11 Signs You're A SIGMA Male - Are You The RAREST Type Of Guy? SPOT THESE RARE TRAITS!

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  • In today's video we're going to be discussing 11 signs you're a sigma male - the rarest type of man. But what is a sigma male? How do they differ from an alpha male? And what really makes this type of guy such a rare find? We'll be looking at some of the sigma male traits from their personality to the way they live their life.
    If you saw our alpha male video you probably nodded your head and thought "hmmm I can relate but something's kind of missing". Then maybe it's because you're a sigma male instead. And that isn't to say you are below or above the alpha male because we can treat both of these dudes as individuals but kind of similar in some aspects.
    But most importantly you have to understand that the sigma male does not actually fit in at all. He isn't the type of guy who has this urge to be his own boss. And he doesn't really feel any sense of accomplishment if he knows that people are following in his footsteps.
    You literally could be described as someone that loves their own freedom and really doesn't care for any validation from anyone else. But possibly the most easiest way to describe a sigma male is the quote "you feel like a lone wolf"
    #Joyanima #Sigma #Sigmamale #Alpha #Confidence #Relationships
    *Contents of video*
    0:00 Intro
    1:01 What does a sigma male look like?
    1:38 You only seek fulfilling romantic relationships
    2:54 You are very mysterious
    3:28 You take your time to think
    4:34 You get along with all types of people
    5:03 You don't like to conform
    5:49 You don't mind being alone a lot of the time
    6:24 You are very laid back with change
    7:10 You are the master of your lifestyle
    7:47 You enjoy risky hobbies
    8:25 Your social skills are lacking
    9:44 You know what you like & don't like
    What did you think of today's video? Do you consider yourself a sigma male, alpha male or beta male? What other rare sigma male signs do you know of? I'd love to hear your thought on this subject so comment below and let me know! I do try to respond to as many as I can :)
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  • @raymondlamirand2597
    @raymondlamirand2597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +757

    Started my own "Sigma Male" club a few weeks ago and our first official meeting was last night. Nobody showed. Fuck'em. I had a great time.

    • @BLITZY261
      @BLITZY261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I was there..you just didn't know.
      Then, just like that..I was gone.

    • @gunner0182fps
      @gunner0182fps 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      You do not talk about Sigma male club

    • @maximuscomfort
      @maximuscomfort 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sigma male is on the grind and needs no help. He targets for fun and games and never wastes his time on earth

    • @stevezilla68
      @stevezilla68 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I'm a loner, Dottie. A rebel.

    • @jag7441
      @jag7441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@maximuscomfort I waste time..Because i want to..

  • @jdm1066
    @jdm1066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +584

    “Do you ever feel lonely?”
    Only around other people.

    • @thebluedan
      @thebluedan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Top, for the thin red line.

    • @jdm1066
      @jdm1066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thebluedan Nice catch man.

    • @Omenshaper
      @Omenshaper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Deep... woah...

    • @johncap7201
      @johncap7201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Combine these styles, looks, and movements in their prime, Luke Perry, Stallone..Stinga all the way, cause you can be broody and sad, but yet draw people in with your eyes. Alphas can impress all they want and even try to make you look bad. Women see a mysterious cute guy not drooling over them, that's what they want. If stigma learns that and truly never shows their cards despite how much they fall for someone they can stay in charge the entire time. The problem is most stigmas are loyal, and some women, once they discover you are great at heart walk over them until they become dark mysterious and meet other girls. Then it's a tennis match, best never show your feelings.

    • @RacerX888
      @RacerX888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Absolutely, the more people, the more I want to leave the room.

  • @cayton9837
    @cayton9837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    Not a single “sigma” male has ever tried to convince himself or anyone else what type of “male” he is.

    • @STMARTIN009
      @STMARTIN009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Exactly. If someone has to go on TH-cam to proclaim they are Alpha they usually are not and are likely just trying to get paid through subscribers.

    • @vijayva
      @vijayva 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's a revelation that this category of Sigma Male exists.

    • @johnthebaptist9795
      @johnthebaptist9795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sigma male do sigma male stuff, wannabes ( beta) watch a video and copy the information, because they are wannabes( beta)

    • @chrisadair7760
      @chrisadair7760 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It’s interesting to me to see maybe a little of why I am the way that I am.... not trying to “convince” myself of anything but I’ve always been an “outsider” within my own family and friend groups. Would drive my friends crazy when I was growing up cause they were all going somewhere.... where I didn’t want to go and I’d just say “aight cool..... I’ll catch y’all later” and go do what I was that I wanted to do all by myself and be perfectly fine with that. Also explains to me why the “alpha” males that would run in my circles always bumped heads with me..... cause I didn’t give a fuck what they said or what they did and I wasn’t going to follow what it was they wanted simply because they wanted it..... cause fuck em..... but going back to the original point..... I just find these videos interesting to help explain to me a little of why I am the way that I am.

