Mam mai 40 sal se ase hi aadmi ke sath rah rahi hu ... bilkul sahi kaha aapne ..ye video dekhne se pahale se hi apne aap hi dheere dheere mai ase hi unko deel karne lag gyi ...but kabhi kabhi mai guilt feel karti thi .but aapki video dekhne ke baad achcha lag raha sahi kaha aapne bas yahi ek tarika h ..😢
दर्द परेशानी यंत्रणा पीड़ा महसूस तब ही होती है जब हम भावनात्मक लगाव रखते हैं। बहुत ही उपयोगी विडियो।काश ऐसा करके हम मुक्त हो सकें। ज़िंदगी हजारों की इस तरह से बर्बाद हो चुकी है और हो रही है।
I am living with such a man . He often questions me where i spend my hard earned money. He shouts at the top of his voice and blames me. He uses children 's money also. Not only this,he lavishly spends money on his friends and do what they say. Thanks a lot ! This is really uplifting video.... So many our sisters see these videos and realise about their narcissistic behaviour otherwise many of them are not aware of this. Strict laws should be there for such a behaviour and for extra marital affairs....
Dear harinderkaur ji . You must earn. Aajkal to ghar bethe bhi earning ho sakti h . Tabhi aap in sab chijon se bahar aapaogi . Varna khud k health ko bhi bigad logi cos saare emotions ka effect hmari body par hi padta h . Mere father bhi ese hi the. Abhi tjida sa change hue h budhape m . Bilkul thoda sa. But aapke liye prayer karungi k aapke jeevan m jaldi bahar aaye vo aadmi aapki nd aapki khusiyo ki importance jaldi samjhe. 🫶
I am living with such person with last 25 years but since last 2 years I got courage and coming out of the mess....my son is the source of my motivation....now she even can't see the success of my son too....but me and my son now enjoying our life
Very true,l have spent 33 yrs with such a person,my children have got effected by him,but l didn't have the courage,now l am trying to rediscover myself.
Girls should make themselves financially, educationally and healthy ( both mentally and physically)secured to handle such people's . An excellent video ❤🎉🎉
Thanks for this video..its really life changing for many.... i have also faced this situation ... although it was a love marriage 18 years ago...lmy life after marriage was full of criticism and blaming etc .. although he is good ,loves me too.... but his narcissistic traits were killing me inside...i lost my worth... felt worthless.... developed many health issues..... But the story started changing since few years...i started practicing all the tricks explained in this video somehow with gods blessings.... i removed all expectations... I accepted the fact that his nature can't be changed...i started making myself distant from him from inside... started doing regular prayer and breathing meditation.... and started focusing on becoming financially independent... Now i am in much much much better position...all my health issues has resolved...i m emotionally much balanced and strong....i feel good from inside....his behaviour has become better than before ...... but I don't care much....i try to not react on anything... neither interfere in his business........
Same here after meditation and prayers , yoga m totally fine and happy and now mujhe jada fark nhi pdta uske behaviour se Bus baby chota he to job nhi kar pari but in future career banaugi
Jo bhi es video ki guidelines hai I m following.& successful bhi hu.. but sometimes he became ferocious & assault physically and started beating me...what I should do in this situation.. tolerating since last 41 years only for children.. now since last six months I am living in a spiritual organisation in a ashramn healing myself rapidly and feeling peace..
My mother-in-law ruined my husband's life and then mine, and tried to do to my daughter too...... May God bless us and keep us away from such people 🙏 🙌 ✨️ ❤️
Same here, my mother in law and father in law always against me and keep blaming me for everything. Husband is so dominating for me but Not realize their plans.
Thank you.. very helpful video… now I can deal with my husband in a better way.. he’s so arrogant and mean and literally trying to downgrade me all the time.. he never listens to me.. whenever we talk about lack of ‘wee time’ he starts shouting.. and speaks anything that could make me hurt.. he has kept his image as a polite, intelligent and friendly in the outside world but with me he’s terrible.. so I’ve stopped talking to him.. and started ignoring him.. I have been keeping myself busy in my routine.. go cycling and prioritising my health.. this will really work.. 👍🏻
प्रिय कशिका तुम्हारी सभी सलाहें अमूल्य हैं। कुछ को मैं अपने जीवन अनुभव से आत्मसात कर चुकी हूं। जैसे आर्थिक स्वतंत्रता और सीमा बंदी। लेकिन भावनात्मक दूरी और स्वयं की हीलिंग पर इस विडियो को सुनने के बाद और बेहतर काम कर पाऊंगी। तुम्हे बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद और उज्ज्वल भविष्य की शुभकामनाएं।
Der se hi sahi apki advice mili . 20 saal se aise hi insan ke sath hu ab bhi emotionally hurt ho jati hun pr bachho k liye I am trying my best thanks for your advice
Thanks Allah ne aap ki video mujhe milai hai mein bahut pareshan thi per ab Allah ka sukar hai ke Allah ne aap jesie acche log bhi banye hai madad ke liye
कब से मैं इस problem ka solution dhoond रही थी। आपने बहुत अच्छे solutions बताए। मैं इस video ko बार बार देखने के लिए save कर रही हूँ। Many many thanks. You have good insight . All the best on your journey to healing.
