TikTok Loves Being TOXIC. 🤡

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  • Today we take a look at another toxic TikTok trend. This is the You haven't seen my hot beautiful friends trend where girls and guys edit and photoshop their friends to make them look good as they claim that they are the prettiest in their friendship group lmao.
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  • @RebalD
    @RebalD  ปีที่แล้ว +5683

    *so how many friends do you have?*
    you better be counting me in too 🔪

    • @Spendyour3daywisely
      @Spendyour3daywisely ปีที่แล้ว +164

      Ur our besti but if I count u it’s prob 5

    • @ydouwantmyname1559
      @ydouwantmyname1559 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      Ok counting you I would say 4

    • @sanjida2803
      @sanjida2803 ปีที่แล้ว +164

      Many friends but only one bestie, and that's you 👉👈🥺❤

    • @zohatyube
      @zohatyube ปีที่แล้ว +60

      26, 11 close ones, 2 best friends including you ofc!

    • @persephone7424
      @persephone7424 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      one friend others dont like mme

  • @mimigwi3648
    @mimigwi3648 ปีที่แล้ว +13399

    you know you’re the prettiest in your friend group when you don’t have friends

    • @relaxinghealingsounds2470
      @relaxinghealingsounds2470 ปีที่แล้ว +253

      Lol, yeah me too ...by default

    • @lykmah7221
      @lykmah7221 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      so true 😌

    • @solus8685
      @solus8685 ปีที่แล้ว +167

      Big brain moment

    • @lizchan.
      @lizchan. ปีที่แล้ว +63

      💀💀😭😭

    • @yizhanforever9641
      @yizhanforever9641 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      🥲I don't have friends because they hate me and left me🤡💔

  • @staratouille
    @staratouille ปีที่แล้ว +12060

    This is the same “never seen two pretty best friends” trend just a different font

    • @maru-chankuran1028
      @maru-chankuran1028 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Deadass

    • @monadity6245
      @monadity6245 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      This is comic sans fr

    • @Panda-uh1yf
      @Panda-uh1yf ปีที่แล้ว +13

      yaaah

    • @ankeeno
      @ankeeno ปีที่แล้ว +62

      I was like wait a minute, haven't we seen this already

    • @mar1nn998
      @mar1nn998 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This js disgusting

  • @sneham8873
    @sneham8873 ปีที่แล้ว +12944

    I..dont rlly understand how putting your friends down and deliberately posting bad pics of them to put yourself in a better light is supposed to be a joke 🙄 if ppl have friends like these, ditch them. y'all deserve better

    • @jhuizhang
      @jhuizhang ปีที่แล้ว +162

      Same. My friends would never

    • @iasked9392
      @iasked9392 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      The only time we do post photos is for their birthday just for laughs but there was never any photos that are comparing to each other.

    • @myrkflinn4331
      @myrkflinn4331 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Unfortunately I witnessed it in secondary/high school all the time. At work it happens, but depending on the job, less. It's as of drama is an addiction for these people

    • @maopark
      @maopark ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@myrkflinn4331 Fr! It's like they can't live another day without any dramas 💀

    • @lizchan.
      @lizchan. ปีที่แล้ว +37

      If my friend ever did that do me i would immediately unfriend them 💀💀

  • @fabiakarma495
    @fabiakarma495 ปีที่แล้ว +3962

    The problem is the “edited” pictures look like normal people. So it’s so toxic for people who look similar to those photos. If they were super exaggerated maybe it would be okay, but you’re just putting beauty standards on people even harder. Like I saw these TikTok’s and thought “gosh, if these are supposed to look bad then I’m hideous”.

    • @feelsrestricted8322
      @feelsrestricted8322 ปีที่แล้ว +302

      One of them almost looked exactly like me 🤧🥲🥲 my same face shape and structure, same nose, same eyes just slightly further apart. It makes you feel terrible.

    • @fabiakarma495
      @fabiakarma495 ปีที่แล้ว +246

      @@feelsrestricted8322 I feel you. I saw some of my own features in those girls too. The trend is tragic because it’s really dragging down the most normal and natural features

    • @sina7256
      @sina7256 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      THATS WHAT IM SAYING like making your friends nose bigger that’s just toxic and you’re a straight up b!tch but like exaggerating to make everyone know it’s obviously edited and it not looking like normal people, is fine and could even be funny

    • @alevtina8515
      @alevtina8515 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      This is so so true

    • @myriamtouil3347
      @myriamtouil3347 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Exactly 👏 💗 👏

  • @softpinkemma2272
    @softpinkemma2272 ปีที่แล้ว +2241

    my best friend and i literally go through the pics we take together and tell each other which ones we’d prefer each other didn’t post. wish more people had genuine friendships.

