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"He didn't lie to me, and I'm sorry if he did lie to you." Not Erica talking about being a "girl's girl" and then throwing shade at Autumn saying, "I am better than you because he *chose* me and it sucks to be in your place." I don't understand this mentality. If a guy that was dating me was actually shitty to another girl, I'd actually count that as a red flag, even though he might've 'chosen' me or whatever.
She just wants to appear like a girl's girl and an adult like she keeps repeating, but in reality she isn't those things. I ain't girl's girl and I think this chick is dumb. Actually good match, cheater and a dumbo.
The fact I was rooting for Ericka in the beginning then she turned around and really said "he chose me". GIRL. I would have immediately messaged Autumn and plotted this man's downfall. Not fucking attacked her. I can't stand when someone cheats and the SO decides to attack the person they cheated with and not the cheater.
I can totally understand Erica though. Autumn didn’t even text her first, and unintentionally sent a hate mob after her. She called her a bi*** in text messages, and her entire post screams bitter since it wasn’t only about the bf, the caption said ‘the guy you were with for a year cheats on you and the girl he cheated on you with goes viral for the story on how they met’. Half of that caption is about the new girl who didn’t even know about you and you being upset she went viral. I can also understand why Erica would believe him 1. Because he’s probably an expert manipulator 2. Because the ‘other woman’ aired all your business on the internet humiliating you and didn’t even bother to tell you first. Even if it wasn’t intentional, I can see how from Erica’s pov it comes off as spiteful.
@@lumenx7499 Oh Autumn didn't handle it well at all. They both could have been more mature about this. I get where Ericka is coming from but they both could have chosen to be the bigger person and didn't. It makes them both look petty, immature, and honestly stupid. Don't fight over the internet because of what is a low-tier man. I do feel bad Ericka got attacked but none of this should have been public in the first place. Like I said they both had the chance to handle this privately and chose not to.
@@meowmeowfuzzyface3698 Agreed, I just don’t like how everyone in the comments is acting flabbergasted that Ericka would act this way when 90% of people would probably do the same🤷♀️
I hate when some women are immediately antagonistic towards each other when discovering they were two-timed. Especially over a deceptive, disrespectful, trashy excuse of a man. Your partner should be respectful enough to you and the relationship to set boundaries with other women, and fully commit to you unless both parties agreed otherwise. Trusting your partner is very important for the relationship to thrive, but remaining willfully ignorant and redirecting the blame from your unfaithful partner won't do you any favours.
Ericka just doesn't want it to be a lie because it feels good, so she's lying to the viewers and simultaneously to herself because she just *wants* it to be real you know? Happens a lot
@antoinettenyuurnibe3302 Who would do anything to be in a relationship? To me it kinda looks like a girl who was happy that she finally found love that seemed very good and she wanted to just share her journey through it.
@ghostly_rose8925 What I meant was that even though she found out the guy was a cheater, she still defended him and stayed with him instead of leaving. Even going as far as to insult the other girl. To me that is desperate behaviour.
Right, like Ericka says she seen the receipts, but wasn't bothered by him caring and STARTING the back and forth with his ex about her being on Tinder? He's already emotionally stepping out on Ericka and she's being dumb about it.
Moral of the story in 3 points: 1. Erica is the definition of delulu 2. The guy is a red pill guy 3. Erica did god's work cause Autumn deserves better (basically she took the trash out LOL)
also 4. erica doesnt want to accept the fact that he's a dick because of her feelings 😑and doesnt wanna use logic cuz it feels so good for her . the amount of people who do the same thing just amazes me btw i like your name ☺
@@leeknow1896 I agree but if I have to be honest erica has a pretty low self-image that's why she is so happy that he choose her but in reality he did that because Erica is easy to fool
As a grown ass woman, I can’t imagine saying the things that Erica said.. especially on the internet. Autumn has every right to be angry. Erica is delusional, and mean.. probably not someone I would wanna be around. Ya lose ‘em how you get ‘em, sis
Side rant, but I don't understand how there's people out there who feel comfortable telling everyone out there about their business and put every single thought they have on the internet. Imagine dating someone like this, no way 💀 we're getting too used to oversharing bc no one bats an eye at this
@@declaracionespolemicas I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING. Like goddamn we got this girls whole dating experience in chronological order, fears/pre date anxiety and all. Idk it just screams “lonely” to me.. like she doesn’t have any friends to tell this stuff to. Prolly why she clings to guys like this one so fast.
I legit thought it was all fake. Like how those people were doing the Butler thing on Tiktok. I thought the girls were doing like a bit together. I did not think that people would willingly share so much information about their private life online. Edit: Grammar
Well my friend got cheated on and let me tell you i was present when he was defending himself and let me tell you i almost got fooled too 😂 like he was like "oh she's the one chasing me" "we already broke up"...... Bla bla bla 😂like what erica is saying is exactly what he said to hee
She has every right to be angry but why was she sending hate to Erica when she didn't know in the first place and it's obvious the guy is lying to Erica and she being in love doesn't see it
I hate the concept of a, “girls girl” because the people who say that almost ALWAYS use it to excuse their bad behavior. Like, if the girl speaking was a “girls girl” she would be calling out the guy instead of the girl “her” guy cheated on her with. Why is the girl the bad one when the guy played them both? This is the problem with having a gender war.
the fact that Autumn called Erika a bitch, and Erika was telling Autumn all kinds of rude shit is so ridiculous to me. HOW ARE YAALL GOING AT EACH OTHER'S THROATS WHEN ITS THE MAN'S FAULT. BLAME HIM. Not each other omggggg
nah they won't because the first girl thinks he saw erika and then cheated like as if erika wasnt there he wouldnt cheat WHICH IS A LIEEEEE like erika brought out the cheater in the man. and erika thinks he found true love with her and wont cheat again so why is autumn now being a b*tch about it??? that's what she thinks, which is........... drumroll please...... A LIEEEEEEEEE the man's playing the second girl and she mistook it for true love. and she blamed autumn because why is autumn trying to make her miserable now?????? BECAUSE SHE KNOWS WHAT THE MAN'S GONNA DO. in a situation like this, don't protect the man who cheated on his ex because you think he loves you. just walk away. you will break up within a couple months anyway, why make enemies over it? love is fcking overrated and this man is the walking POS proof of it.
