TikTok Thinks Your Relationship is TOXIC. 🫢
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Today we take a look at these TikTok love theories, like the orange peel theory, that determine whether you have a healthy or toxic relationship. Not that you'd need to know ofc.
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*checking in, you still single bestie?* 🫢
sorry im in a rs :')
Yeah..
Are YOU still single bestie 😒
No 😔 I'm sorry. I entered one on the 18th of January 😭❤️
why is he attacking me like that..... :)
the fact that someone commented "No one asked but i finished my homework" and everyone is (mostly) supportive says a lot about all of us besties
Ikr! We’re all besties~~
@@chrisatonin yess! We all are
@@Laciiii_GkPrime
@@chrisatoninseungberry who watches rebal d!!!
I thought how wholesome that was 😭 like all the besties coming together to support wad so cute
Actually, the guy who got his girlfriend a fruit cup as an alternative was so cute😭.
The boy was so cute but I can't stand the girl
right it was adorable 😭
@@marcell3891agreed, like damn you should be like “ohh!! Yes, a fruit cup is fine” 🫶🫶
@@marcell3891why not?
@tinanana- probably cause she kinda asked him to go buy an orange and come back to peel it lol she could have asked for another fruit.
I'm imagining him in "am I the ass hole for not peeling an orange for my girlfriend"
Reddit story😂
Oh god 😂 ppl who asks am i the asshole are always the assholes or people who obvi arent the asshole and wants the validation ☠️☠️😭
Stoppp 😂😂 literally
@@jessica_7744or need some help
😂😂😂😂
Ever since I saw that dumb TikTok, whenever my husband or I eats an orange now we've been doing this exaggerated "NOOOOO LET ME PEEL IT FOR YOUUUUUU" dance with each other and grading the other person's orange peeling technique. If you can't peel an orange and keep the peel intact in one piece, dishonor on you and your family.
That is literally so sweet omg
nah like acc thats so cute 😭@ghostinablanket6032
So cute omg
Now this is a healthy relationship ❤ so cute
I wish the girl whose bf failed would have turned the camera around to him like the other girl so that the rest of the world could make sure to avoid him.
they actually have a couple's tiktok account lmao
peeling an orange is not the main part it's how they say no, the tone and words
Edit: even if your partner is in a bad mood I don't think it is fine for them to treat you like crap.
OMG EXACTLY LIKE ONE GUY TOLD HIS GF UR NOT SPECIAL LIKE WAHT
@@swelanajohn7170he was horrible to her but we don’t know if she plays being cool the entire time and maybe he’s just sick of it
@@swelanajohn7170 I’ve seen people talking about her and her bf, her account mostly staged shit, so it’s hard to believe tbh
@@nodiggity8746Fair but even if she was hesitant to talk back because she was recording, she never even said anything out of line in that situation to get told that. He was literally just outright mean for no reason.
i always try to peel an orange in 1 piece, so any practice i can get in is great. plus i like seeing someone happy, because you do something special but mediocre for them. It's like holding a door open for some stranger or letting someone cut in line. its random kindness and when you do that, for the one you love it's extra special. Both parties should get a positive feeling from it. The dude in the video if real, demonstrated that he doesn't get a good vibe from doing something special for her because "your not special"
"You're not special" Oh he hates her, I hope she was single by the time she posted that
Nah, she defended him when people in the comments went crazy.
it's a skit
I was hoping it was a skit cause her defending him after all that is crazy and sad ngl.
@@gachathis4858 No it’s not. They do make skits but this clearly wasn’t one.
Also, who would do a skit pretending to be a verbally abusive boyfriend??
@@allisoncastleyou’d be surprised what people do for views
"Like you´re really not that special" Bestie the way I would get up and leave 💀
fr but i whouldn't get up and leave without giving him a hand five ...on the face first🤚😤
I wouldve cheated on him and when he finds out say "and?? You're really not that special"
haha good revenge@@divine555
@@divine555 queen behavior
@@divine555 bruh no need to cheat
It kind of feels silly that a simple act such as peeling an orange for you is being a test but I feel like it’s about the way they do it, I mean the first guy was so sweet about it and didn’t even question her on the other hand we have the “you’re not special” guy so that proves the point.
And for the last girl I MEAN I get that she wants him to know her worth and all that but it’s literally their first date I’m assuming, he doesn’t know her yet and I doubt that he’s willing to pay all that for practically a stranger.