Human mind is the most complicated in this universe. No solution is permanent. Better to engage mind in God worship & yoga dhyanam activities instead of any other human company because every human is not observing the same true personality as you are holding.😊
Very true Dear Kashika Im a Narcissistic abuse survivor despite being a Doctor. Amazing video! Kindly make videos on Narcissistic abuse healing. I know a lot of things but healing is absolutely difficult! Thanks Dr Bhawna Arora
My wife behaves in the same manner you explained and I came across this narcissistic word just a couple of months ago. Thanks doctor you explained it in an impressive way 🙏
Please listen to Doctor Ramani videos , you will be better in handling the situation- take care / stay strong , life is too precious to be given for someone who doesn’t even care .
Dr kashika ji aap ne itne acche se narcissistic person ke bare me bahut acche se samjhaya aap aaj kal zamane ki achi shiksha deti hai thanks 👏👏 God bless you
Thanks You are absolutely right My husband is same kind of person. I spoiled 30 years of my life with him. Usne mera her tarike se jina muskil kr diya. Even bhut bda dramebaaz hai. Dusro k samne ek dum sharif bn jata hai. Ghar mai kisi ko nhi aane deta nhi tau logo ko uski askiyat pta chal jayegi. Mujhe bhi khi nhi jane deta hai. Quaidi ka jeevan ji rhi hu. But jabse rajyog meditation suru kiya apne aapse raste samajh aaye and jo aapne solution btaye hain wohi same maine kiye jaise parmatma rasta dikha rha tha. Ab jeevan thoda theek hua hai. Apne mann mai aise insaan se saare riste khatm krdo phir apne aap shakti aa jati hai ki wo bole and humko kuch bhi fark nhi padta. Wo always jaal bichata hai fight krne k liye. Ye log bina apne matlab k kuch nhi krte hain. Totally selfish hote hain. Financial strong hona bhi bhut jaruri hai. But wo poori koshish krta hai ki mai koi work nhi kr pau
Depends upon your relationship, what relationship you have with that person and how many people are dependent upon them, do you live with that person or not, also depends upon such factors.
Great. I suffered a lot from such narchist family member for years. And One fine day adopted similar way. It really worked. Narchist know the words and way to dominate but they themselves are incapable to do same. If more people are facing such issues, BE BOLD. Utilise above new way, It may do wonders
Forgive yourself. Don't remember in your mind again and again your past mistakes. Forget it, that is called forgiveness. So forgive yourself. Forget it. Forget your past mistakes. Let go
Mam apne bilkul shi bataya he .mene 18 sal laga diye aise admi k sathme .samjhi nahi ata ye admi . Aise admika khudka dimag hi pura kachra se bhara rehta he.pur khud achese rehte hai .partneko to sanse Tak nahi lene dete.apki bat sunkar dill ko tasalli our rasta bhi Mila he thanky mam❤❤❤
It is very true. My brother is like this only. Finally, after a suffering of 15 years with him I started ignoring him, which helped me a lot. Ager ye video mujko 30 years pehle milta tho meri suffering bahut kam ho jati. Any way, video is very true.
Now a days every Indian family facing these kinds of problems in life.... Bachpan me papa aise mile aur ab apki baat sunkar lga ki itne dino se jis chiz ko samajh nhi pa rhi thi aur mental depression me jiye ja rhi hu pichle 15 yrs se due to spouse....ab apki video se bahut help milegi unhe treat krne me.Thank you 🙏
For recovery from Depression, watch Depression related videos on this channel from Depression playlist. You will be out of Depression very soon. Stay connected. God bless you. This is the link:- th-cam.com/play/PLNl0fPKQkCjG1IVhZerlsXAobV4Zm5RPo.html Always remember the Golden Statement "बिना दवाइयों के किसी भी मानसिक समस्या से बहार आना बहुत आसान है"
Kaaash mai aapko thanks bol skti. Kaash aik hug krskti. kaaash sirf itna he bta skti k ap ny meri kitni bari mushkil asaan krdi hai. Ap hmesha Khush rhain❤️
Thanks sister, my husband is exactly the same as you mentioned and I also approach the same method as u said in the beginning. But somewhere I was lacking and your guidance appeared like God's words..🎉 May God bless u and fullfill ur all dreams...Sister🎉❤❤❤
@@ritumehrotra701it's pretty hard to be around the narcissistic person, but haa aap emotionally detached ho sakte ho, result bada nahi hoga but aap khud ko kamm hurt karoge
Ma'am ...you r really a wonderful human being.aap bahut achche se relationship ko analyse karte ho..kitni bareeki se aapne cheezon ko samjha hai .aur samjhaya haii..hats off
Aapka video sach m bhut useful tha mene to 5 times share kar dia . Mujhe jha Tak lagta h aap sayad koi healing ki ya emotions se relates koi course ya class bhi chlati hongi. ❤❤❤ God mujhe esa hi bnane ki power de. Jesa k aapne btaya h ya fir m is duniya se bhut door chali jaau.