Was it before or after Erica going off on how Autumn is just crazy ex who never got the hint and is angry he doesn't want her? Cuz if not, then I can kinda understand also why she would be angry and call her a bitch.
Eh. Ericka literally says in the beginning that she's "willing to drop all her side bitches". In this context, I don't think it's "oh she's such a bitch", I think it's more just the slang people use when they date casually and see their sexual partners as. 🤷🏼♀️ That's how I read it anyways.
I will never understand how girls are comfortable enough to invite someone over to their house without really knowing them first 😭 Y'all must live in a nice area or something cause I'd be scared they would hurt me
I meet some of my online friends but we always went to public places like McDonald’s or the movies. After a few times I let them come to my home. I never understood that either
As somene whos scared of human beings, i said not to come to my house at their face, this is my safe zone Unless if its my best friend, i would invite them, too bad they cant because our uni schedule clashed...
Exactly! But, and I may be playing the devil's advocate on that one, she's been lovebombed like crazy! He knows what he's doing with her because he has probably done it before. Is he a predator targeting desperate girls on dating apps or just a player? That is the question.
@@purrgundyYeah I agree with you. The way she said she dropped everyone to be with him and how she said she already loved him after only a few dates. Add the cheating to all of this, how does she not see that he is full of red flags ??? Honestly she doesn't see to be in a healthy mindset to be dating, she is obssessed with the idea to be in a relationship to the point the doesn't see the red flags just in front of her.
The moral of the story is: dating is too complicated and staying single is better, but everyone still wants to be in a relationship 😂😂 Edit: guys calm down this was a joke… didn’t mean to start a war 😢
Nah. Being single is honestly the best. I'm 32 and I've never wanted a relationship. All you need is a few good friends and life is *smacks lips* perfection.
I honestly can never see myself be in a relationship, do I develop crushes on people? Yes, but I’d rather die than confess to them and make our relationship complicated, I’d rather stay friends because it’s basically a relationship without the annoying (or sexual) parts. My biggest fear is also having someone confess to me because I don’t wanna be in a relationship but I’d rather die than hurt my friend’s feelings so I wouldn’t know what to say.
Dating isn’t complicated if people don’t go into it lying and scamming and playing confusing games. However, there are things to be loved about both being single / not having the responsibility to really gaf about another person. But there’s also something beautiful in having a companion that loves and supports you (Fr fr not on that fuckboy shit) Either way, I hope we all find happiness and avoid people who try to take advantage of us
The story's moral is: take your time to get to know someone before giving them all and trusting them easily; let the relationship develop and do not force it.
I was listening to this video in the background and immediately after you said "this was her response" it switched to a commercial of a woman describing war atrocities on her family in the middle east. I was so confused until I looked up and saw it was an ad
“They NEVER dated, he never asked her out, they were never together” and in the same breath she goes on to say “When they were together/ when he ended things with her, I felt horrible” GIRL WHICH ONE IS IT?! Like sure it’s not her fault but at least be honest!
In a way yes but Erika kind off made it worse with the delusion about him picking her a cheater doesn’t pick, he’s going to do the same thing over and over and she’s going to fight off all of his side hoes later on horrifying tbh🥹
@@justkittensbeingkittens5892well society still uses "slut" and "whore" to shame women for having consensual sex so why do you think society won't bend the situation to blame this two women? He even shamed her for being on tinder 😅 like i wonder why consensual sex is okay and good for men and isn't okay for women yet they have to be experienced in bed wtf? He is the degraded one cheating on other people and being a misogynistic sexist b*tch acting like a green flag
@@afalenangel1don't call women "hoes" please come on, if we're not shaming men why shame women, please this is the root of thr issue, these girls probably played too unfortunately
@@justkittensbeingkittens5892 i know. the second girl thinks he found the true love. she doesnt think that he will do it again because she is ✨different✨ sorry my boo but he will be breaking your heart in a blink.
This girl is in MAJOR denial. Even if the other girl did privately message her she's so sucked in she'd still have this attitude. Dude has her wrapped around her finger. And she's so desperate for a relationship she's willing to be lied to and manipulated.
10/10 if Autumn would have privately messaged her she would've posted a tiktok screenshotting the messages and still saying all the same things. "he chose me" mentality is so gross.
@peachyheartsk3476 yup. She's getting the hate she deserves. She said she's been cheated on MANY TIMES! You'd think she'd have a little bit of empathy. She documented their whole 10 day relationship, she would've posted the ex girlfriend's messages (if she did message her before posting. )
I think the big reason Erica got so defensive and threw all that shade at Autumn is because she finally was the one someone cheated with rather than on. She said herself that she was cheated on multiple times but now that the roles are reversed she feels that there was nothing wrong with it and that Autumn is just jealous. 😑
Moral of story is "What goes around, comes around." She needs to open her eyes that he is gonna do the same thing with other girl so find a better guy that will focus on her.
Man literally says he has to go get his sweaters from Autumn's house and she goes, "they never dated guys :))))" I feel genuinely bad. This is a slow-moving train wreck.
