies get your own bag and look for a man with a bigger bag. You will be in danger if you mess with broke men and you should never lose your bag.
AS A MAN IF I CAN'T GET YOU MODERN WESTERN WOMEN FOR ALMOST NOTHING THAN I WON'T DEAL WITH YOU AND I'LL GET MY PASSPORT AND GO OVERSEAS AND DEAL WITH THAT DATING MARKET. THE WOMEN HERE JUST AREN'T WORTH MY RESOURSES.THE SQUEEZE ISN'T WORTH THE JUICE THAT I GET FROM YOU MODERN WESTERN WOMEN.
This man….“She is teaching you how to demand and never how to offer” … that’s because women are already socialized to offer up their free labor from the jump. This man needs to speak for himself and only himself because yes, men do need to learn how to offer instead of just demand and expect. If men and women were socialized with equal expectations and entitlements we wouldn’t need this conversations
SPRINKLE SPRINKLE SINGLE SINGLE AND YOU MODERN WESTERN WOMEN ARE OUT OF OPTIONS AND SOON YOU WILL BE PAYING FOR A MAN'S ATTENTION. OH HOW THINGS ARE A CHANGING
She's existed LONG before them. We can really say that all of these people actually stole her style and switched it up. She's the originator from waaaay back in early internet days and she's always been consistent.
Discernment has to be used whenever we're consuming "content". Shera is a gold digger. She has learned AND teaches women to get what they want from men, THE SAME WAY, men use women to get what THEY want. She gets backlash because she's very bold in her stance. She promotes being out for self-gain, above all. I don't necessarily agree with that. However, every relationship we participate in is about getting what we want out of it. Women fall behind, because we are taught to FEEL instead of THINK. But, how many women have been burned by living through their heart space? Love is not as common as we want to believe it is. Most relationships are transactional, even if we don't want to admit it. We, as individuals, just have to determine how far we are willing to go to get what we want. Most importantly, learning what nets us a gain versus a loss. Too many women are in the negative because they're too emotional and don't know how to get what they want/need. Meanwhile, the men they entertain run circles around them. Personally, I'm sitting out. It's not in me to be a gold digger. But, I'm also done with being a giver - and, no relationship is 50/50. Someone is going to get more out of it... Shera teaches women to allow that "someone" to be them. You can take it or leave it...
"Love is not as common as we want to believe it is" -that's one thing that I've learned is "love is rare" whether it's romantic or familial. I see how other families operate.... The thought of marrying into these messes makes me want to vomit.
And all the points you're making is exactly why she advises women the way she does. Most males are users and manipulator's, her advice will actually help women with discernment. Majority of women don't prey on males, that's not in our nature.. but majority of males prey on women, especially young women due to their nature. I take it as tips on how to not get played or used by males.Once they do, they dispose of you. That's what they're known for, so I respect a woman who's putting out there how to properly deal with them if you decide to date them. Women come across these types of males everyday
Shera's message exists because it is commonplace for men to use and abuse women. Kitten Heels said "we can use you." Shera is saying we can use them. Sounds to me like she's promoting equality.
first of all....all of us are told to 1 take care of our selves and 2 dont put urself in messed up situations...what is so wrong with a woman wanting to date a man who is financially stable...smh we are not doing this struggle love shit no more....it has to stop thats how u stop generational poverty which is curse.....if men have an issue being fiscally responsible / financially stable then they need to stay single....like im serious they need to just stay single just like if they tell u or make u believe they are monogamous and yet out here cheating ..they need to stay single, why lie!! just live in ur truth..stay single either way.....women are f'king tired
They do. They're warlocks speaking in satanic tongues, worshiping false idols and statues, abusing Women and children, brain washing them into thinking Men created anything, and they place Women in pickme suffering. It's Male worship. They use witchcraft and things from paganism like Sundays and Easter. There's also a LOT of seggsual abuse going on.
Don't blame us for people who are not smart enough to flush out their own arguments and as a result try and use the bibke to suit their narrative. A true Christian should be given the right words to say what needs to be said so they won't have to Parrot what they hear like a 5 year old.
SheRa is better than therapy. Truly. I will def be introducing my daughter to SheRa’s lessons when she’s a teen, so she will know the game and not get played by men!
Shera speaks about practicality, the people who criticize her speak about theorical idealism. Yes, on paper, men are humans and women should lead with love, but the likelihood of having success with that is very slim, so Shera's way is a lot more practical. I've tested her method out 2 weeks ago and it works. The only thing is, you have to listen to her fully and see if you fit in. If you're not the type of beauty that these men like, you'll probably have to work a bit harder but will eventually find someone. I happen to be a racially ambiguous slim thick woman, so very convenient for them and for me to get what I want.
I'm married to a good man but even they have their ways and if you aren't focused on yourself and getting what you need, your gonna suffer in a relationship. Men are not your bff, or emotionally supportive or compassionate like women, so don't expect it. If you think you will find full satisfaction in a man you're going to be alone in a relationship. They serve a role in your life, you can enjoy each other's company but they aren't deep creatures. My own husband has said men are slow and if he was a woman he'd never settle and get him a millionaire😂 Shera is simply saying marriage is not a fairytale, that goes out the window quickly once a man secures you so if you want romance don't get married, it's mostly an operation that requires work. Making decisions on bills, work, your home, if you have children they have needs and issues. You will be very busy, so you need to make time for yourself
ive been following her for almost 7-8 years. her message was amazing when she had about 50k followers. only the last year or 2 its blown up, everyone knows the message now and unembodied women are talking too much creating dangerous SPACES for themselves
She means that lately with tiktok and everyone just now finding about about Shera they're not taking in the message but parts of it. Snippets of info like the game telephone where things get confused and twisted. @@patty-pat-pat
I find it that men that have never been married are typically reckless and broke. The older they get the worse they behave especially when single. Broke old men love hitting on young women because in their minds they’re still young men.
She was referring to Black Men because the younger ones have NOTHING. Young or Old, I've witnessed both being Broke with nothing & I wasn't even Dating them! Women I know were.
The older men have money but you modern western entitled mindset women are not worth their resources; So the men play broke. You all are delusional but winter is here.
Shera helped me rebuild my self esteem putting my energy back into myself and getting away from fairytale love thinking men treat women like objects and will drop you for someone who looks better I wish I had her teaching when I was young now I teach my daughters so they don’t end up a single mother on government assistance and child support where the father doesn’t pay because he’s a dusty helping build a man for him to later leave to have standards integrity and walking in their feminine energy understanding they are the prize of any one feel this is wrong then may I suggest you step back from dating for 30 days put your focus on yourself and see how good you feel you’ll date men on your level and above anything under will drain you and drag you down I take what helps me and apply 💅🏾❤ sprinkle sprinkle 🌟✨💫
Then there's their incentive to stop treating their heads as makeup and wig dummies! You wanna play but you are stupid? Then pay the price for staying stupid! "Stupid" is a choice for most.
Shera's main message is ALWAYS love yourself, value yourself, take care of yourself, have standards, do not chase men, do not lead with emotions etc... this is all very SOUND advice ! I don't know what these ladies listening to 🤷🏽♀
Dating is terrifying since tiktok. She's not the only one. There are men giving other men really dangerous advice too, leading to the abuse of women. It's all sad all around. Also, who doesn't tell their loved ones that they love them more than once a week or month? Jeez.
@@rayeeiffel480 I'm not saying you are wrong, but I'm saying that the dating scene has been bad for at least the past 15 years. I remember when I started seeing the changes, it was way before TikTok was a thing.
Agreed. A male content creator exposed a really disturbing website (1M subs) that proposes unless you are a dangerous man you are pathetic and weak. When a bunch of young lonely men being told to not ask for permission with clips of assault, it's time to worry about your safety as a woman. He is being hit hard by staunch incels and expects to become a target. Be safe out there.
