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Ummm maybe the “prophet” didn’t recommend her personally- but Jodi was on the approved list of therapists for lds people. As opposed to Natasha who was a legitimate therapist who doesn’t think all porn use is addiction and that masturbation is normal human behaviour- And she was EXCOMMUNICATED for saying she would follow the professional psychology’s guidelines in the USA

Boy, can you tell this guy is Mormon…he sounds about as mature as any middle schooler.

Good interview

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th-cam.com/video/b2EPaLSCRE8/w-d-xo.html - this is the video the mom watched about the whole "what I've learned since estrangement" thing. Personally, estrangement isn't on my radar (I'm not Asian, but family is HIGHLY valued by myself, siblings, parents, etc.), but I have been VEEEEEEERY hurt on a someone consistent basis for years, unseen, blamed for things, etc...and funnily enough, diagnosed & self-diagnosed with mental & physical health things as well (AuDHD, fibro, etc.)...and I've tried so hard to reconcile several differences between my parents and I (not political, but mental & physical health), but it is SLOW going. Years. Still ongoing. So...maybe this lady's daughter had to step away and is going through things that her parents won't accept; maybe she did try, and her parents are treating it like "out of the blue" because it's easier to blame than to accept responsibility...

I've read through a lot of the comments and see you asking questions to clarify why people are having issues with the LDS church. Its a deep rabbit hole so if you want the good and the bad on the LDS church, reach out to Jordan & McKay. They are married former Mormon's. Jordan just recently became a therapist herself

Great information. It’s not compassion if you do it to make your god happy with you. I belong to an atheist group that works tirelessly with homeless people. No bibles in exchange for that sandwich with us.

People don't watch true crime because the content is enjoyable. People watch it because they want to understand criminal minds.

thanks for making this video...I did notice the mother completely dismissed the daughter's concerns and hurt, completely glossing over it and calling it an "angry letter". I am sad to see that. Not once did the mother take accountability for the hurt, she caused her daughter. As a daughter going through the same troubles with my parents, especially my mom, it is so hurtful when I have reached out for years and years about the hurt that had been caused by their actions and mean remarks about me. I felt very belittled, my feelings dismissed and ignored most of my childhood and the "strings attached" refers to how my parents would constantly use "we fed you, paid for your education, put clothes on your back, etc." these are all used to guilt me into sweeping the issues under the rug. They also love to use the phrase "you should be grateful" and "I never did that" when I fully explained how they hurt me. My parents would watch me cry when I express how they hurt me and just stare at me and say, "when will you listen to me or let me talk?" The emotional neglect I felt as a child transferred into my adult years, and it never seemed to end no matter how much I addressed it with them. Whenever I felt sad or unhappy, my mom would tell me I should be thankful and pray instead of giving me a hug and asking if I was ok. So many things happened one after the other as an adult that made me realize that my own parents don't know me. Finally after sending a long long letter to them about how they hurt me and my boundaries moving forward, I was told "we don't have time for this" and they ghosted me for a month and a half. I finally got a thanksgiving invite from mom the day before thanksgiving and I had to turn it down despite the pain I felt all over again rejecting it. I explained there were so many concerns that were not addressed and I felt like my emotions and hurt were not addressed at all and completely ignored so I didn't feel comfortable attending. My mother told me I am selfish, that she didn't do anything wrong, and refused to take any sort of accountability for the emotional stress and neglect that I felt. She sent me a religious quote about how silence is what causes peace and solves conflicts. I told her if she knew me at all, she would know I have serious abandonment issues so silence is not the way to address any issue. Then, she sent me an email she was subscribed to, claiming I had RAD...a disorder I have never been diagnosed with or even had problems with in the slightest. I told her I just want her to take accountability and stop pinning it all on me and accusing me of having a disorder that I didn't have. I told her it was hurtful, as this disorder is common among adopted children with childhood trauma (I am adopted from Russia with serious childhood trauma which caused my abandonment issues)...and it hurt so bad seeing she would pin this specific thing onto me. I explained to her why it was hurtful and how I just wanted accountability and she just said "it is not your fault or our fault" and has been ghosting me since that day. I felt pain so much, even after deciding to not text mom anymore. I know that pain will come back at Christmas time. I love her so much and wish she would just be accountable. Sorry if this was long, I just wanted to show I can totally relate to the way this mother is acting in the video with taking zero accountability for the pain her daughter must have gone through and probably is still going through. Cutting off a parent is far from easy....

