"It's all I have." I know exactly what happened. She didn't like his friends. She didn't like him going out without her. She didn't enjoy the things he did. Sitting at home, alone with her, was all he's allowed to do, so he games.
Dude, not only she had the nerve to shut down the console while he was playing, she was recording and confronting him. So yeah, go and try to say he was oppressive and restraining her by any means.
She entered camera in hand and filmed herself shutting the machine off. She wanted a reaction. Expected one. And recorded it when she got it with the intent to show others. She's an immature, selfish, disrespectful, awful human being. No excuse could explain away treating a life-partner this way.
In other words, a modern woman. These are the same women that complain they cant find a good man while simultaneously psychologically raping the dude she is with until he has nothing left
Not trying to start stuff but I was thinking if there was a male parallel. I think it’s a man telling a woman he’s fine with here selling pics of herself naked online just so he has the chance to sleep with her. Generally, woman want emotional attention and men want physical attention. Please people, bring counter points I like the mental stimulation.
@@xostler No, a man doing that is an idiot/simp/whatever-fancy-name-you-want. A more accurate parallel would be a man doing a prank on his gf for clout on his prank youtube channel. Also when did cheating get into the conversation?
I do not care if that man has a real problem with video games or not. Filming him while shutting off the console without warning shows her absolute lack of even the smallest bit of respect for this man. If your partner treats you with this level of disdain there is NOTHING left to save. Get out of this relationship ASAP, this is abuse.
while i fully agree, manipulators love keeping the people they want controlled and with them. some will go as far as self harm then threaten to call 911 to prevent the man from breaking up with them. its abuse, but the cops are stupid enough to believe the woman over the man anyways.
Also the vibe I got from him is that this isn't the first time she has done it because you don't go to that level of done without a build up of her either doing this before or her doing other crap like this
And that's the case, we have no context we don't know if this guy have addiction or if he's just chilling like normal people do. But from tweets a lot of women don't want their partner to chill
The "it's all I have" statement was filled with pain. We all don't know what is going on in this man's life but anyway with any empathy should have recognized there was pain there. So to me it was remarkable how many people so flippantly told him to get a life, get over it, man up; this is the new strain of people in the world, Soulless, self-enamored and self-delusional and all to quick to sneer at someone so they can (temporarily) feel better about themselves. That man deserved more from us who witnessed his pain.
Its easy to assume that people who are addicted to things are just lazy and don't have enough power. This goes for anything, video games, alcohol, fast food, etc. Im not glorifying addiction, i need to clarify. If you have an addiction try to break out of it and seek help What im advocating for is not call these people "pathetic" or whatever insult just because they're hooked to something. This guy may have survived trauma. He might be dealing with grief. Don't assume till you know the full story.
@@LegendWolfA We don't really have context to say it's addiction. What if all the guy did during his free time was golf, would we call that an addiction? What if he just watched football while drinking beer with his buddies? We might say it's not good behavior, but we wouldn't label it an addiction. Her statement of "It's all you do" isn't proof that her viewpoint is real. While we could question his statement of "it's all I have", we still have no context. Is he grieving because he lost someone close? Did he just get fired or encounter financial difficulty to where he doesn't feel like he can afford any other hobbies? Clearly, her taking this short video with no context, and not showing the rest of the conversation, shows a major lack of respect on her part. I'd be interested to see his explanation, but I bet that doesn't fit her narrative.
The “it’s all i have” could also be due to him spending all of his time and money on their relationship and general living prohibiting him from either spending money on other (more expensive “approved” hobbies) and like we all know, men between 23-30 struggle to find friends if they aren’t with their high school/college gang. This can also be attributed to having to work odd hours or high energy jobs leaving little for personal time which video games can cater too
“It’s all I have!” The draining sound of his voice after the girlfriend turns off his console is so… I can’t even describe it. That girl probs stole a lot from him mentally and physically. I hope he’s good now.
@@TheLikenessOfNormal I think I can answer that my friend. I would feel the same way as that guy too. I work 10 hours a day, work out to stay in shape and have a lot of debt to pay off. The only thing I have for entertainment is a pc with a tb full of games. I would react the same way if someone interrupts one of my few quiet moments I get to have. Everyone has their own way of relaxing and I don't think it's funny that the woman treats him that badly.
She didn't even offer an alternative to do something together, she just went for the attack and recorded it to humiliate him publicly. I hope he dumped her, he deserves better.
@@ashleylove6840 If he's so engaged in the game it's clear they weren't having any conversation at the moment, and she could have recorded it to try to justify what she did, but she didn't. Unless YOU were there, then you can tell me otherwise. I'll judge only by what I see. And I see a toxic girlfriend. You can see his frustration, I'd bet it's not the first time she does something to annoy him to this level.
@@ashleylove6840 why are you trying so hard to defend her I saw your replies in other comments as well It doesn't matter what happened before she started recording you just don't do something like that and post it on the internet She wants attention the internet is giving her attention It's like a man slapping a woman's makeup from her hand and then posting it in the internet
@@damagedcanofbeans I've just been reading and your right, its the same person on half of the comments lol clearly SOMEONE got ignored for some video games at some point X,D and as you know, that simply isnt allowed!
@@damagedcanofbeans No its not the same as throwing makeup, makeup does not take 5 hours to do. It's more like your girlfriend watching TV shows all day, every day, and never spends time with you. If you like that then you can find someone like that. For me personally I need balance.
Ruining a relationship is one of the worst offenses out there. When thinking of wanting to separate from your partner, you must talk thoroughly and try to be on good terms with them. As adults, we must be responsible for our own actions.
My ex-girlfriend once got mad at me for gaming on my computer, she claimed we never spend time together... I had just spent the entire day with her and she was literally 5 feet away from me when I was on the computer. I told her we just spent the day together (it was like 8pm), and she answered the day isn't over. I asked her what she wanted from me at that very moment. She said she wanted me to sit down and watch TV with her... like I said we were 5 feet apart, in line of sight of one-another. I was simply not doing what she was doing and that was apparently a problem. She then said gaming is unhealthy. We were 2 months in at that point. I kind of snapped back to reality, and I told her alright - that's it. Get your shit and leave. I called her a cab and paid for it upfront. The next morning I gathered her shit and dropped it in front of her place and left. She tried calling me over and over again, she wanted to talk - but I had realized she was insane. Six months later I found my current gf of 5 years and nothing of the sort has ever come close to happening. Some women refuse to be happy and keep moving the goalpost. A tip I would give other men would be to find a woman that has her own hobbies. If she doesn't have any, you'll be her hobby and she'll start behaving like you owe her all of your time.
The "being with her" and doing the same thing with her. It's just another insane women logic that keeps me single. I'm an adult and have adult responsibility all day, I need my time. We're in the same room, what the do you want anymore?
Dude my best friend's ex was just like this. They'd have a whole day together of dates and quality time, he'd go to decompress and play for an hour or two before bed, and suddenly she'd complain that he never gives her enough attention. Hope things have been and continue going well with your current relationship!
@@SuperNicktendoEntertainment my ex wife was like this. She actually took the power cord one time not knowing I had an extra one. She was livid when she found me gaming and I flipped the script on her. “What if I took the tv power cord during your favorite show?” Absolute insanity.
As a woman who loves videogames, I can see *why* he's saying "it's all I have", because what he clearly does *not* have is a significant other that has a basic respect for him, let alone any love for him. I would play devil's advocate and say "she probably believes it to be a bad habit and tries to snap him out of it", except that a truly caring person would not record their close one while putting them in a miserable position. That's just vile.
It's sad to hear him when he says that it's all he has, not because it's pathetic or anything, but because I'm willing to bet she's driven off all his friends and family, and he works to pay for everything, he's not fat or overweight or anything, home boy looks pretty fit, again, I'd be willing to bet the games aren't all he has, their just all he has left after her.
Honestly, when he says that gaming is all he has, I believe him. Seriously, what else in their home is solely his? The way his girlfriend acts in the clip, I wouldn't be surprised if even she wasn't just for him.
If my woman walks into the room I'm I'm and is filming me for ABY, I repeat very strongly, ANY REASON WHATSOEVER, she is no longer my gf. I refuse! To date a woman that is above the age of 30 and does any tiktok, video, social media trend bullshitm NO! THOSE THINHS ARE CHILD MINDED HUMANS, LITERALLY THEY FOR CHILDREN. Jesus christ, let's simply address THAT. It is not NORMAL behavior to be doing that, ESPECIALLY to people without beforehand consent. See, why do women push their shit onto men for no reason? This! This is why men don't wanna be around women anymore ladies, you all are the problem. Fucking wild how so many women are just terrible humans now. Like Jesus fucking christ. God damn. Our society is being ruined because no one wants to be a grown up and address rhe REAL problem. Women.
seriously, like one of the commenters said, she treated him like a child and that was very inappropriate. it says a lot about how she views him as a "partner" because it implies that she only uses him to satisfy her own needs regardless of his.
Honestly Turning off a videogame isn't usually enough to ruin a relationship And from that reaction and the fact she was recording and posting for laughs she's probably been doing a lot more behind the scenes
Turning off somebody's console is 100% enough to ruin any kind of relationship. Especially if its for a tiktok. She couldn't care less about the things you care about or what makes you happy, demands your attention 24/7, does what she wants without regard for anyone else, and now you can't trust her to not act impulsively and now you know she has zero mental/emotional maturity. Its almost like if my girl was knitting and I burned her project right before she finished. Or if I stomped on it in the mud and left it outside for cats to piss on. Anyone with a brain would dump you immediately after that. Except games can take even more time to complete and you're fucked if your game doesn't have autosave
My ex was like that. She didn’t mind that I was playing video games, she just didn’t like that I wasn’t constantly paying attention to her. She did it with literally every hobby I had, she isolated me from my friends and even some of my family. She has borderline personality disorder and she was CONSTANTLY afraid, that if I wasn’t waiting on her hand and foot, that I was losing interest. The irony was that I lost interest BECAUSE her expectations were so unattainable. She was a violent, manipulative and downright angry human being, with no thought of anyone but herself. I guess she realizes what she lost; she has a kid with another guy now and she’s been trying to get back together with me since the day I dumped her. She begged me to take her back while she was pregnant with his kid; I think she wanted to trick me into thinking she was mine. Pure evil. It’s why I have primary custody of our son, even with a history of opioid addiction. This woman wore me down so much, that I became addicted to heroin; that video brought me back to where it all began. It was stuff like that, the feeling of her taking away every single thing I ever enjoyed. I felt that video in my soul. That simple button push and the public shaming, tells me everything I need to know about that woman; I’ve already lived it.
"Girls always ask why grown men are still playing videogames, its the same reason you don't leave the house without makeup. Its a nice little escape from reality." -gta radio
Him saying" it's all I have" leads me to believe that she's essentially done this to every other hobby he had and this was the last vestige of a past life he was so desperately hanging on to and she delivered the killing blow with the power button
That’s why I start every relationship outlining what I am like and how I get down. I make sure to express that I will NOT change in certain ways, we all grow as people granted but there are things that were here before you and if you even attempt to get in the way then they will be here after you. I have no issue in moving schedules around or making every effort to spend time either cause when I date someone it’s because I genuinely want them BUT I am very blunt upfront about this. If you like me and want to be in a relationship with me then these things are part of me and they aren’t going anywhere.
@@SS_Psyops damn dude how many relationships you been in? Need to be judging these women better. Its important bc once you get to relationship number 5 or 6 by age 30, statistically, your odds of a life-long relationship is down to 1 in 100,000 by then--although this statement really only works for women since they have so much choice in the current time dating markets making that figure much much more reliably accurate. But you still want to avoid it. I suggest you read the surviving infidelity subreddit or watch some red pill stuff and it will help you judge these women way way way better....at least that's what helped me. It freaking changed my life man.
@@ChadDidNothingWrong the moment you make romantic feelings, something completely illogical and based on feelings only, a number game is the moment you lose. You aren't "making your odds better" by being rich or behaving a certain way, what you are doing is attracting people to the persona you are creating, one that you will sooner or later, accidently or on purpose, get exposed as the fake one. You can only find true love (meaning unconditional, based on personality and mutual positive feelings) if you act honest and truthful. What no one tells people is-work on your disadvantages and faults. Only someone who understands your fights is worth your time
That's why you don't touch crazy girls with a 10 foot poll. Crazy guys usually become physically abusive and end up in jail. Crazy girls are emotionally abusive, which at least in my opinion is far destructive
@@Bruskisan Ah so treating a man like this is ok. Interesting marketing strategy. Maybe they should also turn the lights off while the girls is puting on make up that would be interesting marketing strategy.
As a chick who videogames to relax after work with my friends, I would be genuinely pissed off if my partner thought they had the right to dictate what I do after work to unwind. I could understand if she talked to him privately and asked to spend time together or something, but she didn't do that. She recorded it, had am amused tone, and clearly it wasn't about giving a shit about her partner. Videogames help a ton with stress and depression. It gives your mind something to focus on and often times a means to problem solve.
"I deleted my son's 2 year Minecraft world, why is he upset with me?" is like a kid saying "I ripped my mom's plush doll that she made when she was a kid, why is she upset with me?"
I'm a woman dating a gamer. It's not something he does constantly, since he's waiting to buy a new system, but I actually like joining him while he plays, I like watching him play and sometimes I'd even join in. I don't see the point in turning the system off for no reason, or to do some dumb stuff like "oh this is all you do". Women tend to be so harsh when it comes to men's hobbies, but he's not over here slapping your phone out your hand and telling you that you're always on your phone, is he? We all have things we like to do, especially for destressing. Let your men (partner) cook, ladies, or gents, or nonbinary peeps.
(High five) I'm an AFAB nonbinary person dating a gamer guy. Oftentimes I do feel sad because I can't join him on his gaming. A. Because quite frankly I'm too stupid. I just can't understand anything with that stuff. And B. Because I'm just not into video games, they don't really interest me at all. I'm an artist, I'm a musician, THAT'S my passion. It makes me sad that I have to always be excluded from that aspect of his life. But I get over it. Because he can't really get into the music, art and theater stuff that I'm into. I'm a born performer who is meant to be on stage. But he doesn't care about any of that. We just have our own things that the other person can't truly be included in. It's just part of our relationship. The only game he and I play together....a LOT is Stardew Valley. That's the kind of game I can play. A farming game, a game with fighting and a game where you interact with characters and fall in love. It's the perfect game for me and we love playing together. Sometimes we marry each other and sometimes we marry our respective loves (He loves Sophia and I love Leah). Yes we both get jealous of the other person's wife but it's all in good fun. We never rage quit or anything. We just play, help each other and have a good time. The only time I ever have an issue with his gaming is when he is choosing to do that during our designated time together especially if it's a special occasion for us such as our anniversary. If it was our anniversary and he chose to spend it playing with his friends instead of spending time with me I would be furious. But other than that I don't care. I want him to have fun with his friends and have ways to enjoy life besides me.
@@ownlydown5933 Jesus, you sound like you're very close-minded. If you can't accept the identity of a potential love interest, I don't know about you being on the market. I mean no disrespect about that, but I, personally, would want nothing to do with ya, sorry. 🤷♀️
@@Milkumms._ having a personal preference towards women isnt being “closed minded”, it’s called being based, and having that minuscule gap of a condition won’t hinder his ability to date someone, and I’m pretty sure he’s WAY better off without having anything to do with YOU, sorry not sorry🤷♂️
She treated him like a child, it's clearly an insult. She even recorded it so she intends on embarrassing him in front of others. This is a very toxic relationship and probably should have ended a while ago.
@@hermanphilips4617 Both are true statements I think. Well, she didn't really act like a child as such, she acted like an entitled, modern, Western woman who thinks she is the centre of the universe and can't be told no ... actually, yes, a child.
@@hermanphilips4617 she did treat him like a child. Stop trying to take blame away from her just because she’s a woman it’s obvious. She was trying to antagonize that man and bother him and get a reaction out of him. That’s why she walked into his room with a camera on and turned off his fucking game. She wanted to catch him on camera doing something wrong because she’s a piece of filth. Personally, I say people who wanna bully others like that in life deserve to get beat.
