Conversation about Bumble, the Bumble Billboards, and Dating Apps
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 พ.ค. 2024
- I posted about Bumble a couple of days ago and the comments were wild!! The ladies are talking about blocking Bumble and deleting their dating apps. They're mentioning 4B and being happy celibate!! Life is wild.
TT video:
www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLqhhKXx/
#Bumble #tinder #datingapps #onlinedating #4b #west4bmovement #w4b
Not Bumble acting like an angry pimp🫢
Not the angry pimp!!🤣🤣🤣🤣 . This is the best comment!!😂😂😂
Chile...
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Girl tell the truth😂😂😂😂
Next billboard will be a threatening backhand. 🤢
This sealed the deal. NEVER will I EVER use those apps
Yes! After this all women need to boycott. This is so disrespectful to women.
@@SunnyHeartKay BEYOND!! Especially after those young women lost their life - one chopped in pieces AND the 10 yo being rapped in NYC. They both met their demise through bumble.
On “hook up” premises (PLZ LADIES STOP GOING TO THESE MEN HOUSES AND ACCEPTING DATES TO APT/HOMES) 💔😭
Now, instead of protecting women from these crazies - they only Opened a flood gate for men who are only going to use it to not be “celibate”.
It’s beyond disgusting and soooo tone def from what’s been happening on their app.
This is sooo dangerous.
🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️👹🤛🏾
Matchmaking is the way to go. Hire a professional. It's well worth the money.
@@noona514 lol no. 4B is the way to go. Leveled up in life this past year 10 fold. Started my 3rd business. Moved into a bigger place in a luxury space filled with amenities. Got to explore the world.
Peaceful atmosphere - house stay on clean.
Mental and physical heath at 100%. In the best shape of my life (ppl think I’m in my 20s 🤣).
Nope - only 4B for me ❤️😎
I think this is definitive proof that women are in fact the prize.
😂❤🎯🎯
Soo true!! 💯👆
And the male loneliness "epidemic".
Are God and the prize. It's male propaganda that had us blind
Bingo! Yahtzee! 😂
To make this advertisement shortly after that beautiful young lady lost her life. First date ever and met him on a dating app. Remove your pictures from the sites, too, ladies. It is not a safe space.
That was distasteful and very disrespectful 😠😠😠😠👹🤛🏾
Yes I don’t even want to post photos of myself for fear of Ai porn.
That makes me cry. She was so young, and probably really excited to get out there “ and try something new too”.
Smh… because of her , I’m letting any dating apps go. I just want peace , to be safe and healthy.
@@strawberribubbletea same, one guy actually complained to me IN PERSON in like 2010 because he said he "wasted time" looking for bikini pics on my facebook and couldn't find anything. He was brazen about this and tried to act like I was the weird one for being offended he could ask that.
Started talking to a dude on Facebook dating he was saying he liked me then said he had 7 kids and that he had recently gotten out of jail.
Its funny cause his profile said if you aren't interested in talking to me let me know dont just ghost.
When he said he had been to jail I deleted my whole profile . I was completely done. I was just goofing off out of curiosity but if that's the sort of people on these apps I'm wasting time.
These men are dangerous and they are not holding any standards for the people allowed on them. Not even back ground checks.
Meanwhile, sex toy companies see a 60% increase in sales 😂
At least we know the women are finally getting a satisfying O, as they should. ❤
I think it was the hookup studies showing most women don't even get off. Why bother then?
@@seabreeze4559 Exactly. All the risks, none of the benefits.
I've been building my collection since I became an adult. Most men either are disappointing emotionally or in the sack, and many fail at both. Once you realize that, you realize toys are a much better investment.
@@seabreeze4559 most STRAIGHT women, the lesbians are doing fine and that's how you know it's a man problem, them being selfish in bed and only caring about their pleasure
I've been voluntarily celibate for over 10 years. No pregnancy scares, no STD treatments, no false feelings of intimacy bc I shared my body with the wrong person. And my toys have a 100% success rate 🤪 Many of these men have -30% success 🤣🤣🤣
I am just seeing the toy rec comments. I'll update the post and reply to those who asked when I get a chance
🤣😂😂😅
Exactly.
Please drop your toys recommendations for us. I have a few and looking to expand my collection.
the toys never fail. lol
Agreed. I call my favorite toy “Prince” because it’s purple and powerful and I “Gett Off” every. Single. Time. (And may the Goddess bless whoever came up with the idea to make them rechargeable… 😂)
It’s odd that Bumble does not lecture males on how to be better partners.
Exactly, we're just supposed to put up with their bad behavior and lack of social skills, apparently (?) no ma'am
Bruh what? I’ve met nothing but trashy chicks on these apps and liars that already in relationships, but wanted a side piece.
@@eurekamreum5458 Yes to then become single mothers and be told to choose better next time.
Males mostly pay the bills for Bumble since it’s publicly traded. Don’t you realize this? Why would they fight the hand that feeds?
@@eulennachathen449exactly
I give it 3 months before these apps just shift to ai women and attempt to lie about it for as long as they can until the men realize they ain’t getting dates, just conversations 😂😂
😂😂😂
That’s what happened with Ashley Maddison- the cheating dating site. All the men tried to cheat but no women were signing up… so they had fake profiles for women.
Honestly, that's all they really want. AI dating video games with p0rn. Let em have it. 👏
This is actually a great idea. If I had the know-how I’d build this and scam men out of money!
That’s what Ashley Madison did lmao, when that data leak happened it turned out most of the men trying to cheat on their wives were just chatting with bots
They should say, “hey guys, try being decent “. Not a woman problem.
