@@MorbidMaximus666 Agreed! But the fact that such a large % of Gen Z is on TikTok makes _me_ feel disconnected from "reality". I've given up trying to ask for explanations when some of my friends reference certain videos or use very specific vocabulary that's predominant in those online spaces. For example, out of nowhere I started to hear words and jokes related to the looksmaxing community. Then I realized it was due to its popularization on TikTok. I remember studying Baudrillard's "hyperreality" concept in my philosophy class and this is exactly what it feels like; a shared reality that feels more real than that based on tangible people and things.
It’s almost like they’re all, like.. Playing a game together as if it’s an inside joke??? They all just go with the same “rules” or whatever when the majority of people.. Don’t do any of that. They’ve created this little fantasy community world together that doesn’t exist outside of tiktok/their social circles. I feel elderly when my friends bring up new “slang” (which, let’s get real, it’s just shortening down phrases until it becomes incomprehensible because I guess people either don’t have the brain capacity to type normal sentences, or they’re just brutally lazy.) I’m always like hUH?????
Yet that shouldn't be a reason to " dump " someone, nor is that fair anyway ... like why are people deciding to jump people anyway, it is childish and sometimes dangerous. I'll tell you now, if I got jumped, I wouldn't be able to defend myself, guess I am a walking ick !! 😂 Now i'm not trying to argue or have a dispute with you in anyway, this is a question everyone should think about : Why should someone have to live in fear, feel as if they're being followed and have to live with that thought of " what if i'm jumped " in the back of their head...
It's a big fat ick when you're so vigilant to find negative things within people or their lives that you have to make a whole ass list based on how inherently negative you are
@ville__the literal only video you have posted is you STEPPING on a pride flag cause you couldn’t accept that not all people are like you like that is one of the biggest Ickes someone can have and the fact that you’re 30+ is just😐
THIS! One guy made a post a while back saying along the lines that, "The only thing icks have done is made it negative for people to be human beings and their genuine selves," which I agree. The one and only time I could ever take an ick seriously is if it involves a genuine red flag such as maliciously mistreating friendly restaurant workers.
@ville__sorry but asperger??? that term was banned bc it was invented by a nazi who experimented autism and discovered autism just to kill it and negsted in society, i will never watch your content you are a troll
“If he celebrates his birthday.” What’s she really saying is “I don’t want to celebrate his birthday and be expected to do anything or get anything for him. His birthday threatens to make a whole day about him instead of me, and this relationship is only for and about me.” Run…run far away from that vampire.
That’s one thing I LOVE about social media. These narcissistic, self-obsessed weirdos that make abusive and terrible partners WILLINGLY out themselves.
All it does is make normal people realize they shouldn't be within a thousand miles of them. Another worst type of person is one who say "Don't judge me." and yet they're judgmental to others... Especially is that person actually has hobbies compared to them which is literally just doomscrolling on every social media known to man.
My ex yelled at me once for never doing anything romantic. The reason is that every romantic thing I did, she called it corny. So I listed all the things she told me were corny and asked her what she wanted me to do. She said come up with something. So I started singing to her (Foreign Tongues Roniit Reimagination by Crywolf; amazing song, would recommend) and she laughed at me. Later that night I cried alone in the bathroom because I didn't know what to do. She broke up with me the next day because she was listening through the door and heard me crying.
You dodged a bullet, but you should’ve dumped her a while ago before she dumped you. She wasn’t into you. If she really wanted you she’d respond to romance. Find a girl who actually likes you.
@@DisposableSupervillainHenchman I should have, but she had me so convinced that I wasn't good enough to get someone else. I was chubby back then and I've never been particularly good looking since physical abuse by my mother left me noticeably disfigured. So my confidence was really low. Always has been. So I stayed thinking I didn't deserve better.
The hospital one made me so enraged. Wanna know what I did when my husband got out of emergency cancer surgery? I helped him get his pain medication, helped him get up the stairs to bed, & got him some snacks & Vernor's for his stomach due to the anesthesia. Heaven forbid I want the person I'm in love with to not be in pain.
@sarahaque1382 Thank you. Luckily it was caught early & even though it was testicular cancer it was the non aggressive form. His chances of it coming back are pretty slim & we're over a year of nothing so far.
@@kristien2010I lost my mom to colon cancer last year. Didn’t leave her side til the very end. I wish you and your husband a long and healthy rest of your lives!
@Elmolovesyou666 I'm terribly sorry for your loss. I'm sure she appreciated not being alone. And thank you very much. So far the prognosis is very good.
this is why i feel bad for this generation, so glad my circle of friends aren’t like this but i know a lot of people who are. society is so shit today and I’m honestly disappointed with these people, especially since we’re around the same age. people need to grow up and stop thinking the world revolves around them
Same bro, I am glad I managed to build a good friend group with mature and genuine people, I see people around the 20s like me or even older talking so much shit that I wonder if there's any future to society
I have things I avoid in a partner, but it is very basic stuff. Like abuse me, or not respecting my bodily autonomy... I'm not going to break up with my fiance for drinking his favorite drink, enjoying something he loves, or following traffic laws... This "Ick" thing is really messed up.
I know! 😂 Like it's fine to say you enjoy being single or that you're gay or whatever. Why are people in relationships with people they can't stand being around? Absolutely bizarre.
It's not weird that people want to be single but hating the other gender is weird unless it's a trauma response then it's understandable but never okay
I miss how the internet used to be mostly fun and exciting, before the advent and subsequent adoption of portable capacitive touch screen computers by the masses destroyed as much of the fun and excitement as possible. Looking back, Chad Warden really was ABAP
Nah, there have ALWAYS been people like that. A LOT of cults and religions encourage this sort of behavior as well as there are cultures and sub cultures who encourage this. This isn't new. Marriage just used to be much more forced and divorce non-existent. *And murder a LOT more viable.*
@@Gingersnaps_the_pumpkin_kitty you missed the point. yes they exist even before and nobody said they didnt. what im trying to say is now its becoming the norm for them to be narcissistic.
@@esfsddfsafsasgsdfgsdfg1728 you used to be able to literally own people. You also used to be able to get your wife committed and sterilized for not wanting to sleep with you. *Pedophilia used to not only be legal but systematically enforced via arranged marriages and sexist pseudoscientific religiously back organizations like the Catholic Church.* ****We are NOT the most narcissistic/abusive generation.**** *None of this is new, go and actually READ the shit grown adults in positions of power used to ACTUALLY say unironically.* *Particularly that of wealthy powerful men, royalty or otherwise.* I'm not missing the point, you just don't understand how progress works or how history has played out. I guarantee you, far more vile has not only been spoken BUT legal.
@@vanillapinkfluff3477 WHO TF sees someone putting on sun lotion as a "little thing that annoys them", ick or whatever, or their partner recovering from sepsis and being disabled temporarily?
Not even pet peeves it’s just people being ridiculous. How can seeing your husband recovering from sepsis be something that bothers anyone?! I feel so bad for her spouse, like does she even love him?!
6:22 it’s so sad because he looks so happy and the way he looks at the camera and smiles like “awe babe, you don’t have to film me! i enjoy helping!” and in the corner “new ick unlocked”. Girl i hope he breaks up with you for that, like you must hate your boyfriend to post that 🙄
I really really really hope half of this "icks" are satire... Because... No wonder why boys hate on us😭... These womens are making the men more insecure and self conscious
Why are you with this guy if you seem to genuinely dislike something as mundanely helpful as folding clothes? This lady is drifting further from reality, I swear.
I feel bad for that man. My heart would’ve have glowed when he smiled like that. He deserves someone better than that brainrotted self-obsessed narcissist
It’s just…. Sad. Society has made everyone so insecure of themselves and developing anxiety. Let it be wearing crocs at a salon to walking out a store with 8 bags of groceries. Seriously, what are the point of icks? If it’s to make people self conscious then it’s working! I’d happily walk out of Starbucks with my favorite drink, not giving a shit what people think! People are losing their mind. Apparently being human is cringe and an ick 🤷🏻♀️
tbh i thought of icks were small red flags that tend to be bigger problems later down the line. instead it's stupid shit like.... a man drinking his fav drink????? tf??
@ville__ because your reply have nothing to do with the comment. If your so confident with the quality of your videos make a community post. I'm sorry that your Obviously suffering from a disability but that dosent mean that you should be commenting on other people videos. It takes away from the quality of the video and discussion around it. I hope that you grow to learn that this behavior is unneeded. And have a good day.❤️
I use “ick” when I see someone being discriminatory, not when someone uses the wrong hair spray. Idk if it’s just me but I think mine makes more sense 🔥🔥
EXACTLY. As a gen Z I would totally ick if someone was being discriminatory, like EW. That could be racism, sexism or anything ya know. So exactly, wrong hair spray don’t matter lol
I feel like “ick” should be a brief moment of hilarious cringe between partners, not a reason to no be with someone. For example, my partner is still learning to dance (we are latino and bro hasn’t developed hips to save his life). He finds it cringe, I find it funny, and we laugh about it. If people aren’t allowed to be imperfect, no one will have a partner ever. While phones aren’t the only issue, social media has ruined our perception of humanity.
seriously. what human, what human being at all on Earth is perfection? and what is the base definition of perfection? there is none. we are all shaped by our life experiences and the other people we surround ourselves with. we all have different DNA, we all have different preferences and make different choices. social media has made people shallow, and deeply insecure and they mistake that insecurity as confidence. youtube is the only social media I use now. I don’t use tiktok or twitter where the worst of it all lives - once you remove yourself from those things, you live your own life and you see these kinds of things like beauty standards and “icks” and just laugh at the absurdity and shallowness of it all.
