Bang on. What a simple and clear cut explanation. After being in a narcissistic relationship for 10 years and coming out after knowing about this disorder. I can say you have touched most of point. In india people are not much aware about such disorder but we are producing more and more. I wish people become more and more aware about this disorder. It’s literally hell living with such demons. They will literally push you to death still will not regret because you need empathy to feel which they don’t have.
My elder brother is a narcissist and he has made my parent's life hell. We just thought that he is a wicked child, but now only after seven years, we have come to know that he is suffering from NPD. Until now we had been hopeful that things will be fine some day, but now we know that there's no light at the end of the tunnel. My parents have gone through a lot and must get out of this trap now.
I laughed about knowing myself in this video I am exactly like what you said. My brother told me I am a narcissist and I searched about it now I will follow up by showing empathy towards other people and I will care and equally respect everyone and I will not only think of myself anymore.
Hey! Thanks for this video… I have been with narcissist person for 2 years. He was exactly like you explained in the video : manipulative; exploiting others with no shame; self centric; abusive; not appropriating anything; raising hand; not respecting family members; etc etc… thankfully i am alive otherwise he made me suicidal & depressive. This is my second chance to live life my way.
same happened to me.. I lost my job, health, confidence and self esteem...he raised hand on me. 5-6 times slapped😢 I left him. I also had suicidal thoughts.
How to deal with narcisistic parents.. Both my parents go thru my room and throw away my belogings without asking me , i feel violated as a girl and even when i cry they r completely emotionless , they act so different in public but ghar mai they r completely shit 😭😭
@@zainabalig514 but how maine 2 days phle hi kha moma se k aap mujhe depress kr rhi ho then she said mai kr rhi yaa tum mujhe kisi ki zaroorat h jisse tumhare hrkt bta sku i mean literally agr wo full conservative h too iska mtlb ye nhi k unke bche v waise hi soche jaisa wo sochte h 😔 hamari thinking alg h maybe liberal h aur aaj tk maine unke against kuch aisa nhi kiya jisse unhe srmendegi mehsos ho but wo chahte h wo sb chiz mai kru wo jo khte overall wo mujhe apni katputli bna k rkhna chahte h at last hun to insan hi apni v kuch wish hogi ho skta h thinking different ho meri too wo kyu nhi smjte h??? kaise smjhau itne din se manage kr rhi hun but now I am going to turn 18 ab nii ho rha phle ingore krti the unki baate i was thinking wqt hi h beet jayega but ab in sb se literally depression ho rha din bhr sona acha lg rha ya mobile use krna even phle mai daily 6hrs at least self krti the but... Ni ho rha manage akhir kb tkk???
@@aafiya987 just live your life the way you want to live. You are not responsible for other' happiness. Unko khush karne ki ya unse validation lene ki koshish karogi to b vo nahi badlenge balki isse tumhari hi mental health kharab hogi. Btw I am turning 19 soon and I fought with them whenever they tried to control me. I choosed for myself whenever I could. Also I allignated myself from them. They are still the same I still feel depressed around them. Ab vo is baat ko lekar tension m h ki shayad m hostel jaa kar unhe yaad b na kru. I hope my experience helps you just don't be the one who always compromises for other's happiness. Vo nahi badalne wale kuchh b kar lo. So just live your life.
Whatever you mentioned is 100% true with my Narcissistic wife. But why the world doesn't know about it.. This can't be proved in front of judicial system as well. Need to bring more awareness about it because Narcissistic personality is increasing more and more due to improper upbringing by parents. Parents these days don't have time look after their children. So, this personality is a real threat to society. We can save many innocent people from depression or other Ill effects
Out of many children one may be Narcisst. How parents to blame. They are mad people and cannot be cured. What is cured are the symptoms. If you tell a mosquito it should be veg you are killing it. Narcist feed on there near and dear people.
Narcissist In relationship Family Friends colleagues 1) best Extreme Manner able Aap hi Mera sab Kuch. hai. 2) self love Self centered Feel happy. 3) opinion Sahi hai Trigger never accept mistake. 4) cheat Abusive Manipulate Khush Kyu ha 5) tareef Sunna Boht Pasand hai jis ches ko aam ko amm correct kesay kea. 6) ghelt ko b waj wah 7) criticism 8) use kea 9) yah Kiya ker rah es SA ahca toh mein kersakta hu 10) gaslight jhoot Mukar Jana aglay ko ghelt kerna. 11) low high kingdom 11) use
Hey girl.. More power to you.. Have been abused for 11years with NPD and cpstd due to him yet I learned it and survived it on my way.. Glad to see videos of education in hindi.. You really talk well to simplify it for indians.. Thank you and God bless you 🌹
My narcassist father sold my body organs and made me a handicap. I was a national basketball player, then he hospitalised me at the age of fourteen by giving me poison and taking me into coma. When I came to consciousness I was told by the doctors that I have juvenile diabetes. Today at the age of 40 I am walking with crutches and I am addicted to insulin whereas in reality I have low BP. And he keeps me hungry and abuses me all the time. I was a teacher in Germany and earned in Euros. I don't know what to do.
Thanks for this video..its really life changing for many.... i have also faced this situation ... although it was a love marriage 18 years ago...lmy life after marriage was full of criticism and blaming etc .. although he is good ,loves me too.... but his narcissistic traits were killing me inside...i lost my worth... felt worthless.... developed many health issues..... But the story started changing since few years...i started practicing all the tricks explained in this video somehow with gods blessings.... i removed all expectations... I accepted the fact that his nature can't be changed...i started making myself distant from him from inside... started doing regular prayer and breathing meditation.... and started focusing on becoming financially independent... Now i am in much much much better position...all my health issues has resolved...i m emotionally much balanced and strong....i feel good from inside....his behaviour has become better than before ...... but I don't care much....i try to not react on anything... neither interfere in his business........
