Then the low childbirth rate in the country is a major issue for the future. Was the Handmaiden's Tale a window into the future? Make it make sense....good luck.....interesting to see where we are 4 years from now
@@hopenewton9565 i promise you, the government isn’t gonna start forcing you to have babies, there are 300 million americans, there’s too many people in this country for that to happen
I see a lot more Janet Jackson style prenups: 5 years in the marriage 200 million. Have one child, another 200 million. Make your financial arrangement before the government does.
And make sure he hands over the money for the children before getting pregnant. Be prepared to be forced to give it back if the pregnancy doesn't happen, and have a contingency for at least partial payment if the pregnancy doesn't work out.
Agree even if you aren't Janet you can demand property of his in your name legally as an exchange for leaving your job for him have some type of contract to protect yourself while you're a stay at home wife if he doesn't agree on this or doesn't have the ability to grant this for you he has no right to demand you leave your job for him or the right to be a boyfriend/husband for you
Especially since women have higher credit scores and more savings. The media and social narrative is that women are the frivolous spenders. Carrie Bradshaw from SITC and movies like "confessions of a shopaholic". When the reality is the complete opposite. I just can't believe how well we were all led to believe otherwise.
Exactly, all the fence-sitters are becoming "HELL NAW". 1 ) What's the point of marriage if "provider" part of the contract is out the window? What is he here for? 2) Why risk activities leading to childbearing if there will be no help for you if you are sick while pregnant or if it goes wrong? 3) Why risk pregnancies if you can be fired for it now? Men are starting to look like loaded guns at this point.
As a guy, I support this. Let's see how women do alone with everything in terms of supporting society. Hell I can't wait for all the women oil riggers and service women.
@@Stephanpar23 Can’t wait to see men doing the bottom wiping in nursing homes (with a smile on your face) and doing “people” jobs all day. They’ll lose their minds. Spending a day with a toddler practically breaks most of ya. It’s weird how artificial our world has become that anyone who has to do oil rigging. It’s a mess you all started. Everyone is unhappy.
What about all of the woman who married a broke ass guy, and then helps and supports him to get a degree or start a business with her help doing all of the unpaid work, and he became rich. Then, in 20 years, he leaves her for a younger woman. That is the vast majority of stories.
Yeah they seem to only see things that they can use to push their victim narrative. Like if a woman gets more than some crumbs in a divorce every random man has a problem with it.
Aren't women the ones saying that the famous rich men divorce older ladies for younger ones? If that's the case, why would he care if she leaves or not.
@@ML-nb3ct obviously, but most women wake up and realise that as they age. OP is pointing out 20s because that's when most women get got and don't realise what they're sacrificing.
@@wolfsisterhowls Exactly, they haven't had the chance to find themselves, being fresh from high school and whatever familial/societal/environmental brainwashing (usually to put m*les on a pedestal and become perfect wifey/mommy ASAP). Young women are still impulsive, naive, full of projected good faith and compassion, wanting to try new things, insecure, impressionable and wanting to impress. So ripe for being used and taken advantage of. Put on trajectories of bad decisions derailing their whole life, as we as society are so unforgiving towards "impure", imperfect, not ever-wise women and yet judged if we're prudes.
Trump administration said blacks are the reason the divorce rate is high😂. Also blacks are most likely to not start a family. If you can wrap your head around these 2 stats! Hes hell bent on destroying everything that was America!! Busy
Never going into bondage again. Ladies remember these men get old age and turn into adult infants. I work with elderly daily. The work of the woman doesn’t end even in old age. Word of caution!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂 How do the same women talk about how they don't need men but always looking to take money from a man? Where do you knock what you are depending on? Do burger joints talk crap about fat people?
Exactly! Neither do I personally know a woman who was poor, got married to a rich man, and after the divorce, remained non-working and rich. Or left with any assets!
I actually dated a rich man and saved money when I left him. Rich men will spend lavishly on things that are actually for themselves (food and vacations) then turn around and expect you to return the favour. This man was worth millions and refused to even split utilities with me because "I spend so much money on you already." He would spend $500 taking himself to fancy dinners with me in tow, but would get screaming mad if I asked him to cover the $35 water bill if I cover the $40 trash and sewage bill. He lived in MY home for a year, and never paid a bill. Even these rich men are parasites.
So he believes this is a "lucrative business" for sneaky women, but when does he plan on addressing the REAL lucrative business of forcing inmates to work for free in the southern states, aka modern slavery??? 🤔
The moment they change these laws as well as the child support laws women that want to leave their husbands need to give them sole custody of the children as well. The money that they think they are saving will cost them more in the long run. These laws are being changed to try to stop women from leaving and punish them if they do. But women have full autonomy over their lives and they can and will walk away from these men, handing over the responsibility of raising their kids to their father. Watch how fast men change their attitude when they suddenly become the main child carer. I am not married, nor do I have kids. If I ever find myself in this position, I am becoming the part time parent. I couldn’t care less about judgment. I refuse to be the struggling single mother while he lives like he is a single child free man. This is a good thing. One way or another men will learn.
I think a lot of the people who judge this perspective struggle with the idea of making the children collateral damage (terrible husbands are rarely good fathers). Their perspective is that the choice to bring children into this world comes with the implicit knowledge that your needs will never supercede theirs. This is one of the many reasons I don't have children (I agree that motherhood comes with the expectation to always put your children's needs your own and I don't have any interest in ever doing that, it sounds like a psychological thriller plot). Having said that, I think women need to start accepting that we might temporarily have to just be the bad guy. Is it GOOD to leave children in potentially unsafe situations? No. But be the bad guy and accept the villain role. It will only take a single generation of women doing this for men to experience the TRUE responsibilities of parenthood. It will only take a single generation of women undergoing the therapy to overcome the guilt. But in that generation: parenthood (and motherhood specifically) will finally stop being treated as a default setting for women but not for men. Men will start valuing the sacrifice they previously took for granted. Women will start really evaluating if it's even worth it. And the laws will change to reflect this shift. All this nonsense Donnie is trying to enact will disappear under the sheer weight of men finally waking up to their entitlement and children of those men fighting back. And it will be worthwhile for all the children of the future that a single generation took the painful choice to set things to rights. But women won't do it because we are so invested in not being the villain. So these men (who don't care) will continue to play in our collective faces 🤷🏿♀️
@@wolfsisterhowls Ever heard of 1975 Icelandic women's strike? Women clocked out for ONE DAY, completely hands off, went to a rally, and men were fumbling doing childcare, bringing kids to work, easy to prepare sausages were sold out, infrastructure crumbling. But women got their goals met and value appreciated as a result. If women aren't going to put some fire under men's arses they'll never see the hellhole we are expected to live in. Let them see what it's like living life on "easy" mode. Let's see how they like it. Time to be the villains for the sake of better future. No more putting out men's fires so they learn not to make them or deal with them themselves.
@wolfsisterhowls honestly I'd question that moral obligation in the first place . Maybe I'm just selfish , but the expectation that your children's needs will ALWAYS supersede your own seems toxic to me. You cant fill from an empty cup, so if you actually want to be a good parent you need to sometimes put your needs and wants above theirs . It can also become toxic to the child. I was raised by a mother where I was her entire life and honestly it made me miserable as a child because it put me essentially "in charge" of the household , because my moods, Wants and desires controlled everyone else's moods and actions. I understood that and it made me feel pressured to be in control at all times so that I wouldn't inadvertently cause a problem for my family . I think if it had been made clear to me that I was valued , but a member of a family where everyone's needs are equally valued I'd have been a better adjusted , more balanced person.
@@wolfsisterhowls what's better for the kid ? To be raised by an immature , emotionally absent father who pays for nannies and has a big nice house , and they get to spend the weekends with a happy , thriving mom who has all the time and energy in the world to focus on them , Or spend every week with a stressed out , angry single mother in a worse economic situation whilst occasionally getting some money in a card or a shitty weekend away ? The issue is too many women view what's best for the child in terms of her duty , without acknowledging that her children will do better just having her love and attention . Which you'll only be capable of giving if you're happy in yourself .
