HOW TO DEAL WITH NARCISSIST | Things You Should Not Say To Toxic People/ Narcissistic Person
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ส.ค. 2024
- How to deal with narcissist
Things you should not say to a toxic people / Narcissistic peron
How to deal with toxic people
So here I have discussed few points which you should remember while dealing with a toxic person or a narcissist. You can avoid saying these things to keep your relationship normal with toxic people because sometimes you just can’t avoid them.
So handle toxic people carefully.
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A narcissist thinks you are the wrong one and blames everything on you. And you start living in guilt.
200% agreed, I too feel lot of guilt many times, what is the solution?
@@Dheer-Raj solution is to see the situation from others point of view. I think when a narcissist gaslights us, we start to lose our own self worth and start feeling dependent and weak. You should stay confident and see your situation from third person's eye. Then you will realise what's happening to you. And best way to deal with them is to stop being vulnerable around them and stop reacting to them.
@@shreyaverma2584 yes I too felt that no reaction makes them uncomfortable completely. These people are like that they don’t want you to be away from them and also they want you to be not comfortable at all
@@Dheer-Raj it's strange that yours doesn't want to leave you alone because mine used to blackmail me that he would leave me if I say anything...
@@shreyaverma2584 yes , I asked many times when she complained about life than I simply say that ok just leave me if I m not Gud that suddenly she starts Gud behaviour
Just listening about narcissists is so draining… dealing with them is suicide…
Yes ma'am, humara murder kese hoga vo jankar bimar sa feel karna, i can feel it
Humara to roj ka Maran hai...mam
Ma'am how to deal when u have kids n nobody even from ur parents side is to support u
mam in logo ka kuch krwao na police court koi help nai krta isme
Be truly honest and ask their problems that they been through their life.
Also i think they doubt so much because people of this world are becoming so toxic so these narcissist that was a very nice person becomes very toxic because of the old bad things that they have been through in their life. And i think this is what is the reason to being an narcissist. And they poke or pinch you check your reality that what you are in anger and so they can spit out the truth from your mouth in anger situation.
And i observe the reason behind this psychology.
World is not innocent in reality and people aren't honest.
And if someone could read other person mind, he won't take doubt because he would be sure after read your thoughts inside brain.
So the answer is be 100% real and honest. Don't use sneak or subliminal actions that sent a doubtful message that breaks the trust bond.
"A narcissist is not a smart person to live in the world smartly" i can say in a nutshell.
My theory behind the mind 💙
Imagine if a narcissistic is watching this video 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣he /she will be very alert now. 😂😂😂
He he awesome
Yes I am 🤣🤣🤣
No they will not
😂😂😂😂
People with power can only a narcissist
Don't ever criticize a narcissistic person...
No matter how softly you said ..... No means no .....
No matter how much it is necessary.... No means no.....the lesson i learned from this video
thanks
Oh yes. ..but if you dont tell them what needed to be done..again you get in trouble. He used yo say why didnt you say anything. They are impossible people.
@@nikiroy6196Right ..my husband do same
@@simmysharma52 oh yes..i uses to think every day what he is going to do today.
True
Bahas wali baat to bilkul point ki boli aapne...jhela Maine ye sab...tab pata nai tha inlogo ko narcissist bolte hain...inke saath ek roof k niche raha nai ja sakta....chahe kitna bhi in sab cheezo ko adjust karke koi jhelne ka soche...every day is a survival day with these people..
Bilkl sahi kha yr maine to love marriage ki thi ese insan k sath usko maine sahi insan banane ki kosis ki wo sahi insan bna to nhi bt ulta meri band baj gai..uske sth reh kr mmai apni identity bhul chuki hu ki mai kesi thi .aur kbhi kbhi mujhe khud mai feel hota h ki mai pagl hu .mtlb us insan ne is kadr mere upr apna bhoot ghusaya hai ki..hr jgh wahi usi ka ehsaas balki mujhe wo sukoon mai rehne nhi deta fir bhi wahi nazr ata h aur mere aage badhne se usko jealous hota hai .uske liye maine bhut sacrifice kia bt usko fr b mere ander kami nazar aati hai .aur apne ap ko perfect btata hai aur apne ap ko villain bolta hai aur use khushi hoti hai bhut koi usko villain bole..