Moral of the story : pls.. PLS don't just give all your trust and love to someone you just met JUST BCUZ they look fine and act fine the first time you met them
Moral of the story: keep your dating life, private, and don't cheat and if you're with someone that was a cheater previously don't expect him to change just for you and be cautious❤
His texts about Autumn being on a dating app more than PROVE he was not done with her, he was very upset about that, if he’d been “over it” then he wouldn’t have cared enough to text her. Ericka is really just in denial and it’s gonna hurt so bad when she comes to the truth
I can totally relate to Erica being giddy and excited in the beginning. Went through the same experience and came out realising I might be on aromantic spectrum. Probably why it was easy for me to end it too after finally seeing the red flags I was ignoring before. Since I wasn't in love with him; I was just infatuated with the idea of being in love.
I feel like I can’t even get wrapped up in someone… I use to want to be like girls who just went with it and fell for guys so easily, I know both aren’t healthy… but still, huff
@@Berryations omg same with me. This thing messes with my head so bad idk what I feel like anymore. I wanna fall in love, I wanna experience having a crush, I wanna be romantically interested in someone. And although I'll call myself a hopeless romantic, I dream about love a lot...I genuinely can't see myself falling in love with someone anytime soon. Don't get me wrong, I love people. Just not romantically. And this confuses me a lot. I wanna be in love but am totally fine not being in love? Sorry I don't even make sense to myself 😭😭
@@zahrai1235 I agree with the naive part. But after that relationship, I actually examined myself. Because he actually was my 'ideal' man, made me feel like what I thought love was...but it wasn't. Even after my infatuation period was over, I waited for that feeling of romantic love to come but nothing. Then, I realised I've never actually felt romantic love towards anyone...not towards any of my ex (sure fondness and some sort of affection but never romantic love). I thought something was wrong with me and I've also always felt guilty about not able to love them as much as they seemed to love me. I convinced myself that I just hadn't met the right one yet. But aromantic sounds somewhat right to me and well make me at least feel not as broken and wrong as I was feeling before.
its just frustrating how erika leaves out the problem and choses to come out at the victim because she would rather stay with the guy even though she realises he cheated but she s so desperate that she would rather put her down and "win" his approval
istg its when u see ur friends hit that 'honeymoon' era, when they're just on cloud 9 constantly, but everyone around them sees the signs 😬 this gal should go on 'love is blind' with the level of speed she fell in love💀
Ericka saying she's a "girls girl" but then saying that autumn got butt hurt because he didn't chose her is literally the opposite of a girls girl, it's giving mean girl manipulator like tf💀✋
Honestly the fact that she was already saying how in love she was with him so quick just shows how fast she gets attached and once you’re attached especially that quickly you will look the other way. Her behavior is disgusting and such a pick me response.
That's exactly it though. Pick me's are extremely desperate. That's where it comes from lol. That's why it was so fast and that's why they have low standards. I don't know any self respecting woman that would stay with a guy that refers to women as "devaluing their value" while he literally two timed lol.
"He didn't cheat" "He didn't lie to me and I'm sorry if he did it to you" 🤡 The guy is probably patting himself on the back and laughing with his boys about how he got away with this.🥴
Haven't watched the video yet but I have to say, The amount of girls that bond over being played by the same guy is concerning yet simultaneously comforting, knowing they grow out stronger together supporting each other 😅
The moral of the story is that if a guy or girl seems perfect at the start of dating, they are likely putting on an act to make you fall for them, because once you're blinded by love they can play you better. Be wary of "perfect" people. He appears to be one of those red pill guys who think men can cheat if they want and that women's value decrease with body count. I would have left his ass upon seeing those text msg to his ex.
@@SoloXxd I happily married an amazing guy and I'm living my best life, that's what happened to me and that's what I wish on everybody 😊 which is why I give advice, leave or take.
You know what my mom always told me? "If a guy will cheat on his wife with you, he'll cheat on you with someone else." My mom has been married five times but she's been married to my father for almost 37 years now so I think she finally got it right in the end.😂
just to put it out there, it doesn't matter if you guys aren't official, if you're emotionally and physically involved with someone and you guys have an understanding of each other's expectations and even decide to be exclusive with each other, you don't fuck that up. You communicate when there's changes to your feelings about the other partner. What you don't do is cheat or minimise the relationship.
Moral of the story is, if the guy hot enough, he'll be excused for the most outrageous things he'd done 😂😂 in this case, cheating 🤷 see how at the beginning she's so worried that dude will not be hot/if he's ugly 😂😂 people need to held the other person accountable regardless how hot they're. but if you're willing to excuse bad behaviours based on the level of hotness.... you deserve what's coming 🤷
She said “she could’ve dmed me” while responding on tiktok😭 girl if you make your relationship public, people will treat it as is. The og girl made one tiktok meanwhile she made like a whole page about it, but yet we’re talking about acting like adults? The confusion
It's not the first time ppl do Tik Tok relationship vids and have an off screen breakup and just inform their fans. So the other girl trynna dunk on her online when she very likely wasn't aware she was in the picture IS a bit immature.
Not enough people are talking about the guy being A RED PILL GUY. like wtf dont tell me after reading that conversation Erica's still giggling and blushing. shes so delusional its sad, but i get it shes in the honeymoon stage and thats where you really feel like youre floating
How in the heck does she feel so confident to throw shade at the Autumn and coming at her like that when clearly, Erica is the side girl. Shes literally defending this man as if her life depended on it. Shes delusional and is not a girls girl at all. She sucks!
The moral of the story is: if someone comes out saying you’re current boyfriend cheated on them with you, and posts receipts, you dm her to figure out more then confront the guy about it with the evidence.