@@forestdaydreams9447 you're asking the wrong person because I don't believe in that fantasy. I have no interest in bringing a sentient being into this world only to not prioritise that beings needs (not wants) over mine because it's suddenly inconvenient to me after I've already made the choice. I'd rather spare them entirely of existence. But I'm in the minority of women... most women want kids no matter what. And for those women: This is one of the responsibilities of parenthood that I think is actually ethical (to prioritise a child's needs, again NEEDS not wants) over your own since they are wholly and solely dependent upon that level of self sacrifice to survive. But too often that expectation falls on the woman's shoulders without similar expectations from the man, which is why we are in the state of things we are in now. And women have just been going with it, for fear of abandoning their children to a worse fate of leaving them with selfish and statistically violent fathers. I say: do it anyway. You may want to protect your child, but it's too late. They're here. And temporarily protecting them means you implicitly comply with continuing the status quo that makes the world unsafe in the long-term. Be the bad guy. You seem to be sure that the father will just be emotionally absent but I personally don't have a crystal ball to guarantee that the father won't retaliate against the child (remember: MOST fathers are not rich and living in big homes with child care they can outsource; so the child will be the DIRECT recipient of the frustration you painted in your portrait of the single mother. MOST women are having children with regular or even poor men who wouldn't think twice about lashing out at the child the way your scenario assumes the woman would...and worse. MOST violent crimes happen at the hands of men.) That's why I say be willing to be the villain and let the dice fall where it falls for just ONE generation 🤷🏿♀️ The assumption that the child will be rich and safe and comfortable and you'll be able to pop in and mend their heart over the weekends is one that is not based in statistical or practical reality. They'll probably be neglected AND abused by their fathers. They'll probably resent you for freeing yourself. But nobody worries about that possibility with absentee fathers until it's time to blame the mother for an adult's life decisions, so let's flip the table. Let's be willing to wash our hands (IF we are willing to have kids at all) when these men switch up after children. Let's be willing to be the bad guys who "abandon" children with their fathers for a single generation and watch the pendulum swing. Is it ethical? Probably not. But it would definitely be effective. Men don't care about the things we say, they only care about the things we DO. They will never adjust the laws to address women's concerns until women force them to be uncomfortable. History shows that. Let's make them uncomfortable and pay for therapy to deal with the ideas/fear/guilt behind how that MAY affect our children. Again... it'll never happen but if it did it would end this nonsense QUICK. Problem is: most women think that children's safety is solely their responsibility because the world tells us that. Let's put the responsibility in men's hands solely and see how quickly they come to the table. (Edited to add this last bit)
Attorney here: Things are indeed moving in these directions, and I appreciate Shayna making this video. So saying, it's important to know that marriage is a matter of STATE law, not federal, so regardless of how rancid the orange man's agenda here is, he has no control over what the state you divorce in allows.
I was a solely independent woman. Making great money, working on my career, had my own car and house. I left that marriage with 3 sets of clothes. He had all my items hostage. I had my baby and had to get a job. Get left overs from people to eat. I used that money for baby clothes and work clothes (first paycheck). He then kidnapped my child.... Anyway point is. That marriage was not beneficial. In anyway...
Marriage is a messed up work contract. You get treated like a princess the first day of the job (wedding ceremony/reception/presents) and get to take a nice vacation (honeymoon) for a job whose duties are actually cook, nanny, maid, etc. And, you don't get a salary, just room and board. It's a mousetrap. After you get the cheese you get crushed and immobilized. Getting away becomes increasingly difficult and dangerous, not to mention societally condemned. You get trapped with kids, financial blackmail, threats to your life and safety and so on. Big white dress and propaganda that it's "happiest day of our lives" is just lure and bait into being sucked into a black hole of stress, labor, loss of sense of self.
What will the manosphere pretend to have over women now that they cut off last thread of it being worth to meddle with them? "The ring" they used to dangle is useless now lmao.
Excellent video. I put my career off 15 years to support my husband's military career. I knew MANY women who did the same without the happy marriage. But many were financially abused, as you said. And they are supposed to move on without spousal support? What about how his ability to advance his career considering all the hours she did working with kids, cooking, personal shopping.... every time i think i can't like that man less, he proves me wrong 🙄
I also love the idea of a call to divorce 😂 this would make him so angry and like maybe the price of eggs goes down but all men get no attention anymore 😅
That man really got to you-still living rent-free in your head. When a man gets married, his role is to provide and protect for his family just like a wife role is to care for the family, raise children. But once the marriage ends, those obligation should end to each other and focus on the children as parents. Yet, courts and women seem to think otherwise, forcing men to continue their marital duties for years-sometimes for life. Imagine if divorce worked both ways-where you still had to fulfill your relationship duties for years, cooking, cleaning, and even sleeping with your ex till he got married again! Sounds ridiculous, right? Yet, financially, that’s exactly what happens to men. Women need to grow up and get a job just like a man does, women asked for equality so you shall get it. Don't be mad at what you demanded. I bet if your marriage worked out and didn't have a job till later on in life, we know you would be far happier talking about how great your life was and you had a great husband with many children. You're just pissy because your fantasy didn't work out the way you wanted. He probably has a new partner and happy as pig in mud. I'm actually curious what his side of the story is.
@@Dalik1000 I always "loved" the way men's obligations were expected to last after marriage, while women don't even have to do a damn thing in marriage, much less after
@Dalik1000 I'm happily married. 20 years. My husband is aware of the sacrifice I've made. Too many men are not. And based on your post, you do not know the real value of women either, regardless of your own gender. I saw on the video that she has a great breakdown on the financial savings a stay at home mom is. Maybe look that up?
@@Stephanpar23facts bro funny single women will keep other women single with them and usually there unhappy so makes sense Shayna said she knows other rich people nah cause rich men don’t associate with mid tier women
@@christopherbrown5409 How much money you should give back your wife because you give part of your salary to the children you made in another town when you were going on “business trips”?
"Big Orange Booga". That's one of the best descriptions of him I've ever seen. I'm gonna raise a hand for my sister, mother and auntie. It's all the same story. Got married, had kids and the man went full booga once he thought his wife was trapped. They all got out, but not without debt. And or course, only one of three men paid their child support. And it was staye minimum.
@@lepotdefleur9906 this is a bit of an urban myth. Prenups only get thrown out when they disregard standard practice. So do research and don't let anyone rush or pressure you. It's not hard to find the list of things that make prenups invalid. A few examples: -a prenup cannot be signed under duress. Example: a day before the wedding, where there is pressure to sign to avoid embarrassment. Solution: prenup signed and stored a YEAR before the wedding, at minimum. (Edit: this is excellent proof that both parties signed it fully aware, had enough time to consider it over the course of the engagement and pull out or renegotiate if they reconsidered and thus there is no grounds for claiming it was unfair or prejudicial or one party was coerced somehow). -a prenup cannot make custody determinations (a lot of women get got here!) The court will always be the final say in the best interests of the child so ensure your lawyer or his doesn't sneak in language about the care and custody of the children. The prenup if for the MARRIAGE. -a prenup is solidified if there are terms that get enacted immediately, such as a signing bonus or a scheduled postnup that reaffirms the terms. Signing bonuses are the easiest: if someone agrees to the terms, gets given an upfront payment that they ACCEPT and bank, the court won't look kindly on them trying to act like they don't agree with the terms at the time of divorce. You agreed to the upfront payment so it's clear you were happy with the parts that suited you. therefore the prenup is upheld!" This has an excellent track record legally. Do your own research and remember: if you don't have your own prenup, you are accepting the prenup the government GIVES you. And the government does not know nor care about what you have to gain or lose.
they've just hand waved them in the past so no prenup only works if the culture of men decide it works and if they're sexist enough they decide it doesn't work.
