I was thinking the same, honestly speaking I would hate if my partner forced me to be in their tiktoks or on camera in general. Also recording their relationship and posting it for everyone to see is also very unnecessary. The girl seems annoying to me at best so I'm not even surprised he's annoyed too.
@@jktm7785 it all started bc he still didn't propose to her after 6 years despite having a house and a bank account together. it has nothing to do with social media bc he is also her manager and it's his job to run her social media presence and make it big to have more sponsorship. he is stuck with her and at the same time he has nothing without her!
@umapuma weird flex. Embarrassment isn't an immature thing. I'm 34 and can totally feel the second have embarrassment. In fact, BECAUSE I've been 24 I can feel that embarrassment even more because I've been 24 before. 🙄🙄
Yeah, and she doesn't even realize she's already in a marriage, only undocumented. Why she needs a worthless piece of paper to prove their commitment to each other is beyond me...
honestly unless your boyfriend is an influencer, shoving a camera in his face and posting his personal business to the public is only going to drive him away. especially when she’s practically interrogating him instead of being grateful for the relationship they have.
I agree, I actually think she was intentionally asking inflammatory questions.. it was really mean. She covered it up by giggling.. that’s the worst kind of person. If you are going to be a bitch then be real about it and have the balls to show the real you
I used to be so attracted to men that were SO apathetic about me and annoyed by me..like this dude then I started doing alot of childhood trauma healing work and questioned why I was addicted to chasing men that were blatantly not interested in me… then I realized it was because of insecurities, feeling of unworthiness etc etc etc and I literally found a man more kind, thoughtful, loyal, and simply a good person than I was ever interested in before. Ladies, men, everyone please, let’s do the inner work to work on these dynamics and cycles in our life.
@@DBSKxSECRETsarang39 she said when they met she was 14 and he was 18, of course she'll be stuck to him. That looks like a crime dating a 14 yr old as an 18yr old
@@itskinaraaa Idk.. if they're "pretending" to be happy with each other then I feel that's not the perfect environment to raise children.. anyway it's their life😅
@@archachandran399 Also how natalie shoves a camera in his face and talked about HIS personal issues, i have a feeling it would end up like a really awful family channel... those channels are the worst
Even if he does love her, I would not be surprised if most of his frustration stems from being stuck in front of a camera every day to record a tiktok outing random personal things about himself to strangers.
Yeah actually I have tiktok with a lot of followers (for an Italian page ) and I show so rarely my boyfriend, like twice in two years because he doesn't like it. And just need to respect that.. pretty sure my boyfriend would be even worse in front of the camera, wouldn't even reply to comments or talk
What's the point in being together if you have lost interest in eachother? Doesn't that happen after many years of marriage but he's already sick of everything about her ( atleast he looks that way ) The girl is trying too hard , looks like everything is happening one sided which is sad to see .
@@afshanoorulain7360 well I agree but that doesn't always happen after many years of marriage like my parents been married for 27 years and the way both of them still flirt with each other pick outfits for each other and go on dates hasn't ever changed so like marriage doesn't always makes the love fade away u know? "sorry if my English is bad"
@@ahumanwhoplantlove9249 I never fully generalised it but in some marriages love does fade away , people share different kinds of love , good for your parents and the influence you have which is truly a fortune unlike mine . Partners do loose interest from eachother as they grow old , some even commit infidelity and some choose divorce, divorce rate has been significantly increased over the years . Explains how time can effect love which is sad for some people , there are large number of people unhappy in their marriages .
The way she explains stuff about him like a mom talking about her kid "oh he's trying to overcome his nicotine addiction 🥺🥺 Come on Derek, say hi, you're not hangry anymore, I just fed you"
@@sofiolaverryI follow them on Insta and never saw this before and he'd been posting happy photos of them so I wonder if she ambushed him the first vid (and he was truly embarrassed) but the media attention was so good they just kept it up for publicity....
He just doesn’t want to marry her and I don’t blame him, she doesn’t seem to understand keeping some information private, she acts like a little girl telling everyone everything 😂
Tell me personally I don’t think he’s keen on having his relationship plastered all over the Internet, and like he’s over the cost of videos he’s over the cost of her talking about the relationship, and on top of that she doesn’t seem to know when to keep certain things private, because what it is the little” we didn’t start dating until I was 18 because he met her when she was” hey seems to me he has built-up resentment for stopping his own career and then on top of that it seems like they start a relationship because she wanted a relationship and it seems like he just wanted to give her a chance and it seem like a he just felt like it didn’t work out, but I never thought about actually breaking up with her because being someone for six years and giving up your own career to help them out in their career in their dreams, he does put a little stop financial wise, even though I think he should be breaking up with her regardless just because he doesn’t seem like he’s happy and if he doesn’t feel happy in love with her then yeah he should be able to move on but I feel like she is the same for her, but it seems like she’s constantly trying to prove herself, but everybody else that this relationship works out and that she’s so happy and she’s overcompensating so much in a relationship. If she doesn’t even realize it or she does, and just continues to do it because she wants to stay with him so badly and I and there’s nothing cute about telling everyone on the Internet about your business, especially business does quite predatory. It makes him seem predatory as well because he doesn’t seem like he likes her. He doesn’t seem like he’s that interested in her at all if he was like a predator, I feel like he will still be into her 11 oh her, and like coming up with excuses it doesn’t seem like he cares to come up with excuses anymore like he says he loves her and then leave it at that. Even the last video is kind of just messed up
How do you say the last video is messed up simply because of the fact that he says all he has to say, and then basically let everybody know that this is her idea I didn’t really seem like this was his idea. He didn’t seem like he wanted to do this without her. It seem like she put him up to. It probably begged him and got on his nerves about coming out and saying all this stuff, and then was there behind a camera, basically mouthing certain things that she want him to say to validate her side of the conversation and her side of the relationship into once again compensate and it’s just weird because it doesn’t seem like he cares if everybody thinks they’re right for each other or if he loves her and likes her and wants to marry her because I think he’ll he’s him himself knows that he doesn’t want a relationship with her like I don’t think he knows he doesn’t wanna relationship with her. I think he knows he wants to break up with her at some point which is why he initially said we will be together for a while not forever before a while, and then change it was she basically probably’s mouth forever to him to for him to say that because yeah he just at the end of the video is that how do I turn this off like he’s like he was just like how do I turn this off and just very uninterested and very much not a social media guy like he doesn’t look like he’s a social media guy I don’t think he really like out there for it and that and then a social media person has to do with the whether that some a persons into or not a Lotta dues aren’t very much social media present to be completely honest and he seems like one of those dudes that genuinely don’t give a crap about social media, but she dies in like the stuff that they do. He just seems very uninterested. He doesn’t look like he’s having fun. He’s just like I don’t wanna do this and that’s just about it like he looks like he’s just a guy who wants to chill maybe go fission maybe go on car rides with his girlfriend and just have a chill day after day that’s it he seems like one of those guys he doesn’t seem like the type of guy that’s going to dance in a video. Do you wanna outfit of the day with his girlfriend? He doesn’t seem like the type of guy that’s like overly like excited to be on social media all day every day especially when it comes to his relationship he seems like he just wants a SZA privacy and it seems like he just wants to say self call Ms. within relationship and she doesn’t offer any of that to him at the end of that he’s like constantly like literally just zoning out the entire time, and all the videos especially when she asks him like what’s your it about me he just pauses for so long and doesn’t even answer the question like his sister for a while and never answers the questions about the Eric, which is hard to believe that he has no it’s about her because at the end the day everybody can say they have an egg about the person they love whether or not it’s it is some of these people go and people continually say hey I got over it they still do it still bothers me but I can get over it because that person is down for a reason that’s what makes them them wouldn’t have it any other way. I’ll take this over this any day to be clear on the fact that he doesn’t say anything tells me that he has a lot of ex that will probably hurt her feelings and that’s why he does just decided not to say anything, and just say I don’t really have it when he completely does and anybody’s lying when I say they don’t have it about the person they do like or love nothing less
She keeps throwing him under the buss as "it's just a joke", I don't judge anymore because I was in a narcissistic relationship and literally he was the happy energetic one and I was just drained and sucked out of life from all the emoitional abuse, also I'm the one who was judged constantly as "grumpy" or "you're the problem", he was normal infront of peaple and extra energetic
Oof I felt that to the core 🙃 At 6:30 she sounded way too chirpy when she said “so many of you hate my boyfriend” but when she said “it hurts my heart” it sounded so unauthentic.