It’s also apart of the effeminized men agend also known as ‘lgbtq’ agenda and the genocide of black families. This divisiveness and danger without accountability is creating a community of people who self inflict their own demise. It’s genius tbh
Can you indicate which content provider this was? Initials or a hint will be fine if you wish. I need to educate myself and seeing this material will be the best way for me.
Shera is keeping women out of harms way. She speaks the wise words of my late mother/grandmother. Her influence, message is necessary in every woman's life
This is insider information lol that’s the problem. Most men nowadays do not want women to think for themselves, they benefit from us leading with our emotions. 😂
Shera is nothing short of an angel and the raw truth! She helped me leave a abusive relationship. I wish the internet and her channel was available when I was younger. I would be much further in life than leading with my heart and believing men. Dating and marriage is a game and girls don't learn that or the game until its too late. She is evening the playing field by teaching the game and males are upset. She from my hometown Houston! Beyonce & Shera from the H and Im proud of them both! Worldwide inspiring and uplifting women and men alike.
I heard this most recently and I agree. Most content creators are a brand and should never be considered replacement for your own common sense, discernment, and integrity. To hear men bash this woman is expected. Meanwhile men sit in concealed incel groups plotting how to "break", deny consent, and bash women. Even men have become disgusted with the levels to which younger men are being targeted to disrespect and harm women. I don't necessarily agree with everything she is saying or the method she uses. But a least (in her own weird way) she's not allowing men to move the goal post to their advantage. Especially the new aged dusties.
If you give a man power to feed you, you also give him power to starve you 👍🏻 sure, it's okay to rely on his wealth, but invest that money at least into education.
Its sounds like having standards and goals... 🤷🏾♀️ Never let him take you for granted and dont settle with a under/no achiever; your life will be endless struggle. < this is a message women have told their daughter for generations...🤷🏾♀️
She was really getting on my nerves and the funny thing is that she is the EXACT type of women who get used, cheated on and/or abused in marriages and relationships. I know there is a middle ground with all this but the high moral and anti shera seven women definitely ain't winning neither...
She had the nerve to say she used to watch all of Shera videos and had bad experiences with men and yet STILL taking a man’s side she cannot be saved unfortunately
I just heard this story about this lady on reddit, who was in her mid 50s, with 4 kids, 3 grown and 1 teenager and after YEARS of asking, her boyfriend, to marry her he finally purposes to her. She wasn't excited and rolled her eyes. That made him mad and stopped talking to her. Afyer days of not speaking, she finally told him what had been bothering her and he listened. But then he accused her of emotional manipulation and said he didn't marry her, years ago because he didn't think it was important. He also lost his high paying job and he believes that was the reason as to why she didn't want to marry him because he wasn't going to be as rich. She said that wasn't true and to have her own money, she wanted to go back to school. That made him mad, so he got a lawyer to kick her out of their home. She went to her kids, but they want to stay out of it because if they make their father mad, he'll cut them off. She tired to get financial aid when it came to a lawyer and was shut down. She hasn't worked since she was in her mid 20s and now has nowhere to go. People can come for Shera, but her advice (although I don't agree with all of it) is based off of how women are treated in their marriages and relationships. And she helps women to really think about their actions and the consequences of those actions. I wonder if there were a shera in that lady's life, woukd she even be in that situation??
First let's normalise appreciating entertaining content for the entertainment they provide. Her advice does not apply to the mass, have discernment. People are mad at Shera for teaching women to play the game like men do! Nobody likes someone giving game😂😂😂. Love her or hate her, she is giving you game! I think her advice works to get a man, it doesn't necessarily help to keep him ( which is out of your control).
@KristelScorpio it doesn't serve them. The more we know the less of them we Want. That is why they claim you are washed up and hit the wall at a certain age.
Love me some Shera and always will lol 😆 I'll take Shera's advice over these fairytale fantasy stories we have been sold and rarely seen in reality. So its okay for a man to look at you transactional, but the women should fall in love 1st 😂😂 shes right, love can come later and if everyone is getting what they want, whats not to love?
A lot of these responses honestly seem weak to me. I think the real danger of Shira is the fact that she is teaching women to find men who have money but also have the ability to destroy or make them. You may be potentially putting your life at risk if you're primarily looking at people's financial status and not their character. A lot of people who have money also have, power you most likely don't have. But if it's worth it for ya🤷🏿♀️
She never said to be fully dependent on the men who provide. She clearly has her own income. She's not telling women to quit their jobs to be gold diggers. She's telling them to stop falling for potential. If he's NOT putting the work in, then you don't need to go above and beyond.
I have several things I want to say about Shera but I think the most important thing to say is this…… This patriarchy society is backwards and if you look at African societies pre-colonialism, we lived in matriarchal societies. Children had their mothers sir names, money passed down through the mother (inheritance), its only when the colonisers came along that we began to worship men. We have been punished for doing so and Shera is simply trying to empower women to take their power back. We weren’t ment to be subservient to men. AT ALL! Peace ✌🏾
"We weren’t meant to be subservient to men. AT ALL!" *CORRECT* - The new saying is 100% true: "IF women were meant to be subservient then there wouldn't be a thousand sermons everyday reminding us to be that way" - we would naturally do it, but that's just NOT the case! We have to remember that the Bible is steeped in ancient Hebrew and Mediterranean male-centric and misogynistic CULTURE and there is very little truth in the Bible. Even Yahwe's origins are that of a minor storm & war deity not a Creator God. This is how Hebrews worshiped him b4 they started worshiping 1 god. It's only that his cult WITH VIOLENCE has rose to some prominence - demonizing other's religions and wiping out local CULTURE.
So the church girls despise her advice??? Then don't use it. I'm just hearing about her today and she said nothing wrong in this video "sprinkle-sprinkle." BTW I am a happily married woman to an equally happily married man.
Shera is a prime example of the phrase: Keep the pearls and discard the shells. There are many things she does say that are so true and there are others that can probably get you hurt. You need discernment regardless of who you listen to.
If you ask me...the women who truly believe they are going to have some genuine love with a man who is dedicated to them by pure love are delulu as it gets. You can have their kids, take care of them when they are sick, the whole 9.. men do not connect that way. Make..them...pay..period.
Just do a combination. Wise words from my aunt. My money is my money, and his money is my money. I got two bags. I keep myself looking good and work part time in my field. Once you’re married, don’t forget yourself.
I didn't know anything about her, but I binge watched some of her content ,and here's my take: Had I listened to her ( and not my equally airheaded friends) I wouldn't be in this married Single mama situation. I was lead by my heart into the hell. The Same guy who was "above a materialistic mindset " straight up told me I have to pay for the agreed divorce. Well we happen to live in this country with steady decreasing birthrate. It's around 1.6 i guess. For some reasons fertility issues in women are increasing. So the Government is trying hard to prevent "fertile couples " from divorcing. ( no, it ain't north Korea lol) so an agreed divorce, which is kind of divorce without going to the Court, costs around 2500 USD. I have to pay it myself. Men are materialistic.
Ladies, please don't ignore financial security in marriage. Money is not everything but it matters. My Mother taught me how you do one thing is how you do everything! How we manage our resources (financial, personal etc ) shows a lot about our character. It is not easy being a breadwinner Wife and Mother especially when the children are small. Please discuss financial management with your partner and plan accordingly for the lifestyle you both want ❤
In decency and in order during the single years. Both genders are burning through everyone and think everything supposed to sweet once another deal is sealed.
this lady 16:38 has been fed what we've been fed since childhood and that's a fairytale. majority of men are using you and play nice guy until you marry them or do something he doesn't want you to do(controlling you). part of me wants to find true love but i know i have to be realistic with these men when going on dates. and you can still love them but it's not likely going to be the same love that we see on tv/ disney princess movies or the love we've been dreaming about as little girls.