    • @johnthebaptist9795
      @johnthebaptist9795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@chrisadair7760 sigma males are not outsider. Sigma male traits are a wanted trait and can compete. A sigma male chooses to or chooses not to compete.
      When a sigma male chooses to join a group setting. People gravitate towards him. When he leaves people wonder why left. Outsider are forced out.

  • @Paco_Avila27
    @Paco_Avila27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    Sigma male is that one lone kid in school that big bullies don't want to mess with cause he'll fight back.

    • @prodijay1211
      @prodijay1211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      That was me

    • @TheDHM3007
      @TheDHM3007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Haha me, I was definitely the small kid throughout elementary/middle/high school but never experienced any bullies. A few tried in middle school but those got shut down pretty quick.

    • @BLITZY261
      @BLITZY261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ...and tear them to pieces..which is why you walk away.

    • @Joe.Ninety
      @Joe.Ninety 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I was the lonely kid that nobody played with. I was bullied all through school from 4-13yo because I was the youngest, smallest and weakest but smartest; easy pickings for the bullies. I had no help from the school. Back then the teachers would tell me that I need to learn to fight and stand up for myself and an occasional beating would toughen me up. Except that Mom, a churchgoer, would teach me to turn the other cheek and Father was never around, which is why I usually had a bloody nose most weeks.

    • @kylekenan2321
      @kylekenan2321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Whenever I stood up for myself I'd get in trouble from the bullies switching the story around.

  • @weirdshibainu
    @weirdshibainu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +366

    Yep. I'm a sigma male. Had zero anxiety about the pandemic in 2020, especially the lockdowns. I spend 99 percent of my time alone....but never lonely.

    • @eddiOrtiz
      @eddiOrtiz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ++

    • @FrostedSeagull
      @FrostedSeagull 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ditto 👍

    • @pozytronowyedek1958
      @pozytronowyedek1958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah best year of my life, but it starts gets boring now.

    • @floyjoy
      @floyjoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That is me too. I don't care to do what other people are doing or follow a trend or fad.

    • @moorishg
      @moorishg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen brother! The pandemic was comforting

  • @stusavoy5424
    @stusavoy5424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +412

    it's NOT loneliness.....it's loving being alone,

    • @BLITZY261
      @BLITZY261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Writer's...sigma
      ....period.

    • @mandela3664
      @mandela3664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They want understand 😀

    • @michaelm.3510
      @michaelm.3510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So the truth.well in words indeed.🕵

    • @YouDontKnowMebro69
      @YouDontKnowMebro69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      We value our alone time and we choose to be alone during that time

    • @BreezeeGreenz
      @BreezeeGreenz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's loving yourself.

  • @DamnItHeadJedi
    @DamnItHeadJedi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    “Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken.” - Oscar Wilde

  • @TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial
    @TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    The sigma male doesnt give a damn.
    We just love to live life on our own terms🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @troyscorner803
      @troyscorner803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And we know that we are the ultimate reality and don’t need anyone else to make us feel anything because it’s all within ❤️🧠🧠

    • @TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial
      @TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@troyscorner803 I can respect that also. The journey of life is a 1 person game in which you meet many people. It's always nice to have someone manifested to walk the journey with. I dont fancy me cutting that side of myself off lol
      Preciate the reply.

    • @troyscorner803
      @troyscorner803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial yesir

    • @feuerschlange6374
      @feuerschlange6374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sadyl we cannot give a damn about everything, because boundries exist, which we cannot change (law and existing structures like school)
      The big question is always can i ignore that boundry.

    • @TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial
      @TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@feuerschlange6374 you can do anyrhing you want... if you really want to do it🤔

  • @artkitectbeats1622
    @artkitectbeats1622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    An Alpha walks into the room and wants nothing more than to take control of the room.
    A Beta walks into the room and wants nothing more than to do what everyone else in the room is doing.
    A Sigma walks into the room and says, "pssht FUCK this room".

    • @dayooperedtroll2208
      @dayooperedtroll2208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fuck yeah!

    • @rupert1124
      @rupert1124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey man. you made me laugh - well said, I think it's great to know that I finally have a niche in the world.

    • @5ddrones568
      @5ddrones568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg! Thats the best thing I heard all year. I have to remember that. 🤣 fuck yeah

    • @BIGkeys219
      @BIGkeys219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Correction. Alpha males feel THE NEED TO TAKE CONTROL to feed their ego. Beta males FEEL THE NEED TO FEED SOMEONE ELSES EGO. Sigma males could give a fuck either way!

    • @chriskolbeck3718
      @chriskolbeck3718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

  • @PAIP_Studio
    @PAIP_Studio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    Alpha is the King and the heads of the noble families of the kingdom.
    Betta are the Knights, servants and subjects of the kingdom.
    Sigma Is the Wizard in his tower, that nobody dares to disturb him for the fear of death that he represents.

  • @akaboo69
    @akaboo69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I love solitude or one on one and living alone is incredibly peaceful

    • @arphaksad01
      @arphaksad01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes. I like getting up early in the morning and be by myself but my dogs won't let me but at least the wife is sleeping.