I feel like she kinda knew that the guy was cheating on the other woman with her. That’s why she kept saying ‘he’s gonna break my heart’. Also she said that she has been cheated on multiple times, maybe this time being the other woman gave her confidence? Idk i may be totally wrong
I've learned the hard way that if someone says their ex is crazy and doesn't expound upon it... Ex might not have been crazy. Erica, girl, you gonna feel dumb as hell in a few months. I know I did lol
The thing with cheating dudes is that, they lie and twist the truth for both the girls, which makes them turn against each other. Ive had it happen to me. And its surprisingly easy to do.
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*So, are you delulu and think you're taken, or are you still single?*
no but do you think Ericka is also delulu and trying not to believe her boyfriend is a cheater? 🫢
I LOVE YOU REBAL
ERICA IS DELULU
Realized she was delulu the moment she started twitching in the bathroom 😭
I am very delulu
We’re all delulu😍😍
The moral of the story is stop turning women against each other when it’s clearly the man’s fault
Preach! 💅🏻✨
Exactly
Ongg
Agree
YESSS🗣🗣🗣🗣
"He didn't lie to me, and I'm sorry if he did lie to you." Not Erica talking about being a "girl's girl" and then throwing shade at Autumn saying, "I am better than you because he *chose* me and it sucks to be in your place."
I don't understand this mentality. If a guy that was dating me was actually shitty to another girl, I'd actually count that as a red flag, even though he might've 'chosen' me or whatever.
PREACHHHHHH!!!
I'd literally dump anyone if I found out they were cheating on someone for me when we started dating. No thanks. Should have broken up first. 😂
Fr how is she so delulu
She just wants to appear like a girl's girl and an adult like she keeps repeating, but in reality she isn't those things.
I ain't girl's girl and I think this chick is dumb. Actually good match, cheater and a dumbo.
Makes me wonder how many red flags she rationalized away when she said there were no red flags lol
" hey baby girl, you're so normal" im literally gonna use this as pick-up line wtf
Let us now if it ever worked 😭
My bf can’t use this on me :’( he calls me a weirdo
The most ńørmål pickup line
@@FIRENITE69 hopefully we'll get a normal partner with the most normal pickup line
@@justkittensbeingkittens5892 maybe weirdo is the new normal. Btw congrats on your bf 🥳
The fact I was rooting for Ericka in the beginning then she turned around and really said "he chose me". GIRL. I would have immediately messaged Autumn and plotted this man's downfall. Not fucking attacked her. I can't stand when someone cheats and the SO decides to attack the person they cheated with and not the cheater.
I can totally understand Erica though. Autumn didn’t even text her first, and unintentionally sent a hate mob after her. She called her a bi*** in text messages, and her entire post screams bitter since it wasn’t only about the bf, the caption said ‘the guy you were with for a year cheats on you and the girl he cheated on you with goes viral for the story on how they met’. Half of that caption is about the new girl who didn’t even know about you and you being upset she went viral. I can also understand why Erica would believe him 1. Because he’s probably an expert manipulator 2. Because the ‘other woman’ aired all your business on the internet humiliating you and didn’t even bother to tell you first. Even if it wasn’t intentional, I can see how from Erica’s pov it comes off as spiteful.
@@lumenx7499 Oh Autumn didn't handle it well at all. They both could have been more mature about this. I get where Ericka is coming from but they both could have chosen to be the bigger person and didn't. It makes them both look petty, immature, and honestly stupid. Don't fight over the internet because of what is a low-tier man. I do feel bad Ericka got attacked but none of this should have been public in the first place. Like I said they both had the chance to handle this privately and chose not to.
Girl same
@@meowmeowfuzzyface3698 Agreed, I just don’t like how everyone in the comments is acting flabbergasted that Ericka would act this way when 90% of people would probably do the same🤷♀️
Facts Ericka is very desperate- he’s already manipulated her through “healthy communication” 😂
Moral is the story: if he cheats, he belongs in the streets.
EXAAAAACTO👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
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@@Strawberrii_gemzz yee of, didn’t realize I put is till now.
@@misskomori6665 lol
i bet he’s laughing behind her back like “i can’t believe i got away with this” poor girl
He finna do it again.
Shush don't tell her
Hes gonna do it to Erica. And cheat. Again.
@@theirlmess_.Once a cheater, always a cheater
And they will keep doing this to as many women they can get away doing this to.
I hate when some women are immediately antagonistic towards each other when discovering they were two-timed. Especially over a deceptive, disrespectful, trashy excuse of a man. Your partner should be respectful enough to you and the relationship to set boundaries with other women, and fully commit to you unless both parties agreed otherwise. Trusting your partner is very important for the relationship to thrive, but remaining willfully ignorant and redirecting the blame from your unfaithful partner won't do you any favours.
Exactly!!! They always blame the other woman but don't hold their partner accountable!!!
Omg finally somebody said it!! I totally agree!!
EXACTLY!!!
Omg i hate that, why not go attack the dude together???
Yep
Ericka just doesn't want it to be a lie because it feels good, so she's lying to the viewers and simultaneously to herself because she just *wants* it to be real you know? Happens a lot
People do anything just to say they're in a relationship 🙄
The hormone cocktail at the beginning is truly addictive. And like addicts, the lover wants to keep feeling good.
@antoinettenyuurnibe3302 Who would do anything to be in a relationship? To me it kinda looks like a girl who was happy that she finally found love that seemed very good and she wanted to just share her journey through it.
@ghostly_rose8925 What I meant was that even though she found out the guy was a cheater, she still defended him and stayed with him instead of leaving. Even going as far as to insult the other girl. To me that is desperate behaviour.