What’s ironic is that his 1st wife Ivana was the driving force behind him. Truly multiplying his wealth and making him a household brand name and she was very hardworking so according to his new law his 1st would’ve walked away with nothing.
3:10 All of the failed marriages that I know about did not fail because the woman wanted to get rich quick. And the ones where the woman did get at least half of the man's stuff, he usually was the breadwinner (because that's how it was set up, it was on purpose) and then he fkd up
What so many of these men don't understand is that they are getting a steal of a deal. My baby's father pays child support and provides nothing else. So, for the minor inconvenience of about $400/month, he gets to get out of ALL of the childcare responsibilities for life. Even daycare workers aren't compensated that well. And to all the dads who do show up, you still likely didn't earn 100% of what you'd owe that woman if either of you left. Let's be real. Women do way more work than you do, and they earned every one of your dollars and then some.
Was 20+ yrs ago, but yeah: was in a relationship where the guy was financially abusive and draining and when he found out that I had a savings account of any amount whatsoever he was enraged because he knew that that would give me the potential leverage to leave him. When I asked him to change up financially how we divide up the bills because he made three times what I did salary-wise and ate 80 percent of the groceries but we split everything down the middle he was not having it at all. That was the beginning of the end And of course I did end it
My 6’8” husband ate us out of house and home. He was a beast around food. Didn’t look up until his plate was clean. It was something savage to watch. I couldn’t do it anymore.
@@jet4415 They do use and require a lot more calories. Can you imagine how much of the k*ll they ate before even bringing it back to the village thousands of years ago?
This sounds like another reason for woman to have their own money and not be a sahm/sahw. In this day n age, most men are the gold diggers. This will end badly for them.
Absolutely have NO problem with this. I disagree with his reasons, but my ex husband didn't contribute a dime and I was lucky to get out with MY home and MY vehicles. I am WAY more in debt but so much more happier that i don't HAVE A DEPENDENT. ❤ Sprinkle that!
So... Melania stalled going to the White House the first round bc she was renegotiating her Pre Nup. How many of us are betting that she renegotiated yet again? Bc, that hat???
The states can go along with it… watch the hell that breaks loose when these women start giving up custody of multiple children to the father. I assume since she can't afford to take care of the kids alone she definitely can't pay support. Women are going to gladly reverse roles and be the weekend parent.
Men really don’t want SAHMs. They want women’s paychecks so they can buy a new truck and a nice house they think they deserve. Women really lose in most partnerships.
Ok but here is the thing, americans dont complain in real life, see what korea did, the president wanted to place martial law and they went ALL OUTSIDE to barricade the place, usa do nothing besides complaint in social media, even in my country people go oustide and complaint, close whole roads using cars ... Revolve !!!!!!!
Tell us you know nothing about America without telling us. It’s always non-Americans that have the most to say about America without knowing a damn thing about America and don’t even live here. 😂 “In MY CoUnTrY” stay in your lane and worry about your own country then. So tired of yall commenting on America when you don’t even know what really happens here. Yall are obsessed with us.
42% adults are married in the US. There are women who think they’re happily married until they’re unhappily married. This law if passed will increase poverty and homelessness in women.
This is the intended consequence. They want you desperate and destitute.. The more reason for woman to charge for being a housewife, or keep a job and a separate bank account..
I mean just follow -- so w no fault you have to know that the ms is waiting for it to take effect so they can cheat with utter impunity. I can't believe that no one sees this.
… And a bunch of single-father households. Women will walk away scott free (as men have been doing in the past) and enjoy being the weekend parent. Men will lose their minds, this bill wont be just for rich men it will be for average earners as well.
@@Stoudemnot necessarily. A lot of women get caught up in the grasp of narcissists. I'm sure he presented himself a certain way when they first met and now she is with a monster.
Widowed at 32, with 4 kids. Never remarrying hearing this. Already dealt with too many dusties looking to get my children’s tax returns. Women please vet these gold digging men out here! My ex bf just tried to circle the block on Tuesday, right at Tax return season, nah nah nahhh-boy bye!! 👋
Facts!!! Please let them know. This is NOT for bw same thing applies when he speaks on birth rates l can assure you he’s NOT asking for more black babies. So who do they actually think he’s speaking to? 🤔😂
On my block/in my building, I know of FOUR couples in which the husband/live-in boyfriend who is abusive DOESNT WORK/sits at home smoking cigarettes and weed all day. In three of these cases, the wives work 15-hour shifts or have worked full-time while undergoing cancer treatment/other serious illness, just to be able to make ends meet. In one case, the girlfriend is an inheritance recipient and special needs/severely learning disabled/autistic - he was couch surfing and broke when she met him, but she moved him right in and he openly pretends to be successful and rich, while using her money as his retirement plan. Sidenote: all of these couple are white, so this isnt just a Pookie thing. This is on my block ALONE.
Sadly disabled women and those with impairments (even poor mental health) are a prime target for users. Women have to get their mind together as much as they can to protect themselves. And I agree, I see dusty white couples left and right but people want to pretend it’s only certain women falling for the okey doke.
She always looks pissed off, just like him. lol They're both miserable and bitter, that's why they want to do the same to innocent Americans. It's going to backfire on him tho, just wait and watch.
I foresee the 1st Lady begging for spare change in the skreets. I feel like he's getting his ducks in a row beforehand. Plus his youngest is grown now, correct?
I started out a teen mom without a job at 18. Once I got a job all but one of my relationships I had more money. The only one that had more than me was 15 years older than me. I didn't even have a lucrative career throughout most of that, and most men only came close. I've never seen a woman walk away from a marriage in better shape than she went in. Except for in tv coverage of super rich people. I've learned since that what appears to be a lucrative divorce for the woman ends up not being that lucrative in the end. The legal bills alone tend to drain away most, if not all, of that woman's gains. The amount of times I've heard of the guy just dropping everything, and disappearing without any, or many, repercussions is definitely high though. Women are usually left covering (almost) everything financially for herself and the children. Rich men like Trump are pushing these narratives because they tend to get the most notable financial hits during a divorce. They know they actually should be paying it, but don't want to because of greed and ego. They know they can get away with it because even the poorest man likes to pretend he has any money to lose, and will support them.
Beware of the rich grandparents who will want the children even when he couldn't are less, when he doesnt want them grandma will help legally for him to keep them and he might do anything to please her.
It's lowering the costs in the sense that women will be forced to be with men and then do all the work for the man and pay for his expenses. That is the plan for such laws. Mandated gfs and wives.
These Project 2025 politicians can't have it both ways. If a woman gets nothing in a divorce, fine. Allow her to get an education and make sure she has the right to work for gainful employment, not struggle to survive employment.
This is perfect. Lady's quote Trump to your conservative SO, see if they agree when we reverse it. See if they like us protecting our assets and staying in the workforce bc "Well, the president said that marriage doesn't/shouldn't equalize our finances". Is like he really is not concerned with the drop of the birthrate... Yet.
Leaving the kids with the man would be potentially very tragic being the high pdf file risk. To have no choice but to leave your children with a predators or live in poverty with children and no work experience.
@@christopherbrown5409Predators, just like the majority of men. It's not going to be that same person you knew once you leave out the door as a woman.
Hold up, I only know one other shayna. She is childless and fabulous too. But I came here to say, that she was one of the FIRST women to lift me up. I was single teen mom, she took my kid under her wings. To this day they got a bond outside of me. My daughter is grown now. I know that she modeled her life after Shayna . I can tell. Thank u Shayna for ur works too. Bc u got me thinking all the time.
Saying no to marriage seems too easy. There's got to be something in the works that will make us have to get married. I lost a whole business, a house, a boy friend and a best friend all on the same day. Turned out they were con artists and working together. Not married but I was good before I met these people.
