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i have been depressed all my life. I hope i find a way

200 000$😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

In, I don't even know how many seconds this clip was. But you, ma'am, have so eloquently elaborated so much of what I experienced beginning of 2021. I am, only now coming out; the light at the end of the tunnel. I can actually picture future plans. I've read so much on this functional freeze. But there was honestly nothing 'functional' in my freeze response. I've completed 2 therapists and still see my psychiatrist, but I have yet to hear any answers on the actual depth of my own freeze. You have shared far more, for myself, in almost 4 years of this crushing personal experience. I thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for sharing your vast amount of knowledge on this subject. There has got to be more education of this extreme side of post PTSD. Anyone experiencing this absolute, devastating blow to their life, family, personality, hobbies, interests - a persons life, just ripped out from underneath in general shouldn't be forced to white-knuckle, in some form or fashion, simple seeking answers to what in the world is happening. Without the words to ask, you dont even know where to search. I thank you so very kindly for spreading this awareness! Its absolutely liberating & validating. 💯🙏

I am here 🥺💔

Feeling extremely scared.. going to be unemployed and anxious about the future. Have bills to settle , loans to repay and family to handle .. being the sole breadwinner is certainly taking an adverse toll on mental health. Feels like the whole universe is working very hard to see me fail .. I am being setup for failure..

I'm unemployed and I have no job whatsoever but It's still the way and don't give up in life and that makes my own little business.

You talk just like the outcome depends on us. Let me tell you one thing 'doctor,' it is beyond us, it is beyond our efforts finding a job and getting out of this situation. All the personal efforts you may put will never ensure you will find a job, never! So please stop posting such naive videos or comments. Thanks!

It's a terrible time. The job market is horrendous. We all deserve stable lives and a shot at happiness. Unrmployed, no family, alone and bills that never go away. Its hard yo make decisions or trust the ones we mske are going to pull us through. Good luck everyone.❤❤

1 year and 4 months of unemployed and depressed after graduating college. I honestly wish I could’ve got a job after graduating high school and sucks to get rejections after applying a job and/or after job interview. I have nobody😭.

你们养着你们的美国政府 你们知道美国收割着世界 你们清楚美国在世界上挑起战争 你们知道你们养的政府在杀人 你们知道你们的政府带来的战争死了很多人 饥饿着很多人 贫困潦倒 贫病交急之下又死了多少人？ 当然 你们不是下命令的人 不负担责任. 但是从良知上 你们欠世界一个道谦 欠那些因为你们政府的恶 而死 而贫病 而饥饿的人一个道谦！！

I am unemployed for almost 4 years, I wanted to kill my self so I wont be a burden anymore, I eat once a day so everyone in the house can eat their fill which is logical since I have no job, I am really hungry. I wanted to die so bad. The worst is, No one employs me, I tried to send out cv but to no avail.

The worst thing is your former bosses and co workers and even family when they know you are been fired or resign at work instead of giving support they mock you because you cant do your job properly to they expectations I been experiencing this rn and its so depressing to the point i question how this would be end Can i get another job where i can have peace and do my work good to provide in my family 😢

Your content is so spot on. Definitely an under-appreciated voice in the healing space.

This is excellent. Thank you 🙏🏽

I am unemployed since 2018 (more than 6 years). I am diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder and ADHD. I have 2 Masters degrees and my profession could earn me decent amount of money. Due to my social anxiety and ADHD, I could not continue my job. I could not even organized my brain to send out job application. I am experiencing financial crisis everyday since. Just surviving by using money my parents and in laws gave me and my spouse. I have seen doctor and take antidepressant and ADHD meds for a long time but no help. Everyday I am lying down on bed watching youtube, struggling to perform self care task. I have no friends, no hobbies, no parents nearby as I am an immigrant at a new country. My spouse also has ADHD and anxiety and also struggling in earning money. I feel worthless, no meaning in life, and my anxiety is making me miserable everyday. I feel like I have a disability that no one can understand. People think I am lazy, wasting life. But I am trying my best to survive, day by day. I had a lot of dreams when I was young, but now I have no more energy, money, time and support to achieve them.

Man i feel like shit. The world dont give me a fucking chance.

7.5 years unemployed here

Hello . Glad to find the channel .

Condemned to pay 200k to the man you accused. You're going to need more (financial) trauma management.

I had to quit my job after 3 month. The team I was working with had two individuals who had worked with the company for 30+ years and they were very grumpy and were not welcoming. I tried everything to be part of the team, talked to my boss for help nothing happened. I was told to deal with it as people are people. I ended up quitting, and have been unemployed for 4.5 months. All the moves I have made in my career so far has been because of my manager or direct supervisors. Lately, I have started to feel very hopeless, but keep reminding myself that time always changes... if good times don't stay for ever, bad times will also go away. I hope I can find a job that will be a good fit. I wish everyone watching this video best of luck.

I had a laptop worth 70k Rupees I was doing my portfolio( while I was studying my diploma degree after my UG 😢, Education scam is high here the course was not worth the money,they don't have staffs, students here started doing self learning from TH-cam videos )for graphic design,3D, animation while I was doing my final project of the course,my mother board got repaired for 2 time now I bought new laptop for 54k ruppees not for me but for my sister ,I can't make portfolios,as an indian women it's even more stressing for me,my parents were always talking about marraige and looking for groom,I'm literally stuck I can't focus on my portfolio, internship,job.my country has no good city that has access to public computer libraries to work.i don't know what to do,I'm ashamed to ask money from my parents.I want to run away and start a new life I don't know what to do I lost patience scrolling my phone searching for internships and filtering them,Too much demand.The money I spent for the course and laptops I can't even get a job to earn that money back and buy a new laptop,I'm literally helpless.I just want to finish my last project and search for a job or an internship near me to earn.i did a mistake by buying dell lap,another mistake was enrolled into worthless institution who can't even do group projects while teaching us,there no staff at all, creative field jobs are very challenging for me I don't know about others, People won't agree with me,but the population is one of the reason for unemployment because india is very competitive in all sectors not only govt jobs even private jobs,only thing I can do is Making a tea stall or food based small business but I don't want to do that I love creativity 😢I want to get into it,It's a dream for indian women to get out and live outside of their city,should able to travel in flight once in my life .im unemployed for 2 years i only worked 1 month it was my first company,the i cant tolerate that toxic place,i was over working there im also ashamed i cant even stay for 2 months im 22 after new months im gonna turn 23 im scared