Before acting on your suggestions it is essential to introspect and see that you are sincere and honest in your relationship and you have not yourself contributed to trust deficit by acts
I just came across this work randomly but I must say you have put so much effort into making this video. The understanding that you have exhibited about a narcissistic person and how to deal with them goes to show your expertise in your skill.
Mam aap jo bhi btati hai vo bahut hi useful bate hai ,ekdam life ko transform krne vali ,aap jo bhi videos bnati hai un sbko ikathha karke aap ek book likhiye mam taki jab bhi hume life me jrurat pade to hum apki guidance ko dubara se padh ske.aap aur bhi books likhe mam.
थैंक्यू मेम आपने बहुत अच्छी बात बताई मेरा cousin मेरे साथ हि रहता है बट वो बहुत बड़ा nascissist पर्सन है । और मे उसके साथ ऐसे he baat karta hu jaise aapne batai q ki wo bahut galat tareke se baat karta tha mujhse pahle to mane usase baat karna he kam kar diya...Thankyou so much mem..
Whole teaching is on point 💯/ 💯. But, just one thing that no matter how much power you generate, how much financial independence you get, these narcissistic people should never be forgiven. Always keep a distance, no mercy because when they see you powerful, they will not hurt you from words they will give you a real harm. They are always revengeful. Just stay away....... keep your mouth shut in front of them.... ye garajte bhi hain aur baraste bhi hain.....
Wonderful vdo. It seems U r telling the real story of one of my family member because of which m under extreme anxiety, stress and depression due to which had to see the psychiatrist and taking medicines for last 3 years. Thnx a lot for useful information 🙏
Bilkul eise phil nahin hone Dena hai. Khushi apni andar hoti hai. Mai isliye khush hun ki Mai jinda hun, dekh pata hun, sun pata hun, meri hath pair sare Kam kar rahe hain. Bahut log mar chuke hain, hospital me hai, apni normal life ko wapas Ane ke liye operation ho Raha hai, injection lete hai etc. Mai bilkul ache health me ji Raha hun. Isliye khush hun aur ye Khushi sirf mere hath aur mere andar hai. sab log eisa socho. Bahut acha lagega ❤
Mem, you this session will certainly be very useful to the people who are victim of narscists. In short, just boycott them ignore them. Don't expect anything from them. I had applied this theory 27 yeas ago and then I prospered a lot in all walks of life. These narscists even if they identify their instinct is bad, they will remain stuck to this .
Meri sas mere ko bahut paresaan karti hI esei esi bate bolti hai jo sahan hi nahi 😢hoti jeene nahi deti bilkul apki baate sun kar bahut rahat mili hai ye applay. Karugi me life me thanku so much mam❤
54 years is not a short time to suffer the behavioural cruelities and utter recklessness, no matter how much one tried to expect and hope the light at the end of the tunnel. But it never comes. Thought of divorcing early, post marriage, but didn't have enough guts. Then children came, sealing the exit because I knew that the spouse just did not have the ability to raise them. Then a dying father of the spouse took my hand and begged not to desert the spouse.What inevitably came was the scorched earth, shockingly irresponsible behaviour and an unfortunate but intelligent child who sadly developed schizophrenia. It is the parents of such individuals who set traps for unsuspecting individuals and palm them off to them. Earlier, people did not have enough knowledge on these subjects but of late there is a whole lot of it. You are surely doing a good job in the field. Your advice has merit and is useful.
Love you dear Mera beta esa hi hai Bahut pareshan hu Strong hote hue bhi uski vajah se Depression mein doobti ja Rahi hu Aapka video dekh kr thoda deal krne ka confidence aaya hai Bete ko kaise door kare koi Bhagvan aapko lambi umra de or ese hi aap logo ka bhala krti rahe❤❤❤
You are telling everything right in this video. We really don't know how to deal such people Actually narcissistic qualities are related to psycho problems.
बहुत ही अच्छा आपने समझाया...मेरे लाईफ में तो मॉं और वाईफ दोनों नार्सिस्ट हैं...मुझे ही कभी कभी लगता हैं कि मैं जिंदा ही कैसे हूं...हालांकी एक बार मैं मौत के दौर से गुजरकर भी बाहर आया हूं...