  • @60042
    @60042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Charles Bukowski: "I don't hate people....I just feel better when their not around".

    • @Jawsjawsjawsrg
      @Jawsjawsjawsrg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I almost fully agree with this, I do want to be around some every now and again, then I want to be alone again.

    • @thechest77
      @thechest77 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      One of my favorite Sigma's for sure.

    • @williamreif5609
      @williamreif5609 ปีที่แล้ว

      😆 LOL so true.

  • @guardmanonduty5139
    @guardmanonduty5139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Sigma male here, I have no social media, I only have 2 friends, but I legitimately trust them with my life. I love my peaceful solitude and being in nature. I love hiking, dangerous game hunting and overlanding. I am passionate about serving Christ and he is the only ruler over me. I never even knew until i watched this that there was a demographic of men similar to me that felt like they never fit into the mainstream categories. Pretty cool to find that out.

    • @quesivad2453
      @quesivad2453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Please to meet you my sigma brother in Christ, He is the only ruler! 🙏

    • @bahaatamer1245
      @bahaatamer1245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A real sigma won't even watch this video, trust me! 😂

    • @neversayneveragain3748
      @neversayneveragain3748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True sigma doesn't even think that he is sigma... not writing here that he claims he is

    • @ianpaulcastillo7328
      @ianpaulcastillo7328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      JESUS CHRIST IS OUR KING AND SAVIOUR! 💞

    • @davidcruz5283
      @davidcruz5283 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sigmas be funny as hell!

  • @Ty-lz3iz
    @Ty-lz3iz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Completely overthinking this.
    And I love how it’s the rarest type of man but in the comments everybody is relating to it 😂

    • @wick3109
      @wick3109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      All beta males consider themselves sigmas😂😂

    • @UltraCasualPenguin
      @UltraCasualPenguin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Few percent of world population is still very large number.

    • @Ty-lz3iz
      @Ty-lz3iz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@UltraCasualPenguin Either that or this is all made up to make betas feel better about themselves.

    • @UltraCasualPenguin
      @UltraCasualPenguin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Ty-lz3iz Sounds like you have never met one of us. If you start showing any signs of dominance we disappear because we're not followers. Same goes for needy and clingy women because like mentioned in video our "me time" is very important to us.

    • @Ty-lz3iz
      @Ty-lz3iz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@UltraCasualPenguin one of us. 😂
      Some of you people have been watching way too many TH-cam videos and need to get out and live your own lives.

  • @natureview2891
    @natureview2891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Oh my Lord. I came across "SIGMA Male" phrase just yesterday. After watching a number of videos describing SIGMA male, everything said fits me like a glove. After 60+ years, I now understand why I always felt so odd and different than others. It is like finding closure to a major life event. Cheers ...

    • @boba3026
      @boba3026 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Do the mbti test if want more about your self

    • @kyote1r77
      @kyote1r77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      From 1 sigma to another - "Cheers Fuck-o" 🍻

    • @kevinoutdoors4861
      @kevinoutdoors4861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i am 58 same thing

    • @antonioskarasulas7604
      @antonioskarasulas7604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did not know there was a thing called Sigma Male. Alpha and Beta males are well known, and self evident - I know classic examples of both. While 'categories' are not critical to self growth it does help to identify core characteristics of personality that can be objectively identified as a set.

    • @matthewhansen1610
      @matthewhansen1610 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@automaticninjaassaultcat3703 that’s inaccurate

  • @klankie1
    @klankie1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    A sigma will go left where the group is going right.
    A sigma will follow his passion with perseverance
    A sigma will master something
    A sigma is much more selective
    Never try to dominate or manipulate a sigma
    Alpha's get the girls, Sigma's will get the money but won't show it

    • @johncap7201
      @johncap7201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Sigma gets the girl, behind the Alpha's back, the more negative and depressed a person is, they can play off as mysterious and dark and get noticed more and get to take a girl from the overwhelming "Alpha" male who thinks he this and that and better than a quiet stigma. They get the compliments and are the ones nobody can figure out. And they often have many reputations, which one is the real one, only the person truly knows.

    • @pozytronowyedek1958
      @pozytronowyedek1958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nope. I'll go right, because left is wrong.

    • @hi5_centipedes874
      @hi5_centipedes874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Sigmas still get the girls but don't care if they don't.

    • @ThatShitGood
      @ThatShitGood 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me who acted like a simp and an straight sigma at the different eras of my life : 👁️👄👁️

    • @dustovshio
      @dustovshio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@johncap7201 no sigmas don't get girls. only in the movies. alphas get the girls period. sigmas goal in life is to achieve enlightenment and at that is an end in itself. The alpha's goal in life is to get girls.

  • @sc3639
    @sc3639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    My whole life I have always wondered if there was something wrong with me. I do not follow or conform or change myself of my beliefs. I do not care what everyone else is doing. I do what I believe is right. I do not chit chat. My whole life I have been told to conform. The world tries to condition young people to fall in line and be like everyone else. I will not conform. I am one of a kind. I am Me and I would not have it any other way.