@@kidkold7242 HM... I wonder why the domestic abuse rates were so high pre-1960. A lot of people blame alcohol and drunkeness. But why did the men prefer to go out and get blackout drunk in the first place? Answer: Entitled, Childish, and Disrespectful women. On top of situations outside of eithers' control.
@@hermanphilips4617dude that happened to me the other day, I was trying to do something on Xbox and my two year old nephew walks up and pushes the power button…..I was pisses
This is the equivalent of a man walking into a nail salon or hair salon and pulling his girl out of the chair while they are halfway done. The standards for equal relationships are so unequal It is insane.
My girlfriend is a gamer and ive had a talk with her before about doing something like this. We both agreed that if either one of us was to do this to the other, we would leave eachother in a heartbeat and not look back. We love eachother and we've been playing games together for the past 3 years now, but we both agree that doing something like this is like taking an avid readers book out of their hands and ripping it in half right infront of their face. It doesnt give them a chance to finish what they were doing and immediately takes the joy out of any situation they were previously in. I love this woman because of the fact that she understands its just a way for me to let off steam after a hard day at work instead of getting mad or snapping at her because I have no platform to vent with. Besides, she does the same and for the same reason.
She knew exactly what she was doing. She came in, probably *right* after he got back from a rough day at work and just wanted to unwind, with a camera in hand. She took that last little joy from him while talking to him in a disrespectful way and, most fucked up of all, you could practically hear the joy in her voice as she did it. She then posted it all online to humiliate him. Man responded in a mature way to somebody who just did something incredibly rude for selfish reasons, and anybody who takes this chick' side is either a moron or a selfish manipulator as well.
@@palladiamorsdeusYeah that person's girl must have them on such a tight leash that they can't even see how mentally manipulated they are to be defending this type of behavior.
Everyone is beating around the bush. She did something abbrasive with the intent to piss him off and then everyone is defending her, which means they think it is ok to be a menace to people when you don't like something they spend their time on, specifically a boyfriend of theirs. That's called being evil.
I was confused with this comment. Thought you were talking about the comment section, but it was the video lol. Yeah, everyone who agrees with her are the same people that do the exact same and wonder why they can't keep a relationship or their significant other doesn't want to spend time with them.
Bro I didn't have a girlfriend a few years ago when was I think 10 or younger but we were at my friends house for daycare after school and for the first in my life I was playing a rugby game and this one girl didn't want me to play the game and instead play with them and kept turning of the PS2 I was pissed bro and was one and only time I played a good rugby game and never got passed the first match bro 😢.
@@g4m3rwolf80 yea. I was seeing People arguing whether it was ok to do or not given the situation when the entire deal was preposterous. If you've got an issue with something someone does you don't just fuck with them to try and piss them off, especially not a partner.
Had an ex get mad, fully raging, because I was playing Fallout 4 a good few years back. She knew I played PC games and usually didn't mind. Turns out it was because my guy had Piper as his romantic companion and my gf was jealous. Jealous _of a video game character._
reminds me of the girl who snapped his mans xbox copy of fallout 4 almost clean in half and if i had a cent for everytime i heard of someones girl getting absolutely pissed about Piper being their companion i could buy Fallout 4 all over again
@@sanguinedelight6464 To be fair, I probably didn't help when I called my ex 'Piper' mid-coitus, just to see what she'd do. Tried to throw me off like one of those mechanical bulls. Not my fault Piper = Best Girl.
If you don't want to date a guy who plays video games. Don't date a man then cut out the video games. Find a guy who doesn't play them in the first place.
You think its that simple? People have two faces. In the beginning of the relationship they show they want to spend time with you even if they play video games its a balance between spending time with you and playing video games. Then they just ignore you and play all the time. If it was that easy, to know a person's real self, then no one would have relationship problems.
@@ashleylove6840 The girl literally wanted to get watch clout by recording it all, posting online, and mocking him. Yes people have two faces but this woman has 4 more
It's one thing to address an issue you have with someone, it's another thing to intentionally upset them and film them publicly, smh you deserve better bro
Men aren't allowed to express anything to a woman because you say anything they don't like they can use the hard power not soft power as it is called, and ruin a man's life with one lie and people won't ask for evidence because it is a woman.
Not only that but he couldve paused it if its a one player game, put it in sleep mode, and gave her time for the conversation. The fact that she didnt even give him the chance to close down what he was doing to make time for her is appalling shes no human being if compassion dosnt exist thats a demon looking for attention
as a girl, i have never understood these are girls who make their bfs choose between them and a video game. like, if you're so desperate to spend time with him, then just play with him and if ur not into video games, you can find something you both like doing. compromise. thats how relationships work.
You're a special girl, straight 10.. but most women don't like compromises is like a poison to them. And those who give ultimatums like " it's me or the x thing " exhibit control and manipulation sometimes knowingly or by instinct , they believe the man would not leave them ... and most won't so they give up on whatever for this because it's in our nature
My ex-girlfriend used to get angry that I played games for a few hours while she watched TLC all day long. I always asked her why one is ok, but not the other..
@myhandlehasbeenmishandled Indeed. Now, she complains to me about her husband, which is interesting. She was boring anyway and now I am here playing a game in peace.
"It's all I have." What's not mentioned: she probably dictates everything in his life. He can't see his friends because they are "a bad influence" to him or might go out and "cheat on her." He can't watch his programs because they are "boring" or "cliche." He can't have a personal space or workbench because she doesn't want to feel alone. I've seen this with a relative in his relationship. Poor dude is miserable and trapped.
I went through the same thing. I worked and came home. At home I tried to relax by reading or gaming. But my wife at the time felt threatened by anything that took attention away from her. So I did the smart thing a cut out the waste in my life. I walked out.
@@MollyHJohns Yup. She sits on her ass while he works 16 hr shifts. Perfect "trainer" material on being cautious when choosing a partner. Bet you are just like her.
@@wesleycooper1834 If he/she won't accept to grow after an honest convo, you should seriously think about breaking up with them or take distance/forcefully put boundaries.
Funny how videogames get extremely criticized as a hobby, but you never see people freaking out like this over someone watching movies all day every day. It's just watching a movie that you happen yo be in control of.
Even when reading something. As Pegasus says, the books you're reading might not be the most thought-provoking things, or maybe they are but it flies over your head. Actually, books are just as much content as video games, often times they intertwine, especially if those games include touching and thought-provoking plot. I say this as someone who prefers to read over playing video games, they're practically going to give you the same level of amusement, whether it was pointless or profound.
The funny part about watching TV is that it's been seen in a few studies that your brain has less high functions going on than sleeping. Yes, higher brain functions happen while you sleep than watching TV.
@@kraigisboss lol that's pretty funny, but does make sense. I don't know all the details, but I think your brain has to kinda process what happened in the day as you sleep so you're refreshed for the next day. Watching TV, on the other hand, is almost a hypnotic experience depending on what you're watching lol
Him saying "It‘s all I have" is likely because it‘s the only hobby he enjoys and has time for (work/school might get in the way of learning a new hobby). I don‘t understand why some women try to dunk on video games, like if you wanna hang out just say "when you finish your match can we hang out?" or something along those lines. Most of the time if you JUST ASK dudes will accept if you give them a few minutes
No, it doesn't. It's not a Win98 computer...and it didn't damage the hard drive back then, it screwed up the software. Power on/off does nothing to the hardware in a platter drive...dropping or jostling it while it is on does.
@jamesrudnicky5937 You've obviously not done your research. Powering off a pc/console unexpectedly (whether through an outage, surge, or cycling the switch) can and will cause damage. If you're lucky, it's just data corruption. If not, I've seen HDD's crack/shatter. I used to rebuild PC's/consoles and I lived in an area with an unreliable powergrid and lost 2 PC hard drives and a PS4 hard drive this very way. Stop trying to sound smart when you're not.
@@cameronwhite2760 sounds like faulty hardware, likely some of the models that were recalled. The drive models no data center would ever use. There is what CAN happen vs what SHOULD happen. You get what you pay for, for starters. Secondarily, shit happens. However, it isn't SUPPOSED to happen. But hey yeah, I'm uninformed. Nevermind IT certifications, several years of actively doing IT administration for a public library when 98 was brand new, multitudes of gaming computers built for others, years of repairing laptops. Usually what burns out is capacitors within the hardware. This can happen ANY time power is cycled on or off, even properly. Starting and stopping current is the most damaging thing a computer takes, and even then, when power buttons were physical switches, the power button broke more often than something burnt out. A console has basically been a PC since playstation2 (it literally used a Pentium 2 BX Intel board, the same board used for most computers sold at the time, as well as a rather ridiculous amount of advanced weaponry like guided missiles). The SAFEST thing for hardware is to be constantly in one state or the other. Either never turn it on, or never turn it off. Likewise, any SATA hard drive (like has been standard for 20 years now) are hot-swappable...IE you are literally pulling it out of the running device and putting a different one in it's place. This would be literally impossible to do without damaging the hardware if it worked as you think it does. Your issues sound more like damage from a power SURGE, likely because the grid would cut out with it's lack of reliability, never got ACTUALLY turned off (or more properly, unplugged) so that it didn't immediately take the incoming hard surge when power was restored. Like when you forget to pay the power bill, and when they turn it back on, they ask you to start by unplugging sensitive devices and turning off power at your breaker panel until service is turned back on. The power company will TELL YOU TO DO THIS every time. ...but just turning it off without going through the shutdown process does NOTHING to the hardware like you think it does.
@@Alexis-kg1sm During power fluctuations the disks in an HDD will be slowing down and speeding up as the electricity goes in and out. This can lead to stress fractures over time. I've pulled Hard drives out of computers that have failed after a power outage just to find the disks fractured many a time. SSD's are not susceptible to this type of damage thankfully. Though this problem was more common in older HDD's, newer HDD's have improvements to prevent/reduce the chance of damage.
She did it with camera in hand. This means her approval from her peers means more than improving her partner's happiness. The fact that he says, "it's all I have" just means their relationship is one sided... leaning more to her priorities.
@@NonSoSmartPerson he is seeing red right now. He is not at his most articulate. "It's all I have" could mean this is his one vice. He doesn't drink, smoke, etc. It could mean it's his one source of happiness. Any sort of grand definitive proclamations on what he means are presumptuous at best.
As a woman, i don't understand why so many other women (specifically those who don't play games) are on such a constant high horse and think they can do whatever tf they want just because they don't understand what gaming is. I'm on my computer on a daily basis, either playing or drawing, and since my bf plays too its perfect. Like god, women, give the others some space and perhaps learn what it means to have different hobbies.
Self-centeredness, lack of boundaries. My cousin did that with her boyfriend. She unplugged the router when he was streaming. He'd some out and everything was working. She did it because 'he didn't spend enough time with me'. She punished him for breaking rules that she made up, and as far as I know, never communicated to him. They eventually broke up; I suspect behavior like this contributed to it.
Its almost as hinging on your relationship solely for your entertainment leads to terrible consequences. Wouldnt say its just women. Men and women both do this. Some friends of mine that became toxic cause of this stupid she vs him shit is so annoying and have proven to me that so many mfers are NOT ready for relationships lol Not surprised tho, same kinda people who use money to brag about success when swindling money from people is the world's easiest job
the fact she recorded it, says enough about her intentions, she wanted to enrage him, she could have taken a controller and join him to have time together.. even if you dont like it... having interest in what your partner likes is part of the relationship
Well this woman is completely incapable of love. She’s a narcissist, only cares about themself. Its all about me me me, and never about you. Love is mutual care about one another.
@@lb_tempted9224 🤣🤣🤣 where have you been ? TH-camKids pushes borderline p3do content to children . They don't give a fk about your pfp, I've seen worse... like those bots with OF girls
I have done this to my kids a couple of times after telling them five times to get off the video games but I would NEVER do this to my husband. I’m not a huge gamer but I understand it is a great way to relieve stress. If his gaming got in the way of him being an active partner I would have a discussion with him about it LIKE AN ADULT. We all need some “me” time even when we don’t get much together time (we have three kids, work, house chores, outside commitments). I actively look for video games he might like. Being empathetic and thoughtful to your partner goes a LONG way. I’ve been with my husband for 30 years (and have three AMAZING kids) but I could be wrong.
So you turn off your kids consoles instead of talking to them about why they aren't listening to you but you would talk to your husband about video games if it was impacting your relationship?
@@lightningrose3654 yes because my kids don’t always believe there are consequences for ignoring me hence the warning then consequence. My husband is a mature adult that I can simply tell him I have an issue and we fix it. Luckily, my kids are maturing quite nicely and now understand after a warning consequences WILL follow. The warnings are enough now.
@@lightningrose3654 Nah lets be honest kids at a young age shoyldnt really spend 10hrs in video games. Not only does it hurt the eyes it also stunts the physical development in a kid. Much better to put some rest time for kids.
Even if she had a valid point that he spent too much time on the game, she was still out of line to ruin his game like that. It matters to him and she couldn’t wait five minutes to talk to him. It feels kinda exploitative because she had her phone recording everything for views.
@@jellymatsuryuka6853 if that is so he can work on it but now he wont even try because his girlfriend was a rude jerk. This is not how you convince people to hear your side.
@@Kookiedolll not if she waits until the game is over like any rational adult would. She can't wait five minutes but she insists that he talk to her right now with out even asking.
No matter what argument she used, posting this on social media completely invalidated it. She clearly did this because she found it amusing to watch the man she supposedly loves suffer, and her be the cause of it. Like others have said; if she sees this behaviour as normal enough to post, what else has she been doing behind the scenes. It still gets me fuming just as much as the first time I watched it.
Don't forget about the attention, "likes", and clout she probably got on her socials. Lots of women, not all of course, but a lot, will gas each other up over this kinda stuff nowadays.
@@tino5735 So true. Narcissism and ego thrives on social media. The older generation like to say that there was less of these type of people around before, but I disagree. Now it's just more at the forefront. People have always done stupid things for attention, the only difference now is that there's more choices for said validation. As a woman myself, I agree with your statement about the emabling behaviour between women. Men do that too of course, but women are far more manipulative and calculating when it comes to these sort of things; as were more inclined to be emotional. I mean, just look at the fat-acceptance movement, literally all of them are women, apart from a gay man here and there. As it's all based on people's feelings. Abuse doesnt have a gender, but certain forms will be far more likely depending on the abuser being male or female. In other words, this pathetic excuse of a women is disgusting.
People finding people who sometimes like to play some videogames 'unattractive' is so weird to me. Like most of the same people aren't just spending hours of their day mindles on their smartphones/ watching tv/ watch youtube. The gamers actually have to actively engage with what they are consuming. I ain't a gamer myself that much. But just because it isn't for me doesn't mean it is lesser than other hobbies or that the experiences can't be worth it. There are some real frigging works of art games. You know what i feel unattractive? People with no hobbies/ passions.
coming from a dude who plays video games on a regular its a way off escaping from reality, a lot of people do it as a way of peace and im sure lots of other people just do it for fun and far as im concerned theres nothing wrong with a man or women in a relationship playing games as long as they make time for eachother and not just for themselves.
My boyfriend got me into gaming like a year ago when I was bored and he handed me his Switch to play acnh. No we also have a minecraft world together with my two brothers and it's just super fun to be able to have this hobby together. Tbh before I looked down upon gamers too and always said I didn't understand why anyone would game but that's probably just my parent's opinion that's been echoing in my head since they always told us that gaming is for people who don't have any imagination unlike BOOKS where you have to imagine he whole world (I read twilight as a teenager and that really was a waste of time lol). Idk I just wanted to give my perspective as someone who looked down on gaming and now do it myself too. I think there's a lot of stigma around gaming and people imagine guys that never shower when they think of gamers. I also hate that everyone thinks reading books equals being smart like I said twilight was a waste of time and did not made me smarter in any way.
@@sebaschan-uwu that's kinda like asking why some people like slice of life. Some people just enjoy a little simulator where they can steadily grow their little home, interact with cute characters, etc. You might prefer something with more action or a more immersive and engaging story, but some just want a very casual and lighthearted experience. For women who are not avid gamers, something like slice of life that has aspects they can easily relate to makes those games easier to enjoy. I personally play games on both ends of the spectrum based on my mood.
