I have aleays been a big believer in quality verses quantity...in many things. I do much better in a social setting of few people rather than a noisy crowd with no personal connection. And yes, balance is very important for your own health and especially in a romantic relationship. Only time will tell what you need to give and take from each other and that requires commitment and patience. I wish slow living was as popular back when i started my long-term relationship....but it's not too late. It's encouraging to listen to your videos.
I can absolutely relate with everything you wrote! ☺ when I got into my relationship, slow living wasn't popular or on my radar too. I discovered this over the last couple of years and it just feels so good ☺ Have a lovely day!
its insightfull... this used to be the norm, but since we have a lot of technology that we dont know how to properly incorporate into our lives this suddenly is something that needs to be learned
You are absolutely right! We are kind of lost with all this technology around us and keep going further and further away from the way it used to be in simpler times🙏
I am happy to watch your video. Thanks TH-cam suggestion, I hope that many people can watch your video. I am waiting for your next video. Thank you so much.
Great that you’ve touched on the topic of attachment styles, that was a game changer for me and helped me understand so much about my breakup and hopefully will help me in the future when choosing a partner. Like you, I have only heard about this about a year ago and wish I knew better then, but hey, lesson learned…. By the way, I have stumbled upon your channel yesterday and have been binge watching since… Love your content, calm energy and mindset… Best from Berlin
I'm sure it will help moving forward ☺ having the awareness of these styles lets you look at the world around you in a completely different way. Thank you for being around and all the best 🙏🍀
Like the Large Hadron Collider (LHC) finding smaller parts of very small particles, our relationships with other human beings are not random. I started in life with a whole village of human connections and technology magnified that to millions and billions...but! I consider these only as chunks of information. In the [atomic] level of personal relationship, I have very few and precious ones that have survived through decades of nurture. These relationships have underlying synchronicities in them making me understand why they were placed at the crossroads of my life. They are the products of the polarities of [my] attachments and complexes.
It is something special to be able to reflect on (past) connections and relationships and recognise patterns and interconnections! Happy festivities to you 😊❄
100% agree about stress and just ‘too much’ stimulation. Slow living allows for so much more mindfulness and intentionality. I also recently studied attachment styles in my master’s psychology lectures, its such interesting stuff. Amazing video 💯 I agree with it all! Also loved seeing lil Sture 🥰🥰
That's really cool that you covered that subject in your lectures! I was absolutely blown away to see how accurate I could use it both to analyse myself and my relationship but also to see patterns in behavior in other people and could explain to myself (at least partially) why they acted the way they acted. Glad to have you around, thank you for your comment! 🍀☺
I am absolutely amazed of your content... ! It's like we are somehow connected to the same source. I just can't believe all the similarities of what you say with what I feel ! It's great ! I also discoverd about 2 years ago attachment styles and it's life changing ! It put light on patterns we can have ! Also, I wonder if your ring on the right hand means that you are married to yourself (symbolic) ? I've always said to myself : my right hand is already taken (I am married to myself) and the left hand is still available for a man, to have a deep connexion and meaningful relationship and work for it. It's a committment. To relate to another video you made, I also love the youtube platform, but I suppressed any other social media as I think it's harmful for mental health. I am glad to have found your channel and I will follow you in the future. You're a beautiful soul. Thanks a lot ! PS: I'm French-Swiss and living around Geneva myself ☺️
It's truly amazing to get likeminded people on this channel and share ideas and perspectives, that is such a beautiful thing to see. Glad you are here now too! 🤩 I love that idea of your ring, that is really powerful. In my case it was a family gift so initially I didn't put a deeper meaning into it, but I like your idea and might adapt that for myself, thank you!! Thank you for your very kind comments, greetings to you in beautiful Genève ☀☺
Thanks for sharing!🙏 I agree with all the pillars you have mentioned - and I would also like to add that assessing your (romantic) relationships from time to time plays a major role in living a fullfilled life♥️
Thanks for your valuable thoughts, I totally agree. I tend to want to do too much myself and have learned to consciously build in breaks and time for myself. Keep up your good work, it's a pleasure to follow you.
That can absolutely be a challenge to many people! I feel like if you are aware of that discrepancy you already have achieved more than most and can now act accordingly. Thank you for your kind comment. Glad to have you around ☺🍀
Congratulations on your recent marriage. What was the biggest challege to overcome? We got married last year but are taking a time out to work on ourselves, as evolution is needed.
Thank you very much and congratulations back to you! ☺ I think one of the biggest challenges was dealing and properly supporting each other with the struggles that each of us had over the years. I had to learn that the way that I would like to be helped is not necessarily the way my wife would like to be helped. Learning how to truly be there for one and another is really important but also very challenging in my eyes. It took many struggles and conversations about our needs before we figured it out for ourselves. I don't know if you have encountered similar struggles or challenges, maybe you know what I'm talking about. I wish you all the best! 🍀🍀
@@swisssimpleton thank you for opening up and sharing that. I think that's on point as something my husband and I should look into, first we need to understand our needs, then we can talk to each other about them. Best to you and your wife too
I have aleays been a big believer in quality verses quantity...in many things. I do much better in a social setting of few people rather than a noisy crowd with no personal connection. And yes, balance is very important for your own health and especially in a romantic relationship. Only time will tell what you need to give and take from each other and that requires commitment and patience. I wish slow living was as popular back when i started my long-term relationship....but it's not too late. It's encouraging to listen to your videos.