I'm 3B. I'll go on a date with a guy, but, not looking for a boyfriend, marriage, children, or anything along those lines. Nobody is living with me. I've got a skeleton dressed as The Mandalorian with Grogu sitting in his lap. I've got my ready-made family. And, sometimes, I even rest my head on that skeleton's armor clad shoulder. It can actually be quite comforting. And he expects nothing in return. That's how genuinely kind he is!
✋✋✋✋✋✋✋✋✋✋ hands up! 🙌 I don't know if I know a female that isn't in a relationship where she's supporting the man except for my brother and two uncles. Mind you I have three aunts and a sister that supported every man they had been with.
I have a feeling “covenant” marriages will be challenged at the Supreme Court. Covenants are made with deities not States and the State should not be promoting a single, faith based option for all people.
Do it anyway. Be the villain. Women need to stop always wanting to consider everyone when nobody else does. Just ONE generation of selfish women would change the game!
50/50 property share would only be for community property states? Which isn’t most of them. All the same, I probably should have had a prenup replicating state law, but I didn’t think of that before marriage.
If you don't want kids in the next 5-10 years and you are able to (medically, through insurance, etc...) get an IUD or an implant. Obviously protect yourself however else you need, but an IUD or implant are solid starting points for long-term prevention and they're much, MUCH more difficult to sabotage than the pill, nuvaring, or the shot.
Work for it? If she's a housewife and mother, she's definitely working for it 365 days a year, in many cases with no breaks/vacations away. Seems like he's just trying to change the laws to benefit very wealthy men whne it's their business to the operation of their marriage and divorce. Get a pre-nup if you're worried about $$.
Me me me mentality, not focused on the family, no concern for the woman’s sacrifice. I’ll never advocate for women to stay home and raise children. It’s such a gamble. A lot of these men will up and leave if a better option comes along, probably someone he meets at work. Nope.
No marriage. No children. None. Period.
No sex either. That’s all they really want anyway.
Let the birth rates plummet to Hades.
You get it
Then the low childbirth rate in the country is a major issue for the future. Was the Handmaiden's Tale a window into the future? Make it make sense....good luck.....interesting to see where we are 4 years from now
@@hopenewton9565 i promise you, the government isn’t gonna start forcing you to have babies, there are 300 million americans, there’s too many people in this country for that to happen
Countries that fail women, fail.
There's a video with that title now.
All of them.
I wish that was so but for most of history women were property of their husbands and still their countries forged ahead and are still doing so.
1,000%
Period!
I see a lot more Janet Jackson style prenups: 5 years in the marriage 200 million. Have one child, another 200 million. Make your financial arrangement before the government does.
Janet is so smart ❤
And make sure he hands over the money for the children before getting pregnant. Be prepared to be forced to give it back if the pregnancy doesn't happen, and have a contingency for at least partial payment if the pregnancy doesn't work out.
AMEN!!!!
Agree even if you aren't Janet you can demand property of his in your name legally as an exchange for leaving your job for him have some type of contract to protect yourself while you're a stay at home wife if he doesn't agree on this or doesn't have the ability to grant this for you he has no right to demand you leave your job for him or the right to be a boyfriend/husband for you
Remember ladies, home buyership is highest amongst married couples and single women. They literally can't afford homes without us.
Especially since women have higher credit scores and more savings. The media and social narrative is that women are the frivolous spenders.
Carrie Bradshaw from SITC and movies like "confessions of a shopaholic".
When the reality is the complete opposite.
I just can't believe how well we were all led to believe otherwise.
Period
So then you should have no problem with Trump's EO
They can afford it; they just don’t care about home ownership.
Better check with these realtors. I bought both of my home unmarried. I bought homes in 2 different states 🤷🏽♀️
When are men going to reimburse women for carrying/birthing their children? Average surrogacy cost in the USA is $100k
Men don't need to reimburse women for anything.
@Say-Les youre right because they actually shouldn't be giving yall ungrateful dusties children in the first place
@@Say-Les Maybe you need to take a note from your username and do the same.
@@Say-Les Alright, the Men aren't privvy to our time, money, and peace then.
@@Say-Les Hahahahaha! Now THAT's hilarious. You're clearly a REALLY bitter, old, cheeto luvva. 🤣 You bitter old cheetos are all the same.
Make motherhood a well paid respectable profession with benefits.
They're basically telling women you aren't worthy of respect at all.
Motherhood should be the highest paid career that garners the most respect.
Pay depends upon the husband. It's the highest reward depending on how the child(ren) turns out
I’ll pass on motherhood as I NEVER wanted kids to begin with. Had BOTH of my tubes removed 2 years ago and STILL NO REGRETS. I’m good.😮💨✌🏻
They should just pay women to birth future workers and pay her real money to do it. It was be cheaper and she would have real benefits.
the marriage and childbirth rate is about to drop
Drop faster, you mean.
Fuck yes 🙌
You ain't never lied. Lol these pretty girls who take care of themselves will not look for any of these ugly men
Oh well! NOT everyone’s problem as some of us don’t subscribe to marriage and having kids. F**k that!🤷🏽♀️
Exactly, all the fence-sitters are becoming "HELL NAW". 1 ) What's the point of marriage if "provider" part of the contract is out the window? What is he here for? 2) Why risk activities leading to childbearing if there will be no help for you if you are sick while pregnant or if it goes wrong? 3) Why risk pregnancies if you can be fired for it now?
Men are starting to look like loaded guns at this point.
I think Melania is getting ready to leave him and he knows it.
I think all these “business suits” she’s been wearing lately is the hint.
She's not going anywhere. She gets paid very well for her services. And she can leverage her association to grift in her own right.
@ Melania learned to grift from a master.
I think he's gonna do the leaving
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4b y’all. 4b. these dudes don’t deserve a damn thing
Except 6ft under
As a guy, I support this. Let's see how women do alone with everything in terms of supporting society.
Hell I can't wait for all the women oil riggers and service women.
@@Stephanpar23
Can’t wait to see men doing the bottom wiping in nursing homes (with a smile on your face) and doing “people” jobs all day. They’ll lose their minds. Spending a day with a toddler practically breaks most of ya.
It’s weird how artificial our world has become that anyone who has to do oil rigging. It’s a mess you all started. Everyone is unhappy.
They don't!!!!
ore women are employed than men
What about all of the woman who married a broke ass guy, and then helps and supports him to get a degree or start a business with her help doing all of the unpaid work, and he became rich. Then, in 20 years, he leaves her for a younger woman. That is the vast majority of stories.
Yeah they seem to only see things that they can use to push their victim narrative. Like if a woman gets more than some crumbs in a divorce every random man has a problem with it.
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Run. When you know he's not the guy, RUN. Even if you take a loss. RUN
Any woman who has to get with a boga, keep everything separate at all times. Especially living apart and especially no giving him a copy of the key.
With this, any single blk woman should SERIOUSLY consider whether she wants marriage or children for AT LEAST the next four years.
Melania threatened divorce and he said bet, this is personal
😮
Exactly what I was thinking. Wanting to change the law because his wife wants to leave.
Right, Melanie better think of something quick😭She got a iron clad prenup she needs to uphold
yep I think thats what went down. there is alot of craziness in these room we are not in. Only God knows!
Aren't women the ones saying that the famous rich men divorce older ladies for younger ones? If that's the case, why would he care if she leaves or not.
If you are in your 20 s. Your 20 s are for you. Your effort labour is for you. Find a purpose and go for it
30s and 40s as well!!
Amen you ain't never lied 🙌@kiaharper7172
Your entire life is for you, regardless of age.
@@ML-nb3ct obviously, but most women wake up and realise that as they age. OP is pointing out 20s because that's when most women get got and don't realise what they're sacrificing.
