Funny, but also this is just good advice! 🤣 Men like this are going to collect their Darwin Award sooner or later. Might as well recoup some of your losses.
As a past wildfire evacuee, I can confirm that if you're the one that has to push to leave, you're literally in danger girl. We survived, but our marriage didn't.
That's a terrifying thought; that she was still waiting on that fool. I'd gotten the impression she was finally away from the fire, and the cat was going, 'you tell 'em, girl!" Either way, that's one more foolish "he-man" who needs to stay single & childless.
I was a firefighter, a damn efficient one at that. I would not stay to fight that kind of fire. Wildfires require specific training, they are a specialized department.
Im a firm believer in honoring ourselves by listening to our intuition but THAT kind of a situation only requires having some basic common sense. men like that are a danger to the ones they claim to 'love' and also to society. low IQ men are not worth dying for and certainly not worth risking the life of their children & animals. both women should have stood their ground and given their man the choice to leave with them or not because I'm sure many people who died in the fires were waiting on someone else to finally leave - and then it was too late.
I remember reading or hearing a story about someone doing gender studies of ww2 jewish history. How the women were the ones telling the men of their lives "hey things are getting from bad to worse we should leave" and the men didnt want to.
I was just watching the documentary "The US and the Holocaust" and it mentioned how Anne Frank's Aunt (or great Aunt) offered to take the girls in (in England) and the dad declined because he didn't want to split up the family. This was before they hid in the attic.
Women more connected to small indicators of danger more than men in order to survive ,,,men cause the have physical power they think they can survive and face any danger
I believe this. I watched Handmaid's Tale with my husband 5 years ago and said "that's where we're going." He still doesn't believe me. Why are men so lazy and inactive? "It'll be fine." "It couldn't happen here."
I saw a video of a black man whose wife warned him 3 times earlier in the evening to lets get up and go. But he said he didn't take it seriously because fires are normal. Its wasn't until the dang fire was down the street at 3am that when she told him we need to go he finally decided to leave. He then said everything still seemed normal as we were leaving so we didn't pack anything because i thought it was a regular fire. But when we got back everything was burned. Our house, trailer, cars, back home in the back yard...... I was furious for her! They had to be in their 50s. I can't imagine having the foresight to get out but allowing my husband to derail me. Furious
Really?! I watched FIVE videos of WW complaining about WM being very incompetent during major fires!! "I can't imagine having the foresight to get out, but allowing [WM] husbands to derail [their WW wives from escape]!!"
@@kevinc3342 Thats nice. I follow black pages so i see black people. Are you also just as offended and identify with black pedophiles and black male abusers? Do you want to then talk about whyte men? Get over yourself.
@@kevinc3342 Thats nice. Im black and i follow black pages so i see black people. Are you also just as offended and identify with black pedophiles and black male abusers? Do you want to then talk about whyte men? Get over yourself.
@@kevinc3342the "FIVE" videos you saw don't cancel out the one video she saw. Men are men, regardless of ethnicity, socioeconomic status, and education level. Men are men, worldwide.
I think I saw that same video several times...the man is in his 80s and was very influential in his community (Altadena). But still was unprepared, and as a result, lost it all.
I saw so many lives on TikTok of people fleeing the fires and yelling at their husbands/bfs/fathers to get going and EVERY SINGLE ONE wanted to wait or stay! 🤦♀️
Let's be honest, men just don't have the experience that women do when it comes to being level headed and knowing how to react in a dangerous situation.
This. I couldn't have worded it better myself. I'm so disappointed in the men in my life when they freak out and I'm the young girl who's calm and ready to handle the situation 🤣
Agreed, so tired of the "It won't happen to me" or "Not that big of a deal" denial or belief that they are invincible. And we women overthink or overreact, sure, because men won't think or act for anyone else or themselves.
Did they not see or believe the man who stayed behind in NC floodwaters when all his family evacuated and he refused? His family watched from a bridge as he spent his last hours clinging to a tree in rushing water too much for rescuers to help. His dog was washed away but found safe and rescued downstream by his family. He collapsed into the water and died. Cause of death: idiocy.
Too many men who grow up in civilization take civilization for granted, or that women and other people working preserving civilization will always be there for them. And somehow they will suddenly go super Saiyan mode when disaster strikes.
They live in a civilization that was created with them as the standard. literally the world is set up for things to magically happen for them. They live in their own personal Truman show why wouldn't the forces of nature just bend to their will.