In today’s world, female narcissism is increasing. Thank you for this video. It’s giving good solution.
Agreed
Wrong only males are narcissistic
On contrary NPD is found more in males
@@shaktimaan1064 it is their in both gender. NPD has nothing to do with male female.
Mam mai 40 sal se ase hi aadmi ke sath rah rahi hu ... bilkul sahi kaha aapne ..ye video dekhne se pahale se hi apne aap hi dheere dheere mai ase hi unko deel karne lag gyi ...but kabhi kabhi mai guilt feel karti thi .but aapki video dekhne ke baad achcha lag raha sahi kaha aapne bas yahi ek tarika h ..😢
सच्चाई ये है कि आदमी बाहर वालों की वजह से कभी ज्यादा नहीं जाता depression में, सबसे ज्यादा उसके घर वालों का या रिश्तेदारों का ही रोल होता है।
अगर corporate sector में जॉब करते हो और आपका बॉस ऐसा मिल जाए तब भी आदमी depression में जाता है
1000% right
True
@@surinderpalsingh3139No, You can change your job.
Very true
Financially independent is the main solution
First step for sure
Financial independence is one of the primary things that a narcissist will seek to destroy.
Ye to bilkul sach h....but bachho pr ye lagoo nhi hota...
Agree
sath is leave that unko unki position par cz aap unko nhi change kar sakte hai
दर्द परेशानी यंत्रणा पीड़ा महसूस तब ही होती है जब हम भावनात्मक लगाव रखते हैं। बहुत ही उपयोगी विडियो।काश ऐसा करके हम मुक्त हो सकें। ज़िंदगी हजारों की इस तरह से बर्बाद हो चुकी है और हो रही है।
No, without any attachments also we do feel pain sufferings discomfort torture
I am living with such a man . He often questions me where i spend my hard earned money. He shouts at the top of his voice and blames me. He uses children 's money also. Not only this,he lavishly spends money on his friends and do what they say.
Thanks a lot ! This is really uplifting video.... So many our sisters see these videos and realise about their narcissistic behaviour otherwise many of them are not aware of this.
Strict laws should be there for such a behaviour and for extra marital affairs....
Dear harinderkaur ji . You must earn. Aajkal to ghar bethe bhi earning ho sakti h . Tabhi aap in sab chijon se bahar aapaogi . Varna khud k health ko bhi bigad logi cos saare emotions ka effect hmari body par hi padta h . Mere father bhi ese hi the. Abhi tjida sa change hue h budhape m . Bilkul thoda sa. But aapke liye prayer karungi k aapke jeevan m jaldi bahar aaye vo aadmi aapki nd aapki khusiyo ki importance jaldi samjhe. 🫶
To aise man ke sath kyo reh rahi ho, apne husband k sath raho na.
@@AshishVishwakarmaAshV man and husband both r same mayb
I am living with such person with last 25 years but since last 2 years I got courage and coming out of the mess....my son is the source of my motivation....now she even can't see the success of my son too....but me and my son now enjoying our life
Dear Doctor, I am a 67 years surgeon. I had heard this word several times, but understood this for the first time
Sir aap doctor ho phir bhi aisi halat 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Sir.. U r blessed tht u haven't heard abt this disorder.. Because u havntd dealt with one... They are a curse to themselves and their family..
@@rish000e mental suffererings is nohow less than physical sufferings
Parents ko apnay child k behaviour ko dekhna chahiyay .lnki marriage nahi karanee chahiyay .
Very true,l have spent 33 yrs with such a person,my children have got effected by him,but l didn't have the courage,now l am trying to rediscover myself.
Kya ab aap thek h
Bahut difficult hota h ,,mujhe 23 yrs ho gye h,,aisey logo ke beech rehtey hue
Sach mein saans Lena bhi mushkil ho jata hai kai baar
@@rajnigautam2288ख़ुद ही को करो बुलंद इतना, कि हर तकदीर से पहले खुदा बंदे से ख़ुद पूछे बता तेरी राजा क्या है.
My children have got affected too
Girls should make themselves financially, educationally and healthy ( both mentally and physically)secured to handle such people's .
An excellent video ❤🎉🎉
Thanks for this video..its really life changing for many....
i have also faced this situation ... although it was a love marriage 18 years ago...lmy life after marriage was full of criticism and blaming etc .. although he is good ,loves me too.... but his narcissistic traits were killing me inside...i lost my worth... felt worthless.... developed many health issues.....
But the story started changing since few years...i started practicing all the tricks explained in this video somehow with gods blessings.... i removed all expectations... I accepted the fact that his nature can't be changed...i started making myself distant from him from inside...
started doing regular prayer and breathing meditation.... and started focusing on becoming financially independent...
Now i am in much much much better position...all my health issues has resolved...i m emotionally much balanced and strong....i feel good from inside....his behaviour has become better than before ...... but I don't care much....i try to not react on anything... neither interfere in his business........