Right! Why once again is the message directed towards women as if we are the problem !!! Ugh
Exactly! Tell the menz to do better!
@@dalmalifemore People love telling women what to do.
I'm the post roe America, who needs dating apps? We need our own house.
And some money and a pew pew.
@@food4thought692Yes ma'am. We need to be armed, have wealth, and own homes and businesses.
Yesss @@food4thought692
They're not telling women not to give up. They're telling women to give it up.
Exactly. They are literally selling sex
Spot on!!!
They know that it's just men looking for s*x and they are mad that women have some standards
What did they think would happen, complaining about traditional every minute, well ok, traditionally women were not sexually liberated. So now what ?? 😂
BOOM 💥 BIG FACTS
Dont forget drizzle dribble, only mamies and pick me's fund the lifestyle of grown men. Gtfoh with that
The Pickmes are still available, but men do not want them…
@@kittykatz4001 I feel bad for them (for a little while only), because even if they get picked 9/10 they will get treated like ish, I've seen it first hand 😔.
They don't seem to understand this part. You want a traditional woman, they don't tend to put out before marriage, yet men will act like they can't even tolerate you if you're not putting out by the 3rd date. But also, what woman, if she's the traditional type, wants a MAN who has dipped his pen in every ink well available? They don't seem to realize it often goes the same way.
I tapped out of dating, sexual (and romantic) relationships with men, and dec entered men, in 2016. I'm not a nun or anything remotely close. Men still approach me but I'm not interested in them. I have no desire to be oppressed by a romantic relationship or organized religion.
I'm living and creating a FULL, joyful life!! I hike and go on nature walks at least 15 miles per week. In addition too, traveling, nature and wildlife photography, learning how to design crochet clothing, foraging wild edible plants, etc. And my quality of women friends has improved. I love it here! 🧘🏾♀️🧘🏾♀️
Oh that sounds lovely! I'm getting back into herbal medicine and focusing on my health. Going back to school.
I need to find a good hiking club. I told my sisters we need to do this. So far my mom and I are cleaning up the neighborhood litter every weekend. Baby steps.
That is amazing. I delete Bumble a few months back. Bought a bicycle, started to learn how to do my own nails and increased the amount of time I spend reading on topics related to my job. I am so happy I am no longer spending my time planning and going on dates with those men on dating apps…access denied!
I’d do this if women weren’t so aggravating
same here
I will be offering sanctuary for any woman who wants to bring her books, pets, tea or coffee, to the woods, with the bear.
Same
Sounds good.
Can I bring cake?
😊
I’m already there. Bears welcome. Just don’t eat the cat
To the men: Just leave us alone. Y'all said your piece, you don't want us. Leave us, women, alone.
Right! The way I look at it, I'm just taking myself "off the market" so the doodbroz can easier get to the 🦤chicks still entertaining their cringe chat-ups. I have been known to vacate a place quickly if I even catch a dood looking in my direction. I don't even talk to XY's that I don't know unless it's necessary to conduct business. Gross. I'd rather pet the stray cats and talk to them.
Them: "I'm leaving now! I'm leaving now! I'm leaving now!"
Women: Whatever.
Them: "But we're leaving! ...Nobody cares about men."
@@seabreeze4559until a storm knocks the power out. But I see what you meant.
Not the Nuns catching strays... AGAIN. please leave the nuns alone.😅
Sister Wilson ain't do nothing to be roped into this mess.
Then again, a life in a quiet, safe space full of books and other, supportive women? No men? It sounds so peaceful.
It's probably why the protestant reformation began yanking the nuns out of temples and forcing them to get married. Celibacy getting too popular.
Nuns are living their best lives.
Nuns do in all actuality go thru the same things😓🤦🏾♀️
@@adams8830so peaceful
yeah I noticed when a man hates nuns he just hates women, my sperm donor called the local nuns "lazy" and didn't like it when I pointed out they didn't need to be useful to him personally
A “nun”…so the pendulum has swung back to shaming women for being “prudes”??
😂😂 it’s too late. We already know we can’t win, so might as well do whatever we want! 🥂. Next update better include a chastity belt emoji lol ⛓️🐱
prudence is a feminine form of wisdom, prude and proud
Make up their minds!
That’s where the pendulum originally started in the late 80s/early 90s. BM said they were dating out because BW were too conservative in bed.
@@kimleemoon I can remember hearing stuff like that into the 2010s before xes positivity really took off. Especially in MS, I can remember guys saying WGs are willing to give “slurpees”. And in general I would hear adult men say WW give slurpees & will do just about anything else.
😂 NOT the kitty & the chains ⛓️🐱! I cannot! 😂😂😂 it's true that peace is far more valuable than the dating scene for sure. 😊
What’s the answer then, bumble? Subjecting myself to male coercion as they attempt to get past my boundaries?
They can’t even agree that coercion is NOT consent. This movement is because women are literally afraid for their lives but THEIR concern is xy feelings and ego
@@maribethbarlowTheir concern is profit.
@@toomuchinformation they can’t attain that profit without “putting women in their place” because xy ego is too fragile to treat xx as an actual human
people need to start suing the dating apps I SWEAR-
@@maribethbarlow VITIATION effect in a legal dictionary, coercion VITIATES consent
Since when does NOT sleeping around deserve to be shamed? Wtf is wrong with Bumble? They can't control the scammers, the users, the angry men on their apps, and so they resort to shaming women to come back to their app? Sad. Real sad.
well the femcel meme was invented by 4chan to try and shame virgins into sleeping with them so basically yeah that's what they're trying
They even had a billboard saying a woman friendship will never be enough. Lol they are desperate!