    • @kalkxx
      @kalkxx ปีที่แล้ว +43

      same my friends and i will ask everyone if its okay to post a certain picture and if someone says no they either dont post it or cover that persons face if they say its okay with them. people who just post pictures with others in it without asking them beforehand make me mad tbh lol

    • @khngzhen5628
      @khngzhen5628 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This is why I still prefer wearing mask in public and don't really care to take it off while taking pictures lol it's hard to tell what people will do with the pics they've taken
      Usually I'd look through how everyone look before posting but this is actually better and I'm gonna start doing it thanks for giving this idea

    • @justjill2896
      @justjill2896 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same. My best friend and I will always agree.

    • @someusername4129
      @someusername4129 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is cute and I like it. Non-toxic friendships pls.

  • @pointless8010
    @pointless8010 ปีที่แล้ว +3044

    this trend is shady bc the photos look so real at first glance. if she wanted to get the joke through to ppl she could've photoshopped them in a more exaggerated way.

    • @unicornbabe6893
      @unicornbabe6893 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      @@ricardarico EXACTLY wat I was thinkinggg

    • @babysherl493
      @babysherl493 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      I wonder if one of her friends did
      The same to her, would she be okay and laugh as hard?

    • @Wishfull171
      @Wishfull171 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      💯 like crop their faces with a popular meme etc, that’s funny

    • @venusretrograde6177
      @venusretrograde6177 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@ricardarico EXACTLY! I was looking for a comment that mentioned this. Most of these photos look like people I’ve seen irl…
      Wow, social media really has completely skewed our view of human beings.

    • @littlemisscerberus
      @littlemisscerberus ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@ricardaricobig nose, thin lips, big forehead, eyes spread out slightly, chubby cheeks

  • @kaz3453
    @kaz3453 ปีที่แล้ว +9278

    No this is absolutely ridiculous. As someone who deals with constant body dysmorphia and self consciousness, if ANY of my friends did this to me i would literally sob and bawl and delete their existence.

    • @tuki5240
      @tuki5240 ปีที่แล้ว +286

      YEA GURL BLOCK EM

    • @nenxp
      @nenxp ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@tuki5240 atsushi pfp >>>>

    • @skeniax316
      @skeniax316 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      omg same. I would be inconsolable for awhile

    • @kaz3453
      @kaz3453 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@tuki5240 thankfully i dont have any kind of friends like that for now and they all ask me before posting any of my pictures so im grateful

    • @roserain7034
      @roserain7034 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I'm insecure of my looks so if anyone did this to me, I'll really be upset and let them know right away.

  • @regosoangelicacolyng.958
    @regosoangelicacolyng.958 ปีที่แล้ว +5048

    she's basically insecure to her friends

    • @mychannel8809
      @mychannel8809 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Exactly

    • @Paghmeo
      @Paghmeo ปีที่แล้ว +7

      on god

    • @veilvek
      @veilvek ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Fr

    • @absolutelyridiculous6743
      @absolutelyridiculous6743 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh yes, most definitely

    • @holachau7427
      @holachau7427 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Not necessarily, she knows she's more stereotipicaly pretty and for some reason has to brag about it

  • @fatimaradhwan
    @fatimaradhwan ปีที่แล้ว +722

    Rebal you’re not sensitive, you’re emotionally intelligent

    • @VishaKim
      @VishaKim 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I mean being sensitive isn't a bad thing it's actually a good trait

    • @fatimaradhwan
      @fatimaradhwan 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@VishaKim I totally agree. I’m just finding the more accurate adjective.

    • @RAyR111
      @RAyR111 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      peeeerrriiiooood i wish ppl were more like that

  • @GLamoRousCooKie
    @GLamoRousCooKie ปีที่แล้ว +363

    The problem here isn't even editing your already conventionally attractive friends. The problem is that real people do actually have the edited conventionally "unattractive" faces and they're going to see this and feel like sh** even though there's nothing wrong with their face whatsoever. It's just society pushing these ridiculous beauty trends.

    • @frogbabygrill
      @frogbabygrill ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yeah, I feel like the trend would have been better if they edited their friends in extremely absurd manners, so much they wouldn't look like normal people

  • @melitavuic521
    @melitavuic521 ปีที่แล้ว +2822

    You just KNOW that girls that post those photos of their friends would be pissed and salty if one of her friends did it to her, but it's all fun and games when they do it.

    • @RARA-rc8es
      @RARA-rc8es ปีที่แล้ว +83

      THOSE Girls

    • @sanecatlady
      @sanecatlady ปีที่แล้ว +103

      Yup, this whole thing just shows how insecure they are lol. If they gotta put others down to make themselves look good, then they have low self esteem

    • @allsmiles9145
      @allsmiles9145 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      World is full of hypocrites...

