Insane thing is CPS had been to their home a number of times and had removed his daughter from a previous relationship😑 if she had to be removed, why not the other child? Red flag! “Authorities” dropped the ball. Incredibly sad. I wouldn’t be shocked if girl lied to her audience about their amicability and actually had a restraining order.
My own father deleted my mother when she was 33. The whole town, many churches, and my dads family rallied around him like he was some victim because he was a well known preacher. I was the only one who spoke at my moms funeral. I was 13. Watching how her life and death played out and at the hands of a man she catered to like a maid AND she was the bread winner, taught me I could absolutely be alone.
The biggest lie is that a woman without a man is to be pitied. At 60 and childfree, I look forward to the peace and joy of the life I have ahead. Drama free. Just going through menopause without anyone (but pets) in my house was a true gift from God!
After being married only a few years,I’ve realized a lot of older women aren’t single because they can’t keep a man or couldn’t find a man. They’re single because they don’t want a man. I don’t ever want to be married to another man ever in life of this one doesn’t work out. It’s nothing but hard work and making it work. I hate this happens to women who finally get the courage to leave and try to be fair in the process.
47 and going through perimenopause and I’m in a perimenopause group on FB. Most of the complaint post are about how they have difficulties with their husbands and kids during this change in life. A lot of them are divorcing. Menopause is brutal. I couldn’t imagine dealing with a man right now. So glad I’m single. I’m so at peace about this. No kids either. Phew. Dodged a bullet.
My dad tried to m*rder my mom while I was away at school. If he hadn't been stopped, I am sure he would've taken out my sister and brother who were also in the house. This is absolutely real $hit. Thanks so much for this video.
I'm sure there were instances of some form of abuse there but your mom let it fly or covered it up many times to not worry you or your siblings but that behavior is always there we choose to ignore it to keep the peace
My ex's brother followed his wife home shot and killed her now their two children are parentless as well as his other 2 are fatherless. My ex constantly broke into my house stalked and harassed me then had the nerve to ask me to drop the restraining order. I'm currently working with the prosecutors off to make sure he gets the most time possible. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE be careful woman.
Omg that's horrible... What type of family are they from that two brothers turn out this dangerous?! Good luck and stay safe, I hope you get your peace of mind as soon as he is locked up!
I don't think there's any amount of careful you can be to be honest straight guys are just like this. And heterosexuality is inherently unegalitarian. The differences in physical ability as well as the privilege of white heterosexual men to acquire vast amounts of weapons without any suspicion or stigma is also a reason. People's side eye a lady with a gun but they don't do that to a man. But there's one common through line in all of this straight white men doing it I've not seen a black guy do this I have not seen a bisexual do this It's only ever been largely straight white men
Thank you for saying "How are we supposed to know? " The number of times I've read comments that say "she picked him" or "women choose bad boys and then complain." People need to use their brains, unless she was raised in an abusive family which would make abusive behavior seem normal, she picked him because he intentionally misled her into thinking he was a decent, responsible person.
Applause. We don’t know because they lie and misrepresent themselves. So many women don’t make it out of these relationships alive or functional. And these are the men that never put hands on the wives before they killed them. How were the women to know? Thankfully, my mom is paranoid about men and told me what to look out for when I divorced my ex. It didn’t help that he tried ti choke me during foreplay before I decided to file. We don’t know until we find out. Condolences to the families that have lost a loved one to this violence.
And even if she did know, society has really pushed this "You can fix him" narrative on a LOT of people. I mean, look at Beauty and the Beast. And this also creates a thing of "He might have hurt others, but he won't hurt me". And I am willing to be family members of abusive spouses will say that stuff to lock the victim of their abuser in. "He hasn't hurt you, so you don't have to worry" or "Its not that bad, he is a good person". And when the abuse does start, she will likely be gaslight to believe she deserved it. Even if the dude is KNOWN to be abusive, there is a chance that society will throw you at him anyways, claiming you can fix him, and making him your responsibility when in reality the only one responsible for him is himself and he does not want to change but will be more than willing to change you.
Even if you ARE from an abusive family or experienced it growing up, they still conceal their true selves from you until they decide to show you who they really are. Just always write things down , because they are chameleons, and use gaslighting to make you question yourself or second guess yourself. Some incidents can be years or even decades apart before you see it as a pattern of behavior . Also we are taught to give so many excuses to men and shrug off so much as "men being men, boys being boys" that it's tough to know if we are 100%over reacting to things. There's no way it's your fault that someone is intentionally harmful to you.
They can't even handle simple street rejection from women they _don't_ know. It's so heartbreaking because even though she said she was a little scared to be on her own, I saw a certain happiness and hope there looking forward to her future...
He was also 10yrs older than her. Got with her when she was 20😑 He was likely controlling and thought he had her groomed her to be his property forever. Clearly he was a miserable POS and saw her happily moving on and couldn’t stand it. How dare she be happy without his permission.
@@LoveLaRieXOthat’s their worst fear. You being happy without them. I had an ex like this. He really thought he broke me because of all the mistreatment and how we parted. It blew his mind that I made a life without him. Dodo bird I was making a life when he met me. They are so one dimensional as well as stuck emotionally and mentally.
I remember being at a garage sale as a kid and my mom was talking to the seller. He told her that his daughter had permanent brain damage from her abusive husband… this father was just so at a loss of what to do and so distressed he was telling strangers about it. I’m not sure how disabled she was or if she’d ever recover, but I know that brain/and or spinal injury can take away your ability to walk, talk, use your hands or think. And you may never recover. Every woman should critically examine the domestic violence statistics and ask themselves if being partnered with a man is truly worth that risk.
My mother wouldve been a statistic with my father if she wasnt able to divorce him. He tried to strangle her years ago. She still has neck pain to this day and needs to get nerve shots. These men out here are dangeeous.
Thank you for stressing the point that children are living the consequences of their fathers. Women truly need to understand that MEN DO NOT THINK LIKE YOU DO!!! not deep down not ever! not anywhere!
He was not being amicable. It was a ploy to show her he had changed. He was better. When he finally realised it backfired & she was still living. He unalived them. Be careful of the sudden 180 switch up.
(TLDR suicidality is actually the cause of this not really any kind of jealousy) I tend to think of it more as a murder suicide similar to how I conceive of school shootings and the psychology of those people. I don't think it's so much about how she reacted to the divorce but the fact that they divorced at all that did it. I think these people largely we're only living because they had a family. Once they feel like that's gone and their reason to live is out the window then they react this way to destroy it If they can't have it no one can and they don't care about the consequences because they don't really want to live anyway.