"Completely removing the effort and the intimacy of a relationship and making it strictly transactional. And the reason women seem to be eating that up is becasuse it gives them a false sense of empowerment." WHOA now. The reason women seem to be eating that up is because they have figured out that a lot, most, or enough of their relationships HAVE BEEN purely transactional. And out of that transaction< They. Got. NOTHING. Why do you think they are watching this lady now?? Men commodify women. Period. And if it's going to be that type of scenario, women may as well get what THEY want out of it. gtfo with that "false sense of empowerment." This is empowerment no matter what the outcome. You can make mistakes but still not wind up being some man's tool. Everyone makes mistakes in life, you might as well have what you need. But yes, be careful. No one wants to wind up in an empty, soulless realtionship. Which is what these may wind up being at some point. We need to be loved, we need to connect with our partners, and we need to be understood. But if women do not get that, why should they just sit around and settle for losers who do not even respect them? I see this shit every day. I do wonder if sprinkle sprinkle lady is happy or just in the vengeance phase, but either way, her advice seems pretty damn great to me - as long as you don't go overboard and forget to try to find (and be) a human being. Both things are absolutely possible. Nice house, nice car, good job AND love. Yes, both things are possible at the same time.
😮💨 The part she said about young Black guys! 👏🏾👏🏾❤️ I guess it was just instincts. Because I already knew to stay away from them, ever since I was a teenager. I learned at 19, once you date a successful man, ain’t no turning back, and ain’t no downgrading. That ONE man set the bar so high, a “dusty” couldn’t reach it with a 10ft ladder. 🤷🏾♀️
You BAW women want it now and you call being with a man who is building struggle love.That's why many of you are single and broke and nobody is checking for you and you are finished.
I do not have TikTok but what I saw of her in your video, I do agree with. I was very picky with who I dated. I NEVER paid on a date unless we were in a serious relationship. I never had sex with the men I dated. I did not have sex until I was married and my husband is the man who worked for it. He pursued me. He planned dates. he flew me across the world to meet his family. He proved that if we had children and I wanted to stay home with them he could provide that life for me.
All their biblical crap was what originally got women into the degraded state they are today! So, if you LIKE being treated like a doormat and have men wipe their feet on you while making their way towards women with self-esteem, then follow what the bible bangers have to say is "women's role" i.e DOORMAT.
I dont understand women, they were upset at Dere Jax for showing them what a bad man looks like(they were more upset he was what he was preaching against). Now sprinkle sprinkle
Let me tell you this a lot of women need to be reminded of their worth, men's money aside, you gotta know you are worth more than you think and deserve everything you desire.
Men I’ve dated have been nothing but disappointment. I’m focusing on securing my own future. Creating my own wealth. You can go after a man with money but more often than not he will cheat on you and treat you however he wants because he can.
Yes, that is my concern. Having dated one guy who pretended to have money, I think he was more just an Andrew Tate follower. These men know how to look the part to manipulate women they couldn't ordinarily get. We get smarter, they get smarter.
@tynaangelici3023 it's more about respect. I rather die with just that and broke AF then to have a bag using stolen ideas, stolen spouses, stolen everything.
Smart idea, never rely on anyone that is how you will find a good match eventually, some find it fast some never find it, but the fact is you won't ever find it if you don't search. Not all men with money cheat but if you are going to treat him like this woman suggests he'll be cheating faster then i can type it that is for sure. Don't take advice from the internet you are doing great on your own i can tell.
Sprinkle Sprinkle woman is the OG. Although she isn't teaching anything original. She is just asking women to view romantic/marriage relationship through the same lens like men view romantic relationships. Biggest con is women being asked to marry men below their socio economic status, however men themselves never become friends with other men who will never reach their level of socio economic status.
High standards are never the problem. The person available to meet your standards IS YOU. If you treat you right, everything else falls right in place.
Shera doesn't teach about having a relationship, doesn't talk about love. I know I can't use many of the things that she's taking about. But she brought to light some interesting stuff. She talks about using deception and it made me think about times when I wasn't fully honest and wasn't fully aware about it, when I was gaslighting miself. Being aware of your own dishonesty can actually help you think "but what is true then". It can help you find your inner truth.
Chile, I was about to block (thumbnail and title looked male-centered and we left that mindset behind in 2023), *but the comments did not disappoint.* #SheraForever *AND* #DecenterMen ✨✨
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Don’t chase men for any reason.
Exactly
This! Chasing a man is truly an abomination.
Yup. Chasing men as a woman is whack
I dont know if anyone has told you but Men are leaving. I'm not talking about those going to other Countries to trick, but Men with purpose and those of us with resources. I'm on my second passport and have been married for 10 years. My wife don't work I pay all the bills, two cars with kids and guess what? She doesnt even know who sprinkle sprinkle is. Why because sprinkle sprinkle dont work in the real world.
@@martez5455 byeeee.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
"Leading with love" has led to many women experiencing heartbreak, financial ruin, and emotional instability. Sadly, we can't show these men kindness because they take it for weakness. All relationships are transactional. Period. And its high time women started getting what they want from interactions with men.
Amen...sister...preach....
Absolutely right, but sadly from personal observations a lot of women likes to be used by man😮
@hanatirk4375 they don't like it. They're sadly, just used to the dysfunction of toxic partners and can't/don't recognise the unhealthy patterns they find themselves stuck in until something serious happens that causes them to wake up. Trauma bonding is very real.
💯 Single mothers deserve to have high standards, childfree women deserve to have high standards, big women deserve to have high standards, dark skin, light, slim, broke, rich, tall, short.
You said, without hesitation 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Eat the meat and throw away the bones as far as following someone's advice.
THIS!!! Like.. it's not that serious 😏
This 💯! People can give right and wrong things as advice at the same time, or even things that may or may not be right for your situation. Take what you need, leave what you may not need. Discernment is everything with stuff like this.
No in fact a lot of women wouldn’t be out here going through what they went through had they listened to her 🤷🏾♀️
facts
Exactly!!!! I wish I had her when I was a teenager. I didn't see her videos until my late 20's. I'm in my mid 30's now, so only started getting good advise once I was "grown."😂
Women like pain. They want pain. They will never listen. Pain makes women feel worthy.
Yup!!!
Yall still not happily married 😂😂
Ladies these men are going to drain whatever they can from you. Save your empathy for other women and children ✨sprinkle sprinkle ✨😂
Lady u need to watch this whole video fr
STOP DEALING WITH POOKIES AND STREET THUGS
And that's that on that!
THE MEN ARE GETTING THEIR PASSPORTS AND THEY OUT OF HERE
See ya!
Dating men is dangerous, period. I haven’t seen much of Shera’s content but from what I have seen I agree with what most of what she says IF you are going to date men. You have to be transactional when dating men or you will get exploited. If you go into a relationship with a man thinking you will get loved, you will get played. I choose not to date men because it is way too risky for my liking. I like my life too much. But if you are willing to accept risking your life then you might as well get the bag too, I guess.
I agree
Factssssss, I used to be on this table. The universe brought me shera, when I was at my lowest.
FACTS!!!! I love this comment!
DANGEROUS
Fr. Males/society shame sex workers for being transactional & transparent but still pay to play regardless bc the undeniable truth is that the P is valuable & males resent women 4 NOT playing themselves cheap in the name of love!
Majority of what she says is true though. You gotta take what applies to you and dispose of the rest. People don’t like her because women are given the tools to see right through the trash. I still like her!
I think the biggest issue is that some women are taking her advice & becoming super entitled not all of course but some especially single moms who expect the man to be the step daddy. Her advice is Definitely game that women need but some mfs listen to her advice & take it to a whole nother level. Plus she adds humor which makes it even more entertaining.
@@lanaeni2194 women will take good solid advice and twist it like a knife. That part is where a lot of women create dangerous situations. It’s sad really…
@@lanaeni2194If a man doesn't want to become a stepfather he really should not be dealing with a woman with children. There's nothing wrong with a woman with children looking for a step father if she wants to be married. That is an extremely reasonable expectation.
I married for love and someone who shares my faith and he cheated and cheated going forward it will be for security I marry 🤷🏽♀️
SheraSeven is not a signifcant threat to men BECAUSE if you know women you know women arent motivated by money anyway - they will go for the broke guy who knows how to give her an emotional rollercoaster over the rich guy whos boring.