Was seeing an interview with a completely different couple where the man frickin' admitted to not taking it seriously, not wanting to leave when his wife told him they had to go. He's getting all teary eyed about the fact the house burned down.... and everyone in the comments is pouring sympathy to him....but I just can't believe how wide spread this is! Why?! Why wont they listen!?
This is why it's so important to pay attention when he is driving or out hiking etc. I don't know how to talk about this without sounding like I'm victim blaming but there are lots of red flags that women ignore.
The reason it sounds like victim blaming is because it is blaming the victim. MOST women DO NOT KNOW what red flags to look for, and most of the knowledge we have is because some woman went through it and shared her story. But, yeah, don't blame the victim because she lacks the education that you so obviously have.
@@ejenglin not having knowledge is one thing, not trusting your own senses is another. If there's been a choice to overlook something that gave you pause instead of noting it or digging deeper... women need support and education absolutely, but they also need to deconstruct whether they truly trust themselves or trust others more. More of a pass the younger you are, experience leads to wisdom. "Dont let this happen again and share what you learned" type of conversation instead of "you should've known better/seen the signs"
So I had frost burn on the front of my shins as a child because my stepfather (future stepfather at the time) insisted on continuing a hike were there was snow. My mother and I were dressed for a hike on a warm day, and he had promised we could turn around if we encountered snow. Then he pushed to continue and got us lost. I don't need to recount all the details but, yeah, I had frost burn. My mother took the situation to mean that my stepfather was a single brain cell owner, not that he was an abuser. Other than the poor decision making that led to the disaster hike I don't remember any other signs that would have been a tip off.
I’ve been through multiple natural disasters. I married a prepper. We act like a unit in emergencies. I’ve dumped guys immediately if the panic, overreact, or don’t react appropriately in an emergency situation. I need a partner.
Smart moves. My wonderful boyfriend was the one who told me we need to pack our go bags BEFORE the evac warnings reach our area. Feels so good NOT to be parenting a partner through crisis.
For some reason this makes me think of the struggles women went through during the American Suffrage movement. There were scores of pro-suffrage women whose boogas were against the movement, but sadly because of the social constructs at that time these women could not leave those boogas.
Yes same with black panthers. Women were keeping the roof up, bills paid, the IRS at bay, the paperwork done, caring for the children so black women in the community could work and sustain while their male family members trained with the panthers, and the male figureheads just snorting blow and getting into fights.
I’m also annoyed by all the hate the female firefighters are receiving. I’m a volunteer firefighter and first of all, there aren’t enough people signing up to be firefighters, certainly not for free. Secondly, there are so many roles in firefighting that does not require someone to be able to farmer carry a 200lb man out. Most firefighters, males, wouldn’t be able to do it along. It would require 5 people for 1 person. So actually, for the LA fire situation specifically by refusing to evacuate is putting your life at risk and those firefighters lives at risk.
My husband knows I will trust him up until I feel my life and my kids lives are in danger-then we will absolutely leave. I am not the boss of him, though, he is welcome to stay.
Lol I won't trust him for shat . Never was a provider or protector almost 40. While I'm 28 and yet he knows nothing of what's going on in the world unless I tell him or some female co-workers tells him. So if there's ever any trouble coming I'll never tell him I'll just disappear he's so logical let him figure it out
The war is your life. Your existence. Your comfort. Your autonomy. Those are the battles the war fronts. When they drag their feet to get to safety they are fighting against your well being. React accordingly. #PlayStupidGames🤷🏾♀️. #WinStupidPrizes🙅🏾♀️.
5:12 the red flag warning in daily life is they swear to gawd they could beat the goat of any given sport (mostly women they sweaaar) or go out and just crush it gambling in Vegas, fantasy football w/a 1k+ buy in. Anything where their hubris, their ego, and their dumbass gets you and your family into trouble is the red flag we can all learn from. Don’t let your partner drag. you. through. shit. on the daily and wonder why they drag their feet through it during a disaster. and just for good measure the offshoot of guys who swear they could protect a family in case of an emergency is when they don’t take their kid to the ER when they passed out and hit their chin on the floor. So the kid has to wait til the next week to see neuro. Where the actual helpful doctor tells the kid(and mom) that you need to be more aware in these situations, the kid needed films done, they needed bloodwork. Anything to tell the docs what happened in that instance. Now that kid is an adult who regularly get mris, infusions, and $$$ of treatments because brain stops going brr and sometimes end in eating it just like they did as a kid. It’s me. I was the kid. I remember this vividly and am still kinda angry about it.