  • @lipiarya7066
    @lipiarya7066 ปีที่แล้ว +2497

    Rebal is the tiktok moral police😂😂

  • @xxvinvinxx
    @xxvinvinxx ปีที่แล้ว +1436

    This trend is really shady. If my friends did that I'd feel some kinda way too. Especially since I'm already insecure asf. Maybe I'm just sensitive, but yeah.
    Edit: I did not expect to get so many likes :')

    • @Thesebibbles
      @Thesebibbles ปีที่แล้ว +118

      ur not sensitive at all babe,what u said is valid.putting ur friends down to make urself look better does the exact opposite

    • @user-ii4tz2lx5n
      @user-ii4tz2lx5n ปีที่แล้ว +16

      me too I would be really upset and probably stay awake at night thinking about what a loser I am

    • @squidwardcallsmedaddy5174
      @squidwardcallsmedaddy5174 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Nah id be pissed. Especially if they used those pictures without my permission. I dont even post my good selfies.

    • @lizchan.
      @lizchan. ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same i got like 0 zero self confidence so i would be destroyed 💀💀😭

    • @KeeraEatsKidneys
      @KeeraEatsKidneys ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I already hate taking pictures and if one of my friends did that we’re throwing hands 🙃

  • @-nvmanyhow1436
    @-nvmanyhow1436 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    This trend feels like a the embodiment of that person who always insults others or makes really backhanded compliments and when people call them out, they immediately go "omg I'm just kidding, it's a joke, stop being so sensitive" when in reality they're just insecure pieces-of-shit.

  • @laurasutcliffe723
    @laurasutcliffe723 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Social media normalizes people being conceited.
    Not confident, but just terribly conceited, vain and entitled as well.

  • @sharonkelvin1673
    @sharonkelvin1673 ปีที่แล้ว +2657

    I'm happy Rebal is our bestie.
    At least he only puts us down verbally with our consent. 😂😂😂😂

  • @sophiaisabelle01
    @sophiaisabelle01 ปีที่แล้ว +2077

    We can’t deny the fact that TikTok isn’t always as pleasant as everyone makes it out to be. Somehow we still appreciate Rebal for giving us the content that would make us all laugh every once in a while.

    • @illyGalSloth
      @illyGalSloth ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Nah, TikTok has shown us how incredibly unpleasant it is time and time again, lol. At this point, I need to remind myself that it isn't always a hellhole.

    • @monito3575
      @monito3575 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@illyGalSloth fr never heard of anyone calling it pleasant before.

    • @leos_ur_favorite976
      @leos_ur_favorite976 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keep dis comment at 777 likes y’all

    • @Peayou...
      @Peayou... ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@monito3575 and honestly it should be becuase it's sooo toxic

    • @monito3575
      @monito3575 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Peayou... absolutely. This world would be a better place without this app existing. Genuinely

  • @ev41ynn
    @ev41ynn ปีที่แล้ว +48

    the fake nice people are the WORST☠️ if u call em out for being one u just gonna get yelled at 🚫

  • @hayleyrosexox
    @hayleyrosexox 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    The girl at the 8:40 mark was not editing her friends to look bad, she was editing other people that she obviously thought were “ugly” in place of her friends, which is even more gross!

  • @Iamaries123
    @Iamaries123 ปีที่แล้ว +531

    I honestly think whoever is friends with Rebal in real life is really lucky. He seems like a super genuine and kind person. Plus his sense of humor is literally my sense of humor. I'm jealous of them 😭

  • @liz8986
    @liz8986 ปีที่แล้ว +623

    Dang, why do people love trends like these so much. If you have to put others down to lift yourself up... it screams massive insecurities

  • @putthatjellyinmybelly9698
    @putthatjellyinmybelly9698 ปีที่แล้ว +821

    There’s nothing wrong with being sensitive and catching feelings hard Rebal, just make sure it’s actually love and not obsessive attachements, for whatever reason (validation, prove a point etc) you are pretty self aware so I’m sure you’ll be able to figure that out bestie❤

  • @natatatm
    @natatatm ปีที่แล้ว +78

    What I hate about this is that the editing isn't that severe. Most of the ppl just look like normal people to me, so I hate to think of who's seeing someone just looks like them... and is supposed to be getting the "ugly edit." Like, it's okay to not all have the cookie cutter influencer face.

  • @absolutelyridiculous6743
    @absolutelyridiculous6743 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Also, think about the fact that people out there have the "ugly" features that the mean girl edited onto her friends. That's beyond rude. Not everyone fits the beauty standards, and that's why people are so dang lovely.
    However, when you're already self-conscious about certain features, getting them called out as gross squashes your self esteem.