Most of these shouldn’t even be noticed, like the guy using the shopping basket. Why would you even have an opinion about that? It’s a shopping basket.
Eh, I see ick as a momentary reaction you should reflect on. Either you have a bad bias you need to deconstruct OR your picking up on something and should try recognize to what.
If someone walks up to you and asks what your biggest ick is, say “going up to people and asking weird personal questions for clout”. Hopefully they’ll stop bothering you.
Oh my gosh there is a clip of someone doing this (going up to strangers and asking them what they find annoying) and no joke a woman responded, “when people go up to me and ask me weird personal questions when I’m just trying to go to the bathroom” and then she glared at him with daggers in her eyes and it’s the funniest things I’ve ever seen because dude didn’t even pick up on the fact that she was talking about him 😂
The 'boyfriend hurt' thing actually happened to me. My GF came home and I was on the bathroom floor. I told her I really needed her to call the hospital. She told me to man up. She reluctantly took me to the hospital, then left for a night class. She came back later to the hospital as I was getting wheeled into emergency appendicitis surgery.
That sucks. I could never. Me and My significant other was in an accident back in 2021ish, almost everyday I went to the Hospital, while he was recovering. I felt so bad and guilty, he got hurt the most.
I have never watched a video from a youtube comment channel where the creator used their outdoor voice the entire time. Around the fourth time it cut back to you yelling, I just lost it🤣. Keep up the good work.
Same tbh. Between executive dysfunction and chronic pain that is unpredictable--that would be helpful. Most of the time my stuff is just in a bin and I pull stuff out to wear. Occassionally I fold or hang stuff--but tbh the only organized things are cloth for my crafts, lmao.
Being turned off by someone trying to avoid causing a potentially fatal car accident and doing the bare minimum of looking out for the wellbeing of themselves and others on the road is absolutely wild.
@@ALUCARDTWILLIGHTexactly. When are men gonna wake up and realise they’re simply attracted to evilness. It’s so obvious, but dudes can’t think outside their little heads 😂
yeah I don’t see how people use it and let their children ffs use it. I used to when it came out, and gave it up. it ruins your attention span, makes you feel like shit, and is just annoying to no end. I only now use it to make cute videos of my dog and post nice videos as like a memory catalog, but I’ll never ever scroll on it again. even youtube shorts is better.
@@Gore-Labsit's a bot. It's replying to pretty much every comment it can and on several videos. Same account too. Just report it for spam and ignore it.
I miss Vine, it just seemed light and fun. There's some good activism and vigilante stuff done on Tik Tok but also a lot of stupid and frightening stuff. I stay away from it for the most part.
Gen Z needs to get over their protagonist mentality, cuz y’all don’t know what ‘ick’ even is. I’ve been with my wife for 19 years and at this point there is little we haven’t put each other through. When my wife went into labor with our son, she vomited all over me as I was helping her out of the car at the hospital. I finished getting her inside, wiped off best I could in a bathroom, and stuck around to be my child be born. Once I had a horrific stomach flu and literally shit the bed with both of us in it. She wasn’t even mad, rather she was concerned that I had gotten sick enough that could even happen. Long story short, if you love someone then you learn to deal with the occasional unpleasantness. Or you can just die alone. Whichever 🤷♂️
Bruh I cannot even imagine not being concerned if my partner was ill enough to lose their bowels. I'd be begging him to let me take him to the ER/urgent care lmao
Exactly. I understand having some deal breakers and turn offs but a lot of these "icks" are some ridiculous, judgemental bs that social media and cringe culture has normalized.
It's a vicious cycle. We only see the most shallow, hyper sensationalist people on shit platforms like Tiktok because only they post there, because that's what gets clout. I wouldn't be surprised if most of them were so shallow and forgetful that they forget these icks, or theyd change their mind if they saw the right guy exhibiting the "ick" behavior.
Friend: "Oh yeah, sorry I forgot to ask, when's your birthday? Mine's coming up soon" ... Boyfriend: "Oh sorry I don't have one, it's an ick to my girlfriend"
The girl that said “when a man gets hurt and instead of playing it cool he is actually hurt” made my blood boil bc one time at my school two boys were playing soccer and one knocked the air out of the other HE PASSED OUT HOW IS HE SUPPOSED TO “PLAY IT COOL” IF HES BEING SENT TO THE OFFICE AND BLACKED OUT?!
A UFC fighter had his girlfriend (who was also a UFC fighter) break up with him because she watched a match where he was getting his face wailed on so he tapped out. People do just be crazy sometimes.
@@bloodkip9462No way that was the reason she left. Those fists are legally weapons. Borderline the equivalent of being smashed in the face with a baseball bat
I walked for 2 hours on a broken foot after the girl I was with jumped on my back in a pool. Pretty sure I looked like the meme of that dude holding his breath xD
As a guy I don't care if something I like is girly, I'm just living my life and I'm not hurting anybody, if any guys (or girls) read this, be yourselves, like what ya like and just enjoy yourselves
Totally agree. As a woman, it doesn’t bother me if a guy has some quote-unquote “girly” hobbies, but it’s really irritating when a guy is overly concerned about *appearing* “masculine,” to the point of refusing to do stuff that he’s arbitrarily labelled as “girly.” So yeah. Be yourself, enjoy what you enjoy. And don’t put other people down for their interests, even if they’re different from yours.
Wake up guys, it's natural selection. Population control. Who even invented the terms: Gen Z, millennial, boomer, etc., etc.? Idk, maybe I'm being a little bit paranoid. You (I) gotta get back up and be much stronger than this. Be yourself and it'll eventually inspire others to be theirselves. Acknowledging we have a generational problem is one thing, but we cannot keep adding more salt to the already existing gaping wound. Stick to your goals and things will only come naturally.
I only have a few ‘Icks’ 1.when people are rude to workers(at restaurants, at stores) 2.when people are rude/disrespectful to special education or disabled people 3.if you are cruel to animals 4.if you don’t clean up after yourself -edit- Let me clarify a few things If an animal is attacking you it’s okay to defend yourself I mean the people who hurt a Defenseless animal Also I mean when we are out and they are being messy ex: throwing trash in ground or if we are at a restaurant and you don’t semi clean up for the waiter (it’s not something that mandatory but that’s how I was raised so I will always do it)
it was not about having good relationship with her father, it was psecifically mentioned that this is about using father as a props for views, likes and attention. And these boys that use "icks" and tiktok unironically despite being obviously over 16 years old, they need some life lesson, because they are bringing shame to men's population. These "icks" is andrew tate level of cr4p
If a girl is masculine she is a pick me but if a man is feminine he is automatically gay which both could be true but sometimes it’s not like in 3rd grade I wore one pair of parachute pants and was called a pick me until 5th grade and I dated a guy who liked makeup and people thought we were just friends and asked if he was gay
I’m so confused by all of this But the laundry one really gets me Literally who is turned OFF when their partner does chores??? I have never heard anyone complain that their husband is too helpful around the house before??? that’s truly such an unhinged opinion I can’t even wrap my head around it
I completely agree. I think it must stem from a deep seeded insecurity that if he’s doing chores, he won’t need them for it, and they must feel like it’s one of the only things they offer or bring to the table in the relationship, so it triggers their abandonment issues or something when they aren’t being literally taken advantaged of in their relationship (but lots of people do what they were taught, so if they grew up in a house where their parents had this dynamic, they are more likely to see it as abnormal when their partner does something that their (possibly toxic) parents didn’t do, like contribute to household chores. If they grew up with a mom who did all the housework, and a father that “brought home the bacon” I can see how that would translate into them feeling threatened (aka ick) when a man displays traditionally feminine roles like housekeeping (But I don’t understand this mentality because I am so happy and thankful every single time my partner helps around the house! Even though I grew up with an absentee father and lived with my grandparents who had pretty traditional gender roles, I still understand the value of a partner that helps split the chores).
Apparently some women do. Had an actress here on TV saying she prevents her husband from doing chores because "it drops her eros". Massive controversy started, even one trad politician attempted to pounce in...
The only thing that annoyed me was he was folding clean laundry on the dirty living room carpet 🤣 but folding the laundry? Probably would have kept my mouth shut
@@gg8264 That means you’re the type of husband who needs a woman to speak up or else you’ll get nothing right 🤷🏻♀️ the guy in the video got it half right. I would have kept my mouth shut at that for sure. Probably rewashed the clothes 🤣
People no longer want to take the bad with the good. I've taken the bad with good with someone, but she broke up with me because I cried when my dog died!
My boyfriend drinks his coffee black, recently I learned he also enjoys a macha frapuccino. The former is kinda odd as he prefers sweeter drinks and I'm the beer drinker in our household. He also likes his clothes more orderly folded than I do. He once even reorganized my closet and desk for me. Not only did he set up my vanity for me, he even sat down with me and sorted everything into the drawers. I love my man.