@@ahrirome Desperately ignoring red flags lol
"You're already on Tinder" -Why would he be so salty about that if he wasn't in a relationship with the girl.
He cheated. Lol
Good catch you're so right
Right, like Ericka says she seen the receipts, but wasn't bothered by him caring and STARTING the back and forth with his ex about her being on Tinder? He's already emotionally stepping out on Ericka and she's being dumb about it.
Erica transformed from being seen as "Sweet girl" to simply "Annoying" in just a few minutes. So delulu ~~
Moral of the story in 3 points:
1. Erica is the definition of delulu
2. The guy is a red pill guy
3. Erica did god's work cause Autumn deserves better (basically she took the trash out LOL)
also 4. erica doesnt want to accept the fact that he's a dick because of her feelings 😑and doesnt wanna use logic cuz it feels so good for her . the amount of people who do the same thing just amazes me
btw i like your name ☺
@@leeknow1896 I agree but if I have to be honest erica has a pretty low self-image that's why she is so happy that he choose her but in reality he did that because Erica is easy to fool
They both deserve better than that, Erica is just in love so she can't see, and that isn't her fault it's the guys
Lmao Erica went dumpster diving😂
She didn't just take out the trash, she kept it😂😂😂
As a grown ass woman, I can’t imagine saying the things that Erica said.. especially on the internet. Autumn has every right to be angry. Erica is delusional, and mean.. probably not someone I would wanna be around. Ya lose ‘em how you get ‘em, sis
Side rant, but I don't understand how there's people out there who feel comfortable telling everyone out there about their business and put every single thought they have on the internet.
Imagine dating someone like this, no way 💀 we're getting too used to oversharing bc no one bats an eye at this
@@declaracionespolemicas I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING. Like goddamn we got this girls whole dating experience in chronological order, fears/pre date anxiety and all. Idk it just screams “lonely” to me.. like she doesn’t have any friends to tell this stuff to. Prolly why she clings to guys like this one so fast.
I legit thought it was all fake. Like how those people were doing the Butler thing on Tiktok. I thought the girls were doing like a bit together. I did not think that people would willingly share so much information about their private life online.
Edit: Grammar
Well my friend got cheated on and let me tell you i was present when he was defending himself and let me tell you i almost got fooled too 😂 like he was like "oh she's the one chasing me" "we already broke up"...... Bla bla bla 😂like what erica is saying is exactly what he said to hee
She has every right to be angry but why was she sending hate to Erica when she didn't know in the first place and it's obvious the guy is lying to Erica and she being in love doesn't see it
Forget the cheating if I saw a text where the guy tells another girl she’s “devaluing” herself, that’s the only red flag I need to see.
EXACTLYY why is no one talking about that it's literally the biggest red flag out there on his views about women
um what’s wrong with that? being a slut is literally the lowest you can get
Exactly
@@alliumiaoYESSS
literally disgusting that makes him immediately unattractive
“No relationship is ever a waste of time. If it didn’t bring you what you want, it taught you what you don’t want.”🙂🙃
Oh no… you can for sure waste A LOT of time on ppl. 💀
I hate the concept of a, “girls girl” because the people who say that almost ALWAYS use it to excuse their bad behavior. Like, if the girl speaking was a “girls girl” she would be calling out the guy instead of the girl “her” guy cheated on her with. Why is the girl the bad one when the guy played them both? This is the problem with having a gender war.
the fact that Autumn called Erika a bitch, and Erika was telling Autumn all kinds of rude shit is so ridiculous to me. HOW ARE YAALL GOING AT EACH OTHER'S THROATS WHEN ITS THE MAN'S FAULT. BLAME HIM. Not each other omggggg
nah they won't because the first girl thinks he saw erika and then cheated like as if erika wasnt there he wouldnt cheat WHICH IS A LIEEEEE like erika brought out the cheater in the man. and erika thinks he found true love with her and wont cheat again so why is autumn now being a b*tch about it??? that's what she thinks, which is........... drumroll please...... A LIEEEEEEEEE
the man's playing the second girl and she mistook it for true love. and she blamed autumn because why is autumn trying to make her miserable now?????? BECAUSE SHE KNOWS WHAT THE MAN'S GONNA DO.
in a situation like this, don't protect the man who cheated on his ex because you think he loves you. just walk away. you will break up within a couple months anyway, why make enemies over it? love is fcking overrated and this man is the walking POS proof of it.
Was it before or after Erica going off on how Autumn is just crazy ex who never got the hint and is angry he doesn't want her? Cuz if not, then I can kinda understand also why she would be angry and call her a bitch.
@@immortalFeen not all blondes are dumb.. but in this case.. it just makes everything make sense
@@cookie_x3 Autumn said it in the texts she shared.
Eh. Ericka literally says in the beginning that she's "willing to drop all her side bitches". In this context, I don't think it's "oh she's such a bitch", I think it's more just the slang people use when they date casually and see their sexual partners as. 🤷🏼♀️ That's how I read it anyways.
I will never understand how girls are comfortable enough to invite someone over to their house without really knowing them first 😭 Y'all must live in a nice area or something cause I'd be scared they would hurt me
Exactly. It's dangerous. Anything can happen.
rightt. for my own safety, i’d prefer to meet someone in a public area 😭
My sister inviting her hookups to our house had ME scared. Like girl why bring people here??
I meet some of my online friends but we always went to public places like McDonald’s or the movies.
After a few times I let them come to my home.
I never understood that either
As somene whos scared of human beings, i said not to come to my house at their face, this is my safe zone
Unless if its my best friend, i would invite them, too bad they cant because our uni schedule clashed...