I just love how men are so "confused" about why we don't want to date them anymore. Femicide is too real. All over the damn world. I think I'd just rather be alone for the rest of my life. It will be EASIER than attempting to find a decent man.
The news and channels like this is wrapping your mind in believing men want to physically hurt you when thats far from the truth theres plenty of men that would never hit or physically hurt you.
Very important reminder here. On that same note, mothers, quit shielding your son's from taking accountability for their actions. Do not protect them from their consequences, and be the one to administer those consequences from an early age.
Exactly. Everyday I thank the Almighty, that my mother (and father) never let me get away with sh*t. Some parents think that one can't both love their sons and hold them accountable, which is a huge mistake and it creates monsters that hurt women.
Stories like this truly reaffirm my distaste for other men. I am a man, and I frankly DO NOT TRUST other men in most capacities. And I know I've got it better, I'm not as vulnerable to the same terrible things. But still.
Men always get a pass when it comes to negative emotions. Imagine if women ever acted like men. They would be destroyed by society and shamed into self-unaliving.
They say we’re more emotional because we’re able to articulate and recognize a wide range of emotions, while men who are sexually frustrated tend to react violently and emotionally when a woman dare rejects him lmao. So much for us being emotional, most women don’t get violent or aggressive if a male rejects them, the same cannot be said for men rejected by women.
And the family had the audacity to give them a joint funeral. She couldn't even escape him in death. The family and friends were talking about how in love they were and what a great guy he was.
I am no longer with my fiance. He began acting up exactly one year ago. He began using pills in conjunction with cocaine! It came from nowhere and turned my life upside down. The final straw was a few months ago. He removed my firearm from my apartment and went God knows where to do who the hell knows. I changed my locks that night and put his stuff in a storage. I told him his car was his home. He eventually got his own apartment when the weather began to get cold. NOW he want to put his life together BUT STILL HAS NOT GONE TO THERAPY! He prays we get back together, I'M GLAD THAT WE NEVER WILL! 🎉🎉🎉
Report to the police that you suspect that he stole your gun and feel unsafe of what he ninths do next. This is importantly. He might want to off you and claim that you unalived yourself. Be careful
You do need to report the gun stolen @Jukudu8 if there's a record of you purchasing or registering it. If you don't & he commits a crime it might land you on the suspect list or in jail
@@Cashious that's barely a reason. I'd rather bury someone I loved in an unmarked grave and have a tea and biscuits lunch with those who loved them than to allow their MURDERER to be celebrated while she is a prop to his image rehabilitation. Absolutely NOT. I hope the actual reason was something legal that tied their hands because otherwise we have to assume that even her family unit was abusive or at the very least protected and enabled her abuser
My sister’s husband unalived himself a week after she left him. She was at work & she said he kept trying to lure her to the house saying how he wanted to see his kids. Thankfully she never went back lbecause if she was in that house he would’ve unalived her too & possibly their 3 kids. I had a dream about him. It was pitch black & he was standing there & he told me he wish he never did it
Never ever ever trust them when you are going thru a break up. Especially when you are looking fwd to moving on. They stay mean and bitter and some will hide it like they are fine but it's killing them inside.
I had an old coworker who was killed this way. The husband killed her and then himself. Her daughter was 9 at the time and found their bodies when she heard her infant triplet brothers crying and not being attended to. This traumatizes these kids so much and it's so awful that the gender that's constantly called emotional, are often murdered when the "rational" gender get too upset.
Wow just horrific. Imagine being so selfish and irrational as a father, that you take the mother of your children away. And literal babies and a young kid at that, then the daughter discovered them in a tragic way. I hope the children are healing and getting the support they need.
My mother couldn't sleep when she started filing for divorce because she knew my abusive father knew where we lived. They had been separated for almost half a decade at that point, and he had been deluding himself that she'd come crawling back and be his housewife while he got to bang his young mistress. Really, she was just getting everything together so it could be as quick and painless as possible, and do that she did. I heard her lawyer actually cackle while they were sorting through it all. The man hadn't had a spine in years, though, because he only lightly argued about 'their' taxes, to which she said "Already did all of my end." They got physical before, but he always came out of those limping because Mom was a BODYBUILDER before she had me. Guess that scared him off from doing anything stup!d during the divorce. Haven't seen him since I was thirteen, and I hope I never do.
This story was so sad, but this is how men can literally fool you even until AFTER a breakup/divorce. You can't ever feel safe with a man. Here she was, thinking he was hurt by the divorce, yes, but committed to moving forward peacefully. It was a trick. Tbh, women just need to stay fully away from men, even the ones who seem okay. But what concerns me is saying she's never been on her own. Live alone first, ladies. Learn how to do things on your own, so you aren't so dependent on a man. That's a huge way they trap you. He probably assumed she'd never leave BECAUSE she'd never been on her own.
*She was delusional and believed him when he said he wasn't going to be violent.* *SHE'S TELLING US THEY HAD A TRUCE OF NO VIOLENCE ANYMORE!* She just fooled herself to believe it. *NEVER BELIEVE WHAT THEY SAY AND NEVER MEET THEM ANYWHERE AFTER YOU BREAK UP OTHER THAN A POLICE STATION.
When I left my partner a year ago I left the whole damn state and told my family to not post anything about me and where I was. This was my first relationship after being single and celibate for 10 years. And before that I only had 2 relationships since my divorce in 2005. Why had I been so skiddish about relationships since my divorce? Because I too thought that we could handle our divorce in a civil and mature manner. My ex who had NEVER been violent or emotionally unstable in the 9 years of our marriage turned into a person I didn't know once I decided to file. I couldn't believe that I had lived with this man for so long and had no idea what he was capable of. He threatened to pick-up our children from school so he could kill himself in front of them. This man was the best father throughout our whole marriage. I have since said that you don't really know a person until the relationship ends and the way they handle it.
This is exactly why I quietly removed myself from my covert narcissist of a husband. After trying everything he possibly could to break me for 6 months straight after asking for a divorce, he realized he couldn’t trigger me anymore and he went running back to his parents states away, leaving me and our two toddler daughters behind. Before he left, he used to come to my neighborhood in the middle of the night and just park in front of my house with his headlights shining into my bedroom, which would wake me up. I don’t know what his intentions were but I knew he got a gun after I left. As much as I would like to, I have not exposed him to family and friends because in the last couple of years we were together, any time I tried to leave, he would threaten to k*ll himself. And my thought process is, if you threaten to off yourself, what’s to stop you from taking me and my children out as well? So I have been quiet and peacefully raising my children with absolutely no contact in hopes that we don’t suffer because he can’t deal with the consequence of his own actions.