It is important to note that the girlfriend didn't just walk in, get upset, and turn off his console. She recorded the whole thing, because it was more important for her to score points on the internet then her relationship was to her. Its very easy to forget that when you watch a video online, they had to go out of their way to record that video. And unless you have some strange compulsion to record every second of your life, there is an ulterior motive to that clip of your life getting recorded besides just living it.
Yeah you don't film something like that if you are trying to actually have a serious discussion, anyone with self respect doesn't air their dirty laundry on the internet unless they have mental issues cause she 100% did it for her own ego to farm people who agree with her to make her feel justified and ignore anyone disagreeing. I wouldn't leave her for turning off the game but I would leave her for posting it on social media cause that shows you care more about some clout or your own ego over our relationship that you'd make something like that public to our friends, family and strangers its just straight up disrespectful to your partner.
In the old times (boomer time), some woman would drag her family to show everyone how useless his man are, now days they using video and want to see world hate his man...
I'm all for the right to record stuff but I still say that so many problems would be solved if people could recognize when to turn the fucking camera off!
I started limiting my gaming to only 2 hours a week about 25 years ago. I would game on Sundays. My girlfriend said nothing about it for a month, and then she would come into the computer room and start bitching when I hadn't even been playing for an hour. I dumped her soon after.
If a woman ever does this to you. Don't argue. Don't get mad. Get up and silently leave the room. Continue giving her the silent treatment. They HATE it when you deny them the drama they're craving and that's what this was. She wanted an argument.
Nah, silent treatment is just as childish tbh. If you're in a relationship where you think you need to give the other person silent treatment, you should just find a healthier relationship. Relationships aren't about out-maneuvering the other person for a result that's desirable to yourself.
Yeah your right games are for losers, i'm going to the strip club like a real man bye!. This way she gets the video she wanted and your not playing anymore so she gets a double win.
@@JR-kv6ez you know back then i used to believe it easy to get out of a relationship... until i learn how psychotic other people can be in a relationship
Agreed but if you spend most of your day playing videogames and don't caring about your partner and pretty much waste their time beeing in a relationship with someone that rather keeps playing than doing something with her, than you are just as bad. There is nothing wrong with playing videogames but a good relationship needs devotion and time together
@@JuliaJuanaRodriguez How come she can't pck up a controller and play with him if she's so upset he games and assumingly doesn't send enough time with her?? It doesn't have to be a single person experience. I use gaming as a coping mechanism for my mental health struggles. Mypartner and I both do. We play games together all the time. And it is fun, it's interesting, it can be emotional or funny depending on the game. Calm down, lern to have some fun in this depressing, horrible world.
@@JuliaJuanaRodriguez she had no interest in the game or why he was playing. it was literally just a case of her demanding him to get off and do something with her without any regard for his wants or needs
@@randomdudewithmanyinterests And when he rather plays than doing stuff with her and ignores her most of the day, than he has no regard for her. At least she tries getting him to do something with her. If she acts like him, she just wouldn't care, pack her things and leave
I feel like if someone really can’t handle a person having a hobby then they probably shouldn’t even be in a relationship. You shouldn’t have to give up the things you love to do just because of a relationship, if someone tries to force you to change then just leave them and find someone better.
As a girl, who also plays video games, this is absolutely toxic. How about just let the guy enjoy his stuff? The world doesn’t revolve around you and if you want him to spend time with you, do things WITH him. It’s so disgusting actually.
What if the guy wants you to watch him play games and have him act like you don't exist but when you decide to lay down he turns off the game and still ignores your existence unless you are watching him/helping him as he gets more irritated over stupid shit in the game? What if you ask him to watch/help in the same manner but he doesn't and then promptly falls asleep the moment you are playing because "he's bored"? You ate usually expected to watch/help him but when it's the opposite it's treated like you are nothing even though he wants you to play games.
@@nobody-xh6ii Yeah, chief, I don't think you understand why people think it was disgusting. That bitch came in RECORDING, and GIGGLING, instead of trying to do something good, or ask him to spend time together, and she posts it on TikTok for validation. That is NO WAY of doing things in a relationship.
@nobody So, using your example... What if a woman is constantly scrolling on her phone at the house while you are trying to spend time with her? And then in the car as you drive? And then at the Mall? During dinner? The ride home? And then...when you both lay down, she ignored you in favor of her phone? Becuase God knows...that NEVER happens at all.
If you're a woman stay in your lane you have absolutely no reason to comment on any video as far as men's problems go. You women are all the same and are all the problem. And if you are 4 men's rights then you are a grifter. Trying to be a pic me is not going to get you anywhere.
As a girl, id say hes in the right (also if you dont want someone who plays video games, then dont date them in the first place). I understand adressing obsessions of your loved ones, heck even i went through that at some point, during the lowest time of my life. But just turning it off, and shoving cameras into their faces is not a way to do it. Tell him you wanna talk to him, about his addiction, youre not angry, but youre worried and talked to him without thinking about gaining clout. IF he still ignores that and still pkays video games while you try to talk, multiple times, then its time to consider breaking up, because no one is happy in that relationship
The bottom line is, she crossed a boundary that was unloving, insensitive, and inappropriate. If she doesn't like him playing video games, then she needs to have a mature conversation with him about that at a later time. In point of fact, if she doesn't like him playing video games, she probably shouldn't be in a relationship with him at all. To me, this is just as bad as if he'd interrupted her while she was listening to her favorite podcast, snatched her phone out of her hand, turned it off, then told to "get into the kitchen and do something useful!"
It's important to remember that they're both adults. They have mouths to speak and ears to listen. They're no longer children who need to be told what to do. Talk to your partner like an adult. Because that is what you are
"Its all I have." That's a man trying to tell her she is killing their relationship by taking his last joy...because she stopped being his joy a long time ago. Much respect for him holding his anger back. Thats a good man.
@@nataliemorett1911 It takes discipline to hold your emotions in check, something boys cannot do. It's a shame you can't recognize that. What makes him a Chad is staying in a dead relationship
Nah. The moment my girl starts acting like a child I think it's time to kick her to the curb and have another dude deal with that. I like my women with Maturity, especially if I work hard all day and am the provider.
@@PotBellyLionThan treat her well and not just as your cook and cleaner. If you care more about videogames than your partner and ignore her most of the day so you can play, than don't get together in the first place
@@JuliaJuanaRodriguezne wtf do you mean give her a attention what's he gonna do okay patty cake with her and two you don't know if he provides the money and if he does he deserves the space to just play his videogames
My wife did this once as a joke before she was my wife, needless to say i was absolutely flabbergasted. I looked right at her and said, "dont do that, i dont like that shit" she laughed, then was very apologetic and turned my xbox back on and sat next to me and watched me play for awhile. Bad joke in my case, glad no one has ever done it to me seriously and feel bad for anyone it has happened to
Man I had a Minecraft server running on my computer for the house we were in at the time. We were dating/engaged and I was working a shitty industrial painting job and always dead ass tired when I got home. I came home one day and was confused when I saw the computer was off but figured I must have shut it down and forgot. Tried to turn it on and it bluescreened, fried Hard Drive. I shrugged and said "Well that sucks." As I turned to go take a shower she grabbed my arm sobbing and said she broke it cause she turned it off with the power button instead of shutting it down. She felt like shit but I told her it was just a computer so fuck it. Married 9 years now. 😅
This is equivalent to someone drawing and coloring to escape for a moment and your partner pours water on the paper to grab your attention and excuses it with "Well there's plenty of paper". She's lucky he didn't throw the controller at her.
If she was genuinely fed up with him "just playing games", then she would've talke to him in private. The fact she did this, recorded it and then uploaded it speaks volumes to her character.
@@namelastname7895 Whom judging from that statement isn't a very good one. She's not his peace she's chaos and anxiety inducing and the only reason he stays is because he fears being alone more than putting up with her. Just like some people are saying that response "proves" he's addicted to video games it can instead "prove" that his girlfriend is controlling and wants him to live only her narrow ideal.
As a girl who plays games (mostly Skyrim) I find it so silly that some think it's a useless activity. It's a relaxing hobby and different people enjoy it in different ways. Playing gives me inspiration for art and storytelling. I love expressing my creativity and video games help a lot with that. I feel this man so much I hope he dumps that trashbag
@@jewelthejaguar742 Ever since Ulfric became ruler, the only things we worry about are those damned witch elves, bandits, and those pleb guards from Whiterun. Those sods can't even hold their mead!
My parents were like that man's girlfriend. As a kid they always got after me and my brothers for playing video games and kept a tight leash on the consoles/controllers. The ironic thing is, the only real thing my parents did on their free time was sit on the couch and watch tv for hours. I always found that hypocritical, because most video games are more engaging to the mind versus watching tv.
I have 2 brothers and a Mom who were the same way while growing up, they would spend hours on end watching TV, but somehow my video game playing in the same time frame made me the "lazy" one. As if watching TV is somehow a more "productive".
Was the same for me lol. Parents always fought over the TV. I'd be home for 1-2 hours, take car of my chores, HW, study, cook dinner if it was my day to cook, finally turn on my game, and be lectured the moment my father walked in the door for playing games the moment I got home. Some days I made it as far as loading a game up before getting lectured and turning back off. I spent a lot of time staring at my wall on a daily basis, waiting till I felt like it was long enough of a wait until I could turn on my games without getting screamed at lol.
As a woman, I never understood why some of us act the way they do. I feel like I see shit like this all the time. Usually when it’s your man just trying to have fun when it’s without you. Everyone needs space at some point to just unwind. Being stuck to someone’s side constantly or having to always be in touch with them 24/7, is extremely unhealthy.
This is very common. Women have been taught for ages they are boss, when it is not true. They are a partner. Men have been trained over the last hundred years to become submissive not to that woman necessarily though there are massive groups who only exist to in the mind of the public lessen men to artificially boost women in the world. The problem, is we love to listen to really damn dumb leaders. They let you do wrong shot for lifetimes, then it is a shock when a real leader comes along and is asked " So, what our problem,what the cause...?" Leader: "Well, it's you. Alone. Just you and your ideals, are the problem."
@@caiusmadison2996 in what universe are women taught to be leaders and men to be submissive? Where do you live? No, seriously, I'm genuinely asking because that's the first time I have seen anyone even SUGGESTING that's what's happening..
Like my first wife. She married a buff athlete who loved to go to the gym. Then made me stop going to the gym. I was young and thought marriage was more important than my enjoyment in sporting activities. Later I found out I was the only one who thought that marriage was important.
I think there's something here everyone missed. I had a very emotionally unstable and abusive ex during the height of covid, and coming home from a long day at work to her was painful, breaking up while living together during that period was not really doable and gaming was my one out before having to walk around the eggshells. She did something VERY similar to this without the camera and tried to gaslight me saying I was the problem. I would NOT be surprised if this was a very small snapshot into an abusive relationship and the "its all I have" was a desperate cry for help without being too specific as to set her off...
If you're in a bad relationship then fucking leave, stop acting like a child, you're a man start acting like one. This is what you should say to anyone in that situation, lucky for you, you seemed to have had the balls to do it instead of staying and then bitching about it. Before anyone says i don't know what i'm talking about i do, i have been in the same situation twice and the first time i was only 19 so i stayed in it like a little bitch. The second time i was a man and didn't take any of her shit and left straight away. I get it if you're young but not if you're older.
When I in high school there is once my almost finish drawing got dirty because that some little b*st@rd is ruining my drawing.. By pushing my table.. Then I slap that thing multiple time at the face until his face become purple😂😂
@@lyssywelcher4674 girl, Yata is saying it's not the hobby, it's the person that's the problem. Your partner was just as toxic as the woman switching the console off, just like what Yata is implying. It's not the hobby that's the main focus it's the person.
@@lyssywelcher4674 oof I'm sorry. I didn't mean to gauge your past but that really sucked ass I admit. Glad you're out of that toxic swamp tho. And hope you have a better SO now, than that person.
The girlfriend is WRONG!!! Even if she had a problem with him playing video games, AND HE'S playing all the time, then TALKING to him about it is the BEST WAY to resolve the issue, NOT turning it off out of the blue like he's a misbehaving child!!! I'm guessing she's known about him playing video games before NOW and she accepted him the WAY HE IS!!! She CAN'T now DECIDE to disrespect him completely, and do what she did!!! There's an ADULT WAY to handle her displeasure, YOU TALK TO HIM LIKE AN ADULT, and NOT ACT like a spoiled BRAT having a tantrum!!
Someone assumed the “it’s all I have” meant shes stopped him from going out with his friends and gaming is all he can do to socialise and his frustrations coming from the fact she’s now taking that from him too
Honestly online communication is so much easier than irl. It feels like, now that I'm an adult with a kid, all my friends are busy with their own life stuff and it's hard to get that small amount of time to hang out and do something. With online, they can connect at any time, while you're on, to talk or game. Some of my longest lasting friends of some 13+ years are online and not even in the same country (their time zone works better for when I get off work and have time to get on).
Armchair observation time: For the girl - Running up and turning off the game without saying anything shows that she gives zero respect to what he's doing, or the relationship they are in. It suggests that she's constantly running on impulse, never communicates to him, and does her own thing. Doing so is actively showing that she devalues him, and is someone who would rather treat him like a child then talk to him. "It's all you do" is a line telling me that she's frustrated that this is his sole focus of de-winding from a long day. She absolutely should NOT have turned off his console, and instead of said something to him. Even after he said "Don't" and she did it anyway is the confirmation I need to know that she does not listen to him. For the guy - He sets the controller down, and you can see the stress just blow the lid as he gets up. He's struggling to be nice about his choice of words, and when he said "It's all I have", that's not a man saying that he only has a video game in the world, that's an individual saying that, collectively he has nothing left. He feels no emotion in his relationship, and it could be caused by other factors. Maybe his job is eating him alive, and when he comes home, he's tired of trying to work with a girl who actively refuses to listen to him and runs on impulse. He's clearly stressed to the max, and the actions of the girl show quite a bit of the situation that he's not happy in a relationship with her. Speculation and thoughts - Ultimately, they would need to talk to one another and vent things out. It could be that he's tried to get her to do stuff with him and she actively refuses to do anything he wants, and she could be very controlling and always demanding things from him. They clearly don't communicate, and it's a boiling point of collective issues piled together into this one last point event. Couples counseling or break up. The root cause needs addressed.
Break up. This woman clearly has narcissistic personality disorder, and people with narcissistic personality disorder are completely incapable of love, since they only care about themselves. Its best to leave this woman in a mental hospital for the rest of her life.
No ultimately, he needs to leave her toxic ass and go find someone more mature. I can’t believe you people on this planet defend the horrible actions of women no matter what. It’s fucking sickening and it needs to stop.
No ultimately, he needs to leave her toxic ass and go find someone more mature. I can’t believe you people on this planet defend the horrible actions of women no matter what. It’s fucking sickening and it needs to stop.
I remember a woman who was a complete stranger who decided to turn off my pc while working in college on my IT projects. I had to format a hard drive create multiple VMs and then create an entire virtual network. While in the middle of the os loading on to multiple virtual machines she turns it off. There are multiple computers near by where she could work on I was working in an area where at least 15 other machines were available at the massive table that I was in at college. I asked why she did that and her answer was I want to use your computer. I'm like there are so many other computers that you could use and you just ruined hours of work to figure out how to set up a network. IP addresses to use and how they would all be done all because you want to be a b****. Welcome to the 21 century where random women feel that it's appropriate to rejoice in your misery.
So that was a random woman and not a girlfriend/wife? "Equal rights, equal fights." - Sun Tzu - If anyone did that to me, not even just a woman, I'm about to do em like batman does his villains and have her breathing through a tube.
Some people love going down rabbit holes... Look, the man probably works long hours and makes a tiny block of time for his own enjoyment. Ive seen both women and MEN distrupt their partners chill time, making a big deal out of everything. If you want to confront your partner, TRY to do so without embarrassing them!
It's terrifying how much she think she's in the right and has rights to expose and defame her boyfriend to public. Even harassing him without care and share the story of what she does world wide.
its about average for the modern western "Wahman", she was even recording from the beginning knowing full well that she was about to be a cunt for no reason.