    • @BLITZY261
      @BLITZY261 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cool.

    • @rexdrabble4988
      @rexdrabble4988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You have always KNOWN of things others do not.
      To you,the truth is in plain site,its a hell of a thing
      to question even your own sanity because you FEEL
      different.
      Dont sweat it,Make it work for you.
      Use your ability of non attatchment to see from all angles.
      Not many are self contained as you are.

    • @leon33655
      @leon33655 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      FACTS

    • @wbien6994
      @wbien6994 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had my butt whipped
      for not conforming to my parents will.

    • @byrdmaniacsg2776
      @byrdmaniacsg2776 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep, me too.

  • @ericport5194
    @ericport5194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’ve just recently heard of “sigma male” and it describes me exactly! People I’ve been telling me for years that it’s odd that I travel all over the United States and Canada by motorcycle alone, and go on vacation the other countries by myself. I would walk away by myself and laugh knowing they were just jealous and envious. Even though I never wanted one I finally have a label

  • @GoUtes92
    @GoUtes92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I think this describes me fairly well. The “taking time to think” part is especially true. I wouldn’t say that I have a lot of risky hobbies but I’m not exactly intimidated by danger. In fact, the older I get, the more I feel like safety is somewhat of an illusion.

    • @badsiknius4862
      @badsiknius4862 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, you keep telling yourself that.

    • @flemit35
      @flemit35 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      you take time to think because you think slow.

    • @andersnielsen6044
      @andersnielsen6044 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah. It is what you hope you are. In reality you are just another immature and insecure lille guy, who need to sit on the internet and brag about being a Sigma, tho' a true Sigma would never ever do that !!!

    • @ljones5598
      @ljones5598 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@flemit35 better to think slow than not at all

    • @flemit35
      @flemit35 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ljones5598 depends how quick the bus is going

  • @MorningStar-nd3yg
    @MorningStar-nd3yg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Sounds like me. I am quiet, reserved, follow my own lead, a bit rebellious, seek fulfilling relationships, a deep thinker, lowkey confident, and I can get along with many different types of people.

    • @kellyredds7292
      @kellyredds7292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dude. You are a freak and a pirate 😂😂😂

    • @MorningStar-nd3yg
      @MorningStar-nd3yg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kellyredds7292 bro why are you self projecting?

    • @kellyredds7292
      @kellyredds7292 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds more like you dude.

    • @MorningStar-nd3yg
      @MorningStar-nd3yg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kellyredds7292 Right like I'm going to validate some stranger on the internet. Weirdo

    • @kellyredds7292
      @kellyredds7292 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha. Sigma right there.

  • @thesulaimanstalks1136
    @thesulaimanstalks1136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    If you want to be a writer, write.
    If you want to be a speaker, speak.
    If you want to be a leader, lead.
    If you want to be a learner, teach.
    If you want to be fit, move.
    If you want to be relevant, add value.
    If you want to be happy, be yourself.
    If you want to be trusted, trust.

  • @silentalliance3269
    @silentalliance3269 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your explanation of sigma males is spot on Anna !! unlike so many other videos that get it half correct …. The sigma really doesn’t care what people think! We don’t care about being part of any social group & our thoughts run much deeper which is why we never get lonely because we don’t lack the “inner recourses of the mind” to keep ourselves needing other people to entertain us.we’re always thinking of how to improve … 😊

  • @wordtothewise1735
    @wordtothewise1735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The whole point of a sigma male was to remain behind the shadow but somehow we became seen, oh no! Oh no!

    • @jkingjay9545
      @jkingjay9545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol big facts

    • @chants2509
      @chants2509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      People become scared when they don't understand. So they try to define us.

    • @jessielemus6457
      @jessielemus6457 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats a good point, look at the Mafia and the Elites, they where meant to always be moving in secret but they have to be in contact with other character types like Alphas that are in the public eye such as
      Presidents of countries and Police and those tend to talk too much and reveal the Elites and Mafias secret works.
      But you don't have to tell anyone shit you can literally make millions online and say nothing and be Anonymous

  • @schlandower
    @schlandower 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow, such a simple, yet soooo accurate description. Thank you. 😃

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're very welcome!

  • @marctalwar267
    @marctalwar267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm a loner,live by myself,only have 2 friends, can stay in my own company and doesn't bother me,,I don't want to be around humans,I'm an enigma, I trust my own thoughts,I don't follow public opinion, I like being a loner

    • @pauldapprich169
      @pauldapprich169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      An enigma male. I think I will.steal that. See if people can figure you out.

    • @marctalwar267
      @marctalwar267 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pauldapprich169 ❤

    • @Scuffed_Andy
      @Scuffed_Andy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah that's me but I assumed it's because I have Asperger's. :-)

  • @mikequesada6559
    @mikequesada6559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this video! Definitely describe me. Thanks Anna!

  • @kumarsankarra3372
    @kumarsankarra3372 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Joyanima, lovely precise description, thanks a lot for this illumining talk...