We found out recently that my 85 y/o grandfather has been stealing my grandmother's money over the course of the last 2 1/2 decades since her retirement. He hasn't worked since the 80s and lied about having savings of his own. Took control of all the joint accounts, closed them and reopened some with himself as primary. When arguments broke out at the revelation, he constantly threatened her with violence (she's 86 and has less mobility than he does). My sister laughed when I said witnessing them has left me somewhat traumatized. Whatever tiny speck of respect for or faith in men I have is gone. I have my own trauma from and from men in my family, but seeing him devolve like this makes me refuse to ever build a life with a man
Deep down we all know that the saying, "The person who poses the most danger to a woman is her MALE spouse/mate", to be true, but it's still shockingly terrifying every time it's proven. There's another saying: "Human females are the only species attracted to their only natural predator." Damned if that isn't true, with humans being at the top of the food chain. May she R.I.P.
Working in male dominated fields I see so much of men that is just so terrifying. I wonder how much I see that they of their personalities that they never show their wives
My ex punched me, slapped me, slammed me down choked me, held a knife to my necke, threatened to kill me and held me hostage when I tried to break up with him. It wasn't until after I left and gained clarity that I realized just how much danger I was really in in that relationship.
Thank you for talking about the fullness of her humanity and celebrating her hobbies, talents, dreams and positive relationships. I am saddened when women's entire lives get reduced down to their tragic conclusion at the hands of a man.
It’s crazy how much of a risk it is dating men nowadays. One wrong move and you’re unalived, life put on halt, or ostracized. It’s crazy nowadays it definitely doesn’t make women excited to meet new people.
This sort of thing happens a lot!! Even more disturbing is all the nasty comments that either support the husband or show a blatant apathy for such dark shit. This country needs help.
The guy I’ve been seeing for years just told me he UNDERSTANDS… that when men love so hard and lose “their woman” or get cheated on they will resort to murder bc they aren’t as strong as us. I said so you would do that to me?! He kind of looked and said something about being married then said, you would never do me like that… WTF 😳 I’m still in shock
@@mamat1213like the other commenter said, it's time to go 🧳 and you gotta go quietly and unexpectedly! he's serious when he said that and thank goodness he answered honestly.
@dontshowmyname9561 I don't agree and to show for it I have two kids. Both I plan to homeschool. I plan to raise with them to have the ability to discern fight and heal those in need. Nothing wrong with being human. Nothing wrong with being a woman or a mother there's definitely something wrong with Western society. Detach from this culture and live freely than you'll understand your world is NOT the whole world but very small ...an controlled and govern by a wicked governmental entity in alignment with other evil forces an empires under the influence of something very destructive. Families are Targeted the devil goal is to ruin marriage kill women an children an create a society in which babies aren't being born. Human beings are very close to this NWO. However outside of these large Nations there are still ppl living in alignment with nature and spirit. They Don't seek God in a temple... Or a Church.
@Truthseeker7771000 okay so which society would you like to model? Africa or Asia? Humans are generally just a trash species and, with all the wars, competition and rivalry, despite our "intelligence", we should be wiped out at this point. But i wish you and your kids well. I hope they enjoy the fun of competing for resources with others for no reason at all lol
My ex hated me for loving him. Yes you read it correctly, he hated me for loving him and helping him ,because he hated himself. Yes he was on drugs and an alcoholic. That was 20 years ago and I am still in therapy . I finally love me and I’m completely comfortable being alone .
Bless her heart. She thought he was gonna love her. She probably had a child to "cement" the relationship. Most of us don't go into a marriage thinking that the person they "love" would ever harm them. Just think about the birthrate if women didn't even try marriage! Just think! And it may need to happen for men to see that we MEAN BUSINESS!
I don't think so, too many are entitled and brainless for it to work. Korean women did this and nothing changed, most people are allergic to taking accountability, with the ratio being higher in men.
Thank you so much for taking your time to speak of Jennifers life. In our current world, its too easy for many to feel apathetic to deaths of other, to view them as nothing more than statics and numbers of femicide.
I hate these situations where you can’t see a million red flags before something happens . Where it really seems like a reasonable person. Because I’ve known walking red flag men. Men who are giving off signs. Men who you know to be wary of. This shit bothers me so deeply. She really felt like things were going okay. Terrifying.
Dear God! So sad! It can happen to ANYONE. I know first hand how unsafe a man can be during a separation. Makes me want to stay single forever. These men are lonely… depressed… perpetual victims! Kids are AMAZING! But you can’t truly enjoy parenthood when you’re with a toxic partner!
That poor woman was speaking as someone who had finally woken up and realized who she was and what she was capable of and was seeing the future through fresh eyes. This is what the "decenter men" movement has been telling young women and girls - wait, live, explore, discover who you are before cutting off all your paths of possible growth, development and achievements. Men want you to settle for the "egg apron" when you are aspiring for a trip to Greece. Do your metaphorical Greece whatever that may be, unapologetically. Don't wait until some has burned through the best years of your life and then possibly take your life.
In South Africa, such crimes are so, so common. The only ones we get to hear/know about are the ones that manage to make it to the mainstream somehow, but a lot of women this side have died at the hands of men who supposedly loved them. I am not in the best situation myself, but God is my Father 😢.
i hope you're able to safely get out of that situation. just be sure to speak it into existence every day and take small steps regularly. when the opportunity arises, don't hesitate and don't look back. i'm not saying it's easy, but it's 100% worth it. you are 100% worth it. until then, please stay safe ❤
It sounds like it was a snap decision in this case. From what little we know I don't think mental health care had anything to do with fixing this. I believe he snapped and said You're not leaving me /over my dead body, and that's exactly what happened. Someone who kills their wife and then themselves has no care in the world about their children! 💯
@@JukuduBi don't think he snapped. it was likely a matter of when, not if. my immediate reaction when i heard this a while back was premeditation. they know. we give them too much credit by minimizing it to snapping.
This is why I don't trust men anymore, I prefer to be by myself. There was something else going on in that house, something shes not telling. Because no woman divorces a man who is as "great" as she's trying to play him up as.
What's insane to me is this idea that men are so strong, and are the most important thing, but fall apart when a woman leaves them (often due to their own actions) and responds with such extreme violence. Male family annihilators have become so prevalent it is daily news. I am single and have been perpetually single. Every time I think I need a relationship, I am reminded that my safety is much more guaranteed while I remain alone.
This happened to my mom’s coworker. I went to school with her daughters. One day we went to school and by the time we came home, their father had killed their mother.
