@@Tarotbyp thanks so much for dropping by, I appreciate your comment. You have good self awareness, is this something you been working to improve may I ask? If so I’d love to know what you’ve been doing to combat boredom and/or embrace more me time?
@@Tarotbyp hey so what comes to mind, you mentioned when you are bored, I’m wondering at some point this person was interesting to you when you were dating. I recommend utilizing your open communication skills. If you go straight to the person who seemingly became boring over time, maybe record yourself expressing your feelings. I.e, “remember we use to go hiking together can we start doing that again I loved it”. As opposed to , the person is boring I don’t care to express myself but rather let the person go. Also journaling your emotions, just more-so in touch with your emotions and tone of delivery before addressing it to the person. I believe starting here is good. :)
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My disorganized attachment makes me rush into relationships and then I'm bored or quickly realize this person is not for me, so I want to rush out.
@@Tarotbyp thanks so much for dropping by, I appreciate your comment. You have good self awareness, is this something you been working to improve may I ask? If so I’d love to know what you’ve been doing to combat boredom and/or embrace more me time?
@soulfullyroyalnita yes very difficult attachment style but I'm aware of how it manifests in me. I would love some tips on how to work with it.
@@Tarotbyp hey so what comes to mind, you mentioned when you are bored, I’m wondering at some point this person was interesting to you when you were dating. I recommend utilizing your open communication skills. If you go straight to the person who seemingly became boring over time, maybe record yourself expressing your feelings. I.e, “remember we use to go hiking together can we start doing that again I loved it”. As opposed to , the person is boring I don’t care to express myself but rather let the person go. Also journaling your emotions, just more-so in touch with your emotions and tone of delivery before addressing it to the person. I believe starting here is good. :)