Yeah that kind of people also exist but I don't think in their relationship anyone is toxic. It's just that they both have the opposite personality. She is bubbly, extroverted and straightforward whereas her bf is introverted, and is just not very expressive. Both understand each other and love each other. You can see they both express themselves very comfortably to each other.
Crazy! That was outwardly a carbon copy of my last relationship. I went from happy, energetic girl to yes, yes the quiet bitch. He acted completely normal in front of people. Showing me affection and all that cover up bullshit. To being the ugliest human, physical and emotional abuser, I have ever encountered...
She needs to stop airing out their dirty laundry to strangers, sticking a camera in his face, & pressuring him into marrying her. He needs to do both of them a favor and just end the relationship if he’s actually unhappy with it.
i agree. i love my husband to death, but ima private person and if he stuck a camera in my face and started passive aggressively airing out our business for the entertainment of strangers...yea , I'd have the exact same reaction
She is very, very immature. Seems she may have been stunted emotionally at a young age. She really needs to learn more about herself, relationships, and how NOT to belittle and embarrass her "boyfriend" in a public space. Very passive aggressive behavior. Just by her opening with that word is a dig at him, instead of lovingly referring to him by his given name. It's just super cringe, and nowhere near as endearing, as I'm sure she imagines it to be, in her head. 😖😬
True. He also seems a bit immature for not communicating openly and telling her when she’s going too far. I don’t really know who’s more in the wrong or of they’re both equally in the wrong
@@marieantoinette1091if her story is true and they started dating when she was 18, then she should at least be acting that age - not like a 13 year old cartoon character at the ripe age of 24. 😂 As for him, if you have any respect for someone at all, you wouldn’t waste their time like this. They’re both insufferable. 😅
Honestly I would be annoyed as fuk too if she was in my face with a camera talking about our personal life to strangers on the internet. Her personality is probably why he's second-guessing on marrying her.
he is her manager, he should be the one running her social media presence to get more sponsorship. he got what he deserves for being a lazy manager and bad bf lmao
She's honestly such a pick me like omgggg ever five seconds she says smth and is then THROWS HERSELF AT THE CAMERA like omg omg I'm just kidding just kidding 🤪🤪🤪
@@lils3610 I think it's absolutely fcking weird to put all the blame on the woman just bcz she's "annoying" meanwhile a lot of y'all just glossed over the fact that he basically WAITED for her to turn legal before dating her. Everyday y'all prove how much you guys hate women and want them to be the villains so bad.
Imagine making public videos of you making your bf feel bad about something he's not ready for & he's trying to make sure he feels prepared for something serious like marriage while you're trying to guilt trip him out of selfishness
She's like one of those people who acts cute but actually bully others. As if they are the most innocent soul on the planet and are capable of doing nothing wrong. And, the dude...well, I don't know what he's even doing.
Why she keeps exposing him like that? Dude clearly doesnt like being on camera, idk if he loves her or not but if she wants us to thinks he does, well she is not acomplishing it
I was looking at her tiktok and this couple is so odd.. He obviously doesn't want to be a "tiktok influencer" but she does. If he doesn't want to be in the videos she should just respect that. He's purposely acting like that to show her and the audience that he doesn't want to be part of this yet she still forces him to take part. 🤦🏻♀️
Yup couples with opposite personalities need to have compromise and this ain't it 😳 my sister and her boyfriend are just like this, she just has a little to much girly energy to handle sometimes but it comes from insecurities. I literally had to bully him to just let her take a photo of his face every once in awhile so she could feel good rather than him constantly sticking his hand in the way and hiding his face. He agreed and after a few good photo opportunities she was vastly less determined for a photo with him lol, shes perfectly happy with what she got she just wanted a few cute photos so she could brag in SM. I'm seriously concerned about this couple, looks like there's waaay too much effort on one side and way too much demanding with zero equality. Not sure this relationship is going to end well, I'd be friggin rabid if I lived with someone like that, it's why me and my sister didn't go to college together lol.
I don't think he's forced to stay in the relationship. He should have break up if he didn't like her social media. Personally I would have go away from this relationship a long time ago
Exactly!! And now he regrets giving into her obsession and giving up his career and tying his entire life and finances to her. This girl needs to develop the self awareness and accountability to LEAVE this guy! Anyone can see that their relationship has gone past its expiration date.
@@samanthasinclair7916 I feel very bad for the boyfriend, you must be a psychopath to not have empathy for how he is being trapped and financially and emotionally abused.
@@winxclubstellamusa you shouldn’t throw that term around and im the farthest thing from a psychopath. I am obviously basing this off a very short video but I don’t see the emotional abuse from this video and he clearly isn’t and hasn’t communicated how he feels which he should. Financially I don’t know how he ended up with so many business with this woman but I’m assuming he did it to keep her quiet in which case that was partly his mistake. He clearly isn’t happy so he should just break up with her
@@samanthasinclair7916 you don’t know what emotional and financial abuse look like, therefore, you have no right to say that they aren’t present here, while they are extremely obvious in this situation. And you exhibit very little to no empathy, which is a psychopathic trait. So if you aren’t like that then learn to show it instead of being happy and pleased at seeing other people get hurt!
I think Natalie is a sadist & she's actually a narcissist..its like she's actually enjoying making him look dumb or belittling him like in that tortilla challenge!..
@@THOMPSON8787 calm down Jeffery. Stop putting every woman in one category. We have different morals and opinions. Ofc you wouldn't know with your sexist attitude it would be a wonder if you would even be able to say hi to a woman. Get some therapy okie. I'm rooting for you. Hope you get better. 😊
@RoobyRockDoll I didn't put every woman in a category. Sounds like you aren't up to speed on the definition. But if you still want to claim to be a modern woman, that's on you. I personally have a traditional woman I've been with for 2 years. You can be young and still be traditional btw.
HE WAITED TOLL SHE WAS EIGHTEEN TO GET WITH HER, THIS RELATIONSHIP IS FUNDEMANTALLY BUILT ON HIM FALLING IN LOVE WITH A FOURTEEN YEAR OLD OF COURSE SHES GOONG TO BE MORE IMMATURE AND EXCITED THAN HIM HE PROBABLY MAKES HER FEEL MATURE
Just because it's been 6 years, that doesn't mean he owes you a proposal, if you don't wanna wait that long move on with your life because badgering him about isn't going to make it happen faster.
i’m getting a feeling that he’s just an introvert, not that he can’t stand her. this seems like an extrovert (rebal) reacting to an introvert (this guy). i would know, because i’ve been like this before. i was so stone-faced that people would be like, “do you hate me or sum”. people like this just don’t show their emotions outwardly, that’s why it’s hard to know what they’re feeling. he also could be shy on camera
@@user-mAfuNqrSe020x some women like to be traditional and would prefer the man to propose there's nothing wrong with that . But I agree with you at this point if she wants it so bad she should propose but he would probably refuse she should just leave him
Rebal. I’ve been watching you for AGES AND for the first time in my entire life, I had a boyfriend for Valentines Day! Istg bro. This boy got my heart.
Flat affect is a severely restricted or nonexistent expression of emotion. A person with flat affect does not express emotion the way other people do. Maybe this. Not everyone emotes the same. The fact that he keeps showing up and trying and is consistent with his emotion maybe he genuinely just doesn't emote like other people. We aren't all built the same. Edit: and maybe she is overcompensating bc she knows how it looks to everyone else, having that many people come at you can make a person defensive w/ or w/out a possibly disinterested bf.