I came to know about this (narcissistic )topic from your video...I don't know about this word before... but when you start explaining about the behaviour of a person having a narcissistic personality...Then i realize that i am with a narcissistic person...i was thinking that the reason behind of his behaviour is due to our long distance but now i get it...This is about a disorder...Thanks for your explanation...This will help me alot in my relationship...Thanks to god that i know about it early...
Recently came out of a narc relationship. The worst part of this kind of relationship is you wont realize how wrongly you are being treated till you come out of it. My ex is a narc and she made my life very difficult. At first she used to do all the things which I desired from my partner. She totally build a perspective like she was a person whom I cannot have or difficult to find a person like her. Then once I was in her fake made up personality she slowly started violating my personal boundaries like my office things, my friends and other things. If I would oppose she would react as if I have done something major wrong. Silent treatment was given to me. Manipulated me like I was at the fault. She was really hard to please.. no matter what I did. It was never enough. She used to talk and think very negatively like nidhi said. She couldn't handle criticism. Created fuss in small small things. And finally... something happened between us and she her self brokeup. I am still not able to understand why she brokeup maybe I started standingup for myself and was no more a puppet. I am really thankful it happened.. if you are into one or you can relate to the video pls pls walk away from narc. You cannot fix them or make them understand that they are wrong. It is worthless. So save your self. No matter how beautiful or charming the person is or how great the sex is or anything else just walk away.
I am having same story with my bf after 3 4 month of relationship he started showing his true colours and by mistake i fall for hi charming and caring personality and had physical with him which i have never done which is very very big thing for me. Now I'm getting mental trauma day by day i want to be with him but not with this personality 😣 he will make me suicide I don't break up with him but i seems really really difficult.
@@Haryanvigirlishu yesterday he abuses me bitterly when he gets angry on pitty things and I started abusing him back 🤣🤣. And today he was feeling sorry whatever he has done in anger. But all will go in vain when he will get angry so I don't trust anymore I'm just trying to make him more and more angry so he leave me 😭. I don't know how he acts sweetly when we meet offline but his behaviour is very bad on phone. And he said he will beat me if I don't listen to him. No one has right to beat me who the hell he is.
I have spent 8 years... today I came out finally...but still scared if she make it more critical... because they can't feel other...they do what they like to do...she can't even take funny criticism...she dnt have any friends... actually she can't make it...she judges everyone...even her father...in frnt of her poor people or who is lower then her profession, she treat them like animals....
Bro. You hv poured your heart out writing this comment i know how much it hurts. Been there.. its a text book theory that all narcs follow. Idealise, devalue n discard.. u wont see this bullet train coming towards u until u are hit and crashed to pieces by it. I wish this on no one but try to be urself in any relationship from the beginning coz if you try to people please out of your own childhood traumas ull give a nutrition fodder to the narcissistic partner to feed on u. Setting boundaries means treat everyone equally dont put anyone on pedestal from beginning of any relationship coz u dont know what demons resides in the other human u dealing with. These narc creatures can suck the life out of u if you behave mushy mushy to them. Day one u need to recognise their patterns of their past relationships coz they hv left many good people damaged behind them .. a train wreck so to say. They are on a rampage of destroying good ppl along the way. Walk the fck away and try to heal asap. Theres nothing left in those relationships where u are constantly waiting for ur partners approval based on what type of mood they are in. Damaged evil souls as they are they will make u one if u stay longer.
My ex bf was narcissist, he always try to pull me down, never say sorry, always hurts me and told me those that always I end up crying. He is like everyone is fool in this world and he is like Einstein, he used to say his fashion sense is better than Allu Arjun, he used to manipulate me and said always I told this u r always used to forget
Narsisist to mera wala bhi tha..lekin bahut beizzati karta tha bahut ...par jab main chhor deti thi ...sorry bahut bolta tha ..bolta tha mar jawunga ye wo
I m staying with a narcissistic from last 7 years ...no one else but my husband.....all the characteristics you described are exactly same with his behaviour.....I tried each and every thing to make him happy but all in vain ....now my child is 4 years old.His abusive behaviour and superiority complexes compelled me to step out of this marriage.......i was confused but after watching this video I decided to leave him permanently and to save my son from him.. .thankewwww
Mam may be you are misunderstanding him. Look for following factors:- 1. Has he isolated you from your family. 2. Has he isolated you from your friends. 3. Does he criticise your friends. 4. Does he control what you wear. A single video might not be enough to come to a conclusion. A narcissist hardly has true friends and has relations just for benefits. They "chose" their friends. Actually friends just become friends and there is nothing like choosing a friend. A narcissist typically has friends who are way younger than him or her, that gives him control. He typically tries to isolate you from your parents, siblings and relations. I too am struggling with similar issues and first thing i did was to look for videos about narcissism, i also had video about whether am a narcisssit just to have a deeper insight.
Ye info sabko pata honi chahiye, bahut Jyada toxicity h Apne surrounding mein aajkal. Manipulation,love bombing, passive aggressive behaviour and cheating ye Sab red flags h
This is a wonderful video giving accurate description of such personalities. As per my experience in life many partners just carry on with such people because of lack of clarity about such behaviours. Nidhi you did a good job in this video. I would like you to come out with more videos suggesting solutions . God bless you.
We had a mam in our higher education level who was narcissistic and used to constantly devalue the weak ones, total obsessive about looks and achievement, highly competitive, envious and seeking admiration. Had bad times when she used to humiliate me infront of people.
Also hey, narcissism is a personality disorder and has a spectrum, we all can have some characteristics unless you're everything she said in the video, then you should try therapy.
