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This New Kind of Divorce Might Just Change EVERYTHING
Court TV will not be able to predict this one. Men's lack of soft skills, like planning and active listening, will be their undermining and the soft white underbelly of the patriarchy might just be exposed for a lot of wives out there (if they are paying attention). I am a childfree millennial who is decentering men and encouraging women empowerment which means I love patterns. Pattern recognition is my thing and men don't pay attention to important pattern and we can use that to our advantage, especially if you want out of a toxic relationship.
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0:00 this video will have two different topics
1:00 I'm predicting a new kind of divorce
7:29 information for single moms who need passports for their kids
12:34 a teaser!
INFO FOR SINGLE PARENTS:
travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/passports/need-passport/under-16.html
NOTES FOR PARENTS:
1. if you have sole custody AND proof of sole custody, you should be ok (but double-check)
2. if you have shared custody, that's when things get sticky (but there's still a way!)
3. the main from for your child will be the DS 3053 (the DS 5525 is only for one specific situation)
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FAFO: Your Ignorance Will Not Save You This Black History Month
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Happy Black History Month! As a childfree woman decentering men and promoting woman empowerment, I recognize that everything I do is intersectional. The trans woman who had her passport stolen by the US government is a victim and her story could be any of our stories. History always repeats itself if you don't know it and make a different choice. In this video essay full of social commentary, I...
United States Citizens are Being DENIED Passports!
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As a childfree woman who is decentering men and promoting woman empowerment, PLEASE let me you got your passports! US citizens are currently getting denied passports as we speak and the process of passport renewal and passport applications are getting more difficult. Your passport is your ticket to freedom. It's your get-out-of-jail card. If you didn't get your passport yet, get it now before i...
Why are Boogas Sending Me Threatening Love Letters?
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As a childfree millennial woman who talks a lot about decentering men and the 4B movement, the fact that I occasionally get love letters (or, in this case, booga mail), is WILD. Let's read it together :) Also, get your free Valentine's Day gift!! EVERY SINGLE ONE of you gets a FREE TOY! Iʼm partnering with BB Outlet to make pleasure accessible for all, sign up here: shopbboutlet.com/giveaway/sh...
Prioritize your SAFETY, Not a Man's Attention!
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Looking for safety tips and dating advice? I got you! DECENTER MEN. While there is a loneliness epidemic and more people are single now than ever before, as a childfree millennial who is decentering men, please don't give men easy access to you because you're lonely! In the social commentary video essay, we dive into this more :) DON'T FORGET TO LIKE, COMMENT, AND SUBSCRIBE!! Subscribe to my ne...
This Potential Law is the End of Sprinkle Sprinkle Marriages
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I support both the sprinkle sprinkle ladies and the 4B movement, but only one of these movements will survive under this current administration. As a childfree millennial who is decentering men, the divorce laws and marriage laws in the USA that will be changing very soon would be all the reason I need to stop dating in the USA. In this video essay, I read an article and broke down why this wil...
Why Are Young Women Glamorizing Baby Mamahood?
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As a childfree woman who is decentering men and encouraging the 4B movement, I know that Kardashians have caused more damage than good in the world of women, especially potential baby mamas. In this social commentary video essay, I share some theories about why phenomenons like this take place and how women empowerment and education is the only cure. DON'T FORGET TO LIKE, COMMENT, AND SUBSCRIBE...
Reading Angry Comments about Divorce Benefiting Women
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As a childfree woman who is single by choice, decentering men, and encourages women empowerment, I get a lot of angry comments lol. Even though my work has been featured in everywhere from Business Insider to The Young Turks, a lot of men (who don't research me) seem to think I'm just a talking head. In this video I share the two kinds of comments I generally get when I talk about how marriage ...
Will M*sterbating Men Finally Go to Jail? Maybe.
มุมมอง 9Kวันที่ผ่านมา
As a childfree woman who is decentering men and sharing info on women's rights and women empowerment, this is a funny yet powerful move by a lone lawmaker. In opposition to Project 2025 and the overturning of Roe V Wade, a Mississippi lawmaker says men should be fined for jizzing and I agree. In this video I breakdown the "Contraception Begins at Erection Act", and additions that I would make t...