Shera is only popular bc a lot of black women grew up broke as a joke and think they can learn how to get a sugar daddy just like Shera, the only problem with that plan is there arent many rich men to go around, by definition rich men are very scarce lol
Shera 7 is the G.O.A.T. Don't listen to anyone who criticizes her. Especially men.
Period, I live that life❤ married to a high value man and I wouldn’t have it any other way!👏🏽
I dont agree with everything she says but I do feel like she has some valid points. Men use and abuse and treat us like objects everyday and get rid of us at a moments notice when we no longer serve their selfish needs so why shouldnt it be done back to them? Men always talk about "the game", she's evening the playing field with her advice 🤷🏾♀️. And obviously its working for some women. You wouldnt need her advice for a good man, her advice is for dealing with the men that switch up and waste our time
I think you should just be careful because men with money know how to keep it *and* abuse you with it.
This. They don't want the free sex to stop and they really don't want to spoil Women they only wish to take from. Once you make it difficult for Men they start this mess. Keep it up ladies!
And you should be careful because broke Men use their peens as weapons and abuse Women all the time. What's your point? If you actually listened to her she makes it clear that you should get your OWN money so IF someone tries to control you you can leave. If you're up under dusties, what money will you have to leave? Use your brain. @@beepbopboop7727
Shera 7 is only telling women to have standards.
Yes. And how to be practical.
I used to listen to her content heavily. She definitely helped me to have better standards, BUT it also prevented me from being able to genuinely love my partner
@@IMissChele9 Being in love is overrated. In this economy, love does not pay bills.
@@IMissChele9 You have to learn how to balance love and standards. And, love won't pay rent and insurance, remember that.
Women Are MAD That They CANNOT PLAY MEN ANYMORE! THE MEN ARE NO LONGER ASLEEP
Shera has helped me so much. I was in a DV situation and didn’t realize how dusty he was, I was splitting bills in HIS apartment and getting abused verbally and physically. One day we were at the grocery store together and my current boyfriend saw me with my ex. He slipped me his phone number while my ex was out of site and now we’re going on 2 years. He has allowed me to rest, start my own business and not pay a single bill which has given me more time to pay attention to my femininity and heal.
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He'll start with you soon too- Enjoy. The new man sounds dangerous, and stealthy as well; just in a different way.
@@bobbyray7558I was thinking the same thing men aren’t hero’s or saviors. I wondered if he saw someone he could easily destroy and knew he could get you easily with bread crumbs. I hope he’s not like that. I’ve never once had any man try to rescue me from anything ever and I was banging in my youth. lol. I probably still am but the internet tells me I’m obsolete so I’m going with that 🤣😂
@@bobbyray7558 Why would wish the worse on her?😢
So happy for you!!!!! Don't listen to the haters ❤
As a woman having high standards is key. Good Character goes without saying . ...this message is key.
Exactly...noney, good character.. . It goes without saying, "Sprinkle Sprinkle"
What high standarts? She got with a man who had a wife and a girlfriend!
@@JR-lw3ms DAAAAAAAAAAMN!!!!! The same way she got him is going to be the same way she lose him.
Shera is the reason why I married the man I married. She is 100% right when it comes to providers and having standards. People that think Shera gives bad advice likely aren’t taking what works for them and discarding the rest. Shera is NOT a relationship expert. She teaches women how to get a bag. That’s it and that’s all. I don’t agree with everything she says so I took the parts I agreed with and applied it to my life. I have no regrets. ❤
Women's lives are in danger with or without Shera. These males are killing their gf/wives at least on a monthly basis whenever she wants to end the relationship or found a new bf/husband. Some of the males are killing the new bf/husband too.
What about the monkeys surrounding him? Nobody ever suspects "it not happy "...her too pretty.
Women Are MAD That They CANNOT PLAY MEN ANYMORE!
@@KOJOSLIM007-so6cj😂😂😂😂
If what Shera teaches wasn't true, there wouldn't be a million comments agreeing that her words are verified by women's experiences all over the world, all cultures, all races. I love Shera. She is very clear about who she is, what she wants and how she got there. Take what applies to your life and be honest about it - she's closer to real life more than all the tragic fairytales we've been fed for such a long time.
Exactly!! She def seems to be really in tuned with real life and the tru nature of males.Like it or not, most women even the one's criticizing her, strive to be in her position. Women don't like to come to terms with how most males really are, she knows and therefore she handles them accordingly, before she got married and that's how she landed her husband.
If what red pill creators were teaching wasn't true, then there wouldn't be millions of comments agreeing that their words are verified by men's experiences all over the world.
See what's wrong with your comment?
I've seen both sides to this "gender war" or whatever people are arguing about nowadays. My conclusion? Both sides are full of shitty people capitalising on people's undecisiveness, lack of experience in the real word and bias. Let's just all stop unabling those people in enrich themselves through our vulnerabilities and maybe our generation would be a better one.
If what red pill content creators were teaching wasn't true, there wouldn't be a million comment agreeing that her words are verified by men's experiences all over the world, all cultures, all races.
See what's wrong with your comment?
I've seen both sides of this "gender war" or whatever bored people like to argue about nowadays. My conclusion? Both sides are full of crappy opportunists capitalising on people's biases, pliancy, and lack of experience with the other gender to advance themselves socially and financially. Let's just all stop enabling those people who leverage our vulnerabilities into enriching themselves by removing our support and viewership and maybe our next generation of men and women could be a better one.
Shera taught me to have better standards. I was a pick-me in my younger days😂
@@ebonynaomi1085I am SO PROUD OF YOU!💐❤️
I think she's telling women common sense tips. Like why date a broke struggling man? She's sharing her personal experiences and people just need to take the meat and leave the bones. If it doesn't work out, then it's just trial and error.
Women giving broke energy is a thing these days... I'll trow a couple 100 to 👏your cheeks as the brokie you are... See if i care. Women start to sound like escorts these days.
It's so obvious that she's talking about being kept, and social climbing through men so I'm confused as to why people think this is general dating advice.
Right. She clearly says over and over to think about her advice as financial advice. Not relationship advice! Two different things!
Women are doing fine social climbing on their own
Thank You! She ALWAYS tells the young ones to be free of Men if possible single and level up but if not then ONLY be with a Man if He benefits them. She says over and over that Her advice is for Women WHO WANT TO BE kept by Men of means! If that ain't You, scroll on.
@@PrettyBaby.Xthese people are WILLFULLY IGNORANT
I don't agree with some of Shera's advice, yet it's sorely needed by many women in that how did women get to a point of creating the word "hobosexuals" where women are ok w/letting a male who doesn't or never had a place of his own move in with them, many times rent free. People scared bc Shera's establishing basic relationship standards.
Sprinkle Sprinkle is a trigger because she is BW speaking to BW. It is the same issue with 'BW in luxury'. No one has a problem with women from other races having their high standards. A lot who are bothered are concerned with the loss of free labour they get from BW. At the end of the day you don't have to follow her and you tweak what works for you.
I agree. A lot of bw are fools and their own worse nightmare.
Right they love to praise European women and Arab women
Alot of people don't think BW should be happy, rested and living luxuriously. They want us all to struggle.
Speak!
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LETS LOOK AT THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE A PROBLEM WITH HER😂 AND LOOK WHO DOES WELL WITH HER ADVICE ❤
Ameen hehe she is smart she speaks like my dad and brother
No comparison there!
You know that you just threw the whole tree, right? 😂😂😂😂😂
People do well with her advice?
When a man provides we fall in love.. when they dont we fall out.. period
Pretty much. 😂
Exactly ❤
Like, I don't even need a man to provide - just contribute SOMETHING! Too many dusties don't contribute anything and expect the woman to do everything. At that point, why even put up with a man invading your space? If it's for sexy adult times, well there's plenty of that out there in the world - no need to house and feed a man to get your groove on.