My husband is narsiccist.and sasu ma .is narsiccist. Mam aapane bahut achaa vidio bnaya muze bhuut fayda mila.mai 20 sal se inke torchur sah rahee thi aab aapki vidio me samaz aaya. Ki kaise inse deel karna hai. Thanks.mam.👌👌🙏🙏😊😊😀😀
This is absolutely terrible..I am daughter of a narcissist. I gone trough this n nw its too late..she already harmed me psychologicaly..she succeeded what she wanted..now i am not able to get married..what she always wanted..my student life ruined..she insulted me infront of friends n teachers..she plays so many mental games..its hard to explain..n yes she uses other siblings ..ganged up n torturing mentally n somtime phisically..now I am going through severe depression..I used to be a vry enjoying person with friends ..now I forgt how to smile..she played with my emotions so much making confusion ..n now I find love is hard..I dnt knw what she got frm all these.. now she exploiting my brother..torturing him emotionally..make him feel guilty..make him starve ..next level torture
आप ने 100/% सत्य बोला मैम मैंने भी 2 शाल डील किया लेकिन उसकी मंशा पूरी नहीं होने दिया और उसके अस्तित्व से रूबरू कराया ताकि आगे किसी को धोखा ना दे आप का बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद आप की इस जानकारी से ना जाने कितने लोग निकल पाएंगे 😊
Mere sasural me to saare hi narcissistic personality disorder person h meri saas 52 meri wife 28 dono ke narck same ke sath maa beti bhai bhin ye naracssistic character less mentally finished...
One thing to always remember is that you should not treat narcissists like they are because they are sick, their infection is dangerous, so as long as you are in that environment, you should provide a calm and friendly environment from your side.
LoL u either are one or have no idea how destructive these ppl are. Providing calm environment doesn’t make any difference as long as they make effort to change.
Just this month my 1+yr relationship with a narcissist got over.. I'm glad for whatever happened.. atleast I'm alone rn.. but i no longer have to go through his shit..
I remember when I was in 9th grade there were some guys who were narcissists,they used to make me uncomfortable by making sexual remarks in the name of jokes and would point out small mistakes of others.But if a teacher or any other student pointed out their mistakes they used to argue and create ruckus.
It's not as simple as that, they were just bullies/rowdy boys you can say. NPD is a disorder and we all can exhibit some signs of narcissism. What Nidhi shared in the video are common signs of a full blown narcissistic person.
Di appne Bilkul bilkul sahi kaha her ek baat sahi Kahi meri saas mera husband dono ko ye problem h. Mujhe bimar bana diya inlogo ne. Ab mene apne apko detach ker liya h. Singing karti hun apne kaam me apne aap me rahti hun. Apne bilkul sahi kaha inko koi nahi badal sakta. Inlogo ke saath rahna matlab apne aap ko kho do. Thanks di. Kosis kerti hun khus rahne ki. Aaki baato se khuch help hoti h. Thanks
Exactly meri bibi avi ese hi behave karti hai 😢15 saal ka relationship ho chuka hai mujhe avi pata chala hai, bahat pyar karta hu 😢😢kaise deal karu pl suggest 🙏
@@abhasrivastava2691 I think dunia ko na hi batay to aacha hai kuki koi believe nhi karega..isliy khud samjh kar apne safety k liy jo step ho sakta hai wo le..
Duniya ko batane ke lye mjhe to mere narcissistic husband ki call recordings mili (due to god's grace) jisme wo apne parents se bat krte the 😂....mtlb is had tk un lgo k plans chlte the mere khilaf...arrest kra dnge ...marne ka hi soch liya mjhe....ise akelapn feel kra ye wo mtlb total gaslighting k plans b the usme...now I have left him aur logo ko proofs b dikha diye mne aur even uske relatives ko b bhej diye sb proofs🤣 jha usne mjhe jhut bol bolke bdnam kr rkha tha
Mam aap ne jo bhi khaa wo sb mere papa ke andr My father exploid my mother, he do emotional blackmail that he will kill himself and much more, I don't want to psychiatrists mam do you have some online course to treat my father
Video is overall awesome....my favourite part which made me ur fan....starts at 9 mint.....the statement about low status friends u stated.....i always thought of this about a person and gossiped with someone about her and low status friends of her....and she was ruling them .....and feeling like a king....and than gaining energy ,charging from them ....and than feeling that i m some special person....my friends thinks i m very intelligent and superior person so....u shud also adore me....and praise me.....and give me special place ...because she strongly belives herself superior from that energy and special attention provided by her crap friend.... I simple desi haryani words They say... Andha mein kaana raja.... Means one eye person ruling the blinds .....and feeling superior because he can atleast see.....as the blinds cant......narcissistic person always finds a company of blinds.....to get that energy....... But problem occurs wen they apply that energy ,(which they always do) to person who has both eyes....
YAAAS! good work Nidhi! You highlighted the main characteristics, sadly not many ppl discuss this/want to acknowledge this is India. But people with these disorders are everywhere around us. Because I have done extensive research and am passionate about this subject, I was hoping you will use terms like love bombing, new supply, future faking and cognitive dissonance etc, "because you talked about them all briefly.." However I understand that you might've wanted to make these concepts easy to understand so you skipped the terms but great job, I can finally share this with my family since it's in Hindi.
Mujhe NPD hai.....ye mjhe tab realize jab mere saare relationship khrb ho gye.....tb mjhe iss bimari k baare me pta chala.......Ye mjhe mere father se mila hai aur unhone bht torture kiya bachpan me....meri mother ki jindagi bekaar ho gyii hai.....uske husband aur sirf 1 ladka dono ek trh hai.......Mere pass suicide krne k alwa aur koi option nhi hai because it is near impossible to change your behaviour that you nurtured in the childhood......mjhe nhi pta chala ki mai yese kyun behave kr rhaa huuu.....kyoki meri ek alg hi duniya hai....illusion se bhari hui.....na mai sadness feel kr sakta huu naa happiness naa love naa hate.... actually I have no feeling......Jo log bhi mera comments padh rhe....please jab apka baccha childhood me ho to please usko chahe kch do ya na do......empathy jaroor dena nhi to wo monster ban jaayega aage jeevan me......please it is request.....