@@BelinaBeliiDid he say that? It's true that most women don't understand what men mean by these words, same way men don't understand what women mean by certain words.
"Crash your car at a crossing like a man or I'm leaving you" -some brainlet Wearing seatbelts is apparently an "ick" (I fucking hate that childish term) too. Obviously these people have never seen real footage of the aftermath of a car accident, I'd rather not break most of the bones in my body flying out of a windshield thanks!
It should be the opposite, shouldn’t it? Not using a turn signal should be a red flag, because it shows that the person is inconsiderate of others. A guy who prioritizes his image over the safety of those around him is my new ick, I guess.
@@giulioceresini1435 I always hear of these specimens called, "great gals" but I've yet to find one! Hopefully I will be lucky enough to see one some day, as well as Bigfoot!
Aint nobody wanna date someone who nitpicks their every move 💀🤚 I swear to god if someone told me they got the “ick” because of something I did.. Yeah bro go ahead, leave. I don’t want you or your negativity lololol
What's insane to me is some of them were married. Like... Stop giving these people the time of day. Stop marrying the first person to come along y'all. It ain't worth it if this is what you end up with.
It’s so sad to see rampant insecurity and lack of compassion in people being out on widely distributed display. I’m so thankful that I did not grow up in these social environments.
I liked this girl, but then she had the AUDACITY to say that girls poop, and well we all know thats just not true. 🤣 good video, worth a sub for sure. Also the use of that clip of gohan trying not to lose it was *chefs kiss* lol
They weren't raised in stable environments. There is nothing new under the sun. We just proclaim our chaos for the world to see these days. My kids are gen Z. Most of their friends are private.
And now I know why people can't drive. Thanks TikTok for ruining the road. I never knew people not using blinkers and smashing into other cars at 60 mph was just them trying to avoid "icks" May they rest in peace.
As a woman married to a man that actually helps around the house...MARRY HIM OR SOMEONE ELSE WILL! Thats not an ick! Do you know how many guys I've met that refused to do "women's work"? Like they don't dirty the same towels, dishes, and floors I do?!?! WTF!
I was reared by a man who did women's work and men's work in equal measure.. that is, he did what needed doing and so does my mother with both inside and outside work. So I grew up believing men just do housework when it needs doing. BOY WAS I WRONG. If you meet a nice man who doesn't expect you to be his mommy and his naughty nurse and his sexy maid... marry him!!
@@diskonnekt1313 you compare a fckn everyday cleaning dishes, room, clothes yada-yada to let's be honest a once in a while work, what many man actually can't do either cuz not everyone born a fckn Mario or Master Felix!.. Or had a dad. And yes, a guy will come and fix it sooner, but it will be someone who literally earns money from it and knows how to do it quickly and without problems.
@@diskonnekt1313genuinely hilarious for me to read this because i grew up in a household where my dad was a musician and couldn’t do jack related to that, meanwhile my mom grew up on a farm and did literally all the household cleaning, weeding, cooking, laundry, AND the repairs, balancing that with being a nurse from 8am to 5pm. my dad mostly cuts the grass when it comes to household work. but nah. it’s the women who have to be cleaned up after.
was waiting for the bus and overheard a girl say to her friend: "my ick was that he talked all nerdy with his friends." i almost lost my shit 😭 im still absolutely flabbergasted?!??
@@Whoisthatns god forbid a guy like something enough to tell the person he likes about it 💀 in no way is that babysitting, but i see where ur coming from if its alllllll he talks about 😰 (edit: emphasis on all)
@Whoisthatns as someone whos been teaching himself social skills due to a mental disability. You are the worst, let them talk about things they like and listen, other ways nobody will do the same for you and most will as you say "get out of there!"
There’s this group of girls at my school who are always saying that men who use sunscreen are an ‘ick’. We live in New Zealand, one of the biggest causes of death is skin cancer. One of them lived in Aussie until last year, which is also known for burning weather.
I'm a Gen Z college student, and I can assure you that most of these are just what you see on social media. You won't see these kinds of people in real day to day life. I have been on social media for a while now. At this point, you gotta not take social media too seriously. It's all algorithm. Are there serious issues? Yes. Are some members of our generation toxic? Yeah. But remember, it's all an algorithm on social media. It is ALL about engagements. Especially on Tik Toks and Instagram Reels. That's is where all the toxic wild shit stuff are residing in. TH-cam is more chill. In reality, day to day life, we are pretty cool people. Very likely, you socialize outside of media platforms. You are not going to be seeing these "cringe" media. Though you said you are a "gen z kid" I'm assuming teenage at most. So it's kind of a weird phase. But I can assure you, social media is not a representation of reality. Every day people are pretty chill regardless of whatever generation they are part of.
Off topic but I love the background posters of Britney and Halloween plus I saw you had the BS' Circus perfume. ICONIC. And i've also noticed that you almost always reference Spongebob which i find funny since it's my favorite animated show.
This is so relatable as guy. Because I literally can't do anything without being called gay by men or women. The ickl-ist is also something guys do to with their male friends, it's sooo AnOOyING.
It occurred to me the other day that there's no "masculine" way to push a shopping cart. Is it gay to get groceries? Should I be hunting meat in a back alley? I know it's ridiculous, but the intrusive thoughts are there
Don’t bother worrying about stupid stuff like that. What sane person has that kind of miserable and negative mindset that they have to pick people apart and look into the littles tiniest things people do and rate them on a scale of how desirable you are when you are doing everyday activities? Sure there are big things that everyone thinks are turn offs (and rightfully so) but you’re absolutely a bored and miserable person if you start picking apart and ranking how desirable someone is based off how they put on their socks. Don’t feel hurt or offended with what they’re saying, you’d be miserable being in a relationship with people like this because the deeper root to their misery is that they’re selfish egotistical idiots. It’s extremely selfish to basically constantly be thinking that your partner or the people around you have to always be doing things in a way that YOU find is desirable, and if they don’t then you belittle them and think they’re below you. The world does not revolve around you.
when i was a teenager "that's gay" or some variant was a thing people said but honestly these days it seems like it's even a more negative thing, the thing is i think the girls that are perpetuating this behaviour of what's masculine or "gay" are helping the toxic masculinity movement grow at an exceptional rate. One thing i have noticed is that no matter if you are gay, straight, bi. asexual, if you are a guy that makes music they will say you are gay regardless, even the most "masculine" rappers have a slew of gay allegations against them, like they can be convicted or SA against women and still people are saying "he's gay" as if they don't know how homosexuality works lol
as someone who has HAD a septic injury, seeing someone call it an ick just hurts my soul. your not the one with you infection crawling up your leg to your heart. your not the one who could DIE. so stop calling it an ick 8:38
The dude that said women need to be mute is going to age terribly, you can totally tell. I'm in my 40's and after seeing it happen to so many guys it's easy to see it coming. It's gonna be gnarly. He's in for some rude awakenings in the future.
@Gambit771 yeah there are some very narcissistic and delusional ppl out there of both sexes. And in general men tend to become more attractive with age and experience/skills/provider abilities. This is somewhat a disadvantage for younger guys...but younger guys have things that older guys don't always retain...this happens with women also just a bit different. Women tend to be more "valued"when they are young, where as men tend to gain "value" as they age....not all of course. They have created division between men and women on a scale I have not seen in western culture since medieval times. They would rather us hate each other and not have future generations of our own ancestral lines. Why everyone else but Europeans are recognized as having their own ethnic and culture is ...well disgusting and bigoted.
I saw one where a girl broke up with her boyfriend because they got into a car accident and the way it made his body flail gave her the ick. I hate to admit I laughed at that one
This happened to me. A car hit me as a pedestrian over the limit and I spent more than half year, had to learn how to walk and had iron in my leg and arms, making me unable to do sports. My gf started to get distant whenever I started having health problems because of this and I was psyopped into not caring about it and just needing to man up. Fast forward now we have broken up and my health is at its worse for 5 years of not caring about bad symptoms. I got like 5 more illnesses because of this. Im just stupid and lost all my confidence in myself. feel like shit most days:(
One guy made a post a while back saying along the lines that, "The only thing icks have done is made it negative for people to be human beings and their genuine selves," which I agree. The one and only time I could ever take an ick seriously is if it involves a genuine red flag such as maliciously mistreating friendly restaurant workers.
Social media is a platform for braggarts and bullies. People are either patting themselves on the back or belittling others. It's users are narcissistic and are seeking instant validation for their mundane lives.
Crazy enough, I had a friend who said that a ick for them in people is how they close and open their eyes... and this was when tiktok was still musica.ly
i’m also gen z but i had no idea what an ick was until this video. come to find out it’s just a immature pet peeve. one of my friends often says ick to ppl, including me, but i had no idea what it was lol
I feel so disconnected from my own generation oh my god. The more I learn about the things gen z is doing the more it makes me so confused.. I don’t know if it’s because I don’t live in a very populated area and was around older generations in my younger years more or if I’ve just stayed off certain social medias… but seriously what are these people doing
I’m an older gen alpha and I just consider myself a gen z at this point cuz no one talks about them… except this woman Like I get icks too but like it’s usually just them being corny/cringe (in terms of personality) so like 😭😭
They’ll never learn to be content with their lives or others. Nothing will ever be enough for them since their emotional intelligence is still underdeveloped. Life will pass them by, and the emotionally mature will too.