The TV shows vs Games thing: I said that to a family member very recently. I didn't care about her past time of binging soaps all day, but she went hard on me for my maybe an hour a day hobby when I wasn't working or making plans for our farm with my boyfriend or cooking, cleaning etc. Told her that at least my hobby has a shown track record of stimulating coordination and critical thinking. She didn't like that. Point is let people have their free time and stfu
Hello neighbor is a horror puzzle game. So yes i agree. Plus video games are immersive. That's something you can't get watching movies. Knowing how games are becoming more cinematic they are better than most sources of entertainment.
I’m living that right ducking now, I dayz for ten minutes and she’s over my shoulder muttering all kinds of shit to let me know how disappointed she is in me. As she just finished her third season of the day and I’ve had the kids.
When i was growing up,Mum did used to shut off my console when it was say,time for bed but after a few weeks of back and forth from it we had a talk and she agreed to give me a 5 minute window to do what i need to do,such as saving it absolutely helped because even tho it was upsetting to stop playing a game i enjoyed so much,i felt thankful that mum didnt do what the girlfriend in this video does if i had a girl who did this to me,im giving them a 5 minute window to pack their things up
Yup. If you are a mom, you give the 5 minute warning (back in ye yonder olden times I got the 5 minute window to put up my own toys or finish my TV show). If the kid is still playing video games after that 5 minute warning, then you can shut off the console. If you are dating someone with a video game addiction, you don't turn off the console. You talk to them. If they still won't get help or if their gaming gets in the way of them holding down a job, ect. then just leave. Its just like any other addiction, whether its video games or if its meth, not worth going down that rabbit hole.
Take a look at the guy’s surroundings, I’m willing to bet money he had little to zero input or say in the decorating, choice of furniture or layout of the house. He is sitting on a dining room chair (not super comfortable for long periods) in the living room with headphones on trying to have a little time for himself. He probably has no other space in the house, no place for his stuff, and has given up all of his other hobbies and pastimes.
I mean I play a lot and sometimes girls just want attention from their man. That's what my girlfriend does. When I'm playing she snuggles and says babe pay attention to me it's usually enough to make me shut it off for her and then I turn it back on when she's full. But it's obvious this girl didn't want attention she just wanted to make herself appear to be right
@@Spiralreddyea, when your girl cuddles up to you, or kindly directly asks for attention, or tries getting your attention in a kind way instead of being a stuck up bitch, she's probably a keeper.
As a female who has watched anime, read manga, done art and played games religiously for years now, this pains my non existent soul to the very core. If your partner decides that playing games is a better past time than spending time with you(tho srsly, they can’t be around you 24/7), maybe there’s something wrong with your relationship that needs to be fixed, and it’s definitely not something you should openly post(humiliate) on the Internet. And I GUARANTEE you that if this was a reverse situation where a guy deleted a girl’s TikTok account because that was ‘all she does’ people would have gone ‘OMg hE’S sO ToXIc LeT tHE woMAn Do wHaT sHE wAnts’. I’m sick of this. Also video games are childish? Aren’t like, the majority of gamers young adults/adults if not teens? And aren’t a lot of video games meant to have target audiences that are older?(*cough cough* Mortal Kombat *cough cough*) Get out of here. Most people who belittle video games has probably never even tried a game(at least not a good one) before. Gaming is a valuable form of escapism that’s just as valid as anything else, while also being a skill that can be extremely difficult to hone(I’m a fighting game player and trust me, it is HARD). There’s a reason there are tournaments for them. I rest my case. Maybe this is why I’ve been single for my whole life, idk. But if this crap is what I would have to deal with for having a precious hobby I enjoy and love, then maybe I don’t want to be in a relationship after all.
Damn dude that was really well said I can agree with you to the fullest most parents and people in this generation don't understand that games are like an escape from all the bullshit that goes on in people's lives
@@LimbaZero lol facts but I feel like I can relate to the dude like my hobbies is many art games and anime its literally all I have in terms of enjoyment when not hanging with friends or my bf yea I could probably learn a new hobby but do I want to probably not.
“It’s all I have!” Is literally a cry for help. This means that. She’s either super controlling OR it’s the only thing he has to do to decompress. It’s an absolute necessity in a healthy relationship to have “me” time, for both partners. Doing things together all the time isn’t always healthy. And it’s usually seen as a way to go your own ways for bits and pieces during a relationship to bring back stories and events to talk about with your significant other. From the outside looking in, it seems she’s controlling, and very codependent. It’s one thing to request some time to talk, or to go do things, but a completely different story if you resort as a first reaction to interrupt your SO personal time. Prayers for my guy, been there done that.
Well judging that he sat on a ridged chair and the set up seemed very cheap he may not make enough to afford more then that hobby... Im sorry but alot of hobbys are expensive way more then gaming and woman in general are an expensive experience... He may have said thats all he had because that is the only thing he can afford to do because she takes everything else from him ... Also who said this was his gf couldve been a mother or sibling he lived with the video that he was watching never specified who she was to him ...
“It’s all I have” people don’t realize that could be his only form of stress relief or way to talk to friends/family who moved. I do with my cousin who’s in the army and my friend who moved across the US. It’s about all I have to “hangout” with them again.
My best friend moved away and playing games is the only time I can really “hang out” with him like you said. There are times when I’m not really into the game and would rather not play but spending time with the bro trumps that. So much truth to your comment.
It’s about the level of disrespect. She didn’t ask him to stop, she simply turned it off. That is very rude and disrespectful. If there is a problem with not spending time, discuss it like an adult. As a woman, I’d be pissed as hell if my boyfriend turned off my console mid game. That’s why couples who game together, stay together 😂 ❤
I think that 'Its all I have' simply means that the woman has taken over every other aspect of his life and playing games was the only thing left that he could consider to be just his. My wife and I have been married for 6 years, and we both have things we like to do without the other. Having something to do by yourself, especially when angry with one another, is a healthy thing in a relationship. So long as every spare moment isn't spent doing your own thing.
Tbh as a girl whose boyfriend plays video games. There are so many ways to still be engaged with them without turning off their systems. I sometimes cuddle with him while he plays, depending on the difficulty I just talk with him, I also may or may not Google answers to hard parts of games & give vague suggestions to beat that part which he finally beats & then he gets happy which is why I do that to see him finally beat something he was stuck on. Also I just like watching him play games sometimes. If you want someone to get off their games, ask them to get off. Then again my boyfriend & I actually love each other & respect each other so this would never happen lol I mean we make sure to plan out stuff that will let us have fun together. I am not a gamer myself, but I like watching so.
@@Wearywastrel I mean neither of us our perfect but we try. It's rare in my generation (Gen Z) to find love let alone find anyone to work things out with you instead of just leaving. But he's amazing & I wouldn't trade him for the world
Also not a gamer, but love it! I call it me time, chilling next to him reading, watching my you tube, and its fun watching and sometimes engaging with OUR online friends, we made awesome friends. Met some went camping and now going to a their wedding!!!!
It's also a good idea to suggest an alternative that you think you might both enjoy, e.g. "wanna turn off the game and go watch that movie we both wanted to see?"
Thank you, it’s truly abhorrent. It confuses me why someone would rather be miserable and together than happy and single. If you can’t communicate and don’t work, move on.
I realize I'm a few months' behind, but I'm old enough to be this man's father. I couldn't even finish watching, because it hurt my heart so much to watch him be publicly humiliated.
My ex-wife told me I'm addicted to video games. So, I turned off my computer and said, "OK, let's talk, but first you turn off the TV". Of course she was unable to turn off the TV because Love Island or some lame reality show was on. So I just turned the computer back on.
Funny that both books and video games take writers to create. And both tell interesting and engaging stories, the difference is those who read visualize in their head (which is cool) but those who game interact with the story and in some cases impact the story’s events. Overall both tell good stories and in some cases we can learn from video games.
Well put. Some of my favorite games are the ones where your decisions affect the story, like Undertale and Persona. A lot of people don’t understand the creativity and storytelling that go into video games.
I hate the go read a book argument. Like yeah twilight is soooo much better than a video game. Also if it's about the process of reading: I have to read in every game. People who make this argument about anything is mentally inept
*_50 years later while she's on life support_*
_"Remember that time you turned off my console?"_
Oh cr*p 🤣🤣🤣
Serious serious serious turn table
😂😂😂
"I wonder what this button does"
@@notqua2201 **Unplugs life support**
"I want a real man who doesn't play video games"
I want a real woman that have feelings and can sympathize
I want a real woman that isn't crazy
Same 😢
I just want someone who won't judge me.
The 2nd is way harder to find.
I want a woman that can carry me around lol
"It's all I have."
I know exactly what happened. She didn't like his friends. She didn't like him going out without her. She didn't enjoy the things he did. Sitting at home, alone with her, was all he's allowed to do, so he games.
That was my relationship. But I rarely played much
dam no cap
You know what he needs, a hug. Isolating a dude from his homies kills him internally.
@@P.H691he needs some balls and a spine lmao.
Dude, not only she had the nerve to shut down the console while he was playing, she was recording and confronting him. So yeah, go and try to say he was oppressive and restraining her by any means.
She entered camera in hand and filmed herself shutting the machine off. She wanted a reaction. Expected one. And recorded it when she got it with the intent to show others. She's an immature, selfish, disrespectful, awful human being. No excuse could explain away treating a life-partner this way.
spot on! Run Bro and leave that trollip.....
She sure got a reaction lol
She just wants to get ready for the bed but she got flambe by 99% of the Male population and 30% of the female population
Average clout chaser
In other words, a modern woman. These are the same women that complain they cant find a good man while simultaneously psychologically raping the dude she is with until he has nothing left
“Woman purposely ruins her partner’s fun for online clout”
There’s really no other way to interpret this
That's why the phone was recording from the start.
she wanted attention and got it. kinda like the saying, "bad publicity is better than no publicity"
Not trying to start stuff but I was thinking if there was a male parallel.
I think it’s a man telling a woman he’s fine with here selling pics of herself naked online just so he has the chance to sleep with her.
Generally, woman want emotional attention and men want physical attention. Please people, bring counter points I like the mental stimulation.
@@xostler No, a man doing that is an idiot/simp/whatever-fancy-name-you-want.
A more accurate parallel would be a man doing a prank on his gf for clout on his prank youtube channel.
Also when did cheating get into the conversation?
so you're a teenager... that's fine but the guy in the video is supposed to be an adult
I do not care if that man has a real problem with video games or not. Filming him while shutting off the console without warning shows her absolute lack of even the smallest bit of respect for this man. If your partner treats you with this level of disdain there is NOTHING left to save. Get out of this relationship ASAP, this is abuse.
while i fully agree, manipulators love keeping the people they want controlled and with them. some will go as far as self harm then threaten to call 911 to prevent the man from breaking up with them. its abuse, but the cops are stupid enough to believe the woman over the man anyways.
video games fill the void in my soul, it's the only thing that gives me happiness when i am sad
Bitch is more invested in her social media then her boyfriend
Just filming without consent would be a deal breaker for me
Also the vibe I got from him is that this isn't the first time she has done it because you don't go to that level of done without a build up of her either doing this before or her doing other crap like this
And that's the case, we have no context we don't know if this guy have addiction or if he's just chilling like normal people do. But from tweets a lot of women don't want their partner to chill
The "it's all I have" statement was filled with pain. We all don't know what is going on in this man's life but anyway with any empathy should have recognized there was pain there. So to me it was remarkable how many people so flippantly told him to get a life, get over it, man up; this is the new strain of people in the world, Soulless, self-enamored and self-delusional and all to quick to sneer at someone so they can (temporarily) feel better about themselves. That man deserved more from us who witnessed his pain.
Its easy to assume that people who are addicted to things are just lazy and don't have enough power. This goes for anything, video games, alcohol, fast food, etc.
Im not glorifying addiction, i need to clarify. If you have an addiction try to break out of it and seek help
What im advocating for is not call these people "pathetic" or whatever insult just because they're hooked to something. This guy may have survived trauma. He might be dealing with grief.
Don't assume till you know the full story.
@@LegendWolfA We don't really have context to say it's addiction. What if all the guy did during his free time was golf, would we call that an addiction? What if he just watched football while drinking beer with his buddies? We might say it's not good behavior, but we wouldn't label it an addiction. Her statement of "It's all you do" isn't proof that her viewpoint is real.
While we could question his statement of "it's all I have", we still have no context. Is he grieving because he lost someone close? Did he just get fired or encounter financial difficulty to where he doesn't feel like he can afford any other hobbies?
Clearly, her taking this short video with no context, and not showing the rest of the conversation, shows a major lack of respect on her part. I'd be interested to see his explanation, but I bet that doesn't fit her narrative.
The “it’s all i have” could also be due to him spending all of his time and money on their relationship and general living prohibiting him from either spending money on other (more expensive “approved” hobbies) and like we all know, men between 23-30 struggle to find friends if they aren’t with their high school/college gang. This can also be attributed to having to work odd hours or high energy jobs leaving little for personal time which video games can cater too
@@RedundantRicoif you noticed that house looked pretty much completely empty just some furniture and that about it. . .
Same cupcakes who would legit cry tears if it happened to them. To the “real” girls, y’all hoes.
“It’s all I have!”
The draining sound of his voice after the girlfriend turns off his console is so… I can’t even describe it. That girl probs stole a lot from him mentally and physically. I hope he’s good now.
That anguished and emotionally exhausted "Why...?"
Well she filmed herself doing it and posted it for clout. Dude has put up with a lot that she was SO bored she had to do this.
its better than drinking , and its better than doing drugs , and hes not out cheating on her sorry ass.
@@TheLikenessOfNormal I think I can answer that my friend. I would feel the same way as that guy too.
I work 10 hours a day, work out to stay in shape and have a lot of debt to pay off. The only thing I have for entertainment is a pc with a tb full of games.
I would react the same way if someone interrupts one of my few quiet moments I get to have. Everyone has their own way of relaxing and I don't think it's funny that the woman treats him that badly.
He didn't wanna raise his voice because she was READY to frame him as abusive.
I'd rather be single than deal with that hell lmao
She didn't even offer an alternative to do something together, she just went for the attack and recorded it to humiliate him publicly. I hope he dumped her, he deserves better.
Did you hear their conversation before? No you were not even there.
@@ashleylove6840 If he's so engaged in the game it's clear they weren't having any conversation at the moment, and she could have recorded it to try to justify what she did, but she didn't. Unless YOU were there, then you can tell me otherwise. I'll judge only by what I see. And I see a toxic girlfriend. You can see his frustration, I'd bet it's not the first time she does something to annoy him to this level.
@@ashleylove6840 why are you trying so hard to defend her
I saw your replies in other comments as well
It doesn't matter what happened before she started recording you just don't do something like that and post it on the internet
She wants attention the internet is giving her attention
It's like a man slapping a woman's makeup from her hand and then posting it in the internet
@@damagedcanofbeans I've just been reading and your right, its the same person on half of the comments lol clearly SOMEONE got ignored for some video games at some point X,D and as you know, that simply isnt allowed!
@@damagedcanofbeans No its not the same as throwing makeup, makeup does not take 5 hours to do. It's more like your girlfriend watching TV shows all day, every day, and never spends time with you. If you like that then you can find someone like that. For me personally I need balance.
Ruining a relationship is one of the worst offenses out there. When thinking of wanting to separate from your partner, you must talk thoroughly and try to be on good terms with them. As adults, we must be responsible for our own actions.
What about murder?
@@turkeyswissandcheddaronwho8203 ummm
dude you are at the top of the comment section of all of his videos in teh lastWeek
@@turkeyswissandcheddaronwho8203 Bro murder is a crime, they’re talking about offenses.
@@BQjesuHD I'd be pretty offended if I was murdered
My ex-girlfriend once got mad at me for gaming on my computer, she claimed we never spend time together... I had just spent the entire day with her and she was literally 5 feet away from me when I was on the computer. I told her we just spent the day together (it was like 8pm), and she answered the day isn't over. I asked her what she wanted from me at that very moment. She said she wanted me to sit down and watch TV with her... like I said we were 5 feet apart, in line of sight of one-another. I was simply not doing what she was doing and that was apparently a problem. She then said gaming is unhealthy. We were 2 months in at that point. I kind of snapped back to reality, and I told her alright - that's it. Get your shit and leave. I called her a cab and paid for it upfront. The next morning I gathered her shit and dropped it in front of her place and left. She tried calling me over and over again, she wanted to talk - but I had realized she was insane. Six months later I found my current gf of 5 years and nothing of the sort has ever come close to happening. Some women refuse to be happy and keep moving the goalpost. A tip I would give other men would be to find a woman that has her own hobbies. If she doesn't have any, you'll be her hobby and she'll start behaving like you owe her all of your time.