No I cannot feel for her. Being with someone for many years does not necessarily mean that that should lead to marriage. Putting pressure on your “significant other“ about such a serious matter and exposing them like that to thousands of people can only lead to a distance between them. Marriage should be discussed and agreed by both the individuals and there should be respect if the one of them doesn’t feel ready to have such a serious commitment at that age, that’s what a person that loves their mate does at least. What I see here is a girl that wants to get married so much that she doesn’t take into account the feelings of her boyfriend or the situation they might be in right now. She should learn boundaries and respect before she decides to start a family with someone.
If a woman wants to get married and have children she can't wait around forever for her partner to decide he's ready to get married. Women only have so many fertile years. That's just a fact. But I wouldn't be with a man I had to harass into proposing. I would leave him if he was lukewarm about proposing after 6 years. I would want a man who was excited about marrying me. Fortunately that's what I have.
@@cuculain78and that’s her problem, she’s waiting on him, and pushing him in marriage 24/7 it’s honestly annoying and draining and I’m not even in that relationship, she can break up with him and find someone who wants the same thing as her but she chose to stay with him therefore she’s gonna have to deal with not having kids or being married
I agreed she shouldn’t expose him like that, and he’s not obligated to propose to her. But, if it’s been 6 years and the guy is still dragging his feet, why would she still want to be with him? There are plenty of men out there who want to get married and would appreciate a bubbly personality like her’s. The attitude of this guy towards his girl is a huge red flag-often is indicative of a partner who’s cheating/considering cheating.
Actually being together that long should lead to something at that point. So he can start businesses with her, share houses, have sex with her, share money etc but marriage is such a serious commitment & big deal that she shouldn't get suspicious or question it? They just about did everything else lol. And that's probably why he doesnt feel the need to propose. I don't think women realize already "feeling married" isnt always a good thing, its probably why he doesn't feel the need to marry her he's getting & doing everything with her already. I dont feel bad for her though because people, especially women need to raise their standards on what they accept and what boundaries they have in relationships. Like he doesnt even seem to like her.
I'd be mad pissed about my partner hounding me for something I might not want/believe in, especially if they were recording it and being so passive aggressive about it/laughing at me about it. I feel for him.
@@JeremyScott459 It's not that black and white, lmao. He might want to get married but doesn't want to be hounded for it constantly, especially when there's a phone in his face recording him while he's being mocked about it.
@@JeremyScott459 ?? Relationships are different for different people, you're ready when you're ready. You're a problem if you think that black and white about these things. I'm not gonna bother responding after this, you're either super sheltered or you're like 50. Cya
she honestly seems obnoxious af the only reason why he's still with her was cause he sacrificed his career for her to get a career now shes the one bringing in the money in the relationship so he's forced to be with her + she seems like she really likes him so maybe he doesn't want to hurt her and THE MONEY...
it's sad for them both, I think he needs a break to figure out what he should do for his life and maybe to realize how much important his girl to him. many people leave their partner only to realize later how much important that person is. my friend broke up with his girl in a horrible way after 6 years of dating and even after 2 years, he still not over her and had a mental break down lately when he heard that she is moving to the UK with her British new bf who only dated her for less than a year!
She does seem immature but she looks genuinely into him , if that amount of interest is absent in the other party , it's better to break up and do something about yourself instead of leading them on and making them sick of you slowly .
She was 14 when he was 18 we know he was toxic and being friends with her till she was an adult makes it worse that is the definition of grooming. I think he liked her until he couldn’t manipulate her as much. She got too old.
And she’s not too much he’s too little. Being excited isn’t a bad thing and I don’t think she meant to make him look stupid because she also looks stupid they both look really stupid.
I have a very similar amount of enthusiasm to my partner, like we're both generally really chill but also get excited about some things. Luckily neither one of us are the type to post our relationship on tiktok, that would be EXHAUSTINGGG
@@gamingbypixshe only said they met when he was 18 and she was 14. It might have been like... for two seconds and then they didnt get to know each other until she was 18
I am afraid he would regret it later, after being the first and only man in a life of a girl for 6 years, he would be trapped to take her for granted. and she has the money so she is staying bc she truly loves him and that's very very hard to find. he is also a bad manager bc he should be the one running her social media.
He's my spirit animal. You can tell he hates being a chicken in her farm. He's probably so tired of her pulling her phone out to record when he literally just wants to live 😂 this is me not understanding why everything has to be recorded and put on this internet.
Omg totally, I don’t understand why people are bringing hate on Derek Like he just wants to spend his life normally and chill without being constantly nagged about “proposed” or “the fact that he left his job for her”
so i met Natalie when she was a guest speaker at a camp for kids and teens with arthritis (Natalie has arthritis as well and i guess she’s an ambassador for the Arthritis Foundation. i’m a youth ambassador and had honestly never heard of her beforehand-) and she was very high energy and into herself, but in like a “me, me, me” way and not in a “I’m confident” way. idk she may be dealing with some insecurities and that’s why she keeps bugging her bf about marriage
This is awful...she is too much. She is coming off as desperate and for any person, be it a man or woman, that is so off putting and must be a huge turn off for him. It shows that her life revolves too much around him, rather than her embracing an identity of her own. Pathetic, to be honest. Btw, I'm a heterosexual female and some months back, I dealt with a clingy male who was like this, and couldn't see the point in doing anything for himself, and I had to walk away as I made a point that I didn't want a relationship with him but he wouldn't leave it alone and listen to what I was saying. It was too much, and as time moved forward as "friends" because he decided he didn't want a relationship with any woman all of a sudden, but told me that all his online friends that he communicated with through forums had said they thought he was in love with me and that I was behaving a certain way, for reasons that I wasn't - because they clearly spent too much time online instead of spending time in person, with an actual woman, I got to the point where I couldn't be bothered to deal with it anymore. He just became irritating, and tried manipulating, making the mistake that I would care about his attempted game-playing. I realised how passive-agressive he actually was and thought "no thanks...Byyeeeee" It was suffocating and I picked up on it very quickly and blocked him and physically removed myself from his life. He even started blaming me for everything that had gone wrong with the opposite sex in his life too, which I thought was a bit weird, bearing in mind, I hadn't known him for long! He kept going on about what he wanted although I wasn't interested at that point - AT ALL - in even knowing him in a friendship/acquaintance capacity. Oh, and trying to buy someone can be a huge turn off too. He tried to get presents for me that I didn't want, so I made it clear I didn't want and did not accept them or the offer of them. Enjoying having and embracing your own identity and valuing yourself and working on yourself is SO important BEFORE anything else, and it's also more ATTRACTIVE.
7:52 y'know that moment when you're in public making small talk, then someone says something and you just turn to your friend and make eye contact like "wtf did we just hear???" ? That's what's happening in this moment.
Her enthusiasm is overwhelming, his is non existing. I think that's a good balance. Still, their dynamic kinda rubs me the wrong way, but I'm just a single pringle, so I think its time for me to make some single person hommmade pizza.
Fr, I have never seen this dynamic in my life. Their personality gap is too much. He's so boring, which I can kind of excuse because he was definitely dragged into all this, and she's a pick-me girl. Also the fact that he waited for her to turn 18 is messed up. Normally I'd let people live but what the hell is this mess 😟
Wow being a single Pringle for so long has really distorted your vision of what a good couple is suppose to look like. These people are the exact opposite of what makes a good couple.
Dude NO. I dated someone for far tooo long than i should have. He had the same energy this dude has...turns out he was a cheater, abuser (mentally, emotionally,and physically) ... narcissistic SOCIOPATH....OR PSYCHOPATH.
He says in his response video of the person saying he’s miserable “I am happy, I love Natalie, and we will continue to be together for AWHILE” my man literally said AWHILE instead of just “we will be together” OR “we will be together for ever” 🥴 that says a lot on its own, ya know? Yikes 😬 😂
As an older person.. 35.. who has been married before and divorced and now I’ve been dating my bf for 6 1/2 years (mutual decision to wait 10 years), I feel a bit different about this situation. I feel like this guy genuinely loves this girl but he probably gets pressured a lot. We don’t know what goes on behind closed doors. We don’t know what is going on in this guys life right now either. I don’t think men should be pressured into marrying someone. Just as women shouldn’t be pressured. If she doesn’t approve of him taking his time, don’t be passive aggressive about the situation… honey, MOVE ON!!! Life is too short and there are other men out there who would purpose in a year lol That’s just my opinion though. She still seems to have a teenagers mindset (again, just my opinion and there’s nothing wrong with that..) but maybe he’s waiting for her to grow up a little bit. I feel sorry for both of them tbh.