1:37 omgosh the first time I saw this clip I was so frantic for her... then I remembered I don't keep a booga so I'd leave when it was still safe and well in advance with my cats and mother. I hope she finds her freedom and leaves this loser.
True story: About 25 years ago me and my then boyfriend were sleeping in bed...we did not live together but were spending the weekend at my place together. I had two children and they were at my parents. I wake up to a not too distant sound of, "LETS GO! GET OUT! LET'S GO!" Welp, I get up and go to my window and see firetrucks...I touch my door it was not warm or hot, then I go to the bottom of the first landing and the fire was the next floor up, but not directly above my basement apt in a building. I go back to my place a mere 50 ft or so away from this landing, yell to my bf, "IT'S a FIRE! LETS GO!" As I walk to my children's room just because I needed to be 1000% certain they were not there before I bounced. I walk back to my bedroom and this man is still sleeping despite my yelling...keep in mind this is a small 2 bedroom ...not an east wing. I shake him he wakes up but he doesn't get up...I tell him for like the 3rd time that we must leave because there is a FIRE and he is moving not expeditiously. I leave his ass right there after telling him that he can burn by himself...I'm out. Even on dates that I used to go on less I've had a man or three speed or drive unsafe for ZERO reason. I don't even like most males to drive me anywhere...I prefer to drive myself. Men love to say that women are bad drivers...and some are, but it's not a woman thing imho. Also women tend to have mild to moderate, low speed, less impact fender benders....but males tend to flip over cars and end lives due to their speeding and wreckless, impatient driving. Its up to you to keep yourself safe ladies because being a true protector is more of a woman thing imho. These males have way to much ego which can be dangerous for others safety. Oh! Yes he got up, dressed etc but his response time was too slow and quite inappropriate to me. No one died innthis fire...it was a crazy couple whod been evicted and their recourse was to set the7r couch on fire. My apt was not harmed besides a smoke smell and I moved me and my two after working doubles for two weeks...ya know...back when the rent wasn't a million dollars 😊
Friends dad just did this, refusing to leave the home during evacuation orders. He’s fractured the whole family with his selfishness. Everyone was furious and begging him but he was stubborn and refused to listen.
Now try it, being married to a first responder who "knows" when to leave and when to stay, or what to do in an emergency and constantly put you in harm's way. Yeah.
Naturalist here and I will never entrust my safety to a man in outdoor/emergency situations. Same goes for big dogs and potentially hazardous species in the exotics industry.
0:19 This is more evidence for other women, so only good news. Bad for her (unfortunately), great for women. Let them keep showing how provisional and protective they are
They were pushing elderly women down hard so they could cut line and be rescued. They were looting and rping women and children and stealing every resource for themselves
I did this in a very slightly similar (albeit nowhere near as drastic) situation. We had literally just moved into our house and we needed to evacuate for an incident, and I didn't out of sheer stubborn minded contrarianism...I'm not proud of that decision, and I accept your criticism. You're 100% right.
I know this is a very serious issue but around 5 minutes when you did the Pompeii thing and you did the really long "...Safa-Aro-staKolies...," I laughed 😂 But seriously though... I bet there were many women who died from natural disasters unnecessarily because of their men's arrogance and lack of love for life. 😢
I keep thinking, leave leave leave so you and your cat and pets get out safely. Maybe she already had. I feel this. Deferring to menz means death and destruction.
This is crazy stuff and major difference here just last week there was an active shooter near our house I told my husband best believe he unlocked that box just in case
All I have to say is don't let him guilt trip you for leaving during a natural disaster, just leave. Also think of it this way, this maybe mothers nature way of giving you a way out of the relationship...just make sure you keep a large insurance policy on him 😉😆
But acc to the Alpha bros, men are built to react to extreme situations, war, protect yada yada yada then wtf is this?! Edit : Y'know what? I would let them think they're protecting & skidaddle.
They don't use their eyes or their mind to assess reality. They judge a situation based on whether or not their 'hero instinct' kicks in. If they don't feel concerned, then their is no danger present, and everyone else is overreacting. Ego-centric, head in the sand, ostrich behavior.
There was a black guy on the news a few days ago who was saying he "didn't grab anything because he didn't take it serious" (should've been seriously but yeah) He said he was laying down and his wife was like come on we gotta go His entire house is gone 🤦🏾♀️ smh I'm so happy I have a man with sense. And if he lacked sense....he'd lack me too.
"The Party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command." Because the party rather have cogs that will gladly die than cost the state. The best part is the party doesn't have to tell them to die, it tells them to be a man.