The fact that bestie is roasting us in every single video is really exciting every time 🙌🏿
He didnt roast us for like two videos and my heart broke 😢
Ikr i get so excited when he roasts us
What a fox.
Exactly😅🤣😭
@@eala.brennan😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
the fact that Erica said they were together but never dated says a lot about what the entire hellscape of relationships really is these days
I like how boys can make you the happiest and feel loved and be cheating on You the whole time, like are you a psychopath, are you mentally well?
16:20 "because im an adult"
**Proceed to describe her relationship to millions of people in the internet while being blinded by love like a teen**
Exactly. She thinks she's so different
Exactly! I just don't get why she has to share any of this online in general??? Like why do people share the most mundane things online these days???
The moral of the story is that some people are having a hard time seeing the🚩 🚩🚩 right in front of them JUST because they want a relationship so bad
Exactly. And it's sad.
I guess that's why they say love is blind.
Exactly! But, and I may be playing the devil's advocate on that one, she's been lovebombed like crazy! He knows what he's doing with her because he has probably done it before. Is he a predator targeting desperate girls on dating apps or just a player? That is the question.
i think she just fell in love
@@purrgundyYeah I agree with you. The way she said she dropped everyone to be with him and how she said she already loved him after only a few dates. Add the cheating to all of this, how does she not see that he is full of red flags ??? Honestly she doesn't see to be in a healthy mindset to be dating, she is obssessed with the idea to be in a relationship to the point the doesn't see the red flags just in front of her.
The moral of the story is: dating is too complicated and staying single is better, but everyone still wants to be in a relationship 😂😂
Edit: guys calm down this was a joke… didn’t mean to start a war 😢
😂😂😂
True
Nah. Being single is honestly the best. I'm 32 and I've never wanted a relationship. All you need is a few good friends and life is *smacks lips* perfection.
I honestly can never see myself be in a relationship, do I develop crushes on people? Yes, but I’d rather die than confess to them and make our relationship complicated, I’d rather stay friends because it’s basically a relationship without the annoying (or sexual) parts. My biggest fear is also having someone confess to me because I don’t wanna be in a relationship but I’d rather die than hurt my friend’s feelings so I wouldn’t know what to say.
Dating isn’t complicated if people don’t go into it lying and scamming and playing confusing games.
However, there are things to be loved about both being single / not having the responsibility to really gaf about another person. But there’s also something beautiful in having a companion that loves and supports you (Fr fr not on that fuckboy shit)
Either way, I hope we all find happiness and avoid people who try to take advantage of us
The story's moral is: take your time to get to know someone before giving them all and trusting them easily; let the relationship develop and do not force it.
I was listening to this video in the background and immediately after you said "this was her response" it switched to a commercial of a woman describing war atrocities on her family in the middle east. I was so confused until I looked up and saw it was an ad
“They NEVER dated, he never asked her out, they were never together” and in the same breath she goes on to say
“When they were together/ when he ended things with her, I felt horrible”
GIRL WHICH ONE IS IT?! Like sure it’s not her fault but at least be honest!
She's down bad delusional 😂😭
Right 🤡
Love how everyone was attacking the girls, and the girls were attacking eachother when it was literally all the guy's fault ❤
Always seems to happen that way… I don’t understand it
In a way yes but Erika kind off made it worse with the delusion about him picking her a cheater doesn’t pick, he’s going to do the same thing over and over and she’s going to fight off all of his side hoes later on horrifying tbh🥹
@@justkittensbeingkittens5892well society still uses "slut" and "whore" to shame women for having consensual sex so why do you think society won't bend the situation to blame this two women? He even shamed her for being on tinder 😅 like i wonder why consensual sex is okay and good for men and isn't okay for women yet they have to be experienced in bed wtf? He is the degraded one cheating on other people and being a misogynistic sexist b*tch acting like a green flag
@@afalenangel1don't call women "hoes" please come on, if we're not shaming men why shame women, please this is the root of thr issue, these girls probably played too unfortunately
@@justkittensbeingkittens5892 i know. the second girl thinks he found the true love. she doesnt think that he will do it again because she is ✨different✨ sorry my boo but he will be breaking your heart in a blink.
This girl is in MAJOR denial.
Even if the other girl did privately message her she's so sucked in she'd still have this attitude.
Dude has her wrapped around her finger. And she's so desperate for a relationship she's willing to be lied to and manipulated.
10/10 if Autumn would have privately messaged her she would've posted a tiktok screenshotting the messages and still saying all the same things. "he chose me" mentality is so gross.
@peachyheartsk3476 yup. She's getting the hate she deserves. She said she's been cheated on MANY TIMES! You'd think she'd have a little bit of empathy. She documented their whole 10 day relationship, she would've posted the ex girlfriend's messages (if she did message her before posting. )
I think the big reason Erica got so defensive and threw all that shade at Autumn is because she finally was the one someone cheated with rather than on. She said herself that she was cheated on multiple times but now that the roles are reversed she feels that there was nothing wrong with it and that Autumn is just jealous. 😑
Moral of story is "What goes around, comes around." She needs to open her eyes that he is gonna do the same thing with other girl so find a better guy that will focus on her.
The fact that I was as delusional as erica when i was in a relationship w my ex makes me cringe so hard 😭
yeah same and he cheated on me twice 😭😭💀
Omg i am so sorry ❤ thank god you changed tho
lmao same here 😭😭
Growth 🙌🏻
Saaaammmee.
Man literally says he has to go get his sweaters from Autumn's house and she goes, "they never dated guys :))))" I feel genuinely bad. This is a slow-moving train wreck.
At this point I'm convinced that every time Rebal roasts us about our relationship status, he's actually talking to himself and roasts himself 🙌🏻
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Exactly 😂😂😂😂😂
Obviously lol he's kinda obsessed with relationships
@@solus8685or he does relationship videos because they get a lot of engagement?