This is dark but it's all too real and it needed to be said. Heck, If i was a woman, i wouldn't date men, it's scary af. Sometimes, when i look at the love of my life, i just can't stop feeling uneasy and uncomfortable with the fact, that she must have thought, at least once, that i am capable of ending her life. Sheesh 😬😬
I literally cried listening to her speak, she had the softest sweetest voice, why are some XYs so evil???? Omg now that poor baby has to grow up without a mother and father and every Christmas/New Year she has to relive that trauma.
@cynthiakila1161 I'm sorry you feel that way. Did my use of exclamation trigger you? If so, I'm sorry. I just don't like blanket statements that condemn an entire group of people. Kinda like racism.
My first husband, after molesting his daughter by his third wife for an extended period of time to set up an accusation of “unfit parenthood” against her mother during a divorce, he self deleted when caught. My adult children who survived his years of abuse were re traumatized when he did this but my son said something poignant… we lived in fear of this man for years and when we found out he was ded, it was like he hit a manic sense of relief… he said, “thank god I don’t have to kill him (to protect us)”. I can’t tell you the sense of relief, peace and calm we felt at the end of this person who had menaced us for over 25 years.
I didn’t know who they were but this is terrible! My so called “dad” offed himself when I was a young teen. I couldn’t image if he’d taken my mother with him! I don’t think I would have made it. The children 😢
What’s really gross about it all is the family and friends who support that guy after he took her life away. On Facebook they were saying how amazing he was and how people understood why he did it. These people failed her. Not surprised knowing they are from Mississippi. Don’t come at me, my family lives there and southern women will stand by their man through hell and back. I feel so bad that she had a funeral with the man who took her life away. A lot of people think it’s for the daughter, but if I was her I wouldn’t want that.
Unfortunately this happened to me and my brothers 30 years ago on December 17th 1994. I’m 36 now and it took me until my 30s to forgive my father but that comes with a lot of self healing and healing generational curses. Life has been traumatic but at the same time, I now am very careful not to find a man like my father.
Ladies! Do not announce your separation please, even as an influencer. These men have such fragile egos, that you telling the world about the divorce is admitting more or less their inadequacy. Plan accordingly, tell the ones most important to you and leave quietly. Please 🙏🏿
The daughter is now an orphan because the dad didn't know how to deal with his emotions
Insane thing is CPS had been to their home a number of times and had removed his daughter from a previous relationship😑 if she had to be removed, why not the other child? Red flag! “Authorities” dropped the ball. Incredibly sad. I wouldn’t be shocked if girl lied to her audience about their amicability and actually had a restraining order.
Men like him are so incredibly selfish.
Males do not act or feel like normal humans ie women. They are NOT women, they are not rational 😮
@LoveLaRieXO many times they will play nice so they can do the worst harm.
My own father deleted my mother when she was 33. The whole town, many churches, and my dads family rallied around him like he was some victim because he was a well known preacher. I was the only one who spoke at my moms funeral. I was 13. Watching how her life and death played out and at the hands of a man she catered to like a maid AND she was the bread winner, taught me I could absolutely be alone.
I can’t comprehend dealing with so much rage. I can barely process my rage just from reading your comment.
Whoa, I don't know what to say😮!
@@MakeWarNotLove6 I am so incredibly sorry that’s what you’ve had to handle.
Lord have mercy honey I'm so sorry. 😢 I hope you have joy & peace in your life
Did he EVER get any jail time?
The biggest lie is that a woman without a man is to be pitied. At 60 and childfree, I look forward to the peace and joy of the life I have ahead. Drama free. Just going through menopause without anyone (but pets) in my house was a true gift from God!
After being married only a few years,I’ve realized a lot of older women aren’t single because they can’t keep a man or couldn’t find a man. They’re single because they don’t want a man. I don’t ever want to be married to another man ever in life of this one doesn’t work out. It’s nothing but hard work and making it work. I hate this happens to women who finally get the courage to leave and try to be fair in the process.
47 and going through perimenopause and I’m in a perimenopause group on FB. Most of the complaint post are about how they have difficulties with their husbands and kids during this change in life. A lot of them are divorcing. Menopause is brutal. I couldn’t imagine dealing with a man right now. So glad I’m single. I’m so at peace about this. No kids either. Phew. Dodged a bullet.
Ditto! Word for word!
I’m turning 32 next month, CF. ❤
@@SiahSiahhard work on your part or his part?
My dad tried to m*rder my mom while I was away at school. If he hadn't been stopped, I am sure he would've taken out my sister and brother who were also in the house. This is absolutely real $hit. Thanks so much for this video.
I'm so sorry you dealt with that ♀️❤
@morganhumphrey5587 Thanks. ❤️
What the fk??? That’s so horrific 💔 I’m glad you all survived and I hope he can’t hurt any of you anymore
I hope your family is safe now, that is so messed up 😢
I'm sure there were instances of some form of abuse there but your mom let it fly or covered it up many times to not worry you or your siblings but that behavior is always there we choose to ignore it to keep the peace
My ex's brother followed his wife home shot and killed her now their two children are parentless as well as his other 2 are fatherless. My ex constantly broke into my house stalked and harassed me then had the nerve to ask me to drop the restraining order. I'm currently working with the prosecutors off to make sure he gets the most time possible. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE be careful woman.
Omg that's horrible... What type of family are they from that two brothers turn out this dangerous?! Good luck and stay safe, I hope you get your peace of mind as soon as he is locked up!
@leoniep9231 if you only knew and he is incarcerated, thankfully.
I don't think there's any amount of careful you can be to be honest straight guys are just like this. And heterosexuality is inherently unegalitarian. The differences in physical ability as well as the privilege of white heterosexual men to acquire vast amounts of weapons without any suspicion or stigma is also a reason. People's side eye a lady with a gun but they don't do that to a man. But there's one common through line in all of this straight white men doing it I've not seen a black guy do this I have not seen a bisexual do this It's only ever been largely straight white men
Thanks for sharing and I pray all goes well for your case🤲🏾🫶🏿❤️💪🏿🧕🏾
@@thefrenchafricanninjamom thank you darling
Thank you for saying "How are we supposed to know? " The number of times I've read comments that say "she picked him" or "women choose bad boys and then complain." People need to use their brains, unless she was raised in an abusive family which would make abusive behavior seem normal, she picked him because he intentionally misled her into thinking he was a decent, responsible person.
Applause. We don’t know because they lie and misrepresent themselves. So many women don’t make it out of these relationships alive or functional. And these are the men that never put hands on the wives before they killed them. How were the women to know?