  • @thorzyan
    @thorzyan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I've known I was a sigma for a few months now, glad it's gaining more acceptance into the common vernacular. Keep up the great work, thanks for all you do.

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks, you too! Commenting and interacting helps so much 😊

    • @thorzyan
      @thorzyan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joyanima it surely does👑👍

  • @renemayrbass
    @renemayrbass 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Crazy how perfectly you described me ... like you’d knew for for a 100 years ... thanks

  • @bsraeder
    @bsraeder 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is mostly me. I love watching your videos, Anna. Keep up the good work!

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much :D

  • @aquabonnfire
    @aquabonnfire 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    social skills ?
    My woman - you are scary accurate in those descriptions of certain type of male.
    I applaud you for being so spot on.
    Bravo, indeed!

  • @Felix-nr5ux
    @Felix-nr5ux 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Thank you so much Anna. you made me understand myself a lot better. I had some friends tell me that I am a little crazy because of the way of think. I love loneliness and really do not care what others think of me. perhaps, it is something I had been born with it. I could not understand it until now.. Thank you again Anna

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You're welcome! I'm glad to hear you've found the video helpful 😊

    • @renemayrbass
      @renemayrbass 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hear you ...

    • @mikeg6814
      @mikeg6814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "...do not care what others think of me..." yup.

    • @davidcruz5283
      @davidcruz5283 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      way to play the charm game brotha, gotta love the sigma, lol

    • @RedTekno
      @RedTekno 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True. I didn't know this was a thing.

  • @STMARTIN009
    @STMARTIN009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When it comes to change it really depends on what type of change. As human beings we all have anxiety about change from time to time.I believe it is about how you adapt.

  • @Joe.Ninety
    @Joe.Ninety 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG, I love you! So many lightbulbs have switched on having just watched your video.
    Now I understand where I'm coming from, how do I get to that lasting relationship with someone that gets me when I'm lacking in the social skills to relate to others?

  • @johanwaltar5247
    @johanwaltar5247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Joyanima! I have just watched one of your videos and I found it very exciting and interesting. Your teaching, explanation and analyzing is quite inspiring.
    Without any doubt; you owned what you're giving out now!
    Thanks for you inspiration.
    Weloveyou.

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you! 😃

  • @fernando717
    @fernando717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I realize I am a Sigma male. I knew I wasn't an alpha (and didn't want to be) and I always fought with them growing up because I wasn't doing to allow myself to be a beta. I never wanted to play that game. I didn't feel I needed others to define me. I preferred one or two close friends (usually they were women) than have an abundance of "friends."

  • @patrickfarrell4751
    @patrickfarrell4751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Amazing! I just found out that 30 years ago I was a Sigma male.
    Can you do a video on what I am now...overweight, middle aged, tired of my life and in massive debt 🤣

    • @MorningStar-nd3yg
      @MorningStar-nd3yg 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel your pain brotha

    • @antidepresan3394
      @antidepresan3394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Like me brother, dont worry

    • @Kwamedogg50
      @Kwamedogg50 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s just laziness 🤷🏿‍♂️ all men have the power inside them to be successful

    • @Peterbilt359
      @Peterbilt359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These are habits. They can be changed. If you want to change. Other wise except yourself for who you are.

    • @Peterbilt359
      @Peterbilt359 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      These are habits. They can be changed. If you want to change. Other wise except yourself for who you are.

  • @bookface5566
    @bookface5566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great! i love having my own time, doesn't mind nor want socializing, i only go to party if its required by work, can talk and be friends with anyone but only choose to spend time to those who i get along with, doesnt care what others will think or say. this lockdown, I just play the guitar, pet my dog 🐶and watch youtube videos like this , doesn't miss anyone and never Get lonely nor sad. i love being private and having my own time. 💪😊Thanks Anna😉

  • @abrahamoconc.1544
    @abrahamoconc.1544 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super video, total spot on!!
    Great job!

  • @rajatchauhan17
    @rajatchauhan17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I couldn't help myself but laugh from the Start to the End of the video just thinking about *HOW DOES THIS GIRL KNOW ME* 😂👍💯

    • @GhostKingGeorge
      @GhostKingGeorge 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe watch other personality type videos to see how they overlap. It can be quite easy to convince people to relate themselves to things. It's how palm readers and other con related artists convince others to trust them. That being said, I did find that I related to atleast 95% of what was described. Interesting word choice Sigma.. its used to denote standard deviation or expected variation. Usually 1 Sigma represents being within 68% of the mean. 2 Sigma includes being within 95%... 3 Sigma 99%... so being rare means existing outside 2 or 3 Sigma in standard deviation. And of course our friend Sigma denotes mathmatical sum. Are we not the sum of everyone and everything that matters to us? Are we centered enough that we can relate to anyone around us? And given some effort we can relate to nearly anything? This is my own twist on thinking about what it could mean to be "Sigma" from a mathmatic maybe poetic prospective anyway...
      Well this has been an odd distraction.. 🤔
      Hope you have a good weekend stranger.