So true. Hum sab victims alag alag hote hai but Narcissist ek jaisa hi behave karte hai. Tabhi ye disorder hai, same symptoms
@@sahibashanu7704ab aap thik ho
@@sahibashanu7704same yr
Mera husband b aisa hi h
Ab to bs baddua niklti h uske liye or jisne mera rishta krwaya
Ky soch k sadi kri thi or yha ky huwa
Depression ka drd hota h pura din
Mjhe bolta h Tu bhut tez chlti h
Tere ansu jhute h natak krri h
Mai to bhgwan s yhi dua krti hu ki aisa natak krne ka moka ise b mile
Iski aisi akd tute ki y b roye or sb use natak smjhe
Bhgwan mjhe y ab kisi b jnm me nhi chaiye kisi ki mat p nhi 🙏🙏
Ajib sa pglpn h
Kisi topic p baat nhi krni bs apni baat rk k silent hi jana h dusre ki nhi sunni
Apni maa bhn sb sahi bs biwi hi glt h
Bhgwan mera ek ek ansu iski maa or iski bhn or iske ankho s khuun bnke nikle salo n bola ldka sidha h ab pta chlra ky h ye sala pglo jesa
Bahas wala baat sach mein sahi hai. Wo points rakhte hain apne paas. Bahas se hi wo apna khel start karte hain. Choti choti baaton parr wo bara karr dete hain. Ek baat hai, they don't have emotions. They are very self obsessed.
Atleast somebody in india is talking about this hell.Keep going and please try to cover all the associated points related to narcissism.💝👍
I felt soooo helpless, till today because there is no one in India who is talking about this issue😢 ... It is like u are in a hell on earth with a narcissistic person if you are married to one...
Yes agreed, here we don’t consider such diseases and simply that this is a handling issue. But I have personally felt that even if you keep your heart for such personalities still they will not be happy
Exactly. We need this education in India
and narcissism is more rampant than crows in India... its EVERYWHERE... old and young... only crawling babies wont have it
I suffered a lot in a 10 years relationship with such person. First 3 years were nice but later on it spoiled. Really it was dangereous and drained my intellect, finance. Profession and business. Your work is very valuable. It took me one year to get out of impact. I am practicing vipashna meditation as well as into coaching since last 17 years. That's why I could survive myself and escaped. No I am doing well in all aspects of life.
Ap thik hue
Bless you
@@Love-Runs-Blind wanted ka dilogue hai,
Tu uske pichhe bhagega vo bhagegi
Tu paison ke pichhe bhag vo tere pichhe😃
Oh tell me about it. I suffered for 13 years. I became spiritual and HE saved me from him.
@@nikiroy6196 Exactly
Mera ex lover pura narracisist tha nd he is a doctor by profession .He used to brag about himself all the times like i have this bike, that car, mera hi profession best hai baki sab bkwas or nalayk log hai and jb main usko kuch bol deti thi hlka sa argument hota tha main last mein rone bethi hoti thi he was very disrespectful towards me and others .Now when i think about his behaviour i laugh on him and jo uski wife bnegi uspe bhi taras ata hai sochkr🤦
Bach gayi tum behen Mera ex bhi aisa hi karta tha aj mai yaha gaya itna paisa udaya ye khaya wo khaya 😑 pura relationship uske charo or ghum raha tha
Doctor hua toh kya ukhadliya!!! Aise aira gaira 3rd class doctor har gali mn clinic khol k baithe hai .... 😂😂
Mera ex bhi medical field se he.. voh bahut hi manipulative insan he🤢🤢🤢 aur jab dekho tab block unblock karta tha.. toh mene hi hamesha ke liye block mar diya.. aur silent treatment diya🤢👎 voh itna pagal he ki voh apne friends ke through msg bhijvata h🤢👎 aur apni galtiya bhi nhi manta👎 and he really lacks empathy
Same.😪
Same story with my doctor wife.