Thankfully, my mom is paranoid about men and told me what to look out for when I divorced my ex. It didn’t help that he tried ti choke me during foreplay before I decided to file.
We don’t know until we find out. Condolences to the families that have lost a loved one to this violence.
And even if she did know, society has really pushed this "You can fix him" narrative on a LOT of people. I mean, look at Beauty and the Beast. And this also creates a thing of "He might have hurt others, but he won't hurt me". And I am willing to be family members of abusive spouses will say that stuff to lock the victim of their abuser in. "He hasn't hurt you, so you don't have to worry" or "Its not that bad, he is a good person". And when the abuse does start, she will likely be gaslight to believe she deserved it. Even if the dude is KNOWN to be abusive, there is a chance that society will throw you at him anyways, claiming you can fix him, and making him your responsibility when in reality the only one responsible for him is himself and he does not want to change but will be more than willing to change you.
To those who say "she picked him", I'll add:
Okay. Now she has more information, and she is wisely un-picking him. Good on her.
My abusive father was literally a firefighter when my mother met him. If abusive people were easy to spot, abuse wouldn't exist.
Even if you ARE from an abusive family or experienced it growing up, they still conceal their true selves from you until they decide to show you who they really are.
Just always write things down , because they are chameleons, and use gaslighting to make you question yourself or second guess yourself. Some incidents can be years or even decades apart before you see it as a pattern of behavior . Also we are taught to give so many excuses to men and shrug off so much as "men being men, boys being boys" that it's tough to know if we are 100%over reacting to things. There's no way it's your fault that someone is intentionally harmful to you.
They can't even handle simple street rejection from women they _don't_ know. It's so heartbreaking because even though she said she was a little scared to be on her own, I saw a certain happiness and hope there looking forward to her future...
He was also 10yrs older than her. Got with her when she was 20😑 He was likely controlling and thought he had her groomed her to be his property forever. Clearly he was a miserable POS and saw her happily moving on and couldn’t stand it. How dare she be happy without his permission.
I am telling you..they expect you to say yes to them 🙄🙄🙄 like seriously
This worries me the most with our girls. Raised to be level headed & not male centered. But reject an arse & they can be crazy.
@@LoveLaRieXOYes. All of this. It's one reason why men love younger women. Control
@@LoveLaRieXOthat’s their worst fear. You being happy without them. I had an ex like this. He really thought he broke me because of all the mistreatment and how we parted. It blew his mind that I made a life without him. Dodo bird I was making a life when he met me. They are so one dimensional as well as stuck emotionally and mentally.
I remember being at a garage sale as a kid and my mom was talking to the seller. He told her that his daughter had permanent brain damage from her abusive husband… this father was just so at a loss of what to do and so distressed he was telling strangers about it. I’m not sure how disabled she was or if she’d ever recover, but I know that brain/and or spinal injury can take away your ability to walk, talk, use your hands or think. And you may never recover. Every woman should critically examine the domestic violence statistics and ask themselves if being partnered with a man is truly worth that risk.
😢 I would never forget hearing this either. I hope she was able to lead a happy life
My mother wouldve been a statistic with my father if she wasnt able to divorce him.
He tried to strangle her years ago. She still has neck pain to this day and needs to get nerve shots.
These men out here are dangeeous.
Thank you for stressing the point that children are living the consequences of their fathers. Women truly need to understand that MEN DO NOT THINK LIKE YOU DO!!! not deep down not ever! not anywhere!
And it’s all men. There’s no exception.
He was not being amicable. It was a ploy to show her he had changed. He was better. When he finally realised it backfired & she was still living. He unalived them.
Be careful of the sudden 180 switch up.
He was bitter yep 👍🏾
The TEA!
She was so pleasant and okay with divorce. He probably was mad because she was mature and pleasant during the process.
Because it meant she didn't feel as bad about it as he did.
Yup they want you to be unhinged and destroyed by it but she was absolutely fine and possibly flowing. And he couldn't stand 😢the sight of it.
Yep she was too ok being without him so he killed her for that audacity . very sad
(TLDR suicidality is actually the cause of this not really any kind of jealousy)
I tend to think of it more as a murder suicide similar to how I conceive of school shootings and the psychology of those people. I don't think it's so much about how she reacted to the divorce but the fact that they divorced at all that did it. I think these people largely we're only living because they had a family. Once they feel like that's gone and their reason to live is out the window then they react this way to destroy it If they can't have it no one can and they don't care about the consequences because they don't really want to live anyway.
@smokedbeefandcheese4144 ummmm the if I can't have it no one can, is the exact jealousy and disdain that we speak of 🧏♀️
I just love how men are so "confused" about why we don't want to date them anymore. Femicide is too real. All over the damn world. I think I'd just rather be alone for the rest of my life. It will be EASIER than attempting to find a decent man.
The news and channels like this is wrapping your mind in believing men want to physically hurt you when thats far from the truth theres plenty of men that would never hit or physically hurt you.
Very important reminder here. On that same note, mothers, quit shielding your son's from taking accountability for their actions. Do not protect them from their consequences, and be the one to administer those consequences from an early age.
"On that same note, mothers *AND FATHERS* , quit shielding your son's from taking accountability for their actions."
Mothers AND Fathers!
I understand your comment completely. Some mothers are notorious for coddling their sons, so yeah, call em' out.
Preach 💯
Exactly. Everyday I thank the Almighty, that my mother (and father) never let me get away with sh*t. Some parents think that one can't both love their sons and hold them accountable, which is a huge mistake and it creates monsters that hurt women.
Stories like this truly reaffirm my distaste for other men. I am a man, and I frankly DO NOT TRUST other men in most capacities. And I know I've got it better, I'm not as vulnerable to the same terrible things. But still.
I go out to EDM shows and men do indeed get roofied by other men. You always have to be careful.
They say women are the emotional ones 😂
Men always get a pass when it comes to negative emotions.
Imagine if women ever acted like men. They would be destroyed by society and shamed into self-unaliving.
They're just projecting
They say we’re more emotional because we’re able to articulate and recognize a wide range of emotions, while men who are sexually frustrated tend to react violently and emotionally when a woman dare rejects him lmao. So much for us being emotional, most women don’t get violent or aggressive if a male rejects them, the same cannot be said for men rejected by women.
And the family had the audacity to give them a joint funeral. She couldn't even escape him in death. The family and friends were talking about how in love they were and what a great guy he was.
That's so gross.
😢
That's so messed up. Their actions scream "We don't care" because he did that to her, not a stranger.