Let's bring back the 1950s where housewives were using arsenic in the tea to send their husbands to an early death bed. 😂
@@sabrinamystified 😂
And they call themselves 'women focused'
Isn’t it funny how we never saw this kind of response when MGTOW was around? lol 😂😂😂😂
LOL for real. MGTOW was a bunch of males going "WELL!!!!!!!! MAYBE US MEEEEEEEEN WILL JUST AVOID YOU WOMEN FROM NOW ON!!!!! HOW ABOUT THAT HUH??? HUH?????? HOW DO YOU LIKE THAT?" and the only response they got was a collective sigh of relief from women hahahahahaha
They never left. But even now many men online claim they want nothing to do with women. Women are so horrible and all using them for money. Money they don’t have. They’re all acting like they’ve been providers , and it’s just irritating.
10+ years of MGTOW and barely an article about them. 😂
@@kekef3620 they never actually GO though
Because they knew men weren’t actually going anywhere. 😂
This is amazing. They're already removing the ads due to the backlash. Good job, ladies!
Women are all over bumble's instagram saying celibacy is their answer. It's awesome!
Thanks for that! I'll go back and check
@@BurbNBougie I read the story on Forbes.
It's like a french fry company saying potatoes are bad for you.
@@BurbNBougie SparkleSparkleKing LITERALLY looks like the youtube skit about Pedophile Beards. It's hilarious you should go see it and screenshot the skit for future reference to these commenters.
Bumble even targeted black women saying that we know very well celibacy doesn't work
Aww I thought they said we had to many kids & needed to keep our legs closed? (I'm child-free BTW lol) They need to keep that same energy
@@nicki1197FACTS AND IM CHILDFREE TOO
How do BW know that "celibacy doesn't work"? I've had more time in my adult life sex free than having sex. I've never missed it and it just came along with having a male in my life. Since I've ejected them romantically, I'm back to not having sex. I still haven't missed it.
Who told them that? They are delusional.
The audacity😳😠😠👹🤛🏾
Those apps have always struggled for women. Some of them used to charge men, but was free for women. Same concept as the club hosting “ladies night.” That ain’t for the ladies - it’s for the predators to have a bigger selection of prey.
Exactly you are bait for the bar owner to male more money off men buying drinks for themselves and you are bait for the dating app exec to get more men to look at their ads and pay their site fees. It's never for or about the women.
HG Tudor has a video on Don't use dating apps that shows why you're right, he explains why predators use it to find prey.
@@amberinthemist7912 If you get a service "for free", you're the product being sold.
Yep, always reminds me of a principle I was taught years ago: if a service is given to you for free by a company (like gmail by google, for example), that means YOU are the product.
Yep, society is still women's biggest pimp, they just re-packaged it into more empowered sounding 'women's lib movement' and 'sexual revolution' when it's just a patriarchal pimp using new tricks to pimp out his best money maker - women
And it says nun so you know the campaign is directed at women
this is disgusting
yep... there is no room for doubt, at all
How is that not hate speech tho? Like if Gillette hates men?
Absolutely misogynist
a very clear indicator they don't have enough women on the app 😂
How about.... increase men's EQ? 😂
That's too much like right & too much work.
I gave up on them 100% they haven't evolved since cavemen days and will do anything to avoid improving themselves. I'm waiting for the AI boyfriends 😂
Daniel Goleman wrote a BOOK. I tell them, they never ever read it.
@@zahraakadhem9913 MASCBOTS
Here’s a quote for you:
‘When women open their mouths, men close their ears’
You’re welcome 😉
they don't care when we complain. they only start to notice when we actually do something that makes them pay attention. they're like children. you can't just threaten to leave. you have to actually leave.
@@hardcandy71287This. Men don’t respond to words. They respond to action. If you want them to face the consequences, you have to take ACTION.
Fumble should be trying to show these males how to use the passports they're supposed to have.
Most of them wouldn’t know how to buy a passport or a plane ticket
@@emilyfeagin2673😂😂
I don’t want foreign women to be abused by our evil dusties, either. Nobody deserves that.
😂😂 Right. Where are all the delusional passport bros at?
Most of them have child support or criminal background history and can’t get a passport
Haven't dated since 2019, since then I've optimized my skin and haircare. I'm currently addressing all my health needs, building up my finances, focusing on my joy and familial/friend relationships. Energy levels are up, no depressive episodes, no feelings of hopelessness. I'll be open to dating again one day but once I am so overjoyed in singlehood that I am not only completely zero tolerance to bs but also established a standard of joy they would have to surpass.
Same!!!!! ❤
Hmm it was nonstop complaining about "304"s online and now they might be thinking "where all the 304s at"?
It’s the delusion for me 😂 They really expected women to find every single one of them as the exception to the rule when they’re all pedaling the same red pill, pimp, and pickup artist tactics being shared online.
Men call women 304s when they get us pregnant and decide they don’t want the baby.
Then it’s “ we trapped them”, we just want the child support”, which they will skip around for years and never pay that anyway. Or work under the table- smh Men literally weaponize s3x against women, but say we do it to them when we simply say the word No to them.
@@GGoddess95 yeah what worked when ONE guy was doing it won't work when ALL of them are. I've had men argue with me about this. Sales tactics work by rarity.
The funny part is there are men going on social media BEGGING women to lower their standards and “give it up” again.