Social media has had some real shitty effects but letting people learn what life is like for people outside their immediate circles is good. Makes it easier to trust your instincts. No, it's not just you and your best girlfriends you go to brunch with having this problem, it's millions of women sharing their experiences about it.
Unfortunately, none of these women take movies like Titanic, seriously... These guys wanna be heroes or die looking like one. Plus, the unspoken things that occur to women. Collateral damage! Just, let them go.
I do view my landlady's dog and cats as her responsibilities, but not as extensions of her. There is some leap of irrationality in these mens minds that I'm not seeing.
Just leave with your bag and the cat. Get life insurance on men like this.
Funny, but also this is just good advice! 🤣 Men like this are going to collect their Darwin Award sooner or later. Might as well recoup some of your losses.
Great handle ❤
Right!
Exactly....it's the only upside to dealing with them
@ Thank you! Yours is also amazing!
As a past wildfire evacuee, I can confirm that if you're the one that has to push to leave, you're literally in danger girl.
We survived, but our marriage didn't.
Whhhhhhaaatttt! Wow!!!
I'm happy you're away from him
The poor kitty is saying, “mom leave him. Let’s go!”
That's a terrifying thought; that she was still waiting on that fool.
I'd gotten the impression she was finally away from the fire, and the cat was going, 'you tell 'em, girl!"
Either way, that's one more foolish "he-man" who needs to stay single & childless.
That was really upsetting to me. I will never let a man distress my future pets.
@@hippie1252 Yes! And what would he do if he had actual children?
Yeah his ass would be walking out of there if that was me 🤣
Even the cat knew better than the booga.
Ladies, if he's trying to sabotage your escape efforts OF A NATURAL DISASTER, forget that he exists. Protect you and yours.
Right they need to start using COMMON sense in these situation instead of being delusional
FACTSSSSS
I was a firefighter, a damn efficient one at that. I would not stay to fight that kind of fire. Wildfires require specific training, they are a specialized department.
Yessss thank you for posting this and thank you for your bomb skills!
@chelseashurmantine8153 lol my pleasure!
Well, that's even more worrying because they have prisoners fighting those fires too, and I doubt they all have that training.
@Blu939 😦
@@chelseashurmantine8153 lol You're Welcome, Thanks!
Normalize leaving them behind. Trust and act on your intuition.
100 percent..
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Also normalise not cleaning after the shit they put themselves into after the fact
Im a firm believer in honoring ourselves by listening to our intuition but THAT kind of a situation only requires having some basic common sense. men like that are a danger to the ones they claim to 'love' and also to society. low IQ men are not worth dying for and certainly not worth risking the life of their children & animals. both women should have stood their ground and given their man the choice to leave with them or not because I'm sure many people who died in the fires were waiting on someone else to finally leave - and then it was too late.
These men care more about the optics of being strong more than actually protecting their significant others
When escaping is the strong action.
Right, because if they stay and happen to survive and people see them fighting they'll be HEROES
They might be lazy.
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I remember reading or hearing a story about someone doing gender studies of ww2 jewish history. How the women were the ones telling the men of their lives "hey things are getting from bad to worse we should leave" and the men didnt want to.
Yep, I remember learning that and being heartbroken for those women who KNEW and had to allow their husbands the last word. Unbelievable
I was just watching the documentary "The US and the Holocaust" and it mentioned how Anne Frank's Aunt (or great Aunt) offered to take the girls in (in England) and the dad declined because he didn't want to split up the family. This was before they hid in the attic.
Women more connected to small indicators of danger more than men in order to survive ,,,men cause the have physical power they think they can survive and face any danger
Holy shit, I did not know that. I need to look more into this…
I believe this. I watched Handmaid's Tale with my husband 5 years ago and said "that's where we're going." He still doesn't believe me. Why are men so lazy and inactive?
"It'll be fine." "It couldn't happen here."
Nothing reminds me to stay single more than a married woman 😅
The married one and the ones that are in relationships choose to deal with that bs
😂😂
Am married and agree 😂😂😂
Stay single for your sanity.
As a married woman of 18 years ......Gurl Amen! High five!
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This is the comment!!😂
This is the SECOND WOMAN I've seen who had to beg her man to follow an EVACUATION ORDER.
If they choose to stay in and beg these people that’s on them
I will choose to leave without anyone who doesn’t want to leave when it is time to evacuate. Surviving is the number one priority.