Bryce, you’re misunderstanding the link that so many are frustrated and angry with between Jody and the church. No one is under the impression or concerned that any bishops or stake presidents were getting a monetary kickback for recommending Jodi. The frustration is that Jodi was able to network within a tight and trusting religious community to the point she was recommended so often she was able to build a successful business as a single, middle aged, woman (I add these details because this is nearly impossible in Utah) who made millions. The concern isn’t bishops making money off of her, it’s the insane amount of money she made off of referrals through the LDS community. From your perspective, this was just a genuine referral from your bishop and you argue that this didn’t go up higher into leadership or that high up leadership had no knowledge or responsibility for this situation. While that might be true for you and many others, she had slithered her way into the community and recommendations were made from one ward to the stake to another stake and spread through the ‘Mormon Corridor’. Not every referral was from a bishop who personally knew her. If that were true could she have really built a multimillion dollar business off of only the referrals off of bishops she’d already met or clients she was seeing to others. No way! Plus it might not be the best idea for anyone to be taking advice or getting referrals for therapy from their church leaders. They literally have NO TRAINING on the subject. Members and ex-members do feel that the leadership of the Corporation of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints does or should have a responsibility to the members and community to be engaged, aware and on the lookout for someone like Jodi who is going to breach the safety of their own creation and abuse individuals, especially over the amount of time she did it and to the extent she did. There are no excuses. They were made aware of this at some point, to some extent and not only did they choose to let it fall on deaf ears and be neglectful, they had just begun to buy in and participate in meetings with Jodi (see Brad Wilcox).

The appropriate response to Jodi Hildebrandt asking you if you had ever watched porn would have been to ask her the counter-question: „When was the last time you were scissoring with one of the many wives you had deviously alienated from their husbands?“

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“I just buy myself a present on her birthday…” Crazy, my mom bought presents for “me” yet somehow it was never my size, her size though. It wasn’t my style, it was hers though. I caught on, and instead of just telling her to have it, I took the clothes or shoes, said I loved them and insist that no, she gave me those gifts, I’m keeping them! Then donate them. Drove her insane, and that was my small victory.

How can I tell the difference between needing to find a different therapist and not needing therapy anymore?

I’ve been out there and it’s about 50/50 for a fit. Some have been really bad but some have been wonderful, really helped me grow. The worst I’ve had were horror movie bad.

I dont know if its true that theres some financial conspiracy between the church and lds therapists, but certainly it is true, whether intended or not, the nature of the church, getting member heavily invested in it in every way, having a rigid heirarchy, supressing information and shaming curiosity, and primarily working with other lds memebers in every facet of life, including therapy, leaves members incredibly vulnerable and malleable. It doesnt surprise me even a bit that Jodi had success indoctrinating patients, theyre already indoctrinated. The church didnt do this crime, but it definitely laid the foundation for it to thrive.

"What's up?" is an Americanism meaning "Hello." "Bishop is Mormon for "Some dude."

This poor man needs to think about the LDSstructure if he does not like people in positions of power or religious authority to control people. There'a a REASON Jodi Hildebrandt was as twisted as she is, and the Church was DELIGHTED to use her to punish and monetize people like you. The Bishop who SENT you to her "clinic" was making profits off it. owned by a family member!

Hildebrandty was CLEARLY a deeply closeted woman who used her "therapeutic" BS to torment women she desired, and separate them from their male partners under the excuse that all male sexuaity is sick and violent. She started TORTURING her own niece at puberty, as soon as she got the chance of total power over her. She is a perfect example of the twisted oppressive corruption of a church that exploits everything about people to achieve control over reproduction and finances.

The core issue is not politics it's saving yourself from a narcissistic, gaslighting mama...