  • @michaelcollins8328
    @michaelcollins8328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I actually like my "alone" time because I like myself and have no problem being by myself. At times, I find other people to be annoying. Most people do not really THINK.....they believe the drivel that passes for news and do not actually look at a situation and come to a rational conclusion on their own

  • @leesweeney206
    @leesweeney206 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well my dear I have to give you kudos for this. You are spot on. I laughed my way through most of it because you nailed it. You clearly did your homework. Well done

  • @jerrelc.thomas336
    @jerrelc.thomas336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I never really understood myself until I watched this video thanks so much you're a great help.

  • @woodlandbiker
    @woodlandbiker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sigma male, the rarest type.
    Everyone in the comments saying they're sigma.

    • @wbien6994
      @wbien6994 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      There are billions of males but not many like us.

    • @_____666______
      @_____666______ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes they are & they will but they won't|can't change ones character 🤣

  • @jesseburford873
    @jesseburford873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You lost me at “living in a motor home” and then reeled me back in with the awkward thing lol.

  • @bennydu9543
    @bennydu9543 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    genuis..thankyou guys for putting this together

  • @r.d.henderson2531
    @r.d.henderson2531 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for describing. I really like it. Good Job

  • @nickngaronoa6955
    @nickngaronoa6955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I am not alone..but all one with myself❤💛💚

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      :) Thank you so much for watching

    • @sammaloney1746
      @sammaloney1746 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Joyanima Sorry Joy. Elon Musk sure...Johnny Depp however is very very beta!

  • @craigbennett2849
    @craigbennett2849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a very intresting concept and to be fair ive never heard of a sigma male before but still very intriguing and i think some further reading up for me on this 😎

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Enjoy :D Thanks for coming along and watching :)

  • @DavidSmith-gi5yv
    @DavidSmith-gi5yv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Joyanima, This was the first time in my 75 yrs that I heard the perfect discription of my personality !

  • @arongambino2500
    @arongambino2500 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this thank you!
    Never stop.

  • @SuperSerenity44
    @SuperSerenity44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Oh wow this is spot on, they have actually made a word for my personality, and I could care less LOL, um your real cute.

  • @demetriuscooksey7147
    @demetriuscooksey7147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have always considered myself as far from being a Beta as I am from an Alpha. But this Sigma concept hits home.

  • @joethegeographer
    @joethegeographer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for posting, I found your video to be fascinating and very informative! I learned quite a bit from this video and, quite frankly, feel quite good about what I've learned from you. Keep up the great work and thanks again!

  • @aucado1971
    @aucado1971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yep, spot on me. Took me a long time to accept these things about myself and that I'm not strange or weird, because most people just don't get me. It's interesting that now theirs a term for it.

  • @edkun18
    @edkun18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It’s not who I am underneath. But what I do that defines me.

  • @johnnielaswell7755
    @johnnielaswell7755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This one hit home on me. When I was going through my recovery after my accident they all called me this an a infj.

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for commenting Johnnie. Hope you found the video helpful :)

    • @stevetreloar6602
      @stevetreloar6602 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude I am an ISTP and it was still relatable. I find most people to be emotional vampires and need no external validation.

  • @leonardthomas5839
    @leonardthomas5839 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this information, you just described me, excited to know I'm not alone.

  • @saidkhalid458
    @saidkhalid458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're damn right about the social skills thing,but i'm improving ya know!😁

  • @adrln1818
    @adrln1818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In short sigma's are introverts but confident

  • @stuartbennion
    @stuartbennion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great video
    Been a sigma all my life but never realized until recently that it had a name
    Also, I find Alpha males tedious, their constant self validation makes me cringe, I actually enjoy it when they try to "alpha male me" and they soon realize that they don't know what they are messing with,
    I think sigma males actually see themselves as being totally different from the rest of humanity, when growing up I knew I was different
    I am strong in mind, body and spirit but actually really don't care what anyone else thinks
    And I don't care who "thinks" they are in charge because I really don't care about any hierarchy at all and don't care for their power trip
    Sigma obviously walk their own path, which is exactly what we were intended to do

  • @capridapri5310
    @capridapri5310 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fascinating video. And btw (how come no-one has mentioned this??) you are cute & delish, Anna!

  • @benferguson4629
    @benferguson4629 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for posting this.

  • @bonedaddy4951
    @bonedaddy4951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One of my favorite hobbies is watching Alphas stress out.

    • @davidcruz5283
      @davidcruz5283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      not gonna lie, its sometimes pretty fun watch

  • @yongkysiaw6597
    @yongkysiaw6597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Who knew I have a lot of these traits. Still has some issues feeling lonely though.