Not having TikTok makes me feel like I live in a different reality sometimes
The real world is a different reality, man 💀💀💀
These people gotta go touch grass or something, damn
You put my feelings into words exactly. It really is like peering into a window that leads to an alternate dimension.
@@MorbidMaximus666 Agreed! But the fact that such a large % of Gen Z is on TikTok makes _me_ feel disconnected from "reality".
I've given up trying to ask for explanations when some of my friends reference certain videos or use very specific vocabulary that's predominant in those online spaces. For example, out of nowhere I started to hear words and jokes related to the looksmaxing community. Then I realized it was due to its popularization on TikTok.
I remember studying Baudrillard's "hyperreality" concept in my philosophy class and this is exactly what it feels like; a shared reality that feels more real than that based on tangible people and things.
It’s almost like they’re all, like.. Playing a game together as if it’s an inside joke??? They all just go with the same “rules” or whatever when the majority of people.. Don’t do any of that. They’ve created this little fantasy community world together that doesn’t exist outside of tiktok/their social circles. I feel elderly when my friends bring up new “slang” (which, let’s get real, it’s just shortening down phrases until it becomes incomprehensible because I guess people either don’t have the brain capacity to type normal sentences, or they’re just brutally lazy.) I’m always like hUH?????
Havent used social media since 2018, never looked back.
I saw this girl on tiktok leaving her bf because he got jumped by 5 people and couldn't defend himself 💀
Yet that shouldn't be a reason to " dump " someone, nor is that fair anyway ... like why are people deciding to jump people anyway, it is childish and sometimes dangerous. I'll tell you now, if I got jumped, I wouldn't be able to defend myself, guess I am a walking ick !! 😂
Now i'm not trying to argue or have a dispute with you in anyway, this is a question everyone should think about :
Why should someone have to live in fear, feel as if they're being followed and have to live with that thought of " what if i'm jumped " in the back of their head...
I bet if she got jumped by 5 women she would lose too.
@@s1_audsbt
I saw that. I’m pretty sure it was actually fake?
She's done him a favour
It's a big fat ick when you're so vigilant to find negative things within people or their lives that you have to make a whole ass list based on how inherently negative you are
@ville__the literal only video you have posted is you STEPPING on a pride flag cause you couldn’t accept that not all people are like you like that is one of the biggest Ickes someone can have and the fact that you’re 30+ is just😐
@ville__ok
THIS! One guy made a post a while back saying along the lines that, "The only thing icks have done is made it negative for people to be human beings and their genuine selves," which I agree. The one and only time I could ever take an ick seriously is if it involves a genuine red flag such as maliciously mistreating friendly restaurant workers.
@ville__sorry but asperger??? that term was banned bc it was invented by a nazi who experimented autism and discovered autism just to kill it and negsted in society, i will never watch your content you are a troll
@ville__people who randomly jump in on comments to say something about themselves that has nothing to do with the comment OR the video? It's an ick.
my icks
- he can't photosynthesize thru kleptoplasty
- he doesnt live in the ocean
- he isnt a leaf sheep sea slug
W slug
What about the sea bunny slug?
@@Ravenbloom57868 very cute. love them. but they cannot photosynthesize
STOP- this funny
Cutest slug out there honestly
“If he celebrates his birthday.”
What’s she really saying is “I don’t want to celebrate his birthday and be expected to do anything or get anything for him. His birthday threatens to make a whole day about him instead of me, and this relationship is only for and about me.”
Run…run far away from that vampire.
I had a friend like that, had an attitude about celebrating birthdays.
bUt mE oMg, hOw dArE you.
I agree
Ey! That’s an insult to vampires. 😂
Nailed it.
That’s one thing I LOVE about social media. These narcissistic, self-obsessed weirdos that make abusive and terrible partners WILLINGLY out themselves.
Exactly.
@@Meow4B what did he say and how'd you get him to?
All it does is make normal people realize they shouldn't be within a thousand miles of them.
Another worst type of person is one who say "Don't judge me." and yet they're judgmental to others... Especially is that person actually has hobbies compared to them which is literally just doomscrolling on every social media known to man.
Unfortunately it doesn't stop there.. they also indoctrinate younger people into becoming like them..
My ex yelled at me once for never doing anything romantic. The reason is that every romantic thing I did, she called it corny. So I listed all the things she told me were corny and asked her what she wanted me to do. She said come up with something. So I started singing to her (Foreign Tongues Roniit Reimagination by Crywolf; amazing song, would recommend) and she laughed at me. Later that night I cried alone in the bathroom because I didn't know what to do. She broke up with me the next day because she was listening through the door and heard me crying.
Fucking brutal man
It must have hurt, but you didn’t deserve her. It’s for the better.
You dodged a bullet, but you should’ve dumped her a while ago before she dumped you. She wasn’t into you. If she really wanted you she’d respond to romance. Find a girl who actually likes you.
At that point I would just give up and leave
@@DisposableSupervillainHenchman I should have, but she had me so convinced that I wasn't good enough to get someone else. I was chubby back then and I've never been particularly good looking since physical abuse by my mother left me noticeably disfigured. So my confidence was really low. Always has been. So I stayed thinking I didn't deserve better.
This is why I don’t like people, but at the same time, there are amazing people out there. Also, your voice reminds me of Merida from Brave, love it.
The range of humans is crazy wide. So good people but also others so bad.
The only red flags everyone in a relationship needs to here is this: Not respecting personal boundaries and manipulative behaviors
Can't do that if you're a guy apparently.
also not being loyal/committed, and lack of trust
* hear lol
Also taking part in financial pyramids
The basic definition of narcissism
These women and the men who call everything under the sun “gay” should just be put together
Frr
@ville__you don't even have any videos babe.
@ville__ “I MAKE BETTER CONTENT “ is cyber bullying ?? Do you know what those words mean???
@@Bunzybunnyou’re replying to a robot dummy
And left on an island with no food or water
The hospital one made me so enraged. Wanna know what I did when my husband got out of emergency cancer surgery? I helped him get his pain medication, helped him get up the stairs to bed, & got him some snacks & Vernor's for his stomach due to the anesthesia. Heaven forbid I want the person I'm in love with to not be in pain.
I'm so sorry you and your husband had to go through that 💔
@sarahaque1382 Thank you. Luckily it was caught early & even though it was testicular cancer it was the non aggressive form. His chances of it coming back are pretty slim & we're over a year of nothing so far.
I should have abandon my guy at the hospital....
@@kristien2010I lost my mom to colon cancer last year. Didn’t leave her side til the very end. I wish you and your husband a long and healthy rest of your lives!
@Elmolovesyou666 I'm terribly sorry for your loss. I'm sure she appreciated not being alone. And thank you very much. So far the prognosis is very good.
this is why i feel bad for this generation, so glad my circle of friends aren’t like this but i know a lot of people who are. society is so shit today and I’m honestly disappointed with these people, especially since we’re around the same age. people need to grow up and stop thinking the world revolves around them
ok
Get ready for gen a it is going to be so much worse
Same bro, I am glad I managed to build a good friend group with mature and genuine people, I see people around the 20s like me or even older talking so much shit that I wonder if there's any future to society
My biggest ick: People who call normal acts (Like using medicine, dressing nice for someone they appreciate, etc.) as "Icks".
THIS RIGHT HERE!!!! ^^
valid ick , you have my respect
Yes. Anyone who thinks they are in a position to make that call are ick.
Yea
Ok how do you manage to have the best opinion on this comment section, teach me your ways.
I have things I avoid in a partner, but it is very basic stuff. Like abuse me, or not respecting my bodily autonomy... I'm not going to break up with my fiance for drinking his favorite drink, enjoying something he loves, or following traffic laws... This "Ick" thing is really messed up.
Imagine an ick being a man putting on sun protection. Skin cancer is "manly as hell guys!!!" 😂
You have litterally basic expectations of a decent person.
@ville__ 🗣🗣🗣 NOBODY CARES🗣🗣🗣
@ville__ get a hobby ‼️🫵
@ville__‼️‼️‼️‼️YOU’RE ONLY VIDEO IS ABOUT STEPPING ON A PRIDE FLAG 🗣️
This is weirdest way people admit they hate the opposite sex/wanna be single I've ever seen.
I know! 😂 Like it's fine to say you enjoy being single or that you're gay or whatever. Why are people in relationships with people they can't stand being around? Absolutely bizarre.
It's not weird that people want to be single but hating the other gender is weird unless it's a trauma response then it's understandable but never okay
@@faithpearlgenied-a5517 Why? To extract money and resources from that person.
To be fair, that guy said, “when a girl goes to the bathroom in front of him” didn’t say anything about just using the bathroom.
@@SRMoore1178facts
the bar is so high angels cant even see it when they fly the highest they can.
I'm old enough to remember when the difference between trolling on the internet and being stupid was easy to discern. Nowadays I can't really tell.
omfg real
Same here
Somehow
Despite being almost 16
I'm old enough too?
I miss how the internet used to be mostly fun and exciting, before the advent and subsequent adoption of portable capacitive touch screen computers by the masses destroyed as much of the fun and excitement as possible.
Looking back, Chad Warden really was ABAP
I think the two combined.
its the era of hyper narcissistic teens who thinks everything revolves around them. they evolved into feeling entitled.