As a former member of the LDS Church, I know that these bishops assured these members that the therapist being recommended was approved by God through prayer. The church will always lay responsibility at God's feet by claiming guidance through prayer.

It will be interesting to see if this guy eventually applies his great critical thinking skills to his church

Jodi is a Master Manipular ..she will manipulate anyone Bishops, Teachers, Doctors..name it. Shes so sick in the head.

What an insightful young man!

Thanks for sharing your story, Bryce! What did you all think?

Hi Bryce

Love this ❤

The parents complaining in the internet how they feel betrayed. The daughter makes a video about her feelings. The parents: "Why didn't she talk about our feelings in her video?"

Great video my man!

ive been watching reacts for this vid from therapists you are the first one to mention the integration process so far and the whole video is about the integration of the shaddow. thank you. you are so calm, almost irritating but you must be a great therapist because you dont lose your ground because of a story. you are extremely objective and that is really good in your profession

He really is beautiful :)

You missed a spot.

How much would someone need to donate to the channel for you to shave the cat during your next update?

😳 whoa. your pronunciation of Kamala Harris' name is WILD. LMAO there's no way you haven't heard her name said correctly at this point + i haven't heard a soul say, CAM-UH-LUH.... maybe....ever. so what's T?? cause uhm....one word: sus. LOL 😅

Looking forward to your new streams.

I was in college when Trump was elected first term. And some guy came up to me, I think he was from the college mental health place. And this guy assumed, just assumed I must feel a certain way about Trump. He assumed a mindset about me, when we've never even exchanged any words. Absurdity.

Well, if mindfulness is just flaky, new age baloney then I guess it could lead to bad outcomes. Likewise with Carl Jung.

These realms of mind and spirit exist hand and hand. One goes to a service at a church, and there is beautiful building, beautiful candles, incense, stained glass, stories of ressurection and hope. People tend to be nicer and less rude there. All this lifts the mood and makes a person less depressed. I'm just talking common sense here.

Well, my understanding of Buddhism is that it's about losing attachments to ourselves or our egos. And I can see how losing such attachments could be painful. And, at least according to an Orthodox Christian priest I saw here on YT, a similar thing happens in Christianity. Which is that God puts us through trials to test or strengthen us. Again, sounds painful.

This word "mindfulness" confuses me. It's such a broad term. We think about so many things; so many things are on our mind. I don't claim to know anything completely. But as far as I can tell, "mindfulness" means something like "consideration" of others. And maybe "consideration" sounds like something authority tells us to do, and with this mind it's been re-branded. But I mean, okay, if mindfullness has its influences from meditation stuff going back to antiquity in India, it's a new name for an old thing.

I have a random question that you might roll your eyes at, which is totally fine lol, I've always wondered how Harley Quinn might be diagnosed. She's not a good guy, but she's not really a bad guy either. She's done bad things but has also shown that she does have empathy and a desire to be loved and protected. Idk if it's something you can make a video about or if you're even interested in something so silly lol. Anyway, it's always good to see Kitty and I'm really excited for the upcoming videos!

Excited for the upcoming interview ❤

They say Christmas is the best time of year however for so many it's the lonlinest which is so sad. Great idea for next year.

You need a good vacume , a lint roller . He's got a full head of hair. Trump for the hair!!😂😂😂😂

Ohhh there's big boy. Hope he's going well. He's so fluffy 😂

How can you multitask like that? Lol.

What an adorable cat. The one I have has ptsd, like me. It’s a match made in heaven, as they say. :)

I’m sad to say this, but in this climate that mural will be spray painted with nazi signs and other hateful words. I’ll pray it doesn’t, but….

I went no contact with my parents. You asked what we thought of her recommendation for children. I think if I treated a child the way I was treated, then they would be justified in cutting me off. My parents were not supportive. They did not offer me stability in a chaotic world, they were the chaos. I found peace around other people, and in school. It was difficult to listen to her. She's clearly in a different world.

I can respect the fact that the mom feels the need to reconnect. I do believe she loves her daughter, but she needs to accept the wrongs she did. My father and I are estranged and he has not made an effort at all to rekindle anything.