I think he just wants privacy. He seems really uncomfortable talking about his private life on social media like that and I get it. And for the proposal, he has the right not to want to commit right away. They are already living as a married couple, if they get married it could end in divorce
Wouldn’t you rather be single 💀 (which you are ofc)
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I ACC WOULD
Wow ..u don't have to remind me 💀💀
PLEASE 💀💀🤚
ALMOST OUR 1 YEAR ANNIVERSARY 👹👹
She definitely wakes him up at 3AM to ask "baby, would you still love me if i was a worm🥺"
the ACCURACY.
He doesn’t love her even when she’s a human💀
@@drashtikapadia1502 if I was with someone who’s always puts a camera in our face I would not either
@@drashtikapadia1502 girl💀
The way i cackled 💀💀
In all fairness, this would be me if my partner was constantly putting a camera in my face 😅
Right that’s what I assume that he’s just uncomfortable on camera
He looks exhausted 😂
This was me in a relationship before I realized I was aromantic :/
I was thinking the same, honestly speaking I would hate if my partner forced me to be in their tiktoks or on camera in general. Also recording their relationship and posting it for everyone to see is also very unnecessary. The girl seems annoying to me at best so I'm not even surprised he's annoyed too.
@@jktm7785 it all started bc he still didn't propose to her after 6 years despite having a house and a bank account together. it has nothing to do with social media bc he is also her manager and it's his job to run her social media presence and make it big to have more sponsorship. he is stuck with her and at the same time he has nothing without her!
The chemistry here is like sugar dissolving into cold water 💀
I love your breakdown of this sugar 💘
…ok this was funny. Idk why but this is the funniest thing I’ve read all day.
Wow it is indeed😂
The only thing that man is planning is to break up 💀💀
Just trying to find a way to make a clean break 😭💀 I was hopeful and thought it was satirical at first 😭
For good reason tbh😭
@c: would she still be cute if ahe showed a camera in your face, even though you told her not
@c: it’s not cute to expose your bf to people on social media and parade him about proposing when you can see he looks uncomfortable
@c: okay she’s cute, so what? What the fuck did you achieve from saying that nobody cares
"When you first saw me, when I was 14 and you were 18"
bestie the way my jaw dropped 💀
Me too
Explains a lot
Honey , I paused the video to walk around my room for a minute saying jail repeatedly 😭😭
@@re.invented3158 he does need jailtime tho like what the hell 😭
i eating dominos chicken wings and they made me drop my fucking chicken
Her post soon: My boyfriend of six years proposed to his new girlfriend of six months! 😂😂😂
It's sad.
Literally this. At this point he's just checked out with her, and you can tell he's getting everything from another chick.
Shit. His body is just present. Mind and soul left.
They did get married lol
That would be devistating
As a girl, the amount of second hand embarrassment I received from watching this girl almost made me pass out
I am 30. To me its just entertaining. I'm too old to get second hand embarassment from 24yolds. You'll get there as well.
Omg and the tonguueeee out really killed me inside
That’s the word I was looking for
@umapuma weird flex. Embarrassment isn't an immature thing. I'm 34 and can totally feel the second have embarrassment. In fact, BECAUSE I've been 24 I can feel that embarrassment even more because I've been 24 before. 🙄🙄
@@umapumasee my above comment
How does he even find all these people on tiktok LMAO
I wanna see his FYP ☠️
there were lots of videos about this couple, for example Ravon made one couple of years ago. Rebal did not find this couple himself. 💀
This couple actually blew up on tiktok because of this video LMAO
You must not be online often enough
His for you page🤣
Some people don’t want their lives and interactions as fodder for the public and I get that sense from him.
Derek when he’s sad: 😒
Derek when he’s glad: 😒
Derek in his darkest days: 😒
Derek in his happiest days: 😒
Just like me fr
LEMAKOAKAK
Derek when he talks about his outfit: 💅
Bro looks like he's living his life forcibly
SameSameBro samebro bro same
I love how every intro is about us being single
And it's true
Lmao😅💀
Lol, he knows his audience well😂
It's his brand
I'm not single , but I play along anyway , it's fun hahaha
Everything about that guy says he's stuck, they have everything linked. He probably thinks it's easier to stay at this point.
Bingo !!
Can he not unlink it?
@@hayley179g she could take him to court for half of the stuff that they required together, sounds expensive
it's acquired, & also you're making no sense. you're making it sound like they're married. @@foxytr1ck156
@@foxytr1ck156funny though that when a woman stays people call her dimwitted and say she should have chose a better partner
This relationship is inspiring me to STAY single. LOL
Well my face does that job for me
LMFAO I CACKLED 😭, it’s inspiring me to love my relationship status: Single 🧍🏾♂️
Me too honestly 💀
Lok
Facts lol
I have two questions
1. Is she ok?
2.Is he ok?
and the biggest question do they love eachother fr
@@kpop6969 the other one is why was he with her when she was 14 and he was 18, and started dating right when she turned 18?👀
@@Princess_Orla …that’s what I’m saying real suspicious 🧐
@@Princess_Orla she was joking ab that
@soobineffingchoi what you mean ?
3:37 im fully convinced she unknowingly ruined the surprise at least 15 times cuz she keeps asking and bro is just done 😂
sounds like she wants the IDEA of marriage more than the actual reality of marriage itself
@AJ V
Yeah, but i swear I saw you somewhere
Fr
Truest, marriage isn't about one particular thing, its complicated and has a lot more to it
Yeah, and she doesn't even realize she's already in a marriage, only undocumented. Why she needs a worthless piece of paper to prove their commitment to each other is beyond me...
Owning a house with someone you're not married to, is wildly irresponsible.
"For awhile."
Omg I love that hungry hippo fish 🐟
he might be annoyed cuz she's bringing their personal business to tikytok lmao
Omg a Genshin bestie!
genshin besties unite lmao !!
Genshin besties unite❤
Yeah
Genshin besties uniting
honestly unless your boyfriend is an influencer, shoving a camera in his face and posting his personal business to the public is only going to drive him away. especially when she’s practically interrogating him instead of being grateful for the relationship they have.
Perfectly put.
Grateful? Girl what.
There’s barely a relationship at that point 😭😭
@@luthor24127fr, they had me until that point lmfaoao
I agree, I actually think she was intentionally asking inflammatory questions.. it was really mean. She covered it up by giggling.. that’s the worst kind of person. If you are going to be a bitch then be real about it and have the balls to show the real you
I used to be so attracted to men that were SO apathetic about me and annoyed by me..like this dude then I started doing alot of childhood trauma healing work and questioned why I was addicted to chasing men that were blatantly not interested in me… then I realized it was because of insecurities, feeling of unworthiness etc etc etc and I literally found a man more kind, thoughtful, loyal, and simply a good person than I was ever interested in before. Ladies, men, everyone please, let’s do the inner work to work on these dynamics and cycles in our life.
Agreed.
Yeah but sometimes the man that does all that is usually a cheater. He knows how to run game.
I’m proud of you for coming to the realization that you deserved more - not just from men, but from yourself! ❤ 🎉 👏 👍
Derek looks so done 😭😭
He looks dead inside 💀
I cried when she started laughing and leaned on him, idk why, I felt so uncomfortable 😂😭
I don't blame him. She seems like the clingy type.
what is your USERNAME-
@@DBSKxSECRETsarang39 she said when they met she was 14 and he was 18, of course she'll be stuck to him. That looks like a crime dating a 14 yr old as an 18yr old
If they get married, and eventually plan to have children... I feel sad for those children🤷♀
Wait why
@@itskinaraaa Idk.. if they're "pretending" to be happy with each other then I feel that's not the perfect environment to raise children.. anyway it's their life😅
@Archa Chandran Ah, yeah I can't disagree with that one. You right😂💯💯💯
He's going for the milk
@@archachandran399 Also how natalie shoves a camera in his face and talked about HIS personal issues, i have a feeling it would end up like a really awful family channel... those channels are the worst
I'll get tired of someone if they constantly kept asking me to marry them.