Kosis Karo Bhai life me sb possible hai Suicide solution nhi hai ...agr acknowledge kr pa rhe ho ki ye problem hai too shi bhi kr skte ho...bs shi hone se phle marriage Mt kariyega aapko pta hai kyo... meri wife narcissistic hai mujhe ye 1 saal baad pta lg rha hai Mai kuch time aur dunga fir dekhte hai jo bhagwan ki marzi...
It is a life threatening life destroying mental illness dear. Watch doctor ramani's vedio. You will be blown away to know the reality of narcesstic people and how many lives are totally destroyed by them.
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Bang on. What a simple and clear cut explanation. After being in a narcissistic relationship for 10 years and coming out after knowing about this disorder. I can say you have touched most of point. In india people are not much aware about such disorder but we are producing more and more. I wish people become more and more aware about this disorder. It’s literally hell living with such demons. They will literally push you to death still will not regret because you need empathy to feel which they don’t have.
My elder brother is a narcissist and he has made my parent's life hell. We just thought that he is a wicked child, but now only after seven years, we have come to know that he is suffering from NPD. Until now we had been hopeful that things will be fine some day, but now we know that there's no light at the end of the tunnel. My parents have gone through a lot and must get out of this trap now.
I laughed about knowing myself in this video I am exactly like what you said.
My brother told me I am a narcissist and I searched about it now I will follow up by showing empathy towards other people and I will care and equally respect everyone and I will not only think of myself anymore.
Well done
Well done dear...❤
Good luck! Acceptance is the first step to change yourself.
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I salute u as u admitted it. Moatly people dnt admit
Chhoti chhoti ladkiya kitni emotional intelligent ho rahi hai... just wow....love u
Yes hey
Hey!
Thanks for this video…
I have been with narcissist person for 2 years. He was exactly like you explained in the video : manipulative; exploiting others with no shame; self centric; abusive; not appropriating anything; raising hand; not respecting family members; etc etc… thankfully i am alive otherwise he made me suicidal & depressive. This is my second chance to live life my way.
Hi, after 7 months of marriage. I found out about this toxicity after getting abused for 7 years of relationship. How can I be so dumb!!!
@@Eeeeeeeeeashiraaa How did you get rid of that person?
Im in relationship with the naraccist and this is the same happening with me and I m also suicidal what u did to get rid of ?? Pls help me
same happened to me.. I lost my job, health, confidence and self esteem...he raised hand on me. 5-6 times slapped😢 I left him. I also had suicidal thoughts.
Being a psychologist/ Mental health professional/ Counsellor....I just love your videos .....Nidhi ....love you
How to deal with narcisistic parents..
Both my parents go thru my room and throw away my belogings without asking me , i feel violated as a girl and even when i cry they r completely emotionless , they act so different in public but ghar mai they r completely shit 😭😭
@@aena5995 you need to take them to counsellor ...and get them counselled
@@zainabalig514 but how maine 2 days phle hi kha moma se k aap mujhe depress kr rhi ho then she said mai kr rhi yaa tum mujhe kisi ki zaroorat h jisse tumhare hrkt bta sku i mean literally agr wo full conservative h too iska mtlb ye nhi k unke bche v waise hi soche jaisa wo sochte h 😔 hamari thinking alg h maybe liberal h aur aaj tk maine unke against kuch aisa nhi kiya jisse unhe srmendegi mehsos ho but wo chahte h wo sb chiz mai kru wo jo khte overall wo mujhe apni katputli bna k rkhna chahte h at last hun to insan hi apni v kuch wish hogi ho skta h thinking different ho meri too wo kyu nhi smjte h??? kaise smjhau itne din se manage kr rhi hun but now I am going to turn 18 ab nii ho rha phle ingore krti the unki baate i was thinking wqt hi h beet jayega but ab in sb se literally depression ho rha din bhr sona acha lg rha ya mobile use krna even phle mai daily 6hrs at least self krti the but... Ni ho rha manage akhir kb tkk???
@@aafiya987 just live your life the way you want to live. You are not responsible for other' happiness. Unko khush karne ki ya unse validation lene ki koshish karogi to b vo nahi badlenge balki isse tumhari hi mental health kharab hogi. Btw I am turning 19 soon and I fought with them whenever they tried to control me. I choosed for myself whenever I could. Also I allignated myself from them. They are still the same I still feel depressed around them.
Ab vo is baat ko lekar tension m h ki shayad m hostel jaa kar unhe yaad b na kru. I hope my experience helps you just don't be the one who always compromises for other's happiness. Vo nahi badalne wale kuchh b kar lo. So just live your life.
@@aena5995 girl I feel the same. Seems like we have same parents.
Whatever you mentioned is 100% true with my Narcissistic wife. But why the world doesn't know about it.. This can't be proved in front of judicial system as well. Need to bring more awareness about it because Narcissistic personality is increasing more and more due to improper upbringing by parents. Parents these days don't have time look after their children. So, this personality is a real threat to society. We can save many innocent people from depression or other Ill effects
Out of many children one may be Narcisst. How parents to blame. They are mad people and cannot be cured. What is cured are the symptoms. If you tell a mosquito it should be veg you are killing it. Narcist feed on there near and dear people.
They have a different personality infront of relatives of the spouse. Totally evil in their own house .
These peoples are full of egos and attitude. Their silent treatment and their behaviour of cheating is the main thing.
Gaslighting, victim playing, triangulation ....... Disappearing act they can stoop to any level to make you look unstable 🙏
Yes
Narcissist
In relationship
Family
Friends colleagues
1) best
Extreme
Manner able
Aap hi Mera sab Kuch.
hai.