She reminds me of a person who've been in couple of bad relationships and now thinks that all men are trash and the only thing worth dating them is money. She had no comment about how she want to spend time with her date or likes about his personality. She was treating a date like a transaction. Even if you're someone who likes gifts and being spoiled by your partner, that ain't a way. She will only attract guys who will also treat her as a transaction. When some amount of money means they can act like a douchebag to their partner.
@@TacseraEpSekahsThat's why women who were in bad relationships shouldn't date when they aren't ready. Some women fall in the same pit because they think they can't be alone. There needs to be something that makes them realize that they can be happy without a relationship as well.
@@greyskymy True. But that's also about people around you. When you're hurt but still open, you can meet a genuinely good person and understand "Wow, my perception of dating was skewed". It takes both inner wisdom and good people from outside world.
@@TacseraEpSekahsI mean, the girl obviously want a "provider", a generous person to whom this wouldn't be an issue. So it makes sense in a way although I'd think it's kinda dangerous to give your address before the 1st date.
That's the point. It's such a silly little request. It's so easy to do, literally just a minute to peel an orange.
If he can't even peel an orange for you, drop him. Such a simple, small request? Forbid you ever need something that takes EFFORT!
I just got out of a situationship/crush who was too nonchalant and cold towards me whenever things got even a lil serious. I feel better leaving him behind. Just wanted to share here because it feels like SUCH an accomplishment.
It is a great accomplishment babe and I am so proud of you.
I'm glad you ended it. It sounds like you want more than a situationship. Keep your chin up and you'll find what you need
best friend is here to remind us of our single lives again 😭
lol right... pass me a tissue bestie
I'm out of tissues, would a scarf work🫴🧣
Lmao real
How does he know? 😭😭😭
I'm not crying bec I'm not even alone anymore
I kinda agree with men not doing everything you ask them for but getting "You're not that special" from a 'so called great bf' yeah² I'll break up with him right there and then ugh
Idk abt you but i would do anything my gf asks me bc i like her ☠️☠️😭
why is the 'yeah' in your comment squared
@@mightymeatymech Cause I need to double that down 😌😂
@@jessica_7744 That's what's up 👏🏻
fr, the way he just threw that on her seemed so harsh and rude. Its so funny to see people like this to be in a relationship cuz the guy is an asshole for saying that but why is the girl just with him even after all that...dont know whos more pathetic.
12:08 okay but like if i were this girl, i'd literally break up with that guy IMMEDIATELY😭😭💀💀there was no need for him to be that rude, like you could tell he was purposefully tryna tear her down. even without the orange peel theory, that relationship is unhealthy asl you can see just by the way they talk to each other😭😭😭😭
Seriously that was verbally and mentally abusive. You can set a boundary without berating someone. He sounds like he’s been listening to some alpha bro podcast.
you guys realize these are skits right ? 😭😭 a lot of these are fake for views and clout
@@chaoskhaos5061 yes most of them are. but its about the interaction and people express their healthy point of views if it were real! Not many tiktoks say its a skitt.
@@chaoskhaos5061 Even if it is fake, my point still stands, especially for people who need to hear it and/or are going through it irl. There’s so many kids on the app who might think it’s normal or acceptable.
@DistressedDamsel79 if ppl didn't give them attention and virality no kid would see it tho lol but yea sure I get it ig
"Run for the hills, for the hills. Whatever you find in the woods is gonna be less of a horror story than whatever this relationship is." So real. I also refuse to believe that that one wasn't a skit. Because girl needs to absolutely run.
The stark contrast between that and the one after that.
“Build you up as a FEMALE” saying female that way immediately pissed me off.. then to say she’s not special.. I think I would’ve broken up with him right then and there… great video as always! ❤
About the girl that cancelled the date: if she is so high maintenance - and she knows it - and is not willing to accept anything less from a partner, it's better to turn down the first date then to go, let him pay for the date knowing it's not gonna go further.
Agreed, but she should've asked if he would arrange her car before saying yes to the date - especially if it was important enough for her to cancel the date over.
