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All the horrific things in the world Reflect that...... GOD is not real...... HUMAN create GOD, An Atheist and a Scientist.

Mashallah I’m happy for your client ❤

Respectfully sister, what qualifies you to be a coach in the marriage space?

Hey guys, what should we do when we feel we're not enough!!! Honestly it's exhausting

hello there sister. assalamualaikum. amazing caption, however I would put the whole caption in quotations and phrase it in that makes it seem like a real person is saying it, to present it as a mental dialogue. for example, "What if I'm not financially there yet?" (the TRUTH about marriage). like always, I like your content, I think its an amazing change of pace from guys and girls trying a different TikTok dance every week. Keep creating. Fiamanillah.

is this channel meant for women?

Allah SWT already wrote it down for us , who will be my / yours spouse ., so dont worry 🥱

I love her lectures and it helps me alot

This is amazing thank you Habibti

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awkward topic. but you're a brave one sister. MashAllah. keep spreading the good word on everything Allah and Islam. May Allah help you on your quest.

Salam sis, just wondering if you have any qualifications in psychology or anything?

assalamu alaikum sister. I agree, people should definitely get married. it gives us a purpose bigger than ourselves. keep spreading the good word. As a digital Marketer myself I would like to suggest that you add capital letters, borrowed authority and more specificity for the more important words. for example, "the no.1 reason why my parents are still married and MOST people today aren't". Also add a bunch of relevant hashtags to reach as many people (relevant to your content ofcourse).May Allah bless you and your family.

Is there any way of preregister in the group?

You should collab with minds in neutral

Thank you habibty, what an insightful video

this was so helpful and perfect timing, Jzk sis, love your videos!

I am going through this situation.

it's hard to believe that i can get Yusuf AS 😅 it's unrealistic lol

I usually listen to your videos while studying, always look forward to more vids, plz upload moreeee

Please pray for me. I love someone from a different culture and try to move on because I'm not ready, but he's such a good brother..It's hard to know what to do

JazakAllah SO much!

What country are you originally from?

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Assalamu alaykum @lamaaboubark sister. I want to respectfully address some issues on your opinions. First of all, you mentioned dating. This is entirely prohibited in Islam. If we as Muslim brothers are interested in a sister, we should send a person who is Mahram to both of me and that sister (like your mother, sister etc) to that person and relay that intention and get the contact details. We cannot be dating them. To prove the fact that dating is wrong is simple. You will not be able to tell your parents about it because you know they will disapprove. Besides, dating includes zina of the eyes, the skin, the ears etc. and it can lead to actual zina "adultery" and to emphasise how dangerous it is, let me quote a hadith. "No adulterer is a believer at the moment when he is committing adultery." Therefore, I would like to kindly address you dear sister to talk about attracting spouse the halal way and do Istighfar to Allah to provide us a wife/husband who will be good for us and to keep us away from women/men who are bad for us because only Allah knows who is good for us. Therefore, to keep trying to find spouses the halal way (as not to invoke the wrath of Allah) and depend on Allah should be the way to go. Secondly, in parts of your video, you have assumed negatively about people. Since you are assuming, you are not 100% correct and might be wrong even if it means you're most probably right. Allah (SWT) says: “O, you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful.” [Qur’an 49:12] Therefore, please do not assume negatively of others. and Allah knows best.

Jazakillah, I needed this

Preferences are fine, it's the pretending ("dirty secret") that is harmful.

May Allah accept my Dua 🙏

Lama i love your videos

I can say a point the people can wish . But the imagination might not same with reality.

almost asked for nikah but she black eyed lol... just kidding.. last spouse was black eyed and children and her blocked me, children not crying for poppa... shame but their thing...

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This got recommended at the perffffeeccctttttt time thankyou for all ur work may Allah bless u with so so much ❤❤❤❤❤

There is a book called attached and it is on the attachment styles such as avoidant, anxious and secured. Its worth the read

Seeing this reminds 'me in teen'

Salam Lama! I am so grateful for your content, and I have shared your channel with all my single friends who are in the situation you describe. JazakAllah. This resonates so well with me:)

The truth about finding your spouse. So all of the other failed relationships were when we were not our healthy best selves? And only mine for a time? What lessons we learned or didn't learn?

Jazak'Allahu'Khair Dear Ukhty Sister 💛😊😁🫂😚💯‼️

AlHamduLillah💛😊‼️I feel good being single AlHamduLillah and I don't mind breaking it off when I don't feel like we would have a better life together. My life is good alone, I'm looking for better together ❤️ ✨️ 😌 💛 ‼️

Assalamu alaikum ❤❤

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If we faced a problem about spouse,then we seek the solution from the literature created by author's that no connection to the almighty,the spouse gonna be rough. Salute to you.

Thank you so much Lama, your videos helped me a lot ❤

I just wrote down things i want in a potential partner and to my surprise those were the same things i wanna see in myself too. So i got the answer that in order to have a person like this in my life i have to be like one and that blow my mind

Most importantly become a good muslim/muslimah ( pray your salaat, read quran and do good deeds, stay away from haraam things), Pray to Almighty Allah swt for a good spouse and look for it (Allah swt will make it easy for you to find one), be patient until you find one. In-sha Allah you will find one and stay happy with him/her.

The hardest for me is finding a woman that will stick by me whilst my family learn to accept us, her family and our marriage as well as navigating me being Muslim. As a revert I have had some sisters say no because my family are not Muslim. I am the first in my family, not the last Insha’allah. Biggest challenge is simply being a revert, I find I have more options as I am a white revert and there are less of us so the demand is higher but once they realise the struggles with marrying a revert who has family that don’t understand Islam they run away.

Oh lama❤, thank you very much for digging into this topic..may Allah grant you jannah for your help and kindness ❤

you’re talking like i have options 🤣

It's too much pressure for me i'm 25, 90% of my friends and girls my age where I live are married most of them with kids and most of the rest are engaged, i'm so sick if everyone asking me when am i gonna get married sometimes i don't wanna go out cause i can't take that pressure any more even my parents are sad because of that and pity me , i understand that i'm their eldest daughter and they want me to be happy and i'm trying to make them feel better i put myself under so much pressure and go puy stuff for marriage just to make them feel happy, what makes this worse is that I really wanna be a wife i wanna share all the love i have with a good person I can't wait to be a mom and Alhamdulallah i know Allah swt has plans for me and i accept that but the pressure is too much for me Alhamdulallah

craazy timing wallahi 😂😂❤