The "being with her" and doing the same thing with her. It's just another insane women logic that keeps me single. I'm an adult and have adult responsibility all day, I need my time. We're in the same room, what the do you want anymore?
It's all about her seeing if she can control everything, but this isn't the case with every woman. Glad you found someone who supports your hobbies.
Sounds like you dodged a bullet, hope things are going well with your current gf.
Dude my best friend's ex was just like this. They'd have a whole day together of dates and quality time, he'd go to decompress and play for an hour or two before bed, and suddenly she'd complain that he never gives her enough attention.
Hope things have been and continue going well with your current relationship!
@@SuperNicktendoEntertainment my ex wife was like this. She actually took the power cord one time not knowing I had an extra one. She was livid when she found me gaming and I flipped the script on her. “What if I took the tv power cord during your favorite show?” Absolute insanity.
As a woman who loves videogames, I can see *why* he's saying "it's all I have", because what he clearly does *not* have is a significant other that has a basic respect for him, let alone any love for him.
I would play devil's advocate and say "she probably believes it to be a bad habit and tries to snap him out of it", except that a truly caring person would not record their close one while putting them in a miserable position. That's just vile.
It's sad to hear him when he says that it's all he has, not because it's pathetic or anything, but because I'm willing to bet she's driven off all his friends and family, and he works to pay for everything, he's not fat or overweight or anything, home boy looks pretty fit, again, I'd be willing to bet the games aren't all he has, their just all he has left after her.
Honestly, when he says that gaming is all he has, I believe him. Seriously, what else in their home is solely his? The way his girlfriend acts in the clip, I wouldn't be surprised if even she wasn't just for him.
If my woman walks into the room I'm I'm and is filming me for ABY, I repeat very strongly, ANY REASON WHATSOEVER, she is no longer my gf.
I refuse! To date a woman that is above the age of 30 and does any tiktok, video, social media trend bullshitm NO! THOSE THINHS ARE CHILD MINDED HUMANS, LITERALLY THEY FOR CHILDREN. Jesus christ, let's simply address THAT. It is not NORMAL behavior to be doing that, ESPECIALLY to people without beforehand consent. See, why do women push their shit onto men for no reason?
This! This is why men don't wanna be around women anymore ladies, you all are the problem. Fucking wild how so many women are just terrible humans now. Like Jesus fucking christ. God damn. Our society is being ruined because no one wants to be a grown up and address rhe REAL problem. Women.
100%
seriously, like one of the commenters said, she treated him like a child and that was very inappropriate. it says a lot about how she views him as a "partner" because it implies that she only uses him to satisfy her own needs regardless of his.
Honestly
Turning off a videogame isn't usually enough to ruin a relationship
And from that reaction and the fact she was recording and posting for laughs she's probably been doing a lot more behind the scenes
To be fair if I had a gf and she did this to then post it on the internet I'd dump her cause clearly she cares more about clout than me
@@parafaust6201 Periodt.
Turning off somebody's console is 100% enough to ruin any kind of relationship. Especially if its for a tiktok.
She couldn't care less about the things you care about or what makes you happy, demands your attention 24/7, does what she wants without regard for anyone else, and now you can't trust her to not act impulsively and now you know she has zero mental/emotional maturity.
Its almost like if my girl was knitting and I burned her project right before she finished. Or if I stomped on it in the mud and left it outside for cats to piss on. Anyone with a brain would dump you immediately after that. Except games can take even more time to complete and you're fucked if your game doesn't have autosave
@@parafaust6201 yeah that's the thing
There's also the "it's all I have" comment he made
Sounds like he's been through a lot honestly :(
@@parafaust6201good move, good call
"It's all I have" really shows how worthless and replaceable she is, and how she gives him no peace.
He's saying "It's all i have" because its clearly him telling her that she's killing their relationship by taking all of his happiness.
I be like “well I’m leaving for awhile
My ex was like that. She didn’t mind that I was playing video games, she just didn’t like that I wasn’t constantly paying attention to her. She did it with literally every hobby I had, she isolated me from my friends and even some of my family. She has borderline personality disorder and she was CONSTANTLY afraid, that if I wasn’t waiting on her hand and foot, that I was losing interest. The irony was that I lost interest BECAUSE her expectations were so unattainable. She was a violent, manipulative and downright angry human being, with no thought of anyone but herself. I guess she realizes what she lost; she has a kid with another guy now and she’s been trying to get back together with me since the day I dumped her. She begged me to take her back while she was pregnant with his kid; I think she wanted to trick me into thinking she was mine. Pure evil. It’s why I have primary custody of our son, even with a history of opioid addiction. This woman wore me down so much, that I became addicted to heroin; that video brought me back to where it all began. It was stuff like that, the feeling of her taking away every single thing I ever enjoyed. I felt that video in my soul. That simple button push and the public shaming, tells me everything I need to know about that woman; I’ve already lived it.
@@robotron1236 glad you got out of that dude take care
"I jUsT DoNt UnDeRsTanD why He ChEaTeD"
"Girls always ask why grown men are still playing videogames, its the same reason you don't leave the house without makeup. Its a nice little escape from reality."
-gta radio
Him saying" it's all I have" leads me to believe that she's essentially done this to every other hobby he had and this was the last vestige of a past life he was so desperately hanging on to and she delivered the killing blow with the power button
That’s why I start every relationship outlining what I am like and how I get down. I make sure to express that I will NOT change in certain ways, we all grow as people granted but there are things that were here before you and if you even attempt to get in the way then they will be here after you. I have no issue in moving schedules around or making every effort to spend time either cause when I date someone it’s because I genuinely want them BUT I am very blunt upfront about this. If you like me and want to be in a relationship with me then these things are part of me and they aren’t going anywhere.
@@SS_Psyops damn dude how many relationships you been in? Need to be judging these women better. Its important bc once you get to relationship number 5 or 6 by age 30, statistically, your odds of a life-long relationship is down to 1 in 100,000 by then--although this statement really only works for women since they have so much choice in the current time dating markets making that figure much much more reliably accurate. But you still want to avoid it. I suggest you read the surviving infidelity subreddit or watch some red pill stuff and it will help you judge these women way way way better....at least that's what helped me. It freaking changed my life man.
@@ChadDidNothingWrong the moment you make romantic feelings, something completely illogical and based on feelings only, a number game is the moment you lose. You aren't "making your odds better" by being rich or behaving a certain way, what you are doing is attracting people to the persona you are creating, one that you will sooner or later, accidently or on purpose, get exposed as the fake one. You can only find true love (meaning unconditional, based on personality and mutual positive feelings) if you act honest and truthful. What no one tells people is-work on your disadvantages and faults. Only someone who understands your fights is worth your time
Correct assessment. Later she'll see him as a sullen, broken shell of his former self and leave him, her mission to destroy a man complete.
That's why you don't touch crazy girls with a 10 foot poll. Crazy guys usually become physically abusive and end up in jail. Crazy girls are emotionally abusive, which at least in my opinion is far destructive
The passion behind that brother saying "It's all I have" says a lot. This relationship was on life support before that happened.
she just pulled the plug
She just killed that life support.
Does he/they know?? 👀👀💀💀🤣🤣🤣 It’s just a video about a product advertisement. What is happening is not a real situation!!!
@@Bruskisan Ah so treating a man like this is ok. Interesting marketing strategy. Maybe they should also turn the lights off while the girls is puting on make up that would be interesting marketing strategy.
@@Bruskisan it never showed any brands lmao your goofy 💀
As a chick who videogames to relax after work with my friends, I would be genuinely pissed off if my partner thought they had the right to dictate what I do after work to unwind. I could understand if she talked to him privately and asked to spend time together or something, but she didn't do that. She recorded it, had am amused tone, and clearly it wasn't about giving a shit about her partner. Videogames help a ton with stress and depression. It gives your mind something to focus on and often times a means to problem solve.
Not to simp but you're a 10
@@lexnight834511 year old account
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respect sis
@@otal0721 ? I don't get it
"I deleted my son's 2 year Minecraft world, why is he upset with me?" is like a kid saying "I ripped my mom's plush doll that she made when she was a kid, why is she upset with me?"
I'm a woman dating a gamer. It's not something he does constantly, since he's waiting to buy a new system, but I actually like joining him while he plays, I like watching him play and sometimes I'd even join in. I don't see the point in turning the system off for no reason, or to do some dumb stuff like "oh this is all you do". Women tend to be so harsh when it comes to men's hobbies, but he's not over here slapping your phone out your hand and telling you that you're always on your phone, is he? We all have things we like to do, especially for destressing. Let your men (partner) cook, ladies, or gents, or nonbinary peeps.
(High five) I'm an AFAB nonbinary person dating a gamer guy. Oftentimes I do feel sad because I can't join him on his gaming. A. Because quite frankly I'm too stupid. I just can't understand anything with that stuff. And B. Because I'm just not into video games, they don't really interest me at all. I'm an artist, I'm a musician, THAT'S my passion. It makes me sad that I have to always be excluded from that aspect of his life. But I get over it. Because he can't really get into the music, art and theater stuff that I'm into. I'm a born performer who is meant to be on stage. But he doesn't care about any of that. We just have our own things that the other person can't truly be included in. It's just part of our relationship. The only game he and I play together....a LOT is Stardew Valley. That's the kind of game I can play. A farming game, a game with fighting and a game where you interact with characters and fall in love. It's the perfect game for me and we love playing together. Sometimes we marry each other and sometimes we marry our respective loves (He loves Sophia and I love Leah). Yes we both get jealous of the other person's wife but it's all in good fun. We never rage quit or anything. We just play, help each other and have a good time. The only time I ever have an issue with his gaming is when he is choosing to do that during our designated time together especially if it's a special occasion for us such as our anniversary. If it was our anniversary and he chose to spend it playing with his friends instead of spending time with me I would be furious. But other than that I don't care. I want him to have fun with his friends and have ways to enjoy life besides me.
@@N0body130 AAYYYEEE ANOTHER FAN WHATS UUUPPP
Lol, if I meant a girl and the first thing she says is" call me non binury blah blah blah.
Imma walk away lol.
@@ownlydown5933 Jesus, you sound like you're very close-minded. If you can't accept the identity of a potential love interest, I don't know about you being on the market. I mean no disrespect about that, but I, personally, would want nothing to do with ya, sorry. 🤷♀️
@@Milkumms._ having a personal preference towards women isnt being “closed minded”, it’s called being based, and having that minuscule gap of a condition won’t hinder his ability to date someone, and I’m pretty sure he’s WAY better off without having anything to do with YOU, sorry not sorry🤷♂️
She treated him like a child, it's clearly an insult. She even recorded it so she intends on embarrassing him in front of others. This is a very toxic relationship and probably should have ended a while ago.
She didn't treat him like a child, she acted like a child. Children will walk up and just shut stuff off, or yank toys from each other.
@@hermanphilips4617 Both are true statements I think. Well, she didn't really act like a child as such, she acted like an entitled, modern, Western woman who thinks she is the centre of the universe and can't be told no ... actually, yes, a child.
@@hermanphilips4617 she did treat him like a child. Stop trying to take blame away from her just because she’s a woman it’s obvious. She was trying to antagonize that man and bother him and get a reaction out of him. That’s why she walked into his room with a camera on and turned off his fucking game. She wanted to catch him on camera doing something wrong because she’s a piece of filth. Personally, I say people who wanna bully others like that in life deserve to get beat.
@@kidkold7242 HM...
I wonder why the domestic abuse rates were so high pre-1960.
A lot of people blame alcohol and drunkeness. But why did the men prefer to go out and get blackout drunk in the first place?
Answer: Entitled, Childish, and Disrespectful women. On top of situations outside of eithers' control.
@@hermanphilips4617dude that happened to me the other day, I was trying to do something on Xbox and my two year old nephew walks up and pushes the power button…..I was pisses
This is the equivalent of a man walking into a nail salon or hair salon and pulling his girl out of the chair while they are halfway done. The standards for equal relationships are so unequal It is insane.
Oh that ever happens, the women will RAGE XD
oh perfect analogy like girl you go out and do your shit let him or any gamer enjoying their game woman was /is a damn child
I was trying to think of something to compare this to. You did it better than I could.
I was thinking more the girlfriend is out shopping, and the guy comes in and yanks her out without.
My girlfriend is a gamer and ive had a talk with her before about doing something like this. We both agreed that if either one of us was to do this to the other, we would leave eachother in a heartbeat and not look back. We love eachother and we've been playing games together for the past 3 years now, but we both agree that doing something like this is like taking an avid readers book out of their hands and ripping it in half right infront of their face. It doesnt give them a chance to finish what they were doing and immediately takes the joy out of any situation they were previously in. I love this woman because of the fact that she understands its just a way for me to let off steam after a hard day at work instead of getting mad or snapping at her because I have no platform to vent with. Besides, she does the same and for the same reason.
She’s a keeper bro. You better take good care of her.
@@joshthetrainfan I just hope she doesn't strangle me when I do something stupid 😂
@@chrishood8522 if I ever return to dating, same here.
She knew exactly what she was doing. She came in, probably *right* after he got back from a rough day at work and just wanted to unwind, with a camera in hand. She took that last little joy from him while talking to him in a disrespectful way and, most fucked up of all, you could practically hear the joy in her voice as she did it. She then posted it all online to humiliate him.
Man responded in a mature way to somebody who just did something incredibly rude for selfish reasons, and anybody who takes this chick' side is either a moron or a selfish manipulator as well.
Got one of those defending her floating around the comment section...
Nooooo muh heckin patriarchy women can do nothing wrong it's all men's fault!!!!!
@@palladiamorsdeusYeah that person's girl must have them on such a tight leash that they can't even see how mentally manipulated they are to be defending this type of behavior.
Agreed
How do you know that he was "right after a rough day"? Maybe he was playing for 12h in a row? lol
Everyone is beating around the bush. She did something abbrasive with the intent to piss him off and then everyone is defending her, which means they think it is ok to be a menace to people when you don't like something they spend their time on, specifically a boyfriend of theirs. That's called being evil.
I was confused with this comment. Thought you were talking about the comment section, but it was the video lol. Yeah, everyone who agrees with her are the same people that do the exact same and wonder why they can't keep a relationship or their significant other doesn't want to spend time with them.
Women ☕
Bro I didn't have a girlfriend a few years ago when was I think 10 or younger but we were at my friends house for daycare after school and for the first in my life I was playing a rugby game and this one girl didn't want me to play the game and instead play with them and kept turning of the PS2 I was pissed bro and was one and only time I played a good rugby game and never got passed the first match bro 😢.
@@elijahaitaok8624 Fucking underrated comment. This deserves an award.
If no one understood your reference, I swear.
@@g4m3rwolf80 yea. I was seeing People arguing whether it was ok to do or not given the situation when the entire deal was preposterous. If you've got an issue with something someone does you don't just fuck with them to try and piss them off, especially not a partner.
Had an ex get mad, fully raging, because I was playing Fallout 4 a good few years back.
She knew I played PC games and usually didn't mind.
Turns out it was because my guy had Piper as his romantic companion and my gf was jealous.
Jealous _of a video game character._
Wow a grown woman jealous of a fucking video game character. If she can't handle that then she doesn't deserve you. Hope you're enjoying ur game now
LOL chicks man. My husband and I fight over who's better, Yennifer or Triss. 🤪
reminds me of the girl who snapped his mans xbox copy of fallout 4 almost clean in half
and if i had a cent for everytime i heard of someones girl getting absolutely pissed about Piper being their companion
i could buy Fallout 4 all over again
@@sanguinedelight6464 To be fair, I probably didn't help when I called my ex 'Piper' mid-coitus, just to see what she'd do.
Tried to throw me off like one of those mechanical bulls.