  • @robgau2501
    @robgau2501 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely me. This all makes much more sense now. Great video

  • @larryrubin5150
    @larryrubin5150 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a spot on excellent explanation of a sigma male. You explained me perfectly.
    It’s uncanny how you explained me. ✌️

  • @rafaelc9559
    @rafaelc9559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just realized I'm a Sigma Male; I have most of its traits, FANTABULOUS!!! I wouldn't have it any other other. My life, my power, my rules of the Sigma Male; proud to be one 🤟🤙👍

  • @roy-arghya
    @roy-arghya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I guess what makes us like this is wilful introvertness and high imagination and intellect but difficulty in memorising.
    Career wise, we choose STEM.

    • @HomeGrownPyro1
      @HomeGrownPyro1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What does stem stand for?

    • @roy-arghya
      @roy-arghya 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HomeGrownPyro1 Science Technology Engineering Mathematics

  • @TheDiveWatcher
    @TheDiveWatcher 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello pretty Anna, respectfully. Always enjoy your well spoken and gifted insight.
    Kashton

  • @davidthomspson9771
    @davidthomspson9771 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video.Thank you.

  • @TristanDmarco
    @TristanDmarco 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My solitude is my bestfriend. My peace of mind is my most valuable possession.

  • @sapper043
    @sapper043 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One is the loneliest number. Some people appreciate it, I always did but never knew there was a name for it.

  • @spccewe7223
    @spccewe7223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't know why this video was recommended to me, but I am glad it was. Never heard of the term Sigma before, but it makes a lot of sense. I haven't been thinking very much about it before I saw this video. I have never cared or felt the need to put myself in a category. But Sigma seems to fit me a whole lot more than Alpha or Beta. Very interesting video.

  • @bradleymaffit5832
    @bradleymaffit5832 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent research

  • @carboyronald5958
    @carboyronald5958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    100% who I am, and here I was thinking I am weired....turns out 5 of my favorite movie stars are enlisted too....

  • @R05an
    @R05an 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    After watching a couple of videos, I am so confused if I am an alpha, beta, sigma, omega, zeta, simp etc 😂

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahaha aw I hope you figure it out :D

  • @bobbyshirilla2718
    @bobbyshirilla2718 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have never heard of a Sigma male and you summed me up pretty good. Just about everything you said was right about me. I enjoyed your video immensely. Thanks Anna for what you do. Bobby

  • @aplanet121
    @aplanet121 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thought there is something wrong with me. thank you for the insight!!! Like the way you present the information..

  • @anthonyoparah2030
    @anthonyoparah2030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't even know what this is all about. I just enjoy being alone. I don't have to talk too much and I'm not here for a fashion parade.

  • @drew9307
    @drew9307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank u

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're always welcome 😊

  • @katafrakt33
    @katafrakt33 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    NIce, the characteristics is corelating with me. I find the attempt to fit into specific mental box with the name on it quite uncomfortable though and finally I would rather avoid being labelled at all.

  • @marksebastian8799
    @marksebastian8799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its like "I don't hear you but I know what you are saying.."

  • @financemanager74017
    @financemanager74017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    “I have one problem, I don’t hate people. They disgust me and I want to get away from them. I do not have hatred. I have an escape mechanism.”
    ― Charles Bukowski

  • @luciiddreamer3652
    @luciiddreamer3652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    What about just being a Male? why do we always have to put a title on everything

    • @logic9869
      @logic9869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That would make you a simple male

    • @luciiddreamer3652
      @luciiddreamer3652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@logic9869 Yeah what’s wrong with just being a male though? I don’t care about having a title or anything I wanna be the best version of me that I can be.

    • @multicrogamer
      @multicrogamer 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This helps people describe themselves and relate.
      Everything is conttents of a mind. From budisthic perspective you are only coinciousness experiencing body mind functions.
      Why not indentify as that?
      Let people indentify as they wish. I like to be coinciousness xD.

    • @MorningStar-nd3yg
      @MorningStar-nd3yg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not everyone is the same though. Everyone has different mindsets and personalities.

  • @mrgruffy4499
    @mrgruffy4499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Like most people, I was trained (programmed) to do what others want or expect me to do in order to win their approval. It took me many years to realize that I should just write my own "script", rather than follow the one given to me. Question everything. Why should I conform to the customs of society? Go to school, fall in love, get married, and have kids. I've noticed what "love" has done to most people who play the game. Most live in stress and misery. I wanted no part of it. It would have been the height of irresponsibility for me to bring another human into this world.
    I prefer being a lone wolf, or just a "Loner". Why should I "fit in" with a bunch of losers? Having relationships with females would contradict who I am. I've never met a female who is on the same level as I am, or who even tries to rise to a higher level of culture or knowledge. Just another "pile of rocks".

  • @bbarrett71
    @bbarrett71 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the video. I find most Of these traits are true about myself, but not all. I'm not sure what that makes me, but I now understand that I'm not some kind of weirdo, lol.

  • @dissectthis9640
    @dissectthis9640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There's only one thing worse than being alone, and that's wishing you were/: 🤔👍🤔

  • @dajuanmickens3390
    @dajuanmickens3390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I can listen to her talk about me alllll day long.