Moral of the story : pls.. PLS don't just give all your trust and love to someone you just met JUST BCUZ they look fine and act fine the first time you met them
Moral of the story: keep your dating life, private, and don't cheat and if you're with someone that was a cheater previously don't expect him to change just for you and be cautious❤
His texts about Autumn being on a dating app more than PROVE he was not done with her, he was very upset about that, if he’d been “over it” then he wouldn’t have cared enough to text her. Ericka is really just in denial and it’s gonna hurt so bad when she comes to the truth
POV: My bestie trying to explain me why his boyfriend isn’t toxic 🙄
real asf😭😭😭
😭😭😭
These types of relationships make me wanna rethink my life decisions.
Moral of the story is don’t fall for someone who says I love you so early. Also Autumn is so beautiful. She deserves so much better.
Moral of the story actually is: when three idiots cross paths, shit hits the fan.😂
Ericka knows damn well deep down that he cheated, but she's just too delulu to see it.
Rebal explaining the definition of cheating is definitely the highlight of the day🤷
"I love him"
"Let's calm down now" honestly I needed to hear that as well because I do be like that girl sometimes
Fr, Carly Rae jepsen has a song called “I really like you” that embodies that feeling exactly lmao
0:19 "you don´t even move" no man... I swiped off the tear 😔
Bagging a cheater is not a flex.
ikr like what a trophy 💀
It's weird enough that she's sharing every detail of her relationship to everyone.
I can totally relate to Erica being giddy and excited in the beginning. Went through the same experience and came out realising I might be on aromantic spectrum. Probably why it was easy for me to end it too after finally seeing the red flags I was ignoring before. Since I wasn't in love with him; I was just infatuated with the idea of being in love.
I feel like I can’t even get wrapped up in someone… I use to want to be like girls who just went with it and fell for guys so easily, I know both aren’t healthy… but still, huff
this feeling, finally someone i can relate to :)
@@Berryations omg same with me. This thing messes with my head so bad idk what I feel like anymore. I wanna fall in love, I wanna experience having a crush, I wanna be romantically interested in someone. And although I'll call myself a hopeless romantic, I dream about love a lot...I genuinely can't see myself falling in love with someone anytime soon. Don't get me wrong, I love people. Just not romantically. And this confuses me a lot. I wanna be in love but am totally fine not being in love? Sorry I don't even make sense to myself 😭😭
It’s not aromatic its purposefully being naive and delusional. all us girls been there and grew out of it
@@zahrai1235 I agree with the naive part. But after that relationship, I actually examined myself. Because he actually was my 'ideal' man, made me feel like what I thought love was...but it wasn't. Even after my infatuation period was over, I waited for that feeling of romantic love to come but nothing. Then, I realised I've never actually felt romantic love towards anyone...not towards any of my ex (sure fondness and some sort of affection but never romantic love). I thought something was wrong with me and I've also always felt guilty about not able to love them as much as they seemed to love me. I convinced myself that I just hadn't met the right one yet. But aromantic sounds somewhat right to me and well make me at least feel not as broken and wrong as I was feeling before.
its just frustrating how erika leaves out the problem and choses to come out at the victim because she would rather stay with the guy even though she realises he cheated but she s so desperate that she would rather put her down and "win" his approval
well she pretty much dropped everyone else for him lol. shes just in denial
*"Hey baby girl, you're so normal"* 🤣
istg its when u see ur friends hit that 'honeymoon' era, when they're just on cloud 9 constantly, but everyone around them sees the signs 😬
this gal should go on 'love is blind' with the level of speed she fell in love💀
Yep. If you think something (a relationship) is too good to be true it probably is. Plus let's not talk about how she threw shade at Autumn.
Ericka saying she's a "girls girl" but then saying that autumn got butt hurt because he didn't chose her is literally the opposite of a girls girl, it's giving mean girl manipulator like tf💀✋
"It's a "healthy" relationship" gurl let's see how long that lasts & u get butt hurt like- 💀
Moral of the story; love is real yet very rare and you need clever eyes to tell the difference.
The moral of the story is if he's a cheater he well do it to you too😂
Honestly the fact that she was already saying how in love she was with him so quick just shows how fast she gets attached and once you’re attached especially that quickly you will look the other way. Her behavior is disgusting and such a pick me response.
That's exactly it though. Pick me's are extremely desperate. That's where it comes from lol.
That's why it was so fast and that's why they have low standards.
I don't know any self respecting woman that would stay with a guy that refers to women as "devaluing their value" while he literally two timed lol.
"He didn't cheat"
"He didn't lie to me and I'm sorry if he did it to you"
🤡
The guy is probably patting himself on the back and laughing with his boys about how he got away with this.🥴
the moral of this story is don't turn on the ex, question the problem (in this case the guy)
If it bothers a dude that his ex is on dating apps, this dude definitely doesn‘t love the „new girl“
He simply just isn‘t over the „old girl“
I can’t believe how serious he is half of the video. He’s not laughing at her or anything he is rooting for her and being serious 😂
Haven't watched the video yet but I have to say,
The amount of girls that bond over being played by the same guy is concerning yet simultaneously comforting, knowing they grow out stronger together supporting each other 😅
The moral of the story is that if a guy or girl seems perfect at the start of dating, they are likely putting on an act to make you fall for them, because once you're blinded by love they can play you better. Be wary of "perfect" people. He appears to be one of those red pill guys who think men can cheat if they want and that women's value decrease with body count. I would have left his ass upon seeing those text msg to his ex.