Life ka har 1 din khatru kay khiladi ka episode hoga was epic 🤣😂
Hahhahahh yess this lady is so good with her words
Thank God I realised and am trying to heal ... That ugly demon in my life drained me.
Hi
I was in a relation with one for 9 yrs..as per my therapist it takes time to get out of a relationship with such people and they will ruin your mental health. With god's grace I finally ended it. Thank your for talking about it dear
@@ManishaThakur-hm4zk u are absolutely correct.. smile to puri chalice jaati Hai..
@@shyama5073 true 😔
How did u ended that n how r u feeling now...
9 years 😢😢
Thanks my beti you have opened my third eye my mother is narsosist my age is 61year she has destroyed everything in our family members and all concerned to family by seeing your vedio I came to understand the truth behind
Thanks to you and your family members
My mother also
My parents are Narcasssist.
Please spread this information as much as possible.🙏 I Like your Videos 🙂
What did they do ?
Very sad..... Is rishte se nikalana... Impossible h kisi ka bhi
Mere bhi including sister 😭😭😭😭😭
I am scapegoat golden child
Same !
Why do I feeling like she is teaching us how to deal with a wild animal......😂😂😂
Best comment for me at this time😂😂
I'm living with someone who have the exact same behavior and while listening the symptoms I can't resist my smile because he has all these flaws.
I needed this video earlier
perfect said😂👍
Aapne jo bhi bola exactly same hota hai .. ye admi ye sab karata hai... Bilkul sahi sahi bola aapne... Sometime without any reason he used to scold n start fighting with us
Moral of the video - narcissistic people ki provoking nature h or bhes krna pasand h inhe toh gusse mai reply na kro, haske reply kro..inse ache se rakhoge toh ye aapka kaam bhi kr dete h..jyada close bhi mat aao unke..healthy relation unke saath kabhi nhi ban skta, normal relation hi ban jaae bahot h..unse shi se baat kro toh woh aapka kaam bhi kr dete h
I am a woman who is having NPD tendencies..... earlier I used to be very disturbed by viewing videos of criticism because I was searching for some cure and ofcourse as my lack of emotional maturity , some comfort I am living with a friend who is kind enough to criticize me, give me left and right and show me my place....I feel pained and ashamed to have caused such suffering to people around me and also ashamed being a black hole that drains energy. I am desperately wanting to be a good person. Now a days I look at criticism as God's voice. I know people like me should not be accepted in this world. I want to end my life many times. But this is not the solution. I do not want to be a tool in the devil's hands and mock at Life .Now I am having the courage enough to listen to criticism so I am very thankful to my friend who has made me grown up enough and to you for uploading this video Ma'am. I can at least get a clue to understand how people feel and where I went wrong earlier and still go wrong.
A good suggestion is daily right book what u did, and make sure instead of u use they and instead of they use u and read the book after 1 week
Awareness is the key. Don’t demean yourself too much. You being aware and feeling bad for your deeds show that you already on the right track. Live normal life. You’re an awesome human being. Much love. ❤
@@maharana_arpita thank you. I received your comment now and it coincied with the understanding that when demeaning myself, I go back to the same emotional cycle again. You are correct.
Do self love❤ u r very nice person❤
Everybody has some weaknesses,, it's ok... Focus on ur strengths😊
Trust me u nailed it......
Your understanding of Narcissist is awesome, the only difference he cannot stand any compliment. REST ALL WAS 100% TRUE.
Thank you so much for sharing tips on handling them....I loved your expressions too.....awesome......
I truly Love You for this...great tips.