👏🏽👏🏽💯
Nah, there have ALWAYS been people like that.
A LOT of cults and religions encourage this sort of behavior as well as there are cultures and sub cultures who encourage this.
This isn't new.
Marriage just used to be much more forced and divorce non-existent.
*And murder a LOT more viable.*
@@Gingersnaps_the_pumpkin_kitty you missed the point. yes they exist even before and nobody said they didnt.
what im trying to say is now its becoming the norm for them to be narcissistic.
That's not evolved, that's devolved.
@@esfsddfsafsasgsdfgsdfg1728 you used to be able to literally own people.
You also used to be able to get your wife committed and sterilized for not wanting to sleep with you.
*Pedophilia used to not only be legal but systematically enforced via arranged marriages and sexist pseudoscientific religiously back organizations like the Catholic Church.*
****We are NOT the most narcissistic/abusive generation.****
*None of this is new, go and actually READ the shit grown adults in positions of power used to ACTUALLY say unironically.*
*Particularly that of wealthy powerful men, royalty or otherwise.*
I'm not missing the point, you just don't understand how progress works or how history has played out.
I guarantee you, far more vile has not only been spoken BUT legal.
i love how people’s “icks” are just people’s pet peeves but they’re just ultra sensitive
Basically just little things that annoy them.
@@vanillapinkfluff3477 right
@@vanillapinkfluff3477 WHO TF sees someone putting on sun lotion as a "little thing that annoys them", ick or whatever, or their partner recovering from sepsis and being disabled temporarily?
@@SStupendousnarcissists….. asholes…. They travel in packs I hear
Not even pet peeves it’s just people being ridiculous. How can seeing your husband recovering from sepsis be something that bothers anyone?! I feel so bad for her spouse, like does she even love him?!
Your accent makes this a 1000 times better 😭
I'm subscribing right away
6:22 it’s so sad because he looks so happy and the way he looks at the camera and smiles like “awe babe, you don’t have to film me! i enjoy helping!” and in the corner “new ick unlocked”. Girl i hope he breaks up with you for that, like you must hate your boyfriend to post that 🙄
Its so horribly disrespectful, I rlly hope he finds someone better :(
I really really really hope half of this "icks" are satire... Because... No wonder why boys hate on us😭... These womens are making the men more insecure and self conscious
Exactly! I beg my husband to help me fold laundry.
Why are you with this guy if you seem to genuinely dislike something as mundanely helpful as folding clothes?
This lady is drifting further from reality, I swear.
I feel bad for that man. My heart would’ve have glowed when he smiled like that. He deserves someone better than that brainrotted self-obsessed narcissist
It’s just…. Sad. Society has made everyone so insecure of themselves and developing anxiety. Let it be wearing crocs at a salon to walking out a store with 8 bags of groceries. Seriously, what are the point of icks? If it’s to make people self conscious then it’s working! I’d happily walk out of Starbucks with my favorite drink, not giving a shit what people think!
People are losing their mind. Apparently being human is cringe and an ick 🤷🏻♀️
tbh i thought of icks were small red flags that tend to be bigger problems later down the line. instead it's stupid shit like.... a man drinking his fav drink????? tf??
Nobody cares 😑@ville__
@ville__ this is a weird comment
@ville__ because your reply have nothing to do with the comment. If your so confident with the quality of your videos make a community post. I'm sorry that your Obviously suffering from a disability but that dosent mean that you should be commenting on other people videos. It takes away from the quality of the video and discussion around it. I hope that you grow to learn that this behavior is unneeded. And have a good day.❤️
These icks don't affect me because I know their stupid
I use “ick” when I see someone being discriminatory, not when someone uses the wrong hair spray. Idk if it’s just me but I think mine makes more sense 🔥🔥
Racism is yucky.
REAL
Frr
WORD! 🔥
EXACTLY. As a gen Z I would totally ick if someone was being discriminatory, like EW. That could be racism, sexism or anything ya know. So exactly, wrong hair spray don’t matter lol
I’d be horrified if my SO gave up their rights willingly! How low must your self worth be! Hayley you really brighten my day!!!! 😊
I feel like “ick” should be a brief moment of hilarious cringe between partners, not a reason to no be with someone. For example, my partner is still learning to dance (we are latino and bro hasn’t developed hips to save his life). He finds it cringe, I find it funny, and we laugh about it. If people aren’t allowed to be imperfect, no one will have a partner ever. While phones aren’t the only issue, social media has ruined our perception of humanity.
fr tho
seriously. what human, what human being at all on Earth is perfection? and what is the base definition of perfection? there is none.
we are all shaped by our life experiences and the other people we surround ourselves with. we all have different DNA, we all have different preferences and make different choices.
social media has made people shallow, and deeply insecure and they mistake that insecurity as confidence.
youtube is the only social media I use now. I don’t use tiktok or twitter where the worst of it all lives - once you remove yourself from those things, you live your own life and you see these kinds of things like beauty standards and “icks” and just laugh at the absurdity and shallowness of it all.
@ville__ Oh god a fucking TH-cam police bot.
Most of these shouldn’t even be noticed, like the guy using the shopping basket. Why would you even have an opinion about that? It’s a shopping basket.
Eh, I see ick as a momentary reaction you should reflect on.
Either you have a bad bias you need to deconstruct OR your picking up on something and should try recognize to what.
If someone walks up to you and asks what your biggest ick is, say “going up to people and asking weird personal questions for clout”. Hopefully they’ll stop bothering you.
or „When someone decides to annoy random people for internet clicks“
debatably correct (for those tik tok/yt short interview videos)@ville__
Or i will ignore their question and just walk off like an NPC
Oh my gosh there is a clip of someone doing this (going up to strangers and asking them what they find annoying) and no joke a woman responded, “when people go up to me and ask me weird personal questions when I’m just trying to go to the bathroom” and then she glared at him with daggers in her eyes and it’s the funniest things I’ve ever seen because dude didn’t even pick up on the fact that she was talking about him 😂
alternative option: scream as loudly as you can
The 'boyfriend hurt' thing actually happened to me. My GF came home and I was on the bathroom floor. I told her I really needed her to call the hospital. She told me to man up. She reluctantly took me to the hospital, then left for a night class. She came back later to the hospital as I was getting wheeled into emergency appendicitis surgery.
That sucks. I could never. Me and My significant other was in an accident back in 2021ish, almost everyday I went to the Hospital, while he was recovering.
I felt so bad and guilty, he got hurt the most.
Don't you mean your EX GF?
@@6feetoveryou yep ex this was years ago
I'm gonna throw my two cents in, but if a girl was in the same situation, she would get help immediately
@@devolution-wt9ou yep
I have never watched a video from a youtube comment channel where the creator used their outdoor voice the entire time. Around the fourth time it cut back to you yelling, I just lost it🤣. Keep up the good work.
That poor guy folding the laundry thinking he's making her happy. Poor guy. I would love that. 😢
ikr! I wouldn't let a guy like that go EVER
Ueuriririeoeodoeeoeoe
he looked so sweet and happy while she was disgusted 😭
Same tbh. Between executive dysfunction and chronic pain that is unpredictable--that would be helpful. Most of the time my stuff is just in a bin and I pull stuff out to wear. Occassionally I fold or hang stuff--but tbh the only organized things are cloth for my crafts, lmao.
that guy looks so happy and kind. i feel so sad
Being turned off by someone trying to avoid causing a potentially fatal car accident and doing the bare minimum of looking out for the wellbeing of themselves and others on the road is absolutely wild.
I wonder how many people fail to communicate with other road users *on purpose*
Ikr? Girl if you want a man who doesn't know how to drive you can just say so
@HAMASISLIVEONTH-cam-ib1ol Girl what
Jokes on you being a decent human being is probably an ick they just dont wanna say it
@@ALUCARDTWILLIGHTexactly. When are men gonna wake up and realise they’re simply attracted to evilness. It’s so obvious, but dudes can’t think outside their little heads 😂
Every single thing on TikTok can never stay reasonable. It always, ALWAYS has to go to the extreme.
That's the exact problem! Trends like this can be funny and relatable, but at some point, you're trying too hard, and it becomes not funny anymore.
yeah I don’t see how people use it and let their children ffs use it. I used to when it came out, and gave it up. it ruins your attention span, makes you feel like shit, and is just annoying to no end. I only now use it to make cute videos of my dog and post nice videos as like a memory catalog, but I’ll never ever scroll on it again.
even youtube shorts is better.
@ville__ You have one video of you acting like a literal child.
@@Gore-Labsit's a bot. It's replying to pretty much every comment it can and on several videos. Same account too. Just report it for spam and ignore it.
I miss Vine, it just seemed light and fun. There's some good activism and vigilante stuff done on Tik Tok but also a lot of stupid and frightening stuff. I stay away from it for the most part.
Not one, but TWO amazing Australian commentary channels?!
Gen Z needs to get over their protagonist mentality, cuz y’all don’t know what ‘ick’ even is. I’ve been with my wife for 19 years and at this point there is little we haven’t put each other through.
When my wife went into labor with our son, she vomited all over me as I was helping her out of the car at the hospital. I finished getting her inside, wiped off best I could in a bathroom, and stuck around to be my child be born.