Even if he does love her, I would not be surprised if most of his frustration stems from being stuck in front of a camera every day to record a tiktok outing random personal things about himself to strangers.
Yeah actually I have tiktok with a lot of followers (for an Italian page ) and I show so rarely my boyfriend, like twice in two years because he doesn't like it. And just need to respect that.. pretty sure my boyfriend would be even worse in front of the camera, wouldn't even reply to comments or talk
“What do I do that makes you go ick?” 😐”everything you do.”
I don’t think they’re unhappy. He just doesn’t give a single shit about her and she doesn’t see it as a problem in a relationship
Which makes…an unhappy relationship 😭😭😭
What's the point in being together if you have lost interest in eachother? Doesn't that happen after many years of marriage but he's already sick of everything about her ( atleast he looks that way )
The girl is trying too hard , looks like everything is happening one sided which is sad to see .
@@afshanoorulain7360 well I agree but that doesn't always happen after many years of marriage like my parents been married for 27 years and the way both of them still flirt with each other pick outfits for each other and go on dates hasn't ever changed so like marriage doesn't always makes the love fade away u know?
"sorry if my English is bad"
@@ahumanwhoplantlove9249 I never fully generalised it but in some marriages love does fade away , people share different kinds of love , good for your parents and the influence you have which is truly a fortune unlike mine .
Partners do loose interest from eachother as they grow old , some even commit infidelity and some choose divorce, divorce rate has been significantly increased over the years . Explains how time can effect love which is sad for some people , there are large number of people unhappy in their marriages .
@@afshanoorulain7360 well sorry seems that I miss read your comment and yeah I do agree with you
y'all let's sign a petition to save the poor Dereck 😭
You don't think he's also sus? 18 and 14 dude...? Pretending to be into that relationship still?
@@gamingbypix Why are you posting comments hating on him through out the comments section??
He's the problem...pdf ile, passive aggressive, covert narcissist
@@ohhtx Ahh.. God. Some guy wasted his life force to create you. I feel sorry for him
@@Giacomo_NeroneJust say sperm and ovaries lol
The way she explains stuff about him like a mom talking about her kid "oh he's trying to overcome his nicotine addiction 🥺🥺 Come on Derek, say hi, you're not hangry anymore, I just fed you"
So accurate😂😂😂
Her lack of awareness to read the room is hilarious. 🤣
And there is literally only one person in the room to read 😂😂😂
I ended up stalking her and they got married 2 months ago. He finally proposed😂
Okay thanks, I needed that update 😂😅
Omfg i literally dont believe you 😂
Was it a shut up ring tho?? we need the tea
@@sofiolaverryI follow them on Insta and never saw this before and he'd been posting happy photos of them so I wonder if she ambushed him the first vid (and he was truly embarrassed) but the media attention was so good they just kept it up for publicity....
Is that Chan in your pfp??
He just doesn’t want to marry her and I don’t blame him, she doesn’t seem to understand keeping some information private, she acts like a little girl telling everyone everything 😂
So just break up, like honestly I’d rather have someone break up with me then have them act like him
@@Nic0Dr4ws i don't think he can afford to? Idk but I've been reading up on it
No she is just really cute open and extroverted
Tell me personally I don’t think he’s keen on having his relationship plastered all over the Internet, and like he’s over the cost of videos he’s over the cost of her talking about the relationship, and on top of that she doesn’t seem to know when to keep certain things private, because what it is the little” we didn’t start dating until I was 18 because he met her when she was” hey seems to me he has built-up resentment for stopping his own career and then on top of that it seems like they start a relationship because she wanted a relationship and it seems like he just wanted to give her a chance and it seem like a he just felt like it didn’t work out, but I never thought about actually breaking up with her because being someone for six years and giving up your own career to help them out in their career in their dreams, he does put a little stop financial wise, even though I think he should be breaking up with her regardless just because he doesn’t seem like he’s happy and if he doesn’t feel happy in love with her then yeah he should be able to move on but I feel like she is the same for her, but it seems like she’s constantly trying to prove herself, but everybody else that this relationship works out and that she’s so happy and she’s overcompensating so much in a relationship. If she doesn’t even realize it or she does, and just continues to do it because she wants to stay with him so badly and I and there’s nothing cute about telling everyone on the Internet about your business, especially business does quite predatory. It makes him seem predatory as well because he doesn’t seem like he likes her. He doesn’t seem like he’s that interested in her at all if he was like a predator, I feel like he will still be into her 11 oh her, and like coming up with excuses it doesn’t seem like he cares to come up with excuses anymore like he says he loves her and then leave it at that. Even the last video is kind of just messed up
How do you say the last video is messed up simply because of the fact that he says all he has to say, and then basically let everybody know that this is her idea I didn’t really seem like this was his idea. He didn’t seem like he wanted to do this without her. It seem like she put him up to. It probably begged him and got on his nerves about coming out and saying all this stuff, and then was there behind a camera, basically mouthing certain things that she want him to say to validate her side of the conversation and her side of the relationship into once again compensate and it’s just weird because it doesn’t seem like he cares if everybody thinks they’re right for each other or if he loves her and likes her and wants to marry her because I think he’ll he’s him himself knows that he doesn’t want a relationship with her like I don’t think he knows he doesn’t wanna relationship with her. I think he knows he wants to break up with her at some point which is why he initially said we will be together for a while not forever before a while, and then change it was she basically probably’s mouth forever to him to for him to say that because yeah he just at the end of the video is that how do I turn this off like he’s like he was just like how do I turn this off and just very uninterested and very much not a social media guy like he doesn’t look like he’s a social media guy I don’t think he really like out there for it and that and then a social media person has to do with the whether that some a persons into or not a Lotta dues aren’t very much social media present to be completely honest and he seems like one of those dudes that genuinely don’t give a crap about social media, but she dies in like the stuff that they do. He just seems very uninterested. He doesn’t look like he’s having fun. He’s just like I don’t wanna do this and that’s just about it like he looks like he’s just a guy who wants to chill maybe go fission maybe go on car rides with his girlfriend and just have a chill day after day that’s it he seems like one of those guys he doesn’t seem like the type of guy that’s going to dance in a video. Do you wanna outfit of the day with his girlfriend? He doesn’t seem like the type of guy that’s like overly like excited to be on social media all day every day especially when it comes to his relationship he seems like he just wants a SZA privacy and it seems like he just wants to say self call Ms. within relationship and she doesn’t offer any of that to him at the end of that he’s like constantly like literally just zoning out the entire time, and all the videos especially when she asks him like what’s your it about me he just pauses for so long and doesn’t even answer the question like his sister for a while and never answers the questions about the Eric, which is hard to believe that he has no it’s about her because at the end the day everybody can say they have an egg about the person they love whether or not it’s it is some of these people go and people continually say hey I got over it they still do it still bothers me but I can get over it because that person is down for a reason that’s what makes them them wouldn’t have it any other way. I’ll take this over this any day to be clear on the fact that he doesn’t say anything tells me that he has a lot of ex that will probably hurt her feelings and that’s why he does just decided not to say anything, and just say I don’t really have it when he completely does and anybody’s lying when I say they don’t have it about the person they do like or love nothing less
She keeps throwing him under the buss as "it's just a joke", I don't judge anymore because I was in a narcissistic relationship and literally he was the happy energetic one and I was just drained and sucked out of life from all the emoitional abuse, also I'm the one who was judged constantly as "grumpy" or "you're the problem", he was normal infront of peaple and extra energetic
That part...