It absolutely shows how much he cares about you and your kids. What ever happened to a man's job to protect and provide?
I genuinely believe the "protect and provide" nonsense is propganda to make women think men are necessary.
Men were never protecters or providers that was lie sold to u by patriarchy
That is a lie.vthey never did this .
Lol they never did this girl never
If they're not smart enough to save themselves, they aren't smart enough to save you.
I saw a video of a black man whose wife warned him 3 times earlier in the evening to lets get up and go. But he said he didn't take it seriously because fires are normal. Its wasn't until the dang fire was down the street at 3am that when she told him we need to go he finally decided to leave. He then said everything still seemed normal as we were leaving so we didn't pack anything because i thought it was a regular fire. But when we got back everything was burned. Our house, trailer, cars, back home in the back yard...... I was furious for her! They had to be in their 50s. I can't imagine having the foresight to get out but allowing my husband to derail me. Furious
Really?! I watched FIVE videos of WW complaining about WM being very incompetent during major fires!! "I can't imagine having the foresight to get out, but allowing [WM] husbands to derail [their WW wives from escape]!!"
@@kevinc3342 Thats nice. I follow black pages so i see black people. Are you also just as offended and identify with black pedophiles and black male abusers? Do you want to then talk about whyte men? Get over yourself.
@@kevinc3342 Thats nice. Im black and i follow black pages so i see black people. Are you also just as offended and identify with black pedophiles and black male abusers? Do you want to then talk about whyte men? Get over yourself.
@@kevinc3342the "FIVE" videos you saw don't cancel out the one video she saw. Men are men, regardless of ethnicity, socioeconomic status, and education level. Men are men, worldwide.
I think I saw that same video several times...the man is in his 80s and was very influential in his community (Altadena). But still was unprepared, and as a result, lost it all.
I saw so many lives on TikTok of people fleeing the fires and yelling at their husbands/bfs/fathers to get going and EVERY SINGLE ONE wanted to wait or stay! 🤦♀️
A whole lot of Darwin awards to give out. 🤷
Women live longer due to common sense.
Shit I’d leave his ass and collect the life insurance policy if possible 🤷🏽♀️
It’s called “love and empathy”.
Let's be honest, men just don't have the experience that women do when it comes to being level headed and knowing how to react in a dangerous situation.
That’s because they are often the danger that women have had to learn to be level headed against….thats the point. They are the problem.
There us a reason unmarried men expire sooner.
This. I couldn't have worded it better myself. I'm so disappointed in the men in my life when they freak out and I'm the young girl who's calm and ready to handle the situation 🤣
Agreed, so tired of the "It won't happen to me" or "Not that big of a deal" denial or belief that they are invincible. And we women overthink or overreact, sure, because men won't think or act for anyone else or themselves.
Did they not see or believe the man who stayed behind in NC floodwaters when all his family evacuated and he refused? His family watched from a bridge as he spent his last hours clinging to a tree in rushing water too much for rescuers to help. His dog was washed away but found safe and rescued downstream by his family. He collapsed into the water and died. Cause of death: idiocy.
That’s just awful, but men be like, nah, the chances of something like that happening to me are zero.
I'm so relieved the dog survived and was fine. Poor thing didn't deserve to be put to harm because of an idiotic owner.
Lucky family lol
Oh, man
...The lack of self-preservation is outstanding. 😐
"Ladies, do not fight him for his healing." 💯
Too many men who grow up in civilization take civilization for granted, or that women and other people working preserving civilization will always be there for them. And somehow they will suddenly go super Saiyan mode when disaster strikes.
Faaaaacts dude faaaaaacts
This! Exactly This!
They live in a civilization that was created with them as the standard. literally the world is set up for things to magically happen for them. They live in their own personal Truman show why wouldn't the forces of nature just bend to their will.
Was seeing an interview with a completely different couple where the man frickin' admitted to not taking it seriously, not wanting to leave when his wife told him they had to go. He's getting all teary eyed about the fact the house burned down.... and everyone in the comments is pouring sympathy to him....but I just can't believe how wide spread this is! Why?! Why wont they listen!?
This is why it's so important to pay attention when he is driving or out hiking etc. I don't know how to talk about this without sounding like I'm victim blaming but there are lots of red flags that women ignore.
I must agree.
The reason it sounds like victim blaming is because it is blaming the victim. MOST women DO NOT KNOW what red flags to look for, and most of the knowledge we have is because some woman went through it and shared her story. But, yeah, don't blame the victim because she lacks the education that you so obviously have.