@@fizzliebob she doesnt want someone who she has to ask for . she wants someone to whom its already in his personality to treat his date special
A person is high-maintenance when they have a set standard that THEY THEMSELVES hold to, and maintain to. If you are expecting someone to fund your ideals, that too by a person who has bare minimum emotional investment in you, that’s not high maintenance, you’re just a free mooch, that want other people to pay for you. Which is what that girl was. She’s not maintaining a high standard, she’s expecting someone else to.
@@nehaprasad9914 yes exactly..they don't even know each other yet..
When your own basic living expenses are a deal breaker? 🤪
Yeah it’d be nice to have someone offer, or discuss that ahead of time but a dealbreaker ? Girls looking for a sugar daddy.
Rebal D is finally off of the “fake Photoshop girl” and back to toxic relationships😂
I was thinking the same
He literally wouldn't let "Shasha susu" breath 😭
Those photoshop girlies were the demons in bestie sleep paralysis 😂😂😂😂😂
Funny how making tiktoks about what they think is toxic, is such a toxic trait itself lmfao 😂
well said 😂
yooo thats so true
these women are either trying to show off that they have a man they feel safe with and taken care of by, if the worst were to ever happen, someone who would stick by them even if they lost the ability to take care of themselves, or they suspect they’re with someone who wouldn’t, and want to try something they heard of that may prove them right… how is that any more toxic than calling people you don’t even know toxic for clout (the empty ‘likes’ of other misogynists) in a youtube comment section? putting other women down *as if **_you_** can claim to be any better?*
@@highfae I think OP was trying to say that testing your partner is a toxic thing to do. Id also imagine recording without their knowledge and posting it on social media where, if they have an online account, they can get harassed online is bad too
@@highfae nooo, no one is putting other woman downn, that's not the point. doing this don't necessarily means that the person is bad, but this attitude is not good, you know? and the comment is not saying that this is more toxic, but It is toxic as well 🙏
I don't expect my man to do everything I ask of him bc I won't ask him to do simple things like that, but God if he responded with some shit like "You're not special" over that simple thing, I'm leaving him with a black eye
" as if i don't do enough" bruhhhh.
"nah figure your life out dude" what the flippity flop you saying, she just asked you to peel the orange for her, plus it was a request damnit.
"and like you are not even special" bestie, thats it. the way i would flip him off and leave.
He talk like those alpha dudes. OMG. He's not worth to keep. Girl should leave his butt. I hate it when those boys get in relationships.
No one asked but I finished all my homework
I asked
Congratulations bestie😂😂
im so proud
proud of you
Good from you 👏
You are doing great 👍
Please 🙏 always do your best 👌
Make the best version of yourself..
Best wishes to you and your loved ones and lots of love and respect and greetings from me in Amsterdam the Netherlands 🇳🇱 😊
One for my boyfriend's refused to cook for me even after dating years and living together said I was too picky and nothing was good enough for me, basically he wouldnt peel an orange for me and that's a red flag. I'd get off work starving and ask for pizza bites and I'd get an earful that I was capable of doing it myself while he would be gaming and home for hours. I think there's a little something to it
Please tell me he's an ex because i could never settle, I'd lash out 😭😭 I told my boyfriend that I can't live with him if he doesn't know how to cook
I hope his an ex now...🤨
that's not a man bro, that's a manchild😭he better be an ex rn
Dump his ass like now
Is he your ex Now?
Yoooo bestie finally remembered he has a TH-cam channel again' 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
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My mom does this and not to prove their relationship, but because she didn’t feel like doing the task. She would ask me too and when I complained because it was something she could do herself, I would get guilted because she does so much for me or told “Just wait until you need a favor.” Half the things I do for her is to avoid retaliation or a reactionary response. So yeah this comes with a lot of baggage for me.
oh the narcissistic parent?😮i feel that.
@@foxbuns Personally, I don’t think she is. I think in this specific area she has those tendencies. Overall, from my limited knowledge of what I glean from the internet (lol) about NPD, it’s someone who refuses to apologize, see fault in themselves, and/or admit when they’re wrong. Imo she’s just unknowingly projecting generational trauma, my grandma is a huge guilt tripper. But thankfully I’m seeing my therapist tomorrow, so I’ll bring it up with her.
This needs more context but, um hope you're good
Mine does that too, with a sweet voice and sad eyes, but I think is mostly because she does everything for everyone and expects them to do the same, or maybe because her love language is acts of service and is rare for her to receive it? As a defense mechanism I retaliate back. I know it's not right, but I don't care. We are a fucked up family anyway.