Oof I felt that to the core 🙃
At 6:30 she sounded way too chirpy when she said “so many of you hate my boyfriend” but when she said “it hurts my heart” it sounded so unauthentic.
Yeah that kind of people also exist but I don't think in their relationship anyone is toxic. It's just that they both have the opposite personality. She is bubbly, extroverted and straightforward whereas her bf is introverted, and is just not very expressive. Both understand each other and love each other. You can see they both express themselves very comfortably to each other.
Crazy! That was outwardly a carbon copy of my last relationship. I went from happy, energetic girl to yes, yes the quiet bitch. He acted completely normal in front of people. Showing me affection and all that cover up bullshit. To being the ugliest human, physical and emotional abuser, I have ever encountered...
Absolutely! Ugh the worst
I checked her insta and they actually got married and are going to be parents 😦
bro being held hostage💀
At gun point aswell
Bro is holding her hostage- " the dogs are in my name so she doesn't go anywhere " like bro thinks like pschopath
He’s a golddigger, he’s just in it for the money
Lmao
I love this man😂😂😂 he's the best friend we all need.
yep i agree
Yea fr
pls at first I thought you were talking about the boyfriend😭😭 I was like WHY
LMAOO i didn’t realize they were talking about rebal until i saw you said this😭😭😭
@@lovrboi oh lol
Naw cus even on camera he doesn't hide his lack of care for her, it says everything
"when I was 14 and you were 18"
GIRL why would you joke about that???
i don’t think it was a joke, maybe a slip up🥴
@@br3880 I don't think anyone would slip up about that, especially coming from the way she said it tho
Didnt she say they met racing? Then she said they met when shes 14 🧐🧐
@@br3880 the way she said seemed very intentional tbh like she was trying to stirr up shit for TikTok to talk about
She needs to stop airing out their dirty laundry to strangers, sticking a camera in his face, & pressuring him into marrying her.
He needs to do both of them a favor and just end the relationship if he’s actually unhappy with it.
i agree.
i love my husband to death, but ima private person and if he stuck a camera in my face and started passive aggressively airing out our business for the entertainment of strangers...yea , I'd have the exact same reaction
She is very, very immature. Seems she may have been stunted emotionally at a young age.
She really needs to learn more about herself, relationships, and how NOT to belittle and embarrass her "boyfriend" in a public space. Very passive aggressive behavior.
Just by her opening with that word is a dig at him, instead of lovingly referring to him by his given name.
It's just super cringe, and nowhere near as endearing, as I'm sure she imagines it to be, in her head. 😖😬
🎯
True. He also seems a bit immature for not communicating openly and telling her when she’s going too far. I don’t really know who’s more in the wrong or of they’re both equally in the wrong
Or maybe coz he was 18 & she was 14 when they met lol
Yeah, he groomed her 🫠
@@marieantoinette1091if her story is true and they started dating when she was 18, then she should at least be acting that age - not like a 13 year old cartoon character at the ripe age of 24. 😂 As for him, if you have any respect for someone at all, you wouldn’t waste their time like this. They’re both insufferable. 😅
"even tho i'm the one racing in nascar, it's still our career"... god hahaha that hurts. he litterally gave up his dream for her omg
Honestly I would be annoyed as fuk too if she was in my face with a camera talking about our personal life to strangers on the internet. Her personality is probably why he's second-guessing on marrying her.
he is her manager, he should be the one running her social media presence to get more sponsorship. he got what he deserves for being a lazy manager and bad bf lmao
@@gostavoadolfos2023 How do you know he is her manager??
She's honestly such a pick me like omgggg ever five seconds she says smth and is then THROWS HERSELF AT THE CAMERA like omg omg I'm just kidding just kidding 🤪🤪🤪
@@lils3610 do u even know what a pick me is ? Or do u just watch the pick me POVs alot?
@@lils3610 I think it's absolutely fcking weird to put all the blame on the woman just bcz she's "annoying" meanwhile a lot of y'all just glossed over the fact that he basically WAITED for her to turn legal before dating her. Everyday y'all prove how much you guys hate women and want them to be the villains so bad.
Imagine making public videos of you making your bf feel bad about something he's not ready for & he's trying to make sure he feels prepared for something serious like marriage while you're trying to guilt trip him out of selfishness
“Tell them we’re happy🔫”😭😂😂
FR😭
I'd become a nun before ever being in a relationship like this lmao
Ikr 🤣
Some nuns still be getting it on the low tho 🤫 lmfao I’m sure it ain’t that bad. Def better than this 😅
I feel for him tbh. Not everyone wants their relationship to be like a reality show 😭
She's like one of those people who acts cute but actually bully others. As if they are the most innocent soul on the planet and are capable of doing nothing wrong. And, the dude...well, I don't know what he's even doing.
So accurate
And she unattractive. Let's be honest.
I agree. I think she's a genuine psycho.
They both suck
Yep cant agree more
Natalie is trying so hard to read the script of the 'Cold boyfriend' troupe
Lol 😂😂 this is a "real" version of grumpy & sunshine 🤣🤣🤣
@@khushboopradhan1707 yup😭😭
@@khushboopradhan1707lmao
Silent introverts and narcisstic extroverts should never be together💀
Why she keeps exposing him like that? Dude clearly doesnt like being on camera, idk if he loves her or not but if she wants us to thinks he does, well she is not acomplishing it
Shes the type of girl that asks all her friends of what she needs to do with her boyfriend
She doesn't need to ask friends, she probably does it with her followers 💀
and then not do it.
I was looking at her tiktok and this couple is so odd.. He obviously doesn't want to be a "tiktok influencer" but she does. If he doesn't want to be in the videos she should just respect that. He's purposely acting like that to show her and the audience that he doesn't want to be part of this yet she still forces him to take part. 🤦🏻♀️
Yup couples with opposite personalities need to have compromise and this ain't it 😳 my sister and her boyfriend are just like this, she just has a little to much girly energy to handle sometimes but it comes from insecurities. I literally had to bully him to just let her take a photo of his face every once in awhile so she could feel good rather than him constantly sticking his hand in the way and hiding his face. He agreed and after a few good photo opportunities she was vastly less determined for a photo with him lol, shes perfectly happy with what she got she just wanted a few cute photos so she could brag in SM. I'm seriously concerned about this couple, looks like there's waaay too much effort on one side and way too much demanding with zero equality. Not sure this relationship is going to end well, I'd be friggin rabid if I lived with someone like that, it's why me and my sister didn't go to college together lol.
I don't think he's forced to stay in the relationship. He should have break up if he didn't like her social media. Personally I would have go away from this relationship a long time ago
This is what happens when a little girl develops a crush on an older guy they end up together and she never actually grows up emotionally 😂 😭
Exactly!! And now he regrets giving into her obsession and giving up his career and tying his entire life and finances to her. This girl needs to develop the self awareness and accountability to LEAVE this guy! Anyone can see that their relationship has gone past its expiration date.
@@winxclubstellamusa exactly I honestly don’t feel bad for either of them 😂
@@samanthasinclair7916 I feel very bad for the boyfriend, you must be a psychopath to not have empathy for how he is being trapped and financially and emotionally abused.
@@winxclubstellamusa you shouldn’t throw that term around and im the farthest thing from a psychopath. I am obviously basing this off a very short video but I don’t see the emotional abuse from this video and he clearly isn’t and hasn’t communicated how he feels which he should. Financially I don’t know how he ended up with so many business with this woman but I’m assuming he did it to keep her quiet in which case that was partly his mistake. He clearly isn’t happy so he should just break up with her
@@samanthasinclair7916 you don’t know what emotional and financial abuse look like, therefore, you have no right to say that they aren’t present here, while they are extremely obvious in this situation. And you exhibit very little to no empathy, which is a psychopathic trait. So if you aren’t like that then learn to show it instead of being happy and pleased at seeing other people get hurt!
I think Natalie is a sadist & she's actually a narcissist..its like she's actually enjoying making him look dumb or belittling him like in that tortilla challenge!..