I am from Pakistan. I m facing this. My husband like this. 🙃
Di I have 2 points
1- Please make more videos like this
2- Kaash is topics pr video kuch din pehle banaya hota🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 , your points are totally relatable
Why should you even deal with a narcissist. I had a friend and I never feed her ego and she walk away herself. I felt so good. You are talking about spirituality I feel.
Thanks Nidhi for all these helpful video... I were only able to come out of my toxic relationship by watching ur video... U gave me strength to do so.. thank u so much ❣️❣️
Love u
God bless ✨ love u 🤗💗
@@thenidhichaudhary ❣️❣️😁
You just described my Ex boyfriend 😂
1. No arguments.
2.dont criticize, always praise, even on wrong thing
3.be kind because they lack empathy
4. Maintain distance, no ghanishta.
Bowing down and thanking you.... Thanx for this video...
I already had seen this video months ago... but mam u r very true about their characteristics...thanks a lot to make people aware of this criminal thoughtful people...
I am living with a narcissist husband…literally no one understands the pain I am going through from last 9 years and still suffering
Same here.... could live with him for just six months. Its extremely difficult. I came out of this marriage or else I could have gone in depression. Thanks to God and my family members who understood me everything everytime and gave me full support. The in-laws family in my case were even horrible.
Same here...but I got call recordings of my husband and in laws calls and then I exposed them in front of my family then My family believed me and supported me otherwise I could have gone into depression 😢
True
Same thing is not possible for a Husband, I have been suffering for the last 3 years, I am totally depressed, no one understands my feelings, since marriage she ruined all of my happiness. And me as a fool always trying to do my best to make her happy, I left my parents, brother, sister, for her so that she will be more comfortable with me, I purchased a car 🚘 for her, and other house hold luxury item's just to keep my wife happy. But in the end she used my baby to play with my emotions 😫😫😫
How do you deal with such a wife after more than 10 yrs of mrg and kids? One is almost finished inside thier heads
Har den khatro ki khalidi..well said exactly the same they are👍
Woh!! I salute you. You're like someone who experienced complete and whole lessons . Thanks god and you.
My mother is a narcissist. Literally like didi said she has spoilt my life and I realised she is like this after becoming an adult. And no matter whatever you do she will never be pleased.
Also she was a working woman and financially independent so she used to buy things to manipulate me. But people used to thing she is helping me so much blah blah. She used me as a scapegoat basically by fulfilling my needs and hence my problem solving skills, standing up for my ownself, these things never developed and I never grew because I had to do everything to please her so I basically never had a spine or a voice or any personality.
My mother is a narcissist too, and I think the best way to deal with them is to literally run away from them
@@aditikumari3094 aapney apney mom se kaise deal kiya qki na parents sath dete h na kuch karne dete h har baat pe daratey h
@@aditikumari3094 k thnxx
My mother also
Kya inse doori bana ke rakhna hi sahi hai hamare liye
@@shahnazscollection3521 haa khud k carrier pe focus karo aap
You gave some really good pointers on how to deal with such people. Thanks a ton didi. Keep coming up with more informative stuff. May God bless you. 😊
The way you explain everything is just amazing ✌🙌 keep it up ✨🥂 loads of love❤ take care🌝
Tariff bhi karo ya support bhi karo these type of ppl are never satisfy instead they will make you feel down
True. M to bolti hi ki kuch mt kro hi
My elder sis is also narcissist...my childhood was totally destroyed by her...she is so toxic that she pushed me to finish my life...still i live with her in our shared bedroom...from outside everything looks normal like sibling relationship, she still behave like she did nothing wrong with me... everything looks normal from outside but the only surviver knows the truth😔
Same here….suffocating in relationships
Same
Mine elder brother just pushed me to suicide
Same here
My sis. Also same
Thank you throwing some light on the issue. Very few people talk about this issue.