  • @shooktoaster7934
    @shooktoaster7934 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    if my ”friends” ever did that to me, i wouldnt let that slide. i hate these kinds of people who will do anything, including putting their friends down, to get some damn attention. 💀

  • @FoxySunflower890
    @FoxySunflower890 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    The people who are doing this trend just screams insecurity. The fact that they have to edit their friends faces says it all. 😬

  • @moumitapaul7912
    @moumitapaul7912 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    I just know if I had a friend who did that to me and had thousands of people say I'm ugly based on that, disguised as a joke, I'll break the friendship then and there. There's a fine line between jokes and pure disrespect

    • @smollilbean
      @smollilbean ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Right I will literally delete their existence

  • @naawrrrrr
    @naawrrrrr ปีที่แล้ว +24

    2:10 I lost it when I heard Rebal's cackle/snicker/laughter/whatever you name it 🤣🤣

  • @leonardaedits3742
    @leonardaedits3742 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Love how Rebal shares his emotions with us like a real bestie ❤

    • @granniemon
      @granniemon ปีที่แล้ว +2

      it's because we are real besties❤

  • @ekmekkkkkkk2731
    @ekmekkkkkkk2731 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    The fact that you even put “toxic” in the background makes this video 100X better.

    • @saltedfish7187
      @saltedfish7187 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was looking for someone who also noticed!! T-T

  • @nihduh5189
    @nihduh5189 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    I couldn't relate more than this when rebal started saying he's sensitive,emotional and feels way happier and catchs feeling so hard and it aint no easy thing to deal with later.
    I always associated being sensitive and emotional as signs of being weak and always tried to deny those feelings amd tried to supress it and only showed people the best side of me .
    The happy side and the strong ,Idgaf side while honestly deep down there I gave a fuck more than anything else.
    I overthinked it .
    But honestly only recently I have realised that it's not like I'm weak it's just that i am emotional cos i care so much and there's nothing wrong in that.
    IT's okay to be emotional and sensitive .Now atlast I'm at peace with what I feel ,now that I have started accepting it instead of denying it .

    • @sjlee100
      @sjlee100 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I understand what you mean but being sensitive is weak because that means everything or a lot of things will affect you and that will make your life a living hell not trying to fight or anything want to know your pov

    • @11RIHAM
      @11RIHAM ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@@sjlee100 Being sensitive isn't always a sign of weakness, it's a strength to be able to express emotions because when you keep them and bury them inside then they will effect your mental health. Therefore I wouldn't encourage op to stop being sensitive, they might get the wrong message from you and suppress their emotions which is not healthy at all. I would rather encourage them to express their emotions and address the reasons behind them instead.

    • @sjlee100
      @sjlee100 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@11RIHAM I understand sorry for phrasing it that way. I guess there should be somewhat of a balance, being too sensitive or bottling it up isn't right. Just to clarify Whenever someone mentions being sensitive or emotionless, It won't come to my mind that they are balanced between the two because they wouldn't mention being a sensitive person or emotionless in the first place right? ( I don't mean op in here just trying to share my thoughts)

    • @hadassahibrahim6504
      @hadassahibrahim6504 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I absolutely understand what you mean and I found myself doing the same but I realized, the more we give in to the need to demonize how we feel, the worse it will get but once she start keeping a straight face when they make one of their 'jokes', they learn to NOT do it again, which is generally wayyy easier than pretending i'm not bothered.
      Basically, DON'T LET THEM GET AWAY WITH IT BABE

    • @reilly4678
      @reilly4678 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      honestly when people tell me I'm sensitive I just call them insensitive, because I'd rather be too sensitive than insensitive.

  • @Rin._.002
    @Rin._.002 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    this trend doesn't just look toxic but IT IS TOXIC

  • @faizarizwan6559
    @faizarizwan6559 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    The talent this man has to sit and talk to himself is 😩😂😂

  • @duskasojic1875
    @duskasojic1875 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Well if anything, people could say "You are so insecure, I bet you're the most insecure in your friends group". Lol.

  • @gloriali8632
    @gloriali8632 ปีที่แล้ว +704

    Imagine her friends did it to her. She would have a major meltdown and post those sad instagram stories on how fake her friends are.

  • @anonymous-zr5dm
    @anonymous-zr5dm ปีที่แล้ว +431

    You know it's gonna be a great day when Rebal posts!