I was just looking at some data and 63% of men on Tinder are married and/or in a relationship. The aggregate for the number of men who are married and/or in a relationship online across all dating apps is about 42%. Let that sink in. Lots of women don’t realize they are participating in polyamory or an ethically non-monogamous relationship! Lol.
Call it for what it is - cheating
I didn't know that fwb had a serious patner till he told me he had became a father. We're regurarly meeting for 2,5 years. Save to say haven't been dating since then lol 😅.
Oh the women know. The women definitely know because those women can’t rest in their homes. They’re constantly “feeling the man acting differently”, following him when he leaves the house- going through his phone reading conversations and of course confronting other women who know nothing about them.
And this is all from being in a supposed wife or “main chick position”. I’ve seen several posts on Facebook about how these men aren’t honest with the women they love or are with- YES THEY ARE. And if they’re not honest, the women find out quickly.
Those women want the top spot. They want to ensure even if he does go messing with other women, that he treats the other ones like trash or worse then them.
I can’t imagine being treated badly, lied too and used- but making it ok because I tell myself the other women are a “downgrade” or getting it worse because he doesn’t live with them.
@roccafille And he probably didn’t consider her a serious partner, until she became pregnant. He was sleeping with both of y’all all at once- so that easily could have been a baby by you too.
Then he would have played main chick, side chick games and picked which children to show love to. I’d bet a million dollars that other girl knew about you already. And probably gave him an ultimatum too.
@rengurenge I barely am even wiling to say men who are simply in relationships are cheating. Those women are usually very aware of the fact that they are involved in a competition- they snoop far too much to just not know. It’s impossible really.
I love it.❤❤❤❤❤
Nem: Over 35? We don't want you.
Nem: You hit the wall! We don't want you!
Nem: Your a size 10+. We don't want you.
Nem: You got kids. We don't want you.
Nem: You speak sign language (shame, insult, guilt and the need to right). We don't want you.
Nem: body count of 1+. Your a 304 . We don't want you.
Women: Okay Nem. 4B and Celibacy is my peace.
Dating Sites and Nem: Hey! What! No, no, no get back over here and service us!
Dating Sites: I going broke.
Nem: I'm dry.
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I love this comment
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 No lies told here
Men told us to "shut our legs if we don't want a baby" and we did, now they're pressed about it. lol
Wow, Bumble is totally mansplaining women. Good luck with that.
gaslighting "we know what you want, better than you do!" er nah?
Absolutely mansplaining
Of course it’s a marketing tool but men don’t want women with a high body count so how are you going to make billboards like this? Make it make sense.
@@dream_on_sammiit’s a lie. They LOVE “304’s” they just don’t love the fact that the so called 304 is far less likely to becone miss Mary Poppins homemaker trad wife for him to cater to his needs beyond the bedroom
"help women control the dialog..."
Men DON'T KNOW how to engage in dialog.
This
They respond to actions not talking.
men just monologue and call that a conversation mostly
Isn’t this just low key admitting they see dating as control and not co-op 🤔 I thought it was supposed to be about a partnership not a power struggle bumble…that’s crazy 😅
Men should be against these billboards too since they hate 304’s.
They don't actually hate 304s. They just say that because admitting that they like them, will cause them feel ashamed. They say that they hate 304s but they themselves act like 304s.
@@sabrinamystified this! They say all this bs to us because in the end they secretly want the sl 5 t but they hate the fact they will never be able to have her or make her commit. It makes them ashamed but you can see they will continue pining after these women, buying them gifts and falling for these women approval
I hope these dating apps ALL go out of business.
they are, they pay their employees to pretend to be interested women that never meet up
Looks like we're in for a mass case of blue b@lls. It's gonna get ugly.
My sister predicted that men's final move will be rushing to the altar to secure a wife appliance only to live the married single life. She may be right. Desperate times will call for desperate measures on their part.
I'm not falling for it. 4B has been great for me. Grizzle, grizzle.
The unattractive ones have been doing that
Married men are on the most dates with women who are actually single.
Their hands and a dirty magazine will solve the blue balls problem. 😂😂 They don't need us.
Final move is grape and stripping women’s rights Handmaid’s Tale-style.
@adams8830 And the wives or long term girlfriends only blame those other women too.
It’s ridiculous out here
This is how you know what we’re doing is working cause why are multi million dollar companies worried about what women are doing with their bodies. Hmmm makes you wonder
Waiting for Durex to go bankrupt.
The idea it is a "game" is very fitting. That guy who said sex is all women have to offer and now are "useless" kinda shows what she means. The game was getting sex out of us without treating us like people, more like NPCs. They wanna try to game us to see what gets us to drop our loot so they can run away cackling and bragging about it. If we're not playing the game anymore they get mad, cause there is no one to drop loot for them to brag about anymore.
This is a great analogy.
Bingo
Can you believe how regressed you have to be mentally to not know what a relationship can bring other then their idea of "men brings money, woman gives birth"? It's sad.
Bumble is now working as a pimp, it is now rebranded as PIMPLE! What do you not do with a pimple? You don’t pick it!
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I love this comment
I ❤ this😂
😂😂😂 you killed it!
🤣🤣
Women realized dating spps were just Doordash for low-value men? Just a thought
Not bumble, but I deleted my app two weeks ago. Majority of males on there are either married,in LTR, or currently dating someone. So all of them combined with the single ones are looking for women to sleep with, they don’t want anything serious unless you happen to be a trophy type or very conventionally attractive. I stopped wasting my time, I’ve always had the same outcome with men. Whether it’s on an app or in person. I’m done with them, they can date each other.