@@ejenglin "If you don't know, now you know."
@@ejenglin not having knowledge is one thing, not trusting your own senses is another. If there's been a choice to overlook something that gave you pause instead of noting it or digging deeper... women need support and education absolutely, but they also need to deconstruct whether they truly trust themselves or trust others more.
More of a pass the younger you are, experience leads to wisdom. "Dont let this happen again and share what you learned" type of conversation instead of "you should've known better/seen the signs"
So I had frost burn on the front of my shins as a child because my stepfather (future stepfather at the time) insisted on continuing a hike were there was snow. My mother and I were dressed for a hike on a warm day, and he had promised we could turn around if we encountered snow. Then he pushed to continue and got us lost. I don't need to recount all the details but, yeah, I had frost burn.
My mother took the situation to mean that my stepfather was a single brain cell owner, not that he was an abuser. Other than the poor decision making that led to the disaster hike I don't remember any other signs that would have been a tip off.
Its so sad!! Im hoping the best for that woman and her cat! They deserve a better life without that life threatening man.
They really try to make you choose between them and your own common sense at every opportunity.
Like the "no one will hear you scream" "prank"
Every time
The kitty is saying, Let's go! Leave him.😂😂
I’ve been through multiple natural disasters. I married a prepper. We act like a unit in emergencies. I’ve dumped guys immediately if the panic, overreact, or don’t react appropriately in an emergency situation. I need a partner.
Smart moves. My wonderful boyfriend was the one who told me we need to pack our go bags BEFORE the evac warnings reach our area. Feels so good NOT to be parenting a partner through crisis.
YES MALES ARE A LIABILITY! Also, the Cat said MOM lol
The cat has something to add to the conversation she just did not give him a chance!
That cat was trying to get moving, the cat said "Mom stop yapping and lets leave him"
😂it def said mom
For some reason this makes me think of the struggles women went through during the American Suffrage movement. There were scores of pro-suffrage women whose boogas were against the movement, but sadly because of the social constructs at that time these women could not leave those boogas.
Yes same with black panthers. Women were keeping the roof up, bills paid, the IRS at bay, the paperwork done, caring for the children so black women in the community could work and sustain while their male family members trained with the panthers, and the male figureheads just snorting blow and getting into fights.
Poor cat is terrified dam that man get you and your pets to safety 😢
Ugh, gives me flashbacks to my family… very stressful when you are the only person in the group with any common sense
Unless he, husband of the first tiktok woman, is some sort of water elemental from another planet, he isn't fighting ANY fires.
😂😂😂
8:29 fun fact: Patriotism and Patriarchy come from the same root word...for father
You're right
I’m also annoyed by all the hate the female firefighters are receiving.
I’m a volunteer firefighter and first of all, there aren’t enough people signing up to be firefighters, certainly not for free.
Secondly, there are so many roles in firefighting that does not require someone to be able to farmer carry a 200lb man out. Most firefighters, males, wouldn’t be able to do it along. It would require 5 people for 1 person.
So actually, for the LA fire situation specifically by refusing to evacuate is putting your life at risk and those firefighters lives at risk.
Yes and ty .
My husband knows I will trust him up until I feel my life and my kids lives are in danger-then we will absolutely leave. I am not the boss of him, though, he is welcome to stay.
THIS!!
Lol I won't trust him for shat . Never was a provider or protector almost 40. While I'm 28 and yet he knows nothing of what's going on in the world unless I tell him or some female co-workers tells him. So if there's ever any trouble coming I'll never tell him I'll just disappear he's so logical let him figure it out
Your awesome shanya. Men always try to be macho and will try to fight the fire.
Somebody died with a hose in his hand trying fight the fire...like life isn't a freaking movie. I bet he didn't account for that smoke inhalation.
@maichai13 he thought he would lose his manliness if he fled
“Deep fried fish stick” made me cackle. 🤣🤣🤣
I spit out my water 💀💀💀🤣🤣😭😭😭😭
Truer words have never been spoken!!! 😂😂
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0:56 even the cat is fed up w/his shit.
The war is your life. Your existence. Your comfort. Your autonomy. Those are the battles the war fronts. When they drag their feet to get to safety they are fighting against your well being. React accordingly. #PlayStupidGames🤷🏾♀️. #WinStupidPrizes🙅🏾♀️.
Happy to have you back!
This needs to be a series
Agreed! Please make this a series!