@@wolfsisterhowls Exactly, they haven't had the chance to find themselves, being fresh from high school and whatever familial/societal/environmental brainwashing (usually to put m*les on a pedestal and become perfect wifey/mommy ASAP). Young women are still impulsive, naive, full of projected good faith and compassion, wanting to try new things, insecure, impressionable and wanting to impress. So ripe for being used and taken advantage of. Put on trajectories of bad decisions derailing their whole life, as we as society are so unforgiving towards "impure", imperfect, not ever-wise women and yet judged if we're prudes.
That was reason number 22 why I’m an ecstatically happy divorced 57 year old woman. I’ll never… yes I said never… marry again.
Me as well...left my ex-husband at 30 and never looked back..Im 50 now and keep myself men free.
The joy of freedom is palpable. My kids are older. I have major travel plans this year, I’m just 49. Not attach to no man. Freedom is so good!!
Yes, but for women of child bearing age in 2025...this is a scary time for them.
@@Blissedxthey better lock down their uteri and get iron clad prenups!!!
@@d.thompson7464 don’t worry no men want to marry a 50 year old lol
Marriage rates are about to plummet
Plummet faster, they were already plummeting!
Trump administration said blacks are the reason the divorce rate is high😂. Also blacks are most likely to not start a family. If you can wrap your head around these 2 stats! Hes hell bent on destroying everything that was America!! Busy
Never going into bondage again. Ladies remember these men get old age and turn into adult infants. I work with elderly daily. The work of the woman doesn’t end even in old age. Word of caution!!!
PLUMMET❣❣❣
Marraige is already dead
Most rich men don't want their women to work. So, YES, she deserves to get every resource to stabilize her life if a divorce happens.
Since when do y'all care what men want?
@christopherbrown5409 😂😂😂😂💅🏿💅🏿💅🏿go back a re-read my comment boy.
@@lisaisabell5024 your comment is unintelligent.
Since when do you care what men want, and since when do you do what men want?
How many rich people do you know?
😂😂😂😂😂😂
How do the same women talk about how they don't need men but always looking to take money from a man?
Where do you knock what you are depending on? Do burger joints talk crap about fat people?
Where are all of these wealthy men 😂😂😂 I don’t see none
Exactly! Neither do I personally know a woman who was poor, got married to a rich man, and after the divorce, remained non-working and rich. Or left with any assets!
This part 👆
@@MsSemki what about the women you DON'T know?
@@christopherbrown5409 what about women I DO know?
I actually dated a rich man and saved money when I left him. Rich men will spend lavishly on things that are actually for themselves (food and vacations) then turn around and expect you to return the favour. This man was worth millions and refused to even split utilities with me because "I spend so much money on you already." He would spend $500 taking himself to fancy dinners with me in tow, but would get screaming mad if I asked him to cover the $35 water bill if I cover the $40 trash and sewage bill. He lived in MY home for a year, and never paid a bill. Even these rich men are parasites.
There’s genuinely no reason for us to get married or have children or even date them at this point
Absolutely zero reason. All risk, stress and labor, no reward.
✂️ tyme!😁😂
Unless you’re actually going to be committed. People don’t like accountability!
So he believes this is a "lucrative business" for sneaky women, but when does he plan on addressing the REAL lucrative business of forcing inmates to work for free in the southern states, aka modern slavery??? 🤔
He is already addressing that, by adding more slavery.
The moment they change these laws as well as the child support laws women that want to leave their husbands need to give them sole custody of the children as well. The money that they think they are saving will cost them more in the long run. These laws are being changed to try to stop women from leaving and punish them if they do. But women have full autonomy over their lives and they can and will walk away from these men, handing over the responsibility of raising their kids to their father. Watch how fast men change their attitude when they suddenly become the main child carer. I am not married, nor do I have kids. If I ever find myself in this position, I am becoming the part time parent. I couldn’t care less about judgment. I refuse to be the struggling single mother while he lives like he is a single child free man. This is a good thing. One way or another men will learn.
I think a lot of the people who judge this perspective struggle with the idea of making the children collateral damage (terrible husbands are rarely good fathers). Their perspective is that the choice to bring children into this world comes with the implicit knowledge that your needs will never supercede theirs. This is one of the many reasons I don't have children (I agree that motherhood comes with the expectation to always put your children's needs your own and I don't have any interest in ever doing that, it sounds like a psychological thriller plot).
Having said that, I think women need to start accepting that we might temporarily have to just be the bad guy. Is it GOOD to leave children in potentially unsafe situations? No. But be the bad guy and accept the villain role. It will only take a single generation of women doing this for men to experience the TRUE responsibilities of parenthood. It will only take a single generation of women undergoing the therapy to overcome the guilt. But in that generation: parenthood (and motherhood specifically) will finally stop being treated as a default setting for women but not for men. Men will start valuing the sacrifice they previously took for granted. Women will start really evaluating if it's even worth it. And the laws will change to reflect this shift. All this nonsense Donnie is trying to enact will disappear under the sheer weight of men finally waking up to their entitlement and children of those men fighting back. And it will be worthwhile for all the children of the future that a single generation took the painful choice to set things to rights.
But women won't do it because we are so invested in not being the villain. So these men (who don't care) will continue to play in our collective faces 🤷🏿♀️
@@wolfsisterhowls Ever heard of 1975 Icelandic women's strike? Women clocked out for ONE DAY, completely hands off, went to a rally, and men were fumbling doing childcare, bringing kids to work, easy to prepare sausages were sold out, infrastructure crumbling. But women got their goals met and value appreciated as a result. If women aren't going to put some fire under men's arses they'll never see the hellhole we are expected to live in. Let them see what it's like living life on "easy" mode. Let's see how they like it. Time to be the villains for the sake of better future. No more putting out men's fires so they learn not to make them or deal with them themselves.
@wolfsisterhowls honestly I'd question that moral obligation in the first place .
Maybe I'm just selfish , but the expectation that your children's needs will ALWAYS supersede your own seems toxic to me. You cant fill from an empty cup, so if you actually want to be a good parent you need to sometimes put your needs and wants above theirs .
It can also become toxic to the child. I was raised by a mother where I was her entire life and honestly it made me miserable as a child because it put me essentially "in charge" of the household , because my moods, Wants and desires controlled everyone else's moods and actions. I understood that and it made me feel pressured to be in control at all times so that I wouldn't inadvertently cause a problem for my family .
I think if it had been made clear to me that I was valued , but a member of a family where everyone's needs are equally valued I'd have been a better adjusted , more balanced person.
@@wolfsisterhowls what's better for the kid ? To be raised by an immature , emotionally absent father who pays for nannies and has a big nice house , and they get to spend the weekends with a happy , thriving mom who has all the time and energy in the world to focus on them ,
Or spend every week with a stressed out , angry single mother in a worse economic situation whilst occasionally getting some money in a card or a shitty weekend away ?
The issue is too many women view what's best for the child in terms of her duty , without acknowledging that her children will do better just having her love and attention . Which you'll only be capable of giving if you're happy in yourself .
@@forestdaydreams9447 you're asking the wrong person because I don't believe in that fantasy.
I have no interest in bringing a sentient being into this world only to not prioritise that beings needs (not wants) over mine because it's suddenly inconvenient to me after I've already made the choice. I'd rather spare them entirely of existence. But I'm in the minority of women... most women want kids no matter what. And for those women: This is one of the responsibilities of parenthood that I think is actually ethical (to prioritise a child's needs, again NEEDS not wants) over your own since they are wholly and solely dependent upon that level of self sacrifice to survive. But too often that expectation falls on the woman's shoulders without similar expectations from the man, which is why we are in the state of things we are in now. And women have just been going with it, for fear of abandoning their children to a worse fate of leaving them with selfish and statistically violent fathers.
I say: do it anyway. You may want to protect your child, but it's too late. They're here. And temporarily protecting them means you implicitly comply with continuing the status quo that makes the world unsafe in the long-term. Be the bad guy.