Lady, I am conventionally attractive and I only got trash out of Bumble. We are all getting the same men put of these apps😅
And when you are a trophy they will still eventually treat you like you ARE NOT. Everyone is getting the same loser now.
@@patriciasamo3364 I understand that, but it messes with your self esteem a man who was giving you excuses. When next month you see him with someone who looks nothing like you, doing all the things you were begging for.
What’s crazy is that even these men who “ have someone” - some wife or long term forever girlfriend, baby mama or even another chick they’re sleeping with as well - the men are never that attractive themselves. They’re never all that. Never have much going on- always lying to appear as more then they are.
It’s pathetic to me
It’s exhausting and boring when dating should be fun and interesting.
You know what’s funny 😂 none of these dating apps spent money on billboards when xy’s said they were getting passports or “Mtgow” 😂 None of these companies gave a Sh*t 😂
Because those men weren't being serious
@@gabrielle-dd2huactually some did get their passport and engage in sexual deprivation in 3rd world countries and some got killed in those countries (Brazil, Colombia, D.R.).
@nytrigger3324 right but they never left us alone here. They just spread like cancer.
Nomad Capitalist is making bank on them. Don't worry, we'll see an implosion on that too.
@@nytrigger3324 natural selection, good
These apps are built for predators to prey. Why? Because predators pay big bucks to have easy access to the prey they wish to target. The type of guys Women would mostly prefer to date: safe, empathetic, stable (emotionally & financially), sexually healthy, and mildly attractive; are not accessible on these dating apps. Healthy Men are not really in interest of the apps services because they are not having issues finding equally yoked Women...if not accessing Women who are of a much Higher Caliber then themselves. Dating Apps are still focused on Profit, so they are going to manipulate the audience to accommodate their strongest investors, i.e., Predators. Be safe Ladies, remove the Apps, you are better off without them. If you really want to date Men, you are still better off figuring out where to met them on your own. Stop allowing your data to be collected and sold to predators.
HG Tudor has a series on how predators use online dating to ensnare prey, I highly suggest you look into it because you're totally right. More than you know. I was shocked.
@@seabreeze4559 makes sense. It's much easier to fake things from a distance
It's not even necessarily that we're exhausted with dating apps.
We're just exhausted with DATING. Period.
That girl who said "Grindr must be pumping", yes, yes it is. Don't ask how I know. And guys are on there that would have never been on there before.
I love that for the menz! They're expanding their horizons. And other things too, no doubt. 🌈😆
I'm concerned about down low guys infecting unsuspecting ladies though.
I know because I have a gay male friend, lol. He says these apps tend to see a lot of repeats, normally, because gay communities tend to be smaller, but lots of new "blank" profiles showing up. Just saying. I just told him to be safe because if they're violent with women, they'll be violent with y'all and he was like, "Believe, we already know." Sad, too.
Im on a kink website. They meeting each other in adult theaters, the woods, parking lots, gloryholes and seggs parties. I opt out of dealing with them all because of that. I had no idea so many nem was "curious"
That is a shame and scary...does Grindr cost 💵? If so, they are paying to be something they haven't been to terrorize strangers?? Thts how the extreme serial killers got their victims (BTK, Jeffrey Dahmer) being something they are not on the surface...tht shows the mental insanity
If you’re on bumble, immediately delete the app!
Bumble is out here mad because their product is becoming difficult to source at slave labour prices. Never forget, you’re the product, not the client.
I JUST had a guy complain about making the "first move" he has to pay, to message first. "Why don't women message first?".....Dude if you have to ask. THAT'S exactly why I don't message first. The SAME reason men have an EXCUSE for not knowing HOW TO DATE! If you cannot afford to take a woman out on a date. If you can afford to message first. Your interest should be, and getting your bills stabilized. So that you can take on having a partner. 🤷 But instead, you're too busy looking for 🍑. HE'S NOT REALLY LOOKING FOR A WOMAN. HE'S ONLY LOOKING FOR THE BODY PARTS!
they view a GF as a free hooker, seriously, just ask them and they freely admit it
You know, this is interesting because so many men complain about having to "do everything", but that's what you have to do if you want to attract a woman for a relationship. Shoot, it even happens in nature. Men even had to do it back in the day, when women had less choice, so why would it change when women have MORE choice? Men didn't think about that and fix themselves to evolve with women. The problem is, too many men have become so disconnected from themselves and emotions and intimacy outside of sex, they don't know how to do anything unless it's asking a woman for sex, so having to actually talk to a woman, keep her interest through conversation, go on a date, etc., is too much work when all they want is a hole. They think sex will fix them and provide them with the connection humans need, but men only see hole attached to a maid/cook.
We should be enthusiastic flesh lights 😂
Dating apps are filled of people with anti-social personality disorders, a.k.a psychopaths. Not to mention liars, cheaters, and scammers. Meeting people online who wouldn't even approach you in person is crazy.
This that’s why they on online for a fantasy world
One of the biggest issues with dating apps is that men make decisions based on pictures not profiles. How often does a man ask you something you already answered on your profile versus men who ask an interesting questions based on what they have read? I'm sure you've experienced more of the former than the latter. How often is it clear based on your word choice, spelling, and grammar that certain people probably should move on, but you still get messages that read like they dropped out of school in 3rd grade? You spend so much time weedimg through the mess, blocking men who insult and threaten you for not giving your number after one message, and all the rest. It's just not worth the time and energy.