Sadly, therapy is pricey.
This!
My parents kinda did this as well. Not because they were bad, but because they were too busy to give back. So it ended up being one-sided even if they didn't mean it. And while as an adult I understand that they gave back by feeding us kids, it still left marks. If someone asked me to do something for them when they can do it themselves, I would find it very rude. I also don't ask for stuff like that, even when I'm sick.
Even if one of my friends asked me to peel an orange for them, I’d do it. I mean, I’d probably be like “…ok but why tho” while I was peeling it, but I’d do it
Bestie, everyone is toxic at this point. Even our friendship
I agree🎉
The insults and sarcasm but we can't leave each other.
Britney Spears tried to warn us
@@solus8685 Queen Britney did. NO CAP, Bestie
You joke but parasocial relationships aren’t really…the best lol
TikTokkers: "But that's just a theory. A LOVE theory."
MatPat: So disappointed he decided to quit the Internet.
what
Not judging but were you on something when you typed this out
funniest part is that he actually did
I saw one orange pee theory one where an Indian girl said "Orange peel theory? This man literally hand feeds me rice" bc u know us indians eat w our hands. It was the cutest thing ever
that's so adorable holy crap 😭😭😭 it's what she DESERVES!!
p.s. it's irrelevant but you are so pretty
I'm so happy for her! He cares about her because it's true love. She's lucky to be in a great relationship. 🎀💓💓💓🎀
my boyfriend does that for me too 😭😭 without any hesitation whatsoever
Aww that’s so cute!! I’m Bangladeshi we eat rice with our hands too…pls can my future man read this for when we get married thank you 🫶
12:47 “make it stop before we get mad” bro she was soooo mad already for like a minute before you said that
My roommate always does things like asking if I want anything while he's up during a film or bringing me a snack while I'm working at my desk. Sometimes it feels silly when it's something I can easily do, but it's his way of looking out for his friends and being a considerate person, and I really admire and respect that about him.
My husband wouldn't peel an orange for me because he has a weird thing with oranges and it hurts the skin on his hands. But he would go out at night in the pouring rain to buy a lottery ticket because I decided we'd win (we didn't lol). When I was pregnant he'd get me whatever I needed or wanted at any time. So I'd say peeling oranges isn't the end all be all lol
Not about the orange itself, it’s the fact that the way he reacted speaks to his character in the relationship
I never understood why people get so caught up on first dates. You can say it’s about standards but you can’t really complain when the dating pool ends up small because you judged too many people without getting to know them. 🤷🏼♀️ That’s just my take on the whole uber thing, he just asked if she really needed that. He didn’t even say no…
Yeah, he was right. If she had a good reason, maybe he actually would end up paying for it. But she had none. It was her responsibility to agree on a place where she can get with a preferred way of transportation. If you cannot get to a spot, offer change of plans or explain the situation. Most people will meet you in the middle if there's some accommodations needed. But you have to treat them with respect first. No one's gonna give her the world with that kind of attitude towards people.
@@TacseraEpSekahs Well, idk if there is ever a good reason to demand someone pay for your ride… I understand some people expect the man to pay for a date, should probably be up front about it but that I can get. But to have them pay for a ride too and stacking up costs on a person they haven’t even properly met in person yet is a bit much… Just as much as she doesn’t know him, he doesn’t know her. Plus as a woman you should be cautious anyways, if you can’t trust a man enough to ask him to drive you, you shouldn’t trust him enough to leave transportation in his hands in general… Plus, a full on relationship doesn’t start on the first date, show a bit of independence…
@@LiviKittyCutie "Is there ever a good reason to ask someone to pay for your ride". There are many good reasons if you already know a person. But let's take the same situation of the first date. I can imagine a story like... She's finishing her job at 7pm, while date is at 7:30 pm in a different part of the city. The guy is adamants that that's the time and place he wants to meet (he cannot later or in another day), while she cannot get there in time unless she takes an Uber. I can see the "Can you pay for my ride?" question not being rude. Because it's inconvenient for the person and other options were not available.
Is it the situation of the girl in the video? No. Is it extremely rare situation I've just pulled out from my imagination? Yes. That's just for "if she had a good reason that won't be that bad" argument. But she didn't have no good reason to demand a ride from the guy.