No he's trashy and wasting her time and using her
I agree he looks pretty bad, giving off resignation and despair. Reminds me of my marriage. Run boy, run
This is every modern woman
@@THOMPSON8787 calm down Jeffery. Stop putting every woman in one category. We have different morals and opinions. Ofc you wouldn't know with your sexist attitude it would be a wonder if you would even be able to say hi to a woman. Get some therapy okie. I'm rooting for you. Hope you get better. 😊
@RoobyRockDoll I didn't put every woman in a category. Sounds like you aren't up to speed on the definition. But if you still want to claim to be a modern woman, that's on you. I personally have a traditional woman I've been with for 2 years. You can be young and still be traditional btw.
When u go to see if they are still together and they got married and are having a kid
At this point I feel sorry for Derek 😭😭 miss ma’am is annoying
Thisss, she's so annoying
HE WAITED TOLL SHE WAS EIGHTEEN TO GET WITH HER, THIS RELATIONSHIP IS FUNDEMANTALLY BUILT ON HIM FALLING IN LOVE WITH A FOURTEEN YEAR OLD OF COURSE SHES GOONG TO BE MORE IMMATURE AND EXCITED THAN HIM HE PROBABLY MAKES HER FEEL MATURE
Derek so boring and uninterested, lol, I know that's the way he is but he is just so...
Yh. She's all like "we should tots get married" and he's like "whatever 🙄"
@@ebonyyleigh Shut up plz. They are already together yelling will do absolutely nothing
Just because it's been 6 years, that doesn't mean he owes you a proposal, if you don't wanna wait that long move on with your life because badgering him about isn't going to make it happen faster.
Exactly, if he wanted to he would’ve probably already done it, there’s nothing to hold him back that’s just the way it usually is with proposing
Own her honesty tho. If he doesn't want to marry her then he should tell her.
i’m getting a feeling that he’s just an introvert, not that he can’t stand her. this seems like an extrovert (rebal) reacting to an introvert (this guy). i would know, because i’ve been like this before. i was so stone-faced that people would be like, “do you hate me or sum”. people like this just don’t show their emotions outwardly, that’s why it’s hard to know what they’re feeling. he also could be shy on camera
All this and then he finally proposes only for her to say no 🤣💀
Wait what did that actually happen? Or was that a joke xD
imagine lmao
That's so hilarious 😂😂😂
Omg that 😭😶
Lmao
If she wants to be engaged so badly why doesn’t she just propose? 🤷♀️
well obviously because he would refuse..
@@nimnim4467was just going to say the same thing lol
Fr tho
God know, I get the feeling he’d feel obliged to say yes and ruin his life!
@@user-mAfuNqrSe020x some women like to be traditional and would prefer the man to propose there's nothing wrong with that . But I agree with you at this point if she wants it so bad she should propose but he would probably refuse she should just leave him
the scream i scrumpt when she said "when you first met me when i was 14 and you were 18?" BROTHER EW
The awkwardness is killing me
Fr 😭
Rebal. I’ve been watching you for AGES AND for the first time in my entire life, I had a boyfriend for Valentines Day!
Istg bro. This boy got my heart.
happy for u!!
Congratulations bestie ❤️
Go bestie!🥳♥️
🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌💗💗💗
ME TOO OMG
Flat affect is a severely restricted or nonexistent expression of emotion. A person with flat affect does not express emotion the way other people do.
Maybe this. Not everyone emotes the same. The fact that he keeps showing up and trying and is consistent with his emotion maybe he genuinely just doesn't emote like other people. We aren't all built the same.
Edit: and maybe she is overcompensating bc she knows how it looks to everyone else, having that many people come at you can make a person defensive w/ or w/out a possibly disinterested bf.
No I cannot feel for her. Being with someone for many years does not necessarily mean that that should lead to marriage. Putting pressure on your “significant other“ about such a serious matter and exposing them like that to thousands of people can only lead to a distance between them. Marriage should be discussed and agreed by both the individuals and there should be respect if the one of them doesn’t feel ready to have such a serious commitment at that age, that’s what a person that loves their mate does at least. What I see here is a girl that wants to get married so much that she doesn’t take into account the feelings of her boyfriend or the situation they might be in right now. She should learn boundaries and respect before she decides to start a family with someone.
If a woman wants to get married and have children she can't wait around forever for her partner to decide he's ready to get married. Women only have so many fertile years. That's just a fact. But I wouldn't be with a man I had to harass into proposing. I would leave him if he was lukewarm about proposing after 6 years. I would want a man who was excited about marrying me. Fortunately that's what I have.
@@cuculain78and that’s her problem, she’s waiting on him, and pushing him in marriage 24/7 it’s honestly annoying and draining and I’m not even in that relationship, she can break up with him and find someone who wants the same thing as her but she chose to stay with him therefore she’s gonna have to deal with not having kids or being married
I agreed she shouldn’t expose him like that, and he’s not obligated to propose to her. But, if it’s been 6 years and the guy is still dragging his feet, why would she still want to be with him? There are plenty of men out there who want to get married and would appreciate a bubbly personality like her’s. The attitude of this guy towards his girl is a huge red flag-often is indicative of a partner who’s cheating/considering cheating.
Actually being together that long should lead to something at that point. So he can start businesses with her, share houses, have sex with her, share money etc but marriage is such a serious commitment & big deal that she shouldn't get suspicious or question it? They just about did everything else lol. And that's probably why he doesnt feel the need to propose. I don't think women realize already "feeling married" isnt always a good thing, its probably why he doesn't feel the need to marry her he's getting & doing everything with her already.
I dont feel bad for her though because people, especially women need to raise their standards on what they accept and what boundaries they have in relationships. Like he doesnt even seem to like her.
I'd be mad pissed about my partner hounding me for something I might not want/believe in, especially if they were recording it and being so passive aggressive about it/laughing at me about it. I feel for him.
Then he should say I don’t want to get married don’t waste everyone’s time
@@JeremyScott459 It's not that black and white, lmao. He might want to get married but doesn't want to be hounded for it constantly, especially when there's a phone in his face recording him while he's being mocked about it.
@@Nyanpyr 6 years into a relationship it’s not hounding anymore either shit or get off the pot
@@JeremyScott459 ?? Relationships are different for different people, you're ready when you're ready. You're a problem if you think that black and white about these things.
I'm not gonna bother responding after this, you're either super sheltered or you're like 50. Cya
I dont think she knows how he jokes around
People be telling about their relationship all over internet and have the audacity to say "it's none of your business"
she honestly seems obnoxious af
the only reason why he's still with her was cause he sacrificed his career for her to get a career
now shes the one bringing in the money in the relationship so he's forced to be with her + she seems like she really likes him so maybe he doesn't want to hurt her and THE MONEY...
Obnoxious is too extreme. She just seems annoying
it's sad for them both, I think he needs a break to figure out what he should do for his life and maybe to realize how much important his girl to him. many people leave their partner only to realize later how much important that person is. my friend broke up with his girl in a horrible way after 6 years of dating and even after 2 years, he still not over her and had a mental break down lately when he heard that she is moving to the UK with her British new bf who only dated her for less than a year!
She does seem immature but she looks genuinely into him , if that amount of interest is absent in the other party , it's better to break up and do something about yourself instead of leading them on and making them sick of you slowly .
She’s both obnoxious and annoying
Same Psychopath, I love how you tried to be nice but kept going back to “THE MONEY”😂😂😂😂
11:31 the fkn balloon filter and then the bones cracking sound effect killed me, love the random filters and sound effects
I died at the neck cracking sound pls 😭
14:50” for a while”💀😭
FOR A WHILE IS CRAZYYYY
I feel like she's toxic
Like he did loved her at first and left his job for her then he just regreted it and can't leave her because of the company
Or he is. She seems like she's overly defending him. She's using her enthusiasm as a cover.
She was 14 when he was 18 we know he was toxic and being friends with her till she was an adult makes it worse that is the definition of grooming. I think he liked her until he couldn’t manipulate her as much. She got too old.
And she’s not too much he’s too little. Being excited isn’t a bad thing and I don’t think she meant to make him look stupid because she also looks stupid they both look really stupid.
