Narcissist लोगों से कैसे deal करें? Survival Guide #20 - बहस करने से खुद को कैसे रोकें ?
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- Narcissist लोगों से कैसे deal करें? Survival Guide #20 - बहस करने से खुद को कैसे रोकें ?
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बहुत मुश्किल है इस मानसिक रोग के इन्सान के साथ जीवन बिताना
सजा तो उसे मिलती है जो अच्छा है , उनका कुछ नही बिगड़ता
Most narcissists are unaware of their behaviour and how it affects others. Instead they blame you if you react or complain or show any negativity due to their behavior towards you. This is because they lack empathy, awareness and enability to see things from others perspective. They just talk back what you said to them couple of days back. To this they call empathy or they will try to extract information from 3rd party and use in conversation with you to just show that they have empathy and they are able to think from your perspective. But real empathy is not shown in just words often it is shown in small actions and its impact on other people.
My mother used to bring all her past including her childhood to blame me. I used to feel guilty that time but now I see why she does what's for me to do and what's her reality. I am relieved from such toxicity by listening to such content. Now I neither feel guilty nor negative or angry. Till now other people used to blame me for their problems or their actions as if I am responsible for everyone and I used to feel helpless. Now I get rid of such feelings and let go of caring for people who can't take care of themselves. It's better to just focus on ourselves and let others learn their karmik lessons.
My husband is a narcissist....sir aap sach keh rahe ho aise logo se bahas karna patthar pe sar Marne jaisa hai
True
Bilkul jindagi jahannum bana dete hain aise life partner
How deal with them
My husband is also narcissist
@@vandanapal582 deal nahi ker sakte, bohot hi mushkil hota hai
@@samir9924 mai fas chuki hun bht buri halat ho gai meri 😭😭
Sasural walo ko btao to sb meri hi glti nikalte h 😭
Maine ye sab try kiya but ek jagah aakar aap fail ho jate ho wo ye ki kabhi na kabhi aapko thoda to kuch basic chahiye hota hai aur jab utna bhi nahi milta to hum bhi insan hai koi machine nahi. Reaction lazmi hota hai.
Hb y sb kr chuka hai or mere hi sambe dusri ldki k sath sequel relationship bna k 2saal tk bna k rkha or mere pese ko bhi sb le kr mere sath koi 5,6 saal s relationship nhi bnata me esse nikalna chahti hu but nhi nikal pa rhi 15 year ho gya h har tarike s problem bdate hai
@@makeshwarijoshi1655 Aap talak kyu nahi le leti??
बिलकुल सही हद होती है कि सहन करने की
मैं 31स
मैं 31 साल से झेल रही हूँ!!
ऐसे लोग सभी लोगोंसे ऐसाही बर्ताव करते है, या सिर्फ नजदिकी लोगों के साथ?
मेरा ये अनुभव है की ये ऐसे व्यक्तीको बाहर के या पराये लोगों मे कोई गलती नही दिखायी देती, वो सब उस व्यक्ती को सही और आदर्श लगते है, सिवाय नजदिकी लोग! इनका बर्ताव उनसे बहोत polite, शांतीपूर्ण और अच्छा होता है लेकिन सब दोष उनको घर की व्यक्ती मे ही दिखायी देते है, क्या ये narcissistic behavior वाले व्यक्ती कां लक्षण है?
कृपया मार्गदर्शन करे l
व्हिडीओ बहोत ही useful है l 🙏🙏
Correct
Partly correct. Unhe bahar wale vyakti me bhi sirf dosh hi dikhayi dete hai lekin bahar Wali vyakti pe unka control nahi chal sakta to bechare kucch kar nahi sakte. Jis din bahar Wali vyakti inke control ke dayare me aa jaye, us din unke bhi saath vahi vyavhar hoga jo aapke saath ho raha hai.
2 saal ke bacche ka jaise sab kucch karna padta hai lekin hame us bacche se koi help nahi hoti, vaise hi narcissist ka aapko sab kucch karna padta hai aur usse aap ko koi help nahi hogi. Agar koi help hoti bhi hai to wo lokdikhave ke liye hoti hai.
Maine yah dekha hai ki muhfat personality (jo hamesha nihsankoch apna Sach bahar non stop broadcast radio ki tarah bolte jate hai) aur samazke saath hamesha sahi ko sahi aur galat ko galat nihsankoch bolte hai, wo logo se narcissist thoda darte hai.
क्योंकि ये एक नम्बर के फट्टू होते हैं , बाहर के लोगों से डरते हैं , ये उन्हीं पर जुल्म करते हैं जिनपर इनका कंट्रोल चलता है और उनको कंट्रोल करने के लिए ही ये लोग करीबी लोगों पर जुल्म करता है
Ha baki ke logo se achha behave krte hai mgar sbko muhpr achha kahate hai pithpichhe kisi ko bhi achha nahi kahate or hame to bahot preshan krte hai bhagvan se pray krti hu roj mere life se ye chali jaye Mera konsa krma baki hai sorry God
My husband have narcissistic personality,me and my kids are suffering very much
😢
Same... Me too
@@AashuandAashi hey, did your husband change??
My child also suffers very much
Me and my children too
Strategies acchi batayi.... But bhot muskil hota hai aise log k sath deal karna aur sath chal pana
Apko pata nhi aap ke in video sunker kitne logo ki Zindagi asan ho jati hai god bless you always ❤😊😊
It's really very easy for others to say ...just do this , n try these kinds of words to them ...
If you are living with these kinds of people you will be out of control after so many attempts of calm behaviour....
Believe me uhh can't live with them...I don't know what to say bt they r really empty minded person n uh 'll also become like them slowly slowly ....chahe bhes kr k chahe Bina bhes kre....