You hit on something that would bother me so much and so quickly. My name is on my profile, my age is on my profile, if I have kids or not is on my profile, what I'm looking for is on my profile, my hobbies are on there, etc., but they'll come in and be like, "Hi, sexy, what's your name/age?" I'd already be done RIGHT THERE.
@BooDotBoo exactly! They are not interested in us as people. They are interested in getting wife/girlfriend appliances and s*x bots. Since we're women, they assume we come with the requisite skills, and if we look decent enough for them, that's all that matters.
Facts. When I used to use dating apps I would make sure to write "not here for hook ups", but that didn't stop them from asking me if I'm dtf....
And how many of them said “nobody reads those things anyway” ummm yes, *i* do!!! Telling on themselves as always
My kewchie is mine, negging me about not giving some random nub my kewchie is par the course for these nubs. 😂
Beautiful sentiment and sincere true. Under rated comment.
Like poetry
They also conflate dating with nookie. It isn't.
Nubs! I love it!
@@seabreeze4559agreed! They done said the real agenda for these dating apps with these billboards
So I got an advert for Bumble before watching the video 😂😂😂
Me too🤣🤣
😂😂 they really trying to push they app on us 🤣🤣
Same!!!!
I did too! I have NEVER gotten an ad for a dating app before that -- I'm in my 60s and asexual! LOL
I got Revlon and google pixel.
their ads sound like AI generated shitposts on twitter
You nailed it
l agree💯
I swear they probably are since companies are hiring out AI.
Well that ai computer messed up . Now they are being cancelled. Welp, 😂you did it to yourself Bumble 👍
When I tell you I’m so proud of US as we stand against poisonous patriarchy no matter the format
They are openly saying they are selling sex!
That means men are the 304s that they accuse women of being
I grew up reading romance novels, watching romantic old movies and new movies and watching soap operas! I remember that the male lead or romantic partner was always or many times 10 to 25 years older than female! I thought there was nothing wrong with this because I'd seen it so much and even sometimes I even seen it in real life! I realized that women during that time in the 70s, 80s and 90s were programmed to think an older man was or might be someone to date or marry because it was always presented in such a romantic light in the media! I think women today were also programmed to think romantic love/ relationships/se× was something that they needed, wanted and had to have! Now they realize that those things are something that they may like or wouldn't mind having under the right circumstances or they just don't want them at all! The reality of the wrong marriage or relationship, and it's lasting effect has taken the rose colored glasses off for many women today!
I was programmed too and so many of my friends and family members but for some dating older men ended with disaster and ruined life and almost loss of life. I tried older men when I first tried to date because the programming made me believe that's normal and that women are somewhat lesser so she have to pick up used up trash but I couldn't last longer than few days of talking with them when they started to threaten me how they will force me to obey after when we get together or get married (male delusion knows no limits). I decided if this is how romantic relationships with men are then I don't want it and rather will stay forever single which I did until later I found my husband, younger man.
I was always put off by that. Older men asked me out and I was repulsed. I also noted how fictional men were nicer and if I couldn't have a nice one, why bother with the real ones? Real men called this unrealistic. Like, how is it unrealistic to treat me with basic decency? My brothers do it easily.
I always that was disgusting
I saw a bumble and where the male takes her out on the worst dates, Coffee dates, Walk dates, car dates and we are expected to settle for that crap.
Nope, 4B ftw. Men want accountability so we are giving it to them.
What on earth is a car date? 😂 Is he just having her sit in the car and talk? I'd feel like a prisoner trapped with some guy I barely know. 🫣
@@MsVakong Just like you described it. The dude just drives you around and then drops you off.
When it comes to dating you should view the person you are asking out as your guest, don't touch her, dont ask her personal favors, and after vocal consent you become a couple and date further.
But no men see dating as an invitation to get what they want from you.
That's why men are ghosted when they ask me out.
I had a 70 year old man say to me that he likes to get to know me better. Men are absolutely disgusting especially the old stinky ones.
A lot of women prefer those types of dates too. They dont want to be stuck on a 2 hour dinner date with someone who they find out is only 5'11" or has the wrong type of shoes etc.
@@ChrisJones-oe8gv No. No single woman wants that. We are belittled if we want more than that. Every girl wants to go out on a proper date, but they fear men will cross their boundaries and rather play it safe.
Dinner Is as low as I'll go. If you don't like it then too bad.
It's either that or 4B.
@@MsVakong Drive her around and then drop her off. A dude tried to pull that on me, making offer to get to know me for free.
Lol bye.
I totally saw the nun one in London last week! I was so confused.
Same. My brain was like they can't really be saying what i think they're saying???
Even promiscuous women don't wanna be pimped out.
Wow, I figured this was only in the U.S. Bumble has taken this nonsense global. 🤯😳
This vid convinced me to erase my bumble profile! Was casually using it and had no idea bumble marketed like this (I dont live in the us and never seen bumble billboards here). This is disgusting and weird.
I think a lot more women will be following your lead.
I have done the same since yesterday that advisement disgusted me
Aren't XYs always complaining about dating apps? Now that women want nothing to do with them, they're mad. They can't seem to make up their minds.
Useless comment
Even Bumble BFF is trash. I've tried using it a few times to meet more women IRL in order to develop friendships, and it's been a total fail. So, now that I've got the summer off from school, I will be going to places where I can meet women and see if I can find some who are interested in developing friendships. I am highly introverted, so I'm really putting myself out there in order to make this happen. I'm fine with spending much of my time alone and taking myself to places alone. It would be nice to be out with other women, at times. I have also been using MeetUp for this purpose, though this is also not working very well. Where are all the non-male identified, anti-religious BW out here?