You seem to be sure that the father will just be emotionally absent but I personally don't have a crystal ball to guarantee that the father won't retaliate against the child (remember: MOST fathers are not rich and living in big homes with child care they can outsource; so the child will be the DIRECT recipient of the frustration you painted in your portrait of the single mother. MOST women are having children with regular or even poor men who wouldn't think twice about lashing out at the child the way your scenario assumes the woman would...and worse. MOST violent crimes happen at the hands of men.)
That's why I say be willing to be the villain and let the dice fall where it falls for just ONE generation 🤷🏿♀️ The assumption that the child will be rich and safe and comfortable and you'll be able to pop in and mend their heart over the weekends is one that is not based in statistical or practical reality. They'll probably be neglected AND abused by their fathers. They'll probably resent you for freeing yourself. But nobody worries about that possibility with absentee fathers until it's time to blame the mother for an adult's life decisions, so let's flip the table. Let's be willing to wash our hands (IF we are willing to have kids at all) when these men switch up after children. Let's be willing to be the bad guys who "abandon" children with their fathers for a single generation and watch the pendulum swing. Is it ethical? Probably not. But it would definitely be effective. Men don't care about the things we say, they only care about the things we DO. They will never adjust the laws to address women's concerns until women force them to be uncomfortable. History shows that. Let's make them uncomfortable and pay for therapy to deal with the ideas/fear/guilt behind how that MAY affect our children.
Again... it'll never happen but if it did it would end this nonsense QUICK.
Problem is: most women think that children's safety is solely their responsibility because the world tells us that. Let's put the responsibility in men's hands solely and see how quickly they come to the table. (Edited to add this last bit)
Straight facts, most minority men get married with $5 in their checking account and we were just so happy that we got picked 🥴
No more pikmes. 🎉🎉
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Hell, if that😂.
4B
😂😂😂😂😂
1:35 “Divorce is a lucrative business” Oh, please!🤦🏻♀️ The men can earn the money back, the women can’t get their time back.
You do realize that they way a man typically makes money is by selling time he cant get back correct?
It's only lucrative for lawyers.
Attorney here: Things are indeed moving in these directions, and I appreciate Shayna making this video. So saying, it's important to know that marriage is a matter of STATE law, not federal, so regardless of how rancid the orange man's agenda here is, he has no control over what the state you divorce in allows.
You can't put a price on love. Lol. I think we just did. He must have gotten his knickers in a twist with the last pre-nup update.
I was a solely independent woman. Making great money, working on my career, had my own car and house. I left that marriage with 3 sets of clothes. He had all my items hostage. I had my baby and had to get a job. Get left overs from people to eat. I used that money for baby clothes and work clothes (first paycheck). He then kidnapped my child.... Anyway point is. That marriage was not beneficial.
In anyway...
Marriage is a messed up work contract. You get treated like a princess the first day of the job (wedding ceremony/reception/presents) and get to take a nice vacation (honeymoon) for a job whose duties are actually cook, nanny, maid, etc. And, you don't get a salary, just room and board. It's a mousetrap. After you get the cheese you get crushed and immobilized. Getting away becomes increasingly difficult and dangerous, not to mention societally condemned. You get trapped with kids, financial blackmail, threats to your life and safety and so on. Big white dress and propaganda that it's "happiest day of our lives" is just lure and bait into being sucked into a black hole of stress, labor, loss of sense of self.
Now men with money won't even be able to get laid LMAOOO
What will the manosphere pretend to have over women now that they cut off last thread of it being worth to meddle with them? "The ring" they used to dangle is useless now lmao.
They can pay for it
@@somebodycomelistentothispo7217as long as they don't get it for free ,it's good
Make them pay
@@InternetNonsensethe imprisonment ring has never been good they just gaslight women and devalue them for not being a willingful slave
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂right.....
I have a big red bridge in SF I can sell you for $2?
#Leonardo Dicaprio 😂
Excellent video. I put my career off 15 years to support my husband's military career. I knew MANY women who did the same without the happy marriage. But many were financially abused, as you said. And they are supposed to move on without spousal support? What about how his ability to advance his career considering all the hours she did working with kids, cooking, personal shopping.... every time i think i can't like that man less, he proves me wrong 🙄
I also love the idea of a call to divorce 😂 this would make him so angry and like maybe the price of eggs goes down but all men get no attention anymore 😅
@@anniecook4051 more eggs but less eggs! Love it!
That man really got to you-still living rent-free in your head.
When a man gets married, his role is to provide and protect for his family just like a wife role is to care for the family, raise children. But once the marriage ends, those obligation should end to each other and focus on the children as parents. Yet, courts and women seem to think otherwise, forcing men to continue their marital duties for years-sometimes for life.
Imagine if divorce worked both ways-where you still had to fulfill your relationship duties for years, cooking, cleaning, and even sleeping with your ex till he got married again! Sounds ridiculous, right? Yet, financially, that’s exactly what happens to men. Women need to grow up and get a job just like a man does, women asked for equality so you shall get it. Don't be mad at what you demanded.
I bet if your marriage worked out and didn't have a job till later on in life, we know you would be far happier talking about how great your life was and you had a great husband with many children. You're just pissy because your fantasy didn't work out the way you wanted. He probably has a new partner and happy as pig in mud. I'm actually curious what his side of the story is.
@@Dalik1000 I always "loved" the way men's obligations were expected to last after marriage, while women don't even have to do a damn thing in marriage, much less after
@Dalik1000 I'm happily married. 20 years. My husband is aware of the sacrifice I've made. Too many men are not. And based on your post, you do not know the real value of women either, regardless of your own gender.
I saw on the video that she has a great breakdown on the financial savings a stay at home mom is. Maybe look that up?
4B ladies ‼️
They need to pay women for kids ,cooking,and cleaning then. No free labor. You cant afford a wife
If donald trump has his way he would ban divorce and abortion. Love your channel
And, block women, minorities, liberal generally from voting
He has already banned abortion. Like two years ago. And women already are already dying because of it.
I'm in the middle of divorce. He started the proceedings, and I'm ending it before it favors him.
If you watch stuff like this, I can see why he filed.
stuff that gives women facts?
@@Stephanpar23shouldn't you go back to your manosphere content?
@@Stephanpar23facts bro funny single women will keep other women single with them and usually there unhappy so makes sense Shayna said she knows other rich people nah cause rich men don’t associate with mid tier women
Go girl good for you
Laws should require that men should pay child support and pregnancy support from the date of conception.
Yeahhh. It should…..if you live in a world that likes women. But no you live in a world that hates women, so NOOOO.
Pro-life would rather kids starve than spend any resources on them 😂
How much of that is refunded in paternity fraud cases?
I wonder if that could be a part of a prenup 🤔
@@christopherbrown5409
How much money you should give back your wife because you give part of your salary to the children you made in another town when you were going on “business trips”?
"Big Orange Booga".
That's one of the best descriptions of him I've ever seen.
I'm gonna raise a hand for my sister, mother and auntie. It's all the same story. Got married, had kids and the man went full booga once he thought his wife was trapped. They all got out, but not without debt. And or course, only one of three men paid their child support. And it was staye minimum.
In such a situation I would not even consider marriage. No marriages and no children.
Lol, well if you thought marriage rates were dropping before, smh
If you do decided to get married, PRENUP.
Those get thrown out a lot in court when the court want its pound of flesh.
@@lepotdefleur9906 this is a bit of an urban myth. Prenups only get thrown out when they disregard standard practice. So do research and don't let anyone rush or pressure you. It's not hard to find the list of things that make prenups invalid. A few examples:
-a prenup cannot be signed under duress. Example: a day before the wedding, where there is pressure to sign to avoid embarrassment. Solution: prenup signed and stored a YEAR before the wedding, at minimum. (Edit: this is excellent proof that both parties signed it fully aware, had enough time to consider it over the course of the engagement and pull out or renegotiate if they reconsidered and thus there is no grounds for claiming it was unfair or prejudicial or one party was coerced somehow).