Ye to sikhna hai abhi carefree hona ..baki sab hogya
Plz advise how you managed to be happy
Same here after meditation and prayers , yoga m totally fine and happy and now mujhe jada fark nhi pdta uske behaviour se
Bus baby chota he to job nhi kar pari but in future career banaugi
Same with me , these all lessons I have learned with time . Emotional detachment is must
Jo bhi es video ki guidelines hai I m following.& successful bhi hu.. but sometimes he became ferocious & assault physically and started beating me...what I should do in this situation.. tolerating since last 41 years only for children.. now since last six months I am living in a spiritual organisation in a ashramn healing myself rapidly and feeling peace..
My mother-in-law ruined my husband's life and then mine, and tried to do to my daughter too...... May God bless us and keep us away from such people 🙏 🙌 ✨️ ❤️
I can relate with you
Same here with me
Me too.
Same here, my mother in law and father in law always against me and keep blaming me for everything. Husband is so dominating for me but Not realize their plans.
Me too
Thank you.. very helpful video… now I can deal with my husband in a better way.. he’s so arrogant and mean and literally trying to downgrade me all the time.. he never listens to me.. whenever we talk about lack of ‘wee time’ he starts shouting.. and speaks anything that could make me hurt.. he has kept his image as a polite, intelligent and friendly in the outside world but with me he’s terrible.. so I’ve stopped talking to him.. and started ignoring him.. I have been keeping myself busy in my routine.. go cycling and prioritising my health..
this will really work.. 👍🏻
Bilkul mere sath bhi Yahi hota he yakin to Koi karta hi Nahi he mere Upar koi karle tab bhi Wo hamko galat sabit Kar deta he
Ditto with me . Logo ko lagta hai, ye toh uncha bol Tak ni sakta, she is bad. Sari burai meri. Har baar ek nai cheez samajh Mai ATI hai
प्रिय कशिका
तुम्हारी सभी सलाहें अमूल्य हैं। कुछ को मैं अपने जीवन अनुभव से आत्मसात कर चुकी हूं। जैसे आर्थिक स्वतंत्रता और सीमा बंदी। लेकिन भावनात्मक दूरी और स्वयं की हीलिंग पर इस विडियो को सुनने के बाद और बेहतर काम कर पाऊंगी। तुम्हे बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद और उज्ज्वल भविष्य की शुभकामनाएं।
Der se hi sahi apki advice mili . 20 saal se aise hi insan ke sath hu ab bhi emotionally hurt ho jati hun pr bachho k liye I am trying my best thanks for your advice
Thanks Allah ne aap ki video mujhe milai hai mein bahut pareshan thi per ab Allah ka sukar hai ke Allah ne aap jesie acche log bhi banye hai madad ke liye
family member me se hai kisi ko ye symptoms?
Thank u ma'am 🙏
Bilkul sahi kaha aapnay.....video dekh Kar sukoon mila and useful tips to deal with our problem
Thank you very much 😊 mam
कब से मैं इस problem ka solution dhoond रही थी। आपने बहुत अच्छे solutions बताए। मैं इस video ko बार बार देखने के लिए save कर रही हूँ। Many many thanks. You have good insight . All the best on your journey to healing.
Human mind is the most complicated in this universe. No solution is permanent. Better to engage mind in God worship & yoga dhyanam activities instead of any other human company because every human is not observing the same true personality as you are holding.😊
😂😂😂
देवी जी अत्याचार मत करो मैं मोदीजी से बड़ी गारंटी देता हूं आपके शौहर की हिम्मत नहीं जो आपके सामने जुम्बिस भी करे😢😢😢
Very true Dear Kashika
Im a Narcissistic abuse survivor despite being a Doctor. Amazing video!
Kindly make videos on Narcissistic abuse healing. I know a lot of things but healing is absolutely difficult!
Thanks
Dr Bhawna Arora
Samay aur paristhtiyon ne ye saari cheeje jo apne batayi khud b khud sikha di, lekin aapki baaton se yakeen ho gaya ki sahi raaste par hun.
Aapne meri life or soch badal di aaj se
My wife behaves in the same manner you explained and I came across this narcissistic word just a couple of months ago. Thanks doctor you explained it in an impressive way 🙏
same here
i wish ki bacche na ho aisi aurat ke sath
@@shribhagwanojha5165 same here
Mam mene apni happiness chose ki aur aise sbi logo ko to get out kr dia. Now I am the happiest person on the earth. I enjoy my company .
Acha ji
Same here 😇👍
Same here..
Ma'am, AAP muje Sahi waqt par mil gaye...is vishay par muje apki bahut madat milee. Bahut bahut Shukriya!