    • @sarahf3534
      @sarahf3534 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ONG bro 100%

    • @user-vq8gt9yb1b
      @user-vq8gt9yb1b ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fr and when I come early it's even more amazing

    • @RayneStorm778
      @RayneStorm778 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg yesss I love his videos so much

    • @lizchan.
      @lizchan. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fr

  • @janeb7912
    @janeb7912 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    You know what would also be similar to that, maybe even worse? Editing photos of your friends to make them look better, like erasing their insecurities, flaws and stuff without them knowing 😂

  • @eunoia3972
    @eunoia3972 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    love the ending conversation we had lol it feels i'm really listening to this boy getting deeper and sinking in to his monologue😂😭

  • @thatgirlofyoutube
    @thatgirlofyoutube ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Bestie being relatable af at 12:02 😭😭😭

  • @imnobodyatall6577
    @imnobodyatall6577 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    0:43 *And I took that personally*

  • @lilackaur4902
    @lilackaur4902 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    Ok yea, as a person who literally cried yesterday over a small discussion, I am very sensitive and get emotionally attached to people, and i don't think there is anything wrong with that ! (i do find myself embarrassed when i cry over small things tho)

    • @ihuomaotika2656
      @ihuomaotika2656 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Samee🥺

    • @puppydogface2333
      @puppydogface2333 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Why did you cry what's wrong

    • @savannap5124
      @savannap5124 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sensitive ppl are so cute and lovable tho, id rather be sensitive than icy or emotionally detached 😒

    • @Lace.Coproof
      @Lace.Coproof ปีที่แล้ว

      And then hold a 3 year grudge over it same😭😭

    • @Suck_em_acrylic_of-toes
      @Suck_em_acrylic_of-toes ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @jokerghoul
    @jokerghoul ปีที่แล้ว +118

    He really went on youtube to search Toxic 🤣🤣

    • @phoebe9600
      @phoebe9600 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I noticed that ,too 😂😂

  • @sugastangerine9548
    @sugastangerine9548 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    You're definately not overthinking, these 'trends' are so messed up. Imagine how those friends would feel seeing those 'jokes' about them. I actually don't understand how some people even find it funny

  • @tulikapaul8058
    @tulikapaul8058 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    12:28 this part....the truth of emotional people 🙂

  • @malwinas
    @malwinas ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Honestly, imagining reactions of their friends who saw such tik toks for the first time makes me sad af. I would rather be assumed to lack sense of humour than let anybody convince me this is fine. Thank you for preventing this from being normalized!

  • @sfotos7410
    @sfotos7410 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Bestie even if you are sensitive, you are genuine. You know your feelings, you are honest about them. And you are an amazing human being with a good sense of humour, don't EVER forget that!! Don't you dare forget that 🔪

  • @heyheyheyheyheyheyheyyyyyyyy
    @heyheyheyheyheyheyheyyyyyyyy ปีที่แล้ว +58

    its the bullying and therapy at the same time for me 😭😂😂

  • @zefbarbie
    @zefbarbie ปีที่แล้ว +19

    not only editing their friends to look worse, but editing themselves to look better too so it’s more of a stark contrast

  • @linda3518
    @linda3518 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My “friends” just looove to put me down in front of guys (especially the ones they like) and make me look dumb or almost yell stupid stuff I’ve done just to make sure they hear it. It’s honestly so gross I always see them kinda looking over to see if anyone heard or is smiling. Not all my friends are like this and that’s why is hard to cut the toxic ones off since our friend group is so close.

  • @nokulungancongwane6906
    @nokulungancongwane6906 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    being sensitive is difficult to the heart but it is good in that it helps you acknowledge what you like and don't like quicker. being emotional is basically life with the saturation edit on 100% 😂 anyways we all experience life differently and it's more than okay. Thanks for sharing yours with us Rebal x

  • @sprigslashvital291
    @sprigslashvital291 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    “Imagine being her friend” we would NOT be friends after she did something like that to me.

  • @Ifdklmao
    @Ifdklmao ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I’m so happy when Rebal started to talk about feelings and emotion. I’m a kind of person who catches feeling way too fast and I can’t even control myself. So I have suffered too many heartbreaks and gone through emotional stages, to the point of self harm. I’m trying to be cold as stone but the transition is very very difficult. I hope You come out of it and be happiest Rebal 💜

    • @s_rosexoxo3347
      @s_rosexoxo3347 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      "Being sensitive isn't good for the heart but It is good that it helps you acknowledge what you do and don't like quicker" - from a commenter
      I agree with you, feeling sensitive is annoying and can make you feel helpless. But you can also see the good side of it and that you feel to the fullest. I tried to "toughen up" like your trying, but that just made me more lost and almost numb, and I regret it. Now I except it, I just look around and know that this will pass and that whatever emotion I'm feeling so much right now I won't feel it in a month or maybe a week. It's like when you think back to a time when your little self thought that this thing your overreacting to is the biggest thing ever, and right now you even laugh at it and think how ridiculous you were acting.
      So just don't think about it so much and just know (if it brings you comfort) that someone out there is probably feeling the same thing you are... I know I was.
      And I just hope you'll be doing the best you've ever done regarding to all the things you're feeling right now