This is not true
tbh is the men is not emotionally available mediocre sex and he doesn't take care of himself even if he provides I wouldn't love him it takes more than money for a relationship to work but I do agree with a lot of what she says
Anyone else notice those against Shera's teachings in this video bring Man-lead and Man created religion into it? If it's not Male centered, Male worship, and Male feelings; it's Pr0stITuTioN". Is it that, or is it just Women flipping the script on Men, taking their energy back that has been mined and taken advantage of for centuries and now it's a problem.
I had to give up on "God the Father" and go back to Kali Maa. I feel loved and accepted by Her. Yahweh not so much: I felt rejected, judged.. and had some very unhealthy spiritual issues including a cross getting knocked off my wall all under his watch. I was even possessed and it says in the Bible you need to only have faith the size of a mustard seed to "move mountains" & use the name of Jesus Christ to cast out demons- but they wouldn't leave. There was a burning sensation under my skin (like in my fat) when a prayer came up unknowing to me on a Vlad Viluchik video, but it refused to leave - I started binge eating again and became suicidal.... then I remembered that Kali destroys demons. I listened to her chants w/intention. The burning sensation came back, but I got a message b4 all this to be brave - so I was brave and I trusted in Her and She destroyed them. I'm not longer suicidal thanks to the Holy Mother.
edit: I'm not Hindu, but I discovered Kali in my late teens when the Bible just wasn't ringing true to me and my Mom (altho a Seventh Day Adventist) was OK w/my exploring my own spirituality :)
It’s always these religions which deny or conceal the divine feminine or the femininity of God. They hope you don’t think critically about Creation and just assume, yes Father instead of Mother & Father. Eastern traditions such as the Dao de Ching do a better job of explaining the mysterious nature of Creation, the soft and feminine form.
Gives me the ickkkk when the counter argument is tied to religion… since, well, religion has done so much damage to women through history.
Exactly. Also, where do you think the stigma around prostitution comes from? It’s just society being mad that certain women are moving in awareness that accessing a man’s wallet requires only one type of labour when they want us to mule ourselves out to one man exclusively with the domestic labor and emotional labor in addition to the sexual. Patriarchy is big mad at these women who have the audacity to work the system for herself
This! Facts! Decentering males. I don't subscribe to patriarchy religion. Our Heavenly Mother,.... is how I pray.
I have know about Shera for years. Not my vibe personally, but I do find she is able to give some sound advice about the realities of dating. In that sense I appreciate her online presence.
With everything people need to exercise common sense. A woman who does not desire to put money above the relationship or who actively wants to earn her own money instead of being on the passenger princess energy won’t benefit as much from listening to her. She provides good advice in some areas, but I wouldn’t partake on the entirety of her mindset. She is a person with flaws, not the reincarnation of a salvation figure. She doesn’t have the answers to everyone’s life, but she knows who she is and I respect her for that.
That’s the thing many people miss just watching her clips…. Shera has never advocated to just be a “passenger Princess” or fully dependent on a man.
She’s a big advocate for having your own financial resources. NOW… how you want to go about it, is where some of her advice comes from.
Many people just watch the clips popular on social media. I can tell bcos if they had been watching her full videos on YT consistently they would have a better understanding of her overall message.
She also has a good understanding of male nature and how to deal with the way they act.
@@ogolden8315 exactly, I think she even said at this point she makes more money than her husband. People are who committed to misunderstanding the message (not you OP) keep saying she's teaching people to be financially dependent on a man and thats the furthest thing from the truth.
Nah Shera actually tells women to get their own money but to save it and only spend their man’s money. I am a career woman and I used Shera’s advice on raising my standards and it worked for me. I get to have my cake and eat it too. 😂❤
Nope. Her content is free. Other women who copied her are trying to scam women out of their money. She woke me up and now I have more self respect.
Shera is a Saint sent from the Gods🙏🏾👑 I don’t think women realize how much men, manipulate, and gaslight women, to feel small, unvalued, and like complete objects to be used. Like Shera said, we are creation, and we create, that is our power own it ladies and get your money up front, YOU ARE WORTH IT❤
Fr being a former people pleaser and good girl who was constantly treated indifferently by men I realized quickly that the women who treated men like options were getting what they wanted. Shera never told a lie. Its funny how different men treat you once you switch up. Thats why I get heated whenever I see men now saying they don't want "modern women" they want a good girl who's submissive. All they do is chew those women, waste their time, and spit them out.
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A lot of men definitely do manipulate women and they share these tips with their guy friends. It's gross. But it's probably better to just weed out and avoid those guys. Teach women to have more self respect and just stay away from the losers and suddenly the losers will have to do better if they don't want to be alone.
Amen sister
Same thing says ELLE, from the Manifestelle channel. Spoiled girlie out here. Shera and Elle made a revolution in my life. Elle is more "academic" per se. I like them both.
“i’m not a dating coach, i’m a financial advisor” preach 😭😭😭
I know... Just epic 😂
If her financial advice is to snag a rich guy then I’ll keep my money in the bank 😂😂😂
Tbh, i didn't know what she was all about. But i do wish i had learned this when i was 22. But telling women their standards are too high is bs. If they are too high, remain on the pedestal alone.
Feelings are fleeting. Women are born givers. They will give and give. Only to be left behind. Fulfill yourselves.
Dont hate men. I just love myself more
Amen sis....
Period
Men dehumanizing women: 😃
Women dehumanizing men: 🤬
Yall, you can’t make this up. #sprinklesprinkle 💋
I'm not on tiktok but I've been sprinkle sprinkle for a while. I would advice 2 things. 1, don't mind being called a gold digger... clap back with "1 thing you'll never be able to say is you got me for free". 2 ladies get your own bag and look for a man with a bigger bag. You will be in danger if you mess with broke men and you should never lose your bag.
AS A MAN IF I CAN'T GET YOU MODERN WESTERN WOMEN FOR ALMOST NOTHING THAN I WON'T DEAL WITH YOU AND I'LL GET MY PASSPORT AND GO OVERSEAS AND DEAL WITH THAT DATING MARKET. THE WOMEN HERE JUST AREN'T WORTH MY RESOURSES.THE SQUEEZE ISN'T WORTH THE JUICE THAT I GET FROM YOU MODERN WESTERN WOMEN.
This man….“She is teaching you how to demand and never how to offer” … that’s because women are already socialized to offer up their free labor from the jump. This man needs to speak for himself and only himself because yes, men do need to learn how to offer instead of just demand and expect. If men and women were socialized with equal expectations and entitlements we wouldn’t need this conversations
Shera 7 is the perfect response to Kevin Samuels Manosphere rhetoric...
SPRINKLE SPRINKLE SINGLE SINGLE AND YOU MODERN WESTERN WOMEN ARE OUT OF OPTIONS AND SOON YOU WILL BE PAYING FOR A MAN'S ATTENTION. OH HOW THINGS ARE A CHANGING
In a sense that neither one is right?
She's existed LONG before them. We can really say that all of these people actually stole her style and switched it up. She's the originator from waaaay back in early internet days and she's always been consistent.
A woman is in MORE danger NOT heeding Shera's advice than she would be TAKING Shera's advice. Shera's dope.👍🏻💯
Discernment has to be used whenever we're consuming "content". Shera is a gold digger. She has learned AND teaches women to get what they want from men, THE SAME WAY, men use women to get what THEY want. She gets backlash because she's very bold in her stance. She promotes being out for self-gain, above all. I don't necessarily agree with that.
However, every relationship we participate in is about getting what we want out of it. Women fall behind, because we are taught to FEEL instead of THINK. But, how many women have been burned by living through their heart space? Love is not as common as we want to believe it is. Most relationships are transactional, even if we don't want to admit it. We, as individuals, just have to determine how far we are willing to go to get what we want. Most importantly, learning what nets us a gain versus a loss. Too many women are in the negative because they're too emotional and don't know how to get what they want/need. Meanwhile, the men they entertain run circles around them.