As per my experience we can never make them satisfy and they are never grateful if anything. Such personalities like to listen their own nothing else. And reality is far far away from them
Right bro they never be grateful, I made efforts for her whole day and night, no-one can do like that but she responded like it's normal you are not good , and sometimes you are the worst personality according to them
True. They just want to be praised but will never praise others lool
He has some good qualities also , he helps me whenever i need. But I'm not happy within. I feel alot of anxiety with him. He does his work whenever we have a fight. But I'm not able to focus on my life. I don't feel like eating or getting out of my bed after an argument. For the last few months, things have really become worse. He keeps on blaming me , i say sorry for 100 times still he keeps on shouting and arguing. If i don't say sorry then also he blames me. He keeps on verbally abusing me, disrespecting me until i cry at the end. Then also if i cry out of frustration he says I'm doing drama. When i don't want to talk to him after crying. He still doesn't stop.
This has drained me. My inner peace and happiness is gone. But on the other days he is so sweet and gentle towards me. He even fights with his family for me. When i say i don't want to be with you. He says he has left his family for me. It makes me feel kind. But I'm suffering everyday. I'm crying every other day because of the pointless arguments and blames. Once he starts shouting he doesn't stop for whole days. He shouts on phone calls with me constantly blaming me. I say sorry or not, he still doesn't stop. I'm so tired and drained. How should i get out of this situation, where he doesn't let me go away and doesn't let me stay with peace either. ?? My relationship is affecting my studies and my life badly. I'm having headaches he voice and shouting is still echoing and ringing in my head. everyone says leave him leave him but how to start ??
Check the other video on how to leave. I understand he must be caring and doing things but the negative part is effecting your life too much and this is unhealthy.
Thank-you didi for this informative video 😊😊😊
Make more such videos on these vultures, so that we can save ourselves !!!
So cute
My mother is a narcissist,and i completely understand the draining bit
My mother also narsist 😢
But why should we entertain them!
I was in narcissist relationship 4 months ago.. I still miss him but he moved on and married to another women! I was supporting him in every situation always cheer him up even though he abused me & my family and what he did he cheated on me and got married in 4 months just after the breakup.. I thought he will miss me but wow! He found my replacement and very happy with her! And I'm here unable to move on !! 24×7 thinking about why he did this to me.. what I have done wrong, is that my mistake??
There are some relationships which we can’t break like with parents, relatives, colleagues.
Another thing - if he is happy with someone else then you should be happy in your life. Heal & move on.
Hi, I was in narcissist relation. I recently brokeup. I know how it feels. But you have to realize that the happy moments cannot justify the pain you have gone through. The happy moments you are remembering are all made up things in your mind. The illusion of the idea of love with the individual. Do not forget the bad things he did to you. That is why it didn't work out. Do not think narc people are happy. No they are not. They are hollow they cannot be happy for long time. They do not have emotions. They do not feel any empathy and that is the reason he moved on. So stop thinking about what has happened and trust me narc people do not have a happy life they live in illusion so focus on yourself. You will have someone who will value you truly. Hope this helps.
Don't be sad.. be happy that you dodge that bullet, my ex left his girlfriend and married me and now he divorced me as he found new supply, just work on yourself cause that abuse can make your esteem very low, m still struggling with my self esteem
THIS IS THE STORY OF MY EX!!!! He was double-dating, he cheated on me many times, he sent seductive texts to so many girls, still idk why I dealt with this toxic jerk for 3.5 years!
Keep it as a blessing and move on.glad that he didnot marry u...u deserve better sister
Let'us spread the education & raise vibration on the 🌍 more aggressive than narc's
Excellent point of view. You are absolutely right.
I am married to a narcissist personality disorder man and every video I am watching directly describes him, he just keeps on gng and gng and tells me I am not worthy of anything and enjoys infront of his friends .
Thank u for this vedio mam
I'm from Amritsar, Punjab.
I'm in relationship with a doctor, She is MBBS , MD. and working in Government Institute.