    • @Emu19
      @Emu19 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@s_rosexoxo3347 Said everything I could've wanted to say! The only thing I would add is that being sensitive and getting hurt is not a bad or stupid thing either. I only say this cus as someone who is hurt easily I'm always told to "grow thicker skin" or called a "crybaby". I truly believe nobody should have to feel ashamed of their emotions, regardless how ridiculous, apathetic, or "child-like" they might appear to someone else. Our emotions are a natural part of us and should be celebrated, because the highs and lows are part of being alive!
      But aside from that, I COMPLETELY AGREE! The same thing that helps you, helps me. Really just living in the moment. Feeling so excited for a game I probably won't play in a week, and just, feeling excited. I know that yeah, the game is not interesting enough to hold my attention for much longer, but for right now it brings me happiness. Same way with lows as well, although it's much harder to be positive about already negative things. But sometimes, forgiving myself for being hurt, or feeling something so hard, giving myself permission to just, be in it for a bit, and knowing that what I'm experiencing is normal and valid, helps a lot when I remember to do it. Anxiety oftentimes muddles that cus it's all "IT'LL NEVER GET BETTER YER GUNNA DIEE! BLAARG!" But you kinda learn that, Anxiety is a lying asshat BAHAHA. But yeah, 100% YES to everything you said!!
      And to you Anisha, I really hope you are doing well! You deserve to feel good and loved and I hope you do! You are not crazy or "over-emotional", you are you and that's how it is. You seem like a beautifully wonderful person and I hope you know that about yourself! You matter, you are important, you are beautiful, and you are strong! I really do hope you eventually make it to a place in your life where you are comfortable, being you, in the way you want to be, and I hope you won't endure any more heartbreaks! Sending you all the love!! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @s_rosexoxo3347
      @s_rosexoxo3347 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Emu19 "Our emotions are a natural part of us and should be celebrated, because the highs and lows are part of being alive" I wanna use that. Can I use that? I'll specifically say that an Emu told me that lol.
      No but in all seriousness everything you said in that second paragraph is literally what I do. And what helps me with the lows is knowing that I'll eventually, (actually) feel really good and that you're not always going to be sad as much as you'll never always be happy. It's like a cycle, it's gonna go up and down and around, your feelings and emotions will always shift, evolve, and change. But I think we need that. We need that balance to really know we're here, that we're living, that shit happens, and sometimes it's okay and sometimes you need to tell yourself it's not.
      "But you kinda learn that, anxiety is an asshat" Anxiety is an ass. It really sucks. It's like seeing the world with rose coloured glasses, you'll never really know what's actually there, AND if it's EVEN there. Or if you think you saw something, so you start to over think it. Then think how it could also just be in your head. And you start to over think about that too.
      Though, sometimes, (the over thinking) could really help you with things you never thought you knew. And that's anxiety for you. REALLY complex and other times... (well somtimes) simple.
      And what helps me (in situations) is remembering that things are never good and bad, black and white, they're grey, that little gradient between everything. And honestly just think of it as a scale. And to see what side the grey leans on more. And you just got to go find it to better evaluate the situation.
      Anyways sorry for making this so long I just wanted to say that and I don't even know if that makes any sense. Have a good day or night or evening or afternoon or even dawn or dusk

    • @just_some_sarcasm
      @just_some_sarcasm ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This thread just gave me some of the best therapy I've ever received. Thank you guys 💖

  • @everydayistaeminsday9500
    @everydayistaeminsday9500 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Rebal's personality is literally how my inner voice is like. I can relate to him so much😂 I'm glad I found your channel. Best videos ever! 😌💞

  • @doodleghost6225
    @doodleghost6225 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i think the saddest part is the like borderline demonization of some of the traits they keep editing. like specifically the big/hooked noses. i think a strong nose is such a unique, attractive trait, and it's so sad to use it as the butt of a joke when people really do have features like this.

  • @varshi3241
    @varshi3241 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    The fact that rebal makes you watch these with him, you never walk alone bestiee

  • @giodallas5144
    @giodallas5144 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    im a very emotional person as well. Good to know im not the only one out there that literally cries at everything.

  • @destinysharpe4854
    @destinysharpe4854 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The accuracy of the shade being thrown by these so called friends is so real speaking from the pov of someone who's experienced it firsthand. If I wasn't insecure enough before it took place, I'm damn sure even less secure now...😥

  • @11RIHAM
    @11RIHAM ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I believe that expresssing emotions and vulnerability is part of our journey as human beings, the more you express them the more authentic and braver you are, and that people who are stone cold are actually people who choose to supress their own emotions which is not healthy for their mental health.

  • @sme138
    @sme138 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    11:52 bro you're so friking funny 😂

    • @sme138
      @sme138 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jesus wepes babes 😂

  • @mariamastora
    @mariamastora ปีที่แล้ว +27

    this is literally giving i ain't never seen two pretty best friends 😭

  • @morganamarques4222
    @morganamarques4222 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Me: I should be sleeping right now.
    *Rebal D videos pops up*
    Me: Well I think I shouldn't.