I feel like the woman who created Bumble is the "cool girl" type whose focus is whyte feminism that still wants the male gaze. Males are too lazy as it is, so having women HAVE to message them just plays into their useless hands.
Texas friend here 👋🏾
Hiya! I'm a BW that is a decentering men, is spiritual and do not subscribe to the patriarchal religions, also looking for other non male identified women! 🙋🏽♀️😂💜
Try volunteering You can assist a cause you care about and you meet people too
I have volunteered at Habitat for Humanity and a Senior Center
Thanks for the feedback on Bumble BFF. My therapist suggested it a year ago to make friends.
I never took her suggestion and am now glad I didn't pay for it. And Meetup offers nothing in my area.
I'll just have to wait for a bit to make some actual friends, I guess.
I hope it works out better for you in the future.
@@Rose-kj7rz you don't have to pay to use Bumble. I'll never pay for it. You don't get results worth spending money on.
Sounds like the only ones who care about the 4b movement are the virtual pimps
This whole campain is disgusting. This is really low blow even for corporate marketing. Are they insane?!
They are literally selling sex!
Burb you spoil us. Thank you for keeping up with all this, feels like you don't miss a single thing.
So many women send me links. That's community!!
In London they had one suggesting female friendship will never be enough
😂😂😂😂😂
Ann Summers is the BFF of many ladies.
@@seabreeze4559 exactly 😂😂😂
?! Wow they are really sounding desperate.
That's crazy because, tbh, since I found a solid friend group, I think less and less about dating every day, lol. I'm telling women, invest in friendship. The right friends will fulfill you. And keep your from wanting to get back on the apps, which will probably also save your life.
What?! 😂
I stopped playing a long time ago. These guys are playing games and lying about their intentions.
🎶 🎶 I bet you want the goodies
Bet you thought about it
Got you all hot and bothered
Mad 'cause I talk around it
If you're looking for the goodies
Keep on looking, 'cause they stay in the jar
Oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh, yeah 🎶 🎶
CIARA TOLD US 20 YEARS AGO LMAO.
@@alanai1981 She did and look where she is and who is ALWAYS on her case for finding a decent man? Just saying. People keep trying to tell us to be open to these men, but tbh, you'll do better following those same rules our grandmas followed because men really haven't changed. Stop trying to make it easier for men.
I love this version 🤣🤣
I was literally thinking to myself last night that it'll be 15 years I've been dating men and I have nothing to show for it besides some trauma and a subsequent healing journey. How being celibate really is the best thing for me and how I need to decenter men once and for all. Then all these videos came out about this and validated exactly how I've been feeling.
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You can do this ❤❤❤
Never been on a dating app.
And I doubt that I would ever use one.
Also, I read that 25 - 30% of the men who sign up for dating apps are there to try and entice women into a romance scam.
Why would I pay good money for that?
NEVER BEEN ON A DATING APP EITHER. KNEW OFF TOP THEY WERE BS
And that 30% is on top of the 50% who are married
I always felt that way when I got “ friend” requests on FB from men I didn’t know.
It had to be a scam
Most of romance is already a scam anyhow. 😂
@@emilyfeagin2673 I got stalkers. Never anyone normal.
This is the end of Bumble and the dating apps. These offensive adds are just the last nail in Bumble's coffin.
LOL this makes me so happy! Seeing the egos of entitled men implode is next level satisfying!😂😂😂😂
It’s the audacity for me from Bumble.
bumble got sued for “gender discrimination” by a bitter rancid man and now they’ve taken away the one feature that made them slightly better than other dating apps, which was the fact that when you match with a man he can’t message you until you message him first. they were told they’re not allowed to do that so it’s been phased out and they’re trying to come up with all these clever tricks to make it more palatable or to make it sound cute but it’s too late, the app is already ruined
Sparkle Sparkle king is living in a van down by the river.
😂😂😂with his funky/stanky looking azz!
🤣🤣🤣🎯💯
He’s bitter because he can’t find a sugar mama to financially support him. 🤣🤣
I'm one of those women who quit dating apps in August 2023.
I used to get dates but I got tired of it. Yep. I got burned out.
Now, single and celibate and feeling good about it.
IT FEELS SO GOOD TO BE CELIBATE ❤❤❤ and use my energy on MYSELF😊😊
I thought they were getting their passports. Drizzle Drizzle💅
Omggg drizzle drizzle 🤣🤣🤣
A lot of those men who flap their gums about “getting a passport” don’t even qualify for one. They either can’t afford the fees, they owe back child support, or they have a serious felony conviction.
Women finally understand their value and the power of boycotting and civil disobedience.
By deleting those apps, discontinuing dating and decentralizing the nonsense involving dating and sex, you have impacted components of capitalism and the global economy.
Apps are losing business .
Schools innAsia are having student enrollment issues (because the childbirth rates are steadily declining)
The impressive impacts from purposeful inaction is astounding.
Keep up the great work.
Men trying to coerce women into playing a game that we're designed to lose...idk if any of y'all are as old as me but it reminds me of the early 2000s horror movies where the phone rings and the villain goes "DO YOU WANNA PLAY A GAME?" lmao
If they were smart they’d pivot to being more lesbian centric. That’s a growing and underserved demographic in the app space.