2) self love
Self centered
Feel happy.
3) opinion Sahi hai
Trigger never accept mistake.
4) cheat
Abusive
Manipulate
Khush Kyu ha
5) tareef Sunna Boht Pasand hai jis ches ko aam ko amm correct kesay kea.
6) ghelt ko b waj wah
7) criticism
8) use kea
9) yah Kiya ker rah es SA ahca toh mein kersakta hu
10) gaslight jhoot
Mukar Jana aglay ko ghelt kerna.
11) low high kingdom
11) use
My dad is narcissist my mom life exploid kar diya merko bhi dipress kar raha hy😭i m trying to go far from home & job🙏
More power to you girl
God bless you sis
God bless ✨
Nahi sister bo bs ek Personality disorder ha
Aap theek krva sakte ha
Get seperated, take your mom along with you
Hey girl.. More power to you.. Have been abused for 11years with NPD and cpstd due to him yet I learned it and survived it on my way.. Glad to see videos of education in hindi.. You really talk well to simplify it for indians.. Thank you and God bless you 🌹
Very comprehensive explanation in Hindi.
Very well explained,faced each and every point in my life...
Thanks for explaining Gaslighting behaviour in a simple words and examples
My narcassist father sold my body organs and made me a handicap. I was a national basketball player, then he hospitalised me at the age of fourteen by giving me poison and taking me into coma. When I came to consciousness I was told by the doctors that I have juvenile diabetes. Today at the age of 40 I am walking with crutches and I am addicted to insulin whereas in reality I have low BP. And he keeps me hungry and abuses me all the time. I was a teacher in Germany and earned in Euros. I don't know what to do.
I appreciate you taking time out nd standing up against this hidden serious disorder. Im glad u are educating indians in hindi. Needs to be brought up
Love it kya samjhaaya hai 👏🏼👏🏼
Absolutely correct !!
Actually my mother in law is also a narcissist and I’m just learning about their traits
Your videos are really helpful🌼❤️ thank you💛
Thanks for this video..its really life changing for many....
i have also faced this situation ... although it was a love marriage 18 years ago...lmy life after marriage was full of criticism and blaming etc .. although he is good ,loves me too.... but his narcissistic traits were killing me inside...i lost my worth... felt worthless.... developed many health issues.....
But the story started changing since few years...i started practicing all the tricks explained in this video somehow with gods blessings.... i removed all expectations... I accepted the fact that his nature can't be changed...i started making myself distant from him from inside...
started doing regular prayer and breathing meditation.... and started focusing on becoming financially independent...
Now i am in much much much better position...all my health issues has resolved...i m emotionally much balanced and strong....i feel good from inside....his behaviour has become better than before ...... but I don't care much....i try to not react on anything... neither interfere in his business........
I came to know about this (narcissistic )topic from your video...I don't know about this word before... but when you start explaining about the behaviour of a person having a narcissistic personality...Then i realize that i am with a narcissistic person...i was thinking that the reason behind of his behaviour is due to our long distance but now i get it...This is about a disorder...Thanks for your explanation...This will help me alot in my relationship...Thanks to god that i know about it early...
Nidhiji Good Work - Simple Accurate Indepth Explanation
Absolutely Right 💯
100% accurate description of a narcissist. I can vouch for that. Thank you Nidhi
Your videos are so enlightening ❤️
Recently came out of a narc relationship. The worst part of this kind of relationship is you wont realize how wrongly you are being treated till you come out of it. My ex is a narc and she made my life very difficult. At first she used to do all the things which I desired from my partner. She totally build a perspective like she was a person whom I cannot have or difficult to find a person like her. Then once I was in her fake made up personality she slowly started violating my personal boundaries like my office things, my friends and other things. If I would oppose she would react as if I have done something major wrong. Silent treatment was given to me. Manipulated me like I was at the fault. She was really hard to please.. no matter what I did. It was never enough. She used to talk and think very negatively like nidhi said. She couldn't handle criticism. Created fuss in small small things. And finally... something happened between us and she her self brokeup. I am still not able to understand why she brokeup maybe I started standingup for myself and was no more a puppet. I am really thankful it happened.. if you are into one or you can relate to the video pls pls walk away from narc. You cannot fix them or make them understand that they are wrong. It is worthless. So save your self. No matter how beautiful or charming the person is or how great the sex is or anything else just walk away.
I am having same story with my bf after 3 4 month of relationship he started showing his true colours and by mistake i fall for hi charming and caring personality and had physical with him which i have never done which is very very big thing for me. Now I'm getting mental trauma day by day i want to be with him but not with this personality 😣 he will make me suicide I don't break up with him but i seems really really difficult.
@@Haryanvigirlishu yesterday he abuses me bitterly when he gets angry on pitty things and I started abusing him back 🤣🤣. And today he was feeling sorry whatever he has done in anger. But all will go in vain when he will get angry so I don't trust anymore I'm just trying to make him more and more angry so he leave me 😭. I don't know how he acts sweetly when we meet offline but his behaviour is very bad on phone. And he said he will beat me if I don't listen to him. No one has right to beat me who the hell he is.
God bless you all and keep you away from trauma🥰🙏
I have spent 8 years... today I came out finally...but still scared if she make it more critical... because they can't feel other...they do what they like to do...she can't even take funny criticism...she dnt have any friends... actually she can't make it...she judges everyone...even her father...in frnt of her poor people or who is lower then her profession, she treat them like animals....
