How to Heal & Detach from Someone you Loved | Drishti Sharma
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- Going through a breakup is one of the hardest emotions to deal with. We don't know how to handle such pain all alone.
In this video, I have shared some of the ways to heal from a breakup and learning how to detach from your past relationship or let go of your ex in order to move on.
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Timestamps -
00:00 - Intro
00:43 - Part 1/Healing
00:50 - Acceptance the reality
02:43 - Think in abundance about love
04:51 - Whatever happens, happens for a reason
06:08 - Know what were we impressed by in our partner
07:40 - Part2/Detachment and letting go
07:49 - Go into no contact mode
09:06 - Visit the places that made you cry
09:47 - Ask for help
10:31 - Get a life!
12:13 - Questions to ask yourself
12:18 - My theory on breakups and moving on
13:50 - Share and Subscribe :)
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You will never know how strong you are until you forgive someone who does not apologize, and accept an apology that you will never receive... Healing does not mean that the pain no longer exists, but rather it means that the hurt no longer controls your life... We forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness: Because we deserve peace."
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You are absolutely right this is compulsory for our self peace
10000% agree with these words... 😊❤
Hello drishti I thank you for this video I watch your always and feel very connected to it . I am confused about my relationship because my patner doesn't support me whenever I try to do something new but I love him so I stop myself from doing that or I have to hide from it . What should I do 😅
Didi mera bhi 6 yrs relationship tha wo bande sirf ye bolke brkup kiya hai ki graduation hoga phir 1 saal bad shadi kar varna hum nhi rehte hai relationship mai ... Di par mere maa baap ne muje itne mehnat se padaya hai wo itna jaldi shadi karke jane ko thodi kiya hai wo banda merko support hi nhi kara hai kuch mai sirf mere carrer ke liye time magrihu par wo nhi dera hai.... Kya karu mai dii pls rply do
Mera breakup toh nahi but rejection hai. And it really hurt me a lot. We were friends but after that he don't talk. I wanted to talk badly sometimes i used to text him but aise reply deta tha ki woh care hi nahi karta. It's been years now we don't meet, we don't talk. Now itna pain nahi hota jitna beginning phase mein hota tha. Abhi itna importance nahi hai uska mere dil mein which i had before. Life is going good. Working on myself. My career. Happy!! But searching for new.
Yeh breakup wala topic toh bilkul hi unexpected tha😅😅❤❤
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Aaj kal youtube par sab therapist bane baithe hai !!!
But drishti you had said you were never in a relationship ! So how u saying just for sake of the video that u have gone through breakup!???
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Feels like a older sister is there Infront of us and giving us lessons ❤. Thank you di 😊.
I just got out of a Relationship. I really loved him and Still do , I put in all ways I could .But people might find it an excuse but I found it a genuine reason to walk out ,which was, I was for always taken for granted . He never valued my existence and always asked me to Understand, wherein his part of understanding was missing. He used to give me a list of flaws I should work upon and I kept changing or in his language working upon me just to get him to respect me and love me back. But I finally gave up for my mental peace and self respect . I was hurt and broken .it was a 2 year long journey. I broke up yesterday and Today your Video popped up. I watched and felt , Exactly what I wanted someone to tell me . Thank you so much! May be your Video was a help sent by god that I Can move on and that I made the right decision. I should work upon myself and let him go . I can't tie him with me...his dominance couldn't let me breathe and live my life how I wanted . his bare minimum efforts were not sufficient enough...he was just doing them...zero intention, then why to drag it more....I believe I deserve good things awaiting in life. Thanks for giving me the courage to think positively .
And finally realised the fact that if we worked upon ourselves the same way and with same efforts life would be so different.Our mental health would have been so good but no worries everything will be good and happens for a reason.
But sometimes we need to keep patience for a while.
Exactly ,same situation with me..had a 2 yr of long relationship with full of insecurities, memories and trauma but UK one thing if u feel "stucked" than please leave coz..ek hi loop me rehkar kuch nhi milta hai nothing sooo sometimes CHANGE plays very imp role in our life ...same it's almost 1 week and I am feeling so grateful that I took this step because voh bhi mujhe for granted leta tha aur bhot jada casual tha on other hand meri growth nhi ho rhi thi I feel like I am useless and not enough to proof myself but voh apni life me achha kar rha tha which makes me feel like what the hell is going on with my life..I was happy for his success but I feel like meri ye halat huyi kaise h like humko hi pta h ki humare liye kon achha h aur kon nhi sooo don't make yourself fool and start MOVE ON 💕
Same exactly my stories😊
How old are u...?