Personally, I'm sitting out. It's not in me to be a gold digger. But, I'm also done with being a giver - and, no relationship is 50/50. Someone is going to get more out of it...
Shera teaches women to allow that "someone" to be them. You can take it or leave it...
Thank you for this comment. It's a very balanced perspective.
"Love is not as common as we want to believe it is" -that's one thing that I've learned is "love is rare" whether it's romantic or familial. I see how other families operate.... The thought of marrying into these messes makes me want to vomit.
And all the points you're making is exactly why she advises women the way she does. Most males are users and manipulator's, her advice will actually help women with discernment. Majority of women don't prey on males, that's not in our nature.. but majority of males prey on women, especially young women due to their nature. I take it as tips on how to not get played or used by males.Once they do, they dispose of you. That's what they're known for, so I respect a woman who's putting out there how to properly deal with them if you decide to date them. Women come across these types of males everyday
I agree. We act like love is the norm but I've come to the conclusion that true love is rare.@@silververnallbells191
@@thepragmatistYou're welcome. I appreciate your comment. Thank you.
Honestly she really fixed my self esteem and how I perceive men.
These girls not telling you about the ROI part. He gonna want something in return. Now or later.
That is SO SAD!
@@JR-lw3ms blocked
@@Erica-cf1xbabviously he'll want something sex and attention which is what is expected which you give to any man you date lol
Shera's message exists because it is commonplace for men to use and abuse women. Kitten Heels said "we can use you." Shera is saying we can use them. Sounds to me like she's promoting equality.
Better said!
first of all....all of us are told to 1 take care of our selves and 2 dont put urself in messed up situations...what is so wrong with a woman wanting to date a man who is financially stable...smh we are not doing this struggle love shit no more....it has to stop thats how u stop generational poverty which is curse.....if men have an issue being fiscally responsible / financially stable then they need to stay single....like im serious they need to just stay single just like if they tell u or make u believe they are monogamous and yet out here cheating ..they need to stay single, why lie!! just live in ur truth..stay single either way.....women are f'king tired
Ok 🎉 thank you
Amen sister....
PREACH!! All they have to do is just stop LYING and be single 😐 that would literally solve so much with those two things alone
Lol, Bible thumpers love calling people witches
Shera is a self identified witch tho
Yet the prophets were physics and Moses was a wizard/Magician
They do. They're warlocks speaking in satanic tongues, worshiping false idols and statues, abusing Women and children, brain washing them into thinking Men created anything, and they place Women in pickme suffering. It's Male worship. They use witchcraft and things from paganism like Sundays and Easter. There's also a LOT of seggsual abuse going on.
Yet the women in church are abused for their resources the most there.
Don't blame us for people who are not smart enough to flush out their own arguments and as a result try and use the bibke to suit their narrative. A true Christian should be given the right words to say what needs to be said so they won't have to Parrot what they hear like a 5 year old.
I just wish Shera was around when I was starting out with dating.
SheRa is better than therapy. Truly. I will def be introducing my daughter to SheRa’s lessons when she’s a teen, so she will know the game and not get played by men!
They reduced the function of women to personal gain since the dawn of mankind.
So yeah.
Shera IS that friend you need! Listen 👂 to learn not to dissect. ❤🎉
Shera has really changed a generation of women to the point they learned their worth and started charging more which resulted in the passport bros 😂
LOL Even the foreign women are catching on to "passport bros" and not being nearly as accommodating as they used to be!
Shera speaks about practicality, the people who criticize her speak about theorical idealism. Yes, on paper, men are humans and women should lead with love, but the likelihood of having success with that is very slim, so Shera's way is a lot more practical. I've tested her method out 2 weeks ago and it works. The only thing is, you have to listen to her fully and see if you fit in. If you're not the type of beauty that these men like, you'll probably have to work a bit harder but will eventually find someone. I happen to be a racially ambiguous slim thick woman, so very convenient for them and for me to get what I want.
I'm married to a good man but even they have their ways and if you aren't focused on yourself and getting what you need, your gonna suffer in a relationship. Men are not your bff, or emotionally supportive or compassionate like women, so don't expect it. If you think you will find full satisfaction in a man you're going to be alone in a relationship. They serve a role in your life, you can enjoy each other's company but they aren't deep creatures. My own husband has said men are slow and if he was a woman he'd never settle and get him a millionaire😂 Shera is simply saying marriage is not a fairytale, that goes out the window quickly once a man secures you so if you want romance don't get married, it's mostly an operation that requires work. Making decisions on bills, work, your home, if you have children they have needs and issues. You will be very busy, so you need to make time for yourself
Lol men always say if they were women, they would do exactly what they hate on women for doing. It's telling when it comes from the horses mouth.
MANY MEN ARE GETTING THEIR PASSPORTS AND THEY OUT OF THIS DATING MARKET.
@@KOJOSLIM007-so6cj bon voyage!😂
@@KOJOSLIM007-so6cj LOL Even those foreign women are catching on to you lot; they've learned their lesson! So...GOOD LUCK WITH THAT!
Do you need help getting your passport @@KOJOSLIM007-so6cj
ive been following her for almost 7-8 years. her message was amazing when she had about 50k followers. only the last year or 2 its blown up, everyone knows the message now and unembodied women are talking too much creating dangerous SPACES for themselves
So, women listening to Shera is causing them to be without material form? What does that even mean, unembodied women?
And her message hasn't changed. I was there, too. As soon as they ran to tiktok I knew it was going to get misconstrued.
She means that lately with tiktok and everyone just now finding about about Shera they're not taking in the message but parts of it. Snippets of info like the game telephone where things get confused and twisted. @@patty-pat-pat
Older men aren't hitting on anything, 😅😅plus many of them aren't financially stable
I find it that men that have never been married are typically reckless and broke. The older they get the worse they behave especially when single. Broke old men love hitting on young women because in their minds they’re still young men.
Old men loved hitting on my from the age of 12. You could tell by the way they dressed and their vocabulary that they were broke.
She was referring to Black Men because the younger ones have NOTHING. Young or Old, I've witnessed both being Broke with nothing & I wasn't even Dating them! Women I know were.
Im dating an older man he's partner at his firm
The older men have money but you modern western entitled mindset women are not worth their resources; So the men play broke. You all are delusional but winter is here.
Shera helped me rebuild my self esteem putting my energy back into myself and getting away from fairytale love thinking men treat women like objects and will drop you for someone who looks better I wish I had her teaching when I was young now I teach my daughters so they don’t end up a single mother on government assistance and child support where the father doesn’t pay because he’s a dusty helping build a man for him to later leave to have standards integrity and walking in their feminine energy understanding they are the prize of any one feel this is wrong then may I suggest you step back from dating for 30 days put your focus on yourself and see how good you feel you’ll date men on your level and above anything under will drain you and drag you down I take what helps me and apply 💅🏾❤ sprinkle sprinkle 🌟✨💫
It only puts women who don't think critically, quickly or with nuance in danger.
If a woman cannot think critically, she us already in danger.
And the way the economy is set up, they’ll be 20 women for 1 wealthy man.
Then there's their incentive to stop treating their heads as makeup and wig dummies! You wanna play but you are stupid? Then pay the price for staying stupid! "Stupid" is a choice for most.
Shera's main message is ALWAYS love yourself, value yourself, take care of yourself, have standards, do not chase men, do not lead with emotions etc... this is all very SOUND advice ! I don't know what these ladies listening to 🤷🏽♀
Dating is terrifying since tiktok. She's not the only one. There are men giving other men really dangerous advice too, leading to the abuse of women. It's all sad all around. Also, who doesn't tell their loved ones that they love them more than once a week or month? Jeez.
Dating was terrifying before tiktok!
@@rayeeiffel480 I'm not saying you are wrong, but I'm saying that the dating scene has been bad for at least the past 15 years. I remember when I started seeing the changes, it was way before TikTok was a thing.