2 months today. Nights are terrible, with negative feelings creeping in causing palpitations and a feeling of complete doom. Will i be able to provide for my family? I see my young kids smiling and playing and it makes me want to cry thinking im not good enough for them 😢

Thank you, and very helpful, I've got an phone call coming up for RTDRS ❤❤ It's OK, the feeling for anxiety and heart rate will go up ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Thank you!

11 months unemployed now.

Do you guys feel empty 😕 and worthless😢mostly single mom's without jobs

All these horror stories in the comments are as depressing as anything. Jesus. Should be a rule or something.

Thank you so much I needed this

Graduated as a programmer at the age of 26, first two months wasn't that bad, applied some places, went some interviews, but all of them was unsuccesful. After I got a job from a friend of mine, but it was just for 1-3 months as a driver. I enjoyed it, felt myself free, and still applied for jobs. Interviews again... 1 round, 2 round, rejected. Because I don't have relevant work experience. Still in this boat since february 2024... now it's september, and I found a good place, a good chance, I went 2 interviews for this company, they asked for a introducing video from me, everything went well, and here I am now, still waiting for the feedback. The worst part is that I need to stay in my parents house, very toxic people. They are good persons, but very toxic. We can't talk about our problems. And everybody in my family thinks me as a slave, who has always have freetime for everything. Technically I have, but my needs...😔 I can't plan a meeting with my friends, because they tell me my "task" in the last minute. And I feeling like I'm going crazy. Lost motivation, lost enthusiasm, lost goals, insomnia, irritability, restlessness, gut health issues, stomach pain. Zero understanding from my family. If I ask help, they only help me with shit examples of themselves in my age. I wanted to work as pizza delivery till I find a job in my profession, but my father told that his son won't do that shit job. I wanted to start a higher cathegory driver license for working with bigger vehicles and same... So I don't know what to do. On the other hand, he always blame office workers, because in his opinion they don't do anything. They only support me mentally and financially, If my goal is the same as theirs. How can I move out with 0 starting money? And how can I leave this house without make serious arguments? I thinking about going no contact, but I love them, I could't hurt them in this way. I said them these thing too, several times, in a calm way, and other ways too. They don't hear me.

How can I find a somatic therapist in Kansas?

37 years old and lost my job 6 months ago. I really like my job a lot and due to cutting costs lost it. Staying with my parents for emotional comfort, but they are getting old and my mother has advanced parkinsons. Applied to various positions and got about 8 interviews, yet nothing came out of it. Really worried that I might end up long term unemployed and miserable. My job was my life! Sometimes I wonder what is the point of living. 😢

Great video, it's very informative. Thanks!

I can't work because of my disability but feel super worthless. I don't believe that anyone serves a purpose and instead our "purpose" is to simply live. I didn't ask to be born into this world and I certainly didn't ask to partake in a system that was not built for me, but still I get these thought of "what if I'm just pretending to get away with not working" but then again, if I were able to work, wouldn't I just get a job, so I don't feel so incredibly guilty of simply existing? I wish I had more people around me who I could relate to but everyones got a stable job and education

I’m not important and I don’t matter. That’s the truth. If I mattered, the people who hurt me would care. If I mattered, there would be justice for things. It’s hard but it’s the truth. People are objects in our current world and no amount of trauma therapy is gonna change that reality.

Shame on you

Honteux !

Same, I'm unemployed i feel I'm worthless in this world sometimes i feel like to commit suicide 😢

3 years of unemployment, from Argentina. I know my country is going through a deep economical recession, and a lot of people with Autism Spectrum Disorder are in a similar place. I just wish it would be different for me at least.

Got laid off in march and been here looking 1500 plus applications and no response, very depressing and i am happy my wife still works coz i dunno what we would do ! it is tough to stay positive and hope for something! keep your head up ,everything worse always gets better

are you able to be a somatic therapist without being a licensed therapist? Is that the best avenue to do this type of work or is becoming a somatic coach better?

Mine is i can't think straight i need help please

4 months unemployed , It's really sucks that you don't know when are you going to have a chance to work and provide money and take care of your family . The voices in my mind are so loud and its all negative , but I am trying the best I could to keep going and try harder and harder to find a job and start building my future , One thing I know that there is always a light and hope at the end of the dark road , I just hope that I don't lose myself when the light comes to my path .

How do we release this bracing and armoring?

About to hit a year of unemployment this month. I wanted to be a pilot. I wanted to be an engineer. I wanted to be a mechanic. I wanted to be successful. Right now, I just want a job. Any job. I don't just want any job. I NEED any job. But everyone knows I'm just a washed-up deadbeat veteran with a disability. I only have my wife. And I am failing her. I need money. Food. Anything. Anything but this..

Thank you

Did you talk about the guys you falsely accuse of raping on court. You are a freak that deserved jail not the 200k the court sentence you. You know how that affect his life ? Shame on you

4 months unemployed. I feel worthless.

Did you take to time to apologize to KLH?

200 000$

One year unemployed...how demoralizing. I feel like less of a person and useless.