Damn what happened to you
@@SoloXxd I happily married an amazing guy and I'm living my best life, that's what happened to me and that's what I wish on everybody 😊 which is why I give advice, leave or take.
@@kaihiroku8495I agree with you and I am also happily married. This sounded like a huge red flag, Idk how some people don't get that.
You know what my mom always told me? "If a guy will cheat on his wife with you, he'll cheat on you with someone else." My mom has been married five times but she's been married to my father for almost 37 years now so I think she finally got it right in the end.😂
just to put it out there, it doesn't matter if you guys aren't official, if you're emotionally and physically involved with someone and you guys have an understanding of each other's expectations and even decide to be exclusive with each other, you don't fuck that up. You communicate when there's changes to your feelings about the other partner. What you don't do is cheat or minimise the relationship.
0:24 BRO i femt you looking at me throught the screen WTF 😂😂😂
From all the times she got cheated on, she's in the denial phase now
The moral of the story is dont share ur relationships on tiktok
For real for real
Rebal never fails to entertain us🔥🔥🔥
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The moral of the story is... don't fall in love with a guy that you met on hinge in a week.
Moral of the story is, if the guy hot enough, he'll be excused for the most outrageous things he'd done 😂😂 in this case, cheating 🤷
see how at the beginning she's so worried that dude will not be hot/if he's ugly 😂😂
people need to held the other person accountable regardless how hot they're. but if you're willing to excuse bad behaviours based on the level of hotness.... you deserve what's coming 🤷
Nah fam that’s like the most common incel rhetoric. Get off that black pill and go outside brotha
😭dude the guy is basically getting away w it while these two r arguing
She said “she could’ve dmed me” while responding on tiktok😭 girl if you make your relationship public, people will treat it as is. The og girl made one tiktok meanwhile she made like a whole page about it, but yet we’re talking about acting like adults? The confusion
It's not the first time ppl do Tik Tok relationship vids and have an off screen breakup and just inform their fans. So the other girl trynna dunk on her online when she very likely wasn't aware she was in the picture IS a bit immature.
Fr as a grown woman I could never imagine posting ANY of the stuff she did. Dont tell her to grow up when you're doing the exact same.
Maybe cause it wasn't embarrassing at the time for her but now it became complicated
Making myself look busy with Rebal while my nephew keeps asking if I've got games on my phone💪🏻👺
She is giving "I can change him" energy😂
Can’t help but notice how Rebal is one of us. Like every intro sounds like a projection of a self reflexion 😂 we love you bestie
The moral of the story is: Don't date a cheater (atleast don't defend it )
The way Erika changed in my mind throughout this video is amazing
Really? She was a cringy, basic, brainless thot to me in the beginning and also in the end.
I’m convinced everyone on rebals channel is single… including me 😭
Preach
all the drama aside, does this girl not have any survival instincts? why would you invite a stranger to your home..?
Not seeing any red flags is a red flag 😂 nobody is that perfect !!
tbh I convinced myself that my crush likes me because he sent me artctic monkey lyrics with no context so who am I to judge erica 😭
Ohhh my goodness😂😂😂 see😭😭😭
I would think he likes me too though 😂 like "aww you thought of me whilst listening to the song?"🥺
Bestie, stopppp😭
i love the way he pauses the video and acts like he is having a conversation with the person in the video 😭😭
Not enough people are talking about the guy being A RED PILL GUY. like wtf dont tell me after reading that conversation Erica's still giggling and blushing. shes so delusional its sad, but i get it shes in the honeymoon stage and thats where you really feel like youre floating
The moral of the story is: stay single so you can laugh at relationships' drama with Rebal instead of crying yourself to sleep because of it 👏
9:06 this reaction is so on point when i hear tea from my bestie of the drama that's been going on in the school. (and i am not even in that school) 😂
How in the heck does she feel so confident to throw shade at the Autumn and coming at her like that when clearly, Erica is the side girl. Shes literally defending this man as if her life depended on it. Shes delusional and is not a girls girl at all. She sucks!
Yeap, pretty much immature I would say
it makes my day every time Rebal roasts us every video ❤️
The moral of the story is: if someone comes out saying you’re current boyfriend cheated on them with you, and posts receipts, you dm her to figure out more then confront the guy about it with the evidence.
The fact that he's mad the ex is on tinder, when man just got hard launched. Umm LOL
You know I would rather be single and get roasted by Rebal then go through whatever these women went through
I love how Rebal D just lovesss to roast us
I feel like she kinda knew that the guy was cheating on the other woman with her. That’s why she kept saying ‘he’s gonna break my heart’. Also she said that she has been cheated on multiple times, maybe this time being the other woman gave her confidence? Idk i may be totally wrong
Yes I blink.
I blink-182.
Baddest joke ever.
Moral of the story: don’t trust and fall in love with people you just met. 😑
I clicked on this video faster than he could say “bestieeeeeee” 😂
I had a boyfriend until two weeks after I started watching your videos.
Why?
@@Eustify honestly we were terrible for each other but I blame rebal
@dumbstuff1250 ok, why? Specifically the part about Rebel.
@@EustifyI think they meant because rebal always roasts us for "being single"
@@ChrizzzCz🤷♀️
I've learned the hard way that if someone says their ex is crazy and doesn't expound upon it... Ex might not have been crazy. Erica, girl, you gonna feel dumb as hell in a few months. I know I did lol
But also, if they say the ex is crazy, leave anyway because the girl or man will find you and hurt you
The thing with cheating dudes is that, they lie and twist the truth for both the girls, which makes them turn against each other. Ive had it happen to me. And its surprisingly easy to do.
I was like smirking and like smiling for her until about 7 minutes in 😭
I can’t with rebel keeping the record of all the dates and stuff😂😂😂