  • @ivekem1
    @ivekem1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes, I often get told that I should ring my family more often and can go years without contacting my friends. But I have never felt lonely. I have achieved far more in life than most people that I know. I always had multiple groups of friends I could never stay with the same group for long. I also set goals of learning a new life skill every month. For example, learning to use Excel or learning how to wood work.

  • @piotraugustyniak6591
    @piotraugustyniak6591 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for video.

  • @grimlockarts8386
    @grimlockarts8386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    INFJs on the confident side are almost always Sigma in my opinion, maybe even 100% (As an INFJ myself)

  • @darrellrobbins4444
    @darrellrobbins4444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They say flattery is the food of fools , I'm feeling as bloated as a fool can get. Lol

  • @dwilson742
    @dwilson742 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, this explains a lot! Even goes some way in explaining why I haven't found the right female yet and would rather do my own thing under my own beat of the drum!

  • @98167
    @98167 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I liked all that you mentioned & are topics i can relate to also 🥰

  • @bjschmid1
    @bjschmid1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Clicked to confirm I'm awesome. "you have no confidence" me "god dammit" 5 seconds later "Ham Solo" FUCK YEEEAAAHHHH

  • @BlackieNuff
    @BlackieNuff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1:38​ You only seek fulfilling romantic relationships
    - Meh, not really, not anymore. I used to be, but I'm over that crap. People make that shit more complicated than it ever needs to be, with all their insecurities and entitlements/expectations and unspoken rules and other garbage, and I aint got time for that nonsense.
    2:54​ You are very mysterious
    - Haha, I used to be, and wish I still were.
    3:28​ You take your time to think

    - Check! To the point that I am accused of "over-thinking" everything. Screw that ; I'm deep and thorough and I won't apologize for being cautious or knowing what to anticipate/expect based on established patterns.
    4:34​ You get along with all types of people
    - I used to, but again, not much anymore. Most people today are such mindless sellouts and conformists. There are few people I can tolerate nowadays.
    5:03​ You don't like to conform
    - BULLSEYE! I despise conformity.
    5:49​ You don't mind being alone a lot of the time
    - Check! I really didn't have much choice in the matter growing up, so I eventually just accepted it, and now prefer it.
    6:24​ You are very laid back with change
    - NOT! I am only cool with change if I decide I want/need it or it is necessary in a logical and/or practical sense. Change for change's sake, I LOATHE. I also resent the hell out of life's "curve-balls"... some I can manage with minimal stress, but most cause me great distress and anxiety and frustration.
    7:10​ You are the master of your lifestyle

    - Check! I don't know anyone who lives as I do.
    7:47​ You enjoy risky hobbies

    - Not. I find risk to be a fool's errand in most cases, but there are a few rare exceptions (depending on the risk vs the gain, but also the fundamental principle of it ; like change, it is even NECESSARY?"
    8:25​ Your social skills are lacking
    - BULLSEYE again! I am a social retard. I admit it. I just can't do it "right" nor well. I try conforming to all the social protocols and I just feel so phony, and I know it comes across that way. So I don't bother anymore. I don't care if I am perceived as rude or distant or whatever. I do not say any of the "pre-packed" cookie cutter small talk queries and comments, like "how are you?" (I don't ask, cos I don't really care, and I don't answer when it's asked of me, cos no one wants to hear how I am REALLY "doing" and I really cannot be bothered to get into it)...
    9:44​ You know what you like & don't like
    - BULLSEYE! Guess that's a hat trick? I don't determine my likes & dislikes according to trends or political correctness or appeasing "popular" opinion.
    So I guess I am Sigma... Sigma Freud, lol.

    All you vant iss a dinkle, vhat you envy's a schvang!
    A zing zru vhich you can tinkle, or play vit, or zimply let hang!

    ~ Matt LeBlanc as Joey Tribbiani as Sigmund Freud, FRIENDS
    :-P

    • @rexdrabble4988
      @rexdrabble4988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We must be twins because you wrote EXACTLY what I think and feel.
      Like you,I really give a rats arse about this world,my company is enough
      for me.
      My imagination is my best friend

    • @BlackieNuff
      @BlackieNuff 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rexdrabble4988
      Haha, jeez, for the good of the world, I sure HOPE I do NOT have any "twins" out there, lol.
      I get what you're saying though, and we definitely have an advantage over all the pathetic co-dependent relationship-addicts out there ; we KNOW HOW to be alone, and even if we may not LIKE it all that much some/most times, we can DO it. We can accept it. We will survive. We will be okay.

    • @antidepresan3394
      @antidepresan3394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The same bro;)

  • @thewindowguy43
    @thewindowguy43 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, it explains a lot about myself, that I suspected but didn't know how to express, again thank you

  • @mattostrowski
    @mattostrowski 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally a vid that doesn't copy other vids. Well done!

  • @harshmeena4
    @harshmeena4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    *I Will Keep Moving Forward Until My Enemies Are Destroyed!*
    *-Eren Yeager-*

    • @ShamblesMD
      @ShamblesMD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Levi would be the Sigma