5:12 the red flag warning in daily life is they swear to gawd they could beat the goat of any given sport (mostly women they sweaaar) or go out and just crush it gambling in Vegas, fantasy football w/a 1k+ buy in. Anything where their hubris, their ego, and their dumbass gets you and your family into trouble is the red flag we can all learn from. Don’t let your partner drag. you. through. shit. on the daily and wonder why they drag their feet through it during a disaster.
and just for good measure the offshoot of guys who swear they could protect a family in case of an emergency is when they don’t take their kid to the ER when they passed out and hit their chin on the floor. So the kid has to wait til the next week to see neuro. Where the actual helpful doctor tells the kid(and mom) that you need to be more aware in these situations, the kid needed films done, they needed bloodwork. Anything to tell the docs what happened in that instance. Now that kid is an adult who regularly get mris, infusions, and $$$ of treatments because brain stops going brr and sometimes end in eating it just like they did as a kid. It’s me. I was the kid. I remember this vividly and am still kinda angry about it.
The “most logical leaders.” Yeah okay🙄😒
Lmaoooooo😂😂😂
Even the cat was sick of it. Smh
She's back!
1:37 omgosh the first time I saw this clip I was so frantic for her... then I remembered I don't keep a booga so I'd leave when it was still safe and well in advance with my cats and mother. I hope she finds her freedom and leaves this loser.
True story: About 25 years ago me and my then boyfriend were sleeping in bed...we did not live together but were spending the weekend at my place together. I had two children and they were at my parents. I wake up to a not too distant sound of, "LETS GO! GET OUT! LET'S GO!" Welp, I get up and go to my window and see firetrucks...I touch my door it was not warm or hot, then I go to the bottom of the first landing and the fire was the next floor up, but not directly above my basement apt in a building. I go back to my place a mere 50 ft or so away from this landing, yell to my bf, "IT'S a FIRE! LETS GO!" As I walk to my children's room just because I needed to be 1000% certain they were not there before I bounced. I walk back to my bedroom and this man is still sleeping despite my yelling...keep in mind this is a small 2 bedroom ...not an east wing. I shake him he wakes up but he doesn't get up...I tell him for like the 3rd time that we must leave because there is a FIRE and he is moving not expeditiously.
I leave his ass right there after telling him that he can burn by himself...I'm out.
Even on dates that I used to go on less I've had a man or three speed or drive unsafe for ZERO reason. I don't even like most males to drive me anywhere...I prefer to drive myself. Men love to say that women are bad drivers...and some are, but it's not a woman thing imho. Also women tend to have mild to moderate, low speed, less impact fender benders....but males tend to flip over cars and end lives due to their speeding and wreckless, impatient driving.
Its up to you to keep yourself safe ladies because being a true protector is more of a woman thing imho. These males have way to much ego which can be dangerous for others safety.
Oh! Yes he got up, dressed etc but his response time was too slow and quite inappropriate to me. No one died innthis fire...it was a crazy couple whod been evicted and their recourse was to set the7r couch on fire. My apt was not harmed besides a smoke smell and I moved me and my two after working doubles for two weeks...ya know...back when the rent wasn't a million dollars 😊
Friends dad just did this, refusing to leave the home during evacuation orders. He’s fractured the whole family with his selfishness. Everyone was furious and begging him but he was stubborn and refused to listen.
Now try it, being married to a first responder who "knows" when to leave and when to stay, or what to do in an emergency and constantly put you in harm's way. Yeah.
Have my own car. « Take your time babe, I’m out ✌️ »
This is super gross!!!!! (The stories about the partners of each of those ladies)
Naturalist here and I will never entrust my safety to a man in outdoor/emergency situations. Same goes for big dogs and potentially hazardous species in the exotics industry.
I would tell him, “OK, you do what you think you have to do, but I’m taking the cat (or dog), and booking it outta here!”
These women are better than me. Cause if there's any kind of policy on your life. I'm cashing in! Play with me!
I remember that hurricane in NY Ida killed people in illegal basement apartments.
Ladies! Ladies! Please just lets leave these man alone for a while.lets go 4B❤
This (ie men) is why women live 7 years shorter in heterosexual marriage and this (ie women) is why men live 7 years longer.
0:19 This is more evidence for other women, so only good news. Bad for her (unfortunately), great for women. Let them keep showing how provisional and protective they are
Same. Katrina. Made it so much worse than it would have been by handling it alone.
They were pushing elderly women down hard so they could cut line and be rescued. They were looting and rping women and children and stealing every resource for themselves
I mean yea I’m not surprised
I did this in a very slightly similar (albeit nowhere near as drastic) situation. We had literally just moved into our house and we needed to evacuate for an incident, and I didn't out of sheer stubborn minded contrarianism...I'm not proud of that decision, and I accept your criticism. You're 100% right.