Husband K*lls Influencer Wife Amid "Peaceful" Divorce
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Straight out of a true crime documentary, Jennifer Sheffield was the victim of domestic violence in its most fatal form. As a woman who is decentering men and promoting the 4B movement, learning the story of this influencer, mom, friend, and woman was eye-opening and heartbreaking. She is all of us and any of us could be her. DON'T FORGET TO LIKE, COMMENT, AND SUBSCRIBE!! Subscribe to my newsle...
Want Employment Equality? That's Illegal Now.
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Black women warned yall! Tr*mp has been dishing out executive orders against everyone since he landed into office and now all women (including WW) just lost the right to equal employment. As a page that's dedicated to childfree living, decentering men, and women empowerment through an intersectional feminism lens, things are truly not looking good. DON'T FORGET TO LIKE, COMMENT, AND SUBSCRIBE t...
Immigration Officers Can LEGALLY Arrest Children in Schools
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First school shootings and now immigration raids, all things that are acceptable in the United States. While the news isn't covering it, yesterday Tr*mp signed a law that allows ICE to raid all sensitive areas which include schools, hospitals, churches, and more. As a childfree millennial who is single by choice and decentering men, these realities are terrifying for a number of reasons. This l...
Men Make S*xy Robots Instead of Fixing Their Loneliness Epidemic
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As a childfree woman who is single by choice and decentering men, listening to men is my birth control. The male loneliness epidemic is a creation of their own doing and instead of creating "diving masculinity" and social isolation, they make sexy robots. Instead of using STEM to help mental health in men or create communities, they want robots with nice b0obs. cool. DON'T FORGET TO LIKE, COMME...
Anti Divorce Laws Are Rolling Out RIGHT NOW in the USA
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As a childfree millennial who is single by choice and encourages the 4b movement, the covenant marriage laws that are being codified in 2025 are very scary. There is no separation between Christianity and women's rights (oh, I'm sorry...church and state) so the patriarchy is rampant in every level of our government. In this video essay, I share my social commentary on a new law in Oklahoma that...
Men Are Shaving Their Eyelashes Because They Are "Too Feminine"
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As a single childfree woman who is decentering men, I understand the essence of true masculine energy. In this video essay full of social commentary, I explain how so many things (like breathing and talking) are too feminine for alpha men (king boogas). Did I forget anything? LMK in the comments. DON'T FORGET TO LIKE, COMMENT, AND SUBSCRIBE!! ❤️ Send me a gift ❤️ PayPal: shaynarconde@gmail.com ...
Tr*mp Plans MASS Deportations Immediately After TikTok Ban
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Tr*mp Plans MASS Deportations Immediately After TikTok Ban
LA Wildfires Prove that Men are Liabilities During Natural Disasters
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LA Wildfires Prove that Men are Liabilities During Natural Disasters
I'm Slowly Returning to YT After My Traumatic NYE
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I'm Slowly Returning to YT After My Traumatic NYE
The Startling Number of Women Dating Homeless Men
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Gisele Pelicot's Husband Sentenced to 20 Years After Tort*ring Wife
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Evangelicals Call Jesus Woke, Liberal, and WEAK
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Elon Musk's Mother Wants You to Shut Up and Have Kids
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Romance is a Multi-BILLION Dollar Industry. Don't Buy Into It!
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Woman Ends Engagement After Discovering Her Fiance is MAGA
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Male Incompetence Makes EVERYONE'S Lives Harder
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Male Incompetence Makes EVERYONE'S Lives Harder
Unpopular WM Comedian Faces Consequences for Insulting BW
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Unpopular WM Comedian Faces Consequences for Insulting BW
The History of the Org*sm Gap and why Women Deserve Better
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The History of the Org*sm Gap and why Women Deserve Better
Advice from a Licensed Psychotherapist about how to Spot a Predator
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Men Who Like "Barely Legal" Women Are P3DOS
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Men Who Like "Barely Legal" Women Are P3DOS
AITA: Her BF Lied About Being a MAGA so She Dumped Him
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  • @tenny810
    @tenny810 24 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Oh my God, you guys are trapped. I wish the Canadian government would issue a warning of no travel to the US.