Not my fault Piper = Best Girl.
@@MostlyCloudy triss is the only right answer
That female mindset “ loving me is the only hobby you need”.
Agreed
If loving a woman is a hobby, then why is it not enjoyable most of the time?
If you don't want to date a guy who plays video games. Don't date a man then cut out the video games. Find a guy who doesn't play them in the first place.
literally
You don't get it. She's pushing his boundaries and trying to control him and make him what she wants. You're right but she wouldn't listen to you
You think its that simple? People have two faces. In the beginning of the relationship they show they want to spend time with you even if they play video games its a balance between spending time with you and playing video games. Then they just ignore you and play all the time. If it was that easy, to know a person's real self, then no one would have relationship problems.
@@ashleylove6840 Well it obviously goes both ways if the guy is losing interest and something is tipping that "balance" lol
@@ashleylove6840 The girl literally wanted to get watch clout by recording it all, posting online, and mocking him. Yes people have two faces but this woman has 4 more
It's one thing to address an issue you have with someone, it's another thing to intentionally upset them and film them publicly, smh you deserve better bro
Men aren't allowed to express anything to a woman because you say anything they don't like they can use the hard power not soft power as it is called, and ruin a man's life with one lie and people won't ask for evidence because it is a woman.
Not only that but he couldve paused it if its a one player game, put it in sleep mode, and gave her time for the conversation. The fact that she didnt even give him the chance to close down what he was doing to make time for her is appalling shes no human being if compassion dosnt exist thats a demon looking for attention
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as a girl, i have never understood these are girls who make their bfs choose between them and a video game. like, if you're so desperate to spend time with him, then just play with him and if ur not into video games, you can find something you both like doing. compromise. thats how relationships work.
randomhuman it's about control. Also some people see compromise as a bad thing
You're a special girl, straight 10.. but most women don't like compromises is like a poison to them. And those who give ultimatums like " it's me or the x thing " exhibit control and manipulation sometimes knowingly or by instinct , they believe the man would not leave them ... and most won't so they give up on whatever for this because it's in our nature
It's me or ps5 situation lol
Unfortunately communication isn't something those women think of at all.
Also, 99/100 the guy will choose the video game anyway. It's just an alternative way to break up with someone at this point
My ex-girlfriend used to get angry that I played games for a few hours while she watched TLC all day long. I always asked her why one is ok, but not the other..
Some people are just lack empathy. You dodged a bullet.
@myhandlehasbeenmishandled Indeed. Now, she complains to me about her husband, which is interesting. She was boring anyway and now I am here playing a game in peace.
"It's all I have."
What's not mentioned: she probably dictates everything in his life. He can't see his friends because they are "a bad influence" to him or might go out and "cheat on her."
He can't watch his programs because they are "boring" or "cliche." He can't have a personal space or workbench because she doesn't want to feel alone. I've seen this with a relative in his relationship. Poor dude is miserable and trapped.
I went through the same thing. I worked and came home. At home I tried to relax by reading or gaming. But my wife at the time felt threatened by anything that took attention away from her. So I did the smart thing a cut out the waste in my life. I walked out.
The person with your relative is a trainer. I'm sorry to say.
@@MollyHJohns Yup. She sits on her ass while he works 16 hr shifts.
Perfect "trainer" material on being cautious when choosing a partner.
Bet you are just like her.
How I feel right fucking now
@@wesleycooper1834 If he/she won't accept to grow after an honest convo, you should seriously think about breaking up with them or take distance/forcefully put boundaries.
Funny how videogames get extremely criticized as a hobby, but you never see people freaking out like this over someone watching movies all day every day.
It's just watching a movie that you happen yo be in control of.
A lot of times with Sony exclusives, it’s literally that.
Even when reading something. As Pegasus says, the books you're reading might not be the most thought-provoking things, or maybe they are but it flies over your head. Actually, books are just as much content as video games, often times they intertwine, especially if those games include touching and thought-provoking plot. I say this as someone who prefers to read over playing video games, they're practically going to give you the same level of amusement, whether it was pointless or profound.
@@Пинагод This is very true!
And nowadays any brainlet can get something published in basically any medium.
The funny part about watching TV is that it's been seen in a few studies that your brain has less high functions going on than sleeping. Yes, higher brain functions happen while you sleep than watching TV.
@@kraigisboss lol that's pretty funny, but does make sense. I don't know all the details, but I think your brain has to kinda process what happened in the day as you sleep so you're refreshed for the next day. Watching TV, on the other hand, is almost a hypnotic experience depending on what you're watching lol
Him saying "It‘s all I have" is likely because it‘s the only hobby he enjoys and has time for (work/school might get in the way of learning a new hobby). I don‘t understand why some women try to dunk on video games, like if you wanna hang out just say "when you finish your match can we hang out?" or something along those lines. Most of the time if you JUST ASK dudes will accept if you give them a few minutes
Some women dunk of video games because they have no hobby outside of their narcissism .
@@lexnight8345 now let's dunk women who does make up
@@star.cruz123 bro out here on demon time 💀💀
@@star.cruz123 Count me in!
ye instead he should of been reading a book or watching TV cause thats much better than playing a video game right? /s
Turning off a console like that risks causing damage to the hard drive, so I don't blame him either.
No, it doesn't. It's not a Win98 computer...and it didn't damage the hard drive back then, it screwed up the software. Power on/off does nothing to the hardware in a platter drive...dropping or jostling it while it is on does.
@jamesrudnicky5937 You've obviously not done your research. Powering off a pc/console unexpectedly (whether through an outage, surge, or cycling the switch) can and will cause damage. If you're lucky, it's just data corruption. If not, I've seen HDD's crack/shatter. I used to rebuild PC's/consoles and I lived in an area with an unreliable powergrid and lost 2 PC hard drives and a PS4 hard drive this very way. Stop trying to sound smart when you're not.
@@cameronwhite2760 sounds like faulty hardware, likely some of the models that were recalled. The drive models no data center would ever use.
There is what CAN happen vs what SHOULD happen. You get what you pay for, for starters. Secondarily, shit happens.
However, it isn't SUPPOSED to happen.
But hey yeah, I'm uninformed. Nevermind IT certifications, several years of actively doing IT administration for a public library when 98 was brand new, multitudes of gaming computers built for others, years of repairing laptops.
Usually what burns out is capacitors within the hardware. This can happen ANY time power is cycled on or off, even properly. Starting and stopping current is the most damaging thing a computer takes, and even then, when power buttons were physical switches, the power button broke more often than something burnt out.
A console has basically been a PC since playstation2 (it literally used a Pentium 2 BX Intel board, the same board used for most computers sold at the time, as well as a rather ridiculous amount of advanced weaponry like guided missiles).
The SAFEST thing for hardware is to be constantly in one state or the other. Either never turn it on, or never turn it off.
Likewise, any SATA hard drive (like has been standard for 20 years now) are hot-swappable...IE you are literally pulling it out of the running device and putting a different one in it's place. This would be literally impossible to do without damaging the hardware if it worked as you think it does.
Your issues sound more like damage from a power SURGE, likely because the grid would cut out with it's lack of reliability, never got ACTUALLY turned off (or more properly, unplugged) so that it didn't immediately take the incoming hard surge when power was restored.
Like when you forget to pay the power bill, and when they turn it back on, they ask you to start by unplugging sensitive devices and turning off power at your breaker panel until service is turned back on. The power company will TELL YOU TO DO THIS every time.
...but just turning it off without going through the shutdown process does NOTHING to the hardware like you think it does.
How is power loss supposed to break hardware and especially HDD?
@@Alexis-kg1sm During power fluctuations the disks in an HDD will be slowing down and speeding up as the electricity goes in and out. This can lead to stress fractures over time. I've pulled Hard drives out of computers that have failed after a power outage just to find the disks fractured many a time. SSD's are not susceptible to this type of damage thankfully. Though this problem was more common in older HDD's, newer HDD's have improvements to prevent/reduce the chance of damage.
She did it with camera in hand. This means her approval from her peers means more than improving her partner's happiness. The fact that he says, "it's all I have" just means their relationship is one sided... leaning more to her priorities.
You are reading too much into it
@@jacobwinkelman4704 The second parts a bit odd, but the first part is correct
@@NonSoSmartPerson he is seeing red right now. He is not at his most articulate. "It's all I have" could mean this is his one vice. He doesn't drink, smoke, etc. It could mean it's his one source of happiness. Any sort of grand definitive proclamations on what he means are presumptuous at best.
@@jacobwinkelman4704 Right, but that's not what I'm talking about
That "It's all I have" hit me hard. I've been there... Hardly making rent, working long ass hours just to eat... That man needs to run.
As a woman, i don't understand why so many other women (specifically those who don't play games) are on such a constant high horse and think they can do whatever tf they want just because they don't understand what gaming is. I'm on my computer on a daily basis, either playing or drawing, and since my bf plays too its perfect. Like god, women, give the others some space and perhaps learn what it means to have different hobbies.
Self-centeredness, lack of boundaries. My cousin did that with her boyfriend. She unplugged the router when he was streaming. He'd some out and everything was working. She did it because 'he didn't spend enough time with me'. She punished him for breaking rules that she made up, and as far as I know, never communicated to him. They eventually broke up; I suspect behavior like this contributed to it.
Its almost as hinging on your relationship solely for your entertainment leads to terrible consequences.
Wouldnt say its just women. Men and women both do this. Some friends of mine that became toxic cause of this stupid she vs him shit is so annoying and have proven to me that so many mfers are NOT ready for relationships lol
Not surprised tho, same kinda people who use money to brag about success when swindling money from people is the world's easiest job
I agree.
Some women dont like men doing things that dont benefit them directly or inderectly
If anyone was to pull that stunt with me, they would be very quickly picking their teeth up😊
"masculinity is toxic "
"I want real man"
WTF you want me to do?
cool tips for being a human:
- dont try to impress toxic people
- make friends with good people
@@user-hn4zn9nx3c yes
Best thing i figured out long ago is never try to find logic in female thinking
@@user-hn4zn9nx3c YES
Knock her ass out, I guess.
She's single instantly. My house, my money. GTFO rude 🐝
the fact she recorded it, says enough about her intentions, she wanted to enrage him, she could have taken a controller and join him to have time together.. even if you dont like it... having interest in what your partner likes is part of the relationship
Or even just grabbing a blanket and cuddling up to him. Even just sitting with him would've meant the world.
@@alexandercuevas6783 exactly!
Well this woman is completely incapable of love. She’s a narcissist, only cares about themself. Its all about me me me, and never about you. Love is mutual care about one another.
My missus is a gamer too so this is never an issue ... other than when I want to go off exploring and she wants to do a Raid :lol:
@@dallassukerkin6878 Those are the worst issues you should have. have fun exploring and raiding!
Only legends know how bad it feels when this happens
Only legends will have a girlfriend
@@shoebill4902Damn good one
Legend has it I had a girlfriend
🥲
@@forthewinj Legend has it I've never dated in my life 😺🙂
This is where legends cried
Turning someones game off is sorta like slapping someone's book out of there hands (minus the pain).
More like if you were reading a book and in middle of an inportant chapter and someone just rips those pages out and asks you to start again
or snatching their favourite plushie
Or making a beutiful artwork and midway someone just tearing it apart
Trust me there’s lots of pain
Bro, my cousin once switched off power to my house just to screw me over. That shit was devious
She cared so much that she had to film a private matter publicly.
All I can say is that your PFP is cultured .
LITERALLY
The "it's all i have😫" box makes her reasouning obvious.
I'm surprised that your pfp and channel banner are allowed on yt
@@lb_tempted9224 🤣🤣🤣 where have you been ? TH-camKids pushes borderline p3do content to children . They don't give a fk about your pfp, I've seen worse... like those bots with OF girls
I have done this to my kids a couple of times after telling them five times to get off the video games but I would NEVER do this to my husband. I’m not a huge gamer but I understand it is a great way to relieve stress. If his gaming got in the way of him being an active partner I would have a discussion with him about it LIKE AN ADULT. We all need some “me” time even when we don’t get much together time (we have three kids, work, house chores, outside commitments). I actively look for video games he might like. Being empathetic and thoughtful to your partner goes a LONG way. I’ve been with my husband for 30 years (and have three AMAZING kids) but I could be wrong.
So you turn off your kids consoles instead of talking to them about why they aren't listening to you but you would talk to your husband about video games if it was impacting your relationship?
@@lightningrose3654 yes because my kids don’t always believe there are consequences for ignoring me hence the warning then consequence. My husband is a mature adult that I can simply tell him I have an issue and we fix it. Luckily, my kids are maturing quite nicely and now understand after a warning consequences WILL follow. The warnings are enough now.
@@lightningrose3654 Fr Imagine What Those Kids Were going through and you just ignored them.
@@lightningrose3654she did tell them 5 times to stop tho
@@lightningrose3654 Nah lets be honest kids at a young age shoyldnt really spend 10hrs in video games. Not only does it hurt the eyes it also stunts the physical development in a kid. Much better to put some rest time for kids.
Even if she had a valid point that he spent too much time on the game, she was still out of line to ruin his game like that. It matters to him and she couldn’t wait five minutes to talk to him. It feels kinda exploitative because she had her phone recording everything for views.
dude, her approach may not have been the best but those lines along with his reaction show that he may be addicted.
@@jellymatsuryuka6853 side eye
Well five mins always turn into 5 hours
@@jellymatsuryuka6853 if that is so he can work on it but now he wont even try because his girlfriend was a rude jerk.
This is not how you convince people to hear your side.
@@Kookiedolll not if she waits until the game is over like any rational adult would. She can't wait five minutes but she insists that he talk to her right now with out even asking.
No matter what argument she used, posting this on social media completely invalidated it. She clearly did this because she found it amusing to watch the man she supposedly loves suffer, and her be the cause of it. Like others have said; if she sees this behaviour as normal enough to post, what else has she been doing behind the scenes. It still gets me fuming just as much as the first time I watched it.
Don't forget about the attention, "likes", and clout she probably got on her socials. Lots of women, not all of course, but a lot, will gas each other up over this kinda stuff nowadays.
@@tino5735 EXACTLY
@@tino5735 So true. Narcissism and ego thrives on social media. The older generation like to say that there was less of these type of people around before, but I disagree. Now it's just more at the forefront. People have always done stupid things for attention, the only difference now is that there's more choices for said validation. As a woman myself, I agree with your statement about the emabling behaviour between women. Men do that too of course, but women are far more manipulative and calculating when it comes to these sort of things; as were more inclined to be emotional. I mean, just look at the fat-acceptance movement, literally all of them are women, apart from a gay man here and there. As it's all based on people's feelings. Abuse doesnt have a gender, but certain forms will be far more likely depending on the abuser being male or female. In other words, this pathetic excuse of a women is disgusting.
If that's his house it seems like a pretty dope place which means he's got a good job so let him have his peace while playing
Looks nice.
literally,if the dude earnt the place and earnt what he spending his time on
tf u gonna do,cry?
@@sanguinedelight6464 this new age of females would
@@tlbryant4697 frfr
People finding people who sometimes like to play some videogames 'unattractive' is so weird to me.
Like most of the same people aren't just spending hours of their day mindles on their smartphones/ watching tv/ watch youtube.
The gamers actually have to actively engage with what they are consuming.
I ain't a gamer myself that much.
But just because it isn't for me doesn't mean it is lesser than other hobbies or that the experiences can't be worth it.
There are some real frigging works of art games.
You know what i feel unattractive?
People with no hobbies/ passions.
coming from a dude who plays video games on a regular its a way off escaping from reality, a lot of people do it as a way of peace and im sure lots of other people just do it for fun and far as im concerned theres nothing wrong with a man or women in a relationship playing games as long as they make time for eachother and not just for themselves.
My boyfriend got me into gaming like a year ago when I was bored and he handed me his Switch to play acnh. No we also have a minecraft world together with my two brothers and it's just super fun to be able to have this hobby together. Tbh before I looked down upon gamers too and always said I didn't understand why anyone would game but that's probably just my parent's opinion that's been echoing in my head since they always told us that gaming is for people who don't have any imagination unlike BOOKS where you have to imagine he whole world (I read twilight as a teenager and that really was a waste of time lol).
