11 Signs She’s Playing Games And Not Interested In You (Dating Advice for Guys)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.ค. 2024
- Today's video is all about the games that a lady will play if she isn't interested in you. How can you tell if she's actually interested in you? Well, there's actually plenty of little signs you can look out for to see how much she likes you, or if she's really just playing games with you and using you.
From the way she texts you, talks to you, her actions when interacting with you and even how her personality changes, these are the things you'll need to pay attention to if you want to really figure out her intentions.
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*Contents of video*
0:00 Intro
1:02 Ignore what she says & listen to what she does
2:43 She never calls or text you first
3:42 She never takes pictures with you
4:30 She is always busy
5:39 The girlfriends of first come first served
6:21 She only calls when she wants something
7:20 She always cancels plans
8:13 You noticed a change in her personality
9:10 She takes forever to get back to you
10:02 She needs to figure out what she wants
1!:05 She tells you that you are just her friend
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These signs are reasons why I enjoy being single.
Not all women play games the one im with is real as real gets most of my exes did play games with me but not my current wife
Agreed most want me to buy them everything. Cheaper to get a hooker
@@damienbell3155 fresh pair of J’s….or a headache? Decisions decisions 🤔
Right. Just hookup on your own time. I love it. No games
TRUE
The "too busy" thing is spot on. Solid advice.
Facts I had a girl that I was talking to who agreed on a date then all of sudden she started pull the "im busy Card".So I stopped hanging out with her at the Gym and she ghosted me not to long after I found out she was with a dude.
Good advice!! I have been a professional counselor for a very long time. These are just a few of the things that are incredibly important. One of the most important barometers of a truly healthy relationship is endurance. It’s so easy to feel like you’ve truly found love in the beginning. But will it endure the test of time?? Many people aren’t so much in love early on. They’re in love with being in love, and as soon as the thrill and excitement of “newness “ wears down, you realize you aren’t in love at all! Don’t jump the gun!! See how it is after 6 months or a year. See how it is after a major crisis in one of your lives . Give it the test of time!! A very wise quote I’ve found is this: Don’t make someone a priority who only sees you as an option!!
A woman who plays mind games is a red flag.
A woman who has a mind is a red flag
A woman who red flags is a mind game.
Playing what kind mind games...?🤔 With you? For what?
@@apriljordan7626 you look like Erykah Badu!
@@chocotastic1 now that's how you play mind games she sings I don't ....just maybe you need 🤓 glasses....
Why would anyone bother with a person like that. Move on to a woman who respects you and wants a genuine relationship. That simple
These creatures are extinct.
People make time for what's important to them.
Finally, a lady tells the complete truth without beating around the bush.
Thank you so much! This is gold. I've met these girls and I didn't knew what on earth those chicks wanted... Now, I know, painfully that they're playing games.
You're welcome 😃
When they play games you need to mentally shift them to FWB status only.
@@christopher9979 what is FWB?
@@turbo8628 FWB= Friend With Benefits
@@alkirk6 i am such a dope 😅 thank you
Play whatever the way you like. In the end it's always the same. When someone needs you more than you need them. Only then you have a power. Try keep it that way. Just get more experienced. Be nice but focus on yourself. But also be ready to say goodbye to anyone in your life. Suddenly people notice it that you don't need them and they want that they are needed.
Nice to hear such gentle words in what could be a harsh moment to pass. Thank you.
She distances you from her and her friends, you distance her until she shows up again.
Thank you Anna this is spot on and thank you for better awareness🙏👊
Very helpful, been in this situation before... feels good to watch this video and conform with reality... Thank you Anna *******
Or she's just playing you while she waits for something better to come along. Run a mile from such women. She's probably done it to other men in the past.
Or just put her on the FWB only status.