  • @tenny810
    @tenny810 31 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Take our gender information off passports and stop fighting about this

  • @juniperroberts6254
    @juniperroberts6254 33 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Maybe it’s just because I’ve always received a lot of approaches from men, but I always seen men’s approach as a way to initially vet, because the social skills of a man who approaches me have to meet certain criteria that few seem capable of passing. The way I look at it, I can initially vet a man by noticing both how he approaches me, but also if he seeks interest and consent from me before he flirts. If a man flirts with me just because he thinks I’m attractive, but isn’t looking for my interest and consent first before initiating that kind of interaction, then I know he’s not really paying attention to what I want and is more focused on what he wants. I will only date men who have the social skills to look for my consent before any kind of suggestive behavior. If he can’t just approach me like a person and talk to me like a person, before seeing if I’m open to some flirting, then he sees women as conquests for his desire, not persons whom may or may not connect with him. This isn’t the only vetting strategy I employ, but it’s certainly one of the first ones. That doesn’t mean I can’t advocate for myself if I see someone attractive, but similarly I would be looking for both their interest in me, and their social skills in seeking my consent and interest. A man who is flirty or sexual with me right away and assumes that I would be open to that without looking for my consent first is going to be eliminated whether or not I find him attractive.

  • @queen_indig_abor
    @queen_indig_abor 40 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Shit

  • @skittlemilks1614
    @skittlemilks1614 58 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Don’t they want more people to have kids? Every day they add more and more reasons to stay child free, especially as a woman.

  • @theodorathompson2034
    @theodorathompson2034 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    If you have to think about protecting yourself against the future behaviour of your partner/husband…….

  • @cjanderson2371
    @cjanderson2371 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!!!! I have a medically necessary surgery that I cannot get in the US because insurance refuses to cover it. I’m eligible for a clinical trial in Germany and I NEED to renew my passport. I’m disabled due to my health, and I’m seriously considering becoming an expat due to 13+ years of fighting insurance and doctors who have been gaslighting me. I can’t afford healthcare here anymore, and have been considering leaving the US for several years now. Considering everything now, leaving might be more urgent than ever. Thank you again! I will get my passport renewed this month if possible. I will share this video with others as well. ❤

  • @da12n3
    @da12n3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Ive never been to a passport office...i do it online. Going to the office is like going to the DMV. Unbearable. Renew early and line free

  • @inotherwords14
    @inotherwords14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Where is everybody going? Are other countries accepting you?

  • @SergeantMcClain
    @SergeantMcClain ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Say it with me now... PERMANENT WORKING CLASS NEW AGE SLAVERY F%#$

  • @jenniferh.7219
    @jenniferh.7219 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    No girl I would have corrected them. The 2nd spot as you waited from 5 to then 20 minutes

  • @Her844
    @Her844 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    They all are annoying af

  • @personneici2595
    @personneici2595 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    As a demisexual I never understood approaching strangers with intent to hit it lmfao

  • @akinatsukana
    @akinatsukana 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I can't tell what government website that is. But this site is working travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/passports.html

  • @Iquey
    @Iquey 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Passport moms. Passport/Gyalz

  • @schoolingdiana9086
    @schoolingdiana9086 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    You can’t renew your passport in person. It has to be done by mail. It’s been that way over a year. They literally can’t do it at the passport office. That’s for first time passports only, no exceptions.

  • @Maybe-cg2tn
    @Maybe-cg2tn 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    All women need to cover their a$$ like this woman did.

  • @gracioussunchild9877
    @gracioussunchild9877 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Lets access the best timeline guysssssss she mentioned dimensions!! 😂

  • @greenben3744
    @greenben3744 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Please be careful! I heard from some trans people that got their passports seized when they went to renew them! If you are a person at risk during this new term then inform yourself THOROUGHLY!

  • @sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS
    @sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    'Entrenpreneur...I got two stones and I click them together in my Grandmother's basement' 🤣🤣🤣

  • @sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS
    @sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Aria already looks miserable. Won't be long before she and her kind experience DV too.

  • @DelphineTheWorstBladeEver
    @DelphineTheWorstBladeEver 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Is this enough proof that the government and the world is anti woman, yet? This is getting so weird.

  • @ProjectBimmers
    @ProjectBimmers 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thats why u need to think twice before doin foolishness. Ur born a man. Now ur a woman, and u want passport that says ur a woman? Nah u aint gettin that. U can act like a woman all u want SIR

  • @willnatmartin
    @willnatmartin 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    So basically your big plan is for a bunch of undocumented American Women to show up without citizenship, or work visas and not be jailed and deported back to the US?

  • @billburgess4720
    @billburgess4720 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    So in this Fourth Reich, the cattle(females) not used for breeders will have to be Goose Stepping into the fields replacing all those rapists and drug mules (people of color/prison labor/slaves ) that will be waiting in the Gulags and Extermination centers. So you're saying you want the Ovens and Gas chambers the BILLIONAIRES provided after General Butler forced them to Germany in 1933? You are not happy with their "Boiling Frog" method of higher food, meds, housing the BILLIONAIRE SPECIES have been killing us since 1980?..It will be easy at first as they will work those slaves to extinction first...Didn't you read about the Third Reich procedures? Same Billionaire Cabal will be running this one buttercup...Operating their Christofascist/Proud Boy/KKK goone squads and Lynch Mobs. Why do you suppose they have kept them armed against all sanity???