Hey drishti!
There are a lot of aspirants nowadays going through their examinations , can you please make video on how to deal anxiety and pressure and focus without getting tired?
So truee. Whn you work hard and still don't get positive result it is really hard to accept.
Dar itna lg raha hai ki uske chakkar me padhai hi nhi kr paa rahi😭
Yeah bro
Dnt look at others , instead just focus on your work! That will reduce half anxiety , because social media causes this comparison game which causes more anxiety!
See jo hona hai wo toh hona hi hai.. tum padogi tab bhi tumko is bat ka stress rahega ki pata nahi result kya hoga and nahi padogay tab bhi yeah stress rahega ki result kya hoga lekin agar tum apni puri preparation karogi and apia best dogi toh ek toh is baat ka confidence rahega ki tumne apni koshish puri ki thi and dusra tumko guilty feel nahi hoga ki kash thodi aur tayyari karleti.. stress kisi bhi situation mein natural hai lekin hum stress ko kasse handle karte hai wo important hai.. is waqt tumare hath mein jo hai wo tum karo bakhi jo acha Hoga wo hojaega... All the best!!
I loved the point about being an introvert and getting attracted to someone who is an extrovert and that's a gap or void inside us that has to be filled by working on ourselves and not looking for that elsewhere.
Exactly same happened with me. I was talking to this guy I met online. He was just so fun to talk to, as he knew all the topics and just so friendly and extroverted and being so happy and loud and cheerful.
That's where I started liking him. Now I know it was my gap, of being a kind of silent boring nerd, wo always wanted that same energy that guy had.
This is the same which i feel in my life,
Everything is relatable,
Good Job dear,
Your every video is so meaningful, recently I have started following you ,
You are so pretty and videos are genuine ❤
Dear Drishti, i am currently going through this phase I literally needed this one. Thank you very much
I was never in a relationship but I'm still watching this 😭🗿
😅Yah same
Don't get into one until they want you for lifetime
Us🗿🥺
Also never try to be in a relationship, until both of you are so damn sure.
@@bhumi.810 so u wanna be 🙌 ha
Truth being spoken! Being a guy the only thing I can ask all the male viewers to please don’t create any disrespect or hatred for the person who left you. Heal yourself and make a better life for yourself. May God bless you’ll ❤️
You open my eyes, I too make reasons for him. ❤
From now onward,No more entertainment of his thought, I am starting from now❤. Thank you so much, I actually relate to it.
I am starting my healing journey❤
The most crucial factor in healing is establishing no contact. It's akin to letting a burned hand recover - would it heal faster by repeatedly touching a hot stove or by giving it the time and space to heal without further injury?
The analogy is clear, yet in relationships, we often find ourselves impulsively touching the "stove." No contact is designed to facilitate your healing process. It may be painful initially, but it's the key to your recovery.
Remember, healing takes time, and the process might involve intermittent pain. However, with each passing day, you'll gradually feel better. Trust the process, and soon you'll find yourself completely healed.
Today Relationship Breakup Totally Waste of Time Because They'll Not Exist in Reality and Now a Days
I've done such things that you've told in this video, I'm working on myself, but also there are such things to do. I feel that I'm on track. Thanks, Drishti Dii and also I'm thankful to the universe for being with me and guiding me every time.
'Only the scars remains' this is so real 😊
Sidhi bath no bakwas thanks drishti every line u have said has a lot of value in it i just felt u are talking directly to me 😂 much needed video at this point of time
Itna achhe se toh mera bada bhai meko nhi bolta ... Aap meri badi bhn jaise meko help krte ho thank you so much ❤ hamesa kuch rahiye aap di ❤️
Recently had a breakup, and you uploaded this video. Im on my healing journey also☀️
No words…YOU ARE HEELING🫂💗your way of giving lessons and advice is just a fantastic❤️🔥
You are right dear. We should not give importance more than our own self.
If one person brutally broke the trust will never be sincere again.
I think,
Time never heals us, time just teaches us to live with the Pain we got.❤️🩹
I don't have any breakup story and also I was never in relationship but still I love watching your videos. love you di.