आप ने इस वीडियो में जो भी पहचान बताई है, वह सब same to same है। जबकि मैंने आज़ पहली बार इस तरह की कोई वीडियो देखी है। आप ने video में जो भी पहचान बताई है, वह सब same to same. Oh my God ! मैं समझ ही नहीं पा रहा था। मैं आपका बहुत आभारी हूं, Thank you so much.... 🙏🙏🙏
I m in so much pain.. i m helpless.. i m with a narisstic person.. as u said every day is khatro ke khiladi
Unfortunately my husband is narcissistic I just discovered in 24years iam suffering alot
Same here n m.going to.seperate after 15 month of marriage.
Read about Asperger syndrome
Same with me .24 yrs I am suffering .M a housewife and nowhere to go.
Its only in India where few people doesn't want to get educated on new subject they can only make fun... good video keep doing the good work ❤
Exactly ,,
Mam u are.true ...sometimes feel help less depressed pls tell how to be happy
I felt like you were talking about my ex! 😂
Hahahah same here
Now i will also develop confidence from inner
Thank you Nidhi for such a beautiful n fruitful video...i need it 🙏🏻🙏🏻
We want more videos like these ...good work like always 🥰
I am a regular you tube watcher app toh explanation mei perfect ho really and narccicism ko jaise apne samjha hai its juss amazingly smart .. rarely i find ppl like you 🌷🌷🙏🙏
Actually I had a doubt on my clerk of being NPD as I had read about narcissism in 'Understanding Muhammad' book. It is depressing to work with him especially in government bank. Thanks for your advice madam🙏
Thanks for giving such valueable information Nidhi api 🌻❤️😘💯🌻 #loveandlight 😇
Your each word and information is 100% true i have been suffering in toxic relationships since last 24 years..but now i need counselling and treatment, and heart healing therapy and fewer good ideas for myself....it is very painful and hurting
How have you managed this in last so many years? Can you please share , it may help a lot, kindly share
your all videos are useful & informative thank you so much 🌹
Hello everyone, I also deal with one this type of person in my life from last 11 years...In starting its was he'll for me ...But with the grace of God, I came into contact with videos of bk shivani...after that I started to send her positive vibrations daily ..Now I feel much happier than before..and she is also better than before..
Thank you for your guidance 🙂😘
😂😂😂😂. Nidhi didi thank u apne jo kaha wo sunke hasi agayi muze kyuki aapne narcissistic logon ki reality bata di. Faad di unki puri tarah se
Really very nice advise but its difficult to in case of spouse. What should I do when have kids of 7 year baby girl
I have seen my sister changing her life partner from narccistic to humble one she just pampered her partner alot in correct places even narccistic person have their own reasons to become this way they may be no easy to deal with but sometimes there is a hope to understand their hurt and cure their broken heart and ego back to normal and protect it
My father is a narcissist and i feel like most entitled muslim fathers are and you described him perfectly. I stopped agreeing with him, why give them that kind of attention instead i started creating boundaries. I feel like they hate themselves and everybody around them, it not my job to fix him neither am i a therapist 🤷♀️ in few years i will move out 😅
Sameeeeeeeee
Awesome one........and now with me revenge game is already started 😂😂😂
So true how to cope up with that type of person finicialy strong hone nahi de
I want to know the same because of narcist parents they never ever let me study in peace moreover then cuss me by comparing me with smart kids I never hold any top position in my school always been an average student because every time they'll se me study or focusing on work they'll make me do house work again and again due to their continues interference and taunting I lose interest and focus in work/study ...then she continuously compare with the successful people just to degrade or insult me but can never let me be independent the only reason she let's me study so that they can marry me easily because noone wants illiterate wife like her in the today marriage market ..... Running away from that house is the only and only escape left for us but still it willl demean always a daughters character for disrespecting parents by running away....but at this point of like I DONT CARE just can't wait for the time i compelete my masters and get a well paying job as i cant run away with 0 backup money is must to rest a house
100 PERCENT AGREE TOTALLY SAME BEHAVIOUR 😳😤
😀superb nidhi
Very good. Thanku madam.