The moment you kick the narcissist out of your life, Your Healing Begins. ❤
its not easy to kick out.. some time
its not easy to kick out.. some time
They push us upto extreme, even sometimes I feel like finishing myself but again my spiritual anchor holds me and saves me.❤
Very true
I am also facing a narrcocist
Please listen to Doctor Ramani videos , you will be better in handling the situation- take care / stay strong , life is too precious to be given for someone who doesn’t even care .
Mam sprictual anchor means ?
Very true mam aise insaan kabhi nahi sudharte
Dr kashika ji aap ne itne acche se narcissistic person ke bare me bahut acche se samjhaya aap aaj kal zamane ki achi shiksha deti hai thanks 👏👏 God bless you
Thanks
You are absolutely right
My husband is same kind of person. I spoiled
30 years of my life with him. Usne mera her tarike se jina muskil kr diya. Even bhut bda dramebaaz hai. Dusro k samne ek dum sharif bn jata hai. Ghar mai kisi ko nhi aane deta nhi tau logo ko uski askiyat pta chal jayegi. Mujhe bhi khi nhi jane deta hai. Quaidi ka jeevan ji rhi hu.
But jabse rajyog meditation suru kiya apne aapse raste samajh aaye and jo aapne solution btaye hain wohi same maine kiye jaise parmatma rasta dikha rha tha.
Ab jeevan thoda theek hua hai. Apne mann mai aise insaan se saare riste khatm krdo phir apne aap shakti aa jati hai ki wo bole and humko kuch bhi fark nhi padta. Wo always jaal bichata hai fight krne k liye. Ye log bina apne matlab k kuch nhi krte hain. Totally selfish hote hain. Financial strong hona bhi bhut jaruri hai. But wo poori koshish krta hai ki mai koi work nhi kr pau
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The best thing is emotionally disconnect with the narcissistic
people.
Deal with them in a strict manner.
Deal with them in a strict manner that's where your life is in danger
Depends upon your relationship, what relationship you have with that person and how many people are dependent upon them, do you live with that person or not, also depends upon such factors.
Don't try. I have tried and did so. They are good at smear campaigns and the way they lie no one can. They have some flying monkeys for help.
Great. I suffered a lot from such narchist family member for years. And One fine day adopted similar way. It really worked. Narchist know the words and way to dominate but they themselves are incapable to do same. If more people are facing such issues, BE BOLD. Utilise above new way, It may do wonders
Forgive yourself. Don't remember in your mind again and again your past mistakes. Forget it, that is called forgiveness. So forgive yourself. Forget it. Forget your past mistakes. Let go
@nevergiveup9686 So true..Mam ne sahi kaha hai apne pagalpan me khoye rehne wale log
Well said - don`t be there to take revenge and "teach a lesson" just move on let karma take over - focus on yourself , your priorities
I am following all these since last 4 years and these pointers really work
Mam apne bilkul shi bataya he .mene 18 sal laga diye aise admi k sathme .samjhi nahi ata ye admi . Aise admika khudka dimag hi pura kachra se bhara rehta he.pur khud achese rehte hai .partneko to sanse Tak nahi lene dete.apki bat sunkar dill ko tasalli our rasta bhi Mila he thanky mam❤❤❤
It is very true. My brother is like this only. Finally, after a suffering of 15 years with him I started ignoring him, which helped me a lot. Ager ye video mujko 30 years pehle milta tho meri suffering bahut kam ho jati. Any way, video is very true.
Pls aap apni journey batayein... I need help bro. How u dealt with him?
आपकी शिक्षा प्रणाली मनोरोगी के लिए रामबाण
Thanks Dr kashika aap ke video se mujhe Jeevan ko samjne mai asani hoti hai.
Now a days every Indian family facing these kinds of problems in life....
Bachpan me papa aise mile aur ab apki baat sunkar lga ki itne dino se jis chiz ko samajh nhi pa rhi thi aur mental depression me jiye ja rhi hu pichle 15 yrs se due to spouse....ab apki video se bahut help milegi unhe treat krne me.Thank you 🙏
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Always remember the Golden Statement "बिना दवाइयों के किसी भी मानसिक समस्या से बहार आना बहुत आसान है"
Point 1 i FEEL is a GOLDEN POINT!
Kaaash mai aapko thanks bol skti. Kaash aik hug krskti. kaaash sirf itna he bta skti k ap ny meri kitni bari mushkil asaan krdi hai. Ap hmesha Khush rhain❤️
Thanks sister, my husband is exactly the same as you mentioned and I also approach the same method as u said in the beginning. But somewhere I was lacking and your guidance appeared like God's words..🎉 May God bless u and fullfill ur all dreams...Sister🎉❤❤❤
Mere bhi husband and main ghut ghut ke ji rahi hu
@@ritumehrotra701it's pretty hard to be around the narcissistic person, but haa aap emotionally detached ho sakte ho, result bada nahi hoga but aap khud ko kamm hurt karoge
Ma'am ...you r really a wonderful human being.aap bahut achche se relationship ko analyse karte ho..kitni bareeki se aapne cheezon ko samjha hai
.aur samjhaya haii..hats off
Thanks madam.❤❤
Very true. usefull tips.