Once I had a horrific stomach flu and literally shit the bed with both of us in it. She wasn’t even mad, rather she was concerned that I had gotten sick enough that could even happen.
Long story short, if you love someone then you learn to deal with the occasional unpleasantness. Or you can just die alone.
Whichever 🤷♂️
Wow, sounds like an amazing marriage!
Bruh I cannot even imagine not being concerned if my partner was ill enough to lose their bowels. I'd be begging him to let me take him to the ER/urgent care lmao
based
Facts! You said it perfectly 👌
Facts. Also it’s not all gen z (as evident through the creator of this video).
It's narcissism, plain and simple.
This. So true.
Sounds about right
Making huge, detailed “ick lists” as if one is perfect and above it is pretty narcissistic
Yup
Noooooo wayyyyyyyyyyy 😅
That is simply Women’s nature.
The story literally repeats itself. "Why am I lonely and not in a relationship?" - Everyone who makes an ick list
Exactly. I understand having some deal breakers and turn offs but a lot of these "icks" are some ridiculous, judgemental bs that social media and cringe culture has normalized.
@@shanenanigans27 Yeah.
It's a vicious cycle. We only see the most shallow, hyper sensationalist people on shit platforms like Tiktok because only they post there, because that's what gets clout. I wouldn't be surprised if most of them were so shallow and forgetful that they forget these icks, or theyd change their mind if they saw the right guy exhibiting the "ick" behavior.
I really like how u have vids of both ladies and dudes sharing their insane icks really nice to see the whole spectrum
"When he has a birthday" And is mofo gon just spawn without a birthday? 💀
Friend: "Oh yeah, sorry I forgot to ask, when's your birthday? Mine's coming up soon"
...
Boyfriend: "Oh sorry I don't have one, it's an ick to my girlfriend"
@@itsmesalami 💀
She wants a man who can spontaneously generate, like a fruit fly.
"when were u born" idk i just appeared
Bet she'll go "Ew, cringe" if she sees his driver's license because it has his birthday on it lmao
The girl that said “when a man gets hurt and instead of playing it cool he is actually hurt” made my blood boil bc one time at my school two boys were playing soccer and one knocked the air out of the other HE PASSED OUT HOW IS HE SUPPOSED TO “PLAY IT COOL” IF HES BEING SENT TO THE OFFICE AND BLACKED OUT?!
A UFC fighter had his girlfriend (who was also a UFC fighter) break up with him because she watched a match where he was getting his face wailed on so he tapped out.
People do just be crazy sometimes.
@@bloodkip9462No way that was the reason she left. Those fists are legally weapons. Borderline the equivalent of being smashed in the face with a baseball bat
I walked for 2 hours on a broken foot after the girl I was with jumped on my back in a pool. Pretty sure I looked like the meme of that dude holding his breath xD
@@bloodkip9462She would rather see him die than watch him give up. She’s a disgusting human being.
Yeah she said the way he got be up wasn't manly enough."Take it like a fighter,like a man" @@simpleplan100687
As a guy I don't care if something I like is girly, I'm just living my life and I'm not hurting anybody, if any guys (or girls) read this, be yourselves, like what ya like and just enjoy yourselves
Life is hella short and can go south REAL fast REAL quick and suddenly. Love, someone who’s OCD returned.
and most girls actually like when a guy doesn't care, we all get to enjoy things together!
Hell yeah ❤
Spot on, be yourselves life is too short, have a nice day internet stranger ❤
Totally agree. As a woman, it doesn’t bother me if a guy has some quote-unquote “girly” hobbies, but it’s really irritating when a guy is overly concerned about *appearing* “masculine,” to the point of refusing to do stuff that he’s arbitrarily labelled as “girly.”
So yeah. Be yourself, enjoy what you enjoy. And don’t put other people down for their interests, even if they’re different from yours.
This channel was recommended by TH-cam and I love it. Subscribed immediately. This girl channels my inner rage so perfectly 💕
I don't want to live on this planet anymore
I’d be ok if the void takes me
@@rezcellent Don't kill yourself
Please let me leave this reality
Wake up guys, it's natural selection. Population control. Who even invented the terms: Gen Z, millennial, boomer, etc., etc.? Idk, maybe I'm being a little bit paranoid. You (I) gotta get back up and be much stronger than this. Be yourself and it'll eventually inspire others to be theirselves. Acknowledging we have a generational problem is one thing, but we cannot keep adding more salt to the already existing gaping wound. Stick to your goals and things will only come naturally.
this isnt the world there are so many good people in the actual world these ppl suck noone likes this insane behavior😭😭
My icks:
- They exist
- They are a multicellular organism
- They are made of atoms
- They breathe oxygen
Absolutely atrocious
Fr😞✋
Biggest icks 😒💅🤢😵😶😑😐
umm... you forgot its ick to drink water-
Oh, don't even get me STARTED on breathing oxygen! Especially if they breathe out carbon dioxide
I only have a few ‘Icks’
1.when people are rude to workers(at restaurants, at stores)
2.when people are rude/disrespectful to special education or disabled people
3.if you are cruel to animals
4.if you don’t clean up after yourself
-edit-
Let me clarify a few things
If an animal is attacking you it’s okay to defend yourself I mean the people who hurt a Defenseless animal
Also I mean when we are out and they are being messy ex: throwing trash in ground or if we are at a restaurant and you don’t semi clean up for the waiter (it’s not something that mandatory but that’s how I was raised so I will always do it)
Those are… *_reasonable._*
It is *acceptable*
Those are literally the most reasonable icks I have seen nowadays! Genuinely, THANK YOU!
Same
Hey man what if I see a spider bro that shit is getting squished
the misandry (dislike of men) in this generation is.. so sad and horrible
Misandry is valid
@@aleksandrac9335as an “ick”?
@@aleksandrac9335 No it isn't. Just like misoginy isn't.
@@aleksandrac9335you guys will never stop generalizing huh
@aleksandrac9335 not when ur also perpetuating misogny by saying men cant b emotional or do normal behaviors cs its "unmanly" 💀
13:30 girl with good relationship with her father is icky, but so is "fatherless behaviour" there is no winning
For real. It's such idiotic standards and it's stupid. Part of the reason why I have been detaching from social media such as TikTok, Instagram, etc.
It's not about that. It's about posting it on Instagram.
I don't think any outcome, or interaction really, with people who think the way the people in this video do can be considered win.
it was not about having good relationship with her father, it was psecifically mentioned that this is about using father as a props for views, likes and attention. And these boys that use "icks" and tiktok unironically despite being obviously over 16 years old, they need some life lesson, because they are bringing shame to men's population. These "icks" is andrew tate level of cr4p
YES, why is “fatherless” frowned upon? You think people can HELP that they don’t have a good relationship with their dad?? Jeez…
i dont get why they judge women for doing "masculine" things and men for doing "feminine" things?? let them do what they want.. 😨
Basically they dont like intelligent women
If a girl is masculine she is a pick me but if a man is feminine he is automatically gay which both could be true but sometimes it’s not like in 3rd grade I wore one pair of parachute pants and was called a pick me until 5th grade and I dated a guy who liked makeup and people thought we were just friends and asked if he was gay
Probably cuz ppl just assume you're apart of LGBT or something for absolutely no reason
FOR REAL
Agree !! ❤
I’m so confused by all of this
But the laundry one really gets me
Literally who is turned OFF when their partner does chores???
I have never heard anyone complain that their husband is too helpful around the house before??? that’s truly such an unhinged opinion I can’t even wrap my head around it
I completely agree. I think it must stem from a deep seeded insecurity that if he’s doing chores, he won’t need them for it, and they must feel like it’s one of the only things they offer or bring to the table in the relationship, so it triggers their abandonment issues or something when they aren’t being literally taken advantaged of in their relationship (but lots of people do what they were taught, so if they grew up in a house where their parents had this dynamic, they are more likely to see it as abnormal when their partner does something that their (possibly toxic) parents didn’t do, like contribute to household chores. If they grew up with a mom who did all the housework, and a father that “brought home the bacon” I can see how that would translate into them feeling threatened (aka ick) when a man displays traditionally feminine roles like housekeeping (But I don’t understand this mentality because I am so happy and thankful every single time my partner helps around the house! Even though I grew up with an absentee father and lived with my grandparents who had pretty traditional gender roles, I still understand the value of a partner that helps split the chores).
Apparently some women do. Had an actress here on TV saying she prevents her husband from doing chores because "it drops her eros". Massive controversy started, even one trad politician attempted to pounce in...
The only thing that annoyed me was he was folding clean laundry on the dirty living room carpet 🤣 but folding the laundry? Probably would have kept my mouth shut
Yet the irony is if that same man ask her to do his laundry for him she’d scream sexism.
@@gg8264 That means you’re the type of husband who needs a woman to speak up or else you’ll get nothing right 🤷🏻♀️ the guy in the video got it half right. I would have kept my mouth shut at that for sure. Probably rewashed the clothes 🤣
Lol i love aussie accents
The passion in your voice is undeniable, its like im constantly being yelled at
Thank you for calling out the nastiness of both men and women. You're a hero just like every genuine hard working man and woman.
My ick is when people say someone is "icky" just for living their life
I dont know, those tiktokers with those icks are the true walking ickers
fr!
