The Abandonment Wound - Pete Walker - Part 2
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.ค. 2024
- Emotional Neglect can be hard to identify, especially as it happened in childhood and we developed various mechanisms to cope with little or no human connection.
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So glad to find you. I am a Pete Waller fan and have some fairly serious issues.
Welcome to our Global Family, it's great to have you join us!
What a super woman! It is a comfort just to see and hear you. How can we ever believe that our morhers couldn''t love us? When I realise that Linda and others , including some of my siblings and I, have broken the cycle, I can enjoy the great victory.
Thank you so much!
A succinct and thoughtful summary from someone who has deep personal knowledge of the issues. Helpful and empathic. Thank you Linda Meredith.
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Oh lord. I am in so much pain with family abandoning me all over again in adulthood. It's a pain I cannot describe. How to even see a future without this feeling.
It sure is one of the most painful parts of recovery. Try out our facebook group for some tlc as we totally understand this pain. x
I was basically silenced around anger I had because it was inconvenient for my parents abusive.. codependent relationship. So I suppose it's no surprise now that when my anger occurs and ESPECIALLY when anger and conflict occurs between others, even if it's no directed at me...I feel angry like it's all being done to me and yet frozen, hypervigilant and the urge to hide.
I hold onto resentments and takes me months, years to verbalise these things with the exclusion of my partner whose really informed and a recovering person herself. Yesterday It took me a lot of courage and trust to tell my best friend of over a decade about how a comment he made hurt me and that I wanted some clarity on this. This comment was made probably around 9 months-a year!!!
He said " I'm sorry I hurt your feelings. I need to do better. I wished you'd told me in the moment so I could have remembered exactly what I said and the context!"
you're doing fantastic to bring it up and sounds like a great friend too!
abandonment wound part 2. forgot to mention in part 1 how you said hang with healthy people. Such good info. Really like you pushing awareness. So important in every aspect of our lives. Omg starting at 11:50. You just described me to a T. I still hold back even at 60 years young. Crying right now, it's so hard for me to tell what I need. Sometimes I don't even know what I need, it's been so long. What is the work I need to do.? I don't compare myself to others. Will go on to part 3.
I understand so well, thank you for sharing
You are so great! I appreciate you sharing your story, it means a lot to me.
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Thank you. This is so important.
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Thank you for your great content 💛
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I cannot thank you enough for the information. Its life changing. Love from South Africa
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I can’t Thankyou enough for this ad for you x I was involved in a hit and run I was the pedestrian and it’s taken me a week of emotional angst to realise complete abandonment arising not only from the driver but flashing back to many moments and experiences. This has been my first time in being aware of abandonment and I’m grateful to have this pop up so I can understand more. I’ve also been able to have a few moments of letting go so I Thankyou so much your work is so valuable
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Thank you so much for posting this (:
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