This video is spot on accurate. The way that women act today is one of the main reasons that I'm a Lone Wolf at heart. Some betrayals that I've endured over the years were from women. Thanks for this video, thanks to you we guys are catching on to learning how women operate. 🐺🇺🇸
@Wayne O Boy ain’t that the truth, I’m still single but I’m free and happy. 🇺🇸🦅
I would say go with your gut. Your gut is rarely wrong. Heart says I really like this woman, gut says hey there is something off here.
after noticing how my ex partner is walking like "joe cool"....a way that a male walks when he feels and knows he thinks he scored a female coworker. One of her emails disclosed her address and I honestly feel and will pass by on nights and weekends, if his car is parked alongside her apt. or....if I find out where he lives, then pass his house to see if HER suv is parked in his property.....I already will know. What will I do? take out my phone and document these.....then go to co mgmt and show it to them.....if not, wait til her husband comes back to the shop....
For as a many of these that have happened to me I can truly say that bourbon has never once hurt me or used me. Another good video. Love the curly hair by the way.
😃 thank you, glad you found the video enjoyable
alcohol is an alternative means but NOT a lasting means. dont DUI now....
Wow..this video was very helpful..this made me get out of toxic relationship...Thanks a lot 🙏🙏🙏
This is way more complicated than it needs to be. I don’t have time for mind games or social media. If a girl wants to be an adult and be real when communicating than I’m interested. Any female that play games I make it simple and hit it and quit it.
This is spot on! Thank you
The way I think I'm in an healthy relationship even when I realized how she choose her friends more than me.. I thought it's okay even it break me but now I realize it's not. Really thank you for your great advice 👌
So nicely crafted in honesty of truth! Thank you so much!
LOVE IT KEEP IT UP YOYANIMA
These advices are precious
thank you that was helpful!
thank you Anna, i am 1000% agree with you
Can't ask for more than 1000% really 😃
Thank you... That solved some mystery I had on my relationship...
You changed my thoughts thanx.
Nearly 5 years i keep having doubbts but your vids have helped me clear away the cobwebs.
Again, thanks.
Very accurate advice. No one is to busy all the time... One makes time for things that are of importance. even if so any person wanting to spend time with you would suggest an alternative date. One rule i have is i call once n they call once. 1 call, one visit, one text. Never just one side always doing it. Most of these advices also applies to friends.
Some good advice here..... Thanks Anna!
Ty for this very helpful information
Anna .Your command of the English language along with your bubbly at the perfect moment.Then slide right back into a more direct firm delivery.I love your channel.
It all comes down to the point that she can see you haven't got the money to satisfy her
If a girl says: "I don't know what I want.", and you tell her: "Okay, well when you have figured out what you want, give me a call. In the meantime I'm moving on.", be careful about taking her back.
Despite what she might say, because she might just be trying to manipulate you, telling you whatever she thinks you want to hear, so that you'll stay, or allow her back, so she can continue to string you along, as before.
Therefore, look at her past actions, carefully, forget what she says, and ask yourself before you make any decisions: "If I take her back, based on her past conduct, how can I be sure it won't happen again?"
Never, ever, take a girl back as you will only encourage more bad behaviour.
Very good advice!!
Just ditch whoever is playing games. These women just wanna keep you in the backburner while exploring options. Don't try chasing them, just leave and don't even tell them you're done with her. I've learnt it the hard way, being lovebombed by some girls only for them to breadcrumb me and leave me confused. Even when you ask her what's going on she still tells you she wants to continue with you, but just won't go out with you.
This was so perfect info 👌🏼✨👍🏻
I had to watch this video again because I've seen so much more than I thought.
Welp, now I feel absolutely stupid for wasting my time on someone who’s been playing me for a fool. I really needed this video. I’m not gonna waste my time on that thing anymore. I really should have figured it out when she didn’t want me to call her by her first name. God this is hilarious. Of all the dumb things I have done this is by far the worst of them. Lesson learned, thanks Anna!
I wouldn't feel stupid about the way the relationship turned out mate. You went into the relationship with faith and trust in your girlfriend, as should all emotionally heathy people. You may have a little work that you need to do on yourself, but your ex girlfriend DEFINITELY needs to work on herself and have an emotional exorcism. People who play these kind of games have a complete lack of emotional maturity and are a classic example of style over substance. They know the cost of everything but the value of nothing. They've grown up believing themselves to be justified in playing these games as well as testing their partners, creating jealousy and generally displaying disrespectful behaviours and attacking your self esteem in order to increase their perceived worth. Only they don't increase their value at all, it's all faked! It's a bit like when someone pretends to be flash with the cash on a night out when in reality they're rinsing their credit card to the limit at a rate of knots. You can expect their future relationships to be more superficial than anything else. They will fake it without making it, and once age catches up with them they'll suddenly come crashing back down to earth.