One reasonable ick
my ick list:
saying "icky"
making dumbass icks
I agree with you.
Alternative title: Hayley speaking facts for 21 mins and 4 seconds
3 seconds
@@saraestherspiero5278 it’s 4 seconds
@@V3ruc4 3 seconds
Damn girl, you covered both bases thoroughly. I have unlocked.... a new favourite TH-camr.
Few years ago we fought for people help each others with household chores and now they say that’s ick? Wtf?!
If that ain't peak definition of "evolving backwards" idk what is.
Worst timeline
People were also fighting to end segregation. Now they want their own segregated spaces
TikTok. Everytime i try to scroll on tiktok i have to close the app. I, REALLY, wanna see what this is all about but.. i can't.
@@nerychristian yep
Some of these actually made me disgusted. These people dont want a partner they want a robot they can control and will do everything they say.
whoever sells those is going to make bank
"These people don't want a partner. They want an autonomous yet obedient sex robot"
You pretty much described the entire dating scene there.
"These people don't want a partner. They want an autonomous yet obedient sex robot"
You pretty much described the entire dating scene there.
That’s why I don’t like those Character AIs ONE bit
People no longer want to take the bad with the good. I've taken the bad with good with someone, but she broke up with me because I cried when my dog died!
Her loss your gain
I think you took too much bad
Sorry for your loss brother but happy for you now that leech is out of your life
You kind of dodged a bullet
BRO THAT IS NOT OKAY. BREAKING UP OVER SADNESS?
TF WERE YOU MEANT TO DO?
that woman was not a real thing. and yes i said THING.
My three icks are literally simple
1. An addict
2. A bully/rude gal or guy
3. A guy with zero manners.
That’s literally it for me. End of story
My boyfriend drinks his coffee black, recently I learned he also enjoys a macha frapuccino. The former is kinda odd as he prefers sweeter drinks and I'm the beer drinker in our household.
He also likes his clothes more orderly folded than I do. He once even reorganized my closet and desk for me. Not only did he set up my vanity for me, he even sat down with me and sorted everything into the drawers.
I love my man.
You deserve each other. *chef's kiss*
Aaww, that is so cute🥺❤️
That's really sweet
The whole man up stuff is so toxic.
No it isn't.
It can be but there is a point to it that women don't understand.
Women shouldn’t say it to men because it’s ridiculous, they don’t understand masculinity. Also, maybe it’s time we told them to “woman up”.
It’s only toxic cuz todays men are soft as fuck. Pathetic
@@Gambit771and you know all women in this planet and their understanding ?
@@BelinaBeliiDid he say that? It's true that most women don't understand what men mean by these words, same way men don't understand what women mean by certain words.
TURN SIGNALS BEING “FEMININE” IS THEEEEEE FUNNIEST THING IVE HEARD IN A SEC
REAL MEN get T-boned at intersections
"Crash your car at a crossing like a man or I'm leaving you" -some brainlet
Wearing seatbelts is apparently an "ick" (I fucking hate that childish term) too. Obviously these people have never seen real footage of the aftermath of a car accident, I'd rather not break most of the bones in my body flying out of a windshield thanks!
The masculine urge to not use your indicator is a really funny concept.
It should be the opposite, shouldn’t it? Not using a turn signal should be a red flag, because it shows that the person is inconsiderate of others.
A guy who prioritizes his image over the safety of those around him is my new ick, I guess.
Welcome to the world we voted for after years of putting rational men down and shaming everything about us.
Here's my list of icks!
1. Using the word "ick" unironically
Thank you for reading my list 😊❤️
Mine is: BE A DECENT LAW ABIDING HUMAN ... that's it
RIGHT??
At this point, being single feels like you're dodging bullets, like neo from matrix.
Facts
The loneliness can be overwhelming sometimes
Nah, you just need to date people that are more invested in real life than social media. There are great guys and gals out there.
@@giulioceresini1435 I always hear of these specimens called, "great gals" but I've yet to find one! Hopefully I will be lucky enough to see one some day, as well as Bigfoot!
@@G_Singh222better lonely than poisoned my guy, been lonely for... i think 8 years or more now, aint regretting nothin'
All these people deserve to be single
Facts
Aint nobody wanna date someone who nitpicks their every move 💀🤚
I swear to god if someone told me they got the “ick” because of something I did.. Yeah bro go ahead, leave. I don’t want you or your negativity lololol
What's insane to me is some of them were married. Like... Stop giving these people the time of day. Stop marrying the first person to come along y'all. It ain't worth it if this is what you end up with.
😭😭😭
Ugh the societal pressure that makes people think they’ve gotta get married by 25. “The garbage will do!” -said way too many spouses
@@MorbidMaximus666 Lmao I saw this exact same comment on some Twitter post. I mean you're not wrong but c'mon man.
It’s so sad to see rampant insecurity and lack of compassion in people being out on widely distributed display.
I’m so thankful that I did not grow up in these social environments.
sameeee
I liked this girl, but then she had the AUDACITY to say that girls poop, and well we all know thats just not true.
🤣 good video, worth a sub for sure. Also the use of that clip of gohan trying not to lose it was *chefs kiss* lol
As a Gen Z I don't know what is wrong with these people.
Social media, usually Twitter & TikTok taught them that every opinion that pops up in their brain was correct and should be shared with the world.
@@Linklex7 that's why I don't use Tiktok.
They weren't raised in stable environments. There is nothing new under the sun. We just proclaim our chaos for the world to see these days.
My kids are gen Z. Most of their friends are private.
I had TikTok for awhile, I’m 28. Deleted that shit after a few months. Legit thought I was losing my mind. I swear.
@@naomivought9317 28 isnt gen z
And now I know why people can't drive. Thanks TikTok for ruining the road. I never knew people not using blinkers and smashing into other cars at 60 mph was just them trying to avoid "icks" May they rest in peace.
0:23 "114. Don't be affected by the wind"
Guys, I have transcended my mortal existence and now thrive as an ethereal entity with the Gods themselves
Better not be named John
I saw "Don't be polite"
"Don't have fun with your child"
"Don't sleep on the airplane"
"Don't go to the gym"
"Don't celebrate your birthday"
"Don't walk up steps"
"Dont ask for consent"
"Aight, I'm sorry. I shall now nail my own feet on the ground when there's a goddamn typhoon."
"I'm sorry ma'am. I will abuse my kids for you."
It's kind of like when women call every guy, they're not attracted to a "creep" or "creepy." Like they must not know what creepy means
Or like when men call women they don’t like ugly or fatherless
My ick is people who have icks unironically. And my ick is people who hate on people who are just being human beings.
As a woman married to a man that actually helps around the house...MARRY HIM OR SOMEONE ELSE WILL! Thats not an ick! Do you know how many guys I've met that refused to do "women's work"? Like they don't dirty the same towels, dishes, and floors I do?!?! WTF!
I was reared by a man who did women's work and men's work in equal measure.. that is, he did what needed doing and so does my mother with both inside and outside work. So I grew up believing men just do housework when it needs doing. BOY WAS I WRONG. If you meet a nice man who doesn't expect you to be his mommy and his naughty nurse and his sexy maid... marry him!!
Probably as many women I know who refuse to do yardwork/repairs. Or just suck at them, and then a guy has to come in and repair the damage.
@@diskonnekt1313 you compare a fckn everyday cleaning dishes, room, clothes yada-yada to let's be honest a once in a while work, what many man actually can't do either cuz not everyone born a fckn Mario or Master Felix!.. Or had a dad. And yes, a guy will come and fix it sooner, but it will be someone who literally earns money from it and knows how to do it quickly and without problems.
A lot of these icks are just being mysoginistic.
@@diskonnekt1313genuinely hilarious for me to read this because i grew up in a household where my dad was a musician and couldn’t do jack related to that, meanwhile my mom grew up on a farm and did literally all the household cleaning, weeding, cooking, laundry, AND the repairs, balancing that with being a nurse from 8am to 5pm. my dad mostly cuts the grass when it comes to household work.
but nah. it’s the women who have to be cleaned up after.
was waiting for the bus and overheard a girl say to her friend:
"my ick was that he talked all nerdy with his friends." i almost lost my shit 😭 im still absolutely flabbergasted?!??
If he’s nerdy then HE’S COOL 😭😭😭 like bro is smart and I could listen to that for an hour
Naw I feel her. I’m outta there FAST 💨
@@mintmangosyes that’s fine but if you start talking about Star Wars and video games I’m out because I’m not a babysitter okayyyy 😬
@@Whoisthatns god forbid a guy like something enough to tell the person he likes about it 💀 in no way is that babysitting,
but i see where ur coming from if its alllllll he talks about 😰
(edit: emphasis on all)
@Whoisthatns as someone whos been teaching himself social skills due to a mental disability. You are the worst, let them talk about things they like and listen, other ways nobody will do the same for you and most will as you say "get out of there!"
I love how we went from be your best unique self, to levels of basic so dense that black holes get jealous of its gravity.
There’s this group of girls at my school who are always saying that men who use sunscreen are an ‘ick’. We live in New Zealand, one of the biggest causes of death is skin cancer. One of them lived in Aussie until last year, which is also known for burning weather.