Dealing with narcissist is emotionally draining .we can have suicidal thoughts . But what if narcissist is highly educated and trying to not only suppress us but...
One symptom is they react very quickly.. Their mood swings very quickly.... They have no sense whom they are talking and what kind of language are they using...
They patch up very easily and broke up and this cycle continues.. They never say sorry..
My husband is a narcissist! I am in a marriage with him for 8 years now! Literally drained and exhausted because of constant blaming, gaslighting, trauma bonding!
Not sure what to do because he just never lets me leave. We have a beautiful son together…I am in a constant war with myself. Have suffered anxiety and panic attacks and this man is so good at spoiling all the major events in our life!
Take care dear
I am stuck too with such person…. My brain is so dead
@@poetrywithshobha209 I can totally relate. Just focus on yourself and your financial and emotional independence. This has worked for me. Take care
@@aditithakur1 Trying my best. Thank you
Me too facing the same for the past 13 years...irony is that ki after spending years in a relationship you got nothing..
1) vampire powerful.
2) toxic relationship signs.
3) don't criticism
4) no arguments.
5) two types narcissist
6) don't tell right thing.
7) impression best superior they perfect work.
8) han ahca thek hai hmmm check with tone
Ahcaie hahaha
Buriae ker hmm intrest Lena hai.
9)shaky self esteem confidence.
10) normal relationship never cricise revenge pinch ho.
11) Kuch bheri cheese kertay hai
Kind consequences
Reaction
Empathy
kya sahi explain kiya hai,sach mein gajab explain kiya hai,its exactly how it happens in the real world
My one was only a narsissit. I tolerated him around 3 years 🙄. And all the points were same as u said. After Breakup he always used to ignore and avoid me just like i was nothing. He used to do argument everytime and just wanted to fulfill the ego and all the happiness that he wanted from a girl. Really...! This type of relationship is such a toxic one. 😒
बहुत सत्य बात है. श्री राधे श्री राधे.
Some people take compassion patience and kindness as weakness. I think they may be narc. I experienced in my life.
Didi you are helping everyone thank you 😊 🙏 ☺ ❤
Beautiful Nidhi ❤mam aatmmugadh hona kya galat hi ❤sabhi apne ko perfect mante hi ❤jab ki truth ye hi ki duniya me koi bhi inasan perfect nahi hota ❤kuch na kuch kami sabhi me hoti hi ❤❤❤❤
Who is feeling a narcissist as a zombie and more fearful than before😂
Whatever you said sis 💯% correct and I relate so much.......
Kaafi achhee research ki hai app ney narcissist person k baarey main ..pyaaree pyaaree gudya 😍......narcissist ko b to jeeney ka haq hai ..kya sirf aap log hee G saktey ho acchaa paisa achee Gaadii aur ache life ? Or narcissist ko nahi ? 😡 why
So u r the Narcissict person ?
Mam u r absolutely right and i love your way of explaining❤....i am a wife to narcissistic person😢 and i can't leave him because of financial reasons.your tips to deal such person are amazing... please make another video to deal a narcissist husband.