Idk I just wanted to give my perspective as someone who looked down on gaming and now do it myself too. I think there's a lot of stigma around gaming and people imagine guys that never shower when they think of gamers. I also hate that everyone thinks reading books equals being smart like I said twilight was a waste of time and did not made me smarter in any way.
@@yatshie8717agreed, I commend you for being open to video games, unlike some others who wouldn’t even give it a chance.
exactly, an escape from reality. kind of like makeup.
@@yatshie8717why do women like animal crossing and stardew? It's literally a chore simulator just do chores irl that will your bf happier
@@sebaschan-uwu that's kinda like asking why some people like slice of life. Some people just enjoy a little simulator where they can steadily grow their little home, interact with cute characters, etc. You might prefer something with more action or a more immersive and engaging story, but some just want a very casual and lighthearted experience. For women who are not avid gamers, something like slice of life that has aspects they can easily relate to makes those games easier to enjoy. I personally play games on both ends of the spectrum based on my mood.
As a female gamer. I felt his frustration. He was very calm considering. I'd have lost my crap.
@milk glue
@@calciumoverlord minecraft balls
@milk hairy phallus
@milk spoiled milk
If he lost his crap in any way he'd probably be in jail.
It is important to note that the girlfriend didn't just walk in, get upset, and turn off his console. She recorded the whole thing, because it was more important for her to score points on the internet then her relationship was to her. Its very easy to forget that when you watch a video online, they had to go out of their way to record that video. And unless you have some strange compulsion to record every second of your life, there is an ulterior motive to that clip of your life getting recorded besides just living it.
Yeah you don't film something like that if you are trying to actually have a serious discussion, anyone with self respect doesn't air their dirty laundry on the internet unless they have mental issues cause she 100% did it for her own ego to farm people who agree with her to make her feel justified and ignore anyone disagreeing. I wouldn't leave her for turning off the game but I would leave her for posting it on social media cause that shows you care more about some clout or your own ego over our relationship that you'd make something like that public to our friends, family and strangers its just straight up disrespectful to your partner.
In the old times (boomer time), some woman would drag her family to show everyone how useless his man are, now days they using video and want to see world hate his man...
Excellent point! I think an equivalent for her would be if he grabbed her phone and deleted a bunch of content from her social media.
my last recording was 6 years ago lol
I'm all for the right to record stuff but I still say that so many problems would be solved if people could recognize when to turn the fucking camera off!
I started limiting my gaming to only 2 hours a week about 25 years ago. I would game on Sundays. My girlfriend said nothing about it for a month, and then she would come into the computer room and start bitching when I hadn't even been playing for an hour. I dumped her soon after.
Having experienced that myself... You sir have my respect, hope the very best for you :)
If a woman ever does this to you. Don't argue. Don't get mad. Get up and silently leave the room. Continue giving her the silent treatment. They HATE it when you deny them the drama they're craving and that's what this was. She wanted an argument.
Nah, silent treatment is just as childish tbh. If you're in a relationship where you think you need to give the other person silent treatment, you should just find a healthier relationship. Relationships aren't about out-maneuvering the other person for a result that's desirable to yourself.
Yeah your right games are for losers, i'm going to the strip club like a real man bye!. This way she gets the video she wanted and your not playing anymore so she gets a double win.
@@JR-kv6ez you know back then i used to believe it easy to get out of a relationship... until i learn how psychotic other people can be in a relationship
@@dcry1003 That's when you get a restraining order.
@@JR-kv6ez you'd be surprised how useful it is to these narcissists
It's not the fact she turned his game off but it's also the fact she came in recording him as if to catch him in a "i got you " moment.
exactly. so goofy
She wanted to humiliate him by showing everyone how much power she has over him.
Not just recording. Also uploading to the internet.
What are you talking about, it is both ._.
she's a controlling manipulator, dump her and move on. If she can't love you because you are you, then get out of that hell.
Agreed
Agreed but if you spend most of your day playing videogames and don't caring about your partner and pretty much waste their time beeing in a relationship with someone that rather keeps playing than doing something with her, than you are just as bad. There is nothing wrong with playing videogames but a good relationship needs devotion and time together
@@JuliaJuanaRodriguez How come she can't pck up a controller and play with him if she's so upset he games and assumingly doesn't send enough time with her?? It doesn't have to be a single person experience. I use gaming as a coping mechanism for my mental health struggles. Mypartner and I both do. We play games together all the time. And it is fun, it's interesting, it can be emotional or funny depending on the game. Calm down, lern to have some fun in this depressing, horrible world.
@@JuliaJuanaRodriguez she had no interest in the game or why he was playing. it was literally just a case of her demanding him to get off and do something with her without any regard for his wants or needs
@@randomdudewithmanyinterests And when he rather plays than doing stuff with her and ignores her most of the day, than he has no regard for her. At least she tries getting him to do something with her. If she acts like him, she just wouldn't care, pack her things and leave
I feel like if someone really can’t handle a person having a hobby then they probably shouldn’t even be in a relationship. You shouldn’t have to give up the things you love to do just because of a relationship, if someone tries to force you to change then just leave them and find someone better.
As a girl, who also plays video games, this is absolutely toxic. How about just let the guy enjoy his stuff? The world doesn’t revolve around you and if you want him to spend time with you, do things WITH him. It’s so disgusting actually.
What if the guy wants you to watch him play games and have him act like you don't exist but when you decide to lay down he turns off the game and still ignores your existence unless you are watching him/helping him as he gets more irritated over stupid shit in the game? What if you ask him to watch/help in the same manner but he doesn't and then promptly falls asleep the moment you are playing because "he's bored"? You ate usually expected to watch/help him but when it's the opposite it's treated like you are nothing even though he wants you to play games.
@@nobody-xh6ii Yeah, chief, I don't think you understand why people think it was disgusting. That bitch came in RECORDING, and GIGGLING, instead of trying to do something good, or ask him to spend time together, and she posts it on TikTok for validation. That is NO WAY of doing things in a relationship.
@@nobody-xh6ii that's alot of what ifs, are you okay mate? I think you need to go outside or see a shrink.
@nobody
So, using your example...
What if a woman is constantly scrolling on her phone at the house while you are trying to spend time with her? And then in the car as you drive? And then at the Mall? During dinner? The ride home? And then...when you both lay down, she ignored you in favor of her phone?
Becuase God knows...that NEVER happens at all.
Being a wife. A mother. And an awesome girl. ... LET THE MAN PLAY HIS GAME WITH HIS FRIENDS. God damn
10/10. At least as long as the hobby does not affect the family negatively.
This mom is absolute god 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
W mom, nobody interrupts the time for the homies.
W
If you're a woman stay in your lane you have absolutely no reason to comment on any video as far as men's problems go. You women are all the same and are all the problem. And if you are 4 men's rights then you are a grifter. Trying to be a pic me is not going to get you anywhere.
As a girl, id say hes in the right (also if you dont want someone who plays video games, then dont date them in the first place). I understand adressing obsessions of your loved ones, heck even i went through that at some point, during the lowest time of my life. But just turning it off, and shoving cameras into their faces is not a way to do it. Tell him you wanna talk to him, about his addiction, youre not angry, but youre worried and talked to him without thinking about gaining clout. IF he still ignores that and still pkays video games while you try to talk, multiple times, then its time to consider breaking up, because no one is happy in that relationship
The bottom line is, she crossed a boundary that was unloving, insensitive, and inappropriate. If she doesn't like him playing video games, then she needs to have a mature conversation with him about that at a later time. In point of fact, if she doesn't like him playing video games, she probably shouldn't be in a relationship with him at all. To me, this is just as bad as if he'd interrupted her while she was listening to her favorite podcast, snatched her phone out of her hand, turned it off, then told to "get into the kitchen and do something useful!"
It's important to remember that they're both adults. They have mouths to speak and ears to listen. They're no longer children who need to be told what to do.
Talk to your partner like an adult. Because that is what you are
She doesnt' respect him. The relationship is over. The moment he realizes it the better. He should leave her immediately.
Who the hell does she think she is to dictate his hobbies at all?
"Its all I have." That's a man trying to tell her she is killing their relationship by taking his last joy...because she stopped being his joy a long time ago.
Much respect for him holding his anger back. Thats a good man.
That bruv is a Chad for holding back all the anger
@@nataliemorett1911 It takes discipline to hold your emotions in check, something boys cannot do. It's a shame you can't recognize that.
What makes him a Chad is staying in a dead relationship
Nah. The moment my girl starts acting like a child I think it's time to kick her to the curb and have another dude deal with that. I like my women with Maturity, especially if I work hard all day and am the provider.
@@PotBellyLionThan treat her well and not just as your cook and cleaner. If you care more about videogames than your partner and ignore her most of the day so you can play, than don't get together in the first place
@@JuliaJuanaRodriguezne wtf do you mean give her a attention what's he gonna do okay patty cake with her and two you don't know if he provides the money and if he does he deserves the space to just play his videogames
My wife did this once as a joke before she was my wife, needless to say i was absolutely flabbergasted. I looked right at her and said, "dont do that, i dont like that shit" she laughed, then was very apologetic and turned my xbox back on and sat next to me and watched me play for awhile. Bad joke in my case, glad no one has ever done it to me seriously and feel bad for anyone it has happened to
Sounds like you both have good communication skills!
Man I had a Minecraft server running on my computer for the house we were in at the time. We were dating/engaged and I was working a shitty industrial painting job and always dead ass tired when I got home. I came home one day and was confused when I saw the computer was off but figured I must have shut it down and forgot. Tried to turn it on and it bluescreened, fried Hard Drive.
I shrugged and said "Well that sucks." As I turned to go take a shower she grabbed my arm sobbing and said she broke it cause she turned it off with the power button instead of shutting it down.
She felt like shit but I told her it was just a computer so fuck it.
Married 9 years now. 😅
You're lucky she didn't falsely accuse you of beating her or raping her.
@@W.Isarnorix.D Credit where credit is due, she admitted she did something wrong.
@@lolzorze and she felt remorseful about which is an important point
This is equivalent to someone drawing and coloring to escape for a moment and your partner pours water on the paper to grab your attention and excuses it with "Well there's plenty of paper". She's lucky he didn't throw the controller at her.
How are all these people destroying their lives in these short amounts of time
But it said relationship not life
Edit: why 3 like I was being dumb
@@IDontHaveANamejustcallmeA I was talking about the enormous amount of pegasus videos where people destroy themselves in mere seconds
@@otter5298 ok nvm
People are dumb, sadly that's how they ruin their lives in a span of 30 seconds. Or in this case, relationships.
It's like they're competing for who can ruin their lives the fastest
If she was genuinely fed up with him "just playing games", then she would've talke to him in private. The fact she did this, recorded it and then uploaded it speaks volumes to her character.
I'm not denying some men are gaming addicts but there's a proper way to address it and this dude didn't look like a gaming addict.
@@Spiralreddhe looks like he had a bad game
"It's all I have" I really felt that
Yea but the girl in the video definitely didn’t. I hate girls like that..
he has his girlfriend..
@@namelastname7895 apart from that
@@namelastname7895 Whom judging from that statement isn't a very good one. She's not his peace she's chaos and anxiety inducing and the only reason he stays is because he fears being alone more than putting up with her. Just like some people are saying that response "proves" he's addicted to video games it can instead "prove" that his girlfriend is controlling and wants him to live only her narrow ideal.
@@namelastname7895not anymore
This has happened before, he saw her walking up to the console and didn't say "what are you doing" he said, "no, don't"
"i want a real man who doesn't play video games"
Allright I want a real girl who doesn't morph into a completely different being using makeup
Morph*
@@war_fish idk how did i do that mistake lol thanks
@@war_fish*morbius
@@Theracist.101 you took that well
@@SUP3RN0VAYT i mean fr fr whi still goes after ppl fir liking video games
As a girl who plays games (mostly Skyrim) I find it so silly that some think it's a useless activity. It's a relaxing hobby and different people enjoy it in different ways. Playing gives me inspiration for art and storytelling. I love expressing my creativity and video games help a lot with that. I feel this man so much I hope he dumps that trashbag
Dragonborn, it's an honor.
@@abysspegasusgaming Likewise, but please stop asking me if I've seen a dog out there next thing you'll know I'll have a talking one that shoves me
@@jewelthejaguar742 Aye. That blacksmith has long found another dog, not some Daedric mutt.
@@abysspegasusgaming glad for good ol Lod, he's long been supplying the iron for building my house
@@jewelthejaguar742 Ever since Ulfric became ruler, the only things we worry about are those damned witch elves, bandits, and those pleb guards from Whiterun. Those sods can't even hold their mead!
My parents were like that man's girlfriend. As a kid they always got after me and my brothers for playing video games and kept a tight leash on the consoles/controllers. The ironic thing is, the only real thing my parents did on their free time was sit on the couch and watch tv for hours. I always found that hypocritical, because most video games are more engaging to the mind versus watching tv.
I have 2 brothers and a Mom who were the same way while growing up, they would spend hours on end watching TV, but somehow my video game playing in the same time frame made me the "lazy" one. As if watching TV is somehow a more "productive".
My family was like this as well.
Left home a decade ago and never spoke with them again lmao
SAME MY GOD!
@@Lennox1224 I know that’s ironic as hell lol
Was the same for me lol. Parents always fought over the TV. I'd be home for 1-2 hours, take car of my chores, HW, study, cook dinner if it was my day to cook, finally turn on my game, and be lectured the moment my father walked in the door for playing games the moment I got home. Some days I made it as far as loading a game up before getting lectured and turning back off. I spent a lot of time staring at my wall on a daily basis, waiting till I felt like it was long enough of a wait until I could turn on my games without getting screamed at lol.
She should never shut it off it could damage the console beyond repair
As a woman, I never understood why some of us act the way they do. I feel like I see shit like this all the time. Usually when it’s your man just trying to have fun when it’s without you. Everyone needs space at some point to just unwind. Being stuck to someone’s side constantly or having to always be in touch with them 24/7, is extremely unhealthy.
This is very common. Women have been taught for ages they are boss, when it is not true. They are a partner. Men have been trained over the last hundred years to become submissive not to that woman necessarily though there are massive groups who only exist to in the mind of the public lessen men to artificially boost women in the world. The problem, is we love to listen to really damn dumb leaders. They let you do wrong shot for lifetimes, then it is a shock when a real leader comes along and is asked " So, what our problem,what the cause...?"
Leader: "Well, it's you. Alone. Just you and your ideals, are the problem."
@@caiusmadison2996 in what universe are women taught to be leaders and men to be submissive? Where do you live? No, seriously, I'm genuinely asking because that's the first time I have seen anyone even SUGGESTING that's what's happening..
i feel the same way, trying to take away your mans hobbies is wrong and it would be wrong if he tried to take away yours.
Like my first wife. She married a buff athlete who loved to go to the gym. Then made me stop going to the gym. I was young and thought marriage was more important than my enjoyment in sporting activities. Later I found out I was the only one who thought that marriage was important.
@@billcipher8645 it's called "modern feminism".
I think there's something here everyone missed. I had a very emotionally unstable and abusive ex during the height of covid, and coming home from a long day at work to her was painful, breaking up while living together during that period was not really doable and gaming was my one out before having to walk around the eggshells. She did something VERY similar to this without the camera and tried to gaslight me saying I was the problem. I would NOT be surprised if this was a very small snapshot into an abusive relationship and the "its all I have" was a desperate cry for help without being too specific as to set her off...
A walking red flag huh.
@@WildnUnruly honestly. imagine he was playing minecraft when she did this.
If you're in a bad relationship then fucking leave, stop acting like a child, you're a man start acting like one. This is what you should say to anyone in that situation, lucky for you, you seemed to have had the balls to do it instead of staying and then bitching about it. Before anyone says i don't know what i'm talking about i do, i have been in the same situation twice and the first time i was only 19 so i stayed in it like a little bitch. The second time i was a man and didn't take any of her shit and left straight away. I get it if you're young but not if you're older.
Sad part is since he's a man no most people wont care about that cry for help cause a lot of people don't think men can be abused.
No.
Imagine being an artist, peacefully making a drawning in your bedroom, then someone comes in and rips it apart, saying "This is all you do."