    • @sarahf3534
      @sarahf3534 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same it's 1am and I have to wake up in six hours but it's rebal so we must go on and watch.

  • @Deeee__
    @Deeee__ ปีที่แล้ว +53

    They just turned the trend from the cutest thing to one of the rudest things and what's worse is that the people that don't get are just boring 🤦🏻‍♀️
    Please let's be kinder to each other it doesn't cost us a thing but can lighten a person's day ❤️

  • @cahelen1213
    @cahelen1213 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Not him getting an existential crisis because of ppl on tik tok doing shit.😂
    Bestie, you're the sweetest! And we are normal

  • @girl_obsessed_with_the_sky
    @girl_obsessed_with_the_sky ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Don't you question yourself you're not overly sensitive. Imagine someone who's self-conscious, even if it's family they will probably take it in a bad way inside, especially if you never tell them they're pretty. There is no way their intention is anything good.

  • @luciajosephdeltoro4661
    @luciajosephdeltoro4661 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    If my friends did this to me with my already low self esteem, I would just die 👁👄👁

  • @yoongisstrandofbluehairfro9266
    @yoongisstrandofbluehairfro9266 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    i love how rebal makes us feel so included in his videos, makes me feel like we are true besties fr :((
    sending all my love to you bestieeee

  • @ChisumRDR
    @ChisumRDR ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Not just for their friends but also just for people that actually have bodies that aren't considered into the beauty standard...stuff like that are disrespectful.

  • @hasna7
    @hasna7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Imagine seeing yourself in this trend ... Unedited

  • @kfan07
    @kfan07 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    2:05 ahmmmm bestie ur arm muscle make me blush 😂❤👉👈🤗🫣

  • @ydouwantmyname1559
    @ydouwantmyname1559 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Damn bestie you got perfect timings my day was going really bad 👀🖤

  • @haruhwa
    @haruhwa ปีที่แล้ว +40

    so one of my friends did this. but instead of making us (the friends) look bad with editing, she made herself look weird with the editing and we looked normal. people were confused but it was funny nonetheless.

    • @feji7994
      @feji7994 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah even if you want to make it funny over exaggerate the photos

    • @feji7994
      @feji7994 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Which is still weird 💔

  • @dragonbaby7660
    @dragonbaby7660 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    13:19 saying "I might cry" in a slightly British accent. even the tears is accented.

  • @mauli.
    @mauli. ปีที่แล้ว +4

    13:47 who is that lucky person bestie 😩, how can YOU catch feelings and not get them reciprocated... if this is what happened to you then i know for sure i dont stand a chance, like trust me you are the ideal person to catch feelings for, you literally are our reason to still believe in goodness inside-out.

  • @Solene_89
    @Solene_89 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I used to have these 'friends' back in highschool that used to post my selfies on a Facebook account they made just to post my selfies and made fun of me and sometimes edit it like putting my face on Yoda's and everyone would just go along with it and tells me it was just a joke they made it to the point of making fake facebook accounts messaging they liked me, it made me really conscious about myself and never seen me as pretty so seeing this sick trend reminds me of my experience.

  • @MiciousDawn
    @MiciousDawn ปีที่แล้ว +11

    In these situations the only thing I say is “Comedy 101: if you have to tell your audience it’s a joke then it isn’t funny.”

  • @FeloniousAngel
    @FeloniousAngel ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I firmly believe that if you want to look good, you need to make your friends as hot as humanly possible so that you're all an ethereal band of goddesses. That's true power.

  • @ShaniPearl
    @ShaniPearl ปีที่แล้ว +45

    💀it’s 1 a.m. and I’m here…
    Lmaoooo I love Rebal’s editing 😂 & this trend is soooo back handed if your friends do this 🚩🚩🚩 just finished the video 😢I want more another good video bestie 😂👏🏾 and the end 🤣 “not once,not twice, not thrice but 5 times” and I feel youuu about catching feelings hard and fast then depression but that’s a story another day~ I’m finally early enough to comment

  • @mr_randonautica
    @mr_randonautica ปีที่แล้ว +4

    you have a point.. don’t ever feel you’re being “to sensitive”.. I 100% agree with you and how you feel about this shitty ass trend! 💯💯

  • @nandafranca3231
    @nandafranca3231 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I'm sorry but I still can't see where did she edit her friends' photos........................... AM I THAT BLIND ?????? cause I could only see one photo that looked a bit odd and it was the [ 0:13 ] one

    • @anonymoususer9197
      @anonymoususer9197 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Pay attention to any walls they wobbling

    • @paolazaparolli7224
      @paolazaparolli7224 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      0:15 the tile by her waist isn’t even straight lol

  • @Chrimchrim
    @Chrimchrim ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I remember when I was confused about something my sister was texting me and she posted the chat on tiktok without telling me and called me dumb... she said in the caption "imagine being so dumb at 18💀". then she sent me the tiktok after around 2000 people had seen it and said "look you're famous, it's soo funny". then she proceeded to make me feel stupid for being mad at her for posting that without my permission and made me cry. It happened a little more than a year ago, but I'm still so pissed

    • @sophiem3794
      @sophiem3794 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sorry that happened to you :( you definitely didn't deserve that. Have you tried talking with her about how you felt since then?