Bro. You hv poured your heart out writing this comment i know how much it hurts. Been there.. its a text book theory that all narcs follow. Idealise, devalue n discard.. u wont see this bullet train coming towards u until u are hit and crashed to pieces by it. I wish this on no one but try to be urself in any relationship from the beginning coz if you try to people please out of your own childhood traumas ull give a nutrition fodder to the narcissistic partner to feed on u. Setting boundaries means treat everyone equally dont put anyone on pedestal from beginning of any relationship coz u dont know what demons resides in the other human u dealing with. These narc creatures can suck the life out of u if you behave mushy mushy to them. Day one u need to recognise their patterns of their past relationships coz they hv left many good people damaged behind them .. a train wreck so to say. They are on a rampage of destroying good ppl along the way. Walk the fck away and try to heal asap. Theres nothing left in those relationships where u are constantly waiting for ur partners approval based on what type of mood they are in. Damaged evil souls as they are they will make u one if u stay longer.
The way you explain is so very easy to understand 🙏
Wah kya explain kiya h bohot experience kiya h ye mne 🤣🤣 luv u nidhi ji😘
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
My ex bf was narcissist, he always try to pull me down, never say sorry, always hurts me and told me those that always I end up crying. He is like everyone is fool in this world and he is like Einstein, he used to say his fashion sense is better than Allu Arjun, he used to manipulate me and said always I told this u r always used to forget
I am laughing so hard 🤣
His fashion sense is better than ALLU ARJUN 😂
Really 😅
Sister God bless you 🙏
Narsisist to mera wala bhi tha..lekin bahut beizzati karta tha bahut ...par jab main chhor deti thi ...sorry bahut bolta tha ..bolta tha mar jawunga ye wo
I m staying with a narcissistic from last 7 years ...no one else but my husband.....all the characteristics you described are exactly same with his behaviour.....I tried each and every thing to make him happy but all in vain ....now my child is 4 years old.His abusive behaviour and superiority complexes compelled me to step out of this marriage.......i was confused but after watching this video I decided to leave him permanently and to save my son from him.. .thankewwww
Mam may be you are misunderstanding him.
Look for following factors:-
1. Has he isolated you from your family.
2. Has he isolated you from your friends.
3. Does he criticise your friends.
4. Does he control what you wear.
A single video might not be enough to come to a conclusion.
A narcissist hardly has true friends and has relations just for benefits. They "chose" their friends. Actually friends just become friends and there is nothing like choosing a friend.
A narcissist typically has friends who are way younger than him or her, that gives him control. He typically tries to isolate you from your parents, siblings and relations.
I too am struggling with similar issues and first thing i did was to look for videos about narcissism, i also had video about whether am a narcisssit just to have a deeper insight.
Yes, children observe parents behavior and copy it. So better to get separated.
I am also in same situation from 7 years of marriage and u have a 4 year old daughter..
@@ashuexcelmy husband doing the same which describes in above comments and also matching all things from video
If u want to save ur life from Narc's then never lost ur self respect 🙏
Yeah so true i bear alot but after i reqlise i took stand and do whatever i want to do even he tries all his best to ruin my happiness
I leave it for her
Yeah never lose your self respect. It takes way too long get self esteem back
Ye info sabko pata honi chahiye, bahut Jyada toxicity h Apne surrounding mein aajkal. Manipulation,love bombing, passive aggressive behaviour and cheating ye Sab red flags h
Allah maaf kare you pointed out correctly abt narcissist ppl. I'm dealing with one rn plz pray for me may I get rid from him asap😢🤕
Treat them with same thing
Makichut Allah
Mam thank you your video have changed my life mera husband bhi bilkul esa hi hai aap ka video dekh ker mujhe bhut help mili
Very well explained in simple words
And daily life's examples
Good explanation in simple words.
Thanks a lot...my husband is narcissist...after 16 years slowly now I realised
Same here
Leave him
This is a wonderful video giving accurate description of such personalities. As per my experience in life many partners just carry on with such people because of lack of clarity about such behaviours. Nidhi you did a good job in this video. I would like you to come out with more videos suggesting solutions . God bless you.
We had a mam in our higher education level who was narcissistic and used to constantly devalue the weak ones, total obsessive about looks and achievement, highly competitive, envious and seeking admiration. Had bad times when she used to humiliate me infront of people.
Sahi hai.. Well explained!! 👍👍
Mam avoid kaise kare meri wife se door karna chaha usko bhaga hi le gya aur usko mistress bna rakha h
Nidhi Eyeblinks 😀😀😀
Jatti Nidhi is best😘😘😘
Experienced all these recently..100per true..
😊
after watching this vedio i realized that iam little bit narcissist 😟
now i have to work on my character 😞
thanks for this vedio
Narcs are not self reflective. May be you are dealing with a narcissist and your behaviour is a defence machanism towards it.
You actually broke the narcissistic behavior, my confession
Also hey, narcissism is a personality disorder and has a spectrum, we all can have some characteristics unless you're everything she said in the video, then you should try therapy.
My husband is narsiccist.and sasu ma .is narsiccist.
Mam aapane bahut achaa vidio bnaya muze bhuut fayda mila.mai 20 sal se inke torchur sah rahee thi aab aapki vidio me samaz aaya.
Ki kaise inse deel karna hai.
Thanks.mam.👌👌🙏🙏😊😊😀😀
This is absolutely terrible..I am daughter of a narcissist.
I gone trough this n nw its too late..she already harmed me psychologicaly..she succeeded what she wanted..now i am not able to get married..what she always wanted..my student life ruined..she insulted me infront of friends n teachers..she plays so many mental games..its hard to explain..n yes she uses other siblings ..ganged up n torturing mentally n somtime phisically..now I am going through severe depression..I used to be a vry enjoying person with friends ..now I forgt how to smile..she played with my emotions so much making confusion ..n now I find love is hard..I dnt knw what she got frm all these..
now she exploiting my brother..torturing him emotionally..make him feel guilty..make him starve ..next level torture
Call please or Emergency immediately
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Bestest Nidhi mam ✌ such a clear description
Thanks for the video ❤️ very helpful
Great 👍! Itne time par bahot acha explain ker diya
Why narcissism is an extremely serious issue in the West but is an intentionally (seems to be) very neglected issue in India.