Great advice 👏
Thanks a lot madan under ur information ,urs most reliablyH
"Drop it like it's hot" Love this....
Big Facts Fellas 🤟🏾
Dropping facts on the daily here 😃
Thank You so Much Anna for all the amazing videos... I was dating a girl for sometime and caught her on social media with photos with someone else. I give this girl everything she wanted including my heart. I got her angry on purpose so she would tell me the truth and what she actually thought about me. she said I was nothing more than a Idiot to her and she only see me as money or someone who she could get what she wanted. and the other guy was her real boyfriend and someone she loved. I was so devastated for everything she said to me. I must admit it took a long time for me to get over it. I wish I had your videos earlier in my life, I know you would had save me a lot of pain and suffering. Thank You so much again Anna and keep letting us pick your brain. I know it will save all of us guys from a lot of sorrows... take very much care
Find someone who suits with ur loyality
I'll tell you why people play games. They aren't really games. I said, I want to break up with you to my last girlfriend. I wasn't into her and I didn't want to mislead her. I felt legitimately bad about breaking up with her because she pinned so much on me and our relationship. She wouldn't just accept that I just wanted to break up with her. So, I told her, I'm not attracted to you. She got upset and started crying. I even told her if she met someone who she liked better to go out with him. I was willfully mean to her because I could be. I asked her why she stayed with me? I told her I am not nice to you and you deserve better. If I wouldn't have broken up with her she would still be calling me and asking me not to talk to other women who are my friends. No thank you! My son hated her and that wasn't the first red flag. The point was that I tried to let her down easy. I knew I wasn't nice to her and I didn't want to be the horrible guy I became with her. It was a good idea, not a game. I felt like I had to lower myself to reach her lack of intelligence. I thought I could get past it and I was wrong. I was wrong for letting it go on for a couple of months. I was lonely and I was a wreck. ..and honestly I really wasn't attracted to her. I never had this issue before but I really did with her. So no, it's not always a game. Sometimes it really is pitty and a realization you were wrong.
Hope that you are doing well now. BE ON YOUR GUARD THOUGH- When her new boyfriend dumps her "In the dirt", she will probably come back to Cry on your shoulder. Walk-NO RUN away from her as fast as humanly possible!!!!! You do NOT need to go through any more mental anguish. Stay safe, be well Brother.
Carry on. Take care.
after noticing my coworker that i fell for and cared, give more atttention to another guy.....put 2 n 2 together..........I want my photo equipment back!!
thank you i needed this im going throught this with 2 female firends who are doing this exact same shit and im sick of it
You can only be played if you let them. So stop to prioritize girls but instead put yourself first. Besides, this will make you so much more attractive.
Oops i felt for it
Thanks for this infos👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Really enjoyed the video! I have a ex that whenever she comes over she's always allover me flirtatious, physically hitting me, acts goofy, even pulls up a chair to sit beside me when im making her stuff at my sewing machine.. she even modeled various poses and pictures for me for free. One day I asked if she misses me and her reply was "you must miss me?" It had me like wtf but ducked around the question. I just said I give up on her.
I love your videos thank you so much it's really helpful
Glad you like them, thank you so much for commenting :D
@@Joyanima my pleasure keep up the good work
@@Joyanima just telling you JA that if was NOT for your vids.....Id probably be in the morgue with a self inflicted gs wound.
your videos are always so AESTHETICALLY PLEASING i will never be over it wow
THANK You 😃
Fricking awesome video
Thanks so much,
My date does none of the mentioned things. She actually arranged the bus ticket to come over this very weekend. We speak more often then she speaks her own best friend. She initiates texts and she shows me her working schedule unasked to show she's free or working. And even on her work she somethimes messages. It feels good. (It's my motto: Say what you do, and do as you say) xx from Amsterdam.
Hands down, EVERY SINGLE one of these signs is what the last girl I dated did to me. I called her out on it and ended it within a couple of weeks. Told me that she had a lot of priorities, and she would fit me in as she had time. Well, I see her often and she’s intimidated by me now. Pretty amusing to watch 😂.