  • @3twshia3
    @3twshia3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Bestie, I'm a sensitive baby girl 🙈 I've trained myself not to cry so much in front of people but I weep when I'm alone. Loved the video by the way!

  • @fatinqamar4851
    @fatinqamar4851 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    It just hit me so hard watching this video, that between the "big ed" video Rebal made and this video, we've actually witnessed his cute baby face turn into this very attractive handsome face as he's growing up.

  • @SUTRASATURN
    @SUTRASATURN ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The funniest thing about this "trend" is the guitar tune that ensues when the friends/family photos are shown. Like wtf lol 😂🎸🎶

  • @leelee1749
    @leelee1749 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Those girls took advantage of the trend to throw shade at their friends. Jealousy and insecurities but it back fired lmao.

  • @marredpaper
    @marredpaper ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Absolutely not.. This is not a "joke". It's shady. Period.
    Edit: Awww you're sensitive bestie 😭 sending virtual hugs your way 🤗

  • @internetguy5434
    @internetguy5434 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Tbh i do edit my friends' pictures, like in a funny way. Adding a moustache or something. We do that to each other, we make stickers about our ugly photos and share it among ourselves. Not to the point where you edit a photo of your friends, highlighting their insecurities. It's purely toxic, i hope this trend makes them realise that they should unfriend these kind of people.

  • @kendridquirante
    @kendridquirante ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That's an outro I didn't expect. Bestie, you need a hug 🤗

  • @selbyhill4905
    @selbyhill4905 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I came here from watching Fox and The Hound and at this point I just needed to know there’s happiness in this world. Thank you for making me laugh. There is indeed happiness left.

  • @LaZyVibeZ
    @LaZyVibeZ ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It is totally unacceptable. I understand if your friends were like sure you can post it and laughed about it but as someone who has been put down and abandoned by "friends" it hurts. Everyone is beautiful in their own ways whether they are a different ethnicity, or has disabilities. But i do not think it is right to do it to put someone else down and make them look ugly when they are gorgeous!

  • @emmamix
    @emmamix ปีที่แล้ว +43

    All jokes aside, you never fail to make my day a little brighter bestie, so I hope some brighter days are ahead for you too. You're not alone, and you deserve genuine happiness.

  • @sirirokkala_divya
    @sirirokkala_divya ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm am EMOTIONAL AF . Even a change of tone from my people can hurt me 🥺

    • @mar1nn998
      @mar1nn998 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes me too

  • @Hannah-lz5xy
    @Hannah-lz5xy ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Rebal, it's not a bad thing to be sensitive or neither it's bad to bad to catch feelings fast. Men can be emotional and cry easily as well, they don't have to have a tough demeanor. Hope you're doing well much love from a bestie ❤️

  • @M.Hinamina
    @M.Hinamina ปีที่แล้ว +4

    it has been a while since i last watched rebals vids, and i forgottt how i loved ittttt lmao 11:38 hurt too

  • @JesusRocks2382
    @JesusRocks2382 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    5:11 bestie im uncomfortable

  • @Kate-is5mz
    @Kate-is5mz ปีที่แล้ว +33

    You know these are some fake ass friendships when you have to edit their photos instead of already having an entire folder in your gallery of the most outrageous, embarrassing, funniest photos of your friends. If my friends wanted to do this to me (hypothetically, because they wouldn't), they wouldn't have to edit nothing, they would just have a hard time picking which photo to use because they're all too disgusting and hilarious.

  • @noukiepoekie1375
    @noukiepoekie1375 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I searched through my phone to find the absolute most horrific pics of me and my best friends. I sent it to them, but only them, those aren't pics you put on the internet

  • @elspeththeplaneswalker495
    @elspeththeplaneswalker495 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I hate to be like "oh these people are narcissistic," but... I mean it's pretty clear they need therapy lmao

  • @AfalseNotfalseQueen
    @AfalseNotfalseQueen ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nooo I felt this whole sensitive talk so bad 😭 My family told me so many times to not take things by heart but I simply don't know how to do that. I get attached so easily and so hard and always ends up the most hurt at the end 💀

  • @gicucrocodilu6929
    @gicucrocodilu6929 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    13:30 when you're high on kpop and thought that was a Monsta X refference😂🤷‍♀️