Bro i feel u! Once i care about a girl i have to be really carefull not to obsess about her and give my power away. Dude when i was 18 i saw a girl from elementary school in mc donalds for 5 minutes(didnt even talk to her)and over the next few days i started to obsess and fall in love with her in my mind to an absolutely insane extend. For the next 3 years i would obsess, thinking i couldnt live without her, crying like a baby thinking about her 24/7. Just from seeing her for 5 minutes and themn basically never talk to her again lmao. I was basically psychotic and the neediest crybaby u could imagine.(called her mother to ask if i could talk to her lmao) But yeah man, anxiety just makes u prone to overthink everything i have the same thing. Cause everything is apotential threat. And fuck that "ur not strong if ursensitive blabla" thats bullshit!!! U need to let go of that belief 100%, probably got taught that as you were growing up to much. Its garbage man, its totally human to be vulnerable. being open about your feelings is more brave than suppressing them!
Bro i feel u! Once i care about a girl i have to be really carefull not to obsess about her and give my power away. Dude when i was 18 i saw a girl from elementary school in mc donalds for 5 minutes(didnt even talk to her)and over the next few days i started to obsess and fall in love with her in my mind to an absolutely insane extend. For the next 3 years i would obsess, thinking i couldnt live without her, crying like a baby thinking about her 24/7. Just from seeing her for 5 minutes and themn basically never talk to her again lmao. I was basically psychotic and the neediest crybaby u could imagine.(called her mother to ask if i could talk to her lmao)
But yeah man, anxiety just makes u prone to overthink everything i have the same thing. Cause everything is apotential threat.
And fuck that "ur not strong if ursensitive blabla" thats bullshit!!! U need to let go of that belief 100%, probably got taught that as you were growing up to much. Its garbage man, its totally human to be vulnerable. being open about your feelings is more brave than suppressing them!
barschben it’s not easy that’s for sure. Being vulnerable terrifies me and I’m man enough to admit that.
Sorry you are struggling you’re a good dude who has helped a lot of other people. Lmk if you need to talk
Do you still struggle with anxiety?
Hi bro do you have a way I can contact you like a email please I need some urgent help bro
He has a yahoo idk if he still is active on it