आपकी आवाज ब हू त शांत है.gratitude.madam
Dr Kashika
Excellent, Knowledge on Narcissism, I'm victim of Narcissist so I can understand exactly, Kerp it up,
God Bless you
Regards
बहुत ही उत्कृष्ट वीडियो।बहुत सारी समस्याओं का समाधान है इसमें। Lovely Video❤❤❤❤
Sach kaha aapne
Aapka video sach m bhut useful tha mene to 5 times share kar dia . Mujhe jha Tak lagta h aap sayad koi healing ki ya emotions se relates koi course ya class bhi chlati hongi. ❤❤❤
God mujhe esa hi bnane ki power de. Jesa k aapne btaya h ya fir m is duniya se bhut door chali jaau.
Before acting on your suggestions it is essential to introspect and see that you are sincere and honest in your relationship and you have not yourself contributed to trust deficit by acts
Only woman, in comment section who seems logical. hats off to you
Dr. Kashika Ji - amazing points ! Big relief & solution
Kis kis ko lagta he esi ek doctor to ham bhi deserve karte he...😊😊😊
I just came across this work randomly but I must say you have put so much effort into making this video. The understanding that you have exhibited about a narcissistic person and how to deal with them goes to show your expertise in your skill.
same me my life. Pr apne solution batya h mai koshish krungi es pr chalne ke liye.thank yu
How's things are now
Bahut jhela h in logo ko pehle father and abhi bhai........and bahut sari aapki batai baatein kerta hu.yahi ek solution in jaise logo ka.👍👍
Thanks ma’am meri bahu bilkul eisi hi hei aapne Rasta dikhaya iske liye again thanks
बहुत ही सुंदर प्रेरणादायक 😊🎉
Thanks for the suggestions l am also facing such type of person
आप के चिकित्सा प्रणाली लाजबाब
Mam aap jo bhi btati hai vo bahut hi useful bate hai ,ekdam life ko transform krne vali ,aap jo bhi videos bnati hai un sbko ikathha karke aap ek book likhiye mam taki jab bhi hume life me jrurat pade to hum apki guidance ko dubara se padh ske.aap aur bhi books likhe mam.
Thank you so much sister, mai 20 saal se husband ko suffer kar rahi hu, 😢but thank you❤🙏🌹, video me jo jo aapne bataya sab kuch isa hi hi
Thank you so much maam i m also suffering from 20 years....
I'm also
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I am also @@92soniyadav19
i also suffering 25 years
This is so true dealing with a narc father for decades!
थैंक्यू मेम आपने बहुत अच्छी बात बताई मेरा cousin मेरे साथ हि रहता है बट वो बहुत बड़ा nascissist पर्सन है । और मे उसके साथ ऐसे he baat karta hu jaise aapne batai q ki wo bahut galat tareke se baat karta tha mujhse pahle to mane usase baat karna he kam kar diya...Thankyou so much mem..
Deeply appreciate your views & suggestions. In fact, I am regular reader of your contents.God bless U always.U are wonderful giver to the society.
बहुत sty और. सार्थक बात.. श्री राधे श्री राधे..
मैम आप बहुत अच्छा समझाती है।❤
OMG… it’s so much work with a Narcissist 😮
I am already over whelmed 😅
😂
Thanks डॉ बिटिया, हम भी बहुत परेशान हैं एक बच्चें की वज़ह से।
Well said Kashika..Its indeed a difficult topic to handle but you have explained it and remedied very well 👌
Whole teaching is on point 💯/ 💯. But, just one thing that no matter how much power you generate, how much financial independence you get, these narcissistic people should never be forgiven. Always keep a distance, no mercy because when they see you powerful, they will not hurt you from words they will give you a real harm. They are always revengeful. Just stay away....... keep your mouth shut in front of them.... ye garajte bhi hain aur baraste bhi hain.....
Doctor Mam fan of your voice 💚
🙏
Thank you ma'am, my wife is same as you define in this video. Your words are helpful 🙏
Ap ne boht ache se samjhaya, ap ka speaking style boht acha he
Wonderful vdo. It seems U r telling the real story of one of my family member because of which m under extreme anxiety, stress and depression due to which had to see the psychiatrist and taking medicines for last 3 years.
Thnx a lot for useful information 🙏
Wonderful session Dr Kashika, better and more comprehensive than a proper psychology class
I am pissed off with the same situation as you explained , now i will adop your tricks and tipe so thank you so much for this important video
Very useful. I really wirsh freedom to all dealing with such people.