Someone my sister's ex was related to caused a mur der sui cide . They also had a joint funeral for some reason.
@Semi-AvgKay that boggles my mind
I am no longer with my fiance. He began acting up exactly one year ago. He began using pills in conjunction with cocaine! It came from nowhere and turned my life upside down. The final straw was a few months ago. He removed my firearm from my apartment and went God knows where to do who the hell knows. I changed my locks that night and put his stuff in a storage. I told him his car was his home. He eventually got his own apartment when the weather began to get cold. NOW he want to put his life together BUT STILL HAS NOT GONE TO THERAPY! He prays we get back together, I'M GLAD THAT WE NEVER WILL! 🎉🎉🎉
Did you get your piece back?
Stay safe!
Report to the police that you suspect that he stole your gun and feel unsafe of what he ninths do next. This is importantly. He might want to off you and claim that you unalived yourself. Be careful
So sorry 😢 but also so super proud of you! 👍🏾 stay strong and keep thriving ❤
You do need to report the gun stolen @Jukudu8 if there's a record of you purchasing or registering it.
If you don't & he commits a crime it might land you on the suspect list or in jail
That kid will find out the truth and hate those disgusting enabling a-holes. Why didn't her parents forbid a joint funeral? JFC!!!
Probably money related sadly, just my guess. It’s all sickening to think about. What a slap in the face of that lady
My guess is religion plays a big role. Religion has ZERO respect for the autonomy or desires of women whether they are alive or unalived.
@@Childfree_Forever definitely true! 💯💯💯
@@Cashious that's barely a reason. I'd rather bury someone I loved in an unmarked grave and have a tea and biscuits lunch with those who loved them than to allow their MURDERER to be celebrated while she is a prop to his image rehabilitation. Absolutely NOT. I hope the actual reason was something legal that tied their hands because otherwise we have to assume that even her family unit was abusive or at the very least protected and enabled her abuser
I bet they paid for it
My sister’s husband unalived himself a week after she left him. She was at work & she said he kept trying to lure her to the house saying how he wanted to see his kids. Thankfully she never went back lbecause if she was in that house he would’ve unalived her too & possibly their 3 kids. I had a dream about him. It was pitch black & he was standing there & he told me he wish he never did it
He went to the void!
@ do you mind explaining a little bit what the void is? I’ve never heard anyone say that
@Risha-Rene it's not Heaven or hell. His soul is in limbo, nothingness.
@@Sarabella68 oh wow, ok I understand now
I'm glad your sister listen to her intuition & LIVED
Never ever ever trust them when you are going thru a break up. Especially when you are looking fwd to moving on. They stay mean and bitter and some will hide it like they are fine but it's killing them inside.
Possessiveness, wounded ego, and ludicrously hellbound levels of petulance. Who needs or wants relationships with things like that?
I had an old coworker who was killed this way. The husband killed her and then himself. Her daughter was 9 at the time and found their bodies when she heard her infant triplet brothers crying and not being attended to. This traumatizes these kids so much and it's so awful that the gender that's constantly called emotional, are often murdered when the "rational" gender get too upset.
Wow just horrific. Imagine being so selfish and irrational as a father, that you take the mother of your children away. And literal babies and a young kid at that, then the daughter discovered them in a tragic way. I hope the children are healing and getting the support they need.
Ladies, don't lower your standards or make allowances. It never works out.
This comment!!!!!!!! 🎉❤🎉 This comment is the truth.
If that aint the truth...
Happened to my cousin in 2022, in front of their child. I was one that never thought it would hit so close to home.
I am so sorry for you, and her child.
I'm so sorry for your loss
My condolences
My mother couldn't sleep when she started filing for divorce because she knew my abusive father knew where we lived. They had been separated for almost half a decade at that point, and he had been deluding himself that she'd come crawling back and be his housewife while he got to bang his young mistress.
Really, she was just getting everything together so it could be as quick and painless as possible, and do that she did. I heard her lawyer actually cackle while they were sorting through it all.
The man hadn't had a spine in years, though, because he only lightly argued about 'their' taxes, to which she said "Already did all of my end." They got physical before, but he always came out of those limping because Mom was a BODYBUILDER before she had me. Guess that scared him off from doing anything stup!d during the divorce.
Haven't seen him since I was thirteen, and I hope I never do.
women literally sleeping with the enemy with ninjas that see you as property, easily replaceable and disposable
Its true
Love your channel, shayna. Men are true beasts in humanity
BEASTS
@Lauren-zg9zo I agree
This story was so sad, but this is how men can literally fool you even until AFTER a breakup/divorce. You can't ever feel safe with a man. Here she was, thinking he was hurt by the divorce, yes, but committed to moving forward peacefully. It was a trick. Tbh, women just need to stay fully away from men, even the ones who seem okay.
But what concerns me is saying she's never been on her own. Live alone first, ladies. Learn how to do things on your own, so you aren't so dependent on a man. That's a huge way they trap you. He probably assumed she'd never leave BECAUSE she'd never been on her own.
*She was delusional and believed him when he said he wasn't going to be violent.*
*SHE'S TELLING US THEY HAD A TRUCE OF NO VIOLENCE ANYMORE!*
She just fooled herself to believe it.
*NEVER BELIEVE WHAT THEY SAY AND NEVER MEET THEM ANYWHERE AFTER YOU BREAK UP OTHER THAN A POLICE STATION.
Great observation. Why would anyone say they won't be violent. Had he been that way before?
Never trust them! When they want the woman to put up, they will destroy the entire family!
When I left my partner a year ago I left the whole damn state and told my family to not post anything about me and where I was. This was my first relationship after being single and celibate for 10 years. And before that I only had 2 relationships since my divorce in 2005. Why had I been so skiddish about relationships since my divorce? Because I too thought that we could handle our divorce in a civil and mature manner. My ex who had NEVER been violent or emotionally unstable in the 9 years of our marriage turned into a person I didn't know once I decided to file. I couldn't believe that I had lived with this man for so long and had no idea what he was capable of. He threatened to pick-up our children from school so he could kill himself in front of them. This man was the best father throughout our whole marriage. I have since said that you don't really know a person until the relationship ends and the way they handle it.