Good 👍 thanks for guiding
diii please make a video on how to deal with a narcist mom. My mother is soo illiteral uneducated + narcist she has literally made my life hell since i was 12 i dont have a single happy memory with her. According to her I am not good daughter but a possibility to bring shame to the family by not behaving like a girl . She will never let me be independent ik room 1 ghanta akele b kya beth jau jina haram kr deti h sawal puch puch k ....apne gher me hi jina dushwar h forget about going outside the house. I'm scared kahi wo badle k chlte apni giri hui soch jese kisi insaan se saadi na kra de meri hr baat P saadi krake khun k aasu rulane ki dhamki deti h wo since i was 12 I'm dealing with her such taunts and wo har baat p papa k kaan bhrne lag jati h or har kisise mujhe marwana chahti ha.....I can't even tell anyone because samajh me maa ko itna acha mana jata h ki wo to kabi galat ho hi nahi skti ..... upper se usne wese hi meri zindagi aadhi barbaad kr di....4 din acha brtav krti hai jab tk uski haa me haa milao agle din fir kisi na kisi baat p manhuus ban jati hai .....i never want to become a mother like her
Get job n live alone
Tum akeli nhi ho, hamare saath bhi esa hota hai even after being a boy....😶
Hey your story is just like,m also facing this
@@sambritasinha3898 thanks all for reading my comment n showing ur concern.....i too have realised with time I can't adjust with them nor can make them change their mentality...
Tho education after 12th and having any financial independence was not an option i tried my best to fight to go out for work and have saved enough money to continue my education in distance mode ... It gave me big comfort that I'm not alone n there exists some PPL who can understand such situation. I bet I'll be following the right path... have my mind pretty sorted to move on in life and move out in future asap i can afford a safe shelter+living ...
My father was also Narcissistic personality 2 din bhut pyar aur 2 din aisa behavior ki maar hi dalenge wo really bachpan khrab ho jata hai
Ye to bilkul correct analysis hai exact hai 💯
Narcissistic is like mangalik dosh .
My ex has mangalik dosh in her kundli and yes she is a Narcissistic person.
U are Amazing ❤️
Bahut sunder Gyan Diya Madam G Dhanyabad Esi tarah ka Gyan chahiy taki Insan Apana bchav kar sake Dhanyabad
Lagta hai , aap ne aise kabhi kisi narcissist se deal nahi kiya hai. I am dealing with my vampire, narcissistic mother and sister. They have already destroyed my whole life, my physical and mental health , my career, my everything by every means. But , still they are not satisfied and happy. They need more blood . You don't have to argue or criticize them. You and your existence is enough for their cruelty. You are good or better than them , it's enough to destroy your all possibilities for them. You haven't deal with any real narcissist . So you don't know. Only those know, who have to live with them. No one can even imagine how much vampire they could be. I am now 40 years old with many physical illness, mental illness, depression, Schizo affective disorder etc and with no career, no money, no family, no marriage.
Same here
My ex was a compulsive lier.. Used to borrow money from people.. Didn't liked criticisms, suggestions or opinions of others... Was self centered and really liked to hear good things only about him... Also used to carry a pocket knife all the time with him...As per my experience.. A narcissist will treat you really well until they get you.. Once you start trusting and loving them.. They'll just start treating you like trash... They'll try to demotivate you... and rob your self confidence and happiness... You will constantly feel unsafe and unworthy with them... Best way is to apply no contact policy with them... Leave them forever and never look back... Don't give them your time, energy, money, love and attention..its hard to leave them because their convincing power is great.. So seek help from friends and family...
Thank you so much dear. Earlier I was not knowing about the same but you make me understand.
You are such a lovely and beautiful person
I got two narcissists in my family, one is covert and the other is overt. I don't understand what makes narcissist to go against one person and not the other.
All points are correct, but you are generalising that male is a narcissist. Women can also be the one. I have personally faced.
I love your advices, specially video on love with married man
Bht khob kia describe kia hai...mere husband aise hai or meh 6 sal se meh deep depression m hon
Husabnd h...phir kya kare ...cant leave marriage as i have kid
What if you love them so much 😭... How can you leave them😭
My fiance just left me as i said to him *ese log ko tu akela rehna chaiye jo dosre ki feelings ko nhi understand krty*…so he take it personal attack and leave me 😭😭😭😭😭 my wedding was next month i beg to him apologise him but he said he cant forget my words and leave me. Now im regleting and blaming myself for this act of mine😢
How are u now?... Plzz rply..... 😢😢
Vera helpful