This girl has all my heart ❤️ .Thank you so much for spreading positivity among people ❤
Best most complete video on dealing with breakups. Thank you 🙏😊❤
Drishti decided to wake up and speak the truth 😅😭. Its always sooo peaceful to watch your videos, I really enjoy listening you.
I am suffering through this last 6/7 months and through this I try to give up my life for him but some reason god save my life and your video help me to move on from this situation thank you drishti di❤❤😊
Same story bro just work on yourself on your career.. Trust me u are amazing just spend time with urself your family and god
Back on time this sunday.
Good job❤
Last time i reminded you to be consistent and you did it.
You have explained everything in realistic way
Thanks dear drishti for this video..I am going through this phase of healing and your tips are really practical and realistic..will help me alot..✨
Drishti Di this video is awesome ♥️
Thank you so much for this video because this video tell us how to see your life after breakup in a different way..♥️♥️♥️
I really need this..
Love you Di ..😌
Finally apki video aagyi apki video ka intezaar tha because buht demotivate hori thi ap always motivate krdete ho you are adorable diidiii🌸💗💐💐💐
THANKU DIRSHTI❤❤❤ much love and hugs to you too🙌💓
Thank you so much for sharing
I really need this
Plz make a complete playlist on this topic
Thank you for giving these lessons all are soo relatable 💯
Isbar to drishti ka alag hi roop dekhne ko mila...par it's really helpful so thank you drishti didi ❤
Drishti di! I just love your channel. Trust me your storytelling skills is soo impressive. You are creator who constantly evolve/trying to be better in every video. You are supper amazing. The community you have built is really sooo precious :) your topic selection & all is just amazing. And one more thing...! Your video editor is great aswell :) his editing skills makes your video engaging and i see your recent themes of video are top notch as well (pink). Keep up the good work :) ♡♡♡
The best video, baaki bhi best hai, but this is one of my favorites. Such a realistic advice you have given. Thankyou Drishti!🌻❤️
Thank you ❤for making and sharing such helpful content .I didn't missed any second of your video because you conveyed it very nicely, Appreciable 👏👏
Yes, its the best suggestion i have ever got .....🌟
Thank you drishti di for this video..❤️✨
Much needed...✨❤️
One more think i want to share its just a reminder cozz i have face itt.sometimess when we ask help from someone like our frnds,family memebers anyone we slowly become dependent on them and we think kii hn ab jo bhu ho yeh toh haina meri baat sunne ke liye hamesha kitna bhii ek hi cheez repeat karo yeh hoge hii support krne thiss iss the moment we have to realise that we have beckme dependent on them cozz life is will have up and downs in future too and naybe you have to deal with the pain of breakup again and not everytime you willl have them to listen to you..yoi have to learn to be emotionally independent kn your own and to avoid expectations from anyone....i hope that you all have got my point....thank you ❤❤
Great point! Well put.
Thank you for making this. I love you 🎉❤
You told us the main reason of why we fall in love with another person..
This route cause will definitely need to know us to heal ourselves..thanks for sharing such core things ❤
YOU are gods angel which helping people to make emotionally strong..Thank you God 💕and thank youhh for making such videos ❤
In this 14 min video ,you have settled all my emotions from which I was struggling from last month .Genuinely thank you for it 🥹🙌🏼!!
Thanks for such practical advices.
Got to learn so much ,also I get so much positivity in ur all videos.
Thankyou !❤🙌
It was soo realllll... Without any filter
Very well said ..thank you for the video n giving the reality about breakup n thank you for motivating to move on 😊
Drishti making such kind of unexpected video on breakup feel like resently she has gone through it
I think I am the biggest fan of you.
I improved myself by watching and implementing your videos either it’s about phone addiction, breakup, self love and career.
I am grateful for you came in my life as a teacher or may be a Digital Friend.
I wish one day I can meet you face to face.
Thank you Drishti❤
Literally I'm so happy when i read the title because rn I'm also in that phase and sometimes it's difficult to tell someone else your video is so helpful to me ❤️
Hey drishti you are providing such an amazing content thanks dear❤❤
Absolutely 💯 dusre ko itni bhi important mat do ki khud ko bhul jao your content is great I love 😘 that's why I'm busy in my life and doing good for me 😍 love you di❤
You are becoming unstoppable day by day!, keep going Drishti 🤍.