This is exactly why I quietly removed myself from my covert narcissist of a husband. After trying everything he possibly could to break me for 6 months straight after asking for a divorce, he realized he couldn’t trigger me anymore and he went running back to his parents states away, leaving me and our two toddler daughters behind. Before he left, he used to come to my neighborhood in the middle of the night and just park in front of my house with his headlights shining into my bedroom, which would wake me up. I don’t know what his intentions were but I knew he got a gun after I left. As much as I would like to, I have not exposed him to family and friends because in the last couple of years we were together, any time I tried to leave, he would threaten to k*ll himself. And my thought process is, if you threaten to off yourself, what’s to stop you from taking me and my children out as well? So I have been quiet and peacefully raising my children with absolutely no contact in hopes that we don’t suffer because he can’t deal with the consequence of his own actions.
Married 54 yrs this year but if I were single I wouldn't be on the market. Also happily childfree by choice too
Thank you for sharing about her as a human being with goals, talents, connections to other humans and with an obvious kind and loving heart 💖
Trust might cost your health or even life.
Trusting men always costs you financially.
We found out recently that my 85 y/o grandfather has been stealing my grandmother's money over the course of the last 2 1/2 decades since her retirement. He hasn't worked since the 80s and lied about having savings of his own. Took control of all the joint accounts, closed them and reopened some with himself as primary. When arguments broke out at the revelation, he constantly threatened her with violence (she's 86 and has less mobility than he does). My sister laughed when I said witnessing them has left me somewhat traumatized. Whatever tiny speck of respect for or faith in men I have is gone. I have my own trauma from and from men in my family, but seeing him devolve like this makes me refuse to ever build a life with a man
And people still gonna defend him
OMG!! I heard about this story but I didn't realize this was the victim. This is so heartbreaking. My heart goes out to her daughter and family. 🤯🤯😓😓
Her family had a joint funeral. Imagine. 🤬
@OGK-1414 I heard that. It's so triggering to know she was victimized again, during her funeral. It's so gross. 🥺🥺
Deep down we all know that the saying, "The person who poses the most danger to a woman is her MALE spouse/mate", to be true, but it's still shockingly terrifying every time it's proven. There's another saying: "Human females are the only species attracted to their only natural predator." Damned if that isn't true, with humans being at the top of the food chain. May she R.I.P.
Stay single stay safe
So freakin sad man, idk what it’s going to take for men to become less dangerous to women, but there are so many discouraging stories
unfortunately it will get worse
It’s going to take other men, especially in power, to not be ok with it. Most of them think abuse is fine.
He was festering and hiding it
Working in male dominated fields I see so much of men that is just so terrifying. I wonder how much I see that they of their personalities that they never show their wives
There will be many people saying, “just look at the red flags, avoid the bad men. But people can change. It’s a crap shoot.”
My ex punched me, slapped me, slammed me down choked me, held a knife to my necke, threatened to kill me and held me hostage when I tried to break up with him. It wasn't until after I left and gained clarity that I realized just how much danger I was really in in that relationship.
Thank you for talking about the fullness of her humanity and celebrating her hobbies, talents, dreams and positive relationships. I am saddened when women's entire lives get reduced down to their tragic conclusion at the hands of a man.
It’s crazy how much of a risk it is dating men nowadays. One wrong move and you’re unalived, life put on halt, or ostracized. It’s crazy nowadays it definitely doesn’t make women excited to meet new people.
This sort of thing happens a lot!! Even more disturbing is all the nasty comments that either support the husband or show a blatant apathy for such dark shit. This country needs help.
The guy I’ve been seeing for years just told me he UNDERSTANDS… that when men love so hard and lose “their woman” or get cheated on they will resort to murder bc they aren’t as strong as us. I said so you would do that to me?! He kind of looked and said something about being married then said, you would never do me like that… WTF 😳 I’m still in shock
Girl, you need to safe up and make an escape plan. He is excusing a crime against humanity and trying to justify it with male privilege.
While you sit there in shock you should be packing ur bags to leave! 😵💫😒
@@mamat1213like the other commenter said, it's time to go 🧳 and you gotta go quietly and unexpectedly! he's serious when he said that and thank goodness he answered honestly.
Our culture is why this stuff happens! Children are beautiful; a society that breeds monsters isn't!
Children don't stay children forever. Why anyone would bring children to this world is straight up ludicrous.
@dontshowmyname9561 I don't agree and to show for it I have two kids. Both I plan to homeschool. I plan to raise with them to have the ability to discern fight and heal those in need. Nothing wrong with being human. Nothing wrong with being a woman or a mother there's definitely something wrong with Western society. Detach from this culture and live freely than you'll understand your world is NOT the whole world but very small ...an controlled and govern by a wicked governmental entity in alignment with other evil forces an empires under the influence of something very destructive. Families are Targeted the devil goal is to ruin marriage kill women an children an create a society in which babies aren't being born. Human beings are very close to this NWO. However outside of these large Nations there are still ppl living in alignment with nature and spirit. They Don't seek God in a temple... Or a Church.
@Truthseeker7771000 okay so which society would you like to model? Africa or Asia?
Humans are generally just a trash species and, with all the wars, competition and rivalry, despite our "intelligence", we should be wiped out at this point. But i wish you and your kids well. I hope they enjoy the fun of competing for resources with others for no reason at all lol
My ex hated me for loving him. Yes you read it correctly, he hated me for loving him and helping him ,because he hated himself. Yes he was on drugs and an alcoholic. That was 20 years ago and I am still in therapy . I finally love me and I’m completely comfortable being alone .
Bless her heart. She thought he was gonna love her. She probably had a child to "cement" the relationship.
Most of us don't go into a marriage thinking that the person they "love" would ever harm them.
Just think about the birthrate if women didn't even try marriage! Just think! And it may need to happen for men to see that we MEAN BUSINESS!
cement = baby-trap and gaslight.
I don't think so, too many are entitled and brainless for it to work. Korean women did this and nothing changed, most people are allergic to taking accountability, with the ratio being higher in men.
A ticking time bomb, yeah, I'm not vibing with that energy.
Thank you so much for taking your time to speak of Jennifers life. In our current world, its too easy for many to feel apathetic to deaths of other, to view them as nothing more than statics and numbers of femicide.
So ❤ breaking thank you for coverage and tribute
Thank you for telling us more about Jennifer, it seems like she was a beautiful soul 💖
selfish, SELFISH man to do that to his own daughter... they never think about children, they never do.
That's because men are the king-babies. Everything revolves around them. They are the center of their universe including their family.
I thought my divorce would be peaceful. He was even worse through the divorce process than the marriage
I got an f'ing dating app add for this video. 🙄
Keep yourselfs safe, ladies. It's better to be single than six feet under!
Poor young lady. I am so sorry for her and her children. May she rest in peace.
I hate these situations where you can’t see a million red flags before something happens . Where it really seems like a reasonable person. Because I’ve known walking red flag men. Men who are giving off signs. Men who you know to be wary of. This shit bothers me so deeply. She really felt like things were going okay. Terrifying.