I can absolutely relate with everything you wrote! ☺ when I got into my relationship, slow living wasn't popular or on my radar too. I discovered this over the last couple of years and it just feels so good ☺ Have a lovely day!
its insightfull... this used to be the norm, but since we have a lot of technology that we dont know how to properly incorporate into our lives this suddenly is something that needs to be learned
You are absolutely right! We are kind of lost with all this technology around us and keep going further and further away from the way it used to be in simpler times🙏
I am happy to watch your video. Thanks TH-cam suggestion, I hope that many people can watch your video. I am waiting for your next video. Thank you so much.
Thank you for your very kind comment ☺ I am very happy that you found it interesting and am glad to have you around 😊🍀
Another thought provoking video. Thank you!
Thank you very much! Glad you enjoyed it 😊 I wish you a happy and peaceful festive season! 🙂☃🌲
Great that you’ve touched on the topic of attachment styles, that was a game changer for me and helped me understand so much about my breakup and hopefully will help me in the future when choosing a partner. Like you, I have only heard about this about a year ago and wish I knew better then, but hey, lesson learned….
By the way, I have stumbled upon your channel yesterday and have been binge watching since… Love your content, calm energy and mindset… Best from Berlin
I'm sure it will help moving forward ☺ having the awareness of these styles lets you look at the world around you in a completely different way. Thank you for being around and all the best 🙏🍀
I have been to Switzerland long time ago and visited Lugano Lake....what a quite and relax place to stay. Hi I am from Indonesia. ✈️✈️✈️✈️
Like the Large Hadron Collider (LHC) finding smaller parts of very small particles, our relationships with other human beings are not random. I started in life with a whole village of human connections and technology magnified that to millions and billions...but! I consider these only as chunks of information. In the [atomic] level of personal relationship, I have very few and precious ones that have survived through decades of nurture. These relationships have underlying synchronicities in them making me understand why they were placed at the crossroads of my life. They are the products of the polarities of [my] attachments and complexes.
It is something special to be able to reflect on (past) connections and relationships and recognise patterns and interconnections! Happy festivities to you 😊❄
@@swisssimpletonHappy Holidays to you and yours. Cheers from the North!❤🎄🇧🇻
100% agree about stress and just ‘too much’ stimulation. Slow living allows for so much more mindfulness and intentionality. I also recently studied attachment styles in my master’s psychology lectures, its such interesting stuff. Amazing video 💯 I agree with it all! Also loved seeing lil Sture 🥰🥰
That's really cool that you covered that subject in your lectures! I was absolutely blown away to see how accurate I could use it both to analyse myself and my relationship but also to see patterns in behavior in other people and could explain to myself (at least partially) why they acted the way they acted. Glad to have you around, thank you for your comment! 🍀☺
I am absolutely amazed of your content... ! It's like we are somehow connected to the same source. I just can't believe all the similarities of what you say with what I feel ! It's great ! I also discoverd about 2 years ago attachment styles and it's life changing ! It put light on patterns we can have !
Also, I wonder if your ring on the right hand means that you are married to yourself (symbolic) ? I've always said to myself : my right hand is already taken (I am married to myself) and the left hand is still available for a man, to have a deep connexion and meaningful relationship and work for it. It's a committment.
To relate to another video you made, I also love the youtube platform, but I suppressed any other social media as I think it's harmful for mental health.
I am glad to have found your channel and I will follow you in the future. You're a beautiful soul. Thanks a lot !
PS: I'm French-Swiss and living around Geneva myself ☺️
It's truly amazing to get likeminded people on this channel and share ideas and perspectives, that is such a beautiful thing to see. Glad you are here now too! 🤩
I love that idea of your ring, that is really powerful. In my case it was a family gift so initially I didn't put a deeper meaning into it, but I like your idea and might adapt that for myself, thank you!!
Thank you for your very kind comments, greetings to you in beautiful Genève ☀☺
Thanks for sharing!🙏 I agree with all the pillars you have mentioned - and I would also like to add that assessing your (romantic) relationships from time to time plays a major role in living a fullfilled life♥️
You are absolutely right!! Happy holidays to you :)
Thanks for your valuable thoughts, I totally agree. I tend to want to do too much myself and have learned to consciously build in breaks and time for myself. Keep up your good work, it's a pleasure to follow you.
That can absolutely be a challenge to many people! I feel like if you are aware of that discrepancy you already have achieved more than most and can now act accordingly. Thank you for your kind comment. Glad to have you around ☺🍀
Very interesting video! Thank you!
Congratulations on your recent marriage. What was the biggest challege to overcome? We got married last year but are taking a time out to work on ourselves, as evolution is needed.
Thank you very much and congratulations back to you! ☺ I think one of the biggest challenges was dealing and properly supporting each other with the struggles that each of us had over the years. I had to learn that the way that I would like to be helped is not necessarily the way my wife would like to be helped. Learning how to truly be there for one and another is really important but also very challenging in my eyes. It took many struggles and conversations about our needs before we figured it out for ourselves.
I don't know if you have encountered similar struggles or challenges, maybe you know what I'm talking about. I wish you all the best! 🍀🍀
@@swisssimpleton thank you for opening up and sharing that. I think that's on point as something my husband and I should look into, first we need to understand our needs, then we can talk to each other about them. Best to you and your wife too
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