@@TacseraEpSekahs Well then in that imaginary situation the woman should have planned properly and who on earth goes on a date as soon as they get off work? Also, I was specifically talking about scenarios like this one. You can have a different opinion but I still think it’s off putting and seems entitled… It’s one thing to have your meal paid for but to spring other sudden expenses on a person you’ve never met in person yet is rude. I’m not talking about someone you know and are comfortable with or asking a good friend/family member when your budget is tight that month, that wasn’t even the topic.
I mean I do get your point but she never complained about how the dating pool is so small. She had a standard he didn’t meet it and she politely declined. I don’t think what the guy did was wrong or anything but also she didn’t do anything wrong either. People have different needs in life while you might not get so caught up on a first date some people does and that’s fine 🤷🏻♀️
the way i gasped with you when he was like your not that specialhad to pause and let that sink in
3:26 “i say you walk away ✨sprinkle sprinkle✨” 😭😭😭
THAT CUP OF NUTELLA.. might as well gave her the Damn JAR!!!! 😂 .
Its always a blessing when Rebal post
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I never thought that Rebal would just pull out that cute notebook out of no where. That caught me off guard lmao 😭
13:07 even if this is a script relationships like this exist. My ex boyfriend also told me a few times I wasn't that special and just an ordinary girl and once he said he could find millions like me. 💔😢
Now thinking back then I can't even figure out why I gave him chances or loved him.
12:31 I don’t know why I feel like they are acting because she’s smiling all the time!
I'm so single that I cannot even imagine myself being in a relationship 😂 1:19
I watch your videos while eating, that's how much I love them, Rebal.
SAME
Same
Currently eating pasta
Ahahaha sameeee I'm eating soup rn xD
Eat well y'all, the food tastes better while watching Rebal bashing us 🫶🏻
@@4ngel222 I immediately get an appetite
“I want an orange “
“A orange tea?”
(Ty for 400likes)
Bros British coded
Imagine asking him for an apple and he was like “apple juice?? apple pie?” lmao 😭
The guy must be british
Man was already sweating thinking "what is the right answer here?" trying to understand if it was a tricky question,if he'll get a fight or a super hug out of the answer 😂
Orange tea is so good tho
4:14
You're a real bestie for your besties. A keeper.
11:38
Holy shlt. The gaslighting this guy is doing. Holy shlt.
12:07
Holy shlt. I hope she left. Gotta find someone who sees you as special and you see them as special.
13:24
😂😂😂😂😂
14:20
Dam. When I say I want a man that's what I mean. Holy shlt.
15:32
She brings herself 😊
I personally think that the girl's reason for declining the date is ridiculous, especially if they don't even know each other face to face that much or NOT AT ALL, she's in the wrong and it's weird to expect someone who doesn't even know you, literally get you an uber so like why would she be worked up about it? I agree with Rebal that she's just after the idea and experience of the date itself
15:12 my face when I see loving relationships😍... bestie always make fun of us for being single but what about u bestie?
HAHAHHA
Actually peeling an orange or serving any type of fruit to your loved ones is just a traditional standard that was used in asia. Or maybe it's used even now. It's about how the person serves the fruit, how carefully they peel it. It's about cultural difference here. These people just making a mess out of it🙆🏻♀️
frrrrrrrrrrrr
Yesss we do it too in east Europe
16:17
Hell no, that is simply disrespectful towards the guy. Don't get me wrong, it's okay to have requests but this kind of "Princess Treatment" is ruining healthy expectations in the dating scene and putting too much pressure on the other person. Chill out, it's a first date. If there are any red flags to be seen, you will see them in no time. Everyone is entitled to their own time & resources not just you.
If I were the guy, I'd see that as a problem. If you'd expect me to go that extra mile for you without knowing anything about you, how bad can it get over time?
true, true. i'm personally such a laid back first date kind of person... like, let's grab take out and just talk for a bit. i don't wanna do my makeup on a first date tbh, because i don't know how much it's gonna be worth it. and i don't want someone spending a huge amount of money on me either, for the same reasons lol.
@@mightymeatymech I get you!
Personally, I like to get pretty on any kind of date but I prefer to use my own resources as well. If my partner offers to pay or offers me a gift, that's sweet of him but I'd never expect that on a first date.