Agreed. A male content creator exposed a really disturbing website (1M subs) that proposes unless you are a dangerous man you are pathetic and weak. When a bunch of young lonely men being told to not ask for permission with clips of assault, it's time to worry about your safety as a woman. He is being hit hard by staunch incels and expects to become a target. Be safe out there.
It’s also apart of the effeminized men agend also known as ‘lgbtq’ agenda and the genocide of black families. This divisiveness and danger without accountability is creating a community of people who self inflict their own demise. It’s genius tbh
Can you indicate which content provider this was? Initials or a hint will be fine if you wish. I need to educate myself and seeing this material will be the best way for me.
Shera is keeping women out of harms way. She speaks the wise words of my late mother/grandmother. Her influence, message is necessary in every woman's life
This is insider information lol that’s the problem. Most men nowadays do not want women to think for themselves, they benefit from us leading with our emotions. 😂
That part 👏 👏
Thinking for yourself will pose a threat to them.
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Shera is nothing short of an angel and the raw truth! She helped me leave a abusive relationship. I wish the internet and her channel was available when I was younger. I would be much further in life than leading with my heart and believing men. Dating and marriage is a game and girls don't learn that or the game until its too late. She is evening the playing field by teaching the game and males are upset. She from my hometown Houston! Beyonce & Shera from the H and Im proud of them both! Worldwide inspiring and uplifting women and men alike.
From my experience, she's most definitely telling the truth. A lot of men aim to break down & control women.
I heard this most recently and I agree. Most content creators are a brand and should never be considered replacement for your own common sense, discernment, and integrity. To hear men bash this woman is expected. Meanwhile men sit in concealed incel groups plotting how to "break", deny consent, and bash women. Even men have become disgusted with the levels to which younger men are being targeted to disrespect and harm women. I don't necessarily agree with everything she is saying or the method she uses. But a least (in her own weird way) she's not allowing men to move the goal post to their advantage. Especially the new aged dusties.
Never get used by a man ever! That’s the message ! We don’t accept it anymore
THE FIRST GIRL LOOKS LIKE A YOUNGER SPRINKLE ✨SPRINKLE ✨💛💛💛💛⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🌟🌟🌟🌟
If you give a man power to feed you, you also give him power to starve you 👍🏻 sure, it's okay to rely on his wealth, but invest that money at least into education.
She says to have your own income also, so what's your point?
@@anka6356relax. It’s words of wisdom
Yes. And ELLE from Manifestelle say the same. Ger that bag while securing your own bag.
It's not okay to rely on anything. Nobody cares about anything anymore.
@@liabw05but it was shady
Its sounds like having standards and goals... 🤷🏾♀️
Never let him take you for granted and dont settle with a under/no achiever; your life will be endless struggle. < this is a message women have told their daughter for generations...🤷🏾♀️
the woman talking around 16 minutes is being willfully obtuse
She was really getting on my nerves and the funny thing is that she is the EXACT type of women who get used, cheated on and/or abused in marriages and relationships. I know there is a middle ground with all this but the high moral and anti shera seven women definitely ain't winning neither...
She had the nerve to say she used to watch all of Shera videos and had bad experiences with men and yet STILL taking a man’s side she cannot be saved unfortunately
I just heard this story about this lady on reddit, who was in her mid 50s, with 4 kids, 3 grown and 1 teenager and after YEARS of asking, her boyfriend, to marry her he finally purposes to her. She wasn't excited and rolled her eyes. That made him mad and stopped talking to her. Afyer days of not speaking, she finally told him what had been bothering her and he listened. But then he accused her of emotional manipulation and said he didn't marry her, years ago because he didn't think it was important. He also lost his high paying job and he believes that was the reason as to why she didn't want to marry him because he wasn't going to be as rich. She said that wasn't true and to have her own money, she wanted to go back to school. That made him mad, so he got a lawyer to kick her out of their home. She went to her kids, but they want to stay out of it because if they make their father mad, he'll cut them off. She tired to get financial aid when it came to a lawyer and was shut down. She hasn't worked since she was in her mid 20s and now has nowhere to go.
People can come for Shera, but her advice (although I don't agree with all of it) is based off of how women are treated in their marriages and relationships. And she helps women to really think about their actions and the consequences of those actions. I wonder if there were a shera in that lady's life, woukd she even be in that situation??
First let's normalise appreciating entertaining content for the entertainment they provide. Her advice does not apply to the mass, have discernment. People are mad at Shera for teaching women to play the game like men do! Nobody likes someone giving game😂😂😂. Love her or hate her, she is giving you game! I think her advice works to get a man, it doesn't necessarily help to keep him ( which is out of your control).
@KristelScorpio people just hate game...
@KristelScorpio it doesn't serve them. The more we know the less of them we
Want. That is why they claim you are washed up and hit the wall at a certain age.
She teaches women to stay away from broke men. She’s not putting no one in danger ! It’s more dangerous to be with a dusty
Love me some Shera and always will lol 😆 I'll take Shera's advice over these fairytale fantasy stories we have been sold and rarely seen in reality. So its okay for a man to look at you transactional, but the women should fall in love 1st 😂😂 shes right, love can come later and if everyone is getting what they want, whats not to love?
I got saved and found Shera.. to each their own
Shera LITERALLY SAID IN ONE OF HER VIDEOS SHE'S NOT A RELATIONSHIP GURU she's about helping women get that bag!
A lot of these responses honestly seem weak to me. I think the real danger of Shira is the fact that she is teaching women to find men who have money but also have the ability to destroy or make them. You may be potentially putting your life at risk if you're primarily looking at people's financial status and not their character. A lot of people who have money also have, power you most likely don't have. But if it's worth it for ya🤷🏿♀️
She never said u shouldn't look at character.
These men shouldn't worry. They are broke and safe from gold diggers 😊
She never said to be fully dependent on the men who provide. She clearly has her own income. She's not telling women to quit their jobs to be gold diggers. She's telling them to stop falling for potential. If he's NOT putting the work in, then you don't need to go above and beyond.
And if sleeping with BROKIES works for you, just say that!
This is a good point. These men tend to be very controlling.
I have several things I want to say about Shera but I think the most important thing to say is this……
This patriarchy society is backwards and if you look at African societies pre-colonialism, we lived in matriarchal societies.
Children had their mothers sir names, money passed down through the mother (inheritance), its only when the colonisers came along that we began to worship men. We have been punished for doing so and Shera is simply trying to empower women to take their power back.
We weren’t ment to be subservient to men. AT ALL!
Peace ✌🏾
Facts
A devastating point.
"We weren’t meant to be subservient to men. AT ALL!" *CORRECT* - The new saying is 100% true: "IF women were meant to be subservient then there wouldn't be a thousand sermons everyday reminding us to be that way" - we would naturally do it, but that's just NOT the case!
We have to remember that the Bible is steeped in ancient Hebrew and Mediterranean male-centric and misogynistic CULTURE and there is very little truth in the Bible. Even Yahwe's origins are that of a minor storm & war deity not a Creator God. This is how Hebrews worshiped him b4 they started worshiping 1 god. It's only that his cult WITH VIOLENCE has rose to some prominence - demonizing other's religions and wiping out local CULTURE.
It was like this in a lot of indigenous societies before colonization
@@thesilentdivait was! This is what Mother Goddess what’s us to get back to! ❤
So the church girls despise her advice??? Then don't use it. I'm just hearing about her today and she said nothing wrong in this video "sprinkle-sprinkle." BTW I am a happily married woman to an equally happily married man.
I really don't understand why the church girls are saying shes possessed, I'm religious but I still love her content 😂😂
Shera is a prime example of the phrase: Keep the pearls and discard the shells. There are many things she does say that are so true and there are others that can probably get you hurt. You need discernment regardless of who you listen to.
If you ask me...the women who truly believe they are going to have some genuine love with a man who is dedicated to them by pure love are delulu as it gets. You can have their kids, take care of them when they are sick, the whole 9.. men do not connect that way. Make..them...pay..period.
This! I do not think soulmate love exists between men and women.... for this very reason!
