when you're not finding the people you want

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @diarrandiaye3983
    @diarrandiaye3983 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Lama, I strongly believe that you’re the answer to my duas. It’s crazy how you portray word for word how I’ve been feeling for the past few years. I even cry at times cause your words hit deep and Al hamdulillah Allãh has granted me self awareness but when I listen to you I feel less lonely wallahi and more conscious about certain things and it’s reassuring. I keep listening to your videos and make dua to Allah to help me in this journey and I have decided to follow your advice - getting on the journey to finding my spouse but this time with the right mindset (as in the outcome is from Allah, just take the right means allowed in Islam), full tawwakul and working on myself and just living life. I will keep you in my duas Lama because you have no idea how helpful your videos are. I pray that Allah bless you and your family in this world and in the hereafter as well ❤

  • @Mal-g2y
    @Mal-g2y 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    2 mindsets victims idk why this happening to me what’s wrong with me etc. 2. Empowered - I know I’m a worthy person - I’m gonna figure it out I just have to keep looking. God will send me my person and this is just part of the process

  • @mohammadislam6772
    @mohammadislam6772 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Assalamualikum, May allah rewards me a pious companion who will be the coolness of eyes-ameen. I am a 49 years old man still single from Europe. Jazak allahu khairan

    • @nurazlinghazali33
      @nurazlinghazali33 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Waalaikumussalaam. What are the criteria that you are looking for e.g. age, race,widow or never been married etc.

    • @naffs1069
      @naffs1069 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Go to Bangladesh and look there.

    • @mohammadislam6772
      @mohammadislam6772 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@naffs1069 Assalamualikum , Jazak allahu khairan for your kind feedback. Jenuine sister are welcome from any parts of the world. Allah is the best planner and best knower.

    • @mohammadislam6772
      @mohammadislam6772 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nurazlinghazali33 Assalamualikum sister, her deen is more important, genuine sister are most welcome. Jazak Allahu khairan

  • @muhammad6638
    @muhammad6638 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Everyone, I have a matter at hand that I desperately need from Allah the answer. Please make dua that Allah fulfils my request 🤲

  • @xxxoxoxxx9443
    @xxxoxoxxx9443 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I thought this was about friendship bc that’s what I’m struggling finding- my group of friends

  • @thishandleistakensogoaway
    @thishandleistakensogoaway 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Would you feel comfortable in sharing as to how you met your partner or would that be too personal? 🙂

    • @jay.jay.
      @jay.jay. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She mentioned that she met him in a mosque.

  • @malaymuslimah
    @malaymuslimah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Salam Lama, can you make a video about choosing someone from different culture/ethnicity? Personally I don’t mind marrying someone from other cultures but my parents are a bit worried that some of the cultural differences might be a problem in the future. What are the pros and cons in this situation?

    • @sapok4925
      @sapok4925 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have the same problem 😩 My parents are too strict about that.

  • @saniya7277
    @saniya7277 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please make a video on becoming the best self for Allah swt❤. . Thank u you’re a blessing 🎉

  • @TehFlasher
    @TehFlasher 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What are these apps that you keep mentioning?

    • @ADB-jd9if
      @ADB-jd9if 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      App for getting married 😂like Purematrtimony

  • @ADB-jd9if
    @ADB-jd9if 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I like your content but the way you say it is monotonous and not interesting to listen to. I hope you improve your presentation skills. The way you sound is like a boring university lecturer 😊. Forgive me for saying this

    • @madewithbarakah
      @madewithbarakah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Wow don’t listening to this person ^ I absolutely love your content. It’s extremely helpful.

    • @smilingsue4444
      @smilingsue4444 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I disagree, she has a conversational tone. It feels like she’s speaking to me one on one like a friend or sister. Her voice is a bit on the softer side but to me it’s calming and she simplifies things and gives examples. Also I admire her because she seems to empathize with her audience.

    • @hope23389
      @hope23389 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      For me it's the opposite, I find her way of presenting clear and calm which helps me focus on what she's saying..

    • @mk.xo29
      @mk.xo29 หลายเดือนก่อน

      she says things in a very clear and concise way, if you can't keep up you may have ADHD.