They’ll just identify as lesbians and harass women there, already happening lol
YES
I just watched Melanie Hamlett's video on this yesterday. Interesting info. on the Bumble founder there. I've been on the dating apps and never Bumble. Always gave me the ick, like really, I wasn't sure how a woman reaching out first was really going to help the online dynamic. It's just all about capitalism.
Love her videos ❤ she is great!
This brings me so much joy! I am over here giggling. We are making an impact now, ladies!! These dudes might start treating us like humans and with proper respect and *gasp* have the capacity for healthy and loving relationships (a girl can dream 😂)
Dream on.
Handmaid’s Tale will happen before males become human.
@@toscadonnaWW3 will happen before males become human. 😂
I have three lovely children. I am married, and working (less than my husband, but still too much for me) out of necessity, while mothering and doing most of the unpaid labor. Our society makes mothering, and parenting in general, as difficult as possible, financially and logistically. Then most men want workhorses in and out of the home. Women are waking up, and restoring the cost of admission to our time, our bodies, and our wombs. If they can’t pony up enough effort and sacrifice to make relationships and motherhood worth our while, we should not be bothered.
it's called going Galt
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Sounds like a bunch of threats!
Im impressed misogynists found a way to disagree with women's reactions to the ad. Creative writing.
"Celibacy is not the answer..."
Exactly.
You know what is? It's MEN choosing to look inward, deciding to grow, learn, mature and treat women with love and respect!!!
GROW TF UP MEN!!!
That's the answer.
Oh, and down with the Patriarchy!!!
Your comment needs to be pinned, because it’s 1,000,000,000% spot on.
Separatism is the answer
I deleted mine last night - to be fair I was looking for girlfriends (no mo) and it was still pointless.
I found that the BFF/Friend feature of the apps are filled with male identified women that are primarily looking for a man or wing women to help get men on outings.
Definitely give meetup a try. There a different women centered book clubs, fitness groups, etc. It’s a more organic way to connect with women who actually want to show up and focus on a hobby versus hunting for men.
I’m so ready for the ‘Bumble is Over’ party! 🙌🏾 🎉 Who wants some champagne? 🥂 🍾
Been 4B
I’m off all dating apps
More women will follow suit.
“You can state your dating preferences.” You could do that before in your bio. It doesn’t matter though, because men don’t bother to read it.
They should force men to read before they can swipe.
I haven’t seen a man I am genuinely interested in in a LONG time. It’s not us women, men need to level up and not in a soft era way, that is the opposite of attractive.
I'll be honest, these billboards and ads aren't making me rethink anything. If anything, it's confirming my choice to stay away from dating because why is NOTHING this big ever happening for women and all the issues WE face, the medical industry is JUST NOW focusing on us more in the midst of our reproductive rights being taken away, but oh no, men are lonely and can't get dates (because of how THEY and and how THEY treat women)... companies put out whole ad campaigns over it. I'm done with how much society caters to men on EVERY level. Bumble was SUPPOSED to be the app for women's safety and security and all that crap. I won't point out people getting scammed or hurt or anything because that happens on any dating app, and it's not exclusive to Bumble, but to then be putting out stuff like this, trying to make it seem like it's our fault men are lonely and our duty to fix it and how our "opting out" isn't the answer.
Go talk to men about this. I'm not seeing any billboards or ads encouraging men to go to therapy or anything else, but we get ads telling us to not become nuns (what kind of horse crap is that... if you're single, you're a nun???) and to stop being selfish with our kitty cat. Like, I just... I don't even know what to say to this stuff, anymore, but I will continue to leave my heart and kitty cat up on the shelf, thank you!
It feels like those sci-fi glasses where the guy can see the truth except they just blatantly posted it there.
They are literally selling sex! One billboard in London said women friendships will never be enough. Lol talk about desperation!
It appears no country wants to invest in mental health, or the social infrastructure to really get to the root of why folks aren't having kids...they want to throw money at the problem, restrict women's healthcare, make everyone pay more for healthcare, not help out with student loans, not have reasonably priced childcare, redo the education system...NOOOOOO...! The entire world (1st world on down) rather be predatory where folks could actually die, than build a better economy to support everyone...
A vow of celibacy isn't the answer to....what? Violence against women? Below bare minimum effort men? What's the question, Bumble? And what's the answer?
if women want peace, are men war?
They have another billboard in London saying a friendship with a woman isn't the answer either. It said it's not enough. Lol they really are desperate!
Dating apps were never for BW anyway
Aren’t women getting harmed using these apps. The nerve that they are targeting women
That's why dating apps are disgusting. Women are being unalived, and they have the nerve to do this.
Apps are failing because men are ruthless with sex. It's too dangerous. Predators are the majority.
Bumble fumbling the bag, i considered downloading the app. Didnt they also have an option to make same sex friends? They should have promoted that feature because this is a FAIL.
This. So many women didn't and don't know they have a friend feature. This was the time to try and make the FRIEND side better and then advertise it. Not tell us to stop being selfish with the goodies, lol.
Yep. Met a really good friend through it. I only used it for that purpose.
I have been comfortable single for a long time, but have always preferred women. I recently downloaded bumble (briefly) and was really surprised that even though I specifically set my search to only women, I would get a mans profile about every 5 to 7 times? Honestly, I'll just stay single.
I didn't actually think I'd ever live to see this kind of history taking place.
I'm glad I'm alive to see it, though.
Love that the ladies are roasting Bumble directly.
instead of telling the men to "stop being dusties, become emotionally intelligent & providers for your future partner, become the man that women want because women are the prize" of course they "blame women for everything again" 🤦♀