आप ने 100/% सत्य बोला मैम मैंने भी 2 शाल डील किया लेकिन उसकी मंशा पूरी नहीं होने दिया और उसके अस्तित्व से रूबरू कराया ताकि आगे किसी को धोखा ना दे आप का बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद आप की इस जानकारी से ना जाने कितने लोग निकल पाएंगे 😊
U r so amazing Nidhi ❤️ I was recalling so many narcissist people while watching this video
Mere sasural me to saare hi narcissistic personality disorder person h meri saas 52 meri wife 28 dono ke narck same ke sath maa beti bhai bhin ye naracssistic character less mentally finished...
Thanks for information.mere saath bhi kuch log hai
One thing to always remember is that you should not treat narcissists like they are because they are sick, their infection is dangerous, so as long as you are in that environment, you should provide a calm and friendly environment from your side.
LoL u either are one or have no idea how destructive these ppl are. Providing calm environment doesn’t make any difference as long as they make effort to change.
Hello mam myra name puja h 2saal sadi ko hoo gy h madam..mai khud. Npd sy peedet hu (sb mujsy dour rhty h or mam mai khud ki help ksy kru
Just this month my 1+yr relationship with a narcissist got over.. I'm glad for whatever happened.. atleast I'm alone rn.. but i no longer have to go through his shit..
Dear friend ab kya karte ho husband tha ya boyfriend aap ne to ak jhatke me pind chuda liya acha kiya akhir ye hi hona tha
@@nilemdevi3916 bf tha..
Thank you didi. Bahut accha samjhaya aapne
I remember when I was in 9th grade there were some guys who were narcissists,they used to make me uncomfortable by making sexual remarks in the name of jokes and would point out small mistakes of others.But if a teacher or any other student pointed out their mistakes they used to argue and create ruckus.
It's not as simple as that, they were just bullies/rowdy boys you can say. NPD is a disorder and we all can exhibit some signs of narcissism. What Nidhi shared in the video are common signs of a full blown narcissistic person.
Di appne Bilkul bilkul sahi kaha her ek baat sahi Kahi meri saas mera husband dono ko ye problem h. Mujhe bimar bana diya inlogo ne. Ab mene apne apko detach ker liya h. Singing karti hun apne kaam me apne aap me rahti hun. Apne bilkul sahi kaha inko koi nahi badal sakta. Inlogo ke saath rahna matlab apne aap ko kho do. Thanks di. Kosis kerti hun khus rahne ki. Aaki baato se khuch help hoti h. Thanks
Ma'am the way ur saying, it seems you're victim of narcissistiam ,, it's very helpful bcz you are speaking through your experience..Thank you
Exactly meri bibi avi ese hi behave karti hai 😢15 saal ka relationship ho chuka hai mujhe avi pata chala hai, bahat pyar karta hu 😢😢kaise deal karu pl suggest 🙏
My husband is a narcissistic person..he spoiled my life..finaly I leave him..ND now feel comfortable with my baby
Duniya ko kaise batayen ki mai thik hu aur samne wala insaan nercissist
@@abhasrivastava2691 I think dunia ko na hi batay to aacha hai kuki koi believe nhi karega..isliy khud samjh kar apne safety k liy jo step ho sakta hai wo le..
@@aishwaryasingh2668 thnqqq
Duniya ko batane ke lye mjhe to mere narcissistic husband ki call recordings mili (due to god's grace) jisme wo apne parents se bat krte the 😂....mtlb is had tk un lgo k plans chlte the mere khilaf...arrest kra dnge ...marne ka hi soch liya mjhe....ise akelapn feel kra ye wo mtlb total gaslighting k plans b the usme...now I have left him aur logo ko proofs b dikha diye mne aur even uske relatives ko b bhej diye sb proofs🤣 jha usne mjhe jhut bol bolke bdnam kr rkha tha
Good. You saved you kids life
What is the treatment on this disease
You are too good, Nidhi 😄 Thank you so much 🙏🏽😊
Solution plz mere husband bhi assets hi hai
This symptoms are found in my husband what shall I Do?
Symptoms? Are you exploited? If yes leave
Maam ilaj kese karn inka
Mam aap ne jo bhi khaa wo sb mere papa ke andr
My father exploid my mother, he do emotional blackmail that he will kill himself and much more, I don't want to psychiatrists mam do you have some online course to treat my father
Very difficult to treat such people as they don’t listen to others
Video is overall awesome....my favourite part which made me ur fan....starts at 9 mint.....the statement about low status friends u stated.....i always thought of this about a person and gossiped with someone about her and low status friends of her....and she was ruling them .....and feeling like a king....and than gaining energy ,charging from them ....and than feeling that i m some special person....my friends thinks i m very intelligent and superior person so....u shud also adore me....and praise me.....and give me special place ...because she strongly belives herself superior from that energy and special attention provided by her crap friend....
I simple desi haryani words
They say...
Andha mein kaana raja....
Means one eye person ruling the blinds .....and feeling superior because he can atleast see.....as the blinds cant......narcissistic person always finds a company of blinds.....to get that energy.......
But problem occurs wen they apply that energy ,(which they always do) to person who has both eyes....
YAAAS! good work Nidhi!
You highlighted the main characteristics, sadly not many ppl discuss this/want to acknowledge this is India. But people with these disorders are everywhere around us.
Because I have done extensive research and am passionate about this subject, I was hoping you will use terms like love bombing, new supply, future faking and cognitive dissonance etc, "because you talked about them all briefly.." However I understand that you might've wanted to make these concepts easy to understand so you skipped the terms but great job, I can finally share this with my family since it's in Hindi.
Kya inko theek nhe kiya ja sakta ?
As per my knowledge this is impossible untill they realised it and eager to be normal..... otherwise none can cure them...