100 % सही कहा
Ese log bahut preshan karte hai
Same kah rahe.....ekdam saiko......sheee mai fas gayi
सहिमे बोहोत कुछ भी बोल सकते है ये लोग कभी नही सुधरते , 1 दिन अच्छे फिर से वही
इन सारी बातों से तो मुझे लगता है कि मैं खुद ही नर्सिसिस्ट हूं 😮😢
Mujhe bhi
😂😂😂
कया एक नर्सिकस्ट, जो सिर्फ़ अपनी पत्नी यां पति, बच्चे से बुरा व्यवहार करता है यां अपनी सगी मां,बहन, पिता के साथ भी बुरा व्यवहार करता होगा ? कृपया बताएं
SB ky sath bura karta hai. Ye ek mental issue hai.
Your guidelines should be also be how to make them realise that he has symptoms of being narcissistic behaviour..
बहुत सुंदर पसंद आई
Bahot hi useful video hai.
Very useful video....thank you sir
Thanks!
Mai deal kar rahi.....ab wo muze पागल बनणे पर तुला hua hai
Wonderful and most important video on how to deal with narcissistic
Thanks Taughter Regards.
Thankyou sir 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thanks
Thanks Brotherly.
Thankyou sir
M handling right now that type of personality, in my way and I can see then result.👍
👍👍👍👍👍
Very nice 👌 👍 👏
ऐसे लोगो को soul healing चाहिए होती है,रेकी के throug कोशिश करके देखे सब
If we try to give importance for getting the work done, then that person says I am fed up I am the only one who does everything and always says you are useless. Even if someone's outstanding, they don't agree and that person always do self praise.
I went to live with my son n daughter in law, in canada, first time, after 1 yesr of their marriage,but found my son completely changed, he supported the things said to me by dil.she used to ask will you not eat this,that ,breafast, ? If i objected these negative words that why not i will eat, both start they are right, me not, feel like to run away from there, but where?
I think mostly life partner hi narcissist hote hai😢
सर कुछ फायदा नही होता , राक्षस होते है ये लोग , नही सुधरते , तकलीफ भी हम सही और उनको सुधारने की कोशिश करे तो भी हमे ही तकलीफ
Sir jyaada time tak sath rahna hota hai tbhi to muskil hota hai ,,koi baat hoti hai to sunte hi nahi bolte hain , chup bas chup aage nahi to dil me doguna dard hota hai kitna avoide kr skte hain aur kb tak😢
Very well described. My submission is whether narcissism and OCD can simultaneously exist in a lady?
Next episode please
SIR PLEASE MAKE A VIDEO ON PACROPRESIS & PAUREDIS.
Sir main bhi bohat time ase insaan ke sath deel kar raha hun lekin koi result nahi nikla
Right... Dimag ka bsd** hota hai 😅
Sir....ye sab Maine Kiya है.....uska kuch khatam nhi hota.....nahi to ghumafirake wahi ata hai wo
Sir, according to you one should keep listening the person with cool mind and keep them happy by doing what he or she wants to listen. Don't you think we are feeding them to manure to grow their being the BEST and others have no identity, no self-respect .
Like ultimately we other person is the only one who is putting extra efforts not to give him anger or just to avoid the situation in which that person gets triggered.
My mother has same traits and I am still not able to digest it. She has ruined my personal life like hell. She has no control over her words and she destroyed everything. Is it curable? Cant live without her and not tolerable to be with her.
Agr husband silent treatment de 2-4saal tak ka or shadi k kuch din baad hi divorce maange to kya krein ,tb jb hum emotional attach ho
Sir I want to speak to you and want your guidance
Please suggest me how to get an appointment with you
My wife always blames me for ever thing going wrong
She likes herself very much so much so that whenever she wears new dress she wants her photograph to be taken and even not satisfied even after 3-4 photograph and blaim me for that even you don't know to take photographs
When ever she gaslights and starts arguing, ,she will yell beat and always speaks out false allegations and she will repeat the same story false allegations over and over again
Only time she is very polite when she wants sex . And immediately next day she will come to same old behaviour
Is this a narcissistic women
Please give opinion
Modher in law
Meri maa sister bhai bhi narsisit hai
Read about "scapegoat"
😅😅😅
My husband has an attraction with another woman, we both have a big , I used to abuse the lady and my husband, otherwise I love my husband, am I a narcissists
Sir 27 saal se aise aadmi se Jeevan bitaya h abhi pata chala k Narcissistic h 😢 bahut dhoka diya 20 saal se jhoot bolkey merry paas nahi aaye Bahar ka maje leta h
मैं भी 27 साल से सह रही हु , पहले डरती थी अभी पता चला कि ये बीमारी है
Modher& husband dono narcissistic hai 😢😢 pata nahi kya hoga aage !!25y nikal diye par abhi mushkil lagta hai 😮
Nasir we have mooved forever separated with her 26 27e years I no desirous for any relation with her she spend her up tp forty years with someone maintain twin flaam
How can i contact you
कया एक नर्सिकस्ट, जो सिर्फ़ अपनी पत्नी यां पति, बच्चे से बुरा व्यवहार करता है यां अपनी सगी मां,बहन, पिता के साथ भी बुरा व्यवहार करता होगा ? कृपया बताएं
Ha ese insan sbse hi esa krte h unki maa bhn sb ko same treat krte h in logo ki jada kisi se bnti nhi
There are different types of Narcissist
1 Overt
2 Covert
They behave in different manner.
They are depend on supply from victims.
They abuse differently.
Narcissist can abuse only partner but
Not other people.
Depending on type and supply.