-a prenup cannot make custody determinations (a lot of women get got here!) The court will always be the final say in the best interests of the child so ensure your lawyer or his doesn't sneak in language about the care and custody of the children. The prenup if for the MARRIAGE.
-a prenup is solidified if there are terms that get enacted immediately, such as a signing bonus or a scheduled postnup that reaffirms the terms. Signing bonuses are the easiest: if someone agrees to the terms, gets given an upfront payment that they ACCEPT and bank, the court won't look kindly on them trying to act like they don't agree with the terms at the time of divorce. You agreed to the upfront payment so it's clear you were happy with the parts that suited you. therefore the prenup is upheld!" This has an excellent track record legally.
Do your own research and remember: if you don't have your own prenup, you are accepting the prenup the government GIVES you. And the government does not know nor care about what you have to gain or lose.
they've just hand waved them in the past so no prenup only works if the culture of men decide it works and if they're sexist enough they decide it doesn't work.
Money is all some of them have to offer and now he wants to take that off the table?!😂
Right
Literally
What’s ironic is that his 1st wife Ivana was the driving force behind him. Truly multiplying his wealth and making him a household brand name and she was very hardworking so according to his new law his 1st would’ve walked away with nothing.
That’s why! He wants to convince himself he’s a self made man. 😂
Yes. Ivana ran ALL the businesses while he went 80s NY clubbing.
I'm the woman who was making six figures, dated someone with "potential" and now I'm in debt, credit jacked up, and trying to rebuild.
you'll recover....I promise...I've been there....
Do you still have your career? If so, then you can definitely recover and rebuild. Hell, that’s what men do.
3:10 All of the failed marriages that I know about did not fail because the woman wanted to get rich quick. And the ones where the woman did get at least half of the man's stuff, he usually was the breadwinner (because that's how it was set up, it was on purpose) and then he fkd up
What so many of these men don't understand is that they are getting a steal of a deal. My baby's father pays child support and provides nothing else. So, for the minor inconvenience of about $400/month, he gets to get out of ALL of the childcare responsibilities for life. Even daycare workers aren't compensated that well. And to all the dads who do show up, you still likely didn't earn 100% of what you'd owe that woman if either of you left. Let's be real. Women do way more work than you do, and they earned every one of your dollars and then some.
Melania must have one foot out the door 😂😂 he's doing this to protect his own money 😂
Say what now, well guess I'll be a cat lady, cuz ain't no way 💅
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Being a wife is a job. Men need to give those women half their paycheck if the women are stay at home moms/wives.
but to them they're just property and slaves they shouldn't want more then room and board and his presence thats what he'd want in her shoes.
What if she works? I think he should pay more than her in the house because we know women does most of cooking and cleaning . No 50_50
The men who don't do that make. Those women single married women 😅. Speaking as a single married sahm
Was 20+ yrs ago, but yeah: was in a relationship where the guy was financially abusive and draining and when he found out that I had a savings account of any amount whatsoever he was enraged because he knew that that would give me the potential leverage to leave him.
When I asked him to change up financially how we divide up the bills because he made three times what I did salary-wise and ate 80 percent of the groceries but we split everything down the middle he was not having it at all. That was the beginning of the end
And of course I did end it
My 6’8” husband ate us out of house and home. He was a beast around food. Didn’t look up until his plate was clean. It was something savage to watch. I couldn’t do it anymore.
@@jet4415
They do use and require a lot more calories. Can you imagine how much of the k*ll they ate before even bringing it back to the village thousands of years ago?
@@Kmc-n4m They killed and ate a moose in the field and brought home 2 turtle doves. 🤣
This sounds like another reason for woman to have their own money and not be a sahm/sahw. In this day n age, most men are the gold diggers. This will end badly for them.
Absolutely have NO problem with this. I disagree with his reasons, but my ex husband didn't contribute a dime and I was lucky to get out with MY home and MY vehicles. I am WAY more in debt but so much more happier that i don't HAVE A DEPENDENT. ❤
Sprinkle that!
Not being rude but how did you end up with him? Was he always that way or did he switch up after the marriage?
This sounds like it's aimed at melania.
IDK, Malania probably has a pre-nup to protect her interests.
@@pda7819 Not only did they have a prenup, but she actually renegotiated it for even more money. lol
it has some residual Ivana in there...he never really got over how business savvy she was when she took ol boy to the cleaners.
So... Melania stalled going to the White House the first round bc she was renegotiating her Pre Nup. How many of us are betting that she renegotiated yet again? Bc, that hat???
Stay at home wives at least should get 50% share in divorce.
Goodbye marriage in the US haha
Divorce laws go state by state. He does not have the power to change divorce law.
States rights! They're always talking about States rights. So he should leave it to the states. Which is what he's going to have to do anyways
The states can go along with it… watch the hell that breaks loose when these women start giving up custody of multiple children to the father. I assume since she can't afford to take care of the kids alone she definitely can't pay support. Women are going to gladly reverse roles and be the weekend parent.
They do not care about state's rights. They care about their control whether if be through individual state changes or mandated federal changes.
He's literally the president, wtf are you talking about?
He continues to rule by executive order. He can order anything he wants. Watch him.
Btw, almost nobody gets alimony. 😂😂 Most women ate NOT sahm/w these days.
Men really don’t want SAHMs. They want women’s paychecks so they can buy a new truck and a nice house they think they deserve. Women really lose in most partnerships.
Ok but here is the thing, americans dont complain in real life, see what korea did, the president wanted to place martial law and they went ALL OUTSIDE to barricade the place, usa do nothing besides complaint in social media, even in my country people go oustide and complaint, close whole roads using cars ... Revolve !!!!!!!
Americans do go out and physically protest its actually quite common
IMO, all these twist and turns in the US is a setup for martial law. Abundance of protests would lead to him instilling martial law.
Tell us you know nothing about America without telling us. It’s always non-Americans that have the most to say about America without knowing a damn thing about America and don’t even live here. 😂
“In MY CoUnTrY” stay in your lane and worry about your own country then. So tired of yall commenting on America when you don’t even know what really happens here. Yall are obsessed with us.
Very impressive how S Koreans arrested and are now prosecuting their traitor coup de ta president. Ours got reelected.
I dont think you are wrong. There's not enough of us in the u.s. protesting
I got my divorce in 2018 before things got REAL crazy. 🎉🎉🎉
@@starlingswallow 🙂 That’s good.
A woman married for 15 years 5 children won’t get nothing. Oh hell no
42% adults are married in the US. There are women who think they’re happily married until they’re unhappily married. This law if passed will increase poverty and homelessness in women.
This is the intended consequence. They want you desperate and destitute.. The more reason for woman to charge for being a housewife, or keep a job and a separate bank account..
I mean just follow -- so w no fault you have to know that the ms is waiting for it to take effect so they can cheat with utter impunity. I can't believe that no one sees this.
It's also going to make it so most women in the future don't want to get married the marriage rates are about to plummet
No, more women are going to choose SINGLE.
… And a bunch of single-father households. Women will walk away scott free (as men have been doing in the past) and enjoy being the weekend parent. Men will lose their minds, this bill wont be just for rich men it will be for average earners as well.
I hope Melania is listening..
She doesn’t give a fk, she knows exactly who she married.
@@Stoudemnot necessarily. A lot of women get caught up in the grasp of narcissists. I'm sure he presented himself a certain way when they first met and now she is with a monster.
What us the cost to his office if she does...