A girl I was talking to at my gym pull the "I'm busy" thing on me so I withdrew all my attention after I found out she ghosted me.3 weeks later saw her with a dude at the same gym same time as me.I treat her dude like normal and for some reason everything they see me they run😅.I think her dudes scared of me or something I guess because he knows I'm way stronger then him IDK.
Good advice and video.Thanks, dear!
My pleasure!
My boyfriend Darriane he is coming over my house next Friday when he gets off work I love to play games with my man like borad games and cards games and play ice hockey table
really fascinated to witness your amazing
videos; i got somehow enlightened
lots of love from India, 💗❣
great advice
amazing video
Guys, When She says She is Busy 90% of the Time it Means She is with another Guy or 2
You are so amazing with your assessment Ms. How did you get there!?
Especially this one, has convinced me more than ever that i should wean out n grab the opportunity to be happy.
Thank you immensely.
Stay away from women and focus on yourself bro🏃♂️💔
PERFECT ADVICE ! Thank you =o) More people need to hear that ! As for myself I'm filming videos on how to play music for my new channel ! Women love guitarists ! ~ Micheal @ Michaels Music
I deleted all the girl's numbers, let's focus on our lives guys..!💪
wtf
@@michaelsmusic3532 i played hard to get and i dont think i can trust someone to be with.
I prefer dogs 🐕. They don't bitch. They are always happy to be able to be around you.
A man should always keep his word in every single situation without exception yet a woman can say what she wants because you have to watch her behaviour not her words...
You must already have several hobbies to get her attention but once she's interested you must make her the focus and she'll resent you if you don't...
Sex is seen as something that you get and she gives even if she is the one who started coming onto you first, even if you're not actually sexually attracted to her and she is to you...
You have to be accepted by her girlfriends and treat them very well. If your friends don't like her it makes no difference...
If you are a jealous type of person it's bad. She can have several male friends and you have to be cool with it. If you have many female friends you must be prepared to cut them out of your life for her...
If texting she can wait months to reply to your message and it just means she doesn't like you that much but you have to respond before a certain window because you've missed your chance...
I'm sure I could go on but I think anyone reading this would know why the phrase the juice isn't worth the squeeze is applied to modern women!
And thats why so many women are old and single. Society allows them to over value themselves until the clock ticks out by 35 to 40. And after they can be part of a stephen king novel.
@@salsadancer4965 That's right, they hit a brick wall, and the girls 10yrs younger than her a ready to replace her. When she hits that age , she is surprised that the only attention she is getting is from guys that are at least 48+ yrs old.
Spot on
Real Ladies!
NOT!
Amazing vídeo
Boys used to play games not anymore girls this days are difficult to figure what they really want especially the shy ones are presenters thanks for the tips
Thanks for the advice, these kinds of things is what make girls end up with fuck boys, then they wanna come back after they realize they been played, it's like "Sorry woman, I'm done with you"
Facts Bro
True that. They end up playing themselves.
@@Ace.0.0.0. exactly, it's not our problem at that point
Splendid advice.
Thank you 🙏
Any time!
Spot on, Truth
great vid
Thanks!
Thank you Francisco for the support! 😊
Thankyou you saved me!
This is wonderful video. You have cleared my many doubts. I am going through the same situation.
All facts corrects.. I had gone through them..She never call/text your first. However she will call you first when she need something.Other than that she is always busy 25 hrs/day. These three facts enough to confirmed she just played you
Super knowledge mem thank you for guiding me ❤️❤️😍🥰🥰🥰🥰
Excellent video! Thanx a LOT!! 🙂
Glad you liked it!
Great content. This should be regarded as public service. Many videos on how Guys string women along and never commit and breadcrumb them and so... But women do that too!
Very good insights. Keep on dating wowan in person and enjoy the journey. You need to figure out what's what and all is good - your Egoshell will cracks after few rejections but remember what does not kill you make you stronger and remember being turned down is very common the Universe makes it that way - to kind of equalizing opportunities so to speak. Thanks for this video.
Thank you for this! I needed this to wake my ass up! Damn I've been a chump this whole time... 😑
Don’t beat yourself up Toby. It has happened to everyone.