Thnk you for this viedo . You uploaded it at the very right time 💌
Thank you for being a emotional supporter❤❤
Found this video on right time ❤❤
I needed this video right now, just came at the right time 👍
This vedio is really too practical to adhere... Amazing efforts👏👏
Needed this ! Thank you ❤
Much needed, thank you so much❣️
Great timing of this video.
This is the best video i have ever watched....thank you didi for giving such an amazing video
Very helpful... Jo toxic relationship mai hai unke liye v....ak himmat aa jata hai chhorne ka
Must needed video for me. Your every words is resonate with me. I am struggling in detaching. Trying to practice self love and shifting my focus to work. Let see what will happen.
For your video 👌👍 and thank you.
It felt like you were talking to me directly. Thanks a lot! ❤
Great video yaar, helps lot of people who are in need❤
Such a relatable video 👍🏻 great job😊
Most helpful video about Break up.
Awesome Drishti❤ loved ur content❤
I love the way you explain things .
My fav creators advice is a worlds best words to listen for myself ❤ keep glowing growing preetyyyy
I always like the way you talk the way you explain, in each and every point of your content is simple which help audience to understand... Keep making such videos especially self developing and motivating.
Thank you so much for this video i truly needed. I had never ever imagined that this day would be come in my life. But we never know when the things turns and twist. We broke up and there is no way of togetherness, I want to move on and I'll give my 💯 in this phase. But it will be going to tough for me because he is my neighbour. Pain and sadness were never to be part of my life. despite all the things I believe in myself and one day i will be fine.
Diiii thank youuu very much giving me such advise❤ these words Change my mindset😌❤
This is the only video related to heartbreak or breakup that I can relate a lot and I really feel that connection...she explained it so simply that its easy for me to connect nd relate. Thank you for this video I needed the most now
amazing video .....tbh i needed such content in my life!!
Thank you so much for this video much needed 🥲🫂
Thanks a lot mam for sharing your journey to move on
It's a very different drishti, i am struggling with this right now and it's helped me a lot thank you ❤
Apki video mere paas aai nhi h this is sign of universe it is help in my detachedment face🎉🎉
From my experience, Whenever u feel like hugging that person and sleeping and wenting out whatever u hv in ur mind, just do it infront of god , tell him each and everything that u want to tell that person and feel free but never beg that person to come back, just feel like u r with urself and no one else can do that , remember u will remain with urself forever and ur god will never leave u and he always has best plans , trust divine plans❤
Dont try to control everything in ur life and trust god
Best video much more needed 🙂
Drishti legit the best video , hands down the best video. right away sharing with all the friends who are going through this phase. this will definitely help them a lot,
keep makin such beautiful helpful content.
Glad you could connect with it❤️
U explain things well to people ❤
Seriously this is really very helpful thank you so much ❤
Thank you for this video 😊..This is very helpful
Omg omg omg thank you so much for wonder full video nd best video ever❤ after 1.2 year of break up I feel now lil good after listening this thank you❤ again
Thank you so much di apne Jo bhi bataya h Esme mene sab try Kiya h and I am very Happy I am proud of myself now I am happy for my self 😊 ❤ I have understood everything in today's time that what is this world and what is it, I have experienced it very well. And I understand Money is everything or loneliness makes me want to love myself. Self love is best... ☺️ Enjoy with your family members ❤❤or ghumo firo mje kro life me 😁 in sb me kya rakha h
Di ! I just love your content. You’re super amazing you totally motivated me after watching your videos I just feel good thanks to my Friend to share you’re channel
The vedio is not just about breakup but also for the people who is healing in there life after separation or dettachment 💫✌️
After watching this video, I'm feeling so good.. Thankyou
Pain is the only thing i have left of her, I cannot let go of it
Loved it! And just what i neeeded to listen 💫
i am literally going through the worst breakup of my life and i came to check if u have uploaded any self worth videos...as i did not expect a breakup video from you...but here you are, with one of the best video that i needed...it feels so damn good after listening to you... thank u for this...i hope i can heal myself soon...and i wish the same for the others too
Wish you strength❤️
Really helpful.Thank you ❤
Thank you so much for this video ❤
Glad to see this!!😊
Thnq so much M'm for giving us a great knowledge ⚡⚡⚡❣️❣️❣️🖤
Thank you so much for this video 😊
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