  • @m.ophie.a3644
    @m.ophie.a3644 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I renewed mine completely online with a selfie, but I did it in November during the transition government. Hope everyone who needs it goes to a nearby Embassy if they have travel in 14 days.

  • @kayasia8916
    @kayasia8916 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Feels like this was a year ago, but only a few months.

  • @trfe29
    @trfe29 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Just a suggestion starting a discord server for your community could be very useful

  • @AmberwingArt
    @AmberwingArt 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Wait. Wait. WAIT. Are you telling me that I'm NOT the only woman who's in a relationship with a man who's telling her that she's overreacting and being ridiculous and that all of this will be worked out in the courts over the next two years (and then rectified during the midterm elections)??? I feel like I'm going crazy because my husband literally will NOT acknowledge that this is even abnormal. He says that the Republicans are just "doing Republican stuff, dismantling the government." WHAT?????? I love my husband, but he's making me feel really unsafe. What is everyone else doing??

    • @BL-sd2qw
      @BL-sd2qw 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      That... is not normal 😨😰🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂💯

    • @bunneywolf
      @bunneywolf 37 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      @AmberwingArt I got my daughter her passport. My husband agrees. She's doon to be 20 years old. She also made the decision to switch from the pill to the IUD. I have a tubal, so I'm mostly okay. My other children are male, and they'll be okay. I'm mostly worried about my niece because she's 12. Her mom is negligent but won't let anyone help my niece, and she's in a vulnerable position right now.

    • @BL-sd2qw
      @BL-sd2qw 29 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      @@bunneywolf 😰😰😰😨😨😨🫂🫂🫂 sh*t, that's f-cked up. I wish charity works would do their job and protect the vulnerable. Sometimes, even online ones do a better job than the irl ones.

  • @DarkIllusia
    @DarkIllusia 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Your message is important and your hair is gorgeous.

  • @jane9195
    @jane9195 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Believe me if I WAS DENIED MY ENTRY to COME BACK TO THE US, I WOULD DEFINITELY NOT LOSE ANY SLEEP OVER IT.

  • @msdesire0331
    @msdesire0331 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    And downloaded. THANK YOU GIRL!!’❤❤❤❤

  • @poetryofmath
    @poetryofmath 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    You are hilarious.

  • @SinButts
    @SinButts 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    My daughter is getting her passport and I realize that I need to get mine also. Saving every dollar now in case I need to GTFO also

  • @personneici2595
    @personneici2595 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I had a useless 200+lb toddler for 15 years. Now I have 2 partners who actually show up for me in ways my ex husband never did. I'm hoping to eventually have a 3rd partner too (a woman) but yeah no more controlling children trapped in full grown men's bodies in my childfree life ❤️‍🩹

  • @meredithr9824
    @meredithr9824 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Sounds good, but how do I do this without a kidnapping charge?

    • @meredithr9824
      @meredithr9824 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Ope, you answered, thanks. Leaving comment up for the algorithm.

  • @firefly5574
    @firefly5574 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Appalling

  • @waris4thewealthy549
    @waris4thewealthy549 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This is all good and it's interesting but Americans may have problems in the very near future getting through customs in other countries. I think what lots of Americans overlooked was these other countries had time to put in contingency plans for US travelers should America reelect Trump.🤨

  • @lyrapsi
    @lyrapsi 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Oddly enough my father was the one who was the most OCD about planning out things. He was a 70's hippy prepper. But he checked over everything several times before we left and my mom was the one you couldn't completely rely on.

  • @meosha299
    @meosha299 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I googled my zipcode and passport form and it came right up. Its probably too many people trying to do it.

  • @davidholland1334
    @davidholland1334 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    The only problem with this video is the feminist-leaning bent of the presenter. That Jezebel spirit is strong. Divorce is a serious matter and should be treated as such. Don't assume the man is the problem.

    • @03nowwow
      @03nowwow 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      You’re a goof. 😂

  • @awesley1725
    @awesley1725 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Mom's gonna start stepping out for milk

  • @AmatoryLayne2.0
    @AmatoryLayne2.0 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Soooo this don’t effect me 🤷🏾‍♀️ and the orange man told yall on day 1 this would happen

  • @AmatoryLayne2.0
    @AmatoryLayne2.0 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Soooo this don’t effect me 🤷🏾‍♀️ and the orange man told yall on day 1 this would happen

  • @justforfunsaes
    @justforfunsaes 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thank goodness for this video I went to get a passport because I thought I lost mine and my mom found mine and my daughters yesterday. Just two more kids to get passports now.

  • @PrismCasillica
    @PrismCasillica 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    11:39 needs to be on repeat.