Nidhi G,
My father is narcissist around 70 year how to deal with him as I can't leave him
Please help out
Kya ek narsisistc ko bata skte he ki wo ek narsisis he
i faced this type of person 3 years of my life .
me and my best friend tried a lot to change him atlast he made us bad in front of everyone
This is what they do
Address
Jab relationship hogai unse to unko kaise. Manage karen ??
Ab unse rishta to tod nahe sakte .
Solution batain pls .
Can you come with part 2 of narcissist .. where you also speak about narc hidden physical abuse
Kai saal bad pata chale iske bare me and koi dicsision na le paye to kya kare
My mother in law is a narcissist personality but her family members called she is a emotional person
Mam kia unka koi aalaj ya solution ha??
I'm stuck with a partner who has NPD.. we have 3 kids.. please give me advice on how to make my life better .
Solution koi bataeiga
My mother in law always do same thing wth me and always create miss understanding wth me n my husband 😭😭
Same ...my husband and mil both are narc
What is solution ?
Thank you very much didi .
And thank you hindi video bananay ke liye.
English samaz to jate par mother language me ache say connect ho pate hai. ❤
Mujhe NPD hai.....ye mjhe tab realize jab mere saare relationship khrb ho gye.....tb mjhe iss bimari k baare me pta chala.......Ye mjhe mere father se mila hai aur unhone bht torture kiya bachpan me....meri mother ki jindagi bekaar ho gyii hai.....uske husband aur sirf 1 ladka dono ek trh hai.......Mere pass suicide krne k alwa aur koi option nhi hai because it is near impossible to change your behaviour that you nurtured in the childhood......mjhe nhi pta chala ki mai yese kyun behave kr rhaa huuu.....kyoki meri ek alg hi duniya hai....illusion se bhari hui.....na mai sadness feel kr sakta huu naa happiness naa love naa hate.... actually I have no feeling......Jo log bhi mera comments padh rhe....please jab apka baccha childhood me ho to please usko chahe kch do ya na do......empathy jaroor dena nhi to wo monster ban jaayega aage jeevan me......please it is request.....
Kosis Karo Bhai life me sb possible hai Suicide solution nhi hai ...agr acknowledge kr pa rhe ho ki ye problem hai too shi bhi kr skte ho...bs shi hone se phle marriage Mt kariyega aapko pta hai kyo...
meri wife narcissistic hai mujhe ye 1 saal baad pta lg rha hai Mai kuch time aur dunga fir dekhte hai jo bhagwan ki marzi...
इसका इलाज है मेरे पास.
Realisation is the key to cure. Start taking rejections and insults nicely and positively.
Treatment karao koshish karo badalne ki warna aage Puri generation barbaad ho jaegi
Are you a doctor nidhi? No one cant be so ture as you do.
Absolutely correct... It means I'm living with a narcissist man.. But it's too late now.. I cannot leave him.. I'm stuck
U r a man, ur name is suraj yet u live with a man? So u r gay or u made a mistake?
@@natka6649 hey no no no.. You got me wrong.. I'm a girl behind this I.D
But you can stabilise your mental state with more knowledge and practice of psychology. More power to you🤍
I’m feeling extremely sad for you 😢 you must leave on any cost 😭
If you think this, you are being cruel to yourself. Consult a professional and leave
Pls solution bataayiye
When I listen word “Narcissistic “,
I always remember “Salman Khan”
Narcissist human is dangerous for society😢
He is very kind bro, he helped a lot of poors... and if any person become angry that doesn't means ki wo Narcissist h...
@@muneershakeel dekhane k liye karta he..so that other would praise
@@shraddhadevkota8326 bruh! Kuch bhi
@@muneershakeel sis i am not bruh
Kaas ye video 6month phle mili hoti toh mai is narcissist ke sath time waste nhi karti 😢 thank you for sharing this video
Mujhe bhi pata nhi tha par ab to pyaar ho gaya hai lagta hai. Ki shayad mai thik. Kar dungi usse
Medam mujhee ksi insaan ko chorna he pyaar bhi baot krta hn bs faimly ki wajah se apne lover ko chorna he but himat nh ho rhi me kya kru😭
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Thanks Mem
The people who came to your mind while listening to this are all narcs.
Mujhe to mai hi yaad aw rhi hu😂
@@reetgrewal6411 no doubt aap bhi ho
My father 😬
Hello mam mai bhi narcissistic hu...
Mai kaise change kru ye gndi bimari kaise door hogi 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Plzzzz btao
I saw such traits in genius scholar students
Topper students
Soo school toppers bhi narcissistic ho skte hai??🤔
Bilkul
Mostly NPDs are quite successful and intelligent in studies. They're also very sharp minded.
Mam, Any solution or remedy
Love you di❤️❤️
When you’re getting engaged?
Abhi time hai 😄
kitna time lagega ..or??...mai wait kar rha hu😫
@@rahulprajapati2619 bhai tu karle
@@sumitsaha3860 🤣🤣🤣 bhai kaa sai tapke ho..itne din tadipar the kya
@@rahulprajapati2619 nai.. Bhai... Nai.. Amit shah ji ki padbi mujhe mat do unka asamman hoga isse😂
Request you to please let people know how one can recover from narcissistic abuse. Thank you.
Narcissism, एक जानलेवा बीमारी।
Jai Ho Guru Maa 🙏🏻 😁
It is a life threatening life destroying mental illness dear. Watch doctor ramani's vedio. You will be blown away to know the reality of narcesstic people and how many lives are totally destroyed by them.
Wow…..very well explained 👌👌👌
This is how my wife exactly behaves.
first video with clear examples please makes an videos on how to make boundaries
I was dealing with a narcissist girl now discard her from last 7 months guys dont trust them they are evils They just use people for their benefit
Thanksa ton Nidhi for explaining this..