Why cant you just break up with anyone anymore? This is insane!
Dear God! So sad! It can happen to ANYONE. I know first hand how unsafe a man can be during a separation. Makes me want to stay single forever. These men are lonely… depressed… perpetual victims! Kids are AMAZING! But you can’t truly enjoy parenthood when you’re with a toxic partner!
That poor woman was speaking as someone who had finally woken up and realized who she was and what she was capable of and was seeing the future through fresh eyes. This is what the "decenter men" movement has been telling young women and girls - wait, live, explore, discover who you are before cutting off all your paths of possible growth, development and achievements. Men want you to settle for the "egg apron" when you are aspiring for a trip to Greece. Do your metaphorical Greece whatever that may be, unapologetically. Don't wait until some has burned through the best years of your life and then possibly take your life.
In South Africa, such crimes are so, so common. The only ones we get to hear/know about are the ones that manage to make it to the mainstream somehow, but a lot of women this side have died at the hands of men who supposedly loved them.
I am not in the best situation myself, but God is my Father 😢.
I hope you get out of that Situation!
i hope you're able to safely get out of that situation. just be sure to speak it into existence every day and take small steps regularly. when the opportunity arises, don't hesitate and don't look back. i'm not saying it's easy, but it's 100% worth it. you are 100% worth it. until then, please stay safe ❤
For real... How are we supposed to know?
that's the catch. we don't know. they don't want us to know.
Omgosh! That’s disgusting and why, would he do that. 😢Now that baby doesn’t have anyone. He should’ve gotten mental health care.
It sounds like it was a snap decision in this case. From what little we know I don't think mental health care had anything to do with fixing this. I believe he snapped and said You're not leaving me /over my dead body, and that's exactly what happened. Someone who kills their wife and then themselves has no care in the world about their children! 💯
@@JukuduBi don't think he snapped. it was likely a matter of when, not if. my immediate reaction when i heard this a while back was premeditation. they know. we give them too much credit by minimizing it to snapping.
He was "being nice", because he thought there was still a chance she'd change her mind.
She was divorcing Satan
This is why we choose the bear. on my birthday?! 😢
Happy birthday 🎉
This is why I don't trust men anymore, I prefer to be by myself. There was something else going on in that house, something shes not telling. Because no woman divorces a man who is as "great" as she's trying to play him up as.
What's insane to me is this idea that men are so strong, and are the most important thing, but fall apart when a woman leaves them (often due to their own actions) and responds with such extreme violence. Male family annihilators have become so prevalent it is daily news. I am single and have been perpetually single. Every time I think I need a relationship, I am reminded that my safety is much more guaranteed while I remain alone.
Thank you for sharing her story and making her a real person.
Lord have mercy….. my question is why?
Men ☕️
Incel
Follow Yv-edit or the public offender. They explain it all.
But simply: if he can't have her, no one can.
This happened to my mom’s coworker. I went to school with her daughters. One day we went to school and by the time we came home, their father had killed their mother.
OMG I just watched that video she was Unalived 😢.
This is dark but it's all too real and it needed to be said. Heck, If i was a woman, i wouldn't date men, it's scary af. Sometimes, when i look at the love of my life, i just can't stop feeling uneasy and uncomfortable with the fact, that she must have thought, at least once, that i am capable of ending her life. Sheesh 😬😬
Spot on 💯
Thank you for speaking up.
4:25 Thank you for honoring Jennifer like that.
TRUTH!! Hope women are listening!
I'm so glad i treated my ex like a threat during our divorce because he left no room for doubt that he would rather i die than leave
Thank you for talking about what she loved. May Jennifer rest in peace, and her daught carry her legacy. ❤
True. Now compare the rates of DV of other women, to those of BW. Unbelievable.
This.
I literally cried listening to her speak, she had the softest sweetest voice, why are some XYs so evil???? Omg now that poor baby has to grow up without a mother and father and every Christmas/New Year she has to relive that trauma.
What's happened to this woman is tragic! But we all are not ticking bombs!
Ur reply reflects otherwise smh
@cynthiakila1161 I'm sorry you feel that way. Did my use of exclamation trigger you? If so, I'm sorry. I just don't like blanket statements that condemn an entire group of people. Kinda like racism.
I escaped ❤ Gods hands 🙌🏾
Thank you for covering this
😢
THANKS 4SHARING ❤
My god so sad jennifer I'm so sorry R.I.P 😢
My first husband, after molesting his daughter by his third wife for an extended period of time to set up an accusation of “unfit parenthood” against her mother during a divorce, he self deleted when caught. My adult children who survived his years of abuse were re traumatized when he did this but my son said something poignant… we lived in fear of this man for years and when we found out he was ded, it was like he hit a manic sense of relief… he said, “thank god I don’t have to kill him (to protect us)”. I can’t tell you the sense of relief, peace and calm we felt at the end of this person who had menaced us for over 25 years.
Amen ❤ God protected me from this kind of man and I am so grateful I escaped. I left un silence and without notice. All the glory to God ❤❤❤
The sad part about this is that, he blind sided her - had her thinking he was level headed about everything . . .
Not she mentioned the dog first.
I didn’t know who they were but this is terrible! My so called “dad” offed himself when I was a young teen. I couldn’t image if he’d taken my mother with him! I don’t think I would have made it. The children 😢
Love changes love is oh so full of dangers, and best friends become strangers.
What’s really gross about it all is the family and friends who support that guy after he took her life away.
On Facebook they were saying how amazing he was and how people understood why he did it. These people failed her. Not surprised knowing they are from Mississippi. Don’t come at me, my family lives there and southern women will stand by their man through hell and back.
I feel so bad that she had a funeral with the man who took her life away. A lot of people think it’s for the daughter, but if I was her I wouldn’t want that.
She was out of his league. dude couldn't take it
Please take heed Family....pray about everything these demons lack compassion !!!!!
Unfortunately this happened to me and my brothers 30 years ago on December 17th 1994. I’m 36 now and it took me until my 30s to forgive my father but that comes with a lot of self healing and healing generational curses. Life has been traumatic but at the same time, I now am very careful not to find a man like my father.
Lemme tell you, I was NEVER afraid of my life and for my life WITH him. When I broke up with him, I was VERY afraid of him.
Ladies! Do not announce your separation please, even as an influencer. These men have such fragile egos, that you telling the world about the divorce is admitting more or less their inadequacy. Plan accordingly, tell the ones most important to you and leave quietly. Please 🙏🏿