Sis they have always been a damm liability. Im so tired 😫.
Leave him, peace.
This isn't about biological sex. This is about leadership. The idea that leadership has a proclivity
to one over the other is nonsense.
Not a "flimsy, delicate, weak-wristed grasp on reality" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
It blows my mind how there are really still women out here w boyfriends .
The Loss of Intuitive ability and too much reliance on “logic.”
I know this is a very serious issue but around 5 minutes when you did the Pompeii thing and you did the really long "...Safa-Aro-staKolies...," I laughed 😂
But seriously though... I bet there were many women who died from natural disasters unnecessarily because of their men's arrogance and lack of love for life. 😢
I keep thinking, leave leave leave so you and your cat and pets get out safely. Maybe she already had. I feel this. Deferring to menz means death and destruction.
Normalise leaving men behind
This is crazy stuff and major difference here just last week there was an active shooter near our house I told my husband best believe he unlocked that box just in case
All I have to say is don't let him guilt trip you for leaving during a natural disaster, just leave. Also think of it this way, this maybe mothers nature way of giving you a way out of the relationship...just make sure you keep a large insurance policy on him 😉😆
You know… I always wanted to have the confidence of a mediocre man. But now, with hearing these stories, I’m starting to walk that back 😅
THEY KILL THEIR PARTNERS PETS CHILDREN ETC WITH THEIR EGOS AND IGNORANCE. LEAVE THEM. I cant stand this type of bs. Sooo unhelpful and a liability
But acc to the Alpha bros, men are built to react to extreme situations, war, protect yada yada yada then wtf is this?!
Edit : Y'know what? I would let them think they're protecting & skidaddle.
They don't use their eyes or their mind to assess reality. They judge a situation based on whether or not their 'hero instinct' kicks in. If they don't feel concerned, then their is no danger present, and everyone else is overreacting. Ego-centric, head in the sand, ostrich behavior.
It's 10K structures, it includes cars, scheds, boats and the like, not just homes.
Thank you, Shayna ❤ 😂👍🏿
It's because men NEVER had to think about their safety in the same way women HAVE TO ON A DAILY BASIS.
There was a black guy on the news a few days ago who was saying he "didn't grab anything because he didn't take it serious" (should've been seriously but yeah)
He said he was laying down and his wife was like come on we gotta go
His entire house is gone 🤦🏾♀️ smh
I'm so happy I have a man with sense. And if he lacked sense....he'd lack me too.
If the women choose to stay knowing their lives are at risk that’s on them …..
💯 Facts. Good show.
"The Party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command." Because the party rather have cogs that will gladly die than cost the state. The best part is the party doesn't have to tell them to die, it tells them to be a man.
Social media has had some real shitty effects but letting people learn what life is like for people outside their immediate circles is good. Makes it easier to trust your instincts.
No, it's not just you and your best girlfriends you go to brunch with having this problem, it's millions of women sharing their experiences about it.
That cat was cosigning everything you said😂 2:37
They tripping if i have an insurance policy on him and yeah you stay i wont beg you.
1:09 Gotta love the cat hyping her up. 😂
Unfortunately, none of these women take movies like Titanic, seriously... These guys wanna be heroes or die looking like one. Plus, the unspoken things that occur to women. Collateral damage! Just, let them go.
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Even the cat was saying, “Go, NOW”.
I don’t mean to laugh but when you said, “ Greg leave the armoire, people are dying.” I bought fell out this bed😂 it’s true though
DO NOT FIGHT HIM FOR HIS HEALING....BABAY GOSPEL!!!!
And watch the vultures swoop in to claim the devastated parts of LA.
Marriage is until death do you part. If a man wants to go to the hereafter early, let him go solo
The cat is like “ I told you he was a booga girl “
All facts
😂 Staffa Arocloticlese 😂 I cant even spell.
You are beyond hilarious girl 🤣 "will he become a deep fried fish stick?... Possibly. Anyway-"
😡the rage of the ooga booga’s 3:29 😭as we try to save those they love😭😭😭
Im pretty sure my husband knows I'll leave him 😂😂
Weak wrist'd grip on reality. 💯🔥
I do view my landlady's dog and cats as her responsibilities, but not as extensions of her. There is some leap of irrationality in these mens minds that I'm not seeing.
Girl, I would be driving.