BETA
I'm actually more interested in this than the other videos for me to better notice a woman's actions
"You noticed a change in personality" - Yeeeeeeep. Went out one night with my (now ex) GF at the time, dating 3 months by this point. We went out one night, and before we went out, she was very distant and not very engaging. Was very awkward. But while out with a friend of hers, she was completely different - acted just like she did when we first started dating. Then the next day, she was back to the distant behavior. I couldn't make any sense of it.
She was cheating on you.
its called a womans period.....menopause.....or simply said, she's got her rags. Yeah....you go out with her 1 night, hoping she will remember and the next day, its ALL BUSINESS.....your like whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat????????
Thanks. You are the best
Great ❤
Thank you
Thank you for watching 😃
thanks girl for telling this bravely for telling us this signs for us
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If she wanna play games, play with her. But play with your rules. Be careful they chose the one, who doesn't know how to play. Show yourself like you are easy to control until you get what you want. You know what i mean lads
In short, play like a victim
When she gets mature she can come see me until then I'm having fun
Listen all you guys. I am telling you, as a woman, that we have insecurities and doubts as well. If you think a woman is being unsure or vague, it is because she is battling with herself. A real woman will tell you outright if she is not interested. A real woman also takes time to think about her choices. So please take things for face value.
I don't doubt that women have insecurities and doubts but not everyone will tell you outright that they are not interested.
I have had a few girls interested in me and never told them outright that I wasn't interested, that's just rude. Just distancing yourself in that situation is better than being rude or pretending it just doesn't exist.
@@turbo8628 I disagree. It is not your job to protect their feels. It is your job to be polite, honest, & direct with all people. If the person you are talking to is too fragile to handle a polite no, then at least one of you has a problem. Handling a polite, honest, & direct 'no' is part of the adult cirriculum. Deal with it.
@@Ace.0.0.0. thank you stranger on the internet for telling me what my "job" is 🤣
@@turbo8628 My advice is valuable, but I will not charge you. Just use it in good faith.
@@Ace.0.0.0. just as well cos i would be demanding a refund
Good infor
Being honest women I dated I was always be the one texting first and I still enjoy doing it, even though almost 90 % them make a first move towards me. and I get a chance to pick the one I want.
So if she’s “too busy” what’s the best advice? Stop texting and wait for a bounce back or just let her go altogether?
move on…
history.....adios.....kiss my A$$.... oh, btw.....hope not to see you making headlines in the crime section of the newspapers.....as a victim of domestic violence, leading to homicide (i told you so.............)
@@AB-vc7ox this def move on i am after dealing with this chick for 2 years tired of her games ridicolous I think i made that clear without saying it directly I won that round
@@retroguy1976 I wouldn't waste more than 2 months
@@stefanopatsiuras2838 lesson learned you live you learn
Yep: been there;done that.
She play’s games I think narcissistic. Bye I am done 🤷🏻♂️
So true
Spot on! Had a few dates since divorce and all if them had at least one red flag in the video. The sad part is you spend all kinds of time effort and energy to cultivate a fake relationship. What about the real one you might have missed out on while wasting your time with someone else?
no one's perfect, ev1 has few red flags nowadays..... if someone has only 1-2 it's better.
@@arorajivlogs1641 you guys are lucky even to find a date....im asian and practically NO WOMAN finds me attractive or appealing....simply because (asian women) rather be seen or married to a white guy.
I just enjoyed the jazz funkesque music 😊 - possibly a little more slap bass, but not bad !
Just realised you can overlay Bryan Ferry's 'Don't Stop The Dance" on the sound track - timing is slightly different mind but it will fit.
The last one hit me hard!
In regards to the first one on this list:
Actions speak louder than words
SO TRUE.
i love your thumbnail. the cartoon is cute. by the way im a caricaturist. i can make you into a cute cartoon and you can use it to your thumbnails and other products in the future :)
This is just spot on advice..all of it..any doubt watch this video..And remember that actions speak louder then words...and words don't mean shit without the actions behind them.
That tune in the background is fire 🔥. What is it?
finally some information
This sound like my story that I'm facing right now you are amazing
Good👍video true what ever she said is true