I have a very similar amount of enthusiasm to my partner, like we're both generally really chill but also get excited about some things. Luckily neither one of us are the type to post our relationship on tiktok, that would be EXHAUSTINGGG
If he met her when she was 14 and he was 18 and then waited till she was 18 now she’s 20 how are they dating for 6 years the math ain’t mathing🤨
omg I didn’t even realize that 💀
She’s 25, not 20
@@lnb4664 where does it say that
@@sinnclair5014 I googled it
Cuz she obviously lied for views
Is nobody gonna talk abt how she moved her tongue after she said she was 14 and he was 18 💀
Jus noticed lmao
She low key gross and a creep
Why tf was he at 18 seeking out a 14 yr old...🫠
Yeah wtf was that 🤢🤮
@@gamingbypixshe only said they met when he was 18 and she was 14. It might have been like... for two seconds and then they didnt get to know each other until she was 18
11:48 aren’t you talking to a camera 😂
Girl just aired out his dirty laundry 😂
I would be so mad like why you didn’t have to say that but you did it anyways the main question is just- why? Who asked? 😂
@@Raphaeltheslayer Exactly 😂
Someone needs to save Derrick 😥😥😥
agreed 100%
I am afraid he would regret it later, after being the first and only man in a life of a girl for 6 years, he would be trapped to take her for granted. and she has the money so she is staying bc she truly loves him and that's very very hard to find. he is also a bad manager bc he should be the one running her social media.
😂😂😂😂
@@gostavoadolfos2023 👺👹um
This was so EXHAUSTING to watch! 😂😂😂😭😭
He's my spirit animal. You can tell he hates being a chicken in her farm. He's probably so tired of her pulling her phone out to record when he literally just wants to live 😂 this is me not understanding why everything has to be recorded and put on this internet.
Omg totally, I don’t understand why people are bringing hate on Derek
Like he just wants to spend his life normally and chill without being constantly nagged about “proposed” or “the fact that he left his job for her”
She seems like she bugs him about marriage every single day…He probably gets annoyed with her at times 😅
"at times"?😭
people ask me: how do u know if u already watched a video from Rebal
me: every video I watched from him I liked
7:38 "you are my one and only" 🤖 beep boop*
so i met Natalie when she was a guest speaker at a camp for kids and teens with arthritis (Natalie has arthritis as well and i guess she’s an ambassador for the Arthritis Foundation. i’m a youth ambassador and had honestly never heard of her beforehand-) and she was very high energy and into herself, but in like a “me, me, me” way and not in a “I’m confident” way. idk she may be dealing with some insecurities and that’s why she keeps bugging her bf about marriage
This is awful...she is too much. She is coming off as desperate and for any person, be it a man or woman, that is so off putting and must be a huge turn off for him. It shows that her life revolves too much around him, rather than her embracing an identity of her own. Pathetic, to be honest. Btw, I'm a heterosexual female and some months back, I dealt with a clingy male who was like this, and couldn't see the point in doing anything for himself, and I had to walk away as I made a point that I didn't want a relationship with him but he wouldn't leave it alone and listen to what I was saying. It was too much, and as time moved forward as "friends" because he decided he didn't want a relationship with any woman all of a sudden, but told me that all his online friends that he communicated with through forums had said they thought he was in love with me and that I was behaving a certain way, for reasons that I wasn't - because they clearly spent too much time online instead of spending time in person, with an actual woman, I got to the point where I couldn't be bothered to deal with it anymore. He just became irritating, and tried manipulating, making the mistake that I would care about his attempted game-playing. I realised how passive-agressive he actually was and thought "no thanks...Byyeeeee" It was suffocating and I picked up on it very quickly and blocked him and physically removed myself from his life. He even started blaming me for everything that had gone wrong with the opposite sex in his life too, which I thought was a bit weird, bearing in mind, I hadn't known him for long! He kept going on about what he wanted although I wasn't interested at that point - AT ALL - in even knowing him in a friendship/acquaintance capacity. Oh, and trying to buy someone can be a huge turn off too. He tried to get presents for me that I didn't want, so I made it clear I didn't want and did not accept them or the offer of them. Enjoying having and embracing your own identity and valuing yourself and working on yourself is SO important BEFORE anything else, and it's also more ATTRACTIVE.
idk about what's between them but personally I feel like I'd feel drained around her too. Dereck (?) looks so done lmao
7:52 y'know that moment when you're in public making small talk, then someone says something and you just turn to your friend and make eye contact like "wtf did we just hear???" ? That's what's happening in this moment.
I don't believe for a second you have always been single.
18:57 My only ick about you Rebal is that you stopped calling us "besties" 🥺🤧
And Patricia 💅
For reallllll
Her enthusiasm is overwhelming, his is non existing. I think that's a good balance.
Still, their dynamic kinda rubs me the wrong way, but I'm just a single pringle, so I think its time for me to make some single person hommmade pizza.
Fr, I have never seen this dynamic in my life. Their personality gap is too much. He's so boring, which I can kind of excuse because he was definitely dragged into all this, and she's a pick-me girl. Also the fact that he waited for her to turn 18 is messed up. Normally I'd let people live but what the hell is this mess 😟
Wow being a single Pringle for so long has really distorted your vision of what a good couple is suppose to look like. These people are the exact opposite of what makes a good couple.
@@moon_0207 my comment was more or less sarcastic
Dude NO. I dated someone for far tooo long than i should have. He had the same energy this dude has...turns out he was a cheater, abuser (mentally, emotionally,and physically) ... narcissistic SOCIOPATH....OR PSYCHOPATH.
My face stays the same whether I’m mad, sad, happy. Sir, that’s what sociopathy causes
The way he makes us feel special in literally all his intros >>
i’m getting abusive vibes and it’s not coming from him.
Not every bad relationship is abusive
This didn't feel abusive. He doesn't seem afraid of her at all. He is openly acting like he is done with her.
He was 18 and she was 14.
@@Luna_Anonymousexactly, he's contemptuous
@@hayley179gabuse isn't always yelling. It's more insidious and subtle. Tell him bye 👋
He says in his response video of the person saying he’s miserable “I am happy, I love Natalie, and we will continue to be together for AWHILE” my man literally said AWHILE instead of just “we will be together” OR “we will be together for ever” 🥴 that says a lot on its own, ya know? Yikes 😬 😂
As an older person.. 35.. who has been married before and divorced and now I’ve been dating my bf for 6 1/2 years (mutual decision to wait 10 years), I feel a bit different about this situation. I feel like this guy genuinely loves this girl but he probably gets pressured a lot. We don’t know what goes on behind closed doors. We don’t know what is going on in this guys life right now either. I don’t think men should be pressured into marrying someone. Just as women shouldn’t be pressured. If she doesn’t approve of him taking his time, don’t be passive aggressive about the situation… honey, MOVE ON!!! Life is too short and there are other men out there who would purpose in a year lol That’s just my opinion though. She still seems to have a teenagers mindset (again, just my opinion and there’s nothing wrong with that..) but maybe he’s waiting for her to grow up a little bit. I feel sorry for both of them tbh.
"I am happy
I love Natalie
We will be together for
a while"😂
Natalie silently mouths TF?!
CORRECTION-"Forever"
😂
I think he just wants privacy. He seems really uncomfortable talking about his private life on social media like that and I get it. And for the proposal, he has the right not to want to commit right away. They are already living as a married couple, if they get married it could end in divorce
Her boyfriend looks like a character from the episode app💀💀💀 he even emotes like one-😭
bruh they have more emotions them him 😭😭
in 14:40 my brother is held on gun point🔫💀🤣🤣
The way I GAGGED when she said "when u met me when I was 14 and u were 18" LORD. she just had to put that in there
Why’s that a problem that she put that out there? It’s a damn good thing she did
@@user-mAfuNqrSe020x That’s disgusting, why tf would she joke like that? Like that’s horrible slander, that’s unbelievable
@@miabarton3623 it's the fact that she's saying it like it's a good thing