Sisters, kun faya kun. I saw a sign at the end of December last year that said I would be engaged by new years. SubhanAllah I am not even kidding my husband messaged me on new years eve. We got married in June this year. Alhamdulillah. I promise you sisters I prayed and prayed and prayed for years, even before I was Muslim. Allah swt is always near and always listening. Keep making du’a. Things need to line up in the perfect way. I literally saw my husband in a random instagram video and I trusted the feeling inside me to message him. I never messaged men like that. I just sent him a simple, clean message that I was fond of him. He didn’t see it for a month, but he saw it, he replied, and we fell in love immediately. These things happen sisters. ❤❤❤
I struggle with social interactions and I'm very introverted. I'm also someone who wants to as you said "meet someone organically". It takes me years to call someone a friend unless I have known then for long enough, let alone finding a spouse... having to find a spouse by hopping on the apps sounds so difficult for me. Allah knows best
Assalam sister Lama! I really really look up to you and pray Allah swt always bless ur business. Ameen. I have a qs. I have had a strange pull to a Muslim man who is in the public and semi well known. He does a lot of charity work mainly for MATW and is not married. He comes from a very good family and is on his deen. I’ve had I think 2 full dreams of him (years ago) and I’ve told my mum but she thinks I’m delulu. I’ve never ever had a dream of another man nor do I get dreams most of the time. I can’t explain this pull but it makes me everyday at tahajjud ask for him. I even went to Palestine and whilst I was praying a pull came over me to do Dua that we end up together. I can also imagine him in my family home too, in my dream I met his mother and other relatives. My question is is there a thing of soulmates? Or should I just brush it off to one side and not make dua? Everyone laughs at me, but I’m an educated and sensible person. I don’t know what to make of this 😭😔
Yes keep praying. But just pray that of he is good for me and if I am good for him bring us together. Pray that if you both are not good for each other then Allah grant you both with someone who is. But keep praying and believing.
Sister Lama, What would you say if i believe there are men in the world that i could match with successfully .. but Allah just hasn't provided it for me and I don't know why..
The reason Allah hasn't provided it for you is the story you choose to tell yourself. 1. "Allah hasn't given it to me yet because he's protecting me from something for now, and He has something big planned for me coming soon." Option 2: Allah is punishing me
@@lamaaboubakr29 what would yousuggest for those, women in particular, who would want to be persued by the man and are afraid of coming off as, idk, taking away the flattery of being approached. Ik its an ego thing but I thought id still ask
It's recorded, we're only one session in, all replays and workbook will be posted in the FB group to join once you register. No upcoming group planned for now.
I’m 44 and not married almost 45 soon Insha Allah. I don’t look for a spouse no action . I don’t really know what to do don’t want waste my time now that I’m so Old in age 😢
Sisters, kun faya kun. I saw a sign at the end of December last year that said I would be engaged by new years. SubhanAllah I am not even kidding my husband messaged me on new years eve. We got married in June this year. Alhamdulillah. I promise you sisters I prayed and prayed and prayed for years, even before I was Muslim. Allah swt is always near and always listening. Keep making du’a. Things need to line up in the perfect way. I literally saw my husband in a random instagram video and I trusted the feeling inside me to message him. I never messaged men like that. I just sent him a simple, clean message that I was fond of him. He didn’t see it for a month, but he saw it, he replied, and we fell in love immediately. These things happen sisters. ❤❤❤
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what let you to become a muslim ?
I struggle with social interactions and I'm very introverted. I'm also someone who wants to as you said "meet someone organically". It takes me years to call someone a friend unless I have known then for long enough, let alone finding a spouse... having to find a spouse by hopping on the apps sounds so difficult for me. Allah knows best
We are so lucky to have u I really appreciate ur videos jazakallah khair
May Allah reward you immensely for this. JazakAllah khair.
U are an answer of My Dua, sister Lama. Love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩. Thanks for being a guide and mentor to us. Alhamdulillah ❤️❤️❤️
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I love her lectures and it helps me alot
Okay I'm convinced
Assalam sister Lama!
I really really look up to you and pray Allah swt always bless ur business. Ameen.
I have a qs. I have had a strange pull to a Muslim man who is in the public and semi well known. He does a lot of charity work mainly for MATW and is not married. He comes from a very good family and is on his deen.
I’ve had I think 2 full dreams of him (years ago) and I’ve told my mum but she thinks I’m delulu. I’ve never ever had a dream of another man nor do I get dreams most of the time.
I can’t explain this pull but it makes me everyday at tahajjud ask for him. I even went to Palestine and whilst I was praying a pull came over me to do Dua that we end up together.
I can also imagine him in my family home too, in my dream I met his mother and other relatives.
My question is is there a thing of soulmates? Or should I just brush it off to one side and not make dua? Everyone laughs at me, but I’m an educated and sensible person.
I don’t know what to make of this 😭😔
Yes keep praying.
But just pray that of he is good for me and if I am good for him bring us together.
Pray that if you both are not good for each other then Allah grant you both with someone who is.
But keep praying and believing.
Thank you.
Sister Lama, What would you say if i believe there are men in the world that i could match with successfully .. but Allah just hasn't provided it for me and I don't know why..
The reason Allah hasn't provided it for you is the story you choose to tell yourself.
1. "Allah hasn't given it to me yet because he's protecting me from something for now, and He has something big planned for me coming soon."
Option 2: Allah is punishing me
@@lamaaboubakr29 what would yousuggest for those, women in particular, who would want to be persued by the man and are afraid of coming off as, idk, taking away the flattery of being approached. Ik its an ego thing but I thought id still ask
@@lamaaboubakr29 jzk thank you!
Salam sister, can you make a video in regard to the finances in a marriage?
I'm happy with your videos
but where can I ask you questions?
are the previous coaching group sessions recorded? If I join now, would I be able to catch up on previous sessions? is there another upcoming group?
It's recorded, we're only one session in, all replays and workbook will be posted in the FB group to join once you register.
No upcoming group planned for now.
I’m 44 and not married almost 45 soon Insha Allah. I don’t look for a spouse no action . I don’t really know what to do don’t want waste my time now that I’m so Old in age 😢
It's excessive pride, ego and arrogance