Mai 18 saal se aise hi insaan se deal kar rahi hu....aisa lagta hai Marne k baad hi sakoon mil ga..........life ka sara mja hi khatam ho chuka hai
Same here..
37 years here😞
Bilkul eise phil nahin hone Dena hai. Khushi apni andar hoti hai. Mai isliye khush hun ki Mai jinda hun, dekh pata hun, sun pata hun, meri hath pair sare Kam kar rahe hain. Bahut log mar chuke hain, hospital me hai, apni normal life ko wapas Ane ke liye operation ho Raha hai, injection lete hai etc.
Mai bilkul ache health me ji Raha hun. Isliye khush hun aur ye Khushi sirf mere hath aur mere andar hai. sab log eisa socho. Bahut acha lagega ❤
uska version sun le vo bhi tujhe deal kr raha hoga
Mere bhi 14ho gai he lekin ar jyada ho badh Rahi he.
Mem, you this session will certainly be very useful to the people who are victim of narscists. In short, just boycott them ignore them. Don't expect anything from them.
I had applied this theory 27 yeas ago and then I prospered a lot in all walks of life.
These narscists even if they identify their instinct is bad, they will remain stuck to this .
Meri sas mere ko bahut paresaan karti hI esei esi bate bolti hai jo sahan hi nahi 😢hoti jeene nahi deti bilkul apki baate sun kar bahut rahat mili hai ye applay. Karugi me life me thanku so much mam❤
Saas se to phir bhi nipat sakte h pr pati se bahut mushkil h.
Meri saas + husband dono hi aise hai
What a wonderful and motivational talk for everyone
Sahi mam 2:29🎉
Hame to Narcissist ka Topic ek mahina pahle hi Mila hai.. 20 Saal se bura mahshus kar rahe .dukh pa rahe ...Achha samjhaya....
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I am in love with her wisdom & insight.. She has changed my mind & life... 😊 & By following her videos I Made my life so easy 🤞😌
Thanks, maine 3saal pehlese hi yahi kiya,ab mai sochti hu maine mansik roop se khud ko alag karke kuch galat nahi kiya
How did you manage it
Thank you so much for your precious advice
Bilkul agree hu m aapse mam, thanku so much
Now I am set on my healing journey
Deepest regards from Ajay 🎉🎉🎉❤🎉🎉🎉
Kashika mam, what a wonderful delightful thought you have for helping people, who are in need
great keep it up. you are helping people. with a right way
54 years is not a short time to suffer the behavioural cruelities and utter recklessness, no matter how much one tried to expect and hope the light at the end of the tunnel. But it never comes. Thought of divorcing early, post marriage, but didn't have enough guts. Then children came, sealing the exit because I knew that the spouse just did not have the ability to raise them. Then a dying father of the spouse took my hand and begged not to desert the spouse.What inevitably came was the scorched earth, shockingly irresponsible behaviour and an unfortunate but intelligent child who sadly developed schizophrenia. It is the parents of such individuals who set traps for unsuspecting individuals and palm them off to them. Earlier, people did not have enough knowledge on these subjects but of late there is a whole lot of it. You are surely doing a good job in the field. Your advice has merit and is useful.
Thanks for sharing your valuable guidance 🧸👍💗
Thankyou so much mam . Hm bhi apne bete ki wajah se isi pareshani se jujh rahe h ...
Thanks maam , i changed my behaviour with my husband ,he is narcisst❤
Sem haalat hai mere Ghar me.mere pati bhi bahut bara narcisst
Love you dear
Mera beta esa hi hai
Bahut pareshan hu
Strong hote hue bhi uski vajah se Depression mein doobti ja Rahi hu
Aapka video dekh kr thoda deal krne ka confidence aaya hai
Bete ko kaise door kare koi
Bhagvan aapko lambi umra de or ese hi aap logo ka bhala krti rahe❤❤❤
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Fantastic explanation.
Thanks ji
You are telling everything right in this video. We really don't know how to deal such people Actually narcissistic qualities are related to psycho problems.
The most sincere and practical video that I have ever come across on you tube. Thank you doctor.
Your this one video is equivalent to 100 videos on narcassism ...Way to Go !
बहुत ही अच्छा आपने समझाया...मेरे लाईफ में तो मॉं और वाईफ दोनों नार्सिस्ट हैं...मुझे ही कभी कभी लगता हैं कि मैं जिंदा ही कैसे हूं...हालांकी एक बार मैं मौत के दौर से गुजरकर भी बाहर आया हूं...
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I am so happy to watch this video. Thank you Thank you. It has opened my eyes. Now I am able to deal with narcissistic personality.
These type person behaves . Outer world in polite manner but truth knows who tolerating them very tough for living with them😢
Correct
Agar jawan beta Aisa ho to bahut mushkil hai but will try to follow ur tips.....
Thank you so much ❤