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lamaaboubakr
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 14 ก.ค. 2011
I'm a relationship coach, I help muslims find their spouse in the most effective way possible, while helping them become the spouse they're looking for
Instagram: @LamaAboubakr
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How to fully stop stressing about marriage
Understanding detachment and how it can help you feel more fulfilled
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What does it mean to "attract" a spouse
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when the excitement fades away
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Q&A Finding a Spouse - part 1
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How to access joy before marriage
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How to feel the happiness and what blocks your joy www.lamaaboubakr.com/book-online
When the relationship doesn't work out
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how to process the pain of a break up www.lamaaboubakr.com/book-online
how to receive love and connection
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Understanding what creates love and what blocks connection www.lamaaboubakr.com/book-online
creating connection and marriage expectations
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How to create a connection with anyone www.lamaaboubakr.com/book-online
Perfectionism and settling
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how perfectionism impacts who you find as a potential spouse. www.lamaaboubakr.com/book-online
Freeing yourself from expectations
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give yourself permission to decide what you want without guilt. www.lamaaboubakr.com/book-online
how to determine compatibility
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Understanding what compatibility really means www.lamaaboubakr.com/book-online
how attachment theory impacts your relationships
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How it impacts the way you navigate relationships www.lamaaboubakr.com/book-online
The difference in those who get married vs. those who don't
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The set of thoughts that set you back in finding your spouse Website: www.lamaaboubakr.com/book-online
your perception of the opposite gender determines who you marry
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understanding your thoughts about the opposite gender and uncovering your fears. www.lamaaboubakr.com/book-online
when they don't want you back because of your race
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Understanding how to navigate racism, colorism and other reasons of rejection. work with me: www.lamaaboubakr.com/book-online
The way to find the spouse you're looking for
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The way to find the spouse you're looking for
What if I'm not financially ready to get married?
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What if I'm not financially ready to get married?
the stress of picking the "right" person
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the stress of picking the "right" person
when you're not finding the people you want
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when you're not finding the people you want
when the person you want is out of your league
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when the person you want is out of your league
Getting the closure you're looking for
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Getting the closure you're looking for
compatibility, excitement and chemistry
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compatibility, excitement and chemistry
How to trust your gut when making decisions
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How to trust your gut when making decisions
The balance of Tawakul and action in finding your spouse
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The balance of Tawakul and action in finding your spouse
What if I'm not physically attracted enough?
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What if I'm not physically attracted enough?
Please talk make a lecture for 30+ single women
What about us brothers 30+ single men?
@@camouflageishere5502 you could ask for that too, but it’s women who get shamed, blamed, and overlooked for being single at that age.
But, I am not stressed about not being able to find someone to make me happy - I am stressed about having to deal with people in my family asking why I am not married yet. If I look into my heart, I realise I do not want to get married. However, I am repeatedly told that I must, and it's an important part of Islam to complete half our Deen. Why is everyone putting so much pressure on me? Despite feeling resistance in my heart, I make Dua to find a spouse, to stop people from asking. Problem is, they also keep telling me I need to have children, so even if I get married, the pressure won't stop.
I am so sorry. 🫂
There will always be pressure sister. You either get used to it or leave it to Allah. Also you don't HAVE to get married, but then again you'd need to tell your family.
Much Love and respect from Pakistan ❤
JAZAK ALLAH HU KHAIERAN 🤲🏻❤️
I've met some pretty delusional people on the marriage search who think they're a catch, but they have so many problems/nonnegotiables going on in their life, that anyone who meets their standards wouldn't want them back.
Attitudinal change needed towards polygyny
May Allah reward you for all the beautiful work you do for our ummah
May Allah bless you ❤
Love your content. Simple, kind and straight forward
Jazakallah khair as always amazing content! Can you please share some tips on how to be more confident and having a good happy life?
suche agreat reminder, barakallahoufik, it really brings solace
I love this girl for the sake of Allah - so insightful as always
Love this explanation.
The only one I started to like didnt like me back. it hurts so much to be rejected from someone you decided to give a chance and they dont even deserve it.
You liked them, but they didn't like you back, but somehow you think you were giving them a chance? Can you elaborate?
@omariyile7549 because she had major red flags that nobody accepts and she was the one trying to befriend me. I finally convinced myself to give her a chance and try to work on it and quickly I dont know how I fell for her. I was fighting her and myself in this relationship. She didnt like it that I was trying to change her. and thats the hard lesson I learned. Even for their sake, you cant ask someone to change. she is not built for a relationship she is selfish. I shouldnt have given her a chance to begin with.
Thank you so much for these videos, jazakallah khayr. Could you also please make videos on how to maintain a healthy marriage? I am getting married this year In Sha Allah <3
This is so tiring,i might just remain single instead of playing these game😊
Sorry completely off topic, but where do you purchase your hijabs from ?
You are awesome🎉❤❤❤
Mashallah tabarakallah may Allah SWT bless you for the videos you do and how much you help me and others with the videos and your work
Hello lamaaboubakr
been reading "reclaim your heart" and this concept of detachment goes hand in hand!! love the way u put this, barak Allah feeki <3
hey can you make a video on how a girl can approach a total stranger guy she/he came across on social media platforms? or what kind of words she should be using to propose him?
I have a really big problem and I want a consult from you. However, I can not afford it
May Allah make me meet my person soon.
JazakAllah ❤
This is typical female psychology. It's basically stop being to available so that she's thinking of what you're up to without her or just misses you. Just let their minds and imagination do the work for you because keeping them on their toes makes them crave or want you more, whereas the guy thats always available is to predictable, seems clingy, desperate and has nothing else going on in their lives. Anyone who denies this is a liar.
Jazakallah khair! I can relate to the mental blocks I've felt the same way. I'm surprised to know that I'm not alone going through this. May Allah make it easy for everyone
Mashallah your husband wanted to help you work out ur mental blocks. Thats when u know its naseeb. It gets tiring always having to work ur own blocks out. Its nice when someone understands, and them understanding and caring alone can unblock you
It's brave of you to share this. Allahumma Baarik
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I live you Lana you are an angel
Jazak Allah khair, honest question bc i do come across EFT on many social media pages, how does it align with islamic teachings? Would you please share sources too insha Allah
Volunteering at Masjid for sake of Allah is very important, because of the Hadith that actions are by intentions, and whoever moves for the sake of God and his Messenger, their move is for the sake of God and his Messenger. And whoever's move is for a worldly purpose or a spouse they want to marry, their move is for what they intended (From Bukhari 1). Moses AS helped a young lady get water for the sake of Allah and Allah SWT gifted her to him as a wife, but his intention was only ever for Allah, so this is very important.
woah, thank you for that
Jazakallah khair amazing information!
Assalamu alaikum sister, Great video! BTW do you need a video editor?
yeah women don't and can't understand the intensity of sexual urges that men have to go through in the modern world where there are half naked women everywhere it takes a mental toll on you and the only advice I have for guys who are struggling with it is first off identify where you want to be in life for you to be able to marry and just focus on getting there that will act as a distraction tool until you find a spouse and get married
Salam sister. I just want to say you're incredibly wise, and most of your advice in this video is applicable to men as well.
اَلسَلامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ خَيْرً for your contribution May الله سبحانه وتعالى reward you أمين اَلسَلامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