I bet that prenup is bulletproof
Girly just has to wait till he’s 💀 I think she’s fine 😂
Give these men their children to care for 👏🏾
“In fascism, love is not enough”
Words of wisdom. 🙌 🙌
Widowed at 32, with 4 kids. Never remarrying hearing this. Already dealt with too many dusties looking to get my children’s tax returns. Women please vet these gold digging men out here! My ex bf just tried to circle the block on Tuesday, right at Tax return season, nah nah nahhh-boy bye!! 👋
Facts!!! Please let them know. This is NOT for bw same thing applies when he speaks on birth rates l can assure you he’s NOT asking for more black babies. So who do they actually think he’s speaking to? 🤔😂
So... men that voted for him, was it worth it?
Yes ma
ahuh
"Lucrative business?"
I, I, I just can't with this nonsense.
😂 He is relentless.
My mom is basically broke after her divorce. Who's out her making money??
OTHER WOMEN; DAMN.
On my block/in my building, I know of FOUR couples in which the husband/live-in boyfriend who is abusive DOESNT WORK/sits at home smoking cigarettes and weed all day. In three of these cases, the wives work 15-hour shifts or have worked full-time while undergoing cancer treatment/other serious illness, just to be able to make ends meet. In one case, the girlfriend is an inheritance recipient and special needs/severely learning disabled/autistic - he was couch surfing and broke when she met him, but she moved him right in and he openly pretends to be successful and rich, while using her money as his retirement plan. Sidenote: all of these couple are white, so this isnt just a Pookie thing.
This is on my block ALONE.
Sadly disabled women and those with impairments (even poor mental health) are a prime target for users. Women have to get their mind together as much as they can to protect themselves. And I agree, I see dusty white couples left and right but people want to pretend it’s only certain women falling for the okey doke.
He sounds like he's projecting
Everything he ever talks about is projecting
Melania better get out now. 4B 4Life
Whew his wife is stuck and she is pissed 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She always looks pissed off, just like him. lol They're both miserable and bitter, that's why they want to do the same to innocent Americans. It's going to backfire on him tho, just wait and watch.
Can’t wait to see the 92%’s response!
I'm scared to get with a man.
You *should* be wary to soul tie and legally without protecting yourself.
I foresee the 1st Lady begging for spare change in the skreets.
I feel like he's getting his ducks in a row beforehand. Plus his youngest is grown now, correct?
I started out a teen mom without a job at 18. Once I got a job all but one of my relationships I had more money. The only one that had more than me was 15 years older than me. I didn't even have a lucrative career throughout most of that, and most men only came close.
I've never seen a woman walk away from a marriage in better shape than she went in. Except for in tv coverage of super rich people. I've learned since that what appears to be a lucrative divorce for the woman ends up not being that lucrative in the end. The legal bills alone tend to drain away most, if not all, of that woman's gains.
The amount of times I've heard of the guy just dropping everything, and disappearing without any, or many, repercussions is definitely high though. Women are usually left covering (almost) everything financially for herself and the children.
Rich men like Trump are pushing these narratives because they tend to get the most notable financial hits during a divorce. They know they actually should be paying it, but don't want to because of greed and ego. They know they can get away with it because even the poorest man likes to pretend he has any money to lose, and will support them.
Beware of the rich grandparents who will want the children even when he couldn't are less, when he doesnt want them grandma will help legally for him to keep them and he might do anything to please her.
I know
Many or most women don’t want to give up their children.
We have a bond that men don’t understand. That’s where the trap is for women.
Handmaids Tale in real time.
This shit was never about lowering the cost of living for Americans.
It's lowering the costs in the sense that women will be forced to be with men and then do all the work for the man and pay for his expenses. That is the plan for such laws. Mandated gfs and wives.
She didn’t work for it cos it’s undervalue. Backstage work.
Making divorce impossible is how you get aqua tofana. I guess they want aqua tofana 🤷♀
Woo hoo! Aqua Tofana! Women, how many of us they koll? Every damn day...
I love this type of content its interesting and intertaining
Thank you for all you do. I, too, was someone who earned more than my husband.
These Project 2025 politicians can't have it both ways. If a woman gets nothing in a divorce, fine. Allow her to get an education and make sure she has the right to work for gainful employment, not struggle to survive employment.
This is perfect. Lady's quote Trump to your conservative SO, see if they agree when we reverse it.
See if they like us protecting our assets and staying in the workforce bc "Well, the president said that marriage doesn't/shouldn't equalize our finances".
Is like he really is not concerned with the drop of the birthrate... Yet.
Leaving the kids with the man would be potentially very tragic being the high pdf file risk.
To have no choice but to leave your children with a predators or live in poverty with children and no work experience.
Leave them with the pdf-file ! If society doesn't care about your safety ,then f them kids.
Why are you having kids with a man you think is a predator?
@@christopherbrown5409Predators, just like the majority of men. It's not going to be that same person you knew once you leave out the door as a woman.
@@ItIsTooComplicated That really doesn't make you any better than any man.
Hold up, I only know one other shayna. She is childless and fabulous too. But I came here to say, that she was one of the FIRST women to lift me up. I was single teen mom, she took my kid under her wings. To this day they got a bond outside of me. My daughter is grown now. I know that she modeled her life after Shayna . I can tell. Thank u Shayna for ur works too. Bc u got me thinking all the time.
Saying no to marriage seems too easy. There's got to be something in the works that will make us have to get married. I lost a whole business, a house, a boy friend and a best friend all on the same day. Turned out they were con artists and working together. Not married but I was good before I met these people.
It's like they never met a woman before 😂
I thought this was up to the states not the federal government.😕
It is.
I'm 3B.
I'll go on a date with a guy, but, not looking for a boyfriend, marriage, children, or anything along those lines.
Nobody is living with me.
I've got a skeleton dressed as The Mandalorian with Grogu sitting in his lap.
I've got my ready-made family.
And, sometimes, I even rest my head on that skeleton's armor clad shoulder. It can actually be quite comforting. And he expects nothing in return. That's how genuinely kind he is!
I guess Mrs. Ttump is filing?
Broke men will love this. 😂
✋✋✋✋✋✋✋✋✋✋ hands up! 🙌 I don't know if I know a female that isn't in a relationship where she's supporting the man except for my brother and two uncles. Mind you I have three aunts and a sister that supported every man they had been with.
No fault divorce is being replaced. covenant marriages are being mandated starting in Oklahoma..those divorces will be next to impossible to get..
I have a feeling “covenant” marriages will be challenged at the Supreme Court. Covenants are made with deities not States and the State should not be promoting a single, faith based option for all people.
I don't think it's mandated, but rather an option that comes with a tax break (totally not worth it).
Got a new subscriber 💯.
Raised Hand ✋️
Leave HIM the kids??? We've SEEN the results of his parenting skills.
multigenerational not being loved by your father
Do it anyway. Be the villain. Women need to stop always wanting to consider everyone when nobody else does. Just ONE generation of selfish women would change the game!
50/50 property share would only be for community property states? Which isn’t most of them. All the same, I probably should have had a prenup replicating state law, but I didn’t think of that before marriage.
this proposed law is legalizing legal abuse
If you don't want kids in the next 5-10 years and you are able to (medically, through insurance, etc...) get an IUD or an implant. Obviously protect yourself however else you need, but an IUD or implant are solid starting points for long-term prevention and they're much, MUCH more difficult to sabotage than the pill, nuvaring, or the shot.
Great, let them pay for domestic work, therapy, surrogacy, s work etc 🥰
Providing?
Work for it? If she's a housewife and mother, she's definitely working for it 365 days a year, in many cases with no breaks/vacations away. Seems like he's just trying to change the laws to benefit very wealthy men whne it's their business to the operation of their marriage and divorce. Get a pre-nup if you're worried about $$.
Me me me mentality, not focused on the family, no concern for the woman’s sacrifice.
I’ll never advocate for women to stay home and raise children. It’s such a gamble. A lot of these men will up and leave if a better option comes along, probably someone he meets at work. Nope.