Maby you lot should stop watching disney? Just don't be in a relationship then.... Is this what female independence looks like?
Just do a combination. Wise words from my aunt.
My money is my money, and his money is my money.
I got two bags. I keep myself looking good and work part time in my field.
Once you’re married, don’t forget yourself.
I didn't know anything about her, but I binge watched some of her content ,and here's my take:
Had I listened to her ( and not my equally airheaded friends) I wouldn't be in this married Single mama situation. I was lead by my heart into the hell. The Same guy who was "above a materialistic mindset " straight up told me I have to pay for the agreed divorce.
Well we happen to live in this country with steady decreasing birthrate. It's around 1.6 i guess. For some reasons fertility issues in women are increasing. So the Government is trying hard to prevent "fertile couples " from divorcing. ( no, it ain't north Korea lol) so an agreed divorce, which is kind of divorce without going to the Court, costs around 2500 USD. I have to pay it myself. Men are materialistic.
Hate Shera or not....she is A G.O.A.T
Ladies, please don't ignore financial security in marriage. Money is not everything but it matters. My Mother taught me how you do one thing is how you do everything! How we manage our resources (financial, personal etc ) shows a lot about our character. It is not easy being a breadwinner Wife and Mother especially when the children are small. Please discuss financial management with your partner and plan accordingly for the lifestyle you both want ❤
In decency and in order during the single years. Both genders are burning through everyone and think everything supposed to sweet once another deal is sealed.
this lady 16:38 has been fed what we've been fed since childhood and that's a fairytale. majority of men are using you and play nice guy until you marry them or do something he doesn't want you to do(controlling you). part of me wants to find true love but i know i have to be realistic with these men when going on dates. and you can still love them but it's not likely going to be the same love that we see on tv/ disney princess movies or the love we've been dreaming about as little girls.
My thoughts now!!!
That girl might be a virgin and have never been heartbroken. Sis will get it when she goes through some trauma and bad relationships 😭
Egg doesn't chase sperm.
I am waiting for someone to criticize Mina Irfan, but they won't because she is from a culture where the men already know to get your wallets out.
Faaaacccctsss
She is cool I like her I watch her we are so alike she speaks the facts she calls you out doesn't sugar coat real woman with class and confidence
"Completely removing the effort and the intimacy of a relationship and making it strictly transactional. And the reason women seem to be eating that up is becasuse it gives them a false sense of empowerment."
WHOA now.
The reason women seem to be eating that up is because they have figured out that a lot, most, or enough of their relationships HAVE BEEN purely transactional. And out of that transaction< They. Got. NOTHING.
Why do you think they are watching this lady now??
Men commodify women. Period. And if it's going to be that type of scenario, women may as well get what THEY want out of it. gtfo with that "false sense of empowerment." This is empowerment no matter what the outcome. You can make mistakes but still not wind up being some man's tool. Everyone makes mistakes in life, you might as well have what you need.
But yes, be careful. No one wants to wind up in an empty, soulless realtionship. Which is what these may wind up being at some point. We need to be loved, we need to connect with our partners, and we need to be understood. But if women do not get that, why should they just sit around and settle for losers who do not even respect them? I see this shit every day.
I do wonder if sprinkle sprinkle lady is happy or just in the vengeance phase, but either way, her advice seems pretty damn great to me - as long as you don't go overboard and forget to try to find (and be) a human being.
Both things are absolutely possible. Nice house, nice car, good job AND love. Yes, both things are possible at the same time.
Witches aren't bad. Lol. I'm a witch!🧙🏽♀️
I learned the origin of the word witch is Germanic, it means wise woman.
😮💨 The part she said about young Black guys! 👏🏾👏🏾❤️ I guess it was just instincts. Because I already knew to stay away from them, ever since I was a teenager.
I learned at 19, once you date a successful man, ain’t no turning back, and ain’t no downgrading.
That ONE man set the bar so high, a “dusty” couldn’t reach it with a 10ft ladder. 🤷🏾♀️
You BAW women want it now and you call being with a man who is building struggle love.That's why many of you are single and broke and nobody is checking for you and you are finished.
I do not have TikTok but what I saw of her in your video, I do agree with. I was very picky with who I dated. I NEVER paid on a date unless we were in a serious relationship. I never had sex with the men I dated. I did not have sex until I was married and my husband is the man who worked for it. He pursued me. He planned dates. he flew me across the world to meet his family. He proved that if we had children and I wanted to stay home with them he could provide that life for me.
"She is not Nutella"...I love that😅😅
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There are good men, but they are *few and far* between!
I dont know why she would care.. she's made enough money she could leave that man and start over.. if she wasnt happy she would leave
She has two children with him.
None of us know how much money she has
We LOVE Shera. If you don’t like her you either can’t pull a provider male or you’re a man with low funds. The rest of us love her ✨SPRINKLE SPRINKLE✨
The best part of this video is when the "Mammies and Dusties" show up!😂
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All their biblical crap was what originally got women into the degraded state they are today! So, if you LIKE being treated like a doormat and have men wipe their feet on you while making their way towards women with self-esteem, then follow what the bible bangers have to say is "women's role" i.e DOORMAT.
I dont understand women, they were upset at Dere Jax for showing them what a bad man looks like(they were more upset he was what he was preaching against). Now sprinkle sprinkle
Let me tell you this a lot of women need to be reminded of their worth, men's money aside, you gotta know you are worth more than you think and deserve everything you desire.
Men I’ve dated have been nothing but disappointment. I’m focusing on securing my own future. Creating my own wealth. You can go after a man with money but more often than not he will cheat on you and treat you however he wants because he can.
Yes, that is my concern. Having dated one guy who pretended to have money, I think he was more just an Andrew Tate follower. These men know how to look the part to manipulate women they couldn't ordinarily get. We get smarter, they get smarter.
@@Liz-wz8dh yes that is why you need to secure your own bag. This gives you the power.
@tynaangelici3023 it's more about respect. I rather die with just that and broke AF then to have a bag using stolen ideas, stolen spouses, stolen everything.
Smart idea, never rely on anyone that is how you will find a good match eventually, some find it fast some never find it, but the fact is you won't ever find it if you don't search. Not all men with money cheat but if you are going to treat him like this woman suggests he'll be cheating faster then i can type it that is for sure. Don't take advice from the internet you are doing great on your own i can tell.
10:05 her doctrine isn’t demonic. The Bible says for the husband to provide.
She's my mom i listen to everyday. She's have changed my life.
Well Shera is on point.
Sprinkle Sprinkle woman is the OG. Although she isn't teaching anything original. She is just asking women to view romantic/marriage relationship through the same lens like men view romantic relationships. Biggest con is women being asked to marry men below their socio economic status, however men themselves never become friends with other men who will never reach their level of socio economic status.
High standards are never the problem. The person available to meet your standards IS YOU. If you treat you right, everything else falls right in place.
Shera is the GOAT! LONG LIVE THE QUEEN 👑!!!
I love shera. She getting our girls together and making sure we live our best lives ❤❤
Shera for President❤, that woman has helped me on my journey and i like that she is so unbothered.
Shera doesn't teach about having a relationship, doesn't talk about love.
I know I can't use many of the things that she's taking about. But she brought to light some interesting stuff. She talks about using deception and it made me think about times when I wasn't fully honest and wasn't fully aware about it, when I was gaslighting miself. Being aware of your own dishonesty can actually help you think "but what is true then". It can help you find your inner truth.
It also taught me to learn the game of men
She sounds kind of..... traditional? "Let men be masculine provider" types. Surreal hearing this called demonic.
Exactly. They've been calling women (especially black women) masculine for YEARS.
Now they mad women want to be feminine and taken care of
I love Shera. People need to learn to eat the meat throw out the bones! It’s literally that simple 😅
Chile, I was about to block (thumbnail and title looked male-centered and we left that mindset behind in 2023), *but the comments did not disappoint.* #SheraForever *AND* #DecenterMen ✨✨