Someone trying to impress you and love bomb you right away is a no-no.
my ex did peel an orange for me but he was still toxic. we knew each other for almost 2 months and i told him that soon it will be 2 months since we starded dating(i asked him out and he agreed to be my bf)and then he said "you mean 2 months since we started talking" 😭😭as in we weren't a couple
I mean.. You didn't immediately become gf and bf, right? So he's correct, no?
@@solus8685 oh no, I asked him out after 2 weeks of knowing him, and he agreed to be my boyfriend at that time. so that's why it was confusing to me when weeks later he said that we're not actually dating
@@Alexandra-dn damn that's rude
@@solus8685 I know, but I don't blame him, I felt that he wasn't fully over his ex
"Can you bring me an orange?"
*brings them an orange*
Comments: ew he didn't peel it. bad bf
The takeaway shouldn't be if someone assumes beyond what you have communicated. The takeaway should be clear, effective communication and respect for one another.
So... uh.... she didn't even say please she just demanded an Orange... how about we ask someone and say please to test the relationship!?!?! haha goodness!
My literal comfort channel lots of love from indian
So sorry bestie, get well soon 😔❤️
It feels illegal to be this early
With you on that
frrr
Ik righttt
Ikr
Fr tho
I love his blanket and how it just disappears after he's done being dramatic and acting😂
I remember how special I felt when my bf would open my soda for me. One time I told him it hurt my nails to open my soda cans and from then on out he opened it for me. And it just made me feel so special that he did such a little thing for me
BESTIE UPDATED IN FEBRUARY!! IS THAT A SIGN!???
( dolulu is solulu 😍)
"Is our relationship healthy bestie?" **fire alarm rings** ....yeah bestie. I strongly believe that our relationship is healthy bestie. Fire alarm does not mean shit bestie and we all are colourblind. So red flags..what are they? 💀💀
If it matches the color of the leaves, then its red flag. You are good to proceed.
@@Sandra-ml1xnlol what season is it?!
It seems like the last girl probably has some past relationship trauma. It may seem extreme, but she is probably over protective of her feelings. I assume she set her own wants and needs aside for a long time. If thats what makes her feel safe or good, I don't think she was wrong for canceling the date.
BESTIEEEEE about that last part XD here is some tea:
in china, some of these pretty influencer girls tell their date to come pick them up with their own car. then the girls will see from their window what car the man is driving/has come to pick her up with. if the car isn't a ferrari or porsche, the girls cancel the date XD THEY DONT EVEN GO DOWNSTAIRS TO TELL THEM. They cancel the date on text
😆💀
This is a thing ⁉️⁉️⁉️😭😭😭😭
And when they end up with a playboy or toxic rich guy, they will realize money isn't everything.
@@greyskymy yeah but in this case, women are the toxic ones 😭💀💀 they take all the money & then leave the guy for more richer man lmao
I've just realised i started watching rebal when i was single and now i'm married 🤣🤣
I remember when I was 4, our computer had Opera, and I'd never thought that Opera had changed this much, I go install it after the video, and I'll test it for sure, Thanks ❤
10:14 this whole 12 seconds should be a meme😂
Wake up bestie the new Rebal making us feel *excruciatingly* single (again) vid just dropped 😻😍😍💀
Like I’d peel an orange for a friend, someone who can’t be bothered to help you every once in a while with menial stuff is just a person who doesn’t really like you I’d say, it doesn’t really say much about how healthy the relationship is overall imo
That is the only way to have a relationship at all and how you grow. Doing everything for EACHOTHER.
Gf: can you peal this orange for me 🥺🍊
Bf (who probably carried her handbags, booked flight tickets, opened pickle jars before): um sure
Gf: ✨✨
like girly pop how is this the ONE act of service that decides whether he’s a keeper 💀💀HELP
I think it's about how they say it (I still kinda find it dumb ) but that one dude was really mean saying " you are not that special" just cuz she wanted him to peel it
simple solution, ask your partner what they want :) example a: “hey babe can you get me an orange please?” “sure do you want me to peel it for you too?” “yes/no thank you!”
example b: “hey can you get me an orange and peel it for me please?” “sure babe give me a few minutes.” like it’s not hard peeling an orange for a partner (or doing ANY little acts of service).
wow look at that, good communication! i love when my boyfriend does things for me, he does without hesitation, but if he’s busy (which does happen) he’ll tell me in just a few seconds. plus, he knows i’ve got bad sensory issues, he said he’ll even handle the butter for me when we cook with it. and it goes both ways, i’ll happily do things for him too, especially things he doesn’t like, because we’re adults who genuinely love each other.
wait... i dont peel the oranges before giving it to someone...