When I in high school there is once my almost finish drawing got dirty because that some little b*st@rd is ruining my drawing.. By pushing my table.. Then I slap that thing multiple time at the face until his face become purple😂😂
@@lyssywelcher4674 girl, Yata is saying it's not the hobby, it's the person that's the problem. Your partner was just as toxic as the woman switching the console off, just like what Yata is implying. It's not the hobby that's the main focus it's the person.
@@lyssywelcher4674 oof I'm sorry. I didn't mean to gauge your past but that really sucked ass I admit. Glad you're out of that toxic swamp tho. And hope you have a better SO now, than that person.
My stepmom did that numerous times... And now i don't draw anymore. Havent for years.
all for a damn tiktok to get clout
The girlfriend is WRONG!!! Even if she had a problem with him playing video games, AND HE'S playing all the time, then TALKING to him about it is the BEST WAY to resolve the issue, NOT turning it off out of the blue like he's a misbehaving child!!! I'm guessing she's known about him playing video games before NOW and she accepted him the WAY HE IS!!! She CAN'T now DECIDE to disrespect him completely, and do what she did!!! There's an ADULT WAY to handle her displeasure, YOU TALK TO HIM LIKE AN ADULT, and NOT ACT like a spoiled BRAT having a tantrum!!
Someone assumed the “it’s all I have” meant shes stopped him from going out with his friends and gaming is all he can do to socialise and his frustrations coming from the fact she’s now taking that from him too
Been there, I still haven't recovered from being in that environment.
@@Wearywastrel baby steps buddy.....you'll reawaken but take it in baby steps
Honestly online communication is so much easier than irl. It feels like, now that I'm an adult with a kid, all my friends are busy with their own life stuff and it's hard to get that small amount of time to hang out and do something. With online, they can connect at any time, while you're on, to talk or game. Some of my longest lasting friends of some 13+ years are online and not even in the same country (their time zone works better for when I get off work and have time to get on).
Armchair observation time:
For the girl -
Running up and turning off the game without saying anything shows that she gives zero respect to what he's doing, or the relationship they are in. It suggests that she's constantly running on impulse, never communicates to him, and does her own thing. Doing so is actively showing that she devalues him, and is someone who would rather treat him like a child then talk to him.
"It's all you do" is a line telling me that she's frustrated that this is his sole focus of de-winding from a long day. She absolutely should NOT have turned off his console, and instead of said something to him. Even after he said "Don't" and she did it anyway is the confirmation I need to know that she does not listen to him.
For the guy -
He sets the controller down, and you can see the stress just blow the lid as he gets up. He's struggling to be nice about his choice of words, and when he said "It's all I have", that's not a man saying that he only has a video game in the world, that's an individual saying that, collectively he has nothing left. He feels no emotion in his relationship, and it could be caused by other factors. Maybe his job is eating him alive, and when he comes home, he's tired of trying to work with a girl who actively refuses to listen to him and runs on impulse. He's clearly stressed to the max, and the actions of the girl show quite a bit of the situation that he's not happy in a relationship with her.
Speculation and thoughts -
Ultimately, they would need to talk to one another and vent things out. It could be that he's tried to get her to do stuff with him and she actively refuses to do anything he wants, and she could be very controlling and always demanding things from him.
They clearly don't communicate, and it's a boiling point of collective issues piled together into this one last point event.
Couples counseling or break up. The root cause needs addressed.
Break up. This woman clearly has narcissistic personality disorder, and people with narcissistic personality disorder are completely incapable of love, since they only care about themselves. Its best to leave this woman in a mental hospital for the rest of her life.
Maybe the man have a Burnout syndrome.
nah thats not it
No ultimately, he needs to leave her toxic ass and go find someone more mature. I can’t believe you people on this planet defend the horrible actions of women no matter what. It’s fucking sickening and it needs to stop.
No ultimately, he needs to leave her toxic ass and go find someone more mature. I can’t believe you people on this planet defend the horrible actions of women no matter what. It’s fucking sickening and it needs to stop.
I remember a woman who was a complete stranger who decided to turn off my pc while working in college on my IT projects. I had to format a hard drive create multiple VMs and then create an entire virtual network. While in the middle of the os loading on to multiple virtual machines she turns it off. There are multiple computers near by where she could work on I was working in an area where at least 15 other machines were available at the massive table that I was in at college.
I asked why she did that and her answer was I want to use your computer. I'm like there are so many other computers that you could use and you just ruined hours of work to figure out how to set up a network. IP addresses to use and how they would all be done all because you want to be a b****.
Welcome to the 21 century where random women feel that it's appropriate to rejoice in your misery.
how did the conversation go(if youd like to share), or did you just walk away?
"No reason to hit a women!"
Bill Burr: "there's plenty of reasons! You just don't do it!"
So that was a random woman and not a girlfriend/wife?
"Equal rights, equal fights." - Sun Tzu -
If anyone did that to me, not even just a woman, I'm about to do em like batman does his villains and have her breathing through a tube.
Should've gotten her kicked out. That is more than enough to get someone kicked.
Report her to the admins at your college.
Some people love going down rabbit holes...
Look, the man probably works long hours and makes a tiny block of time for his own enjoyment.
Ive seen both women and MEN distrupt their partners chill time, making a big deal out of everything.
If you want to confront your partner, TRY to do so without embarrassing them!
It's terrifying how much she think she's in the right and has rights to expose and defame her boyfriend to public. Even harassing him without care and share the story of what she does world wide.
its about average for the modern western "Wahman", she was even recording from the beginning knowing full well that she was about to be a cunt for no reason.
Sure, but he should have made her regret it.
Well, we dont know the context behind it.
@@АнимеТочноубиваетcontext or not, there something wrong with you if you think you can film and humiliate you’re partner if there context 🤨🤦🏾♂️
The TV shows vs Games thing: I said that to a family member very recently. I didn't care about her past time of binging soaps all day, but she went hard on me for my maybe an hour a day hobby when I wasn't working or making plans for our farm with my boyfriend or cooking, cleaning etc. Told her that at least my hobby has a shown track record of stimulating coordination and critical thinking. She didn't like that. Point is let people have their free time and stfu
If someone's watching hallmarks channel they cant Shame anyone for anything.
Hello neighbor is a horror puzzle game. So yes i agree. Plus video games are immersive. That's something you can't get watching movies. Knowing how games are becoming more cinematic they are better than most sources of entertainment.
exactly
I’m living that right ducking now, I dayz for ten minutes and she’s over my shoulder muttering all kinds of shit to let me know how disappointed she is in me. As she just finished her third season of the day and I’ve had the kids.
Of course she didn't like that. Hypocrites rarely like reality.
When i was growing up,Mum did used to shut off my console when it was say,time for bed
but after a few weeks of back and forth from it we had a talk and she agreed to give me a 5 minute window to do what i need to do,such as saving
it absolutely helped because even tho it was upsetting to stop playing a game i enjoyed so much,i felt thankful that mum didnt do what the girlfriend in this video does
if i had a girl who did this to me,im giving them a 5 minute window to pack their things up
Bless you for your judgment and bless your mom for accepting and adapting to change.
@@miltonlittles5914 Bless yourself also
Yup. If you are a mom, you give the 5 minute warning (back in ye yonder olden times I got the 5 minute window to put up my own toys or finish my TV show). If the kid is still playing video games after that 5 minute warning, then you can shut off the console. If you are dating someone with a video game addiction, you don't turn off the console. You talk to them. If they still won't get help or if their gaming gets in the way of them holding down a job, ect. then just leave. Its just like any other addiction, whether its video games or if its meth, not worth going down that rabbit hole.
@@HollieMoodie exactly right!
Bless your mum for understanding the situation and accepting it
Take a look at the guy’s surroundings, I’m willing to bet money he had little to zero input or say in the decorating, choice of furniture or layout of the house. He is sitting on a dining room chair (not super comfortable for long periods) in the living room with headphones on trying to have a little time for himself. He probably has no other space in the house, no place for his stuff, and has given up all of his other hobbies and pastimes.
I like how she did it for no reason then gave a random false excuse to make herself the victim.
I mean I play a lot and sometimes girls just want attention from their man. That's what my girlfriend does. When I'm playing she snuggles and says babe pay attention to me it's usually enough to make me shut it off for her and then I turn it back on when she's full. But it's obvious this girl didn't want attention she just wanted to make herself appear to be right
@@Spiralreddyea, when your girl cuddles up to you, or kindly directly asks for attention, or tries getting your attention in a kind way instead of being a stuck up bitch, she's probably a keeper.
As a female who has watched anime, read manga, done art and played games religiously for years now, this pains my non existent soul to the very core. If your partner decides that playing games is a better past time than spending time with you(tho srsly, they can’t be around you 24/7), maybe there’s something wrong with your relationship that needs to be fixed, and it’s definitely not something you should openly post(humiliate) on the Internet. And I GUARANTEE you that if this was a reverse situation where a guy deleted a girl’s TikTok account because that was ‘all she does’ people would have gone ‘OMg hE’S sO ToXIc LeT tHE woMAn Do wHaT sHE wAnts’. I’m sick of this.
Also video games are childish? Aren’t like, the majority of gamers young adults/adults if not teens? And aren’t a lot of video games meant to have target audiences that are older?(*cough cough* Mortal Kombat *cough cough*) Get out of here. Most people who belittle video games has probably never even tried a game(at least not a good one) before. Gaming is a valuable form of escapism that’s just as valid as anything else, while also being a skill that can be extremely difficult to hone(I’m a fighting game player and trust me, it is HARD). There’s a reason there are tournaments for them. I rest my case.
Maybe this is why I’ve been single for my whole life, idk. But if this crap is what I would have to deal with for having a precious hobby I enjoy and love, then maybe I don’t want to be in a relationship after all.
Damn dude that was really well said I can agree with you to the fullest most parents and people in this generation don't understand that games are like an escape from all the bullshit that goes on in people's lives
Everyday I wish to be isekai because the bs and fucked up stuff that goes on here makes me not want to be here.
@@cryssyyxx It may take still time to get full dive VR. But with current devices it's pretty good disconnect from real world if you let it to do it.
@@LimbaZero lol facts but I feel like I can relate to the dude like my hobbies is many art games and anime its literally all I have in terms of enjoyment when not hanging with friends or my bf yea I could probably learn a new hobby but do I want to probably not.
Facts 💯.
“It’s all I have!” Is literally a cry for help. This means that. She’s either super controlling OR it’s the only thing he has to do to decompress. It’s an absolute necessity in a healthy relationship to have “me” time, for both partners. Doing things together all the time isn’t always healthy. And it’s usually seen as a way to go your own ways for bits and pieces during a relationship to bring back stories and events to talk about with your significant other. From the outside looking in, it seems she’s controlling, and very codependent. It’s one thing to request some time to talk, or to go do things, but a completely different story if you resort as a first reaction to interrupt your SO personal time. Prayers for my guy, been there done that.
She's a jerk.
not to mention filming and posting it online for the whole world to see... big yikes
Yup. She's a Jerk.
Well judging that he sat on a ridged chair and the set up seemed very cheap he may not make enough to afford more then that hobby... Im sorry but alot of hobbys are expensive way more then gaming and woman in general are an expensive experience... He may have said thats all he had because that is the only thing he can afford to do because she takes everything else from him ... Also who said this was his gf couldve been a mother or sibling he lived with the video that he was watching never specified who she was to him ...
@@mattdalenberg7153 I’m going off the information garnered from the title of the clip. “She ruined her relationship in 10 seconds….”
if any woman questions your gaming, question her reality tv shows.
“It’s all I have” people don’t realize that could be his only form of stress relief or way to talk to friends/family who moved. I do with my cousin who’s in the army and my friend who moved across the US. It’s about all I have to “hangout” with them again.
My best friend moved away and playing games is the only time I can really “hang out” with him like you said. There are times when I’m not really into the game and would rather not play but spending time with the bro trumps that. So much truth to your comment.
It’s about the level of disrespect. She didn’t ask him to stop, she simply turned it off. That is very rude and disrespectful. If there is a problem with not spending time, discuss it like an adult. As a woman, I’d be pissed as hell if my boyfriend turned off my console mid game. That’s why couples who game together, stay together 😂 ❤
The disrespect is taken up a few notches by her filming it and posting it on the internet to humiliate him. I mean, come on?
Except it's monopoly 😂
@@oladrolahola or UNO
I swear, his non-verbal cues say it all. This is just the last in a long line of stuff she’s done to him.
I dont like women with social media accounts.
I think that 'Its all I have' simply means that the woman has taken over every other aspect of his life and playing games was the only thing left that he could consider to be just his. My wife and I have been married for 6 years, and we both have things we like to do without the other. Having something to do by yourself, especially when angry with one another, is a healthy thing in a relationship. So long as every spare moment isn't spent doing your own thing.
Tbh as a girl whose boyfriend plays video games. There are so many ways to still be engaged with them without turning off their systems.
I sometimes cuddle with him while he plays, depending on the difficulty I just talk with him, I also may or may not Google answers to hard parts of games & give vague suggestions to beat that part which he finally beats & then he gets happy which is why I do that to see him finally beat something he was stuck on.
Also I just like watching him play games sometimes. If you want someone to get off their games, ask them to get off.
Then again my boyfriend & I actually love each other & respect each other so this would never happen lol
I mean we make sure to plan out stuff that will let us have fun together. I am not a gamer myself, but I like watching so.
You're a good woman, and I'm willing to bet your man is a good one too. I hope you have many years of peace and happiness ahead of you.
@@Wearywastrel I mean neither of us our perfect but we try. It's rare in my generation (Gen Z) to find love let alone find anyone to work things out with you instead of just leaving.
But he's amazing & I wouldn't trade him for the world
Also not a gamer, but love it! I call it me time, chilling next to him reading, watching my you tube, and its fun watching and sometimes engaging with OUR online friends, we made awesome friends. Met some went camping and now going to a their wedding!!!!
@@incite2004 Wait wait wait wait wait, you two are Gen Z??? (shoot I forgot that Gen Z can also be people in college too maybe?). Rare occurrence...
It's also a good idea to suggest an alternative that you think you might both enjoy, e.g. "wanna turn off the game and go watch that movie we both wanted to see?"
Man, the lack of communication in modern-day relationships makes me sad. Why are we doing this...
Thank you, it’s truly abhorrent. It confuses me why someone would rather be miserable and together than happy and single. If you can’t communicate and don’t work, move on.
@@SS_Psyops Because not everyone is happy being single.
@@SS_Psyops sometimes you need more than just only your hand
3:08 I read and play video games. They're different but their effects are very similar cuz what you do is "you time"
Something tells me that she likes to ignore him when he tries to talk to her and gets mad at him when he doesn't shower her with attention
Ya think?
Oh wow you’ve been close to women before! Ha :)
Lol, something tells me you are correct, lol
I realize I'm a few months' behind, but I'm old enough to be this man's father. I couldn't even finish watching, because it hurt my heart so much to watch him be publicly humiliated.
ok
@@blackholeguy1529 ok?
I don't know who you are, why you are, when you are, But let me tell you this. If you're a father, you're a great one. Wish i had one like you.
His girlfriend could have handled this a lot better, like restricting sex until he stops gaming so much like a normal woman.
This would be 1000x worse if he was playing for money and he was winning
My ex-wife told me I'm addicted to video games. So, I turned off my computer and said, "OK, let's talk, but first you turn off the TV".
Of course she was unable to turn off the TV because Love Island or some lame reality show was on. So I just turned the computer back on.
lmfao
Funny that both books and video games take writers to create. And both tell interesting and engaging stories, the difference is those who read visualize in their head (which is cool) but those who game interact with the story and in some cases impact the story’s events. Overall both tell good stories and in some cases we can learn from video games.
Well put. Some of my favorite games are the ones where your decisions affect the story, like Undertale and Persona. A lot of people don’t understand the creativity and storytelling that go into video games.
I hate the go read a book argument. Like yeah twilight is soooo much better than a video game. Also if it's about the process of reading: I have to read in every game. People who make this argument about anything is mentally inept
Wasnt there a good saying, like "Good games are fun to play but great games make teaching a life lesson fun" or something?