They are not icks, they are gags
Now that shits dumb, I know being an proud Aussie
Raggy naggy
Social media absolutely ruined society
As an gen Z kid, I don’t even know why they do this
I'm a Gen Z college student, and I can assure you that most of these are just what you see on social media. You won't see these kinds of people in real day to day life.
I have been on social media for a while now. At this point, you gotta not take social media too seriously. It's all algorithm. Are there serious issues? Yes. Are some members of our generation toxic? Yeah.
But remember, it's all an algorithm on social media. It is ALL about engagements. Especially on Tik Toks and Instagram Reels. That's is where all the toxic wild shit stuff are residing in.
TH-cam is more chill.
In reality, day to day life, we are pretty cool people. Very likely, you socialize outside of media platforms. You are not going to be seeing these "cringe" media. Though you said you are a "gen z kid" I'm assuming teenage at most. So it's kind of a weird phase.
But I can assure you, social media is not a representation of reality. Every day people are pretty chill regardless of whatever generation they are part of.
@@rosa3299 Shorts on YT and the comments below them are a nightmare
@@gryficowa oh yeah, I try to avoid those
what even are these people anymore seriously
yes this is trueee@@rosa3299
Off topic but I love the background posters of Britney and Halloween plus I saw you had the BS' Circus perfume. ICONIC. And i've also noticed that you almost always reference Spongebob which i find funny since it's my favorite animated show.
This is so relatable as guy. Because I literally can't do anything without being called gay by men or women. The ickl-ist is also something guys do to with their male friends, it's sooo AnOOyING.
As a person with ASD, I have advice: Do what you want, they will laugh because they are stupid
It occurred to me the other day that there's no "masculine" way to push a shopping cart. Is it gay to get groceries? Should I be hunting meat in a back alley? I know it's ridiculous, but the intrusive thoughts are there
I'm sorry, your generation has issues. But you don't. Ignore them.
Don’t bother worrying about stupid stuff like that. What sane person has that kind of miserable and negative mindset that they have to pick people apart and look into the littles tiniest things people do and rate them on a scale of how desirable you are when you are doing everyday activities?
Sure there are big things that everyone thinks are turn offs (and rightfully so) but you’re absolutely a bored and miserable person if you start picking apart and ranking how desirable someone is based off how they put on their socks. Don’t feel hurt or offended with what they’re saying, you’d be miserable being in a relationship with people like this because the deeper root to their misery is that they’re selfish egotistical idiots. It’s extremely selfish to basically constantly be thinking that your partner or the people around you have to always be doing things in a way that YOU find is desirable, and if they don’t then you belittle them and think they’re below you. The world does not revolve around you.
when i was a teenager "that's gay" or some variant was a thing people said but honestly these days it seems like it's even a more negative thing, the thing is i think the girls that are perpetuating this behaviour of what's masculine or "gay" are helping the toxic masculinity movement grow at an exceptional rate. One thing i have noticed is that no matter if you are gay, straight, bi. asexual, if you are a guy that makes music they will say you are gay regardless, even the most "masculine" rappers have a slew of gay allegations against them, like they can be convicted or SA against women and still people are saying "he's gay" as if they don't know how homosexuality works lol
as someone who has HAD a septic injury, seeing someone call it an ick just hurts my soul. your not the one with you infection crawling up your leg to your heart. your not the one who could DIE. so stop calling it an ick 8:38
i legit saw a girl posting "new ick unlocked" to a guy WALKING
☠️
Omw posting a man sitting and breathing and put the caption "new ick unlocked" 😍😍😍
What is he supposed to do? FLOAT? RUN? CRAWL? SWIM IN THE AIR? 💀
Valid reason! Men arent supposed to WALK!, theyre supposed to speedily climb across the wall Iike a crested gecko!
Those are ironic probably
I love this video! I went to church today with you and that sermon was fire...
The dude that said women need to be mute is going to age terribly, you can totally tell. I'm in my 40's and after seeing it happen to so many guys it's easy to see it coming. It's gonna be gnarly. He's in for some rude awakenings in the future.
Yeeep
Youth is wasted on the young...😂
What about all of the comments from the women in this video?
How will they age?
I think we can agree those women should've shut up.
@Gambit771 yeah there are some very narcissistic and delusional ppl out there of both sexes. And in general men tend to become more attractive with age and experience/skills/provider abilities. This is somewhat a disadvantage for younger guys...but younger guys have things that older guys don't always retain...this happens with women also just a bit different. Women tend to be more "valued"when they are young, where as men tend to gain "value" as they age....not all of course.
They have created division between men and women on a scale I have not seen in western culture since medieval times. They would rather us hate each other and not have future generations of our own ancestral lines. Why everyone else but Europeans are recognized as having their own ethnic and culture is ...well disgusting and bigoted.
@@Gambit771they will age with 30 cats alone
And I’m a woman who loves cats lmao
6:23 bro just looks so happy 😭 get this man someone new.
He also looks like Vinny from Vinesauce
The worst thing is, these people listen to and influence each other.
narcissists demand nothing but perfection in everyone else except for themselves
I saw one where a girl broke up with her boyfriend because they got into a car accident and the way it made his body flail gave her the ick.
I hate to admit I laughed at that one
😂😂😂
That made me laugh too
This happened to me. A car hit me as a pedestrian over the limit and I spent more than half year, had to learn how to walk and had iron in my leg and arms, making me unable to do sports. My gf started to get distant whenever I started having health problems because of this and I was psyopped into not caring about it and just needing to man up.
Fast forward now we have broken up and my health is at its worse for 5 years of not caring about bad symptoms. I got like 5 more illnesses because of this. Im just stupid and lost all my confidence in myself. feel like shit most days:(
@@tbkswagg I am so sorry :( I hope life gets better for you.
One guy made a post a while back saying along the lines that, "The only thing icks have done is made it negative for people to be human beings and their genuine selves," which I agree. The one and only time I could ever take an ick seriously is if it involves a genuine red flag such as maliciously mistreating friendly restaurant workers.
I think the only true “ick” I have is if my dogs don’t trust you
Social Media and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race.
Social media is a platform for braggarts and bullies. People are either patting themselves on the back or belittling others. It's users are narcissistic and are seeking instant validation for their mundane lives.
I'm a genz too, and i swear I don't/can't/couldn't or even wouldn't relate to theseeeee
9:35 girly birthday? Whats so girly about a day?
How stupid can people be.
Does the air smell particularly of vagina on February 6th?
My grandpa literally was born on May 6th, and he’s 87!!
“Whats a redflag/ick for a guy/girl?”
Them: “they breathe.”
If she breathes, she’s an ick.
Women - new fetish unlocked; dead people.
New ick unlocked; cold and smells bad.
???
I saw someone actually list that and another one being "walking"
@@corncobbob2326 no way, that’s crazy
Crazy enough, I had a friend who said that a ick for them in people is how they close and open their eyes... and this was when tiktok was still musica.ly
I thank the universe every day that my boyfriend and I aren't like these people.
The LORD created the UNIVERSE
I'm so sorry that the only people that replied to this comment are asses. Hope you have a good day ❤
@@Strappybubbles69 I'm used to it, happens a lot when I comment something. Have a good day yourself 😊
Not everyone has the same beliefs, as a Christian myself, MY BROTHER IN CHRIST GO OUTSIDE INTO THE GREEN EARTH GOD CREATED.
Bruh people chill
My ick is people who talk about icks
If you genuinely care about someone and are willing to put in time then you are worthy of a relationship
I’m Gen z and I don’t even really know what an ick is. We really need to fix gen z and gen alpha so bad or we are doomed.
Is this alpha? Not gen Z?
Forget about it, we're doomed. There's no going back to normalcy.
i’m also gen z but i had no idea what an ick was until this video. come to find out it’s just a immature pet peeve. one of my friends often says ick to ppl, including me, but i had no idea what it was lol
@@kathleenking47 This is definitely Gen Z
As a Millennial, I am sorry to say that the majority of Gen Z are too far gone. But, there may be some hope for Gen Alpha
Thanks for shouting at these people, this was cathartic.
I am impressed with how much energy you have to deal with these things!
You are literally so pretty I wish I was like you. Your shirt, hair, and just face overall are stunning!!!!!!!!!!
Fellas, is it gay to *N O T* BREAK THE LAW?!?
Apparently
yeah
obviously.
Honestly kinda, yeah 🙃
Haha. Gays and straights all break the law. One of my biggest icks is people NOT using the blinker.
I feel so disconnected from my own generation oh my god. The more I learn about the things gen z is doing the more it makes me so confused.. I don’t know if it’s because I don’t live in a very populated area and was around older generations in my younger years more or if I’ve just stayed off certain social medias… but seriously what are these people doing
Hii
Mood. I feel like I live on another plane of existence or something 💀
Same! I didn’t even hear about these “Icks” until today
I feel the same way. I actually live in my cousin's village so it's far away from my disease town 💀
I’m an older gen alpha and I just consider myself a gen z at this point cuz no one talks about them… except this woman
Like I get icks too but like it’s usually just them being corny/cringe (in terms of personality) so like 😭😭
They’ll never learn to be content with their lives or others. Nothing will ever be enough for them since their emotional intelligence is still underdeveloped. Life will pass them by, and the emotionally mature will too.
They don’t know how to deal with real life or grow up. They don’t know how to be independent so they go around insulting others.
The description caught my attention...the way she said however hit different.