OK BUT LIKE MY THINKING IS THAT THEY DONT WANT MY ICKY HANDS TOUCHING THE FOOD THEYRE ABT TO CONSUME 😭😭
Honestly with the fruit theory, it depends on the fruit. If I want a banana, I hope to god you haven't peeled that for me
this probably has absolutely nothing to do with the vid, but I love when you put the "YOU NEED TO LEAVE" I literally always laugh at that sm 😭 1:13
broski finally remembered that he had a channel lmao he will never stop reminding us his random stuff
sorry but the dramatic music mixed with the "oOoHhHh yEaAhHhH" is SENDING ME-😭😭😭
We really were waiting for rebal to talk about the orange theory and that also right before the valentine's day 😅
Rebal can make me laugh in ways I didn't know were humanly possible. Thats what true besties do.
Honestly, I kinda just broke up with my bf gos of something like this.
Like, he doesn't give me attention, we would talk and then he would snub or ghost me for about 2-3weeks, then come back apologising 😢. So i had to end things with him 😢.
But what that bro said, now THAT was too much. He has no excuse for saying trash to her like that. I felt like crying for her 😢
Ah our bestie is back with some "HOT TEA" (slurp) AH BURNED MY TOUNGE 🥲
4:50 im literaly using opera already 😭 stop threatning me bestie 😢
brooo the way i was eating an orange i was like spil the juice bestie
Stumbled across your channel after 7 years. Cant believe you are the same guy with straight hair and weird camera angle that talked with weird mouth movements 😂😂😂😂 youve grown so muuuuuch. ❤❤❤❤❤
Ur parter doesn't love u right unless u hand them a pickle jar or jelly jar, and they try and open it for u. ❤
I'm literally the one who always opens the jars for us, but on occasion, my rist will hurt too much to and seeing my partner try to open it for me even if they can't, is always adorable and sweet. ❤❤❤❤❤
The one dude that called the "girlfriend" dude, bro whatever tbh didn't even Sound like they were in a relationship more like a Cloud chaser using a best friend 😂
The guy who said her gf is not that special made me so mad , I felt like going in person and breaking them up! 😭😭
Why there was HANNAH MONTANA's voice during that dramatic moment at 11:09 😂😂😂😂
Rest well bestie!! Don't push yourself too much😭❤️🩹
I have really bad strep theoat right now and im stuck at home si this is a literal God send, thanks Bestie
The last one the girl should be paying for herself. She one of the girls who expect the guy to pay for anything. If she didn’t have money for Uber, it just means he also had to pay for the whole ass date YIKES
I personally believe him dating me is a major red flag on itself, but that’s just me 😂
Guy @14:36 was at Ala Moana mall Honolulu got a cartier for her. I know that place hahaha my husband got me a very nice agent there named Ola. If you happen to go there people! ask for Ola, she is wonderful.
I always give people unpeeled orange if they ask for an orange, this theory made me realize that i need to work on my orange peeling skills. Thank you bestie :3
I bet that most(if not all) that say that ur relationship is toxic without even knowing u and ur partner at all there just jealous of the happy couples out there
i think wanting a man to pay for you, especially on a first date, is so entitled. It's like you're saying they owe you money for having the privilege to be in your presence 🤡 You want to go on a date, you're not being forced to go, so pay for yourself. When you go out with friends do you demand they pay for your transportation/food?
Been single for too long can't even imagine myself in a relationship, let alone a healthy one lol
I kind of feel like these people have never asked for an orange in their entire relationship because they're spouse seems so confused why they would be wanting an orange I don't know anybody who's first response would be to question what type of orange they meant
A guy saying, “it’s like what you can do for yourself.” Like you could have done your laundry yourself? Lol she was so calm. Not special…bye boy.
Entertainment level of rebal vids
The topic 10%
Background sound affect 35%
Rebal being sarcastic 10000%
I love how the moment he said our relationship is healthy the fire alarm went off
0:59 yessssss I dooooo I know you are not serious but yeahhhhh😭
Poor Bestie
With the last thing you said about asking for an Uber.. id just